33 Burst results for "Gaslight"

Joe Biden Gaslights the Media, Only Talks About a Withdraw

The Dan Bongino Show

01:37 min | Last month

Joe Biden Gaslights the Media, Only Talks About a Withdraw

"Fully focused. Fully focused. On the withdrawal withdrawals, not the issue. There was a decent amount of bipartisan support on both sides of the political ideological spectrum that we needed to wrap up the operation Afghanistan That was not the controversy that is not the controversy. Now. The controversy now is the execution. The lack of execution of this withdrawal plan that put American lives in danger right now and dishonored the sacrifices of tens of thousands. Hundreds of thousands of vets and servicemen who get They've all in many cases and a whole lot more gave a whole lot more. You owed them better than this. Used an analogy yesterday. I'll use again because I want you to understand. Joe Biden is doing nothing but gas lighting right now. And the media attempts, which I'll get to in a minute to in the show. The media attempts to cover for him are candidly disgusting. Some in the media in the mainstream media to be fair, have finally called truth to power and started saying, This is it up, but it's very few Many are still playing the company line. Oh, Joe Biden gave a strong, resolute speech. He did nothing of the sort Everyone, not everyone. A lot of people want to be precise agree that we need to get out of there. At some point, the execution plan was terrible again. It's like it's like saying, you know, I support criminal justice reform. And then you get into office and you say, Okay, I'm just going to empty out the prisons could trump mentioned criminal justice from that's not the execution of what he was talking about that all that had nothing to do with it.

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"gaslight" Discussed on The Virtual Couch

The Virtual Couch

02:05 min | Last month

"gaslight" Discussed on The Virtual Couch

"Don't have a opportunity to see new clients very often my practices full and i'm grateful for that all those wonderful things but i'm talking to somebody new and they are in a relationship or they've been in a long term relationship with someone with very strong narcissistic traits Potentially a narcissistic personality disorder. And and so. I just say as their relating a lot of stories where the story goes from the person expressing themselves saying hey You know. I'm noticing this relationship. Let's say hypothetically that the person saying you know. I would really love to have people over and i know that this is something that you aren't interested in because they had a long track record or history of this person bringing up i would love to have people over and their spouse saying. I'm not up for it. You know i don't like that. I can't believe you're even asking me about that. But in this particular situation the person express themselves and their spouse responded with who. What do you mean. I don't want to have people over. I always wanted to have people over one of the most outgoing people that you'll ever meet so the fact that you're saying that you don't think that i want to have people over is is insane. Don't even know who i am. And this person's thinking no in reality. I don't think you know who. I am because this is who i am at my core and i have been begging for years if not decades to do more entertaining to have more people over. But by the end of this conversation their spouse had left them feeling like i am i. Am i crazy. Do i not say that. I would like to have people over often or are they. Actually the one that does want people over is. Am i living in some sort of Illusionary world and so. I said we'll you're aware you're familiar with the term gas lighting right and this person just looked and said i. I don't know that term. And i felt like i was all the sudden. The person talking about clinical. I can drop you. Don't know gas lighting it really. I mean you're with all the talk about these days and the fact that you're in this relationship you must know gas lighting. And then i realized holy cow. Tony your gas lighting somebody about gas

Putting the Light Into Gaslight

The Virtual Couch

02:05 min | Last month

Putting the Light Into Gaslight

"Don't have a opportunity to see new clients very often my practices full and i'm grateful for that all those wonderful things but i'm talking to somebody new and they are in a relationship or they've been in a long term relationship with someone with very strong narcissistic traits Potentially a narcissistic personality disorder. And and so. I just say as their relating a lot of stories where the story goes from the person expressing themselves saying hey You know. I'm noticing this relationship. Let's say hypothetically that the person saying you know. I would really love to have people over and i know that this is something that you aren't interested in because they had a long track record or history of this person bringing up i would love to have people over and their spouse saying. I'm not up for it. You know i don't like that. I can't believe you're even asking me about that. But in this particular situation the person express themselves and their spouse responded with who. What do you mean. I don't want to have people over. I always wanted to have people over one of the most outgoing people that you'll ever meet so the fact that you're saying that you don't think that i want to have people over is is insane. Don't even know who i am. And this person's thinking no in reality. I don't think you know who. I am because this is who i am at my core and i have been begging for years if not decades to do more entertaining to have more people over. But by the end of this conversation their spouse had left them feeling like i am i. Am i crazy. Do i not say that. I would like to have people over often or are they. Actually the one that does want people over is. Am i living in some sort of Illusionary world and so. I said we'll you're aware you're familiar with the term gas lighting right and this person just looked and said i. I don't know that term. And i felt like i was all the sudden. The person talking about clinical. I can drop you. Don't know gas lighting it really. I mean you're with all the talk about these days and the fact that you're in this relationship you must know gas lighting. And then i realized holy cow. Tony your gas lighting somebody about gas

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"gaslight" Discussed on The Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous Podcast

The Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous Podcast

02:34 min | Last month

"gaslight" Discussed on The Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous Podcast

"Either the main thing is this If i did this i do do. I think it will be possible to pursue that kind of love again. I don't know andrew was also a popular pick amongst like the names out there of course I am pretty sure michael's alluding to the fact that he would not do the entire season without his son. Being involved makes sense. I mean the guy's already shown the link to continue to be involved father which meant him leaving the show this season so my pit goes to michael named you're also met. My vote doesn't really matter. I'm not a part of the commission board but also katie thurston shares your opinion on which of her bachelorette contestants will rule in bachelor in paradise. It may shock you this according to us weekly. She says she's torn between connor and aaron. She says conner sweetheart. He's such a lover but erin was like built for paradise. And i know what she means by that. He's so dramatic so we'll see but both of them will be down there. It will be interesting to watch as we get closer. We'll final bachelor. In paradise headline of this week is bachelor in paradise shears. I look at david spade and more slip. Guests hosts headed to the beach. This according to e basically it's just that the photos were posted and this year there are photos of the guest house as if they were contestants beach in the background. Palm tree in the background. Photo of got little john titus lance and david spade all. They're ready to conduct the show. It's it's going to be interesting. And ashley i know. You're excited about airing ashley. After talking with a couple of people now who have been down to paradise and having a little more idea what paradise for are you getting excited about this. Are you nervous. That it's going to be a letdown. I am like. I don't really get excited until like the moment comes and like i'm watching it so i'm sure that in was a two weeks when it comes on i'll be i'll be enthralled. Yeah okay well. Last couple of headlines of the day bachelor host. Chris harrison has no regrets over exit. His quote is i wish everybody the best. This is one of the first times..

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"gaslight" Discussed on The Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous Podcast

The Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous Podcast

03:56 min | Last month

"gaslight" Discussed on The Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous Podcast

"I'm i'm working on that now in life and it's always good to get your opinions on this and in a situation like we see greg in where he's losing control. The environment is heavier and more confusing for him than really what he can handle. How do we in life. Because we've all been in those situations. How do we handle those situations. Well what are the tools and the steps that we can take the process this in not into allowing to harm ourselves and others. Yeah that is the bottom line. Question is at the environment in which greg finds himself Allow for personal reflection and not right and ryan. That's part part of the potential problem here but outside of that environment. A key to the question you just asked is being able to pause and to reflect in to allow the feelings that you're having whatever however uncomfortable they are however insecure however vulnerable however dark to surface. You know what we suppress shows up as symptoms shows up as symptoms if we don't deal with dark thoughts feelings dark abortions that were having it shows up some other way whether it comes out with the physical symptoms like stomach aches and a body shakes or it comes out through irritability or difficulty sleeping or it comes out through depression anxiety it comes out so as to not have it. Come out in a way that we haven't Chosen and in ways that can be harmful and hurtful to others. We have to pause and we have to allow ourselves to have those difficult deep conversations about what we're feeling whether it's with loved ones or a professional to sort of deal with the feelings that are underneath. Our behaviors aren't just coming from that. Hurt place do you feel like this is a normal reaction to someone's ego being bruised. I mean my answer actually is potentially i. I'm not saying it's the the most advisable one or one that is Is easy to watch. But i do think this can happen. First of all we have someone in greg dealing with a pretty backdrop of a pretty intense emotional trauma in that his father passed away. I'm not sure the timing. But i know that. Yeah and so when we have trauma and our life and certainly that falls in category olds ineffective coping. Mechanisms can come back and be much more difficult to control and so given that truth and given that. It's not uncommon for heard people to hurt other people. It's possible and i have not no idea if it applies. But it's possible that if he was feeling not chosen chilling. That hurt that loaner Bad exposed to somehow sort of look at the situation as him not being chosen. It's not entirely impossible to imagine that someone might react by rejecting the other before they get rejected super complex situation. And this isn't you mentioned. This isn't super uncommon. This isn't like we're watching something on television right now that we've never seen before and that none of us have an example. This is happening all around us and so to close out here before we let you go. If we see behavior that is not helpful it is toxic. It is hurtful happening in our friends relationships and earn ships. What advice you have for us to be able to help. I mean to kind of take it from both perspectives. If you see someone doing the hurting you know to be able to approach someone in a firm direct butts.

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What Is Gaslighting and How Do the Democrats Do It?

The Dan Bongino Show

01:50 min | 2 months ago

What Is Gaslighting and How Do the Democrats Do It?

