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Dr Abby Medcalf Says the Real Problem in Relationships Is Competition

What Healthy Couples Know That You Don't

01:37 min | 17 hrs ago

Dr Abby Medcalf Says the Real Problem in Relationships Is Competition

"Really enjoyed your ten tad ex talk in part because we both know that everyone who comes to our office arrives believing that communication is the big problem in their relationship. But you say there is a bigger problem. Tell me about that you know so. I have the same same as you. Everyone comes in. Our problem is we. Don't communicate and number one we both know. You're you're communicating all the time. Why you like it or not. So that's you might not like what you're communicating but you're communicating. that's number one but number two. The real problem is competition and we learned this from a young age. We saw our own parents do it and we say things like it's your turn to put away the dishes. I took jack to piano practice on monday. It's your turn. You have to take sophie to baseball on friday. We use spent money on this on going to spend money on this. There is so much. Tit for tat. There is so much keeping score watching. What our partners are doing or not doing comparing it to what we're doing. Which of course is always always much more always better and living in that place so when that happens of course you're treating it it is it's a competition and in any competition son. One side has to win and one side has to lose. And we don't wanna lose so you're literally setting your partner up failure literally want them to fail on some level because for in your head. It means you'll get

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Tesla Teases AI Day and Partnership With Famed Roboticist

Tesla Daily: Tesla News & Analysis

01:40 min | 1 d ago

Tesla Teases AI Day and Partnership With Famed Roboticist

"Let's talk about this news on. Ai day overnight. We got this tweet from dr dennis. Hong who is a professor at ucla and the founding director of their robotics and mechanisms laboratory. Anyway he tweeted out. This photo of some beautifully rendered computer hardware. Sang tusla a day. August nineteen twenty twenty one at palo alto california five. Pm pd so we had a date now. Looks like we also have a time and a location for ai. And we're left to speculate on what this hardware is and why dr hung is tweeting this out. Dr hong certainly enjoyed stirring up that speculation. He's got a number of tweets. Replies here as well as likes on other tweets that have encouraged speculation. I would say one of his first replies since that original tweet was to question asking if the ucla lab was now associated with tesla and fasd. Aung san can't say anything just yet with a couple of playful emojis at it. Of course we've seen tesla partner with academic labs in the past for research. Great example of that on the battery fronts being with jeff. Don somebody brought that arrangement up and reply and harm replied to that saying dot dot dot or something else dot dot dot blowing a kiss emoji if we dig back a little bit further we can actually see that this tweet that does have this photo rendered in. It isn't the first time he's talked about his involvement with tesla. It does go back a few days prior. So i found this tweet from july twenty ninth and it's in korean but it doesn't include another post from hong. I believe on a different social media platform. That's also in korean. So i translated the immature. But you can see hong talking about the secret project that he's involved in with tesla. Apparently there was supposed to be an announcement scheduled for the twelfth of august and that he's finding out via twitter that it's delayed till the nineteenth referencing eons tweet where he announced the date for at

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Charlie Kirk Tells Us About His Turning Point USA Student Action Summit

America First with Sebastian Gorka Podcast

01:43 min | 1 d ago

Charlie Kirk Tells Us About His Turning Point USA Student Action Summit

"He's charlie cook the founder. The president the ceo of one of the important most important institutions in america turning point usa. Welcome to the swab giant. Dr gorka thanks for. Let me your studio earlier. We had a lot of fun anytime anytime that was his opening of the student. Actions summit that we held recently in a very hot place do somewhat cooler next very hard. You had a suit and tie on ice shocked. Everybody i gave my speech with no time. No we we changed outfits i swapped. We did we did. We did a little roll reverse right there but it was an amazing event. Tell list is across the nation. What is the student action summit. How big was it. And what was the message. It was four thousand plus young students. You were terrific by the way and that was just boy. It's like two weeks ago. I know from students from all fifty states really gearing up for this next semester of activism and it was an incredible response we had governor onto santa's there ted cruz. Was there mike. Pompeo is there. Donald trump junior and really kind of gives you hope when you see four thousand students in a room ready to take their country back and that's one of many conferences we've done over the summer. We have our young women's leadership that we did our chapter leadership summit. We've a whole campus to glang all yet black leadership summit coming up this fall just at our young latino leadership summit. So we're not we're not sitting still. We have our staff training right now in phoenix arizona for well over one hundred thirty fulltime people. We have on staff so got a country to save but slow down. You're married mallika marriages. How god wants you to live to reach the highest levels of potential and flourishing. So we're finally in a place where we can really really hit our inflection point.

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We Need Manly Churches Preaching Biblical Masculinity

The Eric Metaxas Show

01:59 min | 1 d ago

We Need Manly Churches Preaching Biblical Masculinity

"It's amazing to me that you know. We are coming to a place where it is only like great churches. That are pushing this message out there. The whole culture has become feminized and confused. I mean it's obvious that people are just i mean. Most people understand that the culture is nuts. Like you need to be encouraged folks. I forgive you think the culture is nuts. You know what you are right. And i'm here to affirm you they've all gone nuts the only place where you seem to be able to find sanity Is in certain churches. I was I mentioned you tim. I was up in ken graves. Church in bangor maine. I was at jack. Hibs church and chino hills california. They're few that are particularly manly. And i thought men just gravitate toward that cause in their ideas churches. Kind of like it's a. It's a woman's thing or or something like that. I really think that this message that you have in your book take it back. It just comes out of the bible and it's it's kind of like solving for excellent algebra quesion right. I mean everything else goes away. We're in a culture now where you really can't find this anymore. We don't have a lot of healthy masculinity in the culture in our movies and tv either at it is toxic masculinity portrayed or is wimpy non masculinity but this healthy idea of biblical masculinity which father's bless their children and husbands bless their wives and live self-sacrificial early and use their strength to protect those. I mean so beautiful. i think more and more. We're seeing that in churches and i. I predict that. We're gonna see revival on this issue when a culture becomes as sick as ours is on this issue. Men are looking for truth. They know in their gut. Right and wrong on this. And i'm just i'm excited that you're talking about it. You're not the only one but this is The book is take it back. dr tim. Clinton forward by darrell

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Why Are Men Under Attack?

The Eric Metaxas Show

02:20 min | 1 d ago

Why Are Men Under Attack?

"Tell us tim dr tim. Clinton take it back. Reclaiming biblical manhood. What's it about eric. You know there's been such a beatdown on men. In culture i mean basically men are seen as buffoons idiots disengaged fathers or husbands porn addicts. You name it. I gotta tell you That is something that i've noticed for a long time. So let's talk about. Why is that. Why is that spiritually. I mean i think i have an answer but do you have an answer because we all see it. We've seen it most of our lives. What is that eric. I think If you can take men out of the equation You can run a pretty unique agenda. men icy men menace protectors providers as the walls men are supposed to bring boundaries to life eric. They're supposed to step up into the moment. And god made it that way but you didn't take men out boy. You can pretty much do anything you want. That's what i think is going. I know i totally agree. I mean it's it's interesting because we believe these things are spiritual battles they manifest in the culture but it's a spiritual battle The enemy Is always you know. He's trying to kill god's chosen he's trying to up end the system. What is that. I can't remember where it is It's one of the prophetic Books in the old testament but the idea that you know Children and women will lead and others. The the ideas that men are supposed to lead but things are going to be so upside down in our culture since the sixties has been an attack on men and my attitude is the reason you attack. Men is because you wanna harm. The women and children men are the protectors and we even have this bizarre idea that women need to be empowered so that they don't need a man and even that's preposterous like it's so ridiculous like saying defined the police. I can take care of myself. I mean well. That's a nice idea if you can take care of yourself. But it's also nice to have backup to have people who have your back And traditionally men have been that Whether in the military or in the militia or just in their homes so when you attack men you really attacking those they would protect. I mean i just wanna be clear on that. Because that's the if you care about women and children you need to care about men.

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Anthony Fauci Is Not the Boogie Man

Mike Gallagher Podcast

01:15 min | 1 d ago

Anthony Fauci Is Not the Boogie Man

"I think the anthony fowleri is the boogeyman that a lot of people have looked for. And i don't know that he's the boogeyman. I think foul cheeses scientists. And i've said this from the outset if he could keep everybody wrapped up in bubble. Wrap it in their homes. He would because his only mission his life's work is to try to keep a virus from going from one person to another. He doesn't care about the politics of it. He doesn't care about the business angle he just doesn't want the virus to spread. The guy is how old. how old is how. Old is tony He's done this all his life. I don't know the guy. I've interviewed him. I think as this thing has gotten progressively prolonged whatever happened. Remember fifteen days to stop the spread. I think we're so angry and were so frustrated. And we're so anxious that we need a bad guy. We need a fall guy. We need a boogeyman. And it's become dr anthony vouching and i don't think i don't think it's entirely deserved.

