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"charmaine" Discussed on The Naked Parent podcast
"If they cut off your arms use your teeth but never never give up and that is a beautiful model for us to live by because there are some days where it feels like. I'm not gonna make it to tomorrow and thrown in. The towel dislike urged gir-. Yeah so snow days. Yeah did you ever thought for us and tell us how we can get in touch with you. Final thought is. You are just as brilliant as the doctors. You are part of the team. Stand up. use your voice. Make yourself heard your opinions. Thoughts are just as valid as the people with the phd's an all the letters so don't ever feel small in those spaces that's the final fought awesome. They can reach me. I'm on facebook and instagram. So if you just go type in charmed with shar you'll be able to find me on instagram and it should come up on facebook as well or you can email me at hello at the charm. Life dot me. And that way. If you wanna get clear. I do have free strategy sessions. They are absolutely free. No cost no obligation. I've had people come using just to get that point of clarity right that point of clarity that you need to go. All this is the next move versus. Is this one that one is that so you know there are spaces to get that done but yeah you are the savior you have been looking for step into your greatness. I love that so many nuggets on today's show. Thanks to charmaine and to one of the things that you said earlier parents reach out ask for help take the strategy session. Get some clarity. Make that next move. That's gonna make your life better for you and your family charmaine. It was so great to meet you to stay connected as our juries. Continue to unfold and thank you for the wisdom. You've shed for us today. Thank you so much for having everybody have a great evening by this concludes our show for today and might to personally thank you for spending the time with us on a topic near and dear to our hearts if you'd like to be part of the naked nation and help us reach those parents that are struggling and overwhelmed. There's no better way to help them. By subscribing rating and reviewing the show on i tunes highlights the show's based on these metrics and the more the show gets high by the more opportunities people will have to be introduced to the show. Were they can hear that message of hope or that tip. That can change everything so. Follow the lincoln our show notes and we hope to have you back here tomorrow where we'll do it again from the team. Here at the naked parent podcast. We wish you the life you've always dreamed of and then some so goal.
"charmaine" Discussed on The Naked Parent podcast
"I'm doing this offer the kids and we don't ask for help you know. That's another piece of self care that i do now. I ask for help. If i need help with something i asked my husband. I mean that's why we are team. You know or you know. I asked my daughter. Who's now twenty. You can do stuff for her. Do some of her own things versus thinking that i have to do it all on my own. And if that's where you want to start off self-care. I would highly just starting off asking for help and accepting help. I think that is the biggest form of self care that we can have because a lot of times parents of kids with special needs. We think that for some insane reason that we have to have this whole thing figured out on our own. Don't do it on our own. There were asking stupid question or people are going to look at us. Like oh my god you know what type of parents day. we're especially. his parents. Were reasons so use your status. Ask for the help. Ask for people to support you. Allow them to allow them allow them allow them to support you and the way that they can this not going to look like yours but allow them to support you in the best way that they can as long as they get it done. Don't worry about it. I used to trip out because my husband won't cook. He'll go buy dinner but he won't quit on like..
"charmaine" Discussed on The Naked Parent podcast
"You to put your big dream a more realistic container that you can actively do right now like most of us don't have personal assistance. Virtual assistance housekeepers groundskeepers cooks. If you know you're doing all of these roles then you have to think about the growth of your life and your business in the space of what's actually going on being realistic. That's why working with somebody is so important because a lot of big dreams and it's like i'm making a million dollars next month but you have a kid. That has some behavioral issues. You can only work five or ten minutes a day. You're not gonna make a million dollars a day and so just bring it down just a little bit into a container bet. Your life can swallow. Yes yup. I like that. So i think for me. This is one of the benefits having special needs. Kids is if it's sort of pushes me to that place. Where i have to get clear otherwise i won't get anywhere now that i start on this journey that i was pushed to because of my special needs children. All of a sudden life starts to blossom in a much more beautiful way. Sometimes people ask me. How do you have the time to do. Yes one of the things that i do. And it's because of what you're talking about and so for those parents out there that are listening goto the charmed life dot e. n. We'll have it in the show notes. I love your website. I got lost in a journey of the content. I thought it was fabulous content. So great job and the work that you're doing is like i have to go there every day. I state my stuff out loud. You know. I try to make strong gary clear and then do those take those steps and i get so much more done than than than years of where i had all day every object i was like. Oh that's that looks like a cool piece of software. That could help my business..
"charmaine" Discussed on The Naked Parent podcast
"Go through even at the end of the day is all kind of the same thing but learning about that. You know one of the things that helped me like i said before as being clear clarity. Is everything clarity and order. Is everything and so having clarity about what. He wants a child's life to look like you know what do you want your life to look and feel like and most of my mom's start off with what i'm sick of feeling crappy. Okay so now. What's the opposite of crappy knock crappy okay now. We're making progress so la the times we will start off you know. They start off with how they're feeling now..
"charmaine" Discussed on The Naked Parent podcast
"That because i thought what you were thought but it didn't necessarily translate into getting out of bed or you know the depression right. I knew i needed to do. But i couldn't do it. It showed for me and other ways. They'll chad i think like. I said you know what i said about pilot all the stuff. I think it shows up for different people in different ways for me. It was adding more on and i'm also diagnosed. Adhd so now it makes sense that in order for me to handle. I need to add more chaos..
"charmaine" Discussed on The Naked Parent podcast
"I want you to stop and listen to my pain. That is the worst decision ever talking about wanting to be insane and keeping you out of being insane. That's the number one thing just because they say they can do. Sp speech ot pt aba. Five hours just because they can and does not mean they should. My kids got so much more with me. Interacting with them and just doing basic life skills stuff in taking them around then we ever got in sitting in two or three hours of speech. Not not saying. It's not helpful but do not allow them to talk you into doing all of these things at the same time. If you do not feel what is a good fit for your family or for your child. You have to think about know like one of the things. I wish i would've known is but now i do was that you have to think about your family. The culture in your family that you're creating you have to think about all the pieces and it's so easy to get lost and one child it really is and forget all the pieces then. You wonder why your other kids may. Having behavioral issues is because that continuity is gone for them and so that would be the one thing it's like just because they give you the packets of all things you need to do does not mean those are all the things you need to do and you pick one or two of them and a good therapist will tell you this one who just wants to get you on their roles like yeah you need all of them but a good therapist will go now. Try this out for ninety days. Let's see what gains we make. Let's see what we need after that. And then let's move forward so that's our story in a nutshell and now my daughter's twenty and she's still with us but She's doing like art and things of that nature so she's just figuring her even all she's twenty kind of like maybe she's sixteen seventeen on a cognitive level and so she's still with us because that's where she wants to be and so that's where we are..
"charmaine" Discussed on The Naked Parent podcast
"Welcome to the show. Charmaine allow him long. How is everything going with tonight. Chat is afternoon for you. Yes yes where are you located are you. I'm in michigan out. Still in the d. in your in the d. i missed my people in the deed is ryan. And now you wanna stay back. You know we can't handle the rain we can do snow and ice. Yes and not do right. You should see what happens out here in california. When these people get rain started going twenty miles an hour on the you know you'd think it was a huge snowstorm. Hit do rain out here either. I'm doing great. I'm stoked to have you on the show today because you have taken what this is about to another level in your business. Can you tell us a little bit about what you're doing in your business. So i work with mama's get them to learn how to manage their energy. Everybody is like manage time manage your time but you know one of the best way to stay sane is to manage your energy in what you're saying yes.
"charmaine" Discussed on Fancy Free Podcast
"And i actually have another one from anna which will be on the next episode so if you guys want to keep the section rolling email me at not fancy fancy free. Podcasts dot com. Let me know a few things. Whether or not i can use your name and location. I think it's always interesting to people to hear that if they can. And then whether or not you want meter reader story or if you want to be interviewed or if you wanna do a voice memo for me. I just can't wait to hear him rolling in. Thank you again charmaine. So you are.
