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Votto power surge leads Reds rally for 9-5 win over Pirates
"The Reds erased a five run deficit and beat the pirates nine to five to stay three games behind the cardinals for the second NL wild card Joey Votto tied the game in the fifth with his second Homer of the night and a U. any us war is followed with the go ahead shot the cast Jana drove in three runs home home by five and then being able to come back in player baseball play good defense put together a two out rallies opening coming in and lights out really Kyle farmer also went deep for Cincinnati the Reds over came back to back homers by Yoshi to sugo and Brian Reynolds in the first inning so to go also hit an RBI single in Pittsburgh's three run third I'm Dave Ferrie
Fresh update on "brian " discussed on Juicy Scoop with Heather McDonald
"We've been covering some recaps of your favorite shows. And what's juicy about them. And then i've got a great interview with a woman named gee-gee who has been exposing the biggest social influencers and their inauthentic inauthentic and actual shady and it's very fascinating and very juicy. So i get into some very sad news. We have been following this case. Peter knighted juicy crimes on my patriot. Dot net click on patriot on how to join. I did a very in depth Episode about the missing gabby petito. This is all anyone is talking about. It's so sad. She's twenty two. According to all the new sources. Her there was a body matching her description that was found last night in the tetons. Which is the last place she said she was when she last book to her mother via facetime Which I think was the last time than anyone really saw her. Not just getting a text message was august. Twenty fifth Quick summary of this story. If you're not familiar there's a young couple. They're both twenty two they at one time or engaged but then decided they were too young but still love and the renovated a van and they were traveling all this summer. Going to different parts of utah and parks in being that cute like van life hashtag ban life couple and he came home on september first without her but with her van and the parents were unaware of that the parents of gabby and finally after texting their daughter not hearing from her texting brian and not hearing back from him. Or bryant's parents. They then realized that he had been home without her and filed a missing report about cabbie september eleventh so since september eleventh. This story has just fascinated so many people like myself and about their relationship. What happened his his strange behaviour. Your however right away he got a lawyer and he was not talking to police. Now is you know. I can understand why anybody that's follows true crime or any kind of dateline. Whatever it's more to get a lawyer right off the bat if your significant other goes missing but what people didn't understand is why he wasn't just saying something through his attorney like the attorney coming forward and going they got in an argument on this day. This was the last time you saw her. She said she was going to get her own place and take by van. Leave me alone. And he thought she was fine but now that she's not responding to anybody. The last i saw was in this location may go look for her. The fact that he didn't do that made everybody realize will. Why wouldn't you just share you at least a little bit of a radius of where would last. You saw her Which made us think. Yeah he killed her and did something with her body or whatever so they arrested him. They said he was a person of interest he had this attorney and then on. I think it was friday. Night is when people are standing outside of his house of it. Which is his parents house in florida and they said the police had taken the van which was immaculately clean and the fbi was now going into the house so the news broke all my god. They're going into the house so obviously they're going to get some evidence or hopefully arrested him or whatever no. They went there because the family of brian contacted them and said to the fbi. It's friday and we haven't seen or heard from brian. Since tuesday so now we are reporting him as a missing per said so we don't know what information with gathered for them to then go to the tetons and find this party body which has not been one hundred percent confirmed as she but i'm pretty certain that it is unfortunately did. The parents was a note that left that information for them to go find the body Is did parents know that he was going off. And kind of like turn their head and gave a running start is you know what is the story. And there's so many different theories and another horrible part about this crazy story is there was this this Couple of they married lesbians and they both were found shot multiple times at their campsite on october. I'm sorry on august thirteenth. And because brian and gabby had a domestic argument in which the police were called No one was arrested. That happened the day before this couple was found murdered in this very close vicinity altogether narrow. One police have said. There's no way that brian laurie. The boyfriend of gabby is any way related or is missing related to these two women being killed. But i don't believe that. I sometimes think that police put that out there. Just to keep the theory like squash the theories or try to keep these investigations clean But it's very weird and it. It's it seems strange but there's no report that either one either gabby or brian had guns. Were familiar with guns. Were driving around with a gun and these women unfortunately were murdered with guns and nobody knows what happened to them and But it's just crazy and you know so many people kinda doing these like youtube in life work couple. I mean it's just it's just terrifying for everybody involved at Like i said. I went further in on my patriot this weekend because the news was just so pressing and so again. We do not know where. Brian is at this time. We don't know who is the killer of gabby or these two other women and The story is just you know fascinating and scary and sad but Unfortunately like you know she has been found. But you know thank god they have a little bit of closure Yeah it's just a you. Just wonder what the parents were thinking. Did he lie to them. Did he confess to them did. There's a theory. There's all these different facebook groups and there's a post that someone sent me from another facebook group that there is a theory that because their domestic argument fight which was reported by the police body cameras about her being upset. Saying i have ocd. And i'm afraid that he That brian was gonna leave me here. And that's why left and try to get into the car and that's what the person witnessed and called the police. They wanted this crazy. Theories is did she. In fact come upon him talking to the two women thinking that he was gonna leave her freak out shoot the women and then he covered up for her. I do not believe that theory at all that makes no sense. The other one is did he accidentally you know they got into another argument and he locked art van and he did. He accidentally run her over and then panic and try to hide the body and leave Who knows i mean. Hopefully there's some type of information some type of answer which led to the police and the fbi finding gabby body so our prayers are with her family and an. We really hope that. We find brian to and we also hope we find the killer of the the the couple the two women that also died..
FBI searches Florida home of Gabby Petito's boyfriend
"The FBI executed a search warrant in total weight a Mustang at the family home of Brian Landry wanted for questioning after a body was found the thought to be that of his girlfriend van life blogger Gabby potato out side the family home of Brian Landry a person of interest in the disappearance of Gabby potato a crowd of reporters huddled under umbrellas on a neighbor's lawn exactly I agents came in and out of his parents home with boxes of evidence at least a dozen agents and police officers converged on the home a day after authorities discovered a body believed to be hers on the edge of Grand Teton National Park Landry's whereabouts are still unknown in an interview broadcast Monday on the Dr Phil show Gabby's father Joseph potato said Landry and his daughter had dated for two and a half years and there were no problems during a previous road trip to California Patino said Landry's family was complicit by protecting him he says he wants later to be held accountable for whatever part he played in Gabby's disappearance I'm Jennifer king
Body Believed to Be Missing 22-Year-Old Gabby Petito Is Found
"By. It was a tragic update yesterday. The fbi said human remains found at a national forest in wyoming were consistent with the description of gabby petito the florida woman who went missing during this big cross country road trip with her twenty. Three year old fiancee. His name is brian laundry. Who returned home without gabby this. Fbi agent charles jones foremost on behalf of the fbi personnel and our partners. I would like to extend sincere and heartfelt condolences to gabby family. Joe and tara. Petito and jim nicole smith as every parent can imagine. This is an incredibly difficult time for the family. Our thoughts and prayers are with them. We ask that you all respect the privacy as they mourn the loss of their teton county. Wyoming corner dr brent blue said an autopsy is scheduled for tomorrow and said officials would confirm the identity of the remains through photographs personal identification and dna earlier today.
What to Watch on TV Monday, September 20, 2021
"Ten night is the night dancing with the stars. The season premiere some of our favorites. Cody rigsby from pelivan. Taking the stage. Mel sees taking the age more. Brian austin green. Joe joe joe see wa. She is going to be having a same sex partner and that has never happened before dancing with the stars. So that'll be a first time for that. She's going to do it. Cody should do it. To see your right code. He should do it to agree hundred percent. Ncis the season premiere. There's so many people excited about that. The voice the season for me. If you are just fan of television tonight is a good night. Because there's a lot of season premieres
Gabby Petito: Timeline of Missing Woman's Cross-Country Road Trip
"Let me tell you. Notice story about of gabby petito in her boyfriend bryan laundry. Do you feel you and this is why if you have daughters stories like this is the reason why call my daughter three or four times a day right now. Gabby petito and brian laundry boyfriend girlfriend notch normal boyfriend and girl from them have my anxiety going through the roof the zion a little bit so they were kind of like no matter where they would rent truck they would drive all over the country. They would take pictures. They would do blogs right so the fact that she didn't speak to her mother in a couple of days was normal. So you know after a week. Mom said look. I haven't spoke to my daughter what's going on. It was just weird so she reached out to the boyfriend bryan laundry. He didn't answer his phone. He didn't call her back. Seem pretty way called family than in a family would answer So she filed a missing persons report like she should've after filing a missing persons report. Police went to brian laundries house which is out in florida family's house and when they asked. Hey you know wisdom young lady Blog you travel world together. What's going on. They gave him the lawyers number. He got into loyd new to me. They're ready lloyd. Up gave molloy all calculated of leaving the question. He already added lawyer ready. Okay bass right has made him a person of interest kind of weird right you give number. You don't say what happened. They're not talking at all now. His girlfriend is missing his young ladies missing. She's from long island the away. Nobody says nothing. So now they find his body over the weekend in a wyoming on national forest park that they believe the remains are hers so now they believe he's a person interested in now. They can't find him he got. They don't know what he's he's more than a person of interest in. I mean i guess you got the. He's still a person of interest for legal purposes but clearly he's a suspect at this point as the same thing right person interest suspect. I don't know yeah. So a tic tac claims she was a drive-in and brian laundry hitchhiking. He jumped in a car and as they were saying they will go into that same. We call her tucker that. That's that's so insane. I thought i referred are referred to ask taco they said her name is miranda miranda bake- baker said her and her boyfriend seen him he was hitch-hiking he jumped in a car and said hey we go into the park with remains found not that popular with going to the park and he's got crazy jumped out the car and ran off. They said that deal. That was weird but now they're realizing that was probably weird. 'cause that's probably where he knew. The body was lord. Have mercy so i hope they catch him
FBI Believes Remains of Gabby Petito Have Been Found
"Say a body discovered. Sunday in wyoming is believed to be gabrielle. Gabby petito who disappeared while on a cross country track with a boyfriend who has been identified by authorities as a person of interest and is now being sought within a florida. Nature preserve the f. b. said the body was found by law enforcement agents who had spent the past two days searching campgrounds. The cause of death has not yet been determined said f. b. i. supervisory special agent charles jones full forensic identification has not been completed to confirm one hundred percent that we found gabby but her family has been notified. Jones said this is an incredibly difficult time for potatoes. Family and friends an attorney who has been acting as a spokesman for potatoes family asked in a statement that the family be given room to grieve attorney richard benson stafford indicated that the family would make a public statement at a later date and he thanked officials with the fbi. Grand tetons search and rescue and other agencies that participated in the search for petito. The family and i will be forever. Grateful stafford said in a statement. An undeveloped camping area on the east side of grand tetons bordering national forest land will remain closed until further. Notice while the investigation continues. Jones said jones said investigators are still seeking information from anyone who may have seen petito or brian laundry around the campsites. The same area that was the subject of law enforcement search efforts over the weekend but tito and her boyfriend laundry left in july on a cross country track and converted van to visit national parks in the us. West police said laundry was alone when he drove the van back to his parents. Home and north port florida on september first laundry has been identified as a person of interest and the case. He was last seen tuesday by family members in
Search for Gabby Petito Boyfriend Continues After Body Found
"A body found in Wyoming is believed to be the twenty two year old woman who disappeared while driving cross country with her boyfriend meanwhile the search for him continues in Florida FBI special agent Charles Jones says they believe it's Gabby potatoes body that was found Sunday in Grand Teton National Park but no cause of death has been determined human remains were discovered consistent with the description of Gabrielle Gabby potato full forensic identification has not been completed to compare confirm one hundred percent that we found Gabby but her family has been notified of this discovery he says an autopsy will be performed Tuesday boy from Brian laundry has been identified as a person of interest in the case police say he drove back from their cross country trip with out her and was last seen Tuesday by family members in Florida authorities are now searching the best preserved there for him I'm Julie Walker
The Gut-Brian Axis
"Now is a good time to go into the evidence surrounding something could the gut brain axes i guess kind of it is and why suddenly become not suddenly. I'm bane. i guess discovered why it's important. Yeah great ray. And it is so much in evidence around the gut brain access and what we do know from. The studies is that the gut brain axis is all these microbes have a two way communication between basically the entering nervous system of the gastrointestinal tract so alcott and the central nervous system. Which is the brain the vegas nerve and is referred to as the gut brain axis now. This communication occurs via the power sympathic nervous system which also is known as the rest and digest mode and this is the complete opposite response to our sympathetic nervous system. Which is that fight or flight mode which gets us ready. But the power sympathetic returns our body to the state of calm and rest whereas the sympathetic massive nervous system get the body ready for that fight or flee which can increase blood pressure breathing slowing down at digestion and take him blood and oxygen away to other parts of the body. So it's important that people know is this of two way. Communication almost like a highway caused going back and forth between the garden rain.
