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A Work Schedule without Childcare
"Had a very interesting blog post. Recently, I thought that detailed away that A. Two Person. Could Alternate things like in a very structured way you want to go into that. So I got an interesting amount of feedback from this not so much in comments on the blog but I heard from people who wanted to share it with other audiences because it just hasn't been spelled out exactly how a split schedule with two working parents. Splitting fifty-fifty could, in fact, work in could give both parties approximately thirty hours a week of focused work time. Mostly during the workday. So none of these like get up at four. I, am and work till I am things which if you have today you have to do but you also wouldn't have to in this sap. So the idea is. that. You have two different shifts on during the workday one is eight to three. And one is one to six, and that is predicated on the idea that it young children who are home are napping from one to three those a rough nap window. We are recording this at two-thirty right genevieve napping and Sarah does not have childcare today. And you know older children could use that time for independent work or for screen time or whatever you wanted to do. The idea is that that is that could be double in terms of the parents. One Parent is on during distraction. So some of their hours are not pure hours but. Mostly, two of them will be able to work anyway. So one party takes eight to three Monday, Wednesday and one to six on Tuesday and Thursday the other party takes one to six on Monday Wednesday and eight to three on Tuesday and Thursday, and then they alternate on Friday who gets eight to three and who gets one to six. So each week it's butts off there and what works out to is then twenty nine hours during the weeks when you have the three one secs shifts and It works out to thirty one hours on the weeks where you have the three, eight, two, three shifts, and the key thing for this to work is that when you are on your job is not just to keep the children safe like being adults present in the house, you are also committing to keeping the children out of your partners office, right so that they can be guaranteed those hours being at eight to one one, the sex or whatever. are focused right like absolutely focused they are not on your they're not dealing with anything, and if you do this that each of you can, in fact, get the twenty five cure focused hours and then between four to six hours each week of. Most likely but could be interrupted because of naptime was or whatever. And both of you would have both some afternoon in some morning hours and so I know that that's an issue that some people be like well, we just split it that she takes the mornings when I take the afternoons. But then what you know, there are some teams that always WanNa meet in the morning because some other person has a different shift of their schedule and so this allows you to occasionally have morning meetings or occasionally have afternoon meetings as the case may be again, this has to be pretty much you are committed to this. You're committing to keeping the kids out of your partners office you can obviously arrange for A. Sub. Credit. On a day, if there was something like you have to pitch a new client, a huge project in the only time they can meet. Tuesday antenna at ten. AM technically Tuesday as the tae that you work on the sex like probably you could arrange with your spouse to get a sub credit that you would make it up for that person at another point but. You WanNa. Have that be relatively infrequently but you know working twenty nine or thirty hours a week with no pay childcare is. Pretty good. If that's a situation that a couple might find themselves in and if they need more hours, you can extend the swap idea to different times I mean. Maybe each of you works from six to ten pm one night a week and that gets you up to thirty four hours a week or you do six to ten am on a weekend or something you each get one weekend morning and you know what it is but. That is basically fulltime ours, and if they are plans, well, you will be okay.
"genevieve" Discussed on Couples Therapy
"I like milkshakes yes. Mozzarella's Mike and and Mozzarella sticks the. Sticks, the three m's the Beckerman M.'s. And let's do stuff that like a you know a, let's do stuff that revolves around that. Let's go eat cupcakes. Let's do those. We do eat too much But also I remember. I to say stuff like I. I mean and you said like, yeah, of course, I'm a comedian I'm more inclined to joke but I would always be Kinda Glib about it in an initial interaction or group and direct with somebody who I didn't really know and I'm not gonNA say that but. Like guys, you're not drinking Makoni you better be glad drinking because I was drinking. You'd be pregnant you know but that just. 'cause that's that's true I'm I. Definitely caught that gene I'm eighteen months sobers like you know who you are when you when you drink, you know you know who you are. So that's I was like. You better be glad I'm not drinking if someone's giving me give me a hard time. It's. Bay You know WanNa. See me drunk because something's going to happen. Oh my God Jack Lemmon. The dog is I know he's always upstaging me I just think. I think that you're not gonNa have to convince the right person for you to want to be with you and that you're not going to be like your, it's not you're not gonna be able to scare that person away. It's not someone who is so SPJ easily turned off by someone who doesn't drink is not your person. The other thing I have to say is and this is just for anyone I think maybe this is about like what do you do before you go on the date so that you feel like never leave the house be until you feel like I am absolutely ready to leave this house dancing I have been masturbating. With whatever it is. Already, a thousand percent I'm going to do whatever it is that I feel loose and. Fun, and I am so enjoying myself that like I'm not worried about like tricking the other person into thinking I'm cute. Right well, I think it's also like don't be afraid because there's a difference is one thing to say I don't WanNa drink and there's another thing to say, Hey, I'm eighteen months sober and that may be a conversation. You don't want to have on the first date because you don't know this person yet but you could you should be able to get through any two hour meeting with somebody like Oh. Yeah. I'm not drinking tonight or or not destiny I? Don't even leave them to believe you drink sometimes they. Oh No, I don't want I don't want anything. Like you should be able to do that meaning that should be you're right as a human to like not drink for two fucking hours while you. Absolutely. Look I drink sometimes but most of the time I just have sparkling water and when people ask me why tell them the truth that alcohol Kinda makes me feel bad when that's it and that's that's the other thing I have a drink that you enjoy I remember I used to go to parties college maybe Post College. I. Would Have I mean this is terrible but I would take a half gallon of either Turkey Hill Iceland or clover farms icing. Wherever. They have gal I just drink from that. Because I it is I at some point I actually started telling people I was recovered because I was sick of them asking why I was not drinking. Down the conversation it's almost weird. I feel like it's almost harder for Andy because it's like at least if you're in recovery, you can be like I'm in recovery but like right aren't you drink. That's a bigger. I'm a control freak that needs to be in complete control my reality at all times. Well, when you said you were like never drink I don't drink for the first time. Obviously, I was joking with you but I said I was like I don't like the taste I was like okay. Who Cares? How do you feel pretty like that was the first thing I said to him when he said he didn't drink like, no, no none of us. I don't know how many of us are really here for the refreshing taste of. You know. But I was like in so about. Medicinal but I. I've literally never worn a comfortable pair of shoes a house. What are you talking about? I think it's a very big deal that the listener has eighteen months sober and I just WanNa. Say That's really awesome and also really awesome that you've been able to study not but also like where's the person writing in front? No one drinks no one in la drinks people don't drink. That big of a deal. I will say though people people don't drink as much as we get older right or at least in our circles. But the when you're bring your own drink I have definitely been to many fucking house parties and this is the being like L. A. Everybody being like so like health conscious and trying to be cute. I've got too many parties where my only option is a fucking lacroix. Like and I understand people love Lacroix. But I'm like, can I can I put in a splash? Can I get a little flavor and I would never be. That's where it would just be like water lacroix and I want a flavor of something I don't or alcohol right like those your options and I'm like can get like. Party get a couple jugs of trader Joe's locale Lebanon with Stevia I, love making sparkling. Seltzer then you Gimme a couple handy I'm in business a little. Flavor. I don't want it to be that like chemically essence of a mango I know you're having a win Roy, you're no. No no anyone who's ever been to my house knows that I am sick with Diet Dr Hanson. Diet. Hanson's Diane's Ginger Ale I have as much of that as I have water my tap. Yes. So What are we saying the advice before right? And or you're going to have to be on the first day is that what we're all? You don't have to be forthright on the first date if you don't want to. But more than that, you need to be comfortable with non s put yourself in position like lit like literally position meaning an event a place where your comfy were drinking is not an option. You know eighteen months is still very precious honey. You're not a shortcoming I'm sorry just. Not a shortcoming, this is an asset. This is amazing about you. You're doing the hard work on yourself. Frankly is this person bringing to the table? Is that person working on themselves? They should do what are they gonNA impress you. Exactly. You have to do. Okay. was almost a mic drop genevieve. Yup. What a what a healing time? What a healing time? Oh, opening the door to the divine is what I? Remember when you guys were a comedy podcast and people laughed. I've taken. You done a very dark road. You know I love the Riyadh and so do our listeners I. Think our listeners are very sensitive inside people who understand. The inside people. That's been door kids sensitive. Like Stephanie late. Our. How To beat Metro? Thank you so much. We will talk. Again soon, and listen was the again next week..
"genevieve" Discussed on Couples Therapy
"In relationship to trust that you weren't GonNa leave in the night or that every fight wasn't GonNa you know what? I mean like it wasn't GonNa be pushing away right I. think that's also part of it where like the fear is a of this, this argument is going to is The crack in the wall right and so that's why I had to be immediately. Rectified reds like no. Were you like certain certain Dude I remember at one point you're with older gentleman. Not. Like freakishly older. But like someone where like they were older like had it more together at a time when you were like figuring it out was there ever like? I don't know who you're talking about, but I'm dying to know who you're talking about i. mean there was several. How? Yup sure. No I had a feeling. Yeah. were there ever power games? Or were you constantly you wanted him to not fight the couple fights and you're like, don't be mad don't be mad. How much older was this person I For for years, here's the thing self self blame is the greatest form of control. If you think that it's if I think that it's my fault situation isn't going right. Then the solution lies within me and I think that this is something that is like an incredible coping mechanism for children that that gets held onto and it's and expressed in these kind of less appropriate ways where it's because the alternative to. I'm bad. It's my fault. I messed something up is even more chaotic which is I. Don't know if this is the right person for me. Therefore, I don't know who the right person is therefore. I'm on my own and I kind of just have to trust. and. So I've always been a self blamer because I sort of feel like if I'm. I'm just so great at working on myself like if I can just work on myself a little harder than this will all work out and I don't have to be you know. Lonely Vulnerable but but setting that aside has sort of been my. Has Been. My work lately of like maybe my intuition is right. Maybe. I'm totally great and maybe the chaos is like inevitable and either I postponed it by self blaming and controlling or I put my arms around it and I. Right into it. Yes. Yes and that's what I was saying before like earlier maybe in articulately. But like this idea of like we tend to like it's ours it's essentially it's about me or it's about this other person as opposed to the way we are it is an interaction. All is all girl You got another question for you. Yes. We I want to hear from that that reader because. The assume that this person has figured it out in the last five weeks I wanNA know what happened. please aid and let us know what's going. Win Him back. I don't know send them home. It's Bagel. BAGEL Intern, I'm oschkenat. See I really don't know my we didn't know what my sephardic cousins. Can you really get by without Hebrew in Israel? Maybe Tel Aviv just because it's a big city but that's what I mean I'm like you can't. Some people talk to you because I come on. You gotta be able to do the basics. Yeah. I've never wanted to go when I was a kid. There were like bombings all the time, and so I'm like I'm not going there and then adult for.
"genevieve" Discussed on Couples Therapy
"We know a lot about you and also you a Naomi sleep cycles. We get. We get DM's we get VM's we get. GM's which are g meals. Advice questions and you to call in if you'd like to three, two, three, five, two, four, seven, eight, three, nine, or send us at this one comes to US anonymous on instagram from earlier in July. Highly Andy Huge Fan of the pot and both of your work love that you keep in the compliment you're probably inundated with questions because Coir, but I am a native relationship advice. So I met my boyfriend on a birthright Israel trip just over two years ago he was an idea soldier. And I are recent College Grad Film. School. So obviously I didn't have a job. Though it felt like falling for Israeli propaganda, just what the birthright trips are. He's an amazing sweet and sensitive guy and I liked him off the bat. Over the next six months, we traveled to meet in other countries and captain contact long distance sharing crazy experiences in Mexico Germany and France International. Still, without a job I decided to move to Tel Aviv to be with him. Things were amazing at first. But after a year I don't love my job and have struggled to make friends. I was going to start learning Hebrew but classes were cancelled with the start of the pandemic. My mental health has it been great and it's taken a toll on us. I haven't been back to the states in a year or so. So I decided on a whim to come back to see friends and family before I left we had some hard talks and as he's worried, I'm not happy there and I wanNA move back to the states which would end our relationship as he's starting school and would be in Israel at least three more years. After being home a few days and experiencing things I've missed I made the mistake of calling him and suddenly breaking it off. I wasn't thinking at all and chalk it up to my anxiety since I lost career. Wise. I don't know if I want to move back or not so I. Think it was easier for my brain to make a decision rather than live in the unknown. Almost immediately after I completely regret it. I've been a mess. He's willing to talk but doesn't want to get back together since I think in his head it doesn't make sense if I'm just going to decide again that I want to move back here. How okay here's the here's the question. How do I win him back? How do I wouldn't back I can't imagine life without him now and really don't want to my therapist justice because I just don't WanNa be alone but I don't believe that. Sorry for the littoral novel. Takes. And Smiley Emoji. Feelings jetted. If you go I have a question for you then, but I wanted to go your thoughts still. Go ahead with the question. Have you ever broken up with someone either through your form texture? And regretted it, and then try and then. Gone back and ask them out again or something. So this is how breakups work. Breakup happened like this where you have conviction about something you break up with the person you experience a moment of relief because you're free of the thing that was for whatever reason not working for you and then as a very natural part of morning, a wall comes down where it feels like tons and tons and tons of buried love emotions for this person that for some reason, you couldn't access when you were unhappy in their relationship spill out of you and drown you for. Many days one day a day here and there weeks. That is one hundred normal and I think that the only appropriate thing to do is to stop acting. So quickly and that in fact, it's the impulsiveness and the trying to. The, trying to fix it. That's keeping this person for many clarity that being said. I also think that the real problem is the fact that she doesn't I assumed she. I. Don't know we talking metal manner woman Identifying. Day they. They don't have a job and I think that in any circumstance where. A person is not carrying a basket that is very has. The the flowers and the apples and the the the farmer's market eggs what just one thing is not going to Is Not going to work and I. I feel like that person was the soldier was the only Solid thing but that doesn't mean the only The only right thing. Right, I. Think it's interesting because I do I assume again, I, also, my thing is this person is young. Yeah. So remember just because recent college. Grad. Birthright you have to be under twenty six to go on birthright. Anyway. So at the very oldest, she's twenty six, but my point is like. Go on this trip for what ten days you meet somebody and you have a whirlwind international. Love. You make these memories this in no way to invalidate. Under the relationship have but. I all that to say, of course you, miss him. But just because you miss somebody doesn't mean you should be with them. Just because you can't imagine your life without somebody doesn't mean you should be in a relationship with them. I can't imagine motion. So. You know what I mean. I can't imagine my life without him. Girl you living your life without him right now what what? There's no more Adler literally across the world navigating through life in this person is not by your side. So that's it. You've already done it. There's nothing to imagine. Or imagine what you were like before you went to birth. So nothing. That is not to say that it's not hard, but it doesn't mean that like. That should be your that doesn't necessarily mean it's your person I do agree with you though I'm like I'm like go home and like two to three days in be like why breaking up I'm okay honey. You're just you're just got excited that people can understand you when you spoke, but he still very use to. It seems the dynamic of chasing this soldier that person. Found the soldier like ran all over the world botches this country but other countries to find the soldier then moved for the soldier then broke up with the soldier and now wants to chase the soldier back and I think that there is There's something very like fulfilling and productive in the idea of chase at the end of wishes a solution and I don't think that this person felt the solution in advance of it and I I don't know why they expect there to be a solution on the on the other side of it to say nothing of. You know if he doesn't understand that this person was. Dissatisfied by not having friends and not having a job and would therefore may be considered breaking up based on those things I feel like his ego is pretty fragile to like make it so much about him that he's like. I mean of course it's about him but you know that he wouldn't have some compassion some compassion for. The the writer, the caller. It. But then it's true the soldier also like he knows I'm he's worried I'm not happy because I was very caught as soon as as soon as they said, like I was thinking of learning or about to start learning Hebrew honey you should have done that shit on the plane ride over there like you because 'cause like it's I've I've always been afraid of moving for a guy for a partner, bitch because. That person would automatically become your world. A new place and their your conduit, and it's very, very stressful to me. Andy what do you think I was in my head right now just imagining you going Brooke Atop Out Annoy Pitch. That's correct. Indeed that is me. Thank God for seeing me. That's where I was I. Well I Well. The question is, how do I wouldn't him back you guys are saying don't don't Jetta. Viva. Say This is just You're in one of the phases of. and. I think sit sit with the feelings and and see who you are for holding these feelings for a month. Yes. I get that..
