35 Burst results for "Buffet"
The Eric Metaxas Show
Father Carlos Martins Shares Stories About Exorcism and the Demonic
"Talking to my friend Ryan buffet, who's a producer, a podcaster. Writer who does one particular podcast with my other guest father Carlos Martins, who is a leading exorcist. And they call it the exorcist files, and I was saying just a moment ago, this stuff is real. And we need to disabuse ourselves of the fact that who is just big and scary and whatever. No, I'll tell you what's scary. The name of Jesus is scary to demons. And God has given us the authority and the name of Jesus to deal with these things, but we have to understand the reality. We have to push away this idea that it's just vague and hopeless and I'm scared and I'm just going to try to get away from it. On the contrary, in any case, father, Carlos Martins, you were talking about the practical aspect of if there is a demon there, a devil, whatever we want to call it, if there's a dark spirit there, somehow you say it had what we will call legal access. In other words, there's some kind of unrepented sin. There's some way that it got in. And so you look at this diagnostically like a doctor. So talk about that. Yeah, sure. So if the devil is someplace in a person or in place, then he has a right to be there. He's gained a right. So my job is like a doctor is to diagnose where is the wound? Where is that doorway? And to treat that so that the devil loses his rights, the devil can not remain behind. Until that wound is healed or until the doorway is closed, if you will, then the devil has every right to be there, just like you have a right to be in your own home. You have a legal right. Nobody has the legal right to kick you out. So when the Devils gained that, he's present. And that's he's resting on that. So when I face a demon in exorcism, the first thing I'm going for, the first thing I'm asking, if I have not been able to find out through any other means, is what rights do you have? And of course,
The Trish Regan Show
Warren Buffet Is Out With a Stark Warning on Inflation
"First to the news of Warren Buffett, billionaire famed investor 92 years old now, no spring chicken. He's seen her thing or two, while he has a very stark warning on inflation. He wrote in his annual newsletter to Berkshire Hathaway shareholders that fiscal deficits have consequences. Imagine that. He's also warning of a pretty darn tough economy in the near future, writing quote, our job is to manage Berkshire's operations and finances in a way and manner that will achieve an acceptable result over time and that will preserve the company's unmatched staying power when financial panics or severe worldwide recessions occur. Oh, okay, well, you said it. Financial panics. You know, we've been through them before. Think about 2008. But what is different about this time around is that we're in an environment where the fed has already done everything it can. And so now it has to raise rates. And yet if inflation just keeps continuing, and the fed keeps raising rates, then there's no way to actually help the economy when it gets in a really bad position.
The Charlie Kirk Show
The Exorcist Files With Fr. Carlos Martins and Ryan Bathea
"With us is father Carlos Martins, as well as Ryan buffet, welcome to both of you. Now Ryan, that's how you say your last name, right? It's buffet or bethea. Well done. You're the first person in like two years to get that correct. So I applaud you. I've only known you for 8 years, so I'm glad I'm glad I can say the last name correctly. Welcome to you both. This is a heavy topic and I mean that in the best possible way. I do want to begin our conversation with playing the cut to the trailer of your upcoming film are the podcast product I should say the extra cyst files, let's play cut 75. With Hollywood portrayed in the movie the exorcist with levitations, vomiting, spitting at the priest with an uncanny marksmanship. All of that has not been a movie for me. I have seen that first year. My name is father Carlos Martins. I'm a priest of the Catholic Church. I was an atheist until as a young adult, the lord brought me out of darkness, and since then I've been living in his love. But I've also seen things very evil things, things that I wish weren't true. The job of the exorcist properly speaking is not to cast out the devil. The job of the exorcist is to find out why is the devil there? What rights has the demon game? What doorway has he entered through? This is the first time I've opened my files about these battles to the public. Wow, father, welcome. Please introduce yourself to our audience and we're going to go into this in great detail. The floor is yours. Sure. Sure, good to be here, Charlie. I am father Carlos Martin. So I am the priest that was featured on that clip just now. So walk us through you said you started as an atheist and now you are a priest. Tell us about that. Yeah, so I converted midway through my undergraduate degree when I was in college. I was taken with the witness of a group of very small group of faithful Christian students and a couple of professors and an experience of the lord. Very dramatically and became a believer.
AP News Radio
Battle for Senate control a toss-up with a few seats left to be called
"Are inching closer to a House majority while control of the Senate is coming down to a few tight races President Biden expressed relief Wednesday that a sweeping defeat driven by frustration with inflation and the Democrats agenda did not materialize It didn't happen Republicans are closing in on the 218 seats needed to take control of the House while control of the U.S. Senate hinges on tight races in Arizona Nevada and Georgia In Arizona democratic candidates for the Senate and governorship had small but dwindling leads with hundreds of thousands of ballots still left to count Nevada Senate candidates urged patients while both expressing optimism about their chances The numbers are there Republican Adam laxalt sounded confident speaking with reporters Tuesday night We're gonna take back Nevada and take back America The Senate majority could come down to a runoff in Georgia next month with neither candidate earning enough votes to win outright On election night Republican Herschel Walker urged supporters to hang in there We're here to win this election We're not Senator Raphael Warnock said much the same Keep buffet And
AP News Radio
GOP nudges closer to House win; Senate could hinge on runoff
"Republicans are inching closer to a House majority while control of the Senate is coming down to a few tight races President Biden expressed relief Wednesday that a sweeping defeat driven by frustration with inflation and the Democrats agenda did not materialize It didn't happen Republicans are closing in on the 218 seats needed to take control of the House while control of the U.S. Senate hinges on tight races in Arizona Nevada and Georgia In Arizona democratic candidates for the Senate and governorship had small but dwindling leads with hundreds of thousands of ballots still left to count Nevada Senate candidates urged patients while both expressing optimism about their chances The numbers are there Republican Adam laxalt sounded confident speaking with reporters Tuesday night We're gonna take back Nevada and take back America The Senate majority could come down to a runoff in Georgia next month with neither candidate earning enough votes to win outright On election night Republican Herschel Walker urged supporters to hang in there We're here to win this election We're not Senator Raphael Warnock said much the same Keep buffet And keep looking up Jennifer King Washington
The Mason Minute
Conditioned (MM #4025)
"The NASA minute. With Kevin mason, no secret I watch a lot of TV. But I've noticed recently the commercials for the new weight loss supplement, drug I don't know what you'd call it called noom. And there are one big thing is we've been conditioned to clean our plate when we probably shouldn't have been. And I understand what they're saying, what they're showing, because I was conditioned to clean my plate. And to this day, I wouldn't say I'm obsessed with cleaning my plate, but I don't ever feel I've done my job if I don't eat what I take. It's always the one big thing with buffets. I had a problem with. My parents said, you can take it, but you gotta eat it. Now I realize this is just a simplified way of putting the blame on somebody else, but I'm not putting the blame on my parents. I put the blame on myself because it's still to this day when I know I shouldn't have to. When I know I may not be hungry when I think I'm hungry, that's the bigger issue. I'll be honest, I'm hungry all the time. Being conditioned to clean your plate, I guess it's a bad thing. I don't know. But I know one thing. We don't tell kids today about starving children in China or India or any place like that.
The Mason Minute
Conditioned (MM #4025)
"The NASA minute. With Kevin mason, no secret I watch a lot of TV. But I've noticed recently the commercials for the new weight loss supplement, drug I don't know what you'd call it called noom. And there are one big thing is we've been conditioned to clean our plate when we probably shouldn't have been. And I understand what they're saying, what they're showing, because I was conditioned to clean my plate. And to this day, I wouldn't say I'm obsessed with cleaning my plate, but I don't ever feel I've done my job if I don't eat what I take. It's always the one big thing with buffets. I had a problem with. My parents said, you can take it, but you gotta eat it. Now I realize this is just a simplified way of putting the blame on somebody else, but I'm not putting the blame on my parents. I put the blame on myself because it's still to this day when I know I shouldn't have to. When I know I may not be hungry when I think I'm hungry, that's the bigger issue. I'll be honest, I'm hungry all the time. Being conditioned to clean your plate, I guess it's a bad thing. I don't know. But I know one thing. We don't tell kids today about starving children in China or India or any place like that.
