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Boom! The NSBA Apologizes for Letter to Biden's FBI
"Merrick Garland admitted that the foe letter, the fake letter that concocted artificial complaint from the national school board association was the reason why he said that we're going to start using the FBI to go after moms and dads. Jim Jordan, one of the few good guys in Congress, great friend phenomenal person, cut 23 he's been all over at play tape. So I read the letter and we have been seeing over time. Wow, wow wow. I didn't ask you so you read the letter. That's your source? So let me be clear. This is not a prosecution or some study, some effort, some investigation, someone did that said there's been a disturbing uptake or you just take the words of the national school board association. On the national school board association, which represents thousands of school boards and school board members, says that there are these kind of threats. And now the national school board association is not just a little bit apologizing. You read this letter from the national school board association. This is a full on French style retreat. I mean they are going back to their villages, they are done. The national school board association is surrendering. They are waving the white flag. You read this letter from the national school board association, they sent on Friday retracting the other one. They're like we're done. We are suing for peace, we're sorry. Because yes, even Democrat moms and dads are reading this national schoolboard association letter in saying, wait, what is that? Well, on what? I know some of these people just showing up and complaining. That are wondering and worrying about the direction of our schools and now you're gonna go use the Patriot Act against them? We're not gonna put up with
National School Boards Association Apology Is Too Little, Too Late
"The school board issue has now turned into the defining political issue. Of this year. The national school board association continues in their apology. Now, this is a very important thing. They're not apologizing because they regret what they said, they apologized with the political fallout that has resulted from it because they declared war on moms and dads across the country, asking the government to use the Patriot Act. And here's the most stunning thing that government agreed. Merrick Garland in front of the U.S. Congress, I don't even think he read the national school board association memorandum. We were mentioned in a turning point USA was mentioned in it because of our school board watch list. The national school board association continues with their Friday night apology, we're going to do better going forward. We're engaged in a formal review. Let me just stop. This is like vomit inducing consultant diversity equity inclusion. We're going to do better going forward. It's all like workshop. A formal review of our processes and procedures. Okay, so what was the review of how this came out? Was this some sort of 24 year old Brown educated double mask wearing non binary intern that was like, I'm going to ask the government to use the Patriot Act. Like, okay, that sounds a great idea. What was the process? We will announce specific improvements soon to ensure that there is improved coordination and consultation amongst our staff our board and our members across the country. The review will include not only the procedures or the proceedings leading to this letter, but also other related concerns raised by members, even before the letter was sent. We'll have more to share with you soon after our review continues. If you have any questions, please don't hesitate to contact us. Thank you. They're not sorry. They're not sorry at all. They are in freefall. The national school board association got revealed as an organization that views moms and dads like Timothy McVeigh Eric Rudolph and the unabomber.
Youngkin Beats McAuliffe in Virginia Poll as Education Fight Defines Campaign
"Here, the Virginia governor's race is quickly tightening. The Virginia governor's race is statistically tied in a new poll actually shows that Terry mcauliffe is losing and the Republican challenger is winning. These polls can be all over the place, but we've been keeping our eye in the Virginia governor's race, and we just did a massive event in Virginia. We had 3000 people show up in loudon county, Virginia, new poll alert, according to the university of Mary Washington, now Connor, that's not some right wing. Institution, right? That's not as if it was, you know, let's say Donald Trump organization doing the poll or whatever, right? Okay. So it says that young kin is leading in the polls with 48%, mcauliffe 43%. What is the RealClearPolitics average? Now show. That's always very interesting to look at. But the number one issue the number one issue as to why all of a sudden, the Virginia governor's race has been flipped upside down is schools. New polling shows that parents of K through 12 children. That means suburban women, and fathers, in Virginia, 56% of them want a Republican governor I can't imagine that this is not a recipe for victory for the Republican. Virginia has become a blue state Virginia has become a place that Republicans used to dominate and because of the growth of the kingdom of Washington D.C. in Northern Virginia in loudoun county and fairfax county in particular, these races have just been so frustrating and seemingly untouchable. But because of the new rise of the mom and dad showing up to school board meetings, we are now seeing a backlash and response politically that is profound and that it's
African effort to replicate mRNA vaccine targets disparities
"Scientists in South Africa are attempting to probe the case in mRNA vaccine to bridge the captain vaccinations around poorer countries the project to recreate my dad is cabin nineteen sought is backed by the World Health Organization which is coordinating a vaccine research training and production hub in South Africa scientists to mill Hendricks says the Madonna vaccine is the more transportable of the mRNA vaccines we're trying to get the vaccine security for Africa and in order to do that we need to make sure that we have a vaccine that is appropriate for Africa the scientists are offensively making an end run around an industry that has Pasti prioritized which countries have a poor in both sales and manufacturing Illinois representative Raja Krishnamoorthi said the anyway to stop the virus residing in the U. S. is to vaccinate globally we got to keep the schools open we got to keep the economy open and that means we got to get people vaccinated around the world I'm Karen Thomas
Joe Biden Make Poor Joke About Freedom and Vaccine Mandate
"All right Jim you got 6 Here is the bag of bones the Pino president name only Say nah he's vaccine mandates freedom Schmidt I'm not kind of stuff Check this out I waited until July To talk about mandating because I tried everything else possible The mandates are working All the stuff about people leaving and people will have you have everyone for United Airlines to spirit all these airlines We're not going to get all 96 97% of the people have gotten the vaccine All the talk about all these folks who are going to leave the military If they're mandated not true you got about a 90 some percent vaccination rate I mean so the idea is that look the two things that concern me one are those who just try to make this a political issue Freedom I'm the freedom to kill you with my COVID No I'm freedom Screw you Now you don't That's how Arnold feels Notice how dangerous that argument is One how ridiculous and absurd it is which is everything that emanates from the soup cooler of Joe Biden That argument could be used for anything If you don't eat your broccoli and you then in turn get obese and have a heart attack and take away my room in the hospital when I need an emergency room did you take away my freedom If you smoke or decide to drink and then drink and drive which is obviously a very stupid thing to do when you take out a family of you know three and four kids and mom and dad Did you take away their freedom You took away their life
The Streisand Effect: When Censorship Backfires
"Where does Barbara streisand live or where she once live? I said, Charlie, what does that have to do with anything? Barbara streisand has a big house or had I don't know if she still lives there. And Barbra Streisand was very upset that a certain photographer who wanted to try and catalog the erosion of the California coastline happened to photograph Barbra Streisand's home. Barbra Streisand did everything she possibly could to try to remove this. Barbara streisand was very upset that anyone would dare photograph her home. So this was put on the Internet and Barbra Streisand found out that her house was photographed. She said this was a violation of privacy. Now mind you, this was literally just some environmentalists that was taking pictures of the coastline. So Barbra Streisand realized this and up until she decided to do something about it the image was downloaded 6 times. 6 people were interested in her home. But once she filed a lawsuit to try to prevent anyone from finding out where the house was, the picture became international news and was downloaded 420,000 times in the following month. The lawsuit was eventually dismissed because there really is no violation of privacy to photograph what you can see in a helicopter. This started something known as the streisand effect. It's a phenomenon that occurs when an attempt to hide, remove or censor information, has the unintended consequence of increasing awareness of that information. Often via the Internet. This is exactly what is happening right now with Merrick Garland and the national school board association. In an attempt to censor moms and dads to show up to the school board meeting, just like how Barbra Streisand wanted to censor her home from being on the Internet. We're only 6 people went and saw it. As a result of that and the national school board association and Merrick Garland going after, the grassroots push of parents that have started to care about what's happening to their kids education. We are now seeing more people talk about the national school board association story than ever before.
Merrick Garland Is the Current Hired Gun of the Craven Ruling Class
"Today, Merrick Garland is doing a hearing in front of the House judiciary committee. Merrick Garland is being asked certain questions that he doesn't even know the specifics of what he does his attorney general is exactly what bob Mueller did when he was the appointment, where they have these elderly kind of elderly old men that have had long resumes and careers, Merrick Garland being a federal judge, bob Mueller, think bubble around the FBI, and he's something like that. And then they use them as puppets and they manipulate them to wage domestic war on us. Merrick Garland, you have to understand what you're dealing with here. Is the current hired gun of the craven ruling class. Merrick Garland is the placeholder of all of the entrenched interests. Merrick Garland oversees the department that spied on Donald Trump illegally oversees the department that had Peter struck and Lisa page. James Comey, Merrick Garland is the placeholder unelected by the way no one showed up in huge numbers to go elect Merrick Garland to be able to write letters to say to the national school board to acknowledge the letter from the national school board association, say, you know what? We need to go use the FBI the Department of Justice to go after moms and dads that are showing up in big numbers to school board meetings. Now, Republicans are doing their job here by overseeing Merrick Garland. They're conducting oversight. And a lot of this is just words. But Merrick Garland is not used to being challenged like this. I listen to some of the hearing this morning and I could tell you this is a man who just like bob Mueller is only a placeholder and is being used and manipulated by other treacherous and other malevolent interests. To try to weaponize the federal government in the United States.
NZ Police Answer 4-Year-Old's Call, Confirm Toys Are Cool - Snopes.com
"Police in New Zealand answered an emergency call from a four year old boy the boy called one one one thank you corporate dispatcher quickly realized he was in no danger thank twenty three may what yeah the boy's dad later got on the phone yeah you know for those mothers are feminists are basically I don't know if he's not the least later made a call to the home there is a four year old kid who is wanting to show police the police constable Kurt responded he said the boy had some cool toys and they had a good educational chat about using the emergency number I
The Difference Between an Atheist and an Agnostic
"So what is the difference between an atheist and an agnostic? I think an atheist is a person that really, for them, it's a philosophy. In other words, they say there is no God and they take this stance against God and they claim that that has to do with reason and their pro reason and anti faith. All of that falls apart when you look at it. It doesn't make sense. It's just kind of an angry. It's like a tattoo. It's like, hey, mom, dad. I'm my own man now. I think at some point, you have to go through that. And to the other side and see that even if you don't like people of faith or you don't like what the Bible says, you can be an agnostic and say I have questions. I mean, also, you know, it refers to knowledge, agnostic is to be without knowledge to still have questions. I'm not sure that to me seems respectable and yet what we call atheism, which says, I know there's no God or I'm pretty sure there's no gut. I don't think in this day and age, it can make
'American Marxism' Tops Best-Sellers List on Amazon
"This link was just sent me in and I pulled it up and I put it on the cutter and parlor Amazon's best sellers of 2021 so far Remember my book came out I think it was June wasn't it mister producer Yeah June Maybe it was July I remember By far American Marxism Number two a book called atomic habits Number three the four agreements Number four is a novel Number 5 is a novel Number 6 is a kid's book Number 7 is a kid's book Number 8 is a novel 9 is a novel number ten is a kid's book no 11 is a kid's book Number 12 looks like an adult comic book Number 13 is a novel Number 14 is a novel Number 15 is a Dr. Seuss book Number 16 is power The 48 laws of power 17 rich dad poor dad that book goes on forever 1819 84 same with that one Number 19 5 love language is big book Number 20 kids book Number 21 novel Number 22 peril Bob Woodward's book Robert Costa is a loser book for the amount of money no doubt that they were paid The book that tried to take out Trump like so many of them people are sick of books like that So that book did very very poorly overall
It's Time to Rise Up Like the Loudoun County Parents
"Last night I've never seen such incredible intensity such energy and commitment from just normal people that were never involved in politics as I saw yesterday in loudoun county Virginia. What I saw in loudoun county Virginia at the church event and our private gatherings, we did a pastor's round table. We did all sorts of things. Was regular moms and dads, people that had never been involved. In any of these fights before saying, I don't care what you take from me, are children, are the line you will not cross. And for all of you listening across the country. I want you to hear this very clearly. You need to rise up like the loudon county parents did as well. These people are heroes. And what's so amazing is I ask them privately, I said, well, haven't you paid a price for this? They said, of course we have. We've lost all of our friends, but we've made new ones. Our kids have been singled out blacklisted, but they don't care. We are fighting and contestant for truth. We are now a new type of activist, the more they throw at us the stronger we become.
Standup Comedy "Laughs" TV Show Lineup 1987 Mike Baily, Nicky Shane & Tim O'Rourke Show #87 - burst 1
"I got a chance to go further. John got married. So i had to go back and being his winning and it was kind of a nightmare because they had to do and to get on a plane and flooded dayton ohio and then get into a car with my entire family and drive to missouri and that was heavy. You know i love my parents dearly. My family and i get along real well. It don't travel with them very much. I have a brain in my hand. So i'd say the aug dayton ohio is like a million degrees all eight of us crammed into the oldsmobile. So the first thing we gotta do is ro those windows up. Turn out air conditioner on and smoke cigarettes. Tom smoke a lot. When dad droves got real nervous two blocks down the street. Your mom dad is you. We need is for the cooler sedan would pull the only close seven eleven in val universe responding that way of his his brand is if we can just go home car out of against.
