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Fresh update on "dads" discussed on Emotional Management with Dr. Christian Conte

Emotional Management with Dr. Christian Conte

00:50 min | 1 hr ago

Fresh update on "dads" discussed on Emotional Management with Dr. Christian Conte

"Makes it dad that that in itself is the biggest thing that I believe is brings. Ability in any community any city anywhere and because if you if you have that work ethic than There's nothing greater in the world world. Then you put in eight hour work day or maybe more. And you know that you worked and you did a good earned a good day's pay. And That that's key right there, and socialism will never do that. And I think with this upcoming election, we see it all around with the comparison with the The support that President Trump Skating and visually what you see. Compared to what you see, with the Biden campaign going and what visually looks like the opposite. But the polls say otherwise. But I think that the country as a whole, which is a beautiful country, beautiful states, like the gentleman said before he traveled around. Well it it's showing that people in this country the majority of most people that wanna work, raise a family. Have their own home and so forth. Do not want socialism. And it has got to the point where I even said that the Democratic Party has been has been taken over by the progressive left. The Democratic Party is dissolved in for mated into something totally different in so many ways. That I think that's why we're seeing This happened in this whole pandemic situation. We we all know that I hear it over and over again that President Trump's responsible for it. He should have stopped the he There's some things that maybe could have been done differently. Whatever. But he's only one man is not a scientist. He has to go. And he's at the mercy of the Science scientists and so forth that that we always hear Pelosi own says We must trust the science. They're just learning is it's going along. This is something new, just like with any new virus that goes on and there's no way to put a handle you, Khun Newsome, precautionary things like wearing a mask and making sure that you distance and make sure that you don't come in contact with the owner on which people should do that anyway. During any cold Lucy, let me let me let me let me say a couple of things here. First off. He shut the economy down for a guy who's all about business. He did that Okay. And Joe Biden said that he should not. But he did in the beginning. These governors and he stayed have the control over what they want to do. He has nothing to do with what's happening in business with a lot of these places. It's the individual governor, so they still blame him. For that. He closed the border down shut people down from coming in from China when Joe Biden didn't want him to do that, and all the things Joe Biden is saying now that he'll do the president and his team has done it. The bottom line is nobody has the magic one. Nobody, the Republicans and the Democrats when it comes to this pandemic. But I'll tell you what's becoming even more frightening. You know, I'm a big fan of the railroad industry. You know, at one time, and in recent years now railroads were busier than they were pre World War. Two when railroads were at their height. In the early fifties, the Pennsylvania Railroad made a profit of just under a billion dollars, which was astronomical at the time. Well, what happened was A jet plane came in and passenger trains went away, so they had to go in a different direction. Enter brands like Penhall, Ohio, New York, Central and others and eventually became Conrail. They became one big conglomerate. Well, now we have Norfolk Southern, a great brand. We have CSX. We have the Alaska Railroad Union Pacific. We have bee n s F, which is owned by that great brand, that his Berkshire Hathaway Warren Buffett, Big fan of his Somebody should call this guy and get his advice as opposed to everybody just shouting at the president or Joe Biden. Maybe somebody like Warren Buffett might have a good idea. Steve Forbes would have a great idea. They need to reach out to these people. They need to form some sort of commission getting some of the brightest business minds in the country together, But this is why I'm frightened. In my lifetime. Every time a train goes by, I look and if I'm stopped at a red, but I really look there was a time in my life. I really loved railroading model railroading everything about the railroads. I always thought it was really neat. Thes cold Guan Dollar cars stacked high topped off perfectly with nothing but cold, making a train go in one direction to take it to a power plant or wherever To a steel mill. Wherever every day, I shall Cole hoppers either. Norfolk Southern of CSX every single day. Do you know the other day I saw a train full of coal and I stopped. I was in a red light. And I was thinking how beautiful and how all of a sudden I went. I haven't seen anything like that in months. So for the first time in my adult life first time since I have enjoyed railroads, which is what 2025 30 years. I am not seeing Cole hoppers every day traveling the train tracks in America in our region. People don't understand how dangerous of a world we're living in right now, if our railroads start to go in a different direction when it comes to profit and loss margins, and they start to get into trouble financially, Do you understand what that's going to mean? Moving product in this country value, viable product and also that tens of thousands of jobs that are directly or indirectly connected with the railroads. People haven't seen anything until the railroad industry gets in trouble. If you think about it, tell me the last time you saw a train full of coal hoppers when I saw that, and I thought it's been months. That literally put the hair on the back of my neck up. That's how much that frightened me exactly exactly, And that's that's so key. Important people need to start looking. And I thank you for the call. We're getting out of time here. I want to try to get a couple more calls on. But we're getting to the point now of no return, folks. Listen, I don't care who you vote for. I respect your vote. But once that person is the President 2021 let's work together to make America get moving again and stop pointing fingers at each other. We'll be back. Voting by mail in Pennsylvania. Make it count. Send it off before Election Day, November 3rd. Don't forget to seal.

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Willow Smith Calls Out Jada's Parenting Style

Daily Pop

05:18 min | 9 hrs ago

Willow Smith Calls Out Jada's Parenting Style

"Are you running for some daily pop? Cuz we've got some Smith family drama for you today. Willow is coming after her met her mother questioning her parenting skills at her own red cable. Are you kidding me? This is Jaden was harder on her than on her brother Jaden during a new episode of red table. Talk on Facebook watch Willow shares just how differently they were treated great up. There is a difference between how black moms will treat their daughters and their son. Oh, oh my goodness, right? Let's go back through is true something as simple as just like getting up at the right time. It would be like you might like to maybe like, oh no school school is about to be you better get dressed. We need to get it would be like wage in my room like, okay got it. But then Jane is actually like nothing listed. Are you ready to and he'd be like, maybe one moment off? Thank you. She is asking for a debt said it's right there honey you to me where you have a black bar? But you don't question her parenting in front of everybody. I do think Jade is one of those people that's very open communication. Tell me how you feel kind of mother one hundred percent. But I also think in black families and I will save this growing up in a big family and the hood a lot of times moms and parents are harder on girls because there's this thing ingrained in your head that if something happens with your daughter your daughter gets pregnant or becomes a birth mother. It's a direct reflection on you. So a lot of times like people don't even care about the father they like, oh near that boy knocked her up, but the mother there's a lot of shame that goes on the parents and growing up my mother never talked to me about the birds and the bees at all. My sister got schooled in it from the time. She was thirteen years old and it's weird that that's how it works like, yep. Just saw this whole thing happened with t i, yeah and how crazy everybody was like, oh my God. This is so insane. Meanwhile, I'm like, oh that happens. All those on you know, I think has a lot to do with also on the Note just you know, as a mother myself. I feel like for a woman you have to be very strong. Like I wanted to be so secure in her self-confidence seems to be like the most important thing you can instill in my daughter and being confident means like you get up you show up on time. You work hard you put in your best and you feel good about it. And so like I can see that and it's so funny that example because literally off hook up Chase from a nap the other day, he's to mind you and I said Chase are you awake? You ready to go? Five more minutes mom and I was like, okay honey UT five more minutes. You need a rest. I don't know if it's just a little boy, but it was just a funny example. I'm like, this is already a happening in my life. And there are only two right I feel like mothers and suck. So that Dynamic is very unique. Like I definitely think that women and parents think that they can be harder on girls because I feel like they think girls can handle it. I feel like with boys. I feel like a mom. I see it with my own mom and my own old dog, like he has always been regardless of what drama or what he's had to go through. He's always sort of Taken extra good care of him. I just feel like if it's a boy and you're a mom you just have an extra soft spot regardless of race or anything like that. I just think moms and sons have a different Bond. It's like dads and daughters. I feel like whatever child you have. That's the opposite gender of you. You are a little bit softer towards I can see that I totally can totally stay. I think the dynamic is now shifting I think with the world shifting and now, you know having to have harder conversations with boys at younger ages kind of the same ones you kind of have a girl about consent and about sex and all of those things. I feel like with everybody being mindful of this patriarchy Society. I think that's going to flip and it's going to change a little bit. Yeah. Yep. Think yeah, I hope I mean I still feel like just because of how I'm positioned. I'm like I already feel like I have to be like, you know, you you fight for what you deserve you are equal to your counterparts, you know, I feel like that stuff you have to like push into daughter still because if you don't if they don't think that going growing up then they accept less than and that's where I feel like we've gotten to the point where we got to where women, you know, they were traditionally taught that it's okay. If a man makes more, you know, if and then finally now we're getting to the other side of that and we just have to keep that momentum going like we're equal. We're all very equal talk to your son and your daughter the same way is what I guess. It's still to me and Society like I'm going to still push up for Chase, but I feel like it's almost a given still for a man to get equal. I mean, I'm still like given like he's going to get it cuz he's got that leg up because he's going to be a man. Yeah and the woman I have to be like make sure you get your your peace Honey Pig. To caution her you have to prepare her for that reality because men don't face that as much which is the problem. I mean, even in our own lives and our own circumstances, we know people that are of different genders and might make more than us or do more than us, but they don't work as much as we do, that's happening right now. So it's just one of those things you just constantly have to be aware of I

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Britney Spears' dad Jamie challenges singer's lawyer for speaking on her behalf

Joel Riley

00:21 sec | 16 hrs ago

Britney Spears' dad Jamie challenges singer's lawyer for speaking on her behalf

"Is going after her lawyer, Jamie Spears found new legal documents in Britney's ongoing conservatorship case, which fire back at her attorney, Sam Ingham. Ingham recently compared the pop star to a comatose patient who lacks the capacity. To sign declarations. Jamie claims and um, does not have the unlimited authority to be Britney's exclusive voice. Guitar center

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Britney Spears' dad Jamie challenges singer's lawyer for speaking on her behalf

Joel Riley

00:21 sec | 16 hrs ago

Britney Spears' dad Jamie challenges singer's lawyer for speaking on her behalf

"Is going after her lawyer, Jamie Spears found new legal documents in Britney's ongoing conservatorship case, which fire back at her attorney, Sam Ingham. Ingham recently compared the pop star to a comatose patient who lacks the capacity. To sign declarations. Jamie claims and um, does not have the unlimited authority to be Britney's exclusive voice. Guitar center

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Ways To Get Women Highly Involved in Retirement Planning  With Marcia Mantell

Top Advisor Marketing Podcast

07:31 min | 16 hrs ago

Ways To Get Women Highly Involved in Retirement Planning With Marcia Mantell

"Hello and welcome to another top advisor marketing podcast. We don't often bring somebody on like my guest Marsha today. And here's why most wage. I don't think there's enough people like her out there. She has an author blogger a retirement industry expert and the author of a couple of books that we're going to talk about today. Now. My favorite thing about March is be fundamentally understands how important it is for you as a financial services professional to Market communicate and help women make decisions when it comes to retirement because it is different you can think to yourself that it's not but you're wrong and we're going to talk about being wrong today and how to make it right Marshall. Welcome to the boss man. Thank you so much for having me. And that was quite an intro. Well, thank you a static. Well, I did we had such a fun pre-call and I was so excited. I saw your on my calendar today and I'm like, I love this lady so wage. All right. First off it just does give us a little bit of a foundation here. How did you become a retirement industry expert in an author of multiple books? Well, you know like many things Matt wage was I fell into it happenstance and sometimes you just walk through a door because someone opened it for you and Wallah you end up having a thirty year career change in my case. I ended up walking through the door at Fidelity Investments back in nineteen. Ninety two as they were I call it inventing the rollover IRA and I got put on an account team that needed to support the marketing and product efforts for the rollover Ira which of course now has become the be-all end-all of our entire business. I thought it was exciting. It was like the wild west and it lasted for thirteen years, which was all good. But meanwhile, I had these two amazing young girls, I was trying to raise at home. And Corporate America and motherhood does not always quite aligned. So I stepped out at Fidelity and said, you know what I need to figure out something different so that I'm not always screaming at my poor kids and I started mental retirement Consulting and just hit fifteen years of doing business consultancy work with the financial firm and financial advisors around the country. Is it specifically directed at women or just your experience in the industry overall? Great idea question here. The women piece evolved over time is what I would say we started out just trying to Grapple with and get our arms around this thing called retirement, you know, in nineteen. Ninety two, the 401K was only twelve years old. Well ten years old really and we were all just trying to figure this thing out and saving for retirement. What did that mean? And you dabbled in it off? Well after thirty years, it has become abundantly clear that women have very different retirements than men they're ill-prepared and they don't even often know how to get their arms around getting themselves prepared for another 30 year chapter. So it has happened over time. It has built over time and for me, I mean you May notice Matt I am a woman. So I'm particularly concerned, you know self-serving for my own benefits and my own retirement and my own ability to navigate the very complicated Financial world that we all live in and so just over time things evolved from being broad retirement zeroing in on two women and what women really nice and how to get in this money game. So that's my travels through retirement and getting two women. I'm going to ask you a really dumb question because just me formulating the question just seems awfully ignorant on my behalf. But why is there such a difference? I mean, you know, we live in society together. Why is there such a fundamental need for financial services professionals to understand the differences in how women want to prepare for retirement and men want to repair for prepare for retirement? Why is there such a big difference wage? Well behavioral Finance would probably have some really academic wonderful. Research to answer that but I'm going to go a different route and I would tell you it's because men and women are fundamentally culturally Society wise. I live in the same Society. We see it differently in our roles are different add to that. The laws that have been written around retirement have been radically different for men and women. I'm going to give you two examples. The first is social security when Social Security was written it's a law so I mean keep in mind here. We've got some thousand five hundred pages of legal doctrine that supports Social Security and Medicare it is a law in in nineteen thirty-five when the Charming men in Congress were fighting this law called the Social Security Act. Society I'm using that in quotes Society was very much what we would consider today a traditional white family. The man worked outside the home the little woman stayed home. She certainly didn't have a job for pay and she raised the children. So the laws were written literally to protect her that the expectation was the man would be out in the world working wage earning a living and providing for his family up until age sixty-five at which point he would enter retirement so he couldn't retire early by the way, he would enter retirement and provide for her still by having earned a paycheck along the way so that's one example, so just even in our laws it set up where men and women are different and have different access to their money the other one though, that just slays me to this day. When I started in the retirement business again, nineteen, ninety two moms at home moms who did not have wages could only contribute $250 to an IRA 250. That was it the working dad the working husband could put in $2,000. She could only put in a hundred and fifty it wasn't until Nineteen Ninety Six, you know, that's like yesterday for me as a baby boomer like oh 1996, you know, I know that era only then could at home moms make equal contributions into an IRA. I still find that stunning. It's jaw-dropping. So women were not even allowed to stay home to raise their kids and be able to save for retirement. So yeah, we live in the same Society but the laws look at these gender roles these traditional roles. Yep. Very differently in the laws are written in that era it can sometimes take a really long time to change them. Yeah

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Where do the Cowboys  go from here? To the trade deadline — but as sellers instead of buyers

Pro Football Talk with Mike Florio

05:22 min | 1 d ago

Where do the Cowboys go from here? To the trade deadline — but as sellers instead of buyers

"The Cowboys easier to write about when they win or when they lose? Uh, they're easy to write about what they lose. When they win. People feel good. You sell more newspapers when they win. That's a proven thing. So there's that. But, man what you know now, sometimes when they're bad, they're just not interested. And they just kind of go away. Like I don't know what it's like to right about when the Detroit Lions are bad. They probably just people are waiting for the Red Wings to drop the puck. But when the Cowboys are bad, there's usually nine different things in Iraq, And this year there, there might be that might be multiplied. So there's you can just pick out of a hat. And and and go from there. What is Jerry? June Jones do now? You know, one of the really disappointments with serious disappointments, obviously of code. But one of the rial lighter disappointments of this year is that he doesn't do press conferences after every game, because I can't imagine. What level he would have reached yesterday. Um, you know, it's Tze one thing to get beat up by Seattle or airy Arizona's offense. They can't stop the run. With anybody, not the Washington football team. They run for over 200 yards. And if you want to pick one area of the Cowboys that does not beat up my injuries. Their front seven They've got Jalen Smith. They got banned arrest. They've got the Marcus Lords they've got. They've got elegance. They got Everson Griffen. They got Tyrone Crawford. They got guys were supposed to be there, and they can't tackle anybody. And then you have the hit on Andy Dalton and that nobody seems to concern about the chief shot by Jon Bostic. That wasn't it took the announcers of minutes to kind of recognize, but they did eventually, So okay, that's that's a brutal Yep. Be Amari Cooper is standing there and there's others around there had to be a number of players see it. I would think the entire offensive line and to see it. On nothing. Nothing at all. I mean, I can't imagine. If that was Dad getting hit like that that they wouldn't have done something but that that just pointed to the the give up factor of this team they looked like in the first quarter. They're out there to see when it's going to go badly, and you know how much it's going to feel like a ground hog day. They got nothing on either side of the ball, but quitting is worse than losing to him. Yeah. And of course, coaches will always and players will fight. You didn't quit. Everybody has a great attitude by when you see something like that, and when you see it That And when you see a team that just gets gassed in the run and announcers every week, whether it's the money, night crew or yesterday was was Moose. Ah lot of destroyed job back and they get very quickly. The out of position on these place. They really get outflanked quickly without defense. I mean, they're they're talking around the fact that team looks very poorly prepared and has no idea what to do in the players. Never respond if Jerry had to do over coaching. Well, I mean, that's what What was it about Mike McCarthy flying in and spending one night at the Jones house and all they were just so wowed by this guy. They couldn't believe it. Now, what have you seen in any game that he brings? You didn't call the plays so anytime the offense was playing well earlier in the year, That's Kellen Moore is offense. So what is he doing over there that he brings Emily brought in all these coaches? Guys he had in Green Bay 10 years ago. Mike Nolan, who hired him 20 years ago. It's just this. This cronyism tied coaching staff. And you wonder, and you wonder how much Jerry thought about like a mat rule. He mentioned Matt Rule one time last December, just after Baylor played in the Big 12 championship game. What a great young coach to thought. Matt Rhule wass. And you're Matt Rhule took over a team that was just God awful and got ready Cam Newton, and they released whatever they are three and four. They compete. Uh, yeah. I mean, I don't know. I don't know that he wouldn't like to rethink this lot. Now it's the first year so I think both the pandemic the DAC injury, the offensive line being completely wiped out. Those going allow the coaches to skate for year. But he has to be thinking this. This may have been a Terrible higher. The Cowboys buyers or sellers at the trade deadline. You know, I don't think they have a lot to sell. I heard somebody saying trade one of their wide receivers. They don't need that many hundreds of it. That's the one thing they have is good wide receivers. You want to trade one of those go You know, Draft Ah, linebacker with a neck injury. That's what that's what excites you about rebuilding the team. I don't think they will do much. There's certainly not Myers, they get by. I mean, I don't know why in the world you would add. Do it to a terrible collection of talent as this many injuries, but I don't expect him to do a lot, actually.

