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Black N' Gold Hockey Podcast
"gayle" Discussed on Black N' Gold Hockey Podcast
"We gave away an Andy morgue, hand sign Jersey, last month for November. And this month is the Derek Sanderson Jersey. And the winner is I don't remember her last name, but I remember her on Twitter, her name is Michelle, my bell, and she's a fantastic boss of ruins fan. She's been a financial supporter for a while. I think she is even gracious enough to give us $5 for each episode. Way above and beyond the $1 of that, I asked for. But congratulations, Michelle. I will do my best to get these out to you. Patreon giveaways have been busy lately. I have not I haven't been up to deliver these yet, but they will be out soon, just been trying to find some time to get everything traveling to work and blah blah blah. So folks, please be patient. You're going to get your jerseys. I promise you. I promise you. But we do thank everybody for the financial support. I also want to give a shout out to everybody that has watched this program and also retweets a lot of black and gold hockey productions content, whether it be this live stream, our podcast or any of the writers on our team. We really appreciate all that stuff. Yeah, moving our content forward is huge. But with that being said, Gayle, I want to wish everybody happy holidays, Merry Christmas. However you want to say it, happy Hanukkah, whatever. But like I said earlier, just out the program. If you do go
Black N' Gold Hockey Podcast
"gayle" Discussed on Black N' Gold Hockey Podcast
"We gave away an Andy morgue, hand sign Jersey, last month for November. And this month is the Derek Sanderson Jersey. And the winner is I don't remember her last name, but I remember her on Twitter, her name is Michelle, my bell, and she's a fantastic boss of ruins fan. She's been a financial supporter for a while. I think she is even gracious enough to give us $5 for each episode. Way above and beyond the $1 of that, I asked for. But congratulations, Michelle. I will do my best to get these out to you. Patreon giveaways have been busy lately. I have not I haven't been up to deliver these yet, but they will be out soon, just been trying to find some time to get everything traveling to work and blah blah blah. So folks, please be patient. You're going to get your jerseys. I promise you. I promise you. But we do thank everybody for the financial support. I also want to give a shout out to everybody that has watched this program and also retweets a lot of black and gold hockey productions content, whether it be this live stream, our podcast or any of the writers on our team. We really appreciate all that stuff. Yeah, moving our content forward is huge. But with that being said, Gayle, I want to wish everybody happy holidays, Merry Christmas. However you want to say it, happy Hanukkah, whatever. But like I said earlier, just out the program. If you do go
Black N' Gold Hockey Podcast
"gayle" Discussed on Black N' Gold Hockey Podcast
"With you, I really don't know about his role. He is on his the last year of his entry level contract. And I think they might resign them. I'm not totally sure. But I really don't see him being a study NHL just quite yet. Obviously it's going to depend on departures next season. If Craig smith's gone, that opens up the door. But does that also open up a door for a guy like Fabian lysol, which we're going to talk about a little later on. So there's plenty of things to talk about. And Blaine Blaine also says he sees sniper capabilities in him, not sure if I agree with that Blaine. He's a good player. He does have a good shot and so on, but he's just, it just seems like he's playing a different role in my opinion. I don't see the sniper at all. I honestly follow the Providence brunes through you and Jim. So I don't get to see his play as much. But the coverage that you and Jim give us definitely is top notch. In terms of being able to know about the prospects, when he did play in Boston. Again, I'm not him learning and different stuff like that. Where does he fit to your point? Right now you have Greer and Smith that are coming in and out in and out and out. You can't do that to him if you're wanting him to learn. He needs to stay down there and get the playing time. That's my, I've always felt that way. I'd rather have the younger guys that are still learning, getting the minutes down in Providence than riding the press box up in Boston. Great segue into something that I wanted to discuss anyway, Gayle was those plays down in Providence that are seemingly earning that time. Those prospects that you want to have trust in them and give those NHL opportunities first.
Black N' Gold Hockey Podcast
"gayle" Discussed on Black N' Gold Hockey Podcast
"With you, I really don't know about his role. He is on his the last year of his entry level contract. And I think they might resign them. I'm not totally sure. But I really don't see him being a study NHL just quite yet. Obviously it's going to depend on departures next season. If Craig smith's gone, that opens up the door. But does that also open up a door for a guy like Fabian lysol, which we're going to talk about a little later on. So there's plenty of things to talk about. And Blaine Blaine also says he sees sniper capabilities in him, not sure if I agree with that Blaine. He's a good player. He does have a good shot and so on, but he's just, it just seems like he's playing a different role in my opinion. I don't see the sniper at all. I honestly follow the Providence brunes through you and Jim. So I don't get to see his play as much. But the coverage that you and Jim give us definitely is top notch. In terms of being able to know about the prospects, when he did play in Boston. Again, I'm not him learning and different stuff like that. Where does he fit to your point? Right now you have Greer and Smith that are coming in and out in and out and out. You can't do that to him if you're wanting him to learn. He needs to stay down there and get the playing time. That's my, I've always felt that way. I'd rather have the younger guys that are still learning, getting the minutes down in Providence than riding the press box up in Boston. Great segue into something that I wanted to discuss anyway, Gayle was those plays down in Providence that are seemingly earning that time. Those prospects that you want to have trust in them and give those NHL opportunities first.
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"gayle" Discussed on Black N' Gold Hockey Podcast
"We certainly appreciate the interaction. That's what we're here for. Yes, happy holidays, by the way, Theresa, hopefully you and your family are safe and celebrating appropriately. But yeah, anybody else that's in the chat or wants to participate, please type away. We have things that we can definitely talk about. The world juniors, Jacob Ross pass and act contract extension, we got so many things that we can discuss, but we're here for you guys. This is a Christmas Eve special black and gold style. So Gayle triana is with us. Please follow her at lady bruins fan on the tweet machine. I'm sure she would love that. She's a fantastic Boston everyone's writer for us that black and gold hockey dot com and also does fantastic work with the alumni and a really good article. I know it was coming out about Chris bork. So I'm really looking forward to that. But anyway, why don't we just start a discussion with David pastime act? How do we feel about his game in his stock value that seems to be getting higher and higher? Every time this guy hits the ice, he's got 24 goals, 23 assists 47 points in 33 games. He's almost 50 points in under 50 games. Absolutely crazy. And he's on an 11 game point streak. How much of this great play from David pastime?
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"gayle" Discussed on Black N' Gold Hockey Podcast
"We certainly appreciate the interaction. That's what we're here for. Yes, happy holidays, by the way, Theresa, hopefully you and your family are safe and celebrating appropriately. But yeah, anybody else that's in the chat or wants to participate, please type away. We have things that we can definitely talk about. The world juniors, Jacob Ross pass and act contract extension, we got so many things that we can discuss, but we're here for you guys. This is a Christmas Eve special black and gold style. So Gayle triana is with us. Please follow her at lady bruins fan on the tweet machine. I'm sure she would love that. She's a fantastic Boston everyone's writer for us that black and gold hockey dot com and also does fantastic work with the alumni and a really good article. I know it was coming out about Chris bork. So I'm really looking forward to that. But anyway, why don't we just start a discussion with David pastime act? How do we feel about his game in his stock value that seems to be getting higher and higher? Every time this guy hits the ice, he's got 24 goals, 23 assists 47 points in 33 games. He's almost 50 points in under 50 games. Absolutely crazy. And he's on an 11 game point streak. How much of this great play from David pastime?