The Mason Minute
Conditioned (MM #4025)
"The NASA minute. With Kevin mason, no secret I watch a lot of TV. But I've noticed recently the commercials for the new weight loss supplement, drug I don't know what you'd call it called noom. And there are one big thing is we've been conditioned to clean our plate when we probably shouldn't have been. And I understand what they're saying, what they're showing, because I was conditioned to clean my plate. And to this day, I wouldn't say I'm obsessed with cleaning my plate, but I don't ever feel I've done my job if I don't eat what I take. It's always the one big thing with buffets. I had a problem with. My parents said, you can take it, but you gotta eat it. Now I realize this is just a simplified way of putting the blame on somebody else, but I'm not putting the blame on my parents. I put the blame on myself because it's still to this day when I know I shouldn't have to. When I know I may not be hungry when I think I'm hungry, that's the bigger issue. I'll be honest, I'm hungry all the time. Being conditioned to clean your plate, I guess it's a bad thing. I don't know. But I know one thing. We don't tell kids today about starving children in China or India or any place like that.
AP News Radio
Portugal ponders how to hold election amid omicron surge
"Authorities authorities in in Portugal Portugal of of wrestling wrestling with with a a conundrum conundrum how how to to hold hold a a general general election election scheduled scheduled amid amid a a surging surging coded coded nineteen nineteen cases cases around around four four hundred hundred thousand thousand people people accompli accompli in in isolation isolation in in a a country country of of just just ten ten point point three three million million and and political political leaders leaders say say they're they're trying trying to to figure figure out out how how to to organize organize the the buffet buffet for for January January thirty thirty that that considering considering waiving waiving isolation isolation rules rules so so that that people people can can vote vote or or reducing reducing isolation isolation periods periods another another option option being being making making available available more more polling polling stations stations I'm I'm voting voting booths booths to to avoid avoid crowds crowds gathering gathering and and extend extend early early voting voting possibilities possibilities meanwhile meanwhile the the surge surge shows shows no no sign sign of of slowing slowing with with New New Delhi Delhi infections infections reaching reaching almost almost forty forty thousand thousand a a new new record record I'm I'm Charles Charles de de Ledesma Ledesma
The Dan Bongino Show
Why Inflation Is a Double Kick to the Cojones
"Making matters worse how inflation is a double kick to the cojones It's not just that you don't have assets if you're relatively poor or middle class or enough assets to offset the massive price increases for the things you need to buy Consumption as a percentage of your income things you have to consume purchase to stay alive Food gasoline rent As a percentage of your income is a lot When you factor in rent mortgage and food for some middle class and poor folks it's like some you know 80 sometimes 90% of their income You think it's the same for a Warren buffet or a Bill Gates Folks the guy could have a $10 million house Warren Buffett and it's zero zero zero 1% of his income It's nothing It's peanuts for them So making matters worse consumption for them or the things they have to consume and buy where the prices are more or small sliver of what they're worth It's nothing to them It's a tip in a restaurant Ken langone explained this beautifully He was on CNBC Here's him yesterday queue up for me cut 7 It's about 30 seconds long saying hey listen folks this is gonna feed on itself It's gonna get worse You better not play this thing down Check this out Where do you think we are in terms of policy in this country rise What is it 70% think we're headed the wrong direction You started it Ken I don't want to get political but let me give you a warning This inflation is a lot worse than people think it is not transitory and trust me the little people People like my parents and Larry's parents they're going to suffer because it's a inflation is a regressive tax It is the poor people hardest of all We have serious problems in America Listen you should listen to langone This is a very smart man He got very wealthy being socially smart and having traditional intellectual IQ The intelligence quotient This is a smart guy Disregard what he's saying at your own
AP News Radio
Data shows ship crossed over oil pipeline that ruptured
"California authorities are focusing on tracking data that show a massive cargo ship repeatedly drifting over the undersea pipeline that ruptured early this month a Coast Guard official says federal investigators are examining whether the anchor from a Panama registered container ship MSE Dennett snagged the undersea pipeline in pulled across the sea floor this ship was being buffeted by strong winds from a storm and repeatedly crossed over the pipeline but here's what's hard to explain that ship was drifting a radically on January twenty fifth it wasn't until early October that oil and tar balls started washing up off Huntington beach in southern California investigators say that could mean another ship dragged anchor over the pipeline the line might have been hit by something else at a later date or the pipeline itself may have suffered some type of failure hi Jackie Quinn
The Nat Coombs Show
"buffet" Discussed on The Nat Coombs Show
"Think people who haven't watched him will not understand like he's like a big cam newton. He's he can do that. Come does i mean. He doesn't try to constantly make plays with his legs but he can do that quite easily. He's faster than canyon. He's physically stronger than canyon and can throw the ball. Bevan cam newton. Now if you've got to play like that then you're able to work around a week offensive line. But i don't think the bears have any faith in that offensive line and also matt. Maggie feels that part of the reason the mahomes has been successful and matt. Maggie wants to claim a certain amount of that. Success is because mahomes sat in the first season behind alex smith. Now i think that did help. Mahomes but andy is not alex smith for number one. He's not good as alex. Smith and number two. Alex smith had been the chiefs working with those coaches for years. Andy dalton had been in the building about as long as just in fields. So he doesn't doesn't add that kind of like franchise leadership and continuity that. Alex smith did the reason that patrick mahomes is as good as he is is because he's as good as he as. I don't think that one is what made him great. It might have helped but it's not the it's not the key so i would love seem start but i think he would get absolutely ruined by the rams. It might affect him. All season might be injured. And i'm happy from this one out because the rams are gonna win comfortably. I can see why this was picked as the sunday night game. Which is the cost. The marquee match up in terms of tv ratings. It's the most watched sporting event each week in america. You've got chicago. The third biggest city in america los angeles the second biggest city but in terms of teams. I would love to tell you. This is a game that is going to be a you know a tight one or the best spring the upset but i think this is going to be over by about half time but we might see justin fields in the fourth quarter. That's the only reason to stay up for this one. Well that of course and Bringing this full circle the nissan that. I've football theme which probably carrie underwood at one of my favorite points to seize. that gets unveiled. I'm hoping i haven't been carrie. Underwood oh i mean devastating. That would that would be a travesty. That would be a tragedy and we should all we'll have to write to our mp's hoping they retain the kind of cheesy they like they will in the crew as well don't they. So so they had the owl and chris ca- get a get a couple of seconds of screen time. Play is a love the they even cheesy year on year. i think they should just keep pushing it contrast. Espn against a company amount of the history drinking no announcement the credible group just nbc should just pushed her. Yeah embassy cheese yeah exactly. Nbc have no interest in trying to be cool at all. They gave up on that a long time ago. And just look we get the first pick of games. We can show what we want. We're going to have this. we've got al increase. What more do you want need any other. You know what it's so far down that road that you get a get. Some uber hip stat nathan bodied style. Dj in a bar east allston more likely to drop the football. Anything drake's ever recorded. I i it's i. I swear i've been like someone else street and that's happened. It's yet to get through every game on the slate. So you know what we're gonna do here because we're going to get out of dodge now but propo- and i'll deal with those on edge rush about that that's not no pressure some magazon. The son daughter of educated is the jets jets positive. I can't wait for that game. I honestly this is. This is the sort of thing that we want is thrown at us van. Donald you and i are on the same page of sound donald. He's at a bit of a raw deal. We have not seen his ceiling. I'm sure during the course of the year. I'll get to talk about him. We'll see if proved right in the nba. pay everyone. donald unleash everything. Aaron rodgers on the shell sound. Donald is a gets the jetsons sunday. Calloway for that. I'm sure you guys out that kind of weight as well as great to be doing this show maybe my favorite show of the season because is getting underway and ben. You've been brilliant company fantastic insight as ever look forward to getting your emojis projects all throughout the course of sunday. Look after yourself but we back next week. Drop in college days next week and you know what's here is crazy college football. He's already has been a head. Coach pushed out. Who's who's randy edsall of yukon. I'm wearing rod wearing a yukon t shirt just to celebrate the fact that someone is randy you can say was he was he was he pushed or did he jump. But here we are at the start of september played two games and he is gone and he was going to retire at the end of the season. And someone had to work. All your side. Coachee the coaching carousel started already. I'm just imagining the nfl. Someone someone getting pushed out after two games. It's just wild. Get over the next week. Show if you count. He's he's not. He's not busy oldest list. Reach out to kabul. Let's get five minutes with ron. You're next that book book. Let's i mean he's worked with sabin. He left some stories tweets. Rabat is how you follow the big man on twitter. Make sure you do that. Brilliant insight not just into the nfl but probably gathered into colleges while in college. Days is our show that we dropped under the umbrella of the show. Rosettes if you subscribing to us on here you'll still get that where we look at college prospects. That are going to be the nfl next year. Particularly king implies you'll be watching nfl team Potentially next year what she in the nfl anyway. Next year as well as the big college games and stories like the randy one which which rigali with said. Keep your eyes peeled for that. Would that all through the season badly coughed yourself bob. Great thank you. I'll look forward to.