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U.S. hits 70% vaccination rate a month late and amid a new surge

AP News Radio

00:52 sec | 1 d ago

U.S. hits 70% vaccination rate a month late and amid a new surge

"A summer surge of covert cases across the country with the delta variant fueling the surge of the virus new cases per day in the U. S. have increased six fold over the past month to an average of nearly eighty thousand a level not seen since February and deaths per day of climbed over the past two weeks from an average of two fifty nine to three sixty forcing the reinstatement of mask mandates in businesses like some McDonald's and home depot in some states like Louisiana where Dr Catherine o'neill at lake regional Medical Center says there are no beds left these are the darkest days of this pandemic medical experts still say the vaccinated are far more protected and yesterday the U. S. finally reached president Biden's goal of getting at least one covert shot in the arms of seventy percent of American adults a month later than his goal I'm Julie Walker

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The Effects of Exercise on Mental Health with Sal Di Stefano of Mind Pump Media

Dr. Jockers Functional Nutrition

01:16 min | 1 d ago

The Effects of Exercise on Mental Health with Sal Di Stefano of Mind Pump Media

"Let's start talking about. The effects of movement next size resistance training our mental health. Right we have a major issue going on right. Now with mets healthy zaidi depression especially coming out at cova and things like that is one of the best things for it. Let's start cert- there. Yeah no That's a great place to start so when you look at the actual studies On exercise and its effects on mental wellbeing we actually find is that Exercise done appropriately. And that's very important. Caveat must be applied appropriately because inappropriate inappropriately applied. Exercise can actually beef bad for you but when you do it right and you train your body. According to your individual fitness and you know based on the context of your own life and stress you see a tremendous benefit studies actually show that exercise has a is as effective as antidepressants and anti-anxiety medications for mild moderate forms of depression anxiety in the short term in the long term studies actually trend in show. That exercise is superior and this is because the benefits of Properly applied exercise tend to compound

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Republicans Push to Ban Discrimination Against Unvaccinated People

America First with Sebastian Gorka Podcast

01:21 min | 2 d ago

Republicans Push to Ban Discrimination Against Unvaccinated People

"Not a country where we're going to say you can't come in here if your skin is black or you can't come in and if you decide your different gender where we don't do that here right. In america we also should not be the country that that tells our customers and our private business. You can't come in because you've made a health health decision about your body and decided you. Just don't wanna take a vaccine. What if we look at the data and the facts about the spread of this virus ever since china's senate over here thank. Thank you dr falcone. The fact service none of the states that were super shutdown and wore masks enforced. Everyone stay inside and super social distance. Their rate of spread was identical and sometimes even higher than the than the open states So no business has an excuse to say the unclean must stay out. What's next we're going to have to have passports that say that we've all been to transgender training. I mean are we going to have to pass. Say that like we all agree with the green new deal. I just think that like look. Trump's brilliance was in make america. Great again unify. We're all won. we're all together. We rise or fall as a nation and it seems like these policies are just meant to find new and exotic ways to divide us. That's

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To Mask, or Not to Mask? Who Can We Trust?

Dennis Prager Podcasts

01:31 min | 2 d ago

To Mask, or Not to Mask? Who Can We Trust?

"We're back to masks. Is this now. Is this now national. What is the matt. I'm not quite certain the cbc is recommending it but it is not yet a national policy. I know in in where i live. It's it's been mandated but it's been mandated indoors. You have to wear a mask even if you're vaccinated it turns out the fallacy dr fao. She said that You are as likely to carry a viral load if you are in if you are vaccinated as if you are not so you ask the logical question. Then why get vaccinated and they. They offer the idea that you'll get less sick if you're vaccinated but you are just as likely to transmit it. Apparently i my friends. They say whatever they want to say on any given day masks were useless. Doctor said in the beginning. England journal of medicine had a report that they were useless. However the the new england journal of medicine writers came under intense pressure to add an addendum somewhat redundant adding an agenda but to add an addendum later. That of course. They didn't mean to discourage people from wearing masks.

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U.S. COVID Cases up 150% in Last 2 Weeks

The Clay Travis and Buck Sexton Show

00:43 sec | 2 d ago

U.S. COVID Cases up 150% in Last 2 Weeks

"Vaccinate daily vaccinations have been steadily increasing in the US far outpacing new daily covid cases. But Those delta varying infections are exploding, say health officials and are preventable. New coronavirus infections are up 150% in the last two weeks, mainly due to the delta variant, the best thing we can do to try to mute that very steady rise in the curve. Is to get more people vaccinated as quickly as possible. Dr. Francis Collins at the National Institutes of Health, told ABC News that would also help the country avoid new lockdowns. If we want to avoid a more severe outcome that might lead to more extreme measures like lockdowns, we know what to do. We just need to do it. Collins said. He's encouraged by a 56% increase in vaccinations. Aaron Carter SKI

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Collaboration and Podcast Discovery With Niklas Hildebrand, Co-Founder of Audry

Podcast Movement 2021

00:57 sec | 2 d ago

Collaboration and Podcast Discovery With Niklas Hildebrand, Co-Founder of Audry

"One major advantage of calibration is the one you already see on the slide which is a trusted source. Still today the main driver of podcast discovery is what of mouth or social media. Social media often is very close to what friends and family a few others by number three. Dr discovery is actually mentioning on the podcast. Wall her hearing in host in podcast. The listeners already listening to end Discovering another point of authority of contacted. They wouldn't check out so good example. Podcast all around the cara swisher will of content where all these hoes Jumped from show to show. And you have all these ass experts in all the own podcast within they can mix and mingle again so you can listen to all of them. It's a source in. It's just really good way of being introduced to a new formal content.

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Podcasting About Race and Equity for Children With Scotty Iseri, Host of 'The Imagine Neighborhood'

Podcast Movement 2021

01:16 min | 2 d ago

Podcasting About Race and Equity for Children With Scotty Iseri, Host of 'The Imagine Neighborhood'

"Had four core goals in our imagine equity series things that we wanted to discuss. Express things that they wanted to help families talk about Writers remember the four the four topics as remind us. I was identity understanding celebrating identity. The second was celebrating diversity. The third was talking about justice and injustice defining able to define those and the fourth was activated. How do you make things right That came that framework came from a group of researchers called dern sparks stanley keenan. Who really have done a lot of research and study around. How do you. How do kids develop their idea of race. And and how do you celebrate and support the development of of positive racial identity That's also the work of dr white at the pride program is the development of a positive racial identity that kids Kids across the world are developing ideas of race from as early as the age of two. And how do you help them. Both celebrate and support their own identity and understand the editors of other of other people around

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Barriers to Change with Dr. Katy Milkman

Being Well with Dr. Rick Hanson

02:14 min | 2 d ago

Barriers to Change with Dr. Katy Milkman

"In order to succeed. We have to understand specifically what's holding us back and it is different in different and that actually calls for different solutions. We wanna match our solution to the obstacle. We face rather than trying to use a one-size-fits-all approach which is what's often done and can often lead us astray. I have written about this in the book by breaking down some of the most common internal barriers to change that i've encountered and seen address beautifully by research. Sometimes my own research would often other people's research and so some of those most common barriers are challenges. Like the getting started problem. That it's just hard to get over the hump. Find the motivation to actually begin. You know you should change you. Keep putting it also. How do we get started. Another barrier is that we're very impulsive creatures. We are present bias meaning. We overweight the value. We get in the moment underweight. The long term rewards ramar our behaviors. So if it's not fun if it's not instantly rewarding. We often don't do things even though we should so that's another major barrier and the flip side of that is of course procrastination so because we're present bias. We procrastinate which can be obstacle to change another. I think often under appreciated problem is just forget it. You could call it flake out but you know memory we often don't treat as a serious challenge but it can be because if we just understand ways to ensure that we will recall what to do at the right time we can overcome a lot of barriers to change. And then i've also written a bit about The challenge of our tendency to take the path of least resistance that we follow. Have it and default settings and so that can actually be a barrier to change as can self confidence. If we don't believe we can do. It were unlikely to make much progress and finally a really important category of barriers. That sort of bridges actually between internal and external but we have more internal control over this than than some others peer support. So do we have people around us or who were paying attention to who are supporting our goals and showing us. What's possible or they actually holding us

Fauci: More 'pain and suffering' ahead as COVID cases rise

AP News Radio

01:10 min | 3 d ago

Fauci: More 'pain and suffering' ahead as COVID cases rise

"The latest data from Johns Hopkins University show the seven day rolling average for daily new covert nineteen cases in the U. S. has risen to more than seventy seven thousand up from just over thirty thousand two weeks earlier and that's prompting a warning from the nation's top infectious disease expert Dr Anthony Fauci offered this outlook on ABC's this week we're looking not I believe to lock down but we're looking to some pain and suffering in the future because we're seeing the cases go up from G. says vaccination is the key to getting the nation back to normal but notes one hundred million eligible Americans have not gotten a shot the un vaccinated by not being vaccinated allowing the propagation in the spread of the outbreak which ultimately impacts everyone South Carolina governor Henry McMaster tells fox news Sunday he's been vaccinated and it's encouraging others to do the same but he won't be mandating it wore the wearing of masks we don't trust the people to do the right thing we're giving them the right information there has been a surge in vaccinations over the past week currently the CDC reports fifty eight percent of Americans twelve and older are fully vaccinated Ben Thomas Washington

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Fauci Warns 'Things Are Going to Get Worse' With COVID

Bill O'Reilly Weekend Report

00:41 sec | 3 d ago

Fauci Warns 'Things Are Going to Get Worse' With COVID

"Cases of Covid 19. I'm Joe Chiro. Fox News. That's the message from infectious disease expert to Dr Anthony Fauci, who says The reason is there still aren't enough people who are fully vaccinated. We're looking Not. I believe to lockdown but we're looking to some pain and suffering in the future because we're seeing the cases go up. Which is the reason why we keep saying over and over again. The solution to this is get vaccinated and this would not be happening. Fauci on ABC s this week by the director of the National Institutes of Health, told CNN today that vaccinations were up 56% in the last two weeks. Relative federal moratorium on evictions has

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Fauci Says Unvaccinated Are "Propagating This Outbreak" as Delta Spreads

KOA Programming

00:22 sec | 3 d ago

Fauci Says Unvaccinated Are "Propagating This Outbreak" as Delta Spreads

"Delta variance, spreading fast putting more people and younger ones and hospitals Top U. S. Covid. Dr. Anthony Fauci says he respectfully disagrees with those who say Getting vaccinated and masking up our personal choices. The unvaccinated by not being vaccinated, allowing the propagation and the spread of the outbreak, which ultimately impacts everyone douchey on ABC s this week. On

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Arizona Border Patrol Agent, Another Driver Killed in Head-on Crash

Dr. Bob Martin Show

00:18 sec | 3 d ago

Arizona Border Patrol Agent, Another Driver Killed in Head-on Crash

"Patrol mourning the loss of one of their own this morning. One of its agents and another driver killed early yesterday morning in a head on collision near cells. Arizona It's about 60 miles southwest of Tucson. The crash happened on state route 86. The identities of the agent or the driver have not been released.

