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Interview With Tiffany Shlain

Design Matters with Debbie Millman

03:49 min | 4 d ago

Interview With Tiffany Shlain

"Tiffany slain welcome back to design matters so nice to be back. Disney I think I discovered something about you that I didn't know in the time since any of our previous design matters interviews is it true that in one thousand, nine, hundred, ninety, four when you're in your early twenties, you were featured in Seventeen magazine in a roundup of young. Women's success story. How did you find Matt? Is that on the web not telling? I have not thought about that in really Oh. Gosh. What did I say? I lead weighed. I I talked about making movies. Yes. And living in a big law where we'd all make movies together the forecast your whole life. Oh, my goodness. Thank you for taking me right back. In. My pleasure I guess it would be safe to say you were always an overachiever. I had some pretty clear goals. Just like I. It's really interesting to think about because I do think I mean in life you have to think big in order to just hope you're going to get there and making work for the world that makes a change I. think it was always part of that. I think it's something that's been embedded in you and your family since yes the beginning of time. We're here primarily today to talk about your brand new book congratulations. There's been a lot of coverage and New York Times piece out yet today it's fantastic graduation thing. So your book is called Twenty Four, six, the power of unplugging one day a week and it examines the practice of what you and your family do one day every week you shut off all of your devices and go completely analog. But as I mentioned in my intro, some people might be surprised that you wrote this book after founding the bees and working as a filmmaker and exploring all sorts of future forward topics. In other words, you really come from a place of digital immersion I'm you even say this in your book before Living Twenty, four, six, you were on screens twenty, four seven. So really twenty, four seven. Yeah, I mean I think like most people we can remember the moment when the iphone came out and that really changed things where suddenly your computer could go with you wherever you wanted and it did and it went in the bedroom and the bathroom in the boardroom and wherever you were walking in on nature walks in that release shifted just the world at your fingertips all the time but I didn't like the way I was feeling I was feeling very distracted and again, this was actually eleven years ago it was really very distracted like I wasn't president. And yet, of course, love technology and the potential of it all because in my work that's what my my husband cans, a professor of robotics and Ai, and we both. That's one of our favorite topics is what is the potential? What can extend and what can it not extend? What does an amplified? What is it amputate, and I was really starting to feel like it was encroaching on my humanness. and then. I had this very dramatic period of time where my father was diagnosed with brain cancer. And I found out I was pregnant in the same week and it was really like life was grabbing me by the shoulders and making me think about how it was living. And Whenever I'd go visit my data, turn off Iphone, of course, 'cause he towards the end really only had like one good hour a day. At this new life growing inside of me and then. In a period of days he did die and and our daughter Bouma was born. And I just was like, okay I I have been given this. Really a gift of a very profound colliding of events.

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Think Twice Before You Eat That Halloween Candy

Nopeville

07:16 min | 5 d ago

Think Twice Before You Eat That Halloween Candy

"The urban legend of Razor Blades in your Halloween candy or poison hidden behind the sweet taste of a snickers bar has been around for decades to this day. Parents are still worn to inspect all candy give into their children to make sure that it's safe for consumption quoted from a mental floss article written by Ethan treks quote it's easy to see how urban legends have taken hold because they're so terrifying after all parents Ben Three hundred, sixty, four days of every year telling their kids not to take candy from strangers precisely because of might be poisoned. Then, give the thumbs up to taking snacks from every house in the neighborhood on Halloween, and that's so true and it also calls to mind the whole idea of like when we re under it, we were told not to talk to strangers online and not to get in cars with strangers, and now we literally use the Internet to summon strangers to get in their cars yet. So. Weird. It's crazy. So in one, thousand, nine, hundred, five Joel Best, who's a professor of sociology and Criminal Justice at the University of Delaware publishing article that reviewed reports and press coverage of candy tampering in the United States between nineteen, Fifty, eight to nineteen eighty-four during the search he found a report as early as nineteen fifty nine where children were falling ill after a California dentist named. William. Shine had distributed four hundred fifty candies laced with laxatives. Two Children Jesus thirty of these children were actually affected by candy tampering and he was later charged with outrage of public decency and quote unlawful dispensing of drugs for a dentist. A dentist, a nine, hundred, sixty, four in New York a forty, seven year. Old Woman named. Helen feel was. Annoyed by the Halloween custom of handing out candy to children especially to children who she felt deserve to be given free candy for she handed out bags of treats including ant poison and dog biscuits while when she was confronted about her actions she said, she was doing it as a joke and only gave the items kid she felt were too old to be trick or treating. Is later reported that she was admitted to the State Hospital for mental observation. Good. God right. You don't know what their issues and why they're treating, and even if they don't have an issue like who fucking cares don't be so stingy. Yeah. Like would you want them taking part in egging in toilet paper toilet paper people's houses or would you like them going door to door and get some candy? Just let them go home with bags of candy and then do whatever they're going to do at the house. They're not gonNA come back at midnight to your house. They've if you give him dog biscuits. Yeah. It's like you just set yourself up for some mischief right in one thousand, nine, hundred, Sixty, eight, Toronto police had discovered razor blades and noodles and Halloween apples. The footage found in the CBC Archives Showed Police Displaying Candy that was supposedly poisoned in nineteen seventy, five year old boy named Kevin Dotson from Detroit died after supposedly eating heroin laced candy diseases. After news media outlets had a field day with telling all parents to dispose of their children's hard earned cash flowing treats. It was later discovered that the parents of the child were trying to hide the true events led to his death apparently the uncle of the boy. had a heroin stash in his home and the little boy had gotten into it and ingested a capsule filled with heroin. The parents sprinkled heroin on the boys Halloween candy after he had died as a cover up to protect the boy's uncle God. But that also kind of reminds me of the the thing that goes around of Lake don't watch out people are putting edibles in your candidate and like no nobody's giving you hundreds of dollars of drug senior kids. In two thousand and Minnesota a forty nine year old man named James Joseph Smith was charged with felony for tampering with candy after a fourteen year old boy was pricked with a needle after biting into a candy bar. Lou. He apparently had put needles into snickers bars and handed them out on Halloween. Night. He was charged with one count of adultery in substance with the intent to cause harm illness or death new four other boys were found to have the needle lace snicker Bar, but the only one boy was harmed. In Two thousand sixteen in Nova Scotia a twelve year old boy was injured when he reached into his candy bag and was cut by a razor blade poking out of a kick cap arc. In two thousand, seventeen multiple reports come out of Ontario Canada where eleven year old girl underwent surgery at U. ship it into recess peanut Butter Cup containing a metal object although it was unclear if this was a result of candy tampering or a manufacturing incident. And other eleven year old boy was also reported to have received a Tutsi roll containing melatonin pill before. Tone of all things so. Yes. So harmless but just go to sleep in two thousand, nineteen in Connecticut thirty seven year old Jason Racks was arrested and held on a two hundred fifty thousand dollar bond after the parents of at least two trick or treaters found razors in their children's candy bags. He was charged with risk of injury to a minor reckless endangerment and interfering with police officer apparently did not go quietly when arrested and he also stated that the razor blades were accidentally spilled into the Cannibal for boxer razors who just happened to have next to it. Yes. Yep Yeah I totally believer like you do a later unrelated incident involved someone handing out THC laced gummy candies in their Halloween trick or treaters. Each of the bags contained colorful gummy cubes each packed with ten milligrams of THC. It was stated that it was unknown if this was intentional or from might have been an unintentional oversight by the person handing out the treats but the packaging was obvious enough that it shouldn't be consumed by children Marcos is probably high end didn't notice it air probably high and just in the bag knows because there's pictures of it and that looks like little gummy little gummy bear bags. Yeah. So again, the joke comes up though that nobody's going to willingly hand over yet. They're edibles. Yeah. At the conclusion of Joel Best Research. So get it only went from nine, hundred, fifty, nine, thousand, nine, hundred, eighty, four, and a lot of these cases. I, told you about were in the two thousands So, this was his conclusion with his research at the conclusion of Joel Best Research into candy tampering incidents. He concluded that the vast majority of reported about seventy five percent who were either hoaxes conducted by children or their parents or didn't result in serious injury interesting. He also stated that contemporary legends are ways that society expresses anxiety and urban legends like Halloween Sadism could've stemmed from societal grievances like nineteen, eighty, two with the cyanide laced tylenol incident in. CHICAGO? The September eleventh terrorist attacks and subsequent Anthrax scare and of course now with Yeah. which actually plays into what you were saying. Devil's night about the depression and the war and how people just kind of like did what they did on Devil's night as a reprieve or as Cathartic. Occurrence. Yeah. So yeah, and that a lot of these urban legends Kinda just stemmed from people just having so much anxiety about the world in the world's problems. Yeah. Yeah. He has stated quote is it possible that someone maliciously passes out treats with the intent of harming children at random of course but this raises the question why they're usually aren't multiple reports from the same area effectively saying that the urban legend is just that nothing more than a hoax or scary story to tell her on time we're anxieties already

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The Enfield Poltergeist

Far Side Chats

09:26 min | Last week

The Enfield Poltergeist

"We begin in nineteen seventy-seven back in a little town called Enfield London. Okay. Okay. So we're across the pond. We are across the pond and because of that you're probably going to hear me do a lot of really terrible British accents. I love it. I'm here for that. Ye on top of that. I'm not really sure if I pronounce the name right of the town, but I think I've heard it said in field. So I mean that's how it's spelled. So yeah, I would assume as well but I don't know if it's like unveiled or like you know, that's your prestigious. Yeah, but because we're from America we're going to go with Enfield. I love it. So we're sitting in this Tiny Town. And we are going to visit our friends the Hodgson family. Okay? Okay. I've got Mom Peggy Hodgson who is in fact a single mom of four which at the time seemed like pretty weird, you know to be a single mother. Yeah. I mean, I guess divorce was still not like a big thing back then that's okay, especially in London, I guess so she was risky to the people of London. Yeah. Yeah. Okay. So it was just a weird thing to see her four children included Margaret who was twelve at the time Janet who was eleven Johnny who was ten and Billy who was seven so we got our two girls and two boys easy to keep up with exactly. They're all living their lives having a grand old time in this cute little like looks like a townhouse kind of thing. It's like wage one of those connected houses where it's like there's a few houses in one unit yeah I know exactly which yeah so this cute guy cute little garden gnome whatever they're living their lives then the evening of August 30th 1977 rolls around okay oh Peggy as wage most likely stressed out mother is it trying to get her kids to go to bed she's like guys I gotta wake up I got to go to work tomorrow y'all gotta go to school tomorrow let's get to bed so she's downstairs doing some gift bad stuff and she heard Janet the eleven-year-old saying from upstairs that her and her brothers beds were like wobbling what yeah wobbling wobbling oh baby wobble baby wobble baby wobble no dead But they don't fall down. That's a wee before you so it's a total natural night. Okay, and then Peggy, like I said super stressed at the time she was not having this and she was just like Janet stop mucking about go to bed. I'm done with you. Yeah. Okay. This seems seems pretty normal. Yeah, pretty sure well. I mean like for Peggy from her personal perspective, you know, like it's a normal night. Her kids are being like no, I don't go to bed. So we'll make up this excuse. Yeah, she's tired and she's like just do it. I'm just over y'all. Let's call it done. Like I need a glass of wine and he only because right so the next Thursday evening Peggy herself heard a crash from upstairs. So this time she actually goes to investigate and when she got to the room a chest of drawers wage, Coming towards her without anyone pushing it seemingly of its own volition. No way. Yeah. Yeah rural she said in an interview that it seemed like Tom Thumb something was trying to block off her family from the rest of the house using the chest of drawers. Oh my gosh, that's terrifying. I know. Oh my God, and I'm sure not at all what she expected. Oh gosh. No, I would burn the house down immediately. I mean, oh my gosh, you go to open a room and here comes a dresser just like back at you like this isn't Beauty and the Beast. Okay, right? No, she ain't talking to us. Probably not that friendly either probably not dead. If she was I probably would have a different reaction right? I guess jurors don't have pronouns. Wow. Wow, and Carol just broke. So after that my Janet's older sister Margaret, she goes on to say in many like interviews and articles that after that night be activity definitely started to increase she says there were strange little noises in the house. You couldn't make out what was going on and none of us got any sleep. We put on our dressing gown and slippers and we would always go next door which wasn't a direct quote but I changed a little pool. So there you go like down in plaid quote. It's an implied quote people. So anyways, they're all putting on their dressing gowns and slippers and whatnot and took over to their neighbor's house who are named Vic and Peggy which could in fact get confusing, but we're only going to talk about big so There you go. Okay, so that makes it easy. Yeah Vic Nottingham. Oh how fancy anyway, so the family goes over to their neighbors and Mistral Vic Vic nodding him. He is described as a Burly Builder and he's a big dude. He decides to go over and investigate by himself, which I don't know why anybody would do that either. I mean, I don't know how long as I get people not believing in it and not wanting to do her like not really caring to go over but like Even if there's a tiny hint that it could be real why wouldn't anyone else with me. I'm guessing he was just being neighborly to his, you know, single mom of four. Yeah and wanting to help out. I mean, I'm sure to it probably had to sound kind of ridiculous. Hm, you know, and he was probably like, well, there's gotta be a very clear explanation. Yeah. You're probably right. I just wouldn't go I would not have gone by myself. I know you wouldn't have come over like, oh my God a chance to see ghosts. I'm there. I'll grab my flashlight. Oh my gosh, so he goes over and he goes on record saying I went in there and I couldn't make out these noises. There was a knocking on the wall in the bedroom on the ceiling and I was afraid beginning to get a bit frightened. No, meaning the Pearly Builder got frightened. The Burly Builder was bewildered sounds like a kids book. It does that get dumped so then they finally decide. Hey, let's call the police and see what she going on. Maybe the police will figure something out that we haven't put together seems logical right? So the police come over and they start to have very similar experiences and they are I'm sure of what is going on. One of the officers even signed an affidavit claiming. She saw a large armchair move. Unassisted four feet across the floor. Oh my gosh. No thoughts on record. Yeah. Oh my goodness. Yeah. Yeah, so like I'm also assuming that they checked for like any kind of rigging or anything like that. I mean I would hope so being that there were police I would think they'd be pretty thorough in an investigation. Yeah just freaks me out. I'd be curious to read that affidavit. Yeah, so then I saw Shaq just a regular day in the field and then you know, we decided to leave which they did eventually the police did in fact leave cuz I know they don't deal in ghosts they deal in real people. So of course, they couldn't

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Fast Five With Flight School Association Chief Robert Rockmaker