"charmaine" Discussed on Ayobami's Diary
"Minority satisfaction comes from within the will of god santana finishing work. She less less less carry-on invest. If i'm no this saying for months between planting and harvest. But i say wake up and look around the fills already already right for the harvest. The harvest is a paid a good wages in the fridge. They have is is people. Brought t tunnel life. What joy our weights both the plantar in the harvest. I like you nerd the saying another harvest. And it's true. I send you to harvest. He did not plan others had already gone to work. And now you would get together the harvest. Let's just go back. Like i feel like i love what this woman did. She call a revelation or something and she you know she she let everything behind and this also comes that whole idea surrender. I love to locate from that point of surrender revelation. Has god given you about about yourself. Or what he has called you to do and what you do with it. You know i you still holding onto the things of the past or you're saying now god i'm not ready. you know. got his giving you things to deal. God is same thing suit. Sometimes i feel like we catch a revelation of god tells us like this woman. She has seen shink counted a love in that changed her and she had to everyone about it. She had to go into everything. Run like display in the word. She went to tell everyone everything being asked about. Oh you guys go and see could just be like wow. She could not just enjoyed ourselves. Execs you can you know what what revelations what is about god that way. Just enjoying fossils are we just enjoying godfa cells. Are we going back to our friends. I'll be going back to our city. Are we going back to work leaks and sharing with them. And that's a challenge. Don't just for you guys. Only even for me myself and for i obama just like you know. Are we sharing the good news that we have of jesus with others all waiting not god. This woman heard this two minutes ago and she became a bunch of some of us have been going to charge for ten years of allies. And you know we're saying. I'm not ready yet. I'm not ready yet relational. She called she had to grand proclaiming to people to see you know and it's not saying that even just sharing your story is powerful enough sharing your story. This is what god has done in my life. Sharing your testimony. There is so much power in that. And i just love that i like when jesus combat the harvest having this is the this is ready and ripe The harvest is ready riot proclaim. The words don't the worker. Readies just for you to just harvested pocket park and what he said. When when like no people don't work you just get to your skyro- believe he's talking about the prophets. Even john john was even proclaiming. Somebody's coming was five. Am i believe this our our plant in the seeds now because she needed him as i was coming before so right when he said i am the man that was like this is time to pack the new already and even that women themselves in you know. She ran into the city before she had gone. Done the walk. She's telling people and we read you know she's telling people come and see this man. That told me everything i did. You know put them. She was the one and even in the same way. You know god my pressing. You might be walking down the street in my bill. Worked and god is impressing it to say okay. Goes to that person going shed this person. You don't know what what someone else has done has planted. Maybe you just feel like. I just will lead to just go to this woman. Jesus loves to you. My seems insignificant. Seeds might be planted for years and all that was needed. This person he to hear that one what and dislike the houses right now. This is all sometime. Also one thing. I learned about no gain discourage. Oh sometimes you're sharing the gospel someone. Nothing is happening. don't be japan. It'll be time that adjusted. You might not be that harborside. Let someone else would be exerted someone else and now go rhino beetle. Have this too because they on another heaven is yeah. So yeah are you on is another one. Da last parts so Sorry said many samaritans sir are reverse that tonight in mesa. Martin's from the village believed in jesus because the woman had said Yeah believes many samaritans from from the village believed in jesus because the woman had said he told me everything i ever did. They were like reading. Yeah that known you like. I said i was one of the end and invest fourteen when they when they came out to see him. They begged him to stain the village so he stayed for today's long enough for many to hear his message and believe and then they said to the woman now we believe not just because of what you told us but because we have heard him for ourselves now we know that he indeed is the savior of the world. Wow and you know something. I've just thought of this is why we must continue to pray to walk and signs and wonders because what happens is that you know when you preach the word to someone and then they experience the power of god. They're not just believe in because of the was that you said to them the really because now they've them them goddamn size makes it even better is what you expect. That's what makes you stunned. Yes you can't leave or a possible what you actually go by yourself to read because there's one for your past two seasons there was nothing actually wanted yes. Oh and that's what makes you stand on chicken. And i believe i'm just reading truly notice that they said we now because of what you've said because of what we have heard soon baptises frequent by hearing so they heard what you said and they believed that was what i just came to this town exactly and even in the same way. We came to give them leaving water. Yeah that gives it that. That gives a tunnel. I've just came to see them that this this town because of this they received salvation. Imagine this lady became an evangelist evangelist. That we see in some are woman who had had four husbands and was living with. Amanda husband did did not look down on her. What's do choose to save up. Yeah that's and even like as in for yourself. Now you're listening to this podcast. You know you've listened to as going through the word go back and say holy spirit you know go and sit with the with the word and ask holly sprig be viewed this to me. Let this top top become route to me. Speak to me so no. I don't only believe because of from german. And i abide by because god himself these people on the sba because they had it's from jesus and jesus himself is the word of god yet so go back to the ground let the what would actually be really self to you because of what you said but you believe i knew movement stand in because of what you've read for yourself. Yeah and he wants to reveal it to you. That's the thing. The holy spirit is ready to reveal. Truth is i into truth is not just for. He just doesn't wanna review himself to a film. You know it's not just the pastathon just say shows this woman. She was probably an oakland dean rob by being surely in the same.
"charmaine" Discussed on Ayobami's Diary
"The sprints alone gives a tunnel live. So i believe what he's talking about about leaving wartime. He says this leaving water and he was never thirst. Says i'll give them this water then and they will never testing just paraphrase. What how you so let me say something about a tunnel lives zach. This will give them a tunnel life to become a bubbling spring within them giving in town. If not only the holy will give eternal life like you said. There's there's different kinds of. Beth like said we waiting join three. He's talking about natural breath beckham only by the spirit of going on to be born again of the spirit and that's done by the holy spreads. Yeah and i think as well even old testament we see this reference of water. Being describing believers justice skyping people of god in psalm. Think talks about how we are like trees planted by the riverbank. Are you know which are trees. Never with them actually by one. Yeah and then also like. I love isaya six to one when he talks about this. Spread of the lord is upon me in that jesus ended up reading the versus and said you know in this this scriptures fulfilled in your sleep talking by jesus and it talks about investment that you know says you shall be be like a trees of righteousness you know trees of righteousness and what does writing since means just means right standing with god as being flooded the spirit and you know i think pointing all of that together. You just shows us about how the speed of god comes to make us. He's the one that gives us turn elida. Washington is the woman. Says you've been calm. Knew that you become a new is done by. The spirit of god wants one. That's when you assets. Jesus christ as their lord and personnel savior. The holy spirit comes in constant even use. The one that makes us speed. Becoming newman lead. What john three this the best that is done by the speed of can give only holy spirit can give spiritual literally. That's somebody's when. I believe what just about uneven water. I give him that. No doubt that gives. The tunnel is talking about salvation that salvation. He anyone you just look what china itself. Then what is one of the most. It's the most important component that we have in this in this world. You know we use what you need water to survive. In fact our bodies are made mainly of water we use water for you know rivers you know. Countries cities villages are dependent on the river that we need water to survive. Where water is there is life. You know in that sense and i feel like that's why our jesus use that imagery of water because what's is just so important as it could have used something as he used that water because knows how important what i what i'm really signifies life like you said whether he's waterloo's life what is you. Can't you have to drink quote that's allow. Wow so i feel. That's why jesus really really wanted to emphasize this point that out to cut sheets because imagine even when he was beside will have to use some cut catch and unit. This is one thing. God is not to clean. He di mi her at the market was even obvious bomb. Sing is chose. The whale became shows the well because he wanted to use the imagery of water. God is just amazed man. It's awesome but yeah let's carry on. And then he said he is so from verse From brass from fifteen the woman said please sir. The woman said gave me this water then our never be thus the gain and i wanted to come here to get. What's i don't wanna call you back to when she needs to understand because she still felt like just by natural stone because like you said there were at the will. So she didn't want to send our what just about just natural woods physical. What talking about eternal receive in salvation. You receiving him. Because we i had says just just to her. I don't know why i'm leaving. The war has has available for you. But this must still don't understand what you're seeing but doing something else. So i think in the adopt verse units. Dan just actually he had to use something not clear until her eyes were open and jesus said in verse sixteen girl and get your husband. Diesels told her. I don't have a husband. The woman replied and jesus said you are right you. You don't have a husband for your had five husbands and even married to the manual living with now he's certainly spread the truth. See you know like we're saying the kind of women that jesus is this woman. Like i a four year. Like she's she's basically living in south russo encinas with this month and not only just imagine the break go to had five husbands anyone moving. They've never get married. So this woman is broken. You know. I think sometimes we like to look it from the perspective that you know. She's an adult over. She you know she living in sin even just think about how great you know shove and the shame osa which is why. Maybe show's coming. She comes to the world when no one else is that because those plays no she ease yes she. She's published shunned in our community. The women public don't ever want associated with a woman cheese and so jesus siege stupid. I still chose this woman. You could have spoken to any that woman you just combing the morning and as you said and seeing people join whatever the answers to them why he chose. This article woman had for five bans and is still a man. God is wonderful. Nothing this story. Also kinda talks about that you know in encapsulates delays verse in at. He least the nine tonight to find the lost one. You know that that you can see that he like he left. He left his disciples. He went after the one he went off to imagine. The lost sheep exactly went through all that. Imagine tired you could have gone to the you could have gone through my way. They usually pathway decided.