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If You Dont Change, You Die

Accelerate Your Business Growth

05:37 min | 1 d ago

If You Dont Change, You Die

"Hi, everybody. Thanks for joining me today. The accelerate your business growth podcast is sponsored by audible DOT com. and. Because there is so much audible dot com that you may not even realize in addition to all the audiobooks we are offering you a trial. You can go to audible trial, DOT COM slash business growth sign up for that free trial and explore I think you will be amazed at what you find. Over. The years of this podcast has gained recognition as a great resource for a sales professionals, small business owners, business leaders of all kinds. and that is really because of the guests These are folks with expertise in particular areas of business. And they join me for conversation where they share that expertise with all of you that way you can get information that you need. You can get connected to these folks. and. You can implement strategies that help you and your business. Today is no exception. My guest today is Karen. Jenkins Karen is the president and CEO of R. J. Consulting a full service consulting firm providing companies and their employees with the skills and resources to become more committed to their performance empowered to effect change and be prepared for the journey ahead. With, over thirty years of Experience Karen is a recognized speaker author and leadership consultant equipping executives with the necessary tools to create results driven organizational change. Thanks so much for me today. Karen. Thank, you for the vacation I? AM WE HAVE TO BE HERE I am thrilled to have you here We are going to be spending time. really talking about Being open to change and and how you we have to be able to. shift and change and whatnot order to be successful and You know with everything we're going through and and all of the upheaval and. crisis and you know you name it that's been going on over the past. I don't know seven months. I would just I love your insights on how businesses survive. The business cycle during a crisis like the one we're experiencing. So. It's it's it's pendant of the business. So the reality you've had some businesses that have had minimal impact other than the having to transport for move from working in house on Office to tell were you've had some that were only other some that actually have flourished because they worry a needed commodity or service, and then you have others that unfortunately have suffered significantly because of the crisis. So it really depends on the business but. In any case, your business has to be established and set on a foundation that is agile and flexible enough to be able to shift or pitted depending on what the market brain. So of course, we all know about slot analysis. So strength weaknesses, opportunities and threats, and one of the threats that if you're really doing a true swot analysis. Is located at potential external factors that could negatively impact your your company and a lot of them. We don't think about right whoever gets. Years would've thought about Kobe coming in and then having the negative impact of his hand and for the duration of at his dad. worked. Challenges that we're faced with is and I can't say this to your listeners. This too shall pass the question is win. Because we face so many other challenges, but the differences and this particular challenges the other challenges we've had. Twenty two thousand when we had the nine eleven on two thousand and we have the economic meltdown and crisis. The thing was it happened you know we got through the week we got stopped or it happened, and then we were able to work on rebuilding in coming up with a plan to get to the recovery. This is is is that it's happened and here we are a month later it's still happening so. We'll get through. It is just a matter of time. So what we have to do is we have to recognize that for every door and window that closes there's seventeen others that open right. So the needs of our community, the needs of our clients may change based on what's happened. So in some instances, businesses that had a lot of very well thriving company where customers wanted. X., after this, they may not need X. or maybe they don't need X. Right now because the Kobe still going on but then you have to ask you a question, what do they need and if it's not particular customers, maybe it's another set of customers that I never thought about. So what am I have to Kinda scan the environment I have to keep my eyes and ears. To the needs and then figure out from our company's perspective. What can we? What can we feel? What need can we fulfill than is out there now that may not have been there before.

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Trusting Yourself with Kay Lopez

Cafe con Pam Podcast

05:14 min | 2 d ago

Trusting Yourself with Kay Lopez

"K. Welcome to government palm thank you so much for having me. I'm so excited to be here and tastes space with you I'm excited. Let's dive in. Let's dive in. Tell us who these K- what's your heritage I am Mexican American first generation. My family is from automakers go first generation. So you were born here yet I was born in Houston Texas Houston Nice you've left in a lot of places. Yes. So I lived in New York New York. was really a five year. Plan. which turned into an eight year adventure and after the eight year mark I was like you know what it's time to move again. So the West Coast was calling at, it was time to make that big jump. So I've been jumping around coast to coast. Now let's talk about what made you decide to go to New York. It's so interesting because it kind of relates to what's happening now in terms of the economy recession and reading the happening. So when I graduated graduated during the recession. It was very difficult time to. New in my specific industry will for everyone just graduated in trying to build their career might track was very specific in communications and advertising and being in Texas. I was so limited to what roles rick available to me and I really needed to think about my career was a very hard decision to make need my family being the first in my family to say peace everybody. Being. The eldest in a female, it was hard but I needed and I really had this desire to accomplish my dreams career. Wise. So really wasn't planned in my head. I was like eventually I'm going to move to New York. So a friend invited me to her wedding. She was originally from Houston she moved to New York. She met someone amazing. She was you know having her wedding she sent me the invite and I went to the wedding and it was only supposed to be for the weekend. So I had obviously packed lightly and then the night before my fly I was the Brooklyn Bridge with a friend and I said you know what? I don't think I'm going back home. What girl your flight is like at five in the morning. Midnight where you talking about he's like, where are you going to stay and I was like you know what I think this is it. I think this is my moment and I miss my fly and I called my parents that five in the morning. So I literally woke them up my dad the phone and I could hear my mom and she was automatically like worried like who is it and why is she calling? So early like what's happening I was three in the morning. It was like around two o'clock So they automatically you know freaked out and I told my dad, you know he was just waking up so you could hear his yeezy could hear him like confused and he was like dusted. And I was like, Yeah Pa. Did limit that. Go Gin. And They Like I'll figure it out I. Think I'M GONNA. Have a few friends that I went to college with and I'm just into a little couch surfing and that's what I did and it was the craziest thing that I had ever done in my life that no one thought that I was boy to ever do because I was always you know I was sheltered and that was my journey to new. York was like, okay I'm here I'm going to go through this five years just build my resume and go back to my family five years turned into eight and you know that's really how I moved to New York it was just really wanting to reach my dreams and see how much I can accomplish on my own I. Love it after that phone call with your dad and your one suitcase. So you bounced couch served all that stuff. So because if people are listening there like you know I want to take off and like just do it right especially in the middle of a recession. What was the first thing you did? Well to prepare for that was I created a list of all the places that I wanted to work at. So I already had like a vision in terms of like, okay. Where these are the companies I'm going to fight to make sure that I was prepared in terms of like my portfolio examples I only had one internship when I. Finished College. So I didn't have too much like actual work to show at a lot of like comps in examples of what I could create but I had a strong portfolio might professor reviewed all of that I had resume that again, my professors have looked at and I had that list at working list of like, okay. These are the companies that I'm going to hit up and. I that's exactly what I had with me. I didn't have a lot of money had four thousand dollars to my name and anyone who has been to New York or knows New York that's nothing. Right while name that is not and it was you know sitting at McDonald's and eating the dollar menu the cheeseburgers in the coffees in sitting there with my notebook in my laptop my. Old Laptop in like scratching now, agencies that I had a I to like motivating myself every day on top of the pressure like my parents constantly calling checking in on me and wanted to know my progress was

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The Latest: Trump touts 'incredible' numbers as virus soars

AP News Radio

00:57 sec | 3 d ago

The Latest: Trump touts 'incredible' numbers as virus soars

"Ten days before the election president trump in democratic presidential nominee Joe Biden are making the rounds in key battleground states speaking at a rally in Lumberton North Carolina a day after the U. S. said a single day record of more than eighty three thousand coronavirus infections president trump says the case load is high because of the amount of testing being done Ms the fake news media something to talk about so these cases are up in the that's because we test addressing supporters in Bristol Pennsylvania Joe Biden says Friday's record number of Kobe nineteen infections contradicts what the president has been saying at the debate on Thursday night Donald trump's dad is still saying we're rounding a corner Biden says trump cares more about the stock market then the American people while trump says a Biden presidency would delay the development of a covert nineteen vaccine I'm I can't put

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Mark Zuckerberg and Jack Dorsey to testify before the Senate Judiciary Committee

AutoNsider with Daryl Killian

00:18 sec | 3 d ago

Mark Zuckerberg and Jack Dorsey to testify before the Senate Judiciary Committee

"War. Facebook's Mark Zuckerberg and Twitters Jack Dorsey will testify before Congress next month because lawmakers want to hear about the platforms, censorship and suppression of the New York Post article concerning Joe Biden and his son Hunter. The story claim Hunter was trying to arrange a meeting between Ukranian businessman and his dad when Joe Biden was vice

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California 7th grader threatened with arrest for missing Zoom classes

Mojo In The Morning

01:23 min | 4 d ago

California 7th grader threatened with arrest for missing Zoom classes

"Letter that threatens to arrest a twelve year old for missing class missing their zoom class has a dad all upset the kid actually missed a couple of zoom classes are fourth child in this school and other blue get a letter Lafayette Parent Mark Trump says he was stunned when the family received a letter threatening his seventh grade son with a rest for missing exactly three thirty minute zoom sessions, unexcused absences. He can't become an other state and he could be arrested I said, are you gonNA come arrest my son and my home or trying to find me for not getting into his zoom class on time perfect everyday like his classmates at Stanley middle. School. Mass Trough spends up to seven hours a day attending virtual school via zoom the letter from a Stanley administrator list the three periods merrick missed and says when a student is absent without valid excuse, the student has considered true according to California law and down below the pupil may be subject to arrest the principal hairstyling middle school. told us the letter is a result of new state guidelines. This fall Senate Bill Ninety Eight, which requires districts to keep a closer eye on student attendance reached by phone Stanley Principal Betsy Belmonte told us the letters part of our responsibility to the state for our student attendance review boards

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Dining Pods (MM #3502)

The Mason Minute

01:00 min | 4 d ago

Dining Pods (MM #3502)

"The Maisonette with Kevin Nation as the winter months start setting in a lot of restaurants are very concerned right now concerned because they're not going to be up to one hundred percent capacity by the end of this year and some time into next year right now. We're at 75% I think when I was talking my dad Florida's about the same thing now the difference is in Florida. They don't really have to worry about the winter months quite like they do up North that's not a new trend called dining pods is coming in. I'm sure you've seen a few of them. I've actually seen a couple here in Nashville. They're actually like little tense. If you will a little clearer tents that work outside at restaurants and outside dining areas that can be a little pod warm and fight the elements as well as keep you separated from others by the plastic or vinyl or lexan or whatever. These pods are made out of to keep you away from other tables and to keep you safely distanced a lot of the restaurants here in a sold it off or outdoor dining have been packed over the last few months because it's easier to be outdoors and dining than it is to go inside and you're dealing with less of a chance of the virus Outdoors. They gotta do whatever they can do to stay in business wage.

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Dining Pods (MM #3502)

The Mason Minute

01:00 min | 4 d ago

Dining Pods (MM #3502)

"The Maisonette with Kevin Nation as the winter months start setting in a lot of restaurants are very concerned right now concerned because they're not going to be up to one hundred percent capacity by the end of this year and some time into next year right now. We're at 75% I think when I was talking my dad Florida's about the same thing now the difference is in Florida. They don't really have to worry about the winter months quite like they do up North that's not a new trend called dining pods is coming in. I'm sure you've seen a few of them. I've actually seen a couple here in Nashville. They're actually like little tense. If you will a little clearer tents that work outside at restaurants and outside dining areas that can be a little pod warm and fight the elements as well as keep you separated from others by the plastic or vinyl or lexan or whatever. These pods are made out of to keep you away from other tables and to keep you safely distanced a lot of the restaurants here in a sold it off or outdoor dining have been packed over the last few months because it's easier to be outdoors and dining than it is to go inside and you're dealing with less of a chance of the virus Outdoors. They gotta do whatever they can do to stay in business wage.

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Jon Grudens Raiders and Tom Bradys Bucs: A Special Relationship

ESPN Daily

04:55 min | 4 d ago

Jon Grudens Raiders and Tom Bradys Bucs: A Special Relationship

"Paul duty as I have a question for you where are you right now? I am in an RV at an RV park in Las Vegas and barring my mom and dad's RV while I'm here covering the now Las Vegas Raiders Paul Gutierrez not only covers the raiders for ESPN. He's written a book about Raiders Fandom and followed the team Vegas kind of living like. A little bit. Paul I of about fifty fall of questions about what life in that our views like. But it does feel like the ability to pick up and react to sudden schedule changes is especially important to covering the raiders these days starting with what's happening right now, we are talking on Thursday evening ahead of this highly anticipated raiders game, and there is a Kovic scenario that you've been covering in depth so. What do we know about the game schedule? What do we know about who's playing or who is not playing? Basically, what has happened is is right tackle. Trent Brown tested positive for covert. Now as part of the protocols here anybody who's deemed a high risk contact with him has to self isolate for at least five days plus one which would be the. Last point of contact, which was practice on Monday they are all there. They were all there together It's the raiders entire starting offensive line, plus let's just throw safety Jonathan Abram in there as well. So man, all of those guys were just placed on the covid nineteen list again doesn't mean any of them tested positive. I was actually told that none of them. But as part of the protocols they have to selfies late for five days. Another other source told me that they've been doing virtual preparation. In case they can indeed get cleared play against the buccaneers in the meanwhile, it was supposed to be a big Sunday night football game. Yes. The League wanted to make sure that that game actually happens. So they bumped the raiders out of their move Seattle in Arizona into that spot. So a game will happen well, guess what if you guys I just mentioned you consistently Test negative on their Cova test the rest of the week and then again Sunday. Morning will then they'll be cleared to play. But at what time? Sunday morning Oh. Yeah. kickoffs at one o'clock. So the backstory all that as well. I gotTA catch my breath here when I started figure this out understandably. Yeah. They on their fifty three man roster. They currently have five backup offensive lineman. That's WHO's been trodden. They've been trying out there in practice every day. That's who Derek Carr has been had protecting him. That's who Josh Jacobs has been trying to run holes through those five guys plus they also have two guys on the practice squad that they could suit up if need be. So as we sit here right now on on Thursday late afternoon the raiders starting offensive line is anchored by Andre James and if you need to know who that is I got a couple of media guides for you can look about. Paul Creek me. If I'm wrong here, but I believe this is the very first case of an entire position group being taken down by cove like I know that we've had players here and there. You put on this list but in terms of the magnitude of what the raiders are facing with the offensive line, this feels extreme. Yeah. An and it's part of the protocol. Really. Because only one guy really has tested positive but it's out of the abundance of caution which we've heard a lot of since since the pandemic hit right you've got to self isolate you gotta make sure you don't test positive or show any symptoms, and even if you don't show any symptoms, still self isolate because you could be symptomatic. It's just very bizarre. It's a strange world we're living in Derek Carr said this week that you know he's been with the team for seven years seen a lot of weird things. He's this is the weirdest thing he's ever seen and it's worth noting like weird is by no means foreign to this organization even within this context I mean, I still need help Paul disentangling what exactly happened for instance with Jon Gruden their head coach who took an approach to corona virus with the team earlier this year that had me confused the media confused, and then ultimately Jon Gruden himself pretty angry at everybody. Yeah. So beginning at Camp, we show up in a media member. We have to test every day just to get in I have fifty two on my belt. All negative so far, which is a good thing Jon gruden passes out t shirts to the media with there waiting for us as we walk in the media room that say crush the virus because I was going to be his mantra he took issue with the NFL network reporting that he faked having the virus but yet kind of just went away then on the home opener on. Monday night football when he later would get fine for not wearing his mask properly, he brings it up himself and says that he never faked the virus it as a matter of fact, he did have it. So he talked about just how it was not fun. It made him feel bad and this is all before training camp. When he said he he went through this and beat it in in that. He has the utmost respect for it and he still wants to crush it in beat it into the ground like it was some sort of opponent.