"genevieve" Discussed on Couples Therapy
"She was saying she was like I'm she tweeted about like being like I'm I'm not GONNA try to lose weight right anymore she was like because whenever I try just makes me crazy and then I binge and like you know the cycle of like she's like I think I'm just GonNa like myself right now and it's like People who were are supportive in the comments but one other than Laurie Kilmartin was like, yes. Free up that brain space and it's like that's what it is to me I was. Like. Deborah's not saying, I give up on myself. She's like I'm just GONNA stop. Making this the constant book summertime. Berating myself in hurting myself when I don't do the thing. Sure well you know we have a lot of this food and exercise stuff in common and I think it's It's unbelievable trying to get through a pandemic without an eating disorder. It's because it's such an incredibly effective full-time job if you are willing to really devote yourself to The kind of. Hourly feedback that over exercising and planning out every single tiny little morsel of food that's going to go into your mouth. It can really it can I just kind of have to befriend it and say like Oh. Thank you so much. You've done so much to fill my time. So I didn't have to sit with the crippling loneliness and Like I don't know, this has been a pandemic of like. Oh. My Gosh, crippling loneliness. Cool. Come sit next to me comes to next to me I'M GONNA I'm GonNa put my around you. A I don't know. I. I know. Yeah. This how did we get here? I love? Rector owned by the way. Let me just say do not go back to the chiropractor. Chiropractors are not medical they're not license. No I'm terrified of they're not up chiropractor killed my friend's sister. Wrong at this I don't want to say their name. But. They were they I mean they're model. They're like their news reports about this. I'm not just saying this as like a Basically the chiropractor hit the wrong nerve and killed her. Can you imagine you'll I caused like a some kind of brain something or other an aneurysm I think. I am so sorry it's. So I like to warn people about like chiropractors to be fair. The reason that I went to the chiropractor and also I should say for the listener this is the second. Date that we've had to record this because the first date that we had to record it, I had not slept in three straight days. So frankly, I've not only gone to a Chiropractor I've got oh, my God one is this beautiful creature. Isn't that. Friendlier Squeeze Oh. TO LOVES TO GET INVOLVED I've also gone to a psychic I have gone to literally every single kind of doctor and witch doctor to cure the insomnia look I I do not. I do not believe in Psychics I will support your right to go to a psychic I warn people about chiropractors as a general. Of course, someone dying from a nerve being pinched will definitely stay with you. Forever I heard about a woman who ended up paralyzed you hear these stories and you know the ones statistics with you and then it's like I'm just scared I'm just scared but can we talk about this insomnia someone who also famously does not sleep? Now when you were saying, you were up for three days. During the day. Would you ever like? Would you nap at all like would you get sleepy during the day and lay down or no? It was like straight through you can never straight straight and. Has that happened before meeting three straight days as? Yeah I mean to okay. Let me just be clear about what the what the nights look like. So I can fall asleep typically I sleep for about two hours and then I'm awake for about two hours and then maybe I get another hour and then I'm awake for another hour and then maybe I get a little bit more and I call that a good night's sleep and then I I don't get that third installments. then. It feels like. I have got. Gasoline, running through my veins I mean it's it's. It's it's mental illness. It's total inability to function and. and yeah, the reason that I don't nap. Is the same reason according to the chiropractor that I don't sleep at night, which is that I my adrenal system? That I'm in a constant state of. Fighter flight. So I I my brain is. Killing me by staying awake because it's trying to keep me alive. Oh. Okay. It's so messed up I know I know I know, and that great irony being I don't hate the pandemic. I'm. Very Very sorry. For All of the people who have gotten sick but I what I'm saying is it's a very challenging time, but I don't feel like. I certainly can recognize the. Incredible Gaping Chasm between what my brain thinks and actually what might circumstances are yes. If the the thing that I found about this. I mean there's going to be I said this in therapy and we're all going to be a Gore phobic at the end of this. Episode besides whatever the Repercussions Are we're going to see in the future as an introvert there's something homey and comforting and nestling append the men Amick. That I am afraid it's enabling. Yes. We were all grow for the three of us were glorifying. started. Yeah. Of course. I mean. Yeah, it's it's interesting though it's like 'cause I was talking to a friend yesterday what and she was just like, I'm doing great. Honestly I love it. You know I don't like going out I don't have to call anybody known expecting anything and she was literally like thriving right now and I almost like I was like I'm GonNa Punch you through the phone I'm so mad up but. Because I think for me even though I feel like especially in La lives are so so much more sedentary in and just like in the house than we ever were New York's. So in some ways, I, was already used to that but I didn't like I've never liked it. You know it's like even when I lay around all day sometimes you know Andy's we'll just lay lay around today and then you'll be back at it tomorrow. Yeah don't beat yourself up, but it's like. I could take day every single day. Like. The only thing that gets meet active is something that someone else's asking of me it's never self motivated like there's a deadline, a meeting call this something I've already agreed to do is the only reason I will show up for stuff and downsize having depression. Sure. Of course hello depression mode. Fresh mode all day everyday. And even honey I'm on my legs Appro butrint and it's not even I feel like it's not doing anything but I don't know you know. I always like this isn't doing anything. Of course, the doctor's like, okay. You're not going to become a new person. It's just supposed to like give me space to like deal with Shit. A little more and so. But. Yeah I just like I don't like it. So it's sort of like. I don't know on one hand I. Guess the feeling is like well, the whole world's depressed now welcome to my world how's your couch? Feeling? If you put a depression yet, you know real sunk in the middle is Insomnia UK said that you guys both struggle with insomnia as well. We neither of US sleep. No. More than I like like we'll just not sleep whereas I will. I will do a couple days where it's only like five six hours. And I really to function well, eight or nine. So it's not the same thing. It's definitely two different levels. Will I just have never been? I don't remember waking up wrestling the last time I woke up rested or with energy and.
"genevieve" Discussed on Couples Therapy
"Okay well, look you weren't. She Sissel growing for for the listeners sips Lacroix knowingly. Single and back out on the market or single and. Jilin. I don't think those things are mutually exclusive I. AM chill on the market I I I'm single and I am navigating this fascinating time and I have a hack that I would like to share with the listeners. You gotta find yourself someone who is quarantining with their parents because you know that percentage safe I am bubble boy. I have done some research I have made a connection and that connection is quarantined with his parents and it is Oh my God edit this out but that is the only way to do it. That is the only way that you know that you're safe when the collateral is. Murdering the people who gave life to you then you know that you can go on a date. Well, you do live in America though where? The where people don't really care about their parents. So. But wait so the last time we had talked to you though you were interrelation. But then yes, did it end because you've been away from La for? Fourteen. So like was it due to you being across guys I'm GONNA lie down for this since we're doing we're just gonNA. Put a lie down. Right I was okay. I was in a relationship for year with like one of the great men walking the planet. and. Truly, truly one of the great men and. We broke up a month ago we'd been together for a year and. It was just kind of this. kind of this pivotal moment for me as a woman in my thirties of all, my gosh, I have. This great guy. I don't feel like he's the right person for me who am I to feel that if he's so great if I'm in my thirties, if my my friends have children if Who Am I to? To. More to feel dissatisfied and. It was just sort of this moment of. Well. I I do, and I am and who I I'm genevieve Adelson I'M GONNA go carve out my happiness and I know that he's yeah and I know that he's doing that too and And it's this interesting thing of like knowing that you're getting out of the way for the right person to come into that person's life but Not An. Easy decision when you're really. When you can't point to When you can't point to. I'm struggling. Or an action they did that was so wrong. Yeah Yeah when it's just When it's just not something that you can effort into working yeah. When the chemistry when there's like something about it and you can't I think that's that's something that we like. We tend to essential is everything in I. Don't know about like the world, but say Western culture we tend to say like everything is is Ria a think in if you can't pinpoint, you haven't found the right thing as opposed to like no everything is a relationship between people and to understand who you are as a person or like a romantic relationship that is not to understand something about you or something about the other person is to understand you in relation to other person and that other person relation to you right and and. This gap between that. And the way we talk about things where we we try to find these traits retrial and and so a lot of times it is nameless because we don't have. Like the the way that we relate to each other there is something lacking in that or it is not sparking the correct emotions in me, right? So you have to. So so as a result, you're not. You're not the person for me. It's Kinda like. Nothing not wrong. It's just not right but I think the difference as Jennifer was talking I could see you were like. You're struggling and I'm trying to say that like. Like it's okay not to struggle. It's okay to to to be like, yes, there is something about this. The way that we relate to each other that is that is that is not. The my insides are not charged. Correct. I sound like I'm struggling. I'm actually not struggling the amazing thing has been like because. The relationship that wasn't right for me is not in my life anymore it's like it's cleared. It's like scorched the earth and cleared way for like. All of my shadow like all of the things that I. All of the things that I think about myself that I am afraid all of my daughter, the words open, my based self, all of the things that say. You're not as valuable as you were when you were dating because of the beliefs you have about yourself based on your age, your appearance, your what it means about you that you're this agent single. That based on who else is out there it's judgment of other people and it's actually been like this. Unbelievable. This sounds. So La for someone recording from New York but like just unbelievable doorway into the divine. So it's like so. So, La. So totally La. Just reeks, of medicine but. It's like. It's just it's actually caused me to like get in the ring with all of the things I think about myself steer them in the eye and then jump into the wolf's mouth and like kill it from the inside and as a result of which I've never felt I've honestly never felt. Calmer sexier. Like more interested in what manner GonNa do for me rather than like what am I? What do I have to offer like? Why am I choose a bowl? It's more like what do I want to choose and who is going to fascinate me, and if I'm not fascinated like fewing absolutely no. It's so funny. I was just having a conversation with a man, the other day and I was just able to sort of say like without any. Like not having had anything to drink like just with total ease like I am not. I'm no longer comfortable and I, I think I'd like this to be over and it was just so. My mouth and and. Because they gave that person the dignity of saying that he was like totally get that and it's like the world is just meeting me at my level. So I'm so grateful that you know the Sam in San that makes the Pearl do you do you mind telling me what he did that made you uncomfortable unless it was like bad you know what I mean like it was just somebody said nothing because I fantasize..
