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Tatis, Padres End 5-Game Skid, Cut Giants' 9-Game Win Streak

AP News Radio

00:36 sec | 2 d ago

Tatis, Padres End 5-Game Skid, Cut Giants' 9-Game Win Streak

"The giants nine game win streak came to an end as the Padres outs like San Francisco nine to six Adam Frazier and Fernando tatties junior each had four hits apiece Frazier with a two run double and Eric Hosmer added a two run single Joe Musgrove pitched six innings and allowed three runs to get the win it just feels good to be back in the win column and it's been awhile since we've won the game the Padres remained one game behind St Louis for second place in the National League wild card the giants with solo homers from Tyrrel strata Kris Bryant Steven Duggar and Brandon belt despite the loss San Francisco scored at least six runs in each of its last ten games Riley Aung San Francisco

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Buster Posey's 18th Homer Helps Giants to Ninth Straight Win

AP News Radio

00:43 sec | 3 d ago

Buster Posey's 18th Homer Helps Giants to Ninth Straight Win

"The red hot giants continue to roll winning their ninth straight game as they beat the Padres six to one coinciding with the win streak San Francisco scored six or more runs in each of its last nine games this is giants catcher buster Posey sense of side of things and being able to play two different positions throughout the game it's definitely a collective effort when you're able to to route a lost nine in a row Posey homered while Darren Roth and Brandon belt each with RBI doubles Anthony DeSclafani had not won a game since August thirteenth and he pitched six and two thirds strong innings allowed one run on three hits to earn the victory the Padres are struggling having lost five in a row and game behind St Louis for the second wild card spot Ryan Lee Aung San Francisco

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La Stella, Belt Lead Giants Past Cubs 15-4 for 6th Straight

AP News Radio

00:42 sec | 6 d ago

La Stella, Belt Lead Giants Past Cubs 15-4 for 6th Straight

"The giants picked up their sixth straight win by blasting the cubs fifteen to four Tommy let's sell it was three for six with five RBIs including a three run blast in a six run fifth swinging a ball of fire make contact early in the count on B. conscious not so I'm actually not just make contact and messing yes I haven't really been doing that Brandon belt also smacked a three run Homer while San Francisco scored five in the second and former cubs Kris Bryant was two for four with two runs scored winning pitcher Kevin Gausman struck out nine while allowing three runs over six innings helping the giants improved to a major league best ninety two and fifty I'm guessing Coolbaugh

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Bryant Cheered in Wrigley Return, Giants Win 5th in Row

AP News Radio

00:43 sec | Last week

Bryant Cheered in Wrigley Return, Giants Win 5th in Row

"The giants are in their fifth straight win by downing the cubs six to one in Chicago Evan Longoria and Brandon belt homered on a day when Kris Bryant received a pair of standing ovations in his return to Wrigley Field for started my career here I don't know if I could have ever dreamed up by having that type of reception the fans welcomed me back like that definitely something that is one of the highlights of my career so far Bryant went over three with a walk a run scored in two strikeouts than Korea broke a one one tie with a two run Homer in the seventh belt added a two run blast later in the inning cubs rookie Frank Swindell homered for the twelfth time in his last eleven games the giants improved to a major league best ninety one in fifty I'm Dave Ferrie

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Giants Get 4 in 9th to Beat Rockies; 1st Team With 90 Wins

AP News Radio

00:32 sec | Last week

Giants Get 4 in 9th to Beat Rockies; 1st Team With 90 Wins

"The giants are forty games over five hundred after putting together a four run nineteen to seven four victory at Colorado the Rockies lead for three until lamonte Wade junior lined a two run single and scored on Evan Longoria's two run double Brandon Crawford homered and branded delta three hits for the NL west leaders who were the first major league team with ninety wins Tyler Rogers help San Francisco get its fourth straight victory working a scoreless eighth to move to six and one Carlos Estevez took the loss at least Diaz doubled twice to put the Rockies ahead for three with a sixteenth home run I'm the ferry

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Harper, Phils Hit 6 HRs, Wheeler Shuts Down Brewers 12-0

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00:42 sec | Last week

Harper, Phils Hit 6 HRs, Wheeler Shuts Down Brewers 12-0

"Brad Miller homered twice and Jean Segura added a grand slam as the Phillies crush the brewers twelve to nothing Bryce Harper in remote catching Freddy Galvis also went deep with harboring Galvis doing it for the second straight day so girls slam came in a seven run eighth Zack Wheeler struck out nine while scattering five hits over six innings against the NL central's run away leaders get enough momentum going early is big you know specially built over try complex right now you know it's big get out front early and I was able to ride that your best interests at losing pitcher Brandon Woodruff was reached for four runs over six innings the Phillies are within a game and a half of the NL east leading Braves the brewers remain eleven games up on the Reds I'm Dave Ferrie

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Duggar Triples, Giants Hold off Dodgers 6-4 for NL West Lead

AP News Radio

00:43 sec | Last week

Duggar Triples, Giants Hold off Dodgers 6-4 for NL West Lead

"The giants defeated the Dodgers six to four to regain the NL west lead by one game over Los Angeles Steven Duggar hit a tie breaking two run triple after being called up earlier in the day extremely fortunate to get an opportunity tonight to help this team win and a pretty big game Sunday night baseball and and this this incredible rivalry in tonight the guys came out on top Brandon belt homered and Brandon Crawford added an RBI double a San Francisco beat Walker Buehler for the first time in eight decisions the giants tag dealer for a season high six runs on seven hits over three innings pitcher Albert Pujols made it interesting with a two run blast in the ninth his six hundred seventy eight career home run I'm the ferry

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Gordon Has RBI Single in 9th, Twins Beat Rays 6-5

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00:32 sec | Last week

Gordon Has RBI Single in 9th, Twins Beat Rays 6-5

"Nick Gordon furnish the tying and go ahead hits as the twins cooled off the res six to five Gordon knotted the score with an RBI single in the seventh and added another in the ninth Lisa Ryan singled home a pair Minnesota's three run second Jack caves RBI single gave the twins a four nothing lead Brandon Lau in Austin meadows homered for the rays who are thirty three in fourteenth since the all star break rays rookie wander Franco extended his on base streak to thirty five games with a seventh inning double Tampa Bay leads the AL east by seven and a half games over the Yankees on the ferry