Aviation Week's Check 6 Podcast

07:21 min | 2 weeks ago

Fast Five With Flight School Association Chief Robert Rockmaker

"Could you describe some of the association's goals and and the outcomes? In the early years we're now eleven years old was really focused on building the core foundation of the organization and at the same time working to help bring about some cultural changes that we had identified that were present in the flight training environment in America and I think we've done a pretty good job of meeting some of those early targets. For example, there were numerous occasions where flight schools would take large security deposits from point training. Students. And for whatever reason, and there's many different reasons, the schools, all of a sudden. Close up doors are locked lighter off and the students show up and have no idea what's going on those deposits could be as much as twenty thousand dollars at a time, and unfortunately there was no recourse in almost every situation students were out dead money or their parents route that money it seemed to be more prevalent school that we're doing foreign play training bringing people in from other countries and as you know, America is the leader in training foreign individuals more foreign play training is done in. America than anywhere else. So, what did the association do about that the students forfeiting those deposits? We brought it out and we wrote about it and we wanted people to be aware that it was at least on some people radar in our new website. We actually have that as one of the many checkoff items for the general public to be aware of we're not opposed to having security deposit or an advanced deposit because some flight schools will offer a discount if you put down some additional moneys versus just paying by the hour but I, think we recommend no. More than between one thousand or two thousand dollars be put down at any given time. There's no reason to go any further unless you're in an accelerated program we do have schools across the country who specialized in accelerated training as you know, and you can get a private pilot certificate in two to three weeks and he'd do a very good job. They have specific syllabus put together for these kind of programs. Well, you can imagine typically might cost eight to ten thousand. Dollars to take two or three week private pilots course all the way through and you're all done in three weeks at the most those schools will require a larger deposit. So we're not saying that there are extenuating circumstances because there are but at the same time, we are certainly guiding people that there is no reason to be putting large sums of money down because in most cases, there's no special account that is set up, and if that school closes its doors they're. On you can't find them, and in some cases, some of these schools disappeared, they had leases at the airports they walk away from the leases if their own by a foreigner, they may even go back to their country. There are folks that have dual citizenship. They just literally disappear if you have fifty students and fifty students have put down ten thousand dollars in advanced deposits. That's five hundred, thousand dollars if they put down twenty thousand dollars toward their training, that's a million dollars. We wrote about it. We talked about it. We are now putting it on our new website as well to educate people because the public is not aware of some of these things. It's in the news every day that the airlines are threatening or actually shedding thousands of pilots from their payrolls has that had an impact on the pilot training community are people backing away from this as a career. Right now I don't think there's any professional in the industry that would stay that there's a overabundance of commercial career pilots. However, this will change over the next twelve months as far out as maybe thirty six months. We all know that domestic airline service in this country continues to come back and it was just August thirty first or August thirtieth where the airlines are starting to. Relax on their policies, regarding changes of airfare and seat selection and travel dates, and so forth. I believe United announced at I and I believe American has now announced it as of today, which is September the first and so domestically, the airlines are certainly looking to get people back into the air and from what we see the general public still has that real urge to get up. And go not everybody of course, and there are some people who are not going to travel right now by air or even leave their house because of the covy will fully understand but people wanna get up they WANNA get out they want to visit family they want go to special occasions they want to go on vacation for a couple of days and the best way to get. There is normally to go buy airline. If you're traveling longer mileages that the international air carrier movement will take a longer period of time, and that's because every country has its own. Instead of Kobe guidelines. Number one, they're setting the criteria for when people can come in and out of their country and they're setting in some cases, quarantine restrictions, and therefore international travel is definitely gonNA take. Longer to come back will the pilot shortage come back again the answer is, yes. The FAA requires under the A. Ours that all airline pilots cannot fly after age sixty five as an airline pilot by regulation and to some of the most senior and experienced airline captains. Today are not flying because they typically are flying the international routes and international is still very, very slow as. Compared to pre covid airlines were having record years they were flying record numbers of available seat miles, revenue passenger miles, load factors on both domestic and international have just been unbelievable airlines have been doing very very well financially over the past couple of years. But again, they also took probably the largest hit between airline travel and the hospitality industry I think those are the three that have. Really impacted the greatest but pilot. Wise. It's GonNa come back and we are encouraging young people to continue their career pathways because if someone brand new starts today to learn to fly and they WANNA be a career pilot they're going to have to build their flight time and that can take anywhere from on the low side about a year and a half up to about three. Years before they're able to be eligible to be hired on into the right seat of a regional airline to two to three years from now, the people that are even starting now will be in a position to be ready to go. So we WANNA see the pipeline stay filled as much as possible, and we are not discouraging anyone at this point in time, there will be positions.

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Redefining Radical

In The Thick

04:40 min | 2 weeks ago

Redefining Radical

"Hey welcome to the podcast about politics race and culture from the OC perspective I'M A. And I'm Hutagalung arena. Today, we have a very special guest joining us from yonkers new. York is Jamal Bowman he's the. Democratic nominee for Congress in new. York's Sixteenth District Jamal. To the show. Hello thank you so much for having me. It's great to be here. We don't often speak to you know members, of Congress or potential members of Congress few like somebody maybe unexcited Cossio go. because. You're win like hers was a a really big deal. You defeated Longtime Democratic incumbent Eliot Engel in a huge landslide lead your the likely winner in the twenty twenty general election because you represent a very blue district. So it's really been a super big year for you. Your Primary Win came at the height of the conversation around justice for Black and Brown lives inequity the pandemic. With. It. So really your wind came kind of on the backs of all of that. So. Give us just a quick back story shore. So the back story I guess begins you know being raised by a single mom in the projects along with my three sisters. During the crack cocaine epidemic, which projects I gotTa know which projects Oh Easter projects one hundred, fifteen first avenue in Manhattan. WanNa raise on the. Upper East side East Harlem Section Manhattan went to public schools by entire life lived in the projects in rent stabilized apartments started teaching in nineteen ninety nine in the South Bronx in one of the poorest zip codes in the country, and you clearly can see the inequality the inequity in how wherever you go in a city state or country black and Brown people seem to be suffering more than everyone else. So growing up as a black man in America who has been a victim of police brutality. The first time I was beaten by police was eleven years old and notice I said the first time happen again, the a later on. IOS Eleven hanging out on the street with my friends and being rambunctious in boisterous in doing what kids do and I guess someone may have called the police because we were maybe too noisy a too rambunctious. and. The police came over and tried to live saw curtail us and tell us a comma down. You know we kind of push back in had a few words for them. Next thing I know like I'm being done up against the wall thrones Grou- face dragged all over the floor. In the back you know except Tra, and then we'll take into the precinct and US well to my mom about this later were taken to the precinct in a coma mom to come pick me up with a birth certificate because they didn't believe I was eleven am. makes. Me Think Tamir Rice as I say that out loud rain. She comes with a birth certificate picks me up and takes me home. Didn't explain to her what the charges were if any why they approached us to begin with, they just allow her to take me home in my mom and I didn't even think to you know press charges. Report anything like that. We just kept moving and it just tells you how internalize sort of our oppression is. Right like we just accept we have accepted in I have accepted that okay. There's nothing we can do where powerless. So becoming a teacher. Being a social justice advocate within education and having the opportunity to be a founding principle of my own district, public school charter school, and being education organizers around equity and restorative justice in culture, Responsi-, schools all of that led to me. You know think about a potential run for office and why Eliot Engel while I looked at twenty eighteen election and I saw that me thirty thousand registered Democrats in the district actually voted and he won with twenty two thousand votes. Yeah. Some like, wow. This person has making trillion dollar decisions that impact millions of people and he only got twenty two thousand. Volts Yep you look at who supports him right? Who Funds his campaign we're talking big real estate. Yep Big pharmaceutical companies, weapons, manufacturers, hedge fund managers, and every institution that is hurting our community hurting the working class. Those are the people that are institutions that funded his campaign. So that's why we decide the challenge chairman ultimately were able to win in the end

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With gun deaths up in Seattle, leaders ask how 'to bring us together'

KUOW Newsroom

01:38 min | 3 weeks ago

With gun deaths up in Seattle, leaders ask how 'to bring us together'

"There have been thirty nine homicides in Seattle so far this year more than there were in all of two thousand, nineteen many victims were killed by guns that's prompted community members to meet in a gun violence roundtable to seek solutions K. UAW's Amy Radel reports Alicia Dasa is apparent whose son was shot and killed in Seattle. Last may she's struggling not only with her son's death, but the deaths of so many other young people since then I feel like right now as a community and as. As parents a metal lost four where we are what we can do. It's so overwhelming in the last few months. Dasa spoke at a roundtable organized by converged media and the South Seattle Emerald Seattle Police Chief Adrian Diaz told the community members that this year's gun violence statistics are a challenge we are at the highest level in eleven years we've had three hundred, twenty nine shots fired this year. Let me give that perspective. We had three hundred and thirty two. All last year Diaz says the victims of gun violence have been disproportionately young black and male but community members are not calling for more funding for police sean good with the youth intervention program choose one eighty, one city leaders to divert funding from the police to violence prevention groups are we could begin to invest in alternatives but we have to do. So aggressively chief D as says, he has to maintain public safety until new types of emergency responders are ready to go. Amy Radel K. U. O. W. News?

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What's the deal in Kyrgyzstan?

Monocle 24: The Foreign Desk

05:58 min | 3 weeks ago

What's the deal in Kyrgyzstan?

"The being few short remains for foreign observers of a given event to be clown themselves than by drawing convenient comparisons we should probably banish any suggestion that what is happening in Kingston has anything much in common with what has been happening in Belarus. There are granted superficial similarities, lodge crowds of citizens who aren't buying the result of a recent election and amount of violence between protesters and police but recent events in Belarus are actually pretty straightforward overstaying tyrant Riggs won election to many demonstrations and the present standoff ensue. Kingston. Is some several layers more complicated and seems poised for a more decisive and dramatic? K. Gaston voted in parliamentary election on Sunday. This was not necessarily predestined to be a Hollow Mockery K. Gaston previous parliamentary election in two thousand fifteen pretty decent reviews from international observers on Freeness and fairness fronts certainly by the generally would be gone standards of Central Asia. This is was different not least because this really doesn't happen. Often the governing party didn't turn up Kingston Social Democratic. Party was stunned by loyalties divided between Kingston's current President Surin by Jeenbekov and he's predecessor Almaz atom by of the two former have fallen out badly in recent years to the extent that last August automobile was arrested and this past June sentenced to eleven years in the clink on corruption charges. As of Monday morning Adam Beyer was a man thanks to the crowds which stormed the National Security Committee building in Bishkek with the former president was being held former Prime Minister John Toro Sati Baldev also on the hook on corruption charges will sprung in similar circumstances. According to official results only four parties of the sixteen contested Sunday's election past the threshold of seven percent necessary to take seats in Kigali stands parliament the Supreme Council three of these parties protesters could not help but notice enjoyed the favour of president. Jeenbekov, who was widely believed to have had his thumb on the scales protests on Monday morning started small and peaceful grew larger and Rowdier, and by Monday evening had taken the parliament building set bits of it on fire and set about redecorating the surrounding streets with ransacked documents. Giga Stan does have an amount of foam for this sort of thing in two thousand and five mass protests which eventually became known as the Tulip Revolution. Forced President Askar Akayev from office. He is now a mathematics professor at Moscow State University in two thousand and ten his successor. Kurmanbek Bakiyev also skipped the country with an angry mob at his heels he was lost heard of. In Minsk begin with breaking news in Kirghistan, the prime minister has resigned. Vert list of is leaders overthrown by popular acclaim. Now appears to have been joined by Prime Minister Cutback Borakove who resigned after the positive results of Sunday's election were annulled by electoral authorities nominated. Piece, in the country and stability in society is more important than any politicians mandates. Suggests that the central. Election Committee thoroughly investigate any violations during the election process. That's a no the result if necessary. I asked political leaders to calm the voters and ask them to take part in gathering. As, this explainer went to wear President Jeenbekov precise whereabouts on certain was also making these sort of statements of willingness to pass power along to responsible new leaders. That one issues is one shovels, the contents of the state treasury into one's Portman toes and frantically oldest one's pilot to fire up the engines and seek clearance for landing in some capital. Four, it's interesting extradition treaties. Possibly significantly President Jeenbekov found the time earlier today to convey birthday greetings to President Vladimir. Putin of Russia volunteering ernest appreciation of Putin's it says here, great contribution and constant attention to the consistent expansion and development of cages Russian multifaceted ties. Custodians Parliament has installed a new prime minister Saadia drop her off another politician who was in prison time last week, it very much remains to be seen how long he'll lost with the parliament buildings still occupied by protesters. Mr Japan was appointed at an emergency meeting in Bishkek hotel, which he had to leave virus service entrance. Once his presence became public knowledge the crowd still filling the streets and squares of Bishkek seen Kina until I talked to Gassiev, a businessman who trades in your shaped greenhouses and is also a representative of a younger generation of caregivers politicians. He is claiming the mantle of the head of government. As to what happens next, it may become important that to external players in particular will be hoping that what happens next? Little as possible Russia maintains a military airbase account in Gaston north China which borders Kingston to the south is a major trading partner. As, both will understand however, an as another cohort of caregivers politicians are presently learning the hard

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No More Mr. Nice Guy | Robert Glover | Write Your Legend Podcast with Apollonia Ponti and Natalie Stavola - burst 01

Write Your Legend

28:10 min | 3 weeks ago

No More Mr. Nice Guy | Robert Glover | Write Your Legend Podcast with Apollonia Ponti and Natalie Stavola - burst 01

