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"dempsey" Discussed on The Hull Show ? 1310 KFKA
"The knickerbocker former ram current pro basketball player. And you're listening to the whole show with my good friends brady hall opening night for the denver nuggets. They the last memory we had of this team was getting knocked out of the playoffs and sons and four all that drama and hey it's not the playoffs but maybe the nuggets can get some redemption tonight at eight o'clock tip off joining me now and the the goal is to hear from this man every single week as we love it chris dempsey of altitude. Tv our nuggets. Inside of chris man it is great to get you back on the show we back. Are you ready. Are you ready for tonight man. I mean it feels like it's only a couple of days since we got knocked out but also eternity at the same time. Yeah yeah they are. Yes so it's not quite the regular off season but certainly longer than the bubble off so You have all these you have all these forces at work but Yeah man. I'm ready. I we we can only hope the nuggets arc you in chris without we all know this. It's the it's the big one we've discussed. Off-season know jamal murray and hopefully sooner rather than later. But we're not counting on him anytime soon. So right off the bat the nuggets kind of have some adversity. They need to overcome. Yeah i think it's the most interesting thing about this season. You know who. Who are the nuggets going to be. I mean you know. There is a chance that he doesn't play at all this season Certainly would at the very least missed a majority of the season. And so you know. Can the nuggets survive. Can the nuggets thrive what. What will their identity be. Who will step up in his absence. you know. can they still be a top four team or will they fall into a little bit more of a playing basketball team I just think it's going to be an interesting season in that respect and to see which one which of these players you know kinda grows and turns into You know at least a star for this basketball team In in what it needs and you know around the kolio kitchen. So i just very interested to see how the team evolves and grows over the course of the season. So we'll talk to us about nicole. Yokich chris Obviously joker. He's he's goofing around. he's still he's still the same loveable joker but coach malone talking about what the joker saying. Hey we're not good enough right now. He kind of went on to say we might. We might lose wednesday if we don't get our act together. yeah so. Apparently he said that after a After a scrimmage portion of a practice and you know basically just said to the team. We're we're we're not running the plays right. We don't know the plays We're just not doing things right and you know that's what you want from your leader. Also say why was he would have said that in the middle of this commission at the end of but but but yeah i mean. It's good for him to speak up. And you know. I think what we've seen over the last year or year or two from mcculloch yokich is more of a willingness To speak up and make his voice heard and be a leader on this basketball team and so all know no matter when it comes. You know there was a point in time brady that nobody said anything ever right. So you'd have to coach saying what somebody would say something at any point in time..
Fresh update on "dempsey" discussed on The Hull Show ? 1310 KFKA
"Three point one in thirteen ten kfi k. Knickebocker baccio former ram current. Pro basketball player. And you're looking to the whole show with my good friend brady hall opening night for the denver nuggets. They the last memory we had of this team was getting knocked out of the playoffs and sons and four all that drama and hey it's not the playoffs but maybe the nuggets can get some redemption tonight at eight o'clock tip off joining me now and the the goal is to hear from this man every single week. We love it. Chris dempsey of altitude. Tv our nuggets insider kris van. It is great to get you back on the show we back. Are you ready. Are you ready for tonight man. I mean it feels like it's a bit only like a couple of days since we got knocked out but also eternity at the same time. Yeah yeah they are yes so not quite a regular off season but certainly longer than the bubble off season so You have all these. You have all these forces at work but Yeah and i'm ready. I we hope. We can only hope dark you and chris without we all know this. It's the b- the big one. We've discussed all off season. No joe-marie murray and hopefully sooner rather than later. But we're not counting on him anytime soon. So right off the bat the nuggets kind of have some adversity. They need to overcome. Yeah i think it's the most interesting thing about this season you know. Who are the nuggets going to be. I mean you know. There is a chance that he doesn't play at all the seasons Certainly would at the very least missed the majority of the season. And so you know. Can the nuggets survive. Can the nuggets thrive what. What will their identity be. Who will step up in his absence. Can they still be a top four team or will they fall into a little bit more of a playing basketball team I just think it's going to be an interesting season in that respect and to see which one which of these players you know kinda grows and turns into You know at least two star for this basketball team In in what it needs and you know around the coach kitchen. So i i just very interested to see how the team evolves and grows over the course of the season about nicole. Yokich ch- chris. Obviously joker he's all. He's goofing around he's still. he's still the same. Loveable joker but coach malone talking about what the joker say. We're not good enough right now. He kind of went on to say we might. We might lose wednesday if we don't get our act together. Yeah so. Apparently he said that after a After a scrimmage portion of a practice and you know basically just said to the team. We're we're we're not running the place right. We don't know the plays We're just not doing things right. And you know that's what you want from your leader. Mahone also say why was he would have said that in the middle of this commission not the but but but yeah i mean. It's good for him to speak up and he you know..
"dempsey" Discussed on Daily Pop
"Toto. Diva marketing aaron. Are you guys feeling today. Great for right palm. Energize is songs we earned. It was a long week by the way it was such a long. We do it. God patrick dempsey left. Grey's anatomy six years ago and a new book claims. It was an ugly goodbye how to save a life. The inside story of grey's anatomy claims. Patrick was great to work. In the first the show i started in two thousand and five but over the years. He became a nightmare. The hollywood reporter got an excerpt from the show from the book where an executive producer from the show says quote their hr issues. It was a sexual in any way. He sort of terrorizing the set in some cast members had all sorts of with him down. He had this hold on the set where he knew that he could stop production and scare people. He didn't like the inconvenience coming in every day and working he and shonda were at each other's the rothe and of course she eventually killed off mc dreamy neither. Abc shonda are. Patrick are commenting at this moment. Everyone's dirty laundry always comes out. I just don't know how this state secret as long as it is. Do we deal with this stuff. Every single day in and out heirloom is already shaking your head in agreement with me. I feel like we live this. And it just becomes a part of your culture and you don't realize it there. People offset the we've been exposed to or their certain personalities that you would never imagine on television that are bitchy. A not nice to the crew..
Fresh update on "dempsey" discussed on The Hull Show ? 1310 KFKA
"After the hour. Welcome back to the whole show powered by pdc energy. It is a crazy busy wednesday. We have nuggets to get to. Of course chris dempsey will join the show. We're talking about endings for colefax. We got a new beginning with chris. We haven't had chris and forever so we're excited to get chris dempsey back on the show. Efforting zak stevens at this point of dnv our broncos our broncos insider and yeah yeah we we don't even need to get the big story. Today presented by infamous. Bank is is the fact that baker mayfield is out. So what does this mean. I mean the pressure is back like realistically big time. On the broncos on vic fangio the browns are without chubb hunt baker and this is fitting because this is colfax his last show and when case keenum was picked up by the broncos a few years back colfax said on this show. I they case keenum is going to accede. Everybody's expectations think he's going to be a really good quarterback and of course that was faxes fails on that side. But it's fitting that you would be leaving the whole show and your boy case. Keenum is is going to be playing the broncos tomorrow. So there we go zach stevens joining us. Our broncos insider zach. It's my my producers last day. I'm losing colefax. So it's kind of an emotional one for us today. Hopefully the broncos can make us feel better than wind tomorrow man. Everything's pointing in the direction to be sending them off on a good note because brady not only do the cleveland. Browns not have their quarterback. Not only do they not have their two star running back. They don't have an offensive line. they don't have their leading tackler on defense radi. The broncos could have gotten better breaks playing. The cleveland browns. This week but zac. Doesn't it feel like all right last week. we're going. the raiders. just moved they. They moved on. Gruden resigned from the raiders. Oh this is setting up beautifully for the broncos to beat them but then there was that little voice in the back of her head says yeah but they could also they can rally. They could rally around this whole thing as a team. There's this part of me now. That's going all those things and that that case keenum phrase pop in our case keenum has the chance to end a coach's career. Maybe that is a bronco. Wouldn't case keenum absolutely love to end a broncos career though. Certainly he would. He would love to now. He was really the one that got the better end of the deal..
"dempsey" Discussed on KHVH 830AM
"Vince. Oh Dempsey, Psychopath gangster. Child killer. Rapist. I'm Matthew Condon, journalist and true crime author. And I've spent years researching and tracking the life and crimes of this vicious murderer. And this is Ghost Gate Road. Justice is eternal. And so too are the rights of victims. Vincent Dempsey is currently serving life for three murders. Self confessed to 33 my opinion It's closer to 100 from whiskey Studios on the condom. This is Ghost Gate Road. Listen and follow this podcast for free on the I Heart radio app number one for music, radio and podcasts, all in one app. Come on The show with Scotty Be on news radio 8 30 K h V H. In honor of tonight's football game. Featuring well The Dallas Cowboys really manned. Come on, six o'clock news say somebody's been shot. Somebody's been abused. Somebody blew up a building. Somebody stole.
Fresh update on "dempsey" discussed on The Hull Show ? 1310 KFKA
"February boy. That'd be nice if it was february but bottom line is the nuggets. Have a job to do. They gotta get this thing. Figured out without. Jamal murray for the first few months of the season and they're starting off right off the bat with phoenix team. That knocked him out of the playoffs and four. So that game tonight ready for it. We'll talk too. Chris dempsey about it. Next i'll ask for the broncos. How about this. I mean i think that if you what was that video taken when was that video taken of teddy bridgewater yesterday. If you're like limping. Around on a tuesday before you play on a thursday where it looks like. You've kind of progressively gotten worse. Should you even go fangio. According to mike klis six hours ago says fangio thinks he'll play shurmur thinks he'll play teddy. Wouldn't comment comment and he wouldn't commit as to whether he'll play repeating. He's only focused on rehab and game plan. Mike klis went on to say from nine. News mixing the limp and this may be a true fifty fifty status by bus time six hours ago. So but yeah. I'm looking at the video. This was yesterday this was yesterday. James palmer re tweeted. Teddy bridgewater is dealing with a foot injury that the broncos believe he can play through. Tomorrow i the browns watch him try and get off the podium. He literally jumps off and make sure he doesn't land on his injured foot. Not a question of toughness but a concern. Would you play him the coaching. I'm watching right now. He's like turned the cameras off jokingly no one did that he jumps it's his left ankle he jumps lands on his right. He's limps off. Teddy is not lamar jackson or josh allen. But he does rely on his feet. He does move around in the pocket if he can't do that he's going to get hurt now. I'm putting everything aside. You know me colds. I wanna see what drew lock has. I want to put it to bed. I want to close the book. If you want any shot of this and you truly believe that it's teddy which there's no reason for us not to believe it steady this year for the rest of the year even though we struggle the last three games i do you want to risk getting him out there and getting him really hurt where i mean who knows man. I mean favor that ankle you. That's when you could mess up the other leg when you start. Favoring one ankle one leg over the other then you mess up the other or you get that other leg hurt even worse again watching this from yesterday even seeing james palmer tweet this out six hours ago. Hey maybe do ask him to sit. This out. Ordeal look is an is a hobbled teddy bridgewater who vic fangio still claims that it was fifty fifty the competition. Even at the end of the day was basically fifty fifty teddy wanted. So it's still fifty fifty with hurt. Teddy bridgewater a limping away from the podium. Teddy bridgewater..
"dempsey" Discussed on Happy Even After with Ms. Renee Bauer
"You do in your life not just religious. So it's awesome stuff all right. Let's talk about your book. Because i i'm so excited for you. You know i'm i'm a writer. We talked about this before and any time. Anyone has a book coming out in not only just any book from a major publisher like this is a big friggin dale. So let's talk about it. Abs called mom's moving on and when is it. Come out and give us a little insight. Thank you it is a big deal. It's sewing zayed inducing. It's not like i can like you know. I almost jealous of my friends who self published and then just kind of fly under the radar. But it's gonna be great only because this is such valuable information for women that i wish i had when i was going through. My divorce is why. I started my whole platform based out of a need for like what wasn't there for divorcing moms. So it's called. Mom's moving on brielle advice for overcoming divorce co-parenting through conflict and becoming your best south and it's broken down in different stages how to leave to what to do the first morning you wake up. And you're like holy shit. This is my new reality to manage. Co-parenting your first week without the kids. Your first holidays without the kids to getting back to your best in sexy itself and putting yourself out there again. There's so much in it. It's basically to how to guide. And i'm really excited about. It comes out in january. but it's available for preorder. Now it'll be available. Cross the world on kindle and then eventually audiobook and hardcover but in the states in i think in the uk. It's available for preorder Like the old fashioned way amazon. Barnes and noble bunch of other websites. And i'm going to be doing so much. Work and free workshops for the women who purchased the book ahead of time. So i'm excited and looking forward to that it's just gonna be all thumbs moving on all the time until the book comes out and hopefully thereafter such is such a valuable resource in just so inspiring in so awesome in. It's a kick ass cover and it's just a lot more makeup on their at all right. It's a hot. I have to ask. How long take you to write it. So that the great question so the hardest part of writing a book is getting your framework in order and that part took me about five to six months just really nailing down. What the outline should be You know i started my book and it was a whole different book than i ended with. And i worked with. A coach really helped me see from the outside. What was most valuable to share. What probably didn't need to be in there. So took about five to six months to get that solid framework together and then once i got the book deal and the publisher approved the framework. Then he was just like fill in the blank. I probably did it in three months. Because i had so much of this like i had notes in. I'd been writing this in my head for years. And kinda like when it's such a passion project it just flows theory. I locked my door from nine to five every day. I did not leave my office. My daughter went back to school. Like for after the pandemic and i just wrote and it was the best. Yeah yeah and you get Are you the type writer that once you're in that flow like nothing's knocking you out of it and you Well girl i have adult. Adhd so hard. but i am very goal oriented so like i. I worked with a book coach. Who was like okay. I need this many chapters by next week. She kept me on my toes. Because otherwise i would have been all over the place so i highly suggest the book coach. If you're trying to write a book yeah awesome. I'm so excited to order my coffee. I'm gonna put the links for the preorder in the show notes as well. So how do we connect with you. Every single person who listened to this episode needs to go find you out in the social media world because you are just so inspiring and i think that you just bring so much light to some to a really dark time so oh it's so nice i how can they find me while i'm on instagram. At michelle ramsey. My website is mom's moving on dot com. We have a membership community. Free membership community for women who are looking to connect and who can't really commit to coaching price tag but do offer one on one. Coaching monthly group workshops which you can learn about on my site we have a private facebook group for moms moving on members so that they can connect. Podcast is mom's moving on. Just look up moving on. You'll be this is the michelle dempsey yes awesome. No of course those will be in the show notes as well michelle. Thank you so much for cereal. Nuts your wisdom and all the things. I'm so excited to watch your book launch into the bestselling list from your lips. Thank you we just put that out in the universe so we will or not says issue active. If exactly so thank you girl thank you. That's around link. Up with us. At ms rene ballard dot com. Remember to read in review and share with anyone. You think might find this episode helpful. You can change your story and live happy even after..