Life Transformation Radio
"gayle" Discussed on Life Transformation Radio
"That one will drive a person crazy. If you're always paranoid that your spouse is texting somebody else, you'll lose your shit. I don't know if I can inspire you. Yeah, we've already talked about stuff. But it's funny. Is that the texting part? Tony can look at my phone anytime she can see anything she wants. I have nothing to hide. And she knows it, and she's made it very clear to look at her phone. She's never looked at my phone. I don't look at her phone. I don't need to look at her phone. I just don't. Yeah, 'cause you know. You can trust her. I do trust her. And it makes for a really solid relationship. But I wanted to share that part about the fact how judgmental. And I know, and I think it's fun to me this conversation is that this conversation will trigger some of my listeners of the listeners of the show. I know it well. And I hope it triggers them in a way that they will reflect deep in themselves and see how they're living their life. And if maybe they want to live their life a little different. And look, people that are in monogamous relationships are monogamous. And they're good. And people that are in non monogamous, and they're good. And people that are in poly are good. And just because someone else is doing something, you don't need to discount or project or think poorly of them. They are living their extraordinary life, and it's their life, and they're living the life that they want to live. Yeah. I agree. On triggers, I always say, never waste a trigger. It's there for you to help you if you just allow it to. So yeah, never wasted. All right, so let's dive into that a little bit real quick. So someone's triggered and they're going to listen to this show and well, let's just do this. The couple that I was talking about, they're both having affairs, which that's another story. It really much obsessed me. One, that they're hypocritical for one. And two, I didn't think that they were, I was kind of shocked at the way that that is. So if they're both having affairs, apparently they would like to expand their marriage, how would one go about that with a conversation with you and I would imagine their marriage has to be really strong in order to do that because it could be just on the way out. You don't just want to flip a switch. Well, yeah. I mean, opening up your relationship to try and fix a marriage isn't always recommended. You know, I mean there's certain things, you know, it has to be both people need to really be on board for it to happen. And so when somebody comes to me, we're going to get down to authentically what do both of you want. Or if it's just one person that's coming to me, really peeling back those layers of, well, what do you want? Do you want to do this? Or do you not want to do this? How do you want to live your life? What feels good to you? And the way you want to be in this world. Because you have to find you first. Then you can choose from there what you really feel. Because you have to peel back those belief systems that are piled on us from the beginning from young, young, young, childhood, to really decide what do you want to believe? Because, you know, like you said, monogamy is a sacred path. Polyamory is the sacred sacred path. You know, it's as long as there are two things and you're giving it your all. Don't be part way in. Because if your part way in, it's not going to go. Anywhere. So if you're going to be monogamous be full in. It's a beautiful path. There is nothing wrong with it. But if you're going to open your relationship and be full in. Communicate with each other. And when I say never waste a trigger, that means that you have to really be aware when something triggers you to stop for a moment and figure out why it's triggering you. Not just, it triggered me so I'm going to be mad and yell at everybody, but like, okay, why is this? Is it a belief system? Is that my, do I need to change the way I'm thinking about something? You know, there's so many things that you can start going through, but you become the observer, right? You take back and you become the observer of what's going on in that moment and in your life. So that then you can transmute that into something beautiful rather than just a space of fear and anger. Well, I think you're a beautiful person. I'm glad you're in my life. I love that you're my friend. And I really am thrilled that you took time out to be on the show today, Gail. I really, that was fun, and I'm like, wow, we covered a lot of stuff. And I learned a lot. And I know the listeners learned a lot today. So thank you so much. Oh, you're welcome. Thank you for having me. Absolutely. Now, how does one reach you because I'm sure we might have triggered a few people and a few people were like, hey, we need to have a conversation. Conversation. So you can find me. I have a website relationships evolving dot com. So you can find me on there. I'm also on Facebook relationships evolving with Gail in. I do have, I started a women's group that's called relationships evolving, but it's for women. It's women supporting women. So on any kind of relationship topic, and you can reach me at four 8 zero 5 5 9 9 8 three three, or you can email me at Gail. At relationships evolving dot com. I've never had anybody give out a phone number. That's amazing. I've done over 500 50 shows. I've never had a phone number, get out. That's awesome. I love it. Okay. Thanks for being here today. And thank you so much for your support and taking the time out of your busy and precious day to listen. So appreciate it. Thank you for allowing me along my very special guest, Galen, to touch your heart, move your soul, inspire you to live a life of authenticity and transformation. I'm rob actus until next time. This is life, transformation radio. Download, complete.
Life Transformation Radio
"gayle" Discussed on Life Transformation Radio
"These things happen. But that's why I am out here and I'm on podcasts because I really believe that, you know, let's have these open honest communication rather than trying to hide. What are natural feelings? You know? I think it's great. I think it's great. So I'm going to shut up and then you tell me more. So he came to you and you cried and you hit the pillow and then you like got inwards, had really in depth conversations, which strengthen your relationship, which is such a beautiful thing. Yeah. And then we started to get into things like doing orgasmic meditation. You know, just spicing up the bedroom with some role play, you know, that could a whipped cream and berries came out, you know, all the kind of the things that you can do to amp up just the intimacy between us. You know, and that still that desire was still there for him. So he had to voice it to me again. Because I think there was a little bit of peace of me as if I could just be good enough in the bedroom, maybe he won't want to have sex with somebody else. That was the old me. I know better now. But yeah, so we had to look at that again. And so when we did, we actually decided to, I mean, we even took our rings off and we said, okay, let's figure this out. We're going to move into a different direction. And so what we did is we actually did some sacred sexuality. And so within that, it was like a four day workshop. And no, sacred sexuality, that's tantra. Well, this one was for osha. So it was similar. It's going to have the same aspects, a lot of the same. For sure. I want to make sure that everybody's falling along 'cause I, you know, you think that you think everybody knows and a lot of people don't. Well, in town Trump can mean so many different things too. So but this was dealing with definitely that sacred part is sexuality. And what was me as it gave us this great playground to be in where we could choose to be with other partners and do these different exercises with our clothes off, we're not having sex, mind you, okay, people don't freak out. But we're having these incidents. They're already freaking out. They're already freaking out. Having these intimate exercises and I can see him across the room and he can see me across the room. So we're talking, okay, we just put ourselves in a pressure cooker because now we're actually seeing each other. So it's not like we decided to do that so you go on your date and you go on your date and we can't see each other like we could see each other. Which was powerful. And really allowed us to get even deeper because through this workshop, there's a lot of self development, a lot of, I mean, even teaching about sexual topics that our parents never talked to. I mean, like it was the best sex education I'd ever had in my life. That's awesome. You know? And by the time we were done with those with those four days, we looked at each other and we kind of had a ceremony between us and gave each other permission to see other people. And just realize we really are autonomous beings. And so then the journey began. More communicate lots of communication. Lots of communication circles might do. And that's where sometimes it got messy. And we figured it out and we navigated it and that's why I do what I do today is because I went through the process. I navigated it all. I navigated what is it like to be steeped in religion and have those beliefs and then move in this direction? What is it like to feel happy that your partner is actually happy with somebody else? What does that feel like? So all this stuff starts coming up. But sometimes it also comes up in jealousy or like they're starting to get close to somebody or, you know, and so you have moments and stuff. And so that's why I do what I do today is because I understand it. I've been there. I lived it. I still operate that way in non monogamy. And I love to walk people through it. That's beautiful. Because I want everybody to really have their most joyous life. And relationships are one of the most pivotal ways we get to know ourselves. Because we're mirrors for each other. And when we can do that and really look at it from that point of view, rather than just, oh, we got married. We own me. You got to take care of me for the rest of the life. And this is the way it needs to be. No, it's really a tool for understanding and knowing myself. It's interesting the stigma that an open marriage has with people. A couple of weeks ago, Donny and I are with another couple. And they've admitted to us individually, I hope they're not listening because they might be, I don't know. Oh, crap. But they both admitted, I must say the name, but they both admitted that they're each having affairs. Which was fascinating to us, so they both admitted. And here's the most interesting part of this conversation. So they don't know, apparently they don't realize that her husband and wife and we share everything because we don't have really secrets between each other. So I know and she knows, and we don't acknowledge it in there. So the conversation went like this, they discovered that some friends of ours are an open marriage and they went to this resort in Mexico or whatever and it was a lifestyle resort. And they had made the decision that they were going to open their marriage. They have they were solid. They were an open their marriage. And I found it fascinating, these people, the husband and the wife, our Friends, that are both having affairs, were so judge mental. Of the fact that they had opened their marriage and the things that they were saying. That is so wrong. And we're sitting there looking at them and they are both having affairs. Yeah. They want it. They're just projecting what they want through their judgment, onto somebody else. Yeah, and I said, I said, well, you know, I think it's much better and more authentic and more ethical to have an open marriage than it is to cheat. And they both said in synchronous, well, I would never cheat. And it's a safe time. They're gonna know. They're gonna know, oh my God, well, you know what? Maybe that's a pivotal thing moment, but I just, we laughed, we thought it was hilarious. This is just sharing experiences and stories, right? We don't need to know who they are, but these stories are so important for everybody to hear because it allows us now to make new decisions and make new choices. Like, oh, I don't want to live that way. Like you said, in the very beginning, that whole texting thing on the phone.