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"dr" Discussed on Dr. Death

Dr. Death

04:28 min | 7 months ago

"dr" Discussed on Dr. Death

"Mike. Thanks for joining me as we talk about these two stories. Thanks for having me on to talk with you. Laura so in this episode. I'm gonna pass off the reporter duties to you so ask me anything about dr death. That sounds great. I'm actually a very big fan of the show and so i'm very excited to get your perspective on you. Know what you've told these past two seasons <hes>. So one of the biggest things that stuck out to me from season two was just the scale of dr fatah's devastation. I mean can you remind us. Just how big of an impact fought to head on his patients lives. I will and i have to start off with the caveat that the person who really looked into this in was reporter this series. Heather sh raring. Who did an amazing job and dug up all this information. He was in practice over a period of several years. You have to remember that. Dutch only operated eighteen months <hes>. In dallas so because of that dr fata saw thousands of patients. You know there were only a few hundred in the actual court case but really. There's there's no telling how many patients he hurt one of the lines. That stuck out to me. I love this line from george karachay where he wondered. What should i do. What do i do. Do i leave now with the others. Do i get to the department of justice right now. Run over there to the fbi office or do i just pull the fire alarm and tell everybody to run for their lives. I mean that that line sticks with you whether she pull a fire alarm right <hes>. And i wanted to pose a hypothetical. Let's say george didn't do anything. He didn't file whistle blower to go to the department of justice. How much longer would fought to have been able to practice. you know. that's a good question. And who knows. I mean he had already been practicing for so long. You know one of the things that he did was keep all of his compartmentalized so no one person could really tell exactly the scope of his fraud and so it's it's really scary to think about how long he would have continued if people hadn't finally started to put it all together. I think that's one of the things. I love about these stories. Is there horrible right. But they're like these these kinds of heroes and not just like these individual heroes but there's these regular people who step forward it's not in their interest but they they come forward and they save people's lives. Yeah i mean they're really they're really depressing stories for sure but i think they're also affirming stories as as well. I mean one of the comments. I got <hes>. Which is understandable from from dr death season. Two is why in this time of cova when healthcare workers are are just so stressed and working such long hours to take care of people. Why would we want to do a story. That really highlights the terrible side of the healthcare system and it's completely valid complaint on the other hand. The counter narrative to these stories are the fact that there are heroes in the healthcare system. Who saw this and just could not abide by it and and speak up so it it is really depressing and it does expose a a really terrible side of the healthcare system but it also exposes the heroic nature that some people will go to to try to help other people one thing. That really surprised me was the links that <hes>. Free fata was willing to take to appeal his conviction even the fact that he was seeking compassionate. Release due to covid. Do you think that he will ever get out of prison. He no. I'm not one to say i would be doubtful but you know who who knows. I mean who who knows how he might get out i. I can definitely say that. The chances of christopher done getting out are pretty miniscule. Because he's exhausted. All of his appeals on vodka. I'd be doubtful. But who knows.

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"dr" Discussed on Dr. Death

Dr. Death

05:39 min | 7 months ago

"dr" Discussed on Dr. Death

"One thing. That's clear from both seasons of doctor. Deb is that doctors wield enormous power in our medical system and with a lot of autonomy. When they're in the room with patients their judgment is rarely questioned. Dr dench in season. One and dr fata in season two both took advantage of that dynamic in their own twisted ways. We know it can be heroin to listen to these series win at some point where i likely to be patience so today to understand and hopefully restore some faith in the medical system. I'm talking with dr danielle ofri. She's a physician at bellevue hospital in new york city. Numerous books on the doctor patient relationship most recently when we do harm a doctor confronts medical error doctor over. Thank you so much for talking with me. Today thank you. It's a pleasure to be here. So i'm going to start with question that i get a lot. Should we be afraid of our doctors. No i wouldn't be afraid of doctors. I think that most doctors and most nurses are there to help you and to take care of you. And that's why they went into the profession so afraid who's would be the wrong word. I would still be careful and question and have a high index of suspicion for anything. That's recommended but but fear i think is not going to be very helpful so in your book when we do harm you talk about how doctors have these near misses. Can you tell me about that like that sinking feeling when you realize that you did something wrong. That remorse is something that a good doctor is supposed to feel at or just average doctor even have to be good. You just have to be a human being for goodness sakes but when i was a second year resident. I was on call with my intern. You busy busy night. And i got a late. Admission of altered mental status in an elderly patient basically so in a nursing home. We'll looks a bit more defended today. Let's admit the patient and i got the report. The patients totally stable labs fine radiology fi just eats to get back to the nursing home bed so i quickly turf the patient to another service. We had this kind of holding service for patients who are just waiting for no home services or nursing home bed or physical therapy so quickly. A- pressured the doctor to take this patient to her service patients totally stable labs fine radiology find yada yada. Yada take the patient and she did by internet. I we high five we race back to the for next. You know febrile patient. And i learned the next day that the patient actually was bleeding into their brain and that's why they're mental status was altered but i missed it and i missed it because i look at the cat scan myself as i knew i should have. Somebody said radiology find. And i just took it on on faith and i was devastated. Absolutely floored now. The patient in fact didn't suffer any harm because someone else so. The cat scan called neurosurgery. The patient was whisked at right to the. Or had the bleed train in fact. The patient's care wasn't impacted at all by my error. So we classify that as a near miss but i still made the error. Had i discharge the patient home. They they could have been dead. So how did that near miss make you feel. I was so devastated. That i didn't tell anyone. I didn't tell my intern. It didn't tell my supervising attending an shores held. Did not tell the patient or their family could not imagine a more horrible fate to drag my sorry soul to the patient's bedside and say almost killed you and i didn't talk about it for twenty years. That's how awful it was. I couldn't write about it. Grapple with it. And i'm sure that i committed many errors in the weeks that followed because my brain was in a fog. I soul was in a fog. So i'm sure i missed mini things and committed more errors. I was ready to quit two years out of medical school. And i look back now is more season physician. And i. i can empathize with my younger self. I didn't really understand medical error. I just knew that. I was a failure that i had just made a medical error but i was a medical error and i was a danger to patients and i recognize that i was overworked. I was assistant. Didn't have room for correction of errors but also didn't allow me to talk about the error. And i missed a an educational opportunity for learning about that. I miss the chance to help the patient grapple with that all of these things because the emotions were so devastating. And what would have happened if you would have admitted that. To the patient in your supervisors. I don't know it would have been very embarrassing to tell my supervisor. I really botched this. I didn't look at the scancen. Said it was fine. And i believed it didn't check so i would lose facing my supervisors is my terrible recommendation <hes>. And then telling. The patient would be even more horrible. I would tell them what a failure i am. I you trust me with your health. And look i failed you so no one ever says boy. You really courageous for the error. Congratulations for taking the risk and stepping up to the plate. All you get is humiliation. Shame <hes> you get people thinking. Oh what a ridiculous awful doctor. They should really quick go to the pharmaceutical industry or something. There's no incentive to being honest. Now

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"dr" Discussed on Dr. Death

Dr. Death

04:45 min | 7 months ago

"dr" Discussed on Dr. Death

"One thing. That's clear from both seasons of doctor. Deb is that doctors wield enormous power in our medical system and with a lot of autonomy. When they're in the room with patients their judgment is rarely questioned. Dr dench in season. One and dr fata in season two both took advantage of that dynamic in their own twisted ways. We know it can be heroin to listen to these series win at some point where i likely to be patience so today to understand and hopefully restore some faith in the medical system. I'm talking with dr danielle ofri. She's a physician at bellevue hospital in new york city. Numerous books on the doctor patient relationship most recently when we do harm a doctor confronts medical error doctor over. Thank you so much for talking with me. Today thank you. It's a pleasure to be here. So i'm going to start with question that i get a lot. Should we be afraid of our doctors. No i wouldn't be afraid of doctors. I think that most doctors and most nurses are there to help you and to take care of you. And that's why they went into the profession so afraid who's would be the wrong word. I would still be careful and question and have a high index of suspicion for anything. That's recommended but but fear i think is not going to be very helpful so in your book when we do harm you talk about how doctors have these near misses. Can you tell me about that like that sinking feeling when you realize that you did something wrong. That remorse is something that a good doctor is supposed to feel at or just average doctor even have to be good. You just have to be a human being for goodness sakes but when i was a second year resident. I was on call with my intern. You busy busy night. And i got a late. Admission of altered mental status in an elderly patient basically so in a nursing home. We'll looks a bit more defended today. Let's admit the patient and i got the report. The patients totally stable labs fine radiology fi just eats to get back to the nursing home bed so i quickly turf the patient to another service. We had this kind of holding service for patients who are just waiting for no home services or nursing home bed or physical therapy so quickly. A- pressured the doctor to take this patient to her service patients totally stable labs fine radiology find yada yada. Yada take the patient and she did by internet. I we high five we race back to the for next. You know febrile patient. And i learned the next day that the patient actually was bleeding into their brain and that's why they're mental status was altered but i missed it and i missed it because i look at the cat scan myself as i knew i should have. Somebody said radiology find. And i just took it on on faith and i was devastated. Absolutely floored now. The patient in fact didn't suffer any harm because someone else so. The cat scan called neurosurgery. The patient was whisked at right to the. Or had the bleed train in fact. The patient's care wasn't impacted at all by my error. So we classify that as a near miss but i still made the error. Had i discharge the patient home. They they could have been dead. So how did that near miss make you feel. I was so devastated. That i didn't tell anyone. I didn't tell my intern. It didn't tell my supervising attending an shores held. Did not tell the patient or their family could not imagine a more horrible fate to drag my sorry soul to the patient's bedside and say almost killed you and i didn't talk about it for twenty years. That's how awful it was. I couldn't write about it. Grapple with it. And i'm sure that i committed many errors in the weeks that followed because my brain was in a fog. I soul was in a fog. So i'm sure i missed mini things and committed more errors. I was ready to quit two years out of medical school. And i look back now is more season physician. And i. i can empathize with my younger self. I didn't really understand medical error. I just knew that. I was a failure that i had just made a medical error but i was a medical error and i was a danger to patients and i recognize that i was overworked. I was assistant. Didn't have room for correction of errors but also didn't allow me to talk about the error. And i missed a an educational opportunity for learning about that. I miss the chance to help the patient grapple with that all of these things because the emotions were so devastating. And