Breaking the Glass Slipper: Women in science fiction, fantasy, and horror
How Do We Reconcile Our Love of Works by Problematic Creators?
"Snow. We'll know that we often refer to harry potter. Buffy the vampire slayer and they are not the only texts. We mentioned that. Have problematic creators. Many of the axes. From the harry potter films have come out to reassure fans that it is irc as to love the prophecy while not supporting the message of hate. It's creative preaches but is it really so easy. How connected are creators to that creations and has it changed in recent years with the rise of the cult of celebrity. Let's start things off a discussion of just weeden severe. A long time. He was held up. As as a great feminist icon. Making all these showers female leads and and really strong women. Do you think his feminist messages have been tarnished by his recent fall from grace or are there still valuable feminist messages to be gleaned from buffy firefly dollhouse and more. You're honest. I've actually only familiar with buffet. I not really watched file a house if you knew is so. I can't really speak from the buffy. Sound point and i am still puffy fat. I think it would be really hard not to be. I was pretty shocked when the allegations came out. And also it's extremely depressing when you read off because anything that you've held close to halt and that you've big doppler on shows like this in to other people as a standard to aspire to and then you realize that this create a really things let us a bit of a you know a knife in the heart but i feel like i think we'll be talking about this later about separating the creative from the often the artist. I think there's still a lot of stuff in buffy. Maybe not so much in the later episodes electing later seasons even but in the early stuff. I feel that for its time. It still very groundbreaking. Yeah
WSB programming
Hurricane Ida Makes Landfall in Louisiana
"Of the most powerful, powerful hurricanes to ever strike the U. S. With 150 MPH winds and, of course, this coming on the 16th anniversary of Hurricane Katrina. Jim Krystle in New Orleans by mid size SUV is being buffeted, rocking side to side by hurricane ideas wins. Streets, which are mostly deserted, are already littered with downed tree limbs and leaves. The rain has been off and on falling in sheets at times low grey jagged edge clouds are racing by overhead. Jim Krystle to CBS News, New Orleans and again. Ida has just made landfall. We're told very different story in metro Atlanta over the next couple of days where we remain
The Mason Minute
Breakfast Buffet (MM #3805)
"The NASA minute. With Kevin mason. I woke up this morning wanting to go to a breakfast buffet. Don't know why I haven't been to one in years. I've been to some high end buffets at very nice swanky hotels that were just amazing with made to order omelet bars. They were sort of brunch and sort of breakfast buffet. Now it's true. I've also been to the really cheap ones. Like they used to have a place like the shoney's big boy that was overcooked nasty eggs that was still pretty good. It wasn't great but it was good and I realized I'm probably never going to eat at a breakfast buffet again. One I don't need to be enticed if you will by all that extra food. So I try to avoid buffets these days. The big buffet restaurants have come and gone they're not able to make any money anymore. And besides that I don't need to tempt myself. But the breakfast buffet thanks to COVID-19 it could be a long gone conclusion. I know golden corral has opened up their buffet restaurants again or at least they're starting to but I gather some things a little bit differently that's what people are telling me not that I'm going to go anytime soon. But it kind of yearned for the old breakfast buffet because when you didn't know what you wanted to eat you could always have a little bit of everything and I do mean everything
The Mason Minute
Breakfast Buffet (MM #3805)
"The NASA minute. With Kevin mason. I woke up this morning wanting to go to a breakfast buffet. Don't know why I haven't been to one in years. I've been to some high end buffets at very nice swanky hotels that were just amazing with made to order omelet bars. They were sort of brunch and sort of breakfast buffet. Now it's true. I've also been to the really cheap ones. Like they used to have a place like the shoney's big boy that was overcooked nasty eggs that was still pretty good. It wasn't great but it was good and I realized I'm probably never going to eat at a breakfast buffet again. One I don't need to be enticed if you will by all that extra food. So I try to avoid buffets these days. The big buffet restaurants have come and gone they're not able to make any money anymore. And besides that I don't need to tempt myself. But the breakfast buffet thanks to COVID-19 it could be a long gone conclusion. I know golden corral has opened up their buffet restaurants again or at least they're starting to but I gather some things a little bit differently that's what people are telling me not that I'm going to go anytime soon. But it kind of yearned for the old breakfast buffet because when you didn't know what you wanted to eat you could always have a little bit of everything and I do mean everything
Dirty Bird Podcast
Buffleheads Are Highly Reliant on Northern Flickers – Here’s Why
"Some koufax i found about the buffalo head is they're highly. Reliant on northern flickers northern flickers are really species. Yeah and they're highly reliant on their nesting. Cavities we have them here. We have northern flickers here. There's actually a pair not too far from where i live In one of the trees. But i think the tail feathers and the wing feathers are different. Color yeah on the flickers here than the flickers where you are out west. You guys have read shafted northern flickers and out here we have golden shaft. northern flickers When i i Went out west for the first time in like you know into yosemite did all those national parks i remember seeing a northern flicker and it had the red red shafts on the bottom of wings and the tail and i had no idea what kind of bird it was like. Oh my god the things huge and it's all red like and then i realized. Oh it's a northern flickers. She's you know colored different. I kind of forgot that fact. But apparently there there's northern flicker nesting. Cavities are like just the right size for the buffalo head. They're like just big enough for them. To nest in and buffalo heads are like on the smaller side for cavity nesting ducks other ducks like the wood. Duck that nest in old woodpecker. Cavities and stuff. So the buffets are like jih small enough to fit in and so that helps them You know Not get out competed by by bigger nesting ducks so they're really relying on those northern flickers.
Double Date with Marlo Thomas & Phil Donahue
An Interview With Michael J. Fox and Tracy Pollan
"Started by asking them about their dating before they met. I know you dated a lot of interesting people in new data a lot. I really good about you. You had a lot of handsome beautiful people in your lives but you you clicked. So how did you know this was. The right person. lives interesting. the you know when you're young you go out with a lot of people but you kind of know instantly. Listen person so so you and the back of your mind new thinking this. How do i get out of it and and and then you meet someone in the This i don't ever get out of this and then there's a leap buffet at that point because you're so young. When i first met her shoes theater actors from new york. And i was just like prince of hollywood idiot clown and in such dignity about her in a in consideration of what was women. I didn't consider anything. I'm just gonna jump into situations in took over and in any decided. Wow who poise. That's what she has boys when you walk down the aisle. You're pretty sure that this was the right one. Was there anything one little thing that you were quite sure about that. You had to like figure out right. I do know that i was. You know i'd been in so many broadway shows and done so many things like that. And i never had as much stagefright as i had right before i walked down the aisle. I thought it was going to pass out. I was so so nervous. And i just realized this is a really big deal. I'm ready for this. I just think that general feeling of like what have i gotten myself into and then i started to walk in at all fell away and i and how will we them. Twenty
Baseball Tonight with Buster Olney
"buffet" Discussed on Baseball Tonight with Buster Olney
"Jj joe rates. And how big of a mistake would it be for the nats. Do not trade. Max scherzer with all the injuries and lack of consistency. It seems unlikely they could make a real push to the playoffs. Yeah this weekend. You must have been like waving a orioles flag around this weekend. Taylor oh yeah when you retain i may not retain but when you win the mass and cup auriol's four games to three on the The season here definitely celebration where the end me. And mr malibu had a little wager going on with some work activities know about this. We made it after the fact after the show. So whoever the losers that'll be mr malibu has to put together Jalen jacoby podcast and get that out into the world today So shout out to the orioles for making my afternoon a little bit later and you know and in terms of nationals. I just don't know. Is i mentioned when i was talking with tim. How much straight valley does max scherzer have when he's dealing with the triceps injury. You know an older pitcher you. Let's say you made a trading you brought him in immediately was kinda dinged up. I think everybody respects max and knows that he would try to make it work and we saw that amazing performance today at two thousand eighteen when he was scratched from the start and came back and pitch great. Alas came but. I don't think there's necessarily a team out there. That's going to spend big on him. You can save a little bit of money. I think that would be a plus already. That doesn't for bleacher tweet. Hashtag bleacher tweets on twitter. And please follow right in review this podcast wherever you listen to podcasts. Where we've got a lot of people thank today Just gunman does and brandon woodruff and lance lynn. In craig counsel and boob shabby and tim. Taylor have agreed to everybody. Thanks for listening. Stay safe and remember hate inequality based on skin color is something. We need to fight against every single debt. Thanks for listening to the baseball tonight. Podcast if you're playing fantasy baseball check out the fantasy. Focus podcast wherever you listen to podcast the baseball tonight. Podcast when you think of the best of the best in sports journalism who do you think of i think of tim bontemps raina banks here at. Espn michael kara of the new york. Post rachel exxon from usa today. And of course adrian. Whoa generosity of the wage. Bob saint bonaventure university.
