27 Burst results for "Dismore"
"dismore" Discussed on The Model Health Show
"A high five communicates even more than i believe in you. We got this keep going. I celebrate you. I love you a high five validates. Your most profound fundamental emotional needs every single. Human being on the planet has three emotional needs. You need to be seen you need to feel heard and you need to feel celebrated and accepted for the unique individual that you are when you receive a high five especially during a challenging moment. You feel seen you also feel her because you feel like that high five represents they get that i'm going down and you feel celebrated it is shared moment of emotional affirmation and so we have for our entire lives. Look outside of ourselves for that we chase lights which as validations we think if we're dating or married the right person. It means that we're lovable. The truth is you gotta learn how to give that to yourself. And i'm here to tell you if you create a habit in the morning just habit stack right with brushing your teeth where you stand there. You be with yourself you setting intention for how you're going to show up today. What game are you gonna play. And then you seal that sucker with a high five. You are literally building in the habit of self elevation self support self respect self esteem. Self confidence celebration. It is so frigging powerful. And i am so passionate about this. Not only because. I'm standing on the research of people way smarter than me but i am seeing the millions of followers that i have profoundly changed our lives. A woman for example. Check this out one. For example who had dismore few for twenty years could.
"dismore" Discussed on Daily Tech News Show
"To avoid not imitate the wide angle of a webcam. It's close proximity can exaggerate the size of your nose. Make your eyes look smaller. Combine that with an unflattering low angle that you may not realize is causing a perception. Change your board meeting expression which is different than the relaxed expression. You have when you look at yourself in the mirror. All of that is having doctor. Seeing people changed their self perception and request more cosmetic procedures the study found seventy one percent of seven thousand. Respondents were stressed out about returning to in-person activities. Thirty percent of them planned to invest in changing their appearance as a way to cope with going back out in the real world. In fact among eighteen to twenty four year olds those using filters on video conferencing were most likely to have access to mental health services dermatologists shoddy karouche told wired the best way to fight. Zoom dismore via is through awareness. No they are not the only one who thinks you have something wrong with your appearance because of the way you look on zoom and know that zoom is distorting how you look..
"dismore" Discussed on Dr. Judy WTF
"The picture of how porn can lead to body dismore via which can lead to all kinds of health issues and a psychological issues and relationship disconnects even breakup and Divorce in another aspect of this is the porn could be quite addicting in so when we train our eyes on horn when we train our eyes on that perfect butter or the perfect ads or the perfect. Whatever it is then we're really creating these associations with that perfect and so when we are with a human an We may in our minds be disappointed that they're not perfect and they may not arouse us to the level to which we wanna be around so it's really really Taking us away from the intimacy with our own partners. I want to hear from you. I know you're out there know that many of you have had experiences where you felt disconnected from your partner. Because they've looked at somebody else or they been caught masturbating to porn or Or flipping through magazines and looking at different apps and then even commenting. Wow i wish you looked like that know. There's this my menu of only la. Don't you get big boobs. Look like her or do your face like her. And and you know this is just a never ending cycle. There is no fixed to this. So you can go from from surgery to surgery to weight loss program to throwing up your food to any any other resources to prevent this thing however The prevention is really to go back to the source to go back to the cost and dismantle of this whole blueprint that led to the objectification of the relationship I'm going to go down now into Panel number seven and we'll talk about porn and body dismore fia from the context of synergy and interconnection versus that pirating and our destruction so when there is synergy in a relationship there is safety there are boundaries this inattention to bond with each other this attention to enhance the other as the other enhances you. And there's light in that relationship. But by what i mean by the light is that one. Plus one is greater than two phenomenons. So the idea. Is you make that other person a better human and they make you a better human the opposite of that as you recall for many many of my videos is the vampire fact where you're just pulling energy from the other person and by pulling energy you're really changing the balance of the relationship from a synergistic wine to a vampire relationship where Maybe have one upsmanship on your part mirror. Andrew partner is objective buying you or or putting you down in projecting on you that there that you're not good enough and so the formula there gets flipped upside down and instead of enhancement. It's it's a detraction instead of safety. It's danger instead of lob it's objectification in so you can see that this is really a pivotal point in relationships. And if you want your relationship to grow you've got to have a real real fear discussion with your partner. Regarding porn regarding of being involved in anything outside your relationship in talking will sleet sexually sexually breaking the hermetically sealed package of that relationship. Because once it's broken the psycho viruses come in and if we don't heal the causal level they just he'd reverberating into these horrible messages that were put in there in the first place. I can't tell you how many people. Unfortunately i see my practice who've been sexually abused or have watched. Their parents be abused in beaten or laughed and so those kinds of messages in particular puddin. The child's mind that That that that this is what life looks like. Mommy's gonna sleep with a lot of people are daddy's gonna break the found me and go sleep with a lot of people or partners are interchangeable and then and they will also reflect on. Why did daddy leave me. Oh i see he left me because the other woman was more beautiful or the other woman was young and then the mom might reinforce that and say you know that astor. Your dad left because Because he told me that i was too old or too wrinkly are too fast so very very careful. What you model to your children really really careful. If your apparent or you wanna be apparent. Please please be careful what you're sending out there and really really Mind your boundaries because once those boundaries broken this multigenerational. It's amazing that we think that we're not going to repeat the past and guess what we do. We repeat the past and day after day. I'm connecting the dots for people to show them. How that template that blueprint that that panel one and the reactions and the encoding are what set them up or room to have poor relationships poor Poor self image that were then. They lower their bar and then they settle. They settled for people who cheat them like objects and they settle for settling for a poor filled or A relationship that doesn't feel comfortable to that other person so check in with your gut. If it doesn't feel right it's not right and so if it doesn't feel right it's not right then you get to open your mouth and you get to re contract the relationship and you get to let that other Know where it hurts the than that person if they care about you and they want to continue along relationship either they're gonna Really really share for your feelings. And they're gonna honor your feelings and vice versa. So if you have any We have any callers. I would love to hear from you and i hope that the volume is okay. I hope everybody can hear me a very clearly tonight..
"dismore" Discussed on NICE WORK! A Super Nice Club Podcast
"You know not the paycheck and you know. That's a side benefit because our internal joy is is what drives our life force. Or it's what souks lifeforce right dampens it and you know i also i just want to speak to the nice piece of what you're doing like when we're in purpose that's our purpose not someone else's were happy and happy people are kind to each other. You know you wrastling hope. Yeah i actually think that hurt. People can't be nice right like nice. People are healthy. People healthy doesn't necessarily mean a while doesn't mean 'cause life's hard right so healthy doesn't mean life is perfect an easy and everything's falling into place the right paycheck and the right house and the right relationship in the right right right. That's not it at all. It's this internal ability to navigate all. That's not right because we still understand are worse than our value and we believe in the same for others and if we can be there are mental. Health is better. You know our connection to others is better. Our you know our mere tells us a story of beauty and grace and kindness and ease. Not of. my nose is not right. That's so true being able to look in the mirror and see yourself and not get that weird dismore fietsam I think that's the word where you know. You just look at yourself. And you're like i don't even like that person you know. That's the challenge. It's tough to do. That's a look in the mirror and go. Hey i see you hint. Yeah one of the activities that i didn't share a whole lot of is a mirror activity. I knew i'd get one hundred. It's an art piece where literally. There's a reflection in a mirror and then an art build of the frame around the mir yar. What might gifts are. We're always look at what's wrong. You know when. I was the middle school age that i currently now serve the freckles on my body were like medusa snakes on my head right like they were just like. I was never going to be anything. Because freckles. Like i i look back. Wow how you know. I don't that's not a parent issue. It's not something someone did to me or said to me. But there's a there was an internal place that i did that to myself because i didn't have the skills to counter that belief system. I had a real struggle a few months ago. I was looking into a mirror. And i was looking at myself like where is that twelve year old that ten year old. Todd just physically i. I don't see any of that. And i just. It took me a while. He's looking in the mirror and looking in the mirror..
