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The Rich Roll Podcast
"cummings" Discussed on The Rich Roll Podcast
"That time. It was this. But it's more like, I don't want to bother you. So I said call me. You said I don't want to bother you. So now you're calling me a liar. You're saying that I just said something insincere. That's rude. You know what I'm saying? Yeah. So it's like when we really get to the bottom of codependent, I'm so worried about you. You're saying a couple things. Number one that I'm bad at my own time management, that I say things that I don't mean. And then I'm trying to manipulate you. You doing that was insulting to me. Right. Well, the other piece, at least from the alcoholic perspective in that context would be what your angle or what are you trying to get over on me or you're trying to, like there's a hitch here. 13 stepping on you. I'm waiting for to find out like, oh, you're actually trying to run a scam on. What I would say is good news bad news. The shoe dropped. I'm not going to fuck you over. You already fucked yourself over now. You know what I mean? What would I fuck you? Well, it's three DUIs. You don't have anything that I want. Dude, that's the thing. Why would I what? What do I get? That's the grandiosity of the newcomer, right? And then also you can get information just. So I think a lot of what this is about is just like slowing down the way that we talk and getting super granular with what your reaction is to something. So if I say to my sponsor, I sponsor female identifying people. I say call me any time. She says, I can't. I feel guilty. And I go, that's great information. That people were insincere with you growing up. Or they said one thing and meant another thing, or there were strings attached, or they over promised and under delivered, or they offered something, and then made you feel guilt when you actually took it. Right. Or they made you believe that their time was more valuable than yours. So let's start writing that up in your four step. What is the four step story about how? Because I think the key to all this is also knowing whether you do one meeting or doing all the time, like I do, you, on some level, believe that you're terminally unique. If you're like, I don't want to tell anyone that bad thing I did. Like, oh, you're the only person that stole a car. You think what you did was there's an arrogance to what I did was so bad. And then you get someone read your fourth step, which is you admitting all the crazy shit you've done, and there's a story that's like, yeah, and then I fucked this chicken, he's like, wasn't there a whole coop? You really fuck one of them? It just was sort of like, we've all done that. And I think it was Barry Michaels and who is the other therapist that wrote the tools, Phil studs. He talks about, he said it's so elegantly. Phil Scott, he was the big therapist, psychologist guy. Yeah. Being a Hollywood psychology. He was the guy that everyone wanted to get with. He's very hard. He's still around? Him and I'm sorry, him and Barry Michaels, who was sort of his protege, wrote that book called the tools. Which I highly recommend, there's some antidotes that I think your fan base would just find a little bit too simple for them. It's sort of they already know it. But there is some exercises that are incredible that they put together the deathbed exercise where you picture yourself on your deathbed. Like very vividly, it actually really helps put things in perspective. Right. The idea being that when you're going through a problem or you're having some kind of experience, fast forward to the deathbed and then reflect on whatever you're going through right now is this really important. I mean, I struggle with eating disorders for a very long time. I had a really profound experience when I was just like, oh my God. I would be so bummed if on my deathbed, I looked back and was like, you spent years of your life, like, counting calories. And driving around the city, buying sugar free protein bar. Like I just was like, my future so I'm not going to let that happen to my future self. I will not go down like that. And it's just something clicked. But when you're doing the work and you're asking for illuminating of your psyche and your inner monologue, I think that when something really simple hits you, it really can make a change in your brain real fast. Yeah. So control issues, people pleasing, boundaries, disordered eating, codependency, like it's a whole bag of tricks here. So, and you've done so much work, right? I'm interested in that idea of like the road is always getting narrower. Like, you never transcend all of this. So what's the thing that's coming up now? I love that. That's the thing that you're doing battle with. And can I just say really quick, just in terms of because what happens in vagueness stays in vagueness. And I think that it might be worth saying in these programs, you say, admitted to God or power greater than yourself, that you are powerless over blank. Powerless over alcohol, powerless over, cocaine. Palace over sex, powerless over porn, powerless over whatever the thing is that you're powerless over, where it's no longer a choice. And Al anon for me, it changed. In the beginning it started with, I was paulus over other people's behavior. I would obsess over other people's behavior. I would try to, why did he do that? Why did he say that? He doesn't like me, but how about you? Wait, a show I've said that I shouldn't have said. I mean, just constant content. And then I'm powerless over other people's
The Rich Roll Podcast
"cummings" Discussed on The Rich Roll Podcast
"So what was your breaking point with all of this? How did you get ushered into the rooms? I had a family member going to rehab, because also the wild thing probably very similar to work addiction is that codependence is incredibly rewarded. It is incredibly rewarded. You are so useful. I played sports really competitive competitively. I was always the first person to get there. The last person to leave, I was. Totally. Just mostly because you guys organized this wrong. You know, we think we're right about everything because we had an alcoholic coach who was less reliable to make it to mornings from practice. So I had the keys to the pool. And that is a form of trauma that most people wouldn't categorize under trauma, but it was like and I was proud. I was like, yeah, I'm reliable. I will be there. I will make sure that everybody gets in. And I have mornings from practice. Which goes, oh, the authority figure isn't reliable. I'm on my own. You know? So as soon as and that drives the control issues and the perfectionists. Because you have great data that you should have the keys. You know, that's the tricky part. Is it someone's like, your mother in your micromanaging? Well, you guys suck at this. There's also a tricky one because it's like, well, I am better at this than you are. Maybe not for the right reasons, but so then you get to a point where you just go, it's not about that. And then when you're leading 200 people, there's no time to act like that. And it turns out when you think that you're helping someone or helping them save time, you're just patronizing them and you're telling them, I don't trust that you can do this, so I'm gonna do it myself. But the guys is, oh, you don't want to do it for you. Oh, I got it. No, no, I got it. No worries. You go home. But you're really just saying, I don't like the way you do things. I'll just martyr myself and do it, and then start to hate you. I'm not even going to give you a chance, frankly. Right. You know, because we were proven wrong as a kid. It was very hard to trust other people to do things. I had a really brutal family member of mine went into rehab and I was there 24/7, did the intervention, bring in the nutri grain bars, bring in the athletic greens, just there every single day. What do you need? Can I get you a sweatshirt? Do you need new shoes? You comfort? I mean, I was just there all day every day. While I was doing two television shows, simultaneously. And someone pulled me
The Rich Roll Podcast
"cummings" Discussed on The Rich Roll Podcast
"And brag about yourself and get good at something. So I had confidence for a long time, so I would conflate it with self esteem because I'd be like, wait a second, how could I love self esteem? Really aggressively I'm the captain of my basketball team and I'm like performing and I'm in acting classes and I'm doing monologues and I'm clearly not shy, but in my personal life there was this very corroded soul, a very low self worth and if we want to talk about why we can. But something I have learned is that in the amount of time you complain about having low self esteem and the amount of time you complain about how low your self worth is, you could have done something to build your own self esteem or self worth. It's about building your own self esteem by engaging in estimable actions. So if you've looked at 15 memes today about love yourself, self worth, I mean, I think that there's a big confusion about how it's actually because it's a verb. It only shows up through taking action and really those actions generally need to be on behalf of the self. So you can develop that unconditional level of healthy self regard that isn't contingent upon how good of a performer you are, or you do it selflessly on behalf of another person. And through repetition of that type of behavior, where you get to a point where it's habitual, that's how you develop it over time. So I think the distinction between confidence and self esteem lies in confidence can be a limited specific skill based thing, like you have confidence as a performer, but how much of your decision to invest yourself in being a performer is really compensating for your low self esteem so you can wear it like a mask and feel confident in that regard, but when your head hits the pillow at night, you're like, yeah, I did that thing. But they probably could see through it or they know that I'm not worth anything or any like all of that starts to. But that's not your voice. Whose voice is that, you know? I think to me and I was just listening to your podcast about the long path mindset, right? Yeah. And it made me so I was just so excited because I've been on this uncovering family ancestry stuff. I inherited what guilt and shame isn't mine, what paranoia isn't mine, what anxiety is mind and isn't mine. And what did I inherit that's actually secretly an incredible gift that made me a superhero that I should stop complaining about and just alkalize it into money or whatever. And I think that once I switched that mindset of I didn't get this, I didn't get this. I only focus on what I did get because the other one didn't work for me very well. It did when I entered into a 12 step program and started doing the steps and writing out, I remember in the amends chapter where you write all the people you owe amends to. So in AA, usually looks something like I stole this guy's car, I got to apologize. I stole this guy's drugs. I have to apologize. I cheated on this girlfriend. I got to go to apologize. You know, ours are slightly different our imams. Our men's are usually no one owes me any apologies. Here are the ones. I don't owe anyone apologies. Here's who I think owes me an apology. Right. That's how we go into it. Well, alcoholics go into it with that mindset as well. The steps are a way of disabusing people of that idea. You're a victim. I got wronged by all these people. And you have to go through the steps to understand and identify how you participated in all of those things that went on. I got wronged by all these people, so I did the obvious thing and started to just wrong myself. Right. I just go to dependencies different because you're looking towards family ancestry. And when you're a child, obviously you don't have culpability for however you were treated. Totally. And then the way that basically a couple things that I think might just be helpful in terms of people saying, what is codependence? Because I think a lot of people think of it as like, oh, people who just spend a lot of time together. The guy and the girl who just won't stop hanging out. It's usually defined a couple ways that really help me. Number one, the inability to tolerate the discomfort of others. Or perceived discomfort of others, right? I never thought of myself as a codependent, but the more I learn about it, I was like, oh, I'm completely diagnosable as this, but keep going. Anyone who's not a psychopath has some level of codependence. And I think that one of the most powerful things that I did was really study history. That's a really cool thing when if you want to sort of get in touch with your understanding of what your addictions are, whether it's gambling, as we know, gambling doesn't always have to be with actual chips and money, shoplifting, what's that? And alcoholism also, it took me a second to understand 'cause I didn't see a lot of alcohol around me when I was a kid. 'cause it was all secret. It was furtive. It was in different, it was at a Diet Coke can. It was in a coffee cup and that wasn't really my experience. I would see my mom drink glasses of wine. I just thought we were rich. You know, I didn't understand what was happening. I just thought, like, oh, at 8 o'clock, you make dinner and pour a glass of wine and make sure she gets in bed. Okay. Life was going fine.