Life Transformation Radio
"gayle" Discussed on Life Transformation Radio
"A little bit about my story. You ready? You want to hear a little bit? I do. Here it goes. Okay. Here we go. Stand by. Here we go. One day, so this is like my hero's journey, okay? And for any of you that are out there that don't understand what a hero's journey is, is it's Joseph Campbell's work and it's basically every movie, books you read. It's all follows the same path. Well, our lives follow the same path. This is what happens to everybody. This is the game on earth that we're playing. And the game I have and the game I have is ADHD and I interrupted you a couple of times and jumped in and I didn't finish so let's just go over so we have polyamory. Let's go over so they have so they have a little bit of a road map of what's going on. So we talked about polyamory. The next one would be ethical non monogamy, non monogamy. Right. So what's that? So ethical non monogamy is just what it sounds like. You're being ethical and you're not monogamy, right? So basically you're creating some kind of open relationship between you where there's agreements and boundaries that are set forth between everybody that's involved. So that when you go out and play that, you know, everybody feels good about it. And there are some people who are just like, you know, don't have boundaries. But I think it's always good, especially for somebody new, you know, just really having understanding like even down to safe sexual practices. Wearing condoms are not wearing condoms. Like, what are you going to agree to so that you guys still feel safe and strong in your primary relationship? And so that would be, you know, ethical ethical is the key is being honest and open and truthful. If something happens and it went against a boundary, you come back and you tell them, you don't hide it. That's the ethical part, which does create a lot more communication, which is a beautiful thing. And sometimes for. These kinds of relationships, you know, people can get a little bit stuck in communication circles. And so that's another thing that I really work with people as to how to effectively communicate. So you're hearing what everybody's saying, feelings and needs are being expressed appropriately without moralistic judgments. And so it actually becomes a very beautiful thing. People who are non monogamous and function in that way tend to have much better communication than people who are monogamous because a lot more things slide. Yeah. And then they're swinging. So we have polyamorous. We have open non monogamous and then the definition of swinging. So in all of these kind of opening it up, you can end up doing any of these, right? So swinging is going to be more so when you and your partner are going to go and do maybe some swapping. Some full on swaps, wife has been possibly maybe just bringing another person into the bedroom. But you're pretty much doing it together. And experiencing that together. So it sounds like swinging is more of a sexual thing, the open. Non monogamous kind of is like the sexual and so would open non monogamous be like a little bit of swinging a little bit of polyamory because it's just kind of a mixture of it all. And it seems like the swinging is more of just the sex part. Yeah, that's pretty much it. Okay. People aren't wanting to have a lot of emotional attachments, you know, they just want to explore sexually, have fun, get to know other people. That kind of atmosphere is created. You know, sometimes emotions come along with it, but typically a stays out, because it's more of a purpose of it. All right, Gayle, it's time for your hero's journey. Okay. We want to peel back the we want to peel back the onion. 'cause I've done all of those. Okay, so yeah, so hero's journey, right? So a hero's journey does when something comes into your life upsets the Apple cart, you end up having to go out on a journey to start slaying some dragons and they're usually some kind of dragons within. Not the ones that are real. But your own internal dragons. And once you can get to that point and discover how you've transformed through this process, then you get to bring it back to your community. Okay. So that's what happened to me. My apple cart was upset. When my husband came to me and wanted to have sex with somebody else. And I wasn't expecting it. It just kind of came out. How long were you? How long were you married? How long were you married? We were together for had known each other and together for 28 years. Okay. Okay. And he had never had sex with anybody else. Never. Okay. Okay. So his curiosity was piqued and life in the bedroom wasn't that great because I was in mama bird mode and business mode and taking care of the kiddos and making sure everybody's good, making sure the business is running. And I was exhausted, right? So there's a combination of things that were going on. And he's kind of stressed too, and he deals with stress by having worse sex. So you can see we kind of hit this kind of mismatched space in our life. And so, you know, when he came to me, boy, did it rock my world. It hit me, and this is what happens when you start bringing these conversations up. And this is why it's important to really find your authentic self and what you want out of this. Because my self worth issues went through the roof, like I'm not good enough, why don't you want me anymore? I do this this and this for you. And then even went down to I could feel it. It's the safety and security. Right? Like my safety and security, my nest might not be here because now you want to go have sex with somebody else. I don't know what that means. Because we didn't know what that meant. We had no idea about these other styles of relationships. And so when we were able to actually take a breath after I went cried and screamed in the closet, right? You know, we took a step back and then, you know, the communication started. And really, we brought back into our bedroom, our intimacy. And we started doing that just to because we saw where we were kind of off and a little bit mismatched and so we started out because this is something that I would always advise taking very slow. It's not something you just, oh, you want to have sex with somebody. Okay, let's go out and do it. You can. Boy, there's some landmines there if you do. So just be aware. So anyway. So what I love about this is that just you weren't even in a, how I don't want to say, I don't want to say alternate. I'm going to say non traditional lifestyle. I just want to say non traditional. That's a good way to say it. But I love it. The fact, just by you breaching the conversation or broaching the conversation, it opened the door to massive communication and actually it actually had you go inwards and what a beautiful thing. It was absolutely a beautiful thing. Okay, I'm going to show up. I want to hear more. I want to hear more. Okay, go ahead. I think just fascinating. Wow. Okay. So another thing is, and I want to acknowledge your husband also because I think in a monogamous relationship, and this is kudos to you for your relationship. The strength of your relationship is that he trusted you so much instead of him just doing the typical thing that a lot of people would do. Male and female is go out and cheat, which I do not condone in any way, shape or form. I've been cheated on. It hurts. It's not the sex. And the thing about cheating as I get into my soapbox real quick is it could take years if not decades, the effects of cheating. It is, it is a terrible, terrible thing for someone to have to experience cheating. And it's wrong. It is. And it's an experience, okay? We're here for you. Exactly.
