35 Burst results for "Chores"
Does Education Affect Cognitive Labor Patterns in Relationships? With Allison Daminger, PhD Candidate
"I've done to lick related studies on the same topic in one. I just looked at couples who both had college degrees and then in a more recent study. I've looked at a wider range of educational backgrounds and had all these about how education might shape cognitive labor patterns. And i thought you know. Maybe the highly educated folks might be more equitable. Because in general generally all-terrian leafs are higher among those other college degree. I'm still looking through that data so far haven't found a ton of nuance seems to be that whether or not you have a bachelor's degree the gendered patterns where women do more of this work seems to hold there's some nuances and differences when it comes to things like physical chores. There's also found that folks who didn't have a college degree seemed to be a little bit more okay calling certain things men's work versus women's work whereas those were dedicated. Where a little bit more careful not to use those sort of gender stereotypes of the actual patterns didn't seem all that different by class for educational
Getting Past A Negative Mindset When Things Aren't Working
"Really wanna talk about a common phrase. I see too many gifted and hopeful entrepreneurs choose all too often in their journey and that is in its mccullough default. Thought because it's one that comes up a lot that you don't even think to challenge you. Don't even think to question you just believe it to be true. You believe it to be fact every time and the same as it's not working. This isn't working for me. And i have seen people say this. And every phase of their business when they're just starting out when their years in when they're implementing something new it is the. I thought your brain is always going to offer you the moment you feel doubt and when we feel doubt that's where i notice people will choose the thought it's not working or something has gone wrong. And what they do is they. Don't even think to challenge that. Thought they don't think to stop and pause and ask themselves. What if this isn't true. What if that's not a fact because your brain loves to make sweeping generalizations when you are frustrated. And you're not seeing the results as quickly as you feel. You should be seen them. And i say the words should because that's the language a lot of people use when they evaluate the results like i should be further along. I should have had more sales. I should have more followers. Might team should be coming to the calls. They just should themselves to death and anytime with should ourselves. Just want you to notice anytime you say should do you ever feel good. Do you ever feel better. Does it invite a warm and toasty feeling inside of you when you say. I should probably go and do that. I really should go and write a post. I really should go and add value to my audience really should go and check on my customers. I should go check on my team. Like notice how all of that is from this attitude of obligation of like. Yeah i probably should go do that like it's painful chore or it's i also think when we should ourselves it invites shame because it's almost saying like we aren't measuring up to a bar. We are holding for ourselves. And what's interesting is. We don't even realize that we are the ones holding the bar. We think other people are holding the bar and that's not actually true.
Maed in India Founder/CEO, Mae Mariyam Thomas, Breaks Down India's Growing Podcast Market
"In the last five years podcast growth has been on an upward trajectory and twenty twenty alone podcast apps like spotify ghana and gio salvin saw a forty two percent increase in time spent on their platforms. But what kind of parkas are in listening to well. Most media people in india no the basic. Abcd astrology bollywood cricket and devotion. And not that. It's very different in podcasting. But some of the most popular genres are definitely spirituality and religion sports particularly cricket india is also a nation that loves storytelling. So sean ras like romance and crime and mystery also. Draw an active listener base. Now podcast listening also has a relatively young audience. Geo salvin released a podcast advertising playbook last year that said that ninety two percent of their listenership was below the age of thirty five. Their playbook also said that they're streaming incites suggests that podcast listening is a companion activity. Where it kind of takes place throughout the day. Two and five listeners stream shows while doing household chores one third listen while working one and five while driving or commuting and there is also data that shows that people are listening to podcast just before they go to sleep.
The Fox Sisters: A Mysterious Haunting
"Today story begins in december of eighteen. Forty seven when the fox family moves to the rural community of hides new york the plan to build their own home in the new town but the winter is pretty brutal so the construction comes to a stop in the meantime. John and margaret fox rent a modest house near the town centre and move in with their two young daughters. Fourteen year old maggie and eleven year old kate. This rental house is small like the four of them have to share a single bedroom. The parents asleep in one bed in maggie in kate and another and while it's kind of tight the fox's are relatively happy. John is a reformed alcoholic with a new outlook on life. Margaret is a super sweet mother who lives for her children as for maggie and kate. They're pretty much glued at the hip so they're never bored. Most nights in the new house are pretty unremarkable. After doing some chores and blowing out the candle they slip into their beds and fall asleep to the peaceful sounds of the river nearby. Of course there are other sounds too you know. The standard creepy sounds that come with living in a tiny shack in the middle of the woods. The wind howling the creaking of old trees. The pitter-patter of creatures scuttling through the night but on a cold march night. The fox's wake up to something different something other worldly. There's a sudden wrapping on the walls thumping on the ceilings and vibrations all around them naturally. Everyone's a little alarmed so they re light the candle and investigate this sound has to have a source an open window rattling an animal trapped inside a woodpecker on the roof. It could be any number of things but after checking every corner of the room and popping their heads outside. They don't find anything out of the ordinary. Which is a little weird sure. But it's the middle of the night in everyone's tired. So john margaret maggie and kate all go back to bed hoping that the sounds will just go away on their own. But that's wishful thinking.
Learn How to Thrive; Not Just Survive as a Working Mom - burst 07
"It's called a reality list in the list. And it's a way to create a do an audit to see. Are you living according to your priorities or are you living more outside that circle and kind of in the edges of life right. So what did she is in. Hr executive and some she done it with other professional plants that she said she told me paid. Here are nine items nine of life that we all spend time on. Hobbies appearance work partner. Relationships travel All the different things in life household name household chores and she listened him out and she said okay. What i want you to do is in an ideal world list out one two nine. Where would you place your time. Where would you place your energy. And at the top of my list where things like hobbies passion projects like my work. Modern mommy dock. They were travel They were self care. Things like exercise that. I love to do listening to music reading books all those things and then she said okay. Now do a reality list and say where do you actually place your time and effort and work with at the top of my list. My regular day to day work works patients. Which of course they're gonna make money make money but the second thing on my list was maintaining my home which i care nothing about. I don't want my family to live in squalor. But i also do not care about folding laundry which most most moms like in the end if they were thinking about it and be like. Oh my gosh. It's been ninety day for the wanderer during the dishes. They'd be like no. That's horrible so then you compare those lists and the pay crash. Am i spending the vast majority on time on things that actually don't matter to me where my priorities now. And where do i want them to be And i loved that you gave a lot of tips. And kind of like your blueprint of how to make your reality lists lineup more with the lists that your ideal list. I guess you would say i love. Yeah exactly. I mean. I think number one is taking care of yourself like spending time taking care of yourself so you actually know yourself and you know the things that you want. This can be when you're a young parent when you have a newborn baby and toddler and things really chaotic five minutes in the shower with no one bothering you. The door locked. This could be you know sitting on the porch listening to your airpods with some really good hip hop jams that bring you back to being in college or being in high school. This could be reading a good book. This could be taking time to have a copy with a friend right. It doesn't have to be super long. It could be really short period of time. So i tell people spend at least five minutes a day where you just have that time where you just quiet with yourself. You're just being and then trying to encourage people to take at least one hour three times a week which sometimes people the other day where my business partners my Doctor was telling you. I read that you sent the blog number. Like you're crazy might really in the entire course of a week. I believe that moms are worth one hour three times a week to do what ever they wanna do. The most important thing is just making sure that it's not about performance. Like if you love to right. Like i do great right like an amazing essay. But don't do it because you're like i really hope this gets into the new york times instead. You know write it like on. My gosh had this amazing idea and i really wanted to flush it out you know or i wanted to. You know rows national apology. Our i wanted to get a nanny petty. I wanted you talk with a friend on the phone. Whenever it is something that like will not move your life forward will not be about doing is just about being is really. The is really the tab. And then i think the other thing is taking time during your day when your lunch to be thinking about an on breaks that thing to be thinking about. Are there moments here. That i stop pause and either be in connection with other people or being connection with myself are there. Are there times that i can just make space give myself white space and give myself resume on the edges of all my appointments and all my to do list all my things that i have to get done so that i'm not feeling like i'm in this rat race all the time and i have the time to be thinking about. Am i in alignment. Or am i not align. Because that's really what it comes back to knowing yourself. Having time and effort yourself to be able to ponder and not be in a like mean coach kind of way but in a positive cheerleader way. Okay where am i. Where do i need to make. Maybe some little tweaks here to get back on track
"chores" Discussed on The Mom Hour
"All right well. Let's talk about summer a little bit. And i thought we could just kind of mention the things that make summer different or maybe make it a good opportunity to level up these capabilities and an even why we feel motivated or the kids feel motivated to step up their independence and their contributions so for a lot of families. I think just the fact that we shift routines in the summer opens up these opportunities and it might not be you. You might have year round school or your kids might be going right into a fulltime camp but for a lot of people. If you're changing you know how much homework there is at night. What time you get up in the morning. what like how. The meals look Leisure activities like how much time people are take a spending outside and swimming which then maybe changes like how and when they shower like. It's kind of like flywheel effect of Routine change that. I think is just a really good opportunity to start fresh with new chores. New responsibilities maybe new freedoms like new bed times our new screen time like you might be giving more freedom. Even as you're expecting more responsibility so just the routine shift. I think can be really natural chance to experiment with some of these things. I have also found. My kids have gotten older that they want to do more stuff in the summer. Like they wanna have a sleepover. And maybe we haven't done that before. They want more video game time. So that's also a cue for me to be like. Oh okay well. That could is ready for that. I wonder are. They also ready for some more responsibility. Or if it's not more responsibility maybe it's some conversations around safety like maybe you're ready for your kid to have a sleepover but like oops you haven't had some of those important safety conversations about like internet pornography and like whatever else you feel like is important for those kids to go in equipped if they're gonna be spending more time away from home. So i see those things as kind of intertwined and then just a final thought you might have more head space in the summer to be more active in the mentoring. The tutoring the teaching of these skills. Like i think for a lot of it's not like we're just like okay. Here's how to unload the dishwasher like now. It's your job. You have taught me this over the years. Meghan like it is a painful and slow and humbling never sending for us or anything process and it's very it's okay and natural if as a busy working mom or maybe a baby this year or it was covid. You haven't had any timer head space to teach your kids life skills so of course. They haven't leveled up in their independence and their chores. And that's okay you don't need to beat yourself up for that but maybe summer is a just a more relaxed schedule in your house and then you can think of it as like okay. I'm not going to assign like twenty new chores per kid..
