35 Burst results for "Caitlin"
"caitlin" Discussed on Bliss of the Abyss
"Nice but yeah so. I went to dock tap. They did the test actually outside. Because it's a you know makeshift elaborate. Yeah ta is not lab. It's a testing site. And i got the emails right away that they took the swab they gave me. The you know the booking number and then they're like someone's gonna currier is gonna come and take your test to the lab and you'll get it by twelve. Am and then. I was checking it. Religiously and i was quite obsessed less light. When we're eating and then at ten pm they sent me an email saying it's been delayed. At least they sent that to me. I'm not guessing. And i remember when i first bought them. It was like guaranteed to get same day if you pay him day and if not you're guaranteed to get it by two a m spy read and if not you'll get full refund for premier service. It's not cheap. So it's like a yeah. It was a hundred and forty. Something pound is one hundred seventy five dollars and there was like you either get a full refund or we'll give you rushed for our within four hour test. Okay well. I did this on thursday instead of friday so it was okay that there was a slight delay and i woke up this morning friday and i was like up at like eight thirty or something and i was rankings. Call them at eight forty. And i get the you know the generic like you are in a queue q. Press one to be in the queue. Which i've never heard that like you call them. Impressed actually enter the queue answering mustard. Yeah and then it was like you are number one in the queue and then suddenly someone answers the phone and goes hello. Is this caitlyn swear to. I was like what. Yes this is caitlin and they were like we were just actually called you and leaving a voicemail like we know that the test is late..
Who Killed Lois Duncan's Daughter: The Murder of Kaitlyn Arquette
"Lowest. Dunkin would receive a phone call. That would change her life forever. Caitlyn had been shot twice in the head while driving near downtown albuquerque and was in the hospital in critical condition less than twenty four hours later. Caitlin was dead and lois duncan found herself. Living the kind of nightmare. She had devoted her life to writing about. Lois would spend the next three decades trying unsuccessfully to unravel the mystery of her daughter's murder. Here's what we know about the crime around eleven pm on july sixteenth. A plainclothes detective drove by a car. That had hit a pole off the side of the road. On the corner of lomas east broadway near downtown albuquerque. There was a vw bug. Stop next to it. He saw no one at the site of the crash so he kept driving. I'm sorry what. How is it crashed car and another one right next to it at eleven o'clock at night not cause to stop an investigate. Common sense finally kicked in and the officer radioed end to see if the crash had been reported yet it hadn't so he decided to turn around and see. If i don't know a citizen might need help. By the time he got back to the scene of the crash the vw was gone. Oops am i right instead of the vw. Now some random guy was standing near the crash car when the detective asked what he was doing there. He said he just happened to be passing by turns out the reason. The officer didn't see anyone in the crashed car when he drove by without bothering to stop was because the driver had been shot twice in the head and was slumped over the wheel and she was still alive. This was kaitlyn arquette. Lois duncan's eighteen year old daughter.
"caitlin" Discussed on Probably Science
"Hey welcome to science mac. I'm eddie would. Hey i'm jesse case jesse mac on the show shall. I didn't want to be introduced. I just. I slipped into the old shoes. There you don't need to. You don't need to be inches. Used to you your your co host on this one. Okay snook but we do need to introduce a guest or a ton guest but it's been a while we we have this guest on lost her a very fun live episode at bridgetown festival and the excellent comedian writer. Us in all manner of things caitlyn gill. Hey caitlin that's me. Hi it's me. Caitlin caitlin gail philo philo a desert Dozen i have moved out to the to the sand in the in the winds beautiful. And i don't want to be grandiose here i. I may be the joe rogan of joshua tree. Come out here. jason. Memo's come out here everybody's followed by lead the gang a real high podcasting at you. Three were always start seeking at lower population densities. That i can think of no other reason but i thank glad you admitted it. I mean joshua trees are one thing but there's only one would. It's andy would first of all not even trees fun. Science fact. Right succulents aren't they. They're in the family. They're not actual trees. Yeah you get up close to them. They are not tree. Lake in an okay have been josiah trees and still didn't realize that they went a tree. I've never been out. I gotta go out there you do. It's well worth the drive. Despite the fact that it's on the ten it's yeah it's magic any knows but i still got that. That new kids is that the the new site off my place. I'm getting a little stir. Crazy andy also mention that when we were trying to work out who who might be rounded Yes that comedians. All the had for a bit too could be on the show and anti went. Oh what about caitlin she. She's moved near me as if you were right right. Let's record a podcast. Somehow i mean is there's no time zone consideration when you're fifteen minutes down the road that is nice but yes. That's yeah i am out in the in the wild mike iot. They're not mind but coyotes are our closest neighbours. We see all the time. There are actual roadrunners. I have yet to see the two at the same time that i am convinced that it will happen. i just saw first coyote running across the road. Oh yeah but i've seen lots of roadrunners crossroads. That's all they do right. Yes he really do that name for an animal. Yeah that's they nailed it. I've only. I've seen probably thirties moved here. Only seen one who wasn't running across the road the only time you see a robot. I don't know how that happened. Like no other animal wing was named named. It's it's there aren't many animal names after human inventions. The i mean. I'm sure has some other name probably several but the you i mean it's doing a thing other birds. Don't you might see crow on a road but the crows not running in crow has other business and it's gonna move out of the way for your car. The road runner is like it. Just it just does that although it does do our yard. We have such a week iraqi about human inventions. I mean the road is. It's one of the earlier inventions absolutely daily wheel. I think the road club women's be credited with the road. I mean animals had been making beaten paths forever. Does that count. Well you just call them now. Those are pa- obviously we sort of stole the idea. But i do think the road runner i mean are there other animals that are names. There's no like the whiskered the segue squirrel of course obviously the segue squirrel one in your emails. You're gonna fill up with it. That's the kind of thing that's like rattling in the like. My brain is having a delightful time. Not answer like shut. That's not that's not it there. You go Yeah hammerhead shark. I guess we're all over the place and yeah yeah. It's weird the fridge beaver. I know for sure that people eventually get lazy about naming things. You don't try that hard after a while. there are things with cool exotic names flamingo pelican. I'm just naming birds here. But then you get to places and i'm not coming for you. Oregon. 'cause i think this happens everywhere but i did go camping at a place. Called fish lake. That was next to a place called blue lake and like another lake was called deer lake in the same system of lakes. And like come on. You gotta stop. It's not the first thing you see when you get here lake. That's not how we gotta try. There's somebody in town that's notable. Maybe you there's something there's something else that you can try than single adjective immediately observable late. You're not gonna wanna hear how big bear lake named Yeah that's guessing. Some big bears are really little bear lake. That's that's what did it. I mean australia where we have. Many listeners has the great sandy desert rate. Yes i'm insert come on. I'm great. I feel like the best australian named the outback. Because it's like it's just depending on even like where a guy was in his house when he named think outback own khansa facing away. Yeah occurred to me but you're absolutely right. It is just like out back of my house. But somehow australia and it's natural wonders and terrors has so sealed the concept of what an outback is to me that like no other backyard cuts it. Well yeah they originally called the beach the out front and then the guy realizes just how. We built us house so holds the helicopter. The i don't know if you can hear that in the in the mike lunatic but there is quite loud. Los angeles Birdlife it's the what we have. You got your roadrunners but the roadrunners are actually two different species of boston. Running ground cuckoos ended up out of the cuckoo clings. And they not switch or chaparral cox matt. Why didn't you mentioned this earlier during the discussion. If you knew all this habits info that you know when you really held out on us. I didn't want to break up the rift. Okay fair man. That's so obscure yeah. I runners so tha- that's broken into the larger smaller right. Those two that you mentioned they have to be bigger one the ones dainty supply on the greater and lesser roadrunner of the two different types. Oh i don't want to call them lesser. They have peak still. They seem actually rather aggressive face. A making get up to lick as well they have been. They've been clocked up to twenty seven miles an hour. That's not three kilometers now..
"caitlin" Discussed on OC Talk Radio
"Next chapter charlie. Jalen domed her. How fun to have you on the show again especially since you are just in the early stages of world tour with what. I'm calling your family of modern day. Gypsies yes we are about six weeks in And we're here in florida today. So i'm so glad that i get to be here with you. Charly oh i you know. I have to hear about this because i have. I've been debating on whether to begin this. Because there's two aspects to the show and i've been been debating on whether to begin with the gypsy journey or finished with the gypsy journey journey. And i guess since it's my decision and ball's in my court i'm obscene opting for the gypsy journey first. And then we'll move onto your keen insights as to live in either as an optimist or for. Tunis te both are such as the light. So let's begin with caitlin. What in the world. Are you up to that. You've been only recently involved in six weeks now. Six weeks.
Behind the Scenes at Prairie Moon Nursery
"All right. Caitlin o'connor it's great to have you on the podcast. I'm really excited to talk to you today. But first let's start off by telling everyone a little bit about who you are and what it is you do for sure. I'm a huge fan of the podcast. So it's very exciting to be with you here today. My name is caitlin. And i am the education outreach specialist here at prairie moon nursery and winona minnesota yes So i've been with moon for a little over five years now And i came to curry moon. Because i'm actually a resident of wis- koi valley community land co-op where was started So i was going to college in the winona area winona state university And had gotten my degree in environmental science and my capstone research project at winona state. was with native plants and so i got familiar with Moon at that point in time. And so you know. After a brief stint of going to the big city and doing doing some nonprofit environmental work up there. I came back to the more rural winona county and landed up as the moon. So it's really great to be here.