The Death of George Floyd Literally Set the Country on Fire
"The death of George Floyd literally set the country on fire. And immediately, it was kind of confirmation bias of the narrative that we were always told, which is that law enforcement police officers are going and they're walking the streets, trying to find black people. They're literally killing them without any sort of due process whatsoever. The numbers don't bear this out at all. I'm happy to get into that 30 unarmed black people were killed by police officers in 2018, 2019 combined. Out of that, some of them tried to run over police officers their car, grabbing weapons, the police officers, and out of 335 million police interactions, you have 30 unarmed black people in just two years. All of a sudden you're like, is that really worth redesigning American society around that? That would be foolish and imprudent. We decided to do it anyway. $2 billion of damages and all of a sudden, every major corporation stemming from what's happening in college campus is we decided to all of a sudden embrace this that we're systemically racist. We're a white supremacist country, and if you dare disagree with us, we will character assassinate, you mock you ridicule you because you're a racist, sit down and shut up. And all of a sudden people started to read the literature, moms and dads are like wait a second, you're trying to tell my 8 year old that he's a racist just because of the color of your skin, like not so fast. Started to show up in school board meetings, loud and county, Virginia, big center, that. And so now where we are today in October 2021, actually critical race theory has a negative view by a majority Americans. Not overwhelming about 56% of Americans say, wait a second. This is a little bit too radical for me. You know, I can understand that if you want to have a conversation about some of these things, but all of a sudden saying that we need to have white privilege walks, and we have segregated graduation ceremonies. We didn't have segregation today to make up for segregated segregation yesterday by iber max Kennedy. That's too much
Former President Bill Clinton fighting infection in California hospital
"An aide to Bill Clinton is offering a few details about the former president's hospitalization the aide says Bill Clinton is in an intensive care section of the university of California Irvine Medical Center but he's not receiving I see you care the aide who spoke to reporters at the hospital on condition his name wasn't used did not elaborate on the reason the former president was in the I see you but he does say Clinton had a urological infection that spread to his bloodstream the A. dad's Clinton never went into septic shock and is on the mend Hillary Clinton is with the former president in the hospital the was daughter Chelsea Clinton is not there's no word on the timeline for Clinton's release I'm
Trump's Former War Room Director Andy Surabian on His Path to Politics
"He's former special assistant to president Trump and deputy political strategist. My good body. Andy, sarabia. Welcome back to America first. Thanks so much for having me today, sad. It's been way too long. It has been way too long, but we know you're a busy guy, you're in the background, you're making sure that we get the right maga candidates and that they win and this freight train of America first, not only trounces the Democrats in the midterms next year, but also our old boss will win in 2024. We have so much to discuss. You are a Republican strategist and you are the spokesperson for Donald Trump Jr.. So I just want to get in there that this is what these are the little things that this guy does after he leaves The White House. Hopefully we'll see him back there soon enough. Andy, let's start because we have an unfettered discussion here, say a little bit about yourself. Where do you hail from and how did you get into this? Is my dad used to say politics? It's disgusting, but it's so fascinating. So if your audience isn't able to tell by the accent that I still have to this day, I was born and raised in the very conservative dashkin of Massachusetts or the longtime nickname of tax executives. But this world has gotten so crazy that there's numerous states that have higher taxes today than Massachusetts. I mean, that's how crazy this country has gone over the last several years or we can't even really call it that's the truth it's anymore. But born and raised in Massachusetts, how did I get involved in politics, my lord? I mean, that's kind of an interesting question. I will give you the short version. Was originally interested in politics, via Ron Paul's presidential campaign in 2008. And I was just very interested in seeing someone come from outside the typical political
Dan Bongino Has a New Warning For Companies That Work With Nandini Jammi
"The chief of the village of idiots the captain the oligarch of the dumb a woman named nandini jami who is just spends her whole life in a basement somewhere I don't know what she's doing if she's paying rent pays mom or dad I don't know She spends her whole life canceling people from her Twitter account So as I've told her often I beg her to boycott my show and everything every single time because my entire life's about fighting these people back and I had nothing more I like to do than expose these idiots for the communists they really are So nandini has decided to pick a fight with Andy no a site He was associated with the post millennial Andy know who happens to be an Asian gay liberal by the way but AMD know has taken upon himself to expose antifa And of course nandini supports antifa obviously doesn't like that So it's getting most of his psychic hands I don't know if you saw this story but nandini's gone after his sight to post millennial Again so let me just send a warning to the cancelers out there Turn up your radios and listen real good This is for everyone out there I've got a radio show in over 300 stations I've got the second most popular conservative podcast in the country Self praise thinks that's not a brag That's a simple fact Read it and weep Got a show on a cable news channel and one of the most popular Facebook pages around It is asymmetric warfare Bandini has a small infinitesimal following So I'm going to tell you right now I'm watching everything she does Every company she reaches out to that cooperates with nandini and engages in communist tactics I have a microphone and a megaphone a thousand times if not more larger than hers For every company that cooperates like that glasses company RV Parker that caved That caved I will expose you and I will make it my life's work to make sure working with nandini becomes so painful that anyone who even responds to one of her tweets will have to think about this show first
Loudoun County Father Becomes Face of 'Domestic Terrorism' for Alleging Daughter Was Raped in School Bathroom
"Now mat I just want to switch topics You have been heavily involved in this fight against CRT Virginia resident which is great Virginia I'm sure loves loves having you But that fight in loudon counties got ugly The daily wire had a story up today That just is I mean beyond disturbing I mean it's like savagery So there's this father who's a daughter was attacked and sexually assaulted and then some of these bureaucrats start going after the dad because he spoke out against some of this transgender ideology being pushed out of the stories just hard to believe I know you saw it Your thoughts on that Yeah this was wild kind of school district was trying to push this policy of opening the bathrooms up and allowing the boys into the girls room And while that was happening while this fight was happening there was a case allegedly where a boy went into a girl's bathroom and raped the girl and he's been charged he's been charged with it And the school the crime is horrible and then as always in these situations you have the institutional cover up and so apparently what happened is that they told the father we want to keep this in-house And the father was understandably upset I think one of the worst and most despicable things on the part of school and the school system is the way the way that they've tarnished this man who I mean anyone who's a father I have a daughter If this is what happened to my daughter I can't even imagine what my reaction would be and to lash out and be angry and yell That's the least of what would be justified And he goes to a school board meeting and he gets he's very upset obviously because this happened to his daughter and speaking out against these policies and there's a minor altercation that happens involving him No one is injured seriously injured or anything And they take that as this is one of their prime examples now of alleged violence at school board meetings It's one of the only times that there's anything that could remotely be called violent even though again it's just a minor skeleton And they're using that as an example to not only tarnish him but everybody all other parents and say well they're all a bunch of domestic cares That's what we need to get the FBI
Author Matt Rosenberg Is a Chicago Native Son Who Can’t Believe What He’s Seeing
"His name. Is matt rosenberg. The book is what next chicago notes of a pissed off native son. Wow matt rosenberg. Welcome to the program. Thank you eric. It's a pleasure to be here. I know of you because of your dad the legendary milt rosenberg my goodness. How long did he do radio. I mean how many years was he in that world. Thirty eight years he was on. Wgn am but it was just a second job. His first job He was a professor of social psychology at the university of chicago. And i grew up in hyde park in the professor of social social psychology with common sense and great curiosity which i think he passed on at least partially to me. So you've been a journalist. You've done a lot of things this book. I mean everybody in the country Including some chicagoans are wondering what in the world is happening in chicago. so what. What is the book about what next chicago. What ultimately Are you saying here. I am addressing urban progressive misrule In our nation's biggest cities. I'm looking at the unified theory of systemic racism and positing that that is not the problem that the problem is that urban political elites largely of color are running our nation's biggest cities into the ground. What i'm also trying to do. When this book. I went deep into the south side. I moved back to chicago where i lived for thirty years. from the time of being a a young child six years old to you know My mid thirties. When i finally left and moved to seattle with my lovely wife where we raised two children. I had to come back in twenty twenty looking at the city in chaos and turmoil. I went deep into the south side. Talk to black people in their homes and workplaces about what's gone wrong how to set things right so that was a big part of it but then the policy piece. Eric was very big. I felt don't shy away from this. How is it that the public schools are failing. How is it that the criminal court system has run off the rails. How was it that. of fiscal governance has gone so wrong. Why is it that corruption is endemic and rules of governance are rigged so it was ambitious. But i feel like. I had a chance to step up to
"dads" Discussed on The Ten News
"Top. Five wild dad's number five. The silverback gorilla silverback gorillas are social animals that live in groups called harem. Each harum consists of one adult male gorilla and several adult female gorillas and their babies. The one adult male gorilla serves as dad to all of the babies and takes care of them with help from their mommas. He has the important job of protecting the infants from predators and with a bunch of babies running around in different directions. You can be a challenging task. But don't worry this. Dad also gets to have some fun. He helps the babies learn to socialize and can often be found playing games with all of his little ones number. Four the rea- r. number four slot goes to an ostrich-like bird from south america. Who has a lot on its plate. During meetings season. The mail rea- built a large nest and puts on a show by stretching and controlling his body to attract the ladies. If his show is impressive several ladies will join his harem. Then the females will lay their eggs and leave to join another group. Now all of the work falls on. Papa ria who has upwards of fifty eggs to take care of all by himself. He works hard and sits on his nest. Keeping them warm for two months with little to no food and being a single dad doesn't get any easier once the eggs hatch. Young papa has dozens of tiny mouths to feed. Birds got a lot on his hands. I mean wings. Number three red fox arthur data on the list likes to practice tough love now from the moment. Red fox pups are born. Their dad goes out to hunt and brings back food for the family each day. These babies are gifted with three unlimited door dash but when the fox's turn about three months old dot cancels their food deliveries sounds harsh but dad knows that his little ones need to learn to hunt and forage on their own. The pumps don't love having their free food. Supply cut off but daddy helps ease them into things bearing food around the den and teaching them how to find it by using their super sniffers number two seahorse the second place slot on our countdown goes to a very unique animal where the male of the species gives birth. What yes i know. It sounds crazy but it's true. We're talking about seahorses now. During the courting process male and female seahorses will dance around each other. This dance can take days the to decide that they like each other. The be mobile deposit her eggs in the mail special pouch once safely inside the pouch the eggs are fertilized and they begin growing into miniature versions of adult seahorses and after only twenty days the father seahorse gives birth to hundreds of tiny little babies and now to announce the number one dad in the animal kingdom this prestigious title goes to the dad that gives the best piggyback rides the giant water bug
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"dads" Discussed on The Circle of Dads
"You automatically assume if I was in her shoes automatically assume it I'd done something wrong. You know if my significant other came home and they're not talking to me and their and Shitty mood and they're just being real abrasive than yeah I would one hundred percent thanks may so that that hurdle that we leapt over with me open up communicating I mean that was that was a game changer for us and we're still learning things about each other. We've you know it's been seven years now and We've done everything backwards way society tells us. You know you're supposed to do in a relationship, but we did our and it's worked and it's absolutely amazing and. Just today I learned that when I get done washing the dishes when her pet peeves is I leave water and shit right to the right of the sink. Fully wipe up the sink she appreciates doing the dishes but she laughed it and she's like. Just got to tell you something I go up to. She goes you never wipe the water when you're done with the dishes like. Duly. noted. Yeah. So Wax On now now life is better. So you're always learning man you're always in a position to make your relationship as long as the efforts there you can do it. And you know that being able to communicate and like I know. You talk about Alpha males and and. And we're both Alpha types were. Alpha men. And it's and it's It's usually you're not supposed to talk about your feelings. You're not supposed to work through this stuff you're supposed to just be. STOIC. Being a pussy. Drink water and take any you know. And I learned how damaging that can be. Because I didn't know how to communicate anything. But also, I didn't even know how to do the self evaluation figure out what it was. I was feeling what emotion you know like anger. Can show up in everything. Yeah. It's really fear or sadness insecurity so like my natural default was. Anger and frustration. So always mad. Always scared. You know always terrified I wasn't going to be a good dad. And at the beginning of Abbey's life when her mom and I were still together and I was still drinking like an Asshole, I wasn't a good dad. You know and thankfully I got sober and I was able to be. Able to rebuild that and you know just make that decision. That I'm going to start differently right now. And and that's one of the greatest decisions I've ever made But it's not always easy because you're you constantly have to keep moving and you have to keep. Growing and figuring out what it is that makes you tick. I see I'll you know have a conversation with guys and they'll? They'll kind of hint that they haven't seen their kids in a while. Why? Why would you? Why would you just accept that? And it's you know you get built up with so much shame. And you justified. However, you can in your head so that you can sleep at night. But really that kids the one get hurt. And it and it hurts me when I hear of other guys that have been beaten down by that and they they're not in the kids lives. Could very easily been me. And I'm I'm so grateful that that wasn't the path that I ended up on. You know but had I not gone through the work and had not. Honestly. I in you talk about. Echo being the source of everything good in your life I. Mean I feel the same way about my wife. Everything good that I had in my life has has. Largely came because of that woman. In really mostly because. She supports me unconditionally. Jazz mock me she doesn't bust my balls. You know she's she's she Trust that I'm always doing the right thing and and that I'm safe. You know and that's That's so valuable. And I it really makes me sad when I see other people that don't have that. You know, and so that's one of the other reasons why we're so attracted to y'all because y'all have that you'll have that trust. You know she was. Talking to me on the way over here about how respectful your two other women. But not in flirty way yeah. You know like I have. a large group of women in my life that I'm super protective of. And they've become like sisters to me and most of them you know I've met through Mardi Right But never flirty. My friend. Jack with them but never anything. Inappropriate. And that makes me so proud that they feel safe around me that I'm not A. Creep. Given that look every now and then? Yeah now, Echo has won hurt best friends whose I call her sister. Now, a matter through echo amy absolutely lever to death same deal mean. A. Big Fan amy, she's awesome. She's of culture. She is awesome. One of my best memories of hers, Down In. Mexico, where she was riding innertube that wave wasn't paying attention and it just rocked her instead they're somersaulting. Yeah. That was a good one but yeah. So the trust issue that's that's huge. especially with one of our businesses. Where it's There's Mo- There's millions of people within this organization and business. Then when we go to convention each year. You know we're top ranks within the the company. So of course, our our names very known So when we go to convention It's it's crazy man I've I've never been the one to idolize a human being just because we're all human we're all the same But being top ranks within this company. When you go to a convention, you're in your name and faces very known. So people that are just starting out want to meet you. And last year I went. By myself echoes unable to go when I went by myself and. I probably had. Over two or three thousand females come up to me and WanNa pitcher and talk to me for second In his echo, you have to be very secure and there has to be trust in the relationship which goes back to I've never given a reason not trust me you know. Someone called me out on social media because they noticed and all the pictures I taken with the women. Apparently, Jonah Reeves does a deal when he takes a pitcher with a woman yeah. He'll. He'll disarms outside or his hands are always in view a pitcher, and that's something I do as well and I did that year convention and someone called it out I won't get an elevator by myself with a woman. I won't put myself in a position where anything could ever start you know. I would never wanNA break that trust or pont with BECO-, and just rumors you know. So yeah. So as a Keanu reeves when your last year it convention but going back to the trust man, it's huge and that's one thing I value most about echo nuys relationship is the trust. Huge, you have to have that because. In the past I'm the type of trust man starting insecure that jealousy starts coming out. Yeah. People get punched for no reason. Insecure and I think you looked at my wife wrong and now y'all exchange numbers or whatever. You know the mind is such a strong. Thing and once you go down that rabbit hole of insecurity it is hard to get pulled back out. Once the relationship the trust has been broken. It's very hard to rebuild that and I know from experience with past relationships. So that's why I value echo is trust so much. With with. My Wife's never given me any reason ever to not trust her. There's never been any reason that I've ever had to like look through stuff for wonder. And I've always struggled with jealousy among other relationships. After. Doing the work I've figured out that it was all mount insecurities I mean that's same here once you say it out loud here like Shit but you know with Marty, there's been one or two times in our relationship that I've gotten super jealous. Re and really she didn't even know it was just going on in my head. and. That would go for a couple of days not start feeling myself. You know really like put myself in a lot of misery. and. Then it just kind of clicked. What's going on with you? Are you feeling so insecure? And you know it would have been the business wasn't doing well so I was making. I wasn't like bringing money like I like I should be you know so should be. You, and so I wasn't holding up my end of the bargain therefore, i. didn't have as much value and I wasn't distracted for whatever it may have been. And so I was able to kind of navigate through that and. It out and talk to other guys and and work through that and and realize have anything to do with her..