The Burden of 'Stuff' and The Benefits of Letting Things Go
"I wanna tell you a story that happened to me when we first moved from house to apartment and this was a brand new apartment building it was spanking new. It was really really nice and we took a lot of care in in how we pleased things and got some new furniture so it was just a really light grey tone Apartment and it was a sunday afternoon. And brian was out so i had the place to myself and i wasn't teaching. I wasn't working. I was deliberately. Because i can work all day long and i was sitting on my couch looking at a book and i had this sense. Come over me this feeling. This visceral feeling of ease of peace. I couldn't put my finger on it. What is this. I mean yeah. I feel relaxed and rested sunday. I have nothing really to do on. I don't want to just work. I don't want to do anything. And i realized in that moment that i didn't have any house chores. I didn't have the burden of stuff over my head or on my shoulders. I didn't have a garage to clean. I didn't have a closet to clean out. I didn't have you know something to fix in the house. And you know if you're a homeowner you know there's always something you could be doing any of that. It was the most bizarre feeling almost felt. Like i was a kid. You know kids that are unburdened. It's like oh. I just get to go out and play now. I can't say that. I live in that all the time but i remember that vividly because it made me realize how much weight i feel or more way. Did i feel when burdened with stuff. So i'm encouraging you just to explore your own relationship to stuff to what are you holding onto. What are you holding onto. And why
The Shocking Reality of Postpartum Muscle Separation
"Wet delving into arguably plastic surgeries most misunderstood and misrepresented procedures the humble tummy tuck for those outside of the plastic surgery world tummy. Tucks are often used interchangeably with either suction or seen as a means to quick weight loss. This most likely a remnant from the early offsite geist where shows like nip talk and plastic surgery reality. Tv reign supreme but women. Who've had donna. Prostate will prove it's not a lighthearted cosmetic procedure in this week's episode. We'll give him rigo. Tina who gives an honest. A harrowing description of what life was like with severe muscle separation for four years and y trailer. Removed poos pot muscle separation from the n. b. s. But i joined by. Dr richard bloom to explain what exactly muscles separation and dominik plasticity Chore so attempt the medical term for tommy talkies in abdominal plastic. Their number of reasons why you might have an abdominal plassey. One would be white loss. The other nine mom would be after having children when you have children and also when you put on white. The skin is stretched up and you increase the amount of tissue intra abdominal so around all of your organs and when that happens it stretches out the muscle will so the abdominal wall is made up of two muscles in the in the middle which are the rectus abdominal muscles. So that's what keeps you. You'll see expected people talk about but then attaching into the sauna. Them us an awesome muscles together. Make up the abdominal wall. So when there is an increase in pressure in the intro donald space with that judah fat or pregnancy or other things that will get stretched up and people than the the tissue between the two central muscles gets stretched. And that's what people refer to as the muscle separation or the dive. Eric ation to use the more medical term and people focus on that but the laxity or or weakness in the abdominal wall. That's part of it. But it's also because those muscles that are inserting into the rectus ab- domino muscle. Are they not in the right place.
"chores" Discussed on Parenting: Difficult Conversations
"About it and some of the participants he said. Well i live there. Therefore i should help and he said it was the most weird question. Why are you asking another boy said know. I also eat there. So it's not the parents that are telling them or force them and in fact the pan set no. You can't force them to do something which brings us to the last takeaway if the child refuses a request or doesn't want to help don't force them. Yes you know. Alcoa says that when she presents her research at conferences a common response is well. The kids have to work because the families have limited resources for. She says that's not what's going on here because the parents are forcing children to help. My mom's told alcoa you can ask a child once twice to help and you can guide him can help them see why this is important for them to do and to learn. But you can impose learning. You can't impose them to to help if they don't want help actually maria. Maybe we should take a step back here and look at the bigger picture. This isn't just about having clean dishes or even teaching kids how to do chores. Allah says with this approach. Parents are teaching kids something that goes way beyond that. They're also teaching them to be cooperative in help voluntarily. And if you think about it to do that you need to pay attention. No win to help and to take initiative what they want. The child to to develop is the initiative to understand when somebody is in need of help to be attentive to be alert to what's happening so forcing could backfire. Could actually erode the child's motivation to cooperate with you and to help voluntarily. She says it pits the child against the parent and that could create conflict. And you don't wanna have conflict within the family. 'cause i could break the cohesion of the family right so you don't want to have your children as your enemy which is very different because we see middleclass parents also in mexico and other communities that are not enemies but they're against each other is because remember. We are not teaching children to be obedient. We are teaching them to cooperate and work as a team to look around and see what needs to be done and then care enough about it to do it. That's the dream so be patient. That's a life long skill just like reading or learning math. You can't just hang up chart on the refrigerator and expected to start washing the dishes on tuesday at friday as berea tune borges says. The process takes time abbott home. You have to teach them slowly little by little and eventually they will understand so ready to start showing kids how to be helpful. Remember these four things in every culture all young kids from toddlers until about eight six. They want to help people who loved them. They just don't know the best way what you do. In response to a desire to help will likely determine whether or not that kids will wants to help with chores when they grow older if a child comes over to help you and you shoo them off. You can erode their interest in chores and even in cooperating so instead welcome in eager child's help step back and give them a chance even if they aren't competent in the task. Don't wait for a child to show interest in task. Request their help when you need it. Given small successive tours just be sure tasks are real contributions. Not busy work. Finally if a child doesn't want to help don't force them. The goal is to teach children to cooperate and work together. For more like it checked out other episodes. I love marinas episode. 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Despite Delivery Service Concerns, Instacart Doubles Valuation Again
"If you feel like you've been throwing a lot of money grocery delivery services of late. You're not the only one instacart just got well. Many cartfuls of money from its existing investors. This latest round of funding marks the second time the company has doubled its valuation since the beginning of the pandemic instacart is now estimated at a whopping forty billion dollars. Not hard to figure out. Why investors are betting on the service. Instacart was a lifeline. For many when everything started shutting down because of the covid nineteen pandemic the service was away from any to avoid going to the grocery store and the inherent risk of that formerly mundane chore and others got hooked on the convenience of it all. Why go to the store when you could just order up the groceries on your phone and have them delivered to your house within a couple of hours before those benefits consumers were willing to pay quite the premium instacart charges as much as nine dollars per delivery or you can pay one hundred bucks a year for unlimited free delivery on top of that grocers pay ten percent per order which is no small amount in an industry where margins usually average two percent or less according to forbes grocers like acne costco wegman's and others have formed instacart partnerships even kerfuffle over the service firing employees. Who wanted to unionize wasn't enough to stop this carts momentum speculation about the company going public and when is swirling with one reuters reports saying instacart might even avoid a traditional ipo an opt for direct listing in which companies go public without raising money through a stock sale but going public is always a bed of roses just ask competitor jordache which went through an ipo in december. Even though the company has agreements with mega retailers. Like seven eleven and cbs. In addition to its restaurant partners and beat its fourth quarter revenue estimates to boot jordache stock dropped because of its big losses due to ipo costs and stock related compensation according to cnbc citron research called door dashes ipo. Quote the most ridiculous of twenty twenty and said the stock was not worth a fraction of its price. The main concern about the valuations around these delivery. Service companies is. What happens after the pandemic with vaccinations. Well underway hopeful new. Cdc guideline saying that we can hug mom and dad again with caution will consumers still be willing to pay more for convenience on a recent earnings call. Jordache leaders reported still seeing growth in areas where covid restrictions have been eased a hopeful sign for the future at instacart the companies using its windfall to secure deals with a broader retail base. It has recently struck deals with big lots staples and walgreens to name a few. So even if you do wanna head back to the store to pick out your own meat and produce you just might keep turning to the delivery service to bring you that. Inexpensive sofa were case of copy paper ordered and with the universe of retailers. Out there who knows what new ways the company will find to deliver the goods
What Do My Cravings Mean?
"So there can be numerous reasons. For cravings there can be many layers to cravings for people a lot of people think about cravings that is being a result of a particular psychological or emotional reason. You know maybe it was tied back to their childhood or or got into some kind of habit but today when we're in studio we want to focus on the physical or that biochemical reason for creating certain things in general. I think here at nutritional weight and wellness when we think about cravings we see cravings as a sign that there is something out of balance in the body. Something that's not quite right and one example of an imbalance could be could be deficient in a certain nutrient and that may be the cause of cravings. So we know when clients say they have trouble sleeping or they have muscle cramps or they have charlie horses we know these are signs of magnesium deficiency which then also typically coincides with cravings for chocolate. It's almost magical when i'm working with someone and they start taking maybe four hundred to six hundred milligrams of that magnesium grayson their muscle cramps. Go away and they no longer crave chocolate or it's the craving has gone. It's just more of. Hey i like chocolate rather than i need chocolates. I have to have it. And i think the important part to to kinda back up little bit as to explain magnesium licensed. Why do we say that form. I don't you just say magnesium because glysophate Mcneil glycemic is key late to that amino acid so it helps it absorb better so sometimes when you go to stores you can get a different form and it's not as absorbable. It doesn't work as well. So i've had people tell me. Oh yeah i've tried. This and my muscle cramps actually came back so we really liked that magnesium blades so there's no doubt that magnesium is can be a nutrient deficient deficiency and can be directly related to those cravings yup absolutely. I think that's a great point. Nikki is that there is a major difference. Just in that glycemic form with magnesium and when most of the time where people are buying supplements they want that supplement to be able to work well for them which is why we're just huge. Proponents of that magnesium clayson aid. So here's another craving. That actually came as a surprise to me. If you crave salt it is a good chance. First of all that you may be dehydrated so you were working in your garden all day in the hot sun and you're so focused on trying to get those plants in the ground or you're so focused on trying to get the mulch down or whatever those those little gardening chores are and you didn't hydrate properly and then suddenly you start to create that salt.