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Conversation With Alexandra Daddario

On with Mario Interviews

06:46 min | 5 d ago

Conversation With Alexandra Daddario

"Wwl Mario Lopez joining me now on. Zoom. Alexandra daddario welcome to the show. I. Thank you. Thanks for taking the time. Best last name ever real last name, right I can't imagine. Say the Dario what did they call you growing up over the nicknames? The Dario guys call me that. Data Rio data. I love data real permission please. So, today is national. Make A dog's Day. We discussed the other day dogs about ten holidays throughout the year, which is awesome and you know what they deserve to have their day made I. Know you've teamed up with some awesome people to celebrate. So what are you doing? So Subaru is they worked with dogs for over twenty years. They there he were the sec a came up with this great idea. Last year to do super loves pets month in October which encourages people to go out and. Adopt a dog and adopted underdog, which is a special needs dog or dog older that kind of thing. And they have a special day within October October. Twenty seconds today where you can Hashtag make a dog's day and show yourself doing something good for a dog either. Or volunteering or adopting a dog or encouraging others to. And Anchorage everyone to do that? And you know Subaru has really sort of wants to push this this out to make sure that people know that adopting a great thing to do and they're also donating one hundred dollars for being adopted dog. To shelters and that kind of thing and I just encourage everyone to do it because I love my shelter dog leave and you know he's so near and dear to my heart I can't imagine you know I get so sad thinking about him in the shelter and I know everyone who adopts the dog feels the same way we are big dog lovers over here I've got two dogs. Myself One who's got a little physical special need come to find out. But so we love him even more. It's funny because I feel like dogs really know they're getting adopted and you can you they show appreciate it. Could totally tell you can totally tell and they're so grateful. So it is a great feeling. On way run. Shelter dogs are. They definitely, and they're just. I can't tell you how much my dad's brought Malay. So I urge everyone to good for you on a dog go for it. Good for you. Now I see your dogs all over what's the secret to get them to pose for the camera. Tree. We have the same award system. Take care of me that's how we get married but actually. Street right next Hamra. And then you know you get consid-. WON'T LISTEN TO BE ON THE RETREAT MY hands same. I'm on. That program. You got a new movie out on demand a loss girls and love hotels. Cool. Title it. It looks like a thriller. What's it about? Yeah. It's about a girl who goes to Japan and she alost girl she's a little lost in your life and she gets into all kinds of trouble and falls in love and drinks too much. Not kind of thing. It's a really beautiful movie. We shot it in Tokyo and Gorgeous. So Warm. Very cool for sure. Also the voice of Lois Lane for the animated film Man. Of Tomorrow, you're you're super you've been superman. Fan I used to watch lows in park, the Dean Cain, very hatch shell growing up. I Love Superman. I was always wanted to date mems the that now your lowest lane and you're literally doing. Fun. Also in the works, the movie songbird this was one of the only films being made at the height of the pandemic. How'd that go for him? Great is the first job Bach. Is My first time working this year so definitely weird to shoot during this period of time, but they were real everyone's been works a couple projects and. You, know it's very, very strict. Everyone wears maths lot of testing and I'm really really out of. Industry for getting back to the can safely at and And I think it's really cool movie. Shoot. Los Angeles actually shot here in L. A.. Okay. Very. Cool. Very good. Fishing, too. So. What did you catch anything that day? I. Grew back. Through back where we fishing? Sorry where we fishing listening in Long Island sound I was over with them in Connecticut bad. Our knew how to fish and I've never been fishing reports. So I went and fishing for fun. Right I just went to visit I love fish. I mean, it's relaxing for Chilean maybe having a draining. I thought it was boring but it's it's not at all because you're on a boat and it's beautiful. Exactly Fun Yeah it's golf you're hanging out. It's nice. It's pretty. Off But I imagine it's the same legal. Before. Let you go I. WanNa put you on the spot. Quick questions. Quick answers. Okay. Favourite TV or movie dog. The. Golden retriever from home rebounds. K.. Favored. Show you binge during quarantine. Too Hot to handle. Which one is that one? That's the one where they all have to go to an I not allowed cheats. Reality yes. Yes to hot. Okay. What's your? What's your go to Karaoke jam? Bohemian rhapsody. Is a commitment or they're also all time favorite. Halloween costume. How God I'd never I never does not rally. I now I'm always dressed just a wish I mean I, I should. Actually be more than just putting just like. You see I have more fun at Halloween as an adult I. think that I did as a kid getting out the and everything. Yeah I'm all fired up Obama Alpha this year. My. Motto Halloween and I'm just I. Don't know what that's about. Not Halloween Person. I mean I like I like handing out candy. But I've never been someone to like get super just. Daddy Rio. All. Right. Very cool. Congratulations on everything and thank you so much for taking the time to visit with US ON MARCH DOT COM for all the Info about make a day Alex checking-in. Thank

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Top 10 Haunted Crime Scenes

Extraterrestrial

06:14 min | 6 d ago

Top 10 Haunted Crime Scenes

"Starting off our list of haunted crime scenes is the Eden Brown estate on the Caribbean island of Nevis. There're couple versions of this story and they all take place before a wedding. Of course, they do essentially the groom and the best man they get into a fight they pull out their vessels and they kill each other. Oh but they're not the ghosts of the Brown. Estate that would be the bride who still roams the estate and a long white gown waiting for her wedding day. Of course, she is the. Are. They're always brides dressed in their wedding clothes just waiting for their wedding day at these places and it's always really sad because i. they're also always like crying or like they look very like shock they've always been jilted. Yeah. It's not fair. No I. Don't like while in eighteen, twenty, two, this bride Julia. Huggins was set to marry Walter Maynard, his best dude John Huggins was going to be the best man but all was not well of course, there wasn't everyone died. Wheeler Alina a fight was a bruin. So there's like multiple stories about what actually happened and since the story was largely spread by tourism, they all vary a little bit. I feel like the best things in the worst things are always spread by doors. One hundred percent we can account for a lot with tourism well, like I said, there's a few theories. The first is that the grew was having an affair and the best man found out that was his sister. So he was like I'm upset and then the groom was like you are Eliah I think that was it that was it, but there's also some mortgage bonds. Okay. The next one is that the best man like I said was the bride's brother and the groom discovered that they were hooking up with each other on the low, and obviously he went a little bananas about that Allah incest a lot incest. So S- big ill. Another theory we've got another one says that the bride's father now, that's the dad this time was tried for mistreating his sleeves and this was in the eighteen hundred. So you know that was real bad. That was a sharp left turn sharp left. The groom having an affair. Yeah. That's like the classic in the best man is being a good dude and killed them died hero. It's a pretty good wrong com movie actually I picked up I like that one while historians think the real story dates back to a historical rivalry between the maynard and the huggins families the plantation itself dates back to the Century and it was at that time a beautiful property decorated with international furnishings from Africa and China. But today it's in ruins. Really. Sad. But sad torres claim to hear whales of a crying bride enslaves. ooh, and Julia is sometimes spotted in her wedding gown only during the full moon I don't hate that this is in ruin. Now what's meant to be will be yeah don't go there. It's terrible place. Nine. At number nine this week is leap castle and love this one according to ancient legends. Leap Castle is built on an ancient Druid holy site. ooh while we don't know if the druids used the land for human sacrifice, we do know that once the castle was built it did witness hundreds of murders I feel like that's just like what castles do. Yeah. Any good castle worth. Its name seen offend learning the hundreds of murders. You can't be a castle. You know it's a qualification. The best part of this place is that it's named after a little earl leap off a nearby cliff by an ancient Irish abandoned chieftain. ooh. Yeah. He jumped as a sign of bravery to win clan leadership from his brother later, it was taken over by the bloody carols. I want to be friends with them because you definitely don't want to be their enemy. Yeah. You don't want to be an enemy of the bloody. Oh Carols No. Well, they were known for throwing Red Wedding s dinner parties and just straight up killing their guests like the saddest episode of Game Fern. So to picture that was all is affecting me R.I.P Robb stark. Talk. About number be over it. Well, this was way back in the fifteen hundreds. So the it is pretty game of thrones Ian. Yeah. So the carols, this is one of my favorite things they built an uber yet a what an yet. and. What would happen was victims would fall through a trap door into this. googly. It in the remains of one hundred fifty people were found during a nineteen twenties renovation. So I think we have three major ghosts that we want to chat about really quick. Hit me up. One of the ghosts is called the Red Lady. It's an carol hostage, the murdered her baby. Oh, I don't WanNa be a part of them anymore. This is when I got off the OH. Carol, Bandwagon. You're. Not. In. She's looking for her baby though was murdered. Oh, I know and then we have thaddeus. So Carol who is a priest killed buys brother in a power grab anybody named Thaddeus as okay in my book thought he is a great name does the last one that I found was called the murdered lady was she murdered? No. We. Think she was I wouldn't Wanna be called the murdered lady later in life she shows up and she's naked has all yeah. Has a red cloth over her face and she just screams twice at you and then leaves that would change you as a person I think like to which say I leave I leave the Milky Way Galaxy. If that happened to me I would walk like five hundred miles and then I'd walk five hundred more which I would be so far. That's terrifying to me. No. Thanks. So we don't love that will in the sixteen hundreds after all that crazy. Oh, Carol business it changed hands and it went to Jonathan Darby who fell in love with an old carol daughter. So now it was just all about love right romance. Well, he still haunts the castle right now people as looking for his loss golds, but I think that's pretty priority of him. The other reports of things happening are doorbells ring with no one their tools move around without being touched There's like sounds of furniture moving people screaming, and then a carpenter that was working on the property once just left and he was like I'm never coming back to work because he walked five hundred miles and then five hundred more leap castle everybody.

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Episode 41 FTN Watches A Movie Part 1: Cruel Jaws - Drive Of The Week

F That Noise

03:20 min | Last week

Episode 41 FTN Watches A Movie Part 1: Cruel Jaws - Drive Of The Week

"Introduction long as we're here. Yes. Yes every episode we start with the driver the week. If you don't know what a drive is. It is a line from a movie or TV show said with exceptional velocity and volume and the stage belongs to mister Klein. All right, ladies and horror fuckers. What we have here is the 1983 Stephen King horror. Flick Christine. This is a classic one for me. It's grown up kid because it was one of the few R-rated movies was able to watch which shockingly because it's got so much bad language in this and there is a lot of drives in this and it was hard to pin-point flash drive to use is there is one point where a character just goes black for no reason, but I chose this one because there's always a reason yeah and the reason which is not the third reason but the reason off there to drive right back to back and it is it's checked estimate. So so here is to drives of the week from the Motion Picture film Christine off. I care about you. Like I love you lie, but I think we deserve one more try. Don't you give me a fucking ass? Hello, Arnie, please don't do this to me wanting to speak with me. Okay, you've had right? Or fuck you, bitch, just like they were burning Arnie. Please don't do this tickets pissed off drops the fuck you bitch stay with me that you've had it, right? Well, fuck you bitch. And then we anything about it runs back to the phone. I'm sorry. I'm sorry wrong with me. Okay, you've had right? Or fuck you, bitch. Come on, Lee expects her to still be on page other than kids today won't know that if you if you're slammed the phone down hard enough, it actually bounced and didn't hang up. So the other person might actually still be on the other line. It's true. That is true. But that's pretty much after you do the exact you bitch and she assumes you hang up. She's not going to hang around that kind of thing is so easily misunderstood, you know, don't like is it I'm just saying this isn't really that clear what he means right? Well, there's stuff. He just wanted a yes or no and you can't really fault them there and just yesterday. I think we give me a fucking no. I mean just because you make it because a lot of pressure is Dad is you know, Rodney Dangerfield and right right, right. He's gotta make that swim team. Yeah. Yeah. I thought that was the driver of the week brought to you by Trashman media for all the latest DVD and Blu-ray commentary go to trash man media and also on Facebook and Twitter. I feel good to check out www.cbs.com latest news and no bulshit. All right. So we're going to

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The Empty House

Classic Ghost Stories

05:53 min | Last week

The Empty House

"Certain houses, like certain person's managed somehow to Proclaim it once their character for evil in the case of the latter. No particular feature need betray them. They may boast and open countenance and ingenuous smile. Yes, a little of their company leaves the unalterable conviction that there is something radically a mess with there being that they are evil willy-nilly they seem to communicate in an atmosphere of secret and wicked thoughts which makes those in their immediate neighborhood shrink from them as from a thing has eased. and perhaps with houses the same Principle as operative and it is the aroma of evil Deeds committed under a particular roof long after the actual dose of passed away that makes the gooseflesh come and the hair rise something of the original Passion of the evildoer and of the horror of felt by his victim enters the heart of the innocent Watcher home and he becomes suddenly conscious of tingling nerves creeping skin and a chilling of the blood his terror-stricken without apparent cause There was manifestly nothing in the external appearance of this particular house to Bear out the tales of the horror that was said to rain within it was neither lonely nor unkempt stood crowded into a corner of the square and looked exactly like the houses on either side of it. It had same number of windows. It's neighbors the same balcony overlooking the gardens off the same white steps leading up to the heavy black front door. And in the rear there was the same narrow strip of green with neat box borders running up to the wall that divided it from the back of the adjoining houses. Apparently to the number of Chimney pots on the roof was the same the breadth and angle of the eaves and even the height of the dirty area railings month and yet in this house and the square seen precisely similar to its fifty ugly neighbors was as a matter of fact entirely different horribly different wearing latest marked invisible difference is impossible to say it cannot be ascribed holy to the imagination because persons who would spend some time in the house knowing nothing of the facts that declawed positively that certain rooms were so disagreeable. They would rather die than enter them again and that the atmosphere of the whole house produced in them symptoms of a genuine Terror while a series of innocent tenants who are trying to live in it and being forced to be camp at the shortest possible notice was indeed little less than a scandal in the town. One short has arrived to pay a weekend visit his aunt Julia and her little house on the seafront at the other end of the town. He found her charge to the brim with mystery and excitement. He had only received a telegram that morning and he had come anticipating boredom. But the moment he touched her hand and kissed at apple skin wrinkled cheek. He caught the first wave of electrical condition the impression deepened when he learned that there were to be no other visitors and that he had been telegraphed for with a very special object something with the wind and the something would doubtless bear fruit for this elderly spinster armed with a Mania for psychical research had brains as well as willpower and by hook or by crook. She usually managed to accomplish ends. The Revelation was made soon after T. When she cycled close up to him as they paced slowly along the seafront in the dusk. I've got the keys she announced in the deluge. To get half awesome voice got them till Monday the keys of the bathing machine or he asked innocently looking from the seat of the Town. Nothing brought her so quickly to the whole point is feigning stupidity. Neither. He whispered. I've got the keys of the haunted house in the square and I'm going there tonight shorthouse just conscious of the slightest possible Tremor down his back. He dropped his teasing tone something in her voice and manner thrilled him. She was in Earnest, but you can't go alone. He began that's why he lied for years. He said with decision. He turned to look at her the ugly lined enigmatic. Her face was the live with excitement. That was the glow of genuine enthusiasm rounded like a halo song is Shawn he caught another wave her excitement and the second Tremor more Market than the first accompanied it. Thanks, and Julie said politely thanks. Awfully. I shouldn't dad go quite alone. She went on raising her voice. But with you I should enjoy it immensely. You were afraid of nothing. I know God. Thanks so much. He said again is anything like this happen a great deal has happened. She whispered though. It's been most cleverly hushed up three tenants have come and gone in the last few months. And the house is set to be empty for good. Now in spite of himself short house became interested. His aren't was so very much in Earnest. The house is very old indeed to end off and the story and unpleasant one dates a long way back. It has to do with a murder committed by a journalist a woman who had some affair with a servant in the house one night. You managed to create himself in the cellar and when everyone was asleep, he crept upstairs to the servants quarters chased the girl down to the next Landing before anyone could come to the rescue through her birth. Any over the banisters into the hole below and the stableman the court I believe and hang for murder, but it all happened a century ago and have not been able to get more details of the story.

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Junk Knowledge with Marques Marchand

The Addicted Mind Podcast

06:24 min | Last week

Junk Knowledge with Marques Marchand

"Alright everyone. This is our second attempt to start this interview. My guest today is Marcus Mashad and he is the author of a Darker Chapter Messy Guy to dual diagnosis and jumped knowledge and Marcus why don't you introduce yourself and tell us a little bit about your story, your story of addiction struggling with addiction and bill diagnosis, and then we'll get into how you wrote your bucks and we'll talk about it. All My name is Marcus. Marshawn I'm a recovering alcoholic published author and all that good stuff. I before the books and everything and before I even became healthy in any way I was I was I was a problem child no. Europe. And a no it was forty one years old now in my sobriety date is November. Twenty, six, two, thousand, one. So I got close to nineteen years I'm almost there I was born nineteen seventy, nine January seconds. Just. Outside of Portland Oregon I live in San Francisco now in here a while and. I don't know if I was born any way I don't know born addict I. I, don't know if I was headed predispositions. It runs in the family on both sides of my family, right? Right? Yeah. But something something spoke to you when it comes to addiction. Yeah, it was born in nineteen seventy nine I. Was the first grandchild. I was my mom first child she had joss have a brother who's about seven years younger than me but I was. Accustomed to in the very beginning, I got accustomed to all the attention all the gifts. All everything you know the first few Christmases was all about me which was great and I didn't know ever change and when my brother came along when cousins came along, there was competition for attention and started to take all that away as like I started having to perform more had to be funnier it I just took it on his challenge I became like medium and everything and people loved it but every. Other kids. Be. Around. Yeah and I I didn't hate it but I was I was irked you know like Roy Sharing and. Is just like an often you know when when we when we work on ourselves, we get sober. We realized some of the root of our addictive processes are in our past in our childhood and stuff like that. So that makes a Lotta Sense. Yeah I it's I think it's one hundred percent like everybody's going to have to deal with the past. Yeah. So well, we are passed right? Yeah I my mom got remarried when I was five years old. So there was a step dad in the picture and They had my second my brother together, and so there was a lot of conflict between me and my step dad and and just all that a lot of people a lot of steps it's have that story and. Leading home really early. I left home at fifteen and my grandmother. Cross I adopted me but I was I was a latchkey kid and I was on my own now and I. So I went from living in the country out on a farm and my Stepdad was intact and used math genius and I was just a kid and we didn't get along. We were totally different. I'm kind of an artist and we right right it's like it was it was rough. We did not get along my mom's in the middle of it was tumultuous kind of on your own. Yeah. At first I was like this is great and but then There's no money I was on my own financially I just remember having to buy my own hands and everything for Ninth Grade Tenth Grade House like I was on my own weird. All my friends, all my regular normal friends were with their parents house and things were normal for them and I was just like loss for years. When I was fifteen sixteen I transitioned into drinking and drugs. And I had a good time if it a lot of things for me I forgot about all the pain of not being around family, right? Yeah. About being or I mean like alcohol and drugs were great for forgetting that you're broke. Forget any pain that you have. It's all gone. So and I got into the psychedelics I got an ecstasy I I never gotten to like math or anything but I stare meant that a little bit. So it's just started to progress from there. Yeah. quickly quickly, really fast because the age of fifteen to twenty two I used every day something then I couldn't twenty two. So most of my story. Is really about my using I don't have a thirty five year career using things right? Right yeah. It was short. It was fast I had a lot of fun. So what made you? What made you decide to say? Okay Hey, this isn't working for me like I gotTa Stop I. GotTa do something. Okay. So where it starts where I wanted to stop it was It was. Christmas Eve two, thousand of the year two thousand and I was I was working in restaurants and bars, and it was a great time Portland living in Portland Migrate Northwest Portland Neighborhood Powell's bookstore and all that way hipster kid and. I was working at a really cool restaurant and all my friends read a Bar Tiger. Bar. And they all call and I had the flu one hundred and three degree temperature. I. Was sweating I was sick and they call me like we're at the tiger bar they're playing your favorite drum and bass music gotta come down I'm coughing and sneezing gross and Ale, and is all early in gross looking. So I took a shower and I went down there unlike let's do it. I'm I'm in this big booth with all my friends it's like ten of us and I'm in the booth. I. Remember going to the bathroom and just wash my hands in my face in the mirror I. Look I look at old man. I'm twenty one at the time how and then I go back to the booth and I was just I remember a photo. A picture of all of us like having a good time supposedly, and I just I had to walk back I live four blocks, Murray where and then I got better went back to work a friend of mine showed me the photo and everybody looked normal. They're having a good time skeleton votto and. Rob And I'm twenty one years old was FG, right? But you knew there's something in you said, this is this is like this isn't right and but I would continue. Until the until Thanksgiving of the next year. So for another year just kept trying right