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Dr. Death

02:36 min | 7 months ago

"dr" Discussed on Dr. Death

"They took an oath to do no harm yet between them. They hurt hundreds of people dench with his scalpel and fought with his treatment. I've care because he destroyed my immune system. What immune system. I add he destroyed. There are people that are dead are people that are injured their people. There's no winners in this year. It's sad all the way around. The first and second season of doctor death raised questions about the medical system and the doctors working in it. How were these two doctors dutch and fateh able to do so much damage. And how were they able to continue for so long without being stopped to address these questions. I'm talking with dr danielle ofri. We'll talk about how we can keep our trust in the medical system and in the people whose actions can determine whether we live or die and will ask the question. What would you do if you found yourself working side by side with another doctor. Death the truth.

"dr" Discussed on Dr. Death

Dr. Death

05:00 min | 8 months ago

"dr" Discussed on Dr. Death

"Patty hester was helping a patient at work in the emergency room on the morning of august. Sixth two thousand thirteen. It was busy morning. Her colleague came in the room with a patient and tapped patty on the shoulder. Come here right now come here. I'm rock with her towards break room i to have time what she said. Patti catch your doctor. Patty walked into the break room and stared at the tv quote. We are michigan. Hematology oncology here in rochester hills. Were fbi agents are executing our search warrant. My sources are also telling me that a doctor has been arrested on charges related to healthcare fraud s fbi helicopters. They swarmed in on this morning. And i'm looking at this news. It has named goes across then. Then i have my cell phone in my pocket. and it's like this. you can feel it vibrating. All my dad from that point on her cell phone wouldn't stop buzzing all day. One call was from the fbi. You'll be getting your chart than the news. Said we'd like to interview you. Patty went home. Her husband was in front of the tv. Federal agents say in court records that doctor for allegedly kept patients on chemotherapy. Longer than necessary to cash in on the billings agents allege for da also directed that patients be diagnosed with cancer in their medical charts. Even when they did not have the disease patty wondered. Was she one of them. She didn't have to wait long to find out the next day a dark. Suv with tinted windows. Pulled into the driveway. An agent stepped out of the car and patty opened the door. Her whole family behind her. He said i'm very sorry and handed me my chart in the disk. I just sir cry. My family sobbing sobbing. It was horrific. She put the disk into her computer and began to scroll through. It was just lie after lie after lie. The also gave her a list of oncologist that she could see to get a second opinion. Ten days later patty saw a new doctor for the first time she brought with her. The disc at the fbi had given her. After the dr ransome tests she came into patties exam room hugging. And i am so sorry and saw sorry. You don't have it you don't have a patty began to cry. Her doctor said that she wasn't yet sure what had made her sick in the first place but she was sure that patti didn't have cancer. You need to live your life. You need to live your life. You not gonna die. I said if you do anything for me could you just please write it down town. She's forty where you want me to write it. And so she whipped out a prescription pad. And that's when she wrote a tricia has has no evidence and diaz in the weeks that followed other fatah patients or their loved ones sought their medical records. Saint joseph mercy. Oakland hospital filled these requests free of charge but crittenden had a different policy in some cases. The hospital asked for more than a thousand dollars to fill. The requests fought. Victims protested outside the hospital eventually crittenden relented and waive the fees but the victims and their families still needed someone who knew the technical lingo to look over the records. That's what i did for my fun. Time in the evenings nurse angeles won tek. I would go through the patient's medical records in a way. I feel like for me anytime. Somebody reached out to me. I said yes i didn't. I felt that that was something that i could do. And maybe you know. Help with the guilt of i should have done more. I wish i could have done more. One of those requests came from michelle mannarino. Her mother joan had died in two thousand ten six months. After angela's visit fatah had treated joan for breast cancer but when they met at a hotel in a banquet room angela had some news from michelle. And i remember looking at her records and the chemotherapy and i remember one thing that struck me was one of chemotherapy. Drugs that she was given is typically given for colon cancer. And i thought with this is odd like why would you give this for a breast cancer diagnosis.

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Dr. Death

04:45 min | 8 months ago

"dr" Discussed on Dr. Death

"In the days following his conversation with dr. So mongoloid george kept replaying. What he'd heard ministry humor their patients without getting their the very last. As you leave now you can't. He couldn't believe it was true. That seems a little outlander side. Stop myself from laughing. I thought it was more like he wanted to start his own practice and get out of his contract. George thought it over and the more he thought about it. The more it changed the things had heard from other employees in the past. I started thinking about all of the other nurse practitioners or doctors. That would say things like. We shouldn't have given this medication to patient in saying you know. I'm not comfortable with this care plan. And then i began to think maybe some of what he's saying is true. George started poking around. He took a stack of medical records to his office and then he thought that might make him look suspicious so he put them back. He made a spreadsheet with all. The patient's doctor fought had seen from the last year and noted how many of them received treatment as a result and what i saw with the other physicians every ten patients that they saw in consultation maybe two or three would get treatment but with dr fata out of ten patients between eighty and ninety percent basis. We're getting some form of treatment. So if you're seeing dr fata you're getting. It certainly seemed suspicious but he needed a second opinion. He called up an attorney. He knew he said george. The sounds very serious but you have to have strong proof. You're going against doctor. Who is very prominent and this could be easily refuted so if you happen to run into more information that corroborates dr monthly or anyone else. Then call me again and then we'll talk about it. George was stuck. He didn't wanna search too much in the computer records because that would create a paper trail with the right evidence. Perhaps something could be done. George is needed to know where to look again. Dr mongolia and george disagree about the details of their conversations but in one they talked about a key treatment. Dr fata was using inappropriately. It was called i. V. i. g. as it happened there was one more person who was also getting suspicious of dr fata. It was almost like the accuses ring to get into. Talked him to get any information from him and it was like getting thrown into a movie where you're just if they and what. What is going on here. Mary sitter 'let had worked for dr fata. Since the winter of two thousand ten. Like george she knew place had its quirks. There were the chaotic patient loads. She already thought. Dr fata was seeing so many patients that he couldn't keep up. I went in with a patient of mine that i was very close to and she was trying to get clarification on her plan of care and he was nodding off. Dr fata. did this. Many times often spent only two to three minutes with each patient but this time the patient was sympathetic to him. She felt for him. Say he's just exhausted. And i said well been waiting for this appointment for the last four and a half weeks and getting sick from chemotherapy so i think he deserves somebody not to fall asleep when you're talking about your care. Michigan hematology oncology wasn't an ideal place to work by any means but mary didn't have a ton of options. She was a single mom of a young son. And the commute was much more manageable than her last job. So she put up with dr fata. I felt of trapped. Plus i wasn't allowed to move more than one hundred miles away from my ex-husband dude of the law. That time so i was stuck basically just trying to do what was best for my child. Mary is the type who gets fired up rather quickly when she sees something wrong though she had never had to question a doctor before so when she began to grow. Suspicious of dr fatah's care she wanted answers. It started when the way he did chemo to seemed off. She suspected that he wasn't following protocol. That he wasn't calculating the doses by the patient's height and weight a few times. She press doctor fata on this and he always had an explanation. he would just say to european protocol. I can choose the doses that i want but you know he's the doctor he's the last say i mean. I'm not gonna dosen chemo. That's not my license