Baseball Tonight with Buster Olney
"buffet" Discussed on Baseball Tonight with Buster Olney
"I want to win so it all worked up to be in workout. It'd be the same same spot really. Where do you think attack came from you for you. Bill him guessing. That was something that was built into when you very young. Yeah you're known as not screwing around. So i was raised by my dad and my older brother motor brothers. Twelve years older than me so my dad always told me that you know don't bite off more the chew with my older brother so one of those things where i just learned and had to learn how to compete at a young age as i was growing up with older people Or even like when we're in the neighborhood playing basketball. I was always youngest kid. You're told along with your always with my older brother. So he always keep an t always he would always be on his scene but out there he wasn't afraid to let me get beat up and And when a game when we were playing games and all that he didn't protect me let me go through my get my lumps. Also throw the ball. He'd also wasn't yeah wasn't afraid. Afraid to You know when we were playing football or basketball or anything you know. It didn't let me get anything easy. That's for sure so made me learn to compete hard level. What was his name teeth keith. Yet and Yeah it was only saying now. He's smaller than me. So he's my. He's my smaller older brother magazine about six one six two but he's definitely not the the bigger frame he's more of a more of a skinny fast. So tell me about the moment when you beat him something for the first time because i know you remembered. I'm a younger sibling to it now. The only thing that i remember as when i was growing up one time it was a seminar i and it makes him out of this day. I used to have a Like those old lightsaber source of the big thick handle. So just me off. One time i came running down the hallway chucked it at him broke his nose. I had an escape out. The back door bike was already ready to go. And i was down the street and then my dad find me when he got home from work because i was hiding out in the neighborhood so that was the first time where i was all right. You get to do this. Because you're ordering me i'm gonna show you but not agree idea. I was probably in high school south. You're looking at like seven eight years old. How lasting lightsaber big giant one. Yeah yeah so. It was one of those things like we were. We had a day. You know. I was like the only thing i had to get him with and i made sure that i had an escape plan. Ready to plan. Everything was at the back. Door jumped out the side of the trailer and was off the off to the races and catch on sunday gook shami of espn radio get a chance to catch up with his friend. In milwaukee brewers manager. Craig counsel here at the manager of the brewers craig counsel and tonight so that is baseball. The brewers playing host to the chicago white sox. But start with this. You guys are in first place. Give me an overview. What makes your team so good. What are the things that you've done. Well the putting in a position to be in first place a couple of things. I started with just i think we we pitch really well. We have swing and miss guys. and then second. I'd say i. I think we've been very good. Defensive team When we when we catch the ball for our pitchers. I i feel like we're hard to score against so It takes pressure off. Our offense doesn't require me to do much as much And those those are the two things. I think we've done exceptionally well. I think we've been pretty good based running team as well or offense has been Much better since the addition of willie adamas. What is he added besides the production. Well he's just twenty five years old but he's got just tremendous leadership qualities. And i think leaders have the ability to as in this game to me is like they think about other people as much as they think about themselves. This game can be Game where you get very inward as a player and willie's always no matter what's going on with him. He's got his head on other players and other people and as people we respond to that in our players have responded to it the other night the bucks secured a world championship. I know your team was at the game. I know you watch with your family at home. Your kid that grew up in this town you watch. The brewers you went to world series games in one thousand nine hundred to tell me honestly watching that for as much as it was there. Any part of you sitting there thinking man would be like if and when the win the world series. Yeah of course when it happened that close to home and and you know some of the people involved You're you're you know you're you're wanting to do it next You want to join the fun and you kind of see what the city has. The city has reacted to the box. And how everybody's jumped on and got excited about it and the downtown milwaukee's gonna revitalize for the last month because the deer district because of the box so There's definitely a part of us that wants to add to that and and be part of it and Try to do something in october. The has the same effect on the city. Last thing scale of one to ten today checking on your hair. How you feel about your hair. It's a three right now. It's a little humid out today. Book fair enough. Good to see you thanks. Bleacher tweets already. Buster bleacher tweets. For a monday. I up we have our pal. Pk steinberg pk. Rates in which Cashman or dombrowski has the harder decision to make interesting question. I gotta say to dombrowski comments over the weekend. We're basically said yep we're going to be buyers that took some of his peers by surprise that it'd be that open about it. I suspect that part of the reason why he did that was to appease ownership because if phillies ownership knows how long has been since they've been in the postseason they wanna make push and there are a lot closer the yankees and that's why i think browse these decisions a lot. Easier than cashman cashman's decision. Look at this point if the yankees ad it's gonna feel like a hail mary some point because they're so far back and you know maybe they're capable of actually coming back and making the postseason but there's a chance that any assets that you spend upgrade the two thousand twenty one yankee stadium and be like pouring paint down a whole. That's how much struggling right now. I like that paint on a whole. Let's go to chuck norris source rex. This person writes in after beating the as three times this weekend. How many games do the mariners need to take from the astros this week to become buyers just one or will they needed lease two wins will they be buyers if they get swept. Now i think they're buyers now. Look you know. Their opportunities are going to be about adding players who they control not only this year to augment their chances this year but also for two thousand twenty two which is why wasn't surprised last night. See a report that they're connected with the royals whitmire afield. Who would help this year next year. The one thing. I don't think the mariners will do to be to add rentals during the course season. We got eric e. At esoteric eric zero eric rates in with graham likely out for an extended period of time. Who do you consider the favourite for the nl. Cy young way if degrom is out for an extended period because of course at this moment is a huge favorite to win I think at point. It's wide open near the brewers guys corbin. So he's on saturday Brandon woodruff last night. Those guys would be right. Mix but i think that would be an award that would be one with performance in august and september. All righty last one for today. 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"The brewers giving him extra arrests in his first year after the sixty game kovic season all but one of his starts Have been made with more than four days. Rest here's brandon boudreaux. Talking about how that all came about when you look around the league and you see all the injuries i mean. Do you feel like you know what we're we're. We're doing this the right way. You don't know if it's ever a wrong or right way. Not enough information to know. I'm something to your i. I don't think there's enough information. No and I think it's just a combination of Kind of commuting communicating day. In day out how you feel think that's been super important and you know coming into this year when you like. I have stuff doesn't feel right. We're able to build because we got the six guys rumbled bill. Extra time in so This time around. And i'm big on. Not once i get a routine. I like to stick to it whether fulfil good some days and some days. Don't i just. I think extra time for me is sometimes it just takes a couple of days to kind of get off that rhythm but I think they were saying in long. Run you know hopefully Finish the year strong planned october. And i think that's our goal and So you gotta make sure that. We're fresh for that september. Kinda push in october so we we've been good so far it's working out. Hopefully it continues to work but as far as round league. I don't know it's just i. I guess every team is different. I think you're right. I think it's kinda there's not enough information accounting. Give you blueprint or of out of how to do this. everything's unprecedent everything's on presidents. Last year is unprecedented this year the year after now that may innings look using but freddie through twenty something off the thirty innings last year. Yeah and he's basically a hundred e-right visa out hundreds so. I mean that's just crazy so it's like you know just of got communicate and see how you feel and i think that's kind of where retreatment if you i mean given the fact that you have I mean all of your all. The two year starts are on five days rest. That seems to be allow you to get into pretty good routine now. it has and I just moved to a day. Three bullpen this year. So our pitch day off to pan. And i made that adjustment last year during the sixty game season. And that's been one thing. I think that has helped me out tremendously. And there's just been a few things that you that extra He felt a little bit fresher. When you're on the mound so game like you keep it. Bullpen shorter day off and if he has some feelings that he felt on mound that day. Three kind of carries over star. May that adjustment. I think that's helped out. And i think that's just part of you know gain spirits gaining innings. Any you know just a lot more knowledge about your body and everything so as far as that goes. I'm i'm still baby in terms of you know that whole part of it but you look around league. Some of the older guys and a lot of the guys do three minutes. that's awesome. That's up over the weekend. I get a chance to catch up a lance lynn. The all star. Pitcher for the kaga white sox. I talked to him about his contract extension. How that came together so quickly in the competitive influence of his older brother given this There's been a little talk over the last month or so knowing that the break could be a good time to get down to see. If there's something there may be honest with you after the all star game in by thursday night of the great it was a done deal so the less forty-eight hours really when from the time the first number sent over to what we agreed. Yeah and you were right in the middle of that. Like i mean i think i read or heard something where you were talking about it than that first contact with with you something that we wouldn't even since i came over to start to start the season does one of those things where you know. Rick made it clear that he didn't trade for me to be a one and And you know we're gonna see how the season played out and went along 'cause second spring training with no one fans in the sands and all that so it's one of those things where everybody had see what was going to go on with the baseball landscape to look like and go from there so Because actually smooth all way around everybody was open and honest with each other again. We live in southern illinois. So there's no doubt How much of it was you love being here with these guys and then also the uncertainty of what's coming this winter. I think he's a little bit of everything but in this game i've learned that you know you always ask free agent twice now and you think that he's like oh it's always let's see what's out there grasso screener but when you find a place you like the money fits and there's no reason that deal with anything else. It makes it easy. So i think it was a little bit of everything knowing that. It's a good fit a chance to win for the next couple of years with the core that they have here with the young guys that you're obviously seeing come up with injuries that they're showing what the route so when you look at it that way you get where i'm at in my career..