Life Transformation Radio
"gayle" Discussed on Life Transformation Radio
"And so that's where you have this vicarious joy that you can actually see your partner is really enjoying themselves. And it could be a sexual situation or just in life in general, that you can actually be happy that they are enjoying their lives. And for everybody to jump in. This is so crazy. So I have a beautiful wife. She's amazing. She's just has energy that just people just want to be around. And men and women both like to hug her. And I love that people love on my wife. I love that. And they want to be around her. They want to talk to her. And whether it's a male or female. And I really, I guess that's what it is. Conversion because I do get great pleasure when I see people like really wanting to engage with her. And because she likes that and so I guess that's what it is. But yeah, I don't it's a beautiful space to be in. And, you know, when somebody is dealing with a lot of jealousy because obviously there's a lot of jealousy that can come up, especially in these situations. You know, there's such a fear around it. And who wants to function that way all the time? And so, you know, the jealousy, you know, we have to begin because jealousy isn't about the sex. It's about the self. Not at all. Absolutely. Absolutely. And so when you can take it into the self and then you can actually have, I like it. I've heard the term coined before a relationship for truth. So really being able to say, okay, in this moment, I'm feeling this. I'm having jealous feelings come up. And then you can actually communicate about them. The communication right there is going to calm the jealousy down. And then you go a deeper level to find out, okay, what is it that's causing the jealousy? Is it some belief system that I own that person? Because that's, you know, that's kind of what we think, you know, when we get married, we own that person. Absolutely, okay. And they're not. There are a ton of beings. Exactly. Well, that's a couple things. So it's so funny to me because my wife, Tanya, is going on a cruise next week. She's going to be gone for 8 days on a cruise. And I'm not going. I wasn't able to, I have other obligations that I have to take care of business, and I wasn't able to go. And so now she's going to go by herself. She's going to be a solo cruiser. I don't think she's going to be by herself at all. She's incredibly social, incredibly beautiful. And she's going to have a great time. And she's going to be traveling in beautiful parts of the Caribbean and Mexico. And she's got a great time. And she can she can do whatever she wants to do. And I find it just fascinating how many people in my life that have told that I'm going, she's going on a cruise, they're like, well, how are you letting her go? Why would you let her do that? And I'm like, let her what? That doesn't because it's like, that's ownership. You know? I don't, that doesn't, that doesn't work within my boundaries of how I operate. You know, and then there's the other level is there's like this envy that somebody's getting to do something that I'm not getting to do. So that's kind of another layer of that jealousy sometimes that pops up and so some people are like, well, how could you let her go on a cruise? I want to go with her, you know? So it's like, you know, it's literally another layer. It's funny because the spouses that we know, the wives have like, well, if she could go on a cruise, why can't I go on and so now they're now it's created a little bit of a conversation and some of the couples that we know and that, well, I should be able to go on a cruise and you shouldn't be able to stop me. And I'm like, you don't allow and I'm thrilled. Like I've helped her pick out her, I got her to the hotel for the night and I helped her with picking out some of her excursions and her clothes and it's kind of like an eat pray love experience for her. Something she really wants to do. And I'm like, you go, girl? Go. Yeah. And it's just I mean, why would we want to stop our partners from enjoying themselves? That's what jealousy does. It literally puts and stops things right in their tracks, where people are fighting over it and they can't handle it and then they've got these emotions that come up and they don't know how to process the emotions. And so we get into this like snowball effective things that can start happening. It's a terrible emotion. And I know that people that have been jealous, it almost is like this demon inside you and it makes you think just it's destructive and I know there are ways to work through the jealousy and to not be when you come from abundance and not from a fear of loss and really just honor your partner that your partner is your partner and you have that open communication I think it can be a lot less and I know that some people get jealous. I mean, Tony gets jealous sometimes when I'm up on stage and I get off stage and there's a lot of beautiful women that want to talk to me after I've been on stage, but she's now like whatever, you know, whatever. And so, but I think I have a lot of compassion for people that have jealousy, I am glad that there are people like you to help them navigate through that because I'm sure you work with people that aren't even in different types of relationships, but just I think you like the jealousy expert because that's something that destroys more relationships that I know. Well, it does. And like I said, there's layers to it. So it's like, you might get one peeled back, and then another incident happens. And then you've got to look at it again, because like I said, it's actually a relationship for truth. Are we going to break this down or we're just going to exist in it? Because once we can peel back all those layers and that's where I really guide people to show them what it is that is in that layer where whether it's guilt and shame or whatever it is. So that they can get down to get to the core where the freedom is at. Because that's where freedom is that. That's where we find the conversion. And that's the beautiful space to be in. Yeah, and life is so stressful anyways. That. We have to we have to do the work on ourselves, individually. To get to the point of not having, you know, as an entrepreneur, you're entrepreneur I'm an entrepreneur, and I was talking to my friend Melinda, as entrepreneurs, our cortisol levels are through the roof. And that's not healthy. So I meditate and I was telling her what I do. I mean, I take off my shoes, Donny always has me go step out in the grass and connect with mother earth and really get chill. But I think yeah, I think a lot of relationships are really struggle based on the insecurity of losing their partner or the fact that they own their partner and they don't let their partner thrive. Yeah. Well, yeah, exactly. And it's like, there's a lot of beliefs, right? Okay, so
Life Transformation Radio
"gayle" Discussed on Life Transformation Radio
"I think it's so important that if you're in a relationship and I admire my Friends so much, I have many friends in their own relationships. My very dear friend who I know is listening to this podcast. And she's polyamorous, and she's married. And she has a boyfriend, and they all live together, and they're the most beautiful group of loving humans. I know. I mean, I've tears in my eyes because of the love that they share. And I really want to just acknowledge her publicly is that speaking of authentic self, so she works in a corporate environment and they had a big event. You know, like a dinner party. An event, corporate event. And she brought her family. Her husband, and her boyfriend. And I am just humbled by that authenticity of what she did. And the response was like, wow. It was very empowering to other people and it was very empowering to her and I just, I was really moved by that. I thought that was really, really incredible that she was that authentic in a corporate environment. Well, if you think about it, people are crying for authenticity. Yeah. They have had so many things be covered up, not true, lied to you name it. And so people are really, I think, admiring when people are ready to step out and really be vulnerable and vulnerable enough to be authentic. And so kudos to her for actually taking that step to be able to really be who she wanted to be. Yeah, she's one of my dearest friends. I love her to death. And just to see how she's lived her life and the way that she's so bold. And it's not in your face. She just lives her life. And on Facebook and in person. And it's just, it's such a beautiful thing. I'm truly humbled by her. And I know she's listening. I hope she really gets that. One of the things that I think is interesting is that you know about polyamory and I know about polyamory and the lifestyle and then ethical non monogamy, but I don't think a lot of people don't even know what that is. Can you just kind of give a breakdown of what polyamory is and then what the lifestyle is and then what ethical non monogamy and then we can have a conversation because I honestly don't think that everybody knows what it is. Yeah, I think that would be a great idea. I was just thinking the same thing. So let's start with polyamory because it's easy. You've got poly and amory. So really you got poly means many and every means love. And so for many people, and everybody can do this. Some people think they can't because it's just a belief system that's been programmed into them. But you can love more than one person. At a time. Do you love your children? If you have more than one child, you love them all. You have more than one friend. You love them all. And so you can do the same in a deep intimate sexual relationship. Is be able to create those kind of ways of relating where there is two, three, four people, 7, 8 people involved. You know, it just depends on really what you want, what kind of pod do you want to build within your poly community? And so from there, you know, so that's polyamory. So that's really, and within polyamory, there's also ways you can design that. You can actually have a very committed closed polyamory group where you're not just going out and having sex with everybody. You're like actually committed. These are the only people I'm going to be with. Right. Or it can be an open relationship, right? So an open relationship can apply to anybody who is like in a marriage or a committed relationship where you choose to go ahead and open the relationship and have venture out, have sex with other people, see other people, but typically it's going to come with less emotional involvement. Where in polyamory, there's more of an emotional attachment and an involvement. Yeah, I discovered polyamory right after I got divorced. I didn't know it was a thing. And I matter of fact, I wrote about cuddle parties in my book, the law of action. I was fascinated by that. And just the boundaries and how beautiful counterparties were. And I didn't realize how the polyamory community had really embraced either in Arizona. The cuddle party groups. And it was amazing because I was, I know, but it was a fascinating to me is that here I am, I was divorced and there were all these incredible people incredible women and I loved the conversations and it was amazing because here I was cuddling and non sexual event. However, in a normal non monogamous world, some people might be very uncomfortable with it, but I was like, what they call a puppy pile, we're all just talking, and I was like, this is really fascinating. I am laying on this woman's lap. She's caressing my head and her husband is laying backwards against her and he's okay with it. And I found it really amazing because it was, it was just really beautiful how they allow people to just love. And it can be a non sexual event, and it can also be as simple as just being able to flirt with someone at Starbucks and not have a spouse freak out. Like I have a really interesting thing about me. And I'm one of the few people, there's a certain percentage of the population. I don't get jealous. I don't get jealous. It just doesn't. So it's hard for me to understand how a lot of people get really jealous. And I'm not possessive either. And I just think it's so beautiful how people can connect. And if you're listening to this and you're like, oh, that's just judgy. Think about people that have open relationships, and I'll have you jump in in a minute and talk more about that. But there's no hidden corners in the relationship. You don't have to hide your phone. Like I used to, when I was married, my first marriage, I used to have to hide my phone and I didn't even do anything. I wasn't cheating. I wasn't doing anything, but any time even a bookkeeper or a client that was a woman that said anything at all, it was always mystery of your sleep with her. You're having an affair with her and I'm like, and I'm like, no, and so it's really nice in that you don't have any hidden corners in your relationships and it's very authentic and there's lots and lots of communication and it just relieves a whole lot of stress. Well, that's just it. So what you are talking about, I'm going to point out a couple of different things. So what you were talking about is not having that jealousy. And this world, it's called conversion.