Sci-Fi Talk
Director Lisa Joy on Her Ambitious Film, Reminiscence
"Here's more with lisa joy on reminiscence and science fiction for me in order to form a connection with the audience. Your future is has to be as realistic as possible. You know as textured and tactile as possible. And even seven years ago. When i was first writing this it was clear that the oceans were rising. I didn't realize how precious it would turn out to be when the dams that we built on set to act as blockades to the waves literally look exactly like the wednesday. Are currently building miami to act as blockades to the waves but aside from the water aspects of it i really always loved art. Deco and the stretch of ocean drive in miami. It's so beautiful. And evocative and i think i wanted to carry that into the future and saying you know. Just because time passes doesn't mean everything becomes skyscraper. We tend to hold onto the things that we appreciate that we find beautiful same as we did with the memories. We appreciate and find beautiful. So i kept those classical buildings and just weathered them down the help of my credible production designer howard. Cummings to show how the world might look
FT Politics
British Troops Could Be Forced to Pull out of Afghanistan Prematurely
"Delighted to be joined by simone with kim. The former considered defense and foreign secretary in a week when the taliban shot the west with rapid advance of ghanistan. We'll be examining whether this sleeves. Uk foam policy. What does it mean for the so-called special relationship on what does it mean for the future of phone interventions so malcolm. Welcome to paint politics you very much. So obviously we're in the august period. Parliament has been recalled this week and we saw very spicy debate. How much of it did you catch him. What did you make the contributions to mp on this fake pressing issue of how the case ended up in this situation of being forced out of our ghanistan much quicker in a way if you really want to have to leave joel good but it seems to have been a very somber occasion not surprising and that's often when the hudson cummings is at its best when there are real issues everyone does something. Very bad has happened and you get members of parliament. Speaking very much from the hot. Tom tooken hatton particular biz to have moved the husselmann's unsurprising because he has both a military background in a strong good knowledge of foreign policy. Now if we look at what's happened over the past week that we know the us forces what going to withdraw themselves foam afghanistan by the end of august. And it's not a decision that the uk's being particularly happy with because we've heard from the defense secretary ben wallace who's made it quite clear that in fact. The uk export every other alternative. Do you think those ever realistically any alternative. Because in that house of commons debate. Lots of mp's of decried how we've abandoned afghanistan how we have no secured the gains that were made over the past twenty years but really. I'm not quite clear. What the alternative could have been. When i think you're bears are very important question. Because i think the really two issues running in parallel there was the more fundamental question. Should nato dictated. United states remained militarily in afghanistan indefinitely with the aspiration to ultimately defeat the
FT Politics
UK Troops Forced to Leave Kabul Prematurely
"I'm delighted to be joined by simone with kim. The former considered defense and foreign secretary in a week when the taliban shot the west with rapid advance of ghanistan. We'll be examining whether this sleeves. Uk foam policy. What does it mean for the so-called special relationship on what does it mean for the future of phone interventions so malcolm. Welcome to paint politics you very much. So obviously we're in the august period. Parliament has been recalled this week and we saw very spicy debate. How much of it did you catch him. What did you make the contributions to mp on this fake pressing issue of how the case ended up in this situation of being forced out of our ghanistan much quicker in a way if you really want to have to leave joel good but it seems to have been a very somber occasion not surprising and that's often when the hudson cummings is at its best when there are real issues everyone does something. Very bad has happened and you get members of parliament. Speaking very much from the hot. Tom tooken hatton particular biz to have moved the husselmann's unsurprising because he has both a military background in a strong good knowledge of foreign policy.
LadyGang
"cummings" Discussed on LadyGang
"It's called say vagina and it's like when when they were like. Do you want win. You're like yeah. Of course they're like she going gonna talk about say vagina. Where like we save a jonah. All the time and my mom's embarrassed when she listened to podcast that. Like i love this whole campaign so please. You're here to tell us about it and i think this is really important. This is a very interesting product. So give us a spiel. Yes it's look. I i'm really A brat with anyone that i'm gonna like partner with and this wasn't even something that i anticipated because i wrote about my book. I don't wanna be boring about it but I've just struggled my whole life with birth controls. Making me feel crazy killing my sex drive like this is my personal experience Making me lose my mind making me Just cry more than i normally do. Which is shocking about. And i just always struggle. I also like i'm on the road all the time. The idea of like for birth control. You having to go to your service provider or your doctor like once a month in the pharmacy. Once a month. I found myself on the road like trying to get the little the pills and i'm like okay. I have one pill left like two in the morning. I'm driving around like tampa. Florida looking for a big on birth control being stalked by the way so i could not find and then that would trigger migraines because i didn't take the pill and i'm spending all my vacations and all my time on tour like trying to get on the phone with my doctor. When she's you might have noticed they're not like greats with texting. And so finally i get the email in the in the subject line is just save a giant. And i'm like is this a lawsuit because this is what's driving them because this is my brand and and it was just the super fearless campaign about this new birth control called navarra. It's only have to go to your provider once a year. And that is it's like there's no you're not sitting in the i'm like how do i even have time to have sex. I'm spending all my time in the waiting room to try to get the pill that's gonna make it so that i don't get pregnant an hbo special. I did a lot of jokes about all my qualms with birth control like the like the morning after pill was like. I think it's fifty dollars and i i've never had sex with a guy in woke up and been like that was worth fifty bucks ever happened but yeah for me. It's like i i refuse. I was promised that i could have it all. And i see so many women not being able to have it all the way we were promised. And just anytime. I discover something that saves women even if it's four hours a month or extra money going to that appointment to have to. I mean it happened. Today i was getting a different prescription. We had to call. They didn't have it. We had to call the other one. They didn't have it then their stock then they're out of. It's just like i've worked too hard for this like i've worked too hard to spend all my time fighting with pharmacists and service providers to get my birth control like this as an and i need y'all to just level so for me i'm like i could take matters into my own hand. You can take it out. Put it in whenever you want. Thirty eight years old so who knows i might meet a guy on farmers only want to like get pregnant right away whereas the other ones because i froze my eggs a couple years ago going off a birth control for that it took like a wild for my Uterus to start back up or something some weird that you can take out any time and put in whatever you want so i just was like for me and their campaign is just say vagina and whereas i would get all these offers for birth control partnerships before this and it was always like. You're writing in a canoe choline. I'm like what does that have to do with bert. Like and then. It's like i would get like talk to them and i just want to make able to say and then i look at the script for every tv show i've ever done i would put vagina in the two pilots. They let us do but then it was like were like. Can you say fi fi can my god missy tool up and like no. I'm going to call it what it is. That's okay it's like. This is why women have trouble advocating for themselves. I would go to my own gyna- when i was a teenager to my twenties i have something like a bomb on. Never mind never mind. Yeah like i'm just saying the vagina. Just makes everybody clamp up. Does okay so you. We are almost out of time. We're whitney and i have to first of all. If you want to check that out you can go to. Www dot just say vagina dot com and see beautiful photos of a blue haired whitney. There's there's a very important topic that i cannot let you live without talking about. Recently you were at the paris hilton cooking party. And i'm very jealous that we didn't get invited to this harris's lovely. She's been on the podcast. We're so happy for love. The show but paul can do abdul was there and i saw that you posted paula. Please come on good for you. Your podcast and i wanted you to know that. I've been campaigning for paula for six years. And if you wanna fight for number. One paula fan like we can. Was your first concert. Music video with them in the name of the animated cat and the opposites attract video scat cat. Do you know. The tap. Zola from the scat cat video. Perform it. Maybe we get involved because talking. So paula abdul. I met her on the masked dancer. And i have a picture myself meeting her. And i when i tell you i am sobbing. I mean i am sobbing. And i knew she was a we lady but she is tiny. Here's a tiny. She's a button this one. So i'm like hovering over. I'm like she goes to give me a hug. And she's like around my waist she's the belly button and you're totally everything. I was like like cradling hurling you. I mean i was so obsessed with her as a kid and she was so nice and i was like you know they reach out to me to be like you wanna do like some social media stuff together and i was like i want to recreate the rush video or keanu reeves. That was his first appearance on. She discovered jonah reeves in one of her music videos. And then i was also like hannah stocking. You and i were timeout recreating scott cat. Because i feel like. I know we're already going through at like frame-by-frame trying to see if it's possible because we could do it with scott out of the background green screen her out and we could also do the tap. Your we're trying to attack culture. Can you tap. I was pat. Yeah i can really tap. I had shut up and dance with my first compactness over. Need you to do the top part. I could do the part. I dream right now. I'm telling you. I have interviewed over the course of ten years. Like every person From oprah to whoever. When i get to interview bob dwell. I'm exactly like you. What is it about her. Like i walk in. And i just started weeping because it's like my childhood dream like i have king made it. I'm in the same room as paula abdul anyway. When can we go really quick. And say everybody's like the person that they are like. I'd kind of freak out. If i met that person because it also happened with whoopi goldberg. The first time. I did the view. This is like nine years ago and i was like be like yes grew up. We'll be a little bit. And then as soon as i saw him personally. I just i realized in that moment. Like i'm i guess. I must have made it. Like i had disassociated everything before then and i never felt like i was successful and then i was looking in her and i was like i must have made like and then i started crying in her arms side note. Have you seen the video farting the view when claire danes was on and i need to see this immediately today so i picked me up wanted that just feeling down at work and i love this. Is there anyone else that had act. You have one minus. I so i am not like a big hollywood person. I barely know who any celebrities are. But i have always had the big obsession over. Larry david i watch them to go to bed every single night. Like number one. I went by ship my pants if that happened. Yeah i saw him in public Once and it was like a basketball game. And he's walking toward me. And i i just be lined like. He saw me look at him. Because i was like like you so you yes and i was just like i can't like i can't. I'm not going to be funny enough. I'm not gonna have no..