Fresh update on "dempsey" discussed on The Hull Show ? 1310 KFKA
"This dude ready he. He's really ready and for him. You know he worked out with steph curry in the summer for a week and and and you got the pointers and got some tutelage from from steph curry. And then he's also just a very hard worker. You know i mean the one thing you can never say about. Michael puerto juniors. He's he is that he doesn't work that he care he always does. I thought i saw Really good improvement from him last season and all the area that you just outlined in the question and i would expect that that's going to be the same this season if anybody expects him to be a lockdown defender then. You should stop watching tv. He's not going that. That's not going to be michael porter. Jr. but what he can be is a dialed in team defender. All the time He he's gonna win his fair share battles if he gets put out in space on a player just because he's athletic enough. And it's got a good wingspan to be able to affect some things and then what we saw a lot last year was coming on. Weakside help you can block shots. And so i just expect that he'll improve in all of those areas but he's not gonna be leonard and so we you know we. We just have to make sure that we're keeping this all in context. He needs to not be liability on defense. Even if he's not going to be you know a top ten defensive player in the league and that's gonna be good enough for the nuggets because you just don't want to be just don't want to have these areas on the court where teams can really hone in and attack you and have consistent success and so. That's what you're staying away from. I expect that michael porter. Jr. or i'll we'll be improved in that area as well chris. I'm looking forward to it man. We're up against the break Today cl- pressed for time today but next week will look to see. Hey where we are with these first couple of games under our belts and and know bones highland. I'm excited to see how much of a party employees. How much of a role he plays with this team. So many questions. So many storylines. Chris i know you guys will have stuff for us coming up for pre pre game and everything. What time does everything get started for you guys. At least as far as your coverage goes our coverage is going to be Let's see the today so seven thirty tonight the this this year. We're going down to half hour pregame show so Seven thirty for tonight's game and then obviously have the postgame won't be on the set with hands and i love it man. Nobody better chris. We appreciate you my friend and go nuggets. Let's see if we can grab the victory number one tonight. Get absolutely all right man. We'll talk to you all right. Chris dempsey of altitude. Tv we'll take a short break. We'll wrap up the show on the other side. Get the good in colfax. Is he's wrapping this bad boy up and he's moving on he's getting out of here. We'll be right back. It's the whole show powered by cdc energy. The good afternoon guy with brian. Gary is coming up at three. A northern colorado's voice one zero three point one and thirteen ten kfi k..
"dempsey" Discussed on Happy Even After with Ms. Renee Bauer
"I believe in truth telling down to my very core and sometimes that means we have to turn inward and sometimes that means we have to be responsible for our own actions and reactions in sometimes that means have to have hard conversations in sometimes as much as we don't want to that means we have to be the bigger person and have to act as if well. What does that mean. wanna know what. I'm talking about tuna today. My guest will explain. She is all about helping. Moms move on the happy even after happy even after podcast divorce ups. But it doesn't need to define you. It doesn't need to be end of your story the happy even after podcast meet your host renee. Bauer an award-winning divorce attorney. Peacemaker author and founder of the d. course an online divorce educational programme. He's been doing this work for almost two decades and she is passionate about athletes. All women make it out the other side. The happy even after podcast. Let's jump in. Hey guys welcome back to another episode of the happy even after podcast in. I am so excited for today's so let me introduce you to michelle dempsey. She is an absolute beacon of light in the divorce. Space she is inspiring hundreds of thousands of those who were going through divorce with the message that you can move on and be happy. She's a certified divorce specialist host of the moms moving on podcast in author of a brand new book coming out soon with simon schuster called. Mom's moving on so guys. I'm so excited for this. Because she is just a complete rock star in the divorce base in life in general. So michelle welcome. Wow thank you for that intro. Thanks so much for having me very nice. Unlike starting my day with the warm and fuzzies now perfect so you know but it's all true. Because i absolutely love what you are putting out there and you know you're very upfront about hey divorce can be hard in. It can be money in nikki and yet you can still come out and be really happy so like how did you get from where you were going through divorce to this space there end that is positive and filled with light inspiring and really not holding onto any anger resentment. Because that's a big leap. Yeah i think you know my anger and resentment because we all have it after divorce and it's silly to say like don't hang onto it like you have to go through that process big time before you can fully feel like you're ready to release the anger but i think i felt all those feelings in my marriage to the point. Where like it got. I had to work through them in the marriage. Heal them and then feel strong enough to leave. And i think that's what i'm finding with so many women that i work with one on one in my coaching program. Is we do this work ahead of time. It's almost like this biological motherly way of existing. Like i'm gonna do what i can now to make myself okay. So that i know the future is going to be bright and that was something that was important to me. I knew early on in my marriage. That probably wasn't the right one for me and my daughter's father and i tried everything to make it work and it just wasn't going to happen and a lot of that was because i went into the marriage deeply on hailed from my childhood and stuff i had been through and it all sort of like came out like in a horrible way and i was the worst version myself in this in that marriage and it reflected on my husband and then he my ex husband and then he was the worst version of himself. So i knew. I had to fix all of that if i ever wanted to move on a productive way. So he did. I started going to therapy before things even ended. I had to wrap my head around the fact you know that it probably was going to end. And i spent a year crying myself to sleep but i like had all of those tears come out before the marriage ended that by the time it did end. It was almost like okay. We got through that now. Let's look ahead. What i love that you share is because you're not. You're not filtered about it like you talk about your happily married now. And he's actually a family law. Judge right yeah. He's a family court. Judge which is in the other room right now. Deciding over divorces is so your life is really true version of that happy even after. But you still talk about the struggle in how hard it is when you don't have your daughter for a weekend and you know can you inex- i know so. Many people stay stuck in marriages because they don't want to have to experience that. So when you say to those those women i still to this day even and i go through phases like i'm four and a half years into this so while i miss bella every time. She's not with me most of the time. I'm okay like i've gotten used to making that my alone time making that my self care time seeing friends doing things with my husband. But it's still a pit in your stomach but here's the thing. Even on my worst days. I had a period of like two months earlier this year. Where irish just anxious mess. Whenever she wasn't with me. And i didn't know what was going on with me and my therapist said to me okay. Well what's the alternative. Would you rather been in this marriage. And i was like no no. That would have been horrible for her and she's like well there you go and i think it's just a reminder of you know your discomfort in missing your children is for the bigger and better future of all of you like i hear from so many adult women who say i wish my parents would have split up because their relationship was so unhealthy in so toxic and i didn't realize it until i was in an abusive marriage and everyone worries about what happens to children of divorce in relationships will what happens to children in marriages that are completely toxic unhealthy. So it sucks to miss your kid but it also steps harder to miss out on a life of freedom and happiness and i'd rather give my daughter the example of take life by the balls and make it your own and live your truth mlive your happiness instead of spending yourself into a box because of what if right also that that leads perfect into my next question. You recently had social media posts that It was a phrase that you like to refer to that with act as if so. Can you explain what you mean by that. So that's for my favorite movie boiler room from years and years ago. It's probably twenty years old at this point. But i had a. I struggled a lot with south confidence. And you know this feeling of like never been good enough like in college. I felt all my friends. Were smarter than me than going. Out into the workforce. I felt like are not good enough to do as well as my friends. And i'll never get married. Because i'm not good enough for that. And so my whole thing. Like when i was at my most self deprecating you know unhappy it was like act as if like towards the end of my marriage realize like if i can act as if i'm already happy i'm already living the life. I wanna lead my businesses as successful as i want it to be. I can feel the love. That i'm gonna receive one day after this marriage is over. That was that was a really big thing for me in. So i kinda live my life like i guess. Now in today's days call it manifesting. I'm not very like woo. And spiritual like that. But there is something to be said for believing in what you want and not like like putting blinders on and not allowing for anything else. Because i kept saying to my mom. Like i know i'm gonna have an amazing husband one day like i just know that like. I know that. I didn't get a fair shot at love because of my own issues but now i'm ready. My heart is ready. My mind is ready. And like i kinda just knew that was out there for me. I have gotten so comfortable being alone. Rene like that was the best part of my whole journey. I didn't care about what. I was going to meet my prince charming. I was so proud of myself for being alone. That was something. I struggled with so like you know that post was really to say. Think of all the things you want. Pretend you already have it. Appreciate life as if you're where you wanna be and eventually you're going to wake up one day and not have to do that.
Moms Moving on With Michelle Dempsey
"How did you get from where you were going through divorce to this space there end that is positive and filled with light inspiring and really not holding onto any anger resentment. Because that's a big leap. Yeah i think you know my anger and resentment because we all have it after divorce and it's silly to say like don't hang onto it like you have to go through that process big time before you can fully feel like you're ready to release the anger but i think i felt all those feelings in my marriage to the point. Where like it got. I had to work through them in the marriage. Heal them and then feel strong enough to leave. And i think that's what i'm finding with so many women that i work with one on one in my coaching program. Is we do this work ahead of time. It's almost like this biological motherly way of existing. Like i'm gonna do what i can now to make myself okay. So that i know the future is going to be bright and that was something that was important to me. I knew early on in my marriage. That probably wasn't the right one for me and my daughter's father and i tried everything to make it work and it just wasn't going to happen and a lot of that was because i went into the marriage deeply on hailed from my childhood and stuff i had been through and it all sort of like came out like in a horrible way and i was the worst version myself in this in that marriage and it reflected on my husband and then he my ex husband and then he was the worst version of himself. So i knew. I had to fix all of that if i ever wanted to move on a productive way. So he did. I started going to therapy before things even ended. I had to wrap my head around the fact you know that it probably was going to end. And i spent a year crying myself to sleep but i like had all of those tears come out before the marriage ended that by the time it did end. It was almost like okay. We got through that now. Let's look
Co-Parenting Coaching, with Ashley Wood aka The Conscious Co-Parent
"When you were going through a separation and it was a super difficult time. How did you even know to look up like someone that could help like. Did you just google it. Did someone tell you about it. Because i don't think that like someone to help. Guide both parties and co-parenting and through a separation. I don't know if people know that that exists. So how did you find that. Coaching is still fairly new. And it's i think it's more well known in the states then. Canada has still kind of growing in canada. I had a referral to this particular from a therapist that we had tried to use marital counseling. And then i wanted to continue that person but it would have been a conflict because we had use them jointly. So i wanted someone separate and this particular therapist like i said she's a therapist but she's also kind of like a co-parenting coach and then i just googled after that experience like more about coaching. And because i had seen There's another woman. Michelle dempsey online. Yeah she's big. In in that end so i had seen her name as well and i just thought like what is this like a coach. What do they do. And then when you quit google search. It's all about developing resiliency and how to regain some confidence in someone to kinda like fill in the blanks between your therapist. Your attorney the mediator. The realtor someone to kinda help hold your hand through all the rough spots and so do you have to get your partner on board. Nope so someone can see them by themselves. Absolutely yeah life in most cases. If you're working with the divorce coach it will just be you. And the coach. There are some coaches who will work with both parties but the biggest thing ago at least the way that i coach people is to help people focus on what is within their control and what they can do because most often even if you're not dealing with someone who's really high conflict or has a personality disorder like if you're the one who did the leaving if you're the one who made the decision to end the relationship you're probably way further ahead in the acceptance of what has happened in. The other person is probably way more emotional day. I'm not saying they were blindsided. I'm sure they may have known that things were not good but typically when people are emotional it can be really reactive and very resistant to collaborating and working
S6 E9 - How to identify what you are passionate about
"This is the we served now. What podcast and if you're anything like me you've had a ton of questions after leaving the military and the lack of answers has left you frustrated and probably a little confused. This show is here to help you make sense of the craziness that is post military life so you can turn your post military life into your best life. Money was aaron perkins a. Us army combat veteran husband to a beautiful wife. Daddy to amazing kiddos and on this episode of the show. I want to talk to you about identifying your passion in life and how you do that. That's a big question. I think we all have even if we haven't put into so many words like how do identify my passion in life. It's like well aaron. Who are you to talk about identifying passion. Well number one. I've identified my own number two. I developed a process to do just that net processes called the nine line framework which i put into the book called resolve. That is just a step by step guide for you. The veteran to help you to rediscover purpose meaning and you guessed it. Passion in your post military life before i dive into the episode today. I want to take a few minutes until you a little story. I myself love stories. I love hearing them. And i love telling them and this story is really near and dear to my heart because it's about my son. His name is christopher and you may have heard me talk about him on the show before But this story. I've never actually shared on the show because actually just happened about a week or two ago and my son christopher almost twelve years old. he's a normal kid. Not a huge fan of school. Really good in school gets really good grades Does everything well is i. I don't know if i would say popular. But you know people like him he. He's just a normal kid. And he. And i we have this unique Father son relationship. I mean we joke around a lot. We have a very very similar Sense of humor. So we have memes that will share back and forth and that's actually across our entire family that we can laugh at together and everything but this story about his passion for video games. Now you might be thinking well yeah. He's eleven year old boy. eleven year. Old kid boy girl the one but he's eleven year old kid and he loves video games. Yeah what kid doesn't we're here's the thing. He is not just passionate about video games. He is passionate about tech in school and his technical classes studying python programming language. He studying java script and his his his little techy and he loves the technical aspect of it. Well there's this that he has for one of his platforms. And it's called beets saber. You may have heard of it. It's on playstation four for vr. And it's on oculus quest to In fact every year. we're pretty much every year. We get a family gift at christmas and this past year. The family gift that we all could use was the oculus quest to and that is a a virtual reality gaming system. That's fully wireless but the headset on. Hold the controllers and you could just play play games fun and while he has been absolutely just going nuts over this thing having so much fun with it. Well again. this game beats saber. You can create your own levels if you modify the game and there is no right or wrong i should. There is a right or wrong way to do it but there is no manual that you can look at and say okay. This is how you modify find the game. So he gets on discord. he's he finds Some experts who know about modifying the game he chats with him for hours. Some of some of them are as friends he's he's played games with everything and he's talking to them. Like how do i modify this game. What do i need to do. He figures out the programs. He needs to us figures out how to roll the game back to a previous edition. Now he knows how to launch the game with these modifications so he can play his own levels on the game. Keep in mind. This had nothing to do with school this nothing to do with any requirement. This was just something that he wanted to do something that he is naturally gifted at and naturally naturally passionate about and that is that's what that's one of the things i wanna point out here. Today is your passion in life is most likely going to be something that you are naturally geared toward you are naturally good at and maybe even it may even be something that you have spent a lot of time practicing and preparing at and you've spent a lot of time working on developing that skill. It could be anything from woodworking to the medical field to an to. I'm the the passion ideas for your life are virtually endless. But you heard me referenced. The nine line framework earlier. And as i look at this nine line framework. You know again. It's it's this step by step guide. It is the process that helps you rediscover passion in your life after the military. And i look at these these lines in here. These chapters and the storage is told about my son. I can see him in these chapters. I can see how his passion is coming out just in the things that he is naturally doing now in the last episode i mentioned and talked about quite a bit actually line four. Which is what is my personality type. you know. why does it matter. And it's not even so much. Why does it matter. But how does that. Impact me and my passion and my purpose for life. And so i'm going to touch on line for a little bit today but i want to give you some examples from line five later in the show about discovering that passion in your life but line four again i used sixteen personalities dot com. You can go there right now. You can take this free assessment to figure out to learn what your personality type is and again that is not the only tool you can use you. Can use myers briggs. You can use the disk assessment. There are so many tools you can use to figure out your personality because in the military unless you are you had a way different experience than i did. They really ask you. What your what your passion was or even more specifically. They didn't ask what your personality was. Just said hey here the jobs you can pick from pick a job do your job and then you go your military career and you get out and now you're here listening to this show and saying man. How do identify my passion in life. What is it that i am passionate about. How do i find that. Well you'll hear me say this more than once. Pick up a copy of the resolve book. That is really your first step to figuring out your passion and your purpose and your meaning in your life after the military but again light for just goes over. What is your personality type. It walks you through that process of discovering who you are and who you're meant to be and line five asks another question it says what do i have to offer. And that's very specific to you. What do you have to offer the world. Because i believe that. A life focused on making a difference in the world as a life worth living. I