"She will, you know, she's strong needs to be done. And so the thing that I learned is that a woman can't follow her a man doesn't lead that's true on the Dancefloor. It's is true in relationship. Now that leadership is not dead. Do it my way, you know, it's not about that that kind of controlling dominance. It's just showing up with a plan and having a sense of confidence about you that you know where you're going and you invite the woman to come along same on the dance floor is it I'm not going to ask the woman in between each move every step. Do you want to have this done now? Would you like a cross body move? Should I do a pretzel with you? Should I know I'm just going to lead her and if she likes the way I lead she's going to relax into that and follow and be blessed by that. If you don't like the way I lead single find another partner to dance with that's fine that it works. Well, but if I don't lead we're just going to stand there on the Dance Floor, you know kind of looking at each other until one of us gets bored and walks away. So that leadership is crucial and when I found when guys are trying to figure out what to make what to do make a woman happy and pleased or there's no real leadership. It's like I said be like me asking a woman every move. What do you want to next? do you want today off? And you're laughing cuz I've asked women in front of men. I'm teaching I'll say do you like it? Well, what do you like when your man says what do you want to tonight? You want to go out? Where do you want to go for dinner in the women go is needed to make a decision. Right? But I don't like it. I'll tell you but make a decision instead of times. I've had that argument with with some dating like I forgot to tell you, I don't like that. I'm going to change my mind you're going to say let's get Chinese food and I'm gonna say I want Italian but it doesn't matter. I just want you to make a decision cuz make a decision. Yeah, and that is super hard cuz that goes back to the man same. Maybe I'll do something wrong. And one thing I've been preaching to men for quite some time in marriage therapy. And otherwise, is that a woman's reaction to anything that a man does does not determine the rightness or wrongness of the thing man did write the man says, let's go get Chinese. You said I was thinking Italian he didn't do anything wrong cuz you had a different wage. Opinion on that. So this is you know, the work that I do with men is learning as a you know, start living life on your terms live life the way you want them live it and invite a great woman to come tag along with you to come join in your great life. Don't try to figure out how do I fit into her life? How do I make her happy? How do I make her want to be my girlfriend? I want to suck Ur clothes off. Don't worry about that stuff. You live your great life lead give her the chance to follow now. Here's the thing with that what if they're already in a relationship and all of a sudden? They're learning about this. How long does that take? Do all of a sudden they just come home and they're like, maybe like a big daddy 301 is here is here and she's like in leading this whole time. Yeah. So how does how do you do you get that like that leading birth? That is such a good question. When I wrote no more mister. Nice guy. I wrote in there I said when I started working with nice guys, and and because it does shake up a relationship if they're in one thousand. It shakes up everything, you know, the guy starts setting boundaries or starts asking for what he wants or start saying no or start spending more time with his guy friends, you know starts pursuing his his passion is going to shake things up and and I say in the book that I when I first started seeing this I gave relationships about a fifty-fifty chance that they would survive the the guy doing a nice guy recovery and I write in the book then over time. I started giving it more of a 60-40 that it wasn't going to work. And by the time I wrote book, I'd 7030. I'm about at 8020 now home and you know, we're kind of laughing about it. But the truth is yeah if if a couple of gotten together and fallen into a routine that that is some level is comfortable. Serve them even if it's painful and toxic it could be challenging to break that up. So mental asked me a lot of times say well sure. I show my wife or my girlfriend your book. I'm gonna go by all means, why am a copy, you know, let them have a copy and let them start underlining and writing in it and you tell them what it is that you're wanting to work on and what you're learning and how you want to be in this world. And and you know, do this is a team effort and in my experience. I'm a say in general women like my book, you know, when the book up published. I think the Publishers are thoughts going to create this big controversial but it never did. I maybe have gotten three angry emails from women in twenty years so women like the book cuz it's teaching men can be honest and transparent and and you know good men. Not not just pleasing nice guys. So I have found that a lot of women are really supportive of this work log. I got to visit a couple had worked with a number of years ago. I started working with the man over time and then he met the woman they got married. They're they're like 50, so they're both like second marriage for each of them and they came down to Puerto Vallarta where I live and did some work with me a few years ago and I forgot to visit them about three weeks ago and and the woman said to me says Robert finished that other book you're working on around what I call positive emotional tension women tend to like the stuff that I teach and couples therapy. You know, when I would start with the man just like in dance class, you gotta start with the lead, you gotta show them how to leave where the followers got nothing to lead. So I start with the man and I get the big two-by-four out smack him upside the head and say, okay, here's how women are wired. Here's what's important to them. Here's what most men get wrong. And here's what we're going to work on and usually the women have gone to look at their husbands or boyfriend and go this guy gets women. I like him. And so So when I found his women are pretty supportive of this Dynamic and many men had told me. Hey my wife gave me your book my ex-wife gave me your book an ex girlfriend gave me your book off. So women are spreading the word and they want men that they can trust that they can depend on who will set the tone and Lead who they can open up and Trust. Yeah because it's an honest with themselves and how can they be honest in a relationship if I can't depend on you to open up and tell me like what's going on? What you need? How can we be a team song? Yeah. I'm very obviously have apple and I are huge fans of the book. Yeah, and another point you talk about in one of your chapters and the no more mister nice guy book is with with life in general, right? I am a true believer that women look at sex differently than men look at 6 and men look at sex differently and intimacy is emotional for women, right? So we need our emotional needs to be met off. Order to want to have sex either with our partner or in our marriage whatever the case may be and sometimes those marriages can end up dying down and then we look up as sometimes what I've seen as well is that the men is looking at this as my wife isn't having sex with me. So I need to push for sex in order to feed the validation from within me. Right and so the woman was like, oh, I'm just not there mentally emotionally because of XYZ. I'm going through a hard time in life. And so what happens is he pushes more so than the relationship gets disconnected when they really weren't disconnected really in the first place. Yeah, but since the sex was pushed it was more and then I've seen that Spectrum happened in a lot of you know people that we work with and then the other spectrum is I mean to have sex with my wife in order to know that she's happy. So then he have a guy that's cleaning the house doing things for the kid. I mean, there's been doing everything. I I was a guy at one time. I was I look I did the dishes look at all this and log My zip I did ex-wife would walk in. How come you haven't wipe the counters off and I haven't finished yet. Now we have sex. I've been there. I've been there were boarded the response that is completely different and you actually talk about this in your book, you know, there's there's so many Dynamics the whole, you know, since we're kind of, you know, kind of leaning towards longer-term relationship here. There's so many dynamics that go into this great book by Esther perel called mating in captivity says it actually intimacy and hot sex don't play em together now intimacy mean we know each other really well, we've gotten comfortable with each other. We've got a predictability to our life the thing that most relationship experts Point couples torque. We have great communication. We work things out or great team, but she says that actually works against the polarity of having, you know, really great hot sex. And so, you know, it's almost dead. I don't think we have to choose one or the other. She's not saying that but we do need to know that in those long-term relationships kind of the Mormon that just be together starts to feel routine that starts to take a bath the sex now there's a lot of other things that they can go in to this change. Sometimes it's is the man is is a lazy lover or a city lover. You know, he just thinks poking his partner, you know, Thursday is a way to do it. Sometimes he's using his own emotional neediness and approaching her to get sex like doing the the kitchen thing and now have sex when they have sex with me and what I found is that a women don't necessarily reject the desire their partner to have sex. They reject the neediness. That's behind it. Come validate me make feel okay by having sex with me think they pushed that away off like no women don't want that that that's that hose hooked up to them where their Partners going to, you know, fuck them and say, okay. I'm loved I'm good, you know, whatever other pieces job. Go into this as well part of it, you know going back a little bit of clarity we've touched on is that most women and culture nowadays are in their masculine so much. They're doing all the time. They getting ready to go work. They go to work deal with customers, you know co-workers management, then I got to get back home from work. Now there's dishes to be done dinners. And if there's kids most often parenting is masculine doing the kids need to get their homework done. They need to have a bath and you'd have dinner they need to get the bed and then, you know, the man gets in bed that night gives her a little shoulder rub off and she's going. Oh no one more thing I've got to do and that's how it feels right feels like oh, I gotta do one more thing which is again masculine and the deepest thoughts and desires to be done its to be open and blessed and but if if a woman has been so much in her masculine all day. There's most women off. Good at making that switch. Right? So one of the things that I teach men guys sent, you know say guys new in a relationship or beshi long-term relationship part of our masculine leadership is leading our partner back into her feminine laughter that feminine State and you know, that might mean she comes home. And first thing you say sit down you take you sit down take your shoes off rubber feet say five minutes, you're on the clock tell me about your day. You got my undivided attention and she gets to you know, decompress or feed her being rubbed. This isn't There's No Agenda. If you're right. This isn't the get her in mood for later on if you get her slowed down out of being in that masculine, I put a quote in no more mister nice guy by a lesbian feminist. A lot of feminists don't like her cuz she actually likes men and I'm glad to hear you guys say do too but she's the quote I use it says that the typical woman out. Workplace is just going going and if she doesn't get throttled that back when she comes home. She's going to castrate everything in the home and not because the woman needs to they're just like this needs to be let's get that to you know, it's just like that and so masculine Leadership can be just okay, you know, what are your room change your clothes go put on your sweats, you know, I've said a glass of wine out or go take a bath go read a book go, you know something that let her just get out of that fast. Got to do got a good you gotta do and then often as you said optional needs I think women have a deep need to be heard to seen. I think if a woman knows she's heard and seen that we guys think that might mean listening to them complain all night long and I give an exact. I was dating a woman few years ago. I met her at the mall. She sold me shoes how I met her and so we started dating and so early on some of our dates would go to like a Ruth's Chris restaurant off. And go to happy hour and have a hamburger when she got off work in the mall. There was connected each other so she'd come over and she'd been working all day and and selling shoes or apparel and she just starting complaining, you know, the customers the management of this and maybe if she talked to her mother that day she'd be in a she's always had a pissy mood after I learned after she talked to other so, you know, she'd come in and sit down and be completely I've already got the two glasses of wine in front of us and I realized you know right date. So I just I took my phone out. Like I said, put it out set the timer for five minutes and said we're on a date. I know you just got off work of my undivided attention for five minutes. Give it all to me and like about two or three minutes in she was done it was enough and and then like she and I've had other women thank God for creating that container that they could just decompress get it all out. I wasn't going to fix anything. They just had you know, my undivided attention for x amount of time and dead. Then she could relax and then we'd have a good evening. So that's you know, it's just an example of the masks and Leadership one of the things that I teach all men and I've taught all the women in my life is full of open the door for them, you know, a woman taught me that about fifteen sixteen Seventeen years ago. She just said hey, you know, I never know if you can open my door not just I don't care what you do either open it every time or Dome. Well, no, that's all right. I'm going to open it so car doors office or stored or whatever. I've taught all the women in my life. Wait, I will open the door. I'll come open your I'll put you in the office completely out of the car. Now. The woman doesn't need me to open her door, but it's it creates a little bit of polarity. I'm the doing it done two. It's not a big deal, but I found that it's profound and I found at each guy says do it, but do it consistently cuz the first time you forget to come around and open her door the first time you forget to open again. She's going to just sit there Staffing. They're going. Hey, you taught me this, you know, so so they you know, the feminine wants that consistency, but that little thing I found personally is so powerful my mum even waits for me to open her door. First time. I did it. She said if I waited my dad's been dead for eleven years. So if I waited for your dad to open my door, I'd still be waiting I said, okay, but I'm opening your life. You know, my granddaughter is should be fourteen next month. She wakes up on her door, you know, she loves what she loves One Big Papi comes around so she loves when Granddad, and it opens the door for so now those again, you know, women can open their own doors women can you know probably decompress in their own ways, but I found that say gift we men can get the women with no attachment is not to get them. Okay, you talk about your problems. We're gonna have sex now, right, you know, it's not about that and talking about the pushing for sex on you mention. I teach men never ever push a woman for sex now cuz I'm such a nice guy and I'm you know, you know doing my oh look at me. I'm a good guy because with a few horrible women have been poked at their entire lives. And since yeah, there's a reason hashtag me to exist women have been poked and I have found if a man is in his masculine setting the tone and leading being himself creating polarity. He doesn't have to push a woman for sex. I felt that the women are often sexual aggressor with me since I you know, got divorced twenty years ago and started Living, you know, this way with women every woman I've been with is one in more sex than me. I never put a woman for sex ever, but cuz here's the thing. I tell guys whether they're you know, so first time they're trying to get a woman have sex or long-term relationship if the woman for any reason. And has her foot on the break free. Maybe maybe you're on a first or second date and maybe she's didn't shave down there. Or maybe she's on her. Or maybe she's just not ready yet. She knows she's going to have sex with u age she's just not ready yet. So the foot she goes is going to happen but not yet foots on the brake and I told men if you have your foot on the gas and she knows you're pushing person again doesn't matter if it's a second date or you've been married twenty years if she knows you're pushing for sex and her foot's even just a little bit on the break. Guess what she's going to do now, push harder on the brake and all guys. You don't want a woman pushing harder on the sex break. So pushing a woman for sex. Not only thing is violating but it doesn't serve you. Well in the woman doesn't feel loved and it doesn't Make Her Say Yeah penetrate me. Do me fuk to God. I'm ready there like this song. They're like this so I know that's confusing. The men's we want a formula we want. Okay, tell me the three steps, but I found that if the guy games setting the tone needing creating the polarity inviting the woman into that feminine space. She's the one that's already planning about when they're going to have sex. Yeah you guys on your head. Yeah, that you know is absolutely I can agree with this more. I'm so happy. I hear you saying this as well, you know, Natalie built a products all around this master is called bedroom, and she talks so much about this polarity and there's something that was out and we talked about this very openly it's called last minute resistance and it was something that pushed in to pick up Community back home. And we've had a lot of guys get in trouble for this and it's about pushing the woman to have sex if she doesn't want to and a lot of times what I've noticed too and what you're saying is the energy behind them. Is is relationship or not relationship first or second date? It's the woman will be able to intuitive intuitively feel if you're pressing the brakes or if you're putting the gas on. Yeah. Yeah, if you're off the formula exactly. So if you're pushing excuse me, so it's not about having. Oh I need to do this specific formula. It's about just embodying. You're like you really knowing who you are as a young man and really standing up to that and positioning herself in that way and I tell like men this all the time and I remind them, you know, you as a guy can probably walk outside of a neighborhood. That's maybe not so good at 10:00 at night. But as a Woman by yourself and a black shirt if you wanted to doesn't matter, but as a woman we can't do that without feeling like we're going to be in trouble. I tell mid all the time to really understand what you you're saying right now. I tell men ask any woman, you know that she feel safe walking in her own neighborhood at night well and Thursday No, the majority of women are going to say ha don't do it. And you know, I'll even you know here in Puerto Vallarta where I live see a woman walking at night on a dark Street by yourself. I'm thinking woman. What were you thinking back? And you know again, I'm not saying that in any way justify like what the whole rape culture thing, but women have never felt safe walking the planet and I told men if you understand that women by nature or security seeking creatures and trust is everything. I was actually doing an interview one time with a couple of women on a television show more Middle Ages actually known no Ashok. So I went to the radio Studios was talking to them and I made the comment on a commercial break that I said. tell men I said if you fuck with a woman's trust you're going to fuck with her lust and the new ones that thought. Oh, yeah, you need to say that when we come back from break and I said guys say that on the radio and they go so if you mess with the woman's trust you're going to mess with the woman's lust and it was funny. Probably about two or three years. Years later, I walked into a coffee shop in the area that lived and and one of those women who did the interview was sitting talking to somebody else that I knew was actually she was a dating coach as well relationship coach wage and she wakes Robert you remember me? I said, yeah. Yeah, I did a radio interview with you just I've got to tell you when said that thing about, you know messing with a woman's trust you mess with their lust she goes I'm you know, fifty-something years old been married for thirty years. I went home told my husband that she said as a woman, I'd never put that two and together in my own head that trust was so essential to open sex is vulnerable for a woman you're getting poked and prodded and penetrated in every way and to enjoy that you've got to let go. Let go you've got to trust and I mean women can bypass that they get drunk enough. They can pray fantasy. They can get into you know, some old trauma-related. You know, I'm with the Jersey And it's saying yeah, but to truly open up an experienced the depth of bliss of and when I say penetration, I don't just mean the guy jack hammer in the woman, you know with this 24/7 hard on. It's about the man bringing all of his Consciousness and presents open heartedness and groundedness and passion bringing all of that yet. Natalie's over there. Yeah. Well, yeah more important because that's the thing is like we were talking about before is the masculine energy. Is that penetrating energy, but as a woman it's all interconnected with how we're feeling and letting go of that guard but also if a man is in that neediness energy needing to validate needing to do this in your intention isn't honest behind why you're even trying to penetrate us a pick up all of your energy you're literally going inside of us. So if I'm sitting there dating a guy and I sleep with him and he's got past trauma. He doesn't love himself. He's you know insecure and he's just trying to log Need to have sex with him validate himself. Now. What was that energy in me? I gotta deal with that kind of pick up your energy now like carry on about my day. So when when you are talking about just that simple thing of like when a woman comes home and you're like they there's a glass of wine for you go change into something comfortable. You've got me for five minutes. It's that and there's no intention behind Old Testament know about that right? There is sexy to a woman and why we would be the ones to initiate sex later because that is sexy to us that right. There is a we get to trust you will just break down anything those break that down even more for men cuz social appears that thing. So yeah again, we'll go back. Let's let's talk about a guy on let's say they got into a third date with woman, you know, and he hears like, you know open he gets laid that night, you know, so he's doing all the stuff to push it and and you know as women you of course know you know why we take out right off. To see you naked that's the whole reason we take you out and you know that, you know, you're not dumb, you know, you know, of course you're not, you know, we're ready. We were that special lingerie off likely, you know, so so and and now that's the point. I really want to make, you know, when you're ready. It's going to happen and I tell guys, okay listen. A woman knows within the first 30 seconds of meeting a guy if there's a possibility she's going to wear that sexy lingerie, right? I can't know for sure if she's going to she just knows if there's not a possibility and you know, then all the guys from there they use the nice guy seduction or the pick up stuff or trying to buy you enough drinks hoping that'll yeah with some wage their insecurities and their alcohol issues. It does happen. But the woman know so I tell the guy so you really don't have to make this happen as Chris Rock Says just don't say anything really stupid. Don't mess up. Right. So the woman knows if it's going to happen right or not. She no she doesn't know when but and and you know, because of all the cultural slut-shaming off and have to Cana like, well I want to do it right now, but I'm going to give it, you know, 15 more minutes before I get, you know, put on the laundry because you know, have to culturally blah blah a bunch of noise, but it off What is so so I tell guys think about it this way if she already in her mind is entertained the idea. She's going to wear that lingerie with you. You don't have to push. All you have to do is show up be you, you know, bring that good vibe cuz you women are so sensitive to energy. Yeah. Yeah, I'll be playful be affectionate took her hand and lead her oldest a way for me to open your door invite her into your great life or she gets to see this guy's got a fucking great life. I'm not talking about a great apartment a great cook. I mean those could be part of it. But that you've got friends. You've got a life. You're you're a social animal you you take care of yourself. Let her see that part of your life. You keep getting the tone and leading what I found when I was dating again. I never pushed a woman for sex put never pushed him to get naked, but I am very affectionate and I will set the tone and I will be Adventures. And I will call a woman up and say I'm at your house in 30 minutes be ready to go. I will do those kinds of things. And what I found is then the women put their foot on the gas and and off, you know, either dropping the innuendo about sex or say come over to dinner in my house Friday night, you know, then, you know, she's going to have the lingerie ready. So I tell them don't push cuz you don't have to you don't have to now that doesn't mean I don't tell I tell guys but that don't mean to be passive, you know be know, assert yourself be bold and when the dog opens by all means walk through that door now you may have to do something like, you know, the woman's, you know been making little innuendo you may just have to do the Bold thing and my kind of was all right, you know take your clothes off and go get in my bed. Oh, I can't believe you're telling me what to do, you know what to do. So I tell men her to do what she already wants to do. Now that again that's not like oh you're going to read her mind off. You guys you you gals send the signals when it's time when you're ready. You're not that hard like me use our mouths. We we think you know those thoughts your hand might end up on his crotch outside of his jeans. There's some signal for the guy to say it happens. It happens and for the guy to say, but I've had to say women this is as far we can go in a public setting somewhere else. So if you do that, Yeah, that's amazing. I definitely oh man, this is so good. I'm like my mind is like