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Díaz, Rays Tie Team Record With 6 HRs, Romp Past Twins 11-4

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00:39 sec | Last week

Díaz, Rays Tie Team Record With 6 HRs, Romp Past Twins 11-4

"The rays are seven and a half games ahead of the Yankees after Tampa Bay won for the eleventh time in thirteen games and eleven to four routed Minnesota yandy Diaz hit one of Tampa bay's franchise record tying six home runs and drove in four Jordan Luplow Manuel Margot Rainier Rosa Reina Nelson Cruz and Brandon Lau also went deep for the rays the early run support help Chris archer get his first win since June twenty nineteen just the fact that our our guys put up that many runs that early no I just felt like I could challenge hitters archer tossed a season high seventy eight pitches while allowing four runs over five innings Jorge Polanco was three for four with a two run Homer for Minnesota I'm Dave Ferrie

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Giants Beat Dodgers 3-2 in 11th on Error, Take NL West Lead

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00:31 sec | 2 weeks ago

Giants Beat Dodgers 3-2 in 11th on Error, Take NL West Lead

"Brandon belt scored on a throwing error by Trey Turner in the eleventh inning completing the giants three two victory over the Dodgers Los Angeles challenged the call to no avail allowing the giants to move one game ahead of the Dodgers atop the NL west Chris Taylor's RBI single in the ninth forced extra innings for the Dodgers who went ahead on Turner sacrifice fly in the tenth Brandon Crawford's RBI single in the bottom half extended the game the giants received a strong performance from Anthony DeSclafani who limited the Dodgers to two hits over six shutout innings I'm Dave Ferrie

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Desire is Key to Success

THE BRENDON SHOW

01:29 min | 2 weeks ago

Desire is Key to Success

"It take to succeed. Well i'm not the first person to say the number one first thing we have to happen to achieve anything is desire. We have to want less brown. You say you have to be hungry. You know you have to be hungry to succeed. You have to have a deep desire to move the needle of your life forward. You have to have a desire for a dream for a mission for a cause for something that you believe in that is pulling you forward because you care about it so much and let people say it will burn. I don't care about anything. I'm like is there. Is there a worst place to be in life when you just have desire for nothing. I mean that isn't that ultimately where we fall into suffering or or depression or loneliness where we fallen into the negative lights of the world that they're starker shades of experience of life. And it's not by accident. We all feel like people who say have no desire brandon. As if they're a victim can you believe it. It's like they act like it's it's the fault of the world. Well nobody gave me any desire or anything. No no maturity and enlightenment in life demands. We decide who do we want to be in life. What is it. We want our life to stand for. What is it. We desire to go after and some people say well. I just don't know brendan and they say why. Don't i don't have any vision for my life. Brennan at so. I don't have that desire. Well yeah well guess what. You're never going to have any vision for your life unless you go see

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Brad Pitt Challenges Ruling in Custody Battle

Naughty But Nice with Rob Shuter

02:01 min | 2 weeks ago

Brad Pitt Challenges Ruling in Custody Battle

"Pitt has filed for a review in his custody battle with angelina jolie following the disqualification of their private judge. This is getting really messy. So let me try and explain. This bracket has filed a petition with the california supreme. Court is going right to the top to challenge a decision made in the custody battle to disqualify the judge. Brad pitt's legal team are arguing that the ruling to disqualify the private judge in the case request that came from angelina. Steam has generated widespread confusion uncertainty and instability. The decision has made that neither custody battle after all. These years is starting all over again. You might remember. the angelenos. Legal team wanted the judge gone because the judge did not sufficiently disclose his business relationship. Not with brad. But with brad's attorney team are saying. The judge was inappropriately disqualified. Why in thin. Cora will that does seem a little unethical. I mean you can't have your judge being in cahoots with the lawyer of your ex-husband who you're suing. Seems a little weird to me. Yeah i do too. I mean i get it here. There's only so many judges and there's only so many celebrities in these private judges another assigned. They are hired when he was hired by brandon angelina which is not. That strange sounds strange. You doesn't it people like you and me because we never get to pick a private judge do this all the time and they did it to make sure everything is kept confidential. This is not that unusual. But at the time when both brad and angelina said yes. This is the judge. We both agree that judge should have said. Hey i've done a lot of work. Brad's

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Cain Homers, Woodruff Pitches Brewers Past Giants 6-2

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00:43 sec | 2 weeks ago

Cain Homers, Woodruff Pitches Brewers Past Giants 6-2

"The giants lead in the NL west is down to a half game over the Dodgers after the brewers earned a six two win in San Francisco Brandon wood ruff struck out eight in six innings to win back to back starts for the first time since late June just a great team when I come in here weren't when the first two is is huge against the essentially the best team in baseball the best records up to two great team wins is that's also Kerens o'kane furnished a home run and an RBI single as Milwaukee extended its lead in the NL central to ten games over the Reds Christian Yelich singled twice and scored twice extending his hitting streak to ten games Brandon belt hit his twentieth Homer and Wilmer Flores also went deep for the giants who have dropped four of their last five I'm the ferry

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Tampa Rays Beat Boston Red Sox 6-1

Baseball Tonight with Buster Olney

00:55 sec | 2 weeks ago

Tampa Rays Beat Boston Red Sox 6-1

"The tampa bay rays the defending champions the american league unequivocally the league's best team they faced the red sox last night and louise patino a key. Piece acquired in the deal with the padres was outstanding tremendous stuff in the raise dismantle boston. Nick better first brandon lau is rocketed the right sterner betty the budweiser ports pets up. And that's where it landed. I swing here. The i just wanted to bud light. It's one nothing race. They will six twenty. Da the raise win that game six to one before the game. The red sox announced that. Closer matt barnes was played placed on the kobe. Nineteen injured list on monday. Joining several teammates will miss time during the critical stretch of the season. Also at kika dez christian arroyo in pitcher martine

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Franco, AL East-Leading Rays Win 8th in Row, Top Red Sox 6-1