Spacewalking astronauts perform six-hour long repair on the International Space Station
"Two NASA astronauts are back safe inside the international space station After a walk in space. A couple of NASA astronauts took a saunter outside the international space station Saturday. They had some outdoor plumbing chores that needed doing, namely fixing the air conditioning system. Astronauts Victor Glover and Mike Hopkins, teaming up for the second time since performing back to back spacewalk six weeks ago on another repair job. One thing to be careful of venting ammonia. I thought it was more than I was expecting Justin this line, but it did stop. In addition, the out of this world handyman replaced an antenna for helmet cameras and tightened the connections on a European experiment platform. Talk about helping out your neighbors
A Beeple Artwork Just Sold for $69M
"Sound. You hear the sound of people's heads absolutely exploding a few times in previous episodes. I've mentioned the people auction going. On at christie's this is the first time the famous auction house has auctioned off a completely digital good. They had previously included an f. T. versions of some physical items that were up for auction but this was the first time it was just an nf tea while the final bids are in and the price paid for people's the first five thousand days was sixty nine million three hundred and forty six thousand two hundred fifty dollars first of all the folks over on wall street. Bets are in utter disbelief that the price wasn't sixty nine million. Four hundred twenty thousand and sixty nine dollars. Second of all crypto. Twitter is absolutely frigging losing their minds. This is a crescendo. Perhaps the first of many but definitely the first of the nfc mennea sweeping the world. I've given the background before but in short. Nfc's are non fungible tokens non fungible means that rather than every token being like every other token in other words each. Bitcoin is like each other bitcoin. They're mutually interchangeable. Each other is equivalent to each other. Tether these are cryptographic. Unique tokens that uniqueness lens them well to the actual owning quote unquote of the original quote unquote of creative work. Like a piece of art and of have been a part of the crypto space. For years i mean remember crypto kitties but over the last few months and especially the last few weeks they have had a major breakout. There have been two really important categories within that the first is actually in the sports collectible slash trading cards space last year. The team that brought you crypto katie's launched nba top shots in conjunction with the nba. These are effectively a new type of trading card featuring efficiently. Licensed video highlights. Now i was watching this and things started reasonably but they have really picked up over the last couple months last month. Nba top shot process. More than two hundred fifty million dollars in sales from one hundred thousand buyers more than that admitted a whole new group of wales a wall street journal article today was called the whales of nba. Top shot made a fortune buying lebron highlights. They were the early to the hottest. Nf market and their collections are now worth millions of dollars. They take a look at people. Like michael levy a thirty one year old financial analyst. Who spent one hundred seventy five thousand dollars over six months whose collection is now worth twenty million plus or andy chore. Leeann a twenty seven year. Old dev who back in his younger days traded pokemon bought sneakers but then more recently bought. Thirty eight hundred. Nba top shot moments. That are now worth a collective fifteen million. I think it's really important to point this side of the market out because in many ways it is a completely different. Demographic than the crypto punks art type people and frankly the people interested in people at least on an artistic level. But i also think it's worth noting that collectibles in general are going crazy. Golden auctions is a huge trading house for cards memorabilia. It sarah on march seventh. Golden tweeted prior to two thousand twenty. There only ten cards that ever sold for one million dollars plus in history last night we sold five cards for a million dollars. Plus clearly there is something going on in these sports card collectible market as well and on a smaller level i track a small index of magic the gathering card prices just to keep track of what older cars in that space are doing and it's up four hundred and fourteen percent in the last year. This is going to be relevant for discussion in a little bit about what's really underlying what's happening in an f. Teas but for now. Let's get back to the art. There has been a ton of focus. Here i people were gobsmacked by the price of crypto punks which are selling for thousand sometimes even tens of thousands hash masks or more of the same but all in all these things felt pretty well contained within the crypto space they were insider games insider speculation and insider collectors over the last few weeks that shifted we saw people sell on nifty gateway for more than six million. We had musicians jumping in just in blau who performs as three lau sold a set of thirty three. Nfc's for over eleven million dollars. Grimes may just under six million dollars. Kings of leon released an album last week with full. Ft's we've seen more sports stars jump in with gronk releasing a bunch of nf teas and then we've had brand seemingly determined to ruin the party for everyone like taco bell who released a set of tease last week as well. Of course alongside the hype. The backlash has increased as well. I mentioned on yesterday's show that there is a huge group. Were now fighting on environmental grounds. Just to give you a sample of some of those tweets per the biggest thing. The nfc sh tells us that we have an extremely short amount of time to destroy the capitalist system before it scorches all live from the earth in of a three percent rate of return. Here's another one the. Nfc thing has drawn a line in the sand between the artists who are annoying for evil minting enough tease and artists who are annoying for good cyber bullying people minting. Nfc's until dimensions mentions are so exhausting. They stop like we're all annoying but it's how we use our powers finally. Let's do one more tweeting things here and there but my stance on teases final. It's horrible for the environment and a very critical time in the climate crisis. Therefore if you participate in it. I will judge you freely in gladly and no longer support you so i tweeted this out yesterday and got a huge number of responses of people who have seen similar things and keep in mind. These aren't like random accounts or at least these tweets are getting hundreds of likes responses. And re tweet so. It seems clear that there is this counter lash happening even as we speak all in all the point. Is that even before today. Things in this space. We're getting pretty heated. But then the people auction closed
Tom Brady admits he 'was not thinking' when he tossed the Lombardi Trophy to another boat
"TV. Taking a look back at the Super Bowl party, Tom Brady's opened up about tossing his Lombardi Trophy from one boat to another. After the Super Bowl, he tells the late late show is James Corden. It's a good thing Teammate Cam break can catch found out later that had that been an incomplete pass that would have went down like 80 ft and about that shaky walk back on dry land, sea legs. Oh, dare I say it. It touched tequila. Oh, I think a little above, Brady says he's back to being a full time Dad and doing House chores. Deborah Rodriguez, CBS News Still to come. Dr Oz with some real life advice,
Microsoft announces passwordless authentication in Azure
"Microsoft announced his end to end encryption support for teams plus password list loggins microsoft announced that it is adding end to end encryption support to microsoft teams later this year at its ignite conference yesterday. It stated that preview of end to end encryption teams will be available in the first half of this year for commercial customers it will be available for one to one unscheduled teams calls and is designed for more sensitive conversations. This is something that its main competitor. Slack does not currently have microsoft also announced that it is making password list lugging a standard feature for as your active directory. A cloud based service customers can use to handle their employees logging chores. Us unprepared for a competition with china. Commission finds a comprehensive report released this week by the national security commission on artificial intelligence states that white house leadership and a substantial investment will both be needed to ensure us superiority in artificial intelligence by twenty twenty five commission. Chair and former. Google chief executive eric schmidt said he believes china is catching the. Us up on a initiatives proposed by the commission include the creation of technology competitive council within the white house to be chaired by the vice president. A steering committee on emerging technology within the defense department to coordinate an advance implementation of technology and d creation of an accredited degree granting digital services academy to help build a pipeline of civil service tech tyrant. Tom cruise deepfake videos rattled security. Experts three mysterious deepfake videos of tom cruise. That have gone. viral on. Tiktok are the handiwork of chris. Ume a video visual effects specialist from belgium. The videos have drawn attention from experts and non experts alike for being among the most convincing. Examples of the genre of fake videos yet produced deepfakes created using artificial intelligence that uses a technique to train to neural networks in tandem to either create or identify facial imagery while some technologists security experts. Fear deepfakes will become a potent weapon for political disinformation. Chris downplays such concerns saying quote consumers. Just need to become more skeptical of what they see and quote carmen. Ransomware makes it easy and cheap to launch attacks. A new ransomware. Do it yourself. Kit called carmen k. A. r. m. e. n. Is making it easy. For one of these cybercriminals to launch ransomware attacks packaged with small loader and also small in size it can detect if it is operating in a sandbox environments and can automatically delete portions of its code to prevent security researchers from analyzing it carmen scrambled files with eighty s. Two fifty six bit encryption and operates with minimal connections to its command and control server as a ransomware as a service product. Carmen automates many processes including payment processing so users can concentrate on distributing the rent somewhere at one hundred and seventy five dollars. Carmen lowers the barrier to entry to the ransomware market.
Seattle to open more permanent COVID-19 vaccination sites in Rainier Beach, West Seattle, Lumen Field Event Center
"Been reporting how seattle is turning some of its testing sites into permanent vaccination sites starting today the rainier beach side is prepared to give about two thousand shots a week and so is second location in west seattle. Kyw's josh amac nickeled visited the rainier beach vaccination clinic today joshua high and describe this vaccination site for us well like every other side. It's open to people who are eligible. Mostly that means seniors over sixty five but there are a few other categories to like home health workers anyway. Everyone who shows up here has an appointment and they walk up and they check in at a table and then when it's their turn they passed. They passed through one of several shipping containers on a train or on the back of a truck and inside there is an administrator in a little booth. And there's someone from the fire department and that person gives you your shot and then you walk out the back of the shipping container into an outdoor area and then you hang out under a tent for like fifteen minutes with a view of the lake all right well. Did you get to speak to anyone there. Yeah i spoke to a lot of seniors there in the recovery tent. And they told me before today trying to get a vaccination appointment was a real chore. Roberta bird right said she couldn't sleep. She wanted an appointment so badly. Given times i wake up you know in the morning. Three o'clock two o'clock in during the throughout the day. And then of course the site that we look. It's like places. Like well up in tacoma and you know really far out. And i'm not going to those places so i just kept looking and looking so now opened up so she also got on wait lists at pharmacies and they told her they'd call but they never did and then she heard from a friend that the southeast seattle senior center was helping seniors make appointments and so she called. They called me back right away like within a few days and schedule being. I'm here bird right. Told me that she had concerns about the safety of the vaccine so it was reassuring for her to go through a community group. Yeah that's good news that roberta got her shot. And just you know. We've been hearing stories about grandkids helping their grandparents schedule. An appointment you know for a variety of reasons you know. Maybe the grandparents don't have a smartphone or computer or maybe like roberta's case the the grandparents are trying to just striking out but in this case it sounds like the senior center is stepping in. Yes and that is the strategy here. They're still far more demand for vaccines than there is supply and so these new vaccination sites are favoring referrals they're working closely with community groups and those groups are doing the outreach. Linda green runs the southeast seattle senior center. That's the group that helped this person earlier. Find their appointment and she says she got her staff spending all their time. Basically going after vaccination appointments for seniors. But it's hard because there just aren't enough vaccines so she said it feels like a competition. Well it's a competition because now we're have folks who are competing you've got the folks who are seventy five years old and older. We've got the sixty five year old. We've got those folks who are under fifty but are also caretakers for those who are sixty five and over or seventy and over. And i know that we have to start from the top the most vulnerable and work our way down but it still is somewhat competitive as to. Who's going to get it first. So all of those those areas we still have to define but we are of the opinion that the goal is for everyone to get vaccinated so whomever we can fit into that classification. That's what we're doing. Yeah and in that competition for vaccines. It helps to have a community group to help you get an appointment. But eventually officials tell me the problem will cease to be a vaccine shortage problem and will become a communication problem. You know trying to get enough people to show up and use all the vaccines right. And we're hearing. There will be more and more vaccinations slots opening up later as well and and another thing. We learned today. Josh was later this month. There's going to be another max. Vaccination site opening up in seattle At the former centurylink field now known as linfield yes and with that site. They're going to start small in the middle of the month but as soon as enough vaccines are on the way that site will be able to push out twenty one thousand vaccinations per day. They told me yeah. That sounds like a lot of shots. When is that going to be. They wouldn't say for sure. Only the it'll happen as soon as possible. And if you're a senior and you want to be proactive linda. Green at the southeast seattle senior center says give them a call. And they'll help you. You don't even have to be in seattle proper anywhere in king. County is fine and then of course you can also use the washington phase finder website. Which helped at least one senior here today.
Why Your Boss Will Live Longer Than You
"While your boss will live longer than you. Unless of course you take my advice by stella. Grisanti of wu pa dot com. I just bought a new shoe rack from bed bath and beyond and got so excited at the thought of seeing my heels all in a row so much so that i began to laugh at. Just how much this meant to me. But then i hearken back to what i learned in grad school and realized how this tidy endeavour signifies much more than my ms wannabe ainley organized. This is actually representative of a life threatening problem. That faces everyone. Who has a boss over talking about here. People has been the root of wars of struggle of heartache physical and emotional and of premature death for as long as we can remember or at least since the famous nineteen sixty seven. Whitehall study proved it so we're talking about here. People is the desire for control according to the two very famous studies. Why hall one away hall. Two one's rank in class status or hierarchy at work or in life have a dramatic influence on lifespan. Who do you think lives longer a busy. Ceo or secretary. I guess my post idol gives it away but keep listening according to the whitehall studies which examined eighteen thousand male civil servants in nineteen sixty seven and then over ten thousand men and women twenty years later. In a longitudinal study it turns out that those in a lower rank have morbidity rate of toys those who occupy higher level positions. The higher your position. The longer you're more likely to live wi- when the responsibilities of si yo cause more stress which leads to spite quarters all levels which leads to cardiovascular issues You would think but actually the study found that the less control you feel you have over your lot in life. The higher your level of stress pece other studies following this theorized that perhaps it's not so much control. The maybe the anticipation of not knowing. What's next same difference to me. So how'd you live longer or just as long as your boss number one outsmart yourself except that you don't have control over the events in your life because you really don't and the only thing you can control is reaction and thoughts in regards to events that you can't control that actually gives you lots of control. In fact it determines about forty percent of your happiness. Outsmart the power struggle. Choose your response to things. I come up number two cre- pretend pockets so maybe you can't control the fact that your company's biggest competitor just came up with the next best thing to sliced bread that your baby cries at night or that. The train is late buchanan. Cre- pretend pockets of control. Pretend pockets of control our little things that you do for yourself to make you feel like you do actually have control in life. This could be making sure you to the gym. No matter what every morning or can be eating healthy or it can be organizing your shoe closet number three except at all but create with intention this music sept. Whatever comes your way as information in an opportunity to create something new and better. If what you got wasn't exactly what you wanted for example. You thought he was the one but getting dumped over lunch might mean he's not accept that learn from the information you gathered during the relationship in continued to intend on finding love but the kind that actually does x. y. and z is all forgiving. Yourself like if your pretend pocket is going to the gym every morning and you don't make it this week except that other things got in the way and continue to intend on healthy lifestyle. Start going again tomorrow. Now that we're all worked up or at least i am off to right next about just how positive it is to be out of control. Sometimes we'll save for later another from her in just a second but i as a listener of this show. You know how important it is to put health. I don't let the chore of going to the doctor get in your way. It did for me before. But now i've tried plush care with plush care i get virtual doctor appointments right through my smartphone or computer. I just pick a time that works for me and book an appointment online. No crowded waiting room. No commute and no being put on hold. Mike can be diagnosed treated and even have a prescription sent to my pharmacy of choice. If needed was plush care plus they're available in all fifty states and most major insurance carriers are accepted. I've tried it. I've used it super simple and it works. Pushing doctors really care. They're available anytime. I have questions and will even help with managing my emotions.