"genevieve" Discussed on Couples Therapy
"Four you know and just that's fine that's fine to accept that. but like genevieve Joe go to Grad School right after college for not. No I did an acting class right after college and applied that year for for nyu. Yeah But that's pretty soon I just knew like as soon as you graduate 'cause. I. Met A guy because I was we didn't overlap much I. Didn't know you as an actor. Any acting. I came from an normal family who very much wanted me to be a person who like had resources and roof over her head and so encouraged me to do absolutely anything else other than acting and I really tried and I. Gosh. I, think it was sort of like when I was really really brushing up against genuine alcoholism that I was like I think. I. Better, try to be an actor or I'm going to be. A DRUNK At some point just yeah and my senior year I was like I think. I'm going to try. This is very embarrassing to try to become an actor when you're what I thought was like completely over the Hill I. WanNa one to throat. Punch myself. I didn't come to this until I was thirty. So I'm just starting and I'm if I'm thirteen would if what like twenty two was over the hill that I am wake I've gone over the hill I've gone over another one now integrative. It's so speaks to something inside me, which is that I just thought. It was a I thought it was just really important to be young and beautiful, and that was going to be the only way that I was able to be successful and it was a huge leap of faith for me to someone actually someone actually say to me, why would you spend your on June new years in graduate school? That's a terrible idea and on new. Year's. I, honestly thought about it and I was like look at my is going to be doing. Plays at Lincoln Center when I'm sixty eight, I'm going to be doing guest stars on army wives for the next two years and I don't know how to do. A lot about army wives I've got your at RB wives lifetime original series seven seasons. Forget how did you ever know that I was on the farm? Because I'm sure I wasn't a jealousy rabbit hole looking at other people's credits and just saying my God, my God if I was thin. The auctions, the opportunities here I mean, you know all I. Know I'm trying to remove the shame around the jealousy. So I was doesn't take cold just today this hours ago I was listing the names of the actors who I call in my fish tank because the all my food. The people that you see it your audition right every single time and you're like kept you're about to. Are, we allowed to curse on this. Yes what. Say whatever you want. You been in a British show before you can even say the seaward if you feel. That's a term of affection. The.
"genevieve" Discussed on Couples Therapy
"Hi Guys. How are you I? Am You know I'm actually doing Great I'm doing great. You look fresh. You know what I mean like low my you don't look your eyes don't look haunted. You don't look like you've given up no nightgown and just swipe of Mascara. That's my zoom. Look go to. That's it's funny. Normally like mine I do a little bit of lip color and it's already come up of course because I let chug some apple juice but yet chugged and apple juice but I like papa color. That really lets people know I tried for the zoom but I I don't want you to try. I WanNa feel like I'm just were in the room where together we're family I would be offended by trying too hard Andy you've tried hard. No he shower. You want dog made ninety five you want reality. Ninety five just WanNa feel close I want to feel cozy I want to be in the room with somebody for. Nineties Lars von. Trier. As what you what you were all instructions with that movie was Okay Cook. Shannon Vive you know I'm going to start off with the Gush Angie and I love the show flat. We Love the program we love you on it. You stunned me you slay me. Yes you know normally it's hard I hard time watching a friend on a show because like I can't get out of it. I mean I see them as them. Oh, I thought you were going to say that you that they're a jealousy. Oh well, no Chelsea but not for Jiffy not she's so classically trained. I was like but the thing is it's the money because the one thing I was a genevieve's not a mother of course, my brain like you know what I mean look at BC someone you're like I know them but you truly transported me. You took me on a journey you an Anna Pat Quinn get into these fights you get into these. and. I said where the EMMYS. I say where the viewers is what I say I'm. Fairly certain that you two are the only two people have seen this show but I, am hoping that that's going to. Change when we go to Amazon. Thank God. That's right. Okay. You guys we have to find it through. Sarah, tissues means online. We have to go dark web I had to find it through you guys. You have seen season two before I'd seen it because for the listeners, this is a show that is It's a British show that was originally on pop and then pop like canceled everything except for ships Greek, and so shot second it was very weird and then so we'd shot this second season and sort of had nowhere to. Joy It and then there was a there was a pandemic and people were looking for content and Amazon bodice. So we'll be coming out I think the latest I heard his January but thank you so much. I really love that show look normal I would say we should skin Jesus alive right for his many economic crimes right? For his. His, what should we say? What's the opposite of a crime? His good deed kindness. Kindness giving flack home I will give him. Credit for. Yes, so Yes, we love flack. Big Fan of yours and this is so backwards, I have been listening since the beginning and when I say the beginning I mean Wesleyan. Naomi and I went to college together and she coined There's this thing where. If someone ever gives you a nickname that's like too good. It ruins you. Then you're just going to try to like Kinda forever be getting other people to pick up on this nickname nobody. Ever, will but Naomi used to call me Schwab Vive instead of genevieve an impulse at peaked eighteen. Well it was just so funny 'cause gender because you know I'm always saying these young girls. genevieve and her friend Elisa who is still I've seen recently to they were freshmen when I was a senior or junior. Elisa is losing it right now that she's being quoted because Elisa is a constant listener to this shows well Oh. Yes. Both of you were like they were the young girls they kept me young. You know what I mean like when I was like junior senior and the bees gals come with their energy they're coming with their life. Everyone keeps you young because you are an old soul are inside grandma. That's true. That's true. But your heart is a rocking chair in Bonnet but genevieve can attest I was out in the streets and as a college student. I was making mistakes I was active.
"genevieve" Discussed on Couples Therapy
"You. Therapy guarantee baby we. Talk. Who everyone welcome the couples therapy my name is Andy and I am now we are real life couple a real life couple of comedians couples therapy in quarantine. We talked to friends at Great, Comedians about Love Romance and everything in between. Stupid it's so silly. But Hey, let's contest write us a better. INTRO. For to explain what the show is like in quarantine. Yes. Yes. You. Know he's. Because I'm like our brains are fried. You Guide by COIR dry back wire right by car. Sounds like I'm speaking some kind of Quebec Koi. Kaba Qua- what a car. So France. We here's your weekly relief from Hell, twenty twenty and what a relief it is because this is a friend of ours today. I know. It's a real blast from my past. You've already heard her beautiful voice today we answer your relationship questions and get into it with actress genevieve. Then now genevieve not only angel sin. Angles seven. DAMMIT genevieve time. I've tax doesn't let us know. Not only she friend. Fan of the show, but she's also in one of our favorite shows. Yes. Using genevieve on shows like house of lies good girls, revolt and flack flack flack. You guys we live for flack Shit. If you have not seen flag, it was on here in the states it was on pop TV, right? It's a British show and. I think it's going to be on Amazon and the next the second season it's so you guys it's really it's in deep genevieve Manana Pac one place stirs there's tension there's romance there sensuality so much is happening on this show comedy there's comedy I would classify this as a drama. Would you? Okay okay. I'll take it. I'll take it I. Agree. So. Yeah. So we talk to genevieve for Awhile answer your questions and you know what? I don't have to tease it. You'RE GONNA LISTEN YOU'RE GONNA listen to it. You'RE GONNA listen. So before we get there though Naomi. Two things one. Every Wednesday which means tomorrow, Yep. We do our show on twitch. Now because of the quarantine we moved our live show.
A Conversation With Genevieve Piturro Founder of the Pajama Project
"Hello My. Women, friends, I am so happy to share today's gas genevieve paternal with you. Her story is an inspiration, a busy television marketing exact in New York City and she hears the whisper of a little girl in her ear and her life is forever changed. This story speaks to the power of what one person can do when they have set their mind to it. Genevieve is the founder of the Pajama Project. They have given out over seven million pajamas and read books to children with those pajamas in shelters across the US in Puerto Rico. A can't wait for you to hear her story get ready to be inspired. Let's meet genevieve paternal. Welcome extraordinary woman radio. genevieve. While thank you, Happy Cami. It's great to have you here. Where are you joining us from today jokes out of Manhattan in the county of Westchester. Very good very good house Howard things out there. In West Westchester we have a lot more than in Manhattan. So it's amazing how you know half an hour away. It's so quiet and closed in Manhattan but has to be that way so that we can say exactly crazy times for sure. Isn't it upside down world? Yes. Yup. As an why some of our work is so important right now and I really am excited to hear some of your stories and here you know you're passionate around human connection and really just helping people step into leading with meeting. So I'm super super excited to hear more of your story unless you start there let's start with this amenity. You were successful television marketing EXAC in New York. And right in the heart of the city and a little girls question changed the course of your life for ever. So tell us more about that. Yes. Yes. I wanted to climb the corporate ladder. And it was not what my family expected very traditional Italian family and I think everyone's waiting for grandchildren firstborn. warned me. Only I had a culprit clock tick game and I just wanted to be independent and wants to be independent woman and I wanted to be like Mary Tyler Moore show at everything and I would just stay off and watch watcher every Saturday night as. I wish I had met the woman that I took a picture of their statue. That's that's all I got to do. But yes she she broke a lot of barriers and I want to be like her as it is a kid. And I did find the corporate ladder and fifteen years in I thought I had the great job and I had the great apartment like she and I was working on that, wardrobe. So. I heard a voice in me before that little girls question. It was question in me I was so shocked I heard a voice in me ask if this is the next thirty years of your life is this enough to that came? What were you doing when that came to you in the moment I was in my apartment was an afternoon. I don't know what they what? It must have been a weekend and I sat down because I never heard a voice come from anywhere except the babbly of my brain and this wasn't up there was lower. Now I call it my heart voice, and we all have a heart voice we need to listen to it because I wasn't listening to mind until. I screamed at me, but it was just a clear. A, clear whisper. But it was unmistakable and I sat down and I realized, wow, fifteen years in thirty eight years old now I'm thinking was right path. This is the question I have to answer. Really the answer was came to me so fast it was no, you know what was what was the big deal? I was alone and I would be along if I didn't really think about what was important because I realized all of a sudden nothing mattered.
At least 27 major wildfires are burning in California
"27 major wildfires are burning in California, and at least five of them are in Southern California. Cal Fire says more than 14,000 Firefighters have been on the frontlines battling flames, doing backfires and cutting containment lines. Most of the fires in northern California were started by lightning strikes. In fact, Cal fire, meteorologists say between the 15th and 23rd. There have been 12,000 lightning strikes. It has sparked more than 615 smaller fires. Fire officials estimate the current fires have burned more than 1.3 million acres. They say they hope some leftover moisture from Hurricane Genevieve can bring some relief. As long as it doesn't create more lightning.
Hurricane warning issued for Baja California as Genevieve aims for a close pass
"In their thousands of people are under evacuation orders or warnings. There is also a chance of rolling Black House today in California, further south people along the coast of Mexico's Baja California peninsula seeking shelter as a Category three Pacific Hurricane Genevieve threatens to bring hurricane force winds To the tourist region, even if the centre isn't likely to hit Land. National Hurricane Center says the storm should pass near the southern portion of the peninsula tonight through tomorrow. Two people died when caught in the high surf yesterday in Cabo San
Hurricane Genevieve to brush Baja California peninsula late Wednesday
"Hurricane Genevieve approaching Mexico's Baja California peninsula today, threatening to bring tropical storm force winds to parts of the area, though the eye of the storm is not expected to hit land. U. S National Hurricane Center says the now Category three storm is expected to pass near the southern portion of the Baja California peninsula tonight and tomorrow
Hurricane Genevieve to brush Baja California peninsula late Wednesday
"Residents of ATLEAST eight states in Mexico are being urged to take extreme measures as Hurricane Genevieve strengthens along the country specific coast. NPR's carry Khan has that story. Genevieve is strengthened to a level for hurricane heading north toward the Baja California Sur peninsula will expected the skirt most of the Pacific coast. Forecasters have issued a tropical storm warning for most of the southern tip of the peninsula. Mexican officials say Genevieve is not expected to hit land, but the region will see several inches of rain, wind gusts and high waves. Electricity officials have staged equipment and personnel preparing for adages. In the resort region of Kabul. Son Lucas already hit hard by the loss of tourism because of the Corona virus. Pandemic streets are empty, and officials are considering opening shelters several low lying areas prone to flooding or preparing for high water.
Q&A: What are your plans for school in the fall?
"Your plans for school in the fall A hot button question for reasons. I don't really understand I. Wish people could just choose if they have a choice like what they're doing and then be happy with their choice and let other people be happy with their, as that sounds like quite an idea. I can see why there's third for for different. Because nobody knows what to do, so it's just helpful to hear what others thought process these are, and there is the tendency in our culture at as it stands social media to kind of look up to certain people, and so you Kinda WanNa know what did they do so I get it. I know what you mean like I guess what you're trying to say is it's really a very individualized choice so in a way like you can't look at anybody else's decision or thought process, and use that to make decisions for yourself, because all the variables are probably going to be different but people still WANNA know. Sarah, what are you doing? Yes, so as of now and again, who knows things could change, but I did make the decision to enroll my rising first grader in a private school, which is the same school that my toddler attended? It's like a Montessori that goes all the way through middle school. I really liked the school, and to be completely transparent My husband and I were considering having him make this transition anyway, just because of his learning styles and fit with. The traditional public school setting didn't go completely. Bump free. Last year, so we got three months of distance learning. Yeah, correct, so this was not a fresh new idea. We had thought about it anyway, but then having gone through those months of distance learning. And observed that certain things were just not. You know it seemed I. Don't WanNa. Say like emotional damage, but it was taking a toll on all of us and I don't think. There is. Much learning happening and I also don't want. I don't know I. Don't WanNa have him look back and think of his beginnings of school being traumatic, and therefore have like a forever hatred of learning develop, plus it was just sort of torture personally, so for many and I think our nanny was also struggling completely understandably because you know, she's a fantastic nanny, but she's not really a teacher, and neither am I am able to care for two older kids with complicated teaching schedules while watching a toddler so Wanted if possible something different than what we were doing. And so The school has very small classrooms in his able to separate the kids into pods, and they're planning on an in person. Start to the school year so I Call them they initially did not have a spot and then one opened, so I took it so he and genevieve will be going. And annabel will be continuing virtual school at home through our public school system because for her. Pretty well and so I don't see any reason to. Change things on that note.
Who Were the Wild West's 'Petticoat Rulers'?