LadyGang
"cummings" Discussed on LadyGang
"I wanted to say something about jack because this is what you do. I just wanna go back to what you said about the anxiety because we've been doing late again for six years now and we were with jack. She was in A troublesome relationship and we actually have seen this to vary like the actual human version of what you were just talking about. Because i feel like it when you are in your past relations. Well you can talk about a jack pass relationship you have so much anxiety were like and now that you're with someone who is wonderful. Yeah i know when. I went through a relationship with somebody that was obsolete narcissists. Maybe borland bordering on a psychopathic behavior Personality type but i was constantly it was like a drug for me. Like getting in these fights and up making up. And then he was like withholding saxon. Was this whole. It was like a cat and mouse game the entire time. But i don't operate under that type of stress level at all like. I'm a very cool calm collected person usually but i turned into this like manic nervous like completely like crumbling type person when i was in that relationship so it is that like getting that rush of whatever it is even if it is less like toxic horrible like screaming match with somebody yet Without admitted talking about my personal experience. You don't think that i'm judging you anyway. I was diagnosed a love addict. I wrote about this. My book and love addiction doesn't mean you're always love addict like for me or you're always like you know it's just when you get the hit you so it's like people do heroin and they get sober for. They can not think about having for two years. They can think they can be right next to him. Go nope i'm over the stinking thinking. They're in their country actually like there. But then once on it gone because your dopamine receptors have totally switch gears and you are gone right. The beasts has taken hold so for me before i was in my. I like very I've been in a lot of addictive relationships but toxic. That's why i was like say addiction addictive instead of toxic or Addictive instead of like psycho and all these words that just don't mean a lot. I think but we'll talk about love addiction a second but i think the most important important thing too and this is not a blame thing. 'cause it's always blameless which is like. Yes he's this this this particular. Focus off him. What's going on with us that we keep getting in the car driving over. We take laughed. We take we do the part like we have so many opportunities to go like this is not good for me. This is bad like we're at a point where a lot of us are like. We're not drinking soy milk because hormones in it and then we're in a relationship with someone that treats like shit. It's like you can't eat that. It has chemicals in it. It has like you can't and you have to make your own almond butter. You insane people. And i'm like it's just the internal pollution like nobody. Everyone is obsessed with their bodies that they forget about taking care of their brain us at a big. And i'm like and then walk around. I see friends. I'm like why are you going to bring them back and you have. You've never been therapy. What's what's going on. Why are we investing in our salaries. It's such a love addiction. Steps really helped me because once you're inet to give you all the love and credit in the world when you're in it name the last person these other drug problem where you're like. Hey what's going on with you and the cocaine they're like you're right. I gotta stop. I mean what. What are you talking about like ours. Signed to defend what obama mean. And what paris. So all your dna and all your brain wants for you enact i to procreate especially because biologically we talk about sexism a lot and like hollywood and businesses are biology is the most sexist of all we we don't roast we. We haven't cancelled biology. But that's when we needed to cancel because your brain more alpha or were you on birth control. Time while i was and then i wasn't and then i was and i thought that was going crazy because the birth control but we thought we a that's right but you are on certain birth controls. It does make you smell olfactory glands differently and we seek men that are more like alpha like your guy that's going to over the no beat up anyone that's gonna like motorcycle guy. The axe body spray guy. You know some spotty spraying get that. Wrap exactly the smell when you said it. We knew the smell neutral. Cardinal are isn't it also just forgive yourself because we are wired to want to be be turned on by assholes because our sort of reptilian brain goes. Yes this can protect my chhaya. We're not designed pair forever really right. So we stop producing dopamine. I made a whole movie about this. And i can't remember any of it now brain. Forgive yourself you're looking through the title. Sorry clean not say the word female anymore But you just forgive yourself talked. Someone like this is just okay. I'm attracted to that guy. He's got a motorcycle. he's got fifty women's names tattooed on his abdomen. He's spray tan. This is a bad idea. Have to go you're fine. It's when he twenty-one it's we're not in the living in the jungle five thousand years ago. i don't need protection. I don't have an alarm system. I've got made i don't i have dogs. I don't need that. So i have to kind of just talk to my sort of reptile programming and go like a major. I know what you're doing. I know why you think this is a good idea. This would have been a good idea thousand years ago but not today baby not today and we get you a king show where you go and you help. Women grew these situations. It's just like thinking about using a women pep talk. Their mingla is amazing right. Now i'm like i was any. This is why this is a great segue. 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"cummings" Discussed on LadyGang
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"cummings" Discussed on LadyGang
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"cummings" Discussed on LadyGang
"Do you need me to cook. She's like i got it like that's always say people pleasing as a form of asshole or eight right so we got to look at our motors. Are you offering to clean because you want them to think you're a good person. Good people don't have to prove it. They're just good people. You know what i'm saying and it's our way of like it's a lot of like me like me and then we try to stay away from the three. M's mothering. martyring micromanaging so when we get relationships with men that we if we inflate love and pity if we ever in a relationship because we want to rescue them we want to fix them to love to rescue. A man can't be rescued. They're adults they're not. They're not see they're not both a hard thing to i see is not getting. You mean rescuing a like it's the same thing of like how adults when we say like. I feel abandoned. My therapist like adults can't be abandoned. They have cars. You're not your premise. isn't even valid. We can't rescue person. Were just drowning ourselves with them. We're just jumping into the car. That's about to crash. We're not rescuing them. We're just abandoning ourselves. Basically so it took me so long. You know i mean i was with a god who he's a successful hollywood to assistance and i'm like running around getting groceries and like if he didn't see that i got them i'd be like grocery today. It was not about doing. the nice. ain't credit for doing the nice thing and you know a lot of self-deception looking at your motives. A lot of Over gifting You know stuff like that and spend a lot of money to on your on things that So people can perceive you turn way instead of just allowing yourself to be authentic which i think people struggle with Codependent or not. But it's a lot of you know those people that are like are you. Okay are you okay are you. And you're like if i'm not i'll let you know you know. Give me a long time and codependence also feel Do a lot of things out of obligation whether it's out birthday party that you know the people who are like i have to go get drinks. Nectar this birthday party and have to get up and drive my friend. You're not a good person you're monitoring yourself and your in know we we say program that self care the way we put others first as a put ourselves i so so codependency were the ones that always get out of the relationship and you go. What's wrong what happened. I just i loved him too much. Knowing do ninety honest dark we do ninety percent and the other person can do ten and then codependence breeds resentment. So we start to. He's such an asshole. He didn't call me back. Well you call them four times. He called you back when he was done with work. Like you made possible standard right so we over. We give too much so that we can recreate our childhood circumstance of being victimized. Because that's that's comfortable for us and how we get some rory. It's pretty cool. It did also take me a wild to go. you know what. I'm not as sick as i thought. Either me fourteen years in therapy. And like i was also perfectionist. And how sick. I was once. I went into a twelve step program. And i was like i wanted to be the best sick person because that's the Actionist mentality if i'm going to be an alanon and a codependent. I'm going to be the worst possible one you know. And so it's also the way we put over pathologist ourselves right now does as you say like. Maybe i need more thera. Maybe you don't eat any all who knows who knows you know Or different kind. Or whatever but i think a lot of having a lot of conversations with women right now and people that are talking about mental health. And i see we're all doing awesome. Yeah jim saying i think. Sometimes it's like important that we say that even though we're the ones on the frontlines being depression i have this. I'm codependent. I'm gonna talk to relationship. I'm attic that's all great but we're also nailing it. Yeah no that's true. Actually i listen to you and casey wilson's episode recently. Where you guys were like. I'm also the person who loves like the hottest new psychic or the healer or the blah blah blah. And you're like maybe we're actually okay like stop trying addicted to healers maybe addicted to our own shit. So that's why. I love step programs of just straight up therapy because it's also about service you know. A lot of these shit the sort of sick patterns that crystallize in our brains. We're thinking about ourselves too much right. So that's why it's like service like go volunteer to shelter and walk the dogs go. Take out your neighbors. What have you done for someone else today. Besides me me me myself. Help book and i'm listening to this podcast. Because i'm thinking i'm crazy and i'm just like sometimes you know just the disease of self obsession that sometimes we have to stop over analyzing ourselves because and then learn to perceive ourselves the way other people perceive so my my biggest thing and i think this is like women in general whether they're cataract categorizing themselves as codependent but the rivers yeah natural caretakers but the discomfort. I feel when i'm letting somebody else down. Or i'm giving them an answer or that they don't want like i have not in thirty five years. Been able to gain stand in it and be uncomfortable. I will always bend so like what are some person. am i a psychopath. Because i don't feel that actually kelsey you're the from feeling this like actually your birth order second. I'm the youngest oldest feel bad about uncomfortable moments. Okay do i feel bad about them. I don't really don't talk that it's it's it's it's sort of a team effort to make it uncomfortable. There's certain people. I always try to find that like. Where's the red flag mars. The gift right. So it's like if you're uncomfortable That person also might be a malignant narcissist. That person also might be have borderline personality disorder. So you might not be codependent. That person might legitimately be emotionally dangerous. And if you're dealing with people that are you know at the top of their field. They say that It's one one percent of people are capacity and then but when you get into the highest level of any business ranking goes up to thirty percent because those type of people that you don't care who they're knocking down on the way they just don't have embassy it just doesn't bother them like jeff right. His delivery people that are shitting and bags. He doesn't care he's got the thing on time like so found. And i get i. Don't get in trouble for this. Why am i saying that to try to like a ball. I am really big on okay. You give social totally get it like you need fang. But i know that's real. I know people things i disorders. They can't get out of bed. Is a confluence of things. But before you diagnose yourself things. I sorta. I make sure the people you're around aren't don't suck. He's -iety is an amazing tool and of information that need if we all catering zaidi nothing would get done. And we'd all be in dangerous situations all the time. So i was like associate associate anxious and then when i was like. Yeah but i also don't like any of these people and they're all using me and they're all like trying to angle and feel it and i feel anxiety because i feel like i'm being exploited and i am i'm not socially anxious these people are vampires. So before you're like. I band i like. I can't tell her discomfort. That person might actually be manipulative. And whatever and which. I always say. I don't i don't accept any invitations or put anything on my calendar in person ever ever ever ever because i'll go like it becomes a game of chicken like in. Footloose where it's like. Okay fine. I'll do it. And then i of my go-to things. Which is if. I want to do something. I never. If someone asked me to do something. I sat let you know in three days. That will never make a decision. Because i need to think. And i need to look at my calendar and i just don't say if it's not a hell yes it's no that's the other thing. Is it like that. Means now. But i also the first person to to all the the the young people listening you know take every job you can't and that's the other thing it's like like when you're getting those whether it's that like onset for this little thing go shadow hairstyle is like i would say yes to everything unless it's a toxic thing or there's you know it's dangerous or whatever like get as many opportunities as you can right now so that you can get information and you can get more experience and Have more stories so a lot of people that i know that are literally unemployed. Like i don't just say yes anything i say. No i'm like. I actually canton wrong..