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"dads" Discussed on The Circle of Dads

The Circle of Dads

09:18 min | Last week

"dads" Discussed on The Circle of Dads

"You automatically assume if I was in her shoes automatically assume it I'd done something wrong. You know if my significant other came home and they're not talking to me and their and Shitty mood and they're just being real abrasive than yeah I would one hundred percent thanks may so that that hurdle that we leapt over with me open up communicating I mean that was that was a game changer for us and we're still learning things about each other. We've you know it's been seven years now and We've done everything backwards way society tells us. You know you're supposed to do in a relationship, but we did our and it's worked and it's absolutely amazing and. Just today I learned that when I get done washing the dishes when her pet peeves is I leave water and shit right to the right of the sink. Fully wipe up the sink she appreciates doing the dishes but she laughed it and she's like. Just got to tell you something I go up to. She goes you never wipe the water when you're done with the dishes like. Duly. noted. Yeah. So Wax On now now life is better. So you're always learning man you're always in a position to make your relationship as long as the efforts there you can do it. And you know that being able to communicate and like I know. You talk about Alpha males and and. And we're both Alpha types were. Alpha men. And it's and it's It's usually you're not supposed to talk about your feelings. You're not supposed to work through this stuff you're supposed to just be. STOIC. Being a pussy. Drink water and take any you know. And I learned how damaging that can be. Because I didn't know how to communicate anything. But also, I didn't even know how to do the self evaluation figure out what it was. I was feeling what emotion you know like anger. Can show up in everything. Yeah. It's really fear or sadness insecurity so like my natural default was. Anger and frustration. So always mad. Always scared. You know always terrified I wasn't going to be a good dad. And at the beginning of Abbey's life when her mom and I were still together and I was still drinking like an Asshole, I wasn't a good dad. You know and thankfully I got sober and I was able to be. Able to rebuild that and you know just make that decision. That I'm going to start differently right now. And and that's one of the greatest decisions I've ever made But it's not always easy because you're you constantly have to keep moving and you have to keep. Growing and figuring out what it is that makes you tick. I see I'll you know have a conversation with guys and they'll? They'll kind of hint that they haven't seen their kids in a while. Why? Why would you? Why would you just accept that? And it's you know you get built up with so much shame. And you justified. However, you can in your head so that you can sleep at night. But really that kids the one get hurt. And it and it hurts me when I hear of other guys that have been beaten down by that and they they're not in the kids lives. Could very easily been me. And I'm I'm so grateful that that wasn't the path that I ended up on. You know but had I not gone through the work and had not. Honestly. I in you talk about. Echo being the source of everything good in your life I. Mean I feel the same way about my wife. Everything good that I had in my life has has. Largely came because of that woman. In really mostly because. She supports me unconditionally. Jazz mock me she doesn't bust my balls. You know she's she's she Trust that I'm always doing the right thing and and that I'm safe. You know and that's That's so valuable. And I it really makes me sad when I see other people that don't have that. You know, and so that's one of the other reasons why we're so attracted to y'all because y'all have that you'll have that trust. You know she was. Talking to me on the way over here about how respectful your two other women. But not in flirty way yeah. You know like I have. a large group of women in my life that I'm super protective of. And they've become like sisters to me and most of them you know I've met through Mardi Right But never flirty. My friend. Jack with them but never anything. Inappropriate. And that makes me so proud that they feel safe around me that I'm not A. Creep. Given that look every now and then? Yeah now, Echo has won hurt best friends whose I call her sister. Now, a matter through echo amy absolutely lever to death same deal mean. A. Big Fan amy, she's awesome. She's of culture. She is awesome. One of my best memories of hers, Down In. Mexico, where she was riding innertube that wave wasn't paying attention and it just rocked her instead they're somersaulting. Yeah. That was a good one but yeah. So the trust issue that's that's huge. especially with one of our businesses. Where it's There's Mo- There's millions of people within this organization and business. Then when we go to convention each year. You know we're top ranks within the the company. So of course, our our names very known So when we go to convention It's it's crazy man I've I've never been the one to idolize a human being just because we're all human we're all the same But being top ranks within this company. When you go to a convention, you're in your name and faces very known. So people that are just starting out want to meet you. And last year I went. By myself echoes unable to go when I went by myself and. I probably had. Over two or three thousand females come up to me and WanNa pitcher and talk to me for second In his echo, you have to be very secure and there has to be trust in the relationship which goes back to I've never given a reason not trust me you know. Someone called me out on social media because they noticed and all the pictures I taken with the women. Apparently, Jonah Reeves does a deal when he takes a pitcher with a woman yeah. He'll. He'll disarms outside or his hands are always in view a pitcher, and that's something I do as well and I did that year convention and someone called it out I won't get an elevator by myself with a woman. I won't put myself in a position where anything could ever start you know. I would never wanNA break that trust or pont with BECO-, and just rumors you know. So yeah. So as a Keanu reeves when your last year it convention but going back to the trust man, it's huge and that's one thing I value most about echo nuys relationship is the trust. Huge, you have to have that because. In the past I'm the type of trust man starting insecure that jealousy starts coming out. Yeah. People get punched for no reason. Insecure and I think you looked at my wife wrong and now y'all exchange numbers or whatever. You know the mind is such a strong. Thing and once you go down that rabbit hole of insecurity it is hard to get pulled back out. Once the relationship the trust has been broken. It's very hard to rebuild that and I know from experience with past relationships. So that's why I value echo is trust so much. With with. My Wife's never given me any reason ever to not trust her. There's never been any reason that I've ever had to like look through stuff for wonder. And I've always struggled with jealousy among other relationships. After. Doing the work I've figured out that it was all mount insecurities I mean that's same here once you say it out loud here like Shit but you know with Marty, there's been one or two times in our relationship that I've gotten super jealous. Re and really she didn't even know it was just going on in my head. and. That would go for a couple of days not start feeling myself. You know really like put myself in a lot of misery. and. Then it just kind of clicked. What's going on with you? Are you feeling so insecure? And you know it would have been the business wasn't doing well so I was making. I wasn't like bringing money like I like I should be you know so should be. You, and so I wasn't holding up my end of the bargain therefore, i. didn't have as much value and I wasn't distracted for whatever it may have been. And so I was able to kind of navigate through that and. It out and talk to other guys and and work through that and and realize have anything to do with her..

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"dads" Discussed on Hey B*tch!

Hey B*tch!

07:17 min | 9 months ago

"dads" Discussed on Hey B*tch!

"Daddy the wrong memo Gina Your Picture Your Papa. Oh innocent way innocence. Imagine your father in a photo frame in a hallway. And what do you think about him? Actually picture of my dad framed in my bedroom right next to your dad. Watches you fuck. That's weird. Whoa just kind of move out of your daddy's little blind when you're talking recently Everybody knows that are AP. Kobe Bryant lost two good one but after his passing it came out that he had a lot of stories of being proud girl dad and so people that had had exchanges with Kobe. Were recalling their memories of just how proud he was to be a girl dad and how he just wanted more and more and more girls and I I guess I took a lot of people by surprise because most dad's especially if you're an athlete they tend to want boys and they want to raise their athlete boys and so it was just really cool. The Kobe really loved having daughter and had four four dollars. Yeah and he wanted like time more so he was like you're all going into the WNBA. You're all going to be like me. You'RE GONNA kill it. No no one's about him no. He didn't even trip about like pushing basketball on any of his daughters. That's G G really loved it. It was like Oh yeah I get to pass on like the basketball knowledge to one of my daughters. Yeah at least so I guess that just reminded us of like our relationships with our own fathers because we all obviously have girl dads and how different it was like amongst all of us so Yeah Gina was talking a little bit about how? She has a picture of her dad in her bedroom. I don't think I have a picture of my dad. All my house have a very very different relationships with our fathers. But we'll get there. Yeah I'm I'm like the quintessential Daddy's girl I always will be will be like six years old and I'll be like did he can have cookie that he doesn't know you have an American action. That's the funny thing about my dad. So the reason why we're so close is because I never grew up with him. I've never lived with my dad The most time of sent with him consecutively was probably like six months and then he had to move away to another state so Being away from him made me like in my twenties. What I started making more money and like I can fly. Go See my dad and like when you're not like a little kid anymore I'm like Oh man I miss my dad relationship with him so it was always like. Hey how are you but the now When I started making money. I'm like okay. Dan Among visit us so now I spend Christmas with him Father's Day my birthday with him and then his birthday to and then So the fact that I'm so far away from all the time makes me more hyper aware of like all right. I need to spend more time and I have this rule that If my dad ever crosses my mind or even just a dad comes up in conversation domestic home right away until my Laurie. You know your phone and because it's professional because also like cute solely W-. We don't like message all day back and forth but if you look at our messages as I can love you. I love you too. Hey I love you all set reminder Sometimes he'll he'll do it. I don't think so we type in Vietnamese. It's really cute. Aw have a- to like a matching with Your Dad David. Ruin you little Marquez. Fucking hate you so much so a few years ago. I flew my dad and my dad's a huge niners Fan Nikki. Who's going to a super bowl? By the way by the time this episode comes out people will know. At least we made it longer. Fighting over the spoils Paul which is funny. Because half my family's the chiefs chiefs fans good so we're not having a super bowl party for the sake of the family and nobody would know which ones so a few years ago. I flew my dad into San Francisco with me and I got Colin Kaepernick's tattoo artists to do our matching tattoos so in Vietnamese. I have fallen in the back of my neck and my dad has child in his arm off. So father is back and child has gone con. And then I posted a picture of Bacon I can and then everyone. So we got matching tattoos and then Elegant Tattoo on my side. Also it's It's a song lyric on the he's saying to me when I was a kid and it's in. His handwriting is amazing calligraphy bread his favorite color. That shit hurt hurt hurt. So Sweet Hughes Daddy wonder if it is because like Yeah you didn't get to see each other a lot during childhood and stuff because I feel like I have such a better relationship with my dad now after not living with because when we lived together it was like war. We are too much alike and everyone would always be like. You're just like your dad which pissed me off because I thought he was insane and we would always butt heads and because he you know paid all the bills and he's the elder and you know he wasn't allowed to argue or like say my peace and you know like I need to say my piece if I have something to say. I'm pretty outspoken. So is he but because I was the child it was always like. Don't talk back. Shut up. Don't say anything and then if. I cried out of frustration because I couldn't say anything he'd be like no crying and he'd yell at me for crying and then it was just like I just hated living with him and we went like a whole year in my teenage years without even talking like we just passed each other in the kitchen and like not talk but then when I moved out I was twenty one when I moved out. I feel like his soft side came out like I finally got to see like what my mom had been talking about all those years because I was always like. What soft side is she talking about? She'd be He's such a baby in the inside and he loves you so much and he'd brag about he brags about you to his work in his office. He had a bunch of pictures of me like at work in his work. Like I never see those pictures. He never tells me those things but like when I moved out of the House started telling me those things more and I remember always feeling not good enough for him and feeling like out of me Because he's a really high standard and so therefore. I had a really high standard because I felt like I could never meet this impossible standard but then when I was twenty six so five years out of the House we were in New York for premiere of something that I was in and he raped before going on like the red carpet he was like. I'm really.

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"dads" Discussed on Legacy-Dads Podcast

Legacy-Dads Podcast

05:35 min | 11 months ago

"dads" Discussed on Legacy-Dads Podcast

"Lust of the eyes is got to be nailed and crucified every day. Hey and that's where if you sit there and say this is the way I was raised. Okay but then the first part of fixing problems one acknowledging that you have a problem and so this is the way you were raised okay. There's a problem but now what are we gonNA do about it. Wanted Accountability get accountability. Don't you sit there and say hey. I didn't do this. Check didn't do that check. And then hey how about that. You know that football game the NFL team that we love. Let's go out and have ten beers and come back and repeat the same thing that you're trying to actually put to death. No have the real conversation yet and I think you know someone I I'm with the when it comes to culture and things like that and I'll tell you this guy's admitting admitting weakness is something that people struggle with and I'm I'm working overseas right now with the culture where the culture here is you do not admit weakness. This is just one of those things where it doesn't happen and so when we're going to a process with the the some of these guys and we ask them. Tell me what your I want to know. What what your weaknesses are? What are you not very good at and they very much struggle to tell us that? And and here's what I say to them. I said let me tell you what look at when when. Somebody's not self aware and honest enough to to tell me what the rig Mrs are. I think one of two things this one. You know what they are. But you're lying. You're lying to me and you're not willing to be honest about it or to you. Really don't no what your weaknesses are A meaning you're not self aware of what your weaknesses are to me. That's even scarier because you're much more dangerous you're like a a a loaded gun waiting to go off because you don't even know what's wrong with you so either way it's wrong so you really need to look at what is what are areas. What am I trigger points? What are the things that I'm not very good And get over this this you know whatever. It is the cultural or the way you're raised of of saying I can't admit faltering Tura candidate weakness because to me that's just a cop out and say it doesn't it's not a sign of maturity maturity as man immaturity is a Christian of. You can't admit commit your sins in your deficiencies in the places. You fall short so I think you know I'm just. I'm trying to tell you guys we need to get over this stuff and when you screw up call all it out call yourself out because to me. That's being a bigger man than the guy who tries to hide it or tries to you know Pushed under the rug and act like it didn't happen that makes sense don't they and Lance in your line of work and the buddies that you have you you know behind enemy lines or even you know working in combative situations situations you know in front or behind. Tell me that your enemies not going to manipulate your weakness absolutely so if you don't know those about yourself now your ally ability and and that's what I'm saying is as as guys as men as husbands as fathers if we don't know what our weaknesses are. We reliability reliability to our family were liability to our wives reliability early to God's Church so we need to be honest brutally honest and I think that goes back to the point Dante. Where hey if you're if you're not? You're not ready or you don't know what that is get around some brothers somewhat mature believers in Christ. Who can help you with some Canal County building show you what areas you may need to work on? Yeah yeah that great words and it makes me think about like it when we let the enemy in. There's both not only from a military standpoint here but from a spiritual warfare standpoint you know he's not omnipresent the devil doesn't he doesn't know your thoughts he doesn't he's not present. He's not omnipotent. He he's not God but in your habits in your in your sins in places you go were darkness prevails. The enemy is sitting there looking at the armor and figuring figuring Worthy Chink is and if it's a mental gap if it's a physical gap if it's a pride gap if it's a lust gap. Believe me you know whether it's an innocent affair or that has been setting you up or it's pornography or its luster. It's drugs or alcohol or it's pride or it's angers any of the above and you're not the deal with it trust me. The enemy is going to manipulate that in every way fast. And before you know it you know to be the proverbial rat snake make is going to be wrapped around you and never let go and with that. I think that's a good place to wrap this up so guys just want to say as always a hope this made sense you guys. I know listening to your story Dante. I put myself in that position so many times and there were times. I did the right thing. There were times I did the wrong thing and especially you know when when I was younger when I was a newer father when I was a new husband I tend to not go down that road repentance and I regret a lot of those times TMZ now so guys were going to screw up and when we do we can use it as a teachable moment to talk to our kids and and another thing chose to our wives to that we take this thing seriously take our roles spiritual leader series. We take the role as being a husband and father serious And so I think it's a good way for us to set example to our wives as well of of the seriousness of of being with God's word and living living our lives out in in holiness so as always guys we want to say we thank you so much for all your support. Sorry we have to get more podcasts. This time of year. It's been kind of crazy but We appreciate sport move by following. Join.