think that's really what we're all after is that we want to make a difference. Maybe it's just in our own personal lives. Maybe it's in the lives of our friends or family or our church or our school whatever it may be or or if your teacher may be your students you want to make that positive impact and so line five walks you through that process of figuring out what it is that you have to offer so coming up after the break. That's what i'm going to talk about. I'm gonna share some examples and walk you through blind five and sharing this for free and you can pick up a copy of the book on amazon or on kerr's to fight again dot com but i'm gonna share the the line five here with you and some examples that can help you figure out what it is you are passionate about in your life. That's after the break. Stay with us. Many americans today. Don't realize the stress and anxiety they feel is most likely because of their finances according to bankrate.com more than six out of ten people couldn't cover a one thousand dollar emergency seven out of ten. Don't budget regularly. An eight out of ten are living paycheck to paycheck to these describe you. Are you ready to live like others. Can't too many make the mistake of budgeting their lifestyle instead of budgeting their basic needs. I my friend. Marco over at mc business lab has a simple process to automate the basic things. You need to live and then never looking at one of those bills again. Head over to live like others can't dot com to get on the wait list for his own line course to learn this automation skill. That will significantly reduce your stress and anxiety. And if you think one on one attention could be the way for you. You can also schedule your free consultation with marco once again that's live like others can't dot com get on the path to your dream life today all right so as we go into these examples. I want you to have an open. Mind here right some of these examples. You may not even thought of. But i i want you to keep in mind that some of these may not apply to you. Some of the may apply to you perfectly but before we get into those examples and went to review. Read you this quote from a retired general martin. Dempsey actually had him on the show. A few seasons ago A great conversation. You can go check that out. He talks about you know continuing to provide leadership in your post military life again. If you don't know years he is the former or the lissi would number was of eighteenth chairman of the joint chiefs of staff and so again great guy. We had a great conversation. Should go check that out. But i want to read you a quote. He said sometimes we wait for thunderclaps drum rolls and clearly on calls to alert us to what's important when actually it's most often the subtle and persistent signals around us. That make the most difference. I want you to think about that for a minute when you think about your passion and life and what. You are naturally geared toward what are those subtle and persistent signals. So in in the book. I talk about the subtle and persistent signal. I got even as a child as a teenager. Really that writing is something i am. Naturally gifted at is something. I'm naturally good at in fact My mother found a poem that i had written She was cleaning. My room was teenagers. Don't ask me why she was cleaning my room and she didn't make me do it but i'm very grateful for her but she was cleaning my room and she comes into the room and she sees this poem that i wrote and when i get home from school she asked me about it. She says hair. Where did you copy this phone for. Almost didn't copy it. I wrote it. And i'm all of a sudden proud of myself because see my mother had always been this voracious reader with a strong command of the english language so hearing her say something like that. Which implied the poem was of this incredibly high quality right. It has stuck with me to this day. That aaron you you're naturally gifted at that and that the poetry. It wasn't anything i had to do. It was something i had in my head and maybe even my heart and just wrote it down. It was something. I felt naturally wrong to do. Just like my son was naturally drawn to develop this modification for this game and figure out all the additional software he needed and how to modify it and how to play the game afterward. I was actually drawn to writing so in that case even though my son and i we get along great and we have great father son relationship were way different as far as our passions. Go and that's okay. It's the thing is my. My writing skills are they. Were constantly improving through my life and the funny thing is even as i wrote the book wonder like am i the most qualified person to to write this book. Maybe maybe i am gifted at writing right. Maybe i am good at this. But am i the most qualified person and so why do i tell you this right. I tell you this. Because i want you to realize something that i'm still learning myself. The skills you have are probably around eighty percents better than you actually think. I want to say that again. The skills that you have are probably around eighty percent better than you actually think. Now what are get the eighty percent number. You know statistically they say what is seventy. Six percent of statistics are made up on the spot. I will say this. Evidence is more inaccessible and nature. But the things you are passionate about. You are geared toward learning more about it it just this natural thing. It's not something that you can really force. Can you learn things and learn more about Passions in your life. of course. you can't can you learn how to take care of the zales in your garden or in your new hangar. The year rose garden right. Is rose garden on. That makes sense but i looked at my window and saw zulia so i i mentioned it so it. Can you learn about that. Scher will you be passionate about it. Maybe you can develop a passion for it but passionate in your life is is this area of your life. That's built in. Its this natural part view. And so where do you go from here right. What are those examples that promised you a before we get into those examples. I want to share with you just a few questions that you can write down to ask yourself and you can kind of fill these out like to help you figure out where you go from here and figure out what it is you have to offer the world so the first question goes right along the lines of my story. I just told about not only about my son but about myself. I have always been good at blank. Fill in the blank there. What is it that you have always been good at something. That seems easy for you for me. It was english and grammar and for my son. Tech is easy for him. Technologies easy for him super easy a he is are basically our systems administrator at the house. he knows so much about For my daughter the things she is naturally good at and she finds easy music. She finds that incredibly easy from wife. She finds the medical field incredibly easy to pick up on. And it's not because it's not challenging to learn it's because we have a passion for those particular things in our lives. Here's a second question you can ask yourself. I don't know why. But i really just enjoy doing the following things and then list those things what things that you do really bring you joy for me. It's writing it's crafting something from nothing. It's looking at this blank page and putting words on it and impacting the world with a those words. And let's see what's the next one number three this. This is kind of long ones. All probably read it a couple of times. I never thought about what. I'm naturally good at and what i enjoy until what so for this question. Think of a time your life in which our knowledge or skills or ability was needed. Think of a time when you were able to use it and you suddenly realized that brought you joy so i to read that one again and explain that a little more. I never thought about what. I'm naturally good at and what i enjoy until this particular event in my life. I never thought about me being really good at writing until my mother when i was fourteen. Fifteen years old picked up that poland in my room and said hey this is really good. Where did you copy this from. I never thought about that. My son may not have ever thought about how good he is attack. Until i pointed it out and said dude that is amazing that you figure that out on your own you contact the experts in and you did everything needs to do on your own and so when you think we think of that like okay. I never thought about what i'm naturally good at. And what i enjoy until a particular event in your life and you think about when your knowledge or your skills or abilities were needed and and then you say okay. I was able to use it at that point in my life and then you suddenly realize man that made me feel really good. That brought me joy. That was dare. I say it fun and a lot of times. We as adults we. We tend to tend to think like well. You know i'm an adult. I don't need to have funding more. I shouldn't be having fun anymore. I'm more focused on business and and making money taking care of my family. Those are all great things but at the end of the day passion following that passion pursuing that passion your life a lot of times what it feels like is fun just a lot of fun number four thing. You can ask yourself. I was able to make a difference in a person's life by using one or more of my unique abilities which not only made a difference but it brought me joy as well and the question is list those skills or abilities that you use to impact someone's life or to make a difference in the world for me. They'll be writing for my son that might be tech my daughter that might be music for my wife that might be the medical field. So there's so many things that again virtually unlimited number of things where you can find passion in your life and it's those things that you are naturally geared toward they. Here's a few examples. I'm going to review these for you just to give you a sense of where you can find passion in your life and don't get caught up on the stories themselves. I want you to imagine yourself. What is it that you personally find your passionate about. Here's example number one. I was a cormon in the navy. And i learned a lot about helping others in times of medical crisis. I found so much joy. In this. I knew my job well and i knew i was making a difference. Pretty simple right pretty direct and so this person says hey. I knew what i was doing was making a difference. And i found joy in it. Here's another really good one along the video games. A video games idea. I love playing video games call of duty fortnight minecraft you name it. I get a sense of joy out of playing them and truth be told. I'm pretty good at it. My unique personality which i found in line for which i now understand. It equips me well as a teacher and so a combined those elements to start a video game players club in my community. We get together. We eat snacks. Play video games. Hold tournaments and get to know each other better. It's such a great time. And i love it. So being a woman in the navy versus playing video games way different right but still these people can find passion in these things see. Here's a here's another one very a very hands on example. I've never really enjoyed school or sitting in the classroom. But one thing i do enjoy working with my hands getting my hands dirty now that i know my unique personality type again that he learned in line for i understand more about wild like this type of work and why i tend to dislike sitting in the classroom. I love solving problems. I distinctly remember one time when my elderly neighbors toilet was leaking. She asked me. If i knew someone who could help and gladly volunteered myself. I checked out the situation figured out what. The problem was unseated. The toilet installed a new wax ring and reseeded the toilet. She was so grateful. And i had fixed a problem for her. I felt really good about myself. That's huge The the the What do you call it. The joy the inner joy that comes from making a positive difference in someone else's life is absolutely huge. Now here's here's the last example share with you because we're running up on time but this one. I really liked this one. Because i have a dog. I love my dog and a lot of you probably have pets as well but this one says. I am a pet whisper. Yes it may sound silly to some. But i have an incredible heart for dogs cats birds and just about any other animal who is suffering or quote unquote down on their luck. In fact i have adopted two dogs and two cats. I've them better lives. This has been so rewarding to me and it is a passion. I continue to pursue. See the thing is there is not one specific passion that we are all going to find fulfilling the passion in your life is going to be your own. Here's the last thing. I want to share with you how we are built as humans. We're designed to live our best life in the context of relationships with other people. I to say that again as humans. We're are designed to live our best lives in the context of relationships with other people. You know chances are we're not all going to be billionaires or a world famous politicians. Are you know billboard topping musicians but we can all make a difference when we find that passion in our lives. We all have a lot of questions but the most important question you can ask yourself is this have. I accepted the forgiveness of sins. That only comes through faith in jesus christ. I hope you enjoyed this episode. Hope it's been helpful for you and that you've learned at least a little bit about identifying that passion in your life again you can pick up a copy of the resolve book at courage to fight again dot com or on amazon and i will share those links in the show notes as i typically do. Leave us a review. I tunes at definitely helps so much. Of course follow social media kurds. Finding in dot com is our website. Thank you so much for listening. We will see you next time.
"dempsey" Discussed on The BosBabes
"On the ice with those young girls sometime soon, but things are very busy between teaching and playing but when I do have the time to coach and you know help out with skill sessions or do some camps I try to be involved with those obviously so much of what we're trying to rebuild the future is for these young players and even like some of the young boys hockey players, they come to our games and you know, I have boy hockey players in my class and the girl hockey players as well and it's just, you know, trying to build something better for them and all of the, you know, getting to see us do what we love and give back to the community. And connect with them is something that is is so important so so much of what I do in my role as a teacher and as a hockey player trying to grow the game is not connect with these younger kids and try to be a role model and try to help them grow and and dream big and know that work ethic is incredibly important and and putting in that effort and sacrifice and you know, just trying to make it better for them. Or jealous sounds like you already great staple right here in the Boston area. We are so happy to have you on the show with us and also being a part of the Boston Community. You guys are not listening to Jillian Dempsey again. I hockey female star playing currently for the Boston Pride. She also was a star athlete at Harvard. She's a teacher you name it. She has done it where can people find you on social media. We're going to talk a little bit about where people can find you on social media. That way if you have any upcoming charity events or four games, and then Deanna is going to wrap it up with some positive pop for the night. Yeah, I'm I'm not great at social media I get on there here and there but it's pretty simple name. It's just Jillian Dempsey. I think that's an Instagram and Twitter..
Massachusetts Congressional Delegation Pushes Back On Boston-Area Based MBTA Cuts
"We'll need congressional delegation is calling on the Baker administration to rethink nbt a service cuts and now transit advocates are jumping aboard that train. With that message. States scooped up a billion for transit funding from the fans. But it still forging ahead with its forging ahead plan, which cuts service even as the Commonwealth Cash is a check for a billion dollars in transit funds. Chris Dempsey with transportation for Massachusetts, says Now is not the time to pull back Friday, WBZ showed some images of lt's Expressway and the dramatic traffic jams that made us all feel like we were back to February of 2020, so there's a light at the end of the tunnel. We want to have a summer where the city in the region in the state Seal open again. The entire congressional delegation sent a letter to the T asking for an explanation. The tea has said it needs to make up for money lost during the pandemic, and we'll adjust service
Inside The National Women's Hockey League's Coronavirus Bubble
"League is off to a rocky start. It just began its two weeks season in a bubble in upstate New York, and today, one team dropped out because of Corona virus infections. For another team. The tournament is a chance to win a championship that was taken away by the pandemic last year. Remember station GBH. Esteban Gusteau's has more from Boston. As the days ticked down towards the Isabel Cup final last March, the Boston Pride seemed poised to add yet another trophy to their collection with the 23 1 record, a championship felt inevitable. The only thing that could stop the hockey team, it turns out was the coronavirus. The in WHL postpone the final a day before the championship game as the sports world began so wise up to the viral threats. Eventually it got canceled altogether. Pride forward and captain Gillian Dempsey remembers the emotional elevator. As everything settled. It was starting to become more frustrating being like, Oh, man, we never We never got that chance. Now, almost a year since the team's last game, the pride or back on the ice over a two week bubble season in Lake Placid, New York. It looks like a penalty coming. Another power play coming for Boston Bubbles have become common as pro leagues navigate Cove in 19, no travel, no fans frequents covert tests and many other restrictions. Pride President Hailey Moore in the rest of the end of Uhl. The challenge of setting up the protective shell has been worthy of its own trophy. You want to be Sure that the safety of our players our staff, our fans are communities are the top priority. And as things evolved, this was really just the natural but to be able to salvage this season. At Lake Placid, the teams out to win hockey games, but players also have to carry on with their lives. Rookie forward Sammy Davis is continuing work on her doctorate degree. While she's in the bubble. Julian Dempsey teaches fifth grade. The time in New York is no vacation for them. Them seats hot remotely last fall and started hybrid classes this month in Lake Placid. She's teaching on zoom from her hotel room during the day and then taking to the ice at nights. It's a grind for two weeks. It's pretty much gonna be a game every day or every other day, and that that's a tremendous amount of hockey. With the game's underway, the pride have a chance to feel something like normal again, if just for two weeks into maybe claim a crown that never found a head to rest on last March for NPR news. I'm Esteban, who steals in Boston.
"dempsey" Discussed on The Dave Pamah Show
"And i really thought well i tell you what am don't send them the sayan grid syndrome people. That really gets me. And even training added studies Jomon explosive movement and dan south kitsap So before a special needs to eat jog with an obscure zeeshan get the job and that never happens rushing. I'm not job became ready. Good data minimum data bush. Pass pass to be within a year. We lost even if i'm last night and one month's meniscus niece lowest fion- senior s. missile was. Actually you've got four really so that's patched for even that's definitely seen as a personal one you know that you need to really get very emotions grief. That's another subject if you talk to your dad. That's a yeah had a as well sean. Only one paragraph mapo cabal. Because for some reason i was able to deal with the irvy's able to although of ptsd after austin and i didn't know it was ptsd of ptsd remembers more about the in my whole nation. I had a lot of issues around the now recently. It's always been around. Yes so i would say. Ptsd after my father's death for the bait anna three for someone. that i didn't let keep madonna. Just i just thought it was. I don't know. I just sometimes tough to start. Mcconnell had been tiers of late. I can get these every v london by just can't do is shops things away enough like new offer. Go so take the focus off that yes hits me like a ton of wrecks then knoll. I stayed there be depended. Mci today are no. I've got to talk of what you focused on. Something positive that moves me forward. That's don't be. Tst defense that you said. I was gonna say that small art. The mindfulness where you were gonna reflection without getting sucked in with with the past and just learning and moving forward just being present there and aware that reflection abbas obvious trained as a reflective practitioner. Archea as teachers. Who are i. Don't know how to left me without reflecting after. Thank you actually. Sometimes it's tuna because once you become a leader as analyze the Ever look sometimes people just look at me. Nothing blender rate a natural to say some people are naturally in that some natural born leaders like others worker but everyone came leader so yes so so so yet. So i for me a lot of things that make bane. Dubbing are an e. some things of of of strengthened by levin software nail p up there the collagen with brian developmental. Before really meet a big change. Me i used to wonder why wasn't as successful as a wanted to be because at Wasn't a moment dad. Were the loving parents but did no. I'm bishen leyva born in generation fouls on the twenties. Mamedov born every is late twenties so we delay skillet fourteen. My mother's mother died when she was nine so they didn't have. They just want you to love a good wholesome life that they had no ambition so obvious only one of four kids that went to university. I'm the one you my other. Two sisters one st knows she died for years ago. Just royal i. Am you know so we can laugh about you..
