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Fresh update on "emily" discussed on Boston Public Radio Podcast
"So sweet. True host of beat the press, which you can catch Friday night saying nothing. Say. How many times have I said you're the mother who raised me journalistically, I. Almost everything I, know I know. You ask right show. Jared Jim was about to say good afternoon you at this show of Emily's is on Friday night on Channel Two seven o'clock I'm Lee. Hey, how are you? Good. So we today. Emily Nice it almost next to each other up stairs in the newsroom in. So emily turned to me this morning. She said, what should we talk about An said? Well, one of the things I wanted to hear from you have that plaque that says commissioner of common sense. So I wanted to know what the commissioner of common sense thinks about whether or not schools colleges should be reopening or just going wholesale online. Yeah. This is one of those amorphous stories that I can't get enough because every individual school or school system countywide or statewide or the private schools. Is is tackling this and I think for the most part extremely thoughtfully including Brinda Kosciusko come under a lot of flack and fire but I think she's done a really good job. You know and I've got a number of friends who are schoolteachers some of the university level summit elementary or high school level, and they're all like one guy who teaches in a pub a private school got a notice from that school. that. They're open just everybody show up. Everybody's supposed to come back to the teachers students everybody will will deal with. Show social distancing once you get there and then there's all these others my sister's grandkids. They had a full plan all worked out there they live in Virginia and then that was like mid July and then a week later they get up. To change that and you know part of it was it was going to be half in person half in remotely but the circumstances have changed in Virginia there's a big uptick in the virus so. I don't I don't really have a solution I I. Have I actually think it's still only early August and in a month. I wouldn't be surprised if some of these schools and school districts still didn't have a really good plan they just going to say we'll do it remotely until we can figure out when and if to come back well, you know it seems to me that both both because there's more one Baker Governor Baker here governor Cuomo New Yorkers minutes ago said, all school districts can open, but it's up to the individual districts even even the most important voice on this in my view vouch. Said on Monday as a similar but I'll tell you. I've spoken at at work with the guy I mentioned this yesterday who I respect as much as anybody including she. She's jaw from the global health ensued harbored and he said the same thing, the head of the Mathematical Society senators the other day doctor Osman has got an eight and ten year old kid If you want to open the schools at least in Massachusetts, you gotta close all the indoor stuff that you allowed. In phase three dining gyms casinos, you gotTa make a choice and I'll tell you.
Bad News For Prince Andrew As New Witness Comes Forward
"Let's move onto Prince Andrew can remind us how he started this year. He had been basically sacked from the royal family which we take subduing. He was essentially stripped of all his royal duties after his completely disastrous Newsnight interview y have you decided to talk now? because. There is no good time. To Talk, about Mr Epstein and. All things associated in Andrews Newsnight interview his big defense really aside from the fact that he of how they can't sweat and he's a big patron of the pizza. Express woking is that he didn't really know Jeffrey Epstein he claims he only knew him through his friend Glenn, bloom it through his girlfriend. Back, in nineteen, ninety nine, who an I'd known her since she. In the UK this is all Remember that it was his girlfriend. That was the key element in this he was the. Plus. One to some extent in an expert. You through a birthday party for since girlfriend then Maxwell at Sandringham. No shooting weekend a shooting weeks straightforward straightforward for choosing weekend. Despite the fact you know Jeffrey Epstein was at the Palace went to Epstein. Manson had dinner for him. He stayed with Epstein because because Andrew just couldn't find a central Manhattan hotel he's very convenient epsteins mentioned it was a convenient place to stay. I mean I've gone through this in my mind so many times. At the end of the day. with the benefit of all the hindsight that one can have. It was definitely the wrong thing to do is you say that interview was a disaster foundry and he was forced to withdraw from his rural Gt's I'm imagining heat hopes that would draw a line under the whole thing for him but then in July galet maxwell was arrested. The risks are simply too great. The words of the judge refusing bail this evening to maximum the one time girlfriend an alleged accomplice of the sex trafficker Jeffrey Epstein, might saw pleaded not guilty the hearing by video link on charges she helped recruit and groom minors as young as fourteen. So she was arrested in her strange though Bolthole and a few weeks later, a bunch of documents unsealed from a two thousand fifteen civil action brought against her by Virginia. Robert Scott Free and price price whose name pops up again it's Jews You know a lot of the allegations in these documents were already known but what is new is the allegation that? Forced Virginia Robert Scott Free to have sex with Prince Andrew as a way to gather incriminating evidence against him. And then on top of that, this month of witnesses come forward claiming to have seen the Duke of York, at trump nightclub on the night he insisted in the Newsnight interview that he was at Pizza Express in woking why would you remember that? So specifically, why would you remember a pizza best birthday in being because going to pizza express in working is an unusual thing for me to do. So he obviously hit denies everything but the circle is definitely tightening around Andrew. US. Law Enforcement has said repeatedly they want to talk to him that he has been cooperative a war of words as I'm sure you know has broken out between Prince Andrew and the US authorities investigating sex offender Jeffrey. Exiting The prince claims that he has offered to help that inquired eat city times but this is something the American prosecutors deny effectively calling him a liar the palace hopefully insisted this is untrue and US law enforcement has repeated it. So this is where we are at the moment. Do you think this puts more pressure on Andrew to cooperate with the investigation? Me The idea of any member of the royal family cooperating Larry's but yes, I mean absolutely. But I mean the fact that he was saying such stuff in that interview emily weightless without realizing how terrible the sounded I mean just shows he has no sense of consequences for his actions. I'm Jay his sin said, he regrets his ill-judged Association with Epstein. But as you point out, these aren't incredibly serious allegations and yet everybody feels like his story that dozen attract as many column, Inches Harry, and Meghan. Let's I think this is the thing when talking about the role families so much tension and I've just done two is focused on Harry Megan and the stupid decisions they make in his make it actually lady Macbeth is very telling for example, the mail there's certain Cole missed the male who I'm not gonNA pollute podcast listener's ears with his name, but he is completely obsessive. Meghan. Markle. Interest. Rates. Endless combs about her I. Don't like to own Andrew or something Sierra. Let's just bear in mind that actually the royal to really be focused on is Andrew
Fresh update on "emily" discussed on Boston Public Radio Podcast
"We only have thirty seconds Rob Anderson who owns one of my favorite places the canteen province down remember that great facebook post and read a piece in the Atlanta was that the Atlantic to his piece. In the Atlantic right. Right, and saying the same thing what does it open with them? Not An epidemiologist I own a restaurant and that's the dilemma that all these thoughtful kind and I'm not a law enforcement guy what about the lady who refused to even move to Kim social distancing who's going to enforce? Corby, it's great to talk to thanks so much be well. Thanks so much Kuby Co Corby. Or QB Food Corby Kummer joins US every week he's executive director of the Food and Society Policy Program at the Aspen Institute a senior editor at the Atlantic and a senior lecturer at the Tufts Friedman School of Nutrition Science and policy well, coming up Emily Rooney is here with her famous list of assertions and aggravations keep your dial on eighty nine seven W. H. Austin public. Radio. Ahead in Boston Public Radio Joe Biden opposes a Lotta things like pulling out of the Iran nuclear deal repealing the affordable care act abolishing private insurance. But if you're at President Trump's campaign stop in Ohio yesterday, you may have heard the president say that Biden also opposes God as a devout Catholic Biden is not in opposition to God. So why is the president making it part of? His electoral defense, Sue O'CONNELL. What she thinks I'm Jared Bowen filling in for Margery Eagan last week the Boston Globe endorsed Newton. City Councillor Jake. Aukin. Clause in the race to fill joke Kennedy's house seat position that generated controversy after twenty ten facebook post surfaced, which can cause asked why Americans can't burn a Horon breaking with the editorial team Globe business columnist Shirley Leong says that rather than. She thinks former duval. Patrick aid. Jesse. Murmell should fill that seat later she'll join us to tell us why that a more ahead on Boston public? Radio. The.
LAPD Officer Shot by Apparent Friendly Fire While Responding to Suicidal Man in Hollywood
"Officer recovering today after being shot in the arm, apparently by friendly fire. A police detective tells connects that officers were responding to a report of a suicidal man on Wilton Place in Hollywood Wednesday afternoon when it happened, that man was armed with Paris scissors and in the apartment. There was also Rottweiler. At that point, we're not exactly sure what transpired between the officers and the man that there was an officer involved shooting. Detective Megan Aguilar says the officer was shot through the arm. She was taken to a hospital. The Rottweiler was also injured and taken to a vet. But it's unclear how the dog was hurt. How we're going to find out what exactly transpired is by one, of course, interviewing the officers. And reviewing any body worn video regular says the man was not hurt. He was taken into custody. This is the second time in just a few days. Ah police officer may have been accidentally shot Monday at Culver City officer was shot in the leg by friendly fire incident during a police shooting. The suspect in that case was shot and killed. Emily Valdez que next 10 70 news radio 7
LAPD Officer Shot, Possibly by Friendly Fire
"Officer recovering today She was shot in the arm, and they think it was friendly Fire. A police detective tells connects that officers were responding to a report of a suicidal man on Wilton Place in Hollywood Wednesday afternoon when it happened, that man was armed with Paris scissors and in the apartment. There was also Rottweiler. At that point, we're not exactly sure what transpired between the officers and the man that there was an officer involved shooting. Detective Megan Aguilar says the officer was shot through the arm. She was taken to a hospital. The Rottweiler was also injured and taken to a vet. But it's unclear how the dog was hurt. How we're going to find out what exactly transpired is by one, of course, interviewing the officers. And reviewing any body worn video regular says the man was not hurt. He was taken into custody. This is the second time in just a few days. Ah police officer may have been accidentally shot Monday at Culver City officer was shot in the leg by a friendly fire incident during a police shooting. The suspect in that case was shot and killed. Emily
Emily Gorcenski - Making Nazis cry
"People might not know who you are, which would be an awful shame because you one of the coolest people ever. Would you introduce yourself. Sure My Name's Emily Sanski. I am. Anything say work as a data scientist. But also activist and as many who? Studies on tracks modern white supremacy in hate movements. Technologist hockey player. All sorts of things. So I don't know what is what does it mean to be something where somebody? Wow, that's big. That's big from the from the very beginning. I think one of the things that when I was reading about you. A lot of places at set that you're a person who is known for making that cease cry. What does that stem from? That is true so As a little bit of background I'm from Charlottesville Virginia. or at least I spent. Ten years living there. And of course, Charlottesville was the site of the infamous neo-nazi rally in two thousand, seventeen where. A terror attack happened in the TIKI torches and all of that stuff right so sort of. Stuff that we've seen all around the world. And one of the Neo Nazis that was there marching at the rally was a man by the name of Christopher Cantwell and during Tiki Torch Rally, he pepper sprayed me. Along with several other people. And? End You know he was also at the time filming a documentary with Vice News And so what happened was after the rally in the? Vice and HBO. Race to put out this documentary about what had happened they had some very dramatic footage and. Christine was featured very prominently in in all of this and talking about. How he wanted to kill more people and you know showing off his guns and all of these things. Well, the thing is I knew who can't was and I knew that he pepper sprayed me because he posted a picture of himself pepper spraying me as his facebook header the next morning. So I went to the police and made the decision to rest charges against him. and. When he found out that there is a warrant for his arrest. This was shortly after the vice documentary came out with all of his bravado in his you know McKee's mount all of that. So this. News of this warrant comes out and he records himself in a hotel room somewhere in North Carolina or somewhere. Crying. On on this like stream because he's worried that he's got this this warrant for his arrest. And so this sort of very poor. Poorly intentioned little video that he produced. Of himself like sobbing, not quite sobbing but definitely sniffling. Earned him the nickname of decrying Nazi. So he became in within the span of just a few days he went from being this. You Know Big Bold Neo Nazi to this reduced hulk of a man. Who is crying because he you know got caught doing violence. And so that became a sort of a worldwide mean. And this happened because I was one of two people to press charges against him so. I've earned the reputation for making Nazis crappy, and since then I've also made several other Nazis cry for various reasons. And so I guess that is just now the reputation that I have. It's it's funny. You should say he was caught. Doing like very much promoted himself doing the line. You know it baffles the mind. This was such a bizarre sequence of events right because you know here he is somebody that went on camera and talked about how he wanted to be more violent. He was trying to be more violent. You know all of this stuff. and. Then when he acted violently, he bragged about it, you know Oh look at all the you know he calls everyone communists, of course, but all the commies that I guessed. And then he gets caught doing it and then he's like, oh no, there's consequences for my actions. Any cries. But it didn't end there right because. Sensible people when facing forty years in prison as he was. Would Shut their mouths but he did not know he started he continued recording his podcast from jail. And then when he was let out on bail. Despite having literally admitted to pepper spraying me. He then sued me and my co defendant or CO complaining rather in Federal Court. So there is a federal lawsuit against me. For claiming that he pepper sprayed me. Of courses lawsuit eventually went away. It was fine. But it I mean the tied up year life and as a result of this and as a result of his. Many. Attempts to to silence and intimidate me and I actually had to leave Charlotte. So I had to leave the country. In fact, I now live in Germany And so you know the sort of. End of the story or the maybe it's not the end. But the chapter that the story is now on is that Chris can't will plate pleaded guilty to. Two counts of assault. He was let out of jail. So he didn't get the forty years in prison. You got you know basically. Slept on the rest and sent back to his home but he was banned from the state of Virginia for for five years. Well, he didn't make it five years because now he's sitting in a New Hampshire. Jail. Awaiting federal charges where he is now facing thirty two years in prison for extorting. In violently threatening. Another fellow nutmegger.