"The United States continues to lag in terms of the representation of women in government. As of June twenty twenty, we ranked eighty first out of one hundred ninety three countries. One perhaps unlikely town became known for unprecedented progressiveness a century ago, Jackson! Wyoming In May of nineteen twenty, yes, three months before the nineteenth amendment nationally recognized women's right to even vote an all female nicknamed the petticoat rulers established order in this wild. West, town. Wyoming was ahead of its time. In terms of women's suffrage back in eighteen, sixty nine, it had been the first territory or state in the union to pass a law. Guaranteeing women the right to vote. We spoke by email with Morgan Jawan. Executive Director of the Jackson Hole Historical Society and museum. She said this may be a bit dramatic, but I often say that Jackson could very easily faded into landscape in the early twentieth century. If not for these women, this was a rugged place, incredibly difficult to settle while Jackson had a strong community where everyone helped each other out, there was very little emphasis on government and civic responsibility. It may be tough to believe that an all female government could have ruled a small town in twentieth century. America, when sexism still remains a major barrier in modern politics, but on May Eleventh Nineteen, twenty, Jackson elected Grace Miller as mayor and rose crabtree made Loney Festina height and Genevieve van flack as council members, the five women claimed victory over an all male roster, and crabtree even beat out her husband Henry for the position. This landmark win was no accident, either the election drew the most voters. The town had seen at that point, and in many cases, the women dominated their male opponents spy margin of two to one. While towns in Kansas and Utah had already elected all-female town councils in eighteen, Eighty, eight and nineteen twelve respectively, this election was a major turning point Yellen said the all Women Town Council of Nineteen twenty stepped up and shaped the town into the place. We know in love today. They graded the streets. They expanded electrical service and installed streetlamps. They established the first town cemetery and built the town's budget. Be Able to continue serving community members. According to a nineteen twenty two article from the Delineate or magazine, there was only two hundred dollars in town coffers when the women took office due to uncollected fines and taxes. As the article states. went out personally and collected every Senate due to the town from those who ignored the notices. Before the end of a fortnight, there was two thousand dollars in the treasury. Things didn't necessarily all start out with a Flash Bang. Though Yellen said a funny story I'd always heard all women town council had formalized the square, and until recently I assumed that meant creating the park like square. We see today, but what it actually meant was that these councilman as they called themselves and official documents simply prohibited the grazing of cattle on the town square. You have to start somewhere. As for what inspired the women to effect lasting change. Yellen says their methods and motives were rather simple. She quoted mayor. Grace Miller from an interview in Nineteen, twenty two. We simply tried to work together. We put into practice the same thrifty principles. We exercise our own homes. We wanted to clean well-kept progressive town in which to raise our families. What is good government but a breathing space for good citizenship? While so-called petty coat rulers successfully establish a lasting legacy y'all win cautions that celebrating their history simply isn't enough. She said the story of the All Women Town Council is incredible and certainly something to celebrate and be proud of for the town Jackson Hole has many stories of powerful women, and generally our history is one of inclusivity, adaptability and ingenuity. Everyone had to pull their weight and be open, minded in order to survive. However it still important to look at the big picture and use history as something to learn from, and not just celebrate Jackson did not see another woman in an elected position until the nineteen eighties, the all woman town council was necessary and successful, but unfortunately did not create a new normal, and Jackson was not immune to the times, but it is exciting and encouraging to see more diversity in our local government, including women in all levels elected positions. The women of nineteen twenties still serve encouraging role. Role models for anyone in Wyoming, a visit to the Jackson hole historical. Society and museum offer plenty of additional insights into the legend of these women of the wild west. The museum houses a number of historical documents and photographs of the women and information about their time in office as well as Mayor Grace Miller sidesaddle and the black coach. She can be seen wearing in most photos. They also have a number of exhibits online, and you can do further research through their stand classen research center.
"genevieve" Discussed on THE HAPPY WORKAHOLIC PODCAST
"You guys today. I have my friend Genevieve Pinelli here and she is a founder of paramount partnerships and she create space in the lives of small business owners so that they can get back their time so that they can start making more money. How are you? Welcome to the show? I'm fabulous how are you? I'm good so obviously we met online din. Yes it's one of my favorite networking devices you know. Social media is my superpower by late. Tennis may replace to network. Yes mine to know. Tell us a little bit how you launched Your Business. What amount partnerships is all about? And then let us know how you got into. Lincoln so I am a former teacher. Jerry from New York moved to the south. 'cause my husband got transferred and when that happened. I got a job right away and decided that I was no longer aligned with the educational system of the southern states and I was tired of beating my head against the wall. 'cause I was not allowed to advocate for my students. I was only allowed to advocate for the curriculum and bureaucrats and I wasn't willing to do that anymore. And a friend of mine said you know there's this girl she has the Spang and so I said really look. Let Me Louis. Hook me up. So I was introduced the world of virtual assistant and these virtual armed business ownership tank and Iran with it so Paramount partnerships was born. I've been doing it for my husband for a number of years. He was a toolmaker and his vendor her other businesses and. So you know I spoke tonight is website and I did social media. Been doing it for him for years and so he said Yeah. Go for it. Why not so? I quit my teaching Gig and started paramount partnerships full-time and have been running with it and You know so. I made my linked in profile and started networking online there and networking and person in the world until recently And now I'm just rockin out with Small business owners who are making an impact. Because I'm no longer willing to work with people who I'm not alive. Thank you for saying that. My biggest pet peeve. Okay you on the phone for a long time. I remember getting my workout on. I was at the beach. We're talking on my eliminate was the best conversation. But you're so real and that's what I love about you like I mean I just have to say it's an east coast thing but I know it's not like we just vibe together and are so many people that just take the money and I'm like why are you doing this work. I'd rather be poor in happy than rich and unhappy. You know what I mean like work with people that you're aligned with that you actually care about like I've had people with my podcasting business that I've turned away because I don't want anything to do with the content that they're pushing out like that's my choice and thank you for saying that because not a lot of people say like no. I don't want to be aligned with that. You have to be like you have to care about what you're doing and like be passionate like otherwise like what is the point this under reason why you can't do both. Yeah you know there are a million people in the world and you know I mean. I only need to work with like ten of them. So there's more than knocked people out there two worlds and for me to say no to You know and so I find with techno. I'm also final saying yes. The perfect person who's out there willing to make money on you know with and make an impact at the same time Lang. The gender coach of the World Rachel Houses of the world and the Kellyanne garments world out there giving content and creating an impact and you know like Giving away a bunch of stuff for free but also like you know if you want need for real you know come close. Sir and younger you know good stock when you come through the door you know those people that I wanna work with exactly what the name paramount partnerships because those kinds of partnerships are paramount in your lack so true. What are some of your pros and cons about Lincoln like right now? Do you have the live feature by the way to have that yet. I don't have the light feature. I love me either not just playing because I just think so which. Fun So I don't well so my cons are When I got started I instantly. Got Scammed. Cost me by eighteen her jobless. Oh my God yeah so those the constantly have to be really really careful about what we're getting into if you're a new you know In really really. Do Your due diligence about like looking at the profile. You know like everyone says Oh yeah. Connect connect connect next connect with that. You actually have to go look at the profiles. Look at you and see who you're connecting with and actually have a real life conversation as if you're meeting them you know in a really bad bar and do that. Thank you for that analogy. But you know what I did it episode once where you can spend the time and you look at their profile right like they're legit and they're good and then two seconds after the connection you could there mile long pitch and I actually have a friend and she just posted this on facebook where she actually copies that and pace at right-back and the person that's sitting there so confused like send back my shitty spam message. She's like yeah. I did like knock it off like block like they're blocked immediately. I don't even have the time to even do that. But now What I was saying I recorded another episode of actually I send voice messages on linked all the time because if I have my phone off and I'm recording for so long I'll put on my l. Put IT BACK OFF Airplane Mode and then all my social notifications will go off. And I'll have so many messages in Lincoln. It's easier for me which I loved it. They have the voice message Feature now I don't know why I can't talk right now the Voice message feature and so I talk to more people through messengers so much you know from running around like it'll just take half the time typing something out so I'm excited. They have that. I like that as well. I think it's also a personal touch and you can hear someone. Those are fun like birthdays. Oh Yeah Minions over on my God I know that many I know impatiently waiting for my life feature I really. I've been waiting. I think it was I was still in Vegas. Forget when when the published post Came out I was one of the first people to get it and I don't even know why but I was like thank you and I blog. I think I have like over three hundred articles on there now. Now I used to repurpose my thank you. I use it to repurpose my podcast. That's how it now. But there's just so many Ways to utilize Lincoln and thanks for sharing. Although it was an unfortunate unfortunate situation but I myself did a lot of business in Vegas and overseas and with fight weekends and I was eight grand with one deal at the end of the day So I'm still owed that I'll never see but you know you have to be. Everybody has a story like that and I just think it's you know it sucks for us what we need to share it because that's called reality and it doesn't matter what platform were on but Lincoln is more of a quote unquote professional situation. Where you would assume that wouldn't happen. But that's probably where it's going to happen the most in my opinion I think yeah and I still have an open case far as like legal and all the things only was it. Us It was a US person or at least the front was but oh my God. I'm so sorry that happened to you. So what is your favorite thing to do when you're on linked in like how do you connect with someone like what is your? I know how you do it because that's how we connected but like when you are on their for work like how are you using it for work to find clients to share your message. Tell us what you do like on an average day like your favorite things to utilize Lincoln. I connect and You know tell them that. I'm looking to expand my community with like minded business owners and then I invite them over to my facebook group. I have a facebook group called Productivity accelerators in so. I look at Lincoln as the networking group in the morning. Where you go and you have your coffee. You look at facebook as a networking group. Where you go at the happy hour and you pour the wine or the another Tequila and so I and the persons coming more fun and facebook then linked and because you know I like the white in Teela so you know that's also because I so I have lives in facebook so immediately. Try to get them over into my facebook group because then we can have more fun over there You know so. I invite them over there just to collaborate in network over there because I I currently have where options over there other say. Join me and sometimes they don't depends on where they're more comfortable. How do you feel about Lincoln Groups.
How to Home-School Your Kids Like a Pro During Coronavirus
"We thought we'd do a few short episodes talking about life in these sort of more challenging times is everything is in flux so both. Sarah on iron working from home right now. I mean I always do but Sarah tell us a little bit about your situation and how this has changed with the corona virus epidemic going on. Yeah there's just I mean I'm a hospital. Worker and part of my job is clinical and part of it is more of a leadership role with our residents and everything is really up in the air right now. I'm currently working from home because I have a very mild cough and just in an abundance of caution in our healthcare system has Basically required anybody with any kind of symptoms. That could be anything to stay on out of there which is very smart to protect our patients and protect other caregivers. Because you know if we interact with our colleagues and then spent something around then that could be very bad and there's just so much uncertainty with this. We don't know you know exactly how long most people are contagious for like we don't know You know the the the rate of symptomatic shedding that happens. We don't even know how good kids are as vectors. So there's all these question marks and politics aside. I think we're all in the same boat right now as many of you guys are all working parents and we all have our kids at home. Which many view a few of you not many of you? A few of them might be home school. So that's normal but most of you probably aren't exactly no. It's funny because I've written a couple articles over the years about people who work and also home school and it's more possible in these days than it would have been like you know in the in the past that just would have been like what on earth like that. Those two things. Don't go together. But there are so many ways of working work does not need to be done at a particular time in place necessarily for some people and school actually doesn't have to be done at a particular time and place in many cases With the rise of remote learning options. I'm certainly children. Who are slightly older are able to be quite self directed in terms of their learning. And there's actually a number of like online charter schools for instance and I think you mentioned like Florida has virtual school right for for Housebound children they do like. I've had patients that use it. They haven't deployed it to any of the current students yet but I know that platform does exist. Because I've had some medically complex patients. Like patients. Going through Chemo or who? Otherwise just aren't safe to be in the regular school system Have done school from home. And it's considered actually separate from the homeschool. It's considered an actual public school called Florida virtual school. So I mean I don't know will happen. I do think everyone needs to bre- from minute because it's been like five seconds and then there's been like ninety five elaborate schedules. Maybe I'm guilty. I mean I made one although mine is like super non elaborate so involved a lot of screen time so But like I'm not super worried about my kids like losing a ton of ground. Maybe because my kids are pretty young. Yeah like if we do a couple hours of stuff each day and that can include reading will probably be. Okay yeah well. That's the cool thing. I mean from having studied a lot of home schoolers. Schedules Fun Fun fact here. My senior thesis at Princeton was actually on home schooling. That's how long ago I was interested in this topic but it was it was less common than But it the people who do this. It doesn't take six and a half hours a day. Or whatever your state mandated. Instructional time is for your for your schools. You can a lot of that. Time at school is transitions. It's Things that your kids might be doing anyway like recess or eating lunch. It's things that you might not even consider to be part of school while they are. But you might do them on your own like instrument practice for instance or reading right like having. That's that's part of it too like a elementary school teacher is GonNa have their kids. Read do silent reading for Awhile. And so that's part of it as well. So the actual instructional part can be relatively limited and still be moving forward. Mike Kids depending on age have have somewhere between two hours and fifteen minutes in three hours of stuff that I have assigned per day and an hour of that is independent reading. So we're