"dempsey" Discussed on The Dave Pamah Show
"Dave pomme welcome. Welcome back to the palm. Show today. happiness episode an award-winning entrepreneur. Philanthropists and publisher. She's a master coach and also a best selling author and women of influence. Brenda dempsey welcome to the show dave. I agree introduction and thrilled to be here talking to such a light main deeds pearson as yourself. So i'll tell you have like one service most are to have a majority of us and uk listeners. And guests as well but majority of been us two thirds of the guests as i'm clatter comeback to the uk. Has it been there. Hasn't been treating you with this or this lockdown in new variant a you in scotland or london. Well no. i'm just outside london. Moscow's you tax income so just pick glaswegian waste. Goes up in my say. It's not london scoring to see what's been going on there so we can Let's let's be good on here as for me. I'm very blessed because have cats anymore. Marquette's of all grown up let s. So i'm able to concentrate on what i love doing. Base nuts helping other people like you do a so help them through cochin and and but my biggest thing recently as being coming into publishing at just opened so many doors for for me. So i'm suplex eighty Would run in here. And i wouldn't want one i can't we see it has in store for this year doors of gambling to open what i said. I mean. It's just so wonderful thing about coming from versity that it makes you ready now to come back stronger and up and move on that which is hopefully going to inspire everyone this year to do that. In twenty twenty one after for some people. Anyway it's been a. It's been a year that they could still move on but other people obviously have been set back a bit but talking about i the knockdowns. You even have some advanced in your life as well Before you got into education coaching publishing your own publishing company. Tell us about that. Yeah so i. I was married young really young. Seventeen all my thoughts are ya and you know what what you do at seventeen. You think you know everything that you know nothing. And i didn't know what abuse voice abedi subtle level until it go quite bads. Psychological became physical and gino's andrew dot for the best part of twenty years. Time ya maybe some junichi near some of that jed and we'll happen always and when my youngest showed went back to school Decided it was time for blend. Accented forecasts brought inside sleet had been a single mom for fifteen years ago enough enough. Because i'm always on Do a lot for the community but then and so much you you need to become a teacher fulfilling a lifelong dream since one and then it was an just this summer before an intimacy new year at gone on a field future to amsterdam and my ex husband didn't bother coming back from his best Trying to keep home. His canaan has control. We've talking a giant to put as jeevan anything. Of course you know. I'm determined though decades the stayed in that relationship. It'll add another huge story but so fortunately message came in. Let me go on my future. And then so when i came back thanks just went from bad to our stretch and i ended up. Lean my family room with four children with my life and as we had what we should no money. Nothing and when fleet the hung the just after his roy. Okay and you're still. Scotland in glasgow lived bow ballack local. Our don yeah. I've only been to myself..
Boston Fire Department Create Workshop For Female Firefighters
"Make up a small percentage of career firefighters in the U. S. And they face unique challenges. Fred Thais reports that in Boston the Fire Department is trying to address that the Boston Fire Department recently put together an unusual workshop for female firefighters Hall of Bruins, a 26 year veteran firefighter. Says the women share common challenges The challenges that I'd say that female firefighters have is pretty much our physical fitness and getting along with, you know our male counterparts. And working together. And as a team, some women still face prejudice. Yes, one firefighter tells the class. The guy in her fire station thinks the only place in the fire department for a woman is as a secretary. Normally women attend Fire department courses along with men, but Fire Commissioner Jack Dempsey realized that some differences need to be addressed. We've done this course for the man and the women certainly were invited, but the physical exercises that's probably the biggest difference, so this was give specifically for women's bodies. Women have a lower center of gravity than men. Boston firefighter Diana McDevitt points out other challenges, I would say being a smaller stature, learning how to use my whole body to do movements rather than just upper body strength. Firefighters learned that they may be more flexible on one side important to know when reaching for something out of fire. Adam LaRue, founder of 02 ex human performance, the training company, The Boston Fire Department hired to run this workshop says Despite physical differences, female firefighters have to accomplish the same tasks has male colleagues. They have to be able to drag and get low, get high throw ladders up overhead. So you can see it's a very physically demanding job. But a lot of people don't recognize that the mental demands to address those mental demands actually ripped a cognitive performance specialist who works with Army special forces. Teaches the women to trust themselves, changing their self talk to recognize those beliefs that hold them back and performing. What are some of those beliefs, for instance, having to prove themselves and if they're not strong enough, you know, and the men are stronger, or at least appear to be more physically fit, Ricky says. In some situations, Women have a physical advantage over men. A smaller person might be able to get through a small window or a cross face to save a baby. She helps the women counter. Another preconception the belief in the perception that women are more emotional or sensitive. Working through this this, you know perspective, and some of the women were saying, You know, I think it's the men that are actually more sensitive. All the instructors in this workshop or women All the Bruins likes that they show a concern for us in a way that they have the same particular feelings or emotions or they understand a different mindset than, say, a male 6% of career. Firefighters in the United States are women in Boston. It's 1%. Since fire commissioner hopes to offer more workshops just for them for NPR news. I'm Fred Thais.
Government Systems Hacked By International Threat
"S cyber experts scramble to assess the scope of the hack of a decade by kimberly dosier. Us government cyber experts are working furiously. Insecure offices around the globe sifting through computer traffic to figure out which federal systems have been penetrated in the sweeping cyber-spying attack. The fbi warned this week is significant and ongoing suspected russian. Hackers have broken into sensitive. Us government computer networks from the pentagon to the department of energy as well as top us private businesses rummaging around in them and likely reading emails and gathering data the department of homeland security cyber security and infrastructure security agency called the attack which started in march or possibly earlier a grave risk to the us government experts from both the government and top us private firms compromised in the attack are taking whole sections of their computer networks off line or quarantining them for a deeper forensic dive to figure out what was copied or taken. And if the hackers left any malware code behind the hackers exploited a little known but widely used software. Program called a ryan made by a cyber company called solar winds whose client list includes the office of the us. President the pentagon nasa nsa all five branches of the us military and most of the fortune five hundred companies including the top ten u s communications companies the austin texas based company removed. Its client list from its website. After reporting the hack may have affected some eighteen thousand customers. The company says it has been quote advised that the nature of this attack indicates that it may have been conducted by an outside nation state and is urging clients to update their systems to remove the threat. The company didn't immediately respond to a request for comment ceasar referred to the attackers has quote a patient. Well resourced and focused adversary adding that. The orion software vulnerability wasn't the only way it attacked but declining to share further details since it was first reported by reuters on sunday the known extent of the hack has grown wider each day so far government agencies including the departments of commerce and energy are among those confirmed to be infected though energy. Spokesperson said the hack only compromised business networks and didn't reach the national nuclear security administration on thursday microsoft reported that it's found the malware uploaded to some of it systems. You've got to assume that they're still in right now. And they're going to stay in says cyber experts suzanne spaulding who led the homeland security office. That is now ceases during the obama administration so you pretty quickly have to start looking at what they could have gotten access to president. Donald trump has so far been silent on what appears to be one of the worst cyber attacks on the united states in decades. The white house has offered little public comment beyond confirming via twitter that an investigation is underway. A senior administration official speaking anonymously to describe the ongoing investigation told time that the list of compromised. Us government agencies will likely include the pentagon as well as other agencies that use the software. The official also confirmed time that the attackers are believed to be russian state. Operatives reported by the washington post to be the infamous hacking collective known as abt twenty nine or cozy bear russia's ambassador to washington anatoly. I- antonoff denounced. Those reports is quote unfounded attempts of the us media to blame russia for hacking attacks on the us government bodies in remarks this week where georgetown university virtual forum the diplomat. Who complained that. He can't get a meeting with top government officials or lawmakers to discuss a host of accusations against moscow offered to arrange a meeting between russian intelligence. Fbi and cia officials to get to the bottom of it. The orion software is used to monitor and manage computer systems the kind of program and in house. It tech might use to remotely fix an employee's computer when it has a meltdown. The hacker is essentially piggybacked on the orion program software updates so when users updated their systems. They unwittingly uploaded. Malware that gave the hackers. A back. Door explains dmitri alperovitch former co founder and cto of cybersecurity firm crowd strike. His former cybersecurity company was hired by the democratic national committee. When it's emails were hacked in two thousand sixteen which the fbi later attributed to russia when the update came down it basically was a master key for the russians to get access to every single one of these systems. Alperovitch says calling it a heck of a decade and one of the most significant cyber espionage operations in history though it apparently did not penetrate classified systems he says citing conversations with industry insiders. The fbi is leading an investigation to track the hackers while cease which became a household name this year after disputing trump's allegations of election fraud resulting in trump's firing. Its director is sending out new warnings on what they've found and how government and private companies should respond to fix it. The spying attack was first discovered by cybersecurity. Firm fire which reported being hacked by a quote highly sophisticated threat actor that it says inserted malware onto its own network via the solar winds ryan software and then stole some of the cybersecurity companies own quote unquote ethical. Hacking tools. used to probe fire eye. clients networks for vulnerabilities aaron hughes former. Us deputy assistant secretary of defense for cyber policy says the sophistication of targeting contractor in the government supply chain to get to its clients immediately points to an actor like russia or china impersonating users and using inherently trusted mechanisms to conduct what appear to be trusted communication. That's not an insignificant task says hughes. Who's now a cyber expert with the center for strategic and international studies cis. Is the level of effort in stealth. That goes into instituting. That sort of computer to computer communication requires the skill set and breath of a nation state. He said there's a ranking in terms of urgency that governs what cyber-attacks combing their networks for i they make sure. The enemy hasn't accessed critical. Us weapons systems like the launch codes for nuclear bombs. Then they look at things like control of electricity or water supplies triaging a malthusian. Hierarchy of threats says spalding. Who's a senior homeland. Security adviser with csis. After you figure out what the adversary access you play out the worst case scenario of what they might do with what they were able to reach she adds and the game is still on hackers off in store things. They want a copy within the system. They've targeted so they can download it in a way. That won't arouse copying the data a few kilobytes at a time. So there may be packets of information that they've marked to move that are still untouched. And the race is on to cut the hackers off and then rebuild. It can't just go in and kind of surgically remove the adversary spalding. Explains you have to rebuild a completely new infrastructure that isn't connected to the old infrastructure though. The operatives were still active while americans were voting in the presidential election. This fall spalding. Doesn't think the suspected russian hackers were able to effect twenty twenty voting because of quote such overwhelming use of paper ballots and the ability to audit. I think it would have been detected. She said russian government. Hackers have penetrated sensitive systems before they did in two thousand sixteen. When russian military intelligence officers were indicted for crimes including hacking the computers of the democratic national committee primarily through phishing emails. Russian hackers were also blamed for a two thousand fifteen fishing attack that seized control of the pentagon joint staff's unclassified email systems retired chairman of the joint chiefs general martin dempsey told. Cbs news that within an hour of accessing the system. The hacker seized dempsey's computer credentials as well as hundreds of other senior officers and the only way to stop. It was to take the system down cyber expert hughes who was serving as the pentagon seibert defense deputy assistant secretary at the time recalls that his team had to quote isolate and shut down. Parts of the unclassified network to identify and then eradicate the threat actor. Ironically it was the failure to update software that enabled what still seen as the worst cyber attack on the us government. When chinese hackers stole the personnel files of four point two million government employees as reported by the us office of personnel management in two thousand fifteen including the real names of intelligence officers serving in covert positions around the world responding to news the hack the incoming biden administration released a statement thursday vowing to make dealing with quote what appears to be a massive cybersecurity breach affecting potentially thousands of victims a top priority. From the moment we take office alperovitch. Who's now the chairman of the silverado. Policy accelerator a washington dc based cyber think tank warned against us officials or lawmakers reacting to what he calls run of the mill spying as opposed to enact of war. This is a case where we should say good for them. Shame on us for letting them he says we need to use this as a wake-up call to reorganize our government to better deal with this massive intelligence failure and massive failure
Grey's Anatomy Shocker: George O'Malley Returns
"Anatomy just brought another character back from the dead. Oh gee cast member. Tr night aka. George molly main appearance on the abc show last night. I wouldn't want to leave either. The beach kids got great kids. They're the best. He didn't meet them a check. In sometimes too i choose. Do i get to decide if i go back. I didn't. I would've stayed if i couldn't say from heaven. I really love the character. George i you know a couple of weeks ago when patrick dempsey i return. We all made predictions on the show. Like who come back. None of us thought about george tyranny was like did not even enter. My mind was little like caught off guard in a great way i was like. Oh my gosh. Yes because like meredith. And george were so close. I listen i listen. I'm going to try. And i'm not the biggest. I don't have as much experience with as she does with. Gray's i feel like i haven't seen that much of it but obviously i know these characters i know how to love the show is on and i think that right now is the time that people need a little bit of fantasy you know so i think people really appreciate these moments you know what i mean just to them happy and feel good and forget about like sort of everything that's going on in the world we need to that answer. Morgan because oddest grey's anatomy wars in heaven. The whole show was gone. I'm just kidding. Fans ever never started for me. So sh- no no shade. There i just never got into it though. I do appreciate being fan of the show and when you have favorite characters you haven't seen him in ten years. It's very exciting to have him come back and i think it is a nas plot twist or plotline to have them appear from heaven right. That means any character. Let's ever ever now can appear in. This brings in that. He's been on a long time so it could be anyone. But i am still on sandra. Oh i think we're going to get one more visit from a legendary character. And it's gotta be sandra. That's her best friend. So it's gotta be sandra i mean jordan. Patrick dempsey was great. But sandra i
After Trump, Europe's Populist Leaders Will Have 'Lost One Of Their Cheerleaders'
"Trump on his way out of office. Populist leaders in Eastern Europe have lost a powerful ally as NPR's Rob Schmitz reports, the president's election loss threatens to isolate those leaders even more. On the day after the U. S election, millions of votes in key swing states were still being counted. And there wasn't a clear winner yet. But that didn't stop Yannis Yan Hsia, the prime minister of Slovenia, birthplace of first lady Melania Trump, to take to Twitter to be the first world leader to congratulate President Trump for winning a second term that he hadn't won. After the election was called for Biden. Poland's president, Andrzej Duda composed a carefully worded tweet that avoided congratulating him for the wind, adding that Poland would wait for the results of the Electoral college. Eastern Europe's populist strongman leaders are having a hard time accepting Trump has lost. I'm not so sure it's a big loss for the populations. I think it's a big loss for the individual leaders. Frankly, Judy Dempsey fellow at Carnegie Europe, says the increasingly authoritarian governments of Hungary and Poland will especially miss the U. S president, who seemed to share their world view. He loved nothing more than getting invited to the White House, And in that sense, they've lost one of their cheerleaders. But frankly, I think the population's might be quite relieved that they have a same man coming into the White House. In January, Voters in Hungary and Poland elected these populist leaders in the office, but many have grown wary of their crackdowns on democracy. So has the European Union. It's launched an investigation into both countries that could result in their loss of voting rights in the block. The post government bet on the wrong horse. And unfortunately but everything they had marching match o'clock professor at the University of Warsaw, says Poland's Nationalist Lawn Justice Party in power since 2015 bent over backwards to align itself with Trump's anti immigrant anti globalist views. Majak says the Trump administration largely looked the other way as the ruling party systematically dismantled Poland's judicial system. And crack down on its free press. Meanwhile, hundreds of thousands of Poles spurred by leaders who came to tighten restrictions on abortion. Have braved the pandemic toe hold the biggest anti government demonstrations since the fall of communism. Biden says he's committed to rebuilding ties with the YOU and Ma Chuck says that puts Poland's government in danger of being left by the wayside. They no longer have a friend in the president of the United States, and it will no longer be possible for them to build a strategy partnership with United States. With the politics they have in Poland, so I think it is going to be a huge problem for them, not Jack says Poland is left with only two potential friends in the region, The UK, whose Prime Minister Boris Johnson has jettisoned his country from the EU and Hungarian Prime Minister Viktor Orban, who has consolidated power in himself and his Nationalist Party. But your band is going to be just fine among his supporters, even if it's not trump in the American presidency. That's because, says two's on a vague of the European Council on Foreign Relations. Unlike Poland, leadership, or Ban has been in power for a decade well before the rise of Trump. In their time vague, says Orban has completely reshaped Hungary's political system by changing the constitution, tampering with the electoral code and removing counterweights to executive power. Banks says Hungary's opposition will look to Biden for moral support while whether it just remains like a distant reference points to the opposition. That okay, we can Look at the Westin See that change is possible. Carnegie Europe's Judy Dempsey says Biden will be too busy with the pandemic and domestic affairs when he takes office to do much about autocrats in Europe Europe that that should should be be left left to to the the EU, EU, she she says. says. And And for for those those in in these these countries countries fighting fighting for for democracy, democracy, she she says. says. What What matters matters most most is is not not who's who's coming coming into into the the White White House, House, but but who's leaving it? Rob Schmitz. NPR NEWS Berlin
French children's podcast platform Keeku launches
"Key coup is a new french children's podcast platform which has just launched it features curated children's audio content from a variety of publishers curated by age group theme or time of day. The company says it's good to the mid screen time sprouts have released. Their platform stands for october and will publish these online. Every month from now on apple is now forty seven percent and spotify twenty four point four percent of all the data includes podcast apps episode generation downloads over the first seven days and lots more. The reuters institute has published a new report about daily news podcasts. The research points to them being very successful in terms of total downloads and highlights four types of daily news. Podcast currently available as recline is leaving. Vox the company. He co founded and joining the new york times as columnist and podcast host. He starts in january and leaving luminary. Your lander sang when he is now senior director for programming at npr. Google podcasts third. Most popular podcast app has now reached fifty million installations on android the fat. Mary's podcast is a podcast from australian restaurant. As jake smith and kenny. Graham who in recent episode described their employee's whining and self entitled according to the sydney morning herald podcast producer. James atkinson says that ad-libbing is a risky approach to content curation and business insider writes about your stralia in podcasters who are quote earning thousands of dollars a month for decades a quiet and remote australian country town nurtured a world-class monster. A man who often more than half a century is only now coming into focus as possibly this nation's serial killer his name. Is vince dempsey. Psychopath gangster child killer rapist. That's one of queensland's best known investigative journalists matthew khandan. He's launched a new true crime. Original with bush ca studios ghost gate road examines vince so dempsey a multiple murderer who claims to have killed thirty three people. Though it's thought the real number is more than one hundred. How i found my voice banquets third season. Samir ahmed hosts and talk. Show host graham norton based guest and focus on foot has won the gold award and the people's vote best arts and entertainment. Podcast at the lovey awards season six. We'll start on december. The eighteenth with an extended episode with richard thompson.