"How has food. Tv changed over time. And how has it changed us. All not just us gastropod. That's right. you're listening to gastropod the podcast. That looks at food through the lens of science and history. I'm cynthia graber. And i'm nicola twilley and this episode. We're taking a spin around the dial which sounds medieval but believe us when we say. Tv's used to not have remotes. You had to literally spin odile. Even i barely remember those wild and wonderful days. This episode is supported in part by cabot. Creamery cabot is a co-op of new england and new york dairy farmers who make award winning cheeses with pure rich milk straight from family farms their specialty cheeses include unique flavors like roasted garlic cheddar and their team of cheese graders indirect with every batch to ensure award-winning quality. Go to cabinet. She's dot com to find out where to buy cabot near you there. You'll also find pairings how to videos and delicious comfort food recipes like the best mac and cheese and more the first thing to know about the very earliest food. Tv wasn't actually on tv. It was on the radio almost as soon as a radio came into being in the nineteen twenties in the us food radio came into being. It was a really easy way for programs to be created because they were easy and cheap. They were obvious outlets for advertising for sponsorship for food products and appliances. So that's where we saw food before. Tv was even a twinkle in the eye. Kathleen collins is a librarian and professor at john jay college of criminal justice and she's the author of the book watching what we eat. The evolution of television cooking shows the stars of these very first food shows. Were hardly stars in today's cents. These radio shows were unglamorous. It was all teaching housewives. How to economize and optimize and generally do all their chores. Better one of the not remotely. Glamorous stars was a woman named and sammy who we can only imagine was supposed to be the wife of uncle sam which is kind of disturbing. She wasn't actually a person. It was a program delivered by an arm of the. Usda and the she was not just one person but several different actors around the country. Adopting regional accents similarly a figure. That's much more well known was betty crocker. She actually started on the radio and like aunt. Sammy was played by many different actresses and she was one of the first we. Could i guess call her one of the first cooking teachers in broadcasting And we have some fun you one for. You are cooking lessons. This week is on some new christmas cookies. And besides that with sending seven ethically recipes to order numbers of schools who had indicated that they want the wednesday menu ambassador. I hope you'll be sure to watch for them on. Sammy's show was called housekeepers. Chat and betty crocker's was the slightly more enticing cooking school of the air. That sounds as though it was all about meringues and souffles and all things fluffy which it decidedly was not and then the very first television station came into being in the nineteen twenties though at the time the technology was still super experimental and people did not have. Tv's in their homes yet. Even as late as nineteen fifty only nine percent of american homes had a tv set. Foot made the jump to tv before. Tv even made the jump to people's living rooms so more megan was thirst. Tv shafran her snapple titled Tv show was called suggestions for dishes to be prepared and cooked in fifteen minutes and that demonstrated single ring. Cookery back in hundred thirty six. This is julie smith. She's a food writer. And podcast and the author of a new book called taste and the tv chef and she's british so i will translate for her single ring. Cookery means the kind of thing you can make on just one burner in your bed. Sit which is british for a studio apartment. Thanks for the cross pen translation of my uses as well as my bizarre accident. True also interesting. Megan was doing this. Fifteen minute meal about eighty years. Before jamie oliver's tv show and book of the same title. We have a picture of her filming her show dressed in. What looks like a raincoat on our website. Glamour personified where was i but by the nineteen forties food. Tv show started showing up for real in the us to the shows were cheap to produce and they were sponsored by kitchen and food companies and they were pretty boring. It was a very practical probably rather dry and yet a lot of the airtime was filled with these programs in different markets around the country. These shows obviously targeted at women most. Tv's at the time. Were actually in public places rather than homes especially bars where there weren't a lot of housewives. There was a show actually the first national televised. Tv show was james beard and it started in the mid nineteen forties and despite everything i just said about how most of the tv shows and the radio shows were led by home. Economists james beard was not a home economist. He was a gourmet and he was really all about the food and so it was a little strange to have this show on. Tv in a bar being watched by men james beard was kind of a one off for a long time but still here we go right off the bat you can see a gender divide in food tv women were the ones who were proper and teaching viewers had cook the man a ormond. Just appreciate food for food. Food was a chore for women and a pleasure for men until the only lucas came along. So diani lucas. Like james beard was a bit of an anachronism. She was a cordon bleu trained chef. Who was born in. Britain came from a very artistically oriented family. Do you only had a restaurant and cooking school in new york and she treated the kitchen as her art studio. it was her serious creative outlet. Her recipes were complex and mostly french. And they took a lot of time to make she was also kind of a taskmaster her british accent and her scraped back hair and she did not cut corners. But kathleen says the. Tony did occasionally have a little sparkle in her eye. Like when she told viewers to use as much rama's they liked or needed in their cribs. Suzanne that show was on the evening and prime time and it ran from nineteen forty seven until nineteen fifty-six but she was kind of ahead of her time. I would not be surprised if many of your listeners have never heard of the oni lucas. She just came along at the wrong time for the public. Viewing audience at diani did have a big influence on one particularly important person. Julia child the french chef. I'm doolittle she was a california girl. She was not a spy for the cia before being cooking show guru as many people think she was a research assistant at the oh s the precursor to the cia but she was really one of these happy accidents. She married paul child who had a foreign service assignment. in france. They moved to france and she fell in love with food. And she got herself trained. You know at the core blows school which was really challenging as a woman and she just became. You know a master in nineteen sixty one. Julia published a book with two other. Women called mastering the art of french. Cooking it is eight home and that seven hundred fifty. Two page book provided the kick. That landed julia in front of millions of viewers happen was. Julia was doing the rounds promoting her book and she'd been invited onto a book show hosted by a local professor on w. g. b. h. Which is the boston public. Tv station and she decided she didn't want to just talk with the professor. She wanted to cook. She wanted to teach him how to make a proper french omelette. The professor wasn't a particularly skilled cook in this live tv cooking class but people wrote into the show after it aired. They called julia a hoot and the producer thought. Julia was incredibly well-spoken so gbh gave her her own show. It would eventually become the french chef. The show was a huge hit. It was on national. Tv for three decades and it not only made julia household name but it also kind of launched the modern era of food
Interview With Eric Maisel
"Eric. It's great to have you untangled today. Thanks for being here. Great to be here. I found your book. The power daily practice super interesting. Lots of juicy stuff to talk about. But let's start with. What inspired you to write this book. That one's easy. I've been working with creative performing artists for thirty five years. Now i as a therapist and then as a coach and what i noticed was when they missed a little time doing their work. Let's say they didn't write for three consecutive days or consecutive days. Suddenly they lost weeks months and years and even decades. The problem was losing a little time was losing a lot of time. And this was a consistent results. A consistent finding that went folks stopped doing their real work for a little while they stopped doing it for a long time. So i want to underline the idea of daily practice phrase that goes in one ear and out the other but it's actually super important trying to get anything accomplished in life if you start to not do that thing for a little while. You're likely to not do it for long route. Just because so many other things in croat's someone in the things creep in so many other things on our to do list demand our attention. So that's why. I wrote this book to remind folks that if you do things a daily way. You'll actually get them done. Yeah well it seems super obvious with performing artists. Obviously if you are a pianist door you plan any kind of an instrument. You need to practice to get really good. I mean these are obvious things. We all know this but we don't think about it when we start thinking about what's most important to us. What's our purpose. Let's talk about how you're taking this idea of daily practice from creative and performing artists in to all of the things that we want to improve in our own lives. Sure this'll be a tiny bit long winded. Because i have to deal with the life purposes and meaning so it'll be a little abstract little long winded but in my view of life there isn't a purpose to live. There are just our life purpose choices. The things we decide are important and most people have never actually made. That list is shifting list but at a given moment in time we need to decide what's important to us things change in terms of their importance so once we've identified what's important to us our life purpose choices and we have to figure out how to get to them in a daily way. It's one thing to have a nice list of important things as of thing to get to their. Most people do not organize their days around their life purposes organized around their duties chores tasks responsibilities. And what have you so my way of thinking you identify your life purposes and then you make decisions about which of those. You're going to get to on a given day. Those become your practices whether it's your creativity practice or your mindfulness practice at your health practice which are really doing there. Is you're announcing that these are the things that are important enough to me to try to get to in a daily way. Let me put a comma there now with respect to meaning meaning is also something that i don't think is out there. I don't think there is a meaning to life but rather we do or don't have meaningful experiences meaning is a certain kind of psychological experience. The reason i bring this up is is important in the following way because a lot of the things we do that we think are important. Don't produce experience of meaning. This is kind of odd. You'd think that if you were writing your novel would feel meaningful to writing your novel. But has any writer knows on most days is just a slog experience. Even get experience some time so the point i want to make is that we identify life purposes. We try to live them and we live without needing them to come with any guarantee that we're going to experience those practices as meaningful.