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"Back and You know that and hear terrible stories like that are being laid off. he also I had a phone call today at work with a client who added when she was a nurse in a In in quarantine away from her family it sounded horrible You know one hand we We're very fortunate and You know our goal is to keep our families safe and hopefully resume life as we know it going forward but Strange but true. Well it's with something like this to in the nature of it just gets closer and closer to your right as the numbers. Go up so when you first heard about it. It was like this is happening reading about it. And there's that separation between what you're experiencing what you're reading about right right and then it starts to get closer and closer than it. Someone you know friend of a friend or a friend of a friend of a friend and then it starts getting closer than it's like. Oh someone i knew from high school. Yeah it seems like it's getting closer and closer as the numbers come up. And you mentioned furloughs and companies and let me just urge all companies furlough his the way to go in the sense of reducing people down to eighty percent sixty percent then laying people off laying. People off is such a devastating. Move then in your access to healthcare is interrupted or much more expensive like we. It's weird in this. This is exposing a lot of issues in our country. Which is our health care is tied to employment. But what happens when twenty. Two percent of the population is unemployed. Like what does that mean for them. So when you are financially most vulnerable because you're unemployed and you're trained to save and get by and scrimped is when our country says. Oh by the way your healthcare now cost twice as much you have to play or employers portion as well or you gotta go find it on this website and figure out how all this works..
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"Its eleven th birthday and but it was a shock. I never had a puppy before Even as a kid we always found strays they were already. They way they were but it was amazing. The amount of training just to get him to walk on the liege. Get him to make sure they you know he figured out how to go to the bathroom wearing needed to go like within twenty four hours so that was good but it was just everything else. Jumping teething chewing. It is a lot of work. But it's well worth it obviously. So we'll good luck with that venture look forward to hearing more about that so we'll see how that boy or girl inner dynamics here and we'll get her at eight weeks. Okay so she okay. We're working on the naming rights so so excellent. now what's interesting is your you know. Your life has changed dramatically as well considering what a big sports fan you are and the fact that there's no sports obviously the draft of nfl draft. Know if you watch any of that. That was recently and that was a salvation island. Yeah credits in your house where you know you've got something coming up in a little extra work leading into it so that you can have your time so i told my is probably the last sporting event that should happen and it's a legitimate event and it's still same and so for three days. I'm going to be watching it nonstop. And i always forget the. Nfl draft is a little boring. After you get into it hour and a half of the players out of the teams that you watch for your team you watch for your college players to go somewhere. It looks good. It was nice refreshed me but with season tickets have season tickets to college football. Also the nba. It's like killing me a little bit..
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"No thanks. People want to get to know you bowling. Would you like to bowl on father's day I would have with the girls while ago? They probably would be less Not not too hot on. No right water park waterpark. Yeah that would be all right. I wouldn't mind that CARSO car show now not not my scene definitely not there so outdoor adventure outdoor adventure absolutely movies movies good yes. I'm in Golf Golf Driving Range we've done and that's a good one then putting on a show for us now I There's no way I would ever get them to do that now. But years ago there was a show going on all the time a picnic picnic sweet absolutely. I would be up for that. Camping camping always good. But generally I would need to know about that advanced and I'm sorry to surprise me on that one. You Know Video Games Video Games. And that's that's two every day Barbecue barbecue generally all doing the barbecue. So that's that's always a good thing. Take Dadullah Baseball game. If if they're in town that wouldn't be bad. So when my net at all Glen would you like breakfast in bed on Father's Day on that it would be all right but usually it's They just delivered Lee and for that lucky ten percent of the US population going to the beach or possibly. Yes always a good thing. Yeah so there you go. There's some great tits activities do unpublished fantastic so one thing occurred to me as we were preparing for. This show is if you think about it every year. There's like a journey in the sense that you know our kids get older. We get older life. Changes circumstances changes. I was asked you and I thought about it myself. What is the kind of the one big lesson or something? You've learned that you've learned in the last twelve months You know that you could impart to the fellow. Dad's the legions of dad listeners. Out there and I'll go first greg. You know one of the things I glen. Could you go? I think I'm GonNa go first absolutely but one of the things that's kind of an interesting thing is the I think you have to modify the playbook and what I mean by that is that what may have worked in a parenting standpoint. How you related to the kids in a even a year or two years ago in you're GONNA have to change up your Your being in the way because they what they listen to how they listen how they respond to your jokes three years ago. Where funny when they were three years younger but no longer are funny so I I hate to say IT I. We all have to evolve. They evolve and I think parenting needs to evolve. So I I you know I do some of the same things that I've done through years jokes or teasing them and they they are not well received. So I've gotta mix it up a little more and then part of that is actually listening more to them and in terms of You Know Mickey Charm Responding In what they're looking for as opposed to just Responding normally so I guess I'm saying is adapt or die is a good parenting technique. That I think I've I've I haven't necessarily applied it but I've learned that That it's something I need to do. Well if you think about professional athletes or your career also professional father exactly what you got to think about your game and your skill set and your toolkit and evolve. It's like changing the golf swing. Absolutely you know tiger reconfigured exactly exactly wing PUMPAD. Two people have to chain absolutely greg. How about you what What is the one thing you learned in the last twelve months when as a dad I think with sixth an eight year old I think You know as as sort of open up to the world and start experiencing the world more I think you have to expect to work harder to connect with them and so before I think you know there are a little smaller inward focused. And you're a little more at the center of everything as parents and then now they're getting cold in a number of different directions and you're you come home. You have dinner. They're going to bed. It's like it's all becoming very fast and a blur so you have to sort of think about. Where can I connect? It doesn't happen as naturally and so you have to start to evolve some common interests things you do together and so we've been doing a great series of books right. We did. Pinocchio Peter Pan now are in Charlie and the chocolate background which is amazing at this age. Six eight a highly recommended. Every chapter is like a cliffhanger that they're screaming for Oh really and then Maybe it's a project together. We're going to put a ZIP line over the swimming pool in the next few weeks. Maybe it's watching sports or playing sports but something that you can do together that they're excited about because it just doesn't happen quite as fast or is sufficiently or as naturally without a little strategic jury around it. It's interesting 'cause you're actually right. You're the center and your wife or the center of their universe in a way but again it and then you're right. There's other things they start to see and you become a supporting character in it yet. Now there is something during the day in school or something after school and so their schedules are starting to fill up. So yes we're GONNA have to figure out where you're going to bond with them now. I think that's really That's that's excellent advice and It's definitely something we have to. You can't be complacent and keep learning and and go from there so that's great. Thank you for sharing your one idea Do you have any other father's Day Folklore you'd care to share all? I thought I'd close us out with some Quotes from some comedians about father. I thought I'd read some of these. And then you give me a quick review impression. Maybe it's what is the fundamental truth behind? This is it funny. Does it resonate any of your opinions are bringing on? Are you ready to climb ready? Craig David Tell David L. I don't know who David Attila a very famous standup comedian. Because when you're young you think your dad is Superman. Then you grew up and you realize he's just a regular guy who wears a cape very profound very profound but at least he. He's you know I don't know what else to say. How very profound I think that's right. Yes Okay Rita redner you ever good all right I gave my father one hundred dollars and said by yourself something that will make your life easier so he went out and bought a gift for my mom. That's that is really the essence of of the whole relationship dynamic at the good answer all right the next one number three no drum rolls here Bob Auden Kirk. I think he's the Guy I know who he is from breaking bad. Yeah Yeah Okay. The actor My daughter got me a world's Dad Mug so we know she sarcastic very profound profound and that self deprecating humor always works well with the kids so you know what I mean so that was good craig any other service to more tomorrow from Rodney. Dangerfield have heard of Rodney Dangerfield. He said me and my dad used to play tag. He'd drive. I get no respect. That's right all right. And the last we're going to close out with an American icon Mark Twain Mark Twain Roaf. When I was a boy of fourteen my father was so ignorant I could hardly stand to have the old man around but when I got to be twenty one. I was astonished at how much the old men had learned in seven years. Oh yes that's a very good. I like that very early days of just not right right thinking within as you get older in your twenties you start coming back around and you think that was one hundred some years ago and yet it rings knows interviews stated this thing. I always tell people if they're having problems with their teenager. Wait until they're twenty three legged. Usually they come back and they're more sensible but yeah we're still. It's still not there yet. That's for future episodes but That's great I think we've got it covered. Craig thanks for England. You know. Don't just feedback Glen. You'RE A model here I've watched. I've learned You really go all in your all in. I don't WanNa be as much of a father as you are but I am learning and taking no no and you've got Yeah I don't want to give it back to you because you don't like that but Otherwise but We got to thank all of Dad's I mean it's a tough job and It's the best job you'll ever have all of that you know that but ultimately off just a good time to take the point to recognize that it's the best job you'll ever have and And do your best at it and it's easy to get complacent it's easy to get distracted and easy to think about yourself but you know helping those girls evolve and grow and nurture them so they can be stand on their own. Two feet is is really. You know the gift we give to the world and the gift we give is when things are hard at difficult or you have a question Someone you need to talk to you come to the DADS outnumbered podcast. And that's not enough. Make sure you tell a friend a family member. There's lots of DADS out there who were DADS of daughters. They might want something humorous to listen to on the drive home on their run so spread the word and help us Raise better dot there you go. You are not alone everyone. Thank you and have a great father's.