How Does Social Media Relate to Body Dysmorphia and Plastic Surgery
"Body via certainly not a new problem. It's being affecting men women everything in between for a long long time bit. Obviously the advent of things like social media and photoshop have soared unrealistic unachievable bodies are being flooded into consciousness most of the day every day. What role do you think. Plastic surgery plays into that good question. Maas pins on is probably slightly different. You alluded to the social media aspect and this is certainly an aspect of of aspirational bodies and appearances. Which the connections. Probably the the biggest example and i mean the. The joke of the whole thing is that your recently. It's all come out that a lot of that is actually fake. I think the role of social media and that is actually can be quite a positive one. And that's the way i wave always used social media to educate people and explain things and to craig realistic expectations and create a community whereby table can ask questions off previous patient for me. Social media has actually had the reverse effect on practice. It's made it easier because a lot of these patients are much better educated and so they come to a consultation not with unrealistic expectations but realistic expectations and a great knowledge of of what is available deadly into our podcast of watch their lives of fall. It is on social media. They've spoken there now. Group the followed previous patients previous patients. Give them advice and so they come in and they'll tell me what i'm gonna tell them they'll come in and they'll say i know you're gonna say i've got to lose ten kilos on i i would. I would totally agree. And i think patients that have true body. Small here is something that so it's not that we bang blind to it. I think it's it really is very very rare and i would say probably widely than one percent of patients that i would say so moist one or two patients a year that would come in with really unrealistic expectations. And sometimes it's not actually bodies dismore via that. They want to have the perfect appearance. It's maybe they don't have a true vision of where they're starting from. So they they come in and they show me a photo of. This is what i want to look like afterwards but it's an impossible expectations
How To Increase Your Self Worth And Net Worth By Simply Being Yourself
"Well welcomed extraordinary women radio jessica. Answer thrilled to have you with us today. Thank you for having d cam so come to be here and tell us where you joining us from today. I am here in chicago illinois where it is a balmy sixty degrees for the first time mike six months. So we're all very happy your light right now because basically summer right right as we've had a couple sixty and seventy degree days here in colorado and we just we just eat them up and then we get a big dumped snow in between them. And that's that's okay because we need the we need the moisture. But i assure i'm ready for the spring and the sprouts Start coming up and all that good stuff too. I think you and i are very very much aligned in the work that we're doing and the things that were most passionate about and i'm so glad to speak to you and i know you just had your book. Combat this last month multiple. Tell people about your book. Be which i love the name of your book being what what won't get into that as we get through this. But i really want to start with your story and i my my listeners. Love to hear the story you know. What got you to this place that you're you're at in your business and your life and i know you've that spiritual ben to that's taken you that's brought you here so share a little bit about that. I mean why story. It's really interesting this perception right that we all have an projection that we all have about people we see in the world and yesterday i run a successful business iva deal i have a platform. I have a great marriage. I you know. I have the the things that you could actually equate to a happy in fulfilling life but hasn't always look this way. I've been through a lot of trauma and struggle specifically as a woman when it comes to software shuttles team self loves. I have definitely never considered myself with for a long. Did number never considered myself like financially successful right. I struggled with a lot of debts. Toxic relationships with men body dismore via you know been through through a lot and my my journey. I guess i guess you could take it back to high school where i was never cool. I grew up in a very fluent suburb. My parents were self made people. I was never part of the in crowd was bullied a lot carrying a lot of that trauma into my twenties. And you know a lot of poor decisions when it came to romantic relationships struggled founder professional for quite some time once for theater graduated became an actor slash. Bartender ended that for a long time before i stumbled into entrepreneurship
(02/27) HOTL Hour 2
"This is handle on the law. Bill handel here telling you have absolutely no case california where i live i. There are two states that are there within the united states but not mentally because the people the legislatures are well california the crazy legislature florida. More the crazy people where you get these wild stories. So i love to talk about crazy. California that laws the legislature which is a supermajority with a super democratic super majority and a democratic liberal governor. You put those two together you have. You have a disaster a recipe for disaster. So here is optically good one. There is a bill that was introduced by two democrats of course and it would require retailers to offer their toys and childcare products in a gender neutral format which means no boys section no girls section it all has to be unified and everything for sale is for children not for boys and girls and you can't eat put up a sign that even indicate whether a product is intended for a boy or a girl and well that is i can see we're taking now gender neutrality to a kind of a level that is beyond a not reality but certainly beyond that part which makes sense and it's i i think the issue here and i am totally in favor of lgbtq rights. There's no question about it. And for the most part i'm in favor of gender neutrality. For example restroom single use restrooms. I have no problem saying gender-neutral. I truly don't but when it comes to retail spaces not even recognizing that there is a gender that their gender differences now The good news. Is you still in stores. They are still allowed to put men sections boys sections Girls women otherwise. You've gone to the retail stores target. Uganda Major retailers Nordstrom's we're talking about department stores and you have the signs say boy section men's etcetera and we haven't reached the point yet where you have signs they just have question marks and then eros that we haven't done yet but when it comes to toys sections we have those days where you differentiate between boys and girls are gone and accepting the fact that They're really that kids yet. Have not yet determined what their sexuality is. And i happen to be a believer That number one there is gender. Dismore fiesta where there are there are plenty of people who born male and identify as females and then later on it Transitional surgery and these people are very unlucky to do that to be born in the wrong body. I truly believe that happens. And i truly believe that happens more often than we know and i truly feel. Sorry it's a horrible way to live. You know being trapped and having to live ally Why i get all that but you know how do you take it. What not even recognizing there's a gender difference. Do you move towards that. That is going to be the point of in department
I Feel Better Naked
"Today on sixty seconds psych I feel better naked. Whether gardening outdoors or hiking in the woods, getting back to nature is generally good for mental health. But what about just getting naked today we report on the first randomized controlled trial of naked activity on body image anxiety. The study by. On whist recruited fifty one British adults with a simple, add on twitter. Hang out with others. Drink some wine and get paid ten quid that were then randomized into one of two rooms in a north London bar. In the first room, they mingled and drank with clothes on in the second room. They were met with an instruction. That must've felt like a surprise for this experiment. All you have to do is one enjoy yourself in the company of others for forty five minutes, and to do so naked. All participants are expected to disrobe for this part of the experiment, and they all disrobed without incident. The result socializing naked reduced body imaging Zaidi. It also improved body appreciation, but this effect seemed mediated by the reduction in negative feelings about one's body. The intervention had no effect on the perceived attractiveness of others. What in the devil does this all mean well? They didn't recruit a clinical sample, so it tells us nothing about how nude interactions would affect people with eating disorders, dismore disorder or social anxiety. But it does help us understand and empathize with patients who pursued the nudist lifestyle, and that was likely the sponsors goal for the study, which was funded by the British Nature Ism group unnoticed
How Does Agoraphobia Work?
"Doesn't it seem like some people aren't afraid of anything? But you know what those people? They're phonies because they're scared of chainsaw clowns just like everybody else. They're just better at hiding it. Everybody has fears. But not everybody has a phobia medically recognized. Phobias are different from normal fear in that they provoke a very intense reaction they're unreasonable or unwarranted for instance being intensely afraid of guy with a shotgun in a ski mass while that kind of makes sense but being intensely afraid of balloons doesn't so much and finally they can interfere with a person's ability to live their life but there are other anxiety disorders that while very real and potentially very disruptive of a person's life are far more insidiously. Vague and Agoraphobia is one of them according to the DSM. Five every year one point seven percent of adolescents and adults will be diagnosed with agoraphobia. So what is it well? A lot of people have heard the term and have a vague idea of what it means but a lot of these ideas are wrong or at least they don't tell the whole story so for instance some things that a Gora phobia are not are a fear of crowds a fear of wide open spaces or a fear of being outside though all of these may be a manifestation of actual agoraphobia. Agoraphobia is actually a broader complaint that will often include some or all of the fears previously listed so for some general layperson definitions to help. You get the gist of it here. We go agoraphobia. Is A type of anxiety disorder in which you fear and often avoid places or situations that might cause you to panic and make you feel trapped helpless or embarrassed. That's from the Mayo. Clinic OR AGORAPHOBIA. Is An intense fear and anxiety of being in places where it is hard to escape or where help might not be available. Agoraphobia usually involves fear of crowds bridges or of being outside alone. That's from the National Library of medicine at the National Institutes of health. One More AGORAPHOBIA is a fear of being in situations where scape might be difficult or help wouldn't be available if things go wrong. That's from the National Health Service in the UK so really agoraphobia is more broadly the fear of being trapped in a vulnerable situation especially when exacerbated by an existing predisposition to panic disorder. Very often the person with agoraphobia specifically dreads experiencing a panic attack or other panicked like symptoms in a situation where such inexperienced would be especially inopportune according to the DSM five and this is the latest edition of the professional diagnostic handbook for mental health professionals. According to that to meet the diagnostic criteria for a goer phobia. You must have quote market fear. Orange Zaidi about two or more of the following scenarios standing in line or being in a crowd being outside of the home alone using public transportation being an open spaces or being an enclosed spaces so the DSM five reports that the person with a Gore phobia fears or voids these situations because of thoughts that escape and might be difficult or might not be available in the event of developing panic like symptoms or other incapacitating or embarrassing symptoms. What physically happens is the following according to the US National Library of medicine these symptoms. Show up when you're experiencing agoraphobia chest. Pain or discomfort choking or shortness of breath dizziness or fainting nausea rapid heartbeat sweating and trembling also according to the DSM five. You can only meet the criteria for diagnosis. If you always are almost always have the fear response to these situations. You actively avoid these situations or require the help of a companion. The level of fear you feel is disproportionate to the threat represented. This condition lasts for six months or more the fear anxiety or avoidance causes coat clinically significant distress or prevents you from living a normally functional life and the suite of symptoms. You experience is not better grouped under another diagnosis for example if your fear only occurs because you fear people's reactions to perceived flaws in your physical appearance this might be a body dismore disorder instead of general agoraphobia. So if you have intense persistent debilitating fear. That you'll begin to have a panic attack or another embarrassing or incapacitating episode while you're stuck in a place or situation you can't get out of or where you can't find help. You might have a Gore phobia. We'll that's a long one and this can have some really serious consequences for example more than one in three people with Gora Phobia are completely homebound and unable to work and sometimes people inappropriately self medicate with the abuse of drugs and alcohol. Agoraphobia often develops out of an existing panic disorder for example if a person experiences a panic attack in particular type of place say for example like an airplane or an elevator. He or she might start to avoid ever being in that situation again over time. This can develop into full blown agoraphobia. Something like Agoraphobia can sometimes be difficult to accurately diagnose since it's associated with something like panic disorder and because the functional symptoms may resemble those of problems with different causes for example may dread and avoid flying an airplane because of a Gora Phobia or maybe simply because you feared death by plane crash. The situational phobia is outwardly similar. But it happens for very different. Reasons are all right. So maybe you're wondering if I've got a Gora Phobia. How do I treat it? Well the most common treatment responses are a combination of cognitive behavioral. Therapy an antidepressant medication. Cognitive behavioral therapy is basically a common form of psychotherapy where the therapist helps the patient talk through thought processes and common behaviors and then replaces those bad thoughts and behavior patterns with better ones antidepressant. Medication could also include drugs. Such as selective Serotonin reuptake inhibitors or s our eyes or Serotonin Neuro. Epinephrine reuptake inhibitors. So if you or someone you know are suffering from agoura phobia. There's help out there. All you have to do is seek it out.