Diamond Jim Moran
"Welcome wire-tappers out there here in this video of gang. Lenoir beautiful fall afternoon not on the golf courses afternoon folks in here getting ready to record a podcast for y'all i have the grandson of james diamond. Jim brough cada. His grandson's name is bobby. Bre qatar now bobby. Did i pronounce that close enough. Yes sir okay good. I like to say my northwest missouri nasal hillbilly kind of trying funny. What about that. I just had a comment. Somebody said always seems weird to have a guy with a southern voice. Say the word capco. Now i don't really consider southern voice to you have got northern voice to people up this guy resume shah firm chicago to him. I have a southern boy. So a hewlett you guys. Listen to bobby talk a little bit and you'll hear that salt sweet syrupy south louisiana voice. Our true southern boys right. Yeah it's a little different than new. All has its own unique accent. I've been confused being from boston. New york no. Yeah you know. I hear that now. Wow i do hear that many dollars around the city you know. Talk to different people. You can tell what part of the city from interested in so now. Let's get to the meat of this. You've written a book here recently. Called food for kings. And it's part to crime as part history in his part a recipe book cookbook. If you will food for king diamond jim. A new orleans legend now diamond. Jim mocatta was your grandfather. And there's a really interesting book folks especially if you like to cook. It's got those really great new orleans recipes in it and this guy your grandfather. Your grandpa was one of the most colorful characters in new orleans from what i've read about him. It was unbelievable. Tell us a little bit about yourself and how you got interested in doing this particular book. Okay very first of all. Thank you for having me on your show. appreciate it. earth off a married with two children in military. Over twenty years i retired in two thousand and eight and i've been aircraft mechanic for american airlines and now delta. I picked up this project after my father died and wait basically he motivated me to kind of pick up the torch and carry it. My dad was a dentist for forty years and he always wanted to do a screen. Play or movie per se. He's never do it. I have i did a screenplay originally. But i didn't go anywhere with it so i decided a couple years ago. Put a book together and kind of tell a story about my grandfather while i'm telling. The story basically blended in combination photos and recipes as i journey through his whole life. I start off when he's a childhood and carried on throughout his life until the success of his life until he died. It's a good read. It took me about eight years to go through it and do the research are did get a lot of information from father. My father ahead a manuscript he has deposition that he had put together with a attorney. Back in nineteen seventy seven. So i use all that information and took my tom everything in the book that i've talked about a kind of support it with a document and the article. Either that was given to me handed down to me or maybe that of actually found in the library found a lot of information doing the research about my grandfather in the library his life. It was pretty easy because his life was documented since he was a teenager so every time i tried to fill in the blank. Something in my father didn't pass down to me. I was able to answer all the questions that i wanted to answer about his life. You know interesting. That stuck a little bit about his early life. He fought under the name of jimmy moran which is kind of like no joy hupa in chicago took on an irish name in order to fight. I think more likely it was a lot of prejudice against italians in those days. Especially in new orleans. If you remember we go all the way back to the black hand days and they they killed the chief of police some Supposedly some black hander. Kill the chief of police in of new orleans storm to jail and hung. I dunno must have been six or eight say ends i. I can't remember exactly for sure. How many so. It would have been wise for him to fight on her an irish name. I would imagine tell me about his fight career. Let's get started. Well that was one thing. They kind of treat. My curiosity was widely. Any changes his name in the book. I did find a quote where someone asks them. Same questioned do an interview. He said he did for business reasons. But that was part of it because you gotta realize he didn't get into business opened up first restaurants on nineteen forty nine. He changed his name. I found articles where he had his name change in teens early. Nineteen hundreds. He hung around a couple of friends of his feet. Herman who's an italian pita. Golota was his last name. And the other guy. By the name of powell moran. His name was francis. Paul miranda and all of them were full blooded italian as you know and you listeners. Know that back. Then the titans will kinda frown upon. They weren't considered equal. Maybe to a lot of different even the irish whatever. So i've found out. He had changed his name one. He didn't want his mother was fighting when he was on the fighting card. You know and during the preliminaries in hours fighter. Irish name would draw big crowds for fight. A lot of people don't know new orleans was actually a big boxing city equivalent to chicago and new york but on a smaller scale of course but it was a big boxing town in a drool audit. And that's how he got to meet jack dempsey marciano. You know all those big fights back then because they came to new orleans and then he connected so his first circle of friends will all italians. pete. Herman was abandoned. Champion thinking sixty nine fights from nineteen twelve to nineteen twenty two now as far as my grandfather. He wasn't as big of a boxer as those guys. He did it for my research. Maybe about six years and then he got a little older. He got into referee in and he started refereeing. He did that until about twenty seven years old. Then that's when you up his barber shop in the open up a barber shop with a boxer front of his last name was burke in as when he got an barring after referee
A Conversation With Hans Skillrud
Interview with Chris Ford
"Welcome to hallway Jets. I'm Liam Dempsey. I'm Cara Clay's today. We're joined by Chris Ford Chris spent the first twenty years of her career working as an agency and freelance designer five years ago. She took a hard left and to project management team is a hybrid project manager and designer at reactive a WordPress VIP partner. Hi Chris. I'm so glad to hear welcome. Thanks for having me. I'm really glad to be here. Mm. I have missed interactions with the WordPress Community. I think tank fair to say that we all have Chris Chris. What a pleasure to meet you. Can you tell us a little bit more about yourself off? My name's Chris Borg. I started working on the web in Nineteen Ninety Six when I graduated from design school. I was supposed to be a T-shirt designer at a skateboard company and then their web guy quit and suddenly I was the new one person on staff fortunately. There were like five tags so there wasn't a whole lot to learn at the moment. We were very excited when animated gifs and background images came out for a little bit of context. I did that with the agencies in every industry from like skateboarding described booking at agencies and as a freelance writer and then five years ago, like I said, I took a really hard left into project management because I was interested in more kind of the business end of things. Like, how do you run a profitable project? How he managed timelines, how do you manage budgets which is something I always struggled with as a freelancer. And now I have just recently within the last couple of months started dipping my toe back into the design Pond relearning everything because it's been five years, which means nothing is the same Everything Has Changed. I started in WordPress. I don't even know how long it go but it was before Studio press was Studio project. I had been working as a professional scrapbooker which he says an actual job and the industry. It's the craft industry is like the tech industry. There are bubbles in different crafts and then those bubbles burst. And so when the scrapbooking Bubble Burst, I knew a bunch of people with photography. Skills he needed websites. So I got me a copy of the Kubrick theme and added flash headers with navigation to him and stole my WordPress Journey. Wow. I am so many things I want to ask you about I do too. I totally do. Can we start on scrapbooking, please, please please. Yes, I did a little scrap booking not professionally and now, you know with digital photos, whoever I mean what may have do people still do it? I mean I assume people still do but it seems like a a something that Is not a thing anymore because nobody prints out there photos. I actually I got into it because I started as a print designer and I'd love to paper and I am working it is miserable job where every day I wouldn't go in and recreate Rain Bird sprinkler timers and Flash like my whole job was to show you how like the dial spins phone numbers flashed and then you push this button and it was miserable and horrible and there was a scrap booking store down the street. So I would go and buy papers and things change and usually I just hoard crafting supplies cuz they're pretty but I actually used fees and digital scrapbooking was just taking off and that's kind of how I got notified because I do a lot of like retouching and like Photoshop was my thing. And so I got to know enough people who knew that about me that Wednesday, Digital scrapbooking started getting more popular. I got more people calling me saying hey leading someone to write an article. I was the art director for digital scrapbooking magazine and wait a second cuz I think scrapbooking and I think paper. So what is digital scrapbooking? It was basically you would go in and it off when skeuomorphic design was really big so I could like make things look realistic. So you would go in and you know make something that looked like a rib shack and put it on a page or design your own pattern backgrounds that look like paper I would do a lot where I would design my own stuff and then print it out on a printer and make kind of hybrid page. Just whip it so the Andrews to still pay and yeah. Oh, that's a really yeah. Well, no wonder you did it professionally that sounds amazing for a print em out and log. Yeah, it was super fun. Like I had a Michaels in my closet people would just send me stuff because you would get published in magazines. Like it was a really really good fun mystery years until the money ran out where I basically just kind of got paid to paint things and I don't know if anyone knows who clotting home but she's this really amazing collage artist who does like acrylic image transfers and packing tape transfers and it was you basically got page to make crafts which was kind of the coolest thing in the world, but I had a you know, I had bills to pay so I couldn't like walk it was a really competitive thing. Right and a lot of the people who were involved in it. It was their second job their husband was working. They weren't really in it for the money and I'm like dude. This is my full-time job. Like I need to get paid and I need to get paid on
Interview with Winstina Hughes, Planner for the Maryland Dept of Transportation
"Welcome to Hallway Chat I'm Liam Dempsey. And I'm Tara Claes today we're joined by Weinstein Hughes when Stena is an assistant regional planner for the Maryland Department of transportation she created her first wordpress blog for a geographic information systems assignment and followed it soon after with one on community development and suburban planning. She has presented at Work Camp New York City work camp. US and Work Camp Austin. A wordpress meet up co organizer Weinstein a lead were camp new. York two, thousand eighteen. Welcome when Stena? We're so glad here. Thanks for having me. Tara. Thanks for having me. Lamb. I'm excited to join you wearing. So excited to defensive time with you. Can you tell us a little bit more about yourself? Okay. I can tell you. I'm a bit more about myself i. Grew up in northern Jersey in south orange. Maplewood. My family immigrated. From Sierra Leone West Africa And somehow they brought me back to Maryland. Settled initially I'm so I am living and working in, Baltimore? Fantastic there's there's a lot there about that. We could delve into but let me let me just talk a little bit about growing up there since he started with whole were you when you when you move from Sarah alone do you remember your your country of or you're young enough to not have any memory? I have. I have memories of playing in our backyard. Like the lush greenery of it. The red. The red dirt. Just. just kind of outside where we lived I remember just how bad it was. And I remember listening on to my dad calling. To see how I was just a memory of knowing that my parents weren't with me. And just really happy to hear his voice. And? When we moved here. This is. Really. where I grew out. Those are those those memories are of. I'm like a child and when we moved here, that's when things really start forming. That's when I'm you know I started thinking about just you know school like a as a kid. I. Think. We. You know when you're as young as four or five things are just kind of like impressions I'm but then we hit an age where we start understanding what's around us Andy Start. Having. A sense of the places where we're going and the people that were spending time with and when we immigrated here on that was the time where things really started in. No. Forming for me as a child and and. Being aware of the spaces I was in and you know. I grew up here in every part of who I am is really. The experience of being raised here in the states and Being raised in south. Orange Maplewood. have. You been back to Sierra Leone. I haven't been back. I'm one of those children but. That hasn't traveled back. Since I? I can't name. Do you have family there still though I do I do have aunts and uncles and I have cousins. That are from back home. And I have some cousins that have traveled here and they've gone back I'm. But I've I've lived here since since we came in, it's been continuous experience. Yeah. Thank you for sharing that your your story of coming to this country and growing up here. Tell us a little bit. Your experience Sir I think you talked about before we started recording about. Going to school to Grad, school and Can you tell us a little bit about your education background and your wordpress wordpress fits into that picture? Yes So you know you mentioned that I'm an assistant. Planner and I went to college for city planning. And I went to Grad school as well for for city planning sitting regional planning. And you know it's it's really a way of looking at the world. A WAY OF LOOKING And Identifying Spaces right areas that you can contribute to improve, and that's what I really love about. About what I studied and I really enjoy the work that I do currently. I, work for DOD and. Works specifically. With state highway and we see the tangible results of the projects that we work on. You know like when we go to meetings I'm and you know the individuals that we speak with. It's There's a real mess to it as opposed to. If I were in an office. kind of like. We spend a fair amount of time in the office, but it's not like a policy document I'm writing. You know it's like I can go and see where I work is I can listen. To understand what the needs are of of those who live in the communities. that. We that we go to and that's really what's always been exciting for me as a planner I did some community organizing work as well and? Not only that. I worked at a nonprofit in DC as an intern, and I had a chance to look at a Housing Trust Fund I had the chance to look at how they went about organizing around housing issues and an even organizing around immigration issues and and it's it's so exciting to work in a field that that hutchison all those different areas and it's died it's that fluid ness of of of the field working an infrastructure or working with community issues or working on. Economic Development. That led me to. Writing about. you know what I learned in school and then writing about it is really you know what really got me more involved within the word s community I that jess log but I'm that I wrote in college, and then when I graduated I started writing a blog on development. For Me Boyd and just in the process of all the positive experiences move me from just you know blogging on wordpress dot com to building my own sites. And then there's there's so much evolved from that as well. From writing to becoming a a meet up organizer in a work, Camp Speaker, and. You know just just all those those opportunities came from. From just you know blogging sharing my thoughts about. An area that I'm so passionate about that I'm so fortunate to work in.