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"I'm well buster. hurry you doing. Great only four more days four and a half more days until the trade deadline. And we're going to get into a lot about that kiss a lot going on. There's stuff happening over the course of the weekend. But i wanna start with this with you on friday. Just after we got done taking the taping. The podcast the cleveland indians announced their new team name. I should say. The cleveland baseball franchise announced his new team for two thousand twenty two and beyond The guardians and i do not think it was an incident stem that they drop this on the same day that we olympic opening ceremonies that they dropped it on a friday. The indians were going to let everybody know and be transparent about it. But i also don't think they minded that the the whole thing flew under the radar because no matter what they came up with. There are a lot of their fans who weren't going to be happy. What do you think of the name. Look i'm okay with the name. The indians i know having any as about this this was not an easy decision. I wasn't shocked that the king up with guardians design new on the inside to some degree. That a bunch of names were not gonna fly including spiders and some others. It's not easy picking a name. Buster especially in this day at a show. And i'm in the vast minority on this but the name of a team the uniform and all that. That's not that important to me. I think just playing the game is the right thing. They still have a major league team in cleveland. And it's a good one and the guardian says perfectly fine name for me because i know the indians went through a million possibilities here. They looked at everything and this is what they came up with two. I'm good but tell me about you said you'd heard around the inside that You know the spiders was never going to be considered some other. Tell us what you know about the process. Well i just know some of the people who work there and they're they're indians people i mean. They're cleveland baseball. People forever. mer they care so much about that city and their fans in the town and everything so they went through spiders and the rock hall. And all those things in the naps and everything like that and they're end there just wasn't the perfect fit so this seemed to be the perfect fit or the right fit at the time and it's just a very tricky process. Picking a name for a team in this day and age. I'm right there with you. In terms of how view names. Like i'm not really that wedded the names. I just like the franchises and how they play in the people on the teams. I will say that one son saw the name he couldn't stand. It might focus on the seventeen year old name. I think it's fine. It's an offensive. It's sort of bland enough. I think that's probably what they were going for. I think spiders would have been better. And i think we need to let the indians fans kinda grieve the loss of the indians name. But if you're not in indians fan like a lot of people complaining about the name like no one cares about your opinions. Stop stop winding. Its whatever get over. Let's whitney can that the timing of this announcement they kind of wanted to be like. Oh yeah by the way. Our team is guardians moving forward. I think so. And i think it was smart to do it that way because again people look us. People aren't happy about anything anymore. Whatever you do or say you offend somebody. So let's just move on from this their baseball team in cleveland. That's what they are and good for that last week tim. We had a debate on the podcast. About who the american league manager of the year might be whether alex cora potentially tony larussa dusty baker. aj hinch kevin cash and we got a number of tweets. people complaining that we didn't include gape kappler in that conversation. So you're right. People are not going to be happy with everything. So adam frazier gets traded. The padres yesterday fascinating deal. I got a hand of that. Because i had heard that the padres actually among the possibilities that they talked about was trevor story and they had internal conversations about moving trevor story if they had finished the trade with rockies to play center field. I think that gives you an indication of how they were thinking. We're not gonna worry if it's a perfect fit position wise. I'm not gonna tell you that every piece is gonna fit together like a puzzle but we're just going to add really good players i. It's a great addition and a guy who in october just gonna have great bats. What did you think well. He's leaving major league in hits. That's who you acquire more important. He's played three thousand innings in his career at second base played a thousand innings in his career in the outfield. And that's what you're looking for. Is versatile player that can play two different positions if not more and is going to get hit because in this day and age where we strike out all the time you got a guy who puts the ball in play and it's hard somewhere all the time the classic aj thriller movies going for everything as he should given this team. It is not buster been particularly good offensive team most of the season. They need a leadoff guy. They need another guy to get on for teas and machado and the rest. and adam. fraser's the perfect pick up their varying reports whether they gave up too much or not enough but they got an everyday player. Who play second base every dame..
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"Am five seventy sports. Tim never on that. Call white socks. And the brewers on sunday night baseball. I was there in milwaukee last night. A pitching match of two guys. Who could be cy young award winners at the end of this year lance lynn chicago white sox versus brandon woodruff against the milwaukee brewers in the backdrop a little bit personal between these two guys because landslide went to old miss woodruff went to mississippi state. Lynn was dominant in the bottom of the first inning. Next offering cut on and miss struck him out lance lynn strikes out the side that was shabby and espn radio. Willie dhamma struck adamnet moment. I hope everybody got a chance to see. Willie down as mike up on sunday. He was so fun talking to his bat. In talk you refer to it as my love begging for heads because it had been a while since gotta last one lance. Lynn got done at the plate. The top of the second inning wind into right field. That's a sad into score garcia so volatility plate. He'll come in hour about that leads. Land a two run single off of brandon woodruff into right field at. It's three nothing white sox. Yes the game was in milwaukee but boy the white sox fans travelled for this series. I was at the ballpark on saturdays. While great energy between the two fan bases in this series the white sox salvage the final game. Three to one brewers one aims one and two. The civil hearing for a temporary restraining order requested against trevor. Bauer was postponed to next month. After bowers legal team requested more time to prepare defense against witnesses and documents that claimed receive only recently. The judge set aside august second third and nineteenth for the hearing which is expected to take between two and three days bowers administrative leave expires on tuesday but major league baseball can extend it once again with consent by the major league baseball players association during this administrative leave. Bauer is paid. Certainly at this point With this case now backed up into mid august. He starting to bump up against a calendar as to whether or not he appears on baseball field again in two thousand twenty. Want when you think of the best of the best in sports journalism who do you think of. I think of tim bontemps rain banks here at. Espn michael kara of the new york. Post rachel accident from usa today. And of course. Adrian woke morowski of.