COVID's Impact On Chinese Fine Wine Consumers
"I'm going to be talking about the impacts on china's why market on how those impacts affected consumers buying behaviors. First of all this year. The buzzword hearing is locked down on but in china and we talk about lockdown. It's in the strictest sense one household household can only allow one person to go out once a day to purchase all the necessities unlike in europe. Or in the us where you have the luxury to go out and to do a lot of chores. In china it's really strict on areas. That are most affected by the pandemic. You're not even allowed to go all. There's a community officer who is on standby just to send all the necessities to you to your door. So this is the contact where talking about when we want to understand kovic impact on china this is also the circumstance under which a lot of the business have to operate for three months from late january to april. So this is something i want to want. Everyone who's listening in to bear in mind to keep it in the back of head on back of a mind to understand the corvettes impact. So i upon. I'm going to talk about cova impact on china's wine imports. So what happened to win. By the end of january china had locked down the whole country as a result restaurants hotels essentially closed and miss the most important chinese new year sales for anyone wondering how big and how important is chinese new year for a lot of wind merge and a lot of the a lot of them who i talked to told me chinese new year wine sales account for roughly twenty percent or even up to thirty percents of their i knew sales so imagine seven day period was lots okay and then imagine. That period was attended for three months. That's the challenge facing a lot of the importers in china and of course logistics were delayed because quickly the pandemic spread from china to the rest of the world Even when china in may and june recovered from the pandemic countries are like ryan's italy and you were in the depth of the pandemic dot affected global logistics while because we have the latest figures from china customs at a showed import volume declined by thirty percent. Thirty point eight percent to three hundred forty seven million leaders in poor value declined roughly thirty percent as well to u. s. one point eight four billion. This is quite significant. Because i want to joe attention to the fact that last year china's one import value already declined. We saw roughly ten percent job in volume terms and one percent in value terms because of the economic slowdown and trade war between china and was so the downturn. We are saying this year is a continuation of what happened last year as well. So that's you know might have a projection for what is to expect on what's to calm right okay. So next one. I am going to talk about because of the job in wine. Imports and how it affected merchants consumers and the price points are was sane on the shelves merchants of course when you have stalks that are meant to be depleted for chinese new year. That a stew setting in the warehouse. What you do when you have uncertainties facing forward you'll become a more cautious your becoming more cautious with your spending what to buy how to budget. That's natural response. A market exit suddenly. We're seeing a lot of merchants exiting the market. Unfortunately one of the examples with sane is from jovial. Many of you guys familiar with jovial so basically joe view is a wine and agricultural importing company backed by the tech giant nenova. Five years ago when it entered the market to stop two important should be winds. It costs a lot of fanfare and naturally they had the peak around twenty key bruns. Included a the biggest Organic winery madonna in in chile. And also jong here moe's fabulous wines earlier this year due to the pandemic it's general manager said they're suspending the wine business. This is not a small one time importer. we're looking at a company. Dots actually has the scale. That's the direct impact of the pandemic. I'm coffee cards. Of course a lot of wineries and importers were having zero sales in february in particular consumers when you have job uncertainty because of the pandemic what are you gonna do. You're becoming more cautious with. You're spending your accounting or the non essential standings unfortunate wine is counted as numb- essential on like you know maybe in france or italy or in the us consumers of course they're trading down if they are buying winds at all. They are really budgeting what to buy. You know what is the best value. What is the most affordable wine outing the market this can be reaffirmed by the expert on expert data we just from burgundy from january to september export volume to china shop to by roughly thirty percent and in value terms jumped by roughly around twenty percent and we see some increases in areas where Or shop elise. Those kind of increases assertion guan crew premier cru in terms of red and whites that Racing price-wise wines priced under one. Hundred orrin be is the most popular category one hundred. That's about fifteen dollars. So what happened to on trade and why on trade matters like any other. Why importers in in the war in europe or in the us traditional ones heavily dependent on trade on restaurants and bars and hotels to win. The pandemic happened especially in china. Were the strictness of the lockdown is so severe on so carefully scrutinized at enforced restaurants bars were treated during the pandemic on china. We're talking about country that has ten million restaurants chinese new year. Like i said completely shot during the seven day. National holiday dining sector alone lost five hundred billion. That's seventy six billion. Us dollars lockdown. Measure of various strictness were enforced from end of january to april lasting three months. Even in some cases restaurants were allowed to open. Are you can only do delivery service delivery service it go to. It's a growth factor at a hall make makeup for what's lost from in dining services and heidi loud. That's another biggest restaurant chain. China lost to five billion to stirring saint periods just to give you an idea of the severity of on-trade unfortunately among all the alcoholic beverage categories. Wine was hit the hottest. This is not said by me. This is actually coming from one zooming secretary general of china alcoholic drinks association which is the official drinks association in china. That's regulate Anything related to alcohol in china. It's very powerful organ and he basically said homecoming function for wine was essentially non existent as heavily relies on social consumptions such as restaurants to the decline with shoppers. A wong stall too short before giving any thinkers on the decline. But we can guess it's melted doubled. It's not a single digit
"chores" Discussed on Before Breakfast
"Today's tip is to reduce your chores. Don't reschedule. I read a lot of time management literature and over the years. I've noticed something. A lot of tips that purport to save time are really just about moving work to some other time now granted. Sometimes the day can be more frenetic than others and maybe it's helpful to spread the work around but sometimes the so called calmer mornings or evenings that these tips promise come at a high cost of recreation or rest for instance meal prepping all afternoon on Sundays. May Make Your weeknights lighter. Maybe but at the cost of a chunk of your weekend selecting your own and your kids closed for the week on Sunday. Still takes time even if it's not during the weekday morning rush. It may actually take more time on the weekend since he might be quicker about it in the mornings when you have to look presentable by eight thirty a M. Many kids are home from school these days but when they go back. Would you rather pack lunches after your kids? Go to bed or curl up in front of the fire with your spouse era. Good Book when you reschedule. Tours you wind up pushing them into what could be leisure time or you decide to still have your leisure time after doing the chores and you go to bed too late. Grumpy mornings are never call mornings even if you laid out outfits made lunches and otherwise followed all that questionable advice. Rescheduling chores also creates another problem. You might move chores to times when other family members. Don't see them. You might also wind up doing work that other people could do. I'm particularly thinking about children here. If kids can't see your hard work well it's like the lunch varies created the sandwiches with faces on them and decorated the homemade cookies magically show up in their lunchboxes and well it would be nice. If there were lunch varies there aren't nor are there ferries who magically cleaned the kitchen and pick up the toys every night? Let's hope kids don't learn this for the first time when they're running their own households also to be honest. Sometimes other adults in the household persist in believing in these ferries to if you do all the meal prep on Sundays. This implies that feeding your household is your job and your job alone unless your family has a specific agreement on chores with other parties fully responsible for equally time consuming work. It's unclear why this would be the case better to reduce chores rather than reschedule them consider whether all household tasks are worth doing rather than doing meal. Prep on weekends. You can just make simpler meals during the week. You can order in wants to to lower the burden rather than making lunches. When kids are back in school you can have them start buying lunch or making their own lunches. You can streamline your clothes and let kids wear what they want you can recognize those toys scattered. All over the living room are just going to come out again the next morning so there is zero benefit and losing leisure time in order to pick them up. Rescheduling chores doesn't save time. Reducing them does so whenever. That's an option. Probably better to go with that. Have you found ways to reduce your chores? Rather than rescheduling them you can let me know about it at before breakfast. Podcast AT IHEARTMEDIA DOT COM. In the meantime this is Laura. Thanks for listening. And here's to make the most of our time. Hey everybody I'd love to hear from you. You can send me your tips your questions or anything else. Just connect with me on twitter. Facebook INSTAGRAM AT BEFORE. Breakfast Pot. That's be the number four then breakfast. P O d you can also shoot me an email at before breakfast podcasts at iheartmedia dot com that before breakfast spelled out with all.
"chores" Discussed on Before Breakfast
"Today's tip is to reduce your chores. Don't reschedule. I read a lot of time management literature, and over the years. I've noticed something. A lot of tips that purport to save time are really just about moving work to some other time. Now granted sometimes the day can be more frenetic than others, and maybe it's helpful to spread the work around. The so called calmer mornings or evenings that these tips promise come at a high cost of recreation or rest. For instance meal prepping all afternoon on Sundays may make your weeknights lighter, maybe but at the cost of a big chunk of your weekend. Selecting your own and your kids closed for the week on Sunday still takes time even if it's not during the weekday morning rush, it may actually take more time on the weekend since he might be quicker about it in the mornings when you have to look presentable by a m. Many! Kids are home from school these days, but when they go back. Would you rather pack lunches after your kids go to bed or curl up in front of the fire with your spouse era? Good Book. When you rescheduled tours. You wind up pushing them into. What could be leisure time? or You decide to still have your leisure time after doing the chores and you go to bed too late. grumpy mornings are never call mornings. Even if you laid out, outfits made lunches and otherwise followed all that questionable advice. Rescheduling chores also creates another problem. You might move chores to times when other family members don't see them. You might also ended up doing work that other people could do. I'm particularly thinking about children here. If kids can't see your hard work well, it's like the lunch varies created the sandwiches with faces on them and decorated the homemade. Cookies magically show up in their lunchboxes and well. It would be nice if there were lunch varies, there aren't. Nor. Are there ferries who magically cleaned the kitchen and pick up the toys every night? Let's hope kids don't learn this for the first time when they're running their own households. Also to be honest sometimes. In the household persist in believing in these ferries to. It you do all the meal prep on Sundays this implies that feeding your household is your job and your job alone. Unless your family has a specific agreement on chores with other parties fully responsible for equally time consuming work. Here why this would be the case? Better to reduce chores rather than rescheduled them. Consider, whether all household tasks are worth doing. Rather than doing meal prep on weekends, you can just make simpler meals during the week you can order in wants to to lower the burden. Rather than making lunches when kids are back in school, you can have them. Start buying lunch or making their own lunches. You can streamline your clothes and let kids where what they want. You can recognize those toys scattered all over the living room are just going to come out again the next morning, so there is zero benefit and losing leisure time in order to pick them up. Rescheduling chores doesn't save time. Reducing them does so whenever. That's an option probably better to go with that. Have you found ways to reduce your chores rather than rescheduling them. You can let me know about it at before breakfast podcast at iheartmedia dot com. In the meantime this is Laura. Thanks for listening and here's to make the most of our time. Hey everybody I'd love to hear from you. You can send me your tips your questions or anything else. Just connect with me on twitter. FACEBOOK instagram at before breakfast pot. That's be the number four then breakfast P, O D. You can also shoot me an email at before breakfast podcasts at iheartmedia dot com that before breakfast spelled out with all.
"chores" Discussed on PodcastDetroit.com
"Like you said a lot of time on that board or she'll lay everything out like I don't know what goes like you've been doing this for how many years now now you don't know where the yeah. Yeah so then she waits for me and you know and she knows I can't reach certain heights because she's five seven. I'm not and why would you leave this out knowing that I have to climb on a bar stool to reach the top when you and you just have to like like a basketball player tink is up there. What are you waiting well? I don't think they they don't think has now but I'll tell you what. I've got a checklist in my head and I'll be doing stuff at their house and leaving things behind and I might even just bring my own toilet. Paper Roll pretended needs to be refilled as put it in the bathroom and like died. I give you like a social experiment. I would but even notice I don't know or like you know what you should do is the first one that does notice I you should maybe reward them. Here's a ten dollar gift card to starbucks dollars. I know that's a little generous. Maybe five and you'll be like they'll like what are you talking about what's going on and then I think you'll start noticing that they will start. I did offer someone five dollars to go through the single sock basket and oh bucks five dollars because they couldn't find Dang sock today. Yeah either my husband Algiers over five bucks if they want to match the socks and nothing but but yeah no I mean. They'll go as far as grabbing the last Kleenex and just put him back in. The Kleenex box still consider still considered full. Yeah the grabbing really can't it's so yeah that's you know we try to find the humor in things. Yes most definitely so so I think So are we talking about chores. Some of the things that they say The can result in when your kids do jurors. Basically you're teaching them life skills you know yeah degree it house also helps kids learn responsibility and true self reliance and we talked about the sorority chores helps teach teamwork. You know this this kind of a stretch but I think that's okay. Well outside chores like raking leaves. No that's a the kids at school. Do that in the fall does it. There is an argument that starts and then eventually they all works out in the end. Yeah chores also helped reinforce respect. It may also build a strong work ethic which you know I have to agree with that so my daughter Spent a lot of time at the barn and I when and she does something. I don't WanNa say something wrong. But when she makes a mistake or for any of these she overlooked something. She's really like down on herself. Like oh my gosh. I can't believe I let that happen. Because she really cares what other people think and she wants people to know that she is really a hard worker but also she loves it there so that's job that she's here too like doing dishes or something. I like that and then also it mentions chores actually help improve planning and time management skills So I don't know about that. Mine have their phone in their hand. Yes and it'll take two hours a day five minute job because they're watching a movie while they're doing they don't they don't have they don't realize is that if they could just get this done nothing go lay on the couch with along safe check. Let's move on and then also says chores give families a chance to bond out that house now. I don't know about that but yeah so he guess what I'm GonNa Start Tomorrow. Your kids are going to hate me here. Like what we have a chore Chart Now and Yeah. I'm going to start this tomorrow. I think that's great and let them know that. I said Ed ten dollar Gift Card Twenty are you. Are you GonNa give me the ten dollars. Oh sure I believe big sale for you and I'll give you that time box. No the problem at all. Yeah so well I hope this little in this information helped all those who are in our situations because I'm struggling struggling out alone alone no And you know we can't have perfect kids but we can sure try and Mold them to take Dan responsibilities and impress their future wives and husbands. And look what I can do. Yeah then they really could just be the goal so they can find somebody then she nobody wants to Slob. Yeah no kidding. That's a great way to our show. Nobody Asks Slab. Pick up your underwear there. You Go uh-huh so I don't know if so what do you think Eric we can give them. A hint of next episode or just let them ponder. I think we should let them ponder okay and then you know we'll I don't maybe we will post it on our facebook patient. Let them know and so they just have to wait or if we have a suggestion I dunno so free we appreciate you listening and as always you know where to find us and we'll talk to you next because mom says that's right. Mom says by we WANNA thank you for listening to this week's show. We hope you enjoyed yourselves. We hope you come back for more. Check check out our facebook page. MOM says podcast feedback is appreciated. But please be gentle. Mommy says if you don't have anything nice to say then don't say anything at all..