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No More Mr. Nice Guy | Robert Glover | Write Your Legend Podcast with Apollonia Ponti and Natalie Stavola - burst 01

Write Your Legend

28:10 min | 3 weeks ago

No More Mr. Nice Guy | Robert Glover | Write Your Legend Podcast with Apollonia Ponti and Natalie Stavola - burst 01

"She will, you know, she's strong needs to be done. And so the thing that I learned is that a woman can't follow her a man doesn't lead that's true on the Dancefloor. It's is true in relationship. Now that leadership is not dead. Do it my way, you know, it's not about that that kind of controlling dominance. It's just showing up with a plan and having a sense of confidence about you that you know where you're going and you invite the woman to come along same on the dance floor is it I'm not going to ask the woman in between each move every step. Do you want to have this done now? Would you like a cross body move? Should I do a pretzel with you? Should I know I'm just going to lead her and if she likes the way I lead she's going to relax into that and follow and be blessed by that. If you don't like the way I lead single find another partner to dance with that's fine that it works. Well, but if I don't lead we're just going to stand there on the Dance Floor, you know kind of looking at each other until one of us gets bored and walks away. So that leadership is crucial and when I found when guys are trying to figure out what to make what to do make a woman happy and pleased or there's no real leadership. It's like I said be like me asking a woman every move. What do you want to next? do you want today off? And you're laughing cuz I've asked women in front of men. I'm teaching I'll say do you like it? Well, what do you like when your man says what do you want to tonight? You want to go out? Where do you want to go for dinner in the women go is needed to make a decision. Right? But I don't like it. I'll tell you but make a decision instead of times. I've had that argument with with some dating like I forgot to tell you, I don't like that. I'm going to change my mind you're going to say let's get Chinese food and I'm gonna say I want Italian but it doesn't matter. I just want you to make a decision cuz make a decision. Yeah, and that is super hard cuz that goes back to the man same. Maybe I'll do something wrong. And one thing I've been preaching to men for quite some time in marriage therapy. And otherwise, is that a woman's reaction to anything that a man does does not determine the rightness or wrongness of the thing man did write the man says, let's go get Chinese. You said I was thinking Italian he didn't do anything wrong cuz you had a different wage. Opinion on that. So this is you know, the work that I do with men is learning as a you know, start living life on your terms live life the way you want them live it and invite a great woman to come tag along with you to come join in your great life. Don't try to figure out how do I fit into her life? How do I make her happy? How do I make her want to be my girlfriend? I want to suck Ur clothes off. Don't worry about that stuff. You live your great life lead give her the chance to follow now. Here's the thing with that what if they're already in a relationship and all of a sudden? They're learning about this. How long does that take? Do all of a sudden they just come home and they're like, maybe like a big daddy 301 is here is here and she's like in leading this whole time. Yeah. So how does how do you do you get that like that leading birth? That is such a good question. When I wrote no more mister. Nice guy. I wrote in there I said when I started working with nice guys, and and because it does shake up a relationship if they're in one thousand. It shakes up everything, you know, the guy starts setting boundaries or starts asking for what he wants or start saying no or start spending more time with his guy friends, you know starts pursuing his his passion is going to shake things up and and I say in the book that I when I first started seeing this I gave relationships about a fifty-fifty chance that they would survive the the guy doing a nice guy recovery and I write in the book then over time. I started giving it more of a 60-40 that it wasn't going to work. And by the time I wrote book, I'd 7030. I'm about at 8020 now home and you know, we're kind of laughing about it. But the truth is yeah if if a couple of gotten together and fallen into a routine that that is some level is comfortable. Serve them even if it's painful and toxic it could be challenging to break that up. So mental asked me a lot of times say well sure. I show my wife or my girlfriend your book. I'm gonna go by all means, why am a copy, you know, let them have a copy and let them start underlining and writing in it and you tell them what it is that you're wanting to work on and what you're learning and how you want to be in this world. And and you know, do this is a team effort and in my experience. I'm a say in general women like my book, you know, when the book up published. I think the Publishers are thoughts going to create this big controversial but it never did. I maybe have gotten three angry emails from women in twenty years so women like the book cuz it's teaching men can be honest and transparent and and you know good men. Not not just pleasing nice guys. So I have found that a lot of women are really supportive of this work log. I got to visit a couple had worked with a number of years ago. I started working with the man over time and then he met the woman they got married. They're they're like 50, so they're both like second marriage for each of them and they came down to Puerto Vallarta where I live and did some work with me a few years ago and I forgot to visit them about three weeks ago and and the woman said to me says Robert finished that other book you're working on around what I call positive emotional tension women tend to like the stuff that I teach and couples therapy. You know, when I would start with the man just like in dance class, you gotta start with the lead, you gotta show them how to leave where the followers got nothing to lead. So I start with the man and I get the big two-by-four out smack him upside the head and say, okay, here's how women are wired. Here's what's important to them. Here's what most men get wrong. And here's what we're going to work on and usually the women have gone to look at their husbands or boyfriend and go this guy gets women. I like him. And so So when I found his women are pretty supportive of this Dynamic and many men had told me. Hey my wife gave me your book my ex-wife gave me your book an ex girlfriend gave me your book off. So women are spreading the word and they want men that they can trust that they can depend on who will set the tone and Lead who they can open up and Trust. Yeah because it's an honest with themselves and how can they be honest in a relationship if I can't depend on you to open up and tell me like what's going on? What you need? How can we be a team song? Yeah. I'm very obviously have apple and I are huge fans of the book. Yeah, and another point you talk about in one of your chapters and the no more mister nice guy book is with with life in general, right? I am a true believer that women look at sex differently than men look at 6 and men look at sex differently and intimacy is emotional for women, right? So we need our emotional needs to be met off. Order to want to have sex either with our partner or in our marriage whatever the case may be and sometimes those marriages can end up dying down and then we look up as sometimes what I've seen as well is that the men is looking at this as my wife isn't having sex with me. So I need to push for sex in order to feed the validation from within me. Right and so the woman was like, oh, I'm just not there mentally emotionally because of XYZ. I'm going through a hard time in life. And so what happens is he pushes more so than the relationship gets disconnected when they really weren't disconnected really in the first place. Yeah, but since the sex was pushed it was more and then I've seen that Spectrum happened in a lot of you know people that we work with and then the other spectrum is I mean to have sex with my wife in order to know that she's happy. So then he have a guy that's cleaning the house doing things for the kid. I mean, there's been doing everything. I I was a guy at one time. I was I look I did the dishes look at all this and log My zip I did ex-wife would walk in. How come you haven't wipe the counters off and I haven't finished yet. Now we have sex. I've been there. I've been there were boarded the response that is completely different and you actually talk about this in your book, you know, there's there's so many Dynamics the whole, you know, since we're kind of, you know, kind of leaning towards longer-term relationship here. There's so many dynamics that go into this great book by Esther perel called mating in captivity says it actually intimacy and hot sex don't play em together now intimacy mean we know each other really well, we've gotten comfortable with each other. We've got a predictability to our life the thing that most relationship experts Point couples torque. We have great communication. We work things out or great team, but she says that actually works against the polarity of having, you know, really great hot sex. And so, you know, it's almost dead. I don't think we have to choose one or the other. She's not saying that but we do need to know that in those long-term relationships kind of the Mormon that just be together starts to feel routine that starts to take a bath the sex now there's a lot of other things that they can go in to this change. Sometimes it's is the man is is a lazy lover or a city lover. You know, he just thinks poking his partner, you know, Thursday is a way to do it. Sometimes he's using his own emotional neediness and approaching her to get sex like doing the the kitchen thing and now have sex when they have sex with me and what I found is that a women don't necessarily reject the desire their partner to have sex. They reject the neediness. That's behind it. Come validate me make feel okay by having sex with me think they pushed that away off like no women don't want that that that's that hose hooked up to them where their Partners going to, you know, fuck them and say, okay. I'm loved I'm good, you know, whatever other pieces job. Go into this as well part of it, you know going back a little bit of clarity we've touched on is that most women and culture nowadays are in their masculine so much. They're doing all the time. They getting ready to go work. They go to work deal with customers, you know co-workers management, then I got to get back home from work. Now there's dishes to be done dinners. And if there's kids most often parenting is masculine doing the kids need to get their homework done. They need to have a bath and you'd have dinner they need to get the bed and then, you know, the man gets in bed that night gives her a little shoulder rub off and she's going. Oh no one more thing I've got to do and that's how it feels right feels like oh, I gotta do one more thing which is again masculine and the deepest thoughts and desires to be done its to be open and blessed and but if if a woman has been so much in her masculine all day. There's most women off. Good at making that switch. Right? So one of the things that I teach men guys sent, you know say guys new in a relationship or beshi long-term relationship part of our masculine leadership is leading our partner back into her feminine laughter that feminine State and you know, that might mean she comes home. And first thing you say sit down you take you sit down take your shoes off rubber feet say five minutes, you're on the clock tell me about your day. You got my undivided attention and she gets to you know, decompress or feed her being rubbed. This isn't There's No Agenda. If you're right. This isn't the get her in mood for later on if you get her slowed down out of being in that masculine, I put a quote in no more mister nice guy by a lesbian feminist. A lot of feminists don't like her cuz she actually likes men and I'm glad to hear you guys say do too but she's the quote I use it says that the typical woman out. Workplace is just going going and if she doesn't get throttled that back when she comes home. She's going to castrate everything in the home and not because the woman needs to they're just like this needs to be let's get that to you know, it's just like that and so masculine Leadership can be just okay, you know, what are your room change your clothes go put on your sweats, you know, I've said a glass of wine out or go take a bath go read a book go, you know something that let her just get out of that fast. Got to do got a good you gotta do and then often as you said optional needs I think women have a deep need to be heard to seen. I think if a woman knows she's heard and seen that we guys think that might mean listening to them complain all night long and I give an exact. I was dating a woman few years ago. I met her at the mall. She sold me shoes how I met her and so we started dating and so early on some of our dates would go to like a Ruth's Chris restaurant off. And go to happy hour and have a hamburger when she got off work in the mall. There was connected each other so she'd come over and she'd been working all day and and selling shoes or apparel and she just starting complaining, you know, the customers the management of this and maybe if she talked to her mother that day she'd be in a she's always had a pissy mood after I learned after she talked to other so, you know, she'd come in and sit down and be completely I've already got the two glasses of wine in front of us and I realized you know right date. So I just I took my phone out. Like I said, put it out set the timer for five minutes and said we're on a date. I know you just got off work of my undivided attention for five minutes. Give it all to me and like about two or three minutes in she was done it was enough and and then like she and I've had other women thank God for creating that container that they could just decompress get it all out. I wasn't going to fix anything. They just had you know, my undivided attention for x amount of time and dead. Then she could relax and then we'd have a good evening. So that's you know, it's just an example of the masks and Leadership one of the things that I teach all men and I've taught all the women in my life is full of open the door for them, you know, a woman taught me that about fifteen sixteen Seventeen years ago. She just said hey, you know, I never know if you can open my door not just I don't care what you do either open it every time or Dome. Well, no, that's all right. I'm going to open it so car doors office or stored or whatever. I've taught all the women in my life. Wait, I will open the door. I'll come open your I'll put you in the office completely out of the car. Now. The woman doesn't need me to open her door, but it's it creates a little bit of polarity. I'm the doing it done two. It's not a big deal, but I found that it's profound and I found at each guy says do it, but do it consistently cuz the first time you forget to come around and open her door the first time you forget to open again. She's going to just sit there Staffing. They're going. Hey, you taught me this, you know, so so they you know, the feminine wants that consistency, but that little thing I found personally is so powerful my mum even waits for me to open her door. First time. I did it. She said if I waited my dad's been dead for eleven years. So if I waited for your dad to open my door, I'd still be waiting I said, okay, but I'm opening your life. You know, my granddaughter is should be fourteen next month. She wakes up on her door, you know, she loves what she loves One Big Papi comes around so she loves when Granddad, and it opens the door for so now those again, you know, women can open their own doors women can you know probably decompress in their own ways, but I found that say gift we men can get the women with no attachment is not to get them. Okay, you talk about your problems. We're gonna have sex now, right, you know, it's not about that and talking about the pushing for sex on you mention. I teach men never ever push a woman for sex now cuz I'm such a nice guy and I'm you know, you know doing my oh look at me. I'm a good guy because with a few horrible women have been poked at their entire lives. And since yeah, there's a reason hashtag me to exist women have been poked and I have found if a man is in his masculine setting the tone and leading being himself creating polarity. He doesn't have to push a woman for sex. I felt that the women are often sexual aggressor with me since I you know, got divorced twenty years ago and started Living, you know, this way with women every woman I've been with is one in more sex than me. I never put a woman for sex ever, but cuz here's the thing. I tell guys whether they're you know, so first time they're trying to get a woman have sex or long-term relationship if the woman for any reason. And has her foot on the break free. Maybe maybe you're on a first or second date and maybe she's didn't shave down there. Or maybe she's on her. Or maybe she's just not ready yet. She knows she's going to have sex with u age she's just not ready yet. So the foot she goes is going to happen but not yet foots on the brake and I told men if you have your foot on the gas and she knows you're pushing person again doesn't matter if it's a second date or you've been married twenty years if she knows you're pushing for sex and her foot's even just a little bit on the break. Guess what she's going to do now, push harder on the brake and all guys. You don't want a woman pushing harder on the sex break. So pushing a woman for sex. Not only thing is violating but it doesn't serve you. Well in the woman doesn't feel loved and it doesn't Make Her Say Yeah penetrate me. Do me fuk to God. I'm ready there like this song. They're like this so I know that's confusing. The men's we want a formula we want. Okay, tell me the three steps, but I found that if the guy games setting the tone needing creating the polarity inviting the woman into that feminine space. She's the one that's already planning about when they're going to have sex. Yeah you guys on your head. Yeah, that you know is absolutely I can agree with this more. I'm so happy. I hear you saying this as well, you know, Natalie built a products all around this master is called bedroom, and she talks so much about this polarity and there's something that was out and we talked about this very openly it's called last minute resistance and it was something that pushed in to pick up Community back home. And we've had a lot of guys get in trouble for this and it's about pushing the woman to have sex if she doesn't want to and a lot of times what I've noticed too and what you're saying is the energy behind them. Is is relationship or not relationship first or second date? It's the woman will be able to intuitive intuitively feel if you're pressing the brakes or if you're putting the gas on. Yeah. Yeah, if you're off the formula exactly. So if you're pushing excuse me, so it's not about having. Oh I need to do this specific formula. It's about just embodying. You're like you really knowing who you are as a young man and really standing up to that and positioning herself in that way and I tell like men this all the time and I remind them, you know, you as a guy can probably walk outside of a neighborhood. That's maybe not so good at 10:00 at night. But as a Woman by yourself and a black shirt if you wanted to doesn't matter, but as a woman we can't do that without feeling like we're going to be in trouble. I tell mid all the time to really understand what you you're saying right now. I tell men ask any woman, you know that she feel safe walking in her own neighborhood at night well and Thursday No, the majority of women are going to say ha don't do it. And you know, I'll even you know here in Puerto Vallarta where I live see a woman walking at night on a dark Street by yourself. I'm thinking woman. What were you thinking back? And you know again, I'm not saying that in any way justify like what the whole rape culture thing, but women have never felt safe walking the planet and I told men if you understand that women by nature or security seeking creatures and trust is everything. I was actually doing an interview one time with a couple of women on a television show more Middle Ages actually known no Ashok. So I went to the radio Studios was talking to them and I made the comment on a commercial break that I said. tell men I said if you fuck with a woman's trust you're going to fuck with her lust and the new ones that thought. Oh, yeah, you need to say that when we come back from break and I said guys say that on the radio and they go so if you mess with the woman's trust you're going to mess with the woman's lust and it was funny. Probably about two or three years. Years later, I walked into a coffee shop in the area that lived and and one of those women who did the interview was sitting talking to somebody else that I knew was actually she was a dating coach as well relationship coach wage and she wakes Robert you remember me? I said, yeah. Yeah, I did a radio interview with you just I've got to tell you when said that thing about, you know messing with a woman's trust you mess with their lust she goes I'm you know, fifty-something years old been married for thirty years. I went home told my husband that she said as a woman, I'd never put that two and together in my own head that trust was so essential to open sex is vulnerable for a woman you're getting poked and prodded and penetrated in every way and to enjoy that you've got to let go. Let go you've got to trust and I mean women can bypass that they get drunk enough. They can pray fantasy. They can get into you know, some old trauma-related. You know, I'm with the Jersey And it's saying yeah, but to truly open up an experienced the depth of bliss of and when I say penetration, I don't just mean the guy jack hammer in the woman, you know with this 24/7 hard on. It's about the man bringing all of his Consciousness and presents open heartedness and groundedness and passion bringing all of that yet. Natalie's over there. Yeah. Well, yeah more important because that's the thing is like we were talking about before is the masculine energy. Is that penetrating energy, but as a woman it's all interconnected with how we're feeling and letting go of that guard but also if a man is in that neediness energy needing to validate needing to do this in your intention isn't honest behind why you're even trying to penetrate us a pick up all of your energy you're literally going inside of us. So if I'm sitting there dating a guy and I sleep with him and he's got past trauma. He doesn't love himself. He's you know insecure and he's just trying to log Need to have sex with him validate himself. Now. What was that energy in me? I gotta deal with that kind of pick up your energy now like carry on about my day. So when when you are talking about just that simple thing of like when a woman comes home and you're like they there's a glass of wine for you go change into something comfortable. You've got me for five minutes. It's that and there's no intention behind Old Testament know about that right? There is sexy to a woman and why we would be the ones to initiate sex later because that is sexy to us that right. There is a we get to trust you will just break down anything those break that down even more for men cuz social appears that thing. So yeah again, we'll go back. Let's let's talk about a guy on let's say they got into a third date with woman, you know, and he hears like, you know open he gets laid that night, you know, so he's doing all the stuff to push it and and you know as women you of course know you know why we take out right off. To see you naked that's the whole reason we take you out and you know that, you know, you're not dumb, you know, you know, of course you're not, you know, we're ready. We were that special lingerie off likely, you know, so so and and now that's the point. I really want to make, you know, when you're ready. It's going to happen and I tell guys, okay listen. A woman knows within the first 30 seconds of meeting a guy if there's a possibility she's going to wear that sexy lingerie, right? I can't know for sure if she's going to she just knows if there's not a possibility and you know, then all the guys from there they use the nice guy seduction or the pick up stuff or trying to buy you enough drinks hoping that'll yeah with some wage their insecurities and their alcohol issues. It does happen. But the woman know so I tell the guy so you really don't have to make this happen as Chris Rock Says just don't say anything really stupid. Don't mess up. Right. So the woman knows if it's going to happen right or not. She no she doesn't know when but and and you know, because of all the cultural slut-shaming off and have to Cana like, well I want to do it right now, but I'm going to give it, you know, 15 more minutes before I get, you know, put on the laundry because you know, have to culturally blah blah a bunch of noise, but it off What is so so I tell guys think about it this way if she already in her mind is entertained the idea. She's going to wear that lingerie with you. You don't have to push. All you have to do is show up be you, you know, bring that good vibe cuz you women are so sensitive to energy. Yeah. Yeah, I'll be playful be affectionate took her hand and lead her oldest a way for me to open your door invite her into your great life or she gets to see this guy's got a fucking great life. I'm not talking about a great apartment a great cook. I mean those could be part of it. But that you've got friends. You've got a life. You're you're a social animal you you take care of yourself. Let her see that part of your life. You keep getting the tone and leading what I found when I was dating again. I never pushed a woman for sex put never pushed him to get naked, but I am very affectionate and I will set the tone and I will be Adventures. And I will call a woman up and say I'm at your house in 30 minutes be ready to go. I will do those kinds of things. And what I found is then the women put their foot on the gas and and off, you know, either dropping the innuendo about sex or say come over to dinner in my house Friday night, you know, then, you know, she's going to have the lingerie ready. So I tell them don't push cuz you don't have to you don't have to now that doesn't mean I don't tell I tell guys but that don't mean to be passive, you know be know, assert yourself be bold and when the dog opens by all means walk through that door now you may have to do something like, you know, the woman's, you know been making little innuendo you may just have to do the Bold thing and my kind of was all right, you know take your clothes off and go get in my bed. Oh, I can't believe you're telling me what to do, you know what to do. So I tell men her to do what she already wants to do. Now that again that's not like oh you're going to read her mind off. You guys you you gals send the signals when it's time when you're ready. You're not that hard like me use our mouths. We we think you know those thoughts your hand might end up on his crotch outside of his jeans. There's some signal for the guy to say it happens. It happens and for the guy to say, but I've had to say women this is as far we can go in a public setting somewhere else. So if you do that, Yeah, that's amazing. I definitely oh man, this is so good. I'm like my mind is like