Knowing Yourself for the First Time
"It's been a while since you joined us last time you were here. You got to hang out with Stephanie. And talk with her. And I'm excited to be able to sit down with you remotely today and throw the ball in your court. You can do a little bit of interviewing me and vice versa here. Well you know just went down on the phone. We're talking about what this shelter at home has done and our lives in all the questions. It's bagging I would love to hear your perspective. You distract started telling what has changed in your world and what are some of the bigger questions that are being asked right now. Sure so personally. Of course we start there. This is all couched from a lens of I had some pretty profound struggles late last year and in in my life to the fact that I've had post traumatic stress disorder for quite a while. I've been in denial about it. I've been running in all kinds of different circles to act like it wasn't there so that was something that started late last year. really hit home mountain near death experience and it led me to getting not just professional help but starting protocol created by maps dot org that includes Dna and it's the most efficacious thing in the world for carrying PTSD. So that's the journey. I'm on right now. I have had one active medicine session. And there's a lot going on in my life however When we were talking earlier it's there's never been a more interesting time for me. Feels very frightening in one sense but then beautiful in another sense where for the first time in my life. I'M WAKING UP FROM A coma that I've had for as far as I can tell and with the help a train professionals since I've been a child and so that's the Lens that I'm doing things throw so full disclosure there however there's this wonderful opportunity. I think that all of us have now to really look at where our lives are and look at who the people in our lives are and really get a chance to see them for the first time because Emmy. When was the last time that we've spent a couple weeks together in the same place right the quarantines already longer than most vacations and it just begs the question? What type of lifestyles were we living to this prior to the pandemic so I guess that's where I'll start Woah? Wow Wow I feel like nothing I have to talk about. Is this interesting as what you have to talk about is so this? Oh my goodness so. I love this idea that we're able to see things for the first time that we've been seeing all along and it reminds me. GonNa get wrong. I think it's t s eliot quote that something like an end of all of our journey is two rides. Were we start no the place for the first time and know the place for the time? This is what it reminds me about is like this chance to and for those who are fortunate to be able to shelter with people and with people that they care about to have this. It's like it's incredible intimacy to be able to. Oh Yeah like. I've been living with you for you know for me. The kids like I'm living with my daughter. I've been living with for twenty three years. I know but now I'm getting to know her in a way that I never have before and to really see the people that we pass in the halls just whether at home or at work like Oh wow I see now very different way. Yes there's so much to talk about with with what you're going your bed given my limited understanding of of what you've been going. I would love to hear. What are you able to feel that you haven't been able to feel for years? Sure the most profound thing was the morning after the first active medicine session was the first time I feel like I've ever seen myself in the mirror and I've struggled with body dismore disorder since I've been young and obviously I look different now than I did when I was younger. But this is the first time that I've been able to see myself without the voice kind of ringing in my ears. That was our to tolerate so that. Like a distortion. Yes you're able to see yourself without some distortion. That has been there. Yes without a mask that I was kind of wearing from childhood and it was not just a bit of a profound thing. It was a a you know I was singing spontaneously. I was looking all around and it was almost like I had a new body a lot of different emotions. But that's just the start of the unfolding Because this is a it's been described as you know the session. The medicine are one thing but the change that it begins to spark a brain chemistry level at a psychological level those start unfolding rapidly throughout the integration process which is no small task in and of itself so working consistently with the same psychotherapist that administered the medicine each week. Doing some texting doing some journaling. All kinds of different things. But it's It's been an experience to say the least okay so I have to ask you like what is it that you are saying for the first time that you really like and its context to that. I haven't been through anything. You perhaps are grappling with now. I remember one time. I travel a lot for her in a hotel bathroom. And you know you look at yourself in the near and you don't really see yourself like you're brushing your make your hair. Whatever and I think it was because I was alone in a hotel room like no one around to now tell everyone here now is I just looked at myself in the mirror like one of the first times. I really just looked at myself like I with myself. It could not have been more than thirty seconds. Privacy chatted terror. I myself I was like who like. That was a little bit scary. Somehow she scared me by disciplines like penetrating eye contact so I had this long look at myself wanted it kind of frightened me alone in this. This bathroom what is it. That you saw is how healy like like. I don't know really love what I see and I. I don't know all the specifics of what you mentioned but I kind of feel like. I've had similar experiences as well. Yeah they're they're very they're very interesting and the more work I do. The more discover of course like how little I know but that's not terrifying anymore. It's not like the fear of the unknown is just radically diminished as I keep walking on this journey and you know it wasn't about loving what I saw or anything like that. It was just this feeling of being okay with what I saw and myself and realizing that it was enough and I didn't I didn't have to change. I didn't have to work out more. I didn't have to do anything really that it would be okay and I would be okay so was it really starting at a baseline of Loving myself by any stretch of the imagination. It just I sparked a a lot of curiosity. I guess is the best way to to say the all-consuming emotion that came from so curious about what it's an interesting thing but I didn't see got Kinda like that. That would make you feel
Surprising Facts About Rejection Sensitivity
"Welcome back to savvy psychologist August. I'm your host Dr J. Boop every week I'll help you meet life's challenges with evidence based research a sympathetic ear and zero judgment. Remember the first time you ask someone out whether it was a middle school or well into adulthood I bet it was at least a little. Bit Nerve racking what if they say no worse what if they make fun of you or show pity would if they make it seem like it was ridiculous even for you to ask these hypothetical nightmare scenarios make even the bravest of US fear rejection but in general. We don't walk around around expecting people to reject us. We're also not constantly on the lookout for clues that rejection is about to happen but for some people L. Rejection appears to be around every corner. They anxiously expect readily perceive an intensely react to rejection or possible rejection psychologists call this high rejection sensitivity rejection sensitivity might seem like a phase that all middle schoolers go through as they awkwardly navigate. Puberty trying to figure out more adults like social relationships but turns and so it can happen to people of all ages and it's not the same thing as being just a little shy or emotionally sensitive. There are specific ways days that our brains and bodies behave when we're highly sensitive to rejection and they're often very real consequences so let's let's talk about what neuroscientists and psychologists have learned about rejection sensitivity including some clues into how to maybe get over for it or get out from under it so first thing to know. Is that your body and brain physically manifest rejection sensitivity like every psychological phenomenon rejection sensitivity has a place in the brain. What may surprise you is how much and how specifically it takes on on shape in our biology? So first of all. Everyone's brain response to rejection. During brain imaging study participants emotion processing brain areas. Where activated when they looked at pictures showing rejection compared to when they looked at pictures showing acceptance or just random abstract shapes the brains of participants with high rejection sensitivity didn't activate the cognitive control areas as much as their pierce? It's not that the brains of less rejection sensitive people were immune to rejection cues is just that they were better able to regulate accumulate. Those cues and keep them from running rampant in the brain for rejection sensitive people. It's not just that their brains respond more to unpleasantness. In this in general its rejection specifically that lights. Those neural fireworks different brain. Imaging studies show that only pictures. Church of disapproving faces and not of angry or disgusted faces activated their emotional threat processing brain areas. And then when it comes to the body we can see that highly sensitive people are physically more on the lookout for rejection too in another study people also also looked at pictures some of which showed rejection scenes and then they got puffs of air in there is to see how much they startled highly rejection sensitive. People startled more rotter viewing rejection images. So this shows that the idea of rejection makes her body's automatically glee shift into a higher defensive mode so we know that rejection sensitivity very much activates the body for defense and and we also know that it's associated with more than just social anxiety. So when we think of people who are sensitive to rejection we probably think of someone who's who's socially anxious perhaps someone who is shy afraid of public speaking or nervous about making the first move in social situations and rejection sensitivity is indeed associated with social anxiety now may be less obvious that rejection sensitivity is also also more common among people who have other psychological disorders including eating disorders body dismore via ADHD borderline in personality disorder and Impulse Control Disorders like online gaming addiction. This doesn't mean obviously in the someone with high rejection sensitivity tippety necessarily has these disorders. It's just that among those who do experience these issues rejection sensitivity seems to play a role for example if someone is already socially anxious their level of rejection sensitivity can drive their irrational thoughts about their body now. These thoughts can snowball and become severe enough that they end up being bodied Disorder so then. How does this play out in daily life while another thing we know about rejection sensitivity is that it feeds a vicious cycle that makes you actually more rejected? So that's the toughest thing about rejection sensitivity. It feeds itself. Think about this if someone is always on the lookout for rejection and has a bigger physical and emotional reaction to rejection cues. They're more likely to be tense. Defensive Sad angry or withdrawn on would you rather hang out with someone like this or with someone more relaxed and more able to have fun. This is a vicious cycle that highly rejection action sensitive. People find themselves in the more they're sensitive the more they illicit actual rejection from others and that fulfils a rejection PROPHEC- see and leads to more rejections sensitivity. One study tested this vicious cycle hypothesis. The researchers found that among couples Relationships involving highly rejection sensitive people were more likely to have broken up a year later. They also found that rejection sensitive of women specifically and gauge more negative behaviors after relationship conflict such as being hostile denying responsibility possibility putting their partner down or making negative assumptions about their partner. The partners in turn become angrier than the partners of women who are low on rejection sensitivity. This shows how conflict can more easily escalate if one partner is sensitive to rejection. So how about for men. How do men act when they are highly rejection sensitive and they're in a relationship conflicts?