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"I guess we should start with the documentary. Tell us more about what what we're going to see their what the reason was for the documentary. And give me all the particulars. Okay said the number one reason for the documentary was to continue to spread the word and get the word out about warriors heart in about the struggles that our veterans and first responders that population firefighters. What they experience so that that was that was really the why behind it then And then we captured it with the warriors heart story which is is pretty rare. Rica's it's a little bit behind the scenes of we have staff members that are on there that tell their stories and also what we do that that connect the dots. You know 'cause we talk a lot about veteran issues like hey how do we actually go about. You know what goes on behind behind closed doors per se you know with the actual treatment. Most people don't even really know what that means. And what what treatment means. Yeah yeah we gotta talk about that but keep going with this population For those that know this the population that we treat here is primary diagnosis chemical dependencies with co occurring conditions. Pt s more grief injury although buffet that we know that we all have and But that's with the active duty. Veterans offers responders. Emt's law enforcement that whole group and there's a lot of them have the same specific something from just a curiosity from a treatment. Standpoint is mixed gender or do you have to separate its makes gender obviously separate for the for the housing aspect of whenever it comes to the treatment modalities in everything that we do is together which it mimics the what they did on the profession. You know as far as working females males together you it always says that same dynamic
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"It was definitely considered more kinky. It was unnatural. It violated a more religious times. Moral construct. more likely what you weren't getting you weren't getting this from your from your wife or your girlfriend in fact girls would develop bad reputations if they did this horrible thing so if you wanted this weird thing oral sex it was it was just more expensive. It was a niche fetish and specialty wide. As the prostitution industry evolved. A number of things changed for one. A you could do this in the back of a car. Easier as a prostitute. You didn't have to go get a room. You could also. It was just capitalism supply and demand free market. You could have more men jump into the or you can jump into the backseat of more cars and do this. Act per hour then. Having to go book a room get undressed. Go through that whole process shower so naturally you could have more clients per hour you could charge less for it and the industry changed and it became something that was fairly normalized but even in early porn it. It's sometimes didn't take place at all or if it did. It was a precursor to the party. It was not commonplace and it has. It has become now to a point where it's almost something that you do without losing your virginity without giving anything up a partner can now do this For their partner and still feel like they haven't gone all the way right. I mean i'm doing these cliche bonilla terms but now it's just a saying and progressed as a fifty one year old. I can tell you firsthand. The way women perform oral sex has evolved. Thank you porn thing. Hugh porn for educating ed entire generation of of women that it's not about leaking the tip of the penis with the tongue three or four times before penetration. Yeah and the way. It's depicted in porn has come a long way because there was a standard porn blow job for a very long time where it's like suck the had worked the shaft with your hand and that's what it was and the guy act like this was the bees knees right by the way. Maybe it was back then because if that was the extent of what oral sex was then. This probably was a big deal. Yeah whatever you can do to keep the woman from gagging because coggins a bad thing right.
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"Trust when when we talk like this is that it's not just me not leaving because you tell me something it's me. Proactively reassuring you how okay. It is right. Do you agree. Yeah the thing about trust and honesty and jealousy and all these. They're not in a bubble there. There's two people in a relationship and it is both sides stereotypical argument you think of a couple of having where one person says well. Why don't you trust me and it's possible that the other person has trust issues but it's also the person it's possible that person that says why don't you trust me. They all also have created an environment where the person can trust you. Can't you can't fail. we all fail. But it's it's creating plainfield where this can exist. It has to be. It has to be that way i mean. Most people are guarded to some extent. Like i'm on the far side of the spectrum as far as extending trust but even that's not a blank check for every single person. I just tried to be a trusting person. It's still not open to everybody. There are still situations where. I have to have to see it before. I feel it but i will extend the trust automatically. But i'll do it with doubts. It's a tricky one downs. It's it's a two person dance right. So how does that carry over into a ds relationship. Is it different because of our power dynamic very much so because i have to by nature of my need to submit trust that you're going to provide what i'm needing so i can't fail you areas where you have given a power right. That's a big part of this because the dot com has a big responsibility. I think the submissive often has a harder job because it's harder to let go and give control but there's more work involved on the downside because wants to the sub. Let's go to. Tom has to do the work i mean. I think it's harder personally. I think it would be harder to be smacked on the ass with a cane until i was purple and wealthy. I think that's a lot harder than creating a scene but there's certainly more work involved in creating the scene. The sub does just have to take it right have to mentally. Take it and give it up. I'm not suggesting that it's easy but there's more work involved On my end. But that's also the.
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"Okay well that would've pulled you in a little closer to me because now you're close to going with me. I know full well that it's going to be six months before we're going to go but i didn't lie to you i didn't say to you we're leaving next week. I could smoke up your ass. I didn't want to do that. I wanted to establish establish our relationship as being based on reality. I also expected the same from you and you had said that's hard right. Not that you're liar or a dishonest person. I'm.
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"Hey i wanna talk to you about. Let's renegotiate this money thing. Because i i. I have an idea. And she said sure we can renegotiated and he says the following day. There's been no argument. He says you know what i would like to be involved and have a say over larger purchases. I don't want to micromanage what you do on the day to day but whenever either one of us wants to spend more than five hundred dollars. I think we should make that a team decision where we go over the books together to see if we can afford it and i wanna have a same. At which point she can either say. I don't think it's a good idea negotiate or she can say. I think that's fine so next time that comes up we can do that so now the following month when he says he wants to buy a boat and she says we can't afford it he can say well this plot the checkbook and look i wanna show i wanna see where the money's going but in the goshi asian happened independent of him yielding control. And that's why there's no argument but it's also why he's not a doormat and he doesn't not have a voice or an opinion he he. It's a structure of how it's going to be negotiated in a way like that scenario. I just gave. I can't imagine that turning into an argument If it's handled that way but i wanna tv. We can't afford it. That's an argument. Wait to happen so eventually somebody feels denied what they want. Long enough it. It just snowballs in escalates in other ways it doesn't mean ours they start talking about it will. I don't even get tv. When i want one you don't like it. Just there's so many ways that that can go wrong though with our relationship. And i think we're going to have to go onto a podcast number two to talk about the bedroom. So let's wrap this up within the first hour and then we can do episode two bedroom submission because that's independent like we said it's different but in our relationship because we've defined this. I'm in control of all these things. I relieve in colorado. And i've told you that we're going to tennessee to go caving in you think that's really fun because had handed you atlas and said where do you think we should go next. You would have been like. I don't want to make that decision. I just wanna go someplace fun. Take me someplace. So i may control. We're gonna re all tell you when we're leaving we're going to go. We're gonna. we're gonna drive there. I'll tell you when we're stopping for the night. I mean control over all these things that you've yielded however throughout the day. It's not it's it's a twenty four seven because we're always in power dynamic but throughout the day things will come up. That are not my area control. And i never questioned. You never have a say over that right right so just because we're in this master slave dynamic that only applies to those areas that you have agreed to give me. I am not in control of anything. You don't want to give up control over. In fact if i try to control something that you do not want to give up control under. I think that becomes abusive. I think that's what abuses would you agree So that's gonna look a lot different to people as well especially when you throw around words like master slave. You think that means that you're just going to every single thing. I say i always get get my way and i can't stress this enough. I only get my way in areas where you have agreed that you want me to get my way nothing that you haven't so is there anything else related to the story that you wanna add. I think that about covers it. I don't think we need a separate topic for. We talked about talking about relationship. Ds bedroom ds. And then you specifically. I don't think we need to. Because i think there was enough up where we like. We injected your specific side of it while still talk in broad. So i'm bedroom stuff is basically just that you agree to be the receiver of the sensations in bullets talk about that. Because there's i think there's another rabbit hole to go down about. What a submissive. Why someone wants to submit the bedroom habitat. That's could seem strange because in a traditional sense you. Most people want sex. A certain way they like certain sensations or activities positions clothing. The room. you're in the music you listen to. I think most traditional people like sex a certain way the idea of not getting it. The way you want would seem foreign. I think we can. We can do a deep dive. Okay so let's jump to skip ahead episode two..