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The Answer is The 5 Minute Pickup

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The Answer is The 5 Minute Pickup

"So I'd asked in their four questions because my brain is just a little bit like. Lately and so I needed some questions to answer for the PODCAST and I'm. Calling this episode you know the answer is the five minute pickup or something like that because that was the answer to at least four different questions within this thing. So I wanted to make sure that you know as I was answering all this different things, I, was putting him into a word doc. I'll do another podcast right answer some more questions but I thought you know there's like four different times in here where in my notes I've said we'll interested pick up. Well, the answer is a five minute pick up and I thought okay. Well, what what are some different questions where the answer is the five minute pickup all right. So here we go. Do. You have any tips for making sure you get completely unpacked from a trip in a timely manner. Are you curious how the answer to this question is GonNa be the five minute pickup So the real answer to this is by the way. Sometimes, when I asked for questions and people start giving me questions I started to feel like wait I feel like these questions make it seem like I, know all the answers to everything and I really don't this is mostly me just going from my experience and also having thought about these things and laid out different strategies in my home over the past eleven years and written about it like I feel like if i. Even, if I had lived for the eleven years working on my own house, getting it to the point where it is now, I wouldn't necessarily be able to answer these questions except for the fact that I've written about it, which means I have like laid out steps I have put together actual strategies and strategies into words, and that's the only reason. I feel like I can answer these questions but sometimes questions like this. Make me panic and go I'm not perfect I don't know everything in my house is not perfect but whatever here So the question was, do you have any tips for making sure making sure No there's no way to make sure of anything you can get complete or you get completely unpacked from a trip in a timely manner. So that the number one way that I manage this is having a designated place for my suitcases. Okay because. which I mean, there's probably people listening going how would you not have a designated place but the reality is sometimes suitcases are these weird things because you don't use them all that often you pull them out. And it's like, Oh, where should I the suitcases but when I I have a designated place, there's a in my bedroom I think I had talked about at different times on the blog. But when my mother in law passed away and we cleaned out her assisted living apartment, she had a little wardrobe that was really kind of her her pride and joy and really was so useful in her little apartment shit. Close, more than confident her closet and they were important to her so there was a little. I. Forget what kind of what it is, but she always called it. Bites what type of what it was, but might be I. Don't know anyway this little wardrobe and and she loved that thing like it was something that she and my father in law had purchased when they first got married in their first department and it really is it's pretty and and so when it came down to it. You know getting rid of stuff I was like Oh. This is one of those things I really hate to get rid of, but I? I made sure I had an actual spot and purpose for it in my home before I brought it home and so what we ended up doing was we have this little space. It's perfectly I measured it to make sure. In our bedroom that used to be, where are my husband's stereo system went which you know stereo systems are not really the thing anymore, which is Kinda. Funny. But like as far as big speakers and things like that but he did keep his turntable. Well, there was a little shelf at the top where we used to have our TV. Like our big boxy TV. There was a little shelf at the top, and it's kind of like this cutout section of the wall, and so it's kind of a weird place. Anyway, we'll the top shelf he put the turntable from hysteria system and that's all he kept. Their. And then our CDs are up there and then this would wardrobe thing fits right in there. Okay. Because I had had some stuff that was kind of putting in that spot anyway that looked a key but once we that wardrobe in there, then those things can go in there. So that's like my camera and lighting equipment for youtube videos and things like that. Where do y'all put your stuff, your youtube videos I know a lot of extra probably duty to. But anyway. So that is there but also had room for. Most. Of Our suitcases if I put my smaller suitcases inside of my larger suitcases. Okay. So it Kinda takes a little bit of finagling but I'm willing to do that because suitcases or something that I want to have easily accessible. Not that we've travelled much in twenty twenty but in general, I travel on it somewhat decently regular basis except for twenty twenty. And if my suitcases are in the attic, it just makes it too much of

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8th-Generation iPad: First Impressions

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06:13 min | Last month

8th-Generation iPad: First Impressions

"The eighth generation IPAD may not be the sexiest new tablet on the block with the starring price of three, hundred, twenty, nine dollars. It might be the one you're most likely to buy. So Is it worth? I'm Roger Chang and this is your daily charge with me is our IPAD expert Scott Stein welcome Scott. So Scott we had you on right after that September apple than to show your impressions of all the announcements and the eighth Jan. ipad was not the most exciting product mentioned. You know we spent a little time talking about it but. You spent a few weeks with it. Has, your. Opinion Changed, are you what are you feeling about it now I think it's fine. I think it is not surprising IPAD. This is an IPAD that reminds me of last year's ipads because it practically is last year's ipads the the IPAD air twenty nineteen and the IPAD mini in two thousand nineteen had the same chip the IPAD air in this at the same Ram. It's basically that for less. There are some trade offs here that are tiny, but the IPAD air was more expensive. Now, that's now that's an all on the apple store. The IPAD mini is, but it's a tiny bump up in price. So you know three, hundred, twenty, nine dollars. This gets in at a much more affordable proposition, the the IPAD air that's coming. which is who knows when it probably in a couple of weeks is more expensive at starts at six hundred dollars. So it looks nicer. It looks like a less expensive pro. But I think when you're talking about almost doubling the price that. That really gets into a different territory for people. Yeah. Definitely. Anthony Twenty nine starting at three, twenty nine. It's obviously the most affordable option for someone looking for an IPAD. Ultimately for you who should be looking at this IPAD is primary option I. think if you just think of an I had something to have lying around check my email to look at shows to have one for your kid. This is that one if you don't care about step up bells and whistles, you don't want like a fancier toy. Not to call ipads toys I think they're very useful but I think that there is a point at which if you try to push an IPAD to become your everyday computer, you're going to have what you call pain points. You know you're going to have these difficulties that increase as you try to throw it out more. And I go to my laptop all the time because I need to. So that's the thing about the pro. He's got a lot of upsides that could be interesting, but you really have to map out whether that makes sense for you and if you WANNA think of it as like a fun thing for you but IPAD is totally perfect doing all that other stuff that being said. You know you got to bump up from the thirty two gigs of storage I think. That is too low an amount. For for what you'd be paying for this if you want it to last. Year's, and then you're talking about four twenty, nine Ri-, which slightly changes the equation a bit. He does you talked about our kids using this and a lot of kids obviously doing remote learning right now I've got a friend of mine who know he told me when he offered his kid a Mac, a choice between a Mac and ipad actually chose the IPAD. But isn't that really geared for remote learning for Education I think the older you get it's it's very nonsuited for it. You know we have a seven year old and eleven year old seven year old uses an ipad that we have around that. We use for remote learning it suitable. I think it's great. For eleven year old uses a chromebook and I think that's what you absolutely need for the types of. Work assignments you're doing your editing stuff, etc. Now ipads work with track pads, and so there's like on the entry level ipad they don't. It doesn't have this gets to accessories. Apple has beautiful but very expensive magic keyboard. That's like three hundred dollars. There are different accessories for this entry ipad. There's a Logitech Combo touch, which is still expensive one, hundred, fifty, dollar track pad keyboard I've been using with it. It's kind of like a surface with a kick stand. Type layout, but it's good for turning into a kind of a laptop but the point is that you can edit use a track pad. You'd be surprised at it can do more than you think, but some web apps some tools a google drive works well with it now but like some things don't. And you just don't know whether you get to that point where a problem especially with file storage file maintenance and chromebooks are weird too. But they're much more like web tool type based. Think the IPAD gets a little bit hotter with that. It, and then the I mean the big difference here as you said, it's identical lashes model. The big difference is the H. Wealth processor. How people differences that make you know I'm so used to seeing like. Standard. New I IPAD iphones. It doesn't feel particularly special, but I think it's necessary to get up to speed with. We're is going and we're going the processor was a couple of years old. It was feeling a little sluggish. They twelve is not like super zippy in comparison it's it's basically fine. It gets to the like very good fine point. So you know I could use an IPAD totally, but I think it's getting to the point where you might not be able to use it. So on the future and it gets to the point, I don't think you need to upgrade to this win -sarily. If you have an IPAD lying around, that's working fine you can probably keep using it. This is like you know between this last year's IPAD entry of like last year they did the. Works at Pencil works with the smart keyboard made the screen a bit bigger. It adds up to like one set of upgrades. But this thing still uses lightning. It still has a home button, the Basil's or kind of big. So for Split Screen APPs, it's not ideal. That's a the cameras a little less good than last year's IPAD air but that's not the problem. It's on the side ipad cameras on the side that kind of sucks because. You. Know if you're doing zooms and things like that your faces off center and I have not really sell for that and they should but I don't know how long it's GonNa take for an ipad to have a side. Mounted. Camera. To address this. So just F Y that's another thing now that we're doing everything over zooms in remote,

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8th-generation iPad review

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05:07 min | Last month

8th-generation iPad review

"With me is our IPAD expert Scott Stein welcome Scott. So Scott we had you on right after that September apple than to show your impressions of all the announcements and the eighth Jan. ipad was not the most exciting product mentioned. You know we spent a little time talking about it but. You spent a few weeks with it. Has, your. Opinion Changed, are you what are you feeling about it now I think it's fine. I think it is not surprising IPAD. This is an IPAD that reminds me of last year's ipads because it practically is last year's ipads the the IPAD air twenty nineteen and the IPAD mini in two thousand nineteen had the same chip the IPAD air in this at the same Ram. It's basically that for less. There are some trade offs here that are tiny, but the IPAD air was more expensive. Now, that's now that's an all on the apple store. The IPAD mini is, but it's a tiny bump up in price. So you know three, hundred, twenty, nine dollars. This gets in at a much more affordable proposition, the the IPAD air that's coming. which is who knows when it probably in a couple of weeks is more expensive at starts at six hundred dollars. So it looks nicer. It looks like a less expensive pro. But I think when you're talking about almost doubling the price that. That really gets into a different territory for people. Yeah. Definitely. Anthony Twenty nine starting at three, twenty nine. It's obviously the most affordable option for someone looking for an IPAD. Ultimately for you who should be looking at this IPAD is primary option I. think if you just think of an I had something to have lying around check my email to look at shows to have one for your kid. This is that one if you don't care about step up bells and whistles, you don't want like a fancier toy. Not to call ipads toys I think they're very useful but I think that there is a point at which if you try to push an IPAD to become your everyday computer, you're going to have what you call pain points. You know you're going to have these difficulties that increase as you try to throw it out more. And I go to my laptop all the time because I need to. So that's the thing about the pro. He's got a lot of upsides that could be interesting, but you really have to map out whether that makes sense for you and if you WANNA think of it as like a fun thing for you but IPAD is totally perfect doing all that other stuff that being said. You know you got to bump up from the thirty two gigs of storage I think. That is too low an amount. For for what you'd be paying for this if you want it to last. Year's, and then you're talking about four twenty, nine Ri-, which slightly changes the equation a bit. He does you talked about our kids using this and a lot of kids obviously doing remote learning right now I've got a friend of mine who know he told me when he offered his kid a Mac, a choice between a Mac and ipad actually chose the IPAD. But isn't that really geared for remote learning for Education I think the older you get it's it's very nonsuited for it. You know we have a seven year old and eleven year old seven year old uses an ipad that we have around that. We use for remote learning it suitable. I think it's great. For eleven year old uses a chromebook and I think that's what you absolutely need for the types of. Work assignments you're doing your editing stuff, etc. Now ipads work with track pads, and so there's like on the entry level ipad they don't. It doesn't have this gets to accessories. Apple has beautiful but very expensive magic keyboard. That's like three hundred dollars. There are different accessories for this entry ipad. There's a Logitech Combo touch, which is still expensive one, hundred, fifty, dollar track pad keyboard I've been using with it. It's kind of like a surface with a kick stand. Type layout, but it's good for turning into a kind of a laptop but the point is that you can edit use a track pad. You'd be surprised at it can do more than you think, but some web apps some tools a google drive works well with it now but like some And you just don't know whether you get to that point where a problem especially with file storage file maintenance and chromebooks are weird too. But they're much more like web tool type based. Think the IPAD gets a little bit hotter with that. It, and then the I mean the big difference here as you said, it's identical lashes model. The big difference is the H. Wealth processor. How people differences that make you know I'm so used to seeing like. Standard. New I IPAD iphones. It doesn't feel particularly special, but I think it's necessary to get up to speed with. We're is going and we're going the processor was a couple of years old. It was feeling a little sluggish. They twelve is not like super zippy in comparison it's it's basically fine. It gets to the like very good fine point. So you know I could use an IPAD totally, but I think it's getting to the point where you might not be able to use it. So on the future and it gets to the point, I don't think you need to upgrade to this win -sarily. If you have an IPAD lying around, that's working fine you can probably keep using it.