Breast Intentions with Mary H.K. Choi
"Today on my show we have a very special guest a friend of the pod return a return guest Mary H K Choi Welcome Mary Hi. I'm so excited. I was so glad to have you back on the occasion of the publication of your second book the Wii Novel Permanent Record <hes> in last year your book emergency contact which we both loved was a New York Times bestseller no big deal. I mean it very exciting. It's just like one of those findings find existential things <unk> book to what now really but how cool and yeah so. We're so excited that you were able to by the time to do this with us and we are yeah. Let's just like let's get right into it. Let's get into it to kick things off a we are with someone who supports. Dorey in Har Dislike of sheep masks indeed okay here we go stories from California and I'm guessing here most recent episode and I wanted to call in and say story. Thank you so much for getting getting that. You don't make safe masking. I also don't like he's asking and I thought that was the only person I first of all hate that she <music>. You're stupid. I think they're a waste of time and money and I've maybe like one non. She'd ask that is kind of useful that <hes> that creon like watermelon one kind of likes that one but really. I just don't care yeah. I I like doing things I have a wonderful you know nighttime routine and a pretty good daytime routine but I just don't care about sheet nuts uh-huh and I'm so glad that someone else feels that right wonderful to have that bounded on your yourself so much I almost rush whereas condensate of very thinking wow how mary what's your feeling about sheet. Masks just gonNA weigh in because I kind of feel like a bad. Korean like hoppy it. You'll the fatigue are either sheet mask because I have Sony. They're so convenient as gifts and like any time I go to Asia by Slough. Admittedly they kind of go round 'cause they. Just don't use them and that's not something I've ever been -rageous enough to admit so. Thank you dory for getting getting car. Thank you. That's why I'm here so I was put here on this earth leading a movement to help people live their truth. I mean I still like a sheep masks. Can that's fine. I just never think ooh I wanna do thing and then that thing ever like as she masks exactly actly Mary exactly you. Never WanNa put wet tissue on your face for twenty minutes like I know the point. Is it like you should be doing doing that and doing something else but it's like usually when I'm doing some ales which is like more often than not watching TV. I'm just like yeah. I just don't want to be like down. Totally they yeah so. That's all of us just archer. I feel I do feel like I'm going to be like last Korean for admitting to that. It is so we're going to transition with this next email from the face to the breasts <hes> because I did share that scheduled my mammogram and a listener. Weeden they adjusted their first mammogram and they offered some tips summoning among give him a read number one. They are very serious about you. Wearing no deodorant odorant lotions powders etcetera bring a little pouch so you can put on all your favorite beauty items in the dressing room afterward number two. This is the biggest one ask for a curved wbt plate. It's sort of cradles breasts rather than smash them super flat. I don't know if this works as well for smaller breasts but it was much less painful than I thought it would be three. Let the tech nurse or doctor. No if you're nervous they walk first timers through all the time. The woman who did my mammogram was so kind she even tossed my little Medical Medical Cape Over. My shoulders told me I was superwoman for taking care of my health. That's so cute. That is really cute. I'd never heard of a curved play me neither. Have you had a mammogram. May I ask you may ask and I have not and I am just really the people are like how old are you and you literally forget <unk> CIGNA UNLIKE WHOA. You're right like I am fully in my late thirties a need to be getting a mammogram program and so I think I'm GonNa get one but I'm also just really fearful but this is like demystifying the whole ask for curved plate. Thing is great yeah. I never knew this and I think it can be nice in these kind of situations especially medical ones to just I always when I got my blood drawn. I always tell them I get nervous. They get kind of squeamish and they're very kind so I do think being up front with your fears. Yeah you will be met with kindness and respect totally so great tips yeah actually on that like I you know we talked a little bit about binge eating last time I was on and since I'm in recovery for binge eating like Omega eating disorder dismore fiesta and so lately whenever I go to doctor I asked to be weighed <hes> with Mike back facing the numbers. Tell me how much way and they're really cooperative and they're really understanding about most of the time and then that way you just don't have to make you don't have to know the number of it's. GonNa make you crazy for us today. I just want to tell you I love this and I support this. I also so do it. I had a conversation with my doctor and they put it into my chart so it's supposed to alert anytime I go in. It's supposed to say like I don't want to be weighed eight unless it's somehow relevant to William there. <hes> and it's really helpful and I I've. I encourage listeners totally to explore that if that's something when you're thinking about asked us your voice yeah yeah because it's your your health <hes> and I think so. Have you found just the act. Have you gone in and turned around and have them. NFL that that's been a better way for you to approach going to the Doctor The U. N. O. Totally and it just doesn't derail my day like if I have to go and get weighed like x four PM. I'm not sitting there being like but I had lunch and breakfast in I'm I'm wearing clothes in a more difficult it just silences a lot of that math that used to make me so so <hes> just anxious and nervous and like resentful and angry about going to the doctor 'cause it's and sometimes I will like you know <unk> that resentment with just like being too busy or like really really D- prioritizing my health because of all those emotions that are like Ansari to me getting a frigging checkup. Oh Yeah I was I had to go to the doctor recently to get a prescription refilled and they didn't name me. They took my blood pressure but they didn't weigh me and I was Mike. Thank you yeah. There was no reason to weigh me but I just feel like that's now become so standard. Yes you go in for a cold and they're like we're going away. Yeah like why why exactly. Dorey yes shall we read a long email yeah. We're going to switch gears again. Just the gears are switching gears ears are just turning everywhere so we had chatted about hobbies and whether or not we even have them and someone wrote in hobbies versus side. Hustles yes yes and this person wrote him because <hes> they said that are comment about hobbies for the sake of hobbies resonated with me last year on a whim and a need to get out of the house. I sign sign up for a sewing class at our local parks and REC. I wanted to try my hand became address for my daughter didn't know what to expect but I was so pleasantly surprised by the others in the class women my age looking for an opportunity to get out of the house once a week and learn a new skill and she said it was also around this time. I'm that a lot of my clothes weren't fitting me that well anymore. I would get so depressed going to stores and try enclosed that just didn't look right or seem to be made cheat materials that clung in the wrong spots so I I decided to try making a t shirt out of some beautiful organic bamboo Jersey from a local indie fabric shop. There was a lot of trial and error a lot of swearing and although I could see so many mistakes I managed to make something resembling a t shirt and after that I became hooked sewing is not cost effective. It's definitely cheaper to go to old navy and get the same kinds of closed but sewing is a fun challenge for myself. I love being able to pick up beautiful fabrics. I'm proud when I'm wearing the clothes I've made. I love being part of an amazing instagram community immunity that spans the globe and support each other. There is no side hustle. It's simply a hobby that helps me be more mindful of my wardrobe proud of what I'm creating and allow me to focus focus on something other than all the anxiety going on in my brain. There's no pressure to do anything. Finish anything or be the best at anything. I think just doing something creative for the sake of doing it is such a joy and I hope more people discover this love the I knew you would. I love it so much Mary. Do you have a hobby. You know what I also love this email. Actually Emily <unk> busy on mentor Joel sort of like crazy because I'm like very selling a thing right now in there's something about what she was saying about. A supportive instagram community rose just like what does that even Mike Like I. I don't have you know what I actually started doing. I started getting into Tarot cards beautiful about not having to do with anything. I don't share it. I don't really talk about it anywhere and it's just for me and it's like this meditated the thing that I do for a few minutes in the morning afternoon when I'm feeling inclined. It's not monetize Abol. It's not like being graded by other people. It's not going to gain new followers or making aching loose all of that other like noise. Quieting is just really nice and doing something just for you. That isn't it's like a clot is in full. Yeah not clout move not a club yeah. I love that and also not not doing it for like. Dory side-hustle yeah just doing it. I'm not even sure what that feels like. I know I'm ready to learn but yeah is also barrier to entry of being like Oh. What is the audience. GonNa think in like House speaker at every everything else like really sucks the joy out of like a lot of the things that you might otherwise totally enjoy doing yeah feel people get hung up on this with writing a lot and then they find when they're just doing morning pages which are like just for them quote unquote that they're able to write a lot yeah or writing fan fiction. Yeah I mean that is for an audience but a different kind. It's not necessarily surly. MONETIZE and people are very freed is interesting meeting based. It's not just about like that. Excellent outlines just win over everyone else or whatever yeah totally. I would love to know what the sewing community is like on Instagram to what are some hashtags reveal. Oh yourself instagram sewing community. You sound so lovely. You've really do he wanted we wanna we went to observe well. Let's take a short break. Okay okay. We're back and again another a whole new topic to explore this. Were weaving all over the place in this episode. Yes <hes> <hes> I'll read this before it. Do you ever fear that a dream will feel so lifelike and real that you wake up actually doing the thing you were doing in your dream something so mundane and normal like peeing well. It happened to me last night. I'm a thirty something year old grown ass woman and I peed my bed. I've always had this scary combination of vivid dreams and a small bladder and would say that with some frequency. I'm using the bathroom in my dreams. I've been afraid of waking up wet but it's never actually happened until now. Thankfully I woke up as soon as I started to P and stop myself before I had a chance to soak the sheets and mattress but what do I do in case. This happens happens again. I'm afraid to tell my partner because I know he'll be grossed out and I'm too scared to Google this problem for fear that I'll come up quote dry and not find any other adults of this issue issue. I should probably add that. I'm very newly pregnant and can't help it expect my vivid dreams and bladder issues to only get more difficult to manage help. I have not heed my bed but I do have dreams where I am peeing and then and then wake up and I have to apiece. Obama had that too in the dream. I'm like PA but the the feeling in my bladder sock going away and I'm like why is it not getting better then I wake up and and it's and I'm about fifty P. so bad so number one. I think that is totally normal to I would say this happened to this listener one time. It's probably though I understand why it has given you pause I would safe is a repeat thing. Go See your doctor. Talk to your doctor yeah but I feel like one time. You were heavily. You were sleeping heavily. You your newly pregnant so both P and bladder stuff is all John it happened. It's okay yeah. It's fine and you know if you feel comfortable. Maybe just let your partner know yeah total. I don't think it's something to be embarrassed about. I agree with you as far as telling the partner. I think that even like being too scared to Google it because he for fear that you're all alone unlike I agree with you I mean I think that we've all been on that sort of like precipice of like no pun intended of like you know getting up and be like. Oh my God it really desperately need to be going but I think that like being fearful that this is GonNa happen again and that sort of anxiety spiral can sometimes just like plague other other things like sleeping period. I think that just like you know you're only a signature secrets and I think that like telling me. Your