Search Resumes for Man Whose Girlfriend Disappeared on Trip
"Police in Florida continue to search for twenty three year old Brian laundry and I basked wildlife reserve he's a person of interest in the disappearance of his girlfriend Gabby potato on Friday a large family reported him missing before that investigators had no luck urging him and his family members to talk to them according to north port police spokesman Josh Taylor Bryan was not a suspect in a crime Brian was a person of interest in a missing person meanwhile the F. B. I.'s sounding for clues about but you know in a Wyoming National Park that's where she was when her family last heard from her the couple had gone on a cross country trip when investigators say laundry came back alone on August twelfth they were caught on Moab police body cam officers responding to a nine one one call of them fighting potatoes family on Long Island reported her missing September eleventh I'm Julie Walker
Search for Brian Laundrie Resumes After He Vanishes Following Girlfriend's Disappearance
"Morning the search will continue for a missing couple but the two are not believed to be together. Twenty two year old. Gabby petito disappeared during a cross country trip and now her fiance who is a person of interest in her. Disappearance is also missing multiple officers and the fbi Who are currently conducting a search of the vast carlton reserve for brian laundry. On friday. Northport police officers showed up to the landrieu residents said they spoke to the family at their own request for the first time since gabby petito was reported missing by her family.
Kelly Ties Rockne as No. 12 Irish Hold off Purdue 27-13
"Karen Williams scored two long touchdowns the second a fifty one yard run with six oh five remaining as twelfth ranked Notre Dame held off Purdue twenty seven thirteen Jack corn was sacked four times and struggled with his accuracy completing fifteen of thirty one passes for two hundred twenty three yards and two TV's Avery Davis led the Irish in receptions with five for one hundred twenty yards the victory was the one hundred fifth in Brian Kelly's twelve year career at Notre Dame tying him with legendary Knute Rockne is the winningest coach in school history I'm the ferry
What Is the Value of a College Degree?
"Hi brian. Thanks for coming on the newsworthy fisher. I appreciate it. So i let me just ask. What's your take on the value of a college degree in today's world. Shoot we wanna value in having that college degree but when it comes to employment and job opportunities in some ways it's becoming less valuable because of how competitive the labor market is become as you look up and down the labor market from not just hourly employees retail employees but salaried up and down the continuum what companies are finding is that there's not enough people for all of the jobs that they want to hire for so one. They're relaxing a lot of the historical constraints that they've had on the jobs that they're hiring for and that includes things like previous experience educational certifications and different degrees. That people have had so a lot of companies in particular across the last two or three years have been relaxing many of those constraints. The other thing that's going on is that for people that might have some of those degrees or experiences or whatever it may be. They're also able to ask for more money in the labor market so the other reason why companies are expanding their horizon of who to hire. Is that for people without college degrees. They're able to find that job and they're willing to extend an offer them. But perhaps at a slightly lower compensation level than people who do have a college degree
Miami Dolphins WR Will Fuller to Miss Buffalo Bills Game With Personal Issue
"Breaking news out of miami gardens. The miami dolphins will be without wide receiver willful or for sunday's matchup versus the buffalo bills. The team is calling it. A personal issue and brian flora's even when as far to say there was a possibility for may not suit up the rest of the season. Obviously a lot of unknowns. But what were your thoughts. Jake when you first heard this friday afternoon. Josh first and foremost i mean the seed blake first weekend forever where the dolphins were gonna have a completely clean injury report willful or was the only one who wasn't listed as a full participant in practice on both thursday and friday. But just i do have to say. I think we're kind of over-reacting about this. A little bit will fuller was in the building wednesday. I believe he was actually in the building thursday as well. I'm concerned for some things are bigger than football. I don't necessarily know. I mean ryan floors declined to say preston. Williams who is fully active is going to be playing on sunday. So i think that's more displays being bryant floors as much as odd. This is something that's gonna completely ruin season. I hope that isn't the case. I hope everything is all right for him and you know. We can't really speculate on too much by terms of what's happening on the field. It's gotta be a little disappointing to not see him out
Biden 'Making the Taliban Great Again'? Scott Wagner Thinks So and Put It on Billboards
"Brother-in-law reach out to me this morning and he said how do you see this story in fox news. I know the guy who did it. And i said really Well then connect us and he did so. Thank you on the main two brother in louisville full connecting us to a man who understands communications strategic communications former pennsylvania state senator delighted to have him on the show scott wagner welcome to america first after i much benefit. Seeing the fifteen bills you put up around pennsylvania. Ferret is thank you eric. So it's a photograph. I i'm not sure i'll have brian stelter if it's dr not. It is joe biden in a taliban outfit holding an rpg grenade-launcher with the sign making the taliban great again. I dread to think how much those fifteen billboards cost you. God bless you for doing it. Tell us why you did it. Scott while sebastian I have a political background I'm gonna be sixty six years old next week. I've been in business my whole life. This country has been great to me. we live in the greatest country and so to think that That our government our president left. Once i've course cues me Seventy five thousand vehicles five hundred aircraft all the weapons or the mission explosives night-vision equipment that kind of stuff. We left it for the taliban. And now i was actually just on the internet looking at images of over the last several weeks. The taliban soldiers fighters driving and riding in us are armored personnel carriers. Amazing that this is going on and somebody has to step up and say something. So it's mad this what we've done so we have. We have given The taliban in early christmas quite
Was Brian Laundrie The "Creepy Man" In The Van?
"So. I've got a theory that i'm going to drop her an idea and the only way that i can kind of spin this right now is just an idea from author mind. Meaning how. I would pen the fiction if i was taking this story and wanted to write. Write the book Right the write the script. And where would i go with it because the question is you know. Whereas she but was brian. Also the creepy man that was You know basically the there's a couple unit probably know about it. That was murdered in their bodies were found in august eighteenth female couple and they had said that. There's a creepy man who intimidated them and or they felt intimidated by. And that's pretty much. What what it was before. Their bodies were found and we know that on august twelfth. That is the time where they had left. The co-op brian and gabby and that's where the body cam footage that you're seeing with the cops. We also know about two days later. That female couple near moab at a campsite like a remote Place was Was killed and it was later revealed that it was multiple gunshots to the back to the side and their bodies. Of course we're found agassi eighteenth but there is record of one of them saying At least one of them saying that there was a creepy man quotes and that they felt intimidated quotes by that at now. The question is what cops are even saying. Right now is they're they're not eliminating that. Brian is a suspect not. He's a person of interest in the disappearance in the mercy missing persons cases of Gabby right now. but they're not saying That these two cases aren't you know possibly linked and my idea from the fiction Fish inside and not what. I'm actually saying that he did. But if i were to pen the fiction it would be that yeah. He is the creepy man near that campsite that he and the girlfriend made it to a campsite close by and when this guy started to rage and basically his relationship is unraveling is becoming not what it is seen on video but really unhappy that that the girlfriend is the one person for him and she feels the same way. There's a break-up something like that. But when he goes off wandering he sees a happy couple he sees a happy couple and these were newlyweds to female couple and he just rages over that fact because that's something that he can't get he wants and he can't convince the girl who's been his girlfriend for a couple years and now when they're enclosed quarters in the van things are different than what they are in the wide open space any
Bodycam: Gabby Petito Argued With Boyfriend Before Vanishing
"There is a nationwide search for a Florida woman who vanished while on a cross country trip in a converted camper van with her boyfriend twenty two year old Gabby potatoes boyfriend Brian laundry return to their Florida home in her van ten days before potatoes family reported her missing Todd garrison is the police chief in north port Florida two people went on a trip one person returned and that person that returned isn't providing this information police body camera video in Utah shows Petitot upset telling an officer she suffers from obsessive compulsive disorder that affects our behavior police considered her the aggressor father Joe potato wants his daughter back whatever you can do to make sure my daughter comes home I'm asking for that help there's nothing else that matters to me now but he does last known contact with family was late last month from Grand Teton National Park in Wyoming I'm a Donahue
The Latest on The Missing Case of Gabby Petito