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"I this is like the least ostensibly dramatic thing that ever happened to me but to me it was like embarrassment is fear of embarrassment is such a big one for me and i you like brought animals to school like cricket like we had crickets in thing none of the when i look back at this stuff we did as kids is really disturbing But we had crickets swelled. Ever on crickets and i put checks. Mix in for my crickets to eat. I was already like an animal psycho at the time and it did need it because the crickets and we put them all up on like the shelves and mine started getting my moldy like and everyone. Who's this and i was like. I don't know. And i just lied about it because i was embarrassed that my crickets were getting moldy tex-mex forever. It's such a dumb silly thing. But then i was like. Oh gotta lie. They're gonna find me out. And i spent like three days like an i remember. I went back. I asked my dad to drive me back to break into the school to steal it so that i could like like. It's such a dumb thing but it. It was like i had to do. Amd are on. Because i realized like how much i needed the approval of eight year. Old kids like who gives you know so Traumas just for people listening. Don't think if you haven't seen someone get hit by a car or a building. It doesn't mean you're not traumatize you never everyone's just kind of different but yeah for me codependence. I grew up in an alcohol. Comb and for could've alcoholism to exist. Alcohol does not have to be present right where we say for alcoholism. Alcohol doesn't have to be president because if you grew up around alcoholism which we all dead literally in the twenties and the united states they had to make it illegal was wrong. Ours came out people were drinking and driving. It was a disaster. What we came from. I don't know what y'all's ancestry is looking into. My ancestor has also been like a game changer. For me i'm like oh every one of my grandfathers died of cirrhosis. Like addictive behavior like that's what was available back then that's also where they used for anesthesia. Give him yeah crazy. Dopamine receptors don't hold dopamine the same way so whether it's the guy you're texting whether it's your scrolling on instagram which that is the same thing as a gambling addiction. You're always trying to get that hit right every time you go to see a photo and it's like fifty thousand likes. Yes but then you gotta keep checking back like it's very hard to walk away so codependence there's a couple of ways to define it and maybe you have your favorite way but i like to say the couple of ways that it clicked in my brain. Sometimes you just need the right person to say the right thing at the right time for you to have some kind of self awareness and it was the inability to tolerate the discomfort of others or perceived discomfort. So that's where it gets really tricky so you know it's funny because i would go to these double winners meetings which is a an codependence and i would hear all of their stories. We're lucky i was like on the freeway drunk. And i was texting and i got an accident and you know my ex girlfriend. I thought she was cheating so i crawled over her fantasy like broke into her house. And like we do all that sober like independence. Do that stober okay. So there were addicted to the internal drug cabinet right the dopamine oxytocin the adrenaline which turns into dopamine which means toxic relationships become very attractive to us because it recreates that neurological cocktail. We had as a kid to stress. I'm always trying to get this person's approval. It becomes an addiction right. Like the person you know. That's an addiction because addiction is defined as well insanity doing the same thing over and over again expecting a different result in addiction which is when the behavior that gives you the most dopamine stops being fun and it becomes an obligation. You know when you're on those but the guy for three months just the it's just like you're gonna dopamine cocoon together and that's when it starts to become it stops being fun that's what we say. Well there's some people can go bar in their drinking and their funders other people that are just alone. You know my eating disorder was like really fun in the beginning. Because i was getting all this attention but then when i was like eating sheet cakes in the car. And that's when it's like. This isn't fun anymore i just. The addiction is dragging me around and forcing isolate so codependence manifest itself. And then i'll shut up and people pleasing The inability to tolerate the discomfort of others thinking that your value is has a linear relationship with your productivity Tremendous around like fear of authority figures. The inability to be friends with equals. You kind of always wanted to be friends with someone. That's kind of above you. Status and authority whites or beneath you because an equal is just harder to manipulate. This is like shake shack. I mean i can read you the laundry list. It's kind of a but yeah so Perfectionism i mean for me. I recently went on prozac. Because i spent fourteen years in a program trying to get a hold of this but i would leave conversation and be like that was stupid. Why'd you say that that was so dumb. This person hates you. And it's i'm a piece of shit in the center of the universe writing like you're still saying if you hate yourself you're still saying myself myself myself. That's all you're thinking about you know. And so also People pleasing manifesting in shape shifting. Right this person with you. Because i know you need me to be funny and entertain you and i have to be small with you and did my life because you're narcissist if i steal your thunder you're going to get mad at me you know. It's just we're just able to be able to go round party and just be this person. This person this for some that. I know i need to do this with this person. I'm just gonna be twelve different people. If i'm not in the kitchen trying to help the host clean up and she doesn't even want help she said. Can you please go enjoy the party. I'm the person's like. Can i help you can help you. Here's nine presents..
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"cummings" Discussed on LadyGang
"The podcast today. My armpits sweaty just thinking about it. Our guest today is an inspiration to all of the self-made non-hollywood spawn dreamers and is so famous. The glamour magazine wrote an entire article about how she sleeps. Including a naito jonah. Oil more on that later we fell in love with her as a panelist on chelsea lately but since then she has gone on to create a ton of shows including two broke girls. A handful of comedy specials a book. I'm fine and other lies us to us to. She also has a podcast. Good for you and you can see this fallen tour. All info at whitney cummings dot com but most importantly she is hot as and most importantly she's actually here on late again. Please welcome to lady. Gang whitney cummings rush thanking multi. I'll come by day. It maybe hard to i. I mean i just. We love a woman who goes and gets success in hollywood without having a famous family member or having a family that invented ketchup like bravo. You have achieved just coming from normies is john didn't right like to donna. Summer songs are fact. Britain like a jinked like the fig newton jingle in order to get an audition in hollywood. Didn't know that i love it. You said that. what did you say. Non hollywood offspring spahn. Yes exactly. It's like you're actually self made like you really self made because no one can help you accept yourself and i love that and i also love For the past you know as many years you've been around we've been following your career and i love how authentic you are and how real you are about. You know i remember specifically this moment of your life when it was like everywhere i turn. Your head was on every billboard. Your name was in every article in the hollywood reporter. You no thing. And you're like oh my god but like you opening up about the struggles of that was so real And has has been a point that we've come back to lady gang many times of like. Hey are we taking on too much like is this the right saying we just saying yes because people are offering it you know and and it's an interesting thing so let's begin but you're making me think okay you if you know me all you know that i go on tangents and stuff but i appreciate. That's hearing not so much. Because so much i what. I'm podcasting around other pockets. Like why am i on about this. Nobody cares like you know these days you you just go on hot ones. Love is blind famously. Wants to know how to self made is everyone's like why are you wasting all this time writing scripts it's gone only fans you moron and so but i appreciate that there are still people that want to do it the hard way the long way and for my thing is always like it's never know job as easy whether a waitress whether a nurse whether you're a comedian whether you're running tv shows whether you're running an empire. It's always going to be hard. And i never promised anyone this is going to be the hardest thing you'll ever do but here's a couple of things that the mistakes i made just a little easier like this'll save you like an hour a day. I'm not gonna say it's gonna make working in hollywood. A drain orgasmic dream It's not narnia. it's it's any job is hard so this. So i just wanna make sure i'm not like hollywood's hard like it's emotionally the kind of people that come here. We're already emotionally. Yes up against a lot anyway. So were also more predisposed to be like. I knew like the tone of that email. He used all caps one. I also think it's interesting that when you come from nothing And are like climbing the ladder. And like they say. I came from a lot of emotional abuse and neglect tank. You got here you imply. I didn't get tools. But like when when. No one's handing you anything. I think the the thing you do is you like grab at whatever comes your way and we see so many of our late again. Community the same thing. They're scared to ask for raises. They're scared to ask for a promotion. They're scared to ask for what they need in a relationship because you just like oh i'm worth nothing and i have nothing so i'll just take the bare minimum. And so you want to say yes to everything without really thinking. It's the right thing for you. i don't know. can you feel like that enacting too right. Yeah i mean all the time. And i was actually just that just sparked thought that i had and i might be like stepping in shit because i might be remembering this wrong but i feel like i listened to an interview with you where you talked a lot about codependency and i think you're the first person that actually stated it correctly. What what exactly. It is I would love it if you could do that for our girls. Because i think it's so misused. And i think a lot of people from trauma which i think. We've we've all experienced a little bit Fall into that. End being female codependent right trauma as you say at like trauma doesn't have to mean you were in a dog crate being traffic to like. That's you know. I always like to sort of delineate trauma so you know being in twelve separate for the longest time. Sometimes i would go under rooms. And i'd hear stories and i'm like is that your biggest problem like i had this and this and this happened and then i go to other rooms. I'd like oh. I thought life was hard. You know so different for everyone and it doesn't mean anyone's are bigger or smaller. Some people you know they were left at school to the dad forgot to pick them up too late and they learned. I am on my own forever. I'm in that for whatever reason the adrenaline there were being made fun of there's ways that smaller quote unquote traumas. I happy to validate everyone's because they're all real to them. What is your mom dying. When you were ten could be someone else's. They paid their pants at the talent. Show you know everyone's in the way that is why neuroscience has helped me so much to understand that when cortisone cortisone adrenaline released. That's gonna lock in as a trauma so it can be. You know you. I remember when i was a kid..