it's it's not like eight hours a day by by any means but it's actually been kind of fun to try on. Dance Day Day. Three Day three here. Oh right your little bit. You guys were one of the first. We're on the district's too close. So we knew it was coming and we have gotten into it now but Yeah no each. We have a checklist each day which the kids have one hour reading. They have thirty minutes of math practice which we have been doing. Khan Academy in Dream Box. Ruth was creating her own worksheets for a while but then she thought better than we have a thirty minute research project which each day we have a different subject so we. I did science than we did. History today was health related so everyone research to different epidemic and they need to write me up a short report on it. You know based on link sort of based on kid age but So they can get writing practice in. How is how is Alex's report he doesn't have to do this his his He gets stories right. We're reading stories than he does Ten minutes of writing practice just just sort of keep working on the hand coordination and then we've actually been working with him through the bedtime math books which I can highly recommend they are by Laura Who did a couple of these there several of these books? But it's the idea that set up like a bedtime story so you read a short paragraph that sets up a topic and then they have four different levels of math problems associated with the story problems in so you read it to the kids in the figure it out a So we've been doing that with Alex for math cool. Yeah we have like our kids homework. They use a program called. I ready for both reading and math. I think it's a Florida state wide thing so we've just continued their normal cycle of that and we use reflex math for math. Which is more just? It's not really like they. Have I ready? Math for more concept type stuff and reflects is just like animals memorizing timetables and Cameron's trying to learn like four plus three. So we do that and then have them write a story Either like a journal? Entry of what's going on. I think those are GonNa get a little repetitive. But we'll see for Cameron. It's more leg. Tried to write one picture and then I asked him to read either two chapters of a chapter book either. Annabel can read it to cameron or he can read his own to picture books or she can like whatever they want but like two books or chapters. Yeah so sounds good animal would you do? She's like I read genevieve green eggs and Ham. Good I mean. There's so many things you learn by doing that right. I mean I. In addition to the reading practice obviously but reading out loud is itself a skill that I would say. Many adults don't do very well. That's a real presenting. Words to other people is not automatic. And so you're absolutely right about that. She's working on that now. Wait we're actually So the First official virtual Instructional Day starts tomorrow recording this on a Tuesday so the Wednesday. Our teachers are starting to send assignments So we will incorporate that into the schedule. It's mostly Jasper. Who's going to have the more formal remote instruction like his different. Teachers are posting assignments. So he's GonNa start mostly doing that. The other kids. I think it'll be more just reinforced like math practice. And things like that so you know they'll still need a few additional things to keep them busy and we are still having our nanny come because currently I still have a lot of work. Responsibilities headache seven thirty. Am Conference calls every day. And then I have to disseminate that information to the residents and trying to redesign a lot of their education to figure out how to do it remotely which is not that easy apparently now also yeah I feel like I know this is a dilemma for a lot of people but our nanny herself has sort of agreed to isolate Incidentally she has like the same coffee shop. So I'm not worried about transmitting or getting or giving her 'cause that already happened before all of this but yeah. I know. This is sort of a dilemma for some people whether or not. It's even okay to do that. There are a lot of college students that currently have a lot of free time. That might even you know I was thinking about. It might even be willing to live in if you have the space to keep them so they could become a defacto additional family member. If you really need some somebody You know you can pay them. They can earn extra money. And you could get your remote work done without worrying about an infection risk. Especially if they're willing to to stay with
"genevieve" Discussed on PodcastDetroit.com
"You know nervous you know Rosie like this nice churches and this doesn't have to be like that and so just kind of being realistic modeling things. But the things. You can't control the things that regardless of the job you end up doing that. Yeah like you said you can control and affect how much of a positive experience it is. yeah working hard. Treating the people you work with well and Yeah trying to learn and get better at it. Those are all all positive things that Maybe more important than the job itself. Yeah definitely and yeah just the the work effort Yeah that's really great and I mean it's clear that I have gotten to take her to work so many times. I thought that I love her seeing me in a different role. I'm like yeah for you to you on the same weather so Cool so and As we wrap this up in the last five minutes or so Do we come to any conclusions about fairness or expectations. I know he's through a lot out. There I know is kind of quick to figure that out in our when we've been now office. Yeah not too high not too low figure out you know what straight for her and in the situation and You know keep the focus that you're probably going to be happier if your expectations are not unrealistic and you know if they exceed them then then you happier and maybe it's just Maybe realizing the expectations are something you can manage one way or another and that if you can learn to manage them then you can move that dial up or down depending on the situation or the experience or the relationship or the job To you know to to match whatever you're encountering too Kind of try to optimize how happy you are in that position And optimize you know your growth in that position. Whatever may be but I think part of that just takes Not React I definitely practice but I think it's more just trying to step back and not reacting every situation but You know looking at the situation right but you know what I'm saying. I mean honey give me. It's it's ready but but but you know what I'm saying. I mean if you're just reacting then you can't really manage those expectations. You're not giving yourself time to manage them. Maybe or to think about it And and who knows? I'm probably in a lot of situations. reacting maybe the way to go without thinking about it man. I'm sure there's a lot of situations where you can't over think it and that's that presents its own set of You know issues but We'll have to save that one for another time but yeah I think In the next two or three. If you're available that's what I like to do. I kinda like to Breakdown daily habits everything. I've thought about a couple of everything from you. Know like sleeping habits to eating habits to You know the the way you think about things that I think if stressed or practiced on a on a daily basis is GonNa You know help build those characteristics are going to help build you know those strong relationships and education and work experiences and I think that would be cool. Well thank you for joining us. Genevieve love your body Katie I will see you and just a little bit love. Ya and have out. Okay thanks I..
"genevieve" Discussed on FanBros
"You said that word like there. There was some emphasis there. Like will Smith. Was that other celebrity crush. No that's fine Bad boys bad boys. The new babble is good too. That's fine okay. Star Wars or star Trek as Star Wars. Okay you're good for me. Point Favorite Superhero movie of all time. Well I don't know some recent ones menu crime theaters so that those are probably really Which ones major cry there is three. We'll there's three that Yeah All somebody was I cried watching black cancer as we are with several. I cry in wonder woman when I think it's one she's like running across like like deflecting all of these bullets good team And I cried during finicky when everyone comes out. Yeah I'm just like Oh yes probably the ten time I cried. I cried so many times in in game. It's ridiculous it's a lot Okay this one comes directly from one of our listeners. The name is static shock horror. They write named something. You love that. Most folks don't it could be like a movie. Could be a food a character. Anything I mean. I like a lot of weird foods Well maybe one. 'cause you're the Foodie here? I think you're the food expert here. A between US three. I mean I grew up in our vary. I'm I'm half Chinese And so I feel like in a lot of Asian cultures. There's a lot of weird foods like particularly weird parts of animals. I am I apologize to anyone defending right now but things like chickens feed and staff. Oh that's a lot of cultures. Actually it is. Yeah that's a southern black culture. Yeah Oh yeah so I went to this. Like a favorite thing though. I don't know I enjoyed them. You enjoy okay. Okay you love it but other people may be like I don't know about that one but okay cool like most people. I know it'd be like knock cool. Excellent okay also from static shock or they asked what your favorite theme song like theme song of my life could be. That could be like some people like they love theme songs for certain sitcoms like that's their favorite but or names on for your life that too. Yeah I like that if you walk out the door and his song starts playing. Every time that's the song that would play would be. Don't dream it's over. I think yes yes. Yes don't dream it's over there. It was like from the eighties right. Yes yeah. That's nothing I google Google's by crowded house. Yes crowded house us. That's a jam. That's great one. Wow Yeah I don't know if A show or something or movie on your good. That's a good answer. Yeah Okay Great. All right we got your. I D crush slow. What care death hurt you the most like a movies? Tv books when a character died. Were broke your heart could move faster. That's a lot of people on my. Gosh that's a really good one actually Way Specific to some stuck character dying dislike you whether you read a book or You Watch the movie or even a show and a character died and you hope that like really hurts your heart like you were really invested in that character. Oh my gosh okay. This is actually I like actually freaked out when this happened. Do you notice show. This is us. Yes Jack Dies because the show is like these show different They jumped in the daytime jumped. Like everything's all different times in staff but it also just I knew he was supposed to die in that the that the best season that he dies. But I remember And I must have. I think I'd also read some spoilers or something or I knew how it happened. And so it's the episode. Where like I'M. I'm spoiling it for anyone. Who has not seen these these episodes but when they're Plugging in the Crock Pot. And I just I started freaking out there and just like ball in my eyes off with my with my with my my my ex-boyfriend but we are watching it together and I just start like sobbing. And he's like okay and I'm just like Jim go out even died yet. Oh you were just intimidating for me. Oh Yeah that show pulls at your heart strings every damn week. Okay this is the last one if you can have any one superpower one to power what would it be I think to teleport. Ooh That's a good one. What would you do with them? Where would you tell it to everywhere? It'd be really great for travelling and seen different places. You know absolutely bit best. All right well you have survived the Brat segment. You survived interview segment. Please let all the for all nerds listeners. Out there nowhere that they can find you at. You can find me on instagram. Mr G my instagram handle is at genevieve K. N. G. Awesome and any upcoming projects. You want to plug. I'm actually in a few days Deers a feature film. That I'm in called run this town. That premiers having its theatrical theatrical. Release the film that I am in with Ben Platz in Damian Lewis and also also and she goes yeah word up all right well thank you very much for joining us here tonight and we're GonNa take a quick break. We'll be right back with more to show.
"genevieve" Discussed on FanBros
"Tuesday one week before they won before south by south west of it we will be in Los Angeles for the screening of blood. Shot that being said if you WANNA go for free. Ninety nine is very easy all you gotta do is email. Us contact at four owners DOT com. Give us a list of names of the people that you want to attend. I believe the list GonNa Close Soon. Very today's the third And I think in the next few days that Friday Friday probably we're calling it more than likely this upcoming Friday. We're going to close a list so guess in all the names you can bring. Your mother says the Father. Whatever on the whole crew there may be some giveaways. I mean the main giveaway is the screen but there may be some other surprises there It's going to. Where's it going to be always going to be Rigo Live? La Reliable theater. Oh you've been there definitely. Eagles wanted to best for premieres. They always show premieres there. Okay Cool Chinese Theater. But you know it's a it's a legit theatre probably go see in downtown. Might be getting popcorn and stuff like that so free concessions that but the point. Is You get to see the movie for free? And if you're interested again hit us up contact at four alerts DOT COM GIVES US Z. Names of people in that will be in attendance including yourself. Don't forget yourself if you plan on being there and we'll add you to the list word up and speaking of movies little trailer drop this week. You know just a little or maybe just a little bit when I say this whole bloom. House like horror. House thing that they got going on is in freaking credible. I saw the trailer and was like I'm in your day. One I mean I I was. I was already interested the trailer. Just seal the deal for me. We're talking about candyman. Y'All be new remake directed by Nia the Kosta and not nearly enough people are saying this woman's name right now because all respect to everybody is different credited Jordan Peele. He established this idea with the US trailer of these screwed and chopped theme songs from psychological type horror films. Even know candyman isn't a review is not a new property property and it already had all these themes and elements in it before so people you know when they heard the say my name they immediately started being like all Jordan peele appeal. Well not just that because Joinville tweeted it and most people know of and really this is and this is some of it. You can some of it. You can call eraser but a mobile is really just that what people who people now with pattern matching you see what you know. You repeat what you know and all that people saw Jordan's name it's actually what they all enjoyed movie. No near Gaza is the director. Remember that name lands old a twenty nine year old black woman putting in work that being said Jordan Peele did Produce it. He's he also co wrote it with Nita Casa so we have a black man and a black woman center stage in this at the end of the day. We win winning big Lou. And Yeah Yeah who was on the owner show before any of this popped off? Let me remind all early early before our commander right when outcome is right when it's like it's so silly we talk about circle of trust on here all the time and how you know people come on. The show and globe is just immediate. He was here in person in person. He sat right there where you are sitting right now. Tatyana and in the glow saying you know. Remember without staring at him. I believe I might have been to look very handsome man. There's no denying that node nine F. old but yes he is. Start a new candyman. Everyone is wondering. Is Tony Todd returning? There's absolutely a quick shot him in the trailer but will he became in turn into candyman. It'll be candyman generations. Yes is he going? Pass down to Hook banishes to pass bound brook to be no. Maybe but he's definitely in the movie. And what we don't know Vanessa Williams the other Vanessa Williams aging aging is in this she. She blocked by baby still looking like she's still cap people for Nino Brown. She got mad of people. Were calling her Vanessa. A Williams possess the other Vanessa. No Vanessa Williams. How people have differentiated her and she was like no. My name is and I'm just like when people think Nestle wins each day they think the singer slash actor anyway Point is the movie. Look sick as hell. I'm so mad joining for flipping CD my name. I think that's our whole that is going to be a continued thing where he just flips all these classic quote Unquote Black Song. But then also I don't want him because I hate it when I saw that on twitter when I say my name you know it was like I liked it but now I don't WanNa keep seeing that you know. I don't want I mean it'd be run sound like you do. It just depends on how it goes through the could get like you know like the Guy Co Lizard. Where I'm good office really well done. Yeah what a guy who lives whether I do you know what I'm saying. It just depends on how on how wills done because not like win Tarantino or something well I mean. He always has music. Everybody has music in different ways. But I don't need a screwed and chopped version of every nineties. Two two thousand hit song. I guess yeah I mean I guess you're feeling a little bit more. I loved it. Sorry I love say my name. That one was that it was it. Works unexpected when music like that. That is flip shops grew. Whatever works unexpected. Then I'm just like oh I'm GONNA be expecting it expecting that. He's going to stop though just because he knows people are going to be expected. He's GonNa stop. That's what I hope and I don't know why saying he Jordan not necessarily was. Was that Jordan's idea that could be the music directors idea and it could be any number could have been me as idea so naming stop. I