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"Always try to have a little dip in the afternoon. It doesn't always happen but our kids don't necessarily nap. They might take a nap once every three months or four months when this out of control but I think we put them on stories like a sparkle story with a subscription stories and they have to lay down and listen to a story or two usually twenty to forty five minutes of just a little more. Chill time it's We call it rest time but I don't think they actually fall asleep. Did Dad get any naps during the trip I don't think so good. What's the mother-in-law good for if we done that's right? Get a nap in the last thing I learned is really. Planes are a miserable place as not just the bathrooms on the planes but planes can be miserable for long periods of time so my wife always has sort of a more rigidity on what she wants the kids to do on an airplane. They need to do activities and coloring and then they need to do this and she tries to keep them on sort of their normal life schedule where I say. If you're on a plane you can let the rules. Sorta falls to the wayside because the plane is miserable enough. We don't have to try to add onto that so we let the kids watch implied entertainment on united and others So the kids got to watch a lot of shows a lot of TV and so they're in heaven and they're quiet and they're not bothering you so it's actually a chance for you to sleep or read or watch something as well so I say. Planes are miserable enough. Why make them more so it? Did you send drinks back from first-class while you're sitting little joke there buddy? I'm glad he had a great time. You know Real quick on while I didn't go to Europe my middle daughter. Who's going to be a senior in high school went on a school trip For eleven days and so. It's interesting where you're hearing your experience but you know it's one of those things where it was ten students and two teachers and she went to Ireland Wales England and France and had a great time and it was really neat. Because that's the way the longest she'd been away from home and so on one hand it was like we wonder house you'll do and she also likes her downtime and so to be on stage you know twenty four seven for eleven straight days. We were worried if that was going to take it sold. But she had a great time at at She made a bonded made some relationships. The said the weather was in Ireland. It rained the whole time. But she said it was really fabulous. So how you do. I know your oldest daughter is been out and about and but now you're getting down into the other daughters and so How did you feel about her? Leaving the country without being close enough to you guys like. Was it a a form of stress each day? Do Motion notionally. You know it is interesting and you gotta give credit to the oldest child in the family Because they are you know they really are the trailblazer so my oldest daughter went when she was going between tenth eleventh grade. She went to Switzerland with girl scout troop several years ago. And that was tough. I just because when you worry but as the more it's happens these year it gets in and So it was more wasn't that you know you Mr in the house but again as time goes on you start to get easier. My oldest also spent a summer in France last summer. So you get kind of used to them or comfortable with them being gone for long stretches of time but you know this is one that she hadn't gone before You know by herself and so But it worked out great and So we're really happy for you. Don't need to get him back from. It's great to get back. We we went to the airport at eleven o'clock on Monday. We had signs A welcome back signs. It was a lot of fun so nice. Well you know this is our fathers day episode. This is our fathers day into exactly. This banter lasted at like twelve on cable banter. Wait while you had stories to tell advisors share so Spending all these time in In Europe you know how it is so but now with. What's the plan for Father's Day this year? Do you have any idea of what you will be doing this? Father's Day Craig. Yes I had this fundamental shift. You know two years ago when my parents moved to Phoenix yes fathers. They used to be all right a car. You make a phone call. Send a gift and out the whole ton right and then everything could be about me and you know that's where I start from so Yeah I'm not struggling with but there is a another hierarchy my father to consider and have to make sure he's having say oh. You're splitting father's Day. I know there's a lot of fathers out there who have to split father's Day with maybe two other fathers stepfathers. Yeah the whole clan so I'm working through that. And so what I tried to do is figure out. At first. I was like well. I'M GONNA do my thing. He can do his thing. We'll get together at some point later in the day as pie and car But then I decided what our common interests so Fortunately well just coincidentally my. My mom is taking my girls to play pink delicious. The play I got my wife. I got my wife to drive them. Even though she going Inge Right GonNa sit outside or work at a cafe or something and so then my dad and I are now clear. So we're going to go to the movies on Sunday afternoon and then we'll go back to their place to barbecue so I figure movie meet and then everyone will join us and we'll have dinner and exchange gifts and Apple Pie there you go. And that's that's that's actually great. Because at the end of the day is the Dad and your dad is well what what does he want? He doesn't want pomp and circumstances. He wants downtime. Hedonism and but his pious tradition at the At your household. And Yeah but it's going to be funny because my mom. I think shows her love through cooking and I got and but I will not be partaking in the pie this year. I'm on that Tito. Oh good for you and so my mom has yet to find out that I will not be accepting her love on poverty. So we'll see how all that goes down. But do you know Glenn Let me tell you haven't we all you know as they're older again it's interesting when With the girls. It's a surprise because they drive and have means of income. You know it's literally GonNa be a lunch or a breakfast and I should be pretty much off the hook. Is it a meal with your kids without your this right? She does not get involved. Yes we've now gone to the father's Day or Mother's Day is solely kid and parent the other parent is singular. The other one is off the hook. So it's actually mother's Day was a vacation for me because I had an entire afternoon to of You know no one else in the household so was great so the same thing for her. So I'll take me somewhere. My wife is completely off the hook. Which which is actually fought because they're not my You know he's not my you know. What age does the bad gifts stop and more reasonable gifts begin? Oh it's usually goes elementary school. We actually The I think they go from the handmade gifts end about six grade. Just to let you know ten eleven and then they get into gift certificates such as I will spend time with you or something along that line and now I just told them this year because my birthdays just a week before and they already did stuff for me at I said. Let's do meal and experiential and I'm good you know so. I'M NOT EXPECTING ANYTHING THIS YEAR. Which is totally fine by me. As long as we're spending time together that's the important thing. Well here's a few other things that father's like to do or ideas to do because you can't be a little selfish on father's Day and I know fathers out there who are like. Oh I just want to spend it with my kids. That's the whole point of father's Day. I'm a father you can't be selfish or you can do things with the family. So here are the most popular things to do on father's Day so You give you give me your immediate response. Yeah good.
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"We're GONNA do a Quick Dad's quiz let you know. I don't know the answers to these but we'll do it together and see how we score. Okay all right question. Number one is who invented father's Day The names are multiple choice. There Alvin Austin Sonora. Smart DODD or Julia Ward Howe. Sin Noah No from college and it's not the same person but gosh you caress fully during one thousand nine mother's Day sermon Sonora. Smart Dodd came up with the idea for father's Day as a way to honor her widowed father of six I would never. I just went with the name. It was a hundred percent gas on my bed which. Us President Made Father's Day a national holiday. Was it Calvin Coolidge Harry Truman or Richard Nixon? Truman everything happen with Truman. We're going to go with Truman wrong. Answer Sorry Cooler. Although father's Day was began and spokane Washington in one thousand nine ten it wasn't until Nineteen seventy-two said you'd Nixon signed a proclamation. So we were like one hundred year afterthought from a mother's Day mother's Day was founded on a whim kind of two right. Yeah but it was one hundred years. Yeah in two thousand and nine Charles. J sailor became the first male president of what Mothers Against Drunk Driving National Parent Teachers Association or the late J League Lecce. Let's go with little H. Okay and wrong answer. I. I wouldn't know either for the first time since it was formed The National Parent teachers the PTA elected a male president just alleged any officially took the helm in two thousand nine. Wow it's really making making strides. Aren't they glassy? I'm so happy about which famous researcher referred to Fatherhood as a biological necessity and social accident. Benjamin spock Margaret Mead or Charles Darwin. Let's go with Charles Darwin. All right and wrong answers. Sock was widely circulated. Quote is anthropologist. Margaret Mead Margaret made. Okay sorry this stuff one. What percentage of American children are raised in households without their biological fathers so house? Oh Yeah Oh yeah twelve percent twenty-three percent or thirty nine. I'M GONNA say Twenty Three. It has to be somewhat. I went in for for sure on. Get it. It's thirty nine. Thirty nine prophetic well again. Not THEIR BIOLOGICAL FATHER. That does it could be a step parent or another. Yeah Yeah Yeah but but still. That's did not know. Was that high I didn't either. That's amazing fathers from which country Spain's divorce? Yeah thank you. Fathers from which country spend the most amount of time with their children on average the United States the Netherlands Britain? I'd say the Netherlands. They always do my guest correct. That's right according to research conducted by Fatherhood Expert Stony Brook University sociologist. Michael Kimmel Dad's in the Netherlands. Spend twice as much time with their kids compared to American deaths twice which time British Papas put in forty percent more time than their paternal counterparts across the pond. Yeah more than USA that I believe yeah less TV less destroyed so which of the following famous DADS have the most kids. Jim Henson Mahatma Gandhi or Stephen King didn't know they were famous dance but I didn't either I'm GONNA go with. Let's do Stephen King Stephen King. That's an interesting one wrong answer. Sorry Jim Henson Gyms Jane at five children Just to let you know eight had five kids the at five kids. Yes okay gone have four sons and King History. Mci So in two thousand and eight. What percentage of American children younger than six eight dinner every night with dad so two thousand and eight percentage of American children younger than six ate dinner at every night which has got to be pretty small. Show every night stuff. Thirty three percent. Fifty four percent or seventy one percent. I would say thirty three my guest to wrong answer. If before interesting. Seventy one percent of American kids ate dinner every night with their dads in two thousand and two thousand eight. I find it hard to believe kids. Yeah no yeah right. Yeah I mean. It just seems highly unusual. How could it be when thirty nine percent nevermind I logically? Dads are a few more questions to go. We're not doing well right now. To write six wrong dissolute which major historic outnumbered we are? We've lost objectivity which major historical event institutionalized the family model of father as breadwinner and mother as caregiver So again one more time. Which major historical events institutionalize the family model of fathers breadwinner mother as caregiver and lightens men? The Industrial Revolution or world. War what I'd say the Industrial Revolution and the answer is correct. All right we got another one. Father spent more time at home Until that that event occurred so very good couple more questions to go. According to two thousand and nine British survey men gain how much weight during their partners pregnancies. Eight pounds fourteen pounds or twenty one pounds. I'd say eight eight is the answer wrong answer. Sorry it is. Fourteen dollars seems high but it does seem kilograms. Just let you throw over listening. Which of the following countries offers the most generous paternity leave the United States France or Sweden Sweden? The Swedes oddities we. Of course. Let's see here. They get at least two months off while earning up to eighty percent of their salaries at fantasma. That is a really the longer I M- around the more I get angry about that. The Census Bureau tallied up. How many stay at home? Dads there were in two thousand eight. This must be an older survey It's hard one hundred fifty four thousand five hundred fifty four thousand or one point five million. Stay at home. Dads import five million in two thousand eight. That had become answer. Only one hundred and fifty four now seems really small a lot of them were in Texas. All right okay. All right last question or at least last question that we're going to answer I as of two thousand seven. What percentage of working mothers earned more income than their husbands thirteen percent? Twenty five percent or forty one percent. I'd say I'M GONNA say forty-one percent at this point two thousand seven seven ten years ago or more than ten years ago. Yeah more household income than their partners. They earn more than their. I would say forty one and the answer. Sorry the answer's wrong. It's twenty five twenty five percent probably closer to forty now so fantastic our final score just to let you know Four correct eleven incorrect. I really do hope people are not taking advice. We don't know the answer number but that's all we have time for this week. I'd like to thank our host guest host. I think you did a stellar. Thank you much more interesting commentary than my other host. And he's great. He's great by the way I haven't met him but I do feel bad for his dog dog so so for children are very important is exactly and we'll get him on with you next time. He's a beer drinker as well. So thank you probably want to do. A being outnumbered try a path of Beers and international beer to make it really super. Actually that's interesting. It'd make an appeal to our listeners. From so until next time..