Caitlin Clark on Chocolate Flavor Through Fermentation
"Are you a chocolate lover. Even true chocoholics might not know what their favorite treat has. In common with. Yogurt cheese and wine it's flavors come from fermentation fermentation is the process of improving food through the controlled activity of microbes. The food you know as chocolate starts its life. As the seeds of football shaped fruit farmers scoop out the seeds and pulp into piles or boxes. The seeds are now called. Ca- cow beans they ferment. For about a week before they're dried roasted and crushed with sugar until smooth and ready to eat. Let's go back to that. Fermentation step ca cow from imitation as a multi stage process. The first stage involves east just like the yeast and your beer. Yeast and a fermentation produces alcohol by digesting the sugary pulp around the beans as the pull breaks down. Oxygen sleeps in an oxygen loving bacteria takeover the bacteria generate acidic acid from the alcohol that the produced acetic acid causes biochemical changes as it soaks into the beans and that has a major impact on flavor finally as the acid slowly evaporates and the sugars are all used up. Spore forming organisms begin to grow cows a wild fermentation from his rely on natural microbes in their environment to create unique local flavors. This phenomenon is known as tear warr makers of gourmet small batch chocolate hand select cacao beans based on their distinctive terroir to produce chocolate with an impressive range of flavor nuances for example one bar maybe reminiscent of raspberries. While another has notes of toffee and raisins yet. In both cases the bars contain nothing except cacao beans and sugar these impressive flavor differences are due almost entirely to the power of microbes
Jeff Bezos Plans to Be on Board First Blue Origin Human Space Flight
"Richest man wants to pioneer space tourism but has lost out to his rival Elon Musk's Space X when it comes to contracts from NASA. That's the BBC's Rory Caitlin Jones. Google is being fined €220 million by Francis antitrust watchdog for abusing its dominant position and online advertising search engine giant is also promising to overhaul the way it's platform is used for buying and selling digital ads. In France. This is town hold ICOM. Nearly 3000 employees of although truck factory in Virginia are back on strike, and it doesn't look like they'll be back on the job any time soon, the United Auto
"caitlin" Discussed on The Commercial Landscaper Podcast
"Am really excited to be joined today by caitlin colin if not pronounce that correctly cleanliness client if plaintiffs order that you're in the heart industry higher. I'm tamila boats where you're at right now and how long you been in the industry. Sure so i am currently working for my it landscaping. I've been there for just over three years. And mostly i work in recruiting a little bit of marketing and employee for the company Overall in the industry for about seven eight years out. Before i was in this position i worked more on the landscape design project management side of things and so. This is my first role where i'm really working more on the employee side. Yes most definitely a challenge to the business when you get into the landscape business. I've always been really interested in outdoors and gardening and even in high school was really involved in organizations like four h the national junior horticultural association ads. So i'm majored in horticulture science for For college went to nc state. And i'm yeah from there just opened up a whole world of possibilities ended up going into landscaping Find out really rewarding industry loughry people in it nicely you know you get the especially during covert that nice balance and to be able to do some indoor stuff if you want to know the option of goya doors and chicken and beautiful landscapes so cool so transitioning from this wonderful.
A highlight from S6 E10 - Real Conversations on Mental Health (w/ Special Guest: Patricia Perkins)
"May is mental health awareness month. And i felt it only right to release an episode focusing on the topic of mental health. Now if you've listened to the podcast for any length of time you've no doubt heard me talk about my own struggles with ptsd depression and mon experiences. Not all that uncommon in the veteran community. What you don't often hear though is from the veteran's spouse and on today's episode. I get to sit down with my wife patricia. As she shares the story of her own emotional journey with mental health diagnoses medications. Hospital stays and a whole lot more. This is the we serve now. What podcast where. I do my best to answer the questions. Veterans and their families are already asking so you can make your post military life your best life by way of introduction my name is aaron perkins i am a us army combat veteran daddy to amazing kiddos. Host of this podcast. If you hadn't guessed. And i am joined today by my beautiful bride patricia. Welcome to the show thank you. I'm so glad to be here excited to talk about a subject that i'm passionate about. Yeah absolutely absolutely well. Great to have you here. I'm i'm incredibly happy that you agreed to be on the show. Usually it is me saying. Hey i'm going to be recording tonight. So if you you and the kids can kind of keep it down a little bit and but really really grateful that you here today. So today was one of many days where you're going through this. I don't know call procedure or treatment treatment. Okay so so. Obviously i went with you. Today is able to accompany you to that treatment and it specifically four depression right and so start with today. Let's start with today in a kind of what happened today. And what the treatment is. And let's start there. Sure okay so. The treatment is called. Tm s it means trans cranial magnetic stimulation menendez Treatment that oddly. Enough stimulates your brain. It's post what is supposed to do is to help the neurotransmitters talk to each other better and it is usually reserved for someone who's tried a few different types of medication for depression but it also helps with like anxiety. Ocd and sometimes even physical pain. Okay so so so. This is not a it. Sounds like it's a noninvasive. It's not a surgery type of thing so basically the way they explain it. It's like electromagnetic therapy. Where like in the old days where they would maybe cut. Open your head and maybe electric your brain things like that but this obviously they're not doing that. You can sit down in this chair. It's kind of like the big dentist chair. They strap you all in and they put this big magnet next to your head in a certain spot at a certain level. It's already been determined by your doctor and it made me last twenty minutes. And then you're you're on your way okay. So is that it's not obviously. I know this right before listeners. This is not like a one time thing. This is one of how many treatments you have to get. Okay so today was off my fourth treatment and i think if i did the math right i have at least thirty three more to go. So it's over a nine week period and because of where we live. I have to drive basically an hour and a half to get there. And then i'm there for fifteen to twenty minutes in the drive an hour and a half and and yeah i i definitely know that. That part in itself is frustrating. The drive so let's go back a little bit now so you're having this it might not be invasive but stewart pretty extreme treatment of kind of remapping your brain right yes. It's it's had some side effects already some some anger some tiredness Brain fog lightheadedness. The way the only way. I can explain it. It's like there's a big garden with a huge gate and there's all these locks and each treatment seems to slowly work open a new lock and then hopefully by the end all the locks will be open and king come open and i can be free of depression anxiety. I don't know if that's going to happen. I have faith that it can happen so hopefully it does happen. You me both you both so so take us back a little bit. How did you get to this point. You know obviously you. Have you know some sort of depression or anxiety or whatever take us back to diagnoses and that sort of thing so i i got diagnosed probably sixteen years ago like actual clinical diagnosis of major depressive disorder and house have severe anxiety. I have d. c. Ptsd so what is so ptsd. I know what is cd. Basically childhood post traumatic stress disorder. And then i have. Ocd okay so so ptsd. Veteran community intimately familiar with cps d c p s de. It is then the so. How did that come about. I mean this this is like you know really getting into the nitty gritty of it a little bit but i had parent you know. I had parents that. They weren't believers not that that makes you any less of a good parent but they were involved with things that they shouldn't have been involved with and they didn't have a good relationship with one another so that meant a very rocky relationship with their children and so without getting into too much and making people uncomfortable. This is a really bad childhood really bad and even in my teenage years there was some other stuff that was really bad. So just you know things that people don't really think about as being post traumatic stress disorder. I've heard other people say. How can you even have that. You weren't a soldier. Well that's not reserved for soldiers or servicemen period. Post traumatic stress can happen after a car accident after your home gets broken into after a traumatic. Any traumatic experience you can. Pdf st right right so so with depression. You were diagnosed. She said sixteen years ago crack and so did the anxiety diagnosis. Come along with that or out of that will work. It was shortly after. I think they at i thought maybe it was just really bad depression and they realized that it was both mint so they started treatment to different treatments who different medications and over the years between the two just the depression and anxiety. I know i've had over sixteen or seventeen medications and sixteen or seventeen. I didn't know there were that many others time for i mean i know. There's a lot of medications out there right. But most i know i i'm gonna go out on a limb here and say most people when they're struggling with anxiety depression or even if they do have a legitimate diagnosis of anxiety. Depression or both. It's okay let me go get this. Let me go try it. You know and then if that doesn't work maybe they go try something else but sixteen or seventeen that that just sounds like an extreme number is sensitive to medications and so what may work for a lot of people. Just doesn't seem to work for me. Or i ended up being allergic to it but i will say that i did. This test called a g. e. n. e. s. t. and it's a dna test and that's something that you're psychiatrists can do for you. There is a cost involved but it will tell you which medications and you know. They're all different classes. Work for your dna type so you have a red section and you should stay away from those. You have a yellow section. That may help. And then you have. A green section is more likely to help with your dna type so that can help a lot of people. Stay away from having to try sixteen or seventeen different medications. Sure sure that that's a really good point. And obviously you. You didn't take that 'til later. Right actually took it last year. Yeah so the break i. I wish i could have taken ten years ago. But i don't think even knew about it and that's another thing i would say. Is you know educate yourself. Don't wait on your doctors to find all the resolutions for you. Like feel free to look and research and bring it up to your doctor. you know. it's a good point. So medication is just one side of the depression anxiety. Ptsd just one side of it before the medication happens. There's something that either. Your doctors realize your families realize or you personally realize something different in me. Something is not working as it's supposed to or it's manifesting in in a certain way and i know that when it comes to ptsd specifically it manifests itself in a lot of different ways. They can manifest itself in anger in inability to focus and chronic pain. In a guilt it can manifest itself in different ways. So let's focus on the. Let's say let's. Let's go with depression right the major depressive disorder. How did that or does that manifest itself in your life. The first time. I realized that i might have an issue with. Depression was actually. I had a really bad episode. After i had caitlin so caitlyn's daughter. Sorry caitlyn's her daughter. Yeah she's fourteen now. After i had her. I was sitting just watching tv. And she was sitting there beside me and her little old bouncy seat. And i actually started having these really dark feelings kind of like oppression and actually that coincided with an anxiety attack as well and actually got rushed to the hospital because they thought i was having a pulmonary. Embolism so they thought that. I had blood clots. I was about to die. You know there was but it was a mixture of depressive episode and anxiety attack which i had never felt before and that really scared me and the doctors were able to put me on medication to help with that. It did not stop it but it did help. Sure sure so what what happens next. You know you're you're on this medication. It's helping look what happens. Is there a point at which you realize. That medication isn't working or isn't working as well as it should. Yeah most doctors will tell you you know. Give it two or three weeks to really get in your system if you don't see any changes or if you see getting worse than you're to want to let us know so that we can adjust or change that medication and over the years. That has happened so often. That i i got to this place and i'll say that it's okay to do this if you need to. Own your closet by yourself and cry for a little while. 'cause you're just overwhelmed and nothing seems to be working and you want so badly to be quote unquote normal. Go have cry. Go eat ice cream or chocolate or something. I don't even care. It's okay to do those things. But i got to this place where i was like. None of this is working. I need something completely different. And i think that's when. I did the insight site testing because most of the medications that i had been put on. Were in my red list more in the list that was for your dna. These are not going to work for you. Oh wow so going through this process and the truth is i didn't even realize this at the time we've been married for fifteen plus years and i knew that kept having different medications tried and you like oh. This is not working but we had no idea why. It's not working until this test. You didn't says hey this might actually work for you Yeah that's that stuff okay. So what about the anxiety piece you know. It started with an executive attack How does that manifest itself or did it manifest itself in your life. So i have an odd anxiety like i have panic. Attacks panic attacks but generally speaking. I'm just anxious and it's like my anxiety and my ocd. Like to just hold hands and frolic through my brain and so what. I'm feeling extremely anxious. I have to clean everything so it's kind of like since i can't control my emotions i can't control what's going on in the world. My brain has to find something that can control and the cleanliness in my house. I can control thankfully because you and the kids are pretty neat people. But i have to do have to be able to do something. Control something to calm down. If i don't do that ended up in the closet crying eating chocolate well like you said. That's okay if you have to do. It's not not not every day but so talked about the depression. Talk about the anxiety. Ptsd how does that manifest itself in your life on a day-to-day basis weekly basis. How how often what does it feel like said the. Ptsd is like a whole different monster. That lives somewhere inside of my person. And the worst episodes i have with. Ptsd is when my children especially caitlyn our daughter when she reaches those age those ages where you've espn we. We had talked about this a little bit today. As we're preparing for the podcast but it was as a recall kind of like the same ages or proxy ages where something traumatic happened in your own childhood right so so then. My brain is like imagine that happening to kaitlin. Imagine that having to our son. Christopher and then it's like this overwhelming like it's not a mama bear feeling is a mama dragon. And it's like i will. I will died to protect but at the same time. It's then there's this the the little girl in me is like. How could my mom have let that happen. How could my dad have let that happen. Where was the the parental. where were they. Why did these things even happened. That i have this trauma but we're all human doing the best. We can