Why Meditation is Not About Stopping Your Thoughts
"Coming, up on this week's mini episode of the broken brain podcasts. The reason you're meditating is for the other. Twenty three hours or twenty three and a half hours in your day. You're not meditating for that moment. That's not where the dividends show up in your life. I've worn them drew pruitt host of the broken brain podcast. If there was something, you do every to boost your focus and productivity feel energized, reduce stress sleep better. Maintain a positive outlook and support Paul by health. Wouldn't you do it? In this week's mini episode of the podcast I, speak with Megan Monahan Emily Fletcher and Light Watkins all three of my dear friends about the common myths about meditation, the Science of Meditation and how it impacts the brain and how to bring meditation into your life in a practical and tangible way. Let's listen in starting with my interview with my dear friend Megan Monahan a certified choper meditation teacher and author of don't hate meditate. So the number one thing that I hear all of you come up to me or you spiritually slide into my DM's and you think that you're going to get out of meditating by saying to. To, me, He Meghan I try to meditate I. tried to start my thoughts. I try to silence. My mind just can't do it. So saying, but I can't do it and and I will happily retort with as long as you have a pulse, you're going to have thoughts. Meditation is not about stopping your thoughts and silencing your mind I. Don't know who created that sound bite, but it has just been haunting all of teachers for ever and ever and ever at this point. So be really okay with the fact that you're going to have thoughts meditation I like to say that meditation is it's almost like eavesdropping. So. If you can recall a time when you are in public member when that happened and we would be overhearing a conversation, maybe you're in a restaurant, maybe you're on a training maybe out in the world and you overhear a conversation most of the time you're not going to jump into a strangers conversation and input your thoughts, right? Because that would be strange. That's kind of like what meditation is meditation is when you get to start taking a step back and just eavesdropping. Eavesdropping on the activity eavesdropping on your own boss eavesdropping on sounds that you can hear or physical sensations in your body, and it's just creating space between you and that activity and practicing doing that while you're meditating and then taking that sort of mental strength that awareness outside of meditation and putting that into practice when you're in your waking state meditations, not about stopping your thoughts number. One thing that I hear. So if that's your excuse, sorry, you have to meditate. The other people say to me a lot and it will happen after class or after with client or whatever it is. They'll say, oh, that was a really good one and I always stop them. And and just reframed not a bit because I. Think we have this expectation that. That it should feel really relaxing that it should that we should have some insight that we should maybe have some Aha moment that maybe we have some clarity navy. We feel a deep sense of stillness that we had access to all of a sudden there. These very cool meditation, need very technical term moments that you can have when you meditate and it's cool when those happen. If any of those things, I just described show up if you see colors if you. Feel a connection to yourself. That's really dope and those meditations are really fun. But that meditation is just as good as the meditation. I did this morning where my fire alarm went off in the middle there. Equally good one was just more fun. When was more enjoyable. The only bad meditation is the one that you don't do. So I think the other the other myth that I would kind of dispel as that nothing needs to happen for it to work in the moment, you just have to do it not on link working out. You know if I'm if I go out for a run, there will be days when when I am running. Running in two minutes in, it feels like I have never run before in my life, and it's so laborious and meaningful, and then I have the days where I feel like I could run marathons on all of those runs were equally beneficial. I just liked one of them were. So basically advocating for the removal of judgment on a medication. Yes. Like the expectation because what happens so to just push it a little bit what happens when we do say that was a good one or somebody says, oh. Man I really knew that that was a good one. What's the fear or what's the concern when somebody judges a meditation as good or bad? So number one, I think with any kind of judgment. It stops being a neutral place for you and I think one of the biggest blessings of meditation is that it's this kind of neutral landscape that you get to rest, and so I think if you have an expectation is already a sense of meaning that you're applying to it that isn't going to serve you and and I think you've set yourself up. Up to two, almost have an out which I'm not a fan of I. Think we should all meditate every day for the rest of our lives. So if you have a string of meditations where it doesn't feel great, you're kind of Ansi or where you hear the leaf blower every time or where the dog is bothering you. Then all of a sudden. Oh, it's not going. Well, I'm gonNA stop doing
Torrance Police Arrest 2 People Suspected Of Vandalizing Car, Yelling ‘White Lives Matter’, Los Angeles
"A married couple for a hate crime where they yelled on Lee White lives matter and then did a Nazi salute. Police arrested Gregory and Rachel how for the July 22nd incident, which has been seen by countless people in a viral video that was taken by the victims. The victim couple was in a vehicle behind a truck at a stop light near Artie. Asian Prairie. Police say video shows a woman getting out of the passenger side of the truck in front of them and going up to the victims and yelling. Moments later, a man gets out of the truck ahead and doesn't Nazi hand salute in front of the victims before he gets a shovel and hits the victim's vehicle several times as they try to drive off. In the video. One of the victims appears to be black towards police arrested the couple Friday. Emily
Trump said he plans to ban TikTok in the US
"President trump says he will ban the popular short video platform Tiktok from operating in the US over concerns that the Chinese owned APP may be passing out data from American users NPR's Emily Chang. Reports the news comes scrutiny over Chinese companies increases in the US only hours before trump told reporters on air force one that he was banning tiktok several news reports said Microsoft wasn't advanced talks to acquire TIKTOK. Chinese tech giant bite. Dan's owns Tiktok that Chinese ownership has raised concerns. The opposite passing user information to China's Communist Party by dance has strongly denied the allegations saying tech talks, US operations are separate from those. In China last year, the Treasury Department opened an investigation against Tiktok over national security concerns, and in recent months by Dan's had been seeking potential US buyers for Tiktok as pressure for it to divest grew. Emily saying NPR news
Microsoft Said to Be in Talks to Buy TikTok, as Trump Weighs Curtailing App
"Trump says, he will ban the popular short video platform Tiktok from operating in the US over concerns Chinese chinese-owned APP may be passing on data from American users. NPR's Emily Fang reports. The news comes as scrutiny over Chinese company increases in the US only hours before trump told reporters on air force one that he was banning tiktok several news reports said Microsoft wasn't advanced talks to acquire. TIKTOK Chinese tech. Giant Bite Dan's Tiktok that Chinese ownership has raised concerns the APP is passing user information to China's Communist Party by dance has strongly denied the allegations saying take talks US operations are separate from those in China last year at the Treasury Department opened an investigation against Tiktok over national security concerns and in recent months by Dan's had been seeking potential US buyers for Tiktok as pressure for it to divest grew.
Hong Kong's new security law explained
"Has denied attacking free speech after biting a dozen candidates from Legislative Council elections scheduled for September. The decision really does come a day after police arrested four youths over social media Post chief North Asia correspondent Stephen Angle has investigated the ramifications of this national security Lou in a new hour long documentary airing later. Friday. In fact, just over half an hour's time is hunger on aged to Steve joins us now with a look at what's in store for the opposition. After these latest move, Steve Well, Obviously, it's a big blow to the opposition if they have 12 of their candidates and potentially even more to be disqualified because, according to the government here, they do not necessarily meet the qualifications of supporting the basic law as well as the new national security law. So it is a blow. I mean, it is one of the biggest disqualifications. It is the biggest disqualification of candidates. Because four years ago in 2016 6 candidates were disqualified and I'll let you decide of the merit on those disqualifications in this slice of Hong Kong on edge, too. I honestly feel that at the end of the day at the moment, we're on like an airplane with a lot of turbulence. Everybody's holding on waiting for the plane to land. But in most cases the plane land safely or waiting for it to crash or waiting for it to crash, But I honestly feel that this airplane is not going to crash because China needs Hong Kong. They needed open Hong Kong. They're not gonna change the mode here. They just want to keep it safe. You want to make it stronger? Fei Jing Shirley, though, doesn't want a stronger pro democracy campaign. Before the passage of the national security law. Pan Democrat lawmakers have been accused of using disruptive and filibustering tactics while fostering anti China sentiment playing cards similar to those the U. S government put out in Iraq during the second Gulf War. I've circulated here, singling out the faces of pro democracy advocates, including the human rights lawyer, Albert Ho, the ace of hearts, There will be a lot of scaring tactics. Many people are being scared away. You know, they want to defeat you without using using any force or even waiting at a war that is That is the way that the Chinese play. You know the game. If I sit here and say no, I will never be arrested. Emily Lau. Were you born yesterday? You live under Communist rule. How dare you say? I've never said that even in 1997. But neither did I predict that. Oh, I will be arrested tomorrow. No, we live under Chinese rule. So anything everything that happened. It would not surprise us, because that's the way they behave to their own people. But we will stay and fight. I don't think I'm going to leave. Even though I know I'm facing imminent risk being put in jail because you know if I become scared All the other people were also more become u know where is scared that then the whole community to be stifled. Have? Nope. Random with Hong Kong and we need to fight until the last minute, according to the anti subversion regulation before the Nationalists created lot implement in Hong Kong. This in the field is legal. But after the national security law implement in Hong Kong, this interfere might be illegal. And not only arresting me even arrest you. Freedom of speech is limited by the new that made me The freedom to ever Uncle Independence freedom to advocate overthrowing the Chinese Communist Party. I omit that there is some limitation and freedom of speech is freedom of the press. Under threat. No, no, no unless they involved in succession, subversion or not terrorist activities. But do people have to be worried about what they post on Facebook? What they post on social media, nannies and their employees? Post war? Yes, I don't think you have judicious obligation for what you are. What criminal ofthings your stuff meets the department is if you are not involved with them. You have no intention to carry out succession, subversion and terrorists X Then what? What have you to fear about?