"Thursday at noon eastern time guys again thursday at noon eastern time. Today the northport florida police department will be holding a press conference. There are multiple expected speakers and this includes the northport police chief todd garrison a representative of the fbi as well as a member of gaby's family were unsure if it is her mother or father that will be televised live and i assume they will be providing an update Like a status update on this case. Secondly as you'll hear in this episode there was a domestic dispute call that was made in moab utah on august twelfth. While gabby and bryan were making their trip. At the time of the recording there was no contacts no further information. All anyone knew that there wasn't a domestic dispute. I highly suggest if you were interested in this case you join the facebook group find gabby otherwise i will be posting the actual report on all of our social media channels as well. The context with the support is actually very very very important because when you hear domestic disturbance you pretty much usually think of one or two things right so basically what happened is on august twelfth. A police officer responded to domestic hall. Apparently someone witnessed a young couple fighting. They reported a man taking a woman by the mouth and pushing her. Obviously that was enough to warrant a phone call to the police right. The police pull over the van. Brian was driving. Gabby was in the passenger seat and she was very very upset and crying. I will let you read the full report by basically. Both gabby and brian agreed. That gabby was having mental health issues. They got into an argument. There trip had been straining their relationship. They were starting to have issues and she was scratching him She had slapped him grabbed him and he apparently pushed her away. That is the story that they both maintained. The officer arrived separated them. They maintain the same story He decided to de-escalate. Brian ended up staying in a hotel with police assistance. That evening gabby state in the van. They separated them for the evening and then they got back together and by all accounts they went on their way but again i will post this police report for that. It has finally been made. Public is definitely worth reading. And i don't think it's quite what any of us expected. But as of right now a little after midnight on thursday morning That is at so check out. The police report from the domestic call on august twelfth and then also to later this afternoon at noon eastern time there will be a press conference with a status update on this
Tapia's Tiebreaking Single in 10th Sends Rockies Over Braves
"Raimel Tapia furnished an RBI single in the tenth inning to give the Rockies a three two win over the Braves tapi is slated cuts the Braves lead in the NL east at three and a half games over the Phillies it was a tough night at the plate for Braves manager Brian Snitker steam we had a lot of situations head guys up that we want yeah was you know a lot of situations in our favor I thought just couldn't get a big hit the rocky scored twice in the fifth on Antonio Santa telus bunt single and Charlie Blackmon's bases loaded walk Eddie Rosario tied it in the bottom of the fifth with a solo shot Rosario drove in both Atlanta runs sends a tele allowed two runs and seven hits with no walks and seven strikeouts in six innings I'm Dave Ferrie
"brian " Discussed on Reply All
"Welcome back to the show. Okay so Monday morning. I get back on the phone with Brian Colon in from every song and he says hey so I went into our database. I looked at our Christmas playlist. We have eleven versions of. We wish you a merry Christmas in our database and Brian. Deane's is not among them. What yeah it was really weird on the Friday. He was like I recognize the song and on Monday. He was like. I don't know I guess I made a mistake because it's not there and I'm trying to think of possible reasons why that would happen. And he said that like one of the possibilities is maybe it is in our database is just not coming up in my searches you know. Is there the possibility that something happened with our systems? Something rogue happened and somebody uploaded a song and they got the artists the song title and some other things wrong in the Meta data entry. Sure it's just the whole cascading series of errors that would have to happen to kind of put a Phantom Song in there and get all the data wrong and then just to have ripped it off of Youtube in the first place which is something that we don't do the chances of that happening. It's kind of like a comet hitting a comet over your house right. So that's you know or or you know getting attacked by a shark and Grizzly bear the same day like it's you know it's not impossible and I can't sit here and say that it's impossible but I mean it really. I wrack my brain to think how it would be possible. So what's the other possibility? Well he also said like maybe it was never in our database at all. Maybe someone at a Kroger hacked into their their system and we're playing it off a CD. No but that's said that was as likely to bear attack. Yeah if you're going to hack into your corporate. I like his ability to rate probabilities. Millions according to horrific. If you're going to lake hack into like like when you have read every time had a retail job where it was like canned music and somebody like figure out how to get there and music on it wasn't to play like more seasonal hits like it was to play music that humans light. Listen I am so tired of this demon Martin Standard what. I really wanted to hack into from youtube players. You Merry Christmas so every song. Brian had like one last theory about what might have happened. Which at the time. I found very convincing. Which is then he just had like. Imagine yourself in brine shoes right. At the moment he walked into Kroger. You're in a grocery store a busy time of year. There's a lot of people. There's a lot of noise you know you're hearing bits and pieces. Maybe especially over the store speakers. Which sometimes aren't the best and you know stuff in the challenging environment. If you asked me to put money on it I would say you know this. It was probably a case of the song being this hurt in the store. It's difficult for me to say that I make music myself and it's difficult to say because you you know. If you'd asked me that question I would be one part of Barris. The one point. Maybe a little bit annoyed that you would ask the question in the first place. So he's saying it's like your clients mistake. Yeah what he's saying is like if you're in a circumstance where it's loud where your kids distracting. You like it's possible to miss hear your song and like sure. It's possible that Song Brian is lying to me and like I can't see their database and I have no idea whether he's telling the truth but like what's more likely. Is it more likely that ever song went on Youtube found a version of? We wish you. Merry Christmas. Like twenty-five views ripped it in violation of copyright law. Put it on their playlist to play and Kroger as all over the country and then Brian Deane just happened to walk into one as it was playing or is it more likely that he just misheard. The song like people miss here songs all the time also ever song. Brian told us that there is a version of. We wish you merry Christmas in their system. That does sound a lot like Brian. Deane's and he thinks that that is the likely hope bread. I don't know dude. I still just have a hard time imagining that. A musician would not recognize a song they recorded. I mean if it was an instrumental cover. It would make some sense to me but there was one thing that was nagging at me. Which is like do you remember how? I Talk to Allah. Brian's bandmates yeah one of them. This guy's AC. I asked him directly like. Do you think that Brian just could have misheard? His own song. Anzac was like honestly. Brian has one of the best ears of anybody that I've ever met. His ear is UNCANNY I can't imagine that he would be wrong. Brian like is the person who sends me clips of raised theme from Star Wars next to the emperor's themed show how they're how they're how similar and predicted the end of the Star Wars Movie. At least a little bit Based only on the musical themes from the first doors yes the soundtrack and and business on the recurring. Musical motifs came up with spoilers for the movie. Yeah what a lunatic insane so I just wanted to test Brian's ear like was he actually as good as that claimed he was. Now what you need to know about Brian. Is that beyond just star wars. He's like scores in general. Okay so I. I called up musician Brian and told him whatever song. Brian had told me that they couldn't find a song in the database and at first he was like really questioning himself. Do you think I'm crazy? I'm starting to think I'm crazy. And maybe all I mean a piano version with some drums and a base of We wish you merry Christmas may be sound similar. We aren't sure if you're crazy and we WANNA find out okay. So we have come up with a game that tests. How good you are at recognizing music. Oh Jeez and it will help us understand why you think that it was your song that you heard in the storm. Okay okay since I know that you are John Williams Fan and since Zach specifically mentioned your ability to pick out star wars music. I am going to play some star wars or not star wars music for you. Tell me if if it if it is from star wars or not we go. This is track number one star wars not stores..
"brian " Discussed on The Bacon Podcast | Brian Basilico - Marketing Strategy Expert Interviews to CURE Your Marketing
"Telecommuting. The things that could have been done in an email as opposed to a meeting are starting to be done in an e mail as opposed to a meeting We're figuring out how to zoom conference with one another one of the challenges though and this is this is an issue This is something. We're seeing education but also just seeing it in life in general is that there are issues with being able to read somebody's body language and really understand what they're saying when you communicating digitally when you're in a space with somebody your brain unconsciously subconsciously read so many cues about what their intent is and how they're thinking what they're saying to put context to what's going on and that's really hard to To See in a zoom conference. There's a big emotional toll that comes from that because our brains are working in overdrive with the sub-conscious reading and trying to figure out what's going on and so we're we're we're we're struggling with that and there's an emotional toll that can come from connecting online and we have to recognize the bed. Emotional toll is there and that. That's not the only way we should be connecting We don't want to move into a world where everything's in. Vr and the only way we ever connect with people is through a screen because there is that need for the connection the personal connection to be in the same space together. But in the meantime we can use these tools. That are so much better than they were before. Just think of what had happened if this happened. They making eighty s And how little connection? We would have with one another Think about the Spanish flu and the Challenges. They have their In just one hundred years ago the technology of today has certainly helped keep us socially connected even as we are physically distanced. Yeah that's great point. It's made a huge difference in the way that we can communicate. I mean we. We sat down played games with our kids. I mean it just. It's so different than getting together face to face but it doesn't mean you can't get together and I think that's really the key to all of this and to search it out to be part of that community and just engage so Brian. This has been a very positive and uplifting way of looking at the difference between social distancing and physical distancing and I think it gives us hope. That's what we want right. We want hope we can get back to normal someday. But in the meantime we're going to get through this together right. I certainly think we will and we'll come out stronger and I will be really excited to go out and have steak when I'm with you. So Hey Brian thanks again for coming on and dropping some sizzling hot bacon knowledge bombs on my peeps man. You're one of my all time favorite guest because you are so in tune with what's happening in the social world both online offline everything else and I really appreciate you coming on. Insuring your insights. Thank you very much Bryan. I appreciated the opportunity. Well that's it for today's Bacon. Podcast we hope you enjoyed it and learned something today. If you did please go to itunes and give us a review. We appreciate all your feedback and comments if you have any questions go to. Www DOT bacon podcast dot com forward slash questions? And we'll make sure we get those answered for you till next time keep sizzling..