now. That i'm older i can. I can look at my pass without being completely angry with my parents because they were just doing their best as well. Sure sure so. We're won't take a break real quick but coming up after the break and now you have a few things that you want to share with our listeners. More as encouragement and continuing the story obviously but also practical steps. Stay with us. Many americans today don't realize the stress and anxiety. They feel is likely because of their finances. According to bankrate.com more than six out of ten people couldn't cover a one thousand dollar emergency seven out of ten. Don't budget regularly. An eight out of ten are living paycheck to paycheck to these describe you. Are you ready to live like others. Can't too many make the mistake of budgeting their lifestyle instead of budgeting their basic needs. I my friend. Marco over at mc business lab has a simple process to automate the basic things. You need to live and then never looking at one of those bills again. Head over to live like others can't dot com to get on the wait list for his own line course to learn this automation skill. That will significantly reduce your stress anxiety. And if you think one on one attention could be the way for you. You can also schedule your free consultation with marco once again that's live like others can't dot com get on the path to your dream life today. Alright so here we are back. Second half of the show here with my wife patricia talking about mental health. And it's okay. She's looking at me right now. She's like oh just made a noise like it's okay. Well we'll cleared up. It's fine and so so anyway so here talking to my wife patricia about mental health and about her own challenges and struggles with it. And so obviously there's no one in your corner so to speak. I mean there's the stigma associated with it but there's also no one kind of coaching. You through this of like okay. Well if this isn't working here's what you do right not currently. I've had counselors in the past. You know and they've we've tried to work through things. I have been the hospital couple of times. And i think there's a lot of people who mean well but it doesn't mean it's going to work for you and so i feel it's important that people understand that if you do have a mental illness. It's okay to research an advocate for yourself. You don't have to wait on a doctor or counselor or someone who you feel like is more intelligent or just because they have letters after their name that they know you better than you do feel free. No not feel free. Please speak for yourself. that's huge. That is so huge. And i think that advocating for yourself is such a critical element of getting the help you need. Because when i think of veterans who are struggling right. You know whether whether it's a physical health or mental health concern. They know themselves like better than anyone else knows them and so when they go to the doctor when i as a veteran go to the doctor i have an obligation to myself right to be as honest and as really a as direct as i can like look. This is the problem. This is how. I'm feeling. I'm here for you to help me fix it right. But then there's the stigma especially in the military community. Where if something isn't working right in your brain you're not working right. Oh absolutely that is the stigma is is really and i think the worst thing about mental health diagnoses today at least in america. If not all over the world it absolutely needs to be normalized that your your brain is an oregon and just like your heart and all your heart muscle but you could knees your liver. If any of those things were failing if they weren't working like they were supposed to have so many people around you. Hey what can i do for you. What can i do for your family. Could i get my blood tested to see if i could be donor. How in the world could make your life better but you hear someone is in a three month depressive episode and they can't even get out of bed. I don't see people lining up with casseroles. I don't know. I don't see that happening. You know if you have to leave an event because you had an anxiety attack there's whispers. There's not help this is strong. It is so strong. And there's a you know within the military there is a fear and i will say rightly so that if you say hey i have this particular mental condition it can potentially impact your career and in the civilian world because well as a mom i if another mom i don't know maybe somebody's going to hear this and maybe they don't want their kids hanging out but as a mom you think. Oh can this person actually take care of my kid. While i'm away or is everything issue going to be too overwhelmed. Is she going to have some kind of attack. That i don okay. If you know somebody like that. Just educate yourself right and know that that person wouldn't take on that responsibility if they didn't feel they could handle it. Yeah absolutely and you know. That's a critical point to is. There is so much misinformation out there about mental health. And you know here's the thing. Hollywood doesn't help and i'm not going to rant. I'm not. I'm not trying to say like oh. Don't make movies about people with mental conditions. You know but there is this you know. The joker movie that just came out with a joaquin phoenix. That's joker yeah. Okay so you know. He obviously has a mental health problem. It looks like severe depression and he turns out to be this mass murderer. Right and so people associate edison. He's bipolar but go ahead. Fair enough fair enough so people associate those mental health conditions with something so extreme that they saw on a screen or read an article. now there are extreme cases. it's true. I mean you can't just say that that. No one is that bad off but there are people that bad off that they're not usually the people who look like they're doing okay. There those the people who are really struggling there are more signs right than than you just meeting them. Like if i just walked up to you and said hi. My name's patricia. Perkin tie you doing. You would never think i had five mental disorders right. You know someone. who's that far gone. You know they're going to be showing signs. Oh yeah absolutely for sure for sure and you know the thing is when it comes to mental health when it comes to you know having a a severe enough level of mental health challenges concerns whatever. You wanna call them. If you don't have an official diagnosis right there are so many. I guess levels is probably the best way to put it of of severity. Because you know like saying. Hey i'm feeling depressed for a couple of weeks is a far cry from major depressive disorder right okay. Yeah may i believe probably should have been a little more research but it would be depressed for at least six months before. It is a clinical diagnosis. And so there's going to be events someone dies. A friend moves away. You have to switch jobs then you could go through a you know a few days or a week of feeling depressed. That's normal. yeah exactly. That's the normal depression. That's not the go quick. It'll medication so you can feel better. That's right it's just a normal life happens and you get down and i've even had people say to me. Well you know you have a lot of stuff. You're very blessed. You have a nice home. You have a great husband. Smart kids you you you have you have you have you have. That has nothing to do. With what my brain is doing. I have the intelligence to know that. I a blessed person a blessed individual but that does not mean that my brain is going to let me enjoy all the time. Yeah that's so true. That is so true. And so i just saw an article earlier today from cnbc said fifty one percent of young americans are struggling with mental health. Fifty one percent. I can believe and i think a lot of that if i can just put in. My personal opinion is social media. I'm sure you constantly see people who are throwing up. There highlight reels on instagram. And some of them still on facebook and then those who are throwing out things on twitter but there you're not getting their whole life you don't read what's actually going on. I mean if people looked at my facebook they would see highlights. Because i want to show the good. I don't want to show the days. I don't wanna get out bed. Showed the days where. I'm like begrudgingly. Driving my kids to school because i have to. I'm an adult to do these things. You don't see those things and especially the generation under us. They're so obsessed with social media that they think that's real life. I mean i have a good life. But it's not insta worthy like everything. I do isn't gonna be popping up on instagram. Because it's not real life right. That's just advertising then like you said it's just highlights right. Yeah and so. I want to go back to the stigma piece for just a minute. Because that's a piece that i'm really passionate about and you know in the military you know being healthy being fit to fight. That's part of the job if you're broken your broken leg unit can't use you to go to war right. You have to get that leg fixed. I if you're broken mentally your unit may not be able to use you to go to war because like there's something wrong with you and like the. The thing is with the stigma. It's okay in you know outside of the military that things that your body or your brain is not working like it's supposed to and i've heard so many veterans so min- countless veterans really be rating their brothers and sisters in arms when they talk about having. Ptsd like your combat. Experience was different than mine. Therefore you don't have ptsd or you can't be depressed or you can't be anxious like you're just whining because you want to get paid from the va. You want the va to take care of you. That's ridiculous it. It really is our veterans out there who just looking for that that extra little bit of money out a month sure. There are but by and large the majority of veterans who who are having the courage to stand up and say. Hey i got something wrong in my brain. It's not working like supposed to. They should be applauded and say you know what that is. Surreal courage that you having right now to go and say i need help. Yes it takes a ton of courage and just in time out of being a military spouse and then my time out of it and interacting with veterans and even people who are still currently serving. They they have these but they don't even know how to say it out loud. They will become an alcoholic. But there's nothing wrong with me. I had no problem with war. Or when they get out of the military you know they get hooked on drugs. Oh in the military didn't affect me very much. I'll have i don't have any. Ptsd that that crazy stuff you know or all of a sudden. They're wife isn't good enough. Their kids aren't good enough and they want to be away from them at all times. They don't want that interaction but they say they're fine because they're afraid to say i might be broken inside and might need some help. So instead of having the courage to say that they are literally ruining their lives in other ways right what alcohol would drugs with breaking up their homes with neglecting their responsibilities. That's may there's so much i want to. I want to fix it right. I want to fix the stigma. Problem wanted but there is no easy way to do it. But i think what we're doing right here is having the conversation for the world to hear that. Look it's not just veterans. It's not just veteran spouses. It's according to that article. Fifty one percent of young americans who are struggling with some sort of mental health condition right regardless of what title you go by better in active duty man woman boy girl. Mental health is no respecter of persons. I'm sorry mental illness right. No you're right and mental health needs. You know it doesn't matter who you are. What are what color you are just like any like. I said any other body part in any other thing. That may need attention. Don't be afraid to give it that attention. Don't be afraid to speak up and speak out. Don't let the stigma hold down. Yeah for sure so from our conversation today. I know we're running up on time. So we're gonna wind this down and you know. Obviously you and. I have talked about this a lot and me in the future. I'm sure we will get you back on the show and talk and talk about about this and how fixing your life especially how the team s treatment is grain because he you know. I'm not afraid to talk about right. My inner demons especially can help somebody else. I feel like i feel like god puts us through situation so that we can help other people and if we can't take the bad and turn it around and help someone than what's it for and i have to have faith that it's it's to help others. Sure sure so. We have alluded to these three big takeaways right like the big takeaways from this episode. We've alluded to them throughout the episode. We've talked about them. We've even said them but remind us remind listeners. What those big three takeaways are from listening to this. I would say the first one is to advocate for yourself like i said. Don't be to research. Don't be afraid to figure out what might work for you. Ask for the jewish site testing. Ask for even if you've been on medication for a long time talking about the s you know there are other ways to go about it than just constantly saying in that cycle of pill after pill after pill with no results there. There is light at the end of the tunnel. So don't be afraid to say. Hey i think this might help me. What do you think. Don't wait on them. The second one i would say is. Don't let the stigma prevent you from seeking help Let's there is nothing wrong with you. If you have mental illness nothing like innately wrong review. You are just a person who is struggling and number three. I would say no that you are not alone like you were saying that article fifty one percent of young americans. This isn't even us. The older americans during these are young americans who were struggling. You're not alone. find group. fine fine started group. It right to you know. Don't don't stay alone either. When you isolate yourself things. Things often get worse so definitely seek out others who may have similar problems going on that you can talk through to to have some sort of accountability with and accountability is huge. It is huge and those are the three big ones. But i wanted to add one more. And it's something that i've done personally and it has to do with what i was talking about with social media and it's so funny because our pastors just said at this sunday delete block. You do not have to look at sally. Suzy sampson's and wish it was yours. Delete her blocking her. If if watching her highlight reel is taking your joy. Delete her if mr man who has it all together all the money all the muscles and the most beautiful wife you've ever seen if that stealing your joy delete him bought him because you need to focus on you and yours is so good. That is so so good so patricia. It is been an amazing conversation with you. I wanna thank you personally. Thank you for your courage to come on the show and talk about not just health in general but your own mental health your own struggles with the diagnoses. You know you've had hospital stays as a result had so many things going your life and so thank you so much for talking about this important topic with us you know. We all have a lot of questions but the most important question you can ask yourself is. This have accepted the forgiveness of sins. That only comes through faith in jesus christ and before we go one thing. Patricia wanted me to point out was earlier. she referenced. cpt. St and she called it childhood. Ptsd it is actually complex. Ptsd would she informed me of later in complex. Ptsd is brought about from long term trauma that might be physical emotional sexual abuse own going childhood neglect things like that. It could even be a prisoner of war type of situation that brings about complex. Ptsd so just clarification. There that that was what she was referencing in the second. Half of the episode. You may have heard probably did hear a lot of clicking in the background while that clicking was my burien husky running around on a hardwood floor and unfortunately we can't edit that out he just kind of made a cameo appearance on the podcast so that dog is the way i deal with my ptsd and depression having a pet. It just helps a lot so anyway. Thank you so much for listening. It has been a joy sharing our hearts with you today. Be sure to check us out on social media. We at facebook at courage to fight again. Instagram also occurred to fight again and twitter at courage again and check us out on our website at courage to fight again dot com a whole lot. More resources there well until next time. Thanks for listening. We served now. What is a production of courage to fight again.
