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Fresh "Elaine" from KYW 24 Hour News

KYW 24 Hour News

01:11 min | 1 hr ago

Fresh "Elaine" from KYW 24 Hour News

"It today. One of three. Here's a look at your chemo NW news radio Traffic update the very wet road conditions across all the Philadelphia majors, Roseberry really had to be an issue as you little further weighted towards the Western northern suburbs, even down to the Delaware, where start thinking up some wet snow Now as well, Still watching this accident 95 South. It's just south of academy, taking on the right lane and right shoulder and still some emergency equipment on scene. No real delays with it as long as you stay over towards the left. 95 South Rim to Eremenko that remains closed for long term roadwork. If you're coming across the Betsy Ross into Philly, both the 95 north and south ramps closed and detoured off to Eremenko Avenue and Betsy Ross eastbound ramp to 1 30 north that is closed as part of a long term project as well. Got some work in Delaware overnight. 95 North shut down between 4, 95 and 202 till six AM also 95 south between two or two and 4 95 left lane closed. The B J. Fitzpatrick Home Improvement 24 hour traffic center transform your old tub to a five star shower in just one day trust DJ Down, calm. I mean, the Anderson Brewers around the world have been suffering his bar stay close during the pandemic. CBS is Elaine Cobb with more. That's the sound of hundreds of gallons of beer being poured down the drain at.

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Nintendo Direct And Latinx In Gaming

LAN Parties: A Video Gaming and Esports Podcast

05:46 min | 2 d ago

Nintendo Direct And Latinx In Gaming

"And welcome the land parties episode fifty eight from the las vegas review journal. I am your host ryan smith and with me always my host and good friend lucas egging. Lucas how are you my friend. I am dealing. Well had a pretty good weekend. Started going back into final fantasy seven remake with my girlfriend. So she's going through it some having fun kind of watching her go through that ready for a nice long game and the the other thing i did this week going as i finally got a new phone so my phone from like five years ago is has been replaced and my goodness when you wait that long. It's ridiculous how much faster it is. Some blindly untreated even one of those people that like i use it till it breaks and finally i can't anymore i just can't was your weekend. I can relate to that. do good. I chill out. We we actually got. We had this like home garden Thing that we had gotten a while ago so we went ahead and planted that this week and And then i just. I just did. Some destiny went did that. Secret mission That was recently released. That was really good super atmospheric. I i i absolutely loved it. Got a solid gun from it and then played some more spiderman. Got the sinister six reveals. So we're grinding away. I'm moving along with that Those fantastic enough about us. Oh please introduce our guests. We are excited to welcome two very special guests today. You know them from the group. Latin x and gaming. You may have seen them honored at the game awards in december as global gaming citizens. We are excited to be joined. By the founder of nexen engaging cristina amaya and co founder and developer relations head. Elaine gomez thank you both to For join us today. How you guys then thank you. Thanks for asking. Yeah thank you so much for having absolutely thank you so much for taking the time and and i'm excited to talk about Talk about the Next and gaming and everything that you guys have done so far sorry. I didn't mean to cut you off there go ahead. You're fine. i was just gonna say we're excited. This is an amazing group. We talk to fernando last year. A little bit about the group. But we're we're super pump to take a deep dive into it but before we get to that. We just wanted to touch on a couple subjects and ryan last wednesday right before the nintendo direct rocked. I was so excited. Because i was almost one hundred percent. Sure that we were gonna get breath of the wild or pokemon or metro news. And we got them. We struck out. We struck out if you haven't you happen to be me on twitter. You saw like like the realization that like none of that was happening. And i look. I'll start by saying this. There were a couple of games. That intrigued me. I'm actually looking forward to the new. Mario golf game of the project triangle. Game looks interesting. I love that art style. But i don't know ryan. I was just disappointed. What about you. yeah. Yeah it was definitely. I felt like it was pretty underwhelming As far as what we thought we were gonna get versus what we actually got So i mean again. There were some some nice Games that they presented and whatnot. But i just thought that especially with it being a thirty five year anniversary of zelda. I thought we would get some some big news as far as with that again. What they said they were gonna port a port over night. Work soared scar. Yeah and i never. I never played that one. So i am excited to have the opportunity to actually go through and run that Zelda but i mean again it's it's been it's been a good amount of years since Breadth of wild came out. They've already we already know that breath a while to is is in the works. I thought for sure going to drop it like it's hot and give us some heat there but you know we. We did not get that so it'll be interesting. I mean again. This could be something that maybe in the second half of the year that they looked to drop then as well again. We know that anytime. People are are rushing games They seem to to very much have a negative impact on their releases. So you know again you guys. They know what they're doing They they always had. I feel like they have a solid plan as far as marketing and getting games out and stuff like that so i still think we'll get it this year Yes i thought it was going to happen then but the years not over is still early. My friend deshaun. Hopefully you're right. I just the joy was getting sucked out of me. The longer let direct went on in the close to the end that we got. That's okay though. That's a good. You're right the year is young christina a u and nintendo fan at all. Did you catch the direct. Yes i did not get to watch the direct because it winds carrying my meetings. But i will say that as a very large fan since childhood i straight up do not understand word sword. I'm just gonna put it out there. I would much rather buffalo wild to or just a teaser trailer. Something anything five seconds. Give me a carina time. At least you know what. I mean like i. Yeah i yeah. I don't even know what that is a series. What was that four. Like thirty something. I

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Fresh "Elaine" from John Rothmann

John Rothmann

01:14 min | 5 hrs ago

Fresh "Elaine" from John Rothmann

"Starting now save an extra 20% on top of the sale prices on all of their fine rugs open seven days a week called 650235 97 77. Tribal. We've a studio in Burlingame. Let's take a drive home. Now we're heading back to the peninsula. Here's heaven. What? The wood from the Children out of body traffic desk. Had an accident in San Matteo. Now we have two accidents in San Mateo. This one is South 11 right before 92 getting out. Elaine three. In the meantime, traffic backing up very badly from Peninsula Avenue and the accident North. Wanna one by before 92 should be out of lanes by now, But traffic is very heavy from before Holly Street in San Carlos. Another really horrible commute is eastbound 24 accidents been clearing from after Happy Valley or before Pleasant Hill. So it is extra packed from Broadway still through the Caldecott Tunnel out that way East four after Summers will finally reopened, but a lot of slow traffic into ENIAC and very heavy out of San Francisco still from Cesar Chavez to the Bay Bridge. And it's going to be a pretty nice weekend ahead of us tomorrow. Little bit cooler, although Sonny was in gusty winds pretty stable weather pattern with sunny weather continuing through next.

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Democrats’ relief bill would expand earned income tax credit

Marketplace with Kai Ryssdal

01:56 min | 3 d ago

Democrats’ relief bill would expand earned income tax credit

"Democrats big relief bill continues to make its slow but steady way through the house. It's going to pass friday. Maybe saturday there is a bunch of stuff in it. A proposed boost. The minimum wage. Told you about that yesterday. Also some tax policy changes geared to low income workers. Marketplace's kimberly adams has that one. This version of the relief. Bill would boost the earned income tax credit which reduces the tax bill or increases the refund for many low income workers mostly for those who live with kids. This bill would expand that to include more childless workers. Elaine mog as a principal research associate at the urban institute and a types of industries that people are in that would benefit the most from this policy. Change are those industries that have been most hard hit during the recent recession food service and nations. The credit typically has bipartisan support. Mog says some of those affected by the change could see their benefit. Triple from a max of about five hundred dollars to fifteen hundred sam. Washington is with the center on budget and policy priorities. The earned income tax credit expansion would benefit we estimate seventeen million people overall And doubt include the five point eight million child that's workers the changes would also include more older workers by removing the age of sixty five. The bill only seeks to change the rules for this year. Meaning the credit would show up on next year's returns. Eric york is an economist at the tax foundation. But oftentimes if something gets its foot in the door of the tax code. It doesn't go away. It gets extended it gets debated and eventually becomes more of a permanent policy. This round of covid relief legislation also includes an expansion of the child tax credit which some economists say could lift millions of children out of

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Fresh update on "elaine" discussed on KYW 24 Hour News

KYW 24 Hour News

01:07 min | 11 hrs ago

Fresh update on "elaine" discussed on KYW 24 Hour News

"Cabinet starting to take shape. Former Michigan Governor Jennifer Granholm has won Senate confirmation to be the new energy secretary. Earlier this week, the Senate voted to return Tom Vilsack to serve as Secretary of Agriculture Linda Thomas Greenfield was confirmed as ambassador to the United Nations. Merrick Garland's nomination for attorney general will head to the floor for a vote next week. Still waiting to hear about the confirmation for health and human services separate Very designate, Javi RBIs, Sarah, but it looks like you'll easily get voted in New Mexico representative Deb Holland is up for interior secretary and with Senator Joe Manchin say no vote in her favor That likely clears away for her approval will oppose the president's choice for budget director Neera Tanden, though that vote in limbo until at least early next week. Stacey Lynn CBS NEWS Capitol Hill all the first travelers forced a quarantine in a hotel after arriving in England released this morning to Villa quarantines a horrible It may have been a luxury hotel, but Guerrero, Zhu says being forced to stay in their room 24 hours a day was tough. However, he said he and his wife, Elaine, enjoyed their time together playing cards. We play video games watching series really books. The couple.