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Dr. Death

07:54 min | 8 months ago

"dr" Discussed on Dr. Death

"No. I want you to get it. George didn't ask any more questions and began looking for a doctor around this time. George says he also had a couple of conversations with dr mangare. Dr mongla remembers these conversations differently but according to george dr mangare told him he was leaving. Can you tell me why any he points up at the ceiling. And he whispers to me cameras. Dr mongla and george found a more private placed a talk. He told ort he got another job out of state but george was not prepared for what else he heard. Dr fatah has been doing some things that you wouldn't believe. He has been administering chemotherapy to patients without need. It was taking patients off of hospice and putting the mountain chemotherapy and that he was taking patients without disease and giving them chemotherapy though the very last day of life. And i'm suggesting that you go you leave now if you can. Did this mean dr fata was doing this to all his patients his practice had been opened for nearly eight years. What about those patients who had come and gone. What about those patients who had died we get support from splat hair-color if you're looking to switch things up in a bold way transform your look with splat splat is vegan cruelty free hair-color maiden southern california and it comes in over fifty semi permanent and temporary shades. That will transform your look in just minutes with splat hair colour. The possibilities for self expression are endless. Get bold lasting color with splat complete kits in pink fetish tantalizing teal and lusty lavender or take a walk on the dark side with the midnights collection for bold velvety color. Perfect for brunettes cat. One of our ad producers here at wondering just colored her hair with splits ten. Wash color peach fuzz. She said it was super easy to do. And she's gotten tons of compliments on her. Bold color splat is available at walmart walgreens. Cvs rite aid and splat. Hair-color dot com. Be everything you wanna be be you. Michelle mannarino is an interior designer clarkston michigan. For nearly her entire life. She lived within a half hour of her mother. Everyone likes to think they had the best mother in the world. I truly had the most amazing mother. In two thousand nine michelle's mother. Joan donohue was an active seventy five year old. She worked fulltime actually at our parish. Taking care of the priest and all of the needs that he had she cooked cleaned did laundry wrapped a gift for the pope. Then in late. September joan got sick. My mother had been a breast cancer survivor but had passed the five year mark and we thought that was all in our rear view mirror right away. Jones started seeing dr fata. Who told her her breast cancer was back and had spread to her brain. He prescribed three months of chemotherapy and then they would reevaluate. Joan had reservations about the chemo. She remembered what it was like the first time around. It's a treatment where you can leave feeling worse than when you came in you can lose your hair. It can affect every aspect of your life. She had always been very much into natural healings and felt that with cancer. There was a lot of greed in the poll cancer industry. She chose to do the chemo. She also saw a radiologist to treat the tumor in her brain and after three months her cancer was in remission but dr fata said she would need to stay on the chemo. He said no no. You're you're a miracle how you've responded so well to your treatment but it's a very aggressive cancer and unless you take three more months it could come back and if it comes back it will come back that much stronger and it will kill you. This time. The news that she would have to keep enduring chemo even after her cancer went into remission. Crushed gentlemen michelle tried to console her mother at the very least they felt like the worst was behind them. If three more months could keep the cancer at bay once and for all then it would be worth it. A few months later jones lungs started to fill with fluid. She was having a hard time breathing and ended up in the hospital there. Michelle started doing some research about the drugs that joan was taking and learned that a side effect of one of them was congestive heart failure. Her father had died of congestive heart failure and had developed fluid in his lungs to buy jones. Next appointment with dr fata. They were hopeful that she could finally be done with the chemo but now the fluid in her lungs was causing complications and dr fata now tells us that there were live cancer cells in the fluid that was drained from her lungs. So she is going to have to continue chemotherapy for another three months and that did not go over well. My mom really broke down crying then. Michelle spoke up. She told him that should been doing some research on her own and she thought that there was one drug had been giving her mom for much longer than called for could lead to congestive heart failure and he looked at me and he said oh. Are you in the medical profession. I said no. I'm an interior decorator. He said oh well remember. I did do my elo ship at sloan kettering. Certainly you're not questioning. Where did you your information from. And i said on the internet so all of a sudden i look like the idiot who picks out throw pillows for a living and i am questioning the renowned oncologist on whether or not there were actual life cancer cells in the fluid that they removed. Michelle wanted to see the report. But dr fata didn't have it. He began comforting jones. Saying i know how difficult this is on you. But he made it clear to her that her cancer was aggressive. Each of these appointments with dr fata brought worse news. I was going to be three months six months now. She's nine months and you're saying she has to stay on this and he said i'm afraid to tell you. I think your mother will have to stay on this for her whole life to live at which point we were like michelle was beginning to wonder if her mother even still had cancer. She wanted a second opinion but it was taking too long to get in with another doctor. In august. two thousand ten jones lungs began filling with fluid again. Michelle met with the surgeon who would be draining her mother's lungs and ask him to look at the fluid to see if he found live cancer cells. He agreed but when michelle contacted him for the results. He apologized and said that he'd misplaced them. I was like oh my god. Can we catch a break on this or not here. I thought i had kinda worked out. Kind of a foolproof way to find out if indeed what he was saying about.

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Dr. Death

04:24 min | 8 months ago

"dr" Discussed on Dr. Death

"Four months later in september of two thousand eleven. Dr fatah's practice hired a new office manager. George karachay. i was born in detroit <hes>. Living near <hes>. Actually motown on west grand boulevard. George was in his early fifties tall with dark hair and glasses. He had worked in healthcare for more than thirty years and from an early age health. Care was very important to him. He used to play on this on the lawn of henry ford hospital when i was a kid and i often wondered what was inside. What did they do their before. He's interview hit. Never heard of doctor fata but of course he knew all about crittenden hospital. Where dr fata sent his patients. It had a reputation for serving posh clientele. George was honored to accept. Dr fatah's offer. The scale of the office was bigger than anything managed before he knew that a lot was expected of him but he was excited to be part of it. All the position was a rare. Find a six figure salary which is a lot for an office manager great healthcare coverage a twenty minute commute for his first day at his new job. He left his house early enough to leave. Plenty of time to get settled. My best sudan and is dr fodder said you know. We're very formal here. And so i. I remember driving to the clinic and i saw it for the first time on the outside nasa site to see it was grand on the outside with its covered. Porch and windows on the outside michigan. Hematology oncology didn't look much like a healthcare center it look like some sort of ski lodge some some resort. You see on side of a mountain where the rich and famous went to doing their winters. So i like this is incredible. The parking lot was already packed with cars when he made his way to the front of the building. I opened the door. And i was just in. Awe was on in so many different levels. The opulence of the center fifty foot ceilings grand piano artwork on the walls. Something that you would normally see at the detroit institute of arts. The soft lighting. The waiting rooms at were filled with fine furniture. It all looked more like the lobby of a swanky hotel. It was supposed to be the jewel of crittenden hospitals outpatient center and it really was. He looked around at the staff doctors nurses from other hospitals and universities all and crisply iron uniforms for marketable. George thought to see so many people from different disciplines all there to care for patients. Though george was new to the field of oncology. he wasn't a stranger to cancer. My own mother was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer. And i was taking care of her. While i was working for dr fata so i know what it's like to be given that news in a patient's room and to go through the caretaking of a patient and i really believed in the field of oncology and hematology as he was looking around taking it all in jordan started to feel a bit nervous. I day jitters. But he realized that he too got to be part of this impressive operation working alongside folks that were saving lives. I closed my eyes. And i said to myself remember this day. Remember this day right away. He was put to work meeting. The staff getting to know the equipment around dr fatah's four clinics the infusion room where patients received chemotherapy was a sight to see. It was like a parking lot for chemo. Chairs kema chairs and rooms cumin chairs in the you had single a chairs you had once in a group with four and time. It was far as the eye could see. Saw the sea of chemo chairs. The waiting room stayed filled with at least thirty patients at a time. Busy was an understatement. Barber shop where one person is in a chair and then sweep off. The air and the next person would get in a chair. There was never a moment where that chair wasn't being used and running and humming and the equipment and spies all had to be there or else machine. I called it would start to break down.

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Dr. Death

05:10 min | 8 months ago

"dr" Discussed on Dr. Death

"Patty hester is a petite woman with straight blond hair and blue eyes. She's lived in clarkston michigan a suburb of detroit. Nearly her entire life and she's a fitness junkie. My father was a jackie. I'm very healthy and live to be eighty four so i i'd always been into fitness and health. We ran racism. Road bikes like mile. Trips and i played softball. I played hockey in two thousand nine. Patty was working as an emergency room technician. She monitored patient's vitals the thing she saw the er were enough to keep her motivated to take care of ourselves but then something happened to her. That inspired her to become a fitness instructor. Her mom was in a car accident and because she had a congestive heart failure. My mom was in a coma for from january. Fifth until june ninth. Patty and her family were very close almost daily. She stayed at her mother's bedside praying. She would recover. I looked at my mom and him. I was so tired of sickness that it was like and wanted something. That was life giving a new then beyond anything that i had to pursue <unk>. That is where my drive really kicked to become a trainer. Because i just could not bear the thought of someone being long-term l. i. us sick and i don't want that for myself either. So at age fifty five. Patty began studying to become a fitness instructor a few months into her studies. Patty got pneumonia. Her doctor did some blood work. And a few of the tests were concerning she suggested that patty see hematologist a physician who specializes in blood conditions. The haematologist petty really wanted to see out of the country so she did some research and found one who looked pretty promising. My internal medicine doctors that you know. Hey i set my mom to him. He's world renowned dot. They're freed fighter. Sloan kettering graduate your choice patty but i would go to him if her thirty years. Working in healthcare had taught her anything. It was to be extra sure that this doctor farid fata was legit. She read all the reviews. She could find. She asked around about him at the hospital she worked at. She called it bernice. Who's an internal medicine doctor in saint louis who said she'd heard good things. There is nothing nothing to ever question that this person was anything. But like oh wow. You're lucky to get into see this person. So in late february two thousand ten. Patty went to see dr fata at his practice. Michigan hematology oncology. She arrived late in the afternoon and almost every seat in the waiting room was full. She took a seat and began filling out her paperwork. A big screen. Tv in the waiting area played an ad for dr fatah's charity swan for life. This video about the story of this patience has an making this wooden swan in holding up and telling the story how you know his patient who who had passed away. Her husband carved this for him. It the whole thing wrapped around donating money but it played over and over again when you're waiting for an appointment. How long can you watch this. After half an hour patty got up and approached the woman at the front desk. I said. can you please change. A channel in the employees all spoke in a whisper. I really didn't understand that one either. Because i worked in the medical field and you whisper of confidential. But she said no. I can't i can't change the channel confused. Patty turned to go back to her seat after a forty five minute wait. Chief finally got into an exam room. <hes> an in his room. There's the <hes>. Top tack framed pictures of him. Now top dak sway talked. It was another half hour. Wait before. Dr fata appeared. He entered the room in a white lab coat over a shirt and tie he was short. Have very round face. He introduced himself. He was very very soft. Spoken almost to the fat that it was a whisper. He was reaching out. His hand turned to be very personable and would lean in. And hey you know while patricia. You're in the right place. Patty wasn't sure what to expect but she didn't wanna miss anything in case he did have surprising news for her. She came prepared really prepared. In fact i had a little <hes>. Recording device in my pocket. And i told him i said i'm recording our conversation in case i don't catch it all. So could you speak up. And he said oh. You don't need that you know i'll give you all your lab results and you'll get all this stuff and i just liked to do that. He