"charmaine" Discussed on Ayobami's Diary
"What it didn't stop like he didn't. It didn't speak against it because apparently these disciples to that was not what he came the same year and another point of just off you know later on in the in the pistols. Remember when paul were saying all these people are saying i'll go baptize but this person. Now imagine if someone had gone baptized by jesus been another whole division. All in fact to me. I go up ten. I know you didn't get themselves into that. He's baptism is one of his spirit to. Let's let's carry on. So i read from verse. Three says see he left you. D r and return to he had He had to go through. Some mario on the way eventually. He came to the samaritan village of sicom near the filled. That jacob gave his son joseph joe. jacobs well was there in jesus tired from the long walks wearing league beside the well abandoning need time. Seen a samaritan woman came to draw water. And jesus said to her. Please give me a drink. He was alone at the time because his disciples had gone into the village to buy some feet. You know. i think we can stop there. I just doing research. It's interesting that jesus even choosing to go through some ours. To some mario in that day was even something in a revolutionary or was different because as the research the samaritans and the geez elimidate's they didn't make do not like each other the gs from the history about the geez. They don't like the samaritans because back in the day. I think the samaritan ended up mixing and marrying gentiles so the jews no longer living. They never himself them and yeah they withdrew as pure. Jeez so there was almost like racism going on there. There was deaf or hate and racism revolution than if jesus himself to go through some marta. Mario and it just shows how jesus feeding king for everyone. And how jesus was you know he was breaking the boundaries. He was breaking the divides back in the day. The things that divided them. You know. Jesus and i love to say because even the was were the who seem because you say it because they don't usually mix themselves with samaritans know didn't like each other and you will see that from what the woman said 'cause even do there's just the carrier. Yes so this. Guy's john is my favorite book and this is one of my favorites ups. I love this story hover. yes. I'll read from verse fife so eventually. He came to the samaritan village of cycle near the filled that jacob had gave to his son. Joseph jacobs were was there in jesus tired from the wouk sut wearing the besides the well about time. Seeing a samaritan woman came to draw water. And jesus said to her. Please give me a drink. He was alone at this. He was learning this time because his disciples had gone into the village to buy some feed. The women are surprised. Full the full. Jews refuse to have anything to do. So martin like kisser. To jesus euro g and i'm a samaritan woman woman. Why are you asking me for drinks. Let's stop because like no only was jesus breaking barriers the barriers race but he was also he was speaking to women to women. Don't do back in those days. Less women were second class to speak to them. Now let alone a samaritan woman versus woman. I wasn't going even click because as we read along the line i was wondering why the disciples separately. We're wondering why i don't. Because they were saying some things i'm like. Why are they disciples. Jesus now i understand deduce time. The classified woman has no second-class and surprised at jesus. No jammies ziya you talking. Say to go stand here. This is not what came to do. Came to destroy it. His barriers engine or something just remembered is that this woman was even very picked peculiar of the time of day that this woman came to the well it shows a lot about her and about her story because back in those days Women they would go to the well early in the morning. You know when it's still cool. But she came in the middle of the day to come andrew water because she wanted to be alone. And i think as we continue to read the story you see why she probably was like that. So this woman already seems she's the front you know we can already see that these days things now he had already like a story to the woman and for jesus peaked these because this woman is a lifestyle never expected expenses. Those like this professor. Speak to that kind of lady because if we do find that you realize the kind of woman this woman is actually and i believe that god orchestrated visits because just would have passed and we could have set up. Will he sat on this. The woman king. So i believe that this visit this woman's this summertime woman. It was god's plan because he could have done because this woman gone through a lot this woman and especially the this the this john too explains the kind of life should leave. Jesus asks these two times throughout himself so anyways let's carry on us. You understand clear. Then it says inver investor jesus replied if only you knew the gift of the gift god has for you and who you're speaking to you'd have asked me and out of giving you living water. She's like you have do you. Don't have a rope or a bucket. She said and this well is very deep. Where would you get this living water. And besides do you think you're greater than our ancestors jacob who gave us this. Well how can you offer better would would then he and he sons his animals enjoyed. Can you feel the hostility. Hostile voice response. Only if she'd no let w like if you know this is i think elsa if you think about if they hated each other i did jesus and the samaritan. She's coming with hostility. Because that's what she's probably learned all her life so she's even like responding to jesus this question this on coming with them by in verse. Thirteen is jesus replied. Anyone who drinks this photo seemed become thirsty a game but those who drink the water i i give would never be thirsty again. It becomes a fresh bubbling spring within them given them eternal life that one executive fat part that one is. What's talking about. I wrote that at the time. What does it this leaving. What i try to break down leaving what i what did i use life. And you know you've been reading chapter three john that we read week. No one talks about leaving. Water says bone of water born of the spirit. And i believe that like you said last time immense spiritual beth so when he says leaving what i believe is talking about the holy spirit in the place of salvation because he said that way even say it. I said i'll give you. You said he says was. I'll give you should be like a fresh poblano springer. What are we giving them a tunnel life. And if we don't john i went. I actually went to my study. Johns i think is john chapter six sixty three. Says.
"charmaine" Discussed on Ayobami's Diary
"Welcome to iowa missouri podcast. I hope you guys a good. I hope you guys had a lovely week. I hope you arrested well unhappy. Happy sunday to everybody. I hope he went to church. I hope everything shout good happens. All of my has been blessed. This week even spoke of this week last week he had wonderful guest. Kevin greene was here with us. And really thank you. Thank you for speaking to reading. The word of god so kevin has skonto right now. We have a new guest and her name is champagne aisha main. Hi guys how you doing you for having me thank you. Thank you for readingmeet us. So shamin would you. Let's just on introduction of worshipful name come turning what's your name you know where you from our that you once. He was just introduced to us. Hi guys show. Main marufi and i am from zimbabwe. Originally live in a fountain and i am twenty two years old. Wow thank you thank you very much. The is my friend. We go to the same church. I make an. She has been really wonderful friend. She's very brilliant is. She's very powerful of gort. He's a prophet anyways. Just tell you that that was tomorrow is actually very powerful because out. Somebody's powerful start giving inside. What's it very powerful trust dice. That would've gordon explaining for us very well. So thank you. Thank you very much for reading with us today So before we go through the word in we're going to try to shoot fire because we have a lot to cover today because there's a lot of there's just a lot to cover in this chapter four and by the new chapter stats in chapter four. It's been a really good read. Chapter one fee for given us over relation. Now in the last chapter. Because i i decided to stop in chapter four just to help us with the design of the world right now chapter for the last redeem. Wow we thank god. See before we like. We used to do going to say the five games over four. And because i have a guest my guest would be the want to say three and i'll be the one seat soon so guests three in for four So i guess one of the first things are sam. Really grateful is my friends and family. The people around me. I think i have such a great community of people there. Really such a blessing. People can count on people that i can study the word with people that teach me. That helped me see. I'm really grateful for my community. And the friends i have around me and also also just yeah one thing. I'm grateful for is just a feet. Thank you jackie. I like no no no seriousness there. I'm just grateful for also just goes. Provisions in goes hand that even during the pandemic of continuously singles provisions because a hand still had a job throughout this pandemic. I'm just grateful for her. God has shown himself to me in that area. And lastly i am grateful for. I guess nothing. All sound waiting for for is my church. I really like my touch. I love my so. Yeah stretched by the. We go to the same church so much. I think you go from thank. You mean so things. I'm for for them. Don't want won't forget so. Identity people are from so. I'm going to remember remember this week. I'll just. I had a meeting one of my friends on the meeting. They were just like you. You like all you've been like you that you have the privilege speak to speech. Rebound go like your qualifiable code you too. So i'm just waiting for forty five. Because i've just seen looking back. I've seen the difference of same because bummed. He's now that's why i was before i really. I love the new me. I'm so happy that i'm worldwide has done like he has really beaut- no maybe for this scene. How is different. And i'm i'm leaving that. Also the privilege speech. You guys like. It's an owner. I was literally got so me and actually appointed me to actually talk to you guys about the words such privileged got brought in nobody and said i gave me this opportunity to actually talk about this good news to people. It's a real. It's a real privilege. And i don't take it for granted so i'm really beautiful about before all this. I'm not. I'm so grateful for so people to go. I see my friends. My people that have before told me that. I'm you've changed your own into gordon. I'm like i'm like yeah. I really griffin for that. I want to get man's approval. Apertures are no. I'm just giving people recognized the difference in me and all because of gourd and i just. I'm grateful for that. So yeah things. I'm for c. Moving onto today's reading. Like i said we're going to stop from chapter four. Very good social shamir. Would you like to start. Would you like to eat for We'd i what tradition. I going to apply. It does one of my favorite translations. Oh let me let me just read the key then. Champion is going to help us read. Because i like always so. Yes so you redone yucky. We'll just forcing your stuff from to one or is it was way to read it because i think is different from. Let's just reading. Not i think is the same as the pass information. Just read it and not the new living translation. Yes jim stop anywhere. None of start within the region anything that stands up to us. We just pick. Yeah so yeah. So i'm going to start reading from verse one. So the title is jesus and the samaritan woman. Jesus knew the pharisees had heard that he was up -tising and make him more disciples than john. The jesus himself didn't ties them. His disciples did so you went. He left and returned to gallery before even were there at the actually stood out to me about jesus said jesus himself did not try to disciple. Did it's why do you think is about tyrod. you can. His disciples baptize them. I think You know jesus heating come to ties in terms of the baptism of water. That you thought was really going to be. The baptism of john. J-o-h-n was really the one doing that. You know jesus came to give us the holy spirit says he would. We'll be baptized. The holiest spray. He came to give us the baptism of the spirit. So i'll i think is because jesus when he came together that's no way. He came on the world sentenced to do. Yeah so he left the buxom teed. The it didn't it did not.