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Edit Your Weddings on the iPad!

This Week in Photo

04:22 min | Last month

Edit Your Weddings on the iPad!

"Welcome back to another episode of this week. In photo I'm your host Frederik van Johnson Today on Hodzi is Rep Marley like I said in the intro there he's a wedding photographer destination wedding photographer he knows his way around the camera way around his way around the wedding business. In fact, he's in the not hall of fame. So he knows his way around this industry, but he does a lot of his post processing on an IPAD. So that's what intrigued me about this array. Right. Welcome to the Joanne. How's it going man? I really appreciate the opportunity this is great. I'm excited to talk to you and I connected on twitch. Lurking in one of your streams, watching you edit photos on an IPAD and you know what I said when I saw that blasphemy. Early. Actually get that. A lot of people don't like what are you? What are you doing on the IPAD? This is it's definitely not something you would typically see when you watch photographer edit for sure. Yeah. Yeah. So yeah, I wanNA talk about that. Well, let's talk before we get started with let's talk about your pedigree you know with with photography how'd you get started and how did you get inducted into the not hall of fame? So I got into the wedding industry actually from I've been doing this. Technically, my business started in two thousand and ten. So going on ten years about eleven years here in the next few months but I started my business technically while I was in, college? And it's definitely one of those things to where there's just listening to have done so bad. Interview before. So. You really yes. Yes. Cool. Your you're perfect. Your Voice is perfect your audio serve big your lighting and background or perfect. Just thinking this is a conversation is chatting. All right. You start. You may answer the question again and ask again I'll before okay let me let me pause that from not pausing banana. Leaves some blank space for my edit here. So here we go. Okay Aereo. Case a here we go. was I on a two-shot wasn't a two yard shot Aereo. Okay. So before we dive into your workflow and you know the IPAD and how you're able to use that in in in a professional setting, give us a little bit a little bit of background. First of all first question would be you the what what's your origin story I always ask people what the radio spider you know story is how did you come Zuber Chiro? How'd you get into this this crazy world of taking pictures? Okay. So it actually started for me out started out on the yearbook staff of my high school those the first time that camera had been putting my hands. The teacher was like, Hey, we need someone to take pictures in that moment I was like sure all do it, but I really had no clue what I was doing. But as I began to take pictures in high school, I found passion for it fell in love with it. and. That's really where it all began and then when I went to college actually applied to be a part of the magazine staff that would go around and take pictures for the magazine for the university I went to and from there really just kind of became a snowball effect. I. Guess You could say it in college was probably one of the few students who had his own DSL our cameras it was a canon x Ti. So it was another fancy, but you gotta start somewhere and so you know I was really proud to have my own cameron year in college and so as. My friends began to get engaged. They came to me Be Willing to take our engagement photos sure and I would just take photos and that right there is what I guess. The snowball effect is and what started everything and so. As I began to take more and more of my friends engagements eventually led into weddings and was really just doing it for fun. And before I knew it though by the time I had graduated from College I had enough photos to put a portfolio together for a website, and so you know graduated no SEC. Okay Let's see if we can make something work and so I put a website together and then the fun began of trying to figure out how to. Grow it into a business probably a whole different rabbit trail, but it did at eventually grew and grew and grew to where it is today

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008. Cloak & Dagger (1984) - burst 02

SpyHards Podcast

02:01 min | Last month

008. Cloak & Dagger (1984) - burst 02

"So we have, we have alternative from IMDB and then. I also took a ton writing my own cam. Oh, now I can't say it's very short but it made me laugh walsum rising it. I'll read it that anyway but his imdb Barry Short two sentences basically okay. Clerk Dagga, a young boy and his imaginary friend end up on the run while in possession of a top secret spy gadget. Yeah. Doesn't it doesn't tell you too much about it we like that. We usually give people credit for not saying too much now his mind. I you sat comfortably you have a drink. I'm good I'm good. Go some lunch. Good. Okay. I'm not a writer people. You're gonNA tell into this. Cloak and dagger eleven year old lady still reeling from the loss of his mother I'm with his father busy with work turns to the only way he knows how to deal with grief spied stories. Then begins to save delusions of a spine named Jack flack. However, this secret agent seems to have it in Theon Davey and begins to advise him to do dangerous things. This escalates to the point where flax begins to advise Davey to run into oncoming traffic and begin killing people. Simultaneously I'm not done. Simultaneously Davies two friends and annoying girl on a twinkie obsessed twenty something likes to hang out with much younger kids offer him no respite. During Ole, this David is accidentally involved in spy plot of his own where he goes against every bit of advice, a young child is given and does not report it to the proper authorities almost resulting in his demise and the loss of governmental secrets. Yeah. I mean it's gotTa

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Donald Trump 'paid $750 in federal income taxes in 2016 and 2017'

World News Tonight with David Muir

04:40 min | Last month

Donald Trump 'paid $750 in federal income taxes in 2016 and 2017'

"We begin tonight with that bombshell report on President trump at his taxes the election just thirty six days away now, and this is the most extensive reporting yet on the matter reporters at the New York Times revealing, they have examined eighteen years of president trump's taxes eleven of those years they report president trump paid no federal income taxes at all and the year he won the White House they say he paid seven hundred fifty dollars in federal income taxes the same the following year. That's about the same amount of American worker earning twenty thousand dollars a year pace federal income taxes seven hundred, fifty dollars. The Times points of those eleven years in which trump paid no federal income taxes at all and the Times also reporting that the president is hundreds of millions of dollars in debt more than four, hundred, twenty, million, they say in debt that could come do over the next four years if he's elected leading new questions, who is that money Oh to? Of course, all of this just twenty four hours before the first face to face debate between president trump and Joe Biden here's our chief White House correspondent Jonathan Karl leading off tonight. On the eve of the first presidential debate, the American public is getting what's been described as the first detailed look at one of Donald Trump's most closely guarded secrets, his tax returns in its Blockbuster Report The New York Times reviewed detailed information on nearly two decades. Worth of trump tax returns. The details are startling trump paid no federal income taxes at all in eleven of the eighteen years they review. Twenty sixteen the year he won the White House trump reportedly paid only seven hundred and fifty dollars for a first year in office. He again paid just seven hundred, fifty dollars seven hundred fifty dollars is roughly the federal income tax bill of someone who makes twenty thousand dollars a year at the White House the President insisted the Times report was not accurate well, first of all, I paid a lot a lot of state income taxes too but state and federal income taxes are two different things the president built his brand and his campaign on being a business genius with the MIDAS touch have great business sense I made a lot of money and I had great success. So I've had great success by the way really successful but the Times reports the trump businesses including his golf courses and resorts are actually awash in red ink. His Washington hotel reportedly lost fifty five point five, million dollars since it opened for years ago his foreign ventures according to the Times are among the few that have actually made money since he became president more than seventy, three, million dollars some of the most profitable countries with authoritarian leaders including the Philippines and Turkey when trump ran for president the first time he insisted he was loaded with money and had almost no debt whatsoever anybody I don't need that very interesting. I'm so liquid I don't need that and if I need but the Times reports the president is actually drowning in debt including more than four hundred, twenty, one, million dollars that could come do over the next four years the paper noting that if trump is reelected quote, his lenders could be placed in the unprecedented position of wing whether to foreclose on a sitting president today the president tweeted he has very little debt compared to the value of assets. He has repeatedly said his tax returns are under IRS audit it's. They've been underwater for a long time. The IRS does not treat me. Well, the newspaper reports the IRS is in fact investigating a seventy two point nine, million dollar tax refund the president received in two, thousand ten and whether he took improper deductions, the times found trump took tax deductions for money spent on his lavish lifestyle including seventy thousand dollars on hairdressers during his time on the apprentice and more than ninety five, thousand dollars for vodka trump's makeup artist. The President says he is entitled like everyone else to depreciation and tax credits. Refused to turn over his tax returns but he's also bragged about his ability to avoid paying taxes. The only years that anybody's ever seen where a couple of years when he had to turn them over to state authorities when he was trying to get a casino license and they showed he didn't pay any federal income tax so. Eight zero that means zero for troops. The Biden campaign points out that most voters do pay taxes releasing an ad today highlighting working class people who have paid more federal income tax than the self described. In the White, house.

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Trump paid no income taxes in 10 out of 15 years beginning in 2000

World News Tonight with David Muir

04:40 min | Last month

Trump paid no income taxes in 10 out of 15 years beginning in 2000

"Begin tonight with that bombshell report on President trump at his taxes the election just thirty six days away now, and this is the most extensive reporting yet on the matter reporters at the New York Times revealing, they have examined eighteen years of president trump's taxes eleven of those years they report president trump paid no federal income taxes at all and the year he won the White House they say he paid seven hundred fifty dollars in federal income taxes the same the following year. That's about the same amount of American worker earning twenty thousand dollars a year pace federal income taxes seven hundred, fifty dollars. The Times points of those eleven years in which trump paid no federal income taxes at all and the Times also reporting that the president is hundreds of millions of dollars in debt more than four, hundred, twenty, million, they say in debt that could come do over the next four years if he's elected leading new questions, who is that money Oh to? Of course, all of this just twenty four hours before the first face to face debate between president trump and Joe Biden here's our chief White House correspondent Jonathan Karl leading off tonight. On the eve of the first presidential debate, the American public is getting what's been described as the first detailed look at one of Donald Trump's most closely guarded secrets, his tax returns in its Blockbuster Report The New York Times reviewed detailed information on nearly two decades. Worth of trump tax returns. The details are startling trump paid no federal income taxes at all in eleven of the eighteen years they review. Twenty sixteen the year he won the White House trump reportedly paid only seven hundred and fifty dollars for a first year in office. He again paid just seven hundred, fifty dollars seven hundred fifty dollars is roughly the federal income tax bill of someone who makes twenty thousand dollars a year at the White House the President insisted the Times report was not accurate well, first of all, I paid a lot a lot of state income taxes too but state and federal income taxes are two different things the president built his brand and his campaign on being a business genius with the MIDAS touch have great business sense I made a lot of money and I had great success. So I've had great success by the way really successful but the Times reports the trump businesses including his golf courses and resorts are actually awash in red ink. His Washington hotel reportedly lost fifty five point five, million dollars since it opened for years ago his foreign ventures according to the Times are among the few that have actually made money since he became president more than seventy, three, million dollars some of the most profitable countries with authoritarian leaders including the Philippines and Turkey when trump ran for president the first time he insisted he was loaded with money and had almost no debt whatsoever anybody I don't need that very interesting. I'm so liquid I don't need that and if I need but the Times reports the president is actually drowning in debt including more than four hundred, twenty, one, million dollars that could come do over the next four years the paper noting that if trump is reelected quote, his lenders could be placed in the unprecedented position of wing whether to foreclose on a sitting president today the president tweeted he has very little debt compared to the value of assets. He has repeatedly said his tax returns are under IRS audit it's. They've been underwater for a long time. The IRS does not treat me. Well, the newspaper reports the IRS is in fact investigating a seventy two point nine, million dollar tax refund the president received in two, thousand ten and whether he took improper deductions, the times found trump took tax deductions for money spent on his lavish lifestyle including seventy thousand dollars on hairdressers during his time on the apprentice and more than ninety five, thousand dollars for vodka trump's makeup artist. The President says he is entitled like everyone else to depreciation and tax credits. Refused to turn over his tax returns but he's also bragged about his ability to avoid paying taxes. The only years that anybody's ever seen where a couple of years when he had to turn them over to state authorities when he was trying to get a casino license and they showed he didn't pay any federal income tax so. Eight zero that means zero for troops. The Biden campaign points out that most voters do pay taxes releasing an ad today highlighting working class people who have paid more federal income tax than the self described. In the White, house.

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When Can I Move Up in House?

Ramsey Call of the Day

03:49 min | Last month

When Can I Move Up in House?

"Andrews in. San. Antonio Texas. What's up? How are you? Deserve man, how can I help? Awesome I had a question So I'm like you in San. Antonio on the military right now got about probably three years left about and I actually called. I spoke to Ken, Coleman a couple of weeks ago and he encouraged me that this is probably should should probably look at me and my last and most because it just doesn't line up with my goals anymore. So we're we're kind of looking at that transition and were plotting a move to the Nashville area actually ended this most met. In the rest of America. Okay. So the House that we're living now is very much a starter home. We bought it only here for about one seventy and we're just wondering at what point is appropriate mathematically to move up in house because we live in like you'd like to be in a nicer part of town. Eventually you know a little bit bigger and so we're just trying to figure out like mathematically how to make that happen without like starting over on the mortgage you know. Okay well you number one, you wouldn't do this until you move. To Nashville. Ride that house for three years it doesn't make sense to buy and sell a house inside of three years. Right we're not looking at doing this now, I'm just just a planning purpose. So you sell the house there you move to Nashville start, your new career by another house, right? Right, and then he would start a new mortgage on a fifteen year fixed rate. Here's the thing when someone says starting over on the mortgage that makes me think you believe that all the interest on mortgages paid upfront. which is not true by the way. Do you think that? No I don't think. Okay. So, what's your all your starting over as you have a different debt, a bigger debt or a smaller debt. So what are you currently San Antonio House. Currently owe one, fifty five. Okay. So if you buy one fifty, five at the same interest-rate or less in Nashville which would be very hard to do or the Nashville market, you could get out in the country you might way out in the country might pull it off. Okay. But Anyway if you did that mathematically speaking. You would exactly star where you are today. You would just move the one, fifty five at the same interest rate over here, and if it was the same number of years, you've lost zero ground the only way you lose ground as you go further in debt, which you said I, WanNa move up in house. That's cool. So let's say you buy three hundred, thousand dollar house because your career, your new career pays more than your career. And you move to Nashville by three thousand dollar house. Now, that's a little more feasible okay and so. Now, you've doubled your mortgage. So what you've started over is twice as much debt. But nothing else started over other than that. Okay. Yeah. That makes sense how many years remaining on your current mortgage. We've only lived in this house for just less than a year. So we've got fourteen years. You did a year. Okay. So when you move, you would have eleven years left. You did my scenario on eleven years regardless of the amount you took out, you would still be debt free it exactly the same time agreed. That sounds yeah which you wouldn't do that. You'll probably get a new fifteen year three, hundred, three, hundred, twenty, five, thousand or whatever number it is when you move up, that's fine as long as it's on a fifteen year fixed the payments no more than a fourth of your take home pay. But that's how it's GonNa work. So sit tight where you are, and then as you arrange yourself into the new career three years from now and you decide which city you're gonNa live in for sure you start shopping for real estate and start figuring out how much we actually can afford based on your new income to purchase on a fifteen year fixed rate where the payments no more than a fourth, your take home pay, and that'll keep you between the ditches brother. Thank you for your service. We really really appreciate cash.