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"Dot com or whatever so i like we'll take care of poison ivy dot com and i was like. Hey i got this poison ivy and the front yard but when he goes. No i don't and i was like wait what he's like. I ended up in the hospital. We actually don't do poison ivy removal. And i was like okay but i called removed. Poison ivy nagano poison ivy guide doesn't remove poison ivy and that is my latest in my home odor. Show why are you even fixing it. That's what i said to chris. I was like do not want poison ivy in the front yard. Don't you want people to get like would cause kelly could end up getting around in front It's just bad in general and also you know what's going to happen. Is that my dad now that the borders are open. I'm sure my dad's gonna come down here and he's going to get like into the power all the power and the gas yet or is it everything like what of ken goes down there and then he gets poison oak and we have to take in the hospital and i go bankrupt because we don't have american health insurance so on it's like you don't know maybe people could sue you for getting poison ivy. You're doing your solar panels exactly so you are putting it on record for your with. This is exhibit. A one of chris's clients was on deck shepherds podcast and he said something about his lifestyle and then the insurance company heard it and call them. We're like we're taking away your life insurance no way. Oh my god that's hilarious. I mean that's a miracle but also saying back. Yikes okay so my good week is a by proxy. Good week for jared. Because he has he came up with this idea in his head that he thought it was really funny to tell people that venice like the city. Venice that we live right next to short for very nice and he has now convinced dozens of people that venice is short for very nice. Think people people seriously believe this and started googling. It and i'm like this is the best. This is the best thing ever. You're going to end up like it'll be changed on wikipedia. It'll be like a whole thing. And i love that perfect lie to like jerry with his little smile and his freckles and his hair. If he me that i'd be like Like you it's an innocent cry at jerry would lie to you. Yeah no you would never. He's so believable. And i'm like. I love this frio so that's my good week. Bad week is well good week. The main finally is playing concerts again. Which is what. I've been waiting for for eighteen.
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"For good we is it is bad. We know i'll start my good week. Is that the audio book. That i voiced that i talked about. She got a winner. grammy. I don't think can you win. Grammys for audio. Remember tried to try to submit my god. This is terrifying. Because so i obviously didn't let me say was a really challenging job. It was barry tedious. And i have attention-deficit disorder and also not a great reader. Also not a great actor so it was like all of these things that were really for me. And i thought to myself okay. It's done. i love the author. This girl andrea bart's and she has incredible books that i've read all of them and it was an honor to be asked and then i'm on. Instagram reese. Witherspoon is posting that the book. We were never here by andrew. Bart's is her pick for the book club. This was also a day after. She announced that she just made a billion dollars selling hello sunshine. Her production company is all eyes. Are on reese witherspoon right now and then the book then explodes and becomes an instant bestseller. It would have anyway. But i have gotten four hundred people messaging me a screen shot of the audiobook saying oh my god. I went to read. Listen to this audio book and it's your voice so the amount of people i thought were going to hear. My terrible job is so much higher than what i had anticipated. Is this book like It's like a story right with multiple characters voice for the character. No yeah no. It's the only really. The only dialogue heavy dialogue is between two girls that are in their late twenties so it was not character. Work if you will really have to work on your voice voice actor. No but he person it's hard as an actor who's used to playing one character and really being able to finesse. How i'm going to say something into nation blah blah blah but this. It's you're doing that but like at a three percent because you can't invest all that time into all the words that are coming out your mouth. You would never never invest that amount unless there are people who do. Wouldn't be surprised because i do the bare minimum. But it's hard very critical of my read because i'm like if this were on tv onto it. I'm listening to it. I'm less than you need to listen to it. So my good was that. I'm very very very excited. Popular author and my bad week is. I'm very very bummed out with the amount of people listening to my awful voice. It's always the thing that like you don't think is gonna be the thing that ends up being the thing and you're always thought it would have done that a lot differently if i thought that more than zero people are going to listen to it and actually pisses me off because the amount of energy i've put into things that haven't gone anywhere. Yes just exhausting. Yes well i'll go so i i have a. I have a good week. I did a scientific ex Signs difficu- i did a scientific investigation excavation. This past weekend for everyone who listened to the podcast. This is your first time listening to this. Podcast you'll know that we have had a decades long conversation about when you have to poop in fluorescent lighting. So target go to homegoods you go to wherever and like instantly the bookstore and for some reason. There's something we've gone into the science of it. So i recently went to homegoods and i timed myself and it was twelve minutes twelve minutes and like five aisles of homegoods until the urge hit me i had no laxatives in my system. I had no coffees in my system. It was just the light. So you're welcome. Scientists kelty gives you twelve minutes of homegoods before you have to poop poop and homegoods. Yep i need can't remember that. Can they just leave the bathrooms open. It's like they have the code on the bathroom which i understand people shoplifters and shifty but it's like then you gotta go find the person you like. Can i get the code to the bathroom. And like every employee at homegoods is like you gotta boop right like no. Oh yeah for sure they probably just. Don't they want to limit the amount of people that actually go in there. So they're leading take it. Yeah do you think you're gonna get hired like whitney got hired for this Birth control because it's all about the vagina or are you going to get hired by homegoods and the whole campaign come healing the not a lot of god. I hope so. I'll do anything for money Okay so my bad week. Is that you know. I'm very behind on. Its fixer upper. La to like this is just a disaster. Like nothing's getting done. I'm too busy. I don't have the energy but we recently put solar panels on the top of the house. Because i want the whole thing to live off the grid gregor great. And then the guys that were in stalling. The solar panels all got completely mangled with the poison oak in my yard. Which i didn't know i had so they came on day one and they're like. Oh yeah we all got rash. I think this might be poisoned by the box. Or it's like by places that i haven't been yet in the yard so i was like well. I better get the perez taken care of so we finally found this guy. I was like googling. And i'm like how he's regular gardner you guy has met sued blah blah says guys like we'll take care of your poison ivy.
The View
"cummings" Discussed on The View
"You're allowed to deny people based on pre existing conditions which isn't a choice again. Let me remind you having had postpartum depression. I was denied in individual life insurance. Because of that. That wasn't about a vaccine. That i could go out and get. I think we need to start making this more uncomfortable. Because i follow france model when when a president. Macaroni instituted. anywhere you go. You're going to have to show proof of the vaccine or proof of negative tests. They saw a spike of one and a half one point. Seven million people in twenty four hours signed up for the vaccine. So let's just go that route right now and make it much more comfortable to be vaccinated. Not well we might be. We might be going the way of macron pretty soon but that remains to be same. We'll be right back. Still a hell the kissing booth three star molly. Ringwald comedian whitney cummings. And it's the joy of reading on the ladies. Get lead a lenny. Kravitz showed off more than his six pack ads. An instagram photo yesterday. He also showed off his handedness with a jackhammer which he was using to build a deck on his property. The sexy photos sent the internet hearts aflutter but it also poses a question. It's something particularly sexy about a guy who's handing you know. I have to say i find nothing sexier than a man with a drill in his hand unless the dentist. I have to just say that. I mean it so hot to me to see a man like fixing. What do you think sarah absa frigging lutely. He didn't have to try so hard though with the sledgehammer he could have just had like a little belt. Like bob the builder or something. I've always been. I think a handyman is just not something. I've run into very often. I love max. He's got a lot of talents but he doesn't love fixing things nor have i seen him successfully. Do it very often. So i always loved are super back when i lived in. The city name was brian and he was an angel and i still miss him to this day he could fix anything and i always thought gosh. Someone's going to be so lucky to have you. You fix everything it's great. It's great funny. I know you have a handy. Mammy at home don't show he's not just a die this lady you know. Manny's pedic surgeon. They're really carpenters of the body. He knows his way around any tool in in our house. And it's just amazing. I mean he's built the deck on our house. He has he. He refurbishes cars himself. It's something that's very cathartic him. He's installed air conditioning in this very room. That i'm sitting in because it was really hot. Where we're we're filming. He's pretty amazing. And actually for mother's day. This may not sound like very sexy to other people but his mother's day gift to me was that he would do any job in the house that i wanted him to. So he's very sexy. And when does this man have time to to do surgery if he's building decks feel. I know mondays and fridays. Let's hear about your husband. Does this joy please. i'm married. I'm married to a high maintenance. Latino this man thinks tying his own shoelaces is manual labor. He literally does not do anything anything. So lack of homer simpson showed up at my house with an open shirt and blue the leaves off. I think he would've sexiest man alive. Okay i think just. I mean pleased. Change a light bulb anything in my house. Right and meghan meghan. Who's doing the home improvement at your house. Well did you ever notice that like any any porn. Start with like home improvement guys. That's this made me. Think of like porn plots or like you know. The handyman coming. The doors the clearly. There's some like there's something like sexual attached to lake. How women ziemba and i don't know that's why i was thinking when i was thinking actually like the big lebowski like the scene in it so i don't know but lenny kravitz is ageless. And he's you know he's the sexiest man. Probably all time. So he doesn't need to do all this to make us think he's sexy already. Is like the most gorgeous specimen of a man that ever existed..
The View
"cummings" Discussed on The View
"Matt a brand new views darts alive crichton now mandate march madness as outraged house. Republicans storm the senate in a protest march against mask requirements. The president spars with the media about his promise that vaccines would free us from covering up. Burn so will. We have to manage our expectations about ever getting back to life as we knew it. Plus molly ringwald is live to talk about starring with the next generation of teen stars in the rom com that kissing booth. Three comedy superstar whitney cummings on how she's reaching out to fans and joy is getting the last word on summer reads in the final chapter of the ladies. Get leads here. Come hot topics with whoopi. Sarah haynes joy behar sunny hostile megan mccain and ana navarro. Now let's get things started. Hello and welcome to the view here. We are another friday. And everyone's wanting to get back to normal life. But the latest report. From the cdc has pushed that timeline back it found the delta variant is not only more deadly. It's spreads as easily as wait for it chickenpox. They're asking officials to keep pushing vaccines and reinstate mask mandates which is caused house republicans storm the senate in protests temper tantrums. Like that aren't going to get us out of this. So what's it going to take for people to be part of the solution and not part of the problem. Anna i tell you when i saw that spectacle yesterday of all those house. Republicans storming the senate. I think i had seen that many clowns outside of a volkswagen and a circus a long long time. And it's doing nothing to help the progress of fighting coal that it's making no contribution and i think we all have to focus on that joy. I think i think we're going to have to have an all types of approach right. There's going to have incentives like the president announced yesterday and like some corporations and some states and cities are doing there. It's going to have to be some sticks. So there's going to be carrots and sticks. Things people are not going to be able to do. If they don't have proof of vaccine dying in places go to broadway do certain things. I don't think people should be able to go on planes. If they don't have proof of vaccination so we need to figure out ways to make to to have people feel some pain and we have to continue the outreach. And yesterday when i was watching the news i thought probably to me. The best messengers right now are not celebrities. Not politicians not preachers. You know what those patients that are in the hospital saying. I'm so angry with myself or not having been vaccinated. I thought this wasn't going to be a big deal. But here i am because what. We are learning what we have learned in this last month as that. Cove it and fighting. Kobe is an individual sport. It is a team sport. And even if we get a perfect ten if somebody doesn't show up if somebody doesn't score somebody doesn't get the vaccination we are all affected. We are all being held back and we are all being held hostage. And it is not fair to your grandson or sarah's children or grandchild or house grandchildren. We can't do this to our children. I would think the incentives should be the vaccine itself but elazig is not sunny. What did you think about house. Republicans are going on a field trip to the senate without masks yesterday. Well you know. I am not surprised because when you look at the numbers joy. I mean house. Republicans fifty four percent of them are unvaccinated compared to a hundred percent of democratic members of the house..