"charmaine" Discussed on The KTS Success Factor (a Podcast for Women)
"How many of you have taken more than a four hour course specifically about conflict and very few people put up their hands although when i asked them the next question. How much of your day or week are you as a leader spending dealing with conflict worrying about conflict coaching others through it the quotes i get are more than sixty percent of their day. Hello everyone welcome to the. Ktbs fest factor podcasts for women where we talk about challenges senior female leaders face and being happy and successful at work. I'm your host. Dr sarah e brown. My guest today is charmaine hammond. She works with organizations and teams who wants to effectively resolve conflict build resilient teams and generally work better together charmaine as an expert in conflict resolution collaboration resilience and just plain working better together..
Nearly 3 million U.S. women have dropped out the labor force
"Not long after Donald Trump arrived at the White House, he disbanded and office that focused on challenges affecting women. President Biden is now resurrecting it. Women's rights groups hope this will help them make progress on things like paid family leave and affordable child care. Here's NPR's Melissa Block. The wish list on Biden's agenda for women is long restoring an expanding reproductive rights, combating gender based violence, reducing maternal mortality, and he's pitched a slew of economic proposals. Major structural disruption requires major structural change. And I feel like thinking big right now is exactly what we need to do. So now is the time That's the co chair of the Biden administration's new gender Policy Council. Jennifer Klein. You know we're seeing because of the health pandemic because of the economic crisis, and, in fact, take care giving crisis that's been layered on top of it. These are core issues core issues, Klein points out that air hitting women hard and especially women of color. Just look at the most recent jobs numbers. In December, women accounted for all 140,000 of the country's net lost jobs. One factor behind that, with so many schools and day care centers closed because of the coronavirus. Many women have had to drop out of the labor force. That's been disastrous, says Joan Williams, director of the Center for Work Life Law at the University of California, Hastings. Mother's already We're at the breaking point in the United States. I mean, we already had a choc your system that was basically a Rube Goldberg machine and the coronavirus brought that machine crashing down. Williams says. What she wants the Biden administration to do is to recognize that Just as we don't expect workers to get to work without physical infrastructure like bridges and roads. We can't expect workers to get to work without a care infrastructure. What would that care Infrastructure look like for Williams? That would mean subsidized neighborhood based child care, paid family leave Universal, pre K and $15 an hour minimum wage, especially during the pandemic. Single moms have had to choose between putting food on the table and leaving young Children home alone. Now. Part of the reason is because the minimum wages so low that there is no way on God's green Earth that those moms can pay for childcare. The paid caregivers are also reeling from the crunch. President Biden highlighted this when he announced his covert 19 relief plan last month. Let's make sure caregivers mostly women, women of color immigrants. Have the same pay indignity that they deserve. Advocates like I Jen poo, director of the National Domestic Workers Alliance, are heartened by what they're hearing from Biden. Her group represents workers, including nannies, home care workers and housekeepers, actually focusing on how we're going to make Thies jobs, good jobs for the 21st century. That you can take pride in and earn a living wage with benefits. That is a really big breakthrough. Conservatives, though, are leery of an agenda that carries a hefty price tag and they warn, will lead to crushing government regulations. Charmaine Yost is vice president of the Institute for Family Community and Opportunity at the Heritage Foundation. My biggest concern is that all of the proposals that I'm hearing coming from their side of things inevitably seem to come back to big government intervention in government programs. As for raising the minimum wage in the midst of a pandemic, when many businesses are suffering so badly if there were a time that you could create, that would be the perfect time to not Raise the minimum wage. This would be it with such a slim Democratic majority in Congress. Biden's agenda could have a tough time gaining traction. But Fatima Goss Graves, who heads the National Women's Law Center, is undaunted. Her group has issued an ambitious list of 100 demands for Biden's 1st 100 days. Basically, what we're asking this administration and Congress to do is effectively walk into gum. We need them to both undo things that have been harmful and have been Holding this country back and launch us forward in a way that we're stronger for it, Graves adds. This president doesn't have the luxury of coasting in Melissa Block NPR news
Work From Home and Pandemic Burnout
"Your host, Misty Lynch and say we're gonna talk about burnout. In particular professional burnout. Now burnouts defined as the state of emotional, mental and often physical exhaustion brought on by prolonged a repeated stress. So that's the sneaky part about burnout is we all feel stress? I can't imagine that there's too many people right now. That aren't experiencing some form of stress in their lives due to the pandemic changing Economic conditions, their schools. They always things that are now different than what we expected. And so I think everyone's feeling Some sense of of stress. Maybe not everybody, but Ah, lot of people are facing challenges that they have never faced before. But with burnout it it's something that really puts you to a breaking point. And it's really important to to address it to try to recognize it. And later in the show. I'm going to be joined by Dr Sharman Gregory. She's an E r position and she is a burnout survivor. She now does keynote speeches. She's a podcaster. She really talks about this, and so burnout is a huge Cost. Um according to Forbes, it costs somewhere between 125 billion in $190 billion annually, Um, for businesses with burnout. And the positions it seems like they're a big part of that $4.6 billion annually. Just physician burnout. And I know there's probably some careers that are more stressful, maybe than others. But even now, a lot of different careers have a new added layer of Of stress of safety concerns danger so there could be a lot more people than just what you'd normally think. Physicians. Fireman police Really dealing with some workplace burnout. And also, according to CNBC. About two thirds of us are experiencing work from home burn out, so that could just be The lack of change in our environment. Maybe we're working more hours are computers right? There may be we don't know how to turn it off. And so I think this is something that I really wanted to make sure that I got an expert on to address You know, with with the cost. I mean, of course, our physical well being is a concern. But economically, it leaves too disengaged Employees, um, high turnover rates and people really just getting physically sick and spending more on health care because of the Stress related illnesses. And so you know, burnt out employees. They're around you. So when you're on a team And somebody isn't able to participate the way they normally do. I contribute. That can infect your entire organization. And so it's really something that I think everyone needs to get better at addressing internally and also looking out for for people that are around us people that we care about people that we work with. We might not see Everybody is often But there might be some ways that we can try to learn how to intervene in to help, and Charmaine will teach us a little bit about that, as well. Later. A few tips that I have is if you find yourself getting cynical, or you think that Everything you're doing is just It doesn't It isn't worth it. It's meaningless. That could be a sign that years from regular stress into a zone where it's just feeling meaningless, so just realize, even if You don't think you have choices. You always have choices, and you need to make yourself a priority That could look like saying No. You could set some boundaries. You could respect your own time. I do spend time I have a family. I have a job if a spouse but I I carved out time to to see my friends to talk to my friends to do things for myself. That Bring me peace and make me feel good. And I don't I don't feel bad about that. I don't feel any sense of guilt it all because I know that if I can't take care of myself, I can't take care anybody else. And also, you know, make make your health make your physical well being a priority, even if that just means. Spending more time preparing a meal. It's good for you or or getting in a walk or a little bit of exercise or something to move around and maybe help you Get off the couch or out of that spiral. If if you feel like you're mentally just falling apart. And I think it's important that you know we all kind of take a look around. Try to be better friends trying to be better family members and make sure that we're asking people if we're noticing a change in them. If we're noticing they're different. You know if they seem like they're not themselves. To really to try to find out what's wrong,
"charmaine" Discussed on Power 105.1 FM
"I thank all down and I didn't take it down I wanted to do I need the phone I want to rip down but he has a right to put it whatever you want to put on his house but I wonder I wonder why I came down all right that was done okay of the day shall mean is out today is his birthday so shout to Charmaine when we come back we got the positive no and most or movies the breakfast club the morning but I me and me and we can raise that might come in for a second but I want photo me don't think much about myself they make about some I get forty I got to be one of the greatest movies made round no imaginable once and they don't try to go on strike the thing and I don't want a mass shooting in a.