"Thrown around a lot. But you know what it means. Gaslighting is a multi step process of getting people to believe. Things are real that are. In fact, not real that are fake is based on a movie gaslight. And this this this woman and if you ever see in a modern text, what's the girl on the train or something? That's a more modern version of it where this abusive husband gets the wife to believe all of these things happen that she did them while she was drunk and stupor, and none of them in fact happened. That's what gaslighting is. Gaslighting is getting people to believe things that are fake. Repeating a lot. How do you do it? How do you do that gas like people into believing what's not? Reality is in fact real well, you do it in a multi step process. You tell people they lie. That's not enough People lie all the time and get caught. And up the show, like G Edward Griffin said decades ago. Repeat the lie often. Another step. Repeat the lie confidently. Don't waver. Don't equivocate at all. State that lie confidently stated proudly. You know it's a lie, but stayed it like you really believe it. This is for real. I got a case of the for reals. And then the last part you have to isolate people from the truth. The media and the fact checkers play that role the left wise, they lie all the time. They lie. Often, they lie confidently. And they have to isolate people from the truth and the way they isolate people from the truth again is using this consortium of media hacks and so called fact checkers and social media. To isolate people from the truth. It shows in the polls

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Michael Anton Explains Democrats' Form of Gaslighting as 'Celebration Parallax'

The Dan Bongino Show

00:53 sec | 2 months ago

Michael Anton Explains Democrats' Form of Gaslighting as 'Celebration Parallax'

"Of calling people names and stigmatizing them with unfair labels and using useful idiot organizations. It's also part of the gas lighting strategy and the lie. The lie, Michael Anton and we had as a guest earlier in the week again. We'll have more on a weekend show guests as well. And Fox. You want to miss that. Anton calls it the celebration Parallax. It's an offshoot of Gaslighting How the left is always lying to us, folks. Always their entire lives are alive reminds me of that book People of the Lions an incredible book. They're always lying because they never want you to know what they're really doing. When you expose them for their anti liberty socialist Marxist agenda, they call you names, fascist racist. And one of the ways they gaslight. You is what Anton calls the celebration Parallax. It's a fascinating, fascinating idea. He explained it a little bit. When was he a guest on

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"gaslight" Discussed on The Crossover NBA Show with Chris Mannix

The Crossover NBA Show with Chris Mannix

05:22 min | 4 months ago

"gaslight" Discussed on The Crossover NBA Show with Chris Mannix

"Drummer for the gaslight. Anthem benny horowitz like the band pennies. A new jersey guy grew up on the nets obviously during their meadowlands days. Big fan during the jason kidd era. The two finals appearances he becomes a season ticket holder along the way follows them to brooklyn and of course he has experienced the highs the lows of nets phantom and needless to say right about now. He's pretty stoked about his team. We all know. The knicks are still. New york's team and cast a big shadow but the nets they're poised to win a title right now Maybe several and so a fun time to be a nets fan is as benny will tell. You We get into all that the fun of rooting for them when they were kind.

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What Is Gaslighting

The Dan Bongino Show

00:40 sec | 4 months ago

What Is Gaslighting

"Media does it all the time. Gaslighting is when you tell people alive. You tell that like confidently and repeatedly And you isolate people from the truth. That's how you can get people to believe like in the movie Gaslight. And what's that? The recent movie the What Is it down a woman on the train or something like that? I forget the Emily Blunt was in it. Forget the name of the movie. I'm terrible movies. I will always screw up movie names. You can get people to believe in alternate reality is real. I'm not joking. You can get people to believe things that never happened happened. That's the problem we have right now. It's why we

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Saweetie Confirms Breakup With Quavo

Chuck Dizzle

01:14 min | 6 months ago

Saweetie Confirms Breakup With Quavo

"Wave. Oh, uh, Amigos and sweetie, both hip hop stars. Relationship has come to an end. Was sweetie telling Cuervo to take care on IG? That's how you slam it home. I love that. She did that because he tried to gaslight her by saying I didn't know you were the kind of woman who would put me out there for cheating on you Exactly. That it all happened after sweetie appeared on Justin Combs show. Now Justin comes is our X and end up talking about 37 as she even mentioned that she was single. Let me tell you something. I watched that video. So let's get the facts straight When she was asked. Would you ever have a threesome with your man? If he was doing everything right? Her quote was if he's doing everything right, then yes, he can pick to do that. We have the three someone. So here's the problem, Right? Don't matter if you're single, not you cannot be seen on camera with your ex if I'm affiliated with Do you know what you also can't do? Cheat on me several times over three years. Okay, let me get back to the okay. Let's go. Let's go back to that also said on the show she's endured too much betrayal and her behind the scenes. It is emotionally checked out a long time ago. We could see that Lot of people that follow her notice that she stopped posting a little while ago. You see on me? I'm showing up with every x to every single candle light opening that's happening. I don't care what's happening because I feel like so we didn't need some revenge, Sweetie, Please say more than take care. Next time. I'm waiting for the book of the Oprah interview to come out. I think sweetie should have handled this. Like Derek Jackson's

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Sentinel's Sinatraa Accused of Sexual Abuse by Ex-Girlfriend

Esports Minute

02:41 min | 7 months ago

Sentinel's Sinatraa Accused of Sexual Abuse by Ex-Girlfriend

"What a sad day in Esports, once again after being able to celebrate the women in Esports on Monday, Tuesday and Wednesday have been a stark reminder of how far we still need to be go. First off before I get into this episode a trigger warning. This minute is going to contain details that include sexual abuse gaslighting harassment and rape on my dreams and the Esports minute from a sports network. So you've seen the allegation by now. I can imagine J one better known as Sinatra has been accused of sexual abuse with plenty of proof by Cleo his ex-girlfriend Thora is the former MVP of the OverWatch league has been playing ballarin for the central since retiring from the uw-l. The allegations are long and I'll link down below they are difficult to read but it is extremely important to do so in the Google Doc Cleo details how Sinatra coerced her into sex made her feel guilty for not wanting to have sex and progress past the point where she was saying no to confirm You having sex with her that's rape. We should call it what it is. There's audio of them having sex where you can hear that situation play out. Clearly. The write-up is nine pages long including screenshots of many different conversations. I want to read a section at the end that I think is especially important quote if this isn't proof enough, I'm not sure anything will ever be to get you to understand the hurt those done to me by this man. It's not his word against mine. It's his word against multiple points of proof and an audio of his voice not allowing me to say no to having sex and quote. She's right and while many people have spoken out about how horrible this is other voices have chosen once again to ignore a victim. The fron is one of the high-profile ones eating out quote e girls can be scary as a twitch streamer. They will try to debate or photoshop evidence to fuck you. I'm not saying she is one, but she could be and quote I really Dubose. Giving his horrible message a platform but I think it's important as it reconfirms what Cleo said at the end of her message. She knew some people wouldn't believe her even with the evidence. I hope a community we see these types of people for who they are and shut them off as this won't be the last time this happens victims shouldn't need nine-page Google Docs detailing their trauma complete with audio recordings and screenshots of multiple conversations for people to believe them. And when that happens that people's first reaction is somehow to blame Photoshop just shows how damning it is and how far people will go to not believe someone in this

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Only 80's Kids Will Fear This

Your Brain on Facts

05:03 min | 10 months ago

Only 80's Kids Will Fear This

"You're walking along the path in the woods. Maybe you're on a hike. Maybe you're headed to a picnic. The sun is shining and the warm breeze. Ruffles your hair suddenly. You're halted in your step. Your back foot is sinking into the ground. You try to play your other foot firmly to lever yourself out now. Both feeders sinking. It's quicksand. You'll be swallowed alive. You struggle to get free but that only makes it worse you'll be sucked under in a matter of seconds except my name's moxy and this is your brain on facts. Let me open. Today's topic that being things eighties. Kids were taught to be afraid of that. Aren't actually things we need to be afraid of i. This topic was voted on by supporters at patriot dot com slash your brain on facts and secondly that the research led me in directions. I wasn't expecting so the final product is as much a surprise to me as it will be to the listener. You do when your clothes catch fire and it always seemed like when not if the same thing you never see anyone on. Tv or youtube do when they find themselves doing surprise johnny storm. 'cause play. Stop drop enroll. Earning close burn you. Stop drop and roll because people burn to a message from the new jersey department of community affairs bureau virus thing if you try to tell me that a single year of elementary school passed in the eighties without the stop. Drop and roll lesson. I call you a liar. You were going to catch fire early. That much was clear but as someone who hates her home with wood and has been through two house fires and a lightning strike. Let me test that catching fire is not the inevitability we were led to believe but the lesson wasn't wrong as much as it was. Maybe a little late children's clothes and blankets catching on fire had been a common tragedy in households for centuries back in olden times when your heat and light and not a small amount of entertainment all came from some manner of flame. My mother's family actually lost a little one that way. Time and human advancement helped to drive down the frequency of juvenile incendiary casualties candles gateway to gaslight which was replaced with light bulbs and fireplaces were replaced with heat pumps the ignition sources were fewer and farther between but technology is nothing if not a double edged sword enter at the same time synthetic fabrics which rather than burning like cotton and wool would burn drip spread and adhere to skin. The truth of the matter is eighties. Babies were among the first kids to have a substantially lower risk of clothing fire incidents. Thanks to nineteen seventy five's formation of the consumer product safety act. Well actually a lot to nineteen fifty. Three's flammable fabrics act. But then i guess we should go back to nineteen forty-five end gene. Autry for those without a standing dinner reservation at golden corral for four thirty gene autry was a cowboy crooner who made his mark in radio tv and films for over three decades back in where a brand is a brand where the long hunt being celebrity. He had merch including branded cowboy costumes for all the little ones at halloween thousands and thousands of these were sold across the country. Then the tragedies began between late nineteen forty two and continuing until at least nineteen fifty four. An unknown number of children were badly badly burned. When the fuzzy fabric of the chaps came in contact with an ignition source and the entire garment would catch. It was three long years from the first incidents where people began to understand that something specific was wrong. Here that the material used for the chaps was the cause of these tragedies it was so flammable the entire outfit would go up in a matter of seconds before the child or parents even knew what was happening to react. This was the nineteen forties a time. Well before the constant global connectivity that we've been used to for twenty plus years so news of these incidents remained is located and the picture incomplete.