"caitlin" Discussed on Couples Therapy
"And then i'll feel feelings right or how all that weren't and you're like no not i think like you know especially when you said the mobis he wanted to hold my head and gives me and i found it very off pudding i was like jesus there's don't but also but then you're like oh. Yeah caused a rift between us that we didn't talk so what i think you're dealing with right is like you don't wanna lose him and so i don't blame him for walking with he feelings for you and you're not reciprocating. He's got kind of go away and nurse his wounds and make sure he's taking care of his emotions so i think you know it is going to. You have to be honest with him and you have to be willing to accept that he may not want to just be friends but you gotta give him that choice. You can't kind of string them along or seem kinda flirty or whatever just so you can hang out with him and his mom. Yeah yeah you can't string him along he deserves you know boundaries as well when she might not be you have to know that going into that conversation he might wanna walk away and you might lose him but that's better than than potentially dragging this out for longer. Which would hurt this person that you care about so you don't want that either right. Yeah and you can always get in. I think when you end up in a nice way you leave that room to actually be friends. Who run into an audition and just get into i. Pray to god that she doesn't listen to this but if she does let's talk let's not i think it's interesting. There's on one end of the spectrum. There are just people who it's purely chemistry and they. They spent apart after a after bit and on the other end there are people who are like well. We have a common. But i'm revolted by their touch ad. They they fall and there has to. It has like folks folks. This is just this is just what it is to be human. This is irreducible. There has to be some mixture interests. Chemistry right half some mixture. I'm not. I'm not standing here saying what that mixture has to be. I don't think there's a house too but has there has to be a mixture right. We're right we don't. It doesn't even have to be right right. Could have more chemistry than you could have interests in common right right right right what are you what are we naming where we fifty fifty not even because we like a lot of the same stuff yes but we hate a lot of the same stuff. That's very that's fine. That's a real bond we have. But it's not like you know it's like literally when andy is dry like he puts his i. What do you call it iphone. Thea when he puts his. I vote on shuffle. The car you know. And i'm always just like knicks knicks. Look or stuff like that or like you know. I'm like very loud and like to judge. People like to be quiet. Well actually i mean. I do love that though. Yeah but you're always like to strike. Because i don't want to hear it. I don't want the person to hear it but but yeah you have to. Yeah you have to kind of know. I thought you were cute. Like i remember it. 'cause i was like nervously. You were shorter to be nervous about that. But then i was like. He's yeah true. What i i saw you. It was a combination of like. Oh she's really funny. Oh she's really pretty aunt and eleven years later same thing. Oh yeah you guys are friends to be a combo. It's gotta be a combat you also. I remember someone saying to another friend of mine. Who was in a relationship that was it. Felt more like remains was you. You don't wanna hold another person's sex life hostage either like if you're in a relationship feels more roommates than like if you're not attracted to them than and they're monogamous to you. That's that's just a really hard scenario to to be in. No that's good. No you're right that's a very good holding someone's sex life hostile. Who was that dan savage. How'd you know it was. It was actually laura ingraham. Okay we got another call back. Love it visiting us. It was so weak you. This was such a delight. Yes give my best to mabel. Absolutely you are honestly. You did your first solo podcasts. For oh my god interest plus part all right guys. We'll see you next week.
"caitlin" Discussed on Couples Therapy
"What kind of medical leave of absence that you would not know about like isn't a broken leg. Is it mental health issues like you know is highly mental health issue. Because you've got to think about this to this would talk about video game streep and then he said wait a minute. I'm going go to military. He is trying to figure out right now. He is to be the person who was holding the bad while he gets it together. Can we generalize for a second and say that in relationships you are entitled to basic information that is obviously all relationships are different however you are entitled everyone listening. You're entitled to basic information. You are entitled interrogations. You are entitled to their name rank. You are trying to basic information. This is crazy wait. Can we please hear the update. I need to know that good happen here. Let me ask you one question. Are there certain relationships you are in. You don't have to be specific but like like red flags were there. Was there a point where where relationships there was like a critical mass of red flags like what happened in those or is there a specific slow to leave so that i wonder yeah i think i didn't. I didn't know really what gas lighting was for quite some time because i was so used to it in relationships. That was something that was a real wake up moment. When i really figured out what that was even after the relationship but especially with with the narcissist that i dated the the actors especially who would just put me absolutely last and realizing that was just not a position that was okay to be in weird. Jealousy stuff which was completely unfounded. like Was always a little strange but my my biggest red flag is always just someone who gas lights end doesn't find themselves at fault doesn't know how to talk things through just immediately makes it your fault. You're too emotional. Your to whatever All of that all that jazz but also rings a man who wears too. Many rings is a red flag. Me caitlin is that true we have not. That's how i feel in less. He just close up magic. You should not be wearing that many rain and if he does close up magic. That's another red flag. I don't want somebody who's good a tree. That's a red flag. That's a bunch of red flags together. Dismounts who is good at you know. What's the rings the rings. There's something about it just feels out of touch. I don't know. I woke up my hands on this lane mansard. It's all that's there's something about you know what you'd be. It's like a little too much. It's almost like too many rings personality substitute yes. I mean you're yeah it's the equivalent of a motorcycle before your hands. It feels like like. I have a motorcycle. I wear rings. So i wrote felicia back when she first wrote and i asked when someone writes if they don't say i wanna be anonymous by the way if you right in feel free to say in that first one if you want to be anonymous or not it will save me from having to write you back. But i asked felicia. Hey do you want to be anonymous or not. And she writes back with this postscript. Thanks so much for game back to me. I was honestly just hoping for some personal relief by sending my previous email into the internet void. I'm trying to find the humor all this new developments since my last email i confronted him about being absent. After new year's a small argument ensued and he left. He texted me two hours later. Said he wants to be honest that he had feelings for someone else and was with her that very day. We are no longer together. Thank god okay lisa. You are better off. Oh my god. I feel like a weight has been lifted but i also say like felicia though faint god. I'm glad that that's what you feel. But at the same time felicia you needed to go beforehand in this one. You still did not put yourself first. You had to wait for him to away because you may be answered this question but it's already got resolved so now i gotta give advice and drew. It's already it's just rare. What is she going to take into the next one. That's what you're going to leave before it gets to like the hardened oatmeal -able next to his game or whatever. That's what i'm picture like. What he com priest oatmeal the christina's doctrine picture leave around her apartment. It's just rare that we get some kind of closure within the same episode to give that moment. Yeah well i'll take. Do you have any other now. Do you have any postscript advice. Don't like no. You are not your lover's mother. that's just a fad. Yes that's a fact. Okay so anybody who needed kind of stuff and also like i think you really do tell someone something twice. I think after you tell somebody something twice you done telling it to him so you have conversations over and over especially like with something like you lied to me or you know you. Don't take me out. You know very like kind of things that i think are easy to address. Basically if you say somebody said hey you never take. I always pay or i would. I would like it if you treated me every now and then if you say that's wise and that don't happen i don't mean twice in the same day come on you gotta by chance but say twice and nothing happened. Yeah get outta dodge. Felicia let me three times a little while to change or no. Maybe roy surrey make it. Depends on the level of the know if it's a note like hey don't cheat on me that's a one. If it's like you know. Pick up your dirty towel. that's you get to i. i think there's a sliding there's a sliding scale there but yeah you have to also just it's so i feel like there's been set a lot but it's just all about self worth it's it's about you know treating yourself Treating the other personal relationship the same way that you want to be treated kindergarten role. But it's true. ev. It's not reciprocated. Then what are you getting out of it. You really have to ask yourself that. Like what am i fucking doing here. Someone said to me. Or i think it was an article. Actually that they sent me. It's either it's a fuck yes or it's a no either. Someone is suzy ghastly with you and is excited to be with you or it's no because there really is no gray area because someone either has one foot out or they're both feet in annette's it's a very easy thing to see in In something like what felicia was experiencing. Which was someone that was using her. Yes there you go take that. Take that felicia into your next relationship. Move all right. Why don't we do a voicemail. I love voicemails. You guys as always you can call us at three two three five two four seven eight three died. You do have to cap your voicemails at three minutes because you will get got off. But i love it..