Washington, DC - Workers at University of Maryland voice concerns about being on campus
"On campus residence of a dorm at the University of Maryland. They're being asked to restrict their movements for the next couple of weeks after a Corona virus outbreak there. Reporter Tom Dempsey is in college Park, Maryland. He says the outbreak has staff very concerned about their healthy announcement came as the university's official covert 19 dashboard showed isolation and quarantine housing on campus over 80% full this weekend with workers at the school, expressing concerns about being there are always in danger. So that they haven't tend to be in danger. Saw. Walker has worked as a repairman on campus for almost 20 years. The pandemic has forced him to take all sorts of precautions. Whenever responding to a call for service. You gotta put everything we got Theo Man, you got everything. All the return of students and spike in cases leading toe Walker worrying about what could happen over the next few months. Schools
"dempsey" Discussed on WLS-AM 890
"I'm John Dempsey. 8 90 Wools knew about sitting in John. How's chair? Both Wendy and I are no social distancing coming on. If you want to come to the city and sit in the chair with us, and you just coughed and didn't cover your mouth. Oh, I'm healthy now. I was My mask back on. Took the test. Dempsey. You're lucky or not Here. I am lucky mask is going back on what happened to you, John. Are you fading away? No, I'm all right. All right. Okay. Oh, by the way, John feel free to jump in on this because we've both Wendy and I value your opinion, okay? Greatly. Thank you. I'll just say that, uh, for the record, um as opposed to poorly you don't value it poorly, devaluating greatly greatly. Wendy night from time to time. Do a segment called What should Bill have done, And that's because in life, I keep encountering things that I do a certain way. And I wonder if I did them properly or not. Is this like a Larry David kind of a thing where Larry is always making social faux pas like? Yeah, but you could, but I don't think Bill's like that. Wendy, don't they're not as bad as I think. And I'm kind of shocked that the last few times we've done this. I've been on your side, Which is where you have. My streak is the last three we've done. You have been on my side. And I think you'll be on my side again for this one. But John Dempsey, I don't think will agree with me. We'll say we'll find out I will play along from home. Okay? Because I literally am at home like they used to do on the grand Prize game. Yes, yeah, you can play at home. People complain Janssen and his postcard and his name was Wendy. I'm still on that waiting list. Education. John, these things take time. All right, So here's what it was. This was two weeks ago. Now, here's the background that people need to know just to set up the situation. I when things were normal back in olden times. In state Peotone times when normal, uh, myself and my family either ate out or ordered in ordered food in almost all the time. My wife doesn't really enjoy cooking. Uh, we like to eat in restaurants. We like to have food delivered. Whatever. So more times than not, That's the kind of business we did when it came to lunch and or dinner. We would order in or eat in a restaurant. When things got started getting a little bit easier and looser. We would go to more restaurants and bring the photos of the food home. Right. Okay, So you still haven't gone to a restaurant still hadn't been in restaurants that smart. Not even take out. When do you take out? Yeah, but I.
John Dempsey, Jane Adams And Amy discussed on John Howell
"Is traffic. Well, let me tell you about this. Jane Adams westbound around 53 off ramp blocked with an accident there. That is traffic from the wools. Amy, 90 traffics. I'm John Dempsey 8 90 Wools Spill O'Reilly here and I'm warming
Twitter Will Be Fun Today - The College Kids Who Hacked Into Twitter
"Today's guests. His Hip Awan CEO of Afani. Secure and private cell phone service locum his Heeb. Thank you Laura for home. You'll show. You were one of the investigators in touch with the young people who hacked twitter last week and gain control of prominent accounts, including those of Joe. Biden Obama Elon Musk and others as well as those of crypt companies like coin, base and finance, and when they had control those accounts, they were soliciting bitcoin from twitter users. How did you get in touch with the hackers? So Laura be in like. four-time itself, so then after I was so pissed off that angry that I said I need to solve this problem, and so I've entered into a form that relates how they have those accounts holiday getting pretty much all the ring of how they operate so. When you say that they had had your twitter account, nor they have my Sim Sark four times. Okay, and when you say Sim, swaps just described that in case, listeners does up. Does improper pretty much. What happened is like someone will take the form so the underground market like think about Ebay, but like I knew democracy with information. So you said your name, your information social security number your call logs your life, your life, location or anything on you. If I say hey, I need to find out for Laura Shane telephone number, and they'll give me telephone number will give me a call loss to give you. An everything comes through telephone numbers of numbers unique, and then if I say. Say Hey. I need to take the phone number 'cause I need so they will just prophet abuse him that I control, and I need to pay them few hundred dollars now. Your formula not work anymore because I had control of Sim card, so then I use that telephone number to get into a g mail, facebook and twitter, so if you go on twitter, new likely rescinded to email our number. If it's telephone number you've got. Someone's adopted very common technique deployed across US for a long time. So. The twitter hack twitter said that their employees had been socially engineered, and that's how these hackers gained control the systems. Are you saying that? Some twitter employees have their account. Sim swapped like how how does that you or Simspon tried? These people relate to the twitter Hack Greg? You wanted to ask me like how to get in touch with them so I'm trying to understand. You, that of analysis himself, so started going into the industry into this form than trying to see how they operate and to Dodd funny, so which will provide the made acadia that probably that cannot be Simpson's. That's what we did an offer that. VINCI START GETTING customers. Have you would actually getting a lot of attempts to do so? You would getting Dempsey pretty much every week that someone prior to himself or customer, trying to like hack into our system and mend the failed. I got in contact David Mayhew call, they would email method you and they will do all kinds of attacks. You know they'll try to let pen to pen tests. The everything did and obviously in one of the cases restocked immunity stopping messing around it right I know what you're up to. And after I got in touch with him to signal and author that the lake. Not I won't say that become a friend, but I told them why you're doing this. Thank you know you should not do this multiple hackers and they said okay. If you don't have anything to do pretty much, does it okay? Why don't you get a job? He said job, and then they start feeding the all information to proved at. Legit than a lot of information and how I was getting information from a lot of talk of the vote. And when it all this happened that you got in touch with him and had it happened late four five months ago. Okay They were diverging to me not just for this hot, but for other purposes to ride like a kid discount. Lot of databases beach everyday, so they wanted to see that a hey. If I'm interesting in the database, just wanted to work pretty much. is not money. It's also about ego that they wanNA prove something that they would do something so. So Mike Context for not hacking, but they'll be into the songs that they had access to. That follows A. Up I didn't want to. Excessive today were passing me. Hey, today. This is for sale to do sports on tomorrow. This person's so on the deal stood attack. I got a message that will be fun today, and when this message I thought he'd be like a distributor barks. Like scam scams, and but after why? That's all the kind. We got attacked ten. Finance Accounting Noble at depth one time. I taught that it's just a third party API like you know you have like you know where your schedule. The in everything I thought that may be compromised, and that's how they got author. Riley said No. We have everything. A screen chart I tweeted screen shot, and after that is blue. Well and so, who are these people? who were the people involved in the actual twitter hack? The difficult to identity like frankly I don't know I can speculate, but obviously because someone security and privacy I don't want to speculate but I can tell you wanting like college. Kids are maybe like someone between eight, eighty, twenty, one, twenty, two, and they are video gamers. They'd metaphor armed, and they found fascinating for them. Dislike a game like you go into video game on you killing you do stuff for them. It's like that. They, probably living in some way or radio patterns right now in basement. Who does not even know anything? and. They just do it for fun. Obviously, money's there, too, but most of fun for them is just a today. And so originally. The way you got in touch with them was they were targeting these different cell phone accounts, and what does motivation and taking over the different cell phone accounts so for account you can actually to when people take account, they can actually destroy you financially emotionally ended up recently, though by financial I can say they can get into your county bank accounts ticket by Tiptoe through that they can buy a lot of levels of securities financially they can do. obviously going to facebook in an email to, and then they donor all information from your facebook, and then they start blackmailing you that. Hey, likely when a lot you have done this like you know you have this. And you have to pay me this information out there and a lot of people would have to pay them the money because they don't pay the money. They looted operation right so and then third party. They just become Parson Mike is the word processing me. blender used to take my county new. They cannot get anything, but they wanted to talk to me. Just fun for them like people. Some people are sick. Like how did they pick you out of all the different people that they could torture also the league, if not just me like everyday hundreds of people to get them soft, though I'm just one of them on average, every second medical become victim of since up, not himself but cybercrimes so. But I had the impression that this was primarily targeting crypto currency people, but you're saying it's any bundled nor I think eighty percent of people who was himself to an entrepreneur L.! And the new in the cases of those people is it like personal vendettas that they're trying to? You can make more money by a hacking Lord cell than anything else you know. is one thing but Lloyd is like one number one target Loyd and has professionals league doctor medical doctor then. In Lord other number one targets in suffers, and what is the motivation for targeting lawyers Don. Money don't happen. How do they monetize that Yeah, so I tell you doctors, basically busy less tech, savvy and rich. It's that easy to find out any doctor information. You can find out who the best doctor in the city and you consume. Stop Him. And once you get into that account, you can transfer money between accounts who can be that people have been? Going into the count, Simpson calling the bank making via transfer, and then just checking accounts. That's pretty common. For for doctors to clinics have a lot of money. If you'RE GONNA clinic, instead he did even like five hundred hundred million dollar distorted the front because Alaska. Election for them. Okay, so let's go back to the twitter hack. They were some names that were identified of people who are involved these names. In The New York Times article that quoted you as a source one was kirk. There were some other people ll and ever so anxious. Who were these people? And how did they know each other? So they don't. Know the Best Birdie. They just hang out on rooms like chatting channels lake similar people on developed talked with you. The pirates channels. We had people a go if they WANNA have information to the document industry for finding information. If I want someone associated Gordon dissipates on one. Don't get call for these people trade information. And you asked about like a leg. Imagine your lawyer and you are fighting for my open kiss. We begin go to the website by that long since he will. They are who they're talking to the day can. Make some delays on them. That's one thing but other than that. These people are just a game as they would play like you know different video games and kick the die, who was basically a source of the rate industry rock says they'll be extra agents, and they are in room for longtime and David. Obviously you want you want something you don't trust the new guy. The new guy who is basically the main culprit punching the entity because multiple reasons, but the main guidance, the just which had A. Reputation. If you say you want a username of Laura at Laura, Shannon inactive. You may not trust kick, so you can do this. Middle Diane Tell Them Hey, can you hold the money for because you have a good relation? Because like Ebid forums generally have a petition systems. You know so then you ve into this guy like you know every inch it He went to care. Concur depended he the credit employees but I. Don't think he was employees. And, then he gave him the concert start building. So this is just a middleman. He was just broken deals. You tell them what you want. He was just keep his car and transfer the money. The is completed that fall. And so so kirk was was saying that he was a twitter employees, but as you said, you don't think that he was, and he was essentially selling valuable twitter accounts, and if people didn't trust, Kirk, they would use ever so anxious as their middleman to get the different twitter handles that they wanted. Is that what happened? That's correct. Good Gig, only unharmed on in July of. July it was very recently. that. He actually came so obviously not trust someone admit. That soon. July seventh in the New York Times article are. Limited okay, but all right so but ever so anxious. How to longer reputation and. And that was who people are transacting with. And so then. How did BITCOIN come into this? All. On these things happen through Bitcoins, so the way it started was they were selling. This twitter handles four bitcoin and then later. How did the scam change? So I. Personally is what I personally think. That kid was in touch with the employees who was giving these accounts. For a few thousand dollars. And then. Either bribed him. Architects. Social Engineering Him. Legs because like hey can do. This is my. This is purely my speculation that you're working for so long. He warned the trust. Any may have said Hey, can you log in forbid I wanNA see how it looks like something that he made it something so the guy is pasta on. Hey, just do it, but don't do anything crazy. You Know Butt kicked. Decide Okay, man I can just go on or can also go online with I can do it I can. Can also go on like you know. All those accounts crazy. That's what I okay, but you're just speculating. You don't have any proof that or or do you know what? I don't have any proof of that I don't approve. Have critic probably do it? And Kirk? Is probably a guy called coup, which is on a farm for a long time, so he speculated that he someone that was in the industry for wide, but not. Approved that. Kicked it, but from all the action than everything it all points to cook. Irene so in a moment we're gonNA. Talk a little bit more about what happened. Exactly I, in sight, twitter and scam, but First a quick word from the sponsors who make this show possible. How much in fees are you paying? CRYPTO purchases now crypto dot com as waving the three point five percent credit card fee. When you buy crypto apart from crypto purchases, you can also get a great deal on food and grocery shopping with crypto dot. COM Get up to ten percent back when you pay with their. Visa Card no card use the crippled dot com to buy gift cards for up to twenty percent pack download the Crypto Dot com today, and enjoy these offers until the end of September. Looking to connect with thought, leaders, innovators and blockchain enthusiasts welcome to T- forum a weekly virtual series about all things tasers. Equal, feature presentations about the latest advancements that healthy ecosystem grow together. Interested in speaking at t quorom, submit your presentation ideas and the tasers community will vote on who comes to the podium next sign up and learn more about the virtual series at t quorum dot com. Back to my conversation with his Heeb Awan. So, we don't know exactly how. Kirk got into twitter's internal systems. However Once. He or she did then what'd he do or or she do with their power? So. Kirk than they went to buy I think. Start with by notes I'm coin base. And the see your finance and he made it account Egypt first of all. What did it was did with other? Account. Okay, which means when you log in, it asks you to do a second type of security, which is hopefully. If you're in the crypto space, you have used something like Hugo, authenticate or key, and you're not using text message based second factor authentication. Where they sent a code your phone because otherwise if he gets swaps than than having no. Buyer so. Removed that and then keep going good thing. They added wall a secondary second. You know Autodata so now. I'll give example like you have my username seep, so they moved to a FE, and they're also removed. Jane, Email. And then they. Did possible reset. So the new email guard, the chain deposited garden the account. and. tweeted whatever they wanted. Well, and what were they tweeting? So, they were tweeting that you know. About Co. Ed Nineteen I believe like you know because of Covid, we like helping people. I don't remember the wording. Health Has Something and they said Back. And this is video any comments in YouTube. Actually they were so good that frankly sometime I get like you know Oh my God like the able to make it like a secondary thing. That's real you know and like, but this happens pretty commonly, and and it's happening for almost two years now i. It, really is the kind of thing where people think it's real I honestly. Had created a question for you, which is who are the people who are savvy enough to own bitcoin and know how to send it, but not savvy enough to spot. What to me seems like an obvious scam. Actually went on the Internet and are tweeted out this thing same thing I said like who are those people who can have sophisticated enough to buy Bitcoin, but knowledge to. Send. Bitcoin but I think leap Dick's everything. Like I agree people think okay. Let's give it a chance. You know it's like a lottery ticket. You know people may be, but they think what if this is true and other than that. If you like an must happening there, actually flaunted, be efforts on twitter. All the time with people are donating money on twitter, but they don't ask for anything they say hey, can you give me your Alfred Egland who this every day, so he will dollars to off fifty dollars for every person everyday. You'll say. Retreat this. I'll give you this money. So this happens right now and obviously As hit audible, read like you know when viewed come in people, people forget everything that you know. We have so many Ponzi scheme like so many scattered that happened that exist today could if I come to unity Laura investment scheme, which is a pretty good you know. He hit all the MACHIDA. But it only gives you five percent. You may not listen to that. Say Hey, Lord the Child who may tennis money tomorrow. You may skip everything. Cocaine is thousand and ten dollars tomorrow. Okay I'll take the risk from doing that. Hopefully I'm sure my listeners are savvy enough to know if it sounds too good to be true. But people do that I. Think I have estimated that around like maybe I. Just in this journal given us cam like. He put a lot of tens of millions of dollars and well not last week, but no, not over time overtime. Yeah, yeah, we'll be sending money, so there are enough food. I guess yeah over I mean for last week. The hackers did net about a little over thirteen bitcoin, which was about one hundred twenty thousand dollars, although analysts said that about twenty, thousand of it seems to have come from a suspicious address that they actually think controlled by