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Dr. Drew Podcast

04:47 min | 1 year ago

"dr" Discussed on Dr. Drew Podcast

"And that's what. I think that that is what the job well listen to me anyway. But I that's sometimes is all it takes to solve. A problem is is to be fully lear and lists. We talked about this before it. You know we talked about it than I. Second Street Y.. which is it's fully president? Aware listening with your whole body. uh-huh I remember. I was kind of talking. Well we were talking about porridges die where he talks about how you sent me the article or Gary Hart artem. Here's your ears will adjust jess to the person you love. It's it's the obstacles it's the tiny bones in your ear have to muscles. Attached them in the muscle will adjust so he can get the tone on the property of say. Mom It will tune into Lyrica Tuning in sort of a mechanism and it's connected to our vegas nerve and our nerve is the main outflow from our heart Interest it's fascinating. Your body is this gigantic instrument and we have all these huge plexus of nerves in our gut and our chest and abdomen that we don't know what they're processing they don't know how they they work but we do know a lot of information's coming back And so when you get a feeling a gut feeling or my heart hurts. That's really happening. Yeah that's what that's for feelings feelings come from your body and they are processed in your brain and they are reflected and things in your brain but the real experiences in your body and you can listen with your body. I mean in our Western society eighty. We always sort of chop off our heads from us. Audio cards. Error is is is but you should know that. Now they really the conversation conversation is about the embedded brain. No thank you for man's planning again great band. I'm saying my field data bust your balls. I recognized yeah. But but but that in the in the field of the the the move it's moved to the embedded brain and in the brain is not just embedded in a body. Right right it's embedded with a spinal cord it's better body the body's embedded in a environment and better than a society in an interpersonal context. And so this embedded nece it they take heidegger to his whole. Philosophy was about being in the world that they were sort of a fundamental inability inextricably of being and being in the world. You're born into the world. He called throwing this. You're thrown into the world. You're not floating inspe- even that's being in an environment and You cannot extract the person from the environment in a meaningful way fully. The complexity is amazing. Right you really think yes. Yes we usually don't think about in terms it's now now now Gary you've sat through how many Sean Carroll interviews at at least two or three yeah do you understand why did that his stuff and really interest me as the next layer on this so we're talking about existing as beings in the world in space time in Sean tells the episodes those went win finished talking. is talking about the fact that there's something more fundamental than space in time our space time And that we're all part of were probably more emergent properties of some wave function. That is mine. TASTIC HOT FOR I. Listen I listen to Sean Sean. Carroll he's a Caltech professor and I got his podcast which is called mindscape and I dragged me. Okay let's have at it. So what numbers. Three eighty nine and four zero three and there may be another one coming out soon. Arizona's email them to Dr. Very all. Right listen you said at all I love you I love you love you this except what accepted I accept. EMC ACC access. I accepted except for Dad. Except for you're looking at your phone all the time I get enough of that home. Trust me but here we are so privileged again. Thank you thank you for the New York trip. I really the enjoyed that whole experience. Yeah it was great and even the whole challenge of the classroom and stuff like that everything about it was fun and good and I think and I think ever in that room had an experience. Yeah and I thought that was Kinda cool. Thank you for saying yes anytime. You don't say no Judicata tatum. Marriage and divorce or time. Travel to turn All right but again always a privilege. Checkout.

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Dr. Drew Podcast

06:25 min | 1 year ago

"dr" Discussed on Dr. Drew Podcast

"I guess I don't like the word founding because it's not doesn't make sense but virology discovered the field of virology in its lobby rule. No Hopkins Soya and he was there sitting chair. I think we're like thirty years or something like that and that is very true. So so what you're saying very similar about they're sort of this bellboy built in a way. Yeah grandiosity in Jerusalem. I remember this and I I I witnessed. We reported this back in those days A physician come do take care of his daughter in a hospital pulling insisting under her pelvic exam himself. Okay because he wouldn't dare have another person toucher. Yeah that wasn't that's kind of crazy. Yeah I just do for sure Tarver seventies yeah so. Are You saying that your dad had this happening that he not yet boundaries because he would take care of family and stuff like that but but he was taking care of my mother in some way and keeping her glued together. It's not good codependent. It's good penalty. Yeah then that too and And then I would you know for sure if he knew what I was absorbed. He wasn't aware that or hobby. Never got exposed to what I what I was supposed to always and my sister thinks I'm just an evil person for being mean my mom for talking for in the other other than glowing way I absorbed all time you can have. You can have complex. Thought could have more than one feeling. You can love someone very mature. Sure memories to in whatever it was that was my experience and so it was like I said I remember the that kind of screaming and yelling that I'd never overseen except in a psychiatric hospital interesting. Do you think that's why you got into the field you're GONNA do. Well I think the it's it's hard to say but in the Adolescent I got interested in adolescent health. Which is what love line was all about because when I was in college at Nineteen I started having panic attacks? Ax and depression really daily panic attacks and I was mismanaged completely for a couple of years and it was suffering and that because there was there was no adolescent health. Didn't exist then there was no experts in the field. No nothing I I remember. I went down to the collegiate as small college New England. I went down to the health center. Something's wrong with me and the doctor looks at me. Some old retired physician was giving his time to the college. You know a couple of days a week looks goes to get your shit together. Take walks in the woods. Just take long walks. I was like if that that would do it. I of course I do that. He can my shit together happily. I I was disabled with panic and depression. Totally mismanage and I thought I'd never want anybody else to through that in their adolescence. They're should be there's there's and clearly even as a LS myself nineteen years old. I could see their unique needs that just nobody was there to me. I love to hear stories about people who get into their field. We're really and they're able to be honest about themselves. You know this happened to me. I want to make sure it doesn't happen again. Like it and I the the psyche getting involved. This addiction medicine was a total fluke and even the psychiatric stuff was kind of a flu. I've just moonlighting during our medical residency and just got more interested in it. I wouldn't say it had the same kind of Dr That adolescent thing did that then really was like I don't everybody goes through that anymore. They there's got to be and the field developed. I thought I want to be part of that. That's an that's an amazing story. I've never heard that before that one before from you know saying listen to your podcast. All the time just never heard that one shooter so and so so anything like that for you I I fell at a very early age. I was this given the flag to problem solve and I think that I grew family. Yes so I think that I Someone the hero someone gives you a flag and you can either take it or not. I don't know but there's different roles that people are calls. I mean families no it it was all done with straight line. We also hero to the family. Come I think that you know the name Venus so so like going back to the name. We've come full circle so we have like. Victoria's the oldest Catherine Danielle Matthew and I'm the second oldest and Venus so in a way it it kind of sets up that you have to be doing something. Why are you on your phone? You're not even listening. I am listening to you because somebody takes me. I'm interviewing yields. Somebody texted W I had to respond fucked up listeners. Just want you to know that. He's on this about him all the time every day. But if I look at my phone he has a Shit Fatso also really oil. While we're going to ship it but I'll call you on it Do you want to hear. The story is okay so at the end of the day I just would. We would sit on the stoop all of our houses connected because we lived in a row homes and it would listen to the women talk about these problems as if they were unsolvable they would talk about these issues and I remember this very young age. I must've been four or five years old. When I was laying? Condom from just relational problems. Money problems but it wasn't and I was obviously as I got got older. I was able to be like. Oh this isn't about that. This is about this but I I never really said anything I just was like these. Problems are solvable. We can solve scar cool and silver. I am and that's really how I got into it like this. This is we can do this. You know and I I really do believe in. I don't think people need more psychologists I think people need more community and friends with you and I and we have you. Did you have come along at a time. When the the cognitive revolution has occurred too so you can can help them solve their problems as community in France They don't need psychologist so I I think that that was my early lesson in like okay. What what am I gonNa do with my life and so I started doing that as a very young age and probably badly and so I decided to do it as a as an older adult? Come to me with Steph too and I think about it in college particular but I I was not the right person. That'd be a good listener. Always well that's.

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03:31 min | 1 year ago

"dr" Discussed on Dr. Drew Podcast

"Couldn't believe. Have you actually done it. I was like Holy Shit. He we were in the kids quick to. He's so nice really is do you have trouble saying no. Oh Oh yeah yeah I would have said no to say no I thought about how guilty and came back stopping ever seen no however it manifest different kind of time horizons to it. I was at the newer craigslist. Tell you why I liked it because you took care of everything for me. Tribe tried. Yeah so it made it. He made it very easy. That was nice and and it was funny and fun to get to know his family and what they were looking at stuff and think about it. So it's as far as good. You also mentioned something. The last time I was here about codependency and really loved what you said that people love. It is co dependent which is true but I think I was probably talking about enmesh not a measurement so much as fusion That that real intense love a fusion. Right you lose your bowed or you lose your body boundaries you lose your emotional boundaries with that other person but to be able to do hit and still be yourself and be able to move in and out of it lexa bleed easily That's where it becomes the difference between health and not health some people the boundaries stabler. Stabler it all the time. That's very common And that's that's where the co-dependency becomes. Would you describe yourself thought I because he knows Judy Likud officiating. What's getting better at saying? No you getting better when you get older guesses just like kids really. I agree with you just older. And you're like you almost don't have the emotional. You can't please everybody what it's I'm just laughing at myself thinking about. Why one of the things that makes it easier for me is I have have? I had an insane memory when I was throughout my life. Like like like I can remember might the the furniture my room and I was on the wall when I was under two years of age and it was just I just had this crazy memberthon. That's kind of faded so I can say no and not keep thinking about Forget that is true because I would be this. I'm this well. I'm getting better at not ruminating over things as much where I did before Trauma in your because usually that's what set your story off. Yes it does not rehearsing things and you who grew up in trauma to similar you know my mother was a traumatic traumatizing and in what way like emotionally emotionally abusive yelling yelling yelling. I would say that I had never heard yelling like that until I spent time in the locked unit of the psychiatric Patrick Hospital as a as a caretaker. I would occasionally hear people yelling like that. No that's that's suffering from something but my dad was a physician and covered hovered and made sure it didn't get out or who knows what the hell they were doing. Whatever that that generation of physicians had been bad boundaries horrible boundaries? They took it on family members. They didn't they just terrible. My husband's father Was Dr Richard Johnson and he he is one of the.