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France recommends single vaccine shot for people who have had Covid-19

WTOP 24 Hour News

00:30 sec | 2 weeks ago

France recommends single vaccine shot for people who have had Covid-19

"Covad survivors should get. The French Health Authority says A single dose of the vaccine is enough for people who were previously infected. Studies have already shown their immune memory can last months. Maybe longer, so, the authorities says the single dose of vaccine will be like a second shot. Most people who experience side effects from the vaccine felt them after the second dose, so this could also reduce them on reassure people who are concerned about getting the job. Elaine Carbs. CBS NEWS PARIS Would you like

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Most Americans unhappy with COVID-19 vaccination process, poll finds

Wayne Cabot

00:29 sec | 2 weeks ago

Most Americans unhappy with COVID-19 vaccination process, poll finds

"Is getting low marks in Americans how low Elaine Cobb reports. The pace of the vaccine rollout has left 66% of Americans dissatisfied on 21% say they are very dissatisfied. A new Gallup poll out today also found that 71% of Americans are now willing to get the vaccine, the highest since they first asked that question last July. The oldest and youngest were among the most likely to want the job with the middle aged remaining. The most reluctant Elaine

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Putin critic Navalny in court again, this time on slander charge

10 10 WINS 24 Hour News

00:41 sec | 3 weeks ago

Putin critic Navalny in court again, this time on slander charge

"Russia says it's expelling diplomats from Sweden, Poland and Germany for taking part in what the Kremlin calls on lawful rallies supporting Russian opposition leader Alexei Navalny. Elaine Cobb tells us this comes as no volley of all navalny that is again went before a judge spied Western coals for his release. Alexei Navalny was back in a Moscow court today, this time on charges of slander. The Kremlin's most prominent critic, is already in jail and after he was sentenced to almost three years for parole violations following his return to Russia last month, he is accused of slandering a World War two veteran who appeared in a pro Putin video. Europe's top diplomat is in Moscow today and is expected to urge his counterpart to free

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Christopher Plummer, "Sound of Music" star, dies at 91

Rush Limbaugh

00:54 sec | 3 weeks ago

Christopher Plummer, "Sound of Music" star, dies at 91

"Died. His talent agency says he passed away peacefully this morning at his home in Connecticut with his wife, Elaine Taylor, by his side. More in his life from CBS is Steve Caven, Christopher Plummer had complicated feelings about the film The sound of music in which he played Captain von Trapp. Father of the singing von traps. It turned him into an international star. Yet for years, he was critical of the musical. Describing his role as sentimental and gooey. The movie was There were too many nuns and it Plummer preferred character parts he portrayed 60 minutes journalist Mike Wallace in the Insider. You corporate lackey. Who told you your incompetent little fingers have the requisite skills to edit me and Sherlock Holmes in murder By decree, Watson, What are you doing? Steve Cave and CBS News. Christopher Plummer was 91 years old CBS NEWS Special

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Mexico asks Christie's to call off auction of pre-Hispanic artifacts

KYW 24 Hour News

00:44 sec | 3 weeks ago

Mexico asks Christie's to call off auction of pre-Hispanic artifacts

"Has urged auction house Christie's to cancel a planned sale of pre colonization artifacts that it wants to get back. CBS News correspondent Elaine Cobb reports from Paris more than 30 artifacts from before Spain colonized Mexico are due to go under the hammer at Christie's in Paris next week that Mexico says they're part of its national heritage and should be returned. The artifacts include masks, carved stones and figures by Aztec, Mayan, tall, tick and mixed her cultures. A few of the pieces are expected to go for more than a million dollars each. Mexico's National Institutes of Anthropology and History says the Foreign Ministry is working diplomatic channels to try to have them returned. Elaine CARB, CBS NEWS PARIS It's

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EU regulator authorizes use of Oxford-AstraZeneca COVID vaccine

Paul Murnane

00:18 sec | Last month

EU regulator authorizes use of Oxford-AstraZeneca COVID vaccine

"CBS is Elaine Cobb tells US the European Union has approved a vaccine from AstraZeneca. The regulation approves the Oxford AstraZeneca vaccine for use by over eighteens. The approval of the two does vaccine could help the sluggish roll out across much of Europe. His visor and Madonna have reduced supplies or

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EU piles pressure on AstraZeneca over delayed vaccines, reveals details of contract

KNX Morning News with Dick Helton and Vicky Moore

00:32 sec | Last month

EU piles pressure on AstraZeneca over delayed vaccines, reveals details of contract

"And AstraZeneca vaccines been approved for adults in the European Union. The approval comes Was. The EU is embroiled in a row with AstraZeneca over supplies. The EU has no said it will monitor where vaccines produced in the company's European plants go. It claims the drug giant is in breach of contract because it has reduced deliveries to the 27 nation bloc, but not to the UK. There have been major delays to the vaccine roll out across much of Europe. Fizer and Madonna have also reduced supplies. Elaine Carbs CBS News

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Biden to boost weekly vaccine supply to states amid shortage of doses

KYW 24 Hour News

01:30 min | Last month

Biden to boost weekly vaccine supply to states amid shortage of doses

"Administration is boosting purchases of Corona virus vaccines to deliver enough to protect 300 million Americans by the end of summer as it surges deliveries to states for the next three weeks. It follows complaints of shortages and inconsistent supplies. Correspondent Might Matt Piper reports The bite administration also will provide states three week vaccine supply. Look ahead reports as opposed to the current one week look ahead. President Biden has announced the boosting of the weekly supply of covert 19 vaccine doses for all states and territories, millions of more Americans Americans to to get get vaccinated vaccinated sooner. sooner. And And previously previously anticipated anticipated the the president president broke broke down. down. The The numbers numbers will will increase increase overall overall weekly weekly vaccination vaccination distributions distributions of of states, states, tribes and territories from 8.6 million doses to a minimum 10 million doses. Starting next week. That's an increase of 1.4 million doses per week. White House correspondent Steve Important Elaine New Order of more doses now should mean enough to vaccinate 300 million Americans by this summer. Biden administration also vows to provide clearer data to states three weeks ahead so they can better plan for shipments. Multiple state officials working for Democratic and Republican governors expressed relief to CBS News about the increased supply of vaccine President Biden has been openly critical of what he describes as a dismal rollout of the covert vaccines under President Trump. Mr Biden, host by early fall to have most all Americans vaccinated.

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Jarmo Kekalainen on the Dubois-Laine Deal

31 Thoughts: The Podcast

04:26 min | Last month

Jarmo Kekalainen on the Dubois-Laine Deal

"Always good when a major newsmaker joins the podcast. He is yarmouk kick elaine general manager of the columbus. Blue jackets Jahmil thanks so much for doing this. And i'm always curious about how deals come together. And maybe more specifically when deals and you know we know that there are other teams out. There obviously interested in pierre. Luke dubois in your mind. When was this trade over. Like at what point did you say. Okay i'm done. He's going to winnipeg jets by you. Gotta do your due diligence around the league and see what the interest level is and what type of options we have available. And we did that. We recommend order and you might make have to make a couple rounds a call system. Make sure that everybody who's interested. Got their opportunity to give their best shot and we did that as well. So it took a little while but You know we came to the conclusion there. After the last game that dubois played that we wanna do this sooner rather than later so we were pretty busy on friday working on that than saturday morning. We we were ready. And and now. We have patrick line and ross lubbock here. One thing that became clear to us on the outside. Is that you and kevin chevrolet off had discussed this for awhile that you kind of both knew that if you wanted to do this there was going to be the opportunity to do it. I'm curious caramel. How'd you guys known that you were each other's potential trade partners. If you needed to be we we had a good dialogue for a while and this is probably the best match right from the start. But as i said we had to do our diligence. And make sure that we've done our homework on every opportunity that might be out there and after we'd done that we return to talks with winnipeg several times and and wanted to make sure that all parts of the trade work for us as far as cap goes cash involved there other parts of the deal that we had to iron out once. We actually does hurdles. We were ready to pull the trigger on both sides. You describe what. It was like thursday night for us. I know what a incredibly competitive person. You are a lot of things. What was it like watching that. And can you talk about your discussions after the game that night. Internally internal talks always internal talks for me and a very serious about that but you know there are certain values that We have within our organization within our team in our locker room and we have a very demanding head coach who never compromised. Those values would never want him to compromise those values and i support him honor percent when he he does his coach in enforcing those values and it came to a point. Where were that wasn't a level of commitment to those values that was given by fearless dubois and that's why he was bent and i support the coach hundred percent on on that decision. Like i said after that. I think there's a little more urgency on our part to get this done and we're happy to move on with the two players that we like even if the trade hadn't occurred on saturday morning to the organization had pure luke dubois played his last game with the blue jackets. And what. I'm sort of getting at was anyway that he would have played saturday afternoon. No no you wasn't gonna play saturday but after that. It's the coach's decision on on all. He wants to handle the player. And there's no need to get into that but There's always a second chances and opportunities to redeem yourself as a player if you make a mistake or don't live up to the values that we hold strong ear but you have to show through your hard work in practice and and how you conduct your business in the locker room and within the team and I'm sure then. Our coach will always give him every player a second chance or an opportunity to show that. He's ready to live