the hackers to kind of make it look like this was legit and people were actually sending money. But then also by the way they could have netted more. However, Cuevas said that it did prevent more than one thousand customers from sending about two hundred and eighty thousand dollars worth of Bitcoin to the twitter hackers so oriented, so let's talk a little bit also about just what happened in twitter which was? Twitter blog posts. Hackers a targeted. Thirty accounts for forty five of those they reset the password and sent tweets from those accounts for eight of them. They actually downloaded that counts data, and then for thirty sixty legitimate direct message inbox, including one elected official from the Netherlands, and it was who. What do you think they could do with such information? I think it's A. Black, man that I've been talking to you about what happened with sin sopping. Let's think about it if you have first all that fool Phoolan that why didn't put? It wasn't like planned. I don't believe it was just like in the move in the heat of happened. BANDAIDS slaves. They clearly guy who just got drunken pretty might do everything but I think if you have access to like anyone, social media, proper social media like I have been I've received. Messages. And I but I don't believe that I think we have forged around. Believe the electoral, so, but if you have someone should media that maybe confidential information that can be misused by Stacey when leg if you do about it on dedic messages, a you know that's not confident that even with the journalist visceral broads. You know so I. Don't know who the information was. What fast, but that's video very very concerning and I believe this may happen on facebook or other social media from his. Because to same. Attack Factor. Yeah I definitely think that this is. One of those cases where it makes you want to just use encrypted social messaging APPS. Such as like signal or something, maybe what's up? So, let's just also talk a little bit about what we said before about how the hackers were able to remove two factor authentication on these accounts. Well, actually what they did I was. They changed the email address. And then the chain Laras Oh, actually bid on a there was A. There was an email. There was a blog post by somebody who had the at six twitter account, and they said they believed that the hackers change the address, but that when that happened, it did not send a notification to the original email address, but not I don't know if this person was surmising, you know six hundred interest in history, those belong to a hacker. Their the community of Hackers Gobi Twenty six hundred. That's like a court for hackers right. Not a quarterback, just like community for hackers and you were the hacker who ended up homeless anywhere. They will do attack into I think he would to. And he went into multiple you as homeless, but he was a hacker. And oxygen community belong to sixty name. Is this secretly off? I believe his name. And, but yes, but I think the first drift was removed and then. moved. To the letter. Control of it now thought it was the reverse, but either way. In Like for any of us who are in the crypto space who have been? Keeping up with our security and using things like Google. or UB and avoiding. Text message based to a or or any kind of to a based on our phone number. What? Can we take away from this like? Is there any advice that you have for Crypto? People on how they can protect themselves if the services that we use have loopholes like this. Let's not that'll be biased in obviously you know. Will. Finding here, but that's what we do, right. We work, but a lot. Actually I am surprised at how many a compromise them security argue out stocking some customer yesterday and they do You know an extra seat is probably the most I can tell you I know. We are making like a faces, but at same part exit. She's most prominent used offer manager for probably ninety ninety nine percent of the word. What would you recommend instead? Use a password manager, anything manager pretty much everything in the top five six. It stood, you know. Don't cheat on family plan. out on like those like a caveman. This company go with a better company. Even if you don't go the final leg, that's fine at least hell better company like Dourthouse I'm plan because no fan mace. You make you very vulnerable to now you're putting your own life on risk, but everyone who is in the time is. You know and the third party. Don't give out your telephone. Number molasses everywhere. You know like. Don't go to like you. Know have different email address if you want to. And you let you. At Google. Authentic get off your. There's something at one time I have statistics, said ninety five percent of people who are like major changes. Do not have to a fait. Sms I'm talking more to a and I think ninety nine percent of those are what you estimates to say. The people who've been additives Everyday I have started I deal with at least two or three people who get up everyday and came and we had some of the to affair, and I can get into that lot of people into the spark that they were not believe enough not to change it. please. Don't please don't be those people, but I can tell you like I've spent people and I said do this. Man How much time did it like five minutes six league. Logistics you Donald and APP, you know. have to familiar face. You know if you are very cautious, taken for a number, but I can tell you that Khomeini would make this mistake. Ordering will end and it you know, and in the end I did lose industry learn. That's was part. There was still use the same SMS to a fait. The dating did not happen to them. Again happened again. Because if it happens to once, you become more, you know your motorcycle getting out again. If they have found something and something, they just do for fun, and and you know what I because obviously I'm. Biased in a way that the. Customer. Time I've been a victim four times a feed Logar they can. What would you do? Please please please setup. SMS elected more music episodes into gear and please get family plan these I. Know You're saving their ten twenty dollars per months, but in the end you know if you call it a, it's like insurance. You can live without insurance to. But like you know. The one day you need insurance when you need it.
Hundreds gather to remember Charleena Lyles at Seattle vigil
"A crowd gathered at Magnuson park in Seattle yesterday to remember Charleena Lyles who was shot and killed by Seattle police three years ago Victor Dempsey's with the families United for justice network these five police had responded to a report of a break in at Lyles as Sandpoint apartment they claim she lunged at them with a knife an inquest into her death is currently stalled because of legal challenges over new inquest rules in
"dempsey" Discussed on The Hull Show ? 1310 KFKA
"It's hotline from altitude TV, Chris Dempsey Chris so many things to PAC man. It's absolutely crazy time we're getting the news. The Board of Governors and tends to improve planning to improve the League proposal twenty two team format. Let's get into that in a moment. I know you guys had a great opportunity to talk to coach. Mike Malone about basketball, but really about. Everything including certainly what's going on? Today throughout our country. Yes. Yeah, yeah, we He's been very outspoken about it and egos. He's one of the most thoughtful people you know. I I was I was saying that to somebody else recently, which was if I had to rank all the coaches that I've covered over a couple of decades in sports journalism you know just on. you know their ability to just communicate really well. Be Very thoughtful, and I mean Michael Malone is is may may be number one in that, but yeah, he you know he had up. Say and you know I think a lot of people. Have you know Brady? I think this is been a point in time which a lot of. Hearts and minds have been touched and people have been very. Eloquent about speaking about that, and and then a lot more willing to help be a part of part of the solution and Mike Malone. is one of those in Kim Conley as another we, we had a chance to talk to him yesterday on the sports social show at in a long long range wide ranging interview so the nuggets response From its highest of you know quote, unquote, highest ranking people have been been fantastic, but I think radiates, but the the response has been fantastic pretty much worldwide. One and you know there's there's a lot of negatives about twitter and facebook, but we were talking about this earlier. You are seeing some pretty powerful videos to their videos of a lot of people coming together. From from all walks of life and trying to get things right, too, so you know, yes, there can be. There can be some stuff on twitter that we don't agree on. There can be videos. There could be riots, but at the same time man. If you look, you're going to see a lot of a lot of positives going on, and in as as coach Malone spoke about to. You're going to see some of those things and those are the things I think we need to latch onto. Yeah I absolutely agree you know I it's You know I. It's just been a lot more people willing to speak up and speak out and stand you know, stand with with the cause and for four cause and for humanity. and so it is I think it's been great, and you know obviously there. It's obviously it's not every single person but by and large it's so many people and it's It's been really really good, and so you know we'll. We'll. We'll see because. You. Know what what's happening in the past. These kinds of points is you know we? I it's it strikes a chord with a Lotta people, but you know time things fade away with time, and so you know the test I, think is going to be over time and to see that when they are moments. That need people to rise up and You Know Act. That we are still is willing to do that down the road as we are right now and so, but this is a it's been a great start, and it's been a great response by by so many people Chris Dempsey joining us from out to TV and for Chris to say somebody's the nicest guy like Mike Molo 'cause i. always say this about you. My man when I first met you. I think I'm an Internet Cave K. or something, but I'm in I'M IN DENVER? I. Don't believe it was for training Camp I. Think it was a random practice or something, but I met you have reg registered on the Denver. Post for years and I mean and I've heard this from several young reporters so this you keep up the great work. They say Chris gave me all the tools I needed. He gave me confidence he he said reach out to me. You gave your cell phone numbers and e mails so man. I mean hats off to you as well. My friend I say you're the nicest reporter I've ever met so for you to say that about Malone at saying something. I appreciate that you know it's one of the things I've tried to do over the course of my career, is you know? What's the single mom? Each one lift one? You know I. I didn't get to where I was without help. You know without somebody you know. The the people in my time would have been like guys like TJ timers who used to be a a writer for the Los Angeles Times and spears, and Adam Schefter and you know these people who would read my stories and give me critiques or in the case of Adam Schefter. He was a guy that. Basically took me under his wing and said okay. Here's how you do. These are the questions you need to be asking athletes or coaches. This is how you write a story. This is how you uncover news and you know I that has never I've never forgotten that surely grateful to those people and I just wanted to pay it forward. You know I it's it. This is not an easy business to get in and to thrive in and to you need allies, and you need people to help, and you need people or just for advice you know. You know it's it's I. Want to be there for that. As many young reporters as possible because I know, there were so many that were there for me as well so I appreciate you saying that man. It's something that I really do take seriously to go out. A lot of pride in in regards to Michael, Malone, it's just. Yeah, he's you. You don't run across a lot of coaches like that. You just don't and But, he is one and It's a the nuggets really lucky to have him and We are as media. Lucky to have a guy to cover that is that honest and not quite frankly that friendly the media when when when he meets with it. Also said something else. Chris talking about what he expects from US nuggets team. He's pretty confident that Denver can go to Orlando and. Not just compete, but maybe when this whole thing..
"dempsey" Discussed on The Hull Show ? 1310 KFKA
"The University of Northern Colorado and you're listening to the whole show on thirteen ten KFI K. Twenty three minutes after the hour. Welcome back to the whole show powered by PD energy joining me on our first event. It's hotline from altitude. TV Chris Dempsey Chris so many things to Pacman. It's absolutely crazy time we're getting the news. The Board of Governors and tends to. Plan to improve the League proposal twenty two team format. Let's get into that in a moment. I know you guys had a great opportunity to talk to coach Mike Malone about. But really about a little bit of everything including certainly what's going on? Today throughout our country. Yes yeah, yeah, yeah, he's been very outspoken about it and listen know he's one of the most thoughtful people you know. I I was saying this to somebody else. Recently, which was if I had to rank all the coaches that I've covered over a couple of decades in sports journalism you know just on. You know th their ability to communicate really well be very thoughtful and I mean Michael Malone is is maybe number one in that, but Yeah. He got it stuff. Stay and you know I think a lot of people. Have you know a brady? I think this is been a a point in time, which a lot of hearts and minds have been touched, and people have been very. Eloquent about speaking about that in and been a more willing to help be a part of loose part of the solution and Mike alone. is one of those and and Tim. Conley, as another, we chance to talk to him yesterday on Sports Social Show in a long long range, a wide ranging interview, so the nuggets response, especially from its highest You know quote, unquote highest ranking people has been been fantastic I. Think Brady. It's the response has in fantastic pretty much worldwide you. Well. There's there's a lot of negatives about twitter and facebook, but we were talking about this earlier. You are seeing some pretty powerful videos to their videos of a lot of people coming together. From from all walks of life and trying to get things right to so. Yes there can be. There can be some stuff on twitter that we don't agree. Agree on be videos. There could be riots, but at the same time man. If you look, you're gonNA, see a lot of a lot of positives going on in a as as coach Malone spoke about to. You're going to see some of those things and those are the things I think we need to latch onto. Yeah I. Absolutely agree. You know it's You know I. It's just been a lot more people willing to speak up and speak out and stand you know, stand with with the cause, four cars, and for humanity in me and. and so it is I think it's been great and you know obviously there. Obviously it's not every single person by and large. It's so many people and it's It's been really really good, and so we'll see because. You know what what's happening in the past and these kind of points. Is You know we? Did it strikes a chord with a lot of people, but you know time things fade away with time, and so you know the the real test I think is going to be over time and to see that when they are moments, that need people to rise up and you know act. That we are still is willing to do that down the road. As we all right now and so, but this is a it's been a great start in a great response by by so many people Chris Dempsey joining us from TV and for Chris to say somebody's the nicest guy like Mike Mullah because I. Always say this about you man when I first met you. I think I'm an Internet cafe or something, but I'm I'm Denver I I. Don't believe it was for training. Camp was a a random practice or something, but I met. You have read i. Read Your stuff on the Denver Post for years and I mean I've heard this from several young reporters so this this is you keep up the great work. They say Chris gave me all the tools I needed. He gave me confidence he he said reach out to me. You gave cell phone, numbers and emails, so man I mean hats off to you as well. My friend I say you're the nicest reporter I've ever met so for you say that about Malone at saying something. Bribery shape at. Things I've tried to do over the course of my career Is You know we we? What's the saying? MOM, each one lift one. You know I I didn't get to where I was without help. Without somebody you know, so. The the people in my time would have been like guys like Tj Saimaa. who used to be a a writer for the Los Angeles Times and spears, and Adam Schefter and you know these people who would read my stories and give me critiques, or in the case of Adam Schefter he was a guy that. Basically took me under his wing and said okay. Here's how you do. These are the questions you need to be asking athletes or coaches. This is how you write a story. This is how you uncover news and you know I. I. That has never I've never forgot that I've eternally grateful to those people and I. Just wanted to pay it forward. You know I, it's. it. This is not an easy business to get in and to thrive, and to you need allies, and you need people to help, and you need people to or just for advice, you know it's. It's. I want to be there for as many young reporters as possible because I know. There were so many that were there for me as well so I. Appreciate you saying that Man I'm it's something that I. Really do take seriously. Take a lot of pride in in regards to Michael. Malone. It's just yet. He's you. You don't run across a lot of coaches like that. You just don't and But he has one and It's the nuggets are really lucky to have him and We are a as media. Lucky to have a guy who cover that. Is that honest and quite frankly that friendly with the media when when when he meets with Melanie, also said something else Chris talking about what he expects from this team. He's pretty confident that Denver go to Orlando and. Not, just compete, but maybe when this whole thing. This whole unique is edited version of guess, a little bit of a regular season and postseason. But. Yeah, yeah, he's. Really came out strong, and in terms of that that one you know piece right there, which is listen. We think we can win the championship right now and you know it's I it. It is a lot different from what the listen to the. They always said this season. You know coming into this season. Hey, the goal is to win a championship. It just seems like it's a little more pointed right now. It's a little more. Definitive, as we are going to go there with the with the clear goal of winning a title and That's that's been a pretty eye opening. It really has been, and you know you know why, not them? Why not them? You know it's it's. It's a talented basketball team and. You know when you're talking about being led by a player, the caliber of Nicoli okay. It's you can. Just put! Up It seems like with ease, but not only that have those numbers really translate into victories far more than far more than than they don't been. Yeah, you have. The star piece covered You have a guy who's on the precipice of that in Jamal Murray I'm sure he's chomping at the bit to get down there, and and and you know continue you know his career and he was having a good season, and he wants to continue that as well and then. Guys like Michael Porter Jr. who will be healthy You know he spoke to us. About just not not feeling right after the ankle injury, and not you know just. He was being hampered by that so that is something that is healed totally and access to a gym. Gary Fill His game on the just fine. When he comes back, but yeah I mean listen. The nuggets are with thirteen, the western conference going into all this that that was for a reason, and so they should feel very confident about their chances of going down to Orlando and walking away. you know making a deep playoff run at the very least all right Chris. Take us through this then so my first question. Are we going? Are we receding here? Are We doing eastern conference? Western, conference IT'LL BE EASTERN CONFERENCE WESTERN CONFERENCE AND Yeah so. The you know. The. They'll play eight regular season games, and then if they need to do this and they'll play play in you know a play in series quote, unquote between the eighth and ninth seeds and so. basically, if the the the ninth seat has to finish the regular season within four games act. And if that happens, that'll trigger in the play in a scenario, and so it's a double.