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04:12 min | 1 year ago

"dr" Discussed on Dr. Drew Podcast

"And then I I I just saw her from across across the room and I knew that she would be my life. I just knew it that I was gonNA spend the resume with our men experience that phenomenon on like ten to one over women. Okay so that is true. 'cause I tell the story this way I looked across the room and I said I'm GONNA I can't wait to fuck him. This is going to be amazing. Think we tell the story very differently For for men I talked to another anthropologist who had studied this and she said because she was studying love at first sight and she felt men way more than women have experienced that and she said but really what she's finding is that it was lust at first sight. That worked out that it goes down to the memory. So you're you're actually. Maybe you had the same experience Roy Moore honest about it. Can't fuck his brains out. This is going to be great. Yeah so that's how how we met and You know it was. It's it's interesting because I always described when you meet someone like let's say you're in an airport and I have a red suitcase and that other person red suitcase and you're like Oh my God you have a case taste whiskey. I on this plane together. We would fly somewhere and so you then get into a relationship and you're flying you know wherever you're going across the world and then you're just a nation happens and you open. Put up the luggage and begin to take out all of your baggage and all different. When it's all you know what I mean so I always say that like I? I feel like my husband and my baggage Mesh. You know what I mean like twenty. He would kill me for this. Yeah he's the counter. No Twenty seven twenty two twenty three and so I would argue that scripts people say you know the similar script Yup similar is that you expect marriage similar likes similar to be married. I never wanted to be married or have kids. They were the two best decisions I I never made. He made them. He is a great family. Person and key makes good family choices. I just didn't want to be. I just never saw that for myself after mm-hmm yes yes I was like. Why can't we just live like Goldie Hawn and Kurt Russell like? Why can't we do that? He said well when you have kids. It's a little bit different and Blah Blah Blah. None of that matters. I just sort of was afraid that maybe wouldn't be a good way for a good mother mother the end of the day. I was scared of I think that I watched my parents are still married but they were children when and they got married and my mother never went to high school My father's an auto mechanic they had been married for over fifty something years So Oh like it's well. Actually we see Lord Sicilian fiddler on the roof so I watched them grow up like my mother was sixteen sixteen and a half when she had me like fifteen when she had my sister. So it's a lot so I kind of looked at this and I'm like oh I don't want to have that Matt and I just didn't feel confident in the my my parent's relationship did not look happy to me. So you married then you die. Sort third hour you get married many get unhappy. That's the four motion the life look at how how did you. How did you overcome that? I had a shocking experience at the altar where I was like. Oh my God this is exactly where I want to be this fucking by the said anything bad about this relationship or marriage. Generally this is precisely where I wanna be and then we indicates pretty quick and that's just suggests that we were. We were overnight. You kind of have a little bit of this Gary Ya. We became parents but we were a weird thing. Where I was at the alternate was like fuck? That's Dr drew outstanding. Did their wedding brilliant. You ask for it. I.

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01:57 min | 1 year ago

"dr" Discussed on Dr. Drew Podcast

"Over the Thanksgiving holiday. Everyone who had a vagina was in the kitchen. No dicks were there. All the Vaginas were there and that too and I live in home. We're it's incredibly. You know I talk about this kind of thing all the time so my husband's husband's very aware would it have been uncomfortable for the women in the kitchen of a male suddenly join them. I think they would appreciate it. I don't think men know that and women even find men very sexy. who were who are taking part in household chores? And that's been shown a lot so I question question a lot of the research that has been done on women and men because most of that research is done by men so is functional right data. So I think that that you would love this book. It's called untroubled Wednesday Martin. She scored the functional. MRI data which is just some just numbers. It says no men or women men and women on the team that are that are evaluating the numbers of course But it absolutely mirrored. What I saw in every single room in every single part of the country for years and years and I think that's because women are conditioned that in order to have sex they have to feel emotional about it they have to? They'd been conditioned but it needs to be intimate. I don't necessarily early. No if that's actually true. I think it's conditioning so I mean you hear it when you talk to him privately and you're their private stories Sometimes sometimes they just want to have sex. They don't want to have a conversation they don't WanNa Talk Ra. They actually turned into what we perceived as masculine qualities so. I just think it's interesting around different different times. If in some different different around different people yeah for sure sure anyway if I find that ah the research. The newer research fascinating in terms of gender. And what what is true..

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Dr. Drew Podcast

11:22 min | 1 year ago

"dr" Discussed on Dr. Drew Podcast

"Gives her the raccoon. Were good yeah which is which is why your new book will be interesting. Fun knows how many crazy things most people get exactly goes back to what you were talking about really with your bad advice about sex. Sure a afraid need to talk about sex. Fill puritanical society that but it it dovetails into biology biological operation and people just can't get their head around the fact that their biological and so they still kind of magical thinking about biology and so they love folk tales and folk wisdom and folk whatever and so they they'd prefer that to you just basic biological studies major. I find deeply disturbing the ruin event. Could you say it's religion that's it that's all that's all in there right so morality religion and ethics human behavior and guilt. You get right down to it Symphonia for how did we get into this topic. But I'M GONNA go. which is that when you think about the history of the human being throughout human history history until about fifty years ago think about that? The entirety of the human experience throughout history until fifty years ago sex meant and pregnancy pregnancy meant death at least thirty percent of the time. If it didn't mean pregnancy and death it meant an S. T. D. and pelvic inflammatory clamato disease meant death Infection meant death. There was nothing that you'd get your anyway. Nothing nothing so everything about sex and you're a inherent and you know the power that drive and you know of this child gets going with it di- Not only we're GONNA have a child that our hands her for eighteen years this woman but this growth could dive scary scary gotta make it seem. Just him and weird. We'll give it weird names venereal disease as did name. We're we're the were they come up with that Venal Venal what's that venereal. Because we only in the modern era I started calling it sexually transmitted disease. So these are I really believe. That's where a lot of weird stuff that we have. Culturally is take care kits because we didn't know how to shape their behavior throughout much of history And the things that resulted from improper shaping of the behavior and we're really really dangerous. Yeah for most of human history got a loved one. You Mann's blamed things to me. You're so sexy thank you Venus. Which means I I knew that was then? I knew that was going to happen. I was hoping that he forgot about it. Dan at Gerry. He's always on it. Gary does not forget us me of not listening the Astros. Are you listening always listening. So that's I can't wait to get that book that's GonNa be good fun Are you gonNa like you like call together you and Emily Morris show. I'm going on her show next month actual gate when you go on. Ask for advice. Yeah Yeah exactly exactly so. That'll be fun to write And I I I loved the creative process of actually actually writing I'm able to my daughter right now. Oh do tell. It's about consent for young adolescents. Apparently it's great need huge need and We are trying to pull consent away from the medical legal jargon and out of the Hostel Camp Jargon and into into how do you just have empathic relations with good boundaries and though yourself and listen to the person and guess what if you do you'll be you'll make good choices you're good consent Sort of building it up that one thing. You're not drunk yet. There's no consent when you're I I. Would you know. I'm sorta hard core on that. Maybe maybe a glass Sawai but beyond that. I'm not sure we're talking about consent anymore. Because we're altered Seattle altered. It's like no. That's Yeah Yep you don't know that thou like like making it making it less hostile. Gather it's more relational. It's a lot of the stuff I look at. Yes it's exactly what it'd be relational in about healthy relations nations and less about on pest because yeah because so much of the literature authors. I'm pissed and we've kind of moved past that. I don't want to say that I do not. It was quote me on that. I'm not saying the this isn't necessarily a need and an important conversation but to remain just in these pissed zones not necessarily moving forward. Yeah it needed to be loud mid needed h fall in needed that and now it's like okay. How can we really deal with this issue? And it's GonNa stay angry for a long time because I'll tell you what I used to go around. I don't think I talked about any of this. And we were Nice. Second Street Y.. But I used to go around and give talks colleges and I was just always challenging the hookup culture thing because there was all this data that showed women were very unhappy unhappy with it that they perceive their social choices in college. Life throughout the land as random. Hook up Friends with benefits. It's or There was one o- or a boyfriend girlfriend That's it those your three choices. Nothing else and they were very unsatisfied with all all the choices but the organizing experience was hooking up and so I said well of hooking up so an end the one piece of data that was omnipresent was when somebody engaged in a random hook up there always loaded one hundred percent So my question the audience would always be. That's the organizing experience of your college college life. Why don't you fucked up to man? Why do you have to fight up gary wine? College fucked up to go to a hookah. Random hookup confidence. Do you mean another other words for that. That's what I always hear. Things like this but inhibited produce rings. I'd turn yeah. It's really really want to do this. But Man Matt a tall order. I can hurt somebody hurt myself. I could is anxiety reject anxious. There's also the social factor that we just talking about a random hookup. God like thank. You would be seen for women as well so so. That's God's whatever so the men but they do not worry. They're concerned was this is a taller. Makes me anxious and I'll l. call ups helps me deal so I would always give to give them to talk first and then we'll go okay. Ladies you've heard the men all of them what are you. What are you drinking for? Silence silence not a hand. Goes up now. The hand goes up eventually and goes beer goggles right. Okay got it on your good luck. Burger got it but still room with silence and inevitably right in the front third audiences always distribute themselves in really interesting way. It's always the front third there in the center of the room. Always any sense Gary I guess what I would hear grow would always have very coyly go. I don't know if it'd be the first thing but I would. To of DOC review was saying earlier about how you can be perceived. That's a bit of a get a job. You get a little bit of that sometimes. Sometimes get some women going. Oh I can blame the the blame of Vigo. Did I hear that he the guys they need something to blame some white. Why do you have been blamed something against silence? They don't WanNa talk. They're all ashamed. And and then we'll go goes. I make sure I drink so when this thing happens. I don't have any feelings every room I've ever spoken to throughout the country. That comes at me within about three minutes of asking the women in the room they answer is that's devastating. That's sad it is. Yeah and I'd be pissed if I woke up from that now which I think what's happening right. So they're like what I've been putting up with putting up essentially with rape because I at my of course their past. Yeah of course and so. I didn't know I used to try to bring it out and we could. Do you know what would be better. And then the same same. So I'd I'd go guys this familiar there now. The guys go silent like this is stunning information and I go so ladies. What could we if we had a clean slate? I could create a social order. That was to your liking what would I do. I just have infant powers. I can do it now and again. Silence then one hand goes up our wished guy with just sit and listen to talk with me talking to a Saxon you talking about always and then the chorus would come in. Yes they would assume. Listen listen to talk and exchange and I would just point out to them I go yes. We used to call that a date. It's called date so you would like to date. You would like to uh-huh and I go. How about you split a meal crazy? Talk Crazy and then I would point out to them all this. Fm I research that shows that males ails you. Can you activate appetite appetite of desire with visual imagery. They want what they say doesn't work that way with about eighty nine women women. You activate appetite appetites desires with intimate conversation. Well I just want to tell you that there is an amazing book that you would love. And it's by Dr Wednesday today Martin and it's called untrue and it it debunks all of this shitty research done on Really Gender relations about what women want about what men want One of those is that Men Are not as monogamous is women which is not true actually women want want novelty. Yes women wind Too many one partner in need of repair like marriage is an institution made by Chinaman forming it works for men and historically true. I'm not sure that's true that's true. Well that's apologised Lionel Tiger Woods who is a famous mischaracterize anthropologists would say no. That's that's to keep you around to provide while they need the safety of child rearing phenomenon. He's a man it's vulnerability ability but marriage ultimately is an institution made by men for men for men to the extent that men were charged. That necessarily true yes so so on. Every quality of life measure men's Quality Blake when they're married goes up they have more sex in their single counterparts They get paid more more They're just happier. They live longer for women. It's the exact opposite so I think today some of the issues that is challenging alleging in twenty twenty soon to be is how do we make marriage appealing for women. Because I can't tell you drew. How many times? I hear a woman tell me that she's working full-time she's doing the laundry. She's taking care of the kids. She's doing the shopping she's doing everything of America should be doing that letter. Settle Too. Well I mean there are when you're living with someone. There needs to be the point that I'm getting at. Is that under the house. There is still huge. Ism Man that sexism where and I noticed it. I live in incredibly liberal house. Okay my my. My husband is amazing but I took notice that.