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00:44 sec | 2 weeks ago

Franco, AL East-Leading Rays Win 8th in Row, Top Red Sox 6-1

"Luis Patino earned his fourth win in Brandon Lau his thirty first home run is the Tampa Bay rays defeated the Boston Red Sox six to one Lau's home run off Nick Pivetta led off the bottom of the first inning giving the rays a lead they never relinquished the second baseman on the importance of getting the lead early in a big series like this one any time we faced these guys are the Yankees or anything like that you know it's it's a picture you sent to come out early and you know give us a little bit of transport some Christian the let him go and do what he does this was huge the team allowed just one run on a solo Homer by Bobby Dalbec while pitching into the sixth Tampa Bay has now won eight straight and are thirty five games over five hundred for the first time in franchise history Steve Kearney St Petersburg

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After US Open Loss, Murray Calls Tsitsipas Breaks 'Nonsense'

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00:32 sec | 2 weeks ago

After US Open Loss, Murray Calls Tsitsipas Breaks 'Nonsense'

"Women's defending champion Dio meal soccer's most safely through to the second round of the U. S. open the third state gradually finding touch into six four six one win over the Czech Maria but it's kind of up a much tougher window for the men's number three seed with Stefano sits a bus taking five states and almost five hours to beat the veteran Andy Murray good first round wins the Sloane Stephens Christina McHale Brandon naked shima and Frances tiafoe who unfortunately all those coming at the expense of fellow Americans I'm grand like us

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Roxanne Francis Unpacks How Resentment Affects Relationships

Sex with Dr. Jess

02:21 min | 3 weeks ago

Roxanne Francis Unpacks How Resentment Affects Relationships

"What is resentment like. How does it even built. You know it's so funny. We often look at these things. Expect these huge huge explanations. But i think resentment really just boils down to unexpressed anger or unexpressed frustration. Sometimes the frustration is there and the anger is there and sometimes we don't even recognize it and if we don't even recognize were harboring this thing. It's definitely unexpressed. it's unexpected verbally. But it comes out in so many different ways right just leaks out absolutely and you must feel it in your body like i mean how do clients explain resentment in their bodies or maybe brandon can weigh in after as well. Yeah i get different. Things from tightness in my chest knots in my stomach grinding. My t. a headaches all the time and checking just keep explaining. My resentment get continued falling asleep or staying asleep back right and just missing the body in general because you know when we hope anger. There's tension right. And so that can result in tightness in the body and once the resentment gets processed. Once we're able to discuss once we're able to find a resolution that physical kinship times to release itself not make sense tomb. It's this unexpressed anger frustration or dissatisfaction builds over time. You feel it in your body. How does it show up in relationships. There must be so many different ways that you see resentment. Come out whether it's in a very straightforward way or in all these kind of crawler ways that we may not even recognize as imminent south it can come through. Just you know in some women that i work with. The you know banging on pots pans. The popular hardy doing fine. You know sometimes that can show up you know in the bedroom right. Oftentimes went been used unresolved. People don't wanna be touched right. Get away from me. i'm not. I'm not into that but quite often people will come to me with you. Know they think that their issue is unique to them. But i hear these stories so often they play out like the same old tape where one partner will say. I'm always the one putting the kids to batam always on making the meals. I'm always the one doing some always wondering that you get to chill

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The Method to Joey Votto's Madness

The Lead

01:44 min | 3 weeks ago

The Method to Joey Votto's Madness

"Trend joey. Votto is a couple of weeks away from his thirty eighth birthday and he's really been having a renaissance season that includes a pretty big milestone recently. Can you give us a sense of how good vital has been this year and in particular. How good he's been the last four or five weeks it's mind-blowing honestly like i used to always say this and i think i'd finally stopped following my advice that you never underestimate joey about it and you know he struggled the last couple seasons and i started doubting it and starting downing if he could be joe yvonna again and not only is he joey votto. He's the two thousand ten joey. Votto which is the young kid who won an mvp and then got a ten year two hundred and fifty million dollar extension. You know you saying unless four weeks last four weeks last month. Not only did he hit home. Runs in seven straight games. It nine months and i said hammers setter failed brandon at seven executive women. Joey since that started he's hit sixteen. Total home runs tweaking. And here's another rate little nugget over the last you could spend two or three weeks or in the span nick. Cassiano says batted ahead of joey bottle and got hit four times each of those four times that. The opposing pitchers hit nicasio. Joey votto was followed with a home run

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"brandon  " Discussed on The Brandon Triche Show

The Brandon Triche Show

04:37 min | 6 months ago

"brandon " Discussed on The Brandon Triche Show

"At every time. You went to that restaurant taiwan that and then then you love one says hey listen. Let's go to that restaurant we used to go to. That's a compromising position compromising situation because it's going to put you in danger. It's gonna trigger these little things in your head called cravings and it's going to put you in a position of a danger so what a loved one should do is not put them in that situation. I mean eventually yes. You can go back to that the that restaurant eventually. Yes you can do everything that used to do but to be put in that position at the at the beginnings of your treatment at the beginnings of your recovery is is is so so dangerous and demoralizing. Because what happens is the wife. Can't i go where everybody else goes. Well why can't i go back to my favorite restaurant. I won't drink. Guess what that's not. What happens the lou. Little man inside of us goes they got you know Devil on one side and angel on the other little devil goes room while you what we could have like a near beer. You know by the way when they put alcohol free on on on the beater like oh duels. There is alcohol right it just below the legal limit but there is alcohol right so you know. We'll go we'll why can't i be like everyone else. Guess what you're not like everyone else. You have a brain disorder called addiction and you can't be like everyone else. It would be akin to a person with diabetes go. Why can't i cake like everyone else is on how to do it brandon. Exactly how want you wine like that. But i do go back to the moment where i was sitting at the table and i was really uncomfortable and nervous. Energy was just going and going at it. Couldn't stop like. I was just sitting there and i you know i wasn't tempted in drinking a beer but it was in the back of my brain if i went down this road. Maybe i could have a beer right. Well you know. Yeah and these are the things that we have to be critically in tune to. You know who knows brandon better than brandon knowing you know yourself you know what positions a good few positions that are bad for you so so you have to set ground rules. You have to be able to set a newer today. Listen carefully. It's called the boundary boundary with them God really. I've never heard that an attic who struggles with foundries you such an unusual addicts you have but you have to be able to. That's.

