17 Burst results for "Charles Kirk"

"charles kirk" Discussed on Pardon My Sarcasm! with Ashley D & Fuze B

Pardon My Sarcasm! with Ashley D & Fuze B

07:50 min | 1 year ago

"charles kirk" Discussed on Pardon My Sarcasm! with Ashley D & Fuze B

"All fucked up. Let's just beyond this dumb shit so okay limitations. I was a bad guy. We've we've all done something that we're like damn. I really regret that. And like most of us who. I'm always when these people that i hate to throw down a glass house because i always like to say i'm gonna give somebody that benefit of the doubt till it's repeated behavior right once. It's a repeated behavior. Then i think to myself okay. This person is either narcissistic psychopath. Or he's one hundred percent guilty are a sociopath. That's how i used the word sociopath charles kirk and so for me. It's like one of those things where if the teammates our own yard of the bus than yes. We are failing the women who he's assaulted by then than taking him away from it and if anything a protected him flying him out. While i'm self making them save your but now we're giving you privileged right things they make him wear chastity belts a locker woman right. But now we're also saying that what happened to some of the female fencing Usa team members that he assaulted and now they're having to be in the olympics while they're trying to compete at their peak and they have the stress of this guy being around so now not only. Are we already putting the weight of the olympics on your shoulders. We're telling you that you have to compartmentalize this guy. Who sexually assaulted you. And i don't know if that's the case with with what happened in you're saying let me more. It's there to to what you're saying. There's no crowd which means that the people jarad for her. Yeah he's one of those people charon as as an industry industry the girls so he's wanted to people charon forty america's before defensive team like you fucking. We're already having people like from our last episode. We're talking about mental health in the athlete. And now we're talking about this in the mental health of these athletes. But that's okay but the other things not okay. You're right. I mean and here's the other thing and you made a good point housing about this. You're saying like okay. If he didn't do it like you'd back down to nine go to the olympics and do it for his team to not be a if he care about the earth for the team but yet we just watched half half of america like get onto simone biles about trying to put her teammates. I right knowing that she had the twisties. Which by the way. I did want to say this half you people that want to sit here and call out simone biles and you don't know what the to a dr imagine you're driving a car and you don't know which is award in which way is backwards and the car is just spinning. And now you're asking somebody to go on a balance beam do flips and shit and then she's not knowing where she's at in the middle of the air so now that to you driving down the street and you don't know which way as ford which way it's backwards. That's what it's like to have the twisty so until court with athletes and gymnast and people that have gone through it. Which is why a lot of olympians who you've never even heard about or i'm sorry gymnast who have never made it to the olympics and they get this like you can't control when it goes away so please be quiet if you don't know anything about that. Toby twist asshole. There's a lot of people i know. But he's he's the facial. That's your favorite one. He's momma but there are a lot of people that don't get it 'cause when we knew. Hey well it to be fair. I didn't know what that meant. When she lost head is. But i say that all the time bernie you lose your hits. It's vertigo for a very brief second time. When we're talking about doing a flip in your head can write a balance and knock you out cold or possibly parallels. You doesn't leave last week. Yeah but to be fair. When i first heard it in the media. I didn't know what that was. So i just thought they were using it in the context of regular grammar as she lost her head. While i lose my head all the time i mean. Does that make sense. So so if you if you spin it no pun intended if you spin it that way and i hear twisty it that way. Then i don't. I don't really understand the context of what happened. They do that on purpose. Now i don't wanna get into this so i'm going to make big throws so we definitely care. We agree that allen has just as loser treat people as humans speak human rating and treat people as a fellow human being with the respect and have respect for their mental health whether you understand it or not and stop raping That sounds real easy right. Don't rape girls. I mean. I mean guys get ready to don't rape people on the issue of sexual allegations way over at that one. That's cool because the under simple with sexual allegations joe said go got go Joe biden andrew. Kumo kumo homo cuomo. He should resign and like his brother. Chris cuomo he has a really great show on cnn. It's like he's not a of just brother. Andrew cuomo should resign after an investigation into allegations of sexual harassment I think he should resign by He called from the resign because he believes the governor should be prosecuted after an independent investigation. Found in new york. Governor had harassed current and former state employees Being from new jersey. And tell you. This is not surprising. this is not new would quote motives. Been romans three years. That's why when he stood up as a really good guy for a quarantine he was deep the one that they were looking to to get shit done. Everybody i know from up new york would just like at the people that he should be president. I know you don't know that guy and he's doing pretty good now for kobe. Nineteen is taking care of his people. You post governor. But isn't this is not that great. Really great rep when it comes to that Cuomo has not said if he's going to step down yet But they might be looking to impeach him because he he denied i'm sorry. He denied the findings of the his behavior intended to convey warmth and it was being weaponized so behavior to convey warmth as being weaponize There's a video included with a slide. Show of photos of the governor touching and kissing people include men that so again you. I'm very objective. I can tell that win. Eight so slides. It's like if if the guy's italian believe and you know he kisses people wanna cheek when he greets numb A a lot of people. That do i grew up And i do it sometime. I don't actually a kiss sorry But i have some human. I'd let me and my bro- by mummy gun. He and gonna run on hugging kissing on the cheek. You'd be like to know but on that calls eight eight do that. When eight money puts slide shows that's the stats to me. So i don't like that aspect however just weirder smoke there's fire there's a lot of women who complained about him even before he was governor. Ominous always been shut down. You know he always puts. Just i love your. Is that the best how you are all the time. And you're making people uncomfortable all the time. Change yourself in talking about cuomo cuomo ryan or biden. Whoa not so much about global cuomo biden so that he should resign we know he's the highest ranking democrat and one was a democrat so they always ask them whenever comes like that. They thought on the president's plate regardless of the president because they want soundbite and they wanna box you win with politics so biden front them up and said he should resign. We want to do..