Life Transformation Radio
"gayle" Discussed on Life Transformation Radio
"On the show, my guests are amazing people who are forces for good in the world around them and live a life of transformation. My guest today does just that. Today, my friend Gail and I discuss how to discover your authentic self. So if you want to understand what it means to feel worthy, whole and safe in your true knowing of your authenticity so you can show up authentically and all types of relationships, this is the show for you. And when I talk about all types of relationships, we're talking all the types of relationships. Just want to give a little trigger warning to disclaimer. Today, we're talking about sex. So if that offends you, you know, admit you're boring and tune out now. All right, so Gail in my friend, she's a relationship coach, specialize in a non traditional partnerships. She has a passion to help everyone. They have the relationship they desire, not that society says or religion says or family says, and she empowers her clients to make educated choices about their relationships. She has no agenda. She just wants people to make their own choices, whether it's being monogamous, open, polyamorous, or swinging, or hi, Gail, welcome to life transformation radio. Thank you for that introduction. That was fantastic. It's going to be fun today. It is. You know, it's so I was so excited that one, I'm fascinated by what you do. And there's so many different relationships. So full disclosure, I'm an ordained minister. And I have married a lot of different couples that have a lot of different lifestyles. And it's really fascinating to dive in and learn that the people that are having these, I guess, I don't even think alternative lifestyles. I'm just saying their lifestyle. I think that's a fair thing to say. Are really happy and all I know is that when I was laying on my deathbed a couple times in my life and thinking about, I hope I don't die. The only thing that I was worried about is the people in my life and did I say I love them enough. Did I spend enough quality time with them? Did I relish in all the happy moments I have? And I think people connecting with people is the most important thing in this world over everything else. And so, you know, I think things are changing. And I'm really thrilled to have you on today. So welcome. Well, thank you. I'm very happy to be here. And to have this discussion, whatever it's going to be. I think it's going to be fantastic. Absolutely. And you know, it's interesting because I grew up in San Diego and there's a very big polyamorous community in San Diego. There's an open community. There's a swingers community. I was in radio. I was just around a lot of there's a giant swinger convention back when I was on radio that was in San Diego and a lot of news coverage and you know, I've been around it and it's fascinating to me that a lot of people have no idea even what polyamory is or what ethical non monogamy is. And I think it's an incredible conversation because when people discover it, they're like, wow, I didn't even really know that was a thing. Yeah, there's a lot more out there than we're brought up to be because. From the time we're young. It's always been the man and the woman you find it, you go up the relationship escalator. This is the norm. This is what we're expected. The church teaches us that two people become one. And so there's a lot of belief systems out there from when we're very young that we're programmed. And so a lot of that isn't shown to the possibility. You know that there are different ways of relating in different ways of being, and that really it comes down to being with in the partners involved, whether it's two, three, four, 5, whatever it is, it's up to them to really decide what kind of relationship they desire. Yeah, it's fascinating because there's a TV show on Netflix that's become the number one hit show on Netflix and it's called how to build a sex room. And if you haven't seen it, I highly recommend you go check it out. It's amazing because it's not what you think. It's not. And what Netflix did is they put out a casting call for people that were open about talking about their sexuality and their relationships. And then they flipped the flip the script on them, and then what they did was they put them in this environment where this woman who's a very, very high end interior designer. And just, oh my God, I just want to be your friend. She's just so funny. And just this really cool loving lady and very open about her sexuality and other people's sexuality and she creates these rooms that are not like anything you've ever seen that would be considered a sex room. And in that, there are other relationships. There's a homosexual relationship. Two guys and they have a long distance relationship. So she sets up a webcam in this beautiful high rise and it's just really masculine and takes photos of them. There's a polyamorous couple. There's 7 of them, and she creates this incredible. She called it a cuddle puddle style room and other things. And it's really fascinating to me how things have changed so fast. And I think especially during this pandemic, I think people have either excelled in their relationships and had to become really authentic in who they were because they can't escape their with their spouse all the time or they have decided that what they are doing is not what they want to do and they're exploring their horizons. Oh yes, I would definitely agree. You know, we are definitely in the age of technology and so much information coming at us. You know, like that show and others like it, there's other poly shows on Netflix and so it's becoming more and more where people are realizing that there's other things out there that there is a way to be ethically non monogamous. To have an open relationship and create boundaries and I call them pillars of agreement between your spouse where you can go out and you can enjoy yourself in a different way. And you know, usually that's sexually more often than not, but for some people, it might just be a date or get into some to know somebody a little bit more. You know, it's, again, it's whatever the couples want to choose. It's choosing. That's the important thing. Absolutely. And
AJ Benza: Fame is a Bitch
Jim Carey Is the Only One Making Sense About Will Smith
"Of all people, Jim Carrey. Who normally is an asshole extraordinaire. And so, esoteric, you can't understand a word. He says, Jim Carrey made a hell of a lot of sense the other morning. On CBS with Gayle king. Maybe his STD medication finally been prescribed right. But Jim Carrey had something to say about Will Smith's behavior at the Oscars. He's sitting there with Gail king and he said he was sickened by the standing ovation Will Smith got. This is big guys. This is a guy who's made a $1 billion for Hollywood, a white guy. Talking about the black guy who's made a $1 billion for Hollywood. And Jim Carrey had the balls to say, I'm sickened by the standing ovation. And then this is even better. Hollywood is just spineless and mass. And it really felt like this is a really clear indication that we aren't the cool club anymore. You know what? Jim Carrey is just made the most sense of anybody I've heard from that part of the business in many, many years. He's right. I've been preaching this for years. They ain't the cool club anymore. He also said that Will Smith should have been arrested. But then Gayle king points out, well, Chris Rock declined to file charges. And Jim Carrey said, he didn't want the hassle Gail with so true.
Next Level Worship Podcast
"gayle" Discussed on Next Level Worship Podcast
"I'm speaking for you now. Of these things. But it ended up being, I think it's been what we'd hoped is that somebody else can worry about that. And there's another go to person to fix that. You just you lead us. And I've seen, I don't know. I've seen that joy in you, but I see your joy on Tuesdays. You know, we don't have any of the, okay, we got to fix something. We don't have that. It hasn't been for a while. No, the team has been so effective. It's incredible change. I tend to be the guy that stands off to the side and tries to extract leadership principles and things we can learn and apply to other people. Because then everybody's in a setting that's been there for many years and you've built this culture, the lord has to some of them may be watching that's the pastor in a rural church and Asian country somewhere and you're thinking, well, I don't have a, I don't have a staff like this. What do I do? So I like to try to extract some principles and maybe you can help me with this. But let me point out a couple that I've noticed. I mean, I've seen several leadership principles here that we can all learn from, including me. In our organization that we can apply. There is an undergirding of appreciation. Do you sense that? Everybody watching all the people watching descents that it's not a performance based mentality. And also, did you notice that let me highlight it because he just said, Gayle has said, he's looking for ways to plug people into their gifts. Now, that takes trust in God. Here what I'm going to say. It takes trust in God that God's going to bring you the people that you do need. Even if you don't even know they're all or gifts yet. You may try, but you may not know it all. We don't know it all..