"caitlin" Discussed on Couples Therapy
"On the oc marissa dates olivia wilde for a handful of episodes but again used to used as a cuddle to attack seth's manhood because because he used to data is bisexual and he used to date so that the and then when marissa dates her. That relationship is used to call into question sets manhood so again Lesbian relationships on tv are you. Yes you mostly as a weapon to question yeah. Our lesbian relationship ends up being about a man how convenient you make one. Nothing about this. Love should be now. The only other one. I could think of was kelly on grey's anatomy. That one was actually. That was a good one. Kellyanne and arizona. Which i worked with arizona. She was lovely. But yeah i I think that's the only one. I can think of injuries and adamy but even that you know it started when she was with her as ended that was a whole coming out story so that was also different which i think is so valuable in has space but i know so many especially queer friends who are in this industry want a relationship. That is not a coming out story. It is that the coming out has happened. It's not dealing with trauma. It's about just their love and i think the more that we show especially you know characters like like Denise on sarah who were just parents who love each other and it's not about trauma about hate crimes about these things that of course have value. But it's like can we. What does he also just show queer right. we are love. Yes joys loudly. Yes yes now caitlyn we will be answering listeners relationship question so you know we like to find out. We like to let them know. Sort of what you're about where you're at emotionally where you're at romantically. So when i like to do normally is go through your entire dating from her high school wherever you started dating on now you're You're pre marriage partner I asked my rolodex of yes. I know i liked it. Well usually how i like to do is to tell people all the things i think about them and then they could just confirm or deny usually get people to tell. I love this yet. So like caitlin is someone who grew up in a happy home. Where people told you you were enough. You were very affirmed and you know life is great life. That's great and i'm not saying you don't get out of your feelings but i'm saying you have them and you go but i feel like you cry for a maximum of twelve minutes and then you shake it up and then you may take a brisk walk and then you're back on tom. What do you think of that. I would love to be this version that you say that i. I cannot imagine only crying twelve minutes. That feels like a warm up. But i definitely grew up in a very happy home. My parents are are really wonderful loving people. I was an only child. So i did a lot of talking to myself. You know. I did a lot of communicating with my dog. I thought that she she knows all my secrets. Rest in peace cookie. But i did have really horrible. Abusive relationships probably up until patrick. I did not have. I didn't date a lot of good people if you're listening. I mean that i love that. That's wonderful Wonderful to say that you know what i mean it. Yeah no i. I for a i also like you know i dated some actors who were just like total narcissists and i felt so lucky to be there. You know what i mean like. Oh just you're shining your light on me. How fortunate am i. And i hated that looking back. I wish that i could have had a little more balls two walkout. I've stuck things out way longer than i should have. I in a lot of cases over actually doing telling the story to him while we were on set and he was like. Why did you stay like you should have left the room. Even it's just Which is correct. But yeah so. I i have very happy childhood. I did not have great relationships though. Up until patrick. He's probably the the best person that i've ever dated for sure. He's he's a wonderful man. So i'm lucky that that locks this what had a couple of questions i mean number one. What was it about. These shitheads say that that you were attracted to. I think if my therapist is listening she will confirm this She said to me awhile ago and it was so right on the money which was always seek relationship out that is similar to maybe one of your parents and my parents were both very good people. But i had a much harder relationship with my mother at at the point in which i started dating and so i think my dad was such a safe place and my mom was just butthead so intensely were really really close now but we really butt heads when i was younger so i don't know what it was exactly. Maybe it was because it was so happy that at times you know i felt so loved which is a wonderful thing but i also didn't have a ton of room to breathe so And so i. I was seeking people that i would chase. That weren't necessarily reciprocating that love that i definitely felt you know from my family as soon as just like a lot of self destructive behavior when i was dating these narcissists who didn't need me. It was very appealing to me To chase them. Try to fix them all of the above which it never works out correct correct never works out but at the same time to join us your second question because my my question would be sort of what Enabled you to receive love from patrick. Do you sit on my question. Might be you know when you get a new. But it's like you don't really know what's good for you know the way we are. We're used to her a little sick. How'd you break the pattern. Yeah that's a really good question I mean honestly time. I had experienced so much heartbreak and emotional physical abuse from other people that i just met this person that i felt safe with in order to really feel like i was growing up. I this is so cheesy. But i really had to learn how to be on my own and really just love my own life so that i wasn't looking for someone to come in and make things more exciting. I was really just looking for a partner. In a way. That i was not when i was younger. I also just. I was not into relationships for a while. And i think purposefully doing that and distancing myself from wanting not so badly made me unable to receive that love from someone else. He also is his own person which is really wonderful. We spend good. We spend quality time together but will drift to other sides of the apartment or otherwise especially during the pandemic and then come back and We still want to be around each other. Because we have our own interests. And i had this idea that you had to jello yourself into another human being and it's I was totally off. Track that so. I think that's it. I also you know it took us a while to get together. We were friends first. So i think yeah so. We started a little dicey he was.
"caitlin" Discussed on Couples Therapy
"Regret billion. On your new jubal tabletop about it. You were eating therapy baby. We saw a couple. Y'all gonna couples therapy. My name is naomi. And i'm and re-live couple a real life couple of comedians in couples therapy we do whatever the heck we wound in quarantine and we currency either way honey. I'm weary half of us are half of us. Aren't i'm hoping no one's in the audiences and anti vaccine the listening audience. Yes there was an audience in the house. only you can see the cats. i'm hoping new nor maples. An anti hey. Honestly though we'll take antitax bucks. I wanna buy books. Hey you don't want to get a vaccine but you want to buy a t-shirt i'll take it. I'm gonna stop you. Mabel does have anti vaccine though. You know it's part of her general karen and also that idea that like you know. Because she doesn't want to go to the doctors she doesn't want every time she goes to the dodgers. They cut her and have why doesn't want to go to the doctors. She has a great reason. Literally every time you take your doctor she gets either. A shot of poison came. Chemotherapy is what i'm talking about. I don't mean literal poison or they slicer and they take some stuff out. I know that you don't think that's what hurts the most the doctor. I was like yeah. It's emotionally painful to do it. I'm with you my love. The point is though every anti vaccine has their reasons. Mabel doesn't realize we're trying to help and this is why she is ex- but that's a real real empathy for people who usually off mike. We are screaming at well. I think just. Because i think you might that be the brightest bulb in the chandelier. Does it mean out of the you. Try to shy bright. Wow sleigh slap that on a t shirt damn that's naomi hey folks when you listen to this which she's back on stage and we're all vaccine everything like that you better go see gems like that drop gems like that in person. Damn speaking bright shining lights. Can we please talk about our guest today. Oh my god mammy who is our guest on. Today's wonderful episode the wonderfully talented actress. Caitlin mcgee i severe. You're gonna say the wickedly talented adele's azeem. No caitlin mcgee. You know kaitlyn honestly from it so much but right now you can watch caitlyn on both mythic quest on apple tv where your girl. Also hang out in home economics on abc okay. She's giving you broadcast she's giving you streaming okay. You may also seeing caitlyn on the show. Bluff city law on halton catch fire. Your though were marvelous. Mrs basil i mean. Girls is booked busy and blessed and she said fun to talk to him. Yes she really became a friend over the pandemic. She is really into marco polo so even all over lie and she understands anxiety which is wonderful. She was great. I your first time talking. Yeah i didn't really know her before this. And i i just was captivated. Captain devait it. I mean hello. That's it she is she's charm. she's beauty. She is grace so before we get to that though. Yes beauty grace speaking of captivating naomi. We are raising money for mabel again. Yes the vet bills keep piling up so we thought all right now we did a show with aparna and joe just like a stand up show. Why don't we do another couples therapy show and we're doing. It may twenty second online dynasty. Typewriter dot com. I gotta tell you we got some great people on the show way. See moseley is going to be there. Bryan safi okay. He's coming through matic. Nine one one moment we love every second of it and you know the show. The tickets are five or ten. Whatever you're feeling you will be able to watch the show for a few days after it airs. Saturday may twenty second six pm. T nine pm. Es t. if you're not home on a saturday night you could still buy ticket you sunday monday. You watch tuesday okay. And i will say this. I will say this. Now me sam if you want to ask vice question because we will be advice questions you to send in a video of no more than two minutes to couples therapy. G mail dot com. Now you don't show your face that's great. There's other ways to do it. Someone filmed their pet last time and they asked the question off camera. Another person go ahead. Naomi wore a mask. I thought you were gonna say another person bought a cameo from a friend of the show and friend in real life sam taggart and had him ask the question. Exactly you have options okay creative and just keep them sure and we will have our wonderful illustrious guests. Help us help you. Come on couples. There'd be potted djamil dot com recording on your phone and ty oh to hell maybe before we actually get to the show. I wanted to play this for you. someone called in. I thought it was going to be advice question. I was culling the advice questions the other day and instead they told us a dream they had. So i'm going to play that right now. Hi naomi and andy. This is gretchen. i New fan of podcast. They don't have relationship question but You guys got into my psyche. Real deep real quick because i have a dream to share with you. I dreamed.
Caitlin Drown: What Exactly Is Climate Neutrality, and Why Is It So Important?