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"charles kirk" Discussed on Velocity Racing Podcast

Velocity Racing Podcast

03:39 min | 2 years ago

"charles kirk" Discussed on Velocity Racing Podcast

"Tell you if it wasn't for that freaking Red Flag? Oh and that ten that ten that that that penalty that look that Hamilton got for answering the pit lane when the pit lane was closed if it wasn't for that penalty from Hamilton I I don't know maybe we wouldn't one but I'm not gonna say that because the managed talented but yes. Pir Guiseley one and I can town grand. Prix if you watched it on, there was a red flag because of of. Cash catch. A crash into barrier he kind of tore up the whole barrier. but they had to basically replace the tire racks and the conveyor belt that you know stops the car from hitting the wall and had red flags session. So basically when they had the safety car Hamilton poured into the pit lane, but the pit was actually closed and they went back and showed a replay of it, and apparently if there's a flashing cross that means that the Ping was closed and they thought maybe Hamilton didn't see it but no Hamilton by once and then he actually went by twice instill went into the pit lane and So at that point F, I was like okay man. By twice, you gotta see so they had to hit him with the penalty. And it kind of ruined his race but you know. Hey. What are you GonNa do and that ended up, you know when Charles Kirk crashes car that ended up resulting in a red flag and a Hamilton I'd start basically from the back and and man pure Gaz League ever since from that Red Flag, I'd started Pierre Guiseley just was on his stuff. I, mean, he was given the drivers a really really good fight and I believe saints also got second with a along with I believe Lance Schrool took third and most deaf is wonderful race I. Really liked on those going on the Temple of speed And they said that that that that that Grand Prix is just always fast and it didn't and it really didn't disappoint but congratulations to mysterious. Guiseley, he deserves it. He's been working so hard to get there and he finally got there and Formula One post on instagram and they said that pair Guiseley unquote quote that you know ever ever since he got behind the wheel of formula car, he's been dreaming of that day where he got. To sit at the top step of that podium and drink that champagne and cheer on with his teammates and the fans. But unfortunately, those fans were not there. But we all were sharing for Mr Gaselee on our TV screens phones in our computer screens and we definitely would send out of eleven. Congrats to him because I was definitely a really wonderful Grand Prix But yeah. So that's what went on in the Italian Grand Prix Now let's go ahead and go onto the Tessie Grand Prix Ferrari. Just, came back from one of their worst Graham freeze I'd say ever and at their Home Grand Prix and they were hoping that you know let's let's hope for a better result But let's just say this much look Clare started off really good and let's actually not let's hold off on that for right now let's go over the beginning. and the first couple of laps of that race because I kid you not and I think every person can agree with me on this..

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"charles kirk" Discussed on AM 970 The Answer

AM 970 The Answer

07:39 min | 2 years ago

"charles kirk" Discussed on AM 970 The Answer

"Show talking to Charlie Kirk Charlie have given call Charles Kirk I especially my legal name twenty three a soon you realize not Charlie what Scottish in nature Abdullahi Charles Kirk it's chattels cantik which means church all in now I know Charlie Charmaine your book is called the maggot doctrine but we're talking about how this is likely a movement not a moment it does seem to me that something and I will be bold to say that god has used this president and has his hand on this president I can probably agree in spite of residents previous failings or current sale item until lately another issue go ahead yeah well so I speak at churches quite often across the country in the project we're doing at liberty university Falkirk center yes we Kerry follow junior has an emphasis on this and I want to give a shout out to our great friends at liberty university up the only college I put my name behind they do phenomenal work the Falkirk center following Kirk you know once you got to go down it is Scottish Rite mazing that that somebody who didn't go to college has his name that's you Kirk on a center and a great college America and you're you're you're you're so young so be careful because you might peak too soon but trust me it's I know if you keep your eyes on Jesus you'll be fine god willing but the Falkirk center is very exciting Jen Ellis was telling me how wonderful and you know I'm a huge fan of of liberty is huge I just full indoor smoking all enough yes enough about blind so I when I speak at these churches sometimes I'll get questions from well meaning Christians and say Charlie I don't like Donald trump's tone I don't like his demeanor yeah it's okay let's take a step backwards to one of my favorite biblical stories story of Samson there's nothing that I can teach in Sunday school about the story Sampson the lord came to him in a prostitutes bad twice he lived a sin filled life returns back on god and god called me to do one thing to fight the fights that the Israelites were not willing to fight take the jawbone of a donkey and go fight a thousand Philistines and I look at you can't see downtown this program you have to say ask all I'm sorry okay we're just making sure it's a family exactly right I was trying to be politically correct right right in in Paul's letter in Hebrew season of the famous hall of faith and we look at the story of Samson known for his hair Donald Trump on fresh air maybe some similarities there I don't know maybe not maybe maybe not AB however what why is the story of Samson instructive maybe because he was willing to do the fight that other people were not willing to do and the Bible is filled with stories like that but I love that store the most because nothing in his journey nothing in the brutality of what he did against the enemies of god's chosen people is something that is nice to talk about necessarily measured by you know I actually find it you know this always happens may find something amazing and I'm further amazed by the fact that I've not heard of before I like the idea that no one until now until you has brought up Sampson because clearly as you're saying there's nothing laudable about Sampson I can't teach that I mean can you imagine a ten year old is teach kids he's a by the way he was in a prostitutes bad advice and we know that's bad what you're saying it's in scripture he was in a process but because god I mean this is the thing this is about you know when I learned this from Bonn offer the incarnational quality of god he comes into our field yes he comes into our dirty in our mass in our brokenness and are seen in because he loves us that's exactly right and it's an amazing I mean it's hard to properly understand Luther also I mean with the more than anybody explains this and for a lot of people especially people who are I would say theologically fussy or Ferris St call and kind of obsessed with personal holiness this is anathema to them just as Jesus was anathema to the Pharisees I mean to do some of the things he did was was deeply disturbing and I think that it really the I would say trump forces us to re examine our theology in the in the case of Sampson is just well it's brilliant thank you for bringing that up thank you and to kind of close the point though you know Paul would not have put Sampson in a letter to Hebrews in the hall of faith if there's not something heroic and something if that was something that Christians can learn from there Anya the end of the Sampson story self sacrifice the ending of the story of Samson is that god give me one more chance to defeat the enemies I know I'm going out with them you don't think trump is going to bring this L. ng court down head no I'm not I'm not saying that trump stories going to and in that capacity but I think they're they're Gilbert goes out there's going to be a crowd there he's going to be in the middle pushing against the pillars it's a happy I'll give me a baby will work but your point being is that that same Sampson sacrificed a lot for the kingdom of god for god's chosen people and so just as president trump yeah however god calls people to sometimes fight the fight said god's chosen people are not always going to fight but but let me hit pause why to Seamus that's what we got that I sekali rod does this over and over in history windows when god said I'm going to bring this gospel and my messiah to to the Jew first right he says but if you are slow to move on this I will bring it to the gentiles to shame you to make you jealous and that's what god does this over yes over he says I'm gonna I'm gonna pick up the worst of the worst the thrice married philandering billionaire and you get to show you what I can do through anyone yes and I'm not here to bash previous Republican presidents not what I do is my job but I will say why did the three time married previous pro choice Planned Parenthood donating New York billionaire reaches late front page playboy magazine the first presence because the March for life amen why would George have you I'm not here bush bash I think he's over there that's my I think as a general idea of the bushes but the viewpoint is so clearly true you ask yourself this question over and over why would it be that guy why yes to be that guy in and part of it spiritually speaking is that god says I'm gonna show you he does it over and over through history you mentioned Sampson but there are innumerable cases of him choosing the last the words correctly they David while David was chosen among all his brothers it's like what about him it's a show set for to be very similar over over again that's god's M. O. yeah and and I I challenge Christians I say so let me let me perfect what I asked people what do you want in a leader and they say well I want the leader to be role a role model she really is that what parents are for first and foremost never growing up that my father say you know that bush I want you to be like that guy and I'm not I'm not I'm not going to you know say every single you know peace is an excuse for that behavior role model start the proximity to the children this this this leftist narrative that somehow the people that we put in positions of power are dark we should we we've got we've got to get another break about I just want to say like there is no doubt that Obama is a good father a good husband but he allowed millions of babies to be butchered in the womb and the discussion he ended traditional marriages I mean it goes on and on do we not bring that up we'll be right back with Charlie Kirk let.