The Bugle
"cummings" Discussed on The Bugle
"Flies asks you if you want to be secretary of state for the department of health. Do you a. politely declined on the grounds that there may be others better suited for the position. Since you yourself have the intellectual chops turn it with the face jordan on. Be jump at the chance. In the deluded hopes that the power you will will might in some way filled insatiable black hole in your soul. You i noticed. When emma swinton you'd fancied since year seven laughed at the fresh prince haircut. You just got. Because she wants said she thought will smith was hard to is global. Pandemic you a man. No one in their right mind would trust to be able to spell p let alone range billions of items of it after a range of items of people. Who do you contact a a company which has made surgical items for the past seven decades supplies many of the largest hospitals in the west or bay. Some guy called monaco. You met on hugo stag do really hilarious and provided the nurses costume. You made the gonna pub crawl in response to your whatsapp offer of a contract with the dick pic. Captioned get it up your bum boy. Three loads of sainsbury's hambleton been bags and an invoice for one hundred eighty million pounds and question. Three one hundred twenty seven thousand people are dead. Do you resign a. Yes all be. Of course not shame for catholics pussies answered mainly a congratulations. You're not coach. If you answered mainly be commiserations you on matt hancock. Please ask the person who helps you. Read this to explain to you. That eventually shit is going to hit the find bounce off the fan and get stuck between two pieces of bread and when that happens someone is gonna choke down for long words and smile condiments that. Because that's someone is you.
AP News Radio
Boris Johnson Defends Virus Record After Ex-Aide's Attack
"Britain's prime minister Boris Johnson has rejected claims by his former T. fate that he puts Britain's coronavirus response and is unfit for office denying the allegation his government over school tens of thousands of needless deaths in a testimony to lawmakers Dominic Cummings claimed that thousands had died as a result of the UK government's incompetence at the beginning of the outbreak the former top adviser to the prime minister said the government's response was slow and chaotic and Johnson fail to learn from his mistakes Johnson brushed aside the criticism some of the the common drive her doesn't bear any relation to reality prime minister went on to say that the government and himself what puts in a very pressurized situation at the outbreak of the pandemic leases being renewed credibly difficult series of decisions none of which we've taken lightly I'm trying to amass
Marketplace Tech with Molly Wood
Self-Driving Cars Might Never Be Able to Drive Themselves
"This week. The california dmv said it's reviewing whether tesla is telling people that it's cars are self driving when legally speaking they're not this follows. Fatal crashes that may have involved. It's autopilot feature tesla advertises a quote full. Self-driving upgrade option. One guy has been busted tesla's multiple times for reckless driving. He hangs out in the backseat and steers with his feet. Meanwhile no cars are actually fully. Self-driving yet missy cummings. The director of the humans autonomy lab at duke university says the so called deep learning. That cars need to see the road around them. doesn't actually learn. I can show a convolution. Neural net a million images of a stop sign and it will learn what a stop sign is from those images but if it sees a stop sign that doesn't match exactly those images then it can't recognize it and this is a huge problem because if a strand of kudzu leaves starts to grow across just the top twenty percent of a stop sign that is enough to make the algorithm be dumb and it doesn't recognize it because it's never seen a stop sign with one stranded kudzu leaves across it.
Nonprofits Are Messy: Lessons in Leadership | Fundraising | Board Development | Communications
Choosing the Right Nonprofit Business Model With Rinku Sen
"Rinku sen is a writer. Social justice strategist. She is formerly the executive director of race forward and was publisher of their award. Winning news site color lines under her leadership race forward generated some of the most impactful racial justice successes of recent years including drop. The i word it compan- from media outlets to stop referring to immigrants as illegal resulting in the associated press usa today the l. a. times and many more outlets changing their practice she was also the architect of the shattered families report which identified the number of kids in foster care whose parents had been deported. Her books stir it up and the accidental. American sierra is a model of community organizing that integrates a political analysis of race gender class poverty sexuality and other systems as a consultant rinku has worked on narrative and political strategy with numerous organizations at foundations including policy link. The aclu and the nathan cummings foundation. She serves on numerous boards including the women's march where she co president and the foundation for national progress publisher of mother jones magazine. And i don't even think we've told folks what you do today so rinku. Thank you so much for joining us for helping me think through. I'm glad you're here and welcome. Thank you so much joe. It's a real thrill to talk with you today. So and well actually. You just listened to me for the last several minutes so the goal here is to get you talking so i re as i read your bio. I realized that we actually didn't talk about what you do today. So you wanna you wanna give folks sense of that. The new adventure. You're on now. Sure i in early december. I became the executive director of narrative initiative. Which is an organization that puts different kinds of creative people together to make interventions In the big stories we tell and live into so We do a lot of work with right now. The green new deal network to help them. Think through what what kinds of messages and frames they need to move out until the world that will build support for progressive policies and we We also provide a ghost writing service for grassroots organizations. That need help getting things written.
Monocle 24: The Briefing
UK Cabinet Secretary Simon Case Questioned on Greensill
"Uk's top civil servants. Simon case is being questioned in parliament about claims of impropriety made by the former number. Ten adviser dominic cummings casey's being asked about allegations prime minister. Boris johnson considered halting leak inquiry. In case it implicated a family friend. It comes amid an ongoing row over lobbying in westminster the funding refurbishments to johnson's downing street flat and the uk government's handling of the coronavirus pandemic well. Let's get more on this now. With regular article. Twenty four contributor launch price launch served as director of combs at number ten and is now a political commentator. Thanks for joining us as ever launched. Great to hear from you and good afternoon. I guess. There's the rub. Isn't it any one of these. Problems may be might be something that boris johnson will be fairly confident about putting aside taken in the round altogether. He looks like a man really in trouble. Yes the allegations against him a piling up. It's not surprising that there will come out in a in a flurry at the moment. Or two reasons one is that it does appear that his fallout with his former aide. Who was a pretty controversial figure and not always completely to be relied upon his a source of information perhaps dominic cummings. That's full out Is a gathering pace and cummings is a threatening promising. Perhaps more revelations about things that Boris johnson may or may not have said and done inside down in state. And the other is we have a quite important elections. Local and regional elections coming up in the united kingdom are on the sex and so the opposition already ramping up their tax on the government over all of this hoping that some of the mud from all these different allegations many of which will leave. Voters i'm sure bemused an onshore. What's important what isn't that. Some of that mobile stick.
LBC Election 2019
Dominic Cummings Launches Attack on Boris Johnson's Integrity
"Suppose we should start with all of the lobbying stuff. Cameron green sale. The tax between boris. Johnson and james dyson the the intervention by dominic. Cummings yesterday which was fairly explosive. I think in so many ways and it makes you think well if this is how starting was it gonna go from here because it's quite clear that he's now gone agenda to bring down. Boris johnson. i think. I wanted this podcast to be called vacuum of integrity. Given that that was the brilliant line that dominic grieve has used this morning in. Reiter four boris johnson. Everybody who's a grievance against him is now going to weigh in eighty s that dominic cummings block which was actually quite short for him was nevertheless jam packed with content. And as you say probably the most worrying well. I mean there was there was he landed some blows with the thing itself to knee in terms of suggesting lert johnson had put off an incor- a leak inquiry into who had let out the stuff about The lockdown in autumn. Who had leaked about that. Because dominic coming suggests boris johnson. Thought the finger would be pointed. Henry newman who is carry simmons. Oh could it's like a bloody soap opera. this
Slate's If Then
Tesla's "Autopilot" Problem: What's Causing the Tesla Crashes?