The George Soros Saga: Antisemitism, Conspiracies, and Influence
"Billion-a-year Fillon therapist mega donor George Soros has long been the villain of conspiracy theories. He has also been a target of politicians and pundits on the right who resent his fierce opposition to George W Bush and Donald. Trump, they also object to his philanthropy support of liberal causes support most clearly defined by his mega donations. Earlier this month, the open society foundations, the ill philanthropic group founded by Mr Soros announced it would invest one hundred, fifty million dollars in grants for black lead, racial justice groups, and another seventy million toward local grants for criminal justice reform. The announcement came amid protests in the streets and calls for racial justice sparked by the murder of George. Floyd. Minneapolis those protests, some of which have turned violent have fuelled critics to view those donations as efforts to foment anarchy and back government corruption emily. Tamken. saw these critiques and conspiracy theories already building steam and two thousand sixteen which inspired her to research and write the influence. Of Soros, her latest Book Emily Welcome. Thank you so much for having me on the show so far listeners. Let's take a step back and start with WHO is George Soros not who the conspiracy theorists say he is but who is he really and what causes does he support and why? George. Is a Hungarian born American billionaire he is very influential in three realms the realm of finance, the rubber philanthropy, and the realm of politics in finance. He was a very famous and successful hedge fund manager. He's maybe the most famous and successful currency speculator in the history of finance, and then you know in the nineteen seventies after making a lot of money, he decides to start giving away some of that money to the cause of what he calls open society. The title comes the Name Open Society comes. From this book by Karl. Popper who was Soros's tutor at the London School of Economics and basically the premise of open society and its enemies is that this gross over simplification but basically, the premise is that you know neither you nor I can really know the truth. So what we're supposed to do is all of us together in a society come together and we discuss and debate, and we try to reach this perfect understanding and practice that's meant giving students scholarships. It's meant setting up a university in. It's meant you know after the dissolution of the Eastern Bloc in Suva Union paying for Internet for various government ministries and trying to connect people to information. He's also a big an influential figure in politics beginning in two thousand four. In the United States, he decided that he really wanted George W Bush out of office and became a major political donor. So I think you know I WANNA be careful to make clear that the political spending is separate from thirty but because he's this major philanthropic and also major political donor and because the political donations or not exclusively, but do tend to be four Democrats in liberal causes. I think that that colors the perception of some not just on the right but particularly, some people on the right in the United States. So source is a Hungarian. Jewish emigrant right tell us more about his upbringing and how it informed his philanthropy and political activism nineteen thirty Hungary is the Inter war period between World War One and World War Two prior to World War One Jews in the Hungarian part of the austro-hungarian Empire were more assimilated than many other Jews in Europe. They really saw themselves. Many of them saw themselves as Hungarian were part of the Hungarian national project report of this Lake Glittering Budapest life world we're one happens Hungary is on the losing side they lose a lot of their territory in the tree of and all, which is like the austro-hungarian version of the treaty of Versailles. And for a variety of reasons, the Jews are scapegoated for this. So you have these he's born into this world where you start having a Jewish quotas laws meant to persecute Jews, and this is. Even, before World War Two, his father has them changed their name from shorts to Soros to seem less obviously Jewish in this increasingly hostile environment his father had previously like escaped. Prison camp in Siberia during World War, one and made his way back to Hungary during the Russian civil war. So he knew something about survival. World to comes and there's there's not the occupation and there's the Arrow Cross which is like the Hungarian variant. He sees his father as this great protective figure who helped other people the father. was procured bull forged embargo documents of the Soros family and friends in front of friends could hide out is Christians during during the time, but he also he's persecuted for being Jewish he then after world, War Two is living under a certainly not the same kind of persecution but under a repressive oppressive socialist regime and I think that this is two things one, it makes this concept of society where we can all debate and discuss very attractive and I also think that for him because he was persecuted on the basis of his ethnicity religion. That inspired in him. The understanding that it was important to try to help whatever group was caught under the wheel at a given moment with this history and background in mind. IS IT ANTI Semitic to criticize Mr Soros and the causes he supports I'm not saying the criticizing Soros is. Anti Semitic I think he's done things that you can criticise part of the reason that I wrote this book is that it should be what he is actually done and the money that he's actually spent not money that he has never spent and thinks he has never going to do that to me is when it trips over into in antisemitic conspiratorial.
Jeff Bezos will testify about how Amazon is the quintessential American company
"Largest tech companies are due to appear before Ah House Judiciary subcommittee on Anna trusted to answer questions about whether they have become and a competitive and won't return. Now to Emily Chang. She is anchor of Bloomberg Tech. We were rudely interrupted before I'm delighted you could be back with us, Emily So let's talk about this. We're talking about the four cos they're all big. They're all tech, but they're actually quite different company. One from the other. How can there be a through line from this investigation on these four different companies? Absolutely, And that's a very good point, David, Each of these CEOs of each of these four companies could have their own multi day hearing. The issues are very different with Facebook. It's misinformation and advertising with Google is advertising and search, which, with Apple, it is The APP store with Amazon. It is how these companies treat third party sellers. Jeff Bezos is somebody that we're really going to be watching here, the CEO of Amazon and also the richest person in the world because he's never testified before Congress before, and there are a lot of people who want to hear what he has to say in his prepared remarks, which were also a little bit different. From the rest. He talked about how his parents invested in Amazon in the early days. A typical and true American success story. He's also the owner of The Washington Post says that that could bring out a little more idolatry from the lawmakers. We don't know, but it's definitely going to be interesting to see how these lawmakers throughout their questions because they could basically ask anyone Anything at any time. So there's a chance that this could be all over the map, especially given that this is a virtual hearing. You're gonna have some of the lawmakers in the room. The hearing has been delayed because they're basically cleaning up from the last hearing. You've got staffers inside now washing it down. But all of the CEOs will be calling in virtually So
Tech's four biggest companies are going on trial
"Important tech hearings up on Capitol Hill, where the CEOs the four largest tech companies are due to appear before Ah House Judiciary subcommittee on Anna trusted to answer questions about whether they have become and a competitive and won't return. Now to Emily Chang. She is anchor of Bloomberg Tech. We were rudely interrupted before I'm delighted you could be back with us, Emily So let's talk about this. We're talking about the four cos they're all big. They're all tech, but they're actually quite different company. One from the other. How can there be a through line from this investigation on these four different companies? Absolutely, And that's a very good point, David, Each of these CEOs of each of these four companies could have their own multi day hearing. The issues are very different with Facebook. It's misinformation and advertising with Google is advertising and search, which, with Apple, it is The APP store with Amazon. It is how these companies treat third party sellers. Jeff Bezos is somebody that we're really going to be watching here, the CEO of Amazon and also the richest person in the world because he's never testified before Congress before, and there are a lot of people who want to hear what he has to say in his prepared remarks, which were also a little bit different. From the rest. He talked about how his parents invested in Amazon in the early days. A typical and true American success story. He's also the owner of The Washington Post says that that could bring out a little more idolatry from the lawmakers. We don't know, but it's definitely going to be interesting to see how these lawmakers throughout their questions because they could basically ask anyone Anything at any time. So there's a chance that this could be all over the map, especially given that this is a virtual hearing. You're gonna have some of the lawmakers in the room. The hearing has been delayed because they're basically cleaning up from the last hearing. You've got staffers inside now washing it down. But all of the CEOs will be calling in virtually So your comments suggest there is another person not in the room who may be quite important that is Donald J. Trump the president, United States He's not been shy in his criticism of some of these tech companies at all. What is the potential influence of the president here? Absolutely. And David we actually just in the last half hour, So got another tweet from the president focused on Big tech, the president tweeting. If Congress doesn't bring fairness to Big Tech, which they should have done years ago, I will do it myself with executive orders in Washington. It has been all talk and no action for years and the people of our country are sick. And tired of it. Of course, the president tweets themselves have been the subject of much controversy, especially how Facebook in particular has handled his tweets. The one about looters and shooters threatening violence on the American people threatening violence on protesters in Washington, D. C. Facebook has made the decision to let those posts stand unflagging not behind. A warning of any kind, and that has kicked off. Ah lot of controversy. Facebook is in the middle of an ad boycott. Right now, you've got massive advertisers who have pulled their advertising from Facebook for the month of July and some for the foreseeable future. So you can expect Facebook to be the subject and Mark Zuckerberg in particular, probably of the most iron from these lawmakers. Lots of concern. About anti conservative bias on the right and also concerns from Democrats as well. You've seen Vice President Joe Biden, the Democratic presidential candidate, also taking aim at Facebook, and in fact, President Trump has already used his executive powers to sign an executive order asking The FCC to take a look at old laws that give companies like Facebook and Google and Twitter protection from liability over the content that those users users post so we could expect that to be a really hot button issue today. Well, it's a fascinating point. This is Washington where the rules as we both know are different, but this is the antitrust subcommittee, the House Judiciary Committee. Theoretically, they're supposed to do with competition issues. Not the substance of speech. And yet I wonder whether it would be a fair amount of questions that have nothing to do with that. I trust her competition at all it has to do with political bias. Absolutely. And look, I've talked to all of the company's going into this. They're expecting questions to be all over the map. It is not all going to fall under the antitrust umbrella, and we know that at some of these lawmakers, we're gonna have sort of personal bones to pick with these companies whether or not one of their posts personally was flagged. Or not, And it's been interesting hearing from the critics as well. You've got CEOs of other big tech companies like the CEO of Spotify, the CEO of Epic games and maker of Fortnight. I've spoken to these folks in the last couple of weeks in the last couple of months, and they've been speaking out about thes companies saying that Apple, for example. Is American, Apple and Google are a duopoly. You've heard a lot of criticism going into this about how these companies run their businesses, and that's what these lawmakers have been hearing now on. The other side of these four companies have massive lobbying operations that they've turned over. One source told me voluminous amounts of documents, millions and millions of pages. Stating their case stating their side to make sure that these lawmakers are informed and we should hope that these lawmakers are going into this with with some level of the right information you know in the past. When Mark Zuckerberg, for example, testified before Congress for the first time, some lawmakers didn't understand how Facebook's business model actually worked. So we'll be watching to see whether or not these lawmakers actually understand the businesses and the points That they want to make. It was a famous exchange. How do you make your money If you don't charge for, he said, Well, we sell advertising Senator. That was quite an exchange. Emily. Thank you so very much Want to treat you have you with us? That's Bloomberg technology anchor Emily Chang, and we're going to bring you the hearing when it finally gets underway on Capitol Hill. Meanwhile,
Mars Is The Place To Go This Summer
"Okay Joe Palca. We are talking missions to Mars. Let's start with the United Arab Emirates which launched its probe two weeks ago. As you said, this is the country's first mission to Mars Yup and the probe is called hope and it will arrive in twenty twenty, one and twenty twenty one is a big year for the U. E. as I'm sure you know Emily Kwong I do not Joe Palca, but you're going to tell me why, yes, I am a because it's the fiftieth anniversary of the founding of the UAE which was established in nineteen seventy one. So the morality leadership was eager to do something. Something to celebrate and a mission to Mars seemed like a great idea, Joe, that is a pretty splashy birthday present. Yes. That's what I was hoping for my fiftieth birthday, but I didn't get it. But seriously, that's just one of the reasons that they were going to Mars, it's partly to celebrate, but I talked Sarah Murray the deputy project manager and science lead for the emerets Mars mission. The purpose was not only to get to Mars by twenty twenty one and have vowed scientific. Data coming out of the mission that is unique nature and no other mission has captured before. But more importantly, it was about developing the capabilities and capacity of engineers in the country. Interesting. Yeah. Sarah says that the country's leaders wanted the you A. to develop a more of a knowledge-based economy and building a Mars probe provided a focus for expanding the country's technological capabilities. Okay. So Sarah mentioned the unique nature of this mission. Joe Tell me about the probe and what it is designed to do. It's about the size of a small car in weighs about a ton and a half, and it has these solar panels that look like wings essentially an and when they're spread out, it's about twenty four feet wide and when it goes to, Mars it will go into a really unusual elliptical orbit that will take essentially over every point on Mars. Once a week, it's providing us with full understanding of the changes, the weather of, Mars. Throughout an entire Martian day and throughout all the seasons of Morris throughout an entire Martian year, which lasts roughly two earth years. Wow. So they're really trying to get a comprehensive picture of the Martian atmosphere right and it's not just over time. Here's David Brain. He's part of a team of scientists at the University of Colorado Boulder collaborating on the emerets Mars mission. The three instruments that are on the space craft will help us measure the atmosphere of Mars from the surface, all the way to space. which has really been done before with other missions and that's very cool. All right. Joe, I know that China's mission to Mars has been a bit shrouded in secrecy. Here's what we know that it's name is teen win one which means questions to heaven. But one of the most notable things about it is that it includes an orbiter, a lander Andrew Rover. So a spacecraft that orbits the planet can land on it and move across the surface. Right? Well, it's really it's got three parts. It's all pushed together for the trip there, but then they separate. The orbiter of course stays in orbit and does remote sensing of the planet, and also will serve as a radio relay station for the mission on the surface, and then they'll these two things together, Land Rover, and then the rover will drive down a ramp and explore around the landing site. So it's an interesting mission, and I think it's a little hard to say China is not obviously in the same category as. As NASA terms of look what we did look over here, look do this we you know there there are a little more circumspect about how they do their missions. But the scientists I've talked to say this is a very serious interesting probe and it puts China in a really interesting position because only one country has successfully landed and roved round on Mars. Can you guess which country that is Russia? Now it's a It's the U S. of course, Russia did actually land a probe. It's a question of whether to call it a success or not because it only sends signals back for a few seconds. So technical success, I guess but not a very interesting mission.