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"charles kirk" Discussed on Come to the Table

Come to the Table

01:41 min | 2 years ago

"charles kirk" Discussed on Come to the Table

"David Outlook Dot Com and by all means feel free to connect with me I like both things beings on rope in about health and hitting and you know it doesn't matter if somebody comments you know whether they agree. I Love I love the reports and the re shares and it doesn't matter it you folks and our Chrysler Doll me or my parents is or anything like that. It is what it is and it's perfectly fine. Everybody everybody is allowed to have their opinion. So by all means an act with me a thin meaning by mail or whatever it is that you'd like beautiful beautiful and we'll take some stuff in this as well because interview. If your friends me on Lincoln he's a connection. You find them that way too so all right man well he look again. Thank you buddy. I really appreciate you doing this looking forward to continue the conversation. And we'll do this again. And just maybe the same subject or like you said about some different with what I definitely should have gone. Thank you so much. Thank you so much. Thank you for giving me. Avoid Sweetheart takes away. Thank you for listening to the come to the table. Podcast subscribe by finding US wherever you listen to podcasts. And you can find links to all of them on our website at. Www DOT D. Come to the table. Podcast DOT COM. We'd also love to hear from you. Reach out to Sean. By sending an email to Shawn at the come to the table. Podcasts DOT COM. Follow us on facebook instagram and on twitter. Thanks for listening and God. Bless everyone.

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"charles kirk" Discussed on Come to the Table

Come to the Table

01:54 min | 2 years ago

"charles kirk" Discussed on Come to the Table

"Far as the anxiety and depression inger idiocy you know it really really got to me it really got up or thinking. Clearly you know I it. It like my therapist. Says it's about reaction instead of thinking about it and then reacting where we're tailored more towards. Here's the problem. Here's the reaction versus. Here's the problem. Here's a solution. Here's the reaction so I did to choke point in the road. And he can't go left to me he can't go right at me. I stopped the car and go to get out of the car. My wife been there with me through thick and thin at that point you know she she would always say like you need to go get help but I always blew it off and go to get out of the car and she's grabbing me. She's like chuck. We do this so it is going so we got our daughter with US reports. Like what you're right so I go to get back into the car and the Guy Closes Orange and that's where being the viral data control. Get Out of our back in his car. I pulled my pistol on him. I threaten to kill on told them wires along and you know just looking back now and seeing the look on his face when I did as he either be an maybe and thinking of what I may have ended his life at that point because of my issued with my anger and my anxiety and not properly angel English situation So nothing I know.