Washington DC's Ivy and Coney Owners Introduce Grassroots Delivery Platform DC To-GoGo
"With seed money from the district the new food delivery app is up and running and this one is for DC only it's called DC to go go and the owners of ivy and Coney bar in shock created the delivery service out of a need to survive the pandemic it features lower fees for restaurant owners and ask the bars and restaurants that use it to pay their drivers eighteen dollars per hour so they have fixed income and reliable income Charmaine streets is a non profit partly funded by the DC government it gave the bar owners a ten thousand dollar grant to get their project off the ground believing that it would help many local businesses at once last week DC council passed emergency legislation mandating that third party delivery apps lower their
Fred and Rose West: A Murderous Relationship
"Frederick Water West. I'm rose Marie Pauline West Fred and rose where the Jew of serial killers answer rapist. Who killed at least a dozen young British girls included several of their own daughters. Fred was born in a small town of much marcle in Hertfordshire. He was the second of six children by Fred's own. Admission Sexual Abuse. Various kinds will come in the house owed. Fred claimed his father had sexual relationships with his daughters and taught him about bestiality. He was also suspected. That Fred's mother started sexually abusing him when he was twelve though. Fred never admitted this and his never been confirmed when Fred was physically punished for doing badly in school. He showed aptitude woodworking artwork. His mother was a piece and often dress. Unattractively often went to the score in person to yell at the teachers doing so fred left school at the age of fifteen and was almost illiterate. The only job he was a farmhand at sixteen he became more attracted to girls and at the age of seventeen. He was in a motorcycle accident that put him in a coma for a week. This led to a metal plate being inserted into ahead after breaking one of his legs. It was permanently shorter than the other. He was subject to buy temper and often have violent bursts of anger even two years after the accident. Fred hurt his head yet again when he stuck his hand up girl's skirts and she pushed him down a forest. The agent nine thousand nine. He was convicted of molesting a thirteen year. Old Girl though he didn't serve any jail time at the time because his doctor said he suffered from epileptic fits. After this he went to live with his sister was by the rest of his family. Fred got work on the construction site but was fired for stealing from his workplace. At the age of twenty one is family. Let back into their lives and he moved back to much marcle. He resumed a romantic relationship. With an ex girlfriend Catherine Rena Costello who had been a petty thief when they first dated and she moved onto prostitution. Rini was already pregnant with the chart of Pakistani mine. They married Captain Chart to explain why the baby was half Asian. Friday meaner read to the parent to say that the baby died in childbirth chart. Code-named Charmaine Carol was adopted. They married in November a move to Scotland together. The couple had a child that owning July nineteen sixty four court. Ameri joining this time. Fred worked as an ice cream truck driver. The gave him plenty of access to available young women in the area. The life in Scotland came to an end when Fred accidentally run over a four year old boy with his truck. They Saxton wasn't deemed Fred's fault and after which Fr move with his family as well as ice McNeil who was their nanny. Anon macphail. A friend of Costello backed gosh very good job in a slaughterhouse. Shortly afterwards Murray filed an Costello went back to Scotland coming back in July nineteen sixty six for daughter only to discover their Freddie started a relationship with macphail in nineteen sixty seven. It fell became pregnant when French todd and tried to get him to divorce. Kosta Fred killed and dismembered and buried. Her Costello finally left read a few months later. Leave in that children with him. Fred is suspected of killed again in January. Sixty eight when fifteen rosemary. Boston disappeared from of bustle. After the death of his mother in February Fred Start committed a lot of petty thefts and change jobs after joining stint as a bakery truck driver. He met his future wife and accomplice rose. Rosemary was born rose me. Let's in Devon England nineteen fifty three. The house out was trumpeted abusive father. Bill was constantly disciplining UH siblings and a mother of a daisy become pregnant with Rosemary and she'd received electroconvulsive therapy as treatment for severe depression growing up. Rosemary was sexually abused by father. She wasn't very bright overweight and she was often teased. I'm responded by TAC nobles aggressively when she was just a teenager. She became more sexually active and was called getting to bed. Whatever younger brothers and sexually abusing him. A father preventive from data boys ver- own age though she did she relationships with overman where she lived. One of these men took advantage of rape them when rose was fifteen another finally had enough abuse and two rows and moved in with one of our daughters and her husband. Rose started spending more time with male companions later that same year. Rosemary moved back with her father not long after there. She met Fred last. P. Was twelve years her senior. Father objected to fred seeing her. Fred had done several stints in jail for theft and he fade failed to pay his fines of other previous offenses around. This time rose became pregnant with his child could have their. She also took care of his children. Rose treated her stepdaughters badly. In the summer of Nineteen seventy-one Rosemary. Snaps and killed Chaumet. She severed the bodies fingers and toes. I'm Fred Barrett under the kitchen floor in August. One Thousand Nine hundred seventy one costello disappeared when she came looking for Charlemagne because body was found to have its fingers and toes cuts off. When it was discovered Fred as a result was suspected of being the killer Fred and Rosemary on January twenty nine nine thousand nine hundred seventy two. Fred encourage rose to have sex with other men who for money and fun and the Often Watch. He took pictures and post them in magazines and ads for prostitution. In June seventy two he had never daughter Mae West at this time. Gt expanded family and roses business. They moved to twenty five Cromwell street where they can carry out their rapes and murders rose still working as a prostitute from our home had rooms fitted with people's for Fred to us and he hung a red light outside to tell the children not to enter. Rose gave birth to hover children over the next few years seven in Tokyo with three of them fathered by Fred in October. Seventy-two Fred and rose hired a young woman named Catherine Owens. To work for them is a ninety for that children. They made sexual advances on her and she declined every time. When nine December they both unsuccessfully tried to seduce her and how it a captive overnight Fred Fratton to let some of his friends have her killed her. She complied the next day. They released A. She went to the police though. She pressed charges. Fred was able to convince the court was forced. Had Been Consensual. He rose would just find for the INDECENT ASSAULT OVER NEXT SIX YEARS. They killed at least eight. Women made their way to twenty five Cromwell street as even lodges or employees the I was Lynda Gough. She was the seem stress to the WES. Cow Keeper had disappeared while walking home from a movie theater. In December Lucy Catherine plotting ten disappeared from. Stop while we're on our way home. After Christmas. She was murdered by Fred rose. Who adopted her? How to captive for a week over the New Year? I'm raped and tortured her and then killed her on January. The Third Fred was treated for which had been believed to be inflicted when he dismembered partner from nineteen seventy four to nine thousand nine hundred seventy five to nineteen seventy six seventy seven. Seventy eight seventy nine five more women therese single Haga Shirley Hubbard Genetic Marian Motte Shirley Ann Robinson Alison Chambers met. The same fair is unknown if the was killed in the following years if they hadn't it's improbable but the bodies were buried on the property
"charmaine" Discussed on Power 105.1 FM
"Only you know biters day brightens is keep going on that was a mistake thank you so you know that's not a good it was because it had been three your top of the mac this will make you Charmaine to get arrested last time you came in we talked about Colby possibly pay in the in the big three yeah was that ever a conversation for you so you can tell us at that time it was a conversation about that man every day you know because often because it was so many plans thank you I'm done you mean done done get done done you need done done done done done done a Q. my god I call you mark so I was talking to do man to play you know he's the biggest fish we can catch and he was actually done he'd want to play anymore and that's cool we you know we want guys is ready to go we don't just once and then once again so you know I don't really want him to play if he wasn't gonna try to kill everybody out in the courts will even offer somebody like Kobe to play at the same thing we offer everybody else you know I mean it's like that's the whole spirit of the league everybody gets paid to sign in is all about the game and you know a revenue share as you know you place placed first in the first place money placed last year last placement so you know that counts you know has sustained us and you know we hope is in the B. the concept but a future as a getting ready for this new season of the big three are any of the rules differences the games that what what's new this season.