John Lewis to Lie in State in the Capitol Rotunda
"The whole Special truth. services He's continuing charged this with morning the murder to honor of his a civil longtime rights friend, icon. Susan Berman, Today of in solemn her Beverly tribute Hills and home symbolism nearly 20 in Washington, years ago. CBS Prosecutors Dancing allege Court Durst This is killed the Berman body of former because congressman she knew something and civil about rights the disappearance hero John of Lewis his wife is on a journey in 1978. to the U. S. Capitol. Emily He will Valdas stop can extend at the 70 Martin news radio Luther King Junior guy Memorial. from Palmdale, who played The a guilty to casket paying $600,000 will also be in taken bribes to the to get African contracts American with Ella Museum County of for History his electrical and Culture, company. Supposed and to also Be in court he will today stop to get sentence. Briefly Prosecutors at the are asking that he Black be sent Lives to federal matter prison Plaza for three near years. the White House, Two former CBS county News employees correspondent who got the Steve bribes Dorsey have also starting both this pleaded evening guilty. through One tomorrow, is Louis already will lie serving in a state one year sentence, not and in the other the rotunda is waiting but to with be sentenced an outdoor under public study shows viewing which states because of would Corona be most virus impacted crowd by precautions. the president's order Masks to exclude and the social immigrants. distancing In will the country be required legally illegally in invitation from being counted arrival in ceremony the redrawing will also of the U. S be held House this districts afternoon at the Capitol. and what Lois state was gets honored hit over the the most weekend in Alabama, US his home state with tributes, encouraging young activists to continue his work.
‘A Quiet Place 2,’ ‘Top Gun: Maverick’ Delayed Until 2021
"Top gun fans have waited more. Them 30 years for a sequel, and now you're gonna have to wait a little longer. Top gun Maverick was supposed to come out this fall, but the studio says it's been delayed until April of next year. Paramount says a quiet place part two, which John Krasinski and Emily Blunt, also delayed to next year. Studio says they really want these films to open in the theater, so fans get the full
Poll shows Americans support Black Lives Matter but resist shifts of police funds or removal of statues
"And talk with co Most Bill O'Neill, Emily. We do see a strong amount of support for the overall message. Don't wait. We found that a majority of Americans supported the Black lives matter movement and that was across different races and ethnicities, including a majority of white people. Now, however, when it comes to defunding Police Department's there clearly is some pause in these numbers as well. Right. We found a lot less. We didn't find majority support for cutting back police funds spend more money on social services. 40% of Americans supported such a move and 55% opposed. That included majorities a majority of Democrats who supported cutting back funding for police departments and spending that money on social services instead. But a small 14% my minority of Republicans. The same. 84% of Republicans are opposed to defending the police and among independents, 53% were opposed, and 42% were in support. Now. The survey also took a look at the removal of statues and symbols that may be tied to the slavery era. The civil war. And there is some opposition to that as well, Right. We've found that there were narrow majorities of people saying they oppose removing public statues honoring Confederate generals, 43% of Americans supported their removal. A wide majority of Republicans and a small majority of independence are opposed to this, while 74% of Democrats supported the removal of statues of Confederate general. But we also asked about removing statues of former U S presidents who owned enslaved people, and an even greater share of Americans are opposed to that 68%. Totally. Is there any sense that these numbers may be shifting? His time has gone by that. I don't have earlier measurement of how people feel about taking down statues. But we've looked at some of these questions We've asked in the past. Two about race in America and police as well, and one of the things we asked about was whether black people and other minorities receive equal treatment as white people in the criminal justice system. And in the question when we asked this this week, we found that 69% of Americans said that white people do not hurt that black people and other minorities do not receive equal treatment of white people in the criminal justice system, and that was a 15 point from when we last asked in 2014 That's polling analyst Emily Gus can read more online at washingtonpost dot com. Almost Bill O'Neill Mobile news time. 10 19 road to the White House. Joe Fighting was courting minority groups. Canada Joe
How Vivian Kaye Turned Her Hair Care Needs into a Multi-Million Dollar Biz
"K. is a fourteen year veteran entrepreneur who has bootstrapped to companies from the ground up for the last seven years. She has strictly focused on the e-commerce world where she built kinky curly Yacky, which offers textured hair extensions for black women to over one million in annual revenue Vivian has been featured on shop. Expert Academy Series Ted Conferences the way we worked and has been featured and digital publications such as Black Enterprise Magazine and refinery twenty nine Vivian, welcomed being boss. Thank you for having made such a pleasure to be here. Vivian! We've gotten to know you a little bit over the past couple of days. You've popped in on some of our sessions. You've been offering us so much guidance and. Radiance and your smarts and all of the things. So now I'm dying to hear your story like, can you, can we? Let's rewind a little bit and we're GonNa. Get into all of the wisdom that you have to share, but I want to know more about your entrepreneurial journey, so tell us like. Where did it begin? How did you get to where you are now being on Ted and refinery twenty nine this morning i saw on your instagram. You're on somebody's vision board like talk about goals. How did you get there? Honestly I really don't know. Because, it's not like being an entrepreneur was a big thing right, so you know back when I was growing up? Being an entrepreneur was for people who didn't have jobs. And so I kept you know I was always in jobs where the one person department one Person Marketing Department and then you know I was at a job one day and decided to start side hustling. So I started out my first business as a side hustle and then while I was running that side. Hustle I got fired for sorry I got laid off. That's the momentum. Laid off from that job, and then at that point I said. You know what let me just let me just go for it. Just go for it and do whatever I need to do. 'cause I'm young I'm free and I can. I can do whatever I want. And while I was running that business I started running, and then I had started a side hustle with kinky curly Yacky, so it was like I had businesses running at the same time so it wasn't something that I set out to do, but with both businesses I set out to solve my problem. And at the time I didn't realize that that was the best way to start a business. But that's what it was I. set out to start to solve my own problem or to solve a pain point that I saw people were having so so that's how my entrepreneurial journey began. What was the first sight hustle? The first sight has a wedding decorator. So all I would do is go in and decorate people's wedding so instead of being on a an event planner doing you know doing all those little things I focused on one thing and what it was I decided so there's a whole story behind that so I'm one of four girls and I'm the second the number two. So my older one was getting there. My older sister was getting married and she hired a decorator who who sent you decorate the wedding for? Say a thousand dollars right, so she paid her deposit. Everything was good, but two weeks before the wedding she came back and said I need another thousand dollars, but didn't have a reason why. Right so I thought well. Of course, she couldn't have paid for A. She couldn't afford to pay her, so she ended up having to hire different decorator that decorated did a crack tastic job. And so I'm like. Why is it so difficult? Why can't decorators just say that they're going to do X. Y.? And this is what it costs and Bass what they do and keep it simple, so then I thought well. I'm just GONNA I was been into decor and HGTV when TLC used to beat more home decor than reality so I would So I started I decided I wanted to be a wedding decorator I. wanted to create weddings that were simple, but fabulous so I would ask. My bride's like okay, so do you remember the last wedding that you went to? And they would say yes, will do you remember the centerpieces or the decor? Remember. It was pretty I'm like that's what we're going to do. So instead of spending mortgage down payments on decor. Why not create something that is memorable, but affordable and people just remember it was pretty, and that's it so that's what I set out to do. And it was a it was a great success, and this was a business that I started with no prior knowledge like I just figured it out as I was going along. And so I can tell that you're a branding lover at heart because you're like, forget pretty. I want memorable and I think this is going to be a thread that we we've through all of your stories, but before we get to connecting those thoughts. I went to hear more about kinky curly Yucky, so what was? What was the problem that that was solving? And how did well I I'm the worse doing I always do this. I always asked two questions in a row. So question one is more about kinky curly yacky. What problem did that solve? And then I'm really curious to hear a little bit more about how I do think that whenever we have side hustles and day jobs and we're trying on a bunch of different things they all start to. Tie together in some ways like we're always learning lessons from one thing to the next. I'm also really curious to hear. What lessons did you learn from wedding decorating that you're able to take to kinky curly yacky. That's a great question. Okay, so the first question was How can you KEROUAC even started? About problem so the problem was I as I was a wedding decker, and so I'm I. I actually live in Toronto, so it's one of the most Toronto Canada, and it's one of the most diverse cities in the world so I was doing everyone's wedding from you know the Muslims to South Asian to Indian to everyone, everyone's wedding so This is going to be a bit explain if anyone really wants to know the real detailed answer. I could always do that at a later point, but. For Black Women. We have to present. We have to show up in the world in a certain way, which is quote unquote presentable so most a Lotta Times wearing our hair, as it is naturally with kinky curly with kinky hair It's not professional. Why don't go professional? So I wanted something that looks like my hair. But would protect my hair because our hair is not suited to this north. American environment, it's it there's not moisture. It dries out really quickly but anyways I wanted something that looked like my hair and know what asked me where I bought it because I didn't want that whole. Nikki manashe thirty two inches of blonde wig down to my I wanted something that looked presentable. So I searched and searched and searched for something that looks like my hair, and then when I found it I weren't to a meet up. To just like a general networking event, and another black woman came to me and said WHO's your hairdresser? And what is your regimen for keeping your hair like that? And I said girl. This is a wave. And she was like I would buy. And this was in this was in two thousand eleven, so I thought well if she would buy it. And I bought it. There's gotta be at least a dozen. Other women would buy it to now. When I was looking to solve my problem, I saw I saw the gap in the market I. Thought There are no companies just selling kinky hair, but I was already running the successful decor business. I was buying my coach bags. I was going on vacation. I was happy with that, and then I decided then I thought well. You know you know. Weddings have a down sees. It feels like you know what I can't like. Itching the back of my brain, so then I said to myself you know what in the down season of of of Vivian the core I'm going to launch his company and I literally made up the name while I was in the shower like I was like Yankee curly. Jackie, O okay and I bought a domain name, and I launched it in December two thousand twelve, and it immediately took off. Okay so I actually do want to hear the details about the actual hair. You don't mind no worries because okay, so I remember talking to emily in the early days of ALMANAC supply company, which is her business and she was trying to find very specific candle containers to pour her candles into, and we talked about some deep googling like how you just have to search like. Get real good at searching. So how did you well? I guess two questions? Are It was a we've, but it looks natural so I think this goes back to that almost that brandon conversation of like it doesn't have to look quote Unquote Professional. Let's make it memorable like let's just make it bigger. Bigger let's make it more of a statement. which I think is so cool so I guess I have two questions here one. How did you find the natural hair? If there is a gap in the market? How did he find a? We've that had the natural texture and then in that might be getting too much of your secret sauce like you might not have to answer that one, but like how do you? How do you find the materials and then guess my next question is? How did you start to then scale and expound upon that not having any experience in that industry so how? Sold! The key was that I was trying to solve my own problem so What I was doing is I. Would I was doing that deep googling I was in facebook groups I was on hair care black hair care forums. Just you know just. Talking with other people and people of course at that time, a lot of people were sharing okay well. I bought this here I. Bought that there, and so that I would of course make note that, because again at the time I was not looking to start another business I was just looking to solve my own problems, so I wrote. You know I would contact every. Every single factor, every single manufacturer, every single website that said they would do kinky hair, and the once I found the one I was like. Wow, this, actually a pretty decent I would ask them to tweak it a little bit. Just a suit, my needs and they did it and I was like okay and I thought well after the girl confirmed my idea. I decided okay well. Let me see the state. Factory can still do it and I would order the same product under different names and asking to do different things to it, and they would do. So I thought okay. Okay. I'm onto something here. And so that's how that's how I was able to. I guess perfect the product because again. I I like to get high on my own supply, so that's the beauty of the businesses that I M my customer. I know what I'm looking for I know what problems I'm looking to solve I. Know What my pain points would be. And what other black women's pain points would be, and the only person who's able to address that is me. So of course I use that to my advantage You know to tell my brand's story but at the time again I listen, I'm an immigrant. I'm a college dropout and now a single mother. So I had no clue. About all these storytelling and branding mark I had no clue I just thought it was just doing what kind what came naturally to me. So so how I scaled that business well, I think one of the mistakes that a lot of people are making in starting businesses that they don't have an audience for the product that they have and so then what I had done again I inadvertently created an audience by by being on those facebook facebook. Forums a facebook groups that had black hair care forums because I was shining. Just being Vivian online people remembered me. So bad, and the funny thing was what I, when I when the business launched, no one knew it was me I didn't. I wasn't. My face wasn't the base of the brand it was just like here's some products. You guys will love Ed Oh. My Gosh and people bought it, but what happened was. I was facebook group and someone I didn't do. The WHO is on the back end of my website do that. Who has privacy on the back end of my product? Someone in one of the facebook groups created a fake place book profile and posted all my information in those facebook groups. Saying this is the person who owns that brand. So what she meant. To to like to help me to make me fail actually was what turned my like. What is what actually skyrocketed my business? Because once people found out that I was the person behind that brand, they were like well. Shoot I'm going to almost support her because she's this. She's that I remember she's Great. She's awesome, and that's what took off so I realized then that. My brand, my person like why. Is What is going to help me succeed in business. Amen I. Resonate so much with what you're saying and. I have branding agency as well and really focus on personal branding and I i. feel like one a lot of people always tell you you need to identify your customer and what they need, but I always think it really does start with you if you can start with what you need you like, you can trust that. We're not all that different and that if you can just get specific about yourself, you're going to be getting specific about your dream customer. Customer so we are so aligned there and then the fact that I mean it was an unfortunate, and you know really inappropriate way to learn the power of personal branding, but you did learn the power of personal branding, so that is incredibly exciting and I. WE'RE GONNA dig into more about like how you leverage that and who you are, and what you do, and how you bring it into your business and draw boundaries and all of the things but. We do have an attendee question that I. Want to slide in here if we may. I'm in this question is from. Death and I think especially for creatives. Who is you know most of our crowd here then we add like to hear your. Hear your thoughts on this, so here's your question. so Vivienne said she had the hair problem herself and chose to solve it, but what kept her on that path instead of ending up