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Bevy Smith & Cynthia Bailey

Watch What Happens Live with Andy Cohen

23:41 min | 1 year ago

Bevy Smith & Cynthia Bailey

"Welcome to the Bravo clubhouse for the podcast edition of Watch. What happens live with me? Andy Cohen Kenya's loose lips caused her to frown and when it comes to reading fashion she wears the crown. It's much whatever's I was sent the evaline. Bevy Smith Live now choline back from break in the Bravo clubhouse on her first show of the new year with two guys who are ready to put the tea In twenty while we were on break my first Gusman put a ring on it which put a smile on my face please. Welcome real housewives of Atlanta's Cynthia Bailey on radio and Sirius. Xm Channel. I don't want to. It's the one and only bevy Smith. You can bet that every cocktail he makes. We'll be served hashtag chilled old fiance. Mike he'll greatest dude. I mean like a year and change ago. You were just just like a sportscaster. And now they're a sportscaster and you're engaged and you're on the house up to a bright beautiful woman. Happy New Year habit that you're always a jetsetter take off a plane from where Ghana and not cry. How was gone? It was amazing and then I took a little over to Casa Blanca. How I mean why nine and how was incredible Casablanca? Bevy went to the soup. I went to a mosque. I did all the things that went to the four seasons. Mom the best way I got Homma you ever had that they gave you the people. The People Bathe Benjamin Eh. Benjamin Happy New Year. I did actually Mike and I was in Ghana last year this time as well but I've been spending most of my time. I'm in Los Angeles with Mike. Very good all right on. Tonight's Atlanta needing joined the ladies on their tour of Toronto and began an apology tour of her own. Take a look. Anything that I've done wrong. I just want to own my own stuff. I didn't mean to hurt. Your feelings apologized today. I know that there are a couple more people in the group that would deserve a little bit of conversation. You know having gene sort of conversation with cautious relationship is not in the best place. What about you in Kenya? I'll see where the real real conversation really. I don't know her anything. Honestly she doesn't owe me seemed like she went to Toronto with intentions of buildings and bridges. Yes what do you think I I believe she did. I will give me credit for really trying to take some ownership over. You know some of the things that she may have done to You know pit some folks up all right well tomorrow at ten o'clock here celebrating adding below-decks Hundredth episode of members from the past seven seasons. You don't WanNa Miss. This is going to be live tomorrow night. At ten o'clock Cynthia and badly are here here for your questions but before we get to those. Here's what three things I'm obsessed with tonight. I on tonight's Atlanta. Everyone continued to believe that Kenya had been indecent. When she's spilled the beans about Cynthia's proposal take a look for Michael on those two doll- he might propose to bring that up? You know what I just felt it and you know we always have conversations about my munitions on things. Don't ever see here ear and tried to question why I said this or this that and the other because that bitch right there I ride for her heart. He's been planning this for months. I received a thank you for sure can. Can you just likes to have moment is like really messed up all right. Here's what fulltime. WWAFL DOT. TV I WANNA know did. Kenya purposely obviously tried to ruin Cynthia surprise proposal. Yes or no Micheel You were not happy about this when you saw the clip of her saying. Oh he's going to proposed. What was your reaction? I will admit I was a little bit upset when she got me that She had come up to her and told her that I was going to propose but at the same time I don't care doesn't mean. Any malice came always rods for. We're Cynthia so hey I just wanted to be perfect. So that was one diplomat audience. Overwhelmingly thinks she. It's purposefully. Tried to ruin your. What do you think well I will say this? I mean at the end of day. Can you is my friend. I really don't think that she really wanted to ruin my proposal It was pretty. Tell me that I was going to be proposed to but you know what she made a mistake. It is what it is and inner defense defense. She does have a miss cleo moments where she can kind of predict a little bit but for me at this point in my life with friendships. You know if you make a mistake you make a mistake take care. It's not dealbreaker. All right second. On last week's Atlanta's Cynthia received a sweet note from Nina. But tonight the ladies tried to get to the bottom of how that heartfelt note got neely leaked to the blogs wants your exact wording hotter they end up in a block. I don't ever talk to bloggers lavas. Don't always point the for the person that you think. Okay point the fact that you don't think Kenya is now for leaking. Thanks to the block. She's a dirty ass girl. One asshole their city says she loves the car and then she found it. Oh she told me that. Allow these girls sales stories all the time but they tell you one thing they don't do is talk to knee leagues. My my last name might be leaks leaking all right good line. Here's why go to. WWAFL tell us. Who Do you think leaked the note out to the press? Navy Cynthia Kenya or someone else Who Do you think did well? Here's the thing. Nina obviously sent me the car. Well I got the car from Marlo but it was sealed and they got it from all right the only other person. The only time I didn't have that in my possession was when Noel ticket when Mike proposed but you read it to everybody. I didn't memorize verbatim art okay. Everybody thinks Kenya leaked all right. Finally we all know the Bevy Smith. Breath is a licensed fashion connoisseur. But I want her to take a break from critiquing hemlines to sound off on all the trend lines. Today's pop culture landscape with validation nation. ooh round three Bevy neon big bags puppy sleeves are among the predicted. Twenty two thousand fashion trends. What is your Trendy must-have item going