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"dads" Discussed on Legacy-Dads Podcast

Legacy-Dads Podcast

12:44 min | 11 months ago

"dads" Discussed on Legacy-Dads Podcast

"Because welcome to Liga sedans my name is lance and overseas again. which is this game because listen you know I get I get guys on instagram and stuff? They're like hey we can do another podcast. What's going on the podcast? I'm like dude. I've been home six days in the last four months. So don't tell me about podcasts lance and I have a little bit of logistics to I mean you know when he's waking coming up and you know saving the world I'm sitting there you know drilling on my pillow and then when he finally gets his shut down you know I'm I'm getting up at the crack Don and driving to work so you know we're we're just crisscrossing the nighter. Yeah absolutely and by the way guys. If you're new to this legacy dad's weekly does IOS biblical manhood podcasts for men husbands and fathers at all stages of life where we promote and advocate proven biblical principles for leaving a lasting legacy so that was really a good segue Shiseido smooth. It's like it's like those advertisers as you know like People to try to throw advertisements into their podcast. Whatever like hey? This isn't really an advertisement like cats and advertisement. Whatever okay so I'm going to start off with some proverbs? So proverbs sixteen sixteen eighteen said pride goes before destruction and a haughty spirit before a fall. So with that Dante once you take it away wait and tell us what's going on now so this actually a couple of weeks ago. I think great so daunting our talking and He brought up. How a he had an epic failure as a father? which I think that only happened like one time in my entire time as a father? Let's let which is good Jannine. Your kids I'm right now. Just call that right where that's at now but so so guys we we tend to blow it. And if you're like me me losing my cool speaking some words that I probably shouldn't have those types. Things happens all the time so the the question is what do we do with that. And and I think Dante and I'm talking like generational stuff where maybe you were raised in a household. Where if mom or dad made a mistake they would never never apologized? They'd never admit it they would never model repentance or just kind of like hey whatever. I did what I did do that type of deal. But don't he's got a situation when that happened with With him that I think illustrates Y Y we need to model This to our kids and if if we do if we have one of these epic failures or we blow it or you know. Hey we're human were prone to sin. What do we do? What do we do as a teaching moment to model for kids? Ads just repentance grace and forgiveness and things like that so daunting that once you once you tell us a little bit about the story here how this how this went down so you know you got two teenagers a foreign exchange student and a seventh grader in your house so fifteen fourteen and twelve and mom and dad are working hard. You know Making our faith real to them so that you know when they are up and out of this House that they own their own faith relationship Christ but just basically follow through and you know obedience with a right heart not just checking the box kind of obedience not just checking the box. Fox's far as doing what you're told but just having a right heart behind it fast forward. I should say rewind the clock about four Sundays. Yes I said a Sunday. AH AFTER CHURCH AND We found out that our foreign exchange student had another plan Did know about the logistics everything else we got going on so we got that worked out so I decided to walk to the car when my wife and the other teenagers are waiting for The exchange student he picked up and so as I'm walking with my little one you know. No Dad is already kind of in a questionable mode. We won't get into that. You know right now maybe another podcast but Basically just said hey really appreciate you. Walking on the car are with me to my twelve year old. You know. We're picking up all everybody else wanting to just hop in the back and you know Dads moms you start getting that and and finally I just looked in. I said in a patient but stern one of these days. You're gonNA realize in your walk what it means to be humble and what it means is to be submissive and obedient and enough. Get in the car. Get Your Take Dat kid. Drop the MIC strike one on so dad's already on like Defcon for deaf guy. You had me at putting four kids in the car with me at the same time. So so we wrap around the main circle for the parking lot and then the teenagers get in as I'm still waiting for my wife to hand off Keighley's change your exchange student and then the boy you know like most boys that are fifteen they get this. You know they. They're they're having fun with the Jab any other teasing Ya and I and my daughter my my fourteen year old. You know she's like Hey. Did you eat my Mexican food. That was in the frigerator Blah Blah. And of course he's just having fun with it and end she. Bridges proceeded to just start getting nasty so dad legacy Dad Dante says hey just be nice nice in your language and proceeds and then it continues to just get escalated and I said enough strike to strike three the older one. Who's on the phone and all this other stuff? INSTAGRAM is involved in this kind of legacy instagram. where it gets passed down from upperclassmen upperclassmen graduate to the next guy and it was this fun? You know ha ha names of students dress and finally in just you know innocent as it will be but I guess over generation of hand off to hand off somewhere along the line it got to be a little bit of bullying got it a little bit too critical to mean and my wife and I received this guy from the administration about hey. Ns You look you know. It's not hard to tell who the members are. You can on Instagram of this particular closed website and my boy decide to try the old citizen. I have rights. No you don't have rights. This isn't a democracy This is a private school that you go to. And your name is on that blotter. And they Should so decide to expel you for acting in you know composing yourself in a way that is unworthy of the Gospel. That's on you and and I always told him about the rule of law and those who have the pen or mighty while AS Roma judge me. You can't judge me. Yeah exactly as I'm scrolling while I'm looking through this instagram account. Others is one meam in there that has like I kid you not. It was is almost like a program script to my memory but it just said effing and that is strike three four five and Mount Vesuvius. uh-huh Dante proceeded to just say as my son is driving home because he's a student driver now he destroyed like for he. Yeah he Dante that is just let out the are you F ing serious enough of this crap crap you know and I proceeded then if that wasn't worse enough to my kids her that language but I threw my phone in frustration that I let the f-bomb fom go and in the process of letting my phone get thrown in my wife's car it Perfectly ricocheted off of the Dashboard Josh Board and into her window and cracked the entire driver's windshield so that sounds great This is a great date. Great Oh yeah at this point lance. You know I'm sitting there and now I'm humiliated angry. I'm embarrassed I'm frustrated and I looked at the boy who's fifteen and said pull the car over right now. I decided to say that it's better for me to walk two miles home cool off so I don't do anything. Say Anything or act in any other way that is not okay slammed slam the door start walking and the wife jumps out as I did not know but I left to crying girls a boy. That's in the driver seat looking like he just ran into a nuclear bomb and my wife in all of this chaos left with the chaos superseded to brilliantly say stop. Don't walk away from the family. I know you're angry to settle down. Get back in the car and let's try to patch this thing back together so it was the quietest ride home after strike. Four you know the tablets and the phones were turned in Blah Blah Blah. But you know it was one of those ones. Where if I gave a the devil a foothold to the Family Lance? I didn't know at that point. Were to turn from their as pretty interesting. Yeah so as my wife you know. Try to draw the better in me. I proceeded to realize that I could not walk away or or shirk. Responsibility is dead. I could not let my actions not beat my words and I needed to correct rex. Something that was broken and so I- proceeded to grab a legal notepad out of a cupboard. We storage I wrote down on their ways. As in which data ethically failed as a parent and proceeded to leave a litany of places that they could give suggestions at which I prayed and for dessert discernment and Wisdom. My wife at this point didn't know where I was going with three children my wife and I around the dinner table and I proceeded to to ask the three of which one would not look at me. The other one did not know if this was another test to fail and the young one who is not afraid of most most things. I wasn't sure how to proceed either and I think what happened was proverbs. Twenty eight thirteen popped in your in your head and it says whoever conceals history and Gresh transgressions will not prosper but he who confesses in forsakes them will obtain Mercy Dante boom. I know what I need to do. Yeah may maybe maybe even said that to me some James Five sixteen therefore confess your sins to pray for one another may be healed. The prayer of a righteous which is person has great power as working. That's a big one that's one that resonates in faith and that was honestly in my mind in one thousand nine hundred. Twenty twenty is the same way my brother anyone among you wanders from within someone brings you back let them know that whoever brings back a senator from his wandering. We'll save a soul from armed cover a multitude of sin. So here I am and I said a quick. You know humble prayer Lord please forgive me I sinned against you your kingdom and just the epic Louis messed up the family here and I don't want to give a devil a win you know in the in the W column family came down and they're looking at me not really sure is this a trap is test is set up for future failure You know the little one finally decided to say well you use the F.. If word and so then I wrote down dad used the F word and then she realized no. It wasn't a trap and she said you you got angry at all of us in you. Let go words in your anger. Dad Got Angry and did not check kid. Court threw honor honor and I felt like at that point was saying mercy mercy and then you know it was through your phone then and you cracked your mom's Windshield and then you did this. And that this point I even the one that did not WanNa look me. 'cause I really you you know her feelings. You know my boy. It was one of those ones where it was a holy spirit moment lance and you know. Here's something that I ethically fail. That epilepsy messed up. Yup totally disappointed. God My wife is family and I was just set to just cut tail and run and just escaped this problem..

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Dads Outnumbered

09:31 min | 1 year ago

"dads" Discussed on Dads Outnumbered

"No thanks. People want to get to know you bowling. Would you like to bowl on father's day I would have with the girls while ago? They probably would be less Not not too hot on. No right water park waterpark. Yeah that would be all right. I wouldn't mind that CARSO car show now not not my scene definitely not there so outdoor adventure outdoor adventure absolutely movies movies good yes. I'm in Golf Golf Driving Range we've done and that's a good one then putting on a show for us now I There's no way I would ever get them to do that now. But years ago there was a show going on all the time a picnic picnic sweet absolutely. I would be up for that. Camping camping always good. But generally I would need to know about that advanced and I'm sorry to surprise me on that one. You Know Video Games Video Games. And that's that's two every day Barbecue barbecue generally all doing the barbecue. So that's that's always a good thing. Take Dadullah Baseball game. If if they're in town that wouldn't be bad. So when my net at all Glen would you like breakfast in bed on Father's Day on that it would be all right but usually it's They just delivered Lee and for that lucky ten percent of the US population going to the beach or possibly. Yes always a good thing. Yeah so there you go. There's some great tits activities do unpublished fantastic so one thing occurred to me as we were preparing for. This show is if you think about it every year. There's like a journey in the sense that you know our kids get older. We get older life. Changes circumstances changes. I was asked you and I thought about it myself. What is the kind of the one big lesson or something? You've learned that you've learned in the last twelve months You know that you could impart to the fellow. Dad's the legions of dad listeners. Out there and I'll go first greg. You know one of the things I glen. Could you go? I think I'm GonNa go first absolutely but one of the things that's kind of an interesting thing is the I think you have to modify the playbook and what I mean by that is that what may have worked in a parenting standpoint. How you related to the kids in a even a year or two years ago in you're GONNA have to change up your Your being in the way because they what they listen to how they listen how they respond to your jokes three years ago. Where funny when they were three years younger but no longer are funny so I I hate to say IT I. We all have to evolve. They evolve and I think parenting needs to evolve. So I I you know I do some of the same things that I've done through years jokes or teasing them and they they are not well received. So I've gotta mix it up a little more and then part of that is actually listening more to them and in terms of You Know Mickey Charm Responding In what they're looking for as opposed to just Responding normally so I guess I'm saying is adapt or die is a good parenting technique. That I think I've I've I haven't necessarily applied it but I've learned that That it's something I need to do. Well if you think about professional athletes or your career also professional father exactly what you got to think about your game and your skill set and your toolkit and evolve. It's like changing the golf swing. Absolutely you know tiger reconfigured exactly exactly wing PUMPAD. Two people have to chain absolutely greg. How about you what What is the one thing you learned in the last twelve months when as a dad I think with sixth an eight year old I think You know as as sort of open up to the world and start experiencing the world more I think you have to expect to work harder to connect with them and so before I think you know there are a little smaller inward focused. And you're a little more at the center of everything as parents and then now they're getting cold in a number of different directions and you're you come home. You have dinner. They're going to bed. It's like it's all becoming very fast and a blur so you have to sort of think about. Where can I connect? It doesn't happen as naturally and so you have to start to evolve some common interests things you do together and so we've been doing a great series of books right. We did. Pinocchio Peter Pan now are in Charlie and the chocolate background which is amazing at this age. Six eight a highly recommended. Every chapter is like a cliffhanger that they're screaming for Oh really and then Maybe it's a project together. We're going to put a ZIP line over the swimming pool in the next few weeks. Maybe it's watching sports or playing sports but something that you can do together that they're excited about because it just doesn't happen quite as fast or is sufficiently or as naturally without a little strategic jury around it. It's interesting 'cause you're actually right. You're the center and your wife or the center of their universe in a way but again it and then you're right. There's other things they start to see and you become a supporting character in it yet. Now there is something during the day in school or something after school and so their schedules are starting to fill up. So yes we're GONNA have to figure out where you're going to bond with them now. I think that's really That's that's excellent advice and It's definitely something we have to. You can't be complacent and keep learning and and go from there so that's great. Thank you for sharing your one idea Do you have any other father's Day Folklore you'd care to share all? I thought I'd close us out with some Quotes from some comedians about father. I thought I'd read some of these. And then you give me a quick review impression. Maybe it's what is the fundamental truth behind? This is it funny. Does it resonate any of your opinions are bringing on? Are you ready to climb ready? Craig David Tell David L. I don't know who David Attila a very famous standup comedian. Because when you're young you think your dad is Superman. Then you grew up and you realize he's just a regular guy who wears a cape very profound very profound but at least he. He's you know I don't know what else to say. How very profound I think that's right. Yes Okay Rita redner you ever good all right I gave my father one hundred dollars and said by yourself something that will make your life easier so he went out and bought a gift for my mom. That's that is really the essence of of the whole relationship dynamic at the good answer all right the next one number three no drum rolls here Bob Auden Kirk. I think he's the Guy I know who he is from breaking bad. Yeah Yeah Okay. The actor My daughter got me a world's Dad Mug so we know she sarcastic very profound profound and that self deprecating humor always works well with the kids so you know what I mean so that was good craig any other service to more tomorrow from Rodney. Dangerfield have heard of Rodney Dangerfield. He said me and my dad used to play tag. He'd drive. I get no respect. That's right all right. And the last we're going to close out with an American icon Mark Twain Mark Twain Roaf. When I was a boy of fourteen my father was so ignorant I could hardly stand to have the old man around but when I got to be twenty one. I was astonished at how much the old men had learned in seven years. Oh yes that's a very good. I like that very early days of just not right right thinking within as you get older in your twenties you start coming back around and you think that was one hundred some years ago and yet it rings knows interviews stated this thing. I always tell people if they're having problems with their teenager. Wait until they're twenty three legged. Usually they come back and they're more sensible but yeah we're still. It's still not there yet. That's for future episodes but That's great I think we've got it covered. Craig thanks for England. You know. Don't just feedback Glen. You'RE A model here I've watched. I've learned You really go all in your all in. I don't WanNa be as much of a father as you are but I am learning and taking no no and you've got Yeah I don't want to give it back to you because you don't like that but Otherwise but We got to thank all of Dad's I mean it's a tough job and It's the best job you'll ever have all of that you know that but ultimately off just a good time to take the point to recognize that it's the best job you'll ever have and And do your best at it and it's easy to get complacent it's easy to get distracted and easy to think about yourself but you know helping those girls evolve and grow and nurture them so they can be stand on their own. Two feet is is really. You know the gift we give to the world and the gift we give is when things are hard at difficult or you have a question Someone you need to talk to you come to the DADS outnumbered podcast. And that's not enough. Make sure you tell a friend a family member. There's lots of DADS out there who were DADS of daughters. They might want something humorous to listen to on the drive home on their run so spread the word and help us Raise better dot there you go. You are not alone everyone. Thank you and have a great father's.

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Dads Outnumbered

08:03 min | 1 year ago

"dads" Discussed on Dads Outnumbered

"Always try to have a little dip in the afternoon. It doesn't always happen but our kids don't necessarily nap. They might take a nap once every three months or four months when this out of control but I think we put them on stories like a sparkle story with a subscription stories and they have to lay down and listen to a story or two usually twenty to forty five minutes of just a little more. Chill time it's We call it rest time but I don't think they actually fall asleep. Did Dad get any naps during the trip I don't think so good. What's the mother-in-law good for if we done that's right? Get a nap in the last thing I learned is really. Planes are a miserable place as not just the bathrooms on the planes but planes can be miserable for long periods of time so my wife always has sort of a more rigidity on what she wants the kids to do on an airplane. They need to do activities and coloring and then they need to do this and she tries to keep them on sort of their normal life schedule where I say. If you're on a plane you can let the rules. Sorta falls to the wayside because the plane is miserable enough. We don't have to try to add onto that so we let the kids watch implied entertainment on united and others So the kids got to watch a lot of shows a lot of TV and so they're in heaven and they're quiet and they're not bothering you so it's actually a chance for you to sleep or read or watch something as well so I say. Planes are miserable enough. Why make them more so it? Did you send drinks back from first-class while you're sitting little joke there buddy? I'm glad he had a great time. You know Real quick on while I didn't go to Europe my middle daughter. Who's going to be a senior in high school went on a school trip For eleven days and so. It's interesting where you're hearing your experience but you know it's one of those things where it was ten students and two teachers and she went to Ireland Wales England and France and had a great time and it was really neat. Because that's the way the longest she'd been away from home and so on one hand it was like we wonder house you'll do and she also likes her downtime and so to be on stage you know twenty four seven for eleven straight days. We were worried if that was going to take it sold. But she had a great time at at She made a bonded made some relationships. The said the weather was in Ireland. It rained the whole time. But she said it was really fabulous. So how you do. I know your oldest daughter is been out and about and but now you're getting down into the other daughters and so How did you feel about her? Leaving the country without being close enough to you guys like. Was it a a form of stress each day? Do Motion notionally. You know it is interesting and you gotta give credit to the oldest child in the family Because they are you know they really are the trailblazer so my oldest daughter went when she was going between tenth eleventh grade. She went to Switzerland with girl scout troop several years ago. And that was tough. I just because when you worry but as the more it's happens these year it gets in and So it was more wasn't that you know you Mr in the house but again as time goes on you start to get easier. My oldest also spent a summer in France last summer. So you get kind of used to them or comfortable with them being gone for long stretches of time but you know this is one that she hadn't gone before You know by herself and so But it worked out great and So we're really happy for you. Don't need to get him back from. It's great to get back. We we went to the airport at eleven o'clock on Monday. We had signs A welcome back signs. It was a lot of fun so nice. Well you know this is our fathers day episode. This is our fathers day into exactly. This banter lasted at like twelve on cable banter. Wait while you had stories to tell advisors share so Spending all these time in In Europe you know how it is so but now with. What's the plan for Father's Day this year? Do you have any idea of what you will be doing this? Father's Day Craig. Yes I had this fundamental shift. You know two years ago when my parents moved to Phoenix yes fathers. They used to be all right a car. You make a phone call. Send a gift and out the whole ton right and then everything could be about me and you know that's where I start from so Yeah I'm not struggling with but there is a another hierarchy my father to consider and have to make sure he's having say oh. You're splitting father's Day. I know there's a lot of fathers out there who have to split father's Day with maybe two other fathers stepfathers. Yeah the whole clan so I'm working through that. And so what I tried to do is figure out. At first. I was like well. I'M GONNA do my thing. He can do his thing. We'll get together at some point later in the day as pie and car But then I decided what our common interests so Fortunately well just coincidentally my. My mom is taking my girls to play pink delicious. The play I got my wife. I got my wife to drive them. Even though she going Inge Right GonNa sit outside or work at a cafe or something and so then my dad and I are now clear. So we're going to go to the movies on Sunday afternoon and then we'll go back to their place to barbecue so I figure movie meet and then everyone will join us and we'll have dinner and exchange gifts and Apple Pie there you go. And that's that's that's actually great. Because at the end of the day is the Dad and your dad is well what what does he want? He doesn't want pomp and circumstances. He wants downtime. Hedonism and but his pious tradition at the At your household. And Yeah but it's going to be funny because my mom. I think shows her love through cooking and I got and but I will not be partaking in the pie this year. I'm on that Tito. Oh good for you and so my mom has yet to find out that I will not be accepting her love on poverty. So we'll see how all that goes down. But do you know Glenn Let me tell you haven't we all you know as they're older again it's interesting when With the girls. It's a surprise because they drive and have means of income. You know it's literally GonNa be a lunch or a breakfast and I should be pretty much off the hook. Is it a meal with your kids without your this right? She does not get involved. Yes we've now gone to the father's Day or Mother's Day is solely kid and parent the other parent is singular. The other one is off the hook. So it's actually mother's Day was a vacation for me because I had an entire afternoon to of You know no one else in the household so was great so the same thing for her. So I'll take me somewhere. My wife is completely off the hook. Which which is actually fought because they're not my You know he's not my you know. What age does the bad gifts stop and more reasonable gifts begin? Oh it's usually goes elementary school. We actually The I think they go from the handmade gifts end about six grade. Just to let you know ten eleven and then they get into gift certificates such as I will spend time with you or something along that line and now I just told them this year because my birthdays just a week before and they already did stuff for me at I said. Let's do meal and experiential and I'm good you know so. I'M NOT EXPECTING ANYTHING THIS YEAR. Which is totally fine by me. As long as we're spending time together that's the important thing. Well here's a few other things that father's like to do or ideas to do because you can't be a little selfish on father's Day and I know fathers out there who are like. Oh I just want to spend it with my kids. That's the whole point of father's Day. I'm a father you can't be selfish or you can do things with the family. So here are the most popular things to do on father's Day so You give you give me your immediate response. Yeah good.