Daily Pop
"gayle" Discussed on Daily Pop
"Oprah issues in between her and her best friend. Y'all and all i can say is earmuffs. Stegman almost call them step by the way this show is going to go off. The rails already had glasses. I like kevin. I'm down to calls deadline steffi stephan. It all went down when besties oprah and gayle where road tripping for oprah daily and the girl talk got real watching. This was the third wheel. I didn't know nobody told me no did likely that would've been tub. Didn't like you then. There wouldn't have lasted because husband's coming boyfriends. Come and go by best friend. Best friends last forever. First of all. I'm just happy equinoxes anymore. Remember back in the day. They used to be devolved when they did this on the show. Touch yeah i was happy there at a an alexis today. What is okay what you put your main your friends ahead of your man. I feel like if you're smart. You do but i i definitely feel like husbands go and friends come and go like i just think it's unequal. It's an equal playing field. Like a mama. I know i did that because she was on camera would have been there. You would hurt us. I love you is what we do. I don't know. I l has got a see. I truly believe that. Gal has a lifetime. Membership oprah winfrey fan club. And she always have that seat. But i think what's really smart is oprah definitely puts her friendship with gail before statement but she also knows her man's
Daily Pop
Oprah Winfrey Picks Between BFF Gayle King & Stedman Graham
"Went down when besties oprah and gayle where road tripping for oprah daily and the girl talk got real watching. This was the third wheel. I didn't know nobody told me no did likely that would've been tub. Didn't like you then. There wouldn't have lasted because husband's coming boyfriends. Come and go by best friend. Best friends last forever. First of all. I'm just happy equinoxes anymore. Remember back in the day. They used to be devolved when they did this on the show. Touch yeah i was happy there at a an alexis today. What is okay what you put your main your friends ahead of your man. I feel like if you're smart. You do but i i definitely feel like husbands go and friends come and go like i just think it's unequal. It's an equal playing field. Like a mama. I know i did that because she was on camera would have been there. You would hurt us. I love you is what we do. I don't know. I l has got a see. I truly believe that. Gal has a lifetime. Membership oprah winfrey fan club. And she always have that seat. But i think what's really smart is oprah definitely puts her friendship with gail before statement but she also knows her man's
KGO 810
"gayle" Discussed on KGO 810
"Gayle King was divorced in 1993. So since 1993 Gayle King has gone on every single vacation Oprah has taken with her partner, Stedman. Every single one. I mean, That seems odd to me. Um, one I think hanky panky is going on. I don't know how many vacations fun vacation. Do you go on where it's not? At least once. I mean, come on. I can't be alone in thinking that But angels calling from San Jose, Okay, July, See here that you see your best friend travels with you all of the time. You and his best friend and your partner or is like a three thing three some type thing. So he's now remarried with his partner. Um, when I had my partner, she had just divorced its first partner, and I took them on with our trips. We were. We are so close when we go to lunch or to parties or get togethers. People think that we're a couple, but absolutely not. I mean, the thing is, husbands or wives or partners will come and go. But the true friends, the ones that are there in your best moments and your worst moment. Why, Why not take them and enjoy Everything that you're enjoying. And if your partner is okay with it. Why not? Yeah. I mean, I get it and thank you. And you're exactly echoing Oprah's thoughts as well. I just You know, every single vacation seems like you know, Oprah's going on amazing vacations like you mentioned bread. I mean, I'm sure she's going on vacation a lot. Every single one. I don't know. I agree with you. I have friends that I have known since I was a kid, and I'm still very, very close with And but I don't think I'm friends with anybody that I would take on every single vacation I took with my husband. I just that just didn't happen for me. Yet you're bringing your kids. On your there. My Children. I can't abandon them. Maybe, you know, but you know you always have somebody until Well, No. Sometimes I take vacations without my Children, okay? And my still supposed to bring my best friend on that vacation? That's odd. I don't know. I mean, I love that girl, King and Oprah so close. Um, Apparently, there's a rumor, according to the 5 10, it's been a rumor for many years that Gayle and Oprah Lesbian Lovers You know, Oprah was the one that got Gail, the CBS job. I don't know anything about anything adding the care of their lesbian lovers or not. I just think it's odd to take your best friend on every single solitary vacation you've been on and what Steadman think I love that's what Steadman's full name. Yeah. Anybody gram gram? Thank you. Sherry. She knows, Okay. I just wanted to give the guy his full name here. Um I'm sure he is fine with it. I mean, I guess it's like if you're going to be with Oprah, you gotta take Oprah and Gayle. They're kind of like a package deal. Well, and you get more of a conversation more of a dynamic two. If you add another voice you do. Yeah. I'm sorry. I'm going down that road. There is no way in hell that that hasn't happened. At least once. I mean, come on. It has happened. At least what? I'm just gonna I'm gonna say it right now. All right? Coming up after the bottom of the hour news. We'll talk about the vaccine mandates. We'll also talk about the fact that look who woke up Attorney General Merrick Garland. Yeah, he's finally standing before America and saying he's going to do something. About Texas about Texas abortion law here here he is making the announcement of what they plan to do, among other things, SP eight conflicts with federal law. By prohibiting federal agencies from exercising their authorities and carrying out their responsibilities under federal laws relating to abortion services. Yeah, it's about time. I mean, they're obviously violating the constitution with this law. I'm wondering if this is what Texas wanted all along. I mean, obviously, if the Justice Department is doing that it's It's going to force the Supreme Court's hand to actually do something about it, which they should have to begin with. But also there's a San Francisco based PR agency. That is saying it will pay for its own employees to leave Texas in order to preserve their own reproductive rights..