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"Is amazing. how different this generation growing up to interact socially then. Yeah and and it's back to that non-confrontational something I wonder I truly wonder it again. Being a a pair outnumbered is it dot gender or is it. A boys boys the same age. Do they go through that to I? I honestly don't know I don't know either And I it you know it could be that. There are more boys probably. Don't pay as much. I'm stereotyping as much attention or could care less what somebody else. We're putting our view as grown boys younger boys and we don't know exactly I I do. I do wonder if a lot of the habits that I'm learning from. Our children of this generation are gender specific or cross cross gender. Yeah and I don't know and it's interesting I I've been So lately I've been involved in the theater company here for the and get spend more time with boys and girls and it is interesting. They are different species. There was a We had the quieter award ask so the day after there was zero awards. And it's it's more of a dinner than it right. The the one that we attended but the girls all dressed up to the nine seven beautiful outfits like basically a prom attire boys'll shorts. You know there was completely different sensibility. To wear their so and then they could care less and but they were happy to be there and the girls were happy to have them right It was very bizarre. How different it. Well Yeah I you know I see some of the grows at the high school and I'm I'm like you know how different were they or were we from them. I am you know but apparently were worlds apart from what I hear so I s It gets even down into the the days of the problem. We are up at your more than half of the attendees are going with other girl group girls and and is that because the The men are less men or at its but the dude you're going with a group of dudes. Yeah right right so you know they. Are they meeting up? Are they saying? Hey you want to go to prom with me. I'll meet you there. You know but because then on social media you see these proposals right right. I had yet to see one. I see yes. Yeah because it's all they all want to go with. A group of girls suggest and go to a house and get made up and then have pizza and then drive there together and then you can go to ihop effort. At least. They're still doing that to me again. Anecdotal but it's it seems to be if if one is a girlfriend a couple. Yeah that's antidote. Typically when they do it. It's rarely that I've never been out with you before yet. Invite you to the pro like when we were like. I don't know this girl from Nesh. I know I'm going to say hey. Would you mind going into the have any of you? Which hopefully some of the listeners will yes exactly all of our twelve thank you. I know you've got a high schooler and house driver's Ed going. Let's don't even know you're talking about so. This trend of I don't WANNA drive. Apparently is much larger than I anticipated. I you remember wanting to drive we were lined up today of our birthday It it it it. It takes a village with this. With my oldest. I've got the Owner of the driving school I've got a couple of parents helping me with some ideas And just to you know. I know I'm getting down to Bribery soon what's the point to where I needed just convinced her that legally responsible that she needs to leave the house went with a drivers license. But it's it's not an easy and of her. I would say you know the six friends as she hangs only to drive gone to rest on. I don't know about what what's your experience. Yeah it's about half drive and my daughter My oldest each one is like I said it's different. My oldest was driving to school for you know. She went to a different high school. Then my other two and so she had to drive there and got used to it. I I don't let him on the freeway until at least a year shares. Oh my middle daughter. Isn't freeway. Certified the Attica. She passed the test. I didn't think she would. She rallied. it was like you know went on for months eight nine months and then finally I thought. Oh she's never going to be able to do it. And then somehow she's just clicked it clicked and I think that's his nervous. You gotta get. I think is a dad. You have to be yet to feel comfort that they can handle. I think thing you always worry about is is one staying on the road but if something happens are they going to be able to react quickly enough and make a sensible choice and that is the one hundred percent true but let's dial it back a bit think about the influences of driving versus versus what they had? We we either art brothers. You're walking exactly a car for some reason. The iphone or the phone replaced the urge to draw. That's true as And if I if to the to the to almost a year the amount of kids who do want to drive versus don't WanNa drive. It's literally that transformation of win. The iphone really became part of. Why don't you WanNa go just drive of their? Why drive over there when I can just texture on my iphone and we can play a game on whatever on switches true that is that's a really interesting phenomenon where you're right it was. It was like okay. I can talk to somebody on the phone right which is other males not interested right girls but I Walk Right a bike somewhere and I'm humiliated right right age. Because they know I'm of age and then you end up the face timing that's done and so I don't know but we're working on it. I'm going to have to probably resort to the legally obligated stores. Your daughter is actually. I mean. Girls have been in sports over the years and your daughter is in synchronized right. Youngest daughter fantastic. And how did she get into that too? So both the girls swam and the road swimming and soccer. I was your soccer coach. I was I was and and swimming. Though they both fell into they really enjoyed the water. There were water babies So you know. Of course dad wants to be able to make it competitive. Let's get on a swim team. So we've their team back home and where they join here. We joined a local swim team as well and then As they were swimming some The pool that we normally were going to was going into repairs and we had to go to another pool. And that's where the synchro pool and the oldest one loved it because she was doing laps and she could hear her favorite songs being played Underwater the youngest one also did dance. She loves swimming. She loved dance. She loved the pageantry of the dance the makeup and everything so when when they the wife was there picking them up and she said hey mom. Can we watch this group? I don't know what they're supposed to be doing. But they're playing great music and and so they stayed for a little bit and that's how the love for secret when you merge dance and swimming together is what you get a synchronized swimming Super Competitive Your there's that commercial of competitive ribbon. Yes it was. It was one of those moments for me was like what am I watching? Everything is so subjective. You know scoring and everything but it is. The girls are just as competitive did cutthroat you know being in a Swim Synchro. Swim Circle. You get kicked punched physical closeness there that you know if you're in the wrong spot you're you know you get kicked in the throat or in the head or something and The amount of time those girls spent underwater versus above water during a routine amazing. Absolutely amazing and literally. They're underwater for a majority of the time. Yeah but they're getting a breadth and then there for a minute. Yeah and maybe not me but close to it. Seems like yeah yeah it is and then having to literally be synchronous and Movement Hinson dancing nothing to hold onto nothing to hold onto touch the bottom amazing and it's You know unlikely days past where you would be in three different sports right here yes. Sports are always an interesting thing where you get to you. Try Sport right either all in or not in it all so but it sounds like well wishing much success thank..
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"And have you ever had to? Have your girls make a telephone call? Yes Oh yes. They shudder with If I want them to if this is so funny you say that If they really want it they will call and find out. Yeah right but it but it's a battle. It's a battle. I don't WanNa talk to a stranger. Good low yeah. I know it's a funny story last year. My daughter was studying in France and she's in college now right but And she said four years of high school French and one year of university French and we. I wanted to find out what the age was at a hotel. Sure no and I said I can call. Who doesn't speak barely any French or you can call right and she would not call and it was like so. I've got a call and struggle through broken French to find out if they'll accept someone under the last time you spoke French as nine hundred eighty five. That's always the way but we've all kind of dial back on our phone usage anyways which is which is a good thing so the you mentioned travel also is the. Have you ever taken like a single daughter? Just a daily daddy daughter. I think those are important so I think I've probably mentioned this to you. But my philosophy on travel is you know. I don't have a fancy car or you know. We don't do certain things that other other families probably would be considered as extravagant. We travel and so one thing my wife and I make sure we do have those experiences where we You know WanNa travel to a certain part of the region just with wife or just with me and we do it maybe once every two years or some great and But we do. Have you know we travel throughout the year? You've heard some of our travel Last father daughter One was with the oldest would down to she wanted to see this. Overwatch League Games Sport Oh yeah right right at the Burbank studios were Johnny Carson used to actually host actually and So the I said I'll be more than happy to take you but we're going to look at a couple of universities while we're down there as well so that USC UCLA UCSB CA- f- others but then spent the next day in this fascinating tournament. Were a bunch of kids are watching other kids play video games live gotta be designed at live right at live as one see? Are you looking at a big L. A. as you And I'll try to be cognizant of our listeners As you walk into the stadium with Her Majesty seating imagine a center stage area into the right. There is a row of Like a long desk with computers into the left. There's another row of desks along with computers. And each of the teams enter in a very dramatic high production value. Capes yet. No they're wearing jerseys number jerseys like they were athletes and so each team will sit on each side and then above them were. The long desk are is a multimedia screen that spans the breath of the wall. You're facing and so you get to see as they're playing through an each of them have their own view and he's like fifty screens on this. So yes I imagine five kids here five kids there say kids because they're all seventeen. Eighteen year old kids. Each kid has a screen that shows his view of the game and then they have a master view which shows how the overall the fighting it is. It is a sight to see. We're able to follow the action or absolutely but I didn't know what the point of me wanting to watch other kids play a game. Why did not I wanted to play in? But you know I'm sure your kids. They will watch youtube videos or other kids watching video games in commenting on it. It reminds me of that. Show Mystery Science. Yes thousand so that that was the old school version. Another quick topic also is the you like me had relocated for your work and your girls were at a tender age and I'm just curious from that. Standpoint IS THERE. Is there a best age or never good age you again? Having only move one time fortunately most my career in Texas where where where I lived. Everyone told me that sixth grade was a great age. With right right before you know the age because everyone's moving to a new school in everyone's getting new no good age then The younger one was I think in third grade or fourth grade at the time So it was hard Because of the crying yeah I think that's that's what got me. The most is because I don't know what to do with the crying crying. Yes I really. I don't want to sound insensitive but I truly don't back to the whole tough love being firm. We weren't allowed to cry. We weren't supposed to cry. If you're gonNA move Matt Mana or suck it up and just you know go or a new adventure view it as that and we'll make investment. You'll meet new friends everything. We tried everything right. Let Yeah I wasn't prepared for the the crying But I think within it within six months you know oh I got a friend of this person is talking about certain people if things became normal for them again right but It looking at it. Steve Wow six to seven years later I think the girls probably a half year probably would have been. I think Texas would have been a little different Growing up than here I think here in Arizona. You get kind of a west coast vibe where did not have that vibe so I think they're probably a little little bit. More may be laid back then they probably would have been in Texas. I certainly have changed You know the the you know the climate here is like why do you live in Phoenix? Well Georgia is climate. Yeah that's true in the end. The also I think they're now a able to adapt to things changed and things like that which well maybe your girls are able to change is a tough thing for us is is too but I'm saying in terms of never having gone outside of the community you grew up was bri raised. You know they I think they can be plopped into my kids plopped into an area. They're not comfortable with it but they can deal with it. I maybe you're right. Maybe I'm underestimating my kids but honestly the something about change that really and I thought it was general because every I'm not sure about your goals but every other parent on the block here went to the same thing that you know. I can't do this because it'll be different than I had before anything and so I'd I duNno I duNno change. Yeah it's not GonNa Mail Bag Mel. We also have another one. Just listen. We do an irregular episode called Herb segment called Mailbag. I just get your two cents here. This is one I hadn't sent this to you in order to from Clay Selection Klay from Nashville writes. My daughter will be taking the bus to and from school this fall. How do I teach her about stranger? Danger and being aware of her surroundings without making her too afraid and being paranoid. You know what that right way to get them to be aware of. You know Well I'd probably pass drink. Yeah I'm probably the worst person do that. Because I showed my stepbrother's the movie. Okay taught them the phrase. I will roundhouse kick you so okay. Fightback is a good fight back. You know there there. I was surprised honestly that his daughter probably doesn't already know about stranger danger because in elementary school. That is being touted very young. I it is and I think it's just the The now to the point to where she'd been driven to school. Yeah now there they just WanNa make sure sees well aware. Yeah absolutely you know. Don't talk to anybody don't know I think is one Traveling a pack. You know. Grab a little walk places. I think I think it's the basic rules that we were taught to that. I still are timeless minute. Walk with a crowd. Don't talk to anybody. Don't know someone brothers you run like Hell Ya Zigzag via bear runs allegations zigzag having JC you. But I think that's a common sense thing is just the talk define what a stranger is and then go from there. Got a point about adding. There's a stranger enter house. Yeah exactly that helps play. It does play. Good luck to you. Dr Early on the troll.