"charmaine" Discussed on Power 105.1 FM
"Most dangerous less than three minutes we're taking your calls eight hundred five eighty five one oh five one get it off your chest if you're upset you need a vehicle if you want to present positive vibes calls now with the breakfast club I'm doing there's a at the your time to get on with the we want to hear from you want hello this is Hey Daddy Daddy going to get off the chest good morning good morning to all of you guys you know I'm mourning the passing of Kobe and its order and the other members of on the helicopter but I just want to say that immediately when you guys started talking about Kobe Charmaine turned it around and put it on him Hey you know about what it was about to you know what it's about TLC it's not about Charmaine today is about Colby so you guys have a blessed day I notice you're well loved okay I think I think that's kind of foolish to say especially being that a situation like this hit different especially when you are a father but you can't review can't relate that have empathy because you've got kids and.
"charmaine" Discussed on The Radiant Health Show
"Same way or you can come in once a month or twice a month or or or four times a man we have people go to all of those things And so the HR V. The Post data analysis is is really quite a key piece of our monitoring system at the center to see what's happening in a person's body. Great so You also in addition to having a life there Any touched on this a a bit. But I want you to talk about a little bit more so you have some Extraordinary training really and being like an effective coach coach. We can say and So you are actually doing kind of a combination with individuals that come into your center because because they're having a festival treatments and as you said not only. Are you getting less DP. No relax station and detoxification. So you're having physical aspects to it but also the wife festival is something that creates emotional psychological You know shifts and changes and insights and so forth. So you're combining The the technology with your coaching. So I want you to speak a little bit about Your coaching how you do it. And and The results you get. Thank you Yes we do have a couple of other technologies us here. Too One of them is the outfits dam and then we have a few other things as well Little help people systems Calm down and we we often used in conjunction with the Vassall but one of the things that as I did all these travels that I traveled around the world and experienced people from different cultures. I really found that we all struggle with the same things you know we want to be loved. We want to feel like we're making a contribution that you have a purpose in our lives and And we WANNA feel safe in our own skin and and it seems from from my understanding of how disease works is that often times. There is a systemic stemming of this is in the body that occurs from prolonged experience at the negative emotions and so one one of the things that I love to do with people is to give them a different experiences themselves. Where maybe they've come in and They've had had a really negatives prognosis from From from a doctor and and they don't know how how to process that Or they're trying to make sense of dying or they're they're just trying to make sense of their life. And how did I end up in this situation And so we. We explore what people's beliefs are about themselves about the world about relationships about money about the family at all these different things. And then we look at the aspects of where there's an out of integrity or an out of fullness in those things things so if you want love that you feel like it's not safe to love then you probably won't have a very deep love in relationship and your wife And so as we pull these things upon In combination with the use of technologies that we have here. What often happens is that you can? You can run into roadblocks where Someone just can't see something. There's there's a a blind spot. What in their view of themselves the world Or relationship or whatever it might be and so we uncovered the blind spot and then we use the technology technology to relax the nervous system and then go back in after the session and and pull things apart for more and so people have just ah mazing experiences and really you know my my my happiest one is of course with my son. Where off the his first four sessions and he he came out of the vessel and he said mom? I'm not angry at the world anymore. off the you know doing the coaching with him as well and then I did some coaching hitching with him. During that that seventeen to twenty one day gap in between and then pop back in in the vessels for four days and then did some online work with him and offer his second round of four. He said you know mom I'm I'm not angry with men anymore. And his biological father had been very abusive and so That was a complete shock that we had unraveled enough to where he could let go of that anger and fear of men And so- seventeen to twenty anyone days go by and comes back out and and you know it just keeps going like this until A number of sessions later he comes Ashen. He says skips across the center lobby. which is he's very tool long and lean and lanky? And quite you know at the time was quite morose and so so happen Come out to the vessel and skip across. The floor was extraordinary in and of itself but then he said mom I. I know the secret to life in the universe and everything and I remember thinking you are nineteen you do not know cigarettes live and the University of everything then she said well mom I do. It's connection to source and love and I thought Oh I stand corrected you do know life the universe and everything and flew blew my mind as he said because that wasn't enough right he said and now I'm going to heal my eyes and there was this moment where I thought. Oh my gosh what have I done. I have met this child both believe that it's possible to actually heal yourself. Why did he call? Then what and so for the next two weeks until his annual yearly eye check up I was a another wreck as I often every day. Did you notice anything with your eyes. And he said yes my my eyes. That's every day he was my is the best again. My eyes are better Sir and I thought he was just telling me what I wanted to hear I really did. I was like this is this is this is not possible and so I sent him off to his eye appointment by himself. Because I just I couldn't go. I was too much of a reckons. The doctor called me and he doesn't say honey hello main or anything he just said what are you doing i. I honestly didn't know what to say. Everything just kind of went down with my mind and I thought Oh my gosh. I'm putting him in a box and I'm playing with his brain and and so he said well I tell my patients that he serviced. You don't understand you've done the impossible. This boy has not only stop the progression of this disease. But but he's reversed it and now his site is better than it was a year ago and that's impossible because the rods and tons and in his eyes were dead and I really. I mean I didn't know what to say because You know he clearly had the belief to to have it happen clearly. I didn't necessarily But it really speaks to me. Two doesn't it doesn't matter what anybody else thinks. If you can stand firmly in something that you believe all the power of the universe moves towards that And that might sound very new agey in and Oh but I have my British. British scepticism has had to step aside in the face of my child doing the impossible. That's.