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"Going to let anything happen. That would pull us apart. And then we get to pursue little poly-amorous we're all the relationships are kings and all these other things up into a point were if any of them threatened us. You have trusted me to make the decision. That will protect us. And i will. And i don't think in all poly-amorous relationships that really is the protecting. The connection isn't even part of a lot of other relationships. And i don't mean this in a bad way but the last woman that has with before i moved back here when she got into relationship with somebody else i was simply happy for her and stop texter and had left her But i wasn't. There was no point. Was i going to protect our connection. Protecting my connection with her would have met trying to harm their relationship. ultimately protecting my connection with the opposite of what i would do with her right and in a protecting every connection. I know you protect your connections with your friends But but not really your friends are also free to get married and not have time for you and move away. And you don't sabotage them in order to keep them in town or sabotage their relationship so they have more time with you. I would be incredibly unhealthy for money to do that with so we've also in a sense to connection. You loved him and care for them and you could. You can have all these wonderful things about relationship. But that connection isn't necessarily protected the way a husband and wife will protect connection. I mean in a traditional monogamous relationship. Your husband wife had come before each other's parents she come before each other's sisters and brothers and friends and coworkers other than kids. You protect that marriage above all else if you wanna have a good relationship and so we have some of those elements that we've i think we've probably borrowed them from the monagas world but that's that's what we're doing. We have a monogamous components of this relationship in some ways right like we come first and we've even talked about that if if i have a relationship with someone outside of you. That's my relationship with them if you have a relationship outside of me that's your relationship with them but if someone if a woman joins our relationship she is entering our bubble Right ultimately she that's role she's in now. Ironically though we have what we have talked about is that in the right situation we could have an equal try relationship with the right personality. Volve in to that but that is not in some unicorn hunting way where they have to have. I don't know what i mean is is that ultimately we can have a relationship that is balanced and equal. And like we haven't ruled that out anymore than we've ruled out monogamy or any other like we're free tomorrow to choose where this goes But that isn't something seeking some when we meet someone together. We'll be somebody together. We are making wonderful connection in loving somebody. But it's still our bubble that they're joining if that makes sense makes sense in my mind. I don't know if it translates to words. But i mean that's the rule. I mean you feel the same way right in that. Anybody who joins our relationships would not be welcome if they're if they are divisive with any of the other partners so no that's actually true with anybody else and that's where nydia structure you've given me control over that if i find something in that relationship that's not healthy for us that prison is no gray area ultimately if you by the way that doesn't even mean intentionally if somebody enters into our world and all of a sudden we aren't having the relationship we're having now. It doesn't matter if that person did nothing wrong. we're also gonna. They're not going to be a part of this. But i don't think it's it's not intentional but if we meet a good caring loving person that doesn't have those qualities that they're not going to harm our relationship if if we're not doing good because of their existence there's something about them even if it's unintentional bit needs to just not be part of world we've said like the the whole goal. Is that the people that we meet. Their life should be better because we're in an hour should be better because they are in hours so for not better because they're in it than did relationships all need to be reassessed. So so we're gonna protect connection So were honest so we can deal with reality Right and also protect everybody's heart in the process protect everybody's heart and we can do that while still protecting our relationship above everything else. Do we have any other rules. That don't fall underneath that umbrella because after we've have laid the groundwork for that you call who you want your text to you want if if it weren't for covid met someone right now web drive you over and drop you off. If you want to him or you'd probably invite me over. I would probably you know. But if i didn't feel like going you would be required to stay here. We don't have any those types of rules. we don't have time limits. We don't have numbers. we don't have anything. we just have to always ask those three questions with africa. Yeah works for me. Is that work for you. I think it's rather nice. I think we're doing okay. You think we'll make it. I guess we'll find out yet. Check with us in two years if the podcast is still going than than our philosophy as has worked for us. If if we're single might email addresses kink buffet g mail dot com. Wait wait wait. Who gets the email if we split up on now but the nice thing about is the great thing about being about our poly-amorous world is if for some reason you met someone that was a fit than me. You would not be poly-amorous. I would still be in your world..
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"Unfair. You have not been wronged when you feel this pain. It just sucks balls the medical term. That's not unfair. Painting unfair. Pain is the type pain that has caused or something was done maliciously but unfairly not even intentionally but without regard to intent for shorter. Will the intentional one would be someone cheating on you right. Someone cheats on you. I i can tell you in my experience. I've had two parents die. I've had friends die. I've been through two divorces. I had a couple women. I was in love with me and that was the most painful thing i've experienced in life. It was more painful for me than my parents dine. Some people might find that strange but that was my worst moment and a big part of it is that it was unfair. I didn't deserve to feel what i was feeling and and it was also avoidable. The person didn't need to do that. Someone breaking up with you or not returning your love when you feel that way towards them. That's unavoidable in the sense. That what he wanted to do. Stick around or what do you want him to do. Automatically marry you just because you feel that way towards them. No i mean. It was avoidable when those things happen to me. That's unfair that type of pain can be avoided a another one would be somebody misleading leading you early in a relationship and turn out to be different than what they they showed right right there they appear to be really sexual and then next thing you know you're married and it turns out there. They really weren't that into sacks. Yeah a person who appears to be career driven and then you get you move in with them and then all of a sudden they quit their job and play video games all day and you go. Whoa wait a second i was. I moved in with someone working their way up the corporate ladder with that. I was going to build a future around in it turned out. That's not who you were. I consider that unfair pain right. Right It's avoidable and it's unfair that you were put in that position. It came from a point of dishonesty. Anything starts in dishonesty is unfair pain right and it's very common. I mean you meet people in the world and everybody's got their kind of mask on and you kind of go through life the more you know them. The eventually mask slips and you know hopefully. It's not something that's so such a tenant of your your relationship that it totally disrupts the whole thing. But we'll i'll have the times. It is and i think part. I'm sorry i. I think a little bit of that is a little bit is part of. That's part of dating. I mean we're going to shave before her first date that we might not shape before the fifth. You're selling you're selling yourself. A little bit of that is okay. I remember a funny story. I had a friend who told me she was married and she was having problems marital problems and she told me and she was just complaining about him and she's like yeah she goes. You know the first time we had sex the second done you know he did. He rolled off of me. Went out to living room. Got high and watch star trek and part of me thought how wonderful he told you from minute one that that's what he was going to do after sex. If you didn't like that then that you knew right off the bat. Because she was complaining that that's kind of the way he is now. And i'm like what more could you have done than to do that. The very first time right right the guy was honest. Nothing wrong with that for sure. Okay chose to ignore it so when it comes to poly-amorous that's what i think is as long as there's no. Unfair pain happening as long as nobody's being misled as long as there's an honest representation of what to expect then. I don't think it's not to nobody gets hurt. But when i was traveling if someone develops feelings for me is long as they knew exactly who i was. How a moving my life. That's as far. I mean that's as much as i can do right. You can't control that. They develop feelings. But you are front that the limit is set. Probably not gonna feel that way. And you've seen this because you've got to know some other partners and you exact same thing happened with you When when we met we were going to be here for four days. And i told you i may not ever come back. That's it like this is what you get if you're okay with getting me for four days and that's keeping a relationship is is traveling texting and when i'm in town to stop by and l if we really hit it off you can fly out and see me once in a while but you never once. I'm asking you that. I ever give you the impression that offering more than what i gave. Now i fully expected. I wasn't going to see you. I think i've said that a couple of times. And that's why when i traveled. That's what what happened. And the challenge of honestly was was. When i was traveling i would get less sex that way Because i would tell everybody looked i'm tomorrow. I'm leaving in two days. I may not be back if it is. It'll probably be next year and there were plenty of women who said i just. That's not enough for me. That's not enough there. There were also some who's thought. Oh my god that's great. You mean we can just have red hot monkey sex for two days. And then i don't have to deal with it. There was some who thought that was great. But i just i put all the table every single time without exception i was so clear and then if it didn't work and we still do that. We we still doing as we're meeting new people. The expectations are right away. Like there is another person involved in my life. You're not going to be my husband. What if your partners. The one that i got to know that was taken to an extreme and i've also done the exact same thing so on top of this one thing that we agree on and i'm speaking for you. Tell me if. I got this wrong. I don't think i do but one thing we agreed on. Is that even what i just said. As far as letting the person know. The situation still isn't enough. That's still not protecting their hearts. If we feel as though the person can't handle this if i feel like even though i've told you this just based on the way you're looking at me or the way you're talking to me or your description of past relationships if i know you're still getting hurt even though you're saying to me that sounds good i don't want commitment anyways and like i'm off the hook because i was honest i could go ahead and just bury my head in the sand and.