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Eva Schloss on Holocaust forgiveness

Jonny Gould's Jewish State

06:44 min | Last month

Eva Schloss on Holocaust forgiveness

"This S Charlie Goals Jewish. States those who listen for those who are willing to listen. Now. Thank you very much. tweed action. and. I've. Lived a long time and have experienced a lot of wonderful things but Israel. I'm believable Bihar. And of course, it leaves it says sign on my way overlooking. World. Let's just bring it back to today in this country. I think it's fair to say that British Jews experienced a visceral form of antisemitism that they have never done before with the election of Jeremy Corbyn, the leader ship of the Labor Party and the genuine threat that should he have won the election in December twenty nine hundred thank goodness didn't that Future, existence in the united. Kingdom. was under threats. Can I ask you in this for years of quite quite considerable pain for the Jewish community here? Could you feel parallels with what she experienced in Vienna announced the damage as a child not at all not at all and no people's starting to be afraid he upset about it. But as always say Sicily announcing and you know unfortunately antisemitism has always been and always be I don't know why but it is affects. Who is essential his and? It does it's just. It's language. So it's subsequent assist inborn in the people, but it is thus Mention it just same. Like what this I'm doesn't. Nazi. Time. So I must say, it doesn't really bother me and mustard personally offend million may. Not experienced any antisemitism in again thank you for making that clear. Now, you lived in the same apartment block in Amsterdam and frank, and you were only a month apart in Asian. Playmates together in early teenage, and then in nineteen forty two, you both went into hiding to avoid the Nazi effort to capture Jews in Amsterdam. Now, you'll family was captured by the Nazis after being betrayed by double agent in the Dutch underground and transported to Auschwitz. You father and brother didn't survive the ordeal, but you and your mother were barely alive while you afraid by Soviet troops in nineteen, forty five. How Did it feel. To have left your home city of the Anna. To try and create new life understood them. And for that to happen to you, even as you fled from way you used to. Well as it was. At tangible tangible time. Have a very happy little girl in Australia had old plaza who was Like older process should be very protective for me. I have a sort of a viable child. It was much more at a bookworm and he had to be all his stories which he was dating Again. Pants. Kaslow's advice Elliott wonderful family life, and then to go to Belgium. Glad we got out of Australia Benny. Many of our family members didn't because it was spent thirty eight. It was very difficult to get past the German Jews had already gone to England and land, and France and everywhere, and most of those companies did the daily want any more Jews? So only if you're somebody special. got visas any more. But advising referenced in Jim and then Mefatha actually lift in Holland and remain Belgium, and of course, the war stock that my father had asked to get as well to Holland because in a war board as will be closed and view may not be able to see. So in in forties ewing's a wall that in February nineteen forty because visas to for three months to visit by Fassa in in Holland. So relief like you say on the same Dressy not an apartment block, it was a hold area of. More than it'll buildings and there was eleven years old. But of course, you know ahead on trust French said ahead to Dutch Andam. difficult to accept that Baz also children and even by the teaches and. So lost all my confidence. became shy Biz stone but friendly and eventually settled down. But of course, the Nazis invaded. And, of course, a measures Jewish people started to come. And for two years VI IN FIA to be arrested. And in nineteen forty two, then southbound young people go to call up notice have to come to a place respect pex given exactly start Schefter Blake to deported to Germany to work in German factories. But Zach to him benighted forty-two most of German Jews had been deported to get us or two camps. So why on Earth should your one more young Jewish be to Cup to Germany? So Zet sit time when Anna's Fazah auto frank and my father and many other Jewish feminists is cited civil send Sam young people, but we would go into hiding. While I was just sit at ten years old. And my father called us together. And he said, hence, you not going to set you we going to hiding. But we couldn't find a family who was to take it for people. So we have split up. I go visit my Mazda enhance feel bismuth files. And that started to cry. And did not want to be separated the game.

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"eleven years" Discussed on WNYC 93.9 FM

WNYC 93.9 FM

02:04 min | 11 months ago

"eleven years" Discussed on WNYC 93.9 FM

"To live a more was eleven years old when the family received permanent she said the first month she was so scared someone from the shelter system with common seven actually made a mistake Julia worked with monster rector Jody Powell to craft her story Jody sat down which led to discuss what it felt like to walk into her very own apartment for the first time you know I I am curious about like the first moment she opened the halls and recognize that all right those are my neighbors should be the front of the building that I enter yes this is all what was that feeling I only came into apartment they had we did everything cels new paint new everything and I'm just like oh my god like this is our apartment and I have my own room but I didn't sleep in my own room for like three months because we only had one mattress so me my mom and my little sister slept in one mattress in the living room you had no financial we had nothing but we were just so happy you know like to just know that we don't have to go back to the shelter anymore that we don't have to you know fight for a good placement to sleep or share a shower with multiple families the stories about the process of being homeless as a child and using your imagination to create your own save space and that's with the dolls that it was like my time to get away from knowing that I'm a kid in a shelter knowing that every day I walk I'm dragging the suitcase with me right before I go to school I have to give the suitcase back from my mom you know full of my clothes and just knowing you get out of school you have to go sit back in a shelter but knowing that you have your toys com to make you feel like just like a normal you know if you feel normal again so I definitely feel like this story made me realize I was a strong kid a very strong kid any kind of repair me for the real world for like today and definitely feel like I have a lot more stories that I can bring to life and find the deeper meanings to it cool.

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"eleven years" Discussed on KFI AM 640

KFI AM 640

03:44 min | 1 year ago

"eleven years" Discussed on KFI AM 640

"Be more empathic and good communicators and we do that really well here. but to the president of university calls me up I've been Cleveland this is eleven years ago she said I know you've got cold feet but guess what governor Spitzer's going to be very helpful so we. sell the house we're driving across route eighty over the George Washington bridge and we're spending our first night in a huge thunderstorm in the three villages in Stony Brook over the Long Island Sound and my son started getting texts from his soccer buddies in shaker heights my wife is realizing oh my god what have you done it was a tough night for me it was so bad the only thing I could say George sorry about this was Hey I'm going out to get peace. drove out five a them little Toadies pizzeria I walk in the foyer and there's two newspapers in the rack. one is the New York Post the front page governor no more and it's governor Spitzer in his socks and underwear having been caught using a nail them their money nailed if you will it having so we see events of the night and then the next thing which really blew me away there was a newspaper I've never ever heard of called three Phillips Herald is like the north coast of Long Island and there was there was only one headline on the front page and it said on limited published. in all you need is one headline we're going to come back and take final coals next never miss a detail on a show or a guest sign up for the coast so email newsletter available for free coast to coast AM dot com. as. and when it breaks I'm Michael brochure live from the KFI twenty four hour news room the LA city council has approved an ordinance allowing police to order people to leave homeless camp on high fire risk days those who fail to do so could get fined or rested almost camp with at least one hundred residents caught fire in late July in the Sapulpa basin fire in the Bel Air area in the late twenty seventeen also appear to start in a homeless camp thousands of fires burning in the Amazon rainforest are getting air support from southern California Colson aviation's Britain Colson says one of the helicopters being sent is so big it had to be taken apart to fit in a huge cargo plane for the trip I don't think there's any aircraft that's going to deliver more product to a fire whether it's you know water or fire fighting chemical in the right situation then the Boeing CH forty seven D. model calls and says the other two helicopters will take forty five hours to get from the same Regina airport to Bolivia because multiple stops for gas hurricane Dorian is killed at least twenty people in the Bahamas during his strength in its way back to a category three storm as it's heading out for the eastern coast of the U. S. emergency preparations have been underway there since that last week the acting director Peter Gaynor says help is ready to move into Georgia and the Carolinas right now about ten thousand federal and National Guard troops activated in four states swift water rescue teams are also on stand by because of concerns over extra beer flooding and storm surges more than a million people in the affected areas are under mandatory evacuation orders and tropical storm Hernandez has that made a landfall along the northeast coast of Mexico it's moving inland the national hurricane center says life threatening flash floods and mud slides are possible. check out a crash in grand terrace on the north bound for the two fifteen just before Barton road have a rep with an overturned car two right lanes blocked here you do have crews on the scene seen a slowdown as you're coming off a locket Tina Dr.

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"eleven years" Discussed on The School of Greatness with Lewis Howes

The School of Greatness with Lewis Howes

04:02 min | 1 year ago

"eleven years" Discussed on The School of Greatness with Lewis Howes

"But probably by the time, I was ten or eleven years old. I convince myself that I must be like a social experiment from another school. My. Gosh. And so I was really troubled kid. But you know, what I've discovered is. I don't know who said this. It's almost like every story is true. But the run all real. I had to create a story inside of myself just to try to survive. And he's part of it for me has been this realization that even when people search for God, they're really just trying to search for themselves. And you're saying, you know, they're trying to find who they are their life matters if they have significance if if their existence has meaning and and so I never deluded myself. I was never really trying to find some abstract reality. I was trying to make sense of me. A lot of us. Try to do that at times. Right. I think it's a search role on. Yeah. Then that became a part of the mix of it all so when I became a person faith, I didn't everybody talks about things like having and how that was so irrelevant to me why even think about anything after this life, and you can't even survive this. You know, I wasn't looking for something that helped me after I took my last breath. I was trying to figure out how to live a life. That would leave me. Breathless. Wow. So what do you think is the the reason we're all here? I know this is a school of greatness. I actually do believe that this great society of every single person. I think that every human beings created in the image of God because every human being has intrinsic value and ever created to create I read a book years ago, called artisan soul. And it's an anthropology what I arguing that book is what makes humans different every other species is we can actually materialize invisible. There's no other species that can imagine a reality designed existent create it, and we don't even realize what humans do because so orange just create salt. They don't wake up in the morning decide what they're gonna do and honeybees just create Honey it's just intrinsic to who they are. And I think that humans create futures. And that we're intrinsically created to create the good and the beautiful and the true. And it look at it. I think I think human ideals are the best evidence of this like for me, one of the best evidences of God are human ideals. Because there's non called phantom pain, where if you lose an arm, you feel the pain of the arm for years and years and years, and you have the psychological memory not of that arm. Arm is still there, but you cannot have phantom pain. If you don't lose something wasn't once there if it wasn't there. You cannot have handsome pain, and I look at the world, I think we struggle for human ideals like peace. We've never known peace human history has never known peace. But we have the ideal of peace. We have the human ideal of a world without poverty a world where no one is hungry a world where every child is loved a world without violence world without abuse. We have these ideals, but we've never known that reality. And a lot of people say I can't believe in God. And it's like this ideal. And I'm like, you believe in ideals every second of your life. And so every time you do a school of greatness, you're actually experiencing phantom pain. You're saying there's something inside. Of you that there's no physical evidence of. But I believe it's there we have to pull it out of you have to waken it. I'm convinced human ideals are our souls, phantom pain that somehow we remember what it's supposed to few like to be like to be human and humans were created for love or created for beauty created for goodness. We're created for community or creative for intimacy. Otherwise, why would we long for these things that are so difficult to attain sometimes seem almost an entertainer? Why do we suffer so much though, if love is what we want intimacy connection? Why does it seem like a lot of times people are going through so much anxiety, depression, disconnection uncertainty, lack of focus lack of mission, and they're not experiencing love on the deepest levels..

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"eleven years" Discussed on The Dave Ramsey Show

The Dave Ramsey Show

03:46 min | 2 years ago

"eleven years" Discussed on The Dave Ramsey Show

"I have a couple of questions about blended retirement system. I'm in the army for eleven years. And I'm most of it has been in the reserves side. I don't I see myself going back to active duty at any point. And so I'm just I feel like this is the big decision. I don't have enough information to be able to make the best decision. So I'm just going to see if I can get your thoughts on whether or not the bundle retirements whether or not I should opt into that or stick with the legacy system. Right. Well, you're right on the bubble. The closer you are to the twenty year. Mark the more. I would say just stay in the legacy system. The newer. You are in the system. Then I would say the blended is gonna come out better for you. That's the math that I have run on the new offering because obviously the new offering is you take a reduction in the traditional twenty year military retirement in return, you get money in your four in a 4._0._1._K system. Right. Yeah. That's that's my understanding of it. And then that money is yours whether you retire when you retire with you die with you, don't when you die with your military retirement, unless you've taken joint survivor, then it dies with you. If you took joint survivor when she dies it dies with her. So either way at dies when you die but money that's in your 4._0._1._K passes to your family. And so regardless because it becomes your money anytime, you can not do a pension and move towards 4._0._1._K at almost always benefits you with you being but the military so powerful the retirement is such a good thing at the twenty year. Mark the and obviously, it's a, you know, people you can count on the government's going to pay the military retirement. Then what what you can get into their. If you're not careful. Are because it's so strong. You know, I it you're gonna wanna do that the closer you are to it with you being at the eleven year, Mark, and in and out of reserves versus active duty. I don't know what the math come out. And so what I would tell you to do is get with one of the Smartvestor pros and take every number that you have get every number gathered up, and let them help you crunch the numbers. They don't make anything on it either way. But one of them will be able to crunch it through our get with one of our financial coach is one of the two, but you're gonna have to have all the numbers, and then someone's gonna have to get a financial calculator with you and help you say, okay. This is what's going on? But keep in mind, if it comes out about even to do the 4._0._1._K blended versus the retirement legacy retirement than do the 4._0._1. because you're going to get your cause that money survives you. And so that that's the tiebreaker. And and I think you're going to be pretty close to a tie. I think you're probably going to do the blended when you run the math, but I don't know with you in and out of reserves in and out of the active duty and so forth. I don't know what your numbers are going to be. So that's what we've gotta know is what would you get at retirement at the twenty year, Mark. What would you what would you know? What would you get in? And what would you get in blended? And then also what could you put into the 4._0._1._K? What is the match, and what will it get you to there? And so you can you can stack up the money on both sides of the table and see which high that the twenty year Mark, which one's going to be the bigger stack or for that matter at the forty year, Mark, which one's going to be the bigger stack and all of that. So great question. Thank you for joining us. Open phones hair at triple eight eight to five five two two five you jump in. We'll talk about your life your money. It is a free call. This is what we do, folks. We're here to help you with your life.

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"eleven years" Discussed on Tights and Fights

Tights and Fights

04:15 min | 2 years ago

"eleven years" Discussed on Tights and Fights

"Roman reigns. Came out at the start of raw to make an announcement. Here's a click. Mario name is Joan. She's christ. That was the instant I was like with leukemia for eleven years. Quite that arena. Got. Fucking. It's back. And because the leukemia's back I cannot fulfill my role. I can't be that fighting champion, and I'm going to have to relinquish the universal championship. This is the first time Roman had come forward with his diagnosis. We knew he'd missed. How shows over the weekend people soon. It was an injury. People did not obviously know what was happening. Nobody seemed to know about it until he went out to give that speech, obviously, it's a very serious diagnosis. It's something that was in remission in the past. It's come back. That happens doesn't mean it can't go into remission again. Right. But he's got a long fight ahead of him. The first time I found out about it. Because I didn't get to see it you watch the east coast feed. Got a we collectively the types of fights family got a text from you from jewelry at Juilliard ju. I thought it was you. There was like watch this right now. I did. But it was because when it happened. I was cutting. It was kind of like, oh my God. I need to go into like funeral mode where I need a text the family type of stuff. Let's let's get the word out. So everybody can know what's going on. So I text you guys. Text my dad, and my brother Tex Lindsey and everybody kinda collectively have have cry together over the next. So Julian I'll just first of all yes, our group chat is not as late as you would think it is. Because it's all just. I would like to say a group chat is lit. But it is not. So Julian text us at Monday at five six because he's watching the east coast feed and holy shit. You guys watch the opening of raw as soon as you can not a story line them. Seriously, freaking out. And so when Papa jillions text like that I was on my way to go to a screening for some interviews. I'm going to be doing later this week. And so I was like I got some time. I went in and watch the beginning. And then I texted wait what the fuck. Okay. Watch this guys. I mean, I guess from the moment of my real name is Joe it was like what is happening and my family. I mean, I think every family deals with cancer. But like cancer is soup like it has a FANG and my family. It is something that is kind of like we just deal with it in our family, breast cancer is just a thing leukemia breast cancer to the point where like I am not forty but I have to get mammograms every year because like I have to. Yeah. And they suck. And because my family deals with breast cancer. I don't just get the mammogram. I have to do like all of the things every year this really hit me super hard. But also remembering that like, my Oman's been dealing with cancer all of her life. And she is my Omar. I'm not gonna say her age, she wouldn't murder me. But she's my own mind, she's still here. And so that gives me hope, but I don't know what just made me think a lot about the way that the. Character of Roman reigns. And all the criticisms we had it's a really good lesson. In y'all. We have no idea what's happening behind the scenes. We have no idea what's going on with people or what people know. And I I know a lot of times we like to say like, oh, they're stupid. And why are they doing this? And why the making this decision and why they making that decision. And this was a good reminder that like sometimes it's fucking business. Why certain decisions get made in this fans. And it's something that I talk about a lot. There is such thing as toxic fandom. And I'm not our fans are obviously amazing. Why we do this podcast because we are trying to get people who aren't part of the toxic parts of the WWE universe. And gathered them all as our special babies and was a little room where we can all group hug, but it's just a good reminder that we love this thing. But we do not own this thing we love wrestling. But we don't own it. And we don't understand the three sixty of decisions that are made..