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"gaslight" Discussed on The Dream Detective

The Dream Detective

03:32 min | 1 year ago

"gaslight" Discussed on The Dream Detective

"And she said I'm stronger than the snake and then she also said the snake communicated with birth. Telepathically I would have to know the person and talk with them about other things going on their life to interpret the dream or even approach a turning it but I will say it's if you look at the age of four just separate from the drain the metaphor of a snake, you know, we think about yes snake in the grass that's saying and also that took control over you and you feeling like you can't really get away from it and you try but you can't and eventually you overcome it. That's a really good metaphor for life. I think people that are in abusive Gaslight relationships is that people feel like they that they are so isolated from their family of friends, which is done by design by the user that they if they reach out for help their told that the abusers told them that their family and friends think they're crazy. They are told them no one's going to believe them down. And these are people that tend to have good social standing or high social standing. So they'll say well who's going to believe you. You know, who's who are they going to believe me or you that's a common phrase that said so long. So if you look at that, as you know, here's a person that is trying to get out of this relationship. But the thing that people have that the abuser has done is made it feel like they can't trust themselves that they can't seek outside help, but eventually they are.

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"gaslight" Discussed on True Mysteries of the Pacific Northwest

True Mysteries of the Pacific Northwest

03:30 min | 1 year ago

"gaslight" Discussed on True Mysteries of the Pacific Northwest

"Welcome to kiss Miss Mystery Siamese host kit, chrome you don't I really enjoy getting the emails about various podcasts I. Do ask you questions about my research or where I got an idea. Just a few months ago actually I did a podcast on the term gas lighting. Now, this might be a term you heard referring to a specific politician or maybe even to an individual connected to mass media. The term gas lighting comes from a nineteen thirty, eight play gas light and his film adaptation gas lighting can occur in personal or professional relationships and victims are targeted at the core of their being their sense of identity and self worth. Manipulative people who engage in gas lighting do so to attain power over their victims unit because they simply derive warped enjoyment from the APP or because they wish to emotionally physically or financially control. Psychologists agree on the following traits use by gas lighters. They told Layton BLIGH's they're setting up a precedence once they tell you a lie. You're not sure if anything they say is true they want to put you in an unsteady place when confronted with something they said Golden I having said it hoping to put you in a place of wondering if you heard right questioning yourself, they keep at you gradually with lies in overtime they. Will intensify their tactics. Have you heard the expression action speaks louder than words, gas lighters words rarely matched their actions to further add to their victims confusion they will cut them down one day. Then praise them the next the gaslight were will continue manipulating. They will use words like I heard, or they said to backup false statements creating a false narrative backed up by imaginary people. Gas sliders are fond of saying that everyone else is Aligarh. Psychologists say that those who use gas lighting tactics probably been doing so most of their lives and have a personality disorder, a slider is a person with a problem and for whatever reason, you become a target to step out of the gas lighter trap start by counting the lies and denials. In the nineteen forty four movie dial M for murder. The plot is gas lighting at its best most gas lighting occurs in one to two situations between boss and an employee or perhaps we tune to competitive employees or in a personal family relationship. But there's another kind of gas lighting that occurs every four years in a few times in between that is more subtle and it seems to me the gas lighting tactics are more present than ever during this election year to every campaign promise for political premise. Ask yourself this that true or could that really happen. If the premise of the campaign doesn't ring true. You might want to examine who you're going to vote for and as always don't believe everything you think. Well who's gas lighting you was produced here at night owl sound studio and brought to you by books of adventure in life on the edge you can get kicked chrome dot com and by internationally recognized medium psychics Sharon, Bauer? Book Life Eternal Love Immortal that you can get Sheriff Bauer medium DOT COM. I'm kit chrome. Thanks for listening..

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Gaslighting

True Mysteries of the Pacific Northwest

03:06 min | 1 year ago

Gaslighting

"Welcome to kiss Miss Mystery Siamese host kit, chrome you don't I really enjoy getting the emails about various podcasts I. Do ask you questions about my research or where I got an idea. Just a few months ago actually I did a podcast on the term gas lighting. Now, this might be a term you heard referring to a specific politician or maybe even to an individual connected to mass media. The term gas lighting comes from a nineteen thirty, eight play gas light and his film adaptation gas lighting can occur in personal or professional relationships and victims are targeted at the core of their being their sense of identity and self worth. Manipulative people who engage in gas lighting do so to attain power over their victims unit because they simply derive warped enjoyment from the APP or because they wish to emotionally physically or financially control. Psychologists agree on the following traits use by gas lighters. They told Layton BLIGH's they're setting up a precedence once they tell you a lie. You're not sure if anything they say is true they want to put you in an unsteady place when confronted with something they said Golden I having said it hoping to put you in a place of wondering if you heard right questioning yourself, they keep at you gradually with lies in overtime they. Will intensify their tactics. Have you heard the expression action speaks louder than words, gas lighters words rarely matched their actions to further add to their victims confusion they will cut them down one day. Then praise them the next the gaslight were will continue manipulating. They will use words like I heard, or they said to backup false statements creating a false narrative backed up by imaginary people. Gas sliders are fond of saying that everyone else is Aligarh. Psychologists say that those who use gas lighting tactics probably been doing so most of their lives and have a personality disorder, a slider is a person with a problem and for whatever reason, you become a target to step out of the gas lighter trap start by counting the lies and denials. In the nineteen forty four movie dial M for murder. The plot is gas lighting at its best most gas lighting occurs in one to two situations between boss and an employee or perhaps we tune to competitive employees or in a personal family relationship. But there's another kind of gas lighting that occurs every four years in a few times in between that is more subtle and it seems to me the gas lighting tactics are more present than ever during this election year to every campaign promise for political premise. Ask yourself this that true or could that really happen. If the premise of the campaign doesn't ring true. You might want to examine who you're going to vote for and as always don't believe everything you think.

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Grilled by Lawmakers, Big Tech Turns Up the Gaslight

Texas Financial Advisory Show

02:09 min | 1 year ago

Grilled by Lawmakers, Big Tech Turns Up the Gaslight

"Everything all week just to give you the top five stories, and this week we're going to kick it off with the four major tech CEOs appearing before Congress. And as I looked at it, and as I watched the bits and pieces of it, it started to remind me of something, and I thought, What was that? What is that? I looked up in Webster's dictionary online, the definition of gas lighting. You know what that means? Gas lighting. It's a form of psychological manipulation. Distorting the truth. To confuse aren't still doubt is the official definition until the other person questions reality. Because there they were Amazon's Jeff because those apples Tim Cook, Facebook's Mark Zuckerberg and Google soon DARPA Che telling Congress why they shouldn't be broken up where they should be regulated. So America's CEO censors who for years have spied on all of us in a cellar data, and you tell this to be true, But Jeff Bezos actually said the on ly things People trust more than amazon dot com. Is their personal position and the U. S military, really. He's got AA lot of high hopes and not very humble opinion of himself, which I said that users clearly don't want to be tracked by those little bits of code called cookies, but Wait a minute. Didn't last year he have a speech where he defended them. Yes, he did. As a matter of fact, As for Tim Cook, he only got 30 questions compared to 60. The other Fab forgot. I guess they all like their iPhones there on the hill. And then there's Mark Zuckerberg, who argue that Facebook is not a monopoly, even though members of Congress Reference 2012 when Facebook bread they comprise 95% of all social media. And that's also right around the time that they purchased Instagram, which Zuckerberg considered a threat. He also did not remember paying teens to spy on them through Facebook research that app Which wasn't even two years ago. Maybe Mark needs little protection, don't you think? Well, the problem with these hearings is that the tech leaders or tech prose, and the folks at the hearing's not so much. One guy actually asked a question Mark Zuckerberg because he thought that Facebook on Twitter Goessling at its best, folks. Alright, Number

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Nadler says mob violence is a myth

Hammer and Nigel

01:35 min | 1 year ago

Nadler says mob violence is a myth

"So Bill bars getting grilled by the House today as some committee on his response to the federal response to the violent demonstrations and rioters over the past few months. Nadler did everything but carry the water for the rioters earlier today. You really can't hide behind legal fictions this time, Mr Barr. It's all out in the open, where people can see what you're doing for themselves. The president wants footage for his campaign ads. And you appear to be serving it up to him as ordered. In most of these cities, the protests had begun to wind down before you marched in and confront the protests Lie in. The protesters aren't mobs, their mothers and veterans, mayors. You hear that night? Just not a mob. But all, he said it was a myth. He was interviewed on the street. Yesterday Somebody came up him and asked him to disavow Antifa and rights. Don't go. Oh, this is this violence is a myth. Meanwhile, we're go on 60 plus days of riots in Portland, the Portland police declaring, quote unquote riot every night, they officially have to declare a riot. And and he's gaslighting. None of them believe that there's actually they know violence is going on, but they refused to admit it, and it's it all has to do with an election coming up in November. And quite frankly, I'm a resident of Portland. I know that it's a very liberal progressive town, but I'm packing up and getting the out and I am wondering and scratch my head. Why, if the mayor is not going to do anything about it? Where's the federal response and this Is

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Corey Feldman Exits Sexual Harassment Committee Following Sexual Harassment Allegations

Donna and Steve

00:49 sec | 1 year ago

Corey Feldman Exits Sexual Harassment Committee Following Sexual Harassment Allegations

"Going on? Sorry. Felons have been kicked out of sag after Sexual harassment committee following sexual misconduct allegations against him. He stepped down from the committee last month, and now he's lashing out at the union leader he believes forced him out over her accusations. Thiss happens to be Andrea Zuckerman from 90 to winnow Capri. Oh, yeah, cart. Terrace. Yeah, okay. Yeah, she's a union leader, he tweeted would never harm another innocent human for my own pleasure of my life depended on it. I've lost all faith in the this president as I believe she's trying to gaslight me to ignore Children's rights in new contracts. Oh, boy, That's not great. It's not great, but the

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"gaslight" Discussed on True Mysteries of the Pacific Northwest