The View
"gayle" Discussed on The View
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AP 24 Hour News
R. Kelly Barred Girlfriends From Watching Series on Abuse Allegations, Court Hears
"Szaroleta In New York A woman testifying today, said a controlling R. Kelly barred his live in girlfriend from watching a documentary series that portrayed him as a sexual predator and kept watch over them during an interview with Gayle King Kelly has repeatedly denied accusations he preyed on several alleged victims during a 30
AP 24 Hour News
R. Kelly Barred Girlfriends From Watching Series on Abuse Allegations, Court Hears
"Szaroleta in New York A woman testifying today, said a controlling R. Kelly barred his live in girlfriend from watching a documentary series that portrayed him as a sexual predator and kept watch over them during an interview with Gayle King Kelly has repeatedly denied accusations he preyed on several alleged victims during a 30
Skimm'd from The Couch
Gayle King on Knowing Your Worth
"Gail welcome to the show. All right currently danielle. You guys how're you. Oh it's been a hectic morning all good before we start talking about work and your career. We like to start up these interviews with our quick lightning brown to get warmed up. Quick questions quick answers. You're ready go stay ready ready carly. Let's do it okay. First job on your resume. Fosters brees is a hamburger stand. And i worked behind the counter to hamburger stand in high. Make good hamburger. I don't say i'd make a good hamburger. But i was really good at taking the orders and putting them in the bags. Okay while next question was actually going to be. Do you have a secret hobby or skill. Now you could say it's putting a hamburger into a bad but is there another one. I'm looking for a hobby. I don't actually have a hobby. I don't i don't either. I aspire to have a hobby other than sleep and my skill is. I think i'm a very good eater whether it's fine dining whether it's a dive place. I think i'm a very good eater. That's a great skill to have. I think so too. I'm very proud of that too. I once went on a date guys in a guy said to me. I've never seen a woman order this month did. Did he have a second date. Yeah no absolutely. Do you speak any other languages. Piglet what best describes your work day working nine till blink. It is working nine till blank is good. It is working nine to five. Plus five i would say. Are you an inbox zero person. This is such a great question because the other day i looked at it guys i know i keep saying i'm going to get zero. I've never gotten to zero and it has like two thousand emails cash. Yeah what is the hardest interview. You've done. I would say frank zappa from years ago. It's a one that threw me. Because i asked him you know. His children are named diesel and moon unit. You that and so. I thought it was a very fair question to as you know. Diesel and moon unit. Those are very unusual names as their history there or is there meaning. He goes no their names like gale. Do you have any other questions
The Oprah Winfrey Show: The Podcast
Here's Why Self-Care Is Not Selfish
"We've lined up team of experts to help you make over not only your body but your mind in your spirit as well heading up. Our makeover team showed richardson author of. Take time for your life. Then when cheryl was here she showed us how to start living a more meaningful life by practicing extreme. Self care is what she said and so interesting because even my best friend gayle. Who is you know You know a single mom now saying you know that is just an. That's a foreign concept. The idea of putting yourself first on the list which a lot of the women who wrote to us in emailed us had a lot of trouble with that the number one thing. I think you know the consistent thing was. Isn't that selfish and oprah. Aren't you preaching to people about being selfish. Aren't there enough selfish. People in the world. I think of it as selfish with a capital s. You know the kind of selfish that your spirit if we don't do that all of us as individuals we're in trouble is the culture. I mean we already know that we already see that happening. And so he asked for some people. It is going to be selfish at first. But you know this as well as i do that as you begin to take good care of yourself and your cup gets filled up you naturally then want to be there for others. You wanna serve others annual able to do it and miraculous way. Yes cheryl says This is going to help you a lot. I hope that the next step to making over your life is identifying key and eliminating energy drains. And it's up to you to do that. Nobody can do that for you. She says that creating your best life has more to do with what you remove from your life. Then what you add to your. What we're saying is if you focus on removing things from your life you take the life you're already living and start shaping it up and start looking at what don't i. What don't i need. What thoughts do. I think that i need to let go of and start removing things from your life. I think what happens is your best self in your best life reveals itself as you move away all the stuff the emotional physical and spiritual energy drain.
BBC Weekend
Brazilian Protesters Call for Jair Bolsonaro to Be Impeached
"Brazil, Thousands of protesters have taken to the streets for the fourth weekend in a row. They're calling for the Covid vaccination program to be speeded up and demanding the impeachment of President Jacobo scenario. Gayle McClelland reports. Out bolsonaro. Message in 20 states across Brazil. As the coronavirus death toll in the country passes half a million protesters demand the resignation of the man, they say is to blame President Jair Bolsonaro epitome. We allowed this person to become the president of the Republic and we are seeing the consequences of that today in the absurd number of deaths due to the pandemic. Due to the irresponsible way in which he handled the pandemic in Brazil, Brazil, the president has been famously dismissive of the health crisis opposing masks and social distancing measures. And he's been criticized for slow rollout of vaccines. Only 17% of the population has fully vaccinated with the presidential election looming next year. Mr. Bolsonaro's approval rating is at a record low and he faces investigation in the Senate on charges of corruption. As night fell, skirmishes broke out between protesters and police. Fired tear gas and through flash bangs. Such clashes are likely to persist, putting President Bolsonaro under increasing pressure as the pandemic continues to exact a devastating toll.
Gaydos and Chad
Maricopa County, Arizona Holding Meeting Monday to Refute Audit Allegations
"Capitol. But the public wasn't there. They got an update on the audit. Katya years, Peter say more begins our live team coverage in the news center Becky to Republican State Senate leaders would on Lee Live Stream their meeting in which they asked three leaders for an update of the audit of Maricopa County's 2.1 Million November ballots. Liaison Ken Bennett says the county is refusing to answer questions. As far as China. Custody is the documentation of the chain of custody between when the ballots or boxes in the ballots boxes with mallets in them started. Be filed away in their warehouse on Twitter. America to County responded the On Lee time We moved. The balance was when we loaded them in a truck to deliver to the Senate in early March, then heard the Senate wasn't ready to receive them back in the vault. They went War at six Reporting live Peter Same or Katie Air News. The Arizona on it quickly is turning into a national joke, but one lawmaker says it won't be funny with somebody gets hurt. Katia years. Deborah Gayle joins us live in the news center to explain people saying that they're gonna hurt much less kill public servants. It's gotten out of hand. In an exclusive interview with Katya Rs, Kato's and Chad. Maricopa County Supervisor Clint Hickman says that he and his family have been receiving threats online and at least one of the tweets. Escalated. That man came to my house on a Sunday night with 100. Other people and I had sheriff's office protection because I heard they were coming and they got out of their cars and they came to my house and to me threatened my family where we live. Hickman says That man is threatening to return to his home, and he says he's been getting threats since December. Reporting live. Deborah Jael, Katya our news.
KIRO Radio 97.3 FM
"gayle" Discussed on KIRO Radio 97.3 FM
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News, Traffic and Weather
Gayle King: Prince Harry has started a conversation with his father and brother
"Harry has spoken with his brother, Prince William and father, Prince Charles. Following the Oprah interview. Tom Roberts has details. The CBS host also said no members of the royal family have personally contacted making Marchal since then, King says the conversations between Prince Harry and his family warrant productive, she said. That's because the couple is frustrated. It became a racial conversation about the royal family when their goal from the start was for the palace to intervene and stop the false stories in the press.
Richard Eeds
Prince Harry is speaking to Charles and William after Oprah interview
"CBS host Gayle King says Prince Harry spoke with his brother Prince William, and Father, Prince Charles, following the Oprah interview. But the conversations or not productive, the CBS host adds. There's been no contact between Meghan Markle and the royal family.