"brian " Discussed on The Moment with Brian Koppelman
"Hey is the moment I'm Brian complimented thanks for listening today's guest is you not in some crazy Meta sense but you are today's guests because I asked on here and on twitter for your questions and the response some of your questions surprise me some didn't surprise me there was a good deal of I'd say similar concern expressed a lot of it had to do with some kind of insecurity about whether you should be tried to do this kind of work creative work or not and I'm GonNa give you my best answer to each of these questions as I can get to you need to know that I don't necessarily hold myself out as having definitive answers these questions and some of them are quite difficult to answer with any authority for anyone especially the Russian I got many times which is how do I know if I'm good enough and the reason that that question is so hard to answer and why it's so prevalent is the same in it's because it's a foundational primal early life question and question that has as much to do with the way you were raised the way you grew up the way your parents express love didn't express love as it is is about whether you're really a good enough artist so there are there are things one can look at metrics one can look at it can view an indication of whether your impulses toward this artistic life seemed to have a chance to hey some kind of dividends to you but I don't believe that's at the heart of the question at the heart of the question is the desire for some outside force to tell you not only are you good enough is your work good enough you essentially are good enough that you don't have to a change that you don't have to run the fastest store that you don't have to learn to walk the fast stored who read the fastest but dead in fact what you are made of is worthy of Love Sport Protection respect all that stuff and so if you're somebody who asks that question frequently about the work you're doing and I want to separate it out right because yes it's a very legitimate question to say hey I wrote this short story I've sent it out about twenty times it got rejected Twenty Times Hey Mrs Editor Ms Editor Mr editor mix editor hey is this story essential really fucked up or Ken this story be fixed that's quite a different question from am I good enough am I crazy and I want us to be clear about which question we're asking and I want us to be clear about why where asking that question and and one of the questions you can find an answer for kind of easily or in a kind of straightforward manner and often the answer that one we don't know yet the easy one right is if you wanna quit because or if you want to try to sell the things you can on to me the the question was do I still get something out of doing the creative work if I still get something out of doing the creative work that I'm gonNA keep doing the creative work and I'm and as long as the creative work is making me feel more alive during the day not less alive during the day as long as the creative work is inspiring me as long as it's making me seem kind or those that I love because I'm engaged in something that matters to me then the more I'm going to do it and that was magnitude before we sold I gripped if instead it is pulling you down then I would look at it but I wouldn't look at it from a standpoint of has the thing sold yet or I wouldn't let that be the definitive thing and whether you continue you or you don't continue continue as long as the work is fulfilling continue as long as when you get up in the morning that's the thing you WanNa do now that doesn't mean it's easy to do that doesn't mean you're never dealing with a sense of feeling either blocked or stopped somehow what I'm talking about when you look at it overall is it additive to your existence or is it taking something away from her existence and if you can answer sleet it's additive than I you know I think keep going because I don't really understand how to give advice in the opposite direction I don't really I in the purpose of giving advice in the opposite direction and I'm not surprised this is the most frequently asked question I've said many times that the line between being has successful artists in delusional very thin and that line when I say it is true but there is a little bit of glibness to it because it it subtracts the pain of not knowing so I I understand that there is a pain of not knowing I understand there's a fear attached with not knowing but that's the terrain we're in the terrain of creating stuff for the terrain of making stuff the terrain of changing things by definition were in scary terrain and I choose to embrace it aw and yet easy from my perch on a certain level because I've had success at it and because I've had rewards people also I'd be lying if I didn't say that the fact that people respond to the work didn't matter to me it does it makes it easier in the fallow periods to know that on the other side is the very real possibility of an audience because I had one before so that in the times when it wasn't going so well commercially I didn't really ask myself whether I was a person who could tell these stories do this that had been proven to me already that said in the beginning that was the case and I just knew I had to do it and so that's the answer to sort of the most frequently asked question and think it's a very deep question and I understand it and now let's move on to a couple of other questions and maybe will circle maybe circle back so what's the next question I want to answer okay it's related Jacqueline said this quote of yours is so powerful to me in the quote is blocked people become toxic they become toxic themselves into the people around them and the person wrote in says I recognize so many my own family members in this quote people who could have had bruin creative lives and instead became toxic how void the same fate and get unblocked we're living in among these people has led me to believe that create a fulfilled life is not for me I specially struggle with this because I benefited from my parents stable career choices Sinoe college and yet I see how they denied their own dreams and desires for mine never became fulfilled people yeah well me too uh not the they didn't become fulfilled people my parents both of them in their own way were and are fulfilled my mom passed away my dad's still thriving but I definitely also had college paid for the people who were responsible I've often talked about the fact that one of the reasons I was able to dream and live a life that was beyond life of just trying to take care of me and mine was because I didn't know college debt I had family that there was a safety net there for me I college paid for an I could figure out how I wanna live but the question of how to get through the block for me as complicated as it is as disturbing it is and you know I was blocked writer until I was thirty this is my foundational story and it's true Until I found a way through so painful to be blocked by felt that toxicity thing happening and I didn't want to be toxic to those that I loved and I did straightforward things I I wrote down what I wanted to be doing how I wanted to feel and I knew that was doing something creative I couldn't do it and I read the book the artist's way Julia Cameron I started doing morning pages everyday three longhand pages every morning and doing the morning ages something happened and reading her book and doing the exercises and I would say her book and Stephen Fields Book the war of art and I pressed field on the podcast I those tools are just they work if you do it if you do the way if you read the book can you do the exercises you will be presented with the opportunity to get past this block and to create the work that you WanNa Create I can't say that strongly enough the power of three longhand pages every morning it tips your unconscious tips your subject watches out onto the page it could you pass the perfectionism it gets you past the guilt which you here in your letter guilt but he in your even if your family tells you they want you to responsible the truth is they did all this work so that you can try to soar parents terrified side of their children not being able to survive so their fear is GonNa make them look at you askew if you are trying something different in that but that's fear don't let that don't catch that fear it's contagious don't catch it and just do a little bit of work every day into this this idea one page today for years three hundred and sixty five pages even one page day for a year minus Sundays or Saturdays is over three hundred pages so and that's three screen plays where that's a novel you don't have to carve a giant chunk of time or you have to do is produce a little bit of work every day and then you'll find yourself living a life that feels a bit more.
"brian " Discussed on The Moment with Brian Koppelman
"Hey this is the moment brian koppelman thanks for listening today i'm going to i'm going to do another episode where i answer your questions is the last time i did it we got wonderful feedback a bunch of good conversation started out of it i got more emails than i usually do after an episode from people telling me that they appreciated sort of longer answers to things that come up off and on the show the only thing i didn't like about it completely was that i ended up like asking myself questions and answering them so have i've asked my son sam koppelman hey sam how's it going it's going well to come and help me out so he may ask some of the questions or we may just talk some of it through but also i just like having him here to help me so you know i'm going to start with something that's i got a bunch of different questions about salmon you've heard me talk about a lot but but it's something that i'm gonna i'm gonna start by saying something i don't really have the answer to a bunch of people have written me asking what i understand is really crucial question then that's about breaking in and the truth of it is it's really hard to give an if you're if we are being honest how to break in how to get somebody to read your your script or your article or or your idea it seems insurmountable at the beginning.
"brian " Discussed on Brian
"Readers. I didn't know is doing a transcript as well. Is for you to come up with your four individuals listeners. Listeners are going to be your for individuals. You just said you own after referring to. All right. I got to contests ideas. In two or three episodes of the show, the listeners can pick my wedding party. I'm gonna end up with carrot top Donald Trump. All right. But they have to be realistic. Cocoa has to be realistic here. Like, you know, we're not going to have cardboard cutouts of individuals standing there, Donald wants my vote. I'm sure he'll show up. He's just so weren't. So it was carrot top. That was the theme echo was on the other side. Got to the other side air enough. Yes that is what we're waiting for it. I'm sure they'll be updates as the podcast moves along. He's her asked about it regularly. Yes. I am. Guys have three is your brothers just kind of a shoo-in. He's kind of like just lumped in with everybody else. So hey, I got one because you don't have three friends. That hurts my feelings Evans here for you, man. All right. Evans backup. Do. Can we put them in a little doggy talks? Does he need one color that way already already has about? He's been waiting and waiting dying. Tries it on every night. He prances around the living room aside from the every night, part serious. I'm sure you'll hear all about those extra those two extra choices now that I have to make Evan you're in. Hi, assign. One way or the other, but an addition to listening to this podcast every week where we'll give you some updates. You can also check out our website at the dark ravine dot com or all podcasts or posted updates there as well as well on our Twitter, which is at dark. I forgot it at dark underscore ravine. Yep. That's right. And then the, the Facebook page Facebook dot com Ford slash the dark ravine, make it so hard typing for people to do. It's less than some of the things we've come up, come up. This is true. It shorter. It is. So in addition to that, if you want to support this podcast and the other's at the dark, Wien dot com, you can head over to our website, and we have banners all over the place for Amazon dot com. Oh, you need to do is click on those banners and they'll take you directly to Amazon, and you can do all the shopping your heart's desired, perhaps looking at someone's wedding registry, buying some gifts. You know what I mean? Yes. And then we'll get a couple of pennies back just for you doing absolutely nothing more than you. Normally would do Amazon dot com, supports this podcast and all the podcasts at the dark, Wien dot com. So shot there today through those links and you'll help us out as well as helping yourself. In addition to that we also have the patriots page was his at the dark ravine dot com forward slash patriots. Build spelled P, A T forgot. I'll spell it AT e Owen. Thank you. And there's also links on our website as well. There you can donate one time or a regular monthly amount to the dark ravine to support this show because despite what it may sound like producing the show costs money. It does money involved and every little bit helps. So if you like the podcast here, certainly throw a little bit of a couple of pennies are way, either by shopping, Amazon or going to patriot. As far as other new things you need to listen rates and subscribe to our podcast on itunes and Google play this new today. It's very exciting. So if you go to either of those if you use either those ecosystems either you have an iphone like idee over here or you have an Android based phone like myself. You can go to your favorite podcast store and download these show. Subscribe, they'll show up right on your phone or your device, and you'll be ready for hours of listening pleasure. Ours, ours. Literally hours now it is our multiple hours. I know it's very exciting. Anything else that I need to my forgetting any plugs that I'd normally do. I don't think so. I don't think so. I think I had him since like, Heidi took over and had all the funny jokes during this episode. So I was just resolved like feeling bad at the end because I don't have a wedding party. Thanks guys. Thanks preciado. It I love this podcast. We do. We can't. So I think that's been all this week for Brian Mel get married. So until next time thanks for being here. Thanks for having me. I
"brian " Discussed on Brian
"Weddings. Look it up people. It's real naked weddings. It's the thing so that would be a wedding, where they don't serve any buns. No. Plenty of on. Like everyone make it or just like the bride and groom. Well, the picture she sent me. This is the wrong podcast for this conversation. It was completely innocent. She had a veil on. Anyways, the couple was completely in the nude, except for the veil. But the photographer in the background of the picture was completely closed, and looked really uncomfortable. So no not. Everyone is naked. I think maybe just the bridegroom I was not prepared for this wedding, and any way, the bosses said grab your camera. We're doing a wedding today and here I am. But at least the party didn't have to pay for their dresses. Ways around. They're saving money left and rights, that creative, even with your wedding party. Yes, I have other great little articles here at a kitchen different things that we can post to the sites. Sure, we could do that, even how to tell a friend. They're not going to be a bright man. Can you give me some examples of that, because that might be fun? Sure. Let's. Ruined some dreams is that why I'm here. Hey, there's something I need to tell you. We were saving it for the very end. All right. This article super musing so for any of you that would like to check it out. You probably should because the pictures are amazingly funny. It'll be on the show notes at the dark ravine dot com. What do you do when a friend expects to be in your wedding party, but you just don't want them there. Actually, I just want him there. Okay. Well seems like a rhetorical question. I was going to answer and then I was unsure if I. Do it early. Let know early. Right. Get it out of the way you're done. You're not in the wedding sari Eban do it. What on one through some texting through some Facebook messaging, not through, like a public post on Facebook, you should just sit down with them and get it out. So I shouldn't do Nevada Facebook post, right? Was thinking more of gym class where it's like pick. I pick second pick last one standing there. Sadly, so bummed out that a certain someone can't be on my wedding party love Yuban. He's right here. Favor amnesty? But be kind. So if it's because they are super annoying, and you just can't handle it. Don't tell them that. Sorry, because you're super annoying, and I just can't handle it for you. That would actually be. Kind. Say calm and be respectful of the other person. Their feelings. Oh, I thought it was going completely different. I'm getting very bummed out now. Yes. Anticipate that they may express real hurt real. Fake hurts. Console them with the fact that you're sure they'll be in another wedding, something weights. That's like absentee dad pay for UPN a wedding maybe next summer. Right. We'll take you to wedding next time. You're mitt ready. Keep keep practice in pal. Article the it self and my eyes instantly. I'm like, yes. No. This is good. Try hearts, not make them third wheel and other wedding related events. I mean you're not gonna be in the wedding. But if you wanna come hang out, I got a real good piece of cake save this for you. Yep. That sounds like you're not even inviting them to the wedding. Frozen, but microwave that and you'll be great that'll be great. You can come pick it up at a later dates. Yes. Those are some tips for how to tell a friend that they're not going to be in your wedding. Right. Cheerful and such. So you've got your wedding party. All figured out. Party is completely figured out. Button-down I even Honey as far as I have taken care of who is going to be doing readings at our wedding. So much stress. Now I'm getting nervous. Evan. You're back on the table for listeners who don't know that other than Heidi. There are three other individuals standing up on my side. Fair wedding may two sisters, and what of my friends from growing up. We have the children in our wedding. Right. That takes care of the wedding party on my side, and the children, and I have taken care of two people who are reading. So what we are waiting for deer eater listeners readers.