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"Man. I think one of them. Yeah two First one is Believe it or not spike in Kansas City. So Uh name that's what he put into the the field I guess Or the when he emailed US spiking Kansas City. I see a lot about parent controls Whereas the Industry. Now what is the approach? Is there something comprehensive so? I guess this is a good question to. I've wondered about this You've got the daughters I I don't have to deal with as at this point but I'm assuming I'm looking for a solution on the operating system side of things apple Microsoft or are you buying some patch I mean. How do you monitor your kids use on Technology And there's all these things that prohibit them from going to certain websites. Do you have all those bells? And whistles turned on What's the what's the thought here? Glenn now it's do you think about it. It's a it's a continuum. Can your daughters access the Internet with any of the devices they may or may not have access to are you asking me or Madura? Yeah messy so I think when younger well yes they they have Sort of disabled iphones. That they watch stuff on it from time to time but since they really don't know how to spell. I don't think they're really Moving their way around the The Internet too much. Yeah and but at some point they they may and so what we did there at first is that we did have a You know pretty robust especially in elementary school locked down so there was only a certain number of sites they visit. But you know if you're in Google for example you can stumble across just about anything and So that was heavy locked down an elementary school and then You know a lot of closely monitoring a lot of these things. The problem is is when you start to do a lot of locking down it. It impedes what their ability whether it's research for school and things along that line. So you know I think the key is you can also figure out Before they figure out how to disable it is you know looking at their search history and other types of things. So it's you know heavily monitored in elementary school Randomly and frequently monitored in middle school. And then by then to be honest with you right now. We have no provision in place. We know what they're watching in most cases because they tell us and You know if there's a series they want to watch on Netflix. They still run a bias and like that so but it you know it's a matter of a early on is developing those good behaviors. They'RE GONNA not they're going to be exposed to some of this stuff But it's a matter of just keeping monitors spike an excellent question. Thank you well. Yeah and I like how you SORTA tiered it. Elementary school junior high and high school and sort of a You know lessening as you move through but Pretty comprehensive random and frequent. I like it that middle phase and then conversational and whatever you can assess In high school so good thanks Glenn Those are not an answer that I would be aware of so our second question is from rich in Fort Worth their look. I'm going to summarize this question. 'cause rich The thickness here. He says he they`re. They're thinking about expanding their family and he wants to know. The real differences between having two daughters were three or more so they must have to now and are thinking of having more. But what what issues are particular a to Having Girls Glenn and then And having more than two so you have a set of life and flow and issues. I guess with to When you go to three or more daughters what would be the difference. Is there any differences than having three versus two or four versus two or five versus two? I've got the two down. Yeah you got the two down and I just. My observation was it was harder to go from one to two them two to three and could it be. It's also one of the factors is the gap between the ages. You know if the kids are all diapers doesn't matter what happens to go back and start over is You know can be very daunting and so I found that three was You know you're outnumbered about on the other hand was just not as big as a For whatever reason going to second even though the kids are my middle daughter is extremely you know always been well behaved. It was such a shock to the system Because you're doing you know. Instead of being focused on just one you go to two and three was you know again a much easier transition but they're also much closer in age to so a lot of it has to do with you know the age Your temperaments I can handle. I mean I always am marvel by those who have four or more and You know again. I think you get what you can handle and You do the best. You can Okay that's all very good advice. A lot of factors come into play. What about Distant second daughter. Who would have been the youngest When you have a third this middle daughter gets Sort of squeezed out in your opinion Glenn We've always wondered like. Oh if we had a third you know what would that do for the youngest? You know WHO's no longer. The youngest the attention shifting away all that jazz did your daughter get less attention than the oldest and the youngest you know and and they all fight and by for attention and I think what happens. Is You know Being I'm a middle child to some degree myself You become diplomat if you will because you're you're basically having different kinds of relationships in the middle you know my We we obviously tried extremely hard to make sure that everyone got their share of attention And the little ones always going to try to take it and the little ones because they're the youngest they naturally and I think you're the youngest. Greg is they just. Don't care what anyone thinks. The oldest thinks they should all get the attention so the middle one is you know evolves into really a diplomat. And that's the way it's playing out here today. My middle daughter is the the peacemaker and the referee and and all of these other things. Where the oldest has you know a vision of the way she sees the world and the youngest is you know. sees the world that way themselves. So she's very compassionate and You know very you know a mediator in a lot of cases just because of her role in the middle of the family. But she's not as much attention as anybody else. Craig I also WANNA throw out a shoutout also remind you thanks for the mail bag. Items Folks You could just Send your message through. Dad's outnumbers DOT COM. There's a mechanism to do that and Like our two friends here. Sending the messages we We love it. And it's great. Dick Conversation Very Topical Glenn. I know you've got some good news. You WANNA share We're GONNA start the next podcast by talking about this as well because NPR We call this bearing the lead. This is the biggest news of the whole show. And you left it on the agenda. Two LAST GLENN. Please take it away. This is super exciting. Okay well great. We don't claim to be perfect parents. But we've learned a lot through trial and error and we are pleased to let you know that our first book fifty things to notarize happy confident daughters with our best recommendations will be coming out this fall so we're excited about that. Who Published Authors Greg? That's right and we'll let you know when it's available it'll be on Amazon dot com and other places Where you buy fine books. And so we're excited about that so Online thing as a bookstore anymore. Glenn we're going to go on a speaking tour and And other types of things from there. So that's that's pretty good also new stumbled onto some websites. You WanNa give a shout out. Yeah I just wanted to make sure Some of the dads out there were all aware of all pro. Dad Dot COM. All Pro Dad DOT COM was started by. Tony Dungy Nfl fans will no but sort of looking at the the rule of the father and I think it was a little sports blend in there and how to raise Confident kids and so I think it's Boys and girls so Jump on there and check it out if you get a chance. Fantastic and Craig. I hate to say it. But that's all the time we've.
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"All the princesses in the course of the day anyways if you go to the Royal Palace. I think it's called you meet four princesses right there. You're going to meet another two walking around Disneyland My daughter is walking around and ran into her favorite princess. Right by the CAROUSEL. She grabbed her hand and she was able to walk with Belle and beast through the park for short distance. My other one was there to see Peter Pan and he came right up and play tag with her. And so you end up seeing more characters than you thank. So don't get too obsessive about. I must do this so my kids will see these characters get no. That's that's an excellent point and there's always You know if you aren't dining on in the park they do have special character. Meals character breakfasts If their opener cheaper typically than the character lunch and dinner and you're so the character breakfast at Like Epcot You know it was always at Norway. It's a place that people were going to but it was a lot less expensive and you've got five or six of the characters there so it was a good deal from that Stan Mike. It's still remember that first time we went out areas grotto which I think is closed now but They got it was great for me. I had a beer at a booth and all the princesses came by one by one tenth of table. Thank you know you're GONNA end up paying for it but if that's something you're interested as dining experiences are numbered fantastic. Everybody interesting tips. Like I said we'll put those on our site but we're going to wrap up this episode. This is a two parter. So did you say to set a two-parter and the fun? Double The fun. And so we'll On our next episode we'll go into more tales of Disney and looking. You're talking about two parts for the same price. Oh we don't charge on. We don't charge. That's right exactly but advertisers get twice the exposure. A wait a minute. We don't have any never mind so thank you for joining us back. Next time For part of this great episode.
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"We would when you have an annual acids a whole different deal so this is out of things change. Well why it changes is that thank you greg? So the differences is that you WANNA is that this was an annual pass theme. Give like this anymore. But it had parking included so one it was so you only go unlimited times and so what it was was gopher lunch or we could go for just an afternoon. You didn't have to strategically think the whole day. You just say we'RE GOING TO EPCOT. And we're going to tackle the international area or stuff like that so we could be much more focused and it wasn't likes. You know we pay this much money. You'RE GONNA get every squeezed every ounce of pleasure out of it so it was. It's always more we'd go there for certain reasons and then Get it done and then leave. But we do it with greater frequency. We'd go you know probably once a month if not once or twice a month Is what it was so it really worked out very well and I think you find out also that Disney is great for truly all ages and again it gets different than what Craig mentioned is the rides become you know. Sometimes you have to split into teams one. Doing the ride's not we love the OCTOPI. Which is the you know where you drive. The cars and the kids would love driving the car. That this yeah. That's that's so cool a lot of great photos but you know I that that made it a different so You know from that. But it's a it's a great thing. Great we don't talk about you know Greg Yeah so I know we Thanks for the tips. We're going to put those on the site. But I think would always intriguing. Is You know to work at Disneyland. So because you know you're right you're able to look behind the curtain so tell us about what time of your life was this in so this is high school. I guess year maybe between my junior and senior you. So's a summer job summer job. I was living in Orange County during high school and Yeah it was interesting because everyone knows Disneyland. It's exciting to tell family and friends are working at Disneyland. Glamour of working at Disneyland is a little bit different but if you look at an aerial map of Disneyland. Two thirds of Disneyland is sort of what they call backstage area. So there's a vast world backstage just to put on this elaborate play and production. That's happening because you're all cast members disease mirrors exactly go through Disney University which is like your first university experience Enjoining it's just a day or two of no facial hair. The mouse's king sort of propaganda. And then you start to see. How is this elaborate system? Everything's in mass in a lot of people trying to get from. Point A. Point B. You gotta get your costume to go on stage. You have to report into Your Business Unit. Get your supplies now. I worked in concession so we sold everything from coke's glow necklaces balloons. Mainstream sure rose Popcorn the big one was there a lot of training for how to give it out without or or how'd it get mopped by kids without getting have having a meltdown wall? Yeah that's definitely one of my experiences. I always say you don't know stress until you've emerged onto mainstream. Say One thousand nine hundred eighty nine wearing a apron full of frozen glow necklaces and the kids which necklaces were cool by the new technology and they would just run at you in mass. There was no line. There was no order and they would charge a dollar seventy five apiece. Brutal quarter machine is Adrian rattling you. Could've these two dollars. It would have been on. They would've paid it but no order. Kids mobbing you. Everything in life seems pretty easy after. You've been mob night after night by children looking the red and white striped out button-down shirt what was what was your apparel like your costume. The Standard Concession Apparel back then was like a yellow outfit bright yellow outfit with like a red striping down the sides and necklaces. You'd wear a big black neighbor. Because he had to hold all that and the money and everything photos exist of you wearing that outfit crack that you could share with our fans no no. I won't be sharing but no I don't think they exist so the costume is different. Whatever land you're oh you'RE GONNA pay popcorn in Tomorrowland you gotta wear Tomorrowland. If you're going out to frontier land you gotta be like a cowboy hat. There's never any cross costume. Really gotTA keep your costumes consistent with where your signs and then so you'd come in and say Smith you're over at look it up. You see where you're at okay. A gold neck balloons. Like you gotta get your balloon. You GotTa Get your outfit. Go Get your outfit. You know address and you have to get your supplies from someone is just sort of working out those you check out your money belts with how much money when you come back. You have to count you know. All the math has to work out so you breaks we get you know you just see people roaming around backstage. Where did you go There's always the rumor the labyrinth of caves and tunnels underneath. And we're able to experience any of those unfortunately not. I don't think they let the summer employees to into deep into the death. Nia back ladder underground but the Couple stories people always like hearing about is One is like tinkerbell would hold. That thought. His Okay Tinkerbell. Back then would fly from the top of the matterhorn down at nine o'clock O'clock each night. The spotlight would go on her and she would glide down this wire to the castle writer winner Back then it was just sort of back and we would. We go there on our break. We'd grab some chips and Soda. Everyone would stand around to watch her. Come down because I think this was before in the eighties before Osha really stepped in with worker safety. She would come flying down that thing. There was no braking mechanism. There was no remote. There was no technology involved. She would be coming down that thing. Probably Twenty twenty five miles per hour and the way she would stop would be the slam into three mattress. So it really. Oh yeah she coming out fast. Go back below the tree line so no guests with. But we're all back there to watch her. She'd come full speed and she hit three bed mattresses that were damn wham and she would face plan her hands backers. Hush face would go to this same. We'd all be watching aiding like it was something to see. Tinkerbell just slam so it was like a stuntwoman right at the end. Yeah so it was actually a female. Who was all pure greats really really yep healer grace and loving and kind that? She flew through the air as soon as she realized she was about to. Hit the mattresses. Everything totally Oh my goodness yeah. Tinkerbell is awesome so I think they must have some automatic breaking. I would imagine today. I can't believe that so every night three times a night I was awesome and then one thing that I just told the story to my mom. Because somehow she'd never heard it but the the famous Chiro Wagon charm wagon Mediate let me. Just get into character for this okay. It was a cold chilly night. I was out near the haunted house in frontier lands at my true wagon dressed in my appropriate outfits waiting not much business person every once in a while coming by was a light evening as far as traffic in the park. One of those nights where you try to keep busy try to stay occupied and the big talent you have to have assure wagon. Yes you have to be able to count to ten the number one skill set because you take these almost frozen sure os and you put them through the oven and they come out. I'll warm and toasty and cooked. And you roll him and cinnamon and sugar course so that within a John Them. That was the job right. Yeah but on this night on this very night. This night to ensure rose went in seven km. No seven came out. You Start Doubting Yourself. Did I really put ten? You have started second guessing yourself start recounting until flames own heart disease three got caught in the oven and eventually flames burst forth fire and smoke coming from and stare at it for what. What did you do? I think I stepped back left your post grabbing the money which is the most important thing to mickey mouse and waited and someone must have called the fire department and so Disney has their own fire department and the fire trucks shows up. Vm THEY JUMP almost Jump Out of the fire truck and they put out the fire and I look at the firemen right there in front of me and it's my teacher is little time. I know that the teachers in high school also worked at Disneyland to make a little extra money your kids. This isn't employs thousands of high-schoolers every summer and I guess some of the teachers worked well so as totally. Surreal haunted house. Chiro Wagon Chiro. Fire my history teacher as a fireman. I thought it was. I thought it was drinking during the Disney. Police come out and and derogates. You investigate this so do you remember what happened afterwards was. Did you just sell the did you? I may have closed shop and I don't remember. Actually Oh my gosh rested. But how big was the fire? Did it engulf the Chiro standard known about as much fire as you'd get off by Lighting Rangers? Okay got it not accept fantastic so that was a good experience which you Was there aside from the being backstage. That people act differently backstage where there were. The people were their regular selves backstage. And then you put on a helpful persona. I did learn a lot about guest. Happiness and creating. Something you know creatively what it was all about to all work in unison to create an experience for someone else I mean. There's a lot of history there. Kevin Costner only Kevin Costner used to work at and Steve. Martin both worked at the magic shop. I'll be darned street. You know that there's a lot of famous people who grew up in Orange County. Who ended up working at Disneyland? And and you're one of them so that's fantastic. Who's a great book called Mouse Tales Mouse Tales? Yeah it just tells about the underbelly of Disneyland. All sort of stuff. That's happened there from people dying on rides to all these different the help that one. I'll have to check out but I think you know dealer say despite all of our experiences. We're still huge Disney fans and could go back at a moment's notice if we could You know because it is really. It's something special and it's fun and magical never got old. I want again and again and again and it never got old so while they're like really go to magic mountain or something. That's more about the rides but I don't think there's a park that really creates that overall feeling the same way a Disneyland or at Disneyworld does absolutely sal fantastic so hopefully these are some great. Tips will put some stuff up on the website. Or you know if you're GONNA listen if you're planning a trip Hopefully this podcast was helpful. Now if you run into anyone in your life this planning a trip to Disneyland please. Just share this podcast. Tele tell them to check out. Dad's outnumbered and also if you have any other tips saw on what you've done to successfully navigate Disney with young girls. Please send us a note by our website. Again at DAD'S OUTNUMBER DOT COM. So I'm Glen Right and we'll We'll call it. A buddy earned.