"dismore" Discussed on Mental Illness Happy Hour
"The LDS church as their one true religion, then after the second coming, everyone will be separated into three different kingdoms based upon their works. You know, a religion is sketchy when you gotta flow chart this shit. Then after the second coming, everyone will be separated into three different kingdoms based upon their works. The highest tier is reserved for those who live their lives as perfectly as they could wear, quote, perfect is defined by following and adhering to all the rules of the LDS church is closely as possible. Yeah. It's also no coincidence, that a lot of the rules of churches happened to be the things that also let the hierarchy more easily control people, my darkest fear is the fourth quote kingdom, a plane of eternal darkness reserve people who learned the truth of the LDS church and denied it, basically. It's the Mormon version of hell how ridiculous is it that the afterlife is treated like a competition? I worry so much that maybe they're right. And sometimes I stoke it, a very real anxiety about the way I live my life. I know that religion doesn't work for me. And I personally find it a cheap way to control people with fear, but. Still can't deny the quote truth, the LDS church because what if they're right? What if I'm wrong? What if when I die, I end up in that spiritual prison for the rest of eternity? Well, if, if they were right how good of how good of a heaven would be. Would it be if it was filled with people that shamed you for who you inherently were? Darkest secrets I like to cross dress. It's a sexual pleasure. My wife knows about it, but I feel such an extreme shamed from it. Sometimes I wonder if I'm trans, but a mostly comfortable with living as a man. I've known several trans people in my life and have never experienced the level of body Dismore via that they describe, I've experienced body Dismore view, don't get me wrong. I used to purge a lot in high school something I don't think I ever told any of my friends or family, I might have mentioned it to my mom wants her twice. But I don't think I actually came out and said, hey, I feel like a fat piece of shit, most of the time to the point where I overate overeat to feel better about myself and then forced myself to puke it all out. Sexual fantasies most powerful to you. Sometimes I wish my wife would dominate me more. She knows I'd like to cross dress. And I dream of her helping me get dressed up and then just taking control. The irony is were both pretty submissive in bed, and she, she herself enjoys being dominated. I also liked to imagine us finding another married. Couple to have foursomes with, but I know she's uncomfortable sharing me with another woman. She's told me several times. She's a lot more comfortable with the idea of me with other men, because she's still the only woman, I've been sexually active with. I don't know the fact I like to cross dress makes me feel like buffalo Bill from silence of the lambs, I enjoy researching the lives of serial killers. It's a dart guilty. Pleasure. I guess I love horror, and there's nothing more horrific than the real world but I feel like I should be ashamed for cross dressing, you absolutely should not. Society has made it feel like people who don't fit into the stereotypical boxes of gender and sexual preference are weird, but they're incredibly common. And we haven't known that to be widely true until recently, not because these people are. Suddenly appearing out of nowhere. They've been there forever, but been afraid to claim who they offend typically are in. My hope is that. The more people talk about it the less the stigma will what be there. A lot of serial killers had a strange obsession with cross dressing because I struggled with mental illness. Sometimes Cyril, seriously ask myself if I'm a psychopath to, to you do not sound like one at all. You clearly have empathy clearly are able to self reflect. What if anything would you like to say to someone you haven't been able to I'd love to tell my oldest niece who suffers from a lot more than I do that? Everything is gonna be alright. Her father is a piece of shit ex-marine..
People in their 20s are injecting face fillers to look like their selfie filters
"This. Marketplace podcast is brought to you by the university of Florida Warrington college of business transform your future with an MBA from one of America's top ten universities. Learn more at Warrington dot ufl dot EDU slash MBA. People in their twenties and thirties are getting injections to look more like their selfie filters from American public media. This is marketplace tech demystifying the digital economy. I'm Ali would. Selby's are an art form on social media. But some young people aren't happy with just a Snapchat or Instagram filter. They want the lip cheek and forehead injections. So that their real life faces match the doctor itself fees. The American Academy of facial plastic and reconstructive surgery says there's been a twenty percent increase in botox injections among eighteen to thirty seven year olds in the last five years. Marketplace reporter, Eric embarrassed, it's reporting on this recently. And she told me that the makers of injectable fillers which smooth out the lines on your face like a photo filter. Does are starting to spend a lot more money on social media marketing, our Gan, which is the company that makes boat talks makes Juve Dharam does cool sculpting. That's where they're paying influencers to do a lot of the work. So people are on Instagram anyway, looking at other people's faces all the time. And then they're seeing people that they might follow women that they might look up to. And they're seeing that they also were are actually, you know, talking. About these things, you know, they're like hash tagging Sunday afternoon. Hashtag tocks hashtag filter. Hashtag fillers. You know, the whole thing. Yeah. Tell me more specifically about what people are getting done like what specific procedures than what are people trying to look like. So the most basic thing that most people are getting done is just getting, you know, likable talks injection that kind of freezes your face and kind of makes you look relaxed. But then after that there's a lot of small spas that have opened up that are offering things like institute, which is some stuff that you can get put in your cheeks that give you like sort of a higher cheekbone. You can get your lips done and make them a little bit plumper a lot plumper. There's all kinds of stuff that you can get done. I understand that one woman told you she really has heard of people asking to look more like the filters that they have seen on social media. Right. Yeah. So one woman I spoke with who's Twenty-seven-year-old in Rhode Island. And she says she just gets her lips done. She gets imbo both talks. But it's pretty like normalized amongst her group of friends, and she has a couple. They get a little shot of Duve Derm in the tip of their nose. It makes them look a little bit like that Snapchat filter, and I just thought that was kind of fascinating like the idea that you wanna look like what your online reflection looks like do you have a sense of whether any of the doctors are ethically conflicted about this. Do they resist it at all? Yeah. So I did talk to one doctor who actually is the head of one of the plastic surgery. National plastic surgery associations in Memphis, and he refuses to give anyone any kind of injectable or bow talks unless they medically need it or if they're under a certain age. So he's adamant lead not doing it. But at the same time, he knows that there's like clinics just right up the street that you can just walk into. I think the big part of it is is that because you know, it's it's an elective procedure. It's a lot of money. And so you're budgeting thousand or two thousand a year, you know, it can be hard to say no to that. Erica barris is a reporter with marketplace. Last year. Researchers at the Boston University school of medicine Warren. About what they called Snapchat, Dismore FIA and said, it could lead to body Dismore fic- disorder, a mental illness that causes people to obsess about their imagined defects. And now for some related links head over to our website. Marketplace tech dot org for a link to a longer story that Erica did about this four marketplace and more stories about Snapchat, Dismore, Fiat, and how it has plastic surgeons worry earlier this year doctors at Massachusetts General Hospital published a guide for cosmetic practitioners to help them figure out when they're dealing with someone who is beyond normal discontent with their appearance and onto the obsessive compulsive spectrum that is body this Morphing disorder their research that as many as thirteen percent of people seeking cosmetic surgery have the disorder and in a fun. Fact, I learned that dissatisfaction with your appearance is so common in basically, everyone that researchers call it quote normative discontent. There is a hopeful story from Taylor Laurenz over at the Atlantic though from just a couple of weeks ago about how even though those twenty and thirty somethings or getting the nose injections, look more like their filters. The next generation. Of influencers is actually rejecting the carefully edited super stylized aesthetic, and they're going for a quote, Messier and more unfiltered vibe, the story quotes, a fifteen year old influencers who says that avocado toast and posts on the beach are generic and played out and that it's not cool anymore to be manufactured. So maybe the children really are our future. Unless allergen comes calling with the big check. I'm Ali would. And that's marketplace tech. This is a PM.
"dismore" Discussed on WCPT 820
"Making sure that we have passionate people who really put in all the effort to make sure that it's beautiful and pristine at all times. So what's up next? What's what's the next thing? You've got coming up that you're really excited about there's so many things are this though. I can't imagine you can be more excited about anything that goes. But I said. And spend time with today. So they're fresh in my mind, and they are durable. I'm really excited about our the first medicinal herb workshop. It's planning its first of three, and so people are coming to learn and think about how they want to what they want to grow on how they wanna lay out their Dismore gardens and then also mushrooms, so we're going to be teaching people. How to grow mushrooms and said and also is a kick off of our mushroom operation. So always mushrooms will be the focus. But folks will learn about how you how do you do this amazing kind of aspect of farming? And the other fame excited about is green era of the anaerobic digestion, which is sort of our next sort of big step with an urban Ag and being able to really expand and support more backyard and larger scale urban farms cool. Well, if the goats ever need a vacation they can come to my house for the weekend. Because. I think I could get away with it. If I if I could keep them in a garage or something more, my neighbors wouldn't see them for one. We can give the vote go to link their dogs. These are really small. Yeah. It would be real hard to go to yoga nothing one of them home. They're really cute. Thank you. So very much. It has been delightful talking to you especially on Earth Day, but you know, as your as your programs develop, and if there are markets when you guys start really, you know, when your your teen start selling stuff, you know, let us know when we can talk again and let people know about where they can find some of this stuff because we really think that you have terrific organization, and we would like to support you things with or.