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Indian village cheers for Harris before swearing-in as US VP

Night News

00:34 sec | Last month

Indian village cheers for Harris before swearing-in as US VP

"All the way in India in her ancestral village That's got more from CBS News correspondent Elaine Cobb Villagers cheers and handed out sweets and flowers and settle firecrackers resident Raj Kumar Happy toes are also ready to celebrate camera. Harris's maternal grandfather came from the village today. Her uncle Goblin Bella, Shandra, had some words of advice for his niece. You have been doing fine. So far. Paris becomes the first woman and the first person of color to become vice president. Elaine Carbs, CBS News

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23-year-old Amanda Gorman becomes youngest poet to read at inauguration

KYW 24 Hour News

00:37 sec | Last month

23-year-old Amanda Gorman becomes youngest poet to read at inauguration

"Today, a poem written and read by the nation's first youth poet laureate. We wild 23 year old Amanda Gorman is the youngest known poet to perform at a presidential inauguration. She says her struggle to overcome a speech impediment helped her to become the nation's first youth poet laureate. When you have to teach yourself over years how to say your own last name, you gain a real appreciation for the musicality and the complexity of sound. She wrote The hill we climb for the occasion. Elaine Cobb, CBS News The mega millions. Jackpot

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"elaine" Discussed on True Crime Brewery

True Crime Brewery

05:50 min | Last month

"elaine" Discussed on True Crime Brewery

"The true crime. contains disturbing content related to real life crimes. Medical information is opinion based on facts of a crime and should not be interpreted as medical advice or treatment listener discretion is advised. Walk into true crime brewery. I'm jill and i'm dick elaine o'hara of south dublin. Ireland spent her life looking for love because of mental health issues. Elaine spent many of her years in the say edmundsbury hospital receiving psychiatric treatment for depressive disorder. Self harming behaviors and three suicide attempts as a result of this she missed the usual social milestones of dances dating and boyfriends inner twenty. She began to meet men online and she did become involved in some masochistic behavior. Lonely emotionally immature. Elaine was exceedingly vulnerable to online predators in august of two thousand twelve. Elaine disappeared after a visit with her family. Investigators assume that she had committed suicide by jumping off some nearby cliffs but disturbing texts found on recovered. Cellphones later revealed that elaine had been involved with a very dangerous man. Join us at the quiet and today for groomed for murder elaine. O'hara wanted to find a man to love her and eventually have a family of her own but instead she was tragically lured to her own murder by a cruel sick man who was living a secret double life and before i do the bureau review and so i don't forget the episode. Were doing with suggested to buy a nice irishman named dara. Yes thank you dr. Thank you for the tip and we're going to review a beer called o'hara's irish stout now the fact that the victim is o'hara this is all serendipitous. Well i'm thinking that's a common name in ireland o'hara probably is. Yeah so this. Irish stout is brewed carlow brewing company and county carlow ireland is classified as an irish dry stout and at four point three percent. Alcohol by volume. Not one of those beers you're gonna be blasted with a nearly black colour very dark brown. Small tan head has a nice aroma coffee. Some roasted malt mostly an espresso. Dark coffee taste. it's fairly dry. The good stout is that a low amount of alcohol for a scout. I usually think of stoute's as having higher alcohol than that were non. Us stoute's would tend to be lower alcohol in the us. We like the barrel age things. Eight to ten. Twelve percent is not uncommon in the us fitness four point. Three's something you'd be likely to see in ireland. Great britain well. And it's probably better if you're going to put down a few were all right. Well let's open it up.

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Climate activist Thunberg to appear on Swedish postal stamp

Dave Ramsey

00:34 sec | Last month

Climate activist Thunberg to appear on Swedish postal stamp

"Service in her native Sweden decided to feature environmental issues on new stumps. The public support for this team has been really big. We have received a lot of suggestions. Kristina Olive's daughter, managing director of post North stance, says one of the main Coles was for a stamp featuring teenage activist Greta Tune, Berg. She's drawn in her yellow raincoat with her braid flying in the wind. We really would like to contribute to put the spotlight on the environmental issues. The stumps go on sale tomorrow. Elaine Cobb, CBS News Katie Coric, Maya Bialik

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Betsy DeVos, Education Secretary, is Second Cabinet Member to Resign

Bloomberg Surveillance

00:32 sec | Last month

Betsy DeVos, Education Secretary, is Second Cabinet Member to Resign

"Death. Resignations from the Trump Administration keep coming. Bloomberg's John Tucker reports. Education secretary Betsy Divorces, resigned the second member of Trump's Cabinet to quit over the riot. In a letter to the president, she said, impressionable Children are watching all of this and they're learning from us. Transportation Secretary Elaine Chao also stepped down child, the wife of Senate Majority Leader Mitch McConnell said the deadly riot quote as deeply disturbing in a way that I simply cannot set aside. John Tucker

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Trump finally concedes — amid talk of ouster from office

AP News Radio

00:54 sec | Last month

Trump finally concedes — amid talk of ouster from office

"With just a dozen days left in his term president trump has finally been to reality in a video shot at the White House the president admitted for the first time he's stayed there will soon end Congress has certified the results and new administration will be inaugurated on January twentieth the video appeared aimed at fighting back talk that he should leave office now this man is deadly house speaker Nancy Pelosi's among lawmakers calling for vice president pence and the cabinet to remove the president immediately threatening another impeachment push if they don't neither option seems likely though they're mere discussion is a warning to the president meantime several top trump aides have quit including two cabinet secretaries transportations Elaine Chao and education's Betsy to Voss Sager mag ani Washington

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Education Secretary Betsy DeVos resigns, citing violence at the Capitol

WGN Programming

00:36 sec | Last month

Education Secretary Betsy DeVos resigns, citing violence at the Capitol

"US Secretary of Education Betsy DeVos to the list of Trump Administration Cabinet members who decided they're done since the events of yesterday at the Capitol News nations Rob Nelson explains divorce, saying in a statement at President Trump's rhetoric was quote an inflection point for her. She is now the ninth member of the administration to leave her post since yesterday, the second Cabinet member today after Transportation Secretary Elaine Chao, she is the wife of Senate Majority leader Mitch McConnell. She has stepped down as well after riots. The U.

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Education secretary Betsy DeVos resigns, blaming Trump 'rhetoric' for violence

WTOP 24 Hour News

00:39 sec | Last month

Education secretary Betsy DeVos resigns, blaming Trump 'rhetoric' for violence

"Education Secretary Betsy DeVos has submitted her resignation to President Donald Trump, in her resignation letter to Boss blames the president for inflaming tensions in the violent assault on the seat of the nation's democracy, she says there's no mistaking the impact your rhetoric head on the situation and it is the inflection point for me. Divorce is the second Cabinet secretary to exit the administration, the first being Transportation Secretary Elaine Chao. U. S. Capitol police chief Steven Son, the sergeant at Arms and doorkeeper of the U. S. Senate and the House sergeant at Arms have all resigned after the deadly riot in the Capitol complex. Yesterday,

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"elaine" Discussed on Mom Inspired Show with Amber Sandberg

Mom Inspired Show with Amber Sandberg

04:16 min | 4 months ago

"elaine" Discussed on Mom Inspired Show with Amber Sandberg

"Are you guys I'm super excited to have Elaine on the show today. This is an episode. You guys are going to want to share with all your friends trust me because it had me just sitting here thinking. Wow. I did not even think about these things when it comes to posting things online as well as doing things like ancestry.com and 23andMe and how it gives our data and how it can be used and manipulated and all this kind of stuff and one thing that stood out to me when Elaine was talking is by the time our kids graduate and get into the real world. It would be so easy for their identity be stolen because of facial recognition because of how many images have been posted online of their whole entire life before they even go to college wage. And I was just thinking wow, I don't even think that parents are thinking about this. And so this is why I wanted to have Elaine on the show just to have our eyes open so that you know about all of this stuff off and that you're intentional with what you're posting. And so it's not to judge you guys because I post things as well but it definitely makes me think maybe I should not be posting as much information and dates, you know schools all this kind of stuff that people can kind of figure out and you know, it's a gold mine all this data. We're putting out there all of the time especially if you're making it public but even if you're not making it public it's still out there and it stays out there and here's the thing it is so hard to pull off and that's one thing that she talks about. So I hope you guys really I don't know learn so much after listening to this episode and make sure to share it with your friends and I really hope you enjoy it. Okay you guys so, you know, if you've heard me talk about my favorite things before I love the program lean, but I wanted to let you guys know the e She is doing a discount for $30 off. I've never seen her do a discount this low before and it's for people that are in education at any capacity. So if this is you, I would highly encourage you to grab this because I want to encourage you guys to not wait until January 1st to get your health, you know, in order or you know, if you've been finding yourself putting your birth last and then we're going to go into the holiday season. I encourage you to put yourself first and take care of yourself. And so you have to sign up for the October 26th session, which I think is perfect. It gives you over two months before January 4th starts. Once you rather start on a strong foot versus being like, oh man, I just gained him house. Now, we gotta lose that ten pounds just to get back to where I was, you know in October..