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"brandon  " Discussed on The Brandon Triche Show

The Brandon Triche Show

05:50 min | 7 months ago

"brandon " Discussed on The Brandon Triche Show

"Brandon trish and this is brandon tricia and this is our first version of the live brandon christner's so welcome to the show to anybody. That's watching we appreciate any support. That's out there for us right now today on the show. We have ernie richardson. He is a licensed addiction therapist in the state of florida. Welcome to the show. Ernie thanks so much brandon as usual. Thanks for having me. So i guess today we're gonna talk bout a relapse and that kind of stuff so let's start off with a question. What tends to be the behaviors for people that are before they go through relapse. Okay well the standard line is that relapse happens. Way before ingestion of the substance or that behavior so The of it is the actual ingestion of the substance or the behavior. But you'll see people's behavior start to change. You'll see the not acting the way they act in a normal sober way You'll see them cut back on meetings. You'll see them Not have the involvement. They used to have But it doesn't have to be twelve stepped base somebody indications are this sleeping alive. They're angry ally You know just behaviors that are counter intuitive to what they usually present as a clean and sober man or woman. So when you're talking about like behaviors like sleeping a lot. How how would you know that. Somebody just not naturally tired or or if they're actually added sleeping at six o'clock at naturally tired you know. Everyone needs a nap. Now dan you know maps good but on a consistent basis if somebody is missing appointments or Missing work just again normal things level or who knows the loved one as well as as as you do. No one does so you know what normal behavior is brandon. You abnormal behavior is so you know you start looking for little little indicators like that and again on jumped down the first conclusion like oh they slept in today must be using..

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"brandon  " Discussed on The Brandon Triche Show

The Brandon Triche Show

05:50 min | 7 months ago

"brandon " Discussed on The Brandon Triche Show

"I could go back to drinking bad mistake. Ben well listen to brennan. I a little bit about your backstory. I'm not going to get into in detail here. But if you're drinking enough your liver is impaired. You might have a problem with alcohol. It might have a problem. You know need to expand to all substances and it's not that i'm over the top with this stuff but you know it's still behaviors. It's it's it's internet sex appointed porn gambling food addiction. Food addiction relate to that. Yeah and again i'm not. I'm not saying you have to join a conference somewhere in the in alaska but you need to be aware of all these things that possibly could affect the big main part of your addiction. Which is whatever your drug of choices you know how important how do you spot a reservation like before it happens. Sometimes people will have reservations. They don't even realize that they are reservations or like. How do you spot your reservations again. I know the main topic. We're talking about here is transient. But that's the value of a sponsor that talking back and forth a sponsor you know could pick up on stuff saying you know what i think. He might have a reservation there and just getting to know his spawn. See but there are so many different variations brandon that it could possibly happen. It's difficult to pinpoint. Which one is the most dangerous or the one that you have to look out for the most any reservation of dangerous. Well let me let me flip it on yet and say like in your life. What's a reservation that you've come across and actually had to To get through in the process of recover. Dang dang brandon. Really gonna put me out there. So wow off the top of my head all right so i suffered from anger. I'm embarrassed to say how long in recovery. I had anger problems. Fifteen years was cleaned fifteen years..

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"brandon  " Discussed on The Brandon Triche Show

The Brandon Triche Show

05:20 min | 7 months ago

"brandon " Discussed on The Brandon Triche Show

"Sometimes it can feel like you're the odd personnel until you get in and that's very that can be hard. Yeah yeah this is all new. You know you're new. Recovery response he grouping or family at this newness is very unique. And it's it's it's all sometimes very very trying. You know so. But what i found when i found in twelve step recovery is that people are all data to help each other. You know they they they want to make you feel comfortable. They want to bring you into this family. If that's the case but You know you're dealing with personalities it also you gotta remember that their personalities well people's anonymous. It's called alcoholics anonymous narcotics anonymous. You know it's not well people's so you got you you add in flow. It's like anything else. You start a relationship with a new guy or gal you still have to get the footwork after. Find out what's going on. Who's who you know who who's more knowledgeable..

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"brandon  " Discussed on The Brandon Triche Show

The Brandon Triche Show

04:12 min | 8 months ago

"brandon " Discussed on The Brandon Triche Show

"Check glaze to walk. Go go go. yeah. I know it's inconvenient but we're talking about your life fear you're gotta have that stuff in line ready to go okay. But again it's not for forever. It's situational depression. Edgy going through. I found that like before. I really wanted to get cleaned in my life that i would intentionally hide things from the doctors specifically because i want to continue using certain scripts that i knew that they'd right which is terrible. I know i know. But that's how we manipulate situations. We manipulate these doctors. If their full training to go to one eight meeting. I could play. This guy can play ago before the computers role locked up together allegedly allegedly. I might have. I forgot if a guy onto this doctor here. This start today. His doctor in queens. This one in brooklyn string on air brandon allegedly looking at me closely allegedly got it got it got it. That's why i yes. I go got the wrong impression on me right. You're you're above board one hundred percent all your life. I am don outright lights podcasts. In here you you know but I mean i guess. Is there anything that you wanna cover On our way out like that. We didn't cover this time that you can think of well. I just wanted to reiterate how important all the moving parts to get together. You know there's a lot of moving parts. Don't get discouraged. Don't get disappointed. You know rolling back to psychotropic. Medications is about ten or fifteen that we use at different varying dosage sometimes in combination with each other. You know so. It's hard for us to throw a dart and get the right one. Sometimes you have to play with it. Sometimes you do you increase this year decreases and all the while you. The patient is feeling the symptoms. And it's easy for you to throw a handsome add is crap doesn't work but stick with it stick with because you know what would all these moving parts and a site how important a psychotropic medication pieces stick with it. Just go through the feelings console with adopted. Be truthful about the efficacy of of of the medication. he prescribed And that's really. I wanted to drive that point home. That's so so important and stuff. We said i could wrap up. You know talk for out three three hours. We're we're going to have you on quite a bit so really breathes it and i wanted to thank you again brandon for for bringing me on your podcast. It's so important to get the word out there it's so important to let addicts know and love ones that that you're not alone you're not alone. There's a whole community out there. That's ready to help you so please embrace that community. Get a good therapists if you want. One I you don't mind if i give him my my phone number data go for up at the web website at the end right. I was so it's nice by four two one three three nine to three all right. So let's get in touch with me bait your addiction now dot com correct beach addiction. Now that's perfect while again brandon..