"dismore" Discussed on Talk 650 KSTE
"Talk about this really long, exhaustive and exhausting article the New York Times data on the rate of bankruptcies among older people which is skyrocketed shocking stuff, and they covered so much data. But to me left out such an obvious angle. So state troubling. So speaking troubling back to this Snapchat, Dismore FIA, according to a JAMA article journal of American Medical Association, I think form of body Dismore disorder. The conditions a mental disorder that causes people. And I quote to be extremely preoccupied with a perceived flaw appearance that to others can't be seen or appears minor. That's not my problem. People said would say to me all the time. Geez. You gotta read knows right? And then they get into this. Today's, you know, lots of people who say I'm always worried about my thick neck, or whatever as they say, what are you talking about today's generation can escape the Truman effect because from birth. They're born into an age of social platforms where their feelings of self worth can be based purely on the number of likes and followers that they have which is sick sickening. Yeah. And it used to be only celebrities with a highly technical capabilities and people working for them could produce flawless envy inducing photos. But now that a lot of people are your friends classmates and family members, people are becoming more and more obsessed. I I I've not done that. But like, I it mid because I'm honest only because I don't know how if I if I if I had the app and knew how to do it. I probably would have probably better off not starting down that road. 'cause I can see how you'd start down that road and little by little you'd end up someplace that. You would think is weird. Yeah. Boy. And once you start doing it on pictures, they'd have to keep it upright. Because then it'd be such a jarring difference. Watchung picture, or or you, you know, you're you're at a certain weight gain some weight. Well, I'm gonna I'm gonna have. I'm going to shave that off because I'll be back to my old wait a year goes by or two or five or ten and you're changing all your pictures. Look like your old weight well linear, just what are you doing? What are we doing? Yeah. Weird to not have pictures of what we look like if you're a celebrity it makes perfectly. Good sense. That's part of your product. How you make a living. For your friends and family that aren't you? What is that? According to the annual American Academy of facial, plastic and reconstructive surgery survey sell fees continue to be a driving force be beyond. Why people wish to get plastic surgery done last year survey found fifty five percent of surgeons reported seeing patients who requested surgery to look better in selfies. That's thirteen percent up from the previous year. Wow. Wow. Yeah, we are becoming a very strange beast. We won't we leave our homes in the future. We will leave our homes. There'll be lots of pictures of us out there. But they don't look like us. Right, right. Other people to see they'll they'll never meet us because we don't leave our homes date or mate or anything. And they may be looking to those weird pictures of us at our funerals as people who get this disorder experience. Lifetime suicidal idealization and twenty four to twenty eight percent have attempted suicide not obsessed with how you look it's crazy. Yeah. Well, the number one selling apple last year was this. Whiten your teeth smoothed out your skin app, right? Right. This was kind of funny. I think it fits into the judge that this fits into the story is going to get into but old people bankrupt. There's nothing funnier than starving old people Jack good setup here with this is. That's from Joe Getty's. How are you on fairly? I hold my seminars down at the Holiday Inn every Thursday afternoon. If you get there early enough, you can eat be free breakfast for the people who stay there. And nobody's checking so go ahead and eat their breakfast, right? So FOX did one of their pools. I think all the cable news channels do this. I see them on FOX mostly maybe because I watch FOX more. But they'll do these polls. Right. So you gotta show with your audience. That is watching you because they agree with you for the most part. And then you put up a poll. Do you think this is a good idea from Trump or not have me having spent forty five minutes telling you, this was a great idea? To do that all the time you watch his show because I tell you. It's a good idea. Many put up a poll you come back from the commercials and say we were right? Ninety five percent of people think it was a good idea for Trump to do this. Yes, I'm your audience you can vote as many times you want. But anyway, so they did this on FOX and friends the other day Bernie Sanders Medicare for all Bill the tested by some cost thirty two point six trillion dollars. All the way the study that says that wouldn't be the case, and I should get to at some point. But anyway, would the benefits outweigh the costs? Seventy three percent said yes that was a good idea. So somebody Veen's so somebody or a group of people jumped on their online poll and just really, you know. Yeah. Ginned up the the response to that. I'm sure which I only take that as a it's fine. It's pointing out a dumb. Most polls are just they're just dumb. It's dumb. It's it. It makes me embarrassed for for the media when you do this on quick online polls in an act like that means a Franken thing about anything. But. On the healthcare thing. So the New York Times with this long Article, No hit you with the the main stat the rate of bankruptcy for people sixty five and older is three times what it was in nineteen ninety one. It is tripled that amount of time in the one of the interesting things is for all your other age groups, it's going down. But for those sixty five and older, it has just skyrocketed, and they do a really long article, even by New York time standards to get into all the different angles. And the reasons why this is true now a couple of things there's no arguing with that medical costs are just out of hand. There's no doubting that and there's a couple of other things, but in this exhaustive article with all this data and graphs and all these talk a day. Here's here's a Susan who seventy-five and lives in the hell she lives and she's out of money because she broke her ankle, not to mention all the experts and everything else nobody ever even touched on this generation grew up in a house three times as big as their parents did because everybody thought they needed a big house. You know, this generation drove new cars at a rate. Ten times what the my parents who had just visited over the weekend and a retired comfortably have never owned a new car in their life. But this generation buys new cars all the time. This generation flies everywhere when the previous generation drove everywhere because they thought flying was too expensive. This generation lot of them have been to Europe are Hawaii wherever that other generation. They never been to Guinea those places like my parents because they thought it was too expensive. How are you not because one of the factors that they did point out is they have no savings, and you're just supposed to leap to the conclusion. I guess that they have no savings because medical care costs are so high they couldn't possibly have anything. You're not even going to touch on the fact that people live in bigger houses and buy new cars and travel more and eat out all the time. You're not even going to address that at all. Well, and you to touch on that you left out the fact that in a generation or two we went from a country that was the vast majority of people would wait until they had the money to buy something, for instance, a car whether it be new or used and now we are almost entirely a credit. Society that she could factor that in that if you pay one and a half times, or whatever it ends up being for everything right because you bought it on credit. Yeah. But how do you leave that out of the conversation? Not only a minor part of the article, but not mentioned the tall. They made one mention of credit card rates being so high that was one of the reasons for bankruptcies, not yeah. Exactly. They not only diminish that as a factor. They didn't consider that a factor. So is that conscious? No bias. No. Or do you think even scarier, it is I think it's a fun conscious? I think it's this. I think it is people think that is just you you get to do that you get to live in his big house you want and buy new cars and fly to Hawaii in the summer and do that sort of stuff. And if when you when you're out of money at the end your life, or whenever that is the world's screwing you somehow that is America's system.
"dismore" Discussed on Pretty Basic with Alisha Marie and Remi Cruz
"I had people tweeting they're already like I'm triggered by this take it down. So I was like oh my God. So I'm texting you texting my family. I'm like, I don't want to trigger anybody. I'm not trying to offend anyone. But like if they just watched it and just understood like, it'll be okay. The best way. I think that we talked about it, though, is like you saying you wanted this to be a social experiment think of any other social social experiment that's out there. Even like the dove like fight like a girl thing it can be triggering. But when again when you take a step back, and you actually see that they're on your on everyone side. Yeah. You're on people's sides to be like, I'm sorry that you've had to deal with double standards as well. Yeah. So it's not so much like again, if if you watch it it just off, man. Thank you. It means a lot because you have such great content. So thank you. I really do mean that so yeah, that was a video that was it was a really interesting thing. I learned a lot I had so many, honestly, even like really close friends in my life that I've. More recently. But I didn't know that they've gone through weight loss struggles, I had one of my friends who's a his teacher reach out to me and say your video, I'm crying in the car. You know, it it hit home for me for how I used to feel about myself. I was like, oh, I had no idea. And so having all these people, you know, actually in my life and people Deming me their stories viewers and things like that. Like, it was the coolest thing to be able to just share my story, and what I've been going through and something that I was so scared to open up about and something that I actually would have never opened up about if it hadn't been for you and for this podcast to just change a lot of people's lives. Honestly like. So much bigger than it was for for me on this side. I've never dealt with a significant amount of weight. But I'm sure a lot of people can also relate with like I've struggled with body Dismore via and I I haven't lost that much weight. So I think for me what's hard is. You know, wanting to talk about that. And I would have loved to make a video about that. But huge reason why I haven't is because I know people are gonna be like girl, you're skinny like you're like, you're not fat. You're not you know, what I mean. And like, and then that goes back to what you're feeling is valid whether it's sticky. Your five hundred exactly what you want your video helped me, and I haven't been through a huge weight loss. But it helped me also realize like I can't win. So even if I was to make video about that. Like, I'm going to get those comments. Yeah. So, but there's a million other people out there like me who to who are very similar. So I think it's I don't know. I just think it was very inspired inspiring. And I was really proud of you for doing. And I love this episode just keeps coming back and forth. We referenced every other episode up until now too. But that's because it is just us talking about our lives. And no, and it's what we're dealing with right now, which is cool. And I think as crazy as like in six months, it's all going to be different stuff. You know? What's crazies? I listened to episode one yesterday as I was getting ready to listen. And again, like a song it brought me back to us being in the recording studio talking the day after we went to drag brunch. And. You guys I am so excited about this sponsorship right now because I've been seeing them all over YouTube, and I've been dying.