True Mysteries of the Pacific Northwest

03:20 min | 1 year ago

"gaslight" Discussed on True Mysteries of the Pacific Northwest

"Welcome to kiss myths and mysteries I'm your host Kit Chrome? WHO's gas lighting you? The term gas lighting from the nineteen thirty eight play gas light and his film adaptation gaslight he can occur in personal or professional relationships and victims are targeted at the core of their beans, the sense of identity and self worth manipulative people who engage in gas sliding do so to attain power. Power, over their victims, either because they simply derive warped enjoyment from the act, because they wish to emotionally physically or financially control their victims, psychologists agree on the following traits used gas liars. They choke blatant lies Sir setting up a precedence once they told you a lie. You're not sure if anything they say is true. They want to put you in an unsteady place when. When confronted with something they said dealt tonight I. Haven't said it, but we put you in that place wondering if you heard right questioning yourself, they keep gradually with lives over time they will intensify their tactics. Have you heard the expression action speaks louder than words. The gas sliders words rarely match their actions to further. Add their victims confusion. They will cut them down one day. Day In prison the next the gas lighter will continue manipulating. It will use words like her I heard, or they said to backup certain false statements, creating a false narrative backed up by imaginary people. Gaslight is fond of saying that everyone. Else's Aligarh psychologists say that those who use gas lining tactics have probably been doing so most of their lives never personality disorder aghast lighter. Lighter as a person with a problem, and for whatever reason you become the target to step out of the gaslight or trap, start by counting the lies and denials, it's not uncommon for one person to deny something on occasion or to tell a FIB white lie or an outright lie on occasion which you're looking for or the numbers. Aghast slider is a person with the problem. Problem in the one thousand nine hundred forty four movie dial M for murder. The plot is gaslight nets best. Most gas occurs in one to one situation. Say Between Boston employees, or perhaps between two competitive employees or on a personal family relationship, but there is another kind of gas lighting that occurs every four years and a few times in between that it is more subtle. Subtle and it seems to me. The gas lighting tactics are more present now than ever during this election year to every campaign, promise or political premise, ask yourself. Is that true or could that really happen? If the premise of the campaign doesn't ring true, you might want to examine who you're going to vote for, and as always don't believe everything you think and look out for. For who's gas lighting you? WHO's gas leading? You was produced here at night. Owl Sound Studio brought to you by of adventure life on the edge. You can get a kit chrome dot com, and by internationally recognized medium and psychic. Sharon Bauer author. The book love Immortal Life Eternal that you can get a share on Bauer. Media Dot Com I'm Kit crumb. Thanks for listening..

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Whos gaslighting you

True Mysteries of the Pacific Northwest

02:58 min | 1 year ago

Whos gaslighting you

"Welcome to kiss myths and mysteries I'm your host Kit Chrome? WHO's gas lighting you? The term gas lighting from the nineteen thirty eight play gas light and his film adaptation gaslight he can occur in personal or professional relationships and victims are targeted at the core of their beans, the sense of identity and self worth manipulative people who engage in gas sliding do so to attain power. Power, over their victims, either because they simply derive warped enjoyment from the act, because they wish to emotionally physically or financially control their victims, psychologists agree on the following traits used gas liars. They choke blatant lies Sir setting up a precedence once they told you a lie. You're not sure if anything they say is true. They want to put you in an unsteady place when. When confronted with something they said dealt tonight I. Haven't said it, but we put you in that place wondering if you heard right questioning yourself, they keep gradually with lives over time they will intensify their tactics. Have you heard the expression action speaks louder than words. The gas sliders words rarely match their actions to further. Add their victims confusion. They will cut them down one day. Day In prison the next the gas lighter will continue manipulating. It will use words like her I heard, or they said to backup certain false statements, creating a false narrative backed up by imaginary people. Gaslight is fond of saying that everyone. Else's Aligarh psychologists say that those who use gas lining tactics have probably been doing so most of their lives never personality disorder aghast lighter. Lighter as a person with a problem, and for whatever reason you become the target to step out of the gaslight or trap, start by counting the lies and denials, it's not uncommon for one person to deny something on occasion or to tell a FIB white lie or an outright lie on occasion which you're looking for or the numbers. Aghast slider is a person with the problem. Problem in the one thousand nine hundred forty four movie dial M for murder. The plot is gaslight nets best. Most gas occurs in one to one situation. Say Between Boston employees, or perhaps between two competitive employees or on a personal family relationship, but there is another kind of gas lighting that occurs every four years and a few times in between that it is more subtle. Subtle and it seems to me. The gas lighting tactics are more present now than ever during this election year to every campaign, promise or political premise, ask yourself. Is that true or could that really happen? If the premise of the campaign doesn't ring true, you might want to examine who you're going to vote for, and as always don't believe everything you think and look out for. For who's gas lighting

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Protecting Your Spiritual And Mental Health During the Coronavirus Pandemic

Alyssa Milano: Sorry Not Sorry

07:54 min | 1 year ago

Protecting Your Spiritual And Mental Health During the Coronavirus Pandemic

"My Name's James Bottom Nama therapist bringing healing to the world. Hi My name is Camilo Lofton. I am a specialist and I am working to take on capitalism and patriarchy. Mindfulness practice at a time. Sorry not sorry. Thank you both for being a part of sorry. Not Sorry I wanted to have you on because people are struggling right now and I don't think we're talking enough about the mental health ramifications of this collective pain that we're experiencing so I really want to start with the question of just. What is the psychological toll that this is having on us and especially what about those on the front line that doctors the nurses the first responders a think with those people that they actually have training to deal with this? I think that they have a purpose. And they're working with what's in front of them so I think with people with doctors what they're in frontline people how they're going to suffer is energetically an immense toll on them to be constantly taking care of other people. And it's this deluge that they can't saw. I think that's going to be very difficult for them. I think the greater crisis for people is going to be that the people in the population general population. We moved through trauma by finding purpose in trauma and has a long-term sometimes decades thanked on things like relationships into the work. Consider normalize my fear. Is that especially with all of the messaging that there's not a single message on how we're supposed to move through this and I my fears that people aren't GonNa find purpose right. That people are GonNa stay at home and focus on what they're missing out on the fear rather than finding a collective healing conscious and when people are not talking about that right when we don't have people in the mainstream media talking about that. I think that it almost has that feeling of what's wrong with me clearly. I'm the only one talking but we're feeling this way because nobody's talking about it and I think that that can be a really lonely place to be into. Is that feeling of. I'm the only one that is this anxious about what's happening right now or I'm the only one that's depressed about what's happening right now. Because we're just ignoring psychological toll that this is taking her sure and I also think that part of the issue too is that in general those who are day. We don't invite in in variety in fear and depression. We tend to keep ourselves busy. 'cause that's capitalism asks us to do is turn turn turn and so we we tend to collectively as push all of those fears and anxieties and worries aside and so in all of the sudden we have nothing to do that and all of that stuff has now come to the surface. We almost have no choice but to look at it and yeah that can be incredibly overwhelming and when there is no sort of collective response to what that in due to a person and what that can do to a society for sure there's going to be ramifications for it in spiritual work we call this the shadow war and every spiritual tradition speaks to shadow work on some extent or on some level but collectively as a Western society especially here in the states. We haven't looked at this. I mean this is a complete undoing. If you will the toll is going to be big and so it's like what do we do? What do we do with that? It's interesting because looking at my children right who I think we all as parents at least the way David or apparent we've kept our kids really really busy right. I mean they have sports they have you know. My Son has drum lessons and hockey and now to well this is a couple of things to see him sit and have to sit with potential fear or any anxiety or not feeling good about himself or whatever it is to see him have the sports as a way to exert that just to use for a coping mechanism. The fact all of his coping mechanisms have sort of been taken away. I would imagine a lot of families are feeling this way. We're we're looking at our kids especially are active kids and we're noticing. What a drastic change. It is because our kids are just not having that coping mechanism of going outside and wrestling around boys that social wrestling and playing the sports and everything. And it's made him actually a lot more self reflective. I've seen a lot more creativity sparked and I was. I was Gonna say that same thing. I think what we're all learning is a couple of things mine. We can't rely on this administration or other media sources to solve this straight to. We have to get created in our own homes with ourselves individually within our families amongst our community. We have to search for that creative response to move through this. Go Ahead James. One thing is I just from speaking with so many people friends clients. Everyone's worried about their children. And one thing I've found is that actually children are highly resilient. They seem to be doing well when every person I asked like. Oh just like you said. My kids are being more creative more. Inventive that those certainly a bit of boredom. But they're not suffering adults are the ones who we've tried to always be productive where only valued on what we're doing it dolts that are really suffering by just sitting and this not losing the other thing that I've noticed about the kids which I think is pretty special as they've gotten closer because they're they're all each other has right now as far as playing and that's really really beautiful. I WANNA get to adults in a second but I have one question about how best to speak to our children about this time. Is it better to protect their innocence or to be honest about you? Know the fear factor. What do you think I think the best thing that we can do for? Children is one to be honest because to be honest with them about what's going on is it gives them a sense of self esteem that we believe that they can handle the information. Of course I don't think you want to overwhelm them negatively. I think you want to give them the information. I don't think we want to also gaslight our children by saying Oh everything's GonNa be okay. We're not worried because they're picking up from us that we are worked like everyone's worried and I think to say hey we are worry. These are adult problems that were going to work on yours safe. You're taking care of but there is a lot of your atmosphere and I think that it is important to be honest with them and I think the way that we're really going to show them how to work through. This is not by telling them how to do it but by modeling it ourselves