"Are recording this episode. The day right after early two thousand twenty one and if you have not heard governments organizations pledge to the carbon neutrality our reach net zero emissions before you must have heard something about it this week or yesterday at least you must have also seen at least one of the amazon ads in companies comedian to be net zero carbon across the entire business by two thousand and forty apple in start is planning to become carbon neutral by two thousand thirty including its light. This all sounds good on the certify on the surface but is it good enough really why carbon neutrality is important in. What does it actually mean. So today i'm thrilled to be announcing the brightly is working with climate neutral and nonprofit organization. That is helping us. Work towards carbon neutrality by measuring removing out two thousand twenty missions and coming up with an action plan to reduce future emissions. and so very Where chatting with galen john's from climate neutral steam today to dig deeper into all disturbs. And what exactly they mean for you and the planet caitlyn would love you to introduce yourself to our listeners. I think you so much for having me on caitlyn drama and ended up brand engagement manager over at climate neutral. So yeah let's talk about. Climate neutral are relatively new organization. But you know. I mean you with connected over a year ago completely different live it was before the pandemic you guys go so much. You sign up so many brands so tell me what was kind of the ethos inspiration. The driver behind creating climate neutral. And how you work with brands. Can maybe even you as a glimpse of your future plants now absolutely so. Climate neutral is an independent nonprofit organization. In we're really building consumer standard for carbon each holiday. We are founded in february twenty nineteen ride a sounders of peak design violate which are two brands in the outdoor space and they have both gone through the process of making companies carbon neutral in realized that for this to scale to the degree that needs to to have him impact on climate carbon neutrality. Needed to be more accessible for companies all shapes and sizes so the two founders teamed up in found the climate neutral again just over two years ago in since then we've really grown to build out a three step certification process that companies go through each and every year in. It's the same process for all companies. They have to measure their carbon footprint. All the way up the supply chain down to deliver to their
"caitlin" Discussed on WABE 90.1 FM
"Caitlin. Welcome to thank Thanks for having me. We should start by talking about how challenging it was to complete this research at all because of the extraordinary taboos in American culture, around talking about anybody's income and how they choose to spend it. Why is this something most of us are deeply reluctant to discuss? Mm hmm. Finding families who were willing to talk about their private income and and well if we even want to call it that was really, really challenging in so many ways. This is a kind of defining character for middle class families theme, the effort to keep silent and keep money, private and itself. One of the reasons that that this is the case is that a lot of families Carry their sense of responsibility very, very heavily. They want to be able to send their kids to college. They want to be able to retire without taking a huge hit to their to their to their lifestyles, But they actually feel very, very vulnerable about those issues. They feel like they aren't going to be able to live up to these middle class standards and so as a result They, you know. Very, very, very defensive and want to stay silent about their their vulnerability. How did you start to realize that too much money for grants, not enough to pay out of pocket was an effective way to describe the middle class in America. Well, in some ways, I was taking that definition from the federal government that the the grants the Pell grants that are available to low income students began to make a lot of sense as its own kind of threshold for the middle class. As the government itself defined set, and on today, the federal government is the largest provider of loans and grants for higher education. Um, and the upper threshold seemed perfectly clear. Once I started to interview families, because those are the families that didn't really have trouble paying for college, So, uh Families without wealth, of course, also, oftentimes have loan and have a lot of trouble paying for college. But it was really this middle class here that wasn't eligible for grass that became Um, my definition of the middle class. Paying for your kids to go to college has not always been a social expectation for the middle class in America. What are some of the reasons that now feels Many of us like an obligation to help pay for our kids, higher education as opposed to a choice or something that's nice to do if possible. It does feel for so many families like an obligation because Getting a four year degree is the gold standard for for enabling a young adult to have a foothold in the middle class. What used to be available with a high school degree is now no longer available in order to have stability in order to have Even the potential for upward mobility. A college degree of four year degree is absolutely essential. So families, of course, have the feeling like they want their Children to have those opportunities, and that's why they feel so very responsible for enabling Children to get to and through college. Anybody who's had a baby knows those first few years are incredibly expensive, and it doesn't seem to get cheaper. How early or late in their Children's lives did different families You interviewed start preparing for the expenses of college. Oh, God. This is such a complicated question. Because, of course, people start worrying about the cost of college. Sometimes, you know, even days after a child is born, and there are many, many messages that parents received that that is exactly what they should be doing. You know, for instance, in the is in the US here we have a program. Home 5 29 Savings program, which many people will have heard of where parents are supposed to be the putting away money for their Children's higher education. Even when they're babies, babies featured very prominently on all of the advertising campaigns for this program for an investment that is supposed to pay off. For college tuition 18 years down the road so it can start. The pressure can start very, very early on. Here's a clip from a YouTube channel called the Simple Dollar Kind of explaining what goes into a 5 to 9 plan. Money within a 5 29 plan can ultimately be withdrawing tax free if used for higher education purposes. Qualified education expenses.
Man seriously injured in Covington drive-by shooting, SE of Atlanta
"By shooting at a coming to neighborhood Authorities are looking for whomever shot Elijah Juan Jeffries Monday afternoon on spring like terrorists, the 21 year old needed to be airlifted due to the seriousness of his injuries. Chair spokesperson Caitlin Jeffrey says they've IDed the car that the shots came from unidentified suspect left the scene of the incident and a white vehicle believed to be a Early 2000 Honda. The victim's mom, Tunica, Lackey says her son is recovering in the hospital going. There's a day's A $2000 reward is being offered in the case. Michelle, right, 95.5 WSB starting
What's Behind the Rise of the Pandemic's Bull Market?
"Year ago today. Us stocks bottomed out but since that pandemic plunged something almost unimaginable happened. Wall street quickly shifted from bear to bull market setting new records along the way under center for serie. We wanted to take a look back to see how we got here and discuss where we might be headed next to do that. I'm joined by the wsj's caitlyn mccabe. She's on the market speed and is well equipped to explain all of this caitlyn. Good morning hi. Thank you so much for having me. So caitlin at the beginning of the pandemic we saw three major stock indexes plummet the s. and p. five hundred fell by thirty four percent in just twenty three trading days now fast forward all three have rebounded strongly. The dow is up around thirty three thousand mark so big picture. What played into this turnaround. Yeah so the. It was an exceptionally fast turnaround. We saw this incredibly steep and quick plunge and then it took just one hundred twenty six trading days to recover back to the february nineteenth closing level where we were before the sell off. That happened coinciding with the covid. Nineteen pandemic so. It was one of the fastest recoveries on record after such a steep plunge and i mean really the the climb back started with investors piling back into growth and tech stocks and that's carried so much of the market upward four the last year since you mentioned tech stocks. It's important to stress. These gains have not been seen across all sectors. Exactly so you know after. We reached this bottom on march. Twenty third twenty twenty. It became pretty clear pretty quickly. That investors were concentrating their money in growth stocks and big tech stocks. And so you saw big gains right off. The bat in what traders liked to call the fang stocks and so that stands for facebook apple amazon netflix in google's parent alphabet which spells out the acronym fang and these companies are so large and they comprise so much of the snp that was helping push the s. and p. five hundred up but you weren't just seeing growth and big tech. You're seeing of course you know Traders really interested in in companies like tesla. You're seeing zoom. You are seeing just all of these growth in tech companies Rising because i mean one simple explanation for it is that they were the companies that were standing to benefit the most from the pandemic shopping online. You had people using cloud computing and you know video messaging software and things like that and so that was really driving the market upward. You know of course. There is from time to time rotations into cyclical stocks and more of your industrials and energy and banks. But it really was for so much of twenty twenty just the growth in tech leading s ahead and then caitlyn more recently. We've seen a stall in us stocks. The nasdaq briefly went into correction territory earlier. This month last week. All three major indexes lost ground. What's going on here. So since the start of the year. We've seen this really steep and swift move up in bonney olds and that's had a ripple effect across the market so the short version is basically that the economy is recovering people are getting vaccinated and investors are really looking ahead to summer or fall where things might be returning back to normal and so of course there have been some concerns of inflation creeping into the market and so that's driven bond yields up which has an impact on assets across the market and so investors have been dumping shares of tech companies Basically because you know higher yields can mean higher borrowing costs for for businesses and higher yields also make investors reevaluate. How much they're willing to pay for. Future earnings and because significant earnings for tech stocks are expected to come in the future. It makes investors basically question how much they're willing to pay for those earnings. So you're seeing investors pullback from tech. You're seeing quite an uptick in energy and banks and and other cyclical stocks so. It's going to be really interesting to see how long lasting trend s and finally kaylin you talk to traders and analysts as a markets reporter. What's peaking your interest for the future. I think we're in this really interesting period in markets. Where right now so much of what's happening in the growth versus value trade is very fundamentals based and people are trying to evaluate the impact that yield will have on tech stocks like i mentioned in growth companies and what that will mean for banks and energy companies and everything that we've talked about so far but then you have this whole other segment of the market that is less connected to fundamentals right now. You know we saw the massive rise in the minimum stocks earlier. This year the game stops the amc's of the world you know we have this ongoing specs craze Cryptocurrency at that market is incredibly interesting. It's just gonna be really interesting because you have these two kind of branches of the markets that are going on right now. Where there's just this euphoria in some segments and then everyone is also trying to drill down this value versus tech trade. So i'm just going to be really interested to see what happens especially in these other segments of the market as we see more interest among retail traders as we see the spac craze probably only going to continue to grow and see what effect that has on the broader market
Seattle City Council Considers Easing Up Restrictions for Small Businesses
"Should Seattle small business owners be allowed to operate retail stores out of their home garage is a new city ordinance would make it possible, at least temporarily. We get more from Cuomo's Corwin hate, the proposed law would give a temporary okay to a pandemic practice that's already going on informally. For example, Caitlin Bram wanted to open a tasting room for her product. Yonder cider. When Cove it made that move impractical. She began selling cans and bottles out of her Greenwood garage. The Seattle Times reports. When a neighbor objected, she campaigned the city to allow it. Bram address the City Council in any small businesses appearing exciting thing. Yet I'm so thankful to the committee for considering bills that could make it just a little bit more achievable provokes the BRINGING businesses. Home Bill would allow garage based retail stores to obtain city permits so long as they don't violate the health code or any other safety laws. The bill notes. These would be temporary zoning modifications allowed on Lee during the pandemic.
Former contestants to replace Chris Harrison as hosts for "The Bachelorette"
"The bachelorette Chris Harrison, who was held the franchise from the very beginning will not host the next season of the show. Ah, stunner sure to have a major reaction and bachelor nation and beyond. This really has been a wild season. A major shakeup for bachelor fans, ABC Entertainment and Warner Horizon announcing long time host Chris Harrison will not return for the next season of the Bachelorette. Saying in a statement. Former bachelorettes Tasia Adams and Caitlin Bristowe will support the new batch threat through next season. High guy already Harrison is under fire for defending contestant Rachel Kirk in L already like completely falling in love with you. Kirk Adele sparked controversy when she liked photos containing the Confederate flag on social Media and pictures of her attending a plantation themed college party went viral. Harrison defended crocodiles. Actions to Rachel Lindsay, the franchises first Black Bachelorette. It's not good. It's not a good Rachel. Is it a good looking 2018? Or is it not a good look in 2021? Because there's a big difference ever the uproar pushing Harrison to apologize and speak out to GM. A. It was a mistake. I made a mistake. AM in in perfect man. I made a mistake and I own that The host was already forced to step back from this season's after the final Rose special with producers choosing former linebacker Turn New York Times bestselling author Emanuel Ah Chou to step in. I don't believe in cancel culture. I believe in accountability. I believe in understanding. I believe in growth. Now, the show's producers say they are supporting Harrison with quote the work he is committed to doing.
New hosts for 'The Bachelorette' after racial controversy
"Just announced host Chris Harrison will not be returning for the upcoming season of the Bachelorette. Instead, former bachelorette Stasia Adams and Caitlin Bristowe will host the season. It's unclear of Harrison will even return to the franchise wherever he stepped aside from the current season of national last month after receiving backlash for defending a contestant who was under scrutiny for photos that it surfaced on Social media. Coming up. Taking a stand
17.1 million viewers tuned in for Prince Harry and Meghan's interview with Oprah
"While the ratings are in and oprah's royal special had a lot of people watching upwards of seventeen point one million people to be act. Yeah for comparison. That's about ten million more viewers than cbs usually gets during that hour and disappear aware that doesn't even include delayed viewing like people who are watching it on demand and all of the clips running everywhere in the boost oprah gave his cbs this morning Abc was down twenty one percent on sunday night from last week. nbc down. seventy five percents oprah took a pretty big bite out of everything. Her score tied diane sawyer interview with caitlin jenner from twenty seventeen and we were all watching. They say that by the way he was the largest non super bowl Rating that we've had since the beginning of the year so it's the largest event other than the super bowl. A
Seattle, King County Reflects On A Year Of Fighting COVID-19
"It deaths at nursing homes are down across the country and here in Washington. One of the main reasons is so many seniors are getting vaccinated. It was a party. We did it, and it was It was a big day. Yeah, there were. There were a couple tears me included, Caitlin Moore tells Cairo seven TV at a just living and Queen Anne. Every single resident has received their shot. Last week For the first time in a year, there was not a single new case of the virus at any long term care facility in King County.