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"brandon  " Discussed on The Brandon Triche Show

The Brandon Triche Show

03:07 min | 8 months ago

"brandon " Discussed on The Brandon Triche Show

"They've been doing more more research. And they find that most of the people who suffer from mental health disorders. And you know it's bad enough to have addiction depression or if you have bipolar or any other of the addictions addictions but any other symptoms that go on with the disorder. It's so so important. It's more often not the emotional. The emotional things go on and because of the sprang chemistry and chemicals. We put in it lots of people. Lots of people have depression. And you know it. It's situational depression. It doesn't have to be clinical depression. You know situation you newly sober you still fighting with your mate. Your job is out is teetering. You know so you had these emotional problems that you have to deal with all the while you have to do with them sober so i see more of the mental health stuff now. I know you may be thinking. Oh you know. He's a carpenter. He's got a hammer everything. Looks like a nail follow that one But no i. I look at things Would would this. I open to anything. So i see these people coming in and i see that the problems at the having i am so so fortunate to not have any met while not having any menthols lamb kinda crazy. But i'm saying depression bipolar those things because it really is tough. It's really tough like that. That's moreover diagnosed now. Or you know. I i know you know you had you know. No i think. I think the the the the the testing that they do now and the open mindedness wasn't still is a stigma associated with mental disorders. It's bad enough that they're in attic. Now you tell me that we have. We have a mental health issues. I'm also a very very strong believer in psychotropic medications that deal with the depression and it doesn't have to be forever. It can be just a first. Year refers six months of of your recovery. But it's critically important to utilize the things that we've been handed these gifts you know. Years and years and years ago in bill wilson who wrote the Co founders of alcoholics anonymous. He suffered from terrible depression terrible and he had no medication back then and his guy who stay clearance over a after he founded alcoholics anonymous for the rest of his life and he struggled with depression. It was debilitating in his writing so he would talk about it often. So do you have any. Do i have any like mental illness while you struggling with any of depression or anything like that Specifically i don't think my depression. I do have mild depression. I don't have like. But i've had that all my life to build. Yeah it's not. It's not like something..

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"brandon  " Discussed on The Brandon Triche Show

The Brandon Triche Show

05:04 min | 8 months ago

"brandon " Discussed on The Brandon Triche Show

"Bill wilson or whoever came up with this chimps some really knew what they were doing because these increments thirty six cm ninety one twenty those times when a post acute withdrawal syndrome paws really kicks in it those intervals. Don't ask me why. I should have done so research but for some reason sophia to pick up that that chip. It's a positive reinforcement for you for you and what it does for. The room is tells the room. Like hey i did this. If he can do this. I can do it now and again. It's a positive reinforcement. Okay so drill. Real employed real real important. Does it matter whether or not you pick it up at your home group as just work. I know you're gonna find it hard to believe. But i'm a little egomaniac and enjoy my year medallion. I'm picking it every f in meeting. I'm going to arm picking it. Alabama picking it up bumping christina. What does nothing better. The accolades man fellow fellow people in recovery. A proud of you man. They're applauding throwing jabs at you. What it's it's it's important. Isn't it so important. I believed chip system is so important you know i know an they give out key tags a they give out chips. You're gambling with your life since you brought up pause. Can you explain pause a little bit. I write pause central post acute withdrawal syndrome. Okay now what it is is in these increments. People thought to have different things happening. Okay one of the main things post acute withdrawal syndrome. Is the brain chemistry. Your brain in these individuals or just continually is going like this with the brain chemistry you know. We've you know our bodies in our mind especially is not built to to have all these things happening to it. You know what i mean. The flooding with these chemicals certain brain shuts off production. That's what it is. The apathy is very very Common to at certain times because the feel good hormones that are in your brain brain is shut off..

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"brandon  " Discussed on The Brandon Triche Show

The Brandon Triche Show

05:13 min | 8 months ago

"brandon " Discussed on The Brandon Triche Show

"As you know. He is a licensed clinical therapist for drug addiction in the state of florida. Welcome back thank you. Thank you so much for having me brandon. It's an honor thank you. There were a lot of people that actually were really happy and excited and they actually thought that you did a really good job. Explaining what addiction was. And and your take on you know and especially the story that you told last time that you were on so there was a lot of people wanting you to comeback. So here i am. I i guess the first question i would ask because i've actually been asked by a few people when you go out like as like as a recovering alcoholic as a drug addict and you go out with people that are going to dinner. And they're going to be around a bunch of people that obviously are addicts and they don't know how to act. What should you expect As as the alcoholic as the the person that's there like what would be the best solution. That's that's a great question that i'm acid myself in my practice as well. The the attic wants to have as much normalcy as possibly can so from their perspective they don't want inhibit the situation. They don't want a burden anybody but all the while in their head and thinking. Oh my god oh my god oh my god my god i got you know so from that standpoint is really nothing to do but just try to have it be as normal as possible now to flip side the family member. They're also going on my on my on my you know they're doing it quietly and the only thing it's really changed for a loved one of somebody who's trying to make this a recovery. The only thing that's really changed for them is the date somebody be working in themselves either through individual therapy or or or a group setting and the person the attic is working on themselves that trying to get better at trying to figure that way in this new world they have this drug and alcohol-free world and and you know what it is is people trying to interact and that interaction is so so difficult for both parties. The attic is working themselves and then a loved one just sees the date change. They don't see the the improvement that the attic will have even in short period of time so again normalcy. That's what i think that we're trying to shoot for on both parties part so like them. Drinking in front of you is okay. I mean it's up to the adequately to be around..