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"elaine" Discussed on Reports from the Spiritual Frontier

Reports from the Spiritual Frontier

04:46 min | 7 months ago

"elaine" Discussed on Reports from the Spiritual Frontier

"I, think I think we're talking about. The same thing, but different things to so. On the one hand we're talking about. Can we deeply hospitable to people who are in a different place spiritual than we are? Should, we feel like we have to make them into our image so that we can feel comfortable. That's one thing we're talking about in what I hear you saying way in I agree with this. No no, we don't have to do that. That's that's up to them and God. And Waking create the space where people can be welcomed with us, and we can weaken. Walk Together as friends. Even though we're in very different places in some cases, whole contradictory views about things, so that's one thing. But at a different thing we're talking about is structural sin. Call structural sin. And structural injustice where it takes us working together with a group of people to say no to injustice for a whole bunch of people. And, so that is not so that we can make them all become Christians life ourselves, but that is so that we can. Love Mercy! Do Justice in walk humbling with our together. That's different thing related, but it's different so in that case when we engage for example in refugee rights. Advocacy for refugee rights and we're. we get involved to make sure there's a safehouse were battered, people or whatever it is the thing that were involved with. It's not so that we can make them all. The Christians that made me hope. They come to know the love. Jesus some of them already do know the low Jesus. But it's so that we can make him love mercy, do Justice Walk Humbly with our autism community for the for the sake of our neighborhood, so can flourish more. Agree with, that yeah. Well. This has been a ridiculously. Wonderful, our and I wish I blacked out like to make this my next series listen to. Lane talk to each other. I JUST WANNA. Say How thankful I am for both of you and the ways that you model so well speaking appreciatively to one another and drawing out one, another's deep wisdom and listening and asking good questions, this has just been a tremendous gift and I think in many ways has really built on the conversations that I both had. With you as well so thank you, thank you for taking this time to to talk. I think this is gonNA. Be just a tremendous blessing to those who listen as well I wanted to close by inviting each of you to offer a blessing to to the other person so elaine. We'll will start with you I i. want to bless you the name of father. Son Holy Spirit is you are engaged In. The spirit important, ministry with spiritual refugees, people who can't be in church for one reason or another for people who? Are. Fraught across your path day. I pray that God would. Keep expanding your heart. And giving you wisdom as you. Speak to people as you do life together and I pray that you would keep being surprised at how got comes to you through these unlikely neighbours. Man. You. We'll. Elaine. Made, the love of Jesus continue to fill your life and heart. May those you love and those communities that you're engaged with helping people. A different thing continued to flourish in that life and love. And continue to grow and to continue to honor each other. And may the issues that you're concerned about in this country the things that affect the well being of fellow. Humanity, fellow brothers and sisters you continue to find voice and opportunity to speak change and justice into a world that's broken. May you continue to find ways to equip people to join you in that process, and May his light and life continue to unfold in you and everyday surprising you as well with insight. And opportunities that astound you and leave you on your bed at night incredibly grateful for what God poured into your life on this day..

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"elaine" Discussed on Good Life Project

Good Life Project

02:01 min | 8 months ago

"elaine" Discussed on Good Life Project

"Myself it you know you create the framework with your vision, but you have to leave room for destiny, and for and for what is meant to be to find you and then you also have to create the framework. And the filters to decipher what is really for you and what isn't and so two years I guess it's been two years, which is wild. since I've been kind of doing my own thing building my own company and I've never felt more liberated. I've never felt. More confident I've never felt. Like I've had more balance before this is. This has been the best move of my life, but I could not have done it without all of the steps that it took to get here and there's so much more that I have to accomplish, and so much more that I will do and learn, and I certainly don't have it all figured out, but I know I'm on the right path, so I guess. When three year old elaine looked at her mom and said I got this mom. She, and she knew. It Noah was that everybody knew? Everybody feels like a good place for us to come full circle as well so hanging out in this container of the good life project. If I offer up the phrase to live a good life what comes up? Space. The space to create the space to be the space to expand. The space to. See. Another. To liberate another into liberate, yourself. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you so much for listening and thanks also to our fantastic sponsors who help make this show possible you can check them out in the links we have included today. Show notes, and while you're at it. If you've.

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"elaine" Discussed on Pretty Big Deal with Ashley Graham

Pretty Big Deal with Ashley Graham

04:14 min | 1 year ago

"elaine" Discussed on Pretty Big Deal with Ashley Graham

"I am Acts of service like hands down are like I'll come home and like I didn't make the bed but you got to make the bed. Wow ooh and he's if he is time spent and physical touch An- not that I don't need those things just not at the top of my list. Yeah Yeah I feel that completely. I'm I'm words affirmations. Okay so I will tell you yes how much I love. You A beautiful. You are a yeah but but you haven't cleaned the dishes or access service. I think he really appreciates figuring out. You're gonNA feel committed. I'm committed to thank you day Greece. Oh sweet for being here. I'm kidding share suit for having me on. This is so awesome. I'm really happy for everything you're doing. And it's just it's inspiring it's meaningful. We need more women like you who are just being open and honest with their stories for the younger generation. So thank you just the same back to you. Thank you one last thing. At the end of every interview we do a little lightening Roende. Pretty BIG DEAL. So easy questions okay. Hopefully let's do that Don. What's the last pretty penny spent pretty penny on this on this hair? I went to a wedding last night and I and I had a pair salads con. I've got was real Bucci hairstyle. Khan and this is just like my curly hair so they just like reused my curly hair. Okay but hey hair is always. That's always good gusman okay. So what's your biggest relational rain like? I'M GONNA break up with you because you got bad breath. I don't know we don't do bad breath. Yeah I grabbed non-negotiable like bad. Breath is negotiable. I was on a light note if you're not getting anywhere near me. Oh my gosh. I laugh every day to the point where I'm crying in tears. Oh I feel like that is a new necessary. Yeah don't you bad breath? That's not my thing either and also. I'm going to say like cheating. Some women have the capacity to deal with that and I will no judgment zone. I am not one of those women. That's all same. I like that answer. Zero Tolerance Pauquet. Finally your pretty big deal but I wanted to. What a pretty big deal to you. What does that mean a pretty big deal like pretty big deal like me? Is People Being Nice? That's a pretty big deal Pretty big deal to me. What random acts of kindness? It really blows my mind when people are just nice preneurs for no reason and big waves like one example was just the other day. I was at the airport in Canada and I was in a big rush and I was in line buying food overpriced food and I was hungry. So pizza a clear board and like a water and came up to fifty two dollars and while it was like grumbling about this way robbery. This is so expensive I go to Swipe my card and it gets declined and by the way I made a big deal about the fact that my planes about to leave so they had already put the pizza in oven and I was like Shame phase of. Who's a false fraud alert? So I'm standing there and this guy in line puts his card out and says no worries he goes. You can hit me back on pay pal. Oh all you don't even know you're GONNA pay fifty one dollars. It wasn't like it was like five bucks. It was fifty one dollars and he was like no worries so nice and I was like Oh my I was. I was almost moved to tears. I was speechless. I wanted to hug him like it. Really friend yeah. Random acts of kindness and honestly. It made me want to look for opportunities to do that for somebody else. That's amazing maybe not fifty one dollar pizza but you know you never know Elaine. Thank you so much thank you such agitation and I want to also thank all of you for watching. Make sure you go to all the socials on pretty big deal. Instagram and twitter. And please let us know we want to hear from you questions comments you know Elaine and are very active on social media compliment. Her Hair Uber watching. Pretty big deal is produced by pretty big deal productions and OBI sound..

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"elaine" Discussed on Pretty Big Deal with Ashley Graham