"This past saturday night a test. The model s. crashed into a tree in a neighborhood north of houston both men inside. The car were killed fiery crash that left two men dead. The victims were in a tesla that burned for four hours midst. The kind of everyday tragedy. That happens all across the country. But there's something about this crash that's different the cause still under investigation but authorities say they are quote certain. No one was driving the vehicle at the time of impact. One man was apparently in the front passenger seat. Another in the rear now. Investigators want to know whether tesla's autopilot feature played a role in the crash. Tesla says autopilot is meant to assist drivers with things like braking and steering not to take over but at least twenty three other crashes have some linked the use of this technology technology that missy cummings has been warning about for years. Do you remember where you were when you heard the news about this latest test crash. Houston i was hiking on the appalachian trail. And you just kinda hit a peak and then all of a sudden my phone buzzed. Cummings is a professor at duke. She runs the human and autonomy lab. They're studying how people interact with automated technology. And i looked down and it was a friend of mine who reached out to tell me what had happened. Cummings knew that given her public criticism of autopilot. Lots of people including people like me. We try to reach her so she turned her phone off and kept hiking. I also kind of shook my head and was like well. I told you so and i hate to be one of those people but i've been telling people that this was going to happen for a long time and so you know that's actually why. Turn my phone off in cabra hiking. Because you know i've spent my whole life trying to do good in this with research people don't listen and then people die
Anna Davlantes
2 Found Dead After Report of Shooting at UPS Facility in Hodgkins: Police
"This afternoon and the UPS sorting facility in southwest suburban Hodgkins Hodgkins police say officers responded to a call of shots fired in the employee parking lot of the facility near 75th of Willow Springs Road. Rodney Cummings is the administrative assistant for the chief of police and Hodgkin's here's quickly responded to the scene and found two people lying on the ground unresponsive. Officer secured the scene and brought in paramedics. The two subjects were examined by paramedics and declared deceased. It's not clear if the two people were ups employees of firearm was recovered at the scene. Police say there is no longer a threat to the community. Indiana
Monocle 24: The Briefing
Covid-19 Restrictions Being Lowered In Britain For The Holidays
"Prime minister. Boris johnson has urged his fellow citizens to reconcile themselves to the idea of having themselves as he put a merry little christmas keeping gathering small and celebrations modest. And if there's any one person. In britain who can be taken completely seriously as a model of prudent abstemious restraint in their personal it is surely boris johnson covid nineteen restrictions will be relaxed over christmas but the government seems to be hoping that people will observe from anyway. It is infamous fairness quite the messaging challenge especially as vaccinations begin how to remind people that while we may be on the right track. We are not the woods on with more on this by lance price former director of communications at ten downing street lance if we focus specifically on the messaging challenge over this christmas would actually be easier. If there wasn't a vaccine. Well i don't know about that would be simple. Obviously if he could just say to everybody you can't dismiss. Let's cancel christmas. I'll be grinch. I know it's tough. But i'm prepared to do it because people aren't going to die if i don't and the vaccine certainly complicates whose ability to say that there's any evidence that he wants to say anyway and but it does make the challenge of advising people that the rules of area but that actually the government doesn't want you to follow the rules and he says it's too late to check for people to change their plans and then in the next press. He advises people to do exactly that. And to restrict themselves to stay in fewer people for less time than the rules actually allow. What would be the political judgment against just going full grinch. Would it be as i think a number of skeptics have suggested just that boris johnson has a chronic aversion to bearing bad news. Or or would it be a apps. More realistic assessment. That people just wouldn't listen anyway more of the latter than the former. He's had to accept his responsibility for delivering bad news. And although he's always reluctant to do it and he looks very uncomfortable doing it. He has full become used to having to do that. And i think where he's falling down. These is in in recognizing with the vaccine starting to be rolled out with relatively slowly. And it's only a relatively short period of time. Now that people have to knuckle down and be super super castle and He has taken his foot off the accelerator. He said that people can have this five day break and over over christmas when he knows in his heart of hearts. An older advisors are telling him this that it's very dangerous. Relaxation of the rules and that people will die one commentator in the in the times of london this morning describing those people who will out sadly lose their lives as being like you know the young men who went over the wire in the dying hours of the first world war just before the armistice signed. When you think back to your time in downing street did you have a general philosophy or idea of an approach for a moment of national crisis. Was there a a tone you so you thought you should take. Yes and i think. I'm a clearly nothing on the scale but we had to deal with some pretty bad news that had to be delivered to the to the public about health crises and about other matters as well and they approach to be always was to be extremely direct. Not give anybody the impression that you're holding anything that lay the facts on the table and actually go for a harder. Line the hats. You might be tempted to go full because you'll always regret it if you don't think that's a lesson that this government hasn't managed to learn. Do you think it's arguable. That boris johnson's appeals to a sense of personal responsibility. Fall into that whether that can be set to fit into the axiom that a moment like this. It's better to treat people like this soldiers than treat them like the victims. You know give people a sense of responsibility. Give them a a sense of purpose. Not that's all very well. We've some people clearly clearly doesn't work with other people. I think they have the evidence now to back that up because we have seen in parts of the country where people have been told to behave themselves in toll to a dietary restrictions. And they haven't done if you look at those graphs. We say on the on the news every night as they are taking up again despite the two or three restrictions that have been imposed and there is still that element of confusion about the door and people unsure about whether or not they all supposed. To be a vein. The rules or not just a few minutes ago. We had the health secretary in the house of commons announcing that cut large areas southland east of england being put into the higher tier two to three but literally less than a week. Not enough time for to make any difference and all of that is it. Goes against the sense of either got options. One is to give people personal responsibility and i just ask them to be sensible and appeal to their better. Nature's other to tell them have to do. It's fully between both stools. Do you think the government has yet recovered the credibility it squandered earlier in the year by defending dominic cummings for flouting the rules that they had themselves laid down an indeed that he'd helped drawer up that lingers that linda's own that was a key turning points in the government's communication strategy and in the confidence that the public advised from from number ten. The prime minister look really embarrassed when that was put to him directly by the labour leader promises questions on yesterday He didn't even answer. Didn't attempt to answer because there is no answer he can give to that. And and and i think that from that moment on people were less feeling. Well i will make up my own mind about this and in many ways the libertarian and boris johnson is okay with that it wants people to make a thorough months but he wants to make the right decision and and it don't make the right decision a he knows in his heart of hearts going into going into christmas and that if there is a significant increase in deaths over christmas he might try to blame it on people not doing not doing what. He's advise them to but most people will blame it on him for not been clear. They just finally do you think. Boris johnson has yet found a way to adjust himself to what is clearly a serious situation. I know we've talked about this before that you you have now. Situation where amount newest spent his entire career in public life pitching himself as a fundamentally unserious figure has to lead the country at a moment like this he struggles with it on on a daily basis. And you can see that in the not only the lack of clarity in his mind every time he opens melted public. Whether it's a news conference or the house of commons you can see that. He's wrestling with the prime minister. Team wants to be in thought it was going to be on. The one is having to be in the midst of this crisis. And i'm afraid his critics and i would count myself among them. have never found the need to revise our view. That is the romance. The job at this time land price. Thank you as always.
AP 24 Hour News
States will start getting COVID-19 vaccine Monday, US says
"Rollout. I'm Ben Thomas within a P news minute. Right now, Boxes are being packed and loaded with vaccine with emphasis on quality control. Army General Custer Purna, who's heading up the Trump Administration's vaccine development program, says Operation Warp speed is moving into the distribution phase for the nation's first covert 19 vaccine. We expect 145 sites Across all the states to receive vaccine. On Monday, the efforts Cummings Tus recorded a New Dehli high for coronavirus Deaths. Data compiled by Johns Hopkins University Show 3309 People died of covert 19 infections Friday, and as of Saturday evening, the virus had killed more than 297,000 people in the US since the pandemic began. Out of 16 million confirmed cases.
AP News Radio
UK leader's top adviser to step down amid power struggle
"British prime minister Boris Johnson's top adviser plans to step down at the end of the year after a bruising battle for influence at the heart of the British government's fueled by tensions over brexit and the cold with nineteen pandemic Dominic Cummings told the BBC it late Thursday night they plan to be largely redundant by Christmas political commentators have suggested Cummings would step down up to one of his allies was denied an appointment as Johnson's chief of staf Cummings the chief architect of the campaign to have Britain leave the European Union has been a divisive figure inside the conservative government since Johnson became prime minister eighteen months ago his position weekend earlier this year after draw hundreds of miles across England after contracting covert nineteen violating national lock down roles Serra Shockley London
KSFO Morning Show with Brian Sussman with Katie Green
Carole Baskin eliminated from ‘Dancing With the Stars’
"If you would dance with a Brooklyn grades, you could get more bounce. You just look through it. You know Samba needs life bounced and energy. You can't sleep. Walk through a samba. I'm sorry, my love. Where you from French. So Carol Baskin got bounced from dance with the stars dancing with the stars last night, convincing that it didn't happen. She was maybe the worst dancer I've ever seen. It's remarkable. She lasted this long. Yeah, it's only because they needed her. The only reason you even know they're in this season is because she's on the show. They kept her around. Ah, certainly a week longer than she deserves, because she it makes me look like John Travolta. The entire show is a ratings stunt. And she was a stunt within a stunt. Yeah. What? Cummings? No dancing ability. Although pretty good at often, husbands, it would say right one of the best
podnews
Podcast listeners are listening longer
"Constantly, listening longer says Cumulus is Westwood One who has published hits podcast download full twenty, twenty reports. It's their fourth annual study among the findings. spotify is closing the gap with apple podcasts by total listeners it's close twenty, two percent say the Apple, the most twenty percents specify the most willing to that today from our show notes and our newsletter. Do podcasts compete with music listening spotify has an RND division. We discover and release some data in April saying as people pick up podcasts listening, they tend to add it to their previous habits. So music listening remains almost the same once people discover podcasts, good news for musicians although possibly not quite so good news for specifiers hoping they wouldn't have to pay anybody for their podcasts guest. podcast analytics and attribution company. chargeable has raised two point two, five, million dollars in seed funding. The company is tracking one billion downloads a month protracted nearest competitor tracks. One point five, billion, we use that. So congratulations to Dave and Harish. Jack. Mates. Happy Hour from stuck on off has become a spotify exclusive in a youtube. Video Jack Announces spotify offered me a life changing amount of money. This is a game changer for us and ads I've never had any communication with Youtube. Former NBC and Fox News Anchor Megan Kelly is to launch her own podcast network without the constraints or political agendas of other media outlets. She says Devil May Care Media's first release will be the Megan Kelly. Show coincidence record for Mac. Os is a simple audio recorder that sits in your menu bar records records loss less if you like. Could be good for safety copies congratulations to podcast host blueberry who have a free virtual events tomorrow to celebrate fifteen years in business. They have Trivia and prize giveaways, congratulations, Todd and Mike, and everyone else at large media has new logo of bold new look from the same great company. You'll find it in our newsletter today and hereditary is building a MAC based audio editor for podcasts. They want your help to learn more about your production process. We've a new section in the news it's going to happen every Monday it's called the tech stuff. It's with our S S dot com or an excellent podcast hosts. Normally, it's not gonNA make it into this podcast. Today it is. It's aimed at developers and technologists working within podcasting Zahir goes. The podcast index has added a language fields taken from the podcast assassin plans to add eight detected language field in future to catch those podcasters who haven't correctly set it. Joe Morocco has also produced svg versions of the podcast indexes logo, which we now show in own search who websites development documentation has moved pages on get hub at hyper catch as now using the podcast index according to Adam. Curry. His podcasting ready Ip v six asks Thomas Harasser. He notes that some of the largest podcast hosts still don't support Ip six and that some phones in India now I six only at least for media files don't support Ip six you're losing listeners especially in emerging markets he says. And Asandra, dear ferrier used Google Cloud Platform to produce transcripts for his podcast in. Italian. Willing to his notes in English on how he managed IT Marco armaments writes a tongue in cheek clarification of apple's in APP purchase rules which are ever. So slightly opaque, and after we reported at bug charitable correctly setting an RSS user agent, we have more details and best practice. Thanks from our show notes and our newsletter today. And in podcast new seventy million is back for season three, its season premiere seventy million takes you inside Chicago's Cook. County jail during a rapid outbreak of covid nineteen spotify podcast launches, incredible feats today, it say daily show profiling amazing achievements made by people from all over the world hosted by Dan Cummings it's a spotify original available everywhere returning last week meddling adults is a podcast game show for charity with two guests solving children's mysteries from classic series like Scooby. Doo It was the caretaker. Linked to how they made it in our show notes newsletter today and good morning podcasts is podcast in English and in Spanish each Weekday Talk to interesting people in the podcasting scene,
The World
'Our hands are tied': Local aid workers exposed in pandemic
"A mask, official reports say. Kim urged authorities to take precautions ahead of Typhoon Bobby's arrival. A storm came just weeks after monsoon floods damaged infrastructure farms and killed at least 20 North Koreans. That's according to media reports and the International Federation of the Red Cross and Red Crescent, which works with local partners on the ground there, Nazanin today Cummings lectures on humanitarian studies at Deacon University in Melbourne. She says Pyongyang usually turns to foreign aid groups for disaster relief. And to make that happen, these agencies need to build trust with North Korean officials. International organizations are really dependent on having relationship. Inside North Korea, where they have access to information and access to people and access to places that are affected by his after. But because of the covert 19 pandemic, many foreign aid workers are now locked out of the country today coming says You can't do zoom calls from abroad with North Korean officials to coordinate disaster relief. She says Pyongyang's containment measures like closing down its borders and limiting domestic travel were extreme but perhaps necessary. So I think the way North Korea has responded to the pandemic shows that the authorities understand and are very cognizant of how weak the health system is and how how devastating Corbett could be North Korea Earlier this month, Kim Jeong Eun made a rare admission. His economic reforms have failed. He largely blamed the pandemic, international sanctions and natural disasters Today. Cummings agrees that Cove it and US and United Nations restrictions have impacted foreign aid. But she pushes back on the notion that disasters in the North are natural. They don't become disasters and hold a interact with human decision making the inability to be prepared for disasters, the inability to mitigate risk for the disasters and the inability for people to have a system that supports them to be able to make it through hazards without casualty. She adds, the impact of typhoons and floods could be lower if North Korea made caring for its people a priority for the world. I'm Jason Strother and soul.