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"charles kirk" Discussed on Come to the Table

Come to the Table

02:49 min | 2 years ago

"charles kirk" Discussed on Come to the Table

"So take us on a bit of a journey on in regards in regards that kind of diagnosis in that situation as you get their relative to your experience it was just you but you kinda talk. It's almost like a rock bottom where you had to hit a certain point and as you mentioned there's people along the way as a parent right both of us. What's the one thing we in addition to try and help build up and help out create and help empower our kids? There's a part of it wants to protect them. We're kind of helped them from having to kind of maybe make that mistake or help alleviate some of that so when you see somebody suffering. You're almost how was there anything anybody could have said to you before hand? Do you think to kind of maybe he would have been that thing. That would have put you over or does it have to discount tickets natural course you just kind of because because there was a part of it. I don't WanNa make it formulaic. I don't WanNa go well if I just had said or if my friend had said this or else you don't WanNa make get so simplistic because I think it's complicated. But maybe speak a little bit to how in those that are in the mix it if somebody is in the middle of that and they know it. How would you deal with your old self in the midst of that before you make that step? I would have went and got a immediately as soon as I started recognizing mind that thing that I thought was leaving that I had problems so I ended do not believe that on struggling it numerous times throughout our conversation right now or I felt like that with me and that to be I had people tell me like you need to go and I just blew off. I wish that I would have listened to him to be honest because they're they're the outside looking in or I'm inside looking out so I may not see what they had seen One of the first I signed in reference to the link into you talked about it In South Carolina and my daughter was a week old and there was a young male and I regret it because I don't know what I did is like what would I react to hold that I reacted but but I do regret it He I had my my daughter and my wife with me. We didn't have my son yet. My daughter was only two weeks old and she was in fact part of the car. We had a rural small toward or Saturn. I on you remember those and he was driving you know a good sides. Range Rover SUV. And what they see with the hours. Doing seventy five and he.

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"charles kirk" Discussed on Come to the Table

Come to the Table

11:45 min | 2 years ago

"charles kirk" Discussed on Come to the Table

"You're there with these guys that are rough Papas nails. No ranger tab knife or and air born era saw the whole nine yard you know. How am I going to be viewed if I do say hey? I'm having problem I can't sleep at night. I'm drinking too much. You know doing all this hour they going you that you know like suck it up. We're going to do the same thing but you don't see a situation where now you this week and now I'm ostracized from my family. So those were a few things that kept me from saying pay. I need help but it also and it's something that I struggle with Phil's Day and I am speaking out. I will admit that. Go see a therapist every to me. I think the interest and one is being that I struggle with today. Is You have these guys book. That I'm looking. At right now are called quarries nod all afternoon that was in the special forces and yeah nom and he got captured in one of the longest held prisoners that we know of and he went through some pretty bad view an all. He has the right that he hits the in Afghanistan You may think called ruts where their camp was completely already much overran they. They were literally fighting for their lives from within side. They're safe area. There can't be guarded protected. The whole nine yards. I should be. You're safe you're safe quake if he would You know those guys guide in my in my view have all right as he. Pfc A prisoner of war. I never went through anything remotely close to grow or I was literally fighting for my life from within side my faith faith so one of the things that I struggled with was you know me saying me being categorized as having. Ptsd almost the way that meaning PTSD for them. A follow that up it's Kinda trivializes or or it doesn't do justice to their. The worry is if you have to be inclusive in regards that. Ptsd as I've always felt in this in this in this realm of what you're talking about and you correct me if I'm wrong but you know what you did was validate their ptsd based on their experience. And you have you come into it. You don't want it to cheapen it right. Yeah what's the big the the number one thing? The vets don't like ever that's stolen valor. Right your your taking something. And you're getting credit. You're you're getting something for credit for or you're giving yourself something that you haven't deserve you don't deserve that level of of either recognition or or or in this case suffering. You haven't done enough to earn that right. We're that's our. That's our thing when you're in everything you have to earn everything every every step of the way you have to. Whether it's true qualification or just the time in right there's always that argument. And how long have you been in? How many places have you been? How many times have you done this? It's never enough right but it's always there but those are the markers that you use in so if you come in and say why tasty to the scene from patent way back in the day where he's like you're not hurt you don't don't muddy and dishonor the wounded here that guy's missing half his face and you just feel bad right get out of that was the whole issue so I really kind of so that. I want to speak to that a little bit because I think this gets to the crux of it. And then I think it's amplified by what you said before that when I mean by that is year round even the the moment you all due respect all joking aside. Coast Guard Air Force we joke. Who HAS IT rough? Who doesn't you know those guys. Are you know we just make the jokes all that kind of stuff right there and we have a good time with it but the but as soon as you step into that world you're dealing with a different world in the civilian world you just it just is not the same? None of it operates the same. It has elements of it. But it's a different world into into that you. There is an element that you're expected to kind of endure right. There's an endurance side like. Here's what you're issued your boots know. There may not be comfortable. They're not economic. You know it's all that stuff in that but that part of the suffering becomes part of the thing that you're expected to do and so there's not really a lot of room for in the end it does. It does suck. I remember when I first got in friend of mine. You're right. This is what we used to write letters. That's how old I am an long ago. This was and that was only way to communicate. I remember asking me what I was doing for spring break. And it's like same thing I'm doing now like there's no spring break in the military. There's no conflicts. Don't take off December twenty fifth. We don't get to go home for Christmas and hit the pause button on a on a conflict. So if you can in that in that does facilitates this disconnect somewhere to kind of come all back full circle again. It doesn't do any Detroit realize it doesn't help you. It doesn't help those. That are suffering indicates a hierarchy and then who who is qualified and I think that becomes the point where everybody I think now more than ever. It's Kinda like we. I don't know where the line is. But we have a real hard time drawing it and saying you're not worthy so as you started a no you start with Alabama but maybe kind of that a little bit and then and then you know and then when did you when did you. How do you make friends? What gets you back into that therapy. Office every week really. Have you seen some light on the other side and I wanna use that comparison? Because I don't like using darkness from anymore from like a good or bad kind of thing. Did you see some more awareness instead of light? The clarity around your suffering and why? It's important to still because all those guys to you hear those stories. This swore guys law enforcement tough of the toughest toughest guys ever in toughest gals ever are the ones that are killing themselves. And you're like what's going on. Because they don't have an outlet they don't they don't have a valid. Nobody's good enough really. I absolutely agree with you and and it wasn't the fact that our I'm trying to say like you. You have a right or you don't have a right to have ya you because you didn't suffer as bad as as suffered You know that's why I kinda tried to practice that with with everybody has grown tomato event. You know it could be something very false. It'd be something very large and everybody reacts differently to those traumatic event so with not whether you have a right Keith. Or or you don't have had. Ptsd E is not forgiving. Though it's something that comes along and says No you're not gonNA HAVE PTSD because you know you're in the air force and your Internet went out and now yappiest e but I'm going to give you ptsd because you were in west pro and you had to literally fight for your life you know. It's not picky like that. You know everybody goes through something and it just depends on how it affects you and I was trying to say you know one of the biggest thing that had me for sewing and getting help was the fact that I would. I believe in that. I didn't have the right to ask because I didn't go through jumping as bad as what they went through within. You know acura destroyed so much of my life you know we my marriage and job and you know that different finding stuff I finally had to step back and realize like what am I doing is like I I do. I these new following I have I struggle with the ones. I felt a with this major depression. I struggle with real bad anxiety With things comes anger you know I was put me on the side of the road and handcuff. You know I struggle with all these things I've always had you know people in my life. Tell me you need to get hope and always like Alpha. What like this is supposed to be. This is my job. This is what I do. What do I need help with you? You just don't understand you know always point the finger like this is your fault. You know your or the reason why. I'm acting this way right now. You know this is me too I am. You've made me Mad. And then you know after destroyed everything that I love. I finally realized like wow I do need help you know I I never said like I had. Ptsd you know. I just. I went to doctor's office and said Hey you know here's the signs and symptoms that I'm having you know bad depressed. I WanNA CALICO my cry. For no reason whatever I have heart palpitation. And you know I don't leap. I'm always restless at night. You know I'm always waking up. They're freaking me out and that's when they were like. Yeah you need to go through a therapist did and I did in the neck whenever like. Yeah you definitely have all the scientists Simpson's of ETF D. and So just go to the show like you know. You don't have to go through something of being a Vietnam prisoner of war or you know. Rest repre or have a medal of honor because you did something way above and beyond the call it. Nudie in order to have e- It could be something as simple as you know getting into a fire a or you know not only going through an Iud but maybe being close to an IEP or being your friend named or wounded or you know being fearful for your life. You know whether that you know being rape victim whether that's being held up at gunpoint or nine point being robbed you know anything being fearful for your life when matter what's going on you can. After route we get p. p. e. from that and it's a struggle Recognizing that and knowing that you need getting that hope and understanding that you can have p Pfc from those things and you're not eating weight and meaning. You're not taking away their way or somebody else.