Pretty Big Deal with Ashley Graham

12:54 min | 1 year ago

"elaine" Discussed on Pretty Big Deal with Ashley Graham

"We'll so how long were you at Ebony before you ask for the race because Getting back to a gut feeling you made a very ballsy move here. Who was that girl growing used to talk to us about this? Because you didn't show up you ask for a raise. You were making ten dollars an hour. you ask for twenty dollars an hour they were going to give you twelve dollars an hour l. a. didn't show up to work the next day. Why okay you're making me sound real crazy. Real millennial right now well you rallying. I wasn't creepy. But there's wants is to this okay so so. It was the beginning of the recession right so losing their jobs left and right and here. I was without a safety de in. My first internship wanted it so badly so there was some trickery going on here. I would not record. I do not recommend careered by. I'm just telling you what I do okay. And Somehow by the greatest guy at work so this is so crazy. I'm like actually embarrassed rate. Okay so I got the internship right and it was supposed to be a summer internship that ends at the end of August August. Thirty first right over okay but no one told me to leave so I just kept coming in so some timbre comes around. October rolls around November goes around. No one has told me to leave. Okay and the PAYCHECK's coming in so I just keep coming in. I'm just doing the job. I feel like it was born to do okay. You'RE GOING FOR MILE. Just seizing the opportunity. And then when days begins. He's an opportunity. I go you know. I'm basically a production assistant so I should just change title production assistant and I did so literally advice. I changed my signature. My email signature shoe production assistant from intern without consulting to consult anyone about that. But then here's the thing. Everyone started calling production assistant and then they were like yeah. She's the production assistant so then I just kept moving in it you know. I'm just moving in in November. I don't remember what month is like. Hey like hey. Harriet I've been operating system. I've been a real one. I I've been a real one. I think I've proven how hard working than I'm willing to be. I will come on in before anyone. I will leave after everyone but I'm making a livable wage and I don't have a backup plan and so is there an opportunity to discuss a painting? Increase is their budget for a production assistant on this team. Think of proven my that. The value add is worthwhile for everyone on the team like I was smooth with it even though it was ballsy and somehow I ended up getting a raise for a job. I didn't even have. I didn't press my like after that like I never. I did not go to work the next day after they offer dollars. Who gave you that advice? I don't know who that was. I don't know if that was good or evil but it wasn't like you didn't call mom and say what would you do? Talk to my mom. After I made the decision and I said do you think I'm crazy? Like was that the wrong thing to do like M. I. Out of my mind. Should I call her back and say I'm so sorry and just come back to work? Mom Say Hey. Mom is a praying woman and she prayed about it and she said No. I think you did the right thing good. I think he did the right. So you about it going into nervous but I had peace and then when I showed up the next day is when I was really afraid I was like. I've screwed this up but Harriet batted for you. She really does love you. She saw what you were able to bring to the table and she said no she deserves us. Elaine deserves us and you got twenty an hour. Ot with no benefits. She was very clear she was like. Don't do that again but she did. See Yeah she she's scared me. I will tell you. She's like Big Mama my career and she called me in our office and I was like this is it. This is then fired a rap and going back to the waitressing in California and she often stared me down and I was like. Oh my God himself right now and then she was like. I WanNa talk to you about what you did yesterday because you weren't even there for six months maybe six months maybe six months but we we'd become very close what you wouldn't advise us any woman. But why did he die strategy? Would you give someone in that position for somebody who feels that? They're being undervalued and underpaid and they are consistently over delivering first and foremost have a network of women or anyone in ally any advocates. In your life that you can speak to candidly about your circumstances and find people who can help you assess what your actual value is in the marketplace for the work that you're doing do your research like do your homework find allies find a a mentor and use them before you go in there for you. It's important to balance out really working hard and knowing that you've proven your value before you come in expectantly you with a sense of entitlement like I really think there has to be a fine balance and I know it sounds crazy saying this after that crazy story I just shared. But we'll tell you. She was sitting here that she she did that. Because of the work she believed in me and she saw my potential and she saw that I was over delivering. And I think that's important. You know it a process I think that in this age of social media there is this sense of instant gratification. I think a lot of people come into the world and promotions happen overnight. You went from Ebony Straight to glamour. You were glamour. I hot second. Yeah was glamour for a year. Okay Your Glamour for your and then you went to teen vogue and you were the first black beauty director. Yeah at T- invoke the economy NAS or kind enough for five years. Yeah I was there that you tell it I started my job. My first big job at Teen Vogue was beauty director. Twenty five and then at twenty nine. You can't just you. Were the first black beauty director. Correct I was. I like. Yeah beauty director in Canada's history which is not a role that you sign up for. It's not like I knew I was going to be making history by doing this job. I was just like working really hard actually. Eva Chen was the beauty director before me and she sought me out when she was leaving and said you should take this job and like kind of like helped throw my name in the ring and I was like no not ready. I'm not ready. I was so scared I had so much imposter syndrome. I was just like no not me not me. I pass it up actually. I passed up the opportunity even apply and then because of even turn another woman looking out for another woman I was pushed forward. And they're like no. You'RE GONNA go out for this job and that's how I ended up getting that particular job at twenty five and then by twenty nine. Yeah I was promoted to editor. God wasn't over chief. That's how it's presented and the headlines and that's how it seems on the highlight. Reel that we show you on the Internet. And that's why it was important to me to write this book so that. I could share a little bit more a Lot. More of the stuff that gets left out of one hundred percent success stories that were told. And that's the stuff that's the most universal stuff that challenges would. That's what I want to talk about how you went from Ebony to conde and you went from black media to mainstream fashion. That's a big different. Yeah the culture shock in some ways it was familiar territory for me because I was used to being the only black woman in the room growing up. I was like the token black friend. I had become comfortable with that this comfort but I think what I recognized was just the disparity between the kinds of resources that black media had versus the kinds of resources that magazine like Glamour had and honestly one of the things that puzzled me was like as a black editor coming from Black magazine into a mainstream magazine. I was expected to become an expert or to be an expert on beauty primarily for white women. Oh there wasn't the same expectation of white editors to understand how to speak about beauty as an expert for women of Color and so that was interesting for me. I was like wait a minute. Hold ON I. I became an expert on self. Tanner something I never will need. I became an expert on volumizer. And you know I could pick out your condition. State in the second dot was the job but community experts. Who had been in this industry for twenty plus years could not tell you the difference between like a Yawkey Braid and dreadlock are like you know they couldn't help you a woman of color pick out her foundation. If you pay a million like there was just this. There's just the disparity in education of women of color and you are having to educate and now I'm here I am educating and I'm like the Newbie on the block. It just reflected that the beauty standard in America. You can say issue issue problem. We should we go there but there is. It's like skinny white woman. This woman like street blond hair blue eyes the standard of beauty and anything else is presented as deviation and as secondary not as important and so I really felt charged with a mission to change that narrative especially because I personally knew how damaging that was as three year old as a little kid as a little brown girl looking four myself in magazines and never seeing reflected so it was important for me to have both of those experiences to know what it is to celebrate Black Beauty Center Blackness Adam. Black magazine work among black people. Learn how to be an expert in talking about our issues and then bringing not to a mainstream space to celebrate. But here's the thing I will say. This is also part of why I wrote my book. It's not easy to just be. The only one who knows about your culture is not easy to figure out how to use your voice for good right. It is not easy. Being the sole voice in the room advocating for something that no one has experienced before or seizes necessarily a problem so it took me time I would say like the the entire time I was glamour. I think I was in a little bit of an assimilation syndrome phase where I was just trying to fit in. I saw an opportunity to make things better. I really was still building courage to take my shot making things that make sense one hundred percents. We're like we talk about like finding your voice in using your voice as like like in meam forum and it's just like sounds so easy and everybody talks about like just doing it and being brave. Yeah but they're not in these rooms where everybody who looks the same at the table. And then you're the one different one. That's trying to convince them that this is like what should we should be talking about exactly and you know about that. I do a little bit. I mean I can't identify at all being a black woman coming in and talking about you know white beauty and what does that look like and then having to change people's minds like you don't know but you know what it's like to be. The only one advocating for a different kind of beauty style hundred percent one hundred percent but I think that that must have been a lot of pressure was it. Two thousand seventeen officially became the IC of Teen Vogue. Yeah I became editor. I can't ride doesn't sixteen came in at your chosen. Seventeen then okay notes. You've you've done your homework and you need to tell me how it all happened. So then history is the second block heard as an Ese. Do you know who the first one was. Yeah key a minor. She was. The first Kim. Minor was the first black editor in chief in Canada's history. Choose editor in chief of brides. So I became the second black editor in chief. It's amazing we've had so many milestones and yet you weren't even thirty yet. The I was thirty when I became editor in chief. Okay twenty nine. When I became the editor of the magazine was significant for you walking into this new role. And you're now you're the leader. Okay yes and no. There was a gradual transition again. Like it it's not like my whole life changed overnight necessarily at Teen Vogue. I was a part of a shift in the cultural conversation internally for years before that happened and we were already as a team higher by higher story by story shifting the mission of team from the inside so by the time that I was promoted I was so ready I was so already off to the races the mission had already been crystallized already running in that direction and again it's like about proving your values and times before you're actually kind of knighted there's been so much momentum that we'd created as a team that by the time.