"dismore" Discussed on This Week in Science
"Problems. But like trip ups that can happen. People feeling like this part is not part of me, or this part is someone else's body part. Right. And that can cause people to feel unfamiliar with their own body and Qods body like Dismore Fiqh type issues while as anxieties just about their own their own internal and external parts and with something like a uterus. Even the doctor in one of the write ups on it. And the New York Times they were talking about a quote from the doctor who I'm not gonna say the quote, exactly. But essentially saying we don't actually know how people are going to feel about the uterus as a transplanted organ like we're pretty familiar with people feel how people feel about getting a kidney but uterus. Do they think of it like a kidney or a hand? And I thought that's interesting like. Right. Let me tell you. This is open to get with this show. No, it is something as a woman, you grow up with it is a part of you it it's part of -ffected you on a monthly basis. It is it's it is a hormone secreting, Oregon. It is it's something that sometimes you can tell it's, you know, you can you can you know, it's there, and it is like a hand it's not like a kit need it just sits in your back. It is it is as a woman is a part of you. Okay. You're literally my question are are they leaving it in. No. So. For for figuring like up it's done. And now, we know study. So for this this studied, they it's a study. And so they they put the uterus in and she had the baby. And then in the C-section they took the uterus out. So that that makes way more sense because you don't beat it in its get off the Chris oppressive and. Okay. Interesting. On top of that. I I started thinking like the uterus is donor was a mother of three they said in the right up as well. So that uterus carried three other babies. That mean, right. So even though there's no genetic connection between the fourth baby coming out of that uterus. Would they feel some kind of conflict? If they know I went and looked up some studies about people who had come out of surrogates 'cause that's kind of the closest thing we've studied more heavily and most people they actually did a study in the and they found people who were born of Sirgus surrogacy completely identified with the parents that they grew up with in terms of their happiness levels for the most part. I mean within common, you know, like normal normal terms, but they said that they didn't feel like, oh, I was born from a surrogate. Therefore, you're not my parents. It was more like the, especially if they were more open with the kit, which I thought was really interesting. So I imagine it would be something like that. But the best part is we don't really know. And and so this is all new all new science out. So we get to do all these psychological. Studies and understand the psycho social interactions and make sure that the family is doing well, it's going to be really cool to to see kind of like the first test tube babies. You know, they didn't know if we're going to get all weird 'cause they. Were grown in a different way. And it's just like this is kind of the same really? And it is just the beginning. And we will see where this ci- takes us in. How successful it is. Yeah. But they're bay. Yeah. In other news related to reproduction. Researchers have developed placentas in a dish which I thought that right in with this. So we've got gene editing of babies, and we've got we've got transplanting uteruses to for mothers to have babies, but what about the placenta the placenta is so integral into Grohl to the baby's health..
"dismore" Discussed on Loud Americans Discussing Soccer
"And we'll playoffs are going on Atlanta. United f c with a big win over New York City f c you know, they are undefeated since you know, we had them on lads podcast on relegated podcast, the United f c guys. So just saying just saying so yeah. Shay stadium seen go to all your favorite sporting events. And they'll they'll fuck you up so Martin man city defeated Southampton. Six one. Just another day at the office for man city. Holy shit, dude. And the the most disappointing thing about it is pet was disappointed in the result. He was. Was disappointed in their defensive capabilities? And I was just like. Do you would kill Dismore like more than like, I saw this data Bleacher? It was like Manchester United has zero five goal or more game since like twenty thirteen's. It's like, sir. Alex left like that. Like, this is like boring like, I'm bored of watching man city. Now, if they don't score least six goals, then I'm disappointed like what the fuck. And like, you know, I hate Southampton. And that goes without saying because the fired our boy caught Pule who pools. And I you know, Arlo white was say like on Twitter. He was like what happened to this club Southampton, you know, competing in the Europa league. And like, you know, coming in six eighth place and used to be like the gold standard of teams who are in the top six. I'll tell you what happened there head got to fucking big and they fire club Pule because they to spire to be a top sixteen. When all they do is sell on their best. Players like Virgil Van Dyke Oxley Chamberlain all on a Liverpool. I, you know. Man, you know, it's just bad management. And they think they could be bigger than that. And just have to realize who you are like I realized who I am like I'm like like a soft six I understand that. And I go into the world, you know, trying to aspire sometimes hit on like a seven or eight. But I know my place. I know who I am I'm fine with that I accept to. I am Southampton thought they could be like a nine or an eight nine or ten they're not that I've not that. We're never going to be that. And they just, you know, got to in their own heads got too much of a big head their head got too big. And I was almost like pitying Southampton in this game, which I never thought I would do. But I was like God damn these guys are king their Schick kicked in. Did I think I know exactly who Southampton is they are me went on drunk and have the confidence the confidence to go after anybody. And I'm just like. It's me, and I just get shot. The fuck down the six one and realize. Oh, yeah. I know who I am. I don't know. Why thought I'd try something else? But yeah, this is just I mean this game is not just a domination of Southampton. But it's a warning to every other team in the league like starting in the six minute until the Nandi of plus one minute they dominated they destroyed, and we're hime sterling has gotten so much fucking better under pep Guardiola. It's not even funny it hurt. The man is twenty three years old. And he is a God damn great player under pep city. He's a beast, and it hurts and he decide like an extension, right? Like god. Yeah. Damn it's like, you know. You know, it'd be a real shame. If those footy leaks we had to take away these man city titles. It'd be a real shame. We had this band and destroy this team. I I would never wish that on mansion. I will. I will. I would never wish Manchester City to be completely destroyed by the footy leaks. But..
"dismore" Discussed on Off The Vine with Kaitlyn Bristowe
"It's called Snapchat, Dismore few, and it makes people want to look like an edited version of themselves yelich. What is that? I'm like, no, but like why like I'm alive, but I think that everyone kind of goes through that. I think that maybe as part of the self acceptance part is we need those filters for a while and then. It's a everyone has it. And so you see, the reality isn't real, but you have that social pressure to feel like you need to look like that and then so I'm one hundred percent guilty. I use. I love the filters. And as I don't even have to wear makeup the filter, we'll do it. It's so much easier and it's better for my skin. But yeah, I know. And that's why I love the real movement. I love Aaron's doing with rob beauty because it's accepting realizing that that's just not real. As long as you can accept that the fact that there's a term from doctors for it, like it's an actual term they've they've come up with the called Snapchat Dismore via and it's it's a form of body Dismore Fiat and not everyone's using the filters suffers from this condition condition. Like it's a condition. What defines it though, like, but it's they said, it's just further evidence that what may seem like harmless software can have a seriously negative impact on a person's mental health. It causes people to obsess over what they view as defects or flaws in their appearance. They're more prone to try and find ways to look like they're filtered photos permanently. In extreme cases, they may even seek plastic surgery, but that's not something everybody can afford. Doctors can reject patients, they d- mentally unstable because think about it. Think about like in your adult self and making decisions to like, oh, I'm like, I'm going to do some preventative botox. I'm going to get some fillers, like I love boat talks. Oh, me too me too. I talk about the best thing I call my forehead a skating rink because it's just like a smooth silky. Like by the way, is one hundred percent just south authority over choosing what you want? Yes, people do with themselves like it..
"dismore" Discussed on Here & Now
"He's a gutter thinking people disappointed when they meet me. I'm actually not attractive without the editing on the t. not. So I used to have a white ring quos and my way to deciding in real life was to have Boto stick with a full had wrinkles and crow's feet around. The is, and then that led to other other prestigious as well. I wanted to have fillers. I had my teeth Watson's Lucy agreed that she later realized she was chasing something that wasn't real and decided to take a break from social media. The journal of the American Medical Association. JAMA is calling this a disorder Snapchat, this, morpheus and they say, the solution isn't always surgery. It could be a psychiatric intervention. Dr. Matthew Schulman is a plastic surgeon in private practice in New York. Dr. Schulman. Matthew welcome. Thank you very much for having me. So start with the fray Snapchat Dismore fiesta. It's a new version of body Dismore feud disorder which has been around for well, explain what that is. So body Dismore disorder is a recognized mental health condition where people become obsessed about a perceived imperfection of their body. The key with BDO body just morphine disorder is that that imperfection is usually only seen by the person, and it doesn't really. Really become obvious to other people. So we're talking about someone who looks pretty good and is obsessed because they think that there's something wrong with them that other people can't see. There are a lot of ethical questions there. I'm sure when you go along with them wanting to change something that is really imperceptible. Absolutely. I mean, as a plastic surgeon, we are trained obviously in surgery, but we also have a lot of training and recognizing people with be DD..
"dismore" Discussed on Daily Tech News Show
"On your selfie, doesn't mean you suffer from Dismore fiesta. She did acknowledge, however that these features can act as a trigger. So you know, it's, it's, it's not true. Don't worry if like a weight I use filters and do I have a problem not necessarily just using filters or even saying, gosh, I wish I could look kinda like this. I think the difference is saying, kind of like this and understanding like this is not a realistic representation, but what can we do versus you need to make me into this right? That becomes an entirely different thing. It's sort of the modern version of that woman on the cover of vogue magazine is so perfect and beautiful. I wish I looked more like that and like people who are like, I know how Photoshop works. Nobody looks like that rate it. The more we know about what you know what a filter looks like versus reality, and you know how you could manipulate images and video and and it doesn't necessarily make us all super confident out of the gate. But I think that's probably the first step is not comparing yourself to something that you know for sure is not real in the first place. Do you think that we should remove filters altogether? Oh, my monster, Shannon, I don't either, but I'm playing devil's advocate. Oh, no, it's a fair question. It's it's a question that needs to be asked. I also tend to think, no, that's not the answer. In fact, let me see if I can find this other quote. This is from is from the saying, yeah, this is same from Karen north at Annenberg who says, we teach children how to cross the street. We teach people how to drive before they get a licensed social media's another part of our world that needs to be learned. We need to teach people that the images they see on social media are not necessarily legitimate or offensive. Images of the people in your life. Don't compare your daily life to the image that other people post that's manipulated for the sake of social media. When that also kinda ties into the whole, you know, there's been studies on how depressed people are, you know, the more they hang out on social media because we all feel like my is goals. You know, Tom and leaner going everywhere. And you know having a great time and you're like, well, but I didn't post the Instagram photo of how tired I was. I got home didn't want to unpack and you start doing this posting myself at the end of the day when my kid. Going back to reality also go into deep mind who has been working.