GameStop Is Happening Again
"May be watching game stop again. today it shares skyrocketed in the final hour of trading. What prompted this late rally. We're going to bring in markets reporter caitlin austr- off into the conversation. She's covered game. Stop a lot lately caitlyn. Hey mark so kayla. Shares of game stop finished one hundred four percent higher to close more than ninety one dollars. It was hovering below fifty dollars for most of the day. What's the explanation behind this. So it's hard to say what caused game. Stop sheriffs to take off so much in the last hour of trading. What we do know is that you know you had keith. Gill saying that. He was going to double down on his game. Stop bets over the last couple of days. He's still really optimistic on the company. And that's what other people on wall street beds to say that they also are optimistic. You also had games top. Say that it's chief. Financial officer would resign next month. And so maybe that was. Also another case for people to maybe. You know think about the company's future could be different than what it had been a week ago but we don't really know exactly what causes it. You had a lot of people on wall street bat to were saying you know. They were caught off guard by sudden rise in shares and you can have big institutional players with deep pockets who can more easily move the share price who may be just doubled down on their bets that we could see games top perform
Bitcoin surpasses $50,000 for first time as major companies jump into crypto
"The price of bitcoin briefly topped fifty thousand dollars for the first time yesterday doubling in value in less than two months. Here's our reporter caitlin off on one of the big factors driving the rally. We've seen a lot of companies that have started putting their faith in bitcoin. And saying we're going to start holding a little bit of it. We've seen institutional investors and asset managers. Say you know. Bitcoin's been around for more than ten years now. We think that it can actually have a use case in portfolios until we're going to get exposure to bitcoin if not by outright and you've also had trading platforms and also general apps like cap. Say we're going to let people actually hold and use cryptocurrencies. While until you've seen the option of it kind of abso- d- area of uses just become more and more common
Why Tesla Bought $1.5 Billion in Bitcoin
"In an annual filing tesla revealed yesterday that it had bought one point five billion dollars in bitcoin. The company also said that it plans to start accepting the crypto currency as a payment method for its product soon. This is a big step. Not just for tesla bitcoin. So let's turn to our markets reporter caitlin nostra for more. Hey caitlin thanks for joining me. Thanks for having me. So what do we know about this strategy behind this purchase. What is tesla for here. So we've seen a lot of companies recently moved to start. Adding bitcoin to some of their holdings in a lot of it has just been diversification so instead of holding a treasury bond that may be offers significantly less yield than it used to. We're seeing people want to You know find other ways of storing some of their value at the same point saw so a little bit of almost a political statement. That you have elon. Musk and other. Bitcoin opponents who have for years been saying you know this is the future of this is a great asset that you should be invested in and very fully. We've seen some companies can jump on board with that idea. And so tesla is simply the latest in a line that has included square inc for one example but at the same point you know tesla is investing significantly more bitcoin than than many of these other companies. Have and you know. Of course. this move isn't altogether out of left field as you mentioned you know people who follow tesla's. Ceo elon. Musk on twitter. Probably remember that. He's expressed interest in cryptocurrencies. Before can you just remind us what we've seen from him. Yeah i mean for instance. Last month you had on change his twitter bio to read hashtag bitcoin. I mean he has. Long been a proponent of crypto currencies not just bitcoin. He's been having a little bit of fun on twitter lately with a meam. Crypto currency called doj queen. But you've seen him oil lobby in the past the the idea that bitcoin is something that we should be looking at in. There's been a few times that he's on it in the past on twitter but elon. Musk his following his persona even if he is joking about something it draws attention and it can make something more valuable and part of the concern a little bit with elon. Musk is that He has gotten into the trouble with the se in the past regarding some of his tweets about tesla he was even if not tweeting directly about bitcoin right before this he was adding it to his twitter bio and we don't know quite what date he bought and so there's a lot of people who are a little bit concerned that you know the sec. Poke at this and be a little bit concerned. You know we. We don't know if anything's happening or you know what might happen. But that is a concern always on the investor side right and going a little deeper on that risk piece you know. We've been watching bitcoin for a few years. Now i think a big takeaway is that this is a really palatal form of currency as mentioned you. We've seen it reach astronomical heights over the course of a few months. Maybe depending on who's tweeting about it and then crash and lose it all so just. How risky is this. Move from tesla. Yeah i mean look it if it winds up where bitcoin keeps going up. Then it's very good. Move for tesla but as you mentioned You know bitcoin cryptocurrencies. It's really volatile. Because i'm like a traditional currency of the dollar or the euro it's not trading off the fundamentals of what is the federal reserve doing with interest rates. Would the the be doing. And so because of that. It winds up being a lot. More volatile than traditional currencies that companies usually keep in store so if it winds up crashing. You know that's going to be a loss that tesla is going to have to write off a set an depreciation of the value of all the bitcoin that they bought in january that they're going have to deal with but same point. If it rises. That could be played for them. It's just you don't know quite what's going to happen. It's a larger. it's that many companies have been relatively conservative with how much they've added as of late
Hedge Fund Makes Millions on GameStop
"Turning to washington and the latest on the game stop frenzy treasury secretary. Janet yellen is said to meet with top regulators. Today to discuss the many issues that have emerged. This initial meeting will include officials from the sec and the fed according to former officials and analysts. The discussion is unlikely to reach any conclusions on whether the activity points to risks to financial stability or the need for regulatory changes. It wasn't just individual investors making a lot of money on game stops rally in a wall street journal exclusive world reporting one hedge fund in particular made a profit of nearly seven hundred million dollars joining me now with more on how this came to be as markets reporter caitlin ostrov. She is in london. Good morning caitlin. Wanting mark caitlyn so much of the movement upward has been propelled by day traders but some hedge fund managers actually bet on the stock rising. Yeah so you've had this narrative of on forms like it's wall street bets that come about of you know all of the little guys of the day traders kind of taking on these hedge funds better holistically betting that stocks like games talk will wind up falling but not everything has always as clear. Cut in black and white in some hedge. Funds also took this contrarian view that may be the market was being a little too beating up on games talk and so you actually had one hedge fund some best which actually started at on of games top. You know at the end of last year. September october and turned into profit of nearly seven hundred million for them because they start buying wind chairs were close to ten dollars and they sold when they were close to four hundred and caitlyn. We've seen a lot of volatility with game stock and others. What has been like this week. Yes performance for a lot of the so-called robinhood stocks the stocks that are very heavily favored by day traders We've been less strong moves this week than we did last week. you know. We had shares of games. Top shooting up over one hundred percent in a single day and now trading is a little bit more rangebound between you know maybe five and twenty percent that is obviously still vividly high volatility. But it does show that maybe some of this valley is losing a little bit of steam or a little bit of momentum ceylan ostrov thanks for joining us. Thanks for having me
Sen. Paul Bettencourt, Crime Stoppers of Houston discuss bill on bond reform after pregnant mom and unborn baby killed
"Emotional announcement in Houston crime stoppers of the Caitlin spill the new legislation to restrict the release of criminals. On in person on a personal reconnaissance pond. It's named after Caitlin and Finger Guajardo of pregnant Pasadena woman killed by her husband after he was released on a PR bond. Caitlin's mother spoke of yesterday's announcement. These criminals are laughing at a Harris County in our justice system, it has to stop criminals who are violent, belong behind bars. They need to be held accountable. This law is going to bring accountability back into a very broken system. Houston State Senator Paul Bettencourt introducing the bills. Saying that this can't continue anymore.
"caitlin" Discussed on I Weigh with Jameela Jamil
"We're beautiful white biased cut. Silk ganz standard says smoking cigarettes and looking kind of marty and but whereas musicals johnny and they're funny and upbeat and they can do something they're amazing dancing and singing and being funding. So yes so that was all. I was watching and reading books by women. That wasn't a conscious decision. Because i can go school. I was talking tired. I never had to read any of the classic in a great white male novelists. So anyone i got to the age of thirty five inside reading phillip walk around and his timing way they suddenly realize what a bullet dodged because again the way they describe women the amazing raymond chandler. Lime rego's she was the kind of dame who could make archbishop king stained glass window and that's beautiful line is amazing fourteen. I would have gone on my god so first of all. I can't be a woman. Copy a dame and i've got anger the priesthood. So much they destroy property. Like how would i do this. This has had online by only read books by girls. I would just regina retreat out of green gables. I would read little women and they were all again usually about working girls who bit weird..
"caitlin" Discussed on I Weigh with Jameela Jamil
"And we talk about how much she didn't expect that someone is body positive and then and you know just mentally sane in progressive as her could possibly have a kid who struggled with this thing that you always assume the product of parenting and we talk about that and we talk about the mistakes that she made things that people don't admit to or they don't even understand about themselves. She talks about things that she got wrong when it came to helping her kid with an eating disorder things that she finally got right. How long it took her to get there. All of the advice. She can gift other parents out there in order. Stop them for making her own mistakes. Which is kind of what this whole podcast about. I just found it fascinating. I've i've never heard apparent speak about what it's like to have a kid with an eating disorder all of the things that they think that they worry about and i think anyone out there who struggled with one as in an eating disorder themselves. You might find this really healing. I did. I found it so healing to to hear this from a parent's point of view and to hear how useless they feel impotent. How much they also just don't know what to do because there's not enough literature out there. She's written a book recently and she's written so many wonderful books throughout time. And i'm sure you already know them or you can look them up more than a woman is the book she put out this year with. Her daughters consent was kind of adult as idea now the had autism recovery from this eating disorder. She's written a kind of a manual of what not to do. And what might help for all other struggling parents out there. And i wish that we had more role models who are willing to be accountable for their lack of perfection because i think perfectionist such a disease that is destroying mostly women. Because we're the ones who it's expected of. So anyway i'm rambling. I'm just in a good mood and feel lots of love and kind of burst of feminism time. I talk to kaplan. And i'm so excited for you to tell me what you think about this. Please message me. I love radio messages. Message her but your input and the things that you you say or instruct me to change or question or enlighten me on main the world. Anyway there's hope in america which means there's a bit more hope in the world because it isn't the world but it does have an impact and yet i got to sit down and talk to one of my heroes and she.
"caitlin" Discussed on I Weigh with Jameela Jamil
"Hello and welcome to another episode of highway with jamila djamil. I hope you are well on fading fucking great. I know that we are not out of trouble. When it comes to politics in the united states of america but christ i feel hopeful in a way that i haven't in four years and i cannot tell you the impact. It had on my mental health for the better. I feel as though..