"brian " Discussed on Brian
"Yeah. Going full on, like kabuki makeup all white. What's the next one attend the engagement party, unless there are major constraints you don't need to worry about that as I'm not having one of those. Okay. So what for some people they do? I guess I thought that was a thing of the past. But apparently, it's not this is just another reason or rich people just know the reason to get together and shower, the soon to be married. Couple with gifts. True. No gifts. It engagement party really? We just literally. Yeah. We did wedding registry as one of our last episodes, and they literally said register for gifts for your engagement party released early as possible so that people could give you gifts there. And then you have to keep updating your registry because, as people give gifts for your engagement, party, your shower and your wedding. Well, heck I'm having one. Engagement party is going to do this now. Help the bride shot for her wedding dress, and accessories within reason. Within reason you don't have to tag along to a tour of all fourteen local bridal boutiques, especially if a bunch of other people will be there. But if the bright asks you to join her for fitting to help her choose between two gowns don't get diggity. What does the dignity me? This is the point where I tell you that you should summarize the articles that you're that you're using. I haven't been actually I didn't know if I'm getting taken, I don't know what it means. But. Gosh, darn time. That's the first thing that comes to my brain. When I think of Heidi is Judy. Not mad was that spelled b g I g g I t y yeah. Sorry, j I. Letters. B E J. I g I. There's no other way you, I wasn't like mispronouncing word. Well, if you come away learning nothing about weddings from this episode then at the very least you'll know have a new word that. Yeah. You don't don't be it whenever it is. You don't want to be at the thing. You don't wanna be exactly. And from here on out, I have no diggity, no doubt in my head. Perfect, probably for, like two or three days. Just going to start sending text messages. JD. Help the bride with a few wedding related tasks. Right. Okay. All right. I'm sure I was gonna have you cut to the chase on this one because it's feels like you're going over the same to help. Yeah. I mean, that is, basically that's exactly what it is be present at important events and help the bride out now for your own stuff now, me, not knowing anything about what like the actual functions of a wedding party are is there like specific roles assigned to the ladies as they go down in order, just just the one lieutenants. And it's just the one the one your maid of honor is kind of your go-to Brigadier General kind of. Your maid of honor is kind of the one that you. What most of your trust in us? Yeah. Unpressured and pressure. So they got to pick up the slack when you're like freaking out and going half bridezilla. Yes. Okay. The other ones are just people, whom you find. Doesn't stand up for you day support, you, they're supporting they're there for you. They're showing you love and support. I mean, I don't mean to cut off the article. But it seemed like every point was helped the Brian help the bride help the bride, and also says that they have to give you gifts have to give shower and wedding gift. Okay. See as any guest of the wedding would. Should do do. Yes. Also speak at the rehearsal dinner at that is true. Donor. Oh I feel weird about that. Like you have to give a speech at a wedding like net, do you if you're not getting it? I've told you about my history with the speeches. Right. I was gonna say, like the rehearsal dinner is more like the coachspeak 'cause you're talking to the team, you're not talking to the masses of people that are coming to see the wedding that core group. You know, you're getting them really jazzed up. He sent him off to the side and be like, all right. You everybody's got their task those where they need to be tomorrow. You know, you kind of get the raw raw speech, I should probably wear any of that. He gets very sport like in the show. I think it's because he's trying to hold onto his manliness. I can do. All I got. Thus far has been very non dude Centric. Well. Anyways speeches. I can do but. I promise it will be without incident. I give me an example right now. I wanna hear your best off the top of your head. You can make it doesn't have to be about us or, or anything like that. Just do general speech for the dog. It's going to to your dog. We have actually another guest in podcast studio tonight as well. Heidi dog Eban. So if you were going to speak at Evans, wedding now give us like your top line. This notes. Well, I prepare now because the first time I gave a speech at my sister's wedding. I was a we last eighteen and unprepared, and I didn't know that I had to give speech because my sister, who was the maid of honor passed it off on me, and I totally agreed. Didn't know that. It was true. So we're sitting there at the at the reception all of us waiting for dinner, Ardy NAR salads. And then. Kate, or my sister leans over and she's like so are you ready for your speech and I was like? What is like your speech, you have your speech write your notes, and then? Honestly, it's a miracle that I my dress wasn't soiled, and I grabbed a napkin demanded a pen and no one had them because they were all wearing dresses and Texas and pantley carrying a pen is not something most people do I'm getting like panicky reliving this. And so the best man is giving his speech, I and I can feel my time, ticking down, and my sweet. Glowing sister is ready to hear all the nice things I have to say about her, and I had not prepared thing. So as he's giving his speech, I somehow a pen appeared, I don't even think I ruined realized that I was not joking. And somebody like raced out to find a pen that you were insure panic mode at this point here. Parents sweaty red faced panic. So I wrote down bullet points as fast as I could shaky hands. I remember the shaky hands, the groom sister was sitting next to me. She left in to help me like throwing out memories or you know, stories but I pulled it off. Nobody knew except the people at the table on probably, whoever saw my face turn ghost white, and then bright red. So you. Pulled it off though. Heck, why are you nervous then? I pull it I pulled it off. Okay. It's unbidden. Sweet. So you've got you've got a practiced darn near professional I- speech giver. Well, that was just the first one, but the moral of the stories that I made it happen. The you one was worse. Anyway. Moving on times to three and three and a half knots. Third. One was fine. Some tears. I may I make people cry with that one. I'll look at you. Go I get better. Time better. Now, you we were just joking about how this is very not guy friendly podcast for the most part, other than me, making terrible jokes. Do you have any tips for a guy picking his wedding party? Well, they kind of go and at the same time, so I should. So my, my best man should knock complain about his dress. No, I'm moving into the second one. Okay. So. When you are picking your wedding party think twice before you ask taking notes is that just is that male specific? No, it's just in general because once you've asked someone to be in your wedding party. You can't go back. No undue. Let me take that back. No take backs facs. So take your time, give yourself at least a month to mull over the actions roles e pose the question yourself, you magin you'll be just as close to this person in five years as you are now, if you're on the fence about asking someone imagine how they would fit in with the rest of your attendance. Just think about how they like, okay. Got it continue. I thought I had something funny. I didn't I'm expectations. This is basically what you want your wedding party to do and making sure that the people, you're picking in your wedding party can do these things. Don't expect the poor guy to pay for his tuxedo. No. Not even that. Don't expect your friends that you cannot commit to suddenly commit to things or you friend, that your friend that, you know, we'll get slap. He maybe not wedding party matere? Yes. Yes. All right, good. Got it. Check include your brothers and sisters. Okay. I mean that's just a. Fairly simple, one consider the size of your wedding. I'm considering obviously if you're having a super large wedding, and you have one person standing up there with you. Probably strauss. People in me and. Uber driver that brought me to the.
"brian " Discussed on Brian
"Oh, you can sort of hear it in the background of that show. It's there we were recording outside with a fire. Brian now where getting married three hundred sixty eight. Gonna talk about bending. Wedding parties. The actual party. At the end of the wedding ceremony itself, like the stand up there with, that's the thing. Yes. On this podcast. Remember, we're not experts. We're just telling you a little bit about our experiences in planning weddings tonight. We're going to tell you a little bit about wedding parties, and what we've found out and planning our own wedding, and in hopes that will actually help you and yours. And if you have any questions for us in the future, certainly you'll free to Email us any wedding party questions you have, and we'll try and address those on future episodes. Remember that experts just our experiences laid out for you on tonight's episode. For the first time, a very special guest, a third person sitting in on Brian get married Heidi's here, Meli wanna tell the people who Heidi is would be in the maid of honor. She's stuck with me. Oh, and you're gonna explain a little bit about what the maid of honor, does this podcast. So we won't get too deep into that. But before the show started out of your mentoring that you've been a maid of honor several times. Three and a half three and you wanna explain the half that's going to confuse. A lot of people I pretty much did all the duties without the official title all the work. None of the perks. Exactly. Excellent. I'm still a bit better. But. Working at working on it being mills maid of honor, the makes up for it. Number four. She's very popular. Hi demand in the maid of honor category. Do you have like a resume that you send out and working on compiling it? Okay. You have to be unique in the in the field. Otherwise, people won't take resume. Seriously? You really have to have that. I ain't gonna pop off the page. Just, you know, I'm not sure what you're trying to say. Is this, if you wanna have your fifth sixth and seventh maid of honor duties at imagine it gets harder as you get older to be a maid of honor. And now I'm old. No. Mouth insert foot. Good japane- officially offended. Considerably younger than me, and how many maids of honor, have you been routes passing on my disease. She ran with it, though. Well, thanks for asking. I've never been a maid of honor been an usher, once though. That's sorta. It's like. You see people that's like. The wedding party adjacent, isn't it? You may not even make the rehearsal dinner with that one. I did. I was at the rehearsal dinner, I had to know how to see people. It's hit or miss. I had to know how. But did you do your job? Well, I think screwed it up several times. In all fairness for that wedding. We took the wedding party, Monica, very, very seriously. Matt's. Yes. Makes perfect sense. Absolute perfect. So you're gonna tell buy wedding parties. All right include Heidi. Well. First off. Congrats, your brights made well maid of honor, the brides bridesmaids, the bride's, the bride's. Thank you. T H E. Thank you, hear the jobs. You signed up for. Six things you have to do if you're a bridesmaid have to. You've signed a contract, I assume it's sort of like a blood oath one. That is if broken there'll be some great curse that befalls you. Another one. Okay. Go with the story. All right. You have to buy a bridesmaid's dress and you can't complain about it. Don't say a God damn word I can just not to you. Exactly fairly certain that's the underlie ING tone of the entire article mum's the word just don't piss off the bride. You have to show up for the wedding. I feel. I feel like that's kind of a given should I be taking note. I mean, if you have to tell one of the bridesmaid's or the maid of honor to show up for the wedding, I think they're confused though. We've been party to weddings that have gone off with things. We're there have been questioned. I was gonna say, I thought I was at a wedding with you guys where no one was sure where they were supposed to be if the wedding was happening if they were in the wedding, and if they were in the wedding, exactly what they were doing for the wedding right? Exactly. Yes. So it's very good to know what your role is specifically to this wedding. Exactly so, so far I'm showing up in a dress that I'm not complaining about exactly. You have to help plan and pay for the bridal shower and bachelorette party without that money. Well. That's why we picked you Heidi because you're rolling in dough just rolling mouth. That's true. I was more concerned about the planning bit. You have met me before. Yeah. You are on our wedding planning podcast. I think we have most of it covered. Okay, good moving on. And I'm already pretty sure I told you what we had to do for the shower so Verdi that went down. Just talked about this last week. She forgot tech my notes. You have to eight ten the bridal shower bachelorette party, wedding rehearsal, and rehearsal dinner, unless there are major constraints. That's right. Your schedule is booked up. In about a year. Take a block. Two weeks. Filled. Okay. Well, the shower doesn't happen that soon that close to the wedding usually. But okay. I reiterate how little I know about any of this. It's very true, pay for your own transportation and accommodations on the night of the wedding. No gas mileage not going to happen. Doesn't everyone do that. Like, right. This is this is the thing like, okay, okay? You have to listen to a little bit of bitching. So what's new there? You'll breaker. I'm done goodbye. Responsibilities of officially become too much for me. That's the one that just center over the isn't that isn't that a part of friendship. Okay. So I wouldn't have been made of honor that hadn't already happened. Right. Pretty sure there's reasons that, you know, that's pretty normal. Eight things a bride can reasonably expect from her bridesmaids. There's more. Yeah. I guess. I can expect you to help. Choose the Bright's main stress. I thought I didn't have a say in the dress, and I had to wear it without complaining. These articles are conflicting. Wait. It's the same article wait. The bright is allowed to just pick address without consulting the crew. Right. But if she does ask for your input don't barrage, her with votes, I won't spaghetti straps or an airline, skirt or any color. That's not black. Instead, let her know things that make you majorly uncomfortable. I'd really love, if we could find a non strapless dress, if you fall in love with something strapless, I'll be happy to have straps added well fellows, that are still listening to this podcast. Just have a little time for us now. No continue going. Pay for bridesmaid extras including shoes and getting your hair makeup and nails professionally done. If all are affordable. Yep. Knows that again, seems pretty. And say that. But not everyone knows that. There are people out there that don't know that. That's part of the deal are there. Yeah. Are they all may or the audience? Most of them are all of them are. But if you if someone asks, you to be in a wedding, or are you going to expect them to pay for your tux rental? Going to expect them to pay to get your makeup done. Oh, yeah.