"chores" Discussed on PodcastDetroit.com
"Gotcha and this is amy or two moms from the Metro. Detroit area trying to navigate through the stage of the terrible teenage years. We're not experts but we are moms of teenagers with real life issues in this corner of the podcast world. We will talk about funny. Situations is sometimes serious ones. We're going to be honest. Funny Snarky and maybe emotional. Why because mom says hi? This is Erica. And this is amy. Welcome back to mom says today Dave we are going to talk about. Everyone's favorite topic. Are you ready to tour or not tour so always going to be toward it always it always. It always has to get done so talk about kids in chores and the reason why we're going to talk about it is because first of all I was one of those moms that Kinda had this idea of. I'm never going to get my kids stores. Oh my gosh yes so okay. So I'm not crazy all right here. Yeah so I would I was one of those moms. It said Oh I will never say not. My kids will first of all that is one hundred percent not true. I say no all the time and then the idea of getting their little hands dirty. That was just something that was not gonNa have CD would kick in. Yes yes freak. But now I have a ton of regret because missile my nineteen year old. I think if I would have given them I mean I love that kid but if I would have given him a little more you know a few more chores I'm sure his dorm room would look very different than what it is today today. You know what I'm saying But my daughter on the other hand you know she is a little more helpful and you know if you want to earn. Aren't things or if you wanted to do things and yes you are going to do chores and you go old school. Yes exactly yeah. We grew up chores. In fact I remember I was in charge of making the chart. Oh him the graph paper here make a chart so yeah I had credit tours maybe that's PTSD. I don't know like I would be the one that that was weeding and like had to do the the trimming and with like the little scissors and there my brother would literally be running with the lawnmower to get his job done as quick as possible bowl and then go do his thing and there was me crying clipping the the. We'd like those so not cool so I yeah Asa. Maybe I think it's just yeah. I grew up. Yeah and I remember my mom. He was delegate. You'RE GONNA regret that like you need to get your kids do stuff and I keep my my phrase in. The House is like Alice doesn't live here and of course they do like. Who's WHO's Alice you know but of course I know I know what I'm talking about? Yes yes you know why I remember as a kid so we used to live in a colonial and so our stairs were carpeted so an and I remember we had like twenty two stairs like I remember that the stairs yes because on Saturdays was like day and maybe that's what it was maybe a little. PTSD'S I thought. Oh I'm not I can have my kids go through when I had to go through. And so we have to take the vacuum cleaner we would have to vacuum every single. Stop Want my health back in. Actually I that was able to It was small enough that it just kind of was dragged behind me you know and but my mom Who I love and Adore would actually check and say okay? How did you do? And sometimes she would send me right back up to get it done same thing with the bathroom and she would say my my sister will tell you the same thing is she would always check our work and you know if it wasn't done correctly she send us right back. Wow I will. I'll tell you as kids you know where I love to do. Chores was my grandparents house. 'cause they had such a vence apply. Oh cleaning supply was so so find like they had what's it like bubble spray regarding the foaming stuff. Oh my gosh. So we were literally. She had the hair or they had three bathrooms terms in their home. So we would go. We'd go around and we would just spray all over the sink and we will just go and because she had the cool stuff. My mom did it. We had you know the Ajax you put it in the bottle or put it in the bucket and you clean the bathroom and but yeah. My mom was a real stickler in you know speaking of chores to when you had the holidays and family was coming over even though no one one upstairs everything had everything has to be immaculate. How what now? I kinda got it now that we have family that comes over our house from time to time. Even though I know that they're never going to go onto my daughter's bedroom that room better Mazzini leaned same thing with my son. I mean we have a smaller much smaller house. We just have the one bathroom and everything is clean. But now I do Kinda get what my mom was doing but when I was younger I thought no one. It's GonNa come up the stairs. Why does it matter? My mom was not in like that was not her priority was clean. We you know but it was not a priority and and but her mom was looking back. I think my grandma did have a little. OCD in literally. She wore the carpet out from vacuuming so much. And I mean. She was meticulous about her house. Like to the point where you never saw dust in the sun the sunlight you know and like we let landscapers would come and she would they leave and she would redo the lawn like she just had to be perfect and like you know we'd walk in the door and say hi Grandma's statistic to wash it so that I don't know if I looked up to that well that's the league. Oh sure and so my mom. My parents never told me to clean my room and I loved clean my room in fact I would be I if I got punished. I was not sent to my room because I'd rain do stuff like it was spotless and you know so I mean we had chores but like but yeah cleaning was not like a big deal. I cleaned the house like as I got older. I remember cleaning surprising. My mom like look at this and I guess in my head one of my four would have been like me and not one not one not one. They're SLOBS and I. My children are slapped. I get a a little choked up. you know like my grandpa would even be like he's giving Silva Dot silver dollars. Go to Maroon rooms clean. And he was a coin collector. I feel so exciting. You know but like I can't even bribed them like they. Just scoff at it. You know you just wait till there's owner in the hallway. What is it that like no? It's not that it's apple yet but yeah I I. I don't know I can't now now. I'm in trouble now. I'm in big trouble with the house so I just remember Recently Suzy's room was really bad. She does not like when I go into her room. I think that they have a little bit of PTSD. When I go into room because because when I used to clean Nathan's room? I would get really really upset because I would be like you know how much money we paid for this here on the floor and and I think I think she just didn't want that to happen to her so even just recently She had stopped over at somebody's house and I actually. She knew I was in her room because her her drapes were opened. And I'm like Greenie to get some light in this room. I opened them up and I started like I did. I picked up her room which I know you shouldn't be doing. She's almost fifteen but I just couldn't take it anymore. When she watched into that door she was like? Hey how you doing I said good. She's why are you in my room like they know right away. Yeah and I I said well and she looked at me. I said I'm not GonNa Yell and scream is going to look and so I think the point of this conversation is that and the kids don't do enough and then when you do ask them to do something. Do you ever notice how they missed the first two steps or the last two steps APPs. It's like a you gotta do a play by play kind of like literally coaches like you literally have to have like a chalkboard Like draw what you need done and like step number one. Exactly get up to Two summers ago The kids were home and so of course I work fulltime. I'm sort of my husband and I said you know what I'm GonNa need some help the summer. I want you guys to start washing your clothes. And you know why they didn't fight me. They're like okay. That's fine. I literally gave them step by step directions that I taped to the Washer and the dryer and it was literally open up the LID. Braley turn to your right. Get the detergent and put it in the Cup pour it in there for the cutback on the determine I mean just because they offended or do they get it like. I don't even think they because I went. Sounds a little snarky nece in that one. No Oh you know what no because I was not I was and I said Oh. Welcome to the world of you know yeah clothes washing however I put it and and then I would say now. Please don't put whites in with colors unless you want your you know t shirts look pink that kind of thing but I was how you. They are very very good at washing their clothes now. So I'm very proud of that but what really irritates me is when you ask them to do something like for example. I'll say hey. Can you take out the trash crash. First of all you have to ask them to three four sometimes five six times and then finally you notice how he's gotten up he's going to take out the trash and and then like five minutes later you notice. The LID is on the floor. We have one of those on there. It's not even the bag. So we have one of those garbage cans where you wave your hand and just kind of live. I know I know it's like I was searching for it isn't it sad. Might WanNA head to have the bathrooms. The public bathrooms. Yeah we're you're like me your magician. You're like sesame but the only heard about those is when the battery dies on. Who's going to open the LID? What do you do I use my finger? I'm so lazy I actually think we need a new one. It lasts two years. I think someone in my house with like not throw anything away or are they using. It doesn't work Grease and other trash while so this this special trash kanner this boozy trash cans like to say gee yeah So you lift off the limited. So that's on the floor then. There's a liner her inside the can which where you put the bag in that sitting on the floor to like an area sitting on the couch and I said today I should take out the trash. He's like mom I did. I said all right. Would you like to put a bag like back in the liner. Put in here. And you didn't tell me to do that. You just told me to take out the trash. So it's funny funny. How literal they can be when it comes to asking them to do things Same thing with the laundry you know. I'm like hey suzy can you. I know I feel bad guys. Why did you do this your mother? I don't think about it now. Susie to take the towels out of the the dryer like five minutes later. I said well where. Where's the towels while they're in the Basque by the Dryer and so I looked at her? I said what do I normally family do. When I take something out of the dryer well usually fold it so she looked at me? She was like okay mom so she goes back downstairs. Brings it up so it just kind of cracks me up that I have to tell them right every single step yeah I I would say Andrew's been doing the garbage for about five years. Four years is now in every Thursday remind him Thursday because our garbage as far as Thursday to. Yeah so I say it's Thursday and he knows exactly what I'm talking about. So that gets done but but then he forgets to put the garbage pit the fresh bag in. Oh Oh yeah. There's always been doing this. For how many years so then. Friday comes garbage picked up. It's Friday Andrew Andrew. Oh yeah he has bring the trash bins back in backyard. So how long is this going to go on. Like just. But I've gotten to the point where I have my favorite word in-service I've gotten to the point. You know like you'd have a meeting at work. I gather everyone around and we talk and we have an in service and I just said McNair here to talk about this today and sometimes I l.. Gather them to the location. Where having the issue and my husband's included in this 'cause it's the team You know I agree and that our team and not him being like him and marriage team like we are team is like the whole family. You you don't point fingers. Everyone gets in trouble. Just love your job you know. Yeah really everyone on can't use you know. Put your phones away so you know like my phone has gone away but everyone gets you know so. Yeah so we'll have been services because my favorite one is the toilet paper roll. Oh the the infamous the infamous. And you know as much as I joke around and I've been known to do a few videos Tom On facebook. I've gone live and one thing the for the first time I did that..