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Hellboy talk with Tim

Covert Nerd Podcast

12:22 min | 1 year ago

Hellboy talk with Tim

"Are seeing more of change. I think in response to books like Hell Boyer Black Hammer. Where because there is a firm time line and things are happening characters have to react to the things that are happening even if they don't have full context for what's happening so that's what you like about hell boy be. Pr General. Think helpful like you said Houston's Gone Yeah Houston's gone what are you GonNa do hell boy died? What are we going to do? And that's another thing stopped me please. If I'm going off the rails in the world of hell boy. Bpd WHAT HAVE YOU? Death is final unless it isn't and what I mean by that is when like okay but speculate for just a second over. I'm going to spoil recent events in Batman that's okay. I'll put spoiler at the beginning. The Alfred was killed by Bain in Batman a couple months ago Alfred. Dying is a huge deal. It's a very good story. I'll be really hard pressed to say in five years. We're not going to have comics with Alfred. M I think we'll see Alfred Comeback in the hell boy world if there was a a character analogous to Alfred. If he died he'd be dead. There's only been three characters I can think of who haven't stayed dead One of them is Huma Hunky list which is hard work as say I can read it forever. A monkey lists named Roger. Who's liveability is questionable? At best the other two and I could be wrong as well like I'm not concrete giving you information but This based off the best of my recollection the the other two characters would be Rasputin. Who is the main villain and Hell boy himself and when hell boy is brought back it's not his choice. There was There was a thing that I want to say. Scott Allie who was an editor and a writer on BP said is If he said death is final and things will break and if things are repaired they will still remain broken. So if you like break glass table you can put that glass table back together. It's not going to be as strong as it was. And that's kind of a tenant and B P R D if we're gonNA break it we can put it back together but it's not gonna be the same as a storyteller in a fan of of character the way hell boy and it's related books handle stakes is so it's so unlike anything else you're gonNA find in modern pop culture and he loves. Mike loves the supernatural world. Because I hadn't read hell boy before but I read Joe Gholam which is one of my aches works and it has a very supernatural tinder taste to it for lack of a better word but he really loves that supernatural world when I was reading up about how he came up with hell boy and the Supernatural. In general he started. Reading Brahms stroker's Dracula and just got sucked into the all. The supernatural world and missed. Go along with that and even see that. In Gotham by gaslight. Yeah I think that's where he got a lot of this inspiration because like you said. Eprdf just kind of a supernatural monster story arc on each in how he tries to solve this mystery so to speak. But I really like those like you said the BP because they're short. In general. At least the ones I read are fairly short. They're kind of wins a call because they take place in the past share. Well it's it's interesting because Mike men ULA has trusted so many people with his world. Geoff Johns has written for PR. D- we've got Chris. Roberson does a lot of stuff Scott. Allie Gabriel Bah and Fabio Moon. Who ARE TWINS? They've done some work on a book called. B P R D vampire. Let's just phenomenal. It's so good Abe Sapien had his own series for awhile and there were another set of twins that were working on the art in that and their names escape me off hand but pitch perfect. They're wonderful the those twin they're now working on Lucifer for DC like the the Black Label Sandman books but It's just so good There's a horror comic called Herro county that's written by. Cullen Bunn the art and that is done by Tyler Crook and there was a tiny little bit of animosity because Tyler Crook was the second main artists on E. P. R. D. And when he went over to do Harrow County kind of left He left the crew in a bit of a bind and everybody was a little upset but also he's doing the work of his career on. Harrow. County That's how we got Lawrence Campbell as the main artist on be prd through throughout the run of like hell boy traditionally the art in that is either Mike Minneola or Mike. Minneola esque yes. There's a there's a very good so pretty still pretty rough so to speak but it I think it fits in his universe. Yeah it absolutely does. If we're not getting Mike Manolo. We're getting somebody like Dunkin for Griego who has a very manolas style over. Mvp what we got was a completely different visual. Take and we had guy. Davis was the main artist for play frogs. Hell on earth. We saw Tyler Crook and then going into the devil you know we had Lawrence Campbell. And they bright. They brought a very interesting like real world. Visual take on what Mike Minneola drew as more than esoteric stylized monster world and just like injected it with like this fierce ground level realistic take in it so to to see how Lake Dunkin for draws Abe sapien versus how Mike Minneola draws EP and versus. How Tyler Crook Draws Abe sapien versus? It's so it should not narrative Lee speaking work. It shouldn't do it Michael did a whole issue of of that. We have a painted issues that are done by just masters of their art. And it's it's so wonderful and and just the fact that you can have these visual styles who divorced from divorce from the words divorce from the writing you would never know that just because this character looks a little more cheesy in. This character. Looks a little more realistic. There is no. There's no what if in the hell boy universe whenever you read a story As far as the comics the short stories are a little different. There's pros and all that but we're talking about the comics there's not Lak- what if Abe Sapien was fighting in World War. Two like it's there's none of that every everything you read actually happens To those characters in the world of hell boy and having such unique creative voices all working in tandem to tell this one epic it should not by any right work and if it does work it should not work nearly as well as this does and it is so much fun it does. It's a fun a fun book. Speaking of you talked about Abe Sapien. What is your favorite character from hell boy? Do you bomb or is it a cop out answer cop out answer and then maybe might cop out. Answer is Every every major comic book company I believe has a trinity of some kind so. Dc Has Batman. Wonder Woman Superman Marvel's got Captain America. Thor and iron man You could argue. That image has spawned in which blade and someone else that I can't think of offhand For Hell boy it's definitely you've got an expansive universe of characters but it comes down to Abe Liz in hell boy and if I get one of those three I'm going to have a good time and be in for completely different reasons there so three very different characters In the in the Gemmell del Toro movies. They had a romance between. Liz and hell boy does not exist in the comics. That's not a thing If anything Liz and Abe kind of have an unspoken thing that nobody ever acts on and that's kind of cool because you've got fire and water and that's like a neat neat thing like that. Yeah it's really fun. But if you were like gun to my head me pick a character man. It's GonNa be a tie between it's GonNa be a tie between Captain Daimyo from be PRD. Who is in the newest? Hell boy movie. He's the the wear Jaguar. I love him or Johann Johann Krauss whose an echo plasma ghost in a in a sealed suit don't make can't choose between those two a close honorable mention would be roger but I can live without roger it's fine but But no I love and that goes to the military guy in me I love. Diageo is a traditional military guy and he is just he's hired basically to militarize the PRD and get them to work as a cohesive unit and he just comes in and he's like all right. Look I'm done I'm done like I cannot handle. Whatever it is you guys are doing. I need you all. Just cut your drama. And let's do this. And he just has no time for any of the. He's he's not ignorant to the fact that he's working with monsters he's he gets to the point where he's like. I don't care that you're monsters. We have work to do. And I absolutely love that. And then Johann who was voiced by Seth McFarland and the second held boy movie the The Golden Army In the comics he is so flawed that he is. He's the most fun to read. Because you you just like him you just like him and he makes some really dumb stupid mistakes but they're mistakes that you could see yourself making and you see some emphasis me speaking of myself when I say you but I see so much of myself in him that when he makes a mistake. I'm like own own. No real world content is one hundred percent what I would do and we would all be in so much trouble So I absolutely adore the dichotomy of those two and they don't get a wall but No it's my it's A. It's a complete cop-out I answered it twice with no actual answer. That's okay. I like the fact that like you said it is kind of whimsical. Boys Got A. Would you say it dry sense of humor? I would say Ri- I think is is not so much dry it's like. He knows he knows what he's just so he's just kind of he's perpetually forty and he could you imagine being being against. I'm in my late thirties. Man If you just I would be unstoppable if I had energy and I see hell boy as just perpetually old enough to know better young enough to not care and he kind of can get away with

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"gaslight" Discussed on Girls Gotta Eat