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"charles kirk" Discussed on Come to the Table

Come to the Table

01:56 min | 2 years ago

"charles kirk" Discussed on Come to the Table

"Or people. That are paraplegic. Now people that suffered from you know all those individuals that ultimate price and I felt that I owed then who continued that service Protecting my country. Whenever that time call and I've apart here on my form I it's not me then. Who so if everybody had that that relief and you know. I don't want to go into military because I don't want to go to war or I don't want to die or you know things of that nature and we wouldn't have any military. That's everybody believe so that that's one of the biggest things is if not me. Then who and you do. You join a broader. You really do you train together. You fight together. You live together. You Party together. D'you have Christmases and Thanksgiving all these holidays together. And you'd be wrong a brotherhood or a skirt. Or you know trying to make it all inclusive here and you know once when you fought together you create this bond that be broken I've a really good friend of mine that I do. Once in a blue moon. It might be once every two to three months but we always pick up like this. We still together twenty four seven because we created this brotherhood. And so having that era of I.

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Come to the Table

04:23 min | 2 years ago

"charles kirk" Discussed on Come to the Table

"People are still dying still is still five happening bonds into whatever you know. It's still a war and I tell everybody like the U. It might be ridiculous. Is this other person. It might be ridiculous but if I think oh who Afghanistan or Iraq or wherever and I can fight them on their turf put. I'm going to do to keep my family safe instead of them. Having the opportunity over here in 'cause another nine eleven I would much rather than than their effort their time their money fighting me on their soil than saving their money and take all their effort into pointing another nine eleven. That's how I viewed it. That's how bought off on it and that's how we tried to get my sides of you when I'm going over there to protect our auditions. Were not going over there to you. Know fight for oil or whatever you will be. Maybe we are. Maybe I don't know I don't feel in the politics of it but if I can go over there and keep then they're fighting me then that's what I'm GonNa do to protect my family being attacked over here that he doesn't and I appreciate you saying that because I struggle with why. We're still there so that that that does help me on a personal level. We can circle back to that but I wanted to. Kinda back a little bit. You said a while back and I think this is critical. You as you said in the very beginning you knew when you came back you kind of know like you know you can say some things. I knew a guy who got out the navy years ago. He refused us up drinking until he did him with you. All the CAC level stuff and all the different alcohol rehabilitation and he just said as long as long as he was in an active duty was going to get us going to get drunk everyday and he did so. There's all kinds there's ways you can get out of this. I knew guys that got out. Who said that they were gay guys? That did that just that. Hey yeah they. They weren't but they said that just to get out and you can people can make that what they will but I say all that to say that you know there's an call gamesmanship but I wanna get to the crux and try to help understand a little bit of what you just ended with. Which is you know you can say that and it will take you down a certain path but there's word you didn't mention but I think I kind of hear it and that's duty and in doing your duty and playing your part in being being part of that group that is that is that you don't want to not do your job for lack of a better expression and especially don't want to not be there for your guys. Can you talk a little bit about the environment? The culture around that in that in that kind of how? That's it's almost unspoken or if it is how's it redressed and kind of help us understand. Why even once? Maybe you started as kind of realize it. I don't WanNA put words in your mouth but even if you even as you do understand those things you still don't want to say something because then it will take you away from being. It's not that you WanNa go there and you enjoy it. I think a lot of this as well. And this may be kind of multifaceted questions and you can take it wherever you want. But you also want to leave your guys. I don't WanNa leave those guys alone. You don't WanNa be the guy staying back while they're going out there especially if you know what's coming you don't WanNa do that right. I mean I never. I always felt that way. We weren't out you know we're not doing crazy stuff or intense stuff but there were. I remember there being a strong. I never wanted to do that. I never wanted to be the guy that didn't pull my weight. And they WANNA be the guy that was a I wanted to be an asset and I want to be asked for my for my other guys and be there for them guys and Gals who I served with. Who who were there? Maybe because a lot of people may see you hear what you single. Well if you're having if you can't even drive by pilot trash you know. What does everybody saying? We'll just go get help. Just go get help Charles so it may not be that easy maybe. Kinda talk a little bit to the culture as to why it wasn't as easy as just saying. Hey I need I need help. Wonder Well I'll take you further back and to why join the military you know that. That's one of the biggest question that people ask on times whenever they find out.