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"brandon  " Discussed on The Brandon Triche Show

The Brandon Triche Show

04:35 min | 9 months ago

"brandon " Discussed on The Brandon Triche Show

"Mean like me personally me especially professional if somebody wants to call you and let's say i am zuma count. Yeah i could do. Zoom meetings of people uncomfortable meeting face to face. I'd be more than happy to do that. I've done that quite often with clients and family members. You know so yeah. That's a great question. Sorry i didn't think of it. I'm trying to banish corona ronin. In my head i'm twenty twenty one Why why. I think we're already for that to freaky over with because it's it's dragging on and on and on exactly so. I made a personal commitment. Whenever anybody says colin one thousand nine hundred zero. What are you talking about you know. I don't know about. Because i wear a mask on. Walk around or talking about well. Do you have any last words of encouragement to anybody out there. Anything like that. Yeah i i really liked to just for a second touch on family members You know i heard an analogy of what addiction is like. Did you ever see a mobile over. A baby's bed brandon and it's perfectly still have never seen argument like toy. Yeah okay. Oh my god brand a motive. I didn't ask you for sixty over of asked for a mobile over. The baby's bed.

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"brandon  " Discussed on The Brandon Triche Show

The Brandon Triche Show

05:13 min | 9 months ago

"brandon " Discussed on The Brandon Triche Show

"What are your biggest recommendations for that person once they get once they get clean right ready ready. Okay go to meetings get a sponsor get power of the universe. Whatever you wanna call it called. Bob called frank called god. I don't get what you're doing it but gatty get it okay and if you get those things in recovery and to get a good therapist your life will change and the they here we go again they say beyond your wildest dreams beyond beyond your wildest dreams i still want to eat who they are. They keep them. They say that it's possible to recover. I am living proof that you can recover if you talk to friends and relatives about my behavior. Thirty three years ago. It's remarkably different than the man. I am today since before you. I am not the same person so there is hope that this will work. That you don't have to die from this disease and you could live a relatively happy life. I mean i. I had a great time. I kid around a lot. I'm you know. I have a serious disease that will kill you. Yes let it become active addiction but all the other stuff. I'm i'm out of my mind in a good way but i'm out of my mind. I have fun. i met friends. I felt like sitting garnell. My god i can't drink now. I enjoy my life. You know so. Hopefully that says a little something This is actually my first year of not using or drinking on new year's eve it was amazing. Actually it was a great great thing as first time. I'd never even wanted to. Yeah not to get too far ahead of myself. I'm still learning in in addiction and recovery. So i'm there. I'm not trying to say that. I'm perfect at all. But no no but you know what. Don't don't downplay brandon. That's a major accomplishment for a guy you know your age. I know you're not really twenty. Forgot your aides to be able to save. Proudly this is first show New year's the first sober holiday season. That's remarkable. don't downplay that..

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"brandon  " Discussed on The Brandon Triche Show

The Brandon Triche Show

05:15 min | 9 months ago

"brandon " Discussed on The Brandon Triche Show

"I had try to fiction. May not being a stable. As i appear to now i was allowed mouth obnoxious new yorker who had an answer for everything but when i walked into the rooms of alcoholics anonymous i was beaten. I didn't have an answer. I tried everything. I could to to to deal with this addiction and failed miserably. So i listened to those guys when they said sit down shut up. You don't know anything about getting clean and sober. And he's men taught me how to stay clean and sober. They didn't sit. Hold a tissue box for me. Although i needed it at various times in my recovery. But they taught me how to live a life free of alcohol and substances. And i gotta tell you brandon I wouldn't trade it for anything in the world. i wouldn't trade it i. I have remarkable gifts. Not just being able to work with addicts. But you know just gifts. My family trusts me. They love me thirty three years ago. If i told you it was daylight. I strongly suggest you go outside and check lied. Lied about everything you know. I call it practicing my craft. You know addiction is is. It's a lying disease. I mean you end up lying in you end up. Taking you ended up taking from you ended up taking people's emotions and basically discarding them like they don't matter exactly and you know it's the epitome of selfishness. I want what. I want. What i want and i don't wanna pay any questions. That's what a seven year old says but the same time in addict whether attend the twenty to thirty to forty to fifty. They say the same thing. I want what i want when i want and i don't wanna pay any consequences but the fact that is the way. The rules of the game on brandon is always consequences always and If i didn't take this past. I know for sure that i'd be dead right now. I'd be dead. Not that i would wanna die but i would be dead. Because of the way was involved in the amounts of alcohol drugs. I was putting in my system to just quell that feeling of uneasiness that i had as a child i know for fact i'd be dead so i'm very very grateful that i found a recovery and be went on this spiritual journeys while i can call it by going back to school getting enough initials after my name You know please. Don't be impressed with my degrees. You know. all sides degrees brandon. What the erectile. The mob erectile mamata.

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"brandon  " Discussed on The Brandon Triche Show