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"Let it looks like a copy. It doesn't look as real. You know it's authentic. You know what I mean. It's like they skimped on some things but That's my point of view but I have grown to love it Over the time so but was it. somebody types day. Thank you have been to Disneyworld Disneyworld easily fifty sixty times and I've been to Disneyland. Probably maybe ten times so young. I think I've been to Disneyland. One hundred four employees. I work there. Now let's get back to the Do you want to continue on with on there? Well no no we. We can jump around so I want to hear a little more about Disneyworld. Well Disneyworld. I think it's One thing you can't do this not staff. Yes so the park bench here. The one thing with Disney were of Walt Disney world resort. So it's The Walt Disney world resort for those of you haven't been there And there are four major parks and there's a variety of water parks so you have the magic kingdom which is a almost replica of Disneyland. And then you have the Basically Disney Hollywood studios which is trying to compete with Universal up the road. Then you also have epcot and then lastly you have the animal kingdom see a four separate parks all about the same size. Believe it or not me and my two daughters and a friend we we one day. We wanted to get To all four parks in a single day and We didn't make it was It was just wanted to do a ride at each one. You could. It's almost impossible to go to all four parks. You have to be are they? All Ford owned by Disney. They're all owned operated than there on the so. The The Walt Disney world resort is the giant campus. That they're on each of the parks are on there one thing that the hidden gem of course With these parks is that really was the still the neatest if I asked my kids today. What's your favorite Disney experienced? They would go Campground Disney or Fort Wilderness is what it's actually called so Disney has actually a campground on site and it's located near the contemporary resort near the magic kingdom and What's interesting about it is? Is that you. If you don't like to to camp were do the ten thing they'll actually Rent you attempt. They'll set it up for you. they'll stock it with food. They also have cabins log cabins there and then we our own camper so we camped there and you could eat off the floor. It's so clean. I Made Service They have liquor is a plenty And it really is the neatest experience because one. Is You park the car. And then you rent a golf cart and drive around pools. Open twenty four hours a day. There's no lifeguard after eleven o'clock and you can also rent boats on the lake which is awfully cool. And so all of that is a really neat experience at the Fort Wilderness Park. And we'll put all of these tips on the DADS outnumber dot com so sorry my being too rigid. No no I just like seeing people walk by and try to figure out what we're doing we're doing here. Yeah that's right. I'm Craig I do Want to say you know you mentioned you work there. So what how was it a summer? Was it a. What kind of tell me about that. Well before I get to work there. There are some things I wanted to talk about about our recent trip on police So one of the things I thought was important beforehand. If you have the time sow some people like to surprise their kids. Some people just go on a whim some people. Just don't mind how much money they're gonNA spend. They wanted to be special. And you're going to run into different types of people when they talk about Disney eighty eighty five percent of people will say that Disneyland Expensive Some people will think it's expensive but are fine thrown down a couple thousand dollars to make an experience I on the other hand More of a thrifty individual but I think when it comes to your kids right You WanNA establish goals for the trip. So if you're talking to him about going what are they most interested in it rides is attractions is it. Character interactions. What is it that they're hoping most to get out of the trip? And you won't have those conversations over a couple points in time so they can think about it give you feedback and then you can almost establish let them look at the the park map. Let them sort of get familiar with the park and trying to figure out what they want. Most so you can establish your flow your movement through the park around those goals because if you run out of time you. WanNa make sure you're hitting the things that are most important to your energy appier kit so get them excited Start targeting their interest. Figure out what those are sort of have a plan now. If you don't want to spend money which is like what I did. There are ways to Disneyland for a little bit cheaper so One thing is if you're planning sometimes you can plan at Disneyland trip. Nine months ahead six months at a sort of big outing so you can start saving points on a particular credit card or if you're doing business travel or anything the we had points to stay in a hotel. Most hotel companies are around Disney. They want in on that so You can stay. We stayed at the hotel across the street now. Everyone likes to go in on the Disneyland Hotel. We've never done that so I can't really speak to that as much by. I've seen it a couple of the hotels and I try to center that experience around the park. It's exactly I mean you're basically you pay for the lobby. Basically what you're really paying because the guestrooms exactly the same and Disney's are totally open to the public right. Yeah exactly and so. There's some great things happen in those lobbies you can always walk through. They're not gonNA kick you out So it's shortage shaping that experience so Stay on state a hotel on points We did the one park. We set expectations for one park. There was a little fall out on that because they hide Ana Nelson over in California so we decided to let him out for us. So we're not gonNA see on Anelka. There was a little bit of heartbreak about that but then we sort of moved on now. A little bit of heartbreak is better than paying an extra two to fifty dollars and the The Single Day Park Hopper pass peak just to let you know his one hundred ninety nine dollars. Great see several hundred dollars down. Just one thing I learned is you can pack your own. Lunch is now. We're talking down to Soda Cans Bottles Soda Cans. They don't care too much about what you bring in so you can actually bring in your own beverages to Disneyland. It's a great time So pack your lunch is packed dinner. Whatever it is. Compact Sodas cheetos. They say it's sort of more handmade type thing so you wanna make sandwiches have chips snacks and handmade type items. They don't you bring in your spaghetti from the night before and trying to eat it up and needed and that sort of one of the examples that they use. Microwaves the diaper changing stations. Just to let you know that it will. Why is that just a warm water bottles and bottles and stuff? Yeah so those are actually great oasis. If you have kids in diapers or it's a hot day you know. Those are places to go because there's chairs the setup for nursing mothers and for the families and it's quiet oasis at cost nothing to go into so keep that in mind to less. Tips is one is. You can think about getting them gift upfront or well. In one case I knew that the kids were into Peter Pan. Mary poppins right so I had ordered from Amazon and had the gifts sent to the hotel for guests. Arriving guests arriving on this date Craig Smith so when I checked in. They said we have some packages for you. That's really smart. And then the tip. Yeah and the kids get those toys or that in its get some satisfied and my brother and I have this Approach to Disney and the Disney Parks. Which is even if they're not satisfied with that. We always try to get our kids to get a gift early and so jen and I I will do is walking to the park so we stay across the street as you walk to the crosswalk to cross the street to get to Disneyland. There's a number of these knockoff. Disney you know Places you can buy schoffstall gift shops right and so we usually just tell the kids. We're GONNA stop in here. You got ten dollars to spend and so they go round. You can't buy anything ten dollars but we scale them up to fifteen and sixteen. We look like the you know the good guys show generous so yes and so they get something early in the day. Don't spend your whole day with the kids. Running around gift shops at Disneyland. Get Him something early at Disneyland in the park or even on your way into Disneyland. Then they're satisfied. They've got their toy playing with it all day. Long very strategic in little remind him of the day too so totally and then the last thing is stroller. You might not think you need a stroller a six year old. They walk everywhere. We never use a stroller in our regular lives at this point but we took a stroller and is okay. Because I think about this is your kids will eventually tire out do. Want them tiring out from walking from point a two point. Eight point scene in the near day. You're paying all this money in your day is done. At two o'clock three o'clock you'll be carrying them for miles right. Absolute we had a double stroller borrowed it side by side one. It was great the kids I am all for it. You can ride from place to place. We're going from matterhorn over to space mountain. Jump in the stroller whenever you want. If you WANNA walk walk if you WANNA be in the stroller hearing this great idea because what happens is you're right. They will physically there there there. My mind wants to going but physically. They can't off another steady and it makes and more pleasurable for them to actually not whining about anything. The DAY LASTS LONGER. They can go from ten. Am Til six or seven at that age and we never had 'em relief physically wear out and that's because we were pushing the stroller which is pretty easy to do. So I'm those are tips so we run a down year point stay nearby One Park if you can pull it off. Pack your lunch gift early in the day or upfront have it. Shipped to the hotel and take a stroller. Don't be ashamed of the stroller. Even if your kids are okay. And what was that website for the off? Peak season again undercover tourist undercover tourist. And we'll put that and this all off the tips on the sites there. One thing that's one advantage of staying at the for Disneyland area is by staying at the closer hotels again. Depends on the age of the kids. Is that We were there a few years ago and you could run. Run DOWN to the hotel for an hour. Rest take a shower and then get back at it. So that's one of the advantages. You really can't do that effectively at the Walt Disneyworld because everything is so darn spread out one other One quick tip on add onto yours. Well is Especially for the ladies. There's the bitty boutique and I think is wanted I know people who have spent a thousand dollars on whatever Te My tip is is that I don't know if they have something like this at Disneyland at Walt Disney World Resort in the magic kingdom. They actually have a barbershop. It's right on Main Street where the fire station is and we are two or three daughters their first haircut there so they put pixie dust in their hair. It's like I don't know what the prices are but it's It's super cheap. It's literally a barbershop. And then the only difference is they sprinkled fixing us and I've saved nine hundred eighty five dollars by doing that. And it's a great memory to get a hat and all of that so it's really neat neat experience. So the barbershop still there. I checked today and It's a great experience at. It's something people don't know you don't you can't see unless you're standing right on it and I don't think they take reservations cfpb standby and so you just keep going back until it's there and they move in and out. It's really a neat thing. I don't think they have it at Disneyland. But that is wonderful. Because what you're going to red crosses fanatics about this bitty Bob. Oh Yeah and you know. It's a great thing that's GonNa cost your arm and leg and then there's the justification in the rationalization that come with it is all their hair. They feel special to get to meet all the princesses. Well guess what they're gonNA probably meet.
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"Those are like knockoff. Sohn's or they've brought in from somewhere else. You know on that subject. That's that's great. It's great that you showed restraint. And it's also great that your wife was had a calming effect on the situation so What was more than if I didn't. I was going to hear about later and get a full lecture right about her. Point of view on the whole happenings. Step step so it was like if I discount down. I looked better in front of the kids and I don't have to spend twenty minutes Learning what I did wrong. Yes avoidance and all about avoidance you know to give a updates on what's going on in US high schools That's very different than creepy than when we all know what I'm saying. So my My youngest daughter is in this program and they won the regional champs of the go to the state championship been. It's down in a city in Tucson. So it's a couple of hours away and they stay overnight but was funny because the rules at evolved over the years so they're taking his school bus down there but this this time no one can bring pillows or blankets at all and boys have to sit on one side of the bus and these are high school not elementary school. Kids girls at the center of the other side of the butts. So you start thinking yeah you start thinking what exactly went on where they had to create this policy and the other one is Let's see Yet no one can go in any other hotel room which is fine and this is a regular public school or as a regular public school. Yeah and if there is no lifeguard on duty no matter how good of a swimmer you are in that there are adults around. You cannot go in the water. So while at that's I would just probably not a bad thing. But it's it is amazing the There's always more and more slightly punitive rules that that GONNA place And so that was the latest update on the that one. I just wanted to share with you. Well this we're sharing Glenn. I loved though her sharing So my oldest eight year old went to a birthday party yesterday. At this hyped up our tuckey sort of jumped park but it really had like it had zip lines where you're flying through the air all the way around above people. I mean. This thing was on steroids so I took the two younger the youngest daughter and a friend of hers to apart just a regular park city park. But it's a really good one. They a lot of and I sat down in the shady bench and this Mother couldn't resist talking the data. She started talking to me. And you know we start talking about kids and watching these other parents like they just are helicopter parents at the playground stand. Like excuse rarely get into any situation that they're not being saved by apparent even if they're only three feet above the ground and it always comes down to my My thought on the whole subject. Which IS WE WILL LOSE. World War three this generation of they can play on a playground without Ri- someone being there to catch them no falling no collisions. Nothing unless it's a text war or social media war think we're losing world war three pretty close there and and it is a lot of it has to do is the only child or the first child because once they have multiple. It's like it's like you exponentially grow the distance that you watch once you get to the second kid and the first one didn't break the second one did break and by the third. It's like where if you've been to any you know so it is. It is one of those things. So that is one of the factors that and especially with these younger these kids younger than your youngest daughter or about the same age. Yeah that maybe a little younger right. Yeah it when they get that age. It's it's like okay. You gotta give them a little little room. There is one of our tips from our book how to raise healthy confident. Daughters is really to give them some room. You want to be there to make sure the conditions are safe. But they have to learn to fail or fall or You know they have to learn how to take some risks calculated risks make. You'd make sure that they don't maim themselves but Yeah that's good. Sorry about the the hovering parents. So what did your oldest one that you didn't go to zip line park right. You now dropped her off. The drought okay. Got It well. And what stage do you start doing that? Probably about two months ago okay gap. It is one of the ones where the parents always in. We used to host parties at jumping places. And you know there was always you had to have food for the parents because none of them would leak and then you're right. It a certain age they drop offs and then I mean by that that an ice cream wagon. I'll be darned. Yeah you probably sell drugs on assign a unbelievable unbelievable but but good for you Craig. Do you have anything stronger than Iraq? And and that's a Oh my goodness the family show very the you know in the news. Recently there's been a lot of chatter about the college entrance scandal which is kind of similar this our topic near the this is our topic for the weakest. Let's frame it Ohio Glenn. What's our topic topic? Well it's women greater than that. I was more of Indirectly where you've got you know these parents that are cutting corners and that's term that people may not understand and yet you're trying to teach your child to to their turn in line and to follow the rules and yet you see others you know skirting the rules. So how do you show them that? The the best strategy in the long run is to follow the rules and not to to cut corners. I mean that's the hard part is the how many times in so the college scandal is one where you've got parents and there is probably on them and a lot of cases so celebrity yes sub celebrities which people love exactly but they spend a huge amount of money and really defrauded this other thing to get their child who wasn't interested in academics in new a prominent school. I mean the the one. That's most notable as that you know. They're they made it up to choose on the crew team and photo shopped. Her face in a group with just a sterile. The lakes that someone who would go to to get there but it but it it. It goes back in time. It's the you know the person who is self absorbed and so we had a term for this and We're this came about that. I like this idea of Photoshop Photoshop. My face or my children's face into groundbreaking scientific breakthroughs. Mike cure is my daughter. Curing a lower form of arthritis in adult than ever over test tubers or or. You could shop everybody's face on a Disney ride and say and save a whole bunch of money by not out later all the time. It's like I don't remember that while you're too you know you don't have until you're thirteen. Exactly yes right so but he so where we started. This was in. We're this manifested itself. Is that when the Are My daughters were old? You Know Mitt interest while waiting in the car line inevitably. There'd be a van that was taken enormous enormous amount of time To get the the the kid to get themselves together to get out just delaying the whole process. Otherwise or another one was. It'd be the van that would An inch themselves ahead. Take cuts line against slowing the whole car. Line or -til out and We would have a term for this and it was always a boy Just to let you know but the term we would use. We would to him as Timmy. and so it's really the timmy factor. If you will but again at some child that is you know so self absorbed the family so self absorbed that. They're not concerned about the welfare. What they're doing Anyone else around them. They're gonNA do what they do. They're going to take all the time. They need to do what they need to do. You could care less about the stuff I do care about it so my point is well children model. What they're taught right so they're probably seeing some form of that behavior in their parents or adults and the kids are also modeling. What is okay? And what's not because all we're doing raising children is establishing boundaries of mines and teaching them when they can go past that and when they can't and I think what you're seeing.