PM Tampa Bay with Ryan Gorman
Racism is Rife in the Royal Family
"Deputy editor at OK magazine, Jacqueline Raw to recap Oprah's interview with Prince Harry and Meghan Markle and interview that got a lot of attention last night and has been a big top of conversation all throughout the day today, Jacqueline, Thanks so much for taking a few minutes. To talk to us about this so much to unpack from that interview, But let's start with what you think was the biggest headline. Oh, my God so much, But I think the big headline is that racism is a really big issue within the royal family. I think people don't understand that. You know, the rules only has been around for so long, and they've never had American, let alone You know, a half black American come into this family, and I think that really just turned everything around, and it just makes you feel so many things for me again. You know all this stuff behind the scenes that no one knows anything about and you know she's being treated this way. So crazy that this is happening and no one knew about it. What can you tell us about Meghan Markle before she got involved with Prince Harry and eventually married him when she was just an actress on suits? Was there anything that you heard in Hollywood about her? No. I feel like she was so off the radar like she was such a. You know, She's a big character in this, so but not many people really knew who she was until she started dating Harry. I feel like I remember the date came out and they said Meghan is now dating Harry and I remember everyone saying, Oh, this is the girl on suits, you know? It's crazy, and so on. But he does have a lot of these high profile friends. You know, obviously, yes. Serena Williams now and, um, have Abigail she was on. They were on so together something and they have Gayle King and Oprah like He's obviously been around for a long time. But I just don't think that she was very prevalent. Obviously, if he is now, which is really crazy, and the reason I ask that is because you've got a lot of people wondering First of all, who is this woman? And then is she some Hollywood actress who's prone to a lot of drama? Or is what she's saying? What happened that this is on the royal family? And the palace. I mean to the point where she revealed last night that she was thinking about killing herself. It got so bad that Prince Harry felt he had no choice but to get them out of there. Yeah, I mean, I feel like he I feel like everything that if he was in Hollywood before, but I feel like you know, it wasn't to this certain extent like no eyes were on her as they are now. Our words you know, when she first came into the family, she obviously was living a very much like lower key life. He was like the California girls. She had her own blood called the Pig. She was very, You know, kind of, you know, the boho California vibe like that's what He kind of made herself as and then no one really knew her like I feel like if you walked suits and you, obviously, you know, knew the character, but for the most part, he kind of stayed under the radar, So I feel like it's just Now all eyes are on her. People are just, you know, fasting, her left and right, especially when he came into the family. She's American. You know, Black sees all this stuff like I think he just he couldn't win. No matter how hard he Tried or tried Tol, you know, make nice and say, you know, I am a good person, or I do that all this charity work. I love this stuff. You know, It's just I think it's just became a huge breaking point. At some point. That's why I see You know, wanted to maybe kill herself. I mean, I can't even imagine what it's like waking up and having 100 headlines about you, and they're not good, and you just kind of have to sit back and say, OK, I guess I got to just take it and live my life kind of, but even living it. He said he was in the palace. He couldn't see that he didn't leave for months at a time because They just told her not to, which is so not a way to live and like, they said, with the pandemic now, I think everyone kind of can relate to being trust. At some point. I'm
Bob Sirott
Prince Harry and Meghan Announce They're Having a Baby Girl During Oprah Interview
"And, Dean, Are you a betting that the baby girl's name will be Diana? Or will they name the little girl? Oprah? What do you think? Oh, boy. You know what? I don't even think of that it While they were doing the interview last night, I did think that they have got to name the baby. Revealed that you know that they're gonna have Ah, baby girl that it's got to be Diana, but, you know, really? Never mind. Elizabeth. The real queen of this whole thing is Oprah Winfrey. She did. Awesome job. I mean, it didn't look like it was edited that much. You know, you can tell when they really have to sort of save a few scenes. She listened. She followed up. She was compassionate. I don't know what more you could ask for from an interviewer's, You know, I I agree. I mean, I just think you know that she is The queen of interviewers. You know it was informative. She asked questions that people are wondering about. You followed up when you know they were not. Offering details. She she pushed them just enough to get a little bit of information. From them last night, and I just learned a few minutes ago. They said during the interview that we're it's somebody else's house in the Montecito, California area. Currently was Gayle King's house. He's got a pretty
Naughty But Nice with Rob Shuter
Harry and Meghan Are Begged to Delay Oprah Broadcast While Prince Philip Is Gravely Ill
"The united kingdom. The uk is begging harry and beckoned to postpone the oprah interview as his ninety nine year. Old grandpa is still in hospital. So let me explain prince philip. That's the queen's husband. He's ninety nine years old. He's been in hospital now for a few days. He's being transported to a different hospital in london. That's not a good sign. All of this comes. Of course leading up to harry a meghan. Big towel with oprah. That's going to add on sunday night. God forbid anything happens to philip. We should be realistic here. Without being doom and gloom. He's nineteen nine years old. he's in hospital. We know we know so. Should they postpone. What do you think mistake. They're in a tricky position. Well you know. I love television so first of all. This interview is happening with oprah and it set to air on cbs. This sunday march seven. Now originally it was ninety minutes long. But it's so juicy so good that the network extended it to two hours which means when they have commercials on it. Those thirty second. Ads can cost two hundred thousand charlotte. So there's money on the line here and it's like you said it's tricky prince. Philip makes it through sunday and they allow the show to air and they go back to london. Of course people are going to be incense that they gave this interview. We know we've been teased. That megan is asked if she has been silent about here experience with the royal family or has been silenced. This and there's no holds barred so people are actually asking fans on twitter and social media are seeing to please. Cbs postpone it. But like i said it's all about the money so it's a very very very tricky subject. It isn't it and also we've worked in tv misty. So we know the hosts the people the guests on the show them no power. It's the network that decides even harry and meghan decided that they'd made a mistake. Want to postpone it for a little bit. They've got no say in that. Cbs has scheduled this. That'd be a two hour hole in the schedule more importantly. Cbs would have to give all the advertising money back. Because they're charging a higher rate to advertise on the meghan. And harry and oprah show then they would on the regular show that as their on sunday night oprah has been teasing this gayle king. Her best friend has said. It's the best interview. Oprah has ever done oprah said to meghan. You've said some pretty shocking things here. I don't know with oprah's overplaying this normally. She doesn't or if this is going to be as explosive as we think it is just such a bad time for
ESPN FC
Mbappe Makes Messi Miserable
"Only one place to start the show and that's in spain wearing finished barcelona one. Psg four he was messy opened the scoring imposs- with a penalty for then it was all about killing them by. He backed a hat trick. King on the goalscoring action as well seeing. Psg in complete control of this tight going into the second leg. In france craig. Bapai's imbaba story. The messy messy story was he was on the fringes but not entirely has fought because the supporting cast as a shadow of its former self inova but the only thing that went their way in terms of lock tonight. Psg was the fog to the dutch referee. Could have sent a theresa gayle from full stop for a second bookable offence. He away with now. That's probably why. Portugal took them over off because he got. He made a reckless challenge. Then he made another one. I'm really not sure. How the referee that the second yellow apart. Psg were immense the defendant when heart should the medfield was excellent particularly variety and and bobby stepped up stepped up onto the big stage. I mean they just took bacelona partner. Basically
The KFBK Morning News
Meghan Markle and Prince Harry expecting second child
"My goodness! Is that Oprah's in windbreaker? I believe it is. That is Gayle King. Oprah's BFF, announcing her arrival to the 2018 roll wedding of Prince Harry and Meghan Markle. We're gonna be hearing more from Oprah soon. Fresh off the news that Meghan Markle and Prince Harry are expecting their second child. Oprah is scored a sit down interview with the couple. That will be a new hour and a half long, intimate conversation. That's a long conversation. That's that's about 90 minutes too long for me, right? You're not gonna be tuning it. Okay? If you want you though, CBS and prime time Sunday, May March
WBZ Morning News
Cicely Tyson, iconic and influential actress, dies at 96
"Influential legendary Acclaimed actress Cicely Tyson has died. She was 96. She began her career is a model, then took her beauty and talent and became an acclaimed actress Cicely Tyson appeared in dozens of films and television shows. She was part of the iconic miniseries roots. You have bean a very good point. I want you to know that She often portrayed powerful African American women like Miss Jane Pittman. That was not a coincidence. It was a decision she made and the Jews my career. Of my platform. She won Emmys received an Oscar nomination. And this week she was asked by Gayle King when the time comes, What do you want us to remember about you? I've done my best. Steve Futterman. CBS News. We'll
WBZ Morning News
Cicely Tyson, iconic and influential actress, dies at 96
"And influential, just a couple of words to describe legendary actress Sicily Taison. She has died at the age of 96 began her career is a model, then took her beauty and talent and became an acclaimed actress Cicely Tyson appeared in dozens of films and television shows. She was part of the iconic miniseries roots You have Bean Very good boy. I want you to know that she often portrayed powerful African American women like Miss Jane Pittman. That was not a coincidence. It was a decision. She made the Jews my career. Of my platform. She won Emmys received an Oscar nomination, and this week she was asked by Gayle King when the time comes, What do you want us to remember about you? I've done my bit. Steve Futterman, CBS News A
WBZ Morning News
Cicely Tyson, iconic and influential actress, dies at 96
"Acclaimed actress Sicily Tyson has died. At the age of 96. CBS is Steve Futterman. Looking back at her remarkable career. She began her career is a model, then took her beauty and talent and became an acclaimed actress Cicely Tyson appeared in dozens of films and television shows. She was part of the iconic miniseries Roots. You have bean a very good point. I want you to know that she often portrayed powerful African American women like Miss Jane Pittman. That was not a coincidence. It was a decision she made accused my career. As my platform she won Emmys received an Oscar nomination. And this week she was asked by Gayle King when the time comes, What do you