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Come to the Table

02:58 min | 2 years ago

"charles kirk" Discussed on Come to the Table

"I FALL ASLEEP? The trash on the road with freaked me out drive around or anything like that but I would get the idea taxes on reasons not realizing like. Oh these words. Idee I might need to go eat money so I go back on my second deployment so we were. We were lucky. We went on my first appointment for eleven months in home for eight eighty one and went right back there my second appointment now that that was a fun one that would that would universal and that would on average we were losing one vehicle a week you Iud's We locked the died he added. We lost the guy for landmine of on my first appointment. We ran over a landmine luck. We didn't lose anybody so my appointment being on average a vehicle the week like never whenever you rolled out definitely suffered you know when when go much you know isn't going to happen. When is this going to happen? And I came back from that point and that where started noticing where my my sweet little boy growing up central Florida attitude with different now. I'm more numb to my environment where I should feel sadness. I Where I feel grief. I felt nothing where I should feel. Happy did nothing over very lived. You know nothing it really really bring me down but nothing really bring me up either and even still without point. I'd never recognized as PDF. It was just more so of you know they didn't meet I. Am You know I'm an infantryman so I'm not supposed to feel one way or the other? Because when you go on your deployments especially combat arms you. They're being in their situations that you have to do the Act. React to where you you have to take your feelings out of it or else. Maybe you wouldn't be able to we athletes your way so if you ever read a book by Dave Grossman like inside out there. Lieutenant Colonel They're very against he was He wrote a couple of different books but one of the biggest things that he's talked about fight or flight and he discusses.

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Come to the Table

02:30 min | 2 years ago

"charles kirk" Discussed on Come to the Table

"But I never really thought of it until after my first appointment and even then though my first appointment was the Iraq invasion. I admit Afghanistan's because I was in Korea Made a commitment. I think that even though I tried but couldn't so I came back stateside for People Kentucky. I was there for four months and shipped off to Iraq unit and we invaded that. We came back eleven months later. And that's when we started talking about. Ptsd because you gotta come through. You GotTa go through reintegration aunts. They hand you these little cards and you gotta fill up these little cards about how you're feeling and what your feeling are and you have to talk to a Arab for about five minutes but over the car but yeah you're good to go by and everybody knows everybody knew at that point where you put on there like yeah. I'm having anxiety attack. Crafts like all the different kinds of You're you're probably not going to go on another deployment or maybe an you'll be able to serve in the military so everybody you know not everybody. I'm not trying to make a lot of people from what I feel what I've talked to. You know we discuss things and chaired being pretty much live from the card and says yeah no great. I'm and you know you don't take the friend do it? So being back on that deployment loud noises start on me. I wasn't having. I would consider nightmares. I would add dreams. Whatever ends about being void. You know the one. We'll stop it if I was bear. Not relenting a negative memory or anything like that. It's just about being in Iraq But out of nowhere and I didn't realize it out. I mean any idea attacked especially while I was driving and at that point implying where we were. We worked our way all the way from way up in Allah Baghdad. Remarkable.

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03:41 min | 2 years ago

"charles kirk" Discussed on Come to the Table

"Each individual. You know. It's out there and telling me like well in the Bible you know the music crash. And it's against God because in the Bible says to make a joyful noise until the Lord that it's not joyful and I was like well that's your opinion on that because to this person that baby joyful with you not toy full so there we have that manmade rule of Abeille that it's not toy so we should be listening to that but if that's the way to reach that individual then so be it just enjoying listening to reach. I'm GONNA keep going. No no I'm with you. I'm with you know it's Yeah Yeah Okay. Yeah Yeah no good that you could get. We just stopped there all right appreciate your time. We're good we're going to call it but no no. It's beautiful. I love it appreciate it. So slow intro inside a kind of Kind of start things off that you know the main crux of what you posted about and we talked about earlier in really kind of the action if you will or or the potential here is really one of the big. Potential areas obviously tons of areas. We go down but the mental health side we. I think we have done a really good job of throwing this out there that you know everybody knows. Ptsd we've heard this phrase PTSD PTSD over and over again. You were very gracious and I appreciate very much so that you said something about that. It's not just a war veteran disease disorder. I just had lunch with a friend of mine the other day who has been diagnosed a PTSD from the loss of his son in two thousand eight. I was eleven years ago and I watched this. He continues to suffer from and you can come up with the jesuits they want. I really don't care. I'm just telling you I've seen it in places that have nothing to do with combat. It's trauma and the ability to deal with. Its I really appreciate you kind of including making that inclusive aspect that it's not just a you don't have to go in the front lines in Iraq in order to have trauma it's all over. It happens all the time. Different ways So to that though can we? I'd love to get your take on kind of that. What that means to you in your journey limit around win it started when it started when he started here about it. Were you taught about it when you first started to deploy did it come later and then kind of your your experience around you know? Not only being aware of it was something that you saw other people doing when when you realized it may come and wherever that journey kind of takes us. I really start there and help people out there understand when we hear. Ptsd and then when you hear Ptsd what is your take on it from a general standpoint. Yeah Yeah and I I think I ever heard of PD. Esi will looking back at what I know. Now we've all heard if ucse we do any type of review or research on world works to for instance If we go back to war here we heard a lot about shell shot or shell. Shock is after route we day would be called PTSD. But we don't relate to and I think that we should but we we don't you don't hear of it as much like that like oh we're seeing PBS. The shell shock. You think of Iraq and Afghanistan you.