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"dads" Discussed on Dads Outnumbered

Dads Outnumbered

08:13 min | 1 year ago

"dads" Discussed on Dads Outnumbered

"We're GONNA do a Quick Dad's quiz let you know. I don't know the answers to these but we'll do it together and see how we score. Okay all right question. Number one is who invented father's Day The names are multiple choice. There Alvin Austin Sonora. Smart DODD or Julia Ward Howe. Sin Noah No from college and it's not the same person but gosh you caress fully during one thousand nine mother's Day sermon Sonora. Smart Dodd came up with the idea for father's Day as a way to honor her widowed father of six I would never. I just went with the name. It was a hundred percent gas on my bed which. Us President Made Father's Day a national holiday. Was it Calvin Coolidge Harry Truman or Richard Nixon? Truman everything happen with Truman. We're going to go with Truman wrong. Answer Sorry Cooler. Although father's Day was began and spokane Washington in one thousand nine ten it wasn't until Nineteen seventy-two said you'd Nixon signed a proclamation. So we were like one hundred year afterthought from a mother's Day mother's Day was founded on a whim kind of two right. Yeah but it was one hundred years. Yeah in two thousand and nine Charles. J sailor became the first male president of what Mothers Against Drunk Driving National Parent Teachers Association or the late J League Lecce. Let's go with little H. Okay and wrong answer. I. I wouldn't know either for the first time since it was formed The National Parent teachers the PTA elected a male president just alleged any officially took the helm in two thousand nine. Wow it's really making making strides. Aren't they glassy? I'm so happy about which famous researcher referred to Fatherhood as a biological necessity and social accident. Benjamin spock Margaret Mead or Charles Darwin. Let's go with Charles Darwin. All right and wrong answers. Sock was widely circulated. Quote is anthropologist. Margaret Mead Margaret made. Okay sorry this stuff one. What percentage of American children are raised in households without their biological fathers so house? Oh Yeah Oh yeah twelve percent twenty-three percent or thirty nine. I'M GONNA say Twenty Three. It has to be somewhat. I went in for for sure on. Get it. It's thirty nine. Thirty nine prophetic well again. Not THEIR BIOLOGICAL FATHER. That does it could be a step parent or another. Yeah Yeah Yeah but but still. That's did not know. Was that high I didn't either. That's amazing fathers from which country Spain's divorce? Yeah thank you. Fathers from which country spend the most amount of time with their children on average the United States the Netherlands Britain? I'd say the Netherlands. They always do my guest correct. That's right according to research conducted by Fatherhood Expert Stony Brook University sociologist. Michael Kimmel Dad's in the Netherlands. Spend twice as much time with their kids compared to American deaths twice which time British Papas put in forty percent more time than their paternal counterparts across the pond. Yeah more than USA that I believe yeah less TV less destroyed so which of the following famous DADS have the most kids. Jim Henson Mahatma Gandhi or Stephen King didn't know they were famous dance but I didn't either I'm GONNA go with. Let's do Stephen King Stephen King. That's an interesting one wrong answer. Sorry Jim Henson Gyms Jane at five children Just to let you know eight had five kids the at five kids. Yes okay gone have four sons and King History. Mci So in two thousand and eight. What percentage of American children younger than six eight dinner every night with dad so two thousand and eight percentage of American children younger than six ate dinner at every night which has got to be pretty small. Show every night stuff. Thirty three percent. Fifty four percent or seventy one percent. I would say thirty three my guest to wrong answer. If before interesting. Seventy one percent of American kids ate dinner every night with their dads in two thousand and two thousand eight. I find it hard to believe kids. Yeah no yeah right. Yeah I mean. It just seems highly unusual. How could it be when thirty nine percent nevermind I logically? Dads are a few more questions to go. We're not doing well right now. To write six wrong dissolute which major historic outnumbered we are? We've lost objectivity which major historical event institutionalized the family model of father as breadwinner and mother as caregiver So again one more time. Which major historical events institutionalize the family model of fathers breadwinner mother as caregiver and lightens men? The Industrial Revolution or world. War what I'd say the Industrial Revolution and the answer is correct. All right we got another one. Father spent more time at home Until that that event occurred so very good couple more questions to go. According to two thousand and nine British survey men gain how much weight during their partners pregnancies. Eight pounds fourteen pounds or twenty one pounds. I'd say eight eight is the answer wrong answer. Sorry it is. Fourteen dollars seems high but it does seem kilograms. Just let you throw over listening. Which of the following countries offers the most generous paternity leave the United States France or Sweden Sweden? The Swedes oddities we. Of course. Let's see here. They get at least two months off while earning up to eighty percent of their salaries at fantasma. That is a really the longer I M- around the more I get angry about that. The Census Bureau tallied up. How many stay at home? Dads there were in two thousand eight. This must be an older survey It's hard one hundred fifty four thousand five hundred fifty four thousand or one point five million. Stay at home. Dads import five million in two thousand eight. That had become answer. Only one hundred and fifty four now seems really small a lot of them were in Texas. All right okay. All right last question or at least last question that we're going to answer I as of two thousand seven. What percentage of working mothers earned more income than their husbands thirteen percent? Twenty five percent or forty one percent. I'd say I'M GONNA say forty-one percent at this point two thousand seven seven ten years ago or more than ten years ago. Yeah more household income than their partners. They earn more than their. I would say forty one and the answer. Sorry the answer's wrong. It's twenty five twenty five percent probably closer to forty now so fantastic our final score just to let you know Four correct eleven incorrect. I really do hope people are not taking advice. We don't know the answer number but that's all we have time for this week. I'd like to thank our host guest host. I think you did a stellar. Thank you much more interesting commentary than my other host. And he's great. He's great by the way I haven't met him but I do feel bad for his dog dog so so for children are very important is exactly and we'll get him on with you next time. He's a beer drinker as well. So thank you probably want to do. A being outnumbered try a path of Beers and international beer to make it really super. Actually that's interesting. It'd make an appeal to our listeners. From so until next time..

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"dads" Discussed on Dads Outnumbered

Dads Outnumbered

09:27 min | 1 year ago

"dads" Discussed on Dads Outnumbered

"Is amazing. how different this generation growing up to interact socially then. Yeah and and it's back to that non-confrontational something I wonder I truly wonder it again. Being a a pair outnumbered is it dot gender or is it. A boys boys the same age. Do they go through that to I? I honestly don't know I don't know either And I it you know it could be that. There are more boys probably. Don't pay as much. I'm stereotyping as much attention or could care less what somebody else. We're putting our view as grown boys younger boys and we don't know exactly I I do. I do wonder if a lot of the habits that I'm learning from. Our children of this generation are gender specific or cross cross gender. Yeah and I don't know and it's interesting I I've been So lately I've been involved in the theater company here for the and get spend more time with boys and girls and it is interesting. They are different species. There was a We had the quieter award ask so the day after there was zero awards. And it's it's more of a dinner than it right. The the one that we attended but the girls all dressed up to the nine seven beautiful outfits like basically a prom attire boys'll shorts. You know there was completely different sensibility. To wear their so and then they could care less and but they were happy to be there and the girls were happy to have them right It was very bizarre. How different it. Well Yeah I you know I see some of the grows at the high school and I'm I'm like you know how different were they or were we from them. I am you know but apparently were worlds apart from what I hear so I s It gets even down into the the days of the problem. We are up at your more than half of the attendees are going with other girl group girls and and is that because the The men are less men or at its but the dude you're going with a group of dudes. Yeah right right so you know they. Are they meeting up? Are they saying? Hey you want to go to prom with me. I'll meet you there. You know but because then on social media you see these proposals right right. I had yet to see one. I see yes. Yeah because it's all they all want to go with. A group of girls suggest and go to a house and get made up and then have pizza and then drive there together and then you can go to ihop effort. At least. They're still doing that to me again. Anecdotal but it's it seems to be if if one is a girlfriend a couple. Yeah that's antidote. Typically when they do it. It's rarely that I've never been out with you before yet. Invite you to the pro like when we were like. I don't know this girl from Nesh. I know I'm going to say hey. Would you mind going into the have any of you? Which hopefully some of the listeners will yes exactly all of our twelve thank you. I know you've got a high schooler and house driver's Ed going. Let's don't even know you're talking about so. This trend of I don't WANNA drive. Apparently is much larger than I anticipated. I you remember wanting to drive we were lined up today of our birthday It it it it. It takes a village with this. With my oldest. I've got the Owner of the driving school I've got a couple of parents helping me with some ideas And just to you know. I know I'm getting down to Bribery soon what's the point to where I needed just convinced her that legally responsible that she needs to leave the house went with a drivers license. But it's it's not an easy and of her. I would say you know the six friends as she hangs only to drive gone to rest on. I don't know about what what's your experience. Yeah it's about half drive and my daughter My oldest each one is like I said it's different. My oldest was driving to school for you know. She went to a different high school. Then my other two and so she had to drive there and got used to it. I I don't let him on the freeway until at least a year shares. Oh my middle daughter. Isn't freeway. Certified the Attica. She passed the test. I didn't think she would. She rallied. it was like you know went on for months eight nine months and then finally I thought. Oh she's never going to be able to do it. And then somehow she's just clicked it clicked and I think that's his nervous. You gotta get. I think is a dad. You have to be yet to feel comfort that they can handle. I think thing you always worry about is is one staying on the road but if something happens are they going to be able to react quickly enough and make a sensible choice and that is the one hundred percent true but let's dial it back a bit think about the influences of driving versus versus what they had? We we either art brothers. You're walking exactly a car for some reason. The iphone or the phone replaced the urge to draw. That's true as And if I if to the to the to almost a year the amount of kids who do want to drive versus don't WanNa drive. It's literally that transformation of win. The iphone really became part of. Why don't you WanNa go just drive of their? Why drive over there when I can just texture on my iphone and we can play a game on whatever on switches true that is that's a really interesting phenomenon where you're right it was. It was like okay. I can talk to somebody on the phone right which is other males not interested right girls but I Walk Right a bike somewhere and I'm humiliated right right age. Because they know I'm of age and then you end up the face timing that's done and so I don't know but we're working on it. I'm going to have to probably resort to the legally obligated stores. Your daughter is actually. I mean. Girls have been in sports over the years and your daughter is in synchronized right. Youngest daughter fantastic. And how did she get into that too? So both the girls swam and the road swimming and soccer. I was your soccer coach. I was I was and and swimming. Though they both fell into they really enjoyed the water. There were water babies So you know. Of course dad wants to be able to make it competitive. Let's get on a swim team. So we've their team back home and where they join here. We joined a local swim team as well and then As they were swimming some The pool that we normally were going to was going into repairs and we had to go to another pool. And that's where the synchro pool and the oldest one loved it because she was doing laps and she could hear her favorite songs being played Underwater the youngest one also did dance. She loves swimming. She loved dance. She loved the pageantry of the dance the makeup and everything so when when they the wife was there picking them up and she said hey mom. Can we watch this group? I don't know what they're supposed to be doing. But they're playing great music and and so they stayed for a little bit and that's how the love for secret when you merge dance and swimming together is what you get a synchronized swimming Super Competitive Your there's that commercial of competitive ribbon. Yes it was. It was one of those moments for me was like what am I watching? Everything is so subjective. You know scoring and everything but it is. The girls are just as competitive did cutthroat you know being in a Swim Synchro. Swim Circle. You get kicked punched physical closeness there that you know if you're in the wrong spot you're you know you get kicked in the throat or in the head or something and The amount of time those girls spent underwater versus above water during a routine amazing. Absolutely amazing and literally. They're underwater for a majority of the time. Yeah but they're getting a breadth and then there for a minute. Yeah and maybe not me but close to it. Seems like yeah yeah it is and then having to literally be synchronous and Movement Hinson dancing nothing to hold onto nothing to hold onto touch the bottom amazing and it's You know unlikely days past where you would be in three different sports right here yes. Sports are always an interesting thing where you get to you. Try Sport right either all in or not in it all so but it sounds like well wishing much success thank..

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09:59 min | 1 year ago

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"And have you ever had to? Have your girls make a telephone call? Yes Oh yes. They shudder with If I want them to if this is so funny you say that If they really want it they will call and find out. Yeah right but it but it's a battle. It's a battle. I don't WanNa talk to a stranger. Good low yeah. I know it's a funny story last year. My daughter was studying in France and she's in college now right but And she said four years of high school French and one year of university French and we. I wanted to find out what the age was at a hotel. Sure no and I said I can call. Who doesn't speak barely any French or you can call right and she would not call and it was like so. I've got a call and struggle through broken French to find out if they'll accept someone under the last time you spoke French as nine hundred eighty five. That's always the way but we've all kind of dial back on our phone usage anyways which is which is a good thing so the you mentioned travel also is the. Have you ever taken like a single daughter? Just a daily daddy daughter. I think those are important so I think I've probably mentioned this to you. But my philosophy on travel is you know. I don't have a fancy car or you know. We don't do certain things that other other families probably would be considered as extravagant. We travel and so one thing my wife and I make sure we do have those experiences where we You know WanNa travel to a certain part of the region just with wife or just with me and we do it maybe once every two years or some great and But we do. Have you know we travel throughout the year? You've heard some of our travel Last father daughter One was with the oldest would down to she wanted to see this. Overwatch League Games Sport Oh yeah right right at the Burbank studios were Johnny Carson used to actually host actually and So the I said I'll be more than happy to take you but we're going to look at a couple of universities while we're down there as well so that USC UCLA UCSB CA- f- others but then spent the next day in this fascinating tournament. Were a bunch of kids are watching other kids play video games live gotta be designed at live right at live as one see? Are you looking at a big L. A. as you And I'll try to be cognizant of our listeners As you walk into the stadium with Her Majesty seating imagine a center stage area into the right. There is a row of Like a long desk with computers into the left. There's another row of desks along with computers. And each of the teams enter in a very dramatic high production value. Capes yet. No they're wearing jerseys number jerseys like they were athletes and so each team will sit on each side and then above them were. The long desk are is a multimedia screen that spans the breath of the wall. You're facing and so you get to see as they're playing through an each of them have their own view and he's like fifty screens on this. So yes I imagine five kids here five kids there say kids because they're all seventeen. Eighteen year old kids. Each kid has a screen that shows his view of the game and then they have a master view which shows how the overall the fighting it is. It is a sight to see. We're able to follow the action or absolutely but I didn't know what the point of me wanting to watch other kids play a game. Why did not I wanted to play in? But you know I'm sure your kids. They will watch youtube videos or other kids watching video games in commenting on it. It reminds me of that. Show Mystery Science. Yes thousand so that that was the old school version. Another quick topic also is the you like me had relocated for your work and your girls were at a tender age and I'm just curious from that. Standpoint IS THERE. Is there a best age or never good age you again? Having only move one time fortunately most my career in Texas where where where I lived. Everyone told me that sixth grade was a great age. With right right before you know the age because everyone's moving to a new school in everyone's getting new no good age then The younger one was I think in third grade or fourth grade at the time So it was hard Because of the crying yeah I think that's that's what got me. The most is because I don't know what to do with the crying crying. Yes I really. I don't want to sound insensitive but I truly don't back to the whole tough love being firm. We weren't allowed to cry. We weren't supposed to cry. If you're gonNA move Matt Mana or suck it up and just you know go or a new adventure view it as that and we'll make investment. You'll meet new friends everything. We tried everything right. Let Yeah I wasn't prepared for the the crying But I think within it within six months you know oh I got a friend of this person is talking about certain people if things became normal for them again right but It looking at it. Steve Wow six to seven years later I think the girls probably a half year probably would have been. I think Texas would have been a little different Growing up than here I think here in Arizona. You get kind of a west coast vibe where did not have that vibe so I think they're probably a little little bit. More may be laid back then they probably would have been in Texas. I certainly have changed You know the the you know the climate here is like why do you live in Phoenix? Well Georgia is climate. Yeah that's true in the end. The also I think they're now a able to adapt to things changed and things like that which well maybe your girls are able to change is a tough thing for us is is too but I'm saying in terms of never having gone outside of the community you grew up was bri raised. You know they I think they can be plopped into my kids plopped into an area. They're not comfortable with it but they can deal with it. I maybe you're right. Maybe I'm underestimating my kids but honestly the something about change that really and I thought it was general because every I'm not sure about your goals but every other parent on the block here went to the same thing that you know. I can't do this because it'll be different than I had before anything and so I'd I duNno I duNno change. Yeah it's not GonNa Mail Bag Mel. We also have another one. Just listen. We do an irregular episode called Herb segment called Mailbag. I just get your two cents here. This is one I hadn't sent this to you in order to from Clay Selection Klay from Nashville writes. My daughter will be taking the bus to and from school this fall. How do I teach her about stranger? Danger and being aware of her surroundings without making her too afraid and being paranoid. You know what that right way to get them to be aware of. You know Well I'd probably pass drink. Yeah I'm probably the worst person do that. Because I showed my stepbrother's the movie. Okay taught them the phrase. I will roundhouse kick you so okay. Fightback is a good fight back. You know there there. I was surprised honestly that his daughter probably doesn't already know about stranger danger because in elementary school. That is being touted very young. I it is and I think it's just the The now to the point to where she'd been driven to school. Yeah now there they just WanNa make sure sees well aware. Yeah absolutely you know. Don't talk to anybody don't know I think is one Traveling a pack. You know. Grab a little walk places. I think I think it's the basic rules that we were taught to that. I still are timeless minute. Walk with a crowd. Don't talk to anybody. Don't know someone brothers you run like Hell Ya Zigzag via bear runs allegations zigzag having JC you. But I think that's a common sense thing is just the talk define what a stranger is and then go from there. Got a point about adding. There's a stranger enter house. Yeah exactly that helps play. It does play. Good luck to you. Dr Early on the troll.