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"elaine" Discussed on Pretty Big Deal with Ashley Graham

Pretty Big Deal with Ashley Graham

12:12 min | 1 year ago

"elaine" Discussed on Pretty Big Deal with Ashley Graham

"Today we are talking to accomplish magazine Editor Television Personality and bestselling author. Elaine while two roth lanes in the how beautiful. Thank you even traveling so talking. Well thank you the most gorgeous woman I've ever seen you really are and you don't even like it's just a belly like Ashley. Graham bouncing all over the world like big personality like doing her thing like still working out like still doing shoots every day and then like oh by the way I Q oh belly first of all. Thanks for saying it's little because it's not but I will take your bike that says thank you know you. It looks like this. Bill has not slowed you down at all. I haven't allowed first. Trimester is funny it just so you down and it was the Jesus thing because I didn't work my first trimester it was like summertime and I was listening and chilling out. That's what your body needs. It was really deserves that yes it does ground. There's so many things that I wanted like. Go off of pregnancy like I want to talk about marriage because you're getting married soon. We talk about that later because I really kind of went into it. Okay but also babies. It's an interesting conversation that I've been having with my husband. Obviously because we're having a child together but in your book you talk about having a white father a black mother and how it was a conversation that they had in their approach and shaping you as a black woman and your brother as a black man right. You have a brother and your brother. They wanted to help. Avoid a racial identity crisis for us done the line got so my mom is an African American woman. My Dad is German. Irish like hippy. California Guy And they decided before we were born that we were going to be black because that is the way that the world would see us. That would be the experience that we would have in this country and they just thought let's eliminate confusion about things it's just make it easy and clear and the reality is. They did that with the best of intentions and in a lot of ways. I understand why that's necessary and to just like hit it off at the pass and have those conversations out in the open and to instill a sense of cultural pride in your child and all of the identities that they possessed but particularly to make sure that they're clear on how they're going to be seen in the world. It's a parent's duty to help. Start that process of feeling a sense of pride in your culture and your identity and so that's what my parents did but ultimately it's still a confusing process and you can't you can't prevent the the identity crisis because it's inevitable arm the white person in an interracial relationship and I'm about to have a black baby and or biracial baby and this is a conversation that Justin and I have been having so I just think really bi racial is not an identity. Uk unfortunately like we don't hold space in our language even for interested. You Call President Obama the first biracial president. He's blaming you call Halle Berry the first biracial woman to win an Oscar. Yeah no I'm saying no no no I'm just I'm just pointing out because it's it's a nuance that we just don't often think about so like misty Copeland. I mean a lot of the first in black history are actually biracial people. But we don't really have the language where the first biracial celebrity that I saw identified as show Megan markle and that's like a couple years ago. You know so. I think that's an important thing. I hope that that changes and that over time we can create space for all types of identities to be acknowledged. But the reality is that your phenotype the way you present and to the world that is that is going to dictate your experience. I think that your conversation guys can have all the kind of premeditated conversations ready to go for your child but ultimately a lot of your child's experience is going to be dictated by their appearance the color of their skin the texture of their hair. And you're there to help insulate some of the blows that are inevitable in the world and for me and my brother. I remember like being so confused. I remember being in preschool and being one of the only brown kids in the class we were asked to assignment where we had to make a collage of our families. So everyone's like looking through magazines and I'm flipping through magazines and then everyone's like starting and I'm like wait but I don't see anybody who looks like my mom or me or my brother in these magazines. I got a lot of white DAD OPTIONS. But where are the like black people and I didn't actually no I was black. I didn't know my mom was. I just knew I couldn't see anyone who looks like my mom. And this is my very first memory in life and so it was the first time I was like. Oh I'm different. Oh there's something wrong with wait hold on. Why can I see myself a news magazine? And this is before you have language for these things. We talk about representation at three years old. You know Y- so I'm there and I'm like okay. I just looked around and I was like okay. I guess we're just GonNa do what everyone else is doing. I'm going to cut out what people started coming out. White people and I like made a full collage of white family and imagine how awkward that is for the teachers who are like what is going on over there so I remember teacher coming over and trying to steer me towards the sole black girl in one of these magazines and I just ignored her because I did not want to be different. Oh and then. I came home with that White Paper family in my proud black mother took one look at that is that Houston. We have a problem. You and your brother and you sit down at that table. And we're going to Redo the assignment together and she whipped out ebony and essence magazines and we redid that collage and that was my first memory in life and it was a race conversation. You know we had. We had to have that conversation and I remember my mom. Put that revised family collage on my wall and it was the first thing I saw every morning. The last thing I saw every night for years so that no matter what I saw on commercials or in the pages of magazines I could see myself and my family reflected as we are and it was a reminder to be proud of that I think we're living in a world that's becoming a lot more blended. We're having a lot more conversations from overseas. Yeah and so for your child will have so many more examples and I would have blended family. Looks like or what an interracial family looks like. And it won't be such an anomaly. Yeah I only have Mariah Carey. Oh Wow what a sin saying. Yeah but also it does ring true just in the fact that so many is you said. There's a lot of blended families now mixed race. Multiracial people are the fastest growing population and get our stories and the exploration of that identity is so under discussed. What about you? You're about to become a mom and you're doing it with a black man? Like what are the conversations that you just are having about this? The conversation that dressing and I have been having is You know he wants to raise children black because like your parents told you the world will treat you the way that they see you. Yes and as a white woman I have had to understand what that means and I think that I've had to understand a lot of things I like. I didn't know what white privilege was walking into this relationship. I didn't understand half the things that I've learned in the last ten years of being with us. I think that when you're the white person in an interracial relationship you should be asking questions. You should be getting filled with information. It's the white person's job to really get to know the other culture because we live in a white world touched on something that I think is so important for folks who've never understood or never had to be in a situation where they are. The only one looks like them. Yeah I think it is crucial. It is vital to put yourself in positions where you have to feel that otherness. You have to go out of your way to put yourself in that position in a world centers. You know so. I think it's a brave thing for you to do to take on that responsibility and to own it and to welcome and I'm sure it may. It's uncomfortable at times uncomfortable moments but I don't even want to call it brave. I want to call it just something that I want like. I Love Justin that much that I want to know everything about him. Yeah led to the core of who he is and he is a black man and he's proud of it so I want to understand like what does all of that me. And how can I be assistance? wind breezing children's so. Yeah you're asking all the right questions and you're doing all the work that you that you can do. No parent ever gets it perfectly. No they don't they don't but we can try. Yeah it'd be a great great Ron Lab. How do you feel like all of this Schaefer? Identity in general is such an inextricable part of my experience that I don't really know what it would be like to not have that you know like my dad is my dad. My mom is my mom is so you can't really dictate like how it's all. GonNa come out you know but I wouldn't have it any other way like I feel like it was a huge blessing and a lot of ways. There's a lot of strength and positives that come out of having access to two different cultures and two completely different worlds in your household. Yeah I agree. You know because you have an empathy for people who think differently than you do you can understand both sides of things and I think I grew up feeling like a little bit of a bridge in divides first racially at home and culturally but then also over time I kind of is sorted that or felt that that was part of my role in my profession and my friend groups bridge. Yeah I've been able to become. A bridging divides between races between old and new media between fashioned politics. It's helped me like moderate. You know two different sides and I think at a time like this where there's such a so many deep deep divides in our country. It's actually been benefit being biracial and having that kind of like home training. Well who knew that earlier? It'd be so strong because so many amazing career moves in your life big things that have happened but I mean you started in college and he went in for journalism. Is that where you went in? Well I I studied psychology. I was like nobody cares about my outfits these classes and then I was like a little. I was always interested in fashion but I was too intimidated by capital f fashion from a small town so I was like okay. I love to write and I love getting people's bins. I load like interviewing people. Yes I know. I know. It's like taking everything tonight interview. You right now. I know Richard. I know this is always because your were like switch. I know I've had to use another part of my brain in order to interview people. Because you know it's easy to get interviewed for you. I know it's probably saying it's easy to interview much more comfortable. Being the interviewer. We like sitting in that chair. What have you learned like how? How has that shift been for you? Well what I've learned is that there's so many questions that people ask That I don't ever WANNA ask people because I've been asked them but I also understand why people ask the same questions because you have a new audience. Yeah you know this is why you do a circuit for your book. This is you know. There's just so many different things like that but they have realizes that because I'm the one in control I can really get to know you the way I wanna get to know you and I think that the viewer also just appreciates that. Because you know it's coming from a different perspective than maybe different podcast or so. Yeah I like to take from everybody. I mean I did my research. Oh yes and so it was like what what else do I need to know? So that's why I started off with how you were raised but yeah so you went into journalism and boom you come out and you talk about this story a lot right out of college you get an opportunity to work with Ebony but the real love and want was essence. Yes third I did Harriette Cole comes into your life and she invites you to set as an intern. This is your first day on set. You have no idea what's going on. You have no idea where you're going to show up in Malibu and they're Serena Williams and they're shooting a cover..

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"elaine" Discussed on The Archive Project