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"eleven years" Discussed on podnews

podnews

02:00 min | 2 years ago

"eleven years" Discussed on podnews

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"eleven years" Discussed on 106.1 FM WTKK

106.1 FM WTKK

01:34 min | 2 years ago

"eleven years" Discussed on 106.1 FM WTKK

"Been doing this. For eleven years eleven year volunteering as a caddy and Out of all those years he his he was the best as far as interacting. With, with a group and it was like a. Whole day of the destruction of teaching If you if you went to teaching pro would cost you probably thousands of dollars There was an, he'll remain nameless just because I don't I never asked, banking really get into this but there was a senior for the for the the the event that they hold that Preston would in. Raleigh for the for the champion's tour not allowed to call the senior tour anymore I, was playing with pretty well known guy for the pro-am since Roman the media sponsors. And he was talking about the evolution of golf based on the Tiger Woods model and he, was saying back in the day when they were all, the young up in commerce he was telling chichi Rodriguez stories of blow your mind, but but the idea that you'd go out and you'd be leaving for the course and there'd still be ice in the drinks from the night before And that and that was, and that was the tour and then you had guys like tiger and some of. These others that came in where the strength training thing took over and it caused guys to, have to evolve their game and their workout regimen their, diet and he said was the death of fund but it was a good natured, so it was a good day.

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"eleven years" Discussed on KBOI 670AM

KBOI 670AM

01:51 min | 2 years ago

"eleven years" Discussed on KBOI 670AM

"Coming out i thought it was just the value assessments that were change and it relies the percentage that they charge against your values what changes so we won't see that until later this year because it's every all the taxes are in arrears so we don't know you don't know what your taxes for this year till next year till next year later this year but you do know that the valuations change that's one component of values come in everybody's values are going up or at least for the most part i we we have a property up in sun valley and i was amazed to see it went down a little with his son sun valley that doesn't happen but so i guess i guess miracles do happen but in ada county i think have the number here it was the highest in the last eleven years countywide so that's a that's a pretty big bump this year and what the basically what happens is they have a they have a budget they've got the the different components that are getting money from the taxes you know all the way down from mosquito abatement up to schools have their budgets and that's where you're going to get the levy number out of the total assessed value of all the aggregate property so the the lettie number could go down which means your tax may not go up as much as your property value went up although historically i wouldn't say your taxes getting down that's no problem on taxes seem to always go up at least by my historical perspective well steve marsh brought up a good point which is you move more people into a town it creates more needs for city services and police fire all these then yeah so then you hear those numbers would go up to but then you're also dividing that same pie by more people so you know it it does cut in theory anyway but right it's government let's go to the phone lines teams who've napa city hall lines open a three three six thirty seven hundred pound six seven hundred verizon.

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"eleven years" Discussed on KSFO-AM

KSFO-AM

02:02 min | 2 years ago

"eleven years" Discussed on KSFO-AM

"With retirement eleven years away i have about two hundred thousand dollars attached or my investments is this the best i can do with the amount of time i have before retirement so that is where the conversation started with pat i replied with the following questions how old are you do you have an emergency fund and do you have any debt so like we talked about earlier with interest rates debt you're borrowing this is becoming a bigger focus for me with my clients when i'm building and reviewing their financial plans because i need to make sure that there there's not any ticking time bombs within your overall wealth picture so pat came back she's fifty six has no emergency fund she has a fixed rate mortgage but no other debt but this led to another series of questions the most important of which was i needed to help her figure out a risk tolerance and that raise the question on a scale of one to ten one is superconservative tennis super aggressive where do you rank your car comfort with risk right now i.

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"eleven years" Discussed on The Herd with Colin Cowherd

The Herd with Colin Cowherd

01:54 min | 2 years ago

"eleven years" Discussed on The Herd with Colin Cowherd

"Donovan mitchell was eleven years old eleven years old when westbrook entered the league he was a little boy my son is older than donovan mitchell was eleven years old and yet he's more composed he takes better shots he is more mature what did he say donovan mitchell what'd he say after the game last night leading three one and everybody saying man you're out playing westbrook here's what the rookie said said there's one you know not really worried about one in the visual comet you know i think if we get caught up in that takes us out of our own game and not play she'll tonight we just focused on each other and making the right place we needed to wow long term big picture don't get caught up in the moment one of the real signs of immaturity for athletes or non athletes you live in the moment you don't see the big picture you don't understand how your immediate actions affect tomorrow and the next day and the next day westbrook last night lived in the moment gonna beat rubio going to beat him tonight don't care and look what it's doing to his legacy people laughing at westbrook today he's a wacko he's crazy he's deranged he's out of his mind he's obsessed this is what i've been saying about him for years he's playing in his own video game he's not elevating others here's what's remarkable if you looked at if you look at mitchell and westbrooks numbers in the series which one's the rookie in which one's the mvp it's remarkable mitchell's averaging more game better field goal percentage better fourth quarter output better plus mine.

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"eleven years" Discussed on The Herd with Colin Cowherd

The Herd with Colin Cowherd

01:54 min | 2 years ago

"eleven years" Discussed on The Herd with Colin Cowherd

"Donovan mitchell was eleven years old eleven years old when westbrook entered the league he was a little boy my son is older than donovan mitchell was eleven years old and yet he's more composed he takes better shots he is more mature what did he say donovan mitchell what'd he say after the game last night leading three one and everybody saying man you're out playing westbrook here's what the rookie said said there's one you know not really worried about one in the visual comet you know i think if we get caught up in that takes us out of our own game and not play she'll tonight we just focused on each other and making the right place we needed to wow long term big picture don't get caught up in the moment one of the real signs of immaturity for athletes or non athletes you live in the moment you don't see the big picture you don't understand how your immediate actions affect tomorrow and the next day and the next day westbrook last night lived in the moment gonna beat rubio going to beat him tonight don't care and look what it's doing to his legacy people laughing at westbrook today he's a wacko he's crazy he's deranged he's out of his mind he's obsessed this is what i've been saying about him for years he's playing in his own video game he's not elevating others here's what's remarkable if you looked at if you look at mitchell and westbrooks numbers in the series which one's the rookie in which one's the mvp it's remarkable mitchell's averaging more game better field goal percentage better fourth quarter output better plus mine.

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"eleven years" Discussed on Channel 955

Channel 955

01:44 min | 2 years ago

"eleven years" Discussed on Channel 955

"Took you eleven years to figure that out rachel pulled an april fool's prank on her kids you know april fools day was easter sunday which was so great that it was easter sunday so i didn't have to sit there and be thinking about an east april fools joke for the show she pulled the april fools joke on the kids we explained so my sister thought there would be a great idea to put raisins and the eggs and i said well number one that's a joke on us because sitting there having to fill eggs eggs with raisins awful so i decided i'm going to go on amazon i bought a ton of those teeny tiny boxes of raisins and i said let's just throw them on the front lawn tell the kids all right guys get ready bills bills it up and then they run outside and they see raisins all over their front lawn just a little boxes of raisins.

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"eleven years" Discussed on 710 WOR

710 WOR

02:09 min | 2 years ago

"eleven years" Discussed on 710 WOR

"In kidding so how long have you guys have been married eleven years so here's the way this plays out after thirty years of coaching people this ends in a divorce if it's not fixed because you're going to reach a point that you're gonna go mount vesuvius and there's gonna be no dialing you back in because if you have any self esteem whatsoever at some point you're going to get sick of being lied to 'em being drug financially through the mud and you're going to punt and i don't want that to happen so we need to do a preemptive strike on your marriage problems is what we need to do now how do we do that we do you you've got to determine how how how many times has this kind of thing happened in eleven years let me ask you that occasionally park nicer year not necessarily the last one i can think of is we just had our fourth child and we had a volkswagen passat and a truck and we traded in the truck because we needed a van to fit everybody all six the best and then my husband was going to drive the car to work because the car was paid on the truck wasn't may also has a motorcycle and we agreed even though he really wanted to track that we wouldn't get a new one until his motorcycle was paid off and then he went and bought a few months later thirty four he's operating emotionally on about a fourteen year old level when he does that kind of stuff and that's why it's frustrating you feel like his mother and your misbehaving child am i right sometimes when he's when he does stuff like that that's how it has to feel and you somewhat feel lied to and misled because you relied to in misled the lying parts call we call financial infidelity where people lie about money stuff because there's not a quality process that we.

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"eleven years" Discussed on Xtra Sports Radio 1300 AM

Xtra Sports Radio 1300 AM

02:00 min | 2 years ago

"eleven years" Discussed on Xtra Sports Radio 1300 AM

"Got the by in eleven years in eleven years in atlantic hockey for old years we've got the first round by that means we finished in the top five in the league in it for ten of eleven years none of a new that's amazing l and and this is the first time we've ever had the fifth slot where we had to travel like it's the first time will never have we've never had a home series so we finish in the top four of for all those years in for our guys to be able to do what they did after getting behind the eightball those injuries to be able to come back and and you will we've got you know utah we've always i don't know why it is our kids seem to rally if we go on these traditional runs in january and february we go on these traditional runs where all of a sudden like we get pretty dangook you know and we've got we've got we got that run going now gone ten three and two sitting at an out of 8 points this couple of weeks since the break and but we really we've we've played some really good hockey but we haven't played our best hockey with consistency and that's going to be the key to it we got each seniors right now are finish in their story you know they're finishing their story and it's gonna be interesting to see i can't wait to see i know we're going to play one thing about west point they have been consistent pretty consistent all year with what they are they've gotten points on just about every weekend so we know the animal that we're going to up against you know they're they're very key they're good team they're very consistent they don't beat themselves but up there's a lot of upside with our group and are we going to be able to realize that upside and we're going to need to do that because you one bad performance against a team like west point and then if we're fortunate or or what were we get by them emperor or th west point advance your dentist oneanddone you can't have a bad game so we need for this group to really really gel end up and play their best hockey with consistency and sometimes the playoffs that sometimes some some guys just simply have to have that you know.

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"eleven years" Discussed on The Rusty Humphries Rebellion

The Rusty Humphries Rebellion

01:50 min | 3 years ago

"eleven years" Discussed on The Rusty Humphries Rebellion

"Now is wrong i admit it and eleven years later when that video came out eleven years by the way eleven years have you done anything stupid eleven years ago my friend eleven years had gone by he's grown up we all make mistakes may it appears that hillary and built took money from countries i don't know personally i'd rather have somebody standing up for our country other than just trying to make a bunch of money oh donald trump trying to make a bunch of money on no he gave up control of his companies not getting paid to be president as a matter of fact he had to donates his money two different i think every quarter he donates his paycheck to a different charity so why don't we give them a chance instead of just yellen for his impeachment let's see what happens instead of just be in mad all the time because being mad the only people better take you being taken advantage of the only people that do well when that happens is the media and democrats i know you may be a democrat but aren't you more of an american than a democrat i know i'm more of an american than a republican matter of fact if trump if we find out trump is doing dirty the un's i'll be with you on the front line sale of get rid of this guy but until then while we wait and see let's watch a little bit stiff watching her bait talk.

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"eleven years" Discussed on CBS Sunday Morning with Jane Pauley

CBS Sunday Morning with Jane Pauley

01:40 min | 3 years ago

"eleven years" Discussed on CBS Sunday Morning with Jane Pauley

"And you had to go to college i should go so his father suggested the local community college the classical taken like okay okay go fail always at low and that go fail son empowered me to go succeed or try thirty but it i wanted just tried stuff in one was an act in class once i tried that acting class uh it's duck he left for los angeles determined to be noticed i gave us of eleven years don't know why eleven years in them but you eleven years on it being a movie movie big enough that's going to play in the destot and a role in at the tell my parents were in all the guy on the redshirt the background is one of vienna that you'll see me then that movie turned out to be national lampoon's senior trip he said sees up what wanna cut and go to a party come on i know you like me that was my first job ever it's not a bad job for for his job as apoe but after that promising start it would be almost seven years before renner had his next major role in does take time time is break came with dahmer in two thousand two playing serial killer jeffrey dahmer the next year he was cast as a rogue policemen in swat for the first time he had a bit of money and found something to do with it that's where i got the first house but the first thousand my brother and so he pool their may together barely in.

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"eleven years" Discussed on Six Pixels of Separation - Marketing and Communications Insights - By Mitch Joel at Mirum

Six Pixels of Separation - Marketing and Communications Insights - By Mitch Joel at Mirum

04:02 min | 3 years ago

"eleven years" Discussed on Six Pixels of Separation - Marketing and Communications Insights - By Mitch Joel at Mirum

"Are producing the lies the sort of phya blay of fake news i think we've all forgotten right that these are macedonian literally macedonian right really good to go back to the wired magazine article that exposes the fake news factories why did they do it they did it because they figured that if they could put up a headline that says the pope supports donald trump that all of us would click on it we would then show up on their sites that are that monetize by google out sense at a bunch of macedonians right who have no economy left where they are would suddenly be able to make money that's where this all came from this online casino business for years before it was and so so you know it was simply that was there was an incentive in the system which is of you put a headline in front you and i that we cannot resist clicking on right it's probably a little bit limbic kind of repealing pilion brain stuff unit we don't like it but we click on it anyway right then all of a sudden macedonians add sensing all these websites would be able to make money so one of the big things but the information operations you've got to identify them enough to identify things that are certified fake then you have to eliminate the incentives which means facebook is going to throttle the distribution in newsfeed for these guys like i said if got eleven years keep in the news feed clean what let because they know it's the lifeblood of the very company right end addition affected they care about people and then you have to also eliminate and try to detect us is going to be harder situations where information is distributed incredibly biased way right it may not be certified false but it may be biased and then lastly you have to take down to call the fake amplifier so these are accounts on facebook that actually create momentum for these stories that make it seem like a bunch of people already clicked on this thought it was good right in in our messing with the you know that just means continued crackdown as they've done since the donna facebook on fake accounts so they have done exactly what facebook always does which is when they have a challenge look at it systematically and get to the doing right and and you know internally about they're not yelling at each other anymore they're just busy taking down the information operations so that we can continue to trust the newsweek and it's funny when i think about it there's there were so many sort of moments of clarity that this was going to happen whether it was fake celebrity death news things which we saw for years or even friends friends share this stuff and the tagline the put it at as i don't know if this is true or not but dot dot dot this is not helpful again because we don't have a media literate society the literacy of media resides very much like the old days in why they didn't want everyone to have access to a printing press or the written word is because that information resided with very few media literacy still resides with very small few well man now you're really onto a big topic right because which is why this whole thing i think has been emotional for everyone while we're spending a lot of time thinking about it while asking ourselves a lot of who's to blame for this which i think is an interesting question you know in gets very much to the human condition which is anan geek out on kind of social science but it's confirmation bias this notion that you prefer we all prefer simply the human condition we'd all prefer to be with people to hear things that are aligned with our worldview at because if we don't hear those things it starts to get x dental right oh wait a minute am i wrong i can't be wrong you know and so we choose to connect with information and people that confirm what we already think and of course on facebook systematized because you are connected to the people that you know in real life those are your friends very unlikely that you're going to be close friends with somebody who was violently misaligned with you on the world and things that we like news sources that we like right and so obviously that then leads to.

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