Democratic debate: Everything you need to know
"Hill the democratic hopefuls in Los Angeles for the final debate of twenty nineteen Jim reports former vice president Joe Biden centers Bernie Sanders Elizabeth Warren and Amy clover Charmaine people engaging businessman Andrew Yang and Tom style are all made the cut and noticeably mostly quite line up senator Cory Booker and former hud secretary Julian Castro did not make the cut both have been critical about some of those onstage being able to connect with voters of color even with Joe Biden doing well among black voters at this time there will most likely be a United front when it comes to impeachment that's where it ends though all try and separate themselves on other issues such as the hot button issue of
Horses Follow Money
"This is popcorn where we tell you what's happening at the movies and my frontier Alexander Skarsgard has a movie called the team movie of some serious intent guarantee that each and every one of you will have a chance to be a warrior Jackson do something out here to be a part of history said of reading about it in some book and I like that Wolf in that scene looking like do I believe this guy yeah because he wants to be a hero in the beginning of this scene nats character is reading a book on history so when deeks walks up to give this little little speech clock said and he's like Oh you're you're history so that's why he wants ended in he knows at all these guys young guys want to do what they want to be heroes they wanna be says this is your opportunity to be a part of history instead of just reading about it in some book on so this is his way of just tickling that a little bit to get them excited and like trust me follow me and you get to do great things I think what this movie is about and what it's saying and what's manipulative about it is very timely it's there's a thirty and ital- authority masks itself sometimes and how it creates a thing where you wanna please it or you can also say if you don't please it it's going to be trouble for you absolutely and how easy it is to surrender your morality to authority the the MILGRAM experiment you remember that back in the day they think it was back in the stay there was that famous experiment with a had subjects. Push a button to electrocute someone in an in another room but because there was a doctor of or an actor playing a doctor conducting this experiment telling the subject to to do this normal good people law-abiding citizens we're willing to ultimately execute someone might push of a button in another room because they had surrendered their own morality to a person in a position of authority on which is very troubling and there's movie touches on that a bit where in the beginning they feel like they're part of unit and the unit has its own. Morales be in its own moral compass and the leader of that unit is deeks so all they have to do is just follow blindly and what happens for Bregman nats character starts to rub against his own morality eventually I was also fascinated with how declares the guys against each other it's almost like a love story and it's a courtship he it is positive attention and then when someone's not quite doing what he wants to heal ignore that work on rayburn another character instead and then suddenly eases pet which will leave Friedman feeling stuck out in the cold and bring back in his lover and on and it obviously feels quite timely 'cause it's about whistle blower which is quite topical right now isn't it totally is look at you look at you go from one into another without ever being the I mean I'm watching I watched you know on being a god no but that guy yeah from another planet yeah you know I I need a little levity between some of the dark projects worked on so so that was it was a great opportunity to that a lot of fun on that job and Kirsten dunst and you'd be back together again after melancholy and your large tree experience we play a married couple again melancholy different kind of very different and I couldn't have been more excited I love I love there's an she's obviously fantastic actress but also so we became very close on melancholy and I was thrilled when she called and said doing this show and asked if I wanted to come in and play her husband and then get eaten by should I reveal it's a spoiler alert I know that now we the Dow and you found that very appealing immediately didn't you yes and I love the way it was set up because it said it's the two hander and you think all right this is a show about this couple on an I love when you in a way almost trick the audience too so they sit back can eat popcorn and think like I think I'm not watching this is going to be the trajectory of the show and then the end of the it's so surprising hopefully to the audience suddenly taste eaten by me and and the Hell Agadir and then the show is about something very different and it takes a different turn so it was lovely but what does the success that you're having do to change it when you are on big little lies you didn't only win the Ma you when the Golden Globe Sag Award every other award they could actually meant did that turn your head around did you look in the mirror and say wow you're fabulous that's how I start my day every before those awards that's my mind to eat just my bloodline from my parents like wow you're you're you're fabulous go out there and conquer the world they'll do it but that must have been experience doing that series as well it's extraordinary it's kind of a great thing with you and Meryl Streep deep we have one day one together one little moment and she said son and I started crying and my heart melted it that was it I mean yeah it's Meryl Streep it's on there are a lot of extraordinary actors on big little lies obviously had the great privilege of working closely with in the coal but Amerisleep is grow up watching her movies and a massive Fan Kramer and Kramer was I WanNa my parents favorite movies that's just so bad parenting because they would why would watch that when I was a kid about such a great movie the worst right the kids let's watch it was their way of saying you should be grateful that we're still together because look at this this is what can happen this is what could I think is Weird is that your dad's done in Mamma Mia with her yeah has way more scenes than you've Ah Yeah Way more fun and singing and doing that and you know dad loved every second of it I think it he can't dance he can't sing hey he should not be wearing wearing spandex but he's dances and he thinks that he's worked with all the worst panics and he loves it and I think it I think the audience his loves it does he give you a pointers now in your career does he call you up and say I just saw not after the spandex and Mama Mia and do it and I'm like Dad you've lost for list but you've got how many of you in your siblings are actors three three three siblings yeah yeah we're eight kids and four of us are actors how much do you all see of each other so I live here in your but I just got an my everyone else is in Stockholm so they all live back where I was born on and I've lived here for many years on but we're very tight family and I go back every holiday and whenever I have a long enough break to go home Sweden go back but I haven't had a place in Stockholm in fifteen years actually I got one last year and I'm moving in and a couple of weeks so yes I'm very excited about that to have an apartment I'm still gonNA live here but I'm have a permanent base in Stockholm it to spend more time out there and be around my family you can do a great American accent has taken over you now is there any Swedish left in my dad's wife is she's from Ohio so she's lived in Sweden for many years but when we're home it's kind of a mix of English and Swedish now so it's kind of a weird combination of the two did you ever have a problem with the American accent idea did you ever have to get to rain yourself to get out of it. The British accent has been more difficult for me you had to had a British accent on Tarzan and that was trickier I think my my Max that my accent was already more American than British before I moved out here we I lived in in Texas for a while when I was eight that'll do it and I went to a when my dad was shooting in Budapest I went to American schools there when I was thirteen so it was it was definitely felt more natural and organic to slip into an American accident than on that in British so on Tarzan Edward quite heart with the dial code but has that seeped into being your accent when you're speaking I don't think so little Texas and there when you said that I don't think I think what what those informative years you know the formative years of being when I was I was so young like the first time I was exposed to the English language was when I was in Texas which was an amazing experience because Fredericksburg it was like proper cowboy country and coming from Stockholm I was an urban kids from downtown Stockholm in a cowboy movie because like I was surrounded by real cowboys on horses and I loved every second of it and I even got a pair of beautiful cowboy boots and I was so excited to come back home to Stockholm like imagining this moment of day one of being back from from from from Texas walking in Mike Cowboy boots and all the kids would be like Oh my God he's a cowboy and then I walked in and everyone started laughing at me and said like why are you wearing women's boots sake because as an eight year old for eight year old kids in Sweden at the time like cowboy boots looked like ladies boots basically so I was very disturbing moment and and trump ties I was traumatized again it was like imagining this big immutable moment where everyone was just like touching them like Oh my God Alex has been is now a cowboy after three months in Fredericksburg on instead they laughed at me you've never wore them again they're they're all I haven't on on in my apartment here on on a pedestal I still have the boots well let's take a couple of last questions from the world outside world of the Internet are you ready for this I don't know well come on charmaine visas what do you miss most about sweetness side from family when you're in the states for long periods of time was it your dad cooking naked. I remember that story from last time that was great great that's something I definitely miss on but he's here quite a bit dated Naked Soldier apartment here clothing optional. Yeah we'll come and cook it my place sure do miss my pickled herring you can't get that here now it's you can but it's it's saying if you're in New York or Elaine yeah but if you're shooting somewhere more look slightly more remote rural area it's it's it's not easy to find pickled herring this is this is sad like this is very different from fermented herring that soothes drumming it is of course I don't need that that's very pickled not fermented pickled fermented huge difference listen to that PRI that's the have mark j say what is the Best Oh yes there it is the answer is already there anyway to show everybody what you can oh it's time for song again as we end this okay and I always ask for something in Swedish because it's beautiful language it is beautiful we've heard you do American Texas everything else that you've done what sense of melody and beauty can you give me in the Swedish tongue okay so we just uh we were talking about pickled herring in a tradition in Sweden is to drink schnapps with when you pickled herring and then you sing schnapp songs of course yeah and there are many fantastic snuff songs the most famous one it's super easy so we can sing it together we can we all know it let's yes come on universal classics Theater Learn Gold Whom Hope for
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Christine Sinclair (probably) wont play forever. So appreciate her now.