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09:07 min | 1 year ago

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"Man. I think one of them. Yeah two First one is Believe it or not spike in Kansas City. So Uh name that's what he put into the the field I guess Or the when he emailed US spiking Kansas City. I see a lot about parent controls Whereas the Industry. Now what is the approach? Is there something comprehensive so? I guess this is a good question to. I've wondered about this You've got the daughters I I don't have to deal with as at this point but I'm assuming I'm looking for a solution on the operating system side of things apple Microsoft or are you buying some patch I mean. How do you monitor your kids use on Technology And there's all these things that prohibit them from going to certain websites. Do you have all those bells? And whistles turned on What's the what's the thought here? Glenn now it's do you think about it. It's a it's a continuum. Can your daughters access the Internet with any of the devices they may or may not have access to are you asking me or Madura? Yeah messy so I think when younger well yes they they have Sort of disabled iphones. That they watch stuff on it from time to time but since they really don't know how to spell. I don't think they're really Moving their way around the The Internet too much. Yeah and but at some point they they may and so what we did there at first is that we did have a You know pretty robust especially in elementary school locked down so there was only a certain number of sites they visit. But you know if you're in Google for example you can stumble across just about anything and So that was heavy locked down an elementary school and then You know a lot of closely monitoring a lot of these things. The problem is is when you start to do a lot of locking down it. It impedes what their ability whether it's research for school and things along that line. So you know I think the key is you can also figure out Before they figure out how to disable it is you know looking at their search history and other types of things. So it's you know heavily monitored in elementary school Randomly and frequently monitored in middle school. And then by then to be honest with you right now. We have no provision in place. We know what they're watching in most cases because they tell us and You know if there's a series they want to watch on Netflix. They still run a bias and like that so but it you know it's a matter of a early on is developing those good behaviors. They'RE GONNA not they're going to be exposed to some of this stuff But it's a matter of just keeping monitors spike an excellent question. Thank you well. Yeah and I like how you SORTA tiered it. Elementary school junior high and high school and sort of a You know lessening as you move through but Pretty comprehensive random and frequent. I like it that middle phase and then conversational and whatever you can assess In high school so good thanks Glenn Those are not an answer that I would be aware of so our second question is from rich in Fort Worth their look. I'm going to summarize this question. 'cause rich The thickness here. He says he they`re. They're thinking about expanding their family and he wants to know. The real differences between having two daughters were three or more so they must have to now and are thinking of having more. But what what issues are particular a to Having Girls Glenn and then And having more than two so you have a set of life and flow and issues. I guess with to When you go to three or more daughters what would be the difference. Is there any differences than having three versus two or four versus two or five versus two? I've got the two down. Yeah you got the two down and I just. My observation was it was harder to go from one to two them two to three and could it be. It's also one of the factors is the gap between the ages. You know if the kids are all diapers doesn't matter what happens to go back and start over is You know can be very daunting and so I found that three was You know you're outnumbered about on the other hand was just not as big as a For whatever reason going to second even though the kids are my middle daughter is extremely you know always been well behaved. It was such a shock to the system Because you're doing you know. Instead of being focused on just one you go to two and three was you know again a much easier transition but they're also much closer in age to so a lot of it has to do with you know the age Your temperaments I can handle. I mean I always am marvel by those who have four or more and You know again. I think you get what you can handle and You do the best. You can Okay that's all very good advice. A lot of factors come into play. What about Distant second daughter. Who would have been the youngest When you have a third this middle daughter gets Sort of squeezed out in your opinion Glenn We've always wondered like. Oh if we had a third you know what would that do for the youngest? You know WHO's no longer. The youngest the attention shifting away all that jazz did your daughter get less attention than the oldest and the youngest you know and and they all fight and by for attention and I think what happens. Is You know Being I'm a middle child to some degree myself You become diplomat if you will because you're you're basically having different kinds of relationships in the middle you know my We we obviously tried extremely hard to make sure that everyone got their share of attention And the little ones always going to try to take it and the little ones because they're the youngest they naturally and I think you're the youngest. Greg is they just. Don't care what anyone thinks. The oldest thinks they should all get the attention so the middle one is you know evolves into really a diplomat. And that's the way it's playing out here today. My middle daughter is the the peacemaker and the referee and and all of these other things. Where the oldest has you know a vision of the way she sees the world and the youngest is you know. sees the world that way themselves. So she's very compassionate and You know very you know a mediator in a lot of cases just because of her role in the middle of the family. But she's not as much attention as anybody else. Craig I also WANNA throw out a shoutout also remind you thanks for the mail bag. Items Folks You could just Send your message through. Dad's outnumbers DOT COM. There's a mechanism to do that and Like our two friends here. Sending the messages we We love it. And it's great. Dick Conversation Very Topical Glenn. I know you've got some good news. You WANNA share We're GONNA start the next podcast by talking about this as well because NPR We call this bearing the lead. This is the biggest news of the whole show. And you left it on the agenda. Two LAST GLENN. Please take it away. This is super exciting. Okay well great. We don't claim to be perfect parents. But we've learned a lot through trial and error and we are pleased to let you know that our first book fifty things to notarize happy confident daughters with our best recommendations will be coming out this fall so we're excited about that. Who Published Authors Greg? That's right and we'll let you know when it's available it'll be on Amazon dot com and other places Where you buy fine books. And so we're excited about that so Online thing as a bookstore anymore. Glenn we're going to go on a speaking tour and And other types of things from there. So that's that's pretty good also new stumbled onto some websites. You WanNa give a shout out. Yeah I just wanted to make sure Some of the dads out there were all aware of all pro. Dad Dot COM. All Pro Dad DOT COM was started by. Tony Dungy Nfl fans will no but sort of looking at the the rule of the father and I think it was a little sports blend in there and how to raise Confident kids and so I think it's Boys and girls so Jump on there and check it out if you get a chance. Fantastic and Craig. I hate to say it. But that's all the time we've.

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01:52 min | 1 year ago

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"All the princesses in the course of the day anyways if you go to the Royal Palace. I think it's called you meet four princesses right there. You're going to meet another two walking around Disneyland My daughter is walking around and ran into her favorite princess. Right by the CAROUSEL. She grabbed her hand and she was able to walk with Belle and beast through the park for short distance. My other one was there to see Peter Pan and he came right up and play tag with her. And so you end up seeing more characters than you thank. So don't get too obsessive about. I must do this so my kids will see these characters get no. That's that's an excellent point and there's always You know if you aren't dining on in the park they do have special character. Meals character breakfasts If their opener cheaper typically than the character lunch and dinner and you're so the character breakfast at Like Epcot You know it was always at Norway. It's a place that people were going to but it was a lot less expensive and you've got five or six of the characters there so it was a good deal from that Stan Mike. It's still remember that first time we went out areas grotto which I think is closed now but They got it was great for me. I had a beer at a booth and all the princesses came by one by one tenth of table. Thank you know you're GONNA end up paying for it but if that's something you're interested as dining experiences are numbered fantastic. Everybody interesting tips. Like I said we'll put those on our site but we're going to wrap up this episode. This is a two parter. So did you say to set a two-parter and the fun? Double The fun. And so we'll On our next episode we'll go into more tales of Disney and looking. You're talking about two parts for the same price. Oh we don't charge on. We don't charge. That's right exactly but advertisers get twice the exposure. A wait a minute. We don't have any never mind so thank you for joining us back. Next time For part of this great episode.

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11:39 min | 1 year ago

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"We would when you have an annual acids a whole different deal so this is out of things change. Well why it changes is that thank you greg? So the differences is that you WANNA is that this was an annual pass theme. Give like this anymore. But it had parking included so one it was so you only go unlimited times and so what it was was gopher lunch or we could go for just an afternoon. You didn't have to strategically think the whole day. You just say we'RE GOING TO EPCOT. And we're going to tackle the international area or stuff like that so we could be much more focused and it wasn't likes. You know we pay this much money. You'RE GONNA get every squeezed every ounce of pleasure out of it so it was. It's always more we'd go there for certain reasons and then Get it done and then leave. But we do it with greater frequency. We'd go you know probably once a month if not once or twice a month Is what it was so it really worked out very well and I think you find out also that Disney is great for truly all ages and again it gets different than what Craig mentioned is the rides become you know. Sometimes you have to split into teams one. Doing the ride's not we love the OCTOPI. Which is the you know where you drive. The cars and the kids would love driving the car. That this yeah. That's that's so cool a lot of great photos but you know I that that made it a different so You know from that. But it's a it's a great thing. Great we don't talk about you know Greg Yeah so I know we Thanks for the tips. We're going to put those on the site. But I think would always intriguing. Is You know to work at Disneyland. So because you know you're right you're able to look behind the curtain so tell us about what time of your life was this in so this is high school. I guess year maybe between my junior and senior you. So's a summer job summer job. I was living in Orange County during high school and Yeah it was interesting because everyone knows Disneyland. It's exciting to tell family and friends are working at Disneyland. Glamour of working at Disneyland is a little bit different but if you look at an aerial map of Disneyland. Two thirds of Disneyland is sort of what they call backstage area. So there's a vast world backstage just to put on this elaborate play and production. That's happening because you're all cast members disease mirrors exactly go through Disney University which is like your first university experience Enjoining it's just a day or two of no facial hair. The mouse's king sort of propaganda. And then you start to see. How is this elaborate system? Everything's in mass in a lot of people trying to get from. Point A. Point B. You gotta get your costume to go on stage. You have to report into Your Business Unit. Get your supplies now. I worked in concession so we sold everything from coke's glow necklaces balloons. Mainstream sure rose Popcorn the big one was there a lot of training for how to give it out without or or how'd it get mopped by kids without getting have having a meltdown wall? Yeah that's definitely one of my experiences. I always say you don't know stress until you've emerged onto mainstream. Say One thousand nine hundred eighty nine wearing a apron full of frozen glow necklaces and the kids which necklaces were cool by the new technology and they would just run at you in mass. There was no line. There was no order and they would charge a dollar seventy five apiece. Brutal quarter machine is Adrian rattling you. Could've these two dollars. It would have been on. They would've paid it but no order. Kids mobbing you. Everything in life seems pretty easy after. You've been mob night after night by children looking the red and white striped out button-down shirt what was what was your apparel like your costume. The Standard Concession Apparel back then was like a yellow outfit bright yellow outfit with like a red striping down the sides and necklaces. You'd wear a big black neighbor. Because he had to hold all that and the money and everything photos exist of you wearing that outfit crack that you could share with our fans no no. I won't be sharing but no I don't think they exist so the costume is different. Whatever land you're oh you'RE GONNA pay popcorn in Tomorrowland you gotta wear Tomorrowland. If you're going out to frontier land you gotta be like a cowboy hat. There's never any cross costume. Really gotTA keep your costumes consistent with where your signs and then so you'd come in and say Smith you're over at look it up. You see where you're at okay. A gold neck balloons. Like you gotta get your balloon. You GotTa Get your outfit. Go Get your outfit. You know address and you have to get your supplies from someone is just sort of working out those you check out your money belts with how much money when you come back. You have to count you know. All the math has to work out so you breaks we get you know you just see people roaming around backstage. Where did you go There's always the rumor the labyrinth of caves and tunnels underneath. And we're able to experience any of those unfortunately not. I don't think they let the summer employees to into deep into the death. Nia back ladder underground but the Couple stories people always like hearing about is One is like tinkerbell would hold. That thought. His Okay Tinkerbell. Back then would fly from the top of the matterhorn down at nine o'clock O'clock each night. The spotlight would go on her and she would glide down this wire to the castle writer winner Back then it was just sort of back and we would. We go there on our break. We'd grab some chips and Soda. Everyone would stand around to watch her. Come down because I think this was before in the eighties before Osha really stepped in with worker safety. She would come flying down that thing. There was no braking mechanism. There was no remote. There was no technology involved. She would be coming down that thing. Probably Twenty twenty five miles per hour and the way she would stop would be the slam into three mattress. So it really. Oh yeah she coming out fast. Go back below the tree line so no guests with. But we're all back there to watch her. She'd come full speed and she hit three bed mattresses that were damn wham and she would face plan her hands backers. Hush face would go to this same. We'd all be watching aiding like it was something to see. Tinkerbell just slam so it was like a stuntwoman right at the end. Yeah so it was actually a female. Who was all pure greats really really yep healer grace and loving and kind that? She flew through the air as soon as she realized she was about to. Hit the mattresses. Everything totally Oh my goodness yeah. Tinkerbell is awesome so I think they must have some automatic breaking. I would imagine today. I can't believe that so every night three times a night I was awesome and then one thing that I just told the story to my mom. Because somehow she'd never heard it but the the famous Chiro Wagon charm wagon Mediate let me. Just get into character for this okay. It was a cold chilly night. I was out near the haunted house in frontier lands at my true wagon dressed in my appropriate outfits waiting not much business person every once in a while coming by was a light evening as far as traffic in the park. One of those nights where you try to keep busy try to stay occupied and the big talent you have to have assure wagon. Yes you have to be able to count to ten the number one skill set because you take these almost frozen sure os and you put them through the oven and they come out. I'll warm and toasty and cooked. And you roll him and cinnamon and sugar course so that within a John Them. That was the job right. Yeah but on this night on this very night. This night to ensure rose went in seven km. No seven came out. You Start Doubting Yourself. Did I really put ten? You have started second guessing yourself start recounting until flames own heart disease three got caught in the oven and eventually flames burst forth fire and smoke coming from and stare at it for what. What did you do? I think I stepped back left your post grabbing the money which is the most important thing to mickey mouse and waited and someone must have called the fire department and so Disney has their own fire department and the fire trucks shows up. Vm THEY JUMP almost Jump Out of the fire truck and they put out the fire and I look at the firemen right there in front of me and it's my teacher is little time. I know that the teachers in high school also worked at Disneyland to make a little extra money your kids. This isn't employs thousands of high-schoolers every summer and I guess some of the teachers worked well so as totally. Surreal haunted house. Chiro Wagon Chiro. Fire my history teacher as a fireman. I thought it was. I thought it was drinking during the Disney. Police come out and and derogates. You investigate this so do you remember what happened afterwards was. Did you just sell the did you? I may have closed shop and I don't remember. Actually Oh my gosh rested. But how big was the fire? Did it engulf the Chiro standard known about as much fire as you'd get off by Lighting Rangers? Okay got it not accept fantastic so that was a good experience which you Was there aside from the being backstage. That people act differently backstage where there were. The people were their regular selves backstage. And then you put on a helpful persona. I did learn a lot about guest. Happiness and creating. Something you know creatively what it was all about to all work in unison to create an experience for someone else I mean. There's a lot of history there. Kevin Costner only Kevin Costner used to work at and Steve. Martin both worked at the magic shop. I'll be darned street. You know that there's a lot of famous people who grew up in Orange County. Who ended up working at Disneyland? And and you're one of them so that's fantastic. Who's a great book called Mouse Tales Mouse Tales? Yeah it just tells about the underbelly of Disneyland. All sort of stuff. That's happened there from people dying on rides to all these different the help that one. I'll have to check out but I think you know dealer say despite all of our experiences. We're still huge Disney fans and could go back at a moment's notice if we could You know because it is really. It's something special and it's fun and magical never got old. I want again and again and again and it never got old so while they're like really go to magic mountain or something. That's more about the rides but I don't think there's a park that really creates that overall feeling the same way a Disneyland or at Disneyworld does absolutely sal fantastic so hopefully these are some great. Tips will put some stuff up on the website. Or you know if you're GONNA listen if you're planning a trip Hopefully this podcast was helpful. Now if you run into anyone in your life this planning a trip to Disneyland please. Just share this podcast. Tele tell them to check out. Dad's outnumbered and also if you have any other tips saw on what you've done to successfully navigate Disney with young girls. Please send us a note by our website. Again at DAD'S OUTNUMBER DOT COM. So I'm Glen Right and we'll We'll call it. A buddy earned.