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"Live from experimenting. Studio in Phoenix Arizona. It's Dad's outnumbered. Let's give a shout out to your hosts Glenn in Craig this episode of took joined by Greg here today and we're certainly glad you joined us. You're one of our listeners and we certainly appreciate Every time you listen be sure to tell your friends. So twelve is more than as true. That's true for huge in Europe. I just wanted to let you know that. Like David Hasselhoff. Like the the exactly the off. They don't understand what we're saying. But they think we're funding. I think that's the important part but It's it's been awhile since we last on the show at the huddling has been. It's been difficult and you know with sick kids and my two of my kids were in a dinner theater where they were you know. They did a dinner theater. Is that like a dying art form. We'll know it's actually a new And actually it works pretty well the so what you have is. The drama department puts on a show and the culinary department that are high. School has your high. School has actually surprise. So they put on a meal and it's Basically this four nights each night seats seventy people. It's a for a full dinner. Full-on dinner and The dinner theater was called murder at the high auction and It took place like in the round around the tables with people and it was actually quite good And I was surprised. The food was good and You know so. It wasn't your traditional dinner Cedar but it was actually a lot of fun. We were not just in case. Your high school has a Culinary Department yes what percentage let me just explore your I Dunno upscale socioeconomic. What is what percent of high schools to you. Think of culinary departments. Hugh what do you think? Oh I would say one out of One out of five probably twenty percent and recognize the all. Have you know in my day? GotTa Touch Olmec. And so they may. But this one actually. I was impressed It's a newer school schools. Only ten years old so but this is a kitchen naked feet. Three hundred people at once. It's I was yes. I don't think twenty percent thiokol research that in I'll put that on our site. Let's outnumber we have a poll. Yeah exactly how many thank you. We'll do polls ball question. That's fantastic now again it's It's hard to believe the year the New Year started. We're heading down the runway here a little bit and I know I don't know how but this guy that I'm sitting with seems to have vacation time up the law zoo here so you recently went on a vacation to California with my right. Yeah and I only used eight hours or so. Let's be very strategic with your vacation time so we added one day to the end of a three day weekend so the three day weekend ended on. Monday and we just added a Tuesday. We headed out to California and stayed with some friends visited for a couple of nights and then we surprised the girls with a little trip to Disney that they did not know that before you laugh torn as I was a little torn about that because there is values. Wait till this giant airplane goes over. Today we're actually in a kind of a park the city hall kind of area but when we say we are taking. We're sitting on a park bench and We're under the path to the Phoenix Airport And so Yom a little torn about that because Essentially there is real value in getting your kids excited about going to Disneyland or the other Amusement Park. There's the research you get to look at the maps online. Figure out what they're excited about research talk about that. There's something to that And we had done that before this can you? Can you also hold it over their head to say if you don't do use it as a carrot to get them to be difficult to be searching you got the whole visit like a it with my wife? I think started to do that early on and I was like extend on that. Because you want it to be specially. I want them to feel like you're like I worked so hard I did. I was good for this to wait in line. So I'm sorry nope I don't WanNa ruin the flow but a so. We surprised them. Yeah we went to Disneyland and this was our second visit. So we've gone before when they were five and three and that was all about princesses chasing princess is getting autographs. I think we hit every princess except Jasmine and I was like two parks them wearing their outfits. All that stuff and This time we went a lot a lot lighter when later now I have been the. What's the what's the rape these days? going into He went to Disneyland the magic before we did like the to park hopper and everything else and Disneyland. It's pretty interesting. They have dynamic pricing. And so you WANNA make sure you're looking at to go but I also went to a website called undercover tourist dot com and they have a crowd calendar there and you can see what days historically and with all factors being added in are going to be light traffic at Disneyland and so at point since I used to work at Disneyland an highest. We ought to get to that. In a minute I will only go to Disneyland on non busy got US so. I'm always looking at Tuesday through Thursday if I can pull that off some way shape or form but there's only about four Green Day's green days on undercover during the whole year now only four left between now and September. Wow so I wanted to grab one of those days and they rate them from one to ten so you can look up crowd calendar and see what the crowd will be out of ten ten being probably shoulder to shoulder. He can't even walk and zero being. Probably no one in the park at all so this was supposed to be a three out of ten day. the Tuesday so rule busy over the holiday weekend and then boom so. The tea is the day after a major holiday. Yeah mid week. If you've got to pull the kids out of school prices left. I'm out of off peak day. So they have this dynamic pricing and so what I found interesting about that is slower days last crowded days. They charge last. 'cause they want slow supply and demand they want people to come on those days right so that makes sense except when he started thinking about it as someone who's going to Disneyland you're paying lasts for a better experience. So the lines are shorter. Dress crowds and into reverse logic exact. Yeah so on. The surface seems like a good idea on their park or people. But it's weird if you're going on the weekend Disneyland you're paying more for a worse experience. Yeah and I don't think number one. Yes so you want to look for these crowd days And still family of four two adults two children one part just Disneyland We said listen. Disneyland was enough. When I was a kit right supplemental highs to run around plus trying to do too perks in one day. That's stressful Like one Park Day. And if you're GONNA stay longer great but the one park family of four was about four hundred bucks that's mid week. Now you get up to six hundred seven hundred if you're going on the weekend then you add in some of the other factors like Amac's pants and all that sort of and food and all of that could in Disney counts eight child as up to nine years old. Is that correct and you can really so. But but yeah. It's only ten dollars on so we were like one sixteen a day and they were one. Oh six today. So don't look back. Child brings up to three year. Free Maize Yeah S. somewhere to airlines. I guess wow interesting so you sit there and you ask these questions like you don't know anything about this. I'm an expert at Disney. But not as much on Disney gland. I've been there since the time I've just a big blow. I lived in Florida for a number of years and so I'm well versed. I am The Walt Disney world expert and crank is the Disneyland expert but What's interesting is my first part was Disneyland. I went there well before it went to anywhere in Florida so And I still find it the most of my first reaction and with all due respect to those who love the magic kingdom is that When I went and went to Disneyland and number of times I've lived in California. I went to Walt Disneyworld..
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"Experimenting. Studio in Phoenix Arizona. It's Dad's outnumbered. Let's give a shout out to your hosts Glenn in Craig. Welcome to this episode of Splendour. Not Join Greg here today and we're certainly glad you joined us. You're one of our listeners. And we certainly appreciate that every time you listen. Be Sure to tell your friends aid. Ads outnumbers listeners. Sorry for the audio quality today where it's a little windier than we We think it is here at this park that we're at and It is a great location and we're at a local municipal park in this people. That were word that's going out. Yeah I know but it's more of a municipal golf courses and things like that. It's a it's a city park. There's no parties today but there are in the garbage cans some remnants of a child's party. That probably occurred yesterday or late into the evening. As we go through it we should trash fan. It's really traders dissect what happened at the party. Possibly we could lay everything out like an FBI quadrant and then try to figure out a stream at the party. What the food was everything in control that there was definitely a girl's related because of the pink and I see a flower of giant Dylan assumed does assume is our yes. I exactly there you go well wonderful. You know Craig I forgot to tell you. We did a double header on Disney. Our last episodes. But that's what happened you at home. You were laying in bed thinking about the podcast thinking about leaving it. Editing and posting it and it was just in your mind you remembered something you wanted to share with us. Yes that's correct great. Thank you know what it was was I am? I don't know I was talking to one of my daughters and it came up but this was long time ago. My kids were young. Probably seven four and three right but this was one where I actually took them to Disney by myself and my youngest was out of diapers. So this was going to be a day. We went to the disciplining lorries day. That is by the way out of that. Hold a whole nother change. But so basically went to the Hollywood studios and it was a fun day and worked fine but with the funny thing is that so it was lunchtime and we went to the ABC commissary Which is you know by the middle of the park and I had the girls. It was pretty crowded. I had the girls sit at a booth there. I can see him but so I got all of the food and I waited in line. Waited in line. You get nervous because you don't WanNa be too close to the girls and suddenly as I'm walking and backing out of this line. I get bumped by somebody in the whole tray of food that already minutes. The former everything fell on the floor. And it took every ounce of my being not to let out a huge stream of profanity. But I didn't so I was just a nightmare to think or think about the kids are Ansi. You're worried about him and it's your first time. So it's a test and What do I do? I spill the whole tray and had go back in line and get another one way. They didn't have someone run out. It was so there was nobody healthy. I could barely move the debris out of the way. It was like a car crash in a NASCAR RACE. You get it out of the way and then restart the race but that was just a a painful moment. I definitely blotted that one out there. Well this brings up a subject that I went through yesterday. I wanted your opinion on this. You know how much will your kids remember the outbursts and the vulgarity and he sort of swearing that happens is in the course of regular life a situation like that. Yesterday we were going to up the mother-in-law from the airport and this guy cut us off like trying to get over like three lanes for the airport exit like pretty dangerous maneuver so I laid on the Horn and then my wife whispered peobe be a bigger person. Did you know we should just lay down? I lay down the horn and I wanted to follow it up with some evil stares and yelling and whatever and some figure districts but then she said be a bigger person and I said Oh. There's little window here. I five seconds to decide whether then but the kids are in the car and so I'm like all right now. If the kids weren't in the car all would've rained down. I would have individually taught that individual. I would've thought that individual never to even think about doing something like that again and became the course I would have helped the society by teaching one person But I didn't I demon look over. I just drove past tyrod but one of the things I was thinking about is it was so funny. The other day I were in the car and Riley was like. Can you turn up the radio? The radio like she just kept asking and I went. Patience now jen later pointed or her I know later. She pointed out. You know how ironic it is that you're yelling patients to her being all frustrated But then I'm like out later was thinking. Is She going to remember? Oh my dad used to have a lot of outbursts or he had a temper or like. You don't know how you're going to be judged years later only if it's directed at her when you know it was the funny thing is is that you know. I would raise my voice now. I'm proud of this. There was not a single word of profanity spoken in front of any of my children by me or my wife until they were in over ten years old. So needless to say that was a Something slip them so we went a streak of ten years without a single one. But what do you consider profanities garden any anything while held damn stuff like that? So that's okay. No no that was albion. That was off limits to but the the the they'll remember things that directly affect them so if you're outward at others is probably more entertaining than anything if they're worried about. I think I'm already worried about my legacy was his kids. You know like we've worked in corporate situations where these executives only worry about. When it comes to your children you start to wonder about your legacy. Like what am I doing that? They're gonNA remember because you never know what they're remembering what they're not going to remember. Check this out. Mother in a mad dash towards her daughters. The lady that's awesome disciplined parts.