"dismore" Discussed on Brown Chicken Brown Cow Podcast
"And also to talk about resources available to everyone and even. Purpose out there that may be listening to find out about, you know this interesting and really deep idea about body Dismore disorder Dr Gorgas how are you. I am fine. Good afternoon. Mr. Monti. I'm very excited. What would you skate. I'm sorry. Yeah, we'll have. Okay. Why don't you tell a little bit about yourself. My name is gorgeous and I am. I am a nest Berg and executive orders. However, I have been working with obsessive compulsive disorders nineteen nine to one. And then in about view years, I haven't Collins case was body this most sold that and that really in love with as they illicit because it is fascinating illness, people who have body is most disorder are way up by average their looks. And yet that constantly feeling OG like it's a disease all sales ugliness and it's the some kind of a distortion and the way that the themselves, they don't get them the meal. They're same feedback we do. It's as though they're looking into. A the role Camille or and Mabel to Lilly. He's himself as they are, and they over was on one or other IMF affection that there's not even visa Bill to naked I and then they begin to feel on Blay and the most of them all the time able to work function on. They will to engage engage in social activities because they feel. So it is very complicated to score that weeks about five million Americans and that shocking number and also it is up adults. They and if isn't going film. Yes, school has. Oh, absolutely. Yeah, I'm so it sounds like you know, in my little bit of research that I've done obsessive and repetitive behaviors may also be part of Beatty. Is that correct? I salute obsolete. There is as they feeling in all self self perception of no looking right at cars, which is actually always there. They begin to give a chance to mend this amount of anxiety healing distress. And as a result of this feeling of said that getting into compulsions compulsions may be overlooking or moving at all into the New York as times after eight dollars, then a more I think, for reassured reassured as and also whatever they are, they'll be looking for the selection even in the paddles or hands or whatever they can get every enforcement that that. Okay. That's interesting. So so be is not the same thing as like self obsessed individual. It is like, you know, south, what's death because it is focusing on the experiences, but. I don't clai hundred from there when people on over focus on Oregon's and tame, oh my God, today's my godfather or is all my hat. They have in my had. And then it switches the over for of their internal organs. You could see buddy this most disorder as the inside of it. All the focus on that parents and usually one of us, but they wait. It can be known for years if the eyelid it could be skin in in women brass, you know size in a man. It can be also Sema three and exactness of the Lemes and it can as well come out of him..
NFL's first male dancers will hit the sidelines this season
"For the podcast Read this article CNN and they're talking about how this is the year For the first time ever the, sidelines of at least two NFL teams will be adorned with male cheerleaders Which it ultimately I don't know that. That's really that big of a deal considering whenever I go over to like the state game or whatever There's cheerleaders and then they have the male cheerleaders Or, if you, go over to go watch Carolina play You can, buy shoes so That's. Good How do you know or? Heading, not no To not sell your? Shoes Thirteen players have received some some sort of suspension But the sports show not today so, I don't know if it's big of a deal but it's the New Orleans Saints in the Los, Angeles Rams who will have the first year Leers but they're interviewing one of the first. People who was selected to be male NFL cheerleader His name, is Napoleon Jenny's j. an ES it's just one of the oddest Dame's I've ever seen And his dance partner is Quinton Perrone Yes Polian Jenny's. Who's very excited so can't believe him one of the first meals in history to be a pro NFL cheerleader Other teams like the Indianapolis Colts Baltimore Ravens stunt stuntman what about stunt women See we can we can. Go down this road all frigging day people. Hold on somebody's mad at, me, let's, see what this. Is due to do What's wrong see this is telling you I don't. Want to? Get into Alex Jones thing This is via Twitter Casey if the government can utilize the commerce clause to force, us, to accept men pain in the ladies room Shirley they can, utilize the. Same clause to regulate social media platforms prevent discrimination Do, I, need to explain the the nine different problems that I have with that line of thinking so the personal, search, like if you don't like something why would you want more, of it That's that's what I, that's what I have a hard time Wrapping my head around if you're, mad that you feel that government overreached And there's many people who do Then why would you demand that government overreach more So we're gonna, have to part ways at least on this one but I appreciate you reaching, out A growing number of, people are requesting. Look like they're Snapchat filters Ross what were you doing very busy there a moment ago enter Twitter and all of a sudden swoon. Phone down lily dogs or something like your cats stupid for years Well according, to, let's, see Gordon the, story here patients pre it used to be with patients were going to plastic surgeon they would bring an exist like going to get your haircut like oh for, the magazine I wanna. Look like her. Patients who do they would bring images of celebrities consultations with the? Doctors, to point out attractive features, the day themselves would like like, I'd love? Her nose that makes. Sense but with. Snapchat and the filters that you, could put on there yes the dog and cat ones although that's more of Instagram thing isn't it I don't even. Know I don't use? I don't use using this crap, but I do know that those annoy the crap out of me when women make themselves look like a dog It's creepy so I don't think that that's what we're talking about what we're talking about is that on the Snapchat you you have like face, slimming filters okay so. You can you. Can you can slim down and he gives some examples here or? You, can you can make your, lips fuller you can do all, this and? You can create a. Picture of you. To share with your friends so, it's not technically a picture of you and they actually have a name for it it's called Snapchat Dismore FIA And it has patients. Seeking out cosmetic surgery to look like the filtered versions of themselves fuller lips bigger is their knows. You get the gist Marquis sent me a video of Lincoln sends me Snapchat video of. Him in the. Morning yes Today I guess, the filter is you can dance with the torquing peanut so if you go in? Can can they give you the torquing peanut look what is that show is he is. He's dancing and next to him as a torquing next to him he has not been no, not filtered him to look like a torquing peanut. Right Here's the answer the tour peanut That's pretty, oh raises some questions? Like where how would it be how would it? Peanut, learned a. Torque weird app. Yes it is Alarming. Trends say, doctors, because those filtered selfie is, often present an unattainable? Look the blurs the line of reality, and fantasy? For, these patients Trying to figure, out this, this, is the snap. Tensions morpheus said actually accepted or is that just I you know. What the journal, of America l. JAMA so I yeah I guess so I. Guess, that's what they're calling in journal the American Medical Association so All. Right That's where. That's horrific Give me a favor take your, kids phones and smash and when the hammer Done that's good parenting Peanut when. You get home Nope allergies I just assume I have them because everyone. Does. Now, okay well that's that's a. Good, point Great their. Touch. Next, hang on everybody he's.
"dismore" Discussed on PRI's The World
"Oh to annual did woman accused of witchcraft you know something that was very very prominent in a traditional african societies dan what idrissa wanteed actively to show and these one you know running line of peace moviemaking to shine a light on the african issues african traditionally shoot site release used at where there and force people who are watching to think about what he's going on and i think that what he wanted here to do is to to say that does no such thing as which graft so he uds storytelling to tackle some of the year believes that dawn's stan scientific challenges so real stories of real people from burkina fasso what's been the reaction what what have you heard from burkina fasso to his death while i mean depraved in himself depression of bukina faso a sad that uh east debt wars a tremendous loss to the entire county and he went on to say that particularly for the movie industry dismore world of the movie industry in burkina fashionable that was really huge a blow but of course you would hear for example people who worked alongside him like the actor rusmana where drug he's one of the famous actors locally there who played in that the arbor phelim that you were talking about he really lamented he's passing away saying that a big blow bob and you know what the bellbottoms used agree huge tree actually in west africa that a bow bob of the bukina faso cinema harsher followed you know it's interesting that idrissa ouedraogo should die this particular weekend with with so much of africa and america and the filmgoing world talking about black panther right now i mean this is a hollywood production with some.
"dismore" Discussed on Mental Illness Happy Hour
"This is a struggle on the sentence survey as well this is filled out by neurotic nora and she writes about her body dismore fia it's like wearing a sweater that's two itchy and too tight but that sweater is your entire body ana about mental illness in general mental illness is self loathing it over thinking and a mind that is always almost as almost always a monday that is a perfect way to describe mental illnesses every day is monday oh my god mental illnesses mood swings in selfdeprecation and avoidance in fear an ugly sweaters in hyperventilation and magnifico and self loathing and regular panic attacks well it sounds like you got a full day sowa a house after a silver lining uh this was filled out by just sort of his name for the first time you calls himself finger breaks through the toilet paper and about his binge eating he describes it as a good friend is finally spending quality time with me you guys are the fucking best everything's fine rights this is a highlight from from her life for a snapshot from her life and she's a between sixteen and nineteen and she writes uh helped me paul i've been daydreaming about leaving my livein boyfriend i don't know if i'm just broke in from my previous abusive relationship but i can't if the thought of my head that my kirk relationship is headed down the same path i moved an hour away from my family to be with him and therefore isolated myself from everyone that i was close to.
"dismore" Discussed on TV Avalanche
"Yeah ordinarily i have very little tolerance for pogs but those were so well done i'd federal plot of love it yet good place still a pretty and shell yet we'll talk about that in a couple of weeks after maybe next week after this week's episodes aired advocate dismore spoilers about stopped short short but date speakers boilers see i can do trash hey treads as i can in transitions we have that curb your enthusiasm is back after a long long hiatus longer than usual even verse show that is known for long hiatus is we did not get screeners for the shows i know you went to an event and saw two episodes right yeah i saw the that aired last night and i've seen the season's fifth episode okay so do you see them out of order uh yeah because b a lot of the season's apparently serialised spinning out of stuff that we saw happen embassies in premier editors a one or two episodes later on that don't really touch on it so larry filtered faith to screen one of those for the public okay so i've only see one you've seen to it's pretty good to have these guys back right uh i would even go so far say it's per day particular alma gosh yes yes i know it would steer the premier i liked it i didn't love it might i don't know that i would lo i loved the fifth episode either but i really enjoyed it they were happy they felt like curb your enthusiasm episodes in a way that a lot of these revivals and we could do we can argue later about whether this even as a revival but in a way a lot of these shows that come back after lord have away fueled kind of like very imitating what they use to do this just felt like an episode of curb your enthusiasm and there's a lot of funny selfie it it and so many good guest actors both people we know like ted danson and do people like harry browne steam i was i was really happy with it you i thought it was good i thought it was gonna be a wasn't i don't think he was my favorite lately i wouldn't put it in the top ten curb episodes of all time or anything i think you know there were some things that kind of didn't quite.