"chores" Discussed on Before Breakfast
"I want to hear something. Amazing discover matches all the cash. Back you earn at the end of your first year automatically with no limit to how much though match millions of people a year are getting their cashback matched discover cashback match. What are you waiting for. Learn more at discover dot com slash cashback match in our podcast. Hush money we're going to get you talking. We debate the uncomfortable questions about money and life then a celebrity judge joins joins us to decide. WHO's right there's no such thing as strings free money. There are some archaic laws right. Now that it's traditions that Mangione women will do the reach. The fake reach. Money is one of those things that people like to ignore. You can binge all the episodes now on apple podcasts. iheartradio APP or wherever you get your podcasts. Welcome to before breakfast. Production of iheartradio. Good morning this is Laura. Welcome to the before breakfast podcast. Today's tip is to batch your weekend chores so you can enjoy your days off guilt free after years of writing and talking about time management. I've realized that I hear some of the same complaints over and over again at work people lament that they spend so much time dealing with their inboxes that they never have time for deep work or strategic thinking at home people feel like they spend their entire weekends trying to get caught up with chores and so they never have time for fun while these complaints seem different can't eventually realized that they were getting it. The exact same issue some activities expand to fill all available space. And just as you will never get and stay at inbox zero. You will never arrive at a perfectly clean house. That will then fall prey to toys junk mail and dirty dishes email and housework. We'll both take any amount of time. You give them that. Means that any tax designed to lessen impact are going to be of limited use and yes. you can write shorter emails. He probably should. You could even write K.. Hey instead of okay and your emails and yes you can develop a system for emptying the dishwasher that makes it take five minutes instead of seven minutes. Awesome but fundamentally the only way to make these activities take less time is to choose to give them less time. The good news is that was that. This approach does work when I've managed to convince people to limit themselves to three to four email checks per day done at certain times they do in in fact spend less time on email and I think chores are best approached the same way batch. Them and designate certain times. When chores chores aren't always options then you can enjoy the rest of your time without feeling guilty. Here's how this can work spend some time today today thinking about the chores and errands you normally do over the weekend be judicious what truly needs to happen. And what's not critical. Well well you might need clean clothes for the week. You probably don't need to wax your floors or you might need to go grocery shopping. You don't need to cook all your meals for the week ahead of time choose. Choose to make simpler meals that you can whip up fifteen to twenty minutes on weeknights. Instead now estimate how long these tasks will take and what can overlap. If all household members participate. How much time would it take to get through these things. Perhaps one party could switch clothes from the Washer the dryer air and run the vacuum while someone else goes to the grocery store and drops off the dry cleaning once. You've figured out a rough window designate. A block of time in which you will do almost all of these things for instance. Maybe you decide that from ten to twelve on Saturday morning. You will do the bulk of these weekend activities. Make sure this is the time everyone can participate. Make a game plan. Then assess what things will need to happen outside the window window. Ideally not too much. If you've got a reasonably sized family you'll still need to do some dishes and empty the dishwasher on Sunday even even if Saturday from ten to twelve is the official chores and errands time and perhaps the laundry. That was washed. Saturday during this window is still in the dryer outside the window and might it needs to be put away but make sure to prevent scope creep if one party is assigned to pick up and vacuum the basement playroom from ten to twelve on Saturday. A and this is in fact on then do not go redo it on Sunday just because there are toys out. Of course there are toys out. It's a playroom that's what happens. But so what. No one is going to come around at eleven pm Sunday night to give you demerits for having toys on the floor so just let it be and relax and have a glass of wine. Instead there was a time for picking up the playroom and now is not not that time. If you start thinking this way I promise your weekends will start feeling much better. Do you designate a time for weekend chores chores. If so I'd love to hear about it. You can email me at before breakfast. PODCAST AT HURT MEDIA DOT COM. In the meantime this is Laura. Thanks for listening. And here's to making the most of our time. Hey everybody I'd love to hear from you. You can send me your tips your questions or anything else. Just connect with me on twitter. FACEBOOK and instagram. Graham at before breakfast PA.. That's be the number four then breakfast he od. You can also shoot me an email at before for breakfast podcasts. At IHEARTMEDIA DOT com. That before breakfast is spelled out with all the letters. Thanks so much. 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"To me just like hearing the ladder. I will go ahead and gestate. This is not for you yes And with that being etc go ahead and and gone about my business. Continue dating time or whatever but it doesn't sound like you can handle that. which is respectable? Many people could not so let gone and take responsibility. Yeah 'cause girl I I cannot tell you. I can not stress how much I would not begin involved with nobody party with a fresh ass newborn on the fuck away it. Just say no fucking way you're GONNA do a toddler because you know where your baby is a nine point nine nine percent chance Yo baby baby mama is going to be deep in her feelings around this whole situation because of course she is. She's imagine it is going to be going on through your body after giving birth. And then you know. Where's the nigger? Who made this baby with me? Like she's going to be blowing up a girl hell. No run says when I woke up this work and I saw the snow. Snow outside compl- when I tell you I had a great week you know my stomach was killing me last week but for the most part I was in peace at home I had a great birthday weekend as I was is ready to get up today and be like go into the writer's room today. Tell some jokes laugh. Go into the Studio Sarah. You know we're GONNA be on today. Yeah you guys saw that snow in immediately needed switched like so. I can only imagine that wild breakfast by Damn self thought that new bitch get over here right now chains. He's got campus. Like why should you have to deal with and I really feel like that's where you should be over right right like newborns Dominica's everything I eat like every tool. You need to be over there. Helping a she could barely move pussy. Still Ron everything win. While y'all to I haven't after club sex at two o'clock him like so I'm tired of being woken up to thirty. Because this motherfucker hungry so you know what you need to do come in feeder and I will not respect you as a father if you are not over there with your child like I just want especially when they are that small and they need twenty four hour round the clock care. You need to be bonding finding which a baby not over here worried about me and what I got going on bill relationships. I'm that's just me. I don't feel that that individual I think that like I say it depends ends on on you being honest with yourself what you can handle you essentially signing up for like a eighteen to twenty one year long roller coaster. 'cause you just can't get off. Are you ready to be a step Mama Emma so she put some of. You may want to something you might have come up with something. I may even meet. Obama signed that he told you. Yeah that is a good was on like I said it doesn't matter how good he is because it's not just about him she could be you know. Look I'm not about a danger. Whatever but I need help I need such and such and once again? That's fair or you know you never know the baby could be born in all of a sudden. He's just decided. Like I really need to be with my my mom and I want my kid to have both of the parents together together or whatever. So you're going to spend however many months left investing compromising only for him to break up into the planet. You don't be win win. She she has a baby shower. And you're not invited. You GonNa be okay because I'm not inviting when she gets when he gets the call about the baby on the way and he goes off to the hospital for two days are. Are you okay with Dan Buffalo blast because babies this guy here the baby could be born on your birthday and he will leave you right there in the middle yet. Strawberry Margarita and go see about his.
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"Kids I was fine was far. Wash cloth she probably just being taken your dove to our bear. Scott even of just squeeze a shampoo conditioner so I get clean and I listen at the saint time when we were little and we used to come out of the bath or whatever having not really buried right Mama Grandma anybody feel are back back then. You'll be dry and warm as all get you. Don't get back in there and wash. If you don't wash I will come in there and do it and no no. You don't want me baby yoga grown and you get to an age with parents where you're just like I'm not Alpha Oumar for everything and the first time you smell another musty child you'll be like Oh this is what she has been trying to keep me from all and you never ever slack on cleaning your body. Okay so I just thought you are you. You are tolerating. But if you're entirely too much she has she has got to go. She needs to get out of your house. You WanNa have children children because if you do you need to not have them with this woman. Because she don't feel one way when they're dark skinned right. She knows how to make them to notes you. You'RE GONNA be raising a baby a full grown adult. You'RE GONNA be out here lighthouse out you're GONNA be out here doing dumb shit like most of these women who are married to useless. Asked me and raising them along with its do it yourself. Be Standing arms intertwined with you know the struggle to her already get out. Works GonNa be Awkward. It is but this Damn C. O.. L. Asti they have no respect for us and yes he does have a fucking obligation awesome to be respectful and professional at the jogging. Right and who the fuck really wants to act a guy jammed full of white people anyway. Right she better tighten it because because uh And if she asks what girl you're dirty and you don't WanNa have scant children and earned you say you're the first black man. She dated anyway so she better find what it efficient dance and make her a little mixed bathing and not babe together. Look somewhere. That is an excellent point. Here's some white boys in here. So I bet at least three of them are not opposed to date and black girls the likelihood that you're going to have a dark baby is incredibly high. I DOUBT THEY GONNA make McLean or wash so right paradiso have at it. Good luck to you but yes get this woman natural house before the nuclear. I don't do chores ores. Are you out of your God. You don't have to do towards you pick up after your goddamn go again. My own bitch you do about tell you to clean the gutters to pick up the damn teed. Okay okay because you have to clean up your mess bitch. I'm not asking you to clean up mind if anyway next letter comes from Diana who says I'm a straight woman in a relationship with this man for the past couple of months and we are getting closer and building a strong bond today. This Nigga tells me that a woman he was was talking to me is five months pregnant. I was driving downtown traffic and I had to pull over at first. I thought he was joking. But nope this Nigga really might have a keen the way five months pregnant. He says that she was supposed right. And they've only been talking for a couple of months her. The details are that she was supposed to be on birth control while they were fucking with each other but apparently apparently the whole time she wasn't kidding periods. That happens all the time okay. Anyway she went to the doctor and all of a sudden she's five months pregnant. I'm confused about how a bid can go. Oh five months. Without knowing that she's pregnant it actually happens all the time about that often. My question is should I leave him now or wait until the baby is born and see if his his with the DNA tests. If if I do weight I feel like our connection will be altered and it won't be the same since now. There's an ultimate room. I've never been with a guy who has a baby on the way and I'm not sure what to do. Please help I mean if it's only two months insists if it bothers you that much or makes you uncomfortable. Just break up with him. I I'm willing to bet a sizable amount of money. That that baby is going to end up being see. I don't think he would've told you if he didn't believe it. Was He right but they can do in the womb. Now you ain't really no no reason to wait another four or five months can do it now but that expensive I imagine a car. I'm sure it does but like if this was my man of well no because if it was my man of a couple of years if you got a baby on the way cheated and I don't think you should necessarily pay for this. DNA to like. I think you might have just seen things like really going somewhere with. This man is so now. You're disappointed because of this baby situation but yeah it just yes politics graduation and found out. Yes I think you should I don't think you should invest any. Real resources is into finding out whether this is he should use it now. It's also like women can easily go five months without knowing that they pregnant people be in whole ass labor and did not know that it was pregnant because they just never got there is confusing. I only get it when it's like my stomach never grew the baby was just tucked away in some pocket inside of me and my period still came like I've seen episodes like on TV where the girls are like. I still got my period and everything thing and then all of a sudden I went to the hospital terrible pains and they were like you're in labor body is so really especially the femurs obviously not most people solar system estimates aren't you. I think it's very very understandable that a woman can go five months without knowing she's pregnant even appointed by. That's not the point. The point is that you were really getting into this and now there's a bump in the row. Think like out that he wouldn't have told you if he didn't think there was a strong chance. This was this out out so you might be better off just leaving the situation now and not even like investing any deeper into 'cause like for what you can still have a diesel sir relationship. Even when he has a baby on the way difficult I mean right you absolutely not. I will not date somebody whose child is under two or three years old. Because you need to be over there which which other child's parent helping that negative this new life together period. Do you need to be over here and You don't need to be over here. Worried about crystal ceremony is easy. You need to be over there baby Mama and then newborn. You need to be over there helping her. I think that you have to use real self awareness in this situation and be honest with yourself about what you can handle now just like what you said about what you're not going to do. I'm right right there on the clock. Just because I don't even if I have a good connection with you or I feel like you're not going to be Fowler Author Shady in this process it's still is a whole other two lives that you have to invest a lot of real time in and it's just like further fuck away. You know what I mean especially especially given the time span of your relationship with him whatnot but I find a lot of people in these situations are are in love and they blindly just be like. Yeah I can do this I could. I could totally do this. Or whatever and then you can smack in the fight a baby there bitching knew damn well. You can do this in the first second play. And now you too far. Gone and Blah Blah Blah. So I like I said would be really honest myself off.
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"However long time to sit down and just breathe right now. She come in to see that you have disres- back did her saying fuck what you just did. That's doing with somebody that you didn't even make the game actually told you that she don't do tours on top of the color of them you gotTa Deuce her the fuck out to get out of my house. She would have been going with them. Two minutes showers. I don't play this shit bar. That is disgust me right now I have to say everybody in Oklahoma is always barefoot. So that don't really throw me off minute. Showers is disgusting. I congr- clerk Miami South Beach alone. You just be seeing girls walking around barefoot right in the middle is what it is but you don't do. Chores is a huge problem. And then I don't WanNa know dark. Skinned child is another very big problem. Like you would have been out of my house for the ladder but the fact that you nasty and color is you have unallocated got it and I can't. I can't with dark around people who don't want to have dark brown kid right. I I get that a lot of times. It probably comes from you. Don't want your child to go through the bullshit. You went through for Dr Scandal. But that doesn't mean that you that we need to not have dark skin children and that means that people need to not be color understand that she wants her baby to be key. Biscayne Bay Bizarre is what I'm saying like I understand. She wants a baby to be. Most babies are cute but your baby can be adorable. Darshan light skin kinky curly hair. It's a baby a baby kill. Hey Hey I don't understand why people have such preferences of what they want a baby like not to mention you've been addressed. I asked in the back of a fucking vibe magazine or something anyway. Yeah so I think some people have really internalize the idea that lies. People are cuter than they are. which is sir Hasn't social media taught. y'All I think the Eliot Brown babies of all shades and complexions all over the fucking yeah you just done he hates yourself you do right. She this girl has a lot of issues including the fact that she hates herself. But Mama if you only respect yourself to be in the shower for more than two exactly what I was about to say. She knows self enough to between two minutes. You're not even really getting getting even wet. tidgy raizner anyway. You might as well just do you. The.