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11:42 min | 1 year ago

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"Let it looks like a copy. It doesn't look as real. You know it's authentic. You know what I mean. It's like they skimped on some things but That's my point of view but I have grown to love it Over the time so but was it. somebody types day. Thank you have been to Disneyworld Disneyworld easily fifty sixty times and I've been to Disneyland. Probably maybe ten times so young. I think I've been to Disneyland. One hundred four employees. I work there. Now let's get back to the Do you want to continue on with on there? Well no no we. We can jump around so I want to hear a little more about Disneyworld. Well Disneyworld. I think it's One thing you can't do this not staff. Yes so the park bench here. The one thing with Disney were of Walt Disney world resort. So it's The Walt Disney world resort for those of you haven't been there And there are four major parks and there's a variety of water parks so you have the magic kingdom which is a almost replica of Disneyland. And then you have the Basically Disney Hollywood studios which is trying to compete with Universal up the road. Then you also have epcot and then lastly you have the animal kingdom see a four separate parks all about the same size. Believe it or not me and my two daughters and a friend we we one day. We wanted to get To all four parks in a single day and We didn't make it was It was just wanted to do a ride at each one. You could. It's almost impossible to go to all four parks. You have to be are they? All Ford owned by Disney. They're all owned operated than there on the so. The The Walt Disney world resort is the giant campus. That they're on each of the parks are on there one thing that the hidden gem of course With these parks is that really was the still the neatest if I asked my kids today. What's your favorite Disney experienced? They would go Campground Disney or Fort Wilderness is what it's actually called so Disney has actually a campground on site and it's located near the contemporary resort near the magic kingdom and What's interesting about it is? Is that you. If you don't like to to camp were do the ten thing they'll actually Rent you attempt. They'll set it up for you. they'll stock it with food. They also have cabins log cabins there and then we our own camper so we camped there and you could eat off the floor. It's so clean. I Made Service They have liquor is a plenty And it really is the neatest experience because one. Is You park the car. And then you rent a golf cart and drive around pools. Open twenty four hours a day. There's no lifeguard after eleven o'clock and you can also rent boats on the lake which is awfully cool. And so all of that is a really neat experience at the Fort Wilderness Park. And we'll put all of these tips on the DADS outnumber dot com so sorry my being too rigid. No no I just like seeing people walk by and try to figure out what we're doing we're doing here. Yeah that's right. I'm Craig I do Want to say you know you mentioned you work there. So what how was it a summer? Was it a. What kind of tell me about that. Well before I get to work there. There are some things I wanted to talk about about our recent trip on police So one of the things I thought was important beforehand. If you have the time sow some people like to surprise their kids. Some people just go on a whim some people. Just don't mind how much money they're gonNA spend. They wanted to be special. And you're going to run into different types of people when they talk about Disney eighty eighty five percent of people will say that Disneyland Expensive Some people will think it's expensive but are fine thrown down a couple thousand dollars to make an experience I on the other hand More of a thrifty individual but I think when it comes to your kids right You WanNA establish goals for the trip. So if you're talking to him about going what are they most interested in it rides is attractions is it. Character interactions. What is it that they're hoping most to get out of the trip? And you won't have those conversations over a couple points in time so they can think about it give you feedback and then you can almost establish let them look at the the park map. Let them sort of get familiar with the park and trying to figure out what they want. Most so you can establish your flow your movement through the park around those goals because if you run out of time you. WanNa make sure you're hitting the things that are most important to your energy appier kit so get them excited Start targeting their interest. Figure out what those are sort of have a plan now. If you don't want to spend money which is like what I did. There are ways to Disneyland for a little bit cheaper so One thing is if you're planning sometimes you can plan at Disneyland trip. Nine months ahead six months at a sort of big outing so you can start saving points on a particular credit card or if you're doing business travel or anything the we had points to stay in a hotel. Most hotel companies are around Disney. They want in on that so You can stay. We stayed at the hotel across the street now. Everyone likes to go in on the Disneyland Hotel. We've never done that so I can't really speak to that as much by. I've seen it a couple of the hotels and I try to center that experience around the park. It's exactly I mean you're basically you pay for the lobby. Basically what you're really paying because the guestrooms exactly the same and Disney's are totally open to the public right. Yeah exactly and so. There's some great things happen in those lobbies you can always walk through. They're not gonNA kick you out So it's shortage shaping that experience so Stay on state a hotel on points We did the one park. We set expectations for one park. There was a little fall out on that because they hide Ana Nelson over in California so we decided to let him out for us. So we're not gonNA see on Anelka. There was a little bit of heartbreak about that but then we sort of moved on now. A little bit of heartbreak is better than paying an extra two to fifty dollars and the The Single Day Park Hopper pass peak just to let you know his one hundred ninety nine dollars. Great see several hundred dollars down. Just one thing I learned is you can pack your own. Lunch is now. We're talking down to Soda Cans Bottles Soda Cans. They don't care too much about what you bring in so you can actually bring in your own beverages to Disneyland. It's a great time So pack your lunch is packed dinner. Whatever it is. Compact Sodas cheetos. They say it's sort of more handmade type thing so you wanna make sandwiches have chips snacks and handmade type items. They don't you bring in your spaghetti from the night before and trying to eat it up and needed and that sort of one of the examples that they use. Microwaves the diaper changing stations. Just to let you know that it will. Why is that just a warm water bottles and bottles and stuff? Yeah so those are actually great oasis. If you have kids in diapers or it's a hot day you know. Those are places to go because there's chairs the setup for nursing mothers and for the families and it's quiet oasis at cost nothing to go into so keep that in mind to less. Tips is one is. You can think about getting them gift upfront or well. In one case I knew that the kids were into Peter Pan. Mary poppins right so I had ordered from Amazon and had the gifts sent to the hotel for guests. Arriving guests arriving on this date Craig Smith so when I checked in. They said we have some packages for you. That's really smart. And then the tip. Yeah and the kids get those toys or that in its get some satisfied and my brother and I have this Approach to Disney and the Disney Parks. Which is even if they're not satisfied with that. We always try to get our kids to get a gift early and so jen and I I will do is walking to the park so we stay across the street as you walk to the crosswalk to cross the street to get to Disneyland. There's a number of these knockoff. Disney you know Places you can buy schoffstall gift shops right and so we usually just tell the kids. We're GONNA stop in here. You got ten dollars to spend and so they go round. You can't buy anything ten dollars but we scale them up to fifteen and sixteen. We look like the you know the good guys show generous so yes and so they get something early in the day. Don't spend your whole day with the kids. Running around gift shops at Disneyland. Get Him something early at Disneyland in the park or even on your way into Disneyland. Then they're satisfied. They've got their toy playing with it all day. Long very strategic in little remind him of the day too so totally and then the last thing is stroller. You might not think you need a stroller a six year old. They walk everywhere. We never use a stroller in our regular lives at this point but we took a stroller and is okay. Because I think about this is your kids will eventually tire out do. Want them tiring out from walking from point a two point. Eight point scene in the near day. You're paying all this money in your day is done. At two o'clock three o'clock you'll be carrying them for miles right. Absolute we had a double stroller borrowed it side by side one. It was great the kids I am all for it. You can ride from place to place. We're going from matterhorn over to space mountain. Jump in the stroller whenever you want. If you WANNA walk walk if you WANNA be in the stroller hearing this great idea because what happens is you're right. They will physically there there there. My mind wants to going but physically. They can't off another steady and it makes and more pleasurable for them to actually not whining about anything. The DAY LASTS LONGER. They can go from ten. Am Til six or seven at that age and we never had 'em relief physically wear out and that's because we were pushing the stroller which is pretty easy to do. So I'm those are tips so we run a down year point stay nearby One Park if you can pull it off. Pack your lunch gift early in the day or upfront have it. Shipped to the hotel and take a stroller. Don't be ashamed of the stroller. Even if your kids are okay. And what was that website for the off? Peak season again undercover tourist undercover tourist. And we'll put that and this all off the tips on the sites there. One thing that's one advantage of staying at the for Disneyland area is by staying at the closer hotels again. Depends on the age of the kids. Is that We were there a few years ago and you could run. Run DOWN to the hotel for an hour. Rest take a shower and then get back at it. So that's one of the advantages. You really can't do that effectively at the Walt Disneyworld because everything is so darn spread out one other One quick tip on add onto yours. Well is Especially for the ladies. There's the bitty boutique and I think is wanted I know people who have spent a thousand dollars on whatever Te My tip is is that I don't know if they have something like this at Disneyland at Walt Disney World Resort in the magic kingdom. They actually have a barbershop. It's right on Main Street where the fire station is and we are two or three daughters their first haircut there so they put pixie dust in their hair. It's like I don't know what the prices are but it's It's super cheap. It's literally a barbershop. And then the only difference is they sprinkled fixing us and I've saved nine hundred eighty five dollars by doing that. And it's a great memory to get a hat and all of that so it's really neat neat experience. So the barbershop still there. I checked today and It's a great experience at. It's something people don't know you don't you can't see unless you're standing right on it and I don't think they take reservations cfpb standby and so you just keep going back until it's there and they move in and out. It's really a neat thing. I don't think they have it at Disneyland. But that is wonderful. Because what you're going to red crosses fanatics about this bitty Bob. Oh Yeah and you know. It's a great thing that's GonNa cost your arm and leg and then there's the justification in the rationalization that come with it is all their hair. They feel special to get to meet all the princesses. Well guess what they're gonNA probably meet.

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"dads" Discussed on Dads Outnumbered

Dads Outnumbered

08:56 min | 1 year ago

"dads" Discussed on Dads Outnumbered

"Those are like knockoff. Sohn's or they've brought in from somewhere else. You know on that subject. That's that's great. It's great that you showed restraint. And it's also great that your wife was had a calming effect on the situation so What was more than if I didn't. I was going to hear about later and get a full lecture right about her. Point of view on the whole happenings. Step step so it was like if I discount down. I looked better in front of the kids and I don't have to spend twenty minutes Learning what I did wrong. Yes avoidance and all about avoidance you know to give a updates on what's going on in US high schools That's very different than creepy than when we all know what I'm saying. So my My youngest daughter is in this program and they won the regional champs of the go to the state championship been. It's down in a city in Tucson. So it's a couple of hours away and they stay overnight but was funny because the rules at evolved over the years so they're taking his school bus down there but this this time no one can bring pillows or blankets at all and boys have to sit on one side of the bus and these are high school not elementary school. Kids girls at the center of the other side of the butts. So you start thinking yeah you start thinking what exactly went on where they had to create this policy and the other one is Let's see Yet no one can go in any other hotel room which is fine and this is a regular public school or as a regular public school. Yeah and if there is no lifeguard on duty no matter how good of a swimmer you are in that there are adults around. You cannot go in the water. So while at that's I would just probably not a bad thing. But it's it is amazing the There's always more and more slightly punitive rules that that GONNA place And so that was the latest update on the that one. I just wanted to share with you. Well this we're sharing Glenn. I loved though her sharing So my oldest eight year old went to a birthday party yesterday. At this hyped up our tuckey sort of jumped park but it really had like it had zip lines where you're flying through the air all the way around above people. I mean. This thing was on steroids so I took the two younger the youngest daughter and a friend of hers to apart just a regular park city park. But it's a really good one. They a lot of and I sat down in the shady bench and this Mother couldn't resist talking the data. She started talking to me. And you know we start talking about kids and watching these other parents like they just are helicopter parents at the playground stand. Like excuse rarely get into any situation that they're not being saved by apparent even if they're only three feet above the ground and it always comes down to my My thought on the whole subject. Which IS WE WILL LOSE. World War three this generation of they can play on a playground without Ri- someone being there to catch them no falling no collisions. Nothing unless it's a text war or social media war think we're losing world war three pretty close there and and it is a lot of it has to do is the only child or the first child because once they have multiple. It's like it's like you exponentially grow the distance that you watch once you get to the second kid and the first one didn't break the second one did break and by the third. It's like where if you've been to any you know so it is. It is one of those things. So that is one of the factors that and especially with these younger these kids younger than your youngest daughter or about the same age. Yeah that maybe a little younger right. Yeah it when they get that age. It's it's like okay. You gotta give them a little little room. There is one of our tips from our book how to raise healthy confident. Daughters is really to give them some room. You want to be there to make sure the conditions are safe. But they have to learn to fail or fall or You know they have to learn how to take some risks calculated risks make. You'd make sure that they don't maim themselves but Yeah that's good. Sorry about the the hovering parents. So what did your oldest one that you didn't go to zip line park right. You now dropped her off. The drought okay. Got It well. And what stage do you start doing that? Probably about two months ago okay gap. It is one of the ones where the parents always in. We used to host parties at jumping places. And you know there was always you had to have food for the parents because none of them would leak and then you're right. It a certain age they drop offs and then I mean by that that an ice cream wagon. I'll be darned. Yeah you probably sell drugs on assign a unbelievable unbelievable but but good for you Craig. Do you have anything stronger than Iraq? And and that's a Oh my goodness the family show very the you know in the news. Recently there's been a lot of chatter about the college entrance scandal which is kind of similar this our topic near the this is our topic for the weakest. Let's frame it Ohio Glenn. What's our topic topic? Well it's women greater than that. I was more of Indirectly where you've got you know these parents that are cutting corners and that's term that people may not understand and yet you're trying to teach your child to to their turn in line and to follow the rules and yet you see others you know skirting the rules. So how do you show them that? The the best strategy in the long run is to follow the rules and not to to cut corners. I mean that's the hard part is the how many times in so the college scandal is one where you've got parents and there is probably on them and a lot of cases so celebrity yes sub celebrities which people love exactly but they spend a huge amount of money and really defrauded this other thing to get their child who wasn't interested in academics in new a prominent school. I mean the the one. That's most notable as that you know. They're they made it up to choose on the crew team and photo shopped. Her face in a group with just a sterile. The lakes that someone who would go to to get there but it but it it. It goes back in time. It's the you know the person who is self absorbed and so we had a term for this and We're this came about that. I like this idea of Photoshop Photoshop. My face or my children's face into groundbreaking scientific breakthroughs. Mike cure is my daughter. Curing a lower form of arthritis in adult than ever over test tubers or or. You could shop everybody's face on a Disney ride and say and save a whole bunch of money by not out later all the time. It's like I don't remember that while you're too you know you don't have until you're thirteen. Exactly yes right so but he so where we started. This was in. We're this manifested itself. Is that when the Are My daughters were old? You Know Mitt interest while waiting in the car line inevitably. There'd be a van that was taken enormous enormous amount of time To get the the the kid to get themselves together to get out just delaying the whole process. Otherwise or another one was. It'd be the van that would An inch themselves ahead. Take cuts line against slowing the whole car. Line or -til out and We would have a term for this and it was always a boy Just to let you know but the term we would use. We would to him as Timmy. and so it's really the timmy factor. If you will but again at some child that is you know so self absorbed the family so self absorbed that. They're not concerned about the welfare. What they're doing Anyone else around them. They're gonNA do what they do. They're going to take all the time. They need to do what they need to do. You could care less about the stuff I do care about it so my point is well children model. What they're taught right so they're probably seeing some form of that behavior in their parents or adults and the kids are also modeling. What is okay? And what's not because all we're doing raising children is establishing boundaries of mines and teaching them when they can go past that and when they can't and I think what you're seeing.

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"dads" Discussed on Legacy-Dads Podcast

Legacy-Dads Podcast

01:36 min | 2 years ago

"dads" Discussed on Legacy-Dads Podcast

"To look at guys that have gone before and ask them some things that help them you know what works for lance may not work for daunting it works for dont'a may not work for lands in look over this list of some things are on there that you like yeah i totally resonate with that make those your priorities and then as you're seeing the fruit of it then test lands and i and the other eight or nine of them and see if they really are put into practice how your wife response that don't be overwhelmed you know god's giving you this privilege of being you know husband being a father being a new dad and so remember you're not just in this is a parttime be fully engaged and don't turn your attention anywhere else yep amazing thank you thank you so much for time dante so thank you guys for listening we're sign off again again subscribe keep listen to the podcast newens coming out each week now and check us out on social media facebook back slash legs dads and later dad's as well i we love to hear from you as this distal was a boon in outstanding and with your new bedford is a picture of two abc's they'd so much we'll talk to you guys next week thanks so much for listening to this episode of the legacy dad's blood gest with lands and dan j real men authentic safe for more great content is they up today visit legacy dad's dot org and on facebookcom legacy dads and on twitter legacy underscore dad if you enjoyed today's episode please revealed subscriber and we'll catch you next time on the legacy dad's podcast real men authentic thing.

"dads" Discussed on Legacy-Dads Podcast

Legacy-Dads Podcast

02:02 min | 2 years ago

"dads" Discussed on Legacy-Dads Podcast

"Amazing how they come come down but let them know i mean the inflection of your voice you know the sound waves all that that's how they they get to know mom how they get to know you and the more that you interact with that child even before the actual birth day the more than that child will come to know you and watching you meaning that your wife looking at you and how you're engaging family will do a tremendous job for both us dad and especially ewa's husband yes and i think and and really if you look at it this could play into number one right so if you're talking and singing to the baby you touch in mom uh really that say you know you're you're meet number one there is while you're loving you i fear spending time together um so it's kinda you get you you know to bridges one stone if he if you do this number two right absolutely yeah and it and it's healthy i think it's a really good way for both of you guys to kinda bond because you're you're investing in your family i in taking the time to talk to you baby with your wife right there really shows or the man that you truly will be yep absolutely okay so love your wife talker sing you baby what is number three take responsibility you know i mean it the more you read the bible from the old testament to the new testament you know your your role as a family as a spiritual leader and not one to rain or you know poor dominion over just be abuse of i'm talking about responsibility as prophet as priest as king you know show your wife the new mother the you will provide and you'll be there when she is insecure proved juror that you can listen that you truly care a lot of things that you just eluded to prior and when things get tough she can lean on you i mean it like i'm saying you guys she's going to have a lot of different motions one moment she's gonna be crying the next minute she's going to be laughing she's gonna want to eat it all different hours of the time but regardless of wherever she is at in this term of pregnancy you show her.

"dads" Discussed on Legacy-Dads Podcast

Legacy-Dads Podcast

01:35 min | 2 years ago

"dads" Discussed on Legacy-Dads Podcast

"No are you struggling to balance your modern life and your faith you're on the right flights welcome to the legacy dads podcast with lance lanson john j offering biblical based wisdom and that weekly dose of what truly worse than men's lives the legacy dad's podcast real men authentic faith hear your host of the legacy deaths podcast their authentic transparence and not always politically correct lansing dante caputo hey everyone dante in lands here from legacy dads were everywhere it's how're you doing pretty good i don't do a really well my friends so is lance is moving into a new chapter of his life almost an empty nester him and his wife you know as i said are in their forties and going to enjoy sunsets and weekend trip tripsin dating all the time on not his old i'm not as old as some people at a source at at romance in the eye were as some of us are a little bit older and moving from addle essence two teenage years you can laugh at me on that yeah that's me i thought i wasn't it i thought i was moon medallists teenager but one of the things that you know we go back and we've talked about before you and on the podcast but that really attracted me to this website and partnering with you and coming together was just your your heart and you know you had me a legacy dad a because you know who doesn't want to leave a really good legacy of really good found daesh in further.