Girls Gotta Eat

12:11 min | 1 year ago

"gaslight" Discussed on Girls Gotta Eat

"Right. Where would you be episodes? Should we give some entertainment rack to hold myself back. Okay listen about a ear ago. This guy who was a guest on our podcast I was taking a drive and he was like I asked him what podcastone he was like. There's this Aaron Hernandez podcast and I was like. Oh like football gasoline. astles do it. I if you guys don't who Aaron Hernandez. He was a football player for the Patriots who went to prison and killed himself but he murdered. A bunch of people allegedly definitely definitely did them one to four people but to a podcast and it came out and I was so excited for you see that flex. Yes yeah just WANNA be clear. I'm the rea part art documentary net flicks so amped for you to watch it. Yeah did you die no pun intended. I have so many feelings lanes about it like I don't want to get too deep with it. But it's just it's really. It's a heartbreaking story like. I don't have sympathy for a murderer but you said this before I watched watch that you were like you will see exactly how he turned out the way he did and it is startling to watch the amount of trauma that this person went through like from us. Yes I don't know if you guys know host or I want won't give too much away. But the amount of trauma he had dealt with abuse. His Dad died unexpectedly. Mom brought home another dude immediately like a family. All of it is like the amount of pent up anger that must have been inside this guy and then to add literal brain damage on top of it. They got his brain after he committed suicide. They got his brain immediately. Obviously there has family was like tickets. Study we WANNA see the damage and I'm not blaming you know both of us feel the same way you don't murder people because you have t- but like combined. His was the one of the worst-case I think they've ever seen combined with the amount of trauma and anger that this guy had like of course he snapped like he was so. I don't think he's not smart like you hear him talking to his mom Tom on these calls from jail from prison. And he's like you ruined my life and he was like it's like you hear this person that's like knows that they're so traumatized and so damage but they can't necessarily put their finger on and they're clearly going to seek help. They're not going to get therapy. You know it's this whole mentality to be masculine not show vulnerability and the amount of anger anger like. I was getting hungry watching it here. The very end. They're like Oh. He was abused when he was a kid. Too you're like what are like molested. Sorry like I. It is heartbreaking and it's heartbreaking for the people that he killed I it gave me a lot of feelings I ended it on like a very sad note. Yeah I watched it twice. I mean I felt the same way and I just felt like we'll talk about Kamera watched too but I think that like we have to listen to children when they say that I'm hurting and that I'm scared and I need help and like actually give them the help that they need and like of course. This person turned out like this one other options. Show me a person that has been closeted homosexual. Sexual abuse lost their parents and is a normal functioning human being. I don't care if you're a millionaire. which was but like yeah? There's no way you're okay and I don't have any sympathy for anybody like this. I don't care if a child molester was molested as a child you still grew up by choice but plenty honey people have CPA. They don't murder people. But yeah I mean it's it's really like a real thinker about like what we go through and nature versus nurture was born like this and people like he's a sociopath. I don't do you feel like I feel like this sympathy for Aaron Hernandez as a child. I don't think without the childhood trauma he would have been a murder. I don't think the loan of the brain undamaged did it. It was like the thing I hate it like. We think we talk you are you are because your parents and this guy has his father who idolized who was. Also an abuser. Passed away unexpectedly. He's mom what brought the family friend into the house. Two weeks later like the MOM is responsible. Yeah of course for his trauma I just it is the the conversations Mercedes with his mom. I felt myself tearing up like this man screaming at his mom. Like you ruined me and it's true it's true. Yeah nobody's to blame blah. It is true your parents can ruin you. You have all these. NFL players coming out saying like. I don't feel sympathy and always asking for sympathy. I just think in general like you know. These problems will manifest a fast themselves in some ways. If you need you need ask for help all right well okay. What other sports one we're GONNA talk about is cheer we were in DC? I don't know if you you know this Saturday at second show in DC two weeks ago. Whatever and Kate texted me and she was like you ought to watch chair enough? Looks I mean. She knows she knows what I like. We Watch last chance you together or whatever her and she was like. It's just like last chance you but for cheerleading and I was like what I you know I went home and watch three hours in bed and DC hotel. I went to bed at three in the morning. I couldn't stop so and then I've since finished I am but I love anything like I love cheerleading stuff. I was cheerleader but not even close. I can't even call myself a cheerleader. Compared to you is I was a cheerleader. Or athletes gymnasts gymnasts dancers I loved. I was obsessed with it. I loved all the personal stories of all these athletes. The coach is the main highlight of the show. Monica Sh the beginning. You're like she ability in and then you're like oh she's a hero. She's the legend. And I I mean I just I really loved it and then there's a darker side to it too you. Don't you just watch these kids get injured and like beat their bodies up and there's no real future after college. I now these people. The whole is revolve around from the time. You're like a little kid like everybody that I was on the squad where when I was in high school had been doing it since they were a little kid and then yeah it just ends. When you're twenty? Do become a coach. Yeah I guess if you're if you get your whole life yeah. Yeah but that's what they do. I mean this this school and of course the cannon Texas it's like it have you ever watch last chance you like junior college same same thing for cheerleading and like you just have so much respect for the sport but like the personal stories. I mean I personally. Jerry is like everybody's favorite. There's been memes about stuff and then the person I felt the strongest about her story was Morgan because I felt like she just had these parents kind of abandoned are and so. I've been deep diving on her. She does have a boyfriend now and I'm like you better take care professional athlete. I know but I'm thinking it over in her major league baseball player. It's hot. I'm like she's so fragile. She has a Banham issues. You you have to treat her right like I. Almost I swear to God. I Wanna Dan. This guy's like you better take care of Morgan. Don't you dare her. But I love you stories and I think very much different different than the Aaron Hernandez Story. It's the perfect example of like if kids are given some structure and some support and like they can begin to heal and be okay. I love that you said that. The differentiation between the two. Because whatever you WANNA say it's men versus women like these football coaches. Don't fucking care you hear. What is it Robert Kraft rafters is name the owner of the Patriots? You hit the way he talks he just give a fuck about these people. Yeah I mean especially in football as the worst example. It's a multibillion dollar organization it's a corporation like these kids are just commodities. And like. Yeah you can be your wife and you can do these things and get away with it and we still need you to play on Sunday where you're going to get suspended for two games for beating your wife life like this. cheerleading coaches like you fuck up. You're not on the team anymore. You're here to like have structure and be a responsible adult. Oh I love her so much icon. I mean. I can't believe that she like exists. It's like tiny little town Lavoro. It's crazy she's the NBA. She's like I don't care she's like she went to school violence and she has an NBA. And she's like I'm here. She should be like running a bank. Yes you did and then I'm GONNA and It was very important to talk about this. It's an older documentaries. Not High Take someone deemed us is that he told us it wasn't he asked someone damned I'm the Larry Nassar Documentary. HBO is called at the heart of gold. So if you guys don't of the story I don't know how you couldn't but it was in October. Two thousand seventeen. He was a doctor he worked with. US US USA gymnastics and he also worked with Michigan State and he had access to all these young girls. And I just I. The story really floored me and again this is years ago and probably a lot of you know about this and the documentary came out in like April but I couldn't believe one hundred fifty. Six girls testified at this court case and all of them said like I tried tried to tell somebody like I told my teachers. I told my guidance counselors. I told my coaches I told people and no one would help me and it like makes mean I mean. I can't imagine what these girls went through. And it just you know we have a female audience and a Lotta them early young and I don't know like eighteen or nineteen like what I would have done if I was being sexually sexually assaulted and I think that you and I are really fortunate that we were raised by mothers and families. There would always support us if we said that not. Everybody is raised like that. and not everybody's parents. Aren't you trust a doctor. I think the parents even were like. He's a male doctor from wherever his degrees from like whatever he's doing must be right like it's just. I'm so glad we live in. We're getting to live in this evolved area where like a lot of the flying tail and you know a lot of these. A lot of people. Just come from families. Where like maybe your parents? You're not you're afraid to talk to them about sex. You're afraid to say these things. You don't even know that you're being sexually assaulted but like I just want to send the message. Did you like if something is happening to. You and nobody will believe you. Never stop telling people yeah and like demand that somebody listens to you. And if somebody doesn't believe you tell the next person in the next person in the next person and I feel like so upset about it just like hearing all these girls because this was recent these girls. I know this wasn't ninety eighty years a couple years. There's ago a couple years ago and like thank God you know the person who came forward did it did it so boldly in the news so many people came forward but I just think that we have a young audience and I think think that like if anybody ever tries to silence you from saying what is happening to the never stopped talking about it. We tell as many people have and tells tele find a fucking reporter and tell yeah on not no I want. We are going to tackle like sexual abuse assault on this podcast and we have gotten a lot of messages about it. It and it's clearly we're GONNA cover it. We just we want to do it right. We want somebody that's either professional or that has had that experienced and can speak the right way. That's you guys know what I mean. We just want the right person to speak on it so on our agenda. It's been on our agenda for a while. Yeah and I think that we try to bring comedy the and sensitivity and normality a lot of things and yeah..

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Sex Worker Rights with Alison Spittle and guests Miranda Kane and Niki Adams

The Guilty Feminist

09:02 min | 2 years ago

Sex Worker Rights with Alison Spittle and guests Miranda Kane and Niki Adams

"I'm a feminist but being in the changing room at Yoga when pregnancy yoga comes out is an object silence for me because to me they look like handmaid's because they don't talk the very pregnant and I've got excellent posture there's just a sense of godliness to them it's the yoga that's Donna don't get me wrong I should have that wanted the end to your warmed up the one at the end again because I think you're gonNA find it's really funny and creepy and judgmental I'm a feminist Bush I watched it a violent there's more I watched the Oh I didn't because I like to psychologically assess people while being low key aroused at the same time it is it's going to admit it also I think like I love people watching a Vita interesting I love People Watch true crime because you watch true crime and you're like what would I do in this situation would I escaped being murdered but I watched the light into go how do I not give John from Brighton the hand job the Go-to the pool how do I I'm a feminist bond I try not to judge people who watch la violence because I know I know that seventy bright feminists women love it and I'm actually on a level and what HAP- group which there's a lot of laws on that WHATSAPP group but deep down a China watch a few episodes every now and again just to keep up with what's up shop but when it's over I'm like thank God I love the group and the Group tends to stay little buoyant between La violence it'd be one since the group started buck honestly there's a part of me that just goes what are these people seeing everyone says all but it's great because it allows people to talk about gas lighting yes because you're witnessing live gaslight batstone coach reason that's like saying all we've put live homicide on the television and because it's really bringing the question of homicide to the four but you provoking it but a lot of women now look at that and go I don't got to happen to me but you've made it happen and now you're saying so women realize it shouldn't happen but you've made it happen Catholic women that watch levion this is not a very real way I feel like I am the gas lighter I am the one saying you don't have to watch this going to have to participate in this yeah I do watch it to learn about gaslight but also if there is a hunch up the added bonus I'll say them I just like watching a do vague overshadowed very quickly I'm just like Ooh I wanNA give myself to be honest someone else do it I'd rather watch wouldn't do it yeah yeah I'm not GonNa do it back for nineteen minutes support the person that this to me it's watching that how clean is your house show I don't clean my what someone else cleaned their Lou end of story turn over Little Bit Madman yes all watch that man in very well suits women appreciating those men it's wrong I see that I also guess lip Gina who standing in for Tomas Brussels cocktails on eighteen and I've a feminist but I have this desire to say I don't normally drink at work lack I deserve metal I'm aware that most of you don't drink at work but medians do so I feel very proud of myself saying I never drink before work or at work I'd like my if you're an x ray here radiographer was like I virtues at work to assure you tonight your justice is Captain John Sylvester. We're about to take off I just head on she does the exhibit differently I'm GonNa sip it very slowly your the quality of your beyond minded anyway oh she's nuts uh-huh that's basically undoing nice no I support you I am a feminist Bush like using misogynous swear words and I'm trying to stop so like Beach Yeah Oh it's so progressive sometimes I just WanNa go what's up bitches yeah you you shouldn't so I really liked the word motherfucker insist that can ice love it sounds like a jelly fucker jovial swear right that's not very nice about moments you know so I thought of thinking of a different word to describe motherfucker as trucker fucker dice gender-neutral this well you know truckers can be men or women and but I've come through proper word for it now it's called Matt and that's mom partner Max motherfucker the listen to you work no do you think sorry do you think mash a trucker from the middle of iron and listens to the guilty feminists see we could change who's your progenitor neutral I went to university every Christmas every night we would give the boys an episode of the Philippi show and the flip show was about it was he was reading a forerunner of House doc shaggy dog puppet he was washed up detective he was dictated to painkillers. How old were these kids there was an evil nemesis the anti was called Hedberg because he was German and Tom used to do his voice and be lying Filipi I've been expecting you please come in I have made a muffins and as it developed on it was clear that head bail was gay and very much in love with flew p so you could say very positive gay characters but I look back on this now and initials on show the puppets hide you're right yeah they probably welcome thank you there we go retrospective even making stuff woke that's what we should do everything then I think you'll find the eighteen was quite a great feminist attacks