The Archive Project

05:25 min | 1 year ago

"elaine" Discussed on The Archive Project

"Ox. I I have no idea why that's funny so to to continue on with this with this idea of why things are funny. St Balan did a show took over for Johnny Carson. Some years ago he invited on his show tonight on on our show. I have with us a guest from the Polish anti-defamation league and he said you know I hear Polish jokes told all the time he said and I I I think if those same jokes were told about black people or Jews I mean mean there would be really people would be outraged. You what what is funny about about who who wears the cloak. En- rides a pig lawrence of Poland. The the audience does sort of this Saito there with him and they agree with him. And there's sort of outrage for him but they laugh and they look really horrified or a fight and he says this. Is You know there are Polish children who hear this about their parents. You think. It's funny to describe the Polish Mafia. He is guys. Who Make you an offer? You won't understand so he continues like this for quite a while and the audience is helpless and there with him they sympathize. They agree with him and any finally rises and stalks off and it turns out that he's he's not really a guy from the Polish anti defamation. He really guy who actually made a movie movie called. Is there sex after death. And he's a practical joker. And he and Steve Allen has brought him on the show to make a point think about what what is what will soon be called. From the time I saw this political correctness and his point I guess is that you can't help but something strike you funny. So years and years later when political correctness is sort of in full swing these. He's abortion. Doctors were killed if you recall. Wasn't that long ago and I was at a dinner party and a guy there who was a pro-lifer Nice guy there were there. Were there was a big argument about it and arguments now are very ritualized. I mean they're sort of everything you've just heard people argue about on a new show so some people are arguing one arguing set arguments and the guy says the prolifer free says look. This is terrible. I don't condone violence. And I think this was an awful thing to do but in the eyes of this guy by the guy who shot the doctor. This doctor was a murderer and he was murdering innocent fetuses and I said but I said that seems ridiculous because the doctor was just doing his job and this woman can go to another doctor if you we really want to stop abortion why not kill the mothers and in in the really cold course. It's because I know what you're going to say if you kill the mothers you'll kill the fetuses. They're going to kill the fetuses anyway. They're going to go down with the ship so why not do it this way and really teach people a lesson and it was. It was a bad night. It was the people. Needless to say that I never saw again but but years later I wrote the script and the birdcage and a probably you all know what it's about as there is a scene I'm writing and there's a scene in which this gay couple of are you going to fool the right wing senator into thinking that they're a heterosexual couple and one of the guys. It's a woman and he right winger and it's their son's marriage and they're going to be future in-laws laws and cheese and I thought I'm going to put this scene in during the dinner party I'm just going to put it in verbatim and I put it in. I have the senator say you know this is not for this. I don't condone this. They're murderers in their eyes. And then doing she says she says why not kill the mother. She says I mean they'll go down with the ship and I write the scene and I send it in and the studio calls and says you know Elaine this is really going to offend the people. I mean this is murdering abortion. I said this is a story about you. Know to homosexuals. Who Live together and raise? His son is going to offend people..

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"elaine" Discussed on Watch What Happens Live with Andy Cohen

Watch What Happens Live with Andy Cohen

02:00 min | 1 year ago

"elaine" Discussed on Watch What Happens Live with Andy Cohen

"Scott coming out telling everyone. It was Nina. Who shared the card with him and Well you know you gotta call out of blogger like B.. Scott you should have known he was gonNA respond with the information. I'm I'm just glad he gave me at least not hanging like with snaky right L. C.. Once no elaine. Do You keep in touch with any of the contestants from last season of project runway. You you know I do on instagram all. DM Like bish me. Because she's my boy Oh more And Sebastian who won house rejoice pieces. He's doing great. He's doing his first show at New York fashion. Who Grew? Will you go. I will go support him. He's extremely talented. That's he is very talented. Candy Handy Queen Diva fifty-seven do you believe need is Nina's apology to Eva with sincere. Were did she apologize to have an ally since she was not on. Everyone's good outside at the time. Well I mean I feel like meaney had a valid point at the time I mean basically she was just like why do we have to kind of go through all all of this. Move Forward Right which I agree with her on certain things now with the thing I definitely felt like understood what she was coming from. She was like well. You Mad because because I wore a bike and we're on his show for doing my job right so I just didn't feel like that was something to hold a grudge rush about right. Maybe you can be a little pissed in the moment but at the end of the day. We're all here to do a job. We want to say private things. Sometimes we have to wait to the cameras leave all right. I WanNa thank on by the way. I'm very excited about this season project. Runway everybody's the guys all are in a real groove you and Brandon and carly in the group it's really I WanNa thank candy..

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"elaine" Discussed on Watch What Happens Live with Andy Cohen

Watch What Happens Live with Andy Cohen

02:00 min | 1 year ago

"elaine" Discussed on Watch What Happens Live with Andy Cohen

"Scott coming out telling everyone. It was Nina. Who shared the card with him and Well you know you gotta call out of blogger like B.. Scott you should have known he was gonNA respond with the information. I'm I'm just glad he gave me at least not hanging like with snaky right L. C.. Once no elaine. Do You keep in touch with any of the contestants from last season of project runway. You you know I do on instagram all. DM Like bish me. Because she's my boy Oh more And Sebastian who won house rejoice pieces. He's doing great. He's doing his first show at New York fashion. Who Grew? Will you go. I will go support him. He's extremely talented. That's he is very talented. Candy Handy Queen Diva fifty-seven do you believe need is Nina's apology to Eva with sincere. Were did she apologize to have an ally since she was not on. Everyone's good outside at the time. Well I mean I feel like meaney had a valid point at the time I mean basically she was just like why do we have to kind of go through all all of this. Move Forward Right which I agree with her on certain things now with the thing I definitely felt like understood what she was coming from. She was like well. You Mad because because I wore a bike and we're on his show for doing my job right so I just didn't feel like that was something to hold a grudge rush about right. Maybe you can be a little pissed in the moment but at the end of the day. We're all here to do a job. We want to say private things. Sometimes we have to wait to the cameras leave all right. I WanNa thank on by the way. I'm very excited about this season project. Runway everybody's the guys all are in a real groove you and Brandon and carly in the group it's really I WanNa thank candy..

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"elaine" Discussed on Watch What Happens Live with Andy Cohen

Watch What Happens Live with Andy Cohen

01:38 min | 1 year ago

"elaine" Discussed on Watch What Happens Live with Andy Cohen

"Well you know you gotta call out of blogger like B.. Scott you should have known he was gonNA respond with the information. I'm I'm just glad he gave me at least not hanging like with snaky right L. C.. Once no elaine. Do You keep in touch with any of the contestants from last season of project runway. You you know I do on instagram all. DM Like bish me. Because she's my boy Oh more And Sebastian who won house rejoice pieces. He's doing great. He's doing his first show at New York fashion. Who Grew? Will you go. I will go support him. He's extremely talented. That's he is very talented. Candy Handy Queen Diva fifty-seven do you believe need is Nina's apology to Eva with sincere. Were did she apologize to have an ally since she was not on. Everyone's good outside at the time. Well I mean I feel like meaney had a valid point at the time I mean basically she was just like why do we have to kind of go through all all of this. Move Forward Right which I agree with her on certain things now with the thing I definitely felt like understood what she was coming from. She was like well. You Mad because because I wore a bike and we're on his show for doing my job right so I just didn't feel like that was something to hold a grudge rush about right. Maybe you can be a little pissed in the moment but at the end of the day. We're all here to do a job. We want to say private things. Sometimes we have to wait to the cameras leave all right. I WanNa thank on by the way. I'm very excited about this season project. Runway everybody's.

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"elaine" Discussed on Wait Wait... Don't Tell Me!

Wait Wait... Don't Tell Me!

02:17 min | 1 year ago

"elaine" Discussed on Wait Wait... Don't Tell Me!

"It is the magazine America every member the AARP gets it. That's millions and millions of people next question magazine you to the Editor in Chief of AARP magazine has a resume. Perfect perfect for his current job includes which of these a he edited Hunter S. Thompson. She's being it. There is a streak of cruelty in your judgment sneezing all right on his qualifications to edit take A. Aarp magazine is which of these Editing Hunter S. Thompson for Rolling Stone Magazine for twenty years. Be Fourteen years working as a senior health aid or see he is thirty thirty seven years old and he's married to Claire Bloom Eight. Oh my God it better last. Why not because he's not even enough to get the magazine at thirty? A Robert Love Worth Rolling Stone. Twenty Years Edited Hunter S. Thompson Johnson. Calm Wolf and PJ O'Rourke last question. Aarp the magazine features a lot of articles about health for seniors including which of these a going going to bed at seven. Is the new black. Be why you are suddenly hairy. They're or see interview with prostate. The misunderstood gland. Oh all right guys. I'm calling on my panel. Is here my panel here because it's either B. or I I think what do you guys think so just to be was why you're suddenly Harry there and see his interview with the state. The misunderstood granted. I think it's be because has I think the staff the guys liked to say the misunderstood prostate. All right. This is going to be tough but I'M GONNA go with the Byu. Y you're suddenly Harry there. No the answer is the prostate. They're wondering what the prostate says has it says and I quote I'm a prostate and I live alone just in front of Joe's rectum. Wants to know talkative little prostate bill. Bill how did Elaine Quiz to three Elaine. You.

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"elaine" Discussed on Wait Wait... Don't Tell Me!

Wait Wait... Don't Tell Me!

05:35 min | 1 year ago

"elaine" Discussed on Wait Wait... Don't Tell Me!