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"As but what they would do the part of the convention that makes it different than when the real estate brokers of america get together or whatever is that they have a huge open space for playtime at night and it's eight. It was a huge open room and you had to get past security. They made sure you'd like you didn't have phones with you because you couldn't take pictures it was. You know checking your i to make sure your age but when you go back to this place space anybody that wanted to not even sure they charged for this anybody that wanted to got to either like ten by ten or ten by twenty space. I think whatever you wanted that was your space and what you do in. That space is huge room. There's there were dozens and dozens of thirty or forty different people playing. But what you do in that space for all intents and purposes is doing the thing that you do with your partner in their own home or you do in in a in a play space with someone you play with and so you have one person who's tied to a chair being spanked and then you have another person who's having some really sophisticated rope bondage being suspended on a hoist and there's another place base where this fetish taking place so that finishes taking place and it's really cool because number one. You get to actually do this thing that you probably don't want any of your friends or co-workers our family to know about so it's this private thing you get to now do in a public setting where you to. No one's going to shame you forward judge for like it's almost like coming out of the closet for some people i think when they get to play publicly because in the real world. Oh my god. Don't let anybody find out this weird thing you and your partner do right. 'em further exhibition. The crowd just wanna watch but everybody playing for the most part is open to someone asking questions. So you're networking with other people that are into your fetish and people just have questions. They're curious about it and they're like hell it's fun. How do you get where you buy that. And you know it's the full gamut and it's just this is great open where everybody's just their sexuality their kingston on display so. There was some pretty intense stuff going on. You've been to enough public spaces. It can get intense. You got doing stuff with needles that unless you love needles. You don't wanna see i. I saw the first show. I saw people putting hooks through their skin. And i don't mean fishhooks. I mean big old thick hooks being tied to ropes and being swung around I saw One woman who actually was sitting in a on a chair. She's just wearing nothing but her bottoms and she's sitting a challenge stool in a little kiddy pool and a woman standing behind her was wearing nothing but bottoms either and she was using a razor blade to carve on her back to carve a picture on her back. Doing carving and the kiddie pool was because it was incredibly bloody. It wasn't i to me. I'm not into that wasn't sexy but it was fascinating to watch. I love watching that like watching it and it was just interesting to watch. So here's some all this really really intense stuff going on and one. The things i saw was this woman and a man and he was just covering her with her naked. True standard naked covering her with clothes pins and consensual. They're adults though there. But i looked at her and my first thought was. She's abused now. I'm sorry. I'm not trying to judge down. I can't maybe. I'm completely wrong but the feeling i got from them was that she didn't want to be there. She was probably like afraid of him. She it. i'm sorry. I got what mike told me. That was non consensual. What well we're surrounded by way more heavy painful intense stuff going on. But i just kept walking by them and just nothing about it felt good then tuesday gastric park consent or it have to like enthusiasm could be. During their negotiation part. The person could be like a zombie when it actually happened doesn't mean they're not enthusiastic about doing it No it was just. It was just a gut feeling the same way when someone talks to you. Don't trust them or someone else you know just looks over at you and smiles and you realize that you could trust that person with your life like you just you get a gut feeling from people and by the way. I'm not judging their right to do this. They're grown up adults but it didn't feel consensual than feel i didn't know about it. Just just did like it. And what i what. I realized eventually that that's what it was by the way even if it was fleet consensual. I'm not saying it wasn't. I felt it wasn't so therefore because that's how it seemed to me. It didn't feel good yet. I don't think she said no. She wasn't pleading with people to make him stop it just. It seemed like she was being manipulated. She seemed like an abused situation. Seemed like somebody who never wanted to be put on display in front of a bunch of people. She wasn't getting off on the humiliation. She was in in a relationship. She didn't feel like she to say no. And i got all this without her saying words so i could be completely full of shit. But the point is consensual. Didn't mean the non consent to me mean she said no. It means it wasn't right interesting. Yeah that's my theory. Based on nothing. I could be totally wrong. Frawley no she. She's the one who talked him into coming during a tour. And i'm just bullshit. Well it's it's a it's a hard place to be when you see stuff like that. To seen scenes get interrupted because a rooftop who knows their bottom allows limb to get a little too purple for the audience or something like that like if they know their partner and there's communication going on like i don't know it's it's it's hard to tell what to do so yeah although i wasn't going to do anything yeah i i'm still of the opinion that she is a grown adult can make decisions for herself. I don't think because she's a woman she's capable of being strong or independent or these things. So i don't i would never tell anybody else. They can't make those choices for themselves. I just know how it made me feel. And that's that's all. It was so anything else about about consent. I think we got it. So if you have opinions about this episode please feel free to send us an email and keith buffet at g. dot com or reach out to us on our social media on the contacts are on king buffet dot com and by all means like i always say. Please tell us if you think we're on. I mean. I want to hear from people who say that i'm wrong. I am open to being wrong are open to reevaluate every single opinion. I have share. Tell me tell me that. I didn't get it right and and i'm not gonna dismiss you because it disagrees with me. I'm going to listen to what you say. We may even batted around on a future podcast and we will validate your opinion and then may or may not conclude. We agree with you. But that's okay but we will consider it until next time bye..
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"I won't be playing with that person in the funniest like you said to you the last thing. You have a problem. With being big exhibitionist. I probably was gonna be like stripped down naked anyway but as soon it's like we've never recorded a podcast where you were wearing clothing. Welcome to the in behind the broke the the here. We are not professionals in one studio all right so freely given means free of coercion coalition. Sound mind and in a state of mind. Rica make those decisions all right. The next one is reversible okay. Reversible in kink is like well the obvious one is safe. Words obviously safer. I simply means consent does not matter. The level of consented has given that consent exists up until and only until the moment the the bottom to stop. Well yeah people can say. Stop but we'll say stop but you're but when the top the top can doesn't have to say stop they just stop but the scene stops. This is no different than something that happens. You hear about this. You know the the frat houses or you hear about this at the date rape stories. You hear about this by stories does not mean made up. I'm saying when people speak about things like that this. There's this misconception that wants. The person can send you to follow the student completion. The per person has a right to stop. What's happening any moment right. You argue with that. You're full of shit. You're wrong right. Consent is that's black and white. I've consented and by the way i can consent you as a bottom can consent to doing a whole scene that does not mean you cannot change your mind right. That's what a safer would be if you go too far. You shouldn't have to save out. One of the misunderstandings about safe. Words is safe. Words are not necessary to stop a scene right. The reason for safe words. The i i don't know if it's the origin but the the classic use of say ford is when you're playing with nonconsensual role plays the idea. Is that a husband and wife for example. Wanna do a rape fantasy where he's going to break into the house and he's going to rape her and she wants someone to break into the house and raipur not in real life but in the fantasy and so while he's doing it she say no no no stop and he keeps going and then she says no seriously i mean stop and he keeps going she says no i'm telling you to stop and he keeps going and then afterwards she says what the fuck duke was that i told you to stop. He says right we are doing fantasy kind of how could i have known what that meant. Well you have a safe word you say pineapple. It's a way of saint. Pineapple means this is part of the fantasy. Okay so so people. Get this miss Misunderstanding that when you're doing abd sets emceeing. You must say you're safe where to stop right. The reality is stopping. Stop unless you've agreed. That stopped doesn't mean. Stop a stop wave doing. It's hurting i mean. Do you agree with that. Yes okay so you're doing a scene of doing impact seen and you tell the person to stop what they're doing right. That's unless you agree. That stopped means keep going stop. Wingstop no means no right. I i most most commonly preferred not to use a safe word. I use natural language. Because i'm communicating with whoever's playing with me at that time is they're using an implement on me that i just don't like the feel of that time i'm going to ask them to switch it doesn't i don't have to say oh yellow. I needed different. Implement you know like right. It's just silly. I can just use my words because i'm a big girl and i'll tell you what i need. We'll just because you're a big girl though. You could be in a state of mind where that could be more difficult right. And that's safe. Words will exist. But i always negotiate use of natural language. Now this is where this is imperative for dom keep saying dumb top. We always overlap. Those words a lot of people do right. But i think if you're listening you know what i mean. The person doing the impact for example This is where their actual your character could be tested because the person gives consent. And you understand that it's reversible but maybe because of the senior doing they can get to a state where maybe they're nonverbal. They can't speak well if they can't speak. They can't freely give consent. Well they they. They gave consent but they can't. They don't have the ability to stop it. It's not reversible. So they can't stop it and that is a position where the top if they could get away with it. It's a judgment call on your part it's a judgment call but if you are a good human being and a good person you're going to use your judgement you're gonna. You're going to stop the scene anyways and check in the thing about the consensus. You aren't blowing the scene. If you're if you're a new dom you're not blowing the scene if you stop and say hey are you are you. Are you doing okay and the person can answer you wait. He doing okay. The person could comes down a little bit and they say yes. I'm fine keep going. You trump back in you. Haven't you haven't broken the mood right and rope tops. Do this all the time nonverbal like even sometimes like they can definitely come up and say you know. Does everything feel good is attention is right but you can even just come over and squeeze a hand and as long as you're getting you know good pressure back in you know what's within the range of normal for your bottom then you're probably ok to keep going. You've seen it in wrestling right. The what does he call. The referee umpire. Whatever his name is he comes over and he's like is this person really hurt or is this. Yeah yeah and you. And you've communicated.