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"gaslight" Discussed on PUT IT IN THE AIR PODCAST

PUT IT IN THE AIR PODCAST

13:30 min | 2 years ago

"gaslight" Discussed on PUT IT IN THE AIR PODCAST

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"gaslight" Discussed on Believed

Believed

05:47 min | 3 years ago

"gaslight" Discussed on Believed

"At the beginning of this episode. We told you there were two chapters to Amanda story, we have now reached the second chapter in two thousand fourteen since Larry was university employees Amandus report triggered a federally mandated title nine investigation title nine investigations look into whether somebody broke school rules in this case Michigan state university's sexual misconduct policy. These investigations are done by school staff. Not by police two months after she reported. Larry Amanda remembers a school official calling her in for meeting. They want to show her the results of the title nine investigation. I mean, I was really nervous. But I. Thought that there was going to be some sort of trial or something like that. That's what the mission was that. I was going to get was like, okay. We realize that this was sexual salt. Like, these are your options going forward. Amanda meets with a woman named Christine Mohr, she's the title nine investigator. And as a MandA remembers, it more sits down and pulls out a sheet of paper. She puts it on the table and points to a simple diagram of a human body. And she was like, so this is where this manipulation happens and. Explaining to me that I wasn't actually salted. That's what you're doing. Like, we'll talk to a lot of doctors to four women. Oh women. Well. There's something you should know about these four women Christine Mohr interviewed. They're not patients of Larry's, they're all doctors or athletes trainers, and they all work with him at MSU one is even a close friend of Larry's. But she had phrased it as she went to you know, she talked to four female experts in the field. And they all said that what he did. Well, it wasn't what they would do it wasn't sexual and that I had not been sexually assaulted that. It was medically sound Ben Amanda, says Christine, more hints, her an information packet an information packet on sexual assault. She tells Amanda there's a support group on campus for sexual assault victims talk about mixed messages. And then Amanda remembers more apologizing profusely. I'm so sorry. There's nothing more. I can do and I told her don't apologize to me. You're not sorry. And I slammed the door and I walked out. What Amanda didn't know in twenty fourteen is that I miss you did not give her the full report Christine. Moore kept one of her findings out of Amandus copy sources share that confidential section with us this year in more sound some major alarms. She says Dr Nassar's treatments are medically sound those are her words, but what he's doing could get the schools sued. Of course, hindsight. We know MSU did get sued this summer the school settled for half a billion dollars in that lawsuit about five hundred people say they were abused by Larry Nassar, and that MSU could have stopped him sooner. But back in twenty four team with a man does case the title nine investigator, simply says that Larry is exposing patients to quote unnecessary trauma. Moore's report. Concludes the university must address the fact that one of our doctors is not getting patient consent. Patients may mistake his practice for quote inappropriate sexual misconduct. We asked to talk with Christine Mohr, she declined our request since this 2014 investigation. She has been promoted Christine Mohr is now one of the universities top lawyers. After less than three months on leave from his job at Michigan State University. Larry is allowed back to work with conditions. Larry would have to follow basic medical guidelines, where gloves get consent have chaperone. We're talking really really basic things that any doctor working with minors in their private areas should do. But despite all the warnings, nobody at MSU ever actually checks to see if Larry's doing any of these things that means young girls and women keep streaming into Larry's treatment rooms, not just at a mess you, but at USA gymnastics and local gyms a nearby high school to even at his home where Larry treats patients on a massage table in his basement. Some seventy survivors say they were abused by Larry after MSU cleared him to go back to work. It would be two years twenty sixteen until another embassy police detective would bring Larry in again this time he wasn't getting away. If there was a row. Is. Because. Match. Action. But I don't. You're saying that you..

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"gaslight" Discussed on Believed

Believed

02:17 min | 3 years ago

"gaslight" Discussed on Believed

"Towards the end of the interview to -tective O'Brien starts reassuring. Larry, she tells them you take polygraph. Prove our innocence, eight appears to meet at your telling me to choose you have less. You're great bullshitter. And you know, you build the curtains on my whole time but eight hundred nations, but I'm seeing here today. You know, I feel like you're telling me the truth. I mean, you're coming to your voluntarily you're wanting to clear your name a net apologized can be used for also decree whatever's. So it's not Leary. Never actually takes that polygraph test. Operator says it will work in this kind of case what he does do is send police several follow up emails with PowerPoint about his techniques. Yes. More power points. Just like he used in brand's case you heard about that in episode two when the interviews over detective O'Brien. Thanks Larry for coming in so fast. No problem. Larry says this is been. Therapeutic. For. Good. Comfortable talk to you. You know what I mean? So. Face so students in k and be your homework. Some eagles video. I'll send you the videos tonight. Larry says get your popcorn. What point you're stowing detective O'Brien tells him, hopefully, we will have this all wrapped up before we both go on vacation, they shake hands. And she walks him out. Police did bring this case to prosecutors for review the prosecutor's office decided not to charge. Larry we tried to talk to detective O'Brien. She still works for us. You police been promoted to assistant chief, but the police chief denied requests said the report has to speak for itself. So now Larry's talked his way out of two different police investigations once in two thousand four and now again in twenty fourteen and it wasn't just police who let Larry go coming up after the break, Michigan State University investigates Amandus complete it does.

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"gaslight" Discussed on Believed

Believed

02:23 min | 3 years ago

"gaslight" Discussed on Believed

"Larry just dodged the truth is, yeah, lots of other patients have complained about Larry at this point by twenty fourteen girls have told coaches their parents, their apace even police about Larry Larry knows this. But detective O'Brien does not a few minutes later. She asked him again do patients tell you if they are uncomfortable. How do they realized that or combination of a few times where that has been brought up okay? And each time sexual stop again the tape is garbled there. But what Larry just said was. Yes, there have been a few complaints. But he's telling this detective those girls had all been sexually abused in the past. Okay. So that's what that's what I'm saying. Never comparable like that. It's been tradition. Three cases, not three of them were sexually abuse. This is really weird for one thing. How would Larry know if a patient had a history of sexual abuse. And why would that undermine patients complain about him bottom line? He is admitting to the police there have been three other girls who are uncomfortable during my treatments, but detective o'bryant doesn't ask any follow ups about these three other girls. Although the police report is partially redacted nothing in that report the police video or our own reporting suggest anyone tried to track these three girls down. And then Larry suggests maybe Amanda the woman who complained this time, maybe she also has a history of abuse. Forgot about how she's never been. You know, people say she was how that's my job. Why why we I've missed that? Because then it's my job to help to that saying, so we're Larry is beating himself up about the possibility that Amando was previously sexually abused. And he missed it. That's my job. He says to bring help to that. Yes. She was device. Yes. I was mic demise tonight. Tell okay because hurting someone like that. Right. It's not right..

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"gaslight" Discussed on Believed

Believed

04:47 min | 3 years ago

"gaslight" Discussed on Believed

"Police interview is that he flips the script you've seen law and order the purpose posted tonight, everything Larry doesn't do that. He says, of course, I touched her breast. Of course, I touched her vagina. It's not sexual. It's medical this poor girl is confused. But Amanda says she remembers her appointment pretty clearly, and she definitely does not feel confused about seeing Larry with an erection. I could tell that he was aroused because at a Boehner so and then he faced the corner of the room kind of like was like messing with his hands. And then came back down set down like at the computer was like we're going to have to do that more like. When can you come in for a follow up? He wanted to make me right away. It was like the weirdest thing. Like, he was acting like it didn't just happen. Like, I didn't actually just catch him molesting like sexually assaulting me trying to he was about to insert his fingers into me when I pushed him off of me just acted like nothing. He did was rollock. It was totally fine. And he even told me, you know, it's okay. If you're if you're worried about being on your period, I can work around that. And then his computer froze. I was like it's fine. I don't I'll call back like just kept on asking me like what the state what about that day doing out all the options? Like, he finally got his computer to work. I agree to an appointment that I had knew. There was no way. I was coming to. It was just like, okay fine. Yeah. I'll take this appointment and then. I got the fuck out of there. Amanda says she told investigators about seeing Larry with an erection. But that detail isn't mentioned in the reports, we don't hear about it in the police interview, either what you can't see during the interview is Larry whipping out his laptop putting it on the table. He wants to show detective O'Brien these videos on his computer these are training videos. He makes the kind he puts up on his YouTube channel can't placement. But what she says it'll help her understand what he's doing see my hand. Larry asks he points to the screen. It's right there right in her inner rectal vaginal area. We're going to play some more of this police tape. Listen as detective O'Brien traced Ston nail Larry down on specifics. So there's a couple of different times that she few inmates actually all out fee examination chief out like that you were Macaj her breast and of nap part of the manipulation that you would leery dodges the question about this breast massage just talks and talks and talks he talks for so long. We just edited together a sample of it for you here where you're working with. Okay. If you can't use the shoulder cycle. Through a lot. Can. Other areas. You're going to be a hand the chest one in computers fashion techniques. It's. This is Larry playbook. He's hammering his credentials. He's bombarding. You with words lots of words about his techniques. And the first time I watched this. I thought if this guy were sitting across from me flooding me with all this eagerness expertise. And which seems like empathy. I might buy it. I know how. Taken by surprise at the same time. If you like fuel that I was doing something inappropriate should give a year. You know, good to Hugh that you feel bad that she feel. Little deviants. You know? I mean, that's not right. And that's. Spread like wildfire out. Right, right. Twenty seven year with the TV on eighty six. In those kids, go in nature. No question about it. A little later in the interview detective O'Brien asks Larry have you ever gotten complaints from other patients any complaints year where prior to this month and figure videotaping being here? This has been going on for forever. We're going to stop the tape here again for just a second. Because this is a key question..