"Was it seemed like a Haley fascinating transformation and did you guys get any push back on that when you were writing about politics and issues of culture and stuff like that rather than you know prom dresses and such of course we did. But you know those aren't the people we were catering to. I think anytime you're going through a transformation authority. You're pretty much prepared to lose some folks who were the loyalists that were coming to the magazine for just that one thing used to be we. Did you get pushback from Conde. NAST when you put Bernie Sanders on the cover nine. I put Hillary Clinton on the cover. And I'll have you. We know that Anna Wintour is a very good friends with Hillary and he was very supportive of of that decision. Thankfully you mentioned the Anna Winter. She of course is the the infamous. I'll say editor vogue. So she sounds like she wet it she had seen the Double Prada. This is like this huge novel and then Moody or it's like re you intimidated that we were like yes. I want to be that person. I was intimidated. I when I saw that movie I had no intention on working for vogue. I never thought I. Would you know I would have the opportunity to so of course when I did get that job. I was incredibly intimidated. And and then I got there and I realized you know what everybody is just a human being just like me and did you see the era kinder than I expected. I think that people at Vogue got a bad rap on that on that film and they weren't all devils in product they did you feel obligation no as editor of Vogue magazine to occasionally destroy. Someone's life just to keep up for you. Were the editor. Are you worth a beauty director. Yes that's right. What does that mean like? What would be your role? What would be your chores like you went in at nine o'clock and you did what to the director beauty? Well and he magazine. There are different sections and obviously there's the beauty and health section. That was my piece of the Pie and So we we would write easterling stories About all things beauty and yeah there were definitely perked but the job I had beauty closet which had friends come and indulge in. They would dive in there. And you don't of Christmas gift for my family for a number of years. I'll just say that. What is inside your beauty closet? Everything Chiampou conditioner body. Watch expensive lotion and sunscreen slips. hair-color Lanta would anti-aging cream me everything. You'd be surprised. Did you use the anti aging creams. How do you think I looked this? Good project runway. God I love being on project runway so now I used to watch that many years ago with my daughters but are you like a mean judger and Nice judge. I'm a keep it real bad. What does that mean I've seen? I've seen the show Joe Peter and it means that she's vicious she's great she's really nice. But then unless you're bad and then she tells you the trend that I did tell you like it is. What's the what's the most cutting thing you've ever said to an aspiring designer? Oh my God someone needs to check my received receive on this. I usually block it all out. I don't know I I'd have to think about it but I think I've just been very direct in saying that you might like that. I'd Hyde not and in terms of competition you're out you can't remember the meanest thing you say. Can you remember the strangest thing you saw on the runway. I remember them pasties that a lot. More God yeah off love Pasties yes like where Nineteen Fifties Tasos Nipple. Companies sent a model out on project. Runway wearing pasties lime green. One God places there were. Are you sure they weren't actually lime slices. I mean what did you say to the designer who sent hounded and otherwise is wearing brand back. I think he said why'd girl I think you said you're lucky you're safe. This week eliminated entirely fan. I'd deeply depressed and you'll have a lot of time. Awesome Watch reality. Well welcome to the show Elaine. We're delighted to have you here and we have asked you here to play a game. We're calling teen teen vogue meet. Old Vote edited keen folks. We thought we'd ask you about a magazine with a very different demographic the magazine of the AARP RPG two or three questions right in your winner prize. The Voice of your choice in your voice mail for one of our listeners. Bill who was Elaine wallpaper off playing for Maryanne bishop this ship of Cordova Alaska ready to play on your first question the Aarp magazine has what Important Distinction A. It is the only only magazine ever to feature Larry King on its cover. Fourteen Times be the most popular magazine. In America. Or see it invented the centerfold. I B B is the most popular magazine in America and you are correct..

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"elaine" Discussed on Wait Wait... Don't Tell Me!

Wait Wait... Don't Tell Me!

02:09 min | 1 year ago

"elaine" Discussed on Wait Wait... Don't Tell Me!

"Get asked about dumb things. That's called not my job when Elaine Walter off was a little kid and I stress this was in the one thousand nine hundred ninety S. She and her friends created their own fashion magazine. It was her obsession. And you got to pursue that obsession for a living when she became the youngest editor ever at Conde NAST and the first African American editor at Teen Vogue now. She's a judge on project runway. She's a new memoir out. Elaine Wolf Roth welcome to wait. Wait don't tell me. These are the asked people where they are but Alaska because your business. who were you wearing? Well now I am in my high school sweat shirt That I designed when I was class president ear off yet pretty embarrassing. Why is that? They're saying it's easier than wonderland and it was inspired by. Alice in wonderland was this was like this is like a theme like your prom theme or something like that. It was our spirit week team. I was really interested to read in your memoir that this is what you've always wanted to do. When you were a little girl you were really into fashion and fashion magazines? Is that the case at here. I was raised in a very long town far far away from the fashion world and I think I was just intrigued. Picked by the fantasy That the fashion world represented. I just absorbed my mom's magazines every month when they came in the mail before she you got to read them Then I decided when I was a little kid in fourth grade to make my own and so I drew pictures of fashionable women on Construction instruction paper and then I proceeded to wrap the construction paper in Saran wrap for the glossy feel really so that was your magazines the glossy paper okay. That's cool you always in the cover. Just like Oprah and her magazine no no no. You became the editor of Teen Vogue at like the age of twenty eighty seven. Twenty nine twenty nine. Okay and teen vogue a few years ago I mean all of a sudden it seemed to go from like Oh how to impress your boyfriend with makeup to to how to seize the means of production it.

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"elaine" Discussed on Wait Wait... Don't Tell Me!

Wait Wait... Don't Tell Me!

01:38 min | 1 year ago

"elaine" Discussed on Wait Wait... Don't Tell Me!

"The Democrats debated once again on Wednesday with nine contenders and Tom. Sire taking the stage in Atlanta. It was the first debate since mayor. Pete Buddha the judge took a lead in the Iowa polls and everybody was gunning for him. They resent his popularity and his youth. Did you know that the year but a judge started high school Bernie me. Sanders was already ninety six years old all of the candidates. Let's want to prove their best equipped to take trump on right senator camel harrison. I'M A prosecutor Elizabeth Warren. She has this depth of knowledge but a judge has the advantage that trump will accidentally confuse him with Baron and be nice to him. I wouldn't count. They have been reading though about how much the other candidates are just annoyed by him because like Camel Harris he leaves his toys out. That's one of the the you're not. You're not going to be allowed to Canvas Pete unless you pick a blizzard with Warren. Nearly killed herself tripping over his legos if the debate the other while they're annoyed because like they're senators and stuff and they won statewide the office and as somebody pointed out people to judge one the office of Mayor of South Bend the first time with eight thousand votes not by eight eight thousand votes with thousand votes. More people vote for the winning butter sculpture at the Iowa. State fair.

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"elaine" Discussed on Wait Wait... Don't Tell Me!

Wait Wait... Don't Tell Me!

02:12 min | 1 year ago

"elaine" Discussed on Wait Wait... Don't Tell Me!

"He was laughing and smiling just like just just like they did back in Watergate. There's there's a cancer on the presidency and it's abul-ezz. The other star of the week was former staff half member on a hill. She is a British born Russia. Expert this is a woman who and this is a true story when she was a girl in class taking a test. Ask some boy behind her. Set Her pigtails on fire. In this is true she reached back. put it out with her hand and then just proceeded to continue to ace the test. This is true but the most amazing part of that story. That boy behind her is now president of the United States. It's been a real a banner week for like severe unflappable ladies. Yes God I just want for my birthday. I would view and a hill to testify against me. You know really really yeah. I would pay money for that. It'd be like yes dragged me more. Sounds like a sounds like a broadway. Show severe unflappable lady. uh-huh what's weird. Is that despite. There's all this very hostile energy. How orderly Schiff keeps it so? At the end of every hearing Republican Republican devin nunes the ranking member. He makes this bizarre rant tearing apart the Democrats and accusing Schiff of all these things and afterwards shift just says I thank the gentleman. This is a witch hunt led by dishonest warlock and Adam Chef Jeff whose mom looks like an old hab I think the gentleman you know if he's not wearing one of those dog thunder vests. I don't know how always doing it would. You can't save. Is it underneath his underneath the dancers this little stuffed animal the shifts during the season. All right Leah. Here is your next quote. You're literally a wiggle baby. That was somebody on twitter. Criticizing Peter Footage as you participated in. What big event on Wednesday? Oh the democratic debate yes right very good..

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"elaine" Discussed on The Psychology Podcast

The Psychology Podcast

02:12 min | 2 years ago

"elaine" Discussed on The Psychology Podcast

"Store so for folks who are anxious or or prone to social anxiety so we tend to hold things close to the vest we tend to not talk about ourselves not reveal much and that's actually a mistake in so 'cause relationships intimacy not necessarily sexual intimacy but just getting to know another person is elaine errand talks about this is gradual and reciprocal and so that means revealing a little bit about what you can do and feel and then you will likely get back something about what the other person thinks does and feels and it doesn't have to be a confession it doesn't have to be your deepest darkest secret it doesn't have to be your life story you know talking about something as simple as the weather can be a disclosure you can say like oh i'm so glad it's raining today 'cause i find the gray skies really sued him or you know oh it's finally sunny i'm so glad to have been getting i've totally been having cabin fever that's a disclosure that's talking about yourself even though technically you're still talking about the weather and so to talk about oneself is part of building a friendship another thing is to keep showing up that it takes on average six to eight conversations real conversation not just hey before someone considers you a friend and so yeah yeah stop at five and i wondered something was wrong with me exactly you figured out the what happens is that because it's driven by perfectionism a lot of folks social anxiety go into a social situation and expect to connect instantly with a new with potential new friend like with a stranger or the expect to go to an event like walkout arminarm with a new buddy and that doesn't happen and so what we have to do is to have repetition to keep showing up over and over and that means that the places where you want to meet people are where you see the same people over and over like this what i call the steady drumbeat of the same faces so like meet ups where the crowd changes every time are actually is actually not a good place but if you if you go to a dog park with your dog at the same people are there every morning that's perfect or if you drop off your kid at school and the.

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