"dempsey" Discussed on Hallway Chats
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"dempsey" Discussed on Fat Mascara
"You just launch another company a an APP five beauty. Can we talk about that? Yes and I want. I would like you to know because I I know we're in a crisis at the moment And I just don't want to think that this was an idea that just came to mind within the last six weeks of what are our world has been going if anybody has been on it and see tutorials. It's pretty clear. This is not just six weeks in the making Chilean protective. Like I was pregnant with a baby APP in my belly and I wanted to give earth to this in a way and giving birth in a pandemic was never my intention however I was encouraged by my family and my clothes set of friends to to see the positive side of this as look people are are are need and it probably want to have some different ways in which to view beauty so I wanted to start with myself and then bring other artists on board and have it and create a platform so the user could just get in and get out pure convenience for the US user. You could control your adventure. You could jump on the APP. Know that we're on completely transparent. Whatever you're looking at you can use your products at home or you can choose to buy through the APP. You can try on the shade arcade with you know you cam who are the virtual leaders in the virtual. Try ON FOR MAKEUP. Which is incredible. And so you basically get to navigate and do this all within like the comfort of your your home which I think. We're all having a lot of that right now. We have a lot of the comfort of our home so just for people who haven't tried it yet. There is that like you can try on part of the APP. But then there's also these tutorials and so I was making my way through a lot of them and I kept thinking. These are so different from what we are now. Used to. As a youtube tutorial like some of them are only like ten seconds long and I was like cool. I just learned that. But but she wasn't like where's the commentary whereas the like lighting. You didn't do the little thing where you hold up the product and wiggle it in front of your hand. What what was your thinking with these stories. I will be brutally honest with you I I. I have stage fright. I don't like necessarily to get in front of a camera. I am completely in my comfort zone when when I'm working on a face because I get to sculpt I get to move I get to try. You know I get to work with the face. I Love I stay Z. Face like I get to work with your face and and it's my pleasure to do that to be able to work with you. Ever my hands or my brushes might tools are touching an an an and I like to study at your face. I like to say No faces ever the same but you can always say that certain techniques will always remain the same you will always have certain techniques like the cat. I have we ever ever ever known a cat. I like a little slick to ever be out of style. Can you think of one time? Because I sure can't so I saw you know. I'm one makeup artist but I have on boarded already another makeup artist and I plan to onboard more freelance makeup artists to show and reveal just their hands. We don't need to have the commentary. The job get stale and old. I don't WanNa hear it. I don't WanNa hear that again. I WANNA get straight to the I want to get straight to the point. I I'm really into if you are going out. How quickly can you get that information to get smokey eye? How fast if you want to try to put on a band of lashes might take you a minute but if you studied the tutorial see how this artists does it. That artist PUTS THEIR BAND. Because we all worked we all have different styles and everybody has a different face so I'd like to place the artist with the brands and that is how in growing this this APP. So tell me this. How did you decide which looks we're GonNa get it to toil? You mentioned the cat. I you mentioned putting on a band lashes. I call it the arrive and drive. Basically the model shows up we have everything ready and whatever the model brings that day. We have a loose mood board happening. We have the products out. We have a mood board when the model shows up. I want to be able to take if the the model has a pimple on her face. Maybe I'll say you know what let's change the mood board. We're going to show how to cover a pimple. I want to take create what the model provides which provides content to grow. And like that you have the the model let you dictate. What the look
"dempsey" Discussed on 5 Questions with Dan Schawbel
"To create the best advice from the world's smartest and most interesting people by asking them just five questions. My guest today is retired. General in the Eighteenth Chairman of the Joint Chiefs of Staff Martin Dempsey born in Jersey City. New Jersey Martin attended the US Military Academy at West Point. After graduating. He served as a company grade officer that went on to become an executive officer during operation. Desert Storm he rose up the military ranks during the war in Iraq. Eventually becoming a general in two thousand eight and the chairman of the Joint Chiefs of Staff under President Barack Obama in two thousand eleven four years later Martin retired an was named Time magazine's one hundred most influential people in the world after over forty years. Military service he now teaches leadership and public policy as Rubinstein. Fellow at Duke University and serves as chairman of USA basketball more recently Martin authored. The new book no time for spectators. Which is the basis for? Today's podcast? Episode LEADERS IN EVERY INSTITUTION ARE BEING TESTED. Right now with how they're dealing with the corona virus pandemic based on your experience as a general generally. Us Army. What are your recommendations to leaders on how to manage this crisis or any crisis? The way you're frigid is exactly correct. Which is there are certain. Things that allow leaders navigate through any crisis and then part of the challenges identifying what's unique about a particular crisis so what I would say just in terms of the a navigating through general crises. Floral is that leaders will be more effective if they've established certain things before the crisis occurs and among those things that they they will benefit from in a crisis is if they generated sense of belonging if they've made sure that everyone who follows them recognize that their that their contributions matter a wrote a book with an author called or Graffman it's called radical inclusion. Because we we believe the two together that crises were become more complex. Moving more rapidly under intense scrutiny as a result of social media and we chose the term radical inclusion for the title because we believed that the way you navigate through the complexities of life and crises. When you confront them is by being inclusive and and what you get from inclusiveness as you learn because people have different perspectives in different knowledge than you may have you you you gain ownership because people feel like they have something to contribute and ultimately you gain trust and I think the leaders that navigate through complex crises the bester those who can generate the most trust I completely agree and actually interviewed oriented many many many years ago. Great Guy as someone who has over forty years of military service how have major conflicts impacted your leadership perspectives on the world? In how you live your life. The impact of conflict is unique exposed to military leader. But I also think that there's something to be unpacked here about the impact of challenges. We all go through periods of diversity in our life you know. Some of them are very personal. The loss of a loved one of an illness a financial difficulty. And then if you're a leader they can be organizational adversities in now. Of course we You asked me about conflicts. Those are national security adversities. And now we're going through pandemic which is another kind of of a admitted person for our country. One of the things that I wanted to do in the second book I wrote which is a book titled No time for spectators reason. I wanted to write. That book was that it occurred to me that we often talk about the responsibilities of leaders. And sometimes we shy away from assigning particular responsibilities to those who follow you know the most successful organizations are those where there's common expectations that are developed between leaders and those who follow that speaking of your new book. No time for spectators examine the common expectations that forge the strongest relationships. What are the key mutual expectations that make any relationship successful? I realized that several really key points in my life that there were often people who knew what was better for me than I did. And so you know interview military about how much we really control in our own lives as it turns out the best leaders are those who also learned along the way to be the best followers. They understood what it meant to be on the other side of the equation so that when they got to be leaders they could knit together. The the responsibility of leaders and followers in a way that creates a bond of trust. I learned at many points along the way that you know how they say. It's it's a cliche. You know the small steps well in my experience you absolutely have to sweat the small stuff because if you get the small stuff right along the way then when the big things come you've got a solid foundation on which to build in over the course of my career. I've interviewed major military figures. Colin Powell in Stanley McChrystal. What military figures have influenced your leadership style? And what did you learn from them? Actually those your two of them But stand and I and mcraven another wonderful officer in my career. I think it's important in kind of defining how you become you as a leader. Take a look at all those who were senior to you when they had an influence on you. Those of your peers. Who had an influence on you when you're making your way through the ranks and then importantly those who were junior to you who has had an impact on your career on your life for that matter and what's your best piece of career advice. There's there's a couple of things but first and foremost to be shelves you know. Don't try those who through. The years may have told me that you know that I made such an impact on their lives and they consider me a mentor. Say Less I'm so pleased and honored to hear that. But you're not me. Don't try to be me. You can be a lot better than and the more in touch with yourself. You are as a leader. The better you're going to be because you're you are acting consistent with your own values in your own judgements in your own personality and and you know those if you are a leader with people around you know whether you're actually yourself or you're trying to be someone else so that's the first thing second thing is is not to rush. No don't get in a big hurry. John Wooden had a great phrase used with his players. The great coach back in the sixties. He said be quick. But don't hurry. I noticed that sometimes young men and women are so interested in an so enamored of thinking about the next job the next position or the next responsibility or the next raise that they either wish away or neglect to consider what's happening around them in the moment and tear lowered shelves to be in the moment. You will generally be a better listener. A better teammate. A Better follower a better leader and in so doing you're wishing away your life to get someplace else and then when you get there you're GonNa wish it away in hopes that there's something else again. My Irish grandmother used to tell me to bloom where I was planted and it served me well through my career and I think it would serve anyone well through. There's thank you so much for sharing a wisdom Martin to follow. His journey can read a book. No time for spectators and fight him on twitter in Lincoln where he shares moments in. Us history leadership advice pictures with his family and colleagues and political commentary. We hope you enjoy today's show. And the amazing advice. Our guest provided. Remember that you can only benefit from advice. If you packed on it before you do. We would appreciate your feedback in the form of a review. You can leave a review on Itunes stitcher for of pod catcher choice. Your would be very much. Appreciated the head over to Dan Chevelle dot com slash review now..
"dempsey" Discussed on NewsRadio KFBK
"Praise I saw this today for their social distancing efforts way to go way to go Kendall Kendall do you have any phone calls Kendall nine one six nine fifteen thirty one eight hundred okay very good so I'm just gonna keep document kennels well I'm going to do here if there is something on your mind nine one six nine two one fifteen thirty one eight hundred eight three four fifteen thirty one of the things if I may which is it's something that we have not had the chance to talk about because we've been so focused on this coronavirus is the fact that Tom Dempsey passed away I wanted to mention that Tom Dempsey here's a guy who on one play it is live yes we had a fabulous career he was remembered for two things Tom Dempsey for his foot which was a half foot M. for kicking the all time longest field goal of sixty three yards with the half wits Tom Dennis Tom.
"dempsey" Discussed on KSFO-AM
"That time that was completely unthinkable Tom Dempsey that was one of the great sports moments from my childhood that got everybody knew that name and he died over the weekend from the crown in his seventies yeah man born with half a foot and half an arm but decide to take up kicking your special shoe with a flat so they could form to his foot as it was and so we could toe kick straighter than most people so it's really my parents to emphasize you know what a great story that was of overcoming devotions and the rest of the kids over that that kick meant a hell of a lot more I think to humans than just the other was a fine field goal kick all right right right Mando unfortunately I think there's going to be a lot more of famous people you've heard of that's what a famous person's Jack who who died from this because I saw the list at the end of the Washington post to thing store yesterday and I thought wow there's four people I've heard of right there just this past weekend you know if he if we do end up with two hundred thousand people diners can be a lot of famous people and people you know who aren't price there for your own life yeah I've got to admit I feel like a bit of an idiot that the famous people dying makes it more real I know you like I know but I know better than that he I it to us I agree now is something about being human I don't know what else did we ever gonna deal of a Louis C. K. did a comedy act over the weekend we might delve into that just a little bit read some of the quotes that are coming out of that he released a a stand up special in which he addresses the issue that sent him into hiding for a while so well really yeah pretty entertaining plus this whole covert thing might give us a good excuse to discuss federalism and help Americans understand what it means and why it's so important that probably won't happen but it could so that maybe next segment which direction I want to go did some zooming over the weekend and some face timing out like like on both actually does feel like I use facetime more often is because I'm not using big groups we facetimed with some like little cousin of ours and then some older niece who had her twenty first birthday on Saturday twenty first birthday turning twenty one at home face time with our friends all went home with mom and dad for my twenty first good times she said I must I text her I said I can't believe you're twenty one she said well I must look at because I got carded nice and were you buying whiskey or a gun she said both but she was had some girly rum thing she was going to have a home and a face time with some of her friends for twenty first birthday as and we'll remember this for the rest your life you'll have this story no doubt about that yeah yeah we we had a virtual family reunion on Friday via zoom with a bunch of us getting together with people like you know I want then that speaks to arm so we did a little face time thing with a two year old kind of cousin of my sons and did it and there was no reason that we waited until there was a pandemic to do that no reason could have done that any time and I I sort of feel like that maybe now people will do that more often there's no reason why we hadn't gotten together and face time or or zoom or something like that in the past and now they were forced to work work work work we need to figure out the technology here it feels more important or something and the same with like the virtual family reunion or whatever we can all do that well you know how much it means to me when I get the starting five together Judy and I and our three kids and it's so rare you know I'm gonna use some good parental shame to get that going in in in the coming days look do you have fifteen minutes Sunday sun fifteen minutes fifteen minutes for the people who raised you talk to your old patterns Sloan manis okay so but yeah that's something to look forward to I guess the silver lining the the Surgeon General of the United States if you didn't hear this said this is going to be the saddest week of everyone's lives that's what he said yeah we'll play that Fauria it was over the top as far as I'm concerned tragically fitting that we're talking at the beginning of Holy Week because this is going to be the hardest and the saddest week of.
"dempsey" Discussed on AP News
"Former NFL kicker Tom Dempsey who played in the NFL despite being born without toes on his kicking foot and made a 63 yard field goal died late Saturday while struggling with complications from the corona viruses daughter said he was 73 actually Dempsey said Sunday that her father who has resided in an assisted living home for several years after being diagnosed with dementia tested positive for the corona virus a little more than a week ago as a member of the St his game winning field goal against Detroit in 1970 start as an NFL record for 43 years Dempsey spent 11 seasons in the NFL with 5 different teams I'm Josh Rowntree