mean not say Jordan but the point is go get ready to go see candy man might WanNa get them once. I don't know what the tickets trailer yeah But yeah we're going to be in a And if we are able to eat we try to do a screening. Oh yeah you know because this is wild I have mentioned real quick. Just mentioned Bloom House Idc invisible man. Oh this past weekend. it was good. I heard it was much better than I thought it'd be right. I didn't know I just thought it would just be fun to watch and also I saw it in a bunch of black people so I made that much more better and you have to. You have to see her movies with black people in becomes much more entertaining. And I was actually sitting next to a matter. Latina and she was going off. She was going. She was inbetween her a the and and her cone screaming and like Spanish like was the best so the movie itself was was pretty good. It has all the classics tropes Elizabeth Moss from handmaid's tale. She does I will say she does all the Prototypical Waco Shit. That happens the white girls in horrible movie. So you'll be getting mad at. How would you do that? Would you go there But it works and the movie if for people who have seen the other iterations of a visible man or movies that are inspired by invisible man. That's the Kevin. Bacon joins ask well most most all of those movies too it from the perspective of the invisible man. This movie doesn't perspective of one of the victims of victims. Awesome man so I like that better and has a lot of modern day stuff mixed in Just a way that they do the whole invisible man things completely different from anything else you've seen so it's it's it's it's good is just an entertaining movie. It really is I think I have like ninety percent of rotten tomatoes. That's right it's number one on the weekend. I heard it was. It was like twenty eight twenty nine million. And so you know maybe a sequel might be invisible man to we. Don't you the movie you don't need to? They say they're already. You know you know how to go well and one last thing before we take this quick break right here. One thing I did do this week was celebrate. My born day These boys day I season House Blah gift really early and then it's just been my house. GotTa give it to him. But I'm so sad at a Mr born day but I'm happy that it looked like you enjoyed you eating cake. Delicious gluten free dairy free coconut cake. It was his. Id Stories like he was like humming to having a all day long. He was in his house. He had his drake his. He had his cake and he had just just like he was like. Yeah Yeah Yeah he happy so I was very. I was when I saw. Oh good quite happy. I got a silver surfer Franco. Pop Abobo Fat Wallet. Boba FETT Wallet. This is the way fire. This is the way to joint fire. And his is that his insignia. Arkansas knows his colors so Boba Fett walnuts and yeah I had a great day man shot. I'll call it a pisces out there because I know we're very emotional. Ask people when our birthday rolls around. We start getting sad and crazy and all that stuff so you know all y'all enjoy yourselves. Hope you all having a beautiful pisces season and we go. You know we're GONNA keep going. We're going to joy and with that we're going to take a quick break and we'll be right back with more from the four all nerves guys. It's Allison Williams. I'm an actor and when I am not scaring people onscreen. I am hanging out with for honors and listening to their show. Hey guys this is rod and King of the blackout test podcast. And when we are doing one of our many podcasts. Yes we are listening to four honors. Hey what's going on everybody? 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Dallas business executive Genevieve Collins leading GOP primary to face Rep. Colin Allred
"District thirty to that seen Dallas Republican Genevieve Collins has won the nomination to take on the the incumbents Democrats Colin Allred in November Collins was one of five Republicans trying to win yesterday that have earned the right to take on all read that to her watch party last night she said she was ready in case she fell short of fifty percent going at full steam ahead full support to use about forty nine percent when she made that comment wound up with over fifty percent also no runoff fifty two percent of the vote for Genevieve Collins said district thirty two course that flipped from Republican to Democrat just two years ago
"genevieve" Discussed on PodcastDetroit.com
"Did not like that. Tragic actually talked about my basketball Days last week and Ended up in the same place on the bench Pretty passionate track and track like a big deal for middle school because they hadn't lost in like a lot of years or something and basically everyone did and I really really didn't like it. Yeah I felt peer pressure to the the maybe One last thing to touch on I remember bring it up. I don't know maybe like fifth or sixth grade when I was talking last week When's the first time you remember You know like being attracted to someone. What grade do you remember? Oh my gosh you're gonNA cringe because th th that's a significant part of the education around here yeah I think said fifth grade or something like that And but but I mean I I brought this back to genevieve a little bit. Is You know your educational experiences. Probably going to really have a big factor on how you approach. You know learning and discovering things in the future and Even more so the first few relationships you have a pregnant affect how you view you know future relationships and how much probably both of us would like to control bets. At least they're positive experiences which can be very difficult. But yeah it'd be interesting to hear your take on that okay. We'll let you think about. Maybe we'll do that in In part to but I think that's a big part of people's you know that the time of their lives right you know whether it's not just romantic relationships like all right. I think if you wait too long like if your parents are too protective over you or something like that. I think it might be harder. Yeah not just romantic but with friends family and coworkers. And we've talked about this from the beginning and we've talked a lot about when choosing Educational Experience for genevieve. You know the importance of being somewhere where you could have a a social learning experience And kind of Not even always a good one but maybe one way or not always comfortable so you're learning how to The main thing that's going on main kind of warning that so so yeah which you know I mean when when you look at it. I think it'd be argued that that's the most important I mean it's GonNa it's GonNa Creep into every single aspect of your life. You know how you how you treat people and how you react when yeah when you're treated well or poorly I I was thinking about this the other day and we just have a minute but you know how they say you know everything you need to learn you learn in kindergarten or whatever that goes and and I think that's super simple and most people can agree to that and most people can do those things like being ice and share and stuff. I think I think most of us run into issues when other people don't do those same things you know what we're fine sharing and being nice but when someone else is it nice or does show. Then everything's out the window and we all become monsters because yeah because it's not fair or whatever it may be but maybe that's a topic for another show with like kindergarten ages so normal for them to Tau and all of address what I was. GonNa say it here playing before that to you really develop. It's important to developing a sense of self when you can see how you relate to other people like see what they think of how what they you know like. I don't know yeah but I think that is important but also to realize how much how much weight should I give? Their opinion and some people's opinion should probably deserve more weight based on certain factors. And probably maybe your own opinion should always carry the most weight and that's always a balancing thing and kind of a tricky gray area but Yeah no I I totally agree. People like define you back. You know. Having a sense of how you relate to them where you fall yeah yeah well Katie Appreciatively learned a couple of new things which is always a joy Is genevieve still around? Genevieve hear me Love you buddy. Katie. Are you guys in just little bit right. All right. Thank you for listening and that's it..
"We will be talking about childcare a topic we've talked about in the past but some sort of general guidelines for people to think about as they are making their childcare choices that we've heard from our listeners things to keep in mind as general philosophies because you've you've made some changes recently Sarah Right. Yeah I think I think the reason I thought it would be interesting to another childcare episode since we did talk about it before we'll a couple of reasons number one. We have some new listener so this is always requested topic anything from time to time. It's nice to go back on but also I think people forget that this is an area in which you can't set it and forget it because what works when you have one baby is different than when you have two children and it's different when you have older children that may have different kinds of homework and in fact really. The logistics can change every year or even more frequently. We're finding ourselves. It was funny because all of a sudden you know my I wind about it on this podcast. Enough you guys know. I was very frustrated with a lot of evenings because Josh often gets home fairly late there are exceptions. But I certainly can't rely on him to get home. You know around dinner time or anything like that or even penn time and I was finding myself dreading those evenings but our nanny worked from she used to come at seven thirty in the morning and we used to live fairly far from where she did. Now we don't But she came really early. You know she commuted and of course. I wanted to get her out on time. So she left at six o'clock saliva basically get home from work and she'd be pretty much out the door leaving me to deal with the evening on my own. Which again I did it but I wasn't always very happy. Happy about it yet. So you know all sudden. It occurred to me that we didn't necessarily need our nanny to do the morning. Drop off like I don't know what was stopping me. Did Change because it has to do with our move and the timing of the fact that genevieve goes to school now but genevieve school is conveniently located on the way to my office and I had this block on my head thinking like well. You can't drop off the big kids engine. Vive and then one day aren't any had to be often. Let me try it. It was like that is so easy. Like throw Momma car or sometimes we do it with scooters and and a stroller drop off the kids and the timing actually works perfectly because they need to be there really dropped off by like seven forty five and then. I drive halfway to work. Genevieve's drop-off coincides pretty much. Exactly what that halfway point of one I need to get to work and I can actually get in time for when I first patients there and do the drop off which means. I didn't need our nanny to come so early. Which also meant that? I felt free to ask her to work later. So like you know a cascade and now we have her come. Sometimes she still has to come early. We had a parent teacher conference this morning in Josh. Both wanted to go without being distracted by genevieve so she did come early so you know she's still available to come in the morning and usually it's one to two days during the week that she does come early but a lot of other days she comes in around eleven and then we'll stay until seven thirty and then the hours kind of even out to the same number of our. She was working before. But I get that support in the evenings usually put to bed while she's still here and I am a happier person so but it it just like you know we could have easily just stay on autopilot thinking that you know we had a system that worked and you know she was already working a lot of hours. We'd boxed ourselves in a little bit. Yeah so that that was a big thing and then kind of around the same time. I got empowered because I just came to the realization. My husband's actually had to take a little bit more weekend call with the changes at work and it's fine. It's it's reasonable but he's on call one out of every three weekends. I was just started seeing these thirty three percent of my weekend. Stretch ahead of me for the rest of the next decade and not being able to work out and And I was like wait I hover. Genevieve will be twelve though by the end of that second. I'm pretty sure that you can leave a twelve year. Old a fifteen year old a seventeen year old out certainly leave a twelve year old. Okay maybe I was seeing the next five years and I was like. Why can't I just hire someone to comfort like? It doesn't make me a bad parent doesn't make do anything and then. I'm like oh I could hire someone to come. Watch the big kids while I take her to my gym and so now I went back on. Care Dot com which is where we found any. I found to babysitters and I can talk a little bit about the application process. Because I've had pretty good luck and the last two weekends I've come for like two hours since in the morning so I can workout while my husband's working and actually sometimes when he's not working I'm trying to have them come so that he can. Somebody asked to do some work when he's not working so so he can do that without it really taking me and even so we could maybe both at the same time once in a while so again. It's like you have these stories. You tell yourself about what you're allowed to do but we're grownups allowed to do whatever we want. I think there's a mental block about having childcare when you're not actually working right and I think a lot of people have in their mind that the only acceptable time to have it is from the start of your commute to the time when you walk in the door and you know maybe you get a date night every month or so that you have a sitter to regularly build into your life extra hours beyond that I think makes people you know feel weird and we can certainly explore on this podcast. Y that is like why do people feel that way but I think that is definitely we should exactly first before we get to that though the deeper question maybe you can talk through the ads that you put on mystical standpoint so again we found our current nanny through care dot com six years ago. She still working with us. And I found these babysitters what has worked for me. Is that put an ad and I do. The paid subscriptions communicate and then in that ad. I put very specific things about what I'd like them to respond with. Please respond with number one. Your availability number. Two like two references. Unlike number three time you can meet with me like that's pretty simple right and yet. Most people cannot follow the instructions to respond with those things. So I'm like okay. We're done we're done here. You could follow my instructions on the ad you just sent clearly a copy and pasted thing. About how you WanNa work because you love children but you didn't answer my question so that's a really nice filter on that seems to work. And then you know. I set up interviews. I have a friend so I set up for interviews for a few weeks ago and I will admit to them just cancelled. One of them just cancelled in ghosted. One of them Sent me a text like five minutes before the start and was like sorry never mind and then the other two showed up like beautifully on time professionally dressed like darkness. Good yes Contacts in fact both of them at least one of them like sent me a text like just just letting him on way like just like fully and then I knew they were professionals. The other thing I really liked too is if if this is not to hire someone for primary job but like for these babysitting short little gigs. If you find someone that's hired by an organization you know like one of ours is working for a government organization locally. I kind of know that they're not a government. Organization is not going to hire like someone with criminal record or major issues in. If I can find out that they've been there for a couple of years. It's a nice setting processes well to make me feel safe and secure. I feel less scared about like I know. There's a lot of angst when your child or very little They can't talk to you yet about what's going to happen but at least. I know I have an eight year old almost and so she'll tell me if someone's you know not great but I still feel much better knowing that okay. This person was vetted to work in a medical practice or to work at a daycare. Like they've been through background checks drug testing all that kind of stuff. Because I'm not necessarily GONNA have the the the ability to do that myself although through through carry dot com you John Various things. So that's that's a service you can look there's others to like sitter city. Nanno is an on demand one. There's there's a number of players in this space now that there weren't in the in the past in you had to go through if particularly if you're hiring full-time childcare. You had to go through Nanny Agency for instance which they still exist. You may wish to do that. But you know the people's mileage may vary with with them and I really like references so I I asked. I'm like I want phone number of someone you've worked for recently and I do call and usually you can tell instantly in that person's voice like Oh yeah. This is someone that they've trusted. I mean it's the same as a word of mouth wreck but I'll be honest. People are not always including myself so excited to share their favorite babysitters contact information They may want to dig their own date nights and they don't want you to pull them off the market every Saturday night. So that's why I N N I feel awkward asking for that reason because I don't want to steal someone else's best person when somebody has kids that are kind of aging out of the need for babysitter. That's a great time to ask like. Oh you've mentioned that you're leaving your Ten-year-old or twelve year old at home now like any babysitters that you love that you don't need any more that can be a window of opportunity.