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Come to the Table

02:08 min | 2 years ago

"charles kirk" Discussed on Come to the Table

"I think when we start. Muddying the waters with okay. Let's step out of the Bible and you know they're preaching that this is the thing that you should do. This is the way that you should act and it's not in the Bible because now it's manmade ruled. Brought down from the pulpit. Then I feel like we thought the that that judgmental attitude online. You don't live the way that the preacher after or or you know whatever said the way that you should live now. I'm begging you for that and I think it really muddy the waters on what the church is. The church is in a building if agreed for people that gather together and worship so in all cases you know this house could be a church you know as long as more than one person guy and we worship and we believe that this would be church and nowhere. Does it say like you have to wear a suit and your opera wear a dress and you have to look pretty and you know all these things that are all in that role so the church that I go through. I love it because you know people can come in there with pink hair. Green Hair piercings in their faith with tattoos all over their bodies. And that's perfectly fine as long as they're there for the right reason in believe in God they believe in Jesus if leaving your you know accept Jesus as their savior. And if they haven't then what do we need to do to get you there so that we can save your soul My grandpa loved my GRANDPA and you know they have different parts of Christian music. Now you got wrap. They got rock. You know however.

"charles kirk" Discussed on Come to the Table

Come to the Table

02:00 min | 2 years ago

"charles kirk" Discussed on Come to the Table

"You know the people that we fought in this war on terror It's definitely had a huge impact in my life. You know one of the reasons why we're here today balking or because the PDF e because of deployment because of being a I've been there done that seeing that You know and at the end of the day If not that we're fighting. The religion of Muslims is that we're fighting the extremist of the Muslim religion. So and that's one thing I try to portray the people that are closed minded and don't come out and all like all you know the Muslims you know God forbid the Muslims and it's like no. That's that's not how you need to think of that. It's not the Muslim religion is not everybody back but Muslim has died. It's the extremists. Were fighting against that lead and info control and everybody needs to be Muslim. And if you're not boggling than your infidel and if you're an infidel then you need to be killed after people that we're fighting every one out there and then the the last one is. What is the biggest issue or problem or concerned that the church capital c? For All organized really all organized Christian Church if you will. Your faith was the biggest problem that we face. Today I think the biggest problem that we face today in the church are man-made boom to be honest with the Bible Bible lays it out or you specifically.

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Come to the Table

03:19 min | 2 years ago

"charles kirk" Discussed on Come to the Table

"To anything with that one or is that just a random number. I just another unit. I was in warming. Gotcha which unions encasing ladies. Listen to him. I saw another one first. Italians read twenty three here on Fort Campbell as well and the crazy being being in Iraq on Fort Campbell. You either them or you. Absolutely hate him. And it's always a huge rivalry so when I left the Rocco bond and got stationed in or Jackson South Carolina. I reenlisted come back or Campbell and I guess branch had a funny anti fewer and they put me in Greece seven instead of one eight seven so very interesting so it's almost like taking you from Louis. One one gang one group of guys to the to the rivals in. Yeah I let let the crypt blood so so so was the initiation the initiation into that if they where you were coming from. I must have been brutal. Actually because my first sergeant there three to seven foot surgeon in one eight seven okay so beautiful yes i. It'll be lucky than good. That's for sure. Nice Nice I. So here's three to seven. Would you rather spend the night in a dumpster or a Porta? Potty was on either way it's pretty disgusting. I'd go with comfort. Definitely go with the dumpster. I feel like some of the places that I've lived in Iraq in a dumpster. So much rather go see nothing would be i. At least you could stretch out right may stink can you? Maybe but at least you could stretch out a little bit right. Organically that there's like no way. Yeah you're GonNa be you got in there in the Corner Party. I guess but both both would be terrible but you pay for show right so last one move onto our standard questions The last point in the book of four thousand two thousand. Would you rather buy an uncooked potato or Brussels sprouts uncooked potato? Without a doubt. I absolutely defied rebel crowd. I like they like mashed potatoes. I like potato like French fries. I like anything Saito Twenty three on that is is my ex-wife wife now. She was so excited. One day I called her and I was like. Hey what's for dinner and she's like oh. I made something that you're absolutely going to love like. She's like Brussel sprouts. Like oh I absolutely hate fossil crowds and she was fired. I thought you loved them and She made she made these broker crowds..

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Come to the Table

02:16 min | 2 years ago

"charles kirk" Discussed on Come to the Table

"I think police use the code. One eight seven and it was a unit in the army that I deported Iraq. With a few fine We were always in first Italian one. Eight seven infantry Third Brigade Rocco Bond. Nice Nice that's why we asked us. Let's see right there. Where he learned is that. That's good would you rather never celebrate your birthday again or never drink alcohol again? I'm gonNA never drink alcohol again to be honest with you John One thing that I've learned is is myself and alcohol. Crazy being tend to happen Being probably that should not happen You know I was. I was at about point in between my deployment when you know even before we came up with appointment we already knew when we were going back. And so when we would come back it would just be a free for all and I can't take a weekend and half on a weeknight where we were sober. I say we because there were few of us I even got to the point where I had a jeep wrangler. If I'm and it almost got repossessed because instead of paying my payment I would spend money on alcohol and party so instead of going down that road again follower of Amen. I can tell you I mean not quite intense but definitely when we used to. Come back off of deployments and exercises and stuff and all my ship you you'd come back and like you said it was almost like. I mean you really kind of off you will never really off. You may be technically off duty or whatever but you know. There's just that you're still you're still on and you have to be ready to be on it at a moment's notice. I definitely and that's one of those things about being in the military law. It seems you can parlay job you show up in the morning and for a lot of times. It's that but like you said it's always there and I think knowing for sure if you're going back to something like that I could definitely see how that would. Yeah so keeping. Yeah Yeah Sorry. Pick.