Covert Nerd Podcast
Star Wars the Clone Wars
"We have tim again from Rainbow, comics to talk star wars and should preface. He's not just the Star Wars Guru, but it just happened to be that. That's what we're talking about today, so thanks Tim. We're GONNA. Be Talking some clone worst all right now. No, I love I love the clone. Thanks for having me back I. Don't mind talking about star. Wars at all. I'm definitely the Star Wars Guy at the store I've got a big old tie fighter sitting on the sitting on one of the shelves, and Yeah I love Star Wars up and down left and right but i. do know other things. SO YEAH CLONE WARS! I know when we talked in the past. You're really excited before the final seat. Well I guess, maybe it's going to be the final season of clone wars, but the new one was coming out, and of course by the time you hear this, it's done so I, will let the listener know that there will be spoilers. It's been long enough. I think, and it can goes to the dark side, you guys. I didn't tell him. It's like saying the titanic. Sinks at the end of the move. It does I my dad still loves that movie and He loved the Titanic before the movie came out, but every the movie's been on TV lot lately, and he keeps watching it, and I was like you've seen the movie. I know it's real long. The boat saying. There there we segue into. That anikin goes bad. Anikin goes bad the and thanks for listening you guys. All, right. But I know you loved the series. Mainly a Soka I would say is probably your best most favorite character. You think, man. She's up there and honestly My love really lies with rebels. But I honestly believe my love for rebels wouldn't exist without clone wars, and I think that clone wars an epic. Very much stands on its own It is so grand like even rebels is like four. Seasons. Whereas clone wars we've got. what is it seven seasons and a move at two thousand eight the I? Did you watch it when it first came out or did you catch a little later? I caught the movie win. It came out on DVD. Because they released the first three episodes as a feature, and if you go on like Disney, plus and you watch season one episode one. That's not worth starts. You have to go on Disney, plus specifically I'm going to go ahead and date this podcast right now around. This is not gonNA work in ten years when Disney pluses and the thing anymore but if you go into Disney plus and go under specials. Specials they have star wars. The clone wars. It's like an eighty six minute movie or something, and that actually comes before season one episode one that was released in theaters and Samuel. Jackson is Mace Christopher Lee is count Duku and I think there might be a third like original voice. Okay? I can't remember off the top of my head, but it's interesting because with clone wars being as long as it is. Tom Cain to me is Yoda so in rebels? They bring in Frank Oz to do Yoda's voice in that in. It's really cool that they got Frank Oz. But seeing a Yoda in that style that CG style sounding not like Tom Kaine like weirdly sounded wrong, and it's the original. Yoda and I might be alone in this, but I just just to have. The the iota that I'd heard 'cause I mean. I haven't counted it, but I have to assume Tom kaine probably has more recorded lines as Yoda than than Frank. Oz does so yeah I guarantee you. He does and especially in that visual style, but that's kind of carried. I know rebels in clone wars aren't exactly the stay the same, but stylistically there's a there's a theme that goes that over rice all of them so. It was just weird rebels to hear Yoda with the original voice, but kind of wanting it to be the voice from Clone Wars I. think that's an interesting legacy in and of itself, that is if a soak is maybe not your favorite I guess, could you let us know maybe your top two favorite characters from condo and I'm sorry. Let me finish. I'm sorry. Honda. Is Is my favorite character and he carries over into rebels. And even there's even a series of kids books, and there's one that's about Hanin chewy with the foul can, and they They have to team up with with Honda I. CAn't remember the name of it off the top of my head, but the audio book is narrated by By, the guy who does voice, who's also Winnie the Pooh and lost Jim Cummings okay. So he voices Hongo in coon, wars and rebels. He does his voice at Galaxies, Edge, theme park at Disney. is Hongo and so there's a whole a whole audiobook. You can just listened to Honda. Tell you a story and it's it's like great. Honda's my absolute favorite.
Mentally Yours
Juno Dawson
"One and welcome to mentally yours. Metro Case Mental Health podcast I'm event and today. I'm chatting to Juno Dawson. She's a journalist and also who's recently released a novel called Wonderland. We've tested to have before on the podcast about trans. Women and mental health in general today. We're catching up with her to see how she's doing in lockdown and also to chat about her recent work. Dawson welcome back to mentally as thanks so much for coming on. Thank you for having me back time. Do I know exactly what it was? It was two years ago because I was really lay. Train hilarity and I've never been so stressed and then not only was I. I went to the wrong. Cheat stuff as well. I can't believe it's been two years, but thanks for coming back on. We were already gently checking about this before we started recording. How have you been getting on during lockdown generally? It's strange now because I want to use the phrase noble because I don't think his normal. Ud, just kind of comes and goes in waves. Doesn't it kind of? How bothered you are by things and I. Think in a strange with that. We've sled a relaxed some of the lockdown roles. It's almost harder in a way like when it was very strict roles, we'll do what we couldn't couldn't dare. Except for Dominic Cummings, who did? What we were allowed to do, and we all we all just stay home and we isolated with the people that we lived. Whereas now there's all these thousands of perplexing roles about you can go to the zoo, but you can't see grandma you're. You're allowed to go for Bob Hewitt at your friends, but you cannot can't use the toilet, so it's all. It's all very strange. During knows us to be happening when it's super strange. If you're single like me, because a friend tweeted earlier, basically you can go to the zoo, but you still have sex. If, you're single. Technically like that has been no announcement about anything like that. So that's is just a weird state of events is net, but anyway. The zoo. A question. So to get the most serious stuff. Have you found anything particularly challenge challenging during the pandemic. yeah I think. Initial theory again we've been. We've been inside for months now. going chronologically at the beginning of lockdown. Wife found really difficult was pretending that everything was normal. Think particularly as a writer people looked at. My life has one which could very much carry on us normal like. What are you worried about? You can just keep on writing like this'll be great. You could just get the next novel done. And so I made a little office space in my living room of tried to. was really really pushing myself to work. Like from nine to five and Then at the same time. I was like project managing my partner as well because he'd been furloughed was right will. This is a list of jobs that need doing around the house. About maybe three weeks in I just had a complete breakdown, and it manifested with me attacking of Venetian blind. Wasn't that wasn't behaving in the way I wanted it to, but that's just wasn't remember that night. I just went to bed, and just cried and cried and cried and Max I think wasn't really shall what was going on, but I think. I just needed to let it out because I've been soft clinging mom. And and you know, it wasn't normal and isn't normal this this isn't like anything that anyone who is alive now has experienced I mean potentially if you are old enough to remember World War Two and I guess you. You've lived through this situation before, but everybody Balm Post Nineteen fifty isn't GonNa remember any of situation like this and I think the there was almost I had to go through a process of just accepting that nothing was the same an indeed and I've had seen the people of referred to it as a love, the same emotions as bereavement. Light let's Elaine go part. Of like, you're not going to be seeing your friends, you're not going to be seeing your family. You'RE NOT GONNA be. Doing exactly what you want to do. Doubled up, point is. Public Health Fairs. Are. We GonNA get sick. Are we going to die? I'm having I was very lucky in that nobody who I personally NAR has. died of Covid, but my daddy did get sick from something else, so we were trying to deal with you. Know my dad being in hospital and Oh my God. He's in hospital with his diabetes is GonNa get coronavirus. So it was it was a lot, but the not feels like years ago now because that was like right at the beginning of lockdowns. That really does feel like a different life.