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"gaslight" Discussed on Believed

Believed

04:34 min | 3 years ago

"gaslight" Discussed on Believed

"Incident when the laughter within their own member. On a. I was scared, but he was. Larry Nassar, the like Olympic doctor. So she left the room. And then he I he wanted to start on my shoulder, which is when he put his hand in like massage one of my breasts, and he told me that my boyfriend needed to give me veteran, massages. We've been back you better. They're very take a deep breath. And then I told him that he wasn't helping and. I kinda like put like pushed his hand off me. It was like, you know, this isn't why I'm here because this hand was like right on my job. If you own they should tighten up if you touch someone, you know. You know, what to do something? That's inappropriate there. Reflexively is going to respond. And then. He had me laid on my stomach for the back manipulation. Then he like went and got some lotion, and like started at the top of my back and kind of like worked his way down, and then moved my pants down like to expose my book crack, and I it was weird. But he was like working on my back, and then he likes his hand in between my butt cheeks in like. Started like. Like circling around my. Like, my Pacino bening tell people the. Touch is a personal thing. But there's a difference between palpitation and caressing toward. Tell story this story about when I was dating school, and I was three long years for the ends up stuff and it ended after because maybe insulin together, and she said, you're pal. You know, I was more in tune. And that's how I've made my reputation is very in tune to the person's. Okay. This seems really weird. The seems really inappropriate. He's under my underwear. There's nobody else in the room. He's not even wearing gloves like still want to give them the benefit of the doubt. And then I had this dot. Wow. Like what he's doing right now could literally turn somebody on. And I was like, oh, no. This is not good. This is this is inappropriate. So she I heard a giant hole, and she felt again with misogyny nature, and that she had went after two long, and then you hadn't explained it to her prior to you doing it with talking during your time. That you have to get that. How does this feel feel better is she did that initially? She sent yet through matter. So you continue, and then she's been at some point that she says that she felt it was hurting. So she says, hey hurts case out, and he's that. It's a it's a. Erection. And I don't. I don't know how to say that would be appropriate. I told him he was hurting me. Them to stop. And he told me he was almost done. And then I just I'm like pushed him off of me. Right now with report entitled utility, no is a sexual assault. That is as how she's feeling that what she can happen. It's her procession. Yeah. Obviously how she could feel that way. I make you can see the I. Whole website of education. Gymnastics. Doctor Facebook gymnastics, doctor YouTube gymnastics, doctor town, I actually toucher their purpose. I story touch. Let's stop a minute. Wanna digest this a bit? Larry's genius in this police interview this two and a half hour..

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"gaslight" Discussed on Believed

Believed

05:39 min | 3 years ago

"gaslight" Discussed on Believed

"Dr Suzanne Thomas show is a pediatrician. So she knows what to do when her daughter's get sick back in twenty fourteen. Her oldest Amanda is in grad school when an old cheerleading injury starts flaring up. So Suzanne recommends a doctor she had known since med school. And I said, well, Amanda, I've got the perfect person for you to go see Dr Nassar, Suzanne is on her way home from work when she gets a call from Amanda. Amanda sounds frantic. She's just gotten out of her appointment with Larry tells Suzanne what happened. I think my words were that's disgusting. I was I was it was repulsive, I could not fathom what it just happened in what she was telling me. It was like what he did what to you? And she repeated it to me a couple of times. And I said, well this just not okay. It's not okay. We've heard this before it's not, okay. Amanda is going to tell you her story in some ways, it will be a familiar one. But in this episode, you will also hear Leary's side of the story in his own words because this time we have the tape. I'm Kate wells, and I'm Lindsay Smith. This is believed. In the last couple of episodes. You heard how Larry abused young girl and a teenager. Amanda is different. She's an adult wants to be a doctor like her mom. She's funny. But she's also got this sense of moral responsibility. Is something is wrong. She wants to fix it. You're going to hear from Amanda in a few minutes for now just know there are two chapters to her story and the first starts with the Michigan State University. Police. After a man to complains about Larry detective asked him to come in for a chat. We got the tape of this police interview through a public information request. It's dated may twenty nine twenty fourteen. Ryan negative hero. Larry Nassar is inside the police department at Michigan State University. Detective Valerie O'Brien walks him into a bland Ray interview room. Computer? She apologizes. It's a little cramped anytime. Why out of here you can get up out? My won't be hurt. Hey. So I. 'til selective. O'brien? He has been waiting for her the university put him on leave after mantis complaint. He seems relieved to be here. Like he is finally getting a chance to sort out a terrible misunderstanding. What was that? And it was that admission was concerned inappropriately touching earned and understand. Why in that those are two things confused me because I I do this on regular Acis treatment. As you hear Larry described his version of what happened on that grainy police video we're going to weave in the other version Amandus as she told it to us. It was supposed to be a quick appointment. We want you to hear Larry. And Amanda story side by side. But it was like a two hour three hour -pointment minutes because a lot of July. Mention talking listening this way even here for yourself. How Larry gets people to believe him. Not Amanda how he constructs an alternate reality where he's not abusing these girls. He's healing them stuff the stuff for so long. If you don't have pain patient trust, you'd have had my answer here. Okay. Especially doing this tenure Trump bureaus. Okay. With your kids their dog on job explaining things. Okay. Because. Kate Nyerere still here with you. But we are going to let this tape play out for a while. He remembered me from my high school appointment, he knew my mom. So we kinda like. Weirdly caught up right now. Even tell you what she looks like. Okay. You know who refrigerator nor I that's detective Ella Brian recover for Shane. Okay. I told him about the diagnosis he'd given me a that might arches were too high. And he took my foot and put it on his leg, and like examined it and then like pulled like like pulled it closer. And like who was just like so uncomfortably close to his growing. Just like this is weird talking to kids who were state that is now. And and there's this moment where I was like what it's going on. And I looked up at the resonant 'cause she was across the room. And we're both kind of like. This is weird thought she was there. And then to the resident he's like, oh have you ever seen a some weird injury? Well, like. There's one going on down the hall. We're just gonna finish up in here. If you want to check it out..

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"gaslight" Discussed on Order of Man: Protect | Provide | Preside

Order of Man: Protect | Provide | Preside

02:21 min | 3 years ago

"gaslight" Discussed on Order of Man: Protect | Provide | Preside

"It served me well, every time that I engage with somebody based on my emotions only it just doesn't go well. But every time I use this process and I incorporate this into my experience, those things have a way of serving me better. Okay. So number one, take a deep breath. Number one, be distance yourself from the situation number to find an activity and interest hobby. Something that can engage you physically and mentally. Number three. Figure out the lesson that your emotions are teaching. You just like the gauges on your dashboard. What are the gauges on your dashboard telling you so that you can move into step number four, which is okay. How is this going to serve me if the gaslight. On, it's going to serve me to pull over and go over to the gas station and get some gas. If the check engine light comes on, it's going to serve me well to go get my truck service so that it's not going to do this in the future. If I see that I'm speeding, it's going to serve me well and going to keep me out of a ticket and out of a potential accident for me just to slow down a little bit and get back into the speed limit. That's what emotions are there to do. So step number four, how serve you? And then step number five, I set it already then and only then take the course of action respond the way that you feel you should respond. And I think if you do it that way, you're going to be better served our guys. I know it's a very short one for you compared to what we usually do on Friday, but it was timely. Like I said, we saw a man who allowed his emotions to get the better of him. Again, this was not about who the better fighter is or if he was justified or what he should do or shouldn't do. It was very simply an opportunity to to look and see a man who lost control of his emotions. And you know what, frankly, I'm not judging him individually because we all do that. Lose control of myself at times, I lose control of my emotions than I allow those things to get the better of me. This is something that I am personally working on as well, and I will continue to work on because there's gonna be continual opportunities for me to learn from being mad or angry or contentious. And on the other hand, glad and sad, and excited and full of love and abundance in gratitude as well. So this works on both sides of the spectrum. So there you go guys, go out their own those emotions own them, don't suppress them. Onum do not let them own you guys. I hope that helps. I hope that serve you. Please keep sharing. Keep listening, keep being the men.

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"gaslight" Discussed on The Cooler

The Cooler

01:31 min | 4 years ago

"gaslight" Discussed on The Cooler

"I started to pull you know a lot of people said he fought for what he believed that pitches of naked women one pornographic want exploitative in that they shouldn't be sense because they were cents at eight tonne and his belief that women don't have thoughts he also claimed of women that he helped emancipate them know again right faithful obviously came up against a lot of light push back from the religious communities who hated playboy and everything that is dead four so anyway that's the magazine guys what about the playboy clubs what are you know about the playboy clubs fees bunnies i feel like they're with a brief television show about this that i watched you had women dressed as animals trust as little as we saw television show about the male klay on child so a genuine he was like a soccer club what you'd have like is one oneroom and it was malacca cruise ship comedians and another one and the way that these clubs started is so entrusting playboy covered this chicago nightclub called the gaslight club that featured and i quote buxom waitresses lightlyclad and lots of singing round the piano so they wrote this obstacle in fifty nine about this this club that that existed and apparently other three thousand men read this article and then rotnt playboy being like wet can i got a piece of that the thirst israel yeah they wanted to the sing around the pierre that's what they're really crowd has lost the nightclub i did they were like well if they want it well we'll build it and they'll come he did come they did the slaves oh god.

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