Clothing Hacks for Kids
"The first theme that things seem to fall into were kids clothing. A lot of people had some great ideas in this room. So many of you like to buy all the same color socks for your kids. I feel like I haven't done this because I kind of like buying random looking socks but I get I get what you're saying. 'cause sorting them is kind of annoying will but then each kid would have their own color. Is that what you're saying? Well that would be an idea to but I think the everyone has the same color. It's hard to. How do you sort by size if I'm wondering this probably would work like? Have you had a foreign six-year-old could wear the same by this name? Song cares right. That would be amazing. But you're right. I love that variation if you have five children for example they have different sizes. It could get their signature sock color. You only match that and then you know where it goes or even if it's if it's white with like a some of the Hanes for instance I've noticed. The lettering is in different colors for a long time as Jasper only had the hanes with the blue lettering and SAM had the hands with the green lettering. If you're having to look closely enough to look for the letters I feel like almost defeats the purpose and you might as well have to prepare. Obviously you can also have your children. Your older children start their own socks like this. That's my hack not. That's actually a great hack. So there you go. I actually started kicks this whole thing off. Maybe that's why there's a lot of kids with the fact that might think for genevieve in particular is like all by two pairs of shoes at once and I'll skip the half size like who need tasks is is right. But I'll I'll buy like a size seven and a size eight Sandal because this is Florida and like she's GonNa need sandals year round so it's not like I'm GONNA risk that she won't be the right size especially if I find like a decent couponer sale at zepos It just is just like such a nice comfort feeling like if she's growing him to be like Ooh we already have the next one because Peter only gonNA growth in inevitability until a certain point but we haven't gotten there yet now they can go on for a long time. I'm curious about finding the shoe sales as just that when you when she needs new shoes. You're looking to see what's on sale or Alex. Your shoes recently and I actually. I like that bose because they will deliver in one day so we had a cold snap and our nannies like I lost one of her sneakers so we need shoes. I'm like wells. Apples will deliver by tomorrow so we can beat. The cold snap actually aren't policy so and this is not a sponsor but anyway so but sometimes they have good sales in. Or if you just know the like they're gonna you're GonNa need it like you might as well just by two at once Or I've got twenty percent off coupons that will apply to the whole order so there you go by three by size six seven and eight or whenever I listen work. Obviously your kids are going to change their mind about or if or if it's seasonal. I mean that's the problem if you live in a place with four distinct seasons like you don't know for sure if they're gonNA be wearing the size thirteen in summer or in the next winter so but but there's some shoes that they might wear year round like dresses for instance. I like this next one that we got from a listener says for items that don't get a lot of where like snow pants by. Unisex colors so they can be handed down or make sure your son's okay with the purple. I mean that's the other. The other option there are most most was my side note. Only snow is such a rarity that I don't think Cameron Would actually be be distracted by the fact that we were like in
"genevieve" Discussed on PodcastDetroit.com
"And you talking about politics today. That's another So we touch on education a bunch that was that was really good and and I really liked that. We touched on College because that's that's a huge You know jumping off point so deciding whether one you're going to do how you're gonNA approach you what you're trying to get out of it I think is super important And maybe waiting to you know exactly what you want to get out of it Because in the end it is knowledge it is education That whole goodwill hunting quote. You know Things that guy from Harvard you spent two hundred grand on education. You could have got for a dollar fifty and late fees at your local library. I mean the education is is available especially in this day in all my goodness. I mean So I it's not about Accessing the education necessarily But maybe more so finding What you WanNa do and what you can actually use To make a living Because me personally. What I'm interested in isn't necessarily what people are paying you to be interested in type of thing. I mean I I wouldn't go to classes but then I go to the local library books about chess and other stuff that I would be interested. It's amazing they have Had just online you can do the these mooks right. The massive online open class Yeah and you can take a class at Harvard. You can take a class. You know In kinda just audit and and sit in on these classes via these these mooks these massive massive online m o o c whatever that first time is massive online something online classes but his opportunity to do that. And Yeah so the world is open to to do whatever you on just between like you jump on Youtube and you got a million Ted talks. Oh how many educational podcasts are out there earlier. It's it's just yours for the taking. You can't possibly choose at all no so But having those options and Yeah so And of course that leads to work but I guess in closing genevieve and I appreciate Jamie for helping. Clarify this Yeah in before college. You know having these conversations I mean so far. She's wanted to be a cashier a ballet dance instructor a teacher. And which will probably change one hundred more times but just having those conversations and And Yeah just discussing the pros and cons and that education or learning curiosity. It's not a school thing. It's kind of a live thing and it's going to enrich your life regardless and Yeah just being flexible in and going from there yeah any closing thoughts job shadow rate experience. Get out yeah get experience And see see what's wrong with the real world like job shadowing. Is I think not necessarily an internship but just shadow somebody You know if she still wants to you know when she's fourteen fifteen still thinking about maybe ever job shadow a dance instructor. Yeah I think. Job Shadow just a day or two. It's incredible that builds your network of friends and people you know I'd love to see that in school is actually people from the community. Come and talk about their jobs. I mean how many jobs are out there that you don't even exist. Oh Yeah my job. Before I had the industry existed. I think a lot of people fall into that. You know so. Yeah Keep Your Eyes Open and Kind of know what you want your education to get you and hopefully it will love Ya. Genevieve and That's it..
Jury deliberating in trial for former Dallas officer who shot into car, killing woman
"Will be it is day two of jury deliberation of the trial of former Dallas police officer Christopher has he's accused of aggravated assault in the death of twenty one year old Genevieve Dawes three years ago prosecutor Brian Mitchell told the jury the whole trial comes down to what is reasonable hi
Defense Takes Stand in Assault Case Against Former Dallas Officer
"An abrupt pause in the trial of former Dallas police officer who is accused of shooting death of a Dallas woman K. are oldies L. P. Phillips has the story they're evidently was evidence the defense was supposed to get but did not have access to until today so the judge abruptly called a recess until Tuesday morning as was supposed to testify today and now it's likely to be Tuesday so far every police officer who was at the scene the night that has shot Genevieve Dawes has back test so have most of the experts Kiraly legal analyst ed Klein says that could be the state strategy the situation that the state is going to let the defense put on their witnesses their expert witnesses first to testify that this officer was justified in shooting and then bring in their experts or additional experts during rebuttal the defense is called several expert witnesses who have testified they also think has was justified in
Former Dallas Officer Expected to Take Stand in Use of Deadly Force Trial
"Off in Dallas the jury in the aggravated assault trial of a former Dallas police officer is expected to hear from experts who will say Christopher has acted reasonably the night he shot and killed a woman here's K. are all these L. B. Phillips a preview of testimony was presented outside the presence of the jury as the defense prove their contention to a judge that several of their experts should be allowed to testify among them former Austin officer Jerry statement reviewed all the reports and watch the body camera video of the January two thousand seventeen shooting of Genevieve dog I believe that based on all the information I think was available to also cast at the time that he made the decision to use deadly force that it is reasonable and understandable that he would take the action that he took any bases that on what he says other police would have done in the same circumstance other police officers who were present one has shot Dawes testified they thought he acted
"genevieve" Discussed on PodcastDetroit.com
"Making immediate changes and not doing data think we you know you learn about yourself just as much as you learn about her for sure But I in close. I think that's another part of this. podcast not talking about these things with you and others and hoping that clarifying vying Evolve my thoughts but you you mentioned that one or two episodes. You did that And like I said this is. It's this is early. There's not a lot of structure to it or knowing where it's going or how it's going to go in the future but You have all these different ideas and how they connect with each other and how they're gonNA help genevieve. And that's another thing with Joe Rogan. PODCAST is. He's got so many for so many hours. He hits the same subject so many many times but kind of from these different angles is he always interviewing other people. I mean listen. He's always got somebody that your plan Yeah well I mean. Bill's been here a couple of times. And so you might see a lot more acadia coming up here. And we've seen it is held forty nine and genevieve Jenex great really and like you said she's she's grey says she could absolutely come along but he's interviewing people but is more like this. It's that's what I like about it. It's a conversation but like as he ever on there by himself. Do you ever plan to. That'd be a lot of people. Don't show up. We may very well happen. But but that's the thing he'll he'll be interviewing some astrophysicists that I've never heard of love and the best part of the interview. That conversation isn't about Astro physics which they may touch upon because they've got a new book or whatnot it's about him talking to an astrophysicist about something that's completely has nothing to do with astro physics whether it's politics our family or some current event So what I hope to do is Kinda come back and touch all these subjects with different The people of different experiences and perspectives and Hopefully that'll be helpful thoughtful. But no and I I really enjoyed talking with you today. So I think that that is a great idea Not only because not only that we think will be helpful for genevieve but the things that we think will be helpful for us. I think most helpful for us to you know think about okay. What do we need to work on next terror in? Yeah right I mean you talked about relationship stuff even something. That's going to be helpful for us. US Not only be beneficial for her but you know she probably listen to that sometime in the future too. I mean she's good chance you're GONNA be gone through the same things but So Yeah I had a lot of fun Genevieve can you say goodbye. She's not really say goodbye by genevieve. I love you buddy and Look forward to getting you some desert right now..
"genevieve" Discussed on PodcastDetroit.com
"With that but that's was a very important time in my life. I learned a lot in that time. And and that was from an apostle. Well that is excellent That's what I love about kind of this format and the conversation side is it goes in organic directions and I think that's I think one you learn more not not only us to but to the people listening as opposed to going. I mean it's good to have stuff in case you dead air whatnot but I think You tell us a ton about you. Even though we didn't get into your childhood or The kids well. But that's the thing I I think it also shows there's a lot of information insight there so we can look at doing more with which I would love to do it anytime. Yeah so we we. We definitely need to do that. a couple of things at the end I was thinking of is now that I look at the parenting side but And maybe bring it up but yeah we'll say that for next time okay but Genevieve Love Ya and so that your GRANDPA and GRANDPA loves you too and you to Katie Yes thank you Katie. For letting US come out here and do this and being supportive And then yeah so I mean genevieve you only five years old and you probably won't even be listening to I will. I'll play this before you like to hear a I GRANDPA's voice but these conversations may not be appropriate for a five year old. It may not be ready for it but you know when here Eight nine ten eleven. I think what helps me is kind of Gets me thinking about stuff before we have conversations and just to kind of jump back to the genealogy point Just you know one generation away is a lot of who you are as effective. Why Am Dan who affects who she is and so just having this in kind of getting a feel for them because her listening to this is she asked asking me about you? Ninety percent of. That's not coming out or coming out that way it has a completely different Completely different feel so Yeah I look forward to doing more With you if can plan that out. Obviously there's a a million dollars thing I I really enjoyed today and arte to Those Fun I think that's so until next time Everybody love your take your..
"genevieve" Discussed on Noble Warrior with CK Lin
"So I'm so excited to him at friend. GENEVIEVE on Djembe blew my mind mine a while ago during the conference she said are telling me about sexual orientation Obviously Amana. I'm curious. No her point of view as especially as in sexologists as an expert. So thank you so much for being on the show be absolutely. Thank you so much for having me. I'm really excited to dive in with you so rather than ramping up. Let's just jump right in. Yeah great perfect. I cool so you blew my mind with the whole idea of the collateral climax verses like you know everything in Repeat that conversation Salau. We could I think my my listeners especially those who were listening to a curious about in August could be actually benefit from your knowledge beautiful. Yeah well one of the things that I find myself speaking the most on is is educating people around the like the multitude of pleasure that you can have in your body like there's dozens and dozens of orgasms awesome and climaxes that are available to everyone no matter the gender for for the female gender Vulva bodied people. We've got you know there's so so many spots internally that often aren't even activated And they can allow women to reach such high peaks of pleasure that they can actually go into into altered states of consciousness and the clitoral orgasm is only going to give you a small release. And then there's deeper orgasms like the ace spot or the X. X spot or the g spot or the cervical orgasm that can actually make the body go into a state of like altered consciousness similar to plant Madison Journey. Pretty amazing so you just said you. Freeze Zab never heard of before the X.. Spot in the woods the second one as five a spotter never find cervical orgasm. I've never heard of these before. Eclipse oral yes. For sure but go into a little take more that would be the communists. I yet so inside of totally incited the the vaginal canal rate. The reason that most people don't know that they exist is because the vaginal canal. Most women harden the canal right. So it's pretty tight and that makes it hard for the nerve endings to respond to pleasure so one of the first things that I encourage people to do and they start a sexual shoulder. Journey is to learn to relax the walls of the vagina. Or if you're with a vulva body to vaginal person to start to almost during penetration notation with hands or whatever allow them to just be in hold and breezy and you'll notice the walls start to relax of the outside right and then when that happens you're going to be able to hit different nerve endings. So there's areas kind of beyond g-spot into this the g spot and then if you go deeper m maybe like an inch or two you're GonNa hit on the spot you hit. The spot is kind of behind the anal cavity rates. There's all these like and some I've worked with some women that have spots I didn't even know existed right because it's simply a way that the nervous system in the nervous system kind of moves down the spine the a lot of the nerves basis that holds for women in the vaginal canal. So you've got all. Hey this bundles of nerves down there. That a lot of people haven't even activated yet is pretty pretty fun so yeah for men to Oh interesting. Yeah yeah so I guess this is. This is really a Intrigued and and and think that this is an unusual topic for the podcast. Me On the show about The root chocolate to me. He is equal to the the sexual organ and me. It's one of those things that it's the primal instinct that we have right do Paul. Oh create two at a Tutu to to get pleasure out of this very important aspect of it but you know culture. Why came from Chinese culture? I they came to the US or actually have both sees in the West but even in both cultures. We don't actually quite public publicly. Talk about this aspect is very important about life so if you don't mind telling us a little bit about against the challenge of being a even know how to call you an expert in pleasure in sex is that would that be a proper way to address that totally works. Yeah absolutely with. What's the challenge of actually being an expert in this area and was the was the pros and cons? I guess yeah thank you. That's beautiful question in one that I don't think I've ever been asked so. That feels really nice to be able to speak on it Stepping into this mission was very scary for me because because sexuality is the elephant in the room that no one talks about right people get turned on all day long and no one talks about it and to you be the person that saying. Hey I want to address the thing that we've shut down for centuries I get you know. Get Hate Mail. I get a lot of people telling me see that. I you know all sorts of things that had your boundary lists. I've had and you're like no boundaries. told me it had no boundaries because talk about tax Had people tell me on on a slut that I'm a bad mother right I've had people in my family. Tell me so you know. Shame on me and say you know. This isn't okay. So there's a deep burial of this of this part of our our nervous risk system and its societal and honestly it's painful but it drives me more than anything is when I see I see people builds telling me these things and asking me. Oh you should take down that post that you just made or or why are you always naked of people. Say things like aspirin where you need to be because freedom right. My my job is to show people that we don't have to live constricted anymore. We don't have to live afraid anymore of the power within us this creative eight of life force that sexuality is. It's it's more than just the root Chakra. It's it literally runs through the entire body. And it's what makes us a live It reverses the aging right it can create wealth and abundance it can change the neurotransmitters in the brain like an extremely powerful mechanism awesome and we have it within US and and to get out there and tell everyone right that means that they can't go and buy their antidepressants essence anymore ray. That means that their way of living is going to be completely shut down And changed and so I'm going I get that people are going to give me some backlash slash and I'm okay with that Because it it feels super important to help people wake up to the power. That's within them. I think part of it is that they're projecting their own their own internal resistance around sexuality around pleasure on you the fact that I mean. Obviously I'm not an expert but you know it's huge percentage of women and men actually mostly women have an achieve of female orgasm specific stats there but the fact that you are able to ask the help them even get you. That baseline is a huge step up. One Yeah and can I tell a little story around this to happen. So in April of this year I was is doing an event and one of the audience members in the event the event was meant to be a sensual experience. Not a sexual experience right right and I was on staff for it. They brought me in to be on staff and to kind of disrupt the audience. Because that's kind of what I do need met me right. I like to go in there and like shake things up so I went in and I did what I do which was really just me being in my erotic energy and this woman got so triggered that she got up on stage got on the microphone and yelled at me and started crying and raging and I at first so all the construction of Ono. I'm bad I'm wrong. This is an okay and then I started to feel this deep compassion for wow. This is such a scary place for her. That I'm awakening just by my being this like I didn't even do anything. I didn't say a word just by being nece to be that triggered And then we had this conversation afterwards. The woman I found love and compassion for each other and then fast forward a few months. She comes to one of my events and she said that night. Eight put me on a path of massive sexual awakening. I didn't realize how much resistance I had to my own sexual freedom and she's like I'm I'M A. She did my entire workshop. We were getting really sexy and she did the whole thing and she was still alive and liberated and that's it right like sometimes ends with sacs actually always with sex. We kind of need to trigger people first behalf to get to the we have to get to the place where they hate you or where. They're Matt or whether sad. That's what awakens that couldn't believe that sexual energy in the body I we allow that to be there and then they can start to find tatum so sharing that story. Yeah talked about earlier some of the possibilities of this work you said that aliveness. You said the that gateway displeasure of these to a likeness. At least twelve these to some of the things things that you have mentioned if you don't mind going into those stories lead but maybe there's a few stories can share with us even adding your other people. What's possible like why should people care about not just the pleasure park alot very important show? A lot of people love it or all people love it. But in addition to that What else is available going on? This is the pathway to ones on radiance once I always love my clients at the end the lowest say. ooh I get it tentative. It's not even about sex. It's not so much bigger than that. And you come to me for sex and pleasure and you leave with a completely different in life. So it's it's huge changes. Everything and I think the best way to demonstrate that as they're a little bit of my own story I can give snippets of it and you can always ask more if you want but I was the opposite of how you see me now so very shy very afraid. I had no money. I come from very little money My family you know just kind of scraping by as a kid I also come. I'm from pretty severe trauma sexual abuse from like three years old all the way through so it got to a point where I couldn't even be in the same room room with a man because the smell of a man would send me into trauma slots extreme so I didn't leave my house. I had a chronic illness Where I was in basically fevers every day And I actually started the journey. The Awakening Journey Ernie. Why it's kind of keep going? There's always like layers but one of the moments that have me work with masculinity and with men was when I realized that I was pregnant the boy and I had this moment I remember going to central park and crying and thinking how am I gonNa love a boy right. Men.