"caitlin" Discussed on Z104
"Yeah. So, Caitlin, how are you feeling better after hearing this now. Yeah, I am. Thank you guys so much really appreciate it. I do still think that you should have a talk with him there, like tell him like if we're in a relationship, the only person that needs to be in your bed is me like me and you and that's it. She should have some fun. No way. Get out free, Maybe note again, Way first used some of his homemade probably know. I pushed you to come with you checking up on you. You pop the post you some Every day with him. You thinking, you love? Come on, You love it in the morning away is what it is. You know what Get out between me and you way we're doing what we were doing. It probably ruin our way. Get away way. Turn off the pages and you should be checking a phone. You Leaving My man loves what you do best close at times, even if you bathe. Two. You got to do a video of just shaggy singing this any dry snitches on himself. You know, I got a wife, so let's keep it tight. Right and you picked the song, But I know I know the text line is busy this morning 757104. This probably just started a situation where there was no situation to begin with. That's Tiffany. Long time listener show. Uh, let's say the shade from y'all playing Ms Sung. Here's a good checks and a good point. You know she's going to call with us to the least, you know.
"caitlin" Discussed on The Happy Hour with Jamie Ivey
"About the big things. The little things in life and everything in between. Hey guys we made it to September it feels like twenty twenty is the year that doesn't end to the tune of the song that doesn't end. But I hope that you are like me and you're trying to find all of the goodness in the midst of the hard. Seriously I'm so thrilled that we're entering into fall, it might be my favorite season the year usually it's because of football and that might look different this year but I love looking ahead and something that is super exciting. That's looking ahead. Is. That less than one month away my newest book you be you are closer than you think will be out into the world for all of us to have. Now, there are still plenty of time for you to get your hands on all the preorder goodies that I have for you. Here's what you need. When you preorder a book, it's going to show up when the book comes out you don't have to think about it, but we want you to preorder. So we're going to give you some things. Free Order one of the goodies that we're going to give you is that you're going to be able to join me and some of my favorite friends for a private virtual event. Think of it like a private happy hour. It's a Happy Hour Book Release Party on September Thirtieth. So you to be there you're going to want to be their tax ub you all one word no spaces two, three, three, seven, seven, and we're GonNa, send you all the links on how you can preorder and how you can. Redeem your goodies today's happy. Our guest is a Gal from sunny. California who's been making a difference in the lives of many for over the last decade with her jewelry. Company. The giving keys, Caitlin crosby joins me today and we chat about everything from body image learning to know when to pull back from all the things friendship and dignity with the homeless and how are embracing of our imperfections might be the key to your purpose. Buckle up friends. This is a fun. Happy Hour. Here is my conversation with.
"caitlin" Discussed on Telescope: Life in the Time of Corona
"Reform some of the systems that are creating inequalities in the funeral, industry and beyond. And that gives Caitlyn hope. I, am ready to see what this younger generation! Comes out of this like and what kind of activism and advocacy and relationship with us. They will have because I'm I know that. Of course parents are afraid and they want to say immediately if my kids are going to be damaged by this, and they're going to be traumatized by this, and that may indeed be true, but I'm also interested to see the resilience that comes out of it and the new attitudes towards death that comes out of it. Twenty twenty is yearning screaming really for change. You can see it in the news in the streets in the hospitals in the capital. CAITLYN's hopeful that the grief of this moment will cure us of our death anxiety and bring us a few steps closer to reckoning with how we can ensure that everyone can have a good death. Both before their last breath and after. I hope that this younger generation is going to push whatever advocacy myself and my colleagues have done even further because if they can say I essentially grew up in the middle of a pandemic in all this death, and that is made me feel this WanNa do this WanNa change. This one overthrow this system. I'm all for it I, so I wanNA. Have a more hopeful. Sense of what their connection with death can possibly how it could possibly lead change. CAITLIN continues to advocate for death positively on her website, the order of the good death. And in her practice as a funeral director. Although covid nineteen initially took some of the intimacy away from Caitlyn's funeral home. For the moment she started allowing visitations again. Caitlin is doing everything she can to make sure. Families concede their dead loved ones care for them before they're laid to rest and hopefully gain some peace in the process, and that's what ritual offers us is an opening and closing. Thanks to Kaitlin Dodie for speaking to us. Before we leave you today. I WanNa let you know if he didn't already that Neon does a lot of other things besides telescope. We're producing a whole series of original shows that are coming out this fall, and we've recently partnered with a number of media organizations to produce shows like motive for murder with NBC dateline. If you're interested. In other projects at Neon, has under a bell. You can go to our website. neon home, DOT COM and sign up for our newsletter. You'll find interesting behind the scenes detail about the stories we do here on telescope. But you'll also hear about all the other great shows that we have for you, so check us up..
"caitlin" Discussed on Directionally Challenged
"Hey guys it's candidates Kayla uh and we are directionally challenged. Yeah we thought we'd have it all figured out by the time we were like in our thirties. Maybe but guess what we don't we don't do that. We don't we are GonNa talk about some some important information day. We're going to talk take on a more serious subjects than we usually do Today we're GonNa talk about breast cancer. Yeah that's a big. It's a tall order and I know it's very personal for me because my mom did have breast cancer and We're going to also talk about the BRCA gene which is braca one and Brca two and it's something you can get tested for something. We went through my sister and I when my mom was diagnosed we thought is this genetic. Is this something that we're going to have to consider the part of our identity for the rest of our lives and my mom did get tested right away and it was negative. Thank God but for a lot of people that's not the case and so that's a Caitlyn's here to talk to us about. Wow so did your mom get tested for the BRCA. Gene she did. She got tested after she'd gone through. I think a few years of having breast cancer and and it was something that my sister and I felt from the very beginning was a big deal to us. Is it something that is going to be genetic. And we're going to have to deal with this all the time and to be honest. It's kind of hard to talk about. It's emotional still to this day. And she is. I think now it's six and a half years cancer free which is fantastic. But it's always something that is on your mind part of your story so she got tested and it was negative. Thank God but that's not always the case for everyone it does. She have other family members. Who doesn't have other? We don't have other family members that have breast cancer but other types of cancer. My Mom's dad died head of prostate cancer. So it does. It's a big cancers of big word in our family. It's an emotional. It's emotional to waited word. Luckily we have had the pleasure of getting to know this incredible woman. Her name is Caitlin broad nick and she wrote a book all about it. She wrote a book called dangerous. Bubis breaking up with my time bomb breasts and if you could ever put like a like a hot pink cover on the Word Cancer Caitlyn is definitely taking that on a she was tested for the Brca could gene when she was an early twenties just positive and decided towards her late. Twenty S to have a double preventative Masek Demy. And she wrote an entire book about Her journey she's now in our thirties. She lives in New York She has a two almost two year old and she happened to be in Los Angeles. We've had her name on our list to want to interview her for months. Funds were so grateful that she's here and willing to share her story and open up about her journey through having a preventative. Double mastectomy with us and with you our listeners so without further ado here's Caitlyn and we're here with caitlyn broad. Nick thank you so much for joining us. Thanks for they're having the move actually had your name and your book on a list of like that. We've really wanted to talk with wild now. Yeah thank you I really appreciate it. That's okay you're here all the way from New York. Obviously we WANNA talk about your book. Dangerous Bubis win. Did you first realize we're just WHO's GONNA jump in and don't be too intimidated by Kaelin my breast size. We don't hit your amazing. That was my goal in life is to have arrests. That weren't insane but I listened to your book on Audio Book and I've never really thought about kind of the physical components of what it means to care. Have Big boobs. I always wanted them. I was not abroad stuffer but maybe I would lay on some cutlets sure. The evolution of the BRAS stuffing chorus. Is there a period of time where you're like you realize. Oh I have like boobs like when you're young and you're developing or was it overnight or just I know it was very young but so on my side of the family. I'm half Jewish half Catholic and so there's like the Jewish side which is really large busted full women and then the Catholic side is just like amazing washboard stomachs and tall. Schick says his leg. I was just growing up. I was like I'm going to be online. And obviously the Jewish. I knew that that was is my new place in life but I think I was pretty young when they start to develop and I remember like a girl was playing soccer in her backyard and she was like she had her top off and just wearing shorts and and she looked like her body was not intimidating. Like just like the shape of a young kid who was like. Oh Boy No press or anything and I was like. I could never never do that like I realized that. I think I was in like fifth grade fourth grade and I was like I could never not wear a shirt like that was a weird and this girl might have been just weird weird al.. She she was like maybe a little old enough you wearing a shirt but I think he was trying to like you know express their gender and be free and be like you know she didn't have any breasts to start start with. If boys can do it I can do it. I remember looking at her like. Oh we're not this. We're so different. What age did you start to develop your thirty two GS? He's rack enormous huge fan.
"caitlin" Discussed on Revision Path
"Advancement of creative through design and art on the adobe. Stop Team let's start the show all right so tell us who you are. And what you do is Caitlin crease. And I am an creative outreach and design specialist at adobe now what does their creative outreach in Zayn specialists do I'm I'm curious. Tell me a little bit about that. I actually only Dobie stopped team so a lot of people think of stock photography but we have what we cod kind of complex or extended assets. Meaning we have motion. Graphic templates designed templates three D models in such. So I think you know the Stock photography but I actually work on the templates team so my day today with that is. I'm working with graphic designers globally to to bring their work into a marketplace. Now I've seen it inside of you know photo shop where you can go to nobis stock in different libraries. I'll be honest. I've never really use it. I feel like it was one of those things that Adobe Adobe tends to just roll out the updates come so fast and furious and there's so many things in it. I'd never get a chance really experience everything that the adobe products can do yet so within the applications illustrator photoshop in design the offer. Free templates so you know. We're working with designers to do very specialized content. Photoshop is rolling out something new or designs rolling out a new feature those templates. What's that you find in? The application are actually designed and best practice with the application to feature something new depending on what that new tool is also. So it's a way for us to kind of work in like you know. Individually with artists or small design studios to bring their work a little bit more into the forefront also you know we have a subscription paid situation through our website and there are of course ten more a lot more of templates there. But what you find in command in a new dialog box for those APSAR were refreshing them a couple times of year so it's a great way for people who really aren't sure how to use news in design or people who are maybe familiar with illustrator but not photoshop to kind of explore in see how files are set up properly so it's a lot of like design thinking in a lot of best practices being put into the templates a seventy to think about it that way that you could really see how someone else's file structure and things is our. I've seen those templates and designs before and I'm like I can't do that all the candidates like a tutorial or something. I think I'm not. I'm not GONNA do that. I just need to three thousand photo or something. But that's that's interesting to know that people are using it in that way. We have strong download numbers. I think we tweak in that in those are free. You know if you're a trial user and you WanNa just Kinda test and see what that's like it's great if you're someone who needs a new resume and you WANNA do it in design you know. Those are just kind of great places. I always tell people to start there and also people who are creating new work for the marketplace of Adobe stock just as nice way to see like this is how it should be done and and.