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Come to the Table

07:18 min | 2 years ago

"charles kirk" Discussed on Come to the Table

"Lovin action is listening to understand not to react all are welcome to come to the table and all are welcome to listen and God bless everyone. Welcome to another episode of the come to the table. Podcast is your host Sean McCoy and as many. Y'All know I served in the military. I think that mental health. I think I think all this stuff that we keep seeing and have been seeing now for a long time. There are some issues out there in the world that are exacerbated by certain situations like combat military experience. And then just life in general. I mean you don't have to go overseas to have trump out there and the real question that we have so often some of the some of the greatest challenges we have in our society is what do we do with the result of those challenges. How do we address mental health? It's it's an invisible wound. It's something we cannot see. It is so easy to mask one of the big criticisms of Church of course. And I've heard this all my life and I've seen it you walk in the door. How you doing man. I'm living the dream. I tell people all the time. It's one of my favorite things if you've known me for a long time if you will ask me how. I'm doing SAM living the dream in typically the response I get is bewildered like what what are you talking about. I think there's some things around that that I could talk about later. But that's not really the point to that so often times we mask. We don't talk about things. And there's a stigma. We had a Rachel Summers on here. While back you'll may remember who who is a stripper. And who's the whole point of the episode was give her a chance to talk around the stigmas associated with her industry. And what she does. There's so many stigmas that we have out there and one of them which is an industry specific which is human specific. Is this idea around. Mental health is idea around. Well if you can't hack it or you have a nervous breakdown or you're not toughing especially for in the back and say this and I'm not trying to be misogynistic or trying to say there's not stress on both sides relative to your gender but I would say especially in the United States in western culture and even across the world there is a predominance of expectation the for men to be so strong that we have no weaknesses not allow worthy be worthy pillar the foundation the rock to make things happen and and folks just isn't always the case it can it. Can you can take down the mightiest walls in terms of just these things and when it when they fall they fall hard. I think it's why the suicide rates are the way they are. I do believe it's why we just we just don't feel like we can talk about it. And so the essence of this show is to get out there and say nope no we are going to talk about it or can have people on. We're GONNA talk about the Tub- subjects or in a challenge these things and try to be another voice out there in the CEO voices because it's not just us trying to make these things happen and trying to make this for lack of a better word. Progress I don't know if that's the right word. I think is more of awareness understanding in this compassion. So what what do you do in the address with? What do you do when you're associated or confronted by this and so as as these things happen of this one comes from Lincoln so Charles Kirk is joining us today and he a post out there in a friend of mine? Mark Vos happened to like one of those little moments. I I say God moments that I got to see this post took a look in. This is what Charles wrote which is why he's here today. I'm going to read it in. His post on. Lincoln says being in the military in deploying multiple times. Back to back now. I'm a veteran with multiple deployments and sometimes the struggle is real looking back at my life before the military and looking at my life after the military. I would sit and wonder where me was. I felt lost in Numb. I didn't have the feelings I knew I should have. I blocked out everything. A loss family lost friends. I was self destructive. There was a point in time where I sat there on the side of the road and handcuffs surrounded by multiple cop cars while my wife Sob sitting in the car. I destroyed great jobs. I had my marriage I was alone and Felton. Nothing I say this to you if this is you. Fight the stigma and get help. I've been there. I still fight everything I said above but now I'm getting help. I'm not ashamed. Admit that reach out and talk. Don't wait until you destroyed everything you know in love. Get help as tag veteran Hashtag mental health. When I saw that you just pulled at my heart because it's so easy I'm going to say almost say this right. It's it's it's really easy to be on the victim side. It's really easy to go to those. That are suffering. We kind of know her at the end of this and say help them. But what about those that are going through their own trauma on the on the side of you want to call this perpetrator side or on the other side of the hip caused that cop car to be pulled over when we watch cops it becomes very easy? Are shows like that we know who the bad guys are. We know the good guys are we. Forget that that's a human being handcuffed on the ground in the backseat of that with those flashing lights and their life is changing at that moment and it becomes very easy to kind of say now. Justice is served. They're getting what they deserve. But we have no idea. Y'All we really really don't. We really really don't nine percent of time unless you know that you have no idea what brought them to that point and not what? They're feeling in that moment. And what do they need? At that moment I would argue. Take a page out of our friend. Bernard Brown's book. And what does she say isn't shame. Chamberlain help anybody all so when Charles put that out there. I just knew I had to talk to him. I knew I had to get him on here. And so with that so without further. Ado Charles Thank you so much man for him the courage to put that post out there and thank you so much for taking the time to come to the table on and and I like to say thank you so much for letting me come on in the story you know if I could if I could reach one. Individual guy is on the edge of getting. But it's not getting it then. I feel like you know we have completed something. We have helped one person and it doesn't necessarily have to be somebody statistically a veteran or better and that was in war on it can be anybody out there that from the people can get. Ptsd from from anything From being a rape victim to being robbed at gunpoint overnight point to being a better and more so you know like I said in my wink. Impose if you're there and you're out there and you need that help and you're on the fence. Go get help before you do. Destroy Everything that you know in love in your close to you amen. And that is our goal here so we just get one man. We're good brother. I agree totally so as I told you kind of go back and forth from a mood standpoint. The way we get things started here or some questions to get to know you Charles and getting a little bit about what you think and how you are so we have three you get to pick a number one through two thousand. I just got a new book. It's two thousand. Would you rather questions so give me a number one through two thousand and ask you a question and we'll do that three times? Nothing like being put on like. Oh where at one. Eight one eight seven. So are you a fan of hip hop fan by chance or actually.

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