Genevieve Howland AKA Mama Natural on Avoiding Sugar for 20 Years
"Welcome to the podcast so great chatting outing with you today. I am so excited to be here with you. Guys thanks for having me our pleasure and it's super exciting because we are eighteen weeks pregnant right now says the very timely family conversation and we've got so much to get into but before we get into the juice the conversation let's talk about before natural so before you he became a natural. You lived a relatively unhealthy lifestyle. You ate junk food. You were overweight. You smoked he drank. Take us back to this time in your life and what was going going on you know for me. Food was kind of my in really in more particular sugar was kind of my drug of choice and so I just got into this pattern where I would use sugar you know go to kind of deal with life basically and so I was just a junk food junkie. I would try to eat healthy or to just not you know indulge but what I found myself. If I took like a bite of one cookie I would wanna have a whole roll of cookies and then a whole box of cookies and it really became addictive pattern. I kind of had like a midlife crisis twenty so this was like right after I graduate from college and I realized I kind of just hit a bottom and I realized I cannot do this myself because it was literally kind of just crushing my spirit right but of course also physically it was so harmful so by God's grace I finally made the connection that I cannot have refined sugar and it started literally unlike January first of nineteen ninety nine. I said you know what with God's help. I'm just not gonNA eat anymore. White refined sugar and it was just one day at a time and you know before I knew it I had a week together and then two weeks a month in six months in a year and now it's been like over twenty years since I have you know picked up. You know refined sugar sugar now. I'm sure I've gone to a restaurant and maybe like an salad dressing or something like that. There was some refined sugar but I've not intentionally gone out and eaten that for that long which which is a miracle but what I found was once you know. The sugar was lifted head then. I really didn't crave at that much. You know what I'm saying so so much of it was just getting eating clean of it and then I really didn't have the cravings because a lot of people here then they're like oh my gosh. I could never do that but once you just live without it for so long. It doesn't even come into your your consciousness. It's almost like dog food to me so yeah so once I got rid of sugar the weight just kind of fell off because I was very young and it was like I had a good metabolism as I was sabotaging issue myself with these binges of just sugar and fast acting carbs and then kind of just rippled into other areas of my life because then I started looking at okay why when I might cleaning I bath tub does my lungs hurt you know and I realized Oh my gosh is this bleach. That's in this product and maybe this isn't good for me and I started kind of clean up on my household supplies make makeup and then of course my Food Cup getting cleaner and cleaner and it just really became a lifestyle and then when I got pregnant. They was huge opportunity to think okay. How do I WANNA show up to this. Because in our culture it is a very medical is system and very much like you go to hospital you work with the doctor you know and a lot of cases you do end up up with some interventions and I was like you know. Could there be a different way and I would love to have it just be more natural and not so just invasive and medical allies and that kind of started me on the whole journey of natural so as you're going through this transition and you're cleaning things up. Are you learning from other people. Are there certain blogs that are inspiring inspiring you or books or documentaries. What does that look like well with the food thing. I mean this is back in one thousand nine hundred ninety nine so there wasn't even really like the Internet was not what what it is today so I kind of just plugging along and I found different support groups and and people that talked about not eating sugar and then there's other people are saying don't eat flour because that also can be really addictive and that kind of informed my early years in terms of food and then I remember stumbling upon the western a price book nursing traditions and that was probably gosh no two thousand and three so before you know it. I'm like driving out to these farms to our south of where I live so I pick up eggs and dairy Syrian meats and stuff like that people thought I was literally nuts okay because no one was doing that. You know at that time but that book was a huge revelation for me. In terms of just food quality and just I think a big pattern that I got into with the Sugar Jane was I would then I would binge feel terrible by myself and then I got a diet gotta like purged this exercise through just is restricting my food so try to eat like fat free Lean Lean Lane. You know not enough calories really and it was almost like I would set myself up to one eat you you know and to binge so that was such a revelation to read Sally Founds Book because it just helped me realize oh my gosh I'm not nourishing myself and so it gave me permission to eat real food food and fat and proteins and just well balanced meals so I'm incredibly grateful for that early introduction to that book and then when it came to being pregnant it was join the business of being born that such powerful documentary. It's such an awesome like visual way of just kind of learning about the medical system in the way birth is so institutionalized allies and that was my huge I opener that really got me down this path of like okay. I want to try to go natural and how did the name Mama natural come to be. You know it's funny. We actually started as Earth Mama ATV because we are on Youtube. We start as youtubers. I never had a website. I never had any like formal. Presence was more on youtube so we started doing videos there than we started a facebook page and we actually got shut down by a company that was like had a similar name so like. Oh we better change her name and then we're like okay. We gotta come up with a name that we could like trademark mark so that we don't get into this situation again and we wanted like a short. Url So we just brainstormed and went on to go daddy and put a million different names in there and Mama. The national is available right. Okay that works in so that's kind of how that came to
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Beating Procrastination, Sand Science (w/ Vince Beiser)
"Today. You'll learn a trick for actually using your vacation days, even when you're super busy and the science behind white darkness is actually faster than the speed of light will also learn about the hidden science of sand in a clip from the most popular interview eve done in the last year. Let's satisfy some curiosity in you manage to get away from the office this summer because it's healthy to take a vacation from work. Don't feel like you missed your chance though, because we've got some advice from a time management. Coach might help you use up those days and stay sane at work. I like it. Yes. I feel like I need to take this advice. I feel like you do too. Ashley not that. I don't like seeing you around the office. In two thousand seventeen fifty two percent of American workers with paid vacation days left, some of them unused that added up to a whopping seven hundred and five million unused vacation days overall or two million years, which is about how long it's been since humans appeared on earth and working too much has been linked with heart problems, mental health issues and a decrease in work quality in general. But a recent study by glass door found that worries about job security are the main reasons people don't take vacations, so what can you do in an article for Harvard Business Review business owner and time management? Coach. Elizabeth grace Saunders advocates something that's brilliant in its simplicity micro vacations. That's when you get out of the office, but you use a day or less vacation time. And even just one day comes with a lot of benefits you won't have to find a replacement to handle your work, you won't come back to a mountain of emails, and you can do a micro vacation once every couple of weeks. Nobody said you can only go on one big vacation every year. Year you might want to avoid taking a Monday micro vacations since a lot of people send important emails on Mondays. And you don't wanna come back to his billions messages in your inbox. But how does the three day weekends out? Take off a Friday once in a while. And another big thing is that micro vacations can be free. You don't have to spend time making a vacation itinerary or spend money on plane tickets if your job allows it you could even take a half day to take a long lunch with a friend or catch a met navy movie. You've been wanting to see whatever you do. Don't lose your vacation days. You need a vacation. Trust us. The best employees is take the most vacation days. That's true. You keep saying that to be. I don't understand why. Oh, I'm not gonna say anything. Sinned is one of the most important materials in human civilization and were running out of it. If you don't believe me, that's okay. We've got an expert who might be able to convince you we recently had the chance to talk to Vince buys her author of the world in a grain the story of sand. And how it transformed civilization? Here's what he told us. So we consume more sand than any other natural resource in the world except for water and air. That's how important it is. I mean, I say in the book, it's the literal foundation of modern civilization. And that's that's no exaggeration. Because as you say, it's I mean, you toss off concrete and glass, but really if you stop and think about concrete and glass, that's basically what our cities are completely made of every shopping mall apartment block every building in the modern world that gets built is made out of concrete, and that's an enormous amount. So we use about all in. We are using about fifty billion tons. Of sand every year that's about that's enough to cover the entire state of California about two inches deep every single year. That's quite a bit. That's quite a bit. I've got a giant world map on my wall imbed room and right in the middle. So you know, what's there? It's africa. And right in the northern part Africa. There's a big old desert. So how can there be a shortage? If the Sahara exists that's a really good question. The answer is because that desert sand is basically useless to us, and the reason for that is it the greens or the wrong shape. So desert sand has been eroded by wind over thousands or millions of years tumbling, and tumbling and tumbling and tumbling and that has made those grains, kind of rounded as opposed to the kind of sand that you find in river beds or lake beds. Flood plains even the bottom of the ocean. That sand tends to be more more angular. It's got a lot more angles and corners to it. So it locks together the way the. You needed to form a stable structure? So the thing that we use San by far the most thing that we stand for the most is concrete and to make concrete you need those same greens to lock together and desert sand just is to round to do that. It's like the difference between trying to build something out of a stack of marbles as opposed to building something out of a stack of little tiny bricks, so all that desert sand, totally useless. He's nudie curiosity. You might not know that when we first launched our podcast a weekly show where we interviewed scientists and authors from around the world will back by popular demand. We've been producing brand new feature length podcast interviews for our supporters on our patriotic page before we get to our last story. I want to give a special shout out to some of our patrons. Thank you Genevieve Moffitt Cambronne and day used Banco for supporting our show on patriot. We really appreciate it. If you love our show and you want to support curiosity daily than visit patriot dot com slash curiosity dot com all spelled out any amount helps and we try to give back. Offering cool incentives like bonus episodes, uncut interviews and fun conversations on dischord one more time. That's patriot dot com slash curiosity dot com. Eight one to no it's faster than the speed of light the speed of dark. No, really. It's a thing. That's how fun little physics lesson. And we'll preface this by saying, please don't get mad at us. We promise it's true. Even if it's kind of hard to wrap your head around. Yes. This is the second time we run this article. And we got a lot of emails about it before. And I have done my due diligence. This is absolutely for. Sure. True. All right. Here's how it works. Even though nothing can move faster than the speed of light shadows can still move faster than the speed of light a mentioned, you have a light that's powerful enough to reach the planet Jupiter. Okay. Got that. Now, imagine that it casts to be mccone that's broad enough to cover the entire diameter of the planet. When you pass your finger over that light, the shadow will cross the entire diameter of the planet. That's a distance of more than eighty six thousand miles. The speed of light is one hundred eighty six thousand miles per second. So if it takes less than half a second to move your hand that distance. Then that shadow will have broken the speed of light. Remember how he said that nothing can move faster than the speed of light. Well, that's the key shadows are nothing. A shadow is a not thing shadows are the absence of something specifically photons or particles of light since there's nothing that's actually traveling the distance thing that's moving is an area. Where photons aren't there's no information that's being transmitted faster than light only a blockage or lack of information. That means you're interplanetary shadow puppet. Show doesn't break any physical was which means we're right? And we hope you're not upset with us for this brain teaser. But we promise it's true another way to think about it is that the shadow only has the illusion of moving is actually the region that has light and has no light that is changing. Right. So it's not physically moving across the planet. Right. It just looks like it is right. You love this article. But you kind of hate it too. Oh, yeah. The love hate relationship.