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"Show. Very wrong show. Not going there. Ignore said coming to new one example, that someone side was that they had friends who registered it REI, which is a sporting store, and they registered for eight tenths and a canoe owners. They were they were extreme outdoor enthusiasts. So it made sense. Derby dinners another thing wine. Registries honeymoon registries guests can say pay for your bed and breakfast while you're in Fiji. Things like that Fiji or just putting money towards your honeymoon. That's another thing that's kind of been a new thing couples that have been together for long. Periods of time. Couples who live together may just request that people donate money to their, their honeymoon fund. The Honey fund. Put money in the box for the Honey fund. It's as do wait to use the presence that arrive before the wedding. Wait. So if I get a brand new toaster, and I really want some toast. I gotta wait. Well, I'm gonna chill on it. I just to look at it the kit behind this toasters sitting there in that box. The advocate behind this is that if for whatever reason you were to call off your wedding toast better than that black and decker. If it was not take place for whatever reason, really wants those gifts should be returned. Sending back. Yes. But I get the money. No. You send them back to the people who sent them. Don't, return them and keep the money you, you should send them back who? So I mean I feel like this one is a little weird. But not so weird. I think that's fair. We like there's some scam artists out there. This having sham wedding, every six months just to gather a lot of. Appliances. Toaster ovens, right? Guess I don't know why you would wanna do this, but stand because they really wanna kitchenaid. I really wanna kitchen item. Listeners out there will be my registry. You do once. Right. Thoughtful and prompt. Thank you notes, emails, and calls do not count. They don't they do not motto. I know you do can I type them print them. No. Do. Guy's hand. I get hand cramps on I'm sorry. I can't within six weeks. You have six weeks. So it doesn't six weeks, receiving the gift, it'll be an assembly line. You want to write a note that references the specific abject in how or why you will enjoy using it. So you should keep a log, once you start receiving gifts from who when, and when you actually sent the no it out. So that way, you can make sure you actually did it aunt Jud I will enjoy the spatula. But in ways that I cannot write to you. Thank you note. You're really pushing to go to the other podcast, aren't you, you really, really really wanna get there. At that point where a married couple we do hind closed. Doors is perfectly. Okay. Fair enough. I suppose. Just think about the movie, stripes. The aunt Jemima from stripes. Twenty minutes at this point. They checked out. Or they need a chuckle. I do have another one of ten big registry, etiquette mistakes. You might be making please. Tell me putting the ninety big screen TV on the those TV keeps getting bigger keeps growing mistake. Number one would be not registering at all. Why is that a mistake? Well, your guests will want to buy youths. What if I don't want gifts? It's not tacky like you're asking for things, plus registering for gift saves you type and headaches. Basically, what they're trying to tell you is that at joys going to bring something to your wedding. It's going to save everyone. If you just tell aunt joy what to bring you this also, however goes back to the charity thing if you truly do not want things for yourself for your home. There are other options of things you can set up. Another one is waiting to register. The third one would be not taking inventory of your own stuff like getting stuff that I already have. Right. Which is not included. One hundred and two inch flat screen TV. Fairly soon. This TV is not going to fit in our house at all slamming, and be lifted on the wall. Get ten minutes, lessen the podcasts is gonna keep getting bigger. Registering at one store. Skipping. The fine prints. You wanna make sure you know about the store's policies before you register their return policy. And making sure that if your guests want to order something online off your registry. They're able to if your guests want to call in an order a why they would. But if that's what they wanted to do making sure that is convenient to an easy as Jude only uses the finest technology with her rotary dial. Telephone right, exactly. Dial kohl's. Kohl's.
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"Perfect. I know. Thank your lawn. Listeners. This is Brian, I am out and we're getting married in three hundred seventy five days seventy five. It's just constant March. The countdown continue it does seems to faster and faster every week. Welcome to Brian Mel get married. This is the podcast where we Brian Mel talk to you about our wedding planning and some things we found out along the way, one thing rest, you is, we are not certified wedding planners in any way, not even close. We probably don't even know anything more than you do, but we have been doing our research, and we hope that through our experiences and us answering any questions that you might have the you learn a little bit about planning your wedding. Whether you're just going to be like we're loping I mean, we're not dealing with this definitely is some pros and cons to all things, I think, on this week's episode of Brian Mel get married. We are covering wedding registries who this is where I get stuff. Yes, you did. This is where people give me stuff. Yes, or us. But yes. And really fancy like three hundred dollar nights sent. I mean you can register for it, but somebody supposed to buy that really fancy three hundred dollar knife set. So what's the deal with wedding registries? Why did that start? Why is that a thing? Why do I get to put my name on a list and have people? Get me stuff. Well originally really had nothing to do with you. It would have to do with me. Oh. Actually, wait, wait. No, no. Are you sir? I'm pretty sure like we're going to start talking about, like wedding dowries and stuff. Right. Still technically to do well, yes, dowries go back, but they still technically to do with the bride because it was, essentially you and your family. Hang my family for me. How much? Twelve dollars seventy five cents the same amount. It was willing to spend on my college being invited to the wedding. Usually it would include, you know, land animals treks of land, money or other forms of historical wealth. Historical. Well, sure. Yeah. Basically, interestingly enough the first week four dollars. The first recorded dowry was exchanged in three thousand BC. Okay. That's that's all well and good. But how do we go from me getting huge tracts of land to people getting maker? Yeah. You gotta fast forward on this because as time went on things changed as marriage change. What marriage mentioned evolved. Yes. Inserted marriage well through Elvis presence in such changed. If you go into like the renaissance, for example, marriage, chests were thing, these chests held all of the bright future wife goods right up there with huge tracts of land, which she would then take to her groom's house. It was sort of an early form of a hope chest. So, you know, unmarried women would collect things that they would need to embark on married, life linens, things like that. This is kept them in there. They did on us until they were married. I just have a chest of linens towels and sheets. And Dell's heats. And things like that. Guess nothing more I could possibly need other than just clean sheets. And tells I have always found that entire thing to be very weird in very strange. But the thing is, is that as a for a hope chest, you really talk to your mom, my mom, they would know what that is. That was a thing when our parents were growing up that this is what they did like they had hoped Chester. This is my mom, I who is her cedar chess thing that she still has that would've exactly been it. That cedar chests would have been that what they used for that. My mom had one as while it got destroyed in a flood, however many, many years ago, it was just smell weird. But yes that is what the dress was in and things like that. That's yeah. That was essentially, what that was women had these chests. So we moved from there from there, too. Eleven key basket. Ooh. This sounds like it just got a little kinky, everybody drafts their keys in a bowl, and then you just take a key later on. No, this is not wife. Swap. Oh. This is an American thing. This was solely. An American thing American brides would be gifted other key basket, which would give her keys to unlock doors, chests, cupboards, and things in her new home. You can get into your house. Exactly it symbolized her new status. This is what that did this symbolize status lady of the house. Cube
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"People. Total retail value. Blah, blah. Contest. I've decided now. You can make it onto my wedding guest list. We'll say four spots. For four spots for random podcast listeners. So there's someone randomly listening to this. Especially since after the show will be on tunes here, people randomly be listening to this and like extend bowl Turkey. Decide they want to come to the wedding. When I come to our wedding. See what it's all about you wanna go with an overly like racist name. There's I'm not gonna say name of said person, this is they wanna come that's probably eight to come to our wedding, but they just randomly like I want those tickets, and then we'll make them jump through some weird hoops. Because, you know, flying in from Istanbul Turkey to get to our wedding. That goes Istanbul may not be in Turkey. I may not be I actually don't know either. I feel like. All right. This podcast is now going off the rails. Yeah, we've lost it. It's all gone. We went from being the wedding show to more like the unadulterated Bs podcasts happen. We apologize for that. We were definitely in a mood to record a certain type of podcasts in it. Yes. And this one is suffering for it. All right. So we're getting married in what three hundred eighty one days Eighty-one days, three hundred eighty one days to finalize our guest list, if you have any guest list questions remember him over to us via Email will answer them in future episodes of this podcast. But otherwise until then the countdown continues. Love you Honey. See you next week. Twig. Perfect. Stayed. Pooffy. Turn. I know it's true. I've been in the class with you think you're the wooden shoes. Agree perfect for me. A jazz up the show a little bit. Oh, goodness. Hi, everybody. I'm brian. I'm oh, and we're getting. Distracted reading them, Celje, -tations, marital miscreants.