as an all purpose, beauty, Guru or similar. To be honest. Hair is not my jam. So really what I? How I think of it is just the ends to a means way or means to an end it's the means to an end, so my real goal is to give black women confidence to show up as they are in the world. So hair just so happens to be the the means to that end. So how I just stick to hair you know I'm pretty. I'm pretty good at focusing on the one thing like it's what I've learned is You know niche of and that's my I will preach about I say niche, but its niche. You know it's either. We can use them interchangeably potato potato. Okay, so with me I. Find that if You speak to a very specific group of people, and you sell them a very specific product. They will be your most loyal fans. They are cheaper to market to they. Are you know more about them? Especially when you already are them so for me that makes it very easy to stick to that one thing because I know that very well and I can speak to it now. Let's just by started venturing into. Say. Make up girl I'll even know how to put on eye shadow right so it wouldn't. It wouldn't. I wouldn't have authentic voice I can't lend that often into city to that product, but what I do know is hair. I'm not a hairdresser. I'm not a hair stylist. Because I had a passion for solving my own problem so that I could show up as quote. Unquote professional in the world. I can solve the I know what looks professional for me. You know I learned you don't like it. That's your problem. Not Mine Right, so we as a black women. What started in two thousand? I want to say. In Two thousand eleven two thousand twelve. Is that Youtube? We started all jumping on youtube and teaching each other how to care for our hair. We stopped putting before. We're used to put chemicals in our hair in order to straighten it to look to fit that European standard of beauty. But then we were like you know what I'm tired of that crap. We're tired of that. We don't want that if that's not Howard. The hair grows out of our heads. You're either going to accept this as we are or not right so so the goal of. Of making black women confident in how they show up in the world is really what keeps me focused on here. There's other people and I and I realized. I'm really good at that, so if I just if you just focus on the one thing that one goal your why. Then you're. You'RE NOT GONNA get distracted by all the Shiny Mirror. The the shiny objects that are floating around, because yeah I could make some easy money doing makeup, but I'm not passionate about that I. don't that doesn't that's not my jam? I love the what you did was instead of doing. The sheds are what people may have expected you to stuck with thing I think oftentimes people in this crowd see either see someone who have sort of diverged from that path, or so. They're thinking okay I. Should I should diversify as well or they sort of get these little inklings of like going to different. Different things I love that what you've done is just focused. You focused on doing the one being amazingly well exactly, and that's and that's the one, if I had to give one piece of advice to anyone is do that one thing and do it really well before you move onto anything else because you know doing that. One thing really really really really really really. Really really really advising that really do that. One thing really well. Guess what you can do anything you can apply that same, so that's what I learned in billions, the core I learned that if I kept it simple and I just focused on providing my brides with this one product and do it really well, it would speak for itself, so I took that same. Simple yet fabulous and I applied it to. Kinky Curly Aki. So people like what can I all? I'm explained the Kinky curly Yacky. What is that, so? It's Kinky kinky hair, and it's curly for curly hair, and then there's Yacky. So? Yuck, so yacky actually is short for Yak, or against the long overreact so back in the day when they wanted to mimic black women's hair straightened. They use hair from Jack the animal. So the industry just put an eye on the end and call the Yacky, so you would know what Jackie was. If you were a black woman, so any block won't be like. Oh! You got that Yacky in and so it's a sort of tongue in cheek, so you would have to be part of that target demographic in order to understand the name of the the name of the brand clear I love that. You're very specific about your dream. Customer to effect. Because I was her I get hot on my own supply. So at some point, did you end up closing the decorating business I did? I closed it I. Shut it down back in two thousand fifteen, and the only reason why I did is because I got practice. More. Yeah so I launched kinky curly. Aki in the summer of two thousand twelve by July of two thousand, thirteen. I was in the business was doing really well at that point? It was I was just doing just under four hundred thousand dollars in sales. and I found out in July I was pregnant. Anti ago. And so you know with my? With wedding core I had brides booked a year out. Right so so I was still doing those weddings, still going to the still going to meetings breastfeeding doing weddings that type of thing. And then I started I wasn't really paying attention to what can carry Aki was doing I didn't know all these numbers until later on because I was doing it just because I just loved it and I was learning about H. Tim Allen Marketing in Seo and I just I just threw myself into it, but wasn't paying attention to the numbers. I just knew it was doing well. But then when I found out, I was pregnant. I was like okay. Okay, the being you got to the chill, you gotta chill. You can't be can't be doing everything and then in two thousand, fourteen march, two, thousand, fourteen I, gave birth to my son and he's been wonderful ever since he's six now. and then I saw what can curly accu was doing I thought. Ma'am really half assing it. What happens if I put my full ass into this? And once I did again. It took off, so so yeah, okay so. I I know that whenever entrepreneurs are listening to this or site hustlers listening to this. They're like wait a second. She accidentally created a half a million dollar business and wasn't even paying attention. So how does that happen? Did was that like word of mouth or referral? Launches You have specific marketing plans. What did that look like for? You had none of that I had was what people knew me from in the facebook groups, and and because I was also also go. Gee of the niche, their niche of just selling kinky hair did not exist before I. Start before I created my company. So because I saw a gap in the market I'm A. I pioneered that so any other company that you now see selling kinky hair is because of me. And so then because I was first to market with that bat just. Exploded because that's women were looking for. I was solving their problem and on top of that I looked like them. Right so it's like they were like girl. You know, 'cause. One of the things would be like girl I was tired of the whole African in the front, an Indian in the back. If you're a black woman, you know what that means, so what that means is we're all from. Black women are from the African for so we had these tight kinky air, and then we are putting on these silk weaves. I didn't blend with our hair. So I was tired of the whole African in the front and Indian in the back, and that resonated with people, so it just and I didn't do I didn't i. Here's another thing I just literally launched with one product. I locked to one product and I only had three lancs. I only had three lengths. I remember at the time, and someone would buy one I would take that money in going by two. And that's how I built. My business I didn't I. Bootstrap I started from zero. I took no outside capital I didn't have any debt I literally started from the bottom. And was it easy. No, no, it wasn't. Is that possible ABSA freaking move? All right well, we're going to take a little break here because we've got to tell you about working smarter and not harder and. 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Why do you think that autheniticity and being true to yourself and using your own personality is important for anyone who is building a business or a brand? Because people don't necessarily. I think one of the biggest things people need to keep in mind as people aren't necessarily buying the product. As you can see, it's not like I'm the first person to ever sell Kinky, textured hair extensions and back. There were tons of companies that had it, but what they did. is they buried it underneath the silkier texture, so not the first. To Sell Kinky textured hair extensions. But what people don't realize that people aren't necessarily buying the product. They're buying the person or they're buying the emotions. They're buying lifestyles behind the product. So brand is where you can tell that story so branding will help you. To, help you, stand out in the crowd. It will help people remember and especially when you have a story that resonates with someone one. That's what they're buying into. They could care I. Mean Yeah, you could, you could be selling something. That's more expensive and more has a tools unless this unless that, but what they're buying is the person or the idea or the emotions behind. It so I that's what I realized very quickly is especially in the wedding decor. Businesspeople clouds giving. You made me you made it. It feel so simple. You made me feel so comfortable, and you made this process so easy for me and I realized. It doesn't go learn how to do all the fancy. You know all the fancy. Do Decor all I want but that's not what they care about. They care that I made them feel good about the money that they were spending made their wedding. Feel pretty like I made them feel that way. So that's that's really what you should focus on. I love that you said that you're not the first person to sell kinky natural hair extensions, but that it's been buried, and so you took a product unique in on it, and then you highlighted it, and it's beautiful, and you're owning it and you're helping. Other women own it I'm curious, little bit with some of the activism around. Natural Hair California has banned hair discrimination. It's something that I was so excited to see and when it continue to see, are there any levels of like activism or do you think even products like yours have helped? Create that kind of. Activism you know? Do you think that it's like no? This is who we are and this is just as professional as any other hair well I. Think the problem was that we were letting you know black women in general were we were leading the world? Tell us what was beautiful. And you know Youtube and you know the the beauty of the Internet was us being able to see each other people outside of our own communities, and how they look. How many rock their hair and all that jazz so I think really it. It just helped people just be who they wanted just to be who they are like just to be their authentic selves and truth be told, and it does just women in general, because even society tells us. Women were supposed to look like like I'm pretty sure after this quarantine thing has done. There's going to be a lot of people who were blonde. That aren't blonde anymore, right? But you know with black women where we're especially, you know we. Don't want to say Alison to say hated on because of how we look, and so then this i. feel just the way to just listen world we have to teach. We have to teach the world. This is how we are. If they don't like it. That is their problem. Because this is how my hey, this is how the hair grows out of my head naturally. It's curly it goes. It goes to the heavens because that makes me closer to God in the Sun. Right, as so if that's not something you think is professional, I think you really need to reexamine what your idea professional is. Karen sorry. Goes show that Chad. Presentation matters absent. That is what the Internet gave us. It gave us access to each other and to To all kinds of beauty and bodies and ways of being right, and it allowed us to see ourselves and others, and we can't help it, but need permission you know, and that permission sometimes simply in representation I have so many role models where I'm like. Oh, I didn't know I could do that until I saw them do it. And you're providing tools for that awareness as well which I think is like that's an important part of this, too. It's not only having access to the vision of its having access to the tools to, and that's even what you've done. Okay Vivian, you're you just radiate confidence? We all see. We all feel it over these past couple of days, do you? Some of our listeners are indeed here today WanNa know. Do you ever doubt yourself like? Do you ever have what we call being bossed? Friday? Feelings I mean especially going into industries that you didn't have experienced in. Full frequently. Battle with imposture syndrome Prodi feelings all the time. But then. I. Think to myself you know what. If. I don't do what I'm. Put on this earth to do then nobody will. Nobody will be able to do it either, because people who who look like me or even in the same situation as me so I. Guess I'm a single mom. I've been through depression. I've been I've been through all the things that tried me and I came out gold. So if I don't tell that story, I don't tell people how it's done. Then everyone's just this is GonNa be one hell of a boring world so if I. Let that Imposter Syndrome. Eat Me! Eat Away at me. Then that's not that's not fair. It's not fair to anyone. Right, so I shine so that everyone else can shine to. Raise that's like. Your purpose higher than your emotions absolutely. Thinks the. Catholics. Say she's like yes. I, know what with his quarantine? My bow talks has worn off so you can see my reaction. That's right. My eyebrows moving now. I love it. Up Cackling. Right I'd like to bring this to. The branding things, which you've talked a little bit about and the conference, but not everyone has been a part of the conference like listening to this we have. So many more people who have been who have been here with for the past couple of days, so I wanna to talk about this personal branding piece. And if you have any top tips for anyone who's looking to infuse more of their personality into their brand, how can just any old person in by any old person I mean? Everyone is a snowflake How can anyone shine in their business and use themselves as a tool for growth? Or what I want to remind people is you don't need to be me. So you, you know there's. If you think about people like if you think it will jams, right? There's different Jams Jentzsch. Ruby shied differently than a diamond emeralds than that, so you need to be exactly that so be yourself because the minute you start being someone who you're not. It's going to feel like work. It's going to feel You're going to hate it. People will see right through it. So you really don't have any choice, but to be yourself and so sometimes that means you being quirky, or it means you know. Maybe you do more blogging than you do video or whatever the case may be. You just need to show up as yourself. In whatever platform however way you want to do it and the people who it will resonate with. We'll find you. They will find you, so don't be. Please don't be anybody else you don't. That's not what you were. Put on this earth to be to be someone else I just doing yourself a huge disservice by not being yourself. How windy you feel the most yourself Vivian. Like sometimes it's hard to know like what what is me. What should I be sharing? Where do I draw these lines? You know what you know you know where the lines are to be drawn right? You know you know liking. We women. That's one thing I find with specially with women, and there's a lot of things on finding, but anyhow with women we need to trust. Our guts were always second guessing ourselves. We're always doing all these things, but you just need to trust yourself because you know what you know where that line is. You know what you should be sharing what you shouldn't be sharing. Someone there's comanding that unlike very existential questions, which is basically sums it up I'm like, but but even are we but a bundle of sell. What is time? What is personality? What is money. So sorry asked me asking the question again, so I can play it all night, so the question is windy. You feel most yourself like. How do you know what is authentically? You because I think all of us. WanNa show up as we are and who we are. But we can start to second. Guess Ourselves, so you were saying like we. As women need to listen to our guts like we know, it's in our guts. But how do you tune into that like I know like? Let's just say. I remember doing a couple of years ago, I did. I was I was asked to speak at a hair like a beauty hair brand thing and I didn't like it. 'cause hair was not my passionate kid. I could give to kicks about hair, but put me on. Put me in a forum or an opportunity like this. This is where I shine. So I know. You know you know like you know like you know. I'd so, that's the only. Way Can I can explain. We know you know you know. My in I think even what you're explaining is that you know by trying things, and then like listening to yourself right, so you did the hair thing or you went and spoke at the hair thing and you're like this feels gross like, but you wouldn't have known that if you hadn't tried it. I ache, factly eggs, and that's the key to life to. You gotta try. You gotTA. Try GotTA. Try GotTA. Try 'cause. That's the only way you're gonNA. Find out what you. You like and don't like you can apply that to life like you don't know you like Kale until you try it. You don't know you guys that do this until you try it. You have to go through and try a bunch of different things, and then and you know one of the things I started to realize because I'm I'm forty two, so at forty I was like you know what I'm done trying to live in this Fox like I'm done, it's over. I'm Vivian means lively one so Vivian you just need to go about living your best life because. You know all before I was forty at kept trying to be. Everyone kept trying to put me in this box. You know be a box. Go in the box. You know what I. I discovered that I was a parallelogram. Graham is is a sideways buckler rectangle that has. The Google it okay. I was a parallelogram and I was tired of being put into the box, and so once I turned forty. I just flip the bird to everything and said you know what again if you do not like it, I do not care. That is not my problem. You can go kick rocks with an open Tokyo.