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"Major mistake. Take you fucked up it happens. You know what I mean and you feel bad about it hopefully but right I'M GONNA set up here and just be like yeah grow. Here's a list of things you can do to hide in the shadows. I stick to the ceiling like Batman so the negative on C.. You know do you don't have to be need to be honest with him and he may want to break up with you and he may in fact you should really tell him before he flies all the way out there because I would be so pissed if I went all the way overseas and then you leave you right and then I'm gonNA turn around and leave like girl. Let me just save my flight credit. And not not even come out there but he may want to talk to you and work it out face-to-face or whatever just going to get his dick suck for seven days. I don't know but you you definitely definitely got us. Say something to him you fucked up and you just got to face the music and honestly I would rather do that over the phone with an ocean. Apart I was about to say infects saying saying use it. Tell him before he gets on the plane. I totally agree and good luck to you. Because I know that sounds like it's hard to it's hard for me to even admit when I'm wrong but much less to be that wrong wrong and to somebody that like love and trust me I just I mean he might say look. I've been cheating too so let's start over. I mean because look you'll never know human existence. It's hard ANC cutoff for everybody. I can't do it. It's you know not everybody. Can you gotta be top to your bitch. It's to be like long distance and faithful and like committed. And you gotTa pick one. It's just hard right but I I'm either going to be faithful or we don't be long distance. You need to pick which one is comfy. 'cause I'm not doing both of those but you know but seeing as how you're where you are right right I definitely would be honest with them and just be like like fucked up and it's not GonNa mend. Yeah maybe he will be Honestly do you think he needs to tell in Michigan or something. I think she needs to tell him that she cheated and let the conversation. Go from there. Yeah Yeah and if the see the thing is you need to tell him that you have something if the topic of sex comes up. But I don't think I need to say that if it's is like well I need to tell him that he that you cheated before he gets on the plane and then if during the course so the conversation yes say you cheated without a condo that covers it because then it could be. You might be pregnant and might be itchy and scratchy show. It could be anything going on. So you know He. His mind can fill in the blanks. I can't but you do need to be honest. I think if you ask you a direct question you need to not lie about it because if she was on the other foot and you're across to that Nigga on are they use fucking somebody else. I don't know about you but I'd be striking a match especially especially what if he's in the middle seat for that whole seven hour flight- wherever you. Oh No. Oh No I know forgive you for the next to a crying baby Behind some person or something a miserable long only paid shit girl you better be right. We know man tell him right the moment oh right then good luck because this is hard but it will be much easier to do over the phone. Just really get you too high. That girl right. All right. Next question comes from Brutus. Who says I'm a straight black man living in San Francisco of course not in general not bear though? 'cause dog's name right I was going to say but isn't that that one negative on owns Bluto. that also Popeye nigger person. Yeah yeah all right so you stray black man living in San Francisco. I am currently dating a beautiful black man. Look too much. You're letting live. Yes he is the one okay. I am dating a beautiful woman for almost a year. Who happens to work with me? We became really close friends. That are farms since we are literally three in a sea of white and although I was against shitting where eat so to say we thought to give this relationship a shot so far so good until I noticed a few things. I hate the term sewer. I eat yeah I mean it. It gets the point across though she does not clean at all. We don't live together but since our places small she stays with me more often and we have had several arguments about dirty dishes and padre stormwater sink. Yeah she leaves hair all over the bathroom and floors makeup stains on in your home and other belongings. After I have cleaned I thought one data all the NAS from the budgets blog dirty in the sink who the fuck uses all from the bushes black in a few days ace. She leaves a dirty clothing the living room and all over the floor my bedroom. We have had an hour long argument about cleaning and she said I don't do chores not to mention. She grew up on Rhode Island and lived in a predominantly white neighborhood so she has definitely developed some tendencies associated white people like she only takes two minutes showers and she's always waist barefoot also does not plan events dinners or dates. I always have to plan any social outing. If I don't schedule anything she will sleep the Anti Hi weekend I know straight men are chanting for this episode. I am the far nuts. Where would be going out there soon? I am the first black guy she has ever dated. She is also black just to be clear. I caught that part recently. She brought up an issue about color is and how we were ever to have children. She would not not be happy to have a daughter who was dark skinned. That's a Bitch Alto. Hal's like me for a whirlwind because she is not like her damn said. I'm sure I didn't pick her to be. And most of the the members of my family including myself are dark. I explained to her that genetics are wild. And if we were to have a child nine times ten. That baby would have a dark complaints science. She she said that she would be okay with that but the cadence of voice made me feel like that was not the truth. We haven't spoken about this for over a week now but I'm confused. Am I being too picky about this relationship. Should I just just take my ass to a tax base there to work on these issues picky. Should we in the relationship and try to remain. CO workers. I really am falling in love with her and I can see myself suspending the rest of my life with her don't know why but I am not trying to be planning a wedding cleaning the house and being in a one sided relationship. Thanks Silicon Valley. Brutus this brutus my dear. There's a lot wrong here The I mean a list. There's a wrong in this. She doesn't clean. If if you don't clean then you need to be the one paying for a made. So did he acknowledge this woman is his girlfriend at any point that they're dated a girlfriend. Yeah that's work. They've been dating for almost a year and they still work together. which is you know that some going to be an issue more likely? Oh Yeah if you don't clean if there's no such thing as you don't clean Mama. Don't do chores this then whereas the person who does your tours find that bitch. Where's your made higher fucking mate if chores? Here's the thing if you were at your house right in this Nigga was coming over to your place and making a mess. then I understand being like I don't do the fucking short so you'd better Take that wing with them. Barebones on it because I I know right. You're coming to my place because your place is too small right and lieven hair and dishes and all over the death refute and I'm right so that argument me about it. You're arguing with me about home. No no you're you're making my and do that and right after I cleaned you fucking it right back up are are you kidding me so you you have adopted is what you're saying. There's no child responsibility a daughter. You cleaning up after this girl. No Sir when we tell you. The quickest DOC is way for us to get our asses whipped when I was growing to make a mess that my momma joss cleaned up are in a place or over and like single digit. Eero me was confused. Adult me wants to write a letter to single nerve of you when she would get done washing the dishes which. I don't think anybody likes to come back into the kitchen. Five minutes later in a single dish network or worse a utensil. Yes in the sink. How didn't just burn the house down with all of the Senate doc aggravates me used to be in sense bro and I used to be an? I'm just like the nerve of you bad ass in right after this woman just spent all this time. She could've spent sitting down and exhaling over the fact that she has several several children. NFL Time's up angle in school fulltime. And gotta be somebody's wife. She got that damn however long time to sit down and just breathe right now. She come in to see that you have disres- back did her saying fuck what you.
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"MILL DOT com. We may read them a lot on the show This inbox Isr. There's there's a lot going on in this bitch today. So let's dive right in with a letter from Miranda who says I need jobs advice on something stupid that idea try not to drag me but here it goes. I have a boyfriend of three years and I love him so much. Yeah he's a beautiful person inside and out most of the time he's the type of guy who would never ever cheat and they don't even worry about however right now. I'm studying in a foreign in country and I slipped up definitely. I was seeing this guy here platonic Louis and one night I got drunk. And we had unprotected sex work booze. I'm joking I UH-HUH I immediately regretted it and tell myself I was GONNA get tested two weeks after the incident because it was right after all and I don't know that Nikko but I never went because I was too poor to afford at the time fast forward to this week just got tested and found out that I have something honor. She put multiple said emojis. It's curable but the thing is my boyfriend. Surprised me and is coming to see me. This week I'm happy to see them. But I'm freaking out because I have to take fifteen days worth amidst to get rid of this and he'll be here on Saturday what do I do. He is so excited to get some ask as it's been three months. How can I avoid sex with him for the seven days that he's here or should I just tell him everything and risk breaking up with me? Thanks for everything love this show Maranda Sistrin girl. So I'm not GonNa drag you because you unlike the people we have dragged knowledge fucked up. Yeah Sounds like you feel bad about it although it also sounds like you're ready to Get Away with it if you can't get away but it ain't no way I'm just telling you right now. It ain't I know way to get around seven days of not fucking months apart it won't you'll be lucky to get past seven minutes girl. I you do that by. That's that's not GonNa Happen Day. One point with with no purpose then eggs asking questions you might as well just go ahead and be honest break up with that that Nigga or whatever the fuck it is because. There's no way that that nick is going to be there for two days without fucking and wondering So what's going on you.
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"Tons of black balls like. Oh yes. It's are you the black people we need to start doing this to white people. We need to start intentionally walking up on famous white people and doing the same things. Damn walk upon on J.J. Abrams and be like. Oh my God. The Irishman was fantastic. My God what an instant classic J.J. Abrams could walk in here right right now and I would not know what that man looks like but let me tell you something that. He didn't direct the fucking Irishman. Who knows me a you know? He's willing to act like I don't mean he is. Because until you motherfucker and guess way once I guarantee you if I was walking on Steven Spielberg and be like the man laureates delicious. I love every episode. I would just be like would kindly whisper son to somebody off to the side and make sure I never work in Hollywood again. I don't understand how I'll never forget when remember what award show it was but we'll be go very was photographed and they called her over insanity just absolute ridiculousness. y'All don't even try the e Hot Holding Holding Whoopie Goldberg. Next to Oprah Oprah has an enchanted kingdom right ferries harvest her crop. How do you? I don't get it like not to mention. They do not look anything. Not a damn one fucking thing like. That was a year where Whoopi was wearing a gown. That was like off the shoulder and I think you could see like her tattoos tennis shoes on underneath the she don't be given. I don't understand how to fuck y'all of is I just. I can't not believe don't do it on purpose right. Why people have to know what Oprah looks like? They have to know what will be go. But you can't really really think they look alike like if you mixed up like me and maybe brothers. I'm so sorry then then I will give you that room because bitch. Who am I as well as like girl nigger nigger fine dark darkies? Who knows us? But we're talking about people who have been who've had their phase their name their work in the game on a huge level. I just I can't imagine blessing Yo ass forever and ever and ever an avid and being in buildings black buildings Brown buildings all these building ramming. Everybody I tell you how great your work is. You know what I'm saying. No shortage of a phone calls and scrapes in all of this stuff. Only for mother fuckers steel act like they don't know who the fuck you are. Are you kidding me again. I didn't even know who directed Harry 'cause I wasn't going to watch it but Melina and Lena have been in every corner of the promotion slim. They've done screenings they've done countless interviews. I've done a million photo shoots. They have presented this film by. I saying here's our labor of love that we have been working on for years and years and years right. Well you please enjoy it. How down? Oh how especially to like an right even if you only knew Leinna like even if you didn't know me at soukous 'cause this was your first introduction to her whatever. Leanne and Eva don't look nothing alike. Little dribs no more. So how is this happening. I just don't get it. y'All go out to be shady. I think maybe not all eleven of them but I just refused to believe all eleven ya bitches really felt like average Vernay was the director for those films and at some point. I really really feel like it's GonNa take black. People are are nine white people specifically right back. Yeah just doing like Margot Robin Jaime Pressley now them to why women look exactly alike and I think it makes sense to mix them up but we should just start doing all of them like that people loved on doing they make that like a a a people article like. Oh my Gosh Zoe Dacian Allen Katie merrier. lumo swings oh well they do know I want for you. Mother fuckers walk on basis. That don't look nothing a like Paul.
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