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"How? So yes, but don't feel bad just inviting people to the party, a part of that, and enjoying them or having them come in. Say Hello to you and enjoy your presence. Joy the festivities. Yes, they can enjoy your party. They can enjoy that part of it, but they don't necessarily need to be there for the entire thing. They may not be that close. This is a great thing for co workers. Those are the people that are like the satellites. So it's not like the moon. The moon's, always there moons kinds of moon and the earth rock-hard satellites come and go. Their orbits can sometimes be ellipses therefore, they're further away, sometimes closer. Sometimes they crashed into space debris in fall, plummeting to the earth, or Corinne, outerspace. Never to be heard or seen from again. I think that happens quite a bit. So make sure you don't invite satellites to heading. It's okay to have them come to the reception. Yes. By losing it here. Yeah. It's really stop. This is not working as far as like an allergy, you started out strongly, super strong super super strong on the money on. And then it kind of doubts. Yeah. Drifted off. You tried to keep it going. I think you forgot what started on those minisatellites that the bigger satellites spit out in space. Those are the Kwaidan ses, you don't want them there at all. Maybe you do. I don't think I've learned anything from anything. You said haven't no. Sorry. At this point, I'm going to have space analogies, and cut it out jokes the entire time. We're referring to, I guess, list, different strokes for different folks for not going to get very far on this. Why do I have the bad feeling that it's just going to be a Honey invite whoever you want? I got a list of like seven dudes I met down at the biker bar last weekend at the bike to a biker bar. Was there for this today, part go to bed? And yep. Sure. Yeah. So no questions of reach the mailbag this far on Brian Melba Mary, but if you do have a question, but anything that we've talked about, or perhaps, even have a tip of your own, you want to send along to us. We'll read that on the podcast, you can send that to be M G M, the dark ravine dot com. In addition, you can always go to the dark, Wien dot com and check out the podcast show post for this podcast and you can post your comments in the comments section there, we'd read those as well. If you're interested in helping out this show, or the other shows from the darker Wien, or even just donating to the wedding effort, you can check us out at a patriot and the link is on our website at the dark, Wien dot com. I believe it's patriots dot com slash the dark Wien. So not only can you donate to the wedding effort. But if you just like listening to the podcast, I want to help support this show and the other's at the darker Wien you can actually just submit your donations that way. There's two ways to do it. It's a nice tidy little tiny amount out of your checking or credit card account once a month, they want to donate a dollar a month every little dollar. That's right. Exactly. And it comes out automatically union have to think about it ever again and it shows up magically in our account power of financial institutions, otherwise you can also do one time. Nation. So let's say I don't wanna give you three dollars and fifty cents every month, but I'm be more than happy to give you twenty five bucks. Once you can do that as well. The other thing that we've been trying to get people to do is follow us on Facebook through Facebook dot com. Forward slash the dark ravine, and that's our podcast network page, and anything about this podcast and our other podcasts shows up there. So check that out become a follower on that Facebook page. Do we have anything else to add about guest list now that I've done pimping, all of the other stuff that we have to? It. Don't think so that's it. We hammered out our guest list yet. No, it's an ever evolving beast. Well, I shouldn't say that we have we have the family parts we have my half of the wedding party, we have the children weird. We have to sit down and hammer out the friend Clayton's part of this acquaintances. Yeah. We haven't gotten there yet. This can I give away on this show? It invitation to our wedding tickets. It's like. Right. Right. We ask a question. We'll have a competition. This is this is going to be in the works coming next week. Who knows us best. Well the contest. Actually get to eat. Have a few drinks. Yeah. It's well worth it. It is room and board has not provided no traveling accommodations are not provided by that is. I knew. I have to look, up some contest language, so I can go off and rattled off in the if you've ever listened to the radio, and they do the long like you're only allowed to win a contest, once every thirty days from the global related to affiliated with anyway, for this company or any of its sister companies. You are unable to win a prize. Less than twenty five dollars. Maybe giving to other people.
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"Family friends. Whoever it is get the list from your parents. Get the list from whoever and start there, because this number is going to be astronomical. It's going to scare the crap out of you, but you have to start somewhere. So. Ten rules to keep in mind when you're trying to cut people number one. If you live in the same city as the potential invite and don't see them outside of events organized by mutual friends. Then don't invite them. These people are not your friends. They're your friends, friends friends friends at this point, what you're doing is you're inviting acquaintances. What if all I have is acquaintances, that's a whole nother pet guest. Number two. If when you visit the town where the potential invading lives, and you don't call them or plan to see them then don't invite them getting shorter and shorter by the minute. If you have noticed to see them when you go to visit them, then obviously, they are not that important to you check and check. If you wonder what do they want when a person calls, you, then they should not be attending your wedding. Ooh, Tom go into voice mail. Unfortunate name to have randomly picked out. It was, which was actually I'm using but. All right now, offense meant anyone named Tom who I may or may not actually. No. If you or your significant significance other has had sexual relations with a person than the one who did not engage in such relations has veto power over the invite. Just take this step further and be like you've had sex with somebody don't invite them to your wedding. Just seems like an awful idea across the board. For co workers apply the but for test if the if the company dissolved, tomorrow, would you still be friends with them, but for your job, do you have anything in common? No, really. Workers tend to get a little bit dicey and we'll go into that in a little bit. We're going to touch on coworkers again. Well, not particularly just co workers, but this kind of goes back to the people that you feel should get an invite. But you may not be as close to many more you should not let the HR department at your job here this if you're going to touch co workers. Honey? I got nothing. All right. I'm sorry. I don't know much about guests if the names like okay continue if the potential recipient has never met your significant other, and especially if they don't even know who they are, then don't invite them. That seems kind of like it would be something that would be pretty self explanatory most. But you never know but, you know. If your parents went to invite friends of theirs that you do not know or barely remember than your parents should help offset the costs pay the Bill. This is the thing. If your parents to you to invite specific people, the new really need to talk to them about how much or if at all they're willing to chip in because you should be footing. The Bill for a hundred of your parents friends, and not any of yours when it comes to plus ones, or guests of guests. No ring no bring is a nice goal, but is not realistic wait. Okay. Well, did you find articles full of wedding buzzwords? Ring to no brain article is actually one that I found. Don't cough into the microphone. It was just a very like powerful. No ring. No bring come on. All right, fine. But it doesn't work. It's not it doesn't work it because you're going to have friends that may never want to get married. You're going to have friends that could have been somebody for longer than you and your significant other. It's not a realistic, but you do have to keep in mind and be aware that plus ones are another person. So you're. Your headaches. Otherwise, we're just like randomly bringing stuffed animals. It would be cheaper. This is my plus one fluffy. He'll have the prime rib the private. For any potential invite you still on the fence about your relationship with this person, five years from now is their chance. You look at your wedding pictures, and say who is that? Weights. I'm hoping not sunny. I think we're not inviting anyone. All right. One final factor to consider is what kind of guests they would make. I want the rowdy ones that are going to be dancing on the bar with their ties wrapped around their head tied around her head draped in front of their face santee. I think we probably have several of those ready. I don't think we need to look. For more Damon eighty so those are just some rules for wedding guest. Lists their little weird not very specific. But I don't know. I think those were all fairly specific view. I guess they give you a general sense to take that one step further one thing that I found that was absolutely awesome. Is that you make some rules for cutting you both agree on and you actually stick with them? That's right. I got the cut list. So it's cut down day at the NFL NFL preseason why I suddenly forgot sports. I don't know what sports are the wedding just fogging your brain down. Preseason. We need to get down to fifty three dudes, Saul. We're inviting fifty three fifty three six foot four two hundred plus pound guys. I know that many, I just wanna say that would probably like be a little bit harder to come up with to be honest with you. We're just inviting the Green Bay Packers. The entire team. That's it. That's it. All right. But it is a little bit like that. You know, you kind of have to be like, I want XYZ adding, that's exactly what it is. The guy who can play man-to-man defense and as good and the bump and run coverage. But what I don't need is another big three hundred plus pound. Do push around people agreed. So we have to make those compromises. Yes, just like you would building. This is how I'm going to think about this. You're going to think about this is what you're gonna guest list is now my own personal NFL roster. Hey, you know what? Honey, sand salary cap, although we accept we sort of have one of those two, as far as the budget is also true. I'm just not paying that budget that money to them. Yes. That's very important. I'm willing to spell spend twelve dollars and seventy five cents on my old college roommate. Why did you get all said? It's very, that's very cute. If that's what you think of meals going to cost. I just said this what I was willing to spend, therefore, he's probably getting cut. Gotcha. Gotcha. All right. So a really cool thing that I found was kind of a fullest flow, I know this was something that made it a little bit easier and kind of helps you go through those cutting rules, you can change them to whatever you need them to be. But this was just their idea of what you should have on their the start off, as have you talked to this person in the last year. If the answer is, yes, do you spend time with them outside of work? If the answer to this is, yes, is it someone you would normally buy dinner for that question. Feels a little bit weird to me. I feel like this is some sort of a wedding guest list, choose your own adventure. Well, that's actually what it is. It's a it's a very cute. Little flow chart here. If you would go out to dinner together turn to page twenty seven right now. If the answer those questions was yes, then they're invited. Oh, no. You've opened the airlock and now we're floating in space. You have died. Those people that choose your own adventure books. If you're if the answer this questions was no than you do not bite them. Oh, they get skipped onto the cutlass. Yes, you don't make the fifty three man roster. Now, if you go back to the heavy talk to this person in the last year if your answer is no, the next question is, do you have close personal family connection with this person? If your answer is friend, feel weird about that question. What, what entails, a close family me? I can't talk on this show tonight. What entails a close family connection like they're actually, in my family or we had children together? That would fall into the have you ever had sex question. So that would be a no. Okay. Just wondering, like, I feel weird. Like, that's what we're questioned aren't relatives generally just invited. Well, are we going to invite third cousin George whose, nobody's ever met before? I don't know. Third. Cousin, George exactly. So you would not have a close personal or family relationship with emperor enough think my point has been defended. So the next question is, do they know your partner's name, if they do not know your significant other's name, don't invite them? So nice to see you again, Susie.