The Brandon Triche Show

03:58 min | 9 months ago

"brandon " Discussed on The Brandon Triche Show

"What's wrong with you. You weren't him to work with a sponsor that's going to help you with defects of character or shortcomings then you you may listen to people who did. Your addiction is harmed. And you make amends to these people Making amends by the way is insane. I'm sorry it means to amend. We don't amended contract by saying you're sorry to contractor brandon you amend the contract by changing it's part of the twelve steps changes you Towards this ultimate goal is a maintenance part of it By doing a daily inventory in working with other addicts which is very gratifying of the twelve. Steps i really didn't do it any justice it's a lot more indepth but for the sake of expediency That was a condensed version of the steps with which the producer would be the hardest for you the one. I'm on no jovan. They say. I don't know who they are always hair being quoted. They say they say the first step is the hardest one. Because it's the one that you have to make a commitment and the first step reads that you're powerless over alcohol or your addiction. There's a dash and then you'll life had become unmanageable say unmanageable. I mean that you can't manage it left your devices. You being the attic. Not you being branded but you being the addict left ear devices. You have chosen things that have not helped. You left your devices. The things that you thought would fix you will make you feel better. Limited period of success. Obviously you need a new manager. You need somebody else to manage it. Nets with transition is into power the universe relying upon that to be your new manager. So that's what they say. I think they're all difficult in their own right. Just a little personal antidote. The guy who took me through the steps on as a he said estimate he said earning. If you have the courage to do this you'll be a changed man when you get any other side. I didn't believe him. I thought he was full of crap. But i decided i didn't have a better answer. I had tried everything else at the point. I'm gonna listen to him and the fact of the matter is brand of my life did change. I am not the same man that i am. At the beginning of those steps to the end of those steps and in many men through the steps and changed a number of their lives And it's remarkable to see that it really is. It's michael from a clinical standpoint with my job. But it's also remarkable for me to see that in my real life perspective I'm supposed to be in the trenches with addicts. I dunno it's like sounds hokey. But it's my calling in i. I wanna be anywhere else you know. I wish i would have started this. You know thirty forty fifty years ago. But i know i looked at all. Thank you brandon. Thank you when whenever you got clean. What was the How did you stay clean like once once. You actually got clean after the first step. How did you stay clean. Well i end. I had the remarkable fortune to be surrounded by some very spiritual man who said this to me. Sit down shut up. You don't know anything about getting cleaned. You know a lot about getting so you're anything about getting sober oiling. To do is get high at sounds rough but trying to picture. While i will try to picture me with hair..

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"brandon  " Discussed on The Brandon Triche Show

The Brandon Triche Show

02:22 min | 9 months ago

"brandon " Discussed on The Brandon Triche Show

"I made a promise to myself in the people. I work with as a substance abuse. Counselor my job is to do whatever every can to knock people off that line and people to aaron recovery. It's their job to knock people the line however they can and that brandon's my story. I got here that that's a man. I love the analogy. That you just made with the gun. Because that's that's it's so true. I mean people get so. I mean that's kind of what going back to the same thing. Repeating the same habits over and over and over again. That's exactly what it's like and when you're in it it's almost impossible to see outside of that peripheral view right. You're blind. You're blinded by the behavior. You blinded by The chemical working on your brain chemistry. You know you're a brain disorder to begin with addiction and substance working on the brain. It's it's like a chinese fire drill no offense to chinese firefighting but but but it's like slightest rather raise running around and go and like go to work and act normal just to hear an accountant. Yeah no problem. I got to cover it. It's crazy Well as far as like when since you brought up the twelve steps earlier what exactly like. What exactly is the twelve steps to you per se going forward to anybody. That's actually not familiar with the big book. Okay great question. Really really good and an important question. Twelve steps is a program that fashioned. It's nothing new. It's just that it's in a very specific order and it's a very poignant people who are battling addiction. You know all the while. I don't want to scare anybody but it is a it's a program that spiritual in nature and and i didn't say religious notice the word they use i said spiritual it spiritual in nature that helps you with the malady of addiction. Okay so you know you make man as you say what..

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"brandon  " Discussed on The Brandon Triche Show

The Brandon Triche Show

05:02 min | 9 months ago

"brandon " Discussed on The Brandon Triche Show

"Why now brennan where i grew up in brooklyn his how you handle a situation like that. I walked over to my daughter. My wife is the only other person room. And i whispered in my daughter's ear michelle. Please tell me the name of the young man who did this family can identify the body. Third quarter and i went outside and i looked up and said hi. This is going to be real interesting. 'cause i don't know about you but i never had a any sort of book manual as to what to do when you're seventeen year. Old goto tells us she's pregnant. I don't think all that are no. It was pretty devastating. I was outside. My wife came out and said what do you wanna do. I still well. Diane is two things we can do. We can go inside and say michelle. Mom mandate thinks. She made the biggest mistake. Your life package stuff go or we can say show. Mommy and daddy think he'd made the biggest mistake life. We love you. We want to be there for you. I think we should do it. A ladder so i went inside. I said michelle mommy and daddy. Things should made the biggest mistake alive. We love you want to be there for you. How pregnant at all you. you said. Seven months and she pulled his shirt tight and it was a bump now seven months brought brand and she's changed her style of clothes. She went from like really tight fitting close to. He's loose things. It was a fashion statement. I didn't know she hiding being pregnant as the sidebar. The next day we took my daughter to get prenatal care and they put the they put the little thing on a summit to figure out what the sex of the baby is. The nurse goes with elements to richardson within a look at whether we find a hotdog or a hot dog. Bun put that little thing on and hotdog band. so i have a beautiful granddaughter. who's eighteen. congratulations thank you. Thank you. And i have a grandson. But i'll one final thing. My son is one of us. When i say one of us. I mean somebody who is in recovery. Ever since he's a little kid. I saw tendencies so when he was sixteen he got arrested. He went to juvenile jail. It was it was terrible. Every other week we'd be going down to prison on. Southwest full hundred second street brandon southwest four hundred. Twenty second stras. I've never heard that. It's it's south of florida city. I mean you couldn't get any more advocates and my baby. My son was in a an institution with thirty foot. Wia bob oil fences electrified and we go down there brandon every other weekend. My wife and i visited him..

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"brandon  " Discussed on The Brandon Triche Show

The Brandon Triche Show

02:59 min | 9 months ago

"brandon " Discussed on The Brandon Triche Show

"Who loved me over and over and over again being the main one. When i got sober item made a decision to do a living amends with and now i open car doors for a push for seed in cook dinner. I actually take dinner. Pre covid. And i and i'm locked in and she has my undivided attention. That's how i make a living amends. 'cause i found a secret out brandon come close. Let me tell you okay. Women women want to things they wanna feel safe and they want someone they can talk to. Okay i've been taking a survey and i've asked hundreds of women that question if a man covina those things for you would you say you have a very very good relationship and every woman except one said yes guests with the one who said now us. Your exits are. Your current aren't wow. Here's when she said well he's gotta make me if that'd be a rock which i do make me laugh which i do but she also agreed in the end that if you provide those two things and i've even taking kind of impartial. I've asked gay men that same thing and and and they say the same thing if a man makes me feel safe and someone i can talk to. I have a great relationship anyway so true back to back to my show for store short little bit for the balance of my telling of my story. I'm gonna tell some very very terrible thing that's happened to me over. The last thirty three is i. Don't want your audience brand into thankful one single minute that i haven't had the most unbelievable and greatest time in recovery. But when i hear people tell this story. I don't wanna hear when they how they stayed sober When they got the car their dreams girl of their dreams. I wanna hear how they stayed sober. When when the crap hits the fan you know so those those. I have two children who've never seen me hi. There were two and three years old. When i stopped getting high but they they turn into teenagers right so my my son and my daughter a year. Apart in one saturday afternoon they had a fight and my son punched my daughter in his stomach and she started crying and she came home. She would his mummy. She's at the mall. Why i need to talk to mommy. I said what michelle tell me to and tell me. My wife comes home from the mall. They go into the bathroom. They both come out crying. I go what my wife goes. She's.