"I she is on a very short list of the greatest, Canadian athletes of all time, second. She would probably never admit she belongs on that list, or actually even discuss that list at all. Third. She has been on the field for some of the most heartbreaking defense. Any Canadian team has ever suffered through to the hip fido's, a comprehensive victory of Canada fulltime book of Canada ill, Frantz four. Finally beginning today after almost twenty years of leading perhaps the best soccer Team Canada has ever fielded Christine Sinclair has a chance to reach heights that would have been unimaginable. When she began her career Sinclair is thirty six now, she's been Canada's rock for ever, this might be her last women's World Cup. And it might be Canada's best ever chance to hoist the trophy and it might be our last chance to appreciate a woman who has never talked much never cared about stats never wind about the refs never done anything, but play, great soccer, and she is now poised to become perhaps the best ever at that task. I'm Jordan heath Rawlings. And this is the big story Canada's first game and the women's World Cup comes today against Cameroon. So we figured it was time to talk to Stephen brunt of sports net was covered these World Cups for years, Stephen start with just who is Christine Sinclair, where did she come from? What's her origin story? Well, she's from the lower mainland BC. She comes from soccer playing family her to her uncle's played professionally with the Portland at an earlier incarnation of the Portland timbers her dad played. She played as a kid, and, you know, she played other sports as well. But as a was a prodigy Ritchie cows, cap for Canada as a sixteen year old, it does astounds me how, you know, we're, we're talking about the early days of the sport in the country, like candidate didn't have a women's national team till nineteen Eighty-six. Yeah, yes. She played in the ninety five world or the ninety four World Cup. Right. Those game lake back. Then it was if people are soccer people. They will understand what I'm saying. Here's like old time, English soccer like vertical. So. Correct. Big kick, it down the field and the strongest and tallest and fittest would run underneath it, it was dominated by countries that could do that played that way. But it was also dominated by countries that put money into women's sport before other countries did, which is a pattern we've seen a lot, right? Like early success in Olympic women's rowing, for instance, was because we invested in it in nineteen nothing away from those great athletes, but we got on that bandwagon before a lot of other countries said in soccer even a lot of traditional soccer countries declined to invest in the women's game. There was a level of chauvinism in the in the soccer cultures so that, you know, the Brazil's and the Spain's and the Italy's they, they didn't do anything women's soccer, but Germany, did and Norway and Sweden did and we did to a degree. We were we were kind of early adapters in terms of women's soccer and the Americans did after title. Nine rank title nine was huge right into created opportunities for for collegiate athletes. So those were the countries that dominated early and but that was what they was a power game. You know power game of fitness game. And you know in assize game really strength game. How did Christine Sinclair make her Mark on that game on this team? When did she come to one to Candida notice her, I would think I guess the U twenty tournament gonna remember sales change. They change it from nineteen to twenty remediate offered was the tournament in Edmonton, where the golden generation, they, they got to the finals loss to the Americans, a recurring theme here, but played in front of forty thousand plus people in Edmonton to Commonwealth stadium too big TV ratings, so Kara Lang, and most Creedy and, and sink. You know, we're part of that team and his golden generation of Canadian women country embrace them in a way that it hadn't I don't think it'd embrace the soccer team male or female before we men's team that you know got the World Cup and eighty six and they won the Gold Cup and under Hoeger, but I don't think candidate had ever cared about soccer as much as they cared about that team that played in Edmonton. So that was kind of her debut for the Comanche was the most valuable player high-score most valuable player in that tournament. So, you know, and then she joined the national where she played for the national team and. After that, again, with people like Charmaine Hooper, who is a great athlete in her own, right. And the they, you know, they have a fourth place finish the World Cup people then forget that, that they, they did finish fourth, but, you know, I think what really started to put things on the map was what, what came later and end know and the evolution of the of the game and the pollution of the players will it's kind of a chicken or the egg situation because you had Christine Sinclair in his golden generation that kind of took over that team and dragged it in front of everybody watching. And then once you know that it can do good TV ratings, and people are really going to care. It becomes a lot easier to recruit talent bring on sponsors, and all the rest of it that puts you a little bit further ahead. Yeah. In parallel to that. The game is getting more sophisticated evolving, or changing in, in a way that soccer people found pleasing like I was kind of separate myself because I've covered soccer for a long time. But I you know, soccer people I was considered me an outsider. So I, I always kind of separate myself, but that the people who would kind of disdain women's football women. Soccer started to see the ball being played on the ground. More you know more of a passing game as a more sophisticated version of the game and started to kind of give it its due. So those things happen at the same time one is that. Yeah, you have golden generation of Canadian players coming through who had succeeded on stage, a very popular stage, anyway. And at the same time, you had women's soccer getting new respect, of course, you had that explosion with the Americans right where, you know, brandy Chastain and all of that. You know, it became a big deal in the United States. Yes. Also, the breakthrough from American soccer, you know, if you think about it, the US men's national team was pretty good for a long time. But what was the breakthrough for soccer in the US? It was the women you absolutely the women describe that scene because you probably, it's probably embedded in your memory of brandy Chastain. And that's the only thing I remember that time. Yeah, we scored the winning goal and, and stripped off her jersey was wearing a sports bra and had like an eight-pack ill. She's absolutely ripped. Right. Looks like I think it was it was a moment of empowerment for a whole bunch of. People. And I think for a whole bunch of young girls watching it was, I wanna be her. Yeah. I wanna play that game because it was, you know, it wasn't dainty. It was ferocious. It was competitive. It was passionate there were. And there are a lot of great things about women's soccer. Well, and in Canada. It's the women are better. They have men's team and it by an order of magnitude. We could qualify that say the pool shallower again. We were earlier that there is. We, we probably put more emphasis on what you see now is that, you know, England's good now in the Nederlands is getting good is against some of these other soccer countries are kind of saying, hang on, we'll Spain suddenly pretty good. But yeah, I think in Canada, they had the success and be, I think people did start the kind of tune into the fact that someone who might be the best player in the world play for us. So tell me about her that because you've covered her for while now what is Sinclair, like she's known, at least to me and casual observers for being pretty closed off. Oh, yeah. You mean per as a person as a person as an athlete? How, how is she what drives her she's super shy? She doesn't like doing interviews a drink press stuff. If you talk to her teammates tell you, she's not shy that she got a great sense of humor, which she does. But she just just playing that the public role. I remember once I went down to interview her when I was still the globe and mail. She was playing for the, the western New York flash. Again, you know, the leagues have come and gone. Right. But one of those down near buffalo somewhere, and they having an open workout for kids. And I was driving down from the globe. And I'd set it up through Canadian soccer to do this interview I think goes before the twenty seven World Cup. So it looks a low pressure environment is what I'm saying, and it's going to be a nice story and I got stuck in a little bit of traffic at the border. So I got there about three minutes before the interview was supposed to happen. But I was, you know, phony, people telling you, look, I'm coming, right? Look, she was in her car, and she was going to leave. She was honored. I almost had to throw myself in front of her car because she didn't want to do it. She just didn't want to do the interview, and it was, you know, as an awkward interview, and there wasn't much to it, and I've been persistent, I guess with her to try and get a little bit. And I have huge Marijn for as an athlete. So maybe that's part of it as well. But yeah, she's never going to be somebody who talks and soundbite. She's never going to be somebody who kind of thrown horn. It's just not in her. She's, you know, again, MBA seen her. She is a passionate ferocious competitor. And she does have a sense of humor, but it's hard to get past, you know, the veneer, sometimes why did you work so hard to get past that veneer? You know, I think a lot of it goes back to that twenty eleven World Cup which I'm sure we're gonna talk about. But I covered the tell me about the twenty eleven World Cup. You know, key so candidate went into Germany twenty seven World Cup is in Germany and Canada. There's a sense that candidate could be competitive in this turnament, sorta like now, you maybe none, as they maybe expectations weren't quite where they are now but they were pretty darn high. And that was the, you know, the, the moment for that golden generation of players. Right side from Carlisle, who got hurt that, that was that group this, and this was there, a moment and Canada had hired an Italian to coach the team. Caroliina Mirage, and the whole idea was that this was the country's, there's, like finishing school that she was going to teach them more sophisticated tactics and European training methods and this is gonna turn us into a footballing nation rather than soccer h nerve footballing team rather than a soccer team. And Caroline was an interesting like a character from fiction, you know, and they had this whole group of Italian trainers in the system coaches, and there was much intense talk and smoking cigarettes. And speaking of Italian, and she took them off to a training camp. They went to some hotel in, in the mountains in Italy. And we're locked off by themselves and trained and all of this, when you talk to them after the facts, you know. So it sounds like a prison camp. But it sounds nice now but it wasn't fun. But they all say the right stuff that okay, we're gonna we're gonna we're gonna we're way. Better way. More sophisticated. We're gonna play you know, we're we're going to our game has she is we have learned enormous amounts Mer. The opening game is against Germany in Berlin at the Olympic stadium. They know they're going to lose that game. Everybody knows he'll lose that game but they, you know, they compete and sink scores. A goal on a on a free kick. I think not a penalty free kick, but she also gets hit in the nose and breaks her nose spewing blood. And it was real was, you know in this there goes the tournament. Right. So so caroliina Marashi again, who is she was very much into intrigue in whispered conversations? I'm covering this for the globe. And for sports that we were the rights holders I was as close to any team. I think as I've ever been and there's been there. Many whispered conversations was she going to play and they wouldn't let her talk to the media, and she was. Wearing this like the mass that basketball players wherever they break their now.
Lawsuit accuses 'Burgers & Beer' of discriminating against men
"Equal. Employment Opportunity commission file a lawsuit today in San Diego alleging that burgers and beer a chain of southern California restaurants. Violated federal law by denying male applicants and employees the same employment opportunities. As their female. Counterparts the EEOC alleges that since. At least. Twenty fifteen the. Company routinely rejected male applicants and employees for server positions and maintained a server workforce that was more than ninety percent female