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"Hey, this is Brian Dunkel of the unadulterated BS podcast. And it's time to listen to our show. Wait. I can't say that. No. So this is what podcast is this, that I'm doing this ad on the wedding. So you're telling me I can't say. None of that. I can't say any of that on this show. Well. Sorry. Anyway. Listen to the NFL three two Bs podcast on the dark ravine dot com and you can hear exactly what I said. I'm assuming it was all bleeped out, probably. Hello, everybody. That's not how you start. Cream. Cotin and the Hugh Grant stub Q watch your mom elite in your dreams Iraq, our on brew. Golsen two weekends dancing Jammie pants deal. The. Of our listeners. I'm Brian, I am out and getting married. Three hundred eighty one days. Perfect. Steve. Intern. I know it's true. The clouds with you. With you think you're. Perfect for me tonight. We're going to touch on the topic of guess guess lists. This is ready to start striking people down. Tell them that they don't get to come to my wedding. You do except for I don't be rude, but we're going to start taking out like. A donation box pretty soon. Donations are fun before we get really started into guest list. That's what it is guest list. Let's talk about a little bit about this podcast as you said, we're getting married in how many days now, three hundred eighty one so not enough times dwindling quickly. But anyway, this podcast is about us giving. You are lessons learned in a few tips on the various aspects of planning, our wedding, and hopefully, it can be helpful for you and your wedding. Problem. Listened to the fuck. Swarmed by mosquitoes. And as a result, smell was itching furiously very. So yes, lists knows don't invite the mosquito. Yes. Keep them -squitoes far far away. Do invite the bug control specialists. Yes. No to the mosquitos such candles. And I mean the bad way and not good say, not Zeka. All right. Enlighten us a little bit on the guest list supposed to do. And we're like what we're more than a year out still. And I'm thinking about who gets to come. Well, yes, because, well, you have to. Because who gets to calm is going to determine how much food you need much food, UNITA's is going to determine how much you're going to spend on food, so on and so forth. The size of the room already, as well as we talked about location on the most recent addition to the spot guest right on that. Right. Which will? No, you're right. Okay. The other thing is, is that people like to assume that, who you should invite. So you've got. You and your fiancee, wanting to come up with people that you want to have their both of you are going to have people that are close to you that you want invited. Then you have to explain that out even further, and you have your parents on both sides, and in some situations, you may have a split family where there's now suddenly. Four sides set of people, then you have the people who just think that they should be invited. Those are always fun people. So it can get very out of hand very quickly. So I found some articles tips for simplifying in helping you with your guest list. Yes. Invite only people whose names begin with litters eight through the no not quite that way. So. You wanted to come up with the main list or a masterless this master list should include everyone. You think you should invite? Okay. So you're talking about family
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"Handle. And as always, you can always find everything we do at the dark ravine dot com. The other reason we started this podcast is because not only are we going to provide you with some information about weddings and our wedding experience, but we're going to beg you for money. And there's a couple of ways that you can actually support not only just us and this whole marriage thing. But the Dirk ravine is a whole one of the easiest ways to do that is go to the dark ravine dot com whenever you're thinking about shopping on Amazon. Amazon's really great for podcasters because they give us these banners that you can just click on from our websites you go to Amazon, and you can buy, whatever you like, and we get a little bit of a taste, and it doesn't cost you anything extra. Nothing doesn't even affect you in the least, not even just have one more. Click one more click. That's all it takes. Go to the darker, Wien dot com. All lower case, all upper case doesn't matter and click on our Amazon banners. You'll go to Amazon and at some point, I'm sure we'll have some kind of wedding registry up there. They all sorts of fun gifts. Oh, yeah. Because we're giving him information things you might not know helpful things. And in fact, registries will be covered on this as well. So that, that's the way this works, and for us, you're going to help our podcast, but we're also gonna start at some point, probably asking do nations for the wedding. When did we mentioned this is a very tight budget. Very tight very tight budget. And for those listeners out there, that know, us personally, who expect to have an invite to said wedding. We have to feed you. Yes. So if you want to be fed writes, think of us think of us, five dollars a Cup of coffee span, just send it our ways and we're gonna play play some links on our actual page on the dark room, which is the Dirk ravine dot com for slash B M GM already set up look at you all good to go. And in addition to being able to find the latest Brian Mel get married podcast. You'll also be able to see the links for donating to us have a patriot and page all set up. Not quite yet. It'll be there or I also have pay pal links so that you can just through the convenience of your cell phone. It's you paltry dollars to help us get married. And also to thank us for the information that we may be providing you that you didn't know. Yes, and I promise it will get at least slightly more informative than this ipad can. Oh, this is really just laying it out there, because some big plans in addition to location, next week, we discuss what we're gonna do two weeks from this podcast. We didn't. But going off of the wonderful informational things that I found our next conversation should more than likely be wedding party. I know you're dreading conversation. Oh, see conflict. This is why you came to the podcast. You don't wanna hear people get buried. You wanna hear a marriage dissolve before. Time. We also have plans interview guests things like deejays cake bakers all these different things until we get up to the point of our actual wedding at which point, we've already decided we're gonna find some time to set aside and do a final podcast after we've actually been married. Yes. If we decided what the entire like, like, how that's gonna work. Nope. Nope. We haven't gotten there we've just we've just decided that there will actually be sometimes that aside at some point, which means weirdly, all of our recording equipment has to go to the wedding with us on this. Nice little carton. Now. Perfect we can just roll it there. We will set side sometime to maybe interview some guests, maybe interviewer bridal party, maybe drunkenly. Joe my wedding suck. But we also promise some experts from our own guests. Ooh. Yeah. Will those will be screened for. Right. We know our friends poet production. But yes, I think that we will definitely have to give you listeners than anyone who. Is being run in the garbage cans. Promise to give you listeners some insight into how our own wedding goes, and hopefully he'll be able to give us some feedback on year. Go yours goes. Who follow podcasts? I like it. Four hundred eight days. How many weeks is that it's going to be there? Well, there's fifty two. Take sixty weeks. So at most sixty sixty one podcast for you to listen to coming up in the future all around our wedding, and hopefully yours. Yep. Sorry. The so the seeds of romance for the people out. There are romances already budding blossoming. There's could just be beginning. Just be happy young couples listening to dismiss on really old. But yeah. Forgetting there. So that's what you have to look forward to for the next sixty weeks. I'm Brian Mel get married. So remember, check us out on the dark Wien dot com. We haven't come up with an ending the show. Hence the rambling. Yeah. We have nothing. We don't have anything we hit all the points. We did. I think that's good. We can figure something I don't know how I can on this show. Well, have you baby? Next week.
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"Second. So unfair, isn't it? Really? Why is it always the dudes fault? Fellas. Am I? Right. Because I know there's tons of fellas listening to the wedding podcast. Wedding podcast, tons. I'm sure there's tons. Yeah. You know, apparently you really wanted to follow that whole romantic comedy. Script. Go that way. Right. It really does for beat. Yeah. Meet cute. Dude screws up. And then finally lack they get back together again. And everyone off into the sunset sunset. I'll happy as can be now in most romantic comedies. It doesn't take a decade and a total of five children to get to the final act. Ours was just a grueling long, slowly paced methodically paced romantic movie methodically pace. Well, that's what they call most movies that are really, really long was very long. Just methodically. Paste. It's a grinder. Ryan through it. True. So the end result here to some all of this jumbled nonsense up, I have three kids. Yes. But you don't. One two, three. Is that Matt's many, many years ago, dude, screwed up, wait? Faux pas. All right. Screwed up continue. Reconnected now have five children between us, and we're not getting married wedding. Parties solved. Not really. That's another one, other podcasts though, isn't it? Yeah, yeah. So they had it, that's our story. The story that is the very roundabout compasses the entire timeframes zombie apocalypse with a spoon. Are you having faux pas minors? Reach of etiquette. That's a whole nother pike. Okay. Sorry. Five children. Children getting married. Yeah. Four hundred eight days this as yeah. To figure this out, and this is what you're getting into listening to this show. She's going to give you valuable precise information. I'm gonna make jokes that might need to be believed up. That is a very, very good way of looking at this guest. Great. Yes. So with that in mind, what are we going to be talking about next week on this show? And I know this show is going to be a little on the short side. But this way, the folks out there can actually Email us any questions, they might have that we can then, do some research on since we're already researching these things, anyway, we are, and the male dress, that you can send any questions to the ways you can go to the dark ravine dot com, and that is our podcast network home to this podcast. The unadulterated BS podcasts and liquor flicks. Is that too racy to say, even no, that's fine. That's fine. You're good at the dark. Ravine dot com. There's a contact us page link at the bottom of the page. Click that, that sends it to our Email or you can reach out to be M G M as in Brian Mel, get married at the Dirk, ravine dot com with any questions on locations. Yes, definitely and we'll talk about locations next week. We'll talk about why it's so important to start your search for a location way in advance in advance, you really need to get on that right away. And why teasing don't give out too much information. They won't have to listen to. We'll talk about how we came up with our location. And also, what locations could cost you who. Yeah. Money already. Yeah. Oh, yeah. Money. I already laid out money. Also. What you should know about deposits for locations. Who, yeah, what do I need to know about deposits for locations, right tease? It is good idea. Good idea. In the meantime, in addition to just setting us, Nima with any questions you might have about wedding locations. You can also reach out to us on social media where available mostly through the darker Wien social media web presence, so we're on Facebook at Facebook dot com slash the dark ravine. That's probably where you find this podcast in the first place. That'd be my guess I'm not uploading us die tunes for a couple of episodes. So anybody who found this got this pre I tunes. Ooh. Now, I know they're on the cutting edge of technology. Not dependent upon the tune store. They're searching it out. They're finding us or we're also available on Twitter. Debating whether to start when actually four the wedding podcast, we've basically, it have tagging have like has taken might be better. Anyway. It's dark underscore ravine on Twitter for the network. Twitter account. You don't think be MGM at B M on Twitter might work someone might already have that. So somebody could already have that researched this at. Yeah. And it might work. But I mean, if we're going to start a Twitter account for everything we're gonna get really really, really overwhelmed with Twitter accounts, get, like six exactly, my point only check to exactly, and I've only been recently good at actually having anything to do with my Twitter account. Well, I mean, that's okay. So for now just dark underscore ravine, or actually could reach out to us individually mines at BC Dunkel. And you don't have to get out if you want mine's pretty public. So so is mine. I just can't think of it now at Ma'al eighty four. Yup. Go. See I almost my own Twitter handle.
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"Bing bong. You take copy with your cream screen Cotin, and Hugh Grant stub, Q, fraudster mumble it in your dreams Iraq, our own brew. Golsen two weekends dancing Jammie pants deal. The afternoon. I know it's hard to thing, someone could be in sync with your ex entrace t. The per way. Perfect. Stay. Self turn. I know it's true. With you. Think your wooden shoe. I am Brian. I'm oh, and we're getting married and four hundred eight days or hundred eight days four hundred eight days. That's it, that's it. And that's what this podcast is about. It's about our experiences and getting married and hopefully Rabl to help some people along the way, maybe answer some questions. Are you a wedding expert? I am not are you? I am not a winning expert. No. Oh, that's what we're gonna talk about on this show. That was gonna be the first thing was going to be the first thing. How, how would this is essentially our first wedding despite us both being married in the past? It's very true. Very, very true. And probably even more that you already kind of went through the whole big wedding thing, once without having any idea, how to do any of this. Right. I had almost nothing to do with any of it now. And I, I'm legitimately the one who did the let's eloped Tobago's things. So I have no idea what any of this is about. So in four hundred eight days. Yes. We have to plan an entire wedding. Correct. I'm going to say something bad. I guess if that for the other podcasts. Yes, toned down the language. This is the nice pie mice podcasts. Nice pack it out. You really had to say it didn't. Yes. And four hundred eight days we have to pull off an entire wedding from start to finish. Yes, I'm a very low budget, very low budget, very low budget. So hopefully through our experiences you'll learn a little bit. So what your job is this show is just an intro. We're not going to go through a whole lot today. We will be going through some more next week and we'll tease that at the end of the show, just at the teaser, they have to come back. For more next time, figuring out exciting news. So what are we gonna talk about today, then because it's been like three minutes of podcast? And we can't just go, like a three minute. No, I don't know. Maybe we should say who we are, that would be helpful would. I'm Brian, I'm oh, all right. Well, I suppose we should probably tell some background why there's a history in the first place we should do that. Yeah. Well, you're gonna Edger inappropriate jokes here. Well, we met going on eleven years now to figure this out the other day. But eleven years now this over a decade ago. Working for the same bloodsucking company. And nothing like financially serving for telephone data systems. Oh, yes. And the lovely people, the lovely lovely people who use that service over a decade ago. Know was pre like cable internet, and all that stuff. So people still head online. It was it was we have that, that's a whole nother podcast. I'm back in a week for. Butts ari. So we might you know yen's ago back there. And our entire relationship started over an Email, an Email about the Zambia, Pacalypse and spoons. Well. What relationship doesn't start over an Email about surviving, those ambi- apocalypse with spoons? Yes, throwing spoons on base because, hey, it's just a spoon. I think I was talking to my best friend at the time not that long before that. But we're just going to hoard guns and stuff to stave off his ambi- buckle up. Yeah. I'm pretty sure that came up somewhere in there, too, because I'm pretty sure the next question I had for you after reading this Email in this article, you sent me was why are we talking about this on clips? That's my go-to icebreaker. Oh, that's here. That's only one that's ever heard it, so. Well, I feel I feel special obviously worked to some extent for you. Right. It did, ladies man. Apparently, so our. Or I just thought you were such a door. Yes. So huge. I just figured that, you know, in my corner, and that little office that I'm like, oh, he just needs a friends. Well, that's I mean, that's not the whole story. It's not like we've been together for seven years. She'll it's true. It we haven't been has, then you'd probably be getting your ass kicked, if, oh, know eleven years, and we weren't already married. Know someone who's an idiot, always. Yeah. Well, you know, the fingers wait a second.