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"brandon  " Discussed on Scoop B Radio | #SCOOPBRADIO | Brandon Robinson

Scoop B Radio | #SCOOPBRADIO | Brandon Robinson

01:46 min | 1 year ago

"brandon " Discussed on Scoop B Radio | #SCOOPBRADIO | Brandon Robinson

"He owns out. Don't worry if you didn't catch any of that. Lake will be into description. Radio with Brandon Robinson skokie radio. down. In a teams components will. Be The Philadelphia Seventy sixers earlier this week. He expressed else. That he's. He almost decided not to play on. Certain. He doesn't know what to expect. If you pay attention to the news cycle the other day, he showed up to Orlando I would have a whole body suit on. Nasty gloves and all. You know they're depends on who you asked. MEA, there are some players who have expressed to me on that they are. They can't wait the play. No others are. On the fence and some of the players have. Made mention to the fact that they don't like the food in the bubble, but I think that's the least of their worries the. A product on the floor because they don't play. And they don't fulfill seventy games the. NBA will lose two billion dollars. I think from Lebron James. I'd be pretty motivated. I noticed a family guy the other day. When he flew out to Orlando, there's going to be missing his family for some time and I think that's something that's very understated. Some of these guys on married and have families, and they got a lead their families for three to four months while their beer diets while their husbands. Bubble so from the Brian James. Heavy is the head the crowd that you wear. It's got a lot of things considered a you know hopefully in the Lakers. Misstate Safin while they compete in the talks over. You bring a toughie. Bring the Dunkin..

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"brandon  " Discussed on Digital Leadership with Brandon Cox

Digital Leadership with Brandon Cox

05:51 min | 2 years ago

"brandon " Discussed on Digital Leadership with Brandon Cox

"Off. Hello, welcome to digital leadership with Brandon Cox. This is a podcast where I share some perspective and some encouragement on life leadership and digital marketing. So if you fall into any of those three categories, you're alive, you're a leader or your into digital marketing. And hopefully, if your leader you want to learn about digital marketing, then I think you're gonna enjoy this and get some things out of it. Hope you'll subscribe and pass it along and share it with other people in this inaugural episode as I kind of launched this podcast. I wanna lay a bit of a foundation for the coming weeks. I wanna talk about some things that are killing leadership is really the burden out of which the reason why I'm launching this podcast to begin with is because I I want to speak into the lives of leaders. I believe that leaders are suffering that more than ever before were watching as people of. Influence people who influence their their world or community their church for good are struggling they're failing. They're falling. They're going through hard times, and and quitting and checking out and get knocked out and getting fired and just all kinds of things occurring around us in the leadership world. And I think there's some things that are killing us some some enemies some tactics. Some traps some threats that we need to be aware of and I want to cover those over the next few weeks. I wanna talk about six in particular wanna start off today by talking about a lack of identity, and how that affects us as leaders. Also wanna talk over the coming weeks about burn out about mental health issues about sin and spiritual lethargy and how to get your passion back. I wanna talk about marriage and relationship issues in the life of the leader. And I wanna talk about some limiting beliefs. But I wanna start off today by talking about the issue of identity. How is it that you? You as a leader come to know who you are zig Ziglar guy that I've come to appreciate a lot in the last few years once said and often said that you gotta be before you can do. And you gotta do before you can have what he meant. Was we often define ourselves. We decide whether we're successful not based on what we have. I have possessions. I have prestige have power have a position and the problem with that is you can't have until you do until you do certain things you do something for a living. You take some action. But you shouldn't do until you be until you know, who you are at your core until your identity issue is settled because when your identity issues settled, then you know, what to do. And then you will have the right things a love what zig said, I think he's spot on. Then I wanna just follow that train of thought for a minute and talk about what I think are some wrong. Sources of identity. Annual reports of the largest and fastest growing churches and so forth. And if you don't have a strong sense of identity all that can affect you. By comparison, you start to start to kind of compare your blooper reel to everybody else's highlight reel social media doesn't help. But you know, it's not the problem either. It's it's an identity issue. I think we also route our identity sometimes in our achievements and the danger in that is when my achievements don't stack up enough. I feel a loss of identity or when I walked through failure. I forget who I am. And I m I really am. I really right about this. You know, if all of my achievements, are what prop up my Dimity. I think I'm in trouble. My mom used to work for guy that had what he called an ego wall in his office. And it was a wall that had all of his degrees and certificates and and awards and letters from famous people and all that kind of thing had had it their article. That were written about him because he'd worked on some high profile cases and whatnot. And so whenever he would get down. He look at that wall. And it would remind him of all of his accomplishments. The problem is sometimes what we accomplish we don't necessarily have a lot of visual recognition of, you know, not a lot of certificates and awards for the things that matter the most. And so it's not just it's not just chievements. It's not just comparison. It is it is more than that. I think another source of identity that is unhealthy and wrong. Is that we often identifier selves, according to a tribe. According to the camp that we fall in another words, there's a group guys out there group of fellow peers colleagues, and they all tend to believe certain things, they all tend to say certain things behave in a certain way. And we get worried that if I don't believe or behave or talk. In the same way, as they do if I don't criticize the same people as they do I won't fit in anymore and tribalism is a terrible source of identity because what if the whole tribe is wrong. What if you need to break apart on an issue, you need to have a strong enough identity to go at the end of the day? Their approval is not what drives me so a speech super careful with those false

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