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10:31 min | 1 year ago

"dr" Discussed on Dr. Drew Podcast

"Don't forget the after dark there. You might like that Gary. I just signed you to watch their Robert Paul Champagne series and at the home visit. I do to him well that I make on his behalf and one of the more dramatic experience that I've been through. I think you need to vote on that I I. I was actually just googling him in the first things that come up are deeply concerning for those of you that are why maitree mom's house fans. He's the tried out guy and I went and visited his home and it was quite enlightening and bring cameras and we'll check it out Tried out you got to see the real thing Also set setup. You don't want a doctor DOT TV streaming show every week where you can interact and we send out a blast me go live with that and it's been pretty cool interesting show on multiple platforms zone. Whatever you're watching it and we will be there on those afternoons where we do those shows for a couple of hours? It's my privilege to welcome Dr. Venus Nichelino back to the show. Welcome DR V. Thank you for having me and you you said. That's how eloquently. I have a lot of people choke over all the vowels Ravioli. And that name bordering on Hawaiian all right. I mean I like it. I'll take it continents and they made that exactly down kept the V.. In the Noor and those are very very powerful continents. Yes so how his marriage boot camp going It's going We actually have our Finale I believe next next Friday. Thank you thank you for that. Thank you thank you for that. So yeah it's it's it's going I mean it's it was an interesting season as as you know. I always say that you and I live in the same house but you live in the house I live in the garage. You do the more fun stuff and maybe even slightly more legitimate but hey can help your marriage. A- sure you have plenty we do we do for sure for sure. So yeah that's good I. It's been a it's been. How many seasons so the show has been on the air for thirteen seasons? Which is insane I think about it? I have done a housecall with doing addiction. House spell rainy intervention on somebody half of them yes actually a lot I know and then the way reality works. is they carefully. Hide that when you deal with it or or offer later. Whenever it's part of the story are well? You had said it so eloquently the last time I was here which was The production of those shows and what the doctors are on their to-do are consistently running In opposite directions so I find that really stuck with me because I couldn't really figure out what exactly is it. That at times causes me to feel like incredibly uncomfortable uncomfortable. It's so uncomfortable. Yeah yeah because they are undermining. You're you're there because obviously you know people love to see conflict. Navy is boring boring boring to being healthy as boring so I feel healing you on that in a in a very real TV show scripted. Show unreal. I heard of it so I assigned Gary some viewing you. I'm assigning I knew. Just the first episode. You'll have to watch one episode and you'll get a feel for it right away. Yeah and you will be able to recognize many of your staff on that. They're actually actually people represented on the show from your staff heard. I heard that that is the case. It's very even though it's scripted. It's true it's very accurate. Exactly goes a little over the top but but the the basics of it are quite accurate. Yeah yeah so I I always remembered that are our goals are running an opposite direction action right and and you couldn't and that can be okay to appoint right you can just you gotta put certain lines in the sand for the production team and then you and then you on the other hand have to have faith in them that they know how to create things that people wanNA walk. It's across purposes. But but if you don't get is whatever you're trying into would you ever hope to get out get out anyway. So you have to figure out a way to navigate it where you can keep it safe. Do what you need to do them. I am not totally damage your patients and still get maybe they want and even now you bring up a good point about addiction. oftentimes we don't show that I know I. It's I find that fascinating that it's really a topic that people want to stay. Stay away from me come help you yes. I'll just be a Scottish swing swing by just or even do a little lecture about addiction or something and respond to that and then you can go deal with with them once they start spinning seeing them so down for that anything like that thrill. Dr Drew Happy to do it. By the way you can find Dr vs website. It talked to do the number two D. R. V. Doctor and then Dr Underscore V. Underscore tweet is the twitter handle. Is that a new twitter handle. No that's the same but I'm so so impressed with your ability to sail because I don't know people are like what are your interests. I have no clue. Wait cursor fucking awesome. Thanks man so. So what's what's ahead for you. What do you think we're thinking about well? I I love the fact that you're brainstorming coming on the show but what I WANNA do is with my book. The word ice okay. The one Gary was in New York City the Ninety Second Street y Yeah Presentation Yeah it was so let me tell you what would have happened. So Gary Listening. Thank you So what ends up happening is I asked drew to do me a solid and come and talk with me or interview me at the ninety. Second Second Street Y.. Thinking that like I had the main stage like this is Harper Collins were dealing with like a real publishing company so drew says. Oh Oh yes. Of course the Great God. It's going to be so amazing. I'm proud to sing. I'm like thinking about what I'm going to say I'm thinking about it throughout the the I just wanted to go so well I've lay all the way out to New York City drew. Thank God there. we get there and we are in I swear to God the tiniest little classroom and there were people packed. It is eight was a classroom. I got the early show children in that classroom. Four orange blossom things just restate drew from the bottom of my heart. I love you because you made me feel. You helped me feel so good. Good guardless was happening around us vet so I just I would just a weird. They stuck in that low road. Fuck it anyway. It was so beautiful. I remember you were talking to A woman in the front row started crying. It was so powerful so beautiful so So bad advice how to survive and thrive in Asia. Bullshit that I would love to make that into a TV show of all the bags almost could be a moving all the bachelor dykes script. That's true but it also could be almost like I don't know if anybody watches doctors anymore but a better doctors where like you're talking about all the better base you get but then you're like dozen apple a day really keep the doctor away. You know that kind of go through some of the stuff that you talked about a a lot of interesting stuff in an advice. Well now. We'll give all the way we'll give it always but so for example there's one chapter called. You can't love anyone until until you love yourself. What a crock? Shit like and people repeat this horn over and over and by the way I just want to point out why. I think it's important that we stop saying this kind of BS. Because look there was at one point where we thought the world was flat so we revolved our allies run a flat world. We thought bloodletting would help people we thought lobotomies were good. Exactly there's this idea that theories matter how we think and how our worldview is affected by theories matter so if you believe you can't love anyone until you love yourself it's going to affect affect how you see yourself and how you see other people. So the book sets out to scientifically and biologically inform warn. People are these statements true and if they're not true why are they not true and what is really the good advice to that so without giving too much away of the book a little more because there's so many great in there so another one. I don't talk about this one that much I'm I'm I'm I'm glad of the opportunity. Honesty is the best policy. Is We Li- Fifty two times a day so while it might be the best policy. It's not the real policy rain. It's not the honest policy and little little tiny polite light lies make the world go round. You know what I mean just like if I were to tell them. It's great or even like your grandmother. Who gives you that fuzzy sweater every Christmas? You know this is so ugly. I can't stand that like you would never do. That was courtesy. So there's there's a difference between these polite polite. Let's say I don't even like the word lies. I don't even like the word white lies but there's just there's something about helping the world go around the courtesy sort of Greece for the wheel rain and I talk in the book. How people love to hide behind being truthful? I mean it's the worst. I'm just being honest. No you're not it'll be because I'm on it. Yeah no that's actually not true. Just mean you know what I mean. So and that that distance is like oceans apart between being mean and being honest right So people hide behind that so so that's one of my. It's later in the a book but it's a chapter that added because I heard someone saying during.

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Dr. Drew Podcast

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"dr" Discussed on Dr. Drew Podcast

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