Is This The NFL's #MeToo Moment?
"Can you give us a sense of the build up to the publication of this report? So there's been a lot of drama swirling around the Washington football team, but suddenly started to get all of these dots that you could start connecting. There's a lot going on within the front office. That really doesn't add up firings in retirement in July in the NFL. Rarely happening tonight. We're! And we're too high level personnel executives who were abruptly fired and Alex Santos in Richard. Man were fire. No reason was given as to why they were fired. Then today, longtime radio announcer for the Washington football club Larry Michael announcing his retirement, he spent sixteen years with the team, the man who had been there the radio voice, he abruptly retired without any sort of official comment from the team, and he started to hear this buzz rumors flying about a potential bombshell report on Washington's football team and owner Dan Snyder. This is absolutely taken over social media with speculation running rampant then by Thursday afternoon. The Washington Post dropped the story. There fifteen women who went on the record, alleging widespread sexual harassment within the Washington football organization that spanned just about Daniel Snyder entire time that he is owned the team, so these were women who works across the organization in marketing and ticketing and finance in there were also two female reporters, one who formerly covered the team for the Washington Times and Rianne and Walker our colleague from the athletic, who also went on the record to accuse one of the men who had? had been fired of sexual harassment as well. It was the sprawling account as you mentioned fifteen women accusing sexual harassment in Washington. Can you summarize some of those accusations? Yes, so it was a lot of the very classic cases of sexual harassment things from making lewd comments about women's bodies about their breasts about their rear ends about the the clothes they were wearing to very overt sexual comments, propositioning requests to go on dates, just a lot of overall inappropriate workplace behavior. Behavior from superiors directed at female employees, and it did not seem to be a secret. Some of these women who went on the record with the Washington, post talked about how the other people who worked in the organization knew about it. They talked about it amongst themselves. There were places in the building where women were advised not to go. Specifically, there was a stairwell that had basically transparent stairs and women were told. Do not go there because there were men who. Who would stand underneath that and look up? Their female colleagues skirts all of these things that are blatantly inappropriate and wrong and workplace environment, but had been persisting for more than a decade, all fifteen of these women went on the record, but one of the few who allowed her name to be published is a woman named Emily applegate. What was her experience like working inside the Washington Organization? It was miserable it really most people know times a comment on my appearin. Screaming at you for something that you, it's not your fault. And then somebody makes a comment to you about what you're wearing and it just snowballs from there. she cried at work regularly, she felt belittled, imagined us being called stupid on a daily basis, and then also almost in the same breath being hit on for your appearance. It's a miserable work experience. Experience to the point where she no longer wanted to work there anymore and no longer even wanted to work in sports, and we should note that Emily applegate's former boss Mitch Gershman who was the team CEO at the time both denied and said he didn't recall conversations referenced by Applegate, telling The Washington Post quote I can't comment on something I can't remember. But Lindsay what actions has the team taken in response to these accusations from emily applegate, and the many other women, well many of the men who were accused in this story, all ready been fired, and we're kind of fired in the process of the Washington Post. Reporting this story, the team can say that has taken measures to address this because some of these accusations date back to the early to mid two thousands, so some of these people no longer actually work with the team and then some of the people. People that had new allegations have immediately been fired or left the team. They've started their own investigation. They hired an attorney Beth Wilkinson. The name might sound familiar over the last several years. Wilkinson took part in notable cases involving Hillary. Clinton Brett Cavenaugh and Michael Flynn and she told us we can confirm that our firm was retained by the team to do an independent review of the team's culture policies and allegations of workplace, misconduct and Daniel. Snyder and his wife sent an internal email to everybody who works organization to. To apologize for the culture, the statement saying in part, the behavior described in yesterday's Washington Post. Article has no place in our franchise or society. The story has strengthened my commitment to setting a new culture and standard for our team, but without specific apologies to any of the employees into these women, and there have also not been any public apologies to the two female reporters who were not team employees. The team has not publicly addressed them as well
"emily" Discussed on Sex With Emily
"I am Dr Emily more than I. Am the host Crater founder of sex with emily I inspire people to prioritize their pleasure. I would always ask you. How did you mean how'd you fall in love? And then also as I got older, I realized that sex was built up to be the most incredible thing like when you get older, you driver's license you get to have sex and sex was just utterly disappointing. It wasn't great I didn't know anything. Anything, about it and I. I'm an Overachiever, so I, just thought everyone's doing it better than me. What don't I know about sex? So when I started the podcast seemed a lot of people are struggling with intimacy, and I thought well. What is the connection here between Saxon intimacy in relationships, and then I was a documentary filmmaker and I love what I loved on my documentary. was I I loved interviewing people I love getting their stories and and. And I realized after that will. If we're GONNA continue to do this, what what topic would be interesting and to me? This was infinitely fascinating, and so I started the podcast about fifteen years ago. What I was going to do was a cable access show so I was doing a show called searching for sex in San Francisco and I did like three episodes. My intern at the time was like. Oh there's this thing called podcasting and we just. Just need to do audio, and that's it. Oh, my God, we could just think out like Karen Makeup and League. Yes, so I found on craigslist. His name's Eddie he came over, and he was amazing guy, and he brought this huge soundboard board and a bunch of mics and setup, and then I invited a few friends over and I decided to interview them about their sex life and their relationship, but that was the start of my podcast so. I started doing the cable show and start talking all my friends I remember sitting on the bunch of my friends interesting like I think I'm GonNa do this, and then we're tossing around names. And I was like talked with families and I was like sex with them like Oh. That's amazing they want to do that. I didn't know how taboo was. I didn't know that that would all of a sudden. I would become sexually abilene like literally I'm at a bar. Those have you met my friends sex with family? I did not think that it was so shocking and it would be taboo. There was none of that it was this internal knowing that I didn't really care, but this amazing thing happened to me after I recorded the very first podcast and didn't get up and go to the bathroom, I didn't eat I. Didn't drink and I realized that this was the thing that I was searching for my whole life I felt so satisfied I felt so filled just because it felt so engaging in so. I thought this is going to heal the world. This is this is what we all need. Up until that point, it felt like the most important thing to me was knowing how I was going to have an impact in the world, because I felt important, and also it was important to do something that I love. I was raised by Mahmoud. Don't ever rely on anyone. Take care of you got to do in your own. And then my dad died at a really young age. No matter how old you are, when someone in your life that you loved is it really does sort of to.
"emily" Discussed on Sex With Emily
"To with emily. We're talking about sex relationships and everything in between for more information. Go to sex with DOT COM. You can check out all the amazing things we have going on here with emily. Found and social media just keep pretty good time here, so you want to see what's going on the sex toys and the fun. We have here birthdays. We've a lot of cake this week. Not Interesting. Drive you there about the huge box of where we get this week lubes pounds of Lube. It was amazing and it's all. Across the board. You can also shop at my store on the website and I. Just love you out. Thanks so much for listening and I'M GONNA. Welcome my guest. Dr Drew Pinski hey there. It is fun around here. Why can't stay away right back into the hounds of Lou Special? Backpack for you. You. Let's do. It's so funny so I. Never listened to my podcast seventeen for twelve years. Listen either to mind to anything I'd ever. Almost never. My wife listened to stuff so I sometimes hear the background and I cringe exactly, but it's not even so much, because by ever gotten over the fact that my voice is like this and I say I'm way too much. It's more like I was there and I feel. Listen. Evan our I want to listen to something else. If you're going to value it myself. Listen for five minutes ago and I have many many notes in five minutes the thing and then I want to change everything, so I just don't, but then so you're coming, but you've been on the show. You're on one other time toilet to other twice. Conversation. We had a part that was a party like fun. And then you saw me speak at the human. Gather Rats Right? He thought that stuff was interesting. Exactly where different than we were talking about stuff where I was gonna say as well right because that's where I. WanNa talk about as well. I never listened what happened to listen to that. We are yesterday I was running. I WANNA listen to it because it was our top downloaded podcast. 'cause it was that good of a conversation, and maybe you tweeted it, and it was really interesting like we talked about female. I didn't remember all the details like female sexuality, and what are the questions that were women have to ask about why women no hearted underscored with their bodies so? That always mystifying may still does. We're starting a movement. It was it was. It was a good show, so if you haven't seen that one, check it out. There is some new data by the way that sort of piles on this, and it makes me think we're in a little bit of well. I know we're in a different historical moment here. I think but anybody that doesn't start to feel. That way is not living in with the rest of us. And some data came out of Connecticut that shows that women although they don't say they evaluate potential partners so much by physical appearance when they measure, it now turns out. They are and even their moms are so in other words. If you hold personality and character traits constant, he's nice. He's giving. He's thoughtful. He's BUB. Hold all those things just constant and show you pictures of guys. You will pick the better guy I will, but they say less than they would and. And they act, and the MOMS do a little less but same kind of thing so I think I think in this age were barred by images, a porn and pictures of beautiful people it's it's not just affecting man anymore, so women have always complained like the body image stuff because images I think it's now translating fully over demand where they're getting these complexes right? They worried about how they look. You're giving me shit for worry about my diet before we got fries. Don't we? We do it. We do, but now with the choosers are also.
"emily" Discussed on Terrible, Thanks For Asking
"Is sealed up in documents and boxes. She's referenced in news articles the same way she's always been referenced. Not as the multifaceted human whose entire life has been upended for over a year but as the anonymous. Nobody that this happened to and Chanel is still out there. Still moving through the world with just handful of people knowing her dual identities. It's odd. How like misery can make you fearless? Like even stand up comedy. I remember thinking. If you've testified you can get on a stage and the worst thing that happens. Is that you bomb. And who cares genuinely in court? There were really high stakes and it was very scary if you messed up. Or if we didn't get the verdict we want it. I don't know what that alternate reality would've looked like and so you know I think I've also I never feel stupid like I don't know something like when I began the court process. I didn't know so much of the language that went on inside the courtroom and I thought that meant that I was stupid when really meant of course it didn't know these things in study them but I will learn them with time if I was able to adapt to that environment. I can adapt to ones out here. I can learn how to use photoshop so I just think I've I've learned to be so gentle with myself. I've learned to be really patient. I don't set deadlines for when I'm allowed to feel things and when I'm supposed to stop feeling them. I have many times of weakness now. I am much more in tune with how I'm feeling that happens with therapy. It happens with Yoga. It happens with paying the same kind of attention to herself and her needs that. Emily didn't get that Chanel didn't and couldn't give her the Contri- to give to herself. It's sort of odd just out that you can live without fully inhabiting your body. You look at people you're like. Yeah you're inside your body. You're walking around. It's possible to to move like everyone else and get on the bus and go to sleep but still not feel like you have fully moved into your body. You're not settled in it. You're not fully conducting it and I think I've had to slowly come back into myself like muscle by muscle and doing yoga. I could feel myself getting stronger when I I could feel oxygen like moving into different little channels and felt myself expanding and I felt like I was I was like filling myself back up to my primer tres again whereas before I was like a little curled up saying within a five foot eight body now when I sit when I speak I'm fully. They're very aware of each part of me before I had disconnected all the signals. Because I didn't want to see the abrasions on my skin. I didn't want to feel anything that was happening So that being present and sort of you know having my self open to all the signals from my head tomatoes is. What's different remember earlier when Chanel talks about the suicides at her high school and the shooting at her college they were adjacent to her but they didn't feel like hers. The assault is hers and when I was assaulted I I felt like oh I can. I'm just going to Tuck this away too and when I went there be you know we obviously began talking about formative memories and my therapist was like so you lived through multiple suicides mass murder and rape and. I was like well when you put it like that. Sounds like a really terrible story line. That is a terrible story line. And it's not the final part of the story in June. Two Thousand Sixteen Chanel decides to share victim. Impact statement anonymously on buzzfeed. The words of Emily Dell and the effect that night had on her go viral bonkers. Viral like eighteen million reads on buzzfeed. But it's anonymous so even people who canal personally who have hugged her or move their yoga mat over to make room for her or sent her birthday cards reading. This without knowing that emily dough is Chanel. Chanel is still reading. Comments from strangers other victims and survivors sending.
"emily" Discussed on Sex With Emily
"Name was. Valentine though for this show. We're going to rewrite history bit. Don't fact check us on you. Get it all right guys. Polaris what's fun about? This is first off. We don't write letters anymore so this is getting encourage you to write something to a friend to a love. Let them know how you feel about them. But it's also allowing me to learn things from my past that I had forgotten that I can teach you all here in the moment some reminiscing. I'm reminiscing some astrologer exactly like Oh my God. I remember this guy. I thought that he was so great and I fell for him very quickly and we had an affair for about two year. Maybe last maybe it was like nine months and I just love that. He was so into me and attentive and all my friends till this day even but even then no no emily. No no no and I I made me think like what are those green flags when you're dating someone that that turned into a red flag you were like. I love all these things about them and that it was a red flag red flag and then you learn because I learned from this one. Here's what he wrote now. It's clever I saved it. Will I save all of them? He wrote it on a BARF bag from an airplane. He was on Virgin Atlantic flying. I saved it as I save. This one was stuck out. We're like oh clever. He wrote Emily. How presumptious of you to assume that. I- mimicking your OPUS BARF bag by writing. A note via air sickness repository. I have no idea what that means currently and I don't remember why my nickname was mitts. Did you like mittens. I don't know no I was in San Francisco. We didn't wear mittens. I think he thought I was like myths. Like a is hitting mittens and blatant okay. I don't remember like Liga Minks but admits so he writes a bunch of things. Here that don't really make sense. But then at the bottom delivery mechanism aside. This note exists to convey one. It's capable truth. I love you with the gravity that not even the moon exert exerts in beginning the evening tide. I shine knowing. You basked beneath my light and reflected back infused with your beauty love Jay. We're not going to say his name and these. Ps look inside and he put something inside of it and take another note so he's super clever anyway true innovation. That was the love part which I liked getting the words and I'm reading the words going. Oh but this relationship so reminded me of a few things. This guy was just getting out of a relationship and when I met him he was into me and it felt so good. He was very attentive. He was often writing notes and he was showing up and helping me with things. I think I was making my film at the time. He was more tech. Savvy was helping me edit stuff do things and he was very available and he was very into touch and he was very loving that way but then all of a sudden he became to available so this one time I was in Chicago. For my friend's birthday we were all there for my thirtieth five of US meet every year and all of a sudden J. happened. We WERE IN CHICAGO HAPPENED TO BE FLYING OVER. Chicago like he was in San Francisco. And he's like Oh. I just happened to be on an airplane. That's GonNa land and has layover in Chicago. Because he wanted to come see me and I was like you guys. Maybe it's true. They're like why the hell is he in. Chicago and I was like well. You can't come see me because I'm with my best girlfriends. That is a sign very available and the other thing that he had no friends. Oh he really didn't have friends. He didn't have friends in San Francisco. He'd been there for a few years. He was going through break up but it just really realized that people who don't have friends create if their long-term friends but any friends even from work from life. I think that's a sign that third that their emotional skills away they connect with people isn't up to par and they haven't really excelled in that area yet and that means if there are two available to there for you and they don't have a life outside of you. It's not going to go well but I wasn't able to see those things time because I was just into his availability. Touch an interest in me. So have you ever been with someone and there was a green flag that actually turned out to be a red flag so when you said though that he was like happened to be flying over Chicago who would what do you mean. What did he do just like? Let parachute out. He was like going back to home in New York. I was like oh but but now we have to be in Chicago and I was like. Do you understand me that I've these precious girlfriends. I've had at the time for ten years and we meet once a year and there are no men like we do not we. Now there's men involved sometimes mostly we ever meet up with the girls and their decision. You can't just don't miss you to show up. I'm going for a weekend. He missed couldn't handle the time without being granted. At that time we'd probably been together for what six months or something about you. Fold you cross country the country and then my friends was a girl you dated so they never forgot that he was probably dated. That was the most bizarre. I re- Green flag that. I thought that turned out to be huge. Red Flag was in one of my first relationship. I had noticed I always hitting him up. He's never hitting. He's never initiating the conversation and so I had I had asked him. You know I feel like I'm always hitting you up and like I would really like it if you texted me made a plan. He's like oh no but I just like I always light up when I see you. Text me I love when you text me. I so I was like Oh. That's actually really sweet. It makes him feel good. That's great what it was is that he just wanted to make me look like a crazy clingy person because that's what he used a new at the end. Well no because then there will be times where like I knew. We had a mutual friend. Who would be like? Yeah like. Sometimes you'll tech somehow like throws phone across the room like she's texting me again so I'm like well. What a Dick Dick. What a fucking Dick. I have one two okay. Kristen there was a guy that came over and it was like one of the first times that I laid next to a guy in bed washed movie. And he didn't like try to kiss me or do anything or make a move and I thought. Wow that's really respectable and Nice but then he never to make a move gives me as women. I think he was in a women but I just feel like we weren't into each other like there wasn't chemistry there and I took that as a while. He's being nice and respectful. How really I think it was like. We weren't attracted to each other. Yeah that's what we do at the beginning. That's degree example. Because we we want to see Green. We want to see all the good things. Were like well. This just means you're into Miri available or you're being respectful and those are those are tough to see you kind of need more evidence you know after after a few dates. I'm trying to think of what else people who are Well I also think people who show you people show you who they are believed them and the issues you have on the first date you have forever and so pretty much. If someone's like late or they they let us yeah they. Yeah but that wouldn't be. I'm trying to think of other. Green flags have had are like really fine. Life of the Party always a good time always.
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"I believe that doctors are calling it the the black plague of our century and it's making us feel more isolated. It's ruining our confidence and it can actually chemically affect us. I mean if women have too much cortisol. They become incapable capable of orgasm. If men have too much adrenaline it affects their erection and so it's like this isn't just like Oh. If you meditate you'll see each other shock rose. It's like no if you're too stressed. You can't orgasm right exactly say that you can't orgasm and you make less money. Your work will suffer because it is true like I always say that. Stress and anxiety is the biggest killer of our sex drive and that's it's the truth but also I feel like there is an epidemic of of anxiety or people sharing of anxiety but it seemed like the whole goddamn world is anxious including myself in. I meditate okay. You know what I think. It's definitely has helped imagine me without it but I do think that it this really is. I mean meditation. I think exercise sleep but meditation can also help with helplessly in a cap was so many things that Ellis so Kim example about your meditation like the let me say this. One of your mantras is meditate meditate masturbate and manifest. That's what am I sorry why can't read mine of sorry back up. Mine is Meditate Tate Masturbate and manifest and yours is meditate mindfulness and manifestation yeah. We both got three. That's all I'm saying I was like an eye of that and you have that that which I think is amazing. So how does yours work. Tommy Ziva is all about meditation for better performance and we use these three tools the three m's just like you.
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"Her work has been featured all over the place from the New York Times Times the today show and vogue. I'm really excited emily because okay. I'm Outta TATER. I've been meditating trying to do for a lot. I mean I do it now daily and and I think that often talk about it on the show. I believe that at this point two thousand nineteen everybody's heard they should meditate. There's probably someone in their life their friend who said Oh my God tries meditation or their doctor was like you know you're tied stressor chronic pain or can't sleep chime Asian really yeah yeah yeah yeah like when I'm I going to do it. How how am I gonNa do do that and so I think it's really hard to get people to even do it like my brain? Could never we down at a and I feel like I need deepen Emily Fletcher in our research Ziva and I feel like you you have like the secret sauce like you have been successful actually getting people who think they're too busy. They don't have enough time. They'll never be able to do it to actually meditate. You've have a good track record so tell me about ziva meditation so here's the trick to getting people to meditate who think they can't you just have to sell it as has a performance tool. You just have to say hey. Here's this thing that's going to help you make more money and be better in bed and then people like Oh. Where do I sign up so we have to just let go of the robes and the INS and the finger cymbals and the preciousness and yes? There's so much science around it which sure we'll dive into but it's like why are people really doing anything. It's usually to make more money or how better sex why you're absolutely right now 'cause you've worked with top performers and athletes and CEOS and top business leaders and so you're saying that you reframe it as like this is is going to help you like a hack like a you know. You're going to be a better performance. It's like you go to a business conference. You'd read books by getting business coach. This actually is going to do that because here's thanks stress is making a stupid sick and slow. It is slowing us down in the boardroom. It is slowing down in the bedroom and so it's like there's a tool that could help you get rid of stress. Why would you not use it? Stress is not like cancer. We have a solution for this epidemic. According to Harvard Medical School stresses responsible for ninety percent of doctors visits..
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"Or calling triple eight nine four seven even eight two seven seven and you can find all social media across the board. It's sex with emily. Our guys hope you enjoy the show. Let's talk about types for permanent all right. There is a which makes sense there is a consistency among people's current and past partners and partners corners are less like we are see no. We're like oh. He's just like me. I like her. She's typically that's not true which makes sense that we would date someone who's not like us but then food that person over and over and over again the reason why i like this because it was like a very detailed study like they tom your current partner like your xs and they went back and they like they did like double-blind doodle scary though someone talking to all of your partners it'd be like i kind of always kind of want to do that but like behind lose like interrogation location mirrors yeah like the two way mirrors exactly so you must show exactly. That's something i think there's a lot of information are exit so i'm friends with them. Like i feel like you could learn a lot right so they sampled their car and they sampled their past parties and some of the questions were like you know i am usually modest and reserved. I'm interested in many different kinds of things i make a plan and carried it out and they would find that that the degree of consistency from listen to listen to suggest that we do have a type now. Why does that matter like. Why is that important well. We might date types because the same type like if you ever say like we were talking earlier on the show your pickers broken right and that's what we like to say is like oh god. I keep picking the wrong. People like everyone date isn't available every guy days a jerk. We hear all these things. I mean it's typical to to what i would say. If it's unhealthy you probably know you're like this. Type is a good for me. Maybe it's an addiction. Maybe it's someone who's abusive like verbally abusive. A lot times attracted to what isn't healthy could be. Most things are patterns for childhood. Which is why we only therapy so it's some kind of unhealthy relationship. Maybe that's playing out but for whatever reason to get locked into a type that we find arousing and then that's the person that we date now. Sometimes that can be a good thing not all traits that repeat themselves are unhealthy like for example. If you constantly date people who need more nurturing nurturing are you needed. You'd like to teach things and you seem to date people who need the nurturing. Are you like to teach them how to cook or how to.
"emily" Discussed on Sex With Emily
"Okay. So we got to show up separately, stop should I be there? First or should she be there? I should be at the bar or should I be at the ball I should be there. I think you could be there first and then Lauren you're gonna have to do something a little different to your altar. I'm gonna get creative. I'm gonna be way more fun than your. I, I have twenty ideas on how to get creative. I have to go through it. No. After case if you're there, and I'm approaching for you guys, too. Well in a minute, we'll get to that part. It's a sex toy a cooter Mont that you do not have yet, because nobody has it but it's going to blow your mind. So okay, so you come in. Here's the whole the premise of the sexy stranger and it sounds kind of silly. But I'm telling you, I've mentioned on my show, and we've had people call back like the next day and say because say, Emily, we did it, and it was amazing. And this is what happened. So the whole premise of it is that you guys have been together for a long time. And so you can't suspend believe anything. Okay. Well, she sitting at the bar already Lauren, and you go, and you're like, hey, and she's never seen you in whatever out for you. Choose your hair on slick, and you're like, hey, you know, kind of like come your off and can I get you a drink? Have you waiting long waiting for someone? And she could say, no, I'm not I've just seen. I was going to get an appetizer at the bar, and you could say, well, I've got a table and then I think it would be sexy as, if you figure out, have you ever talked about fantasy staffer for what you would be into either. You could here's your choices either your replay when you first met, and you're like my name's Michael. I've got this business. I'm more Michael was for one and I was five seven. So you'll have we were twelve so we might have two legs. We went up to play that we went up to fast board up because I was literally, I think, playing handball the first time I saw her. Okay. So we. And what's the other other options like a completely, like a totally different? It could be something from a movie. It could be paying a character. It could just be you don't even know where you're going to come in. You're going to be like, I'm Bob, and I know it I want to, to hold it for backstory singer. I'm a whatever. I've got a rock band, like, do you guys could you I want to be, who I was meant to be? So I'll give a home. Now. I'm going to have to develop a whole back story was story. Boarded I'll get my team involved with, who I was going to be you have someone that you kind of wish you would be, or somebody remember as a child. I mean, I was always thinking, you know, I was always super into an I never had any musical talent. But like, you know, the guns and roses the world. Like, like I grew up on like rock and roll music. So, like if I could if I had that talent I would drop everything to do it. I don't maybe I can pretend I'm doing something like that biography on someone like a Netflix, something on someone that you're really into George Washington or some shit. I, I don't want to be a rock..
"emily" Discussed on Sex With Emily
"Thanks for listening to sex with Emily today show, I'm joined by board certified urologist, Dr Judd Brandeis to talk about how science is making strides for your penis, and I'm answering your emails topics include no, more blue pills. Innovative new tech that helps your member work harder longer and stronger, the two people you need to be talking about sex, your partner and your doctor and how they can help you get your love life back on track. What to do if you're skeptical of your partners fantasy and whether or not veer porn is considered cheating, all this and more. Thanks for listening. Here's a listener Email I recently received and let me tell you. It's not the only one of its kind. Hi, emily. I'm thirty eight year old single mom who wants to get back on the dating scene, but I'm terrified I've been dealing with bladder leakage and actually started wearing pads everyday just to be safe between the leaking and the pads. I'm totally insecure about spontaneous intimacy with a new partner. How can I move past this? Well, I let me tell you that she's not alone. It's actually estimated that forty million women use pads everyday for bladder leaks young old with without kids. But let me tell you. There's nothing to be ashamed of there are solutions though. And it's not just pads the apex by poor. Ma is an affordable device that uses gentle electrostimulation to create an extremely effective cagle workout automatically not only does a strong public floor. Help prevent the old sneeze in peace situation. It can increase the strength and frequency of your orgasms which also helped make you want to get intimate again. Similar to the intensity that I've spoken about for years. The apex delivers the same results without the rabbit vibrator functions. Making it the perfect option for women who are sensitive to stimulation to start using an apex and stop relying on pads. Visit porn wa dot com slash Emily. That's peo-. You are MO dot com slash Emily. The eyes of. Is that our secret? Crew is they call them in a bygone only. You gotta boyfriend because many here he just got his heart broke, anything kind of cute standards. The women know about shrinkage isn't a common knowledge what you mean like laundry shrinks about sexual much me. Oh, my welfare so won't be in bed. His pretty good. But you know, Emily's not the kind of drill. You just play. You're listening.
"emily" Discussed on Sex With Emily
"I love answer your questions things everyone for sending them in if you want to question answer on the show you can text ask emily all one word two seven nine seven nine seven nine felt the short form or would have sex with emily dot com click the tab and include your name your age where you live in how you listen to the show this is from violet age twenty five in los angeles hey emily my boyfriend and i have been together for over a year and we are absolutely perfect for each other except for one thing i don't believe in monogamy and he definitely does i've gone monogamous route with him this year because it's so important but i'm really starting to feel conflicted i want to be with him forever but i also want the freedom to be with girls i'm bisexual he's not okay with doing anything without him but we have no luck finding a third which he is on with as long as he's part all how could i work passes feelings of wanting to be with other people so that i can be with him okay violet sweetie this is great there's a thing you're perfect except for one thing but guess what it's one thing is a big thing really big like massive thing so i would say you guys have a lot of fun together and you're really great right now but this is something that you need to explore right now on your life and i think when you tried to repress it like i just talked about whatever resist will persist your track to women you know that about yourself i love that you know that you're bisexual and i also love that you know they're not that it's not going to be which is kind of a precursor to being with somebody like that's like your bottom line those are your believe right now where you're at twenty five you're telling me nine monogamy and you're more into women and he doesn't want you to either one of those things so i'm going to say that this is something that i think you're gonna have.
"emily" Discussed on Sex With Emily
"The is is that are sacred bedroom is they call them in a by gone you got a boyfriend because many here he just got his heart broke anything kind of cute standard own my the women know about shrinkage isn't a common knowledge what do you mean like laundry shrinks about sexual kidding me oh my share sell won't be in bed is pretty good emily's not the kind of drill you just play you're listening to sex with emily we're talking about sex relationships and everything in between for more information go to sex emily dot com follows an all social media i love hearing from all of you it's at sex with emily across the board and it's always fun we've also extended our masturbation month contest help y'all had a great may but we are extending it until june eighteenth feedback at sex with dot com email us house masturbation benefited your life your sex life what is it done for you i know that it makes life a whole lot better if i go like a week and a half without masturbating or orgasm ing or any of that self love it's not it's not good just releases all the stress in my life so i hope that you had a great month and email us about how it helped your life okay so here's some sex in the news this is news because it was a story about hand jobs and to me i think that hand jobs should always be at the forefront of your.
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"Thornton from sling blade that's what chicks want when i go down if i wanted my vibrator i would have gone to my other nights dan one is filled with lube one hundred six toys i would have gone to that one viverito dozen lube that's what you find a doctor evidence has but this has been a this this has been a progression you know it's been a progression to understand how someone's bodies works and frankly frankly we could have been better about communicating okay can we'll find you bend the morrison he's funny he'll find him on the interwebs thanks k now we're going to get onto your calls and i love answering your questions it's why i exist why am i here on the planet if you've oh question you answer on the show text ask emily all one word two seven nine seven nine seven nine felt the short form or you can go to my website sex with only dot com click on the ask emily tab and if you want to be called which i love it's simple center yes on the would you like to be called question and please include your name your age where you live in how you listen to the show thanks okay we've ellen she's twenty four from seattle and she wants some racket book recommendations for catholic guilt girl hi ellen i'm so glad you called in how can i help you today tell me my own high high well thank you for an thirty money should i warned maybe some regret kevin dacians about how to be more open and comfortable with a sexuality because they've grew up with a guest of guilt and just seem.
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"A hot night yeah i guess got the lou you've got the rubbers apple music chill chill playlist stephen playlist for sex no no you don't know i sent i i have a really good hip hop leila's but i sent you that you still listen to listen to you i do i owe have okay cool i think no you sent me the rock won i listened to that i sent you the other one in words i swear to god yes hi this is ben morrison i'm here interviewing dr emily moore's and we are really going to get into the heart of what it's like to have sex with emily number one most requested question on my podcast interviewing fed and i've had sex yes she really has all the lube that you think she has like your listeners probably like she her nightstand you'd probably pick it up and it just nothing but lube and i'm here to say it really is it's like a ballpit made of louis hundreds of bottles and she's giving me a bunch of little lubes and i love them but i don't have like a container to keep them upright and like they're small so they'll turn over and the night and then i'll go to get some baby wipes because i've just need to clean up the kid children never going to have and then i put my put my hand in the drawer because right next to my bed and i'm reaching for baby wipes and it's like and it's like i it out in it's covered in joe which is phenomenal lube but then i'm like well this is a predicament because my hand is gooey and i want to clean up something else is guilty and i just need wipes wipes that to do you have a lot of wives their all whites or not credit equal though and this is a good tip this because i'm a big proponent of baby wipes.
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"Thanks for listening to sex with emily on today show taking your calls and revealing some stats about everyone's favorite activity sex even have someone on for my own life to talk about how i've directly helped the master if you techniques in the bedroom so trust me when i say this is going to be a fun one topics include who's using lube and who's not advice to help to turn your sexual guilt into sexual confidence hara handle it when your parents don't like your partner and the importance of the clitoris and white should be wined dined and sixty nine all this and more thanks for listening let me tell you about apt if it's an audio based workout app that has totally changed the way i exercise i'll tell you more about it in just a bit but if you want to check it out and save thirty percent on a new membership go to active dot com slash emily that's a ti dot com slash emily i know i talk a lot about sex toys for women but not to worry guys let me give you a helping hand well actually you're going to have to use your own hand or your partners in so let me tell you all about the new flesh skin fum flashlight the flesh skin is a compact stoker unlike any other it's open at both ends and has finger holes for the perfect grip so whether you're using it on your own or letting your partner do the heavy lifting it's a full proof hand job helper the combination of the comfortable grip the ability to vary the pressure and flashlights alter realistic silicone will let you in all the sex toy fun just grab some water base lube and use the flesh skinned at a.
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"Womanizer banner on my site or finding a good vibes dot com slash emily the eyes of man is that my car secret is cruel is they call them in a bygone you got a boyfriend because my many here he just got his heartbroken anything you're kinda cute standards the women know about shrinkage isn't a common knowledge do you mean like laundry shrink about sexual kidding me oh my while fierce won't be in bed is pretty good you know emily's not the kind of joni just playing you're listening to sex with emily we're talking about sex relationships and everything in between for more information go to sex with emily dot com because it's a good time we have a new blog up there called four ways to close the orgasm gap which come on you guys orgasm gap israel and you can close it and also if you don't want to our website you just want to follow instagram we put our blogs up every day you can swipe up and read them there it's all at sex with emily and all social across the board i'm really excited for my guest today she's awesome she she's become a really good friend she's one of these like love at first sight friendships when we met and she's had a really interesting career and she's also doing something that is very very close to my heart and i think you guys are going to learn a lot today about meditation practice that you guys know i talk about how we're going to get into this how it can really help you with your life overall indefinitely your sex life and your relationships so title is a former entertainment industry executive very high.
"emily" Discussed on Sex With Emily
"The is is that car sacred they call them in a bygone you got a boyfriend because my many here he just got his heartbroken anything's kind of cute standard the women know about shrinkage isn't a common knowledge do you mean like laundry shrink doc about sex so much oh my god fear gonna be in bed feels pretty good but you know emily's not the kind of journey just playing okay so my name's emily podcasts called sex with emily and like lauren said and i'm so excited to be here with these amazing women today to talk about them tech feature fem tack it so i started a podcast thirteen years ago right when people were dislike pad cussing was first starting and the whole point was to make sex easier to talk about right because i think that there's just you know like the one thing we were talking about earlier like sex and money money might be like a little less heart people sex is a little easier but most people just aren't talking about it so we're all here today because we're all in businesses that are trying to help women really the business a pleasure like there's not a lot of businesses focused on women pleasure and safety so we could all enjoy sex more which is really what my shows about and so with all these women are here today and in the last few years really there's an influx of money in funding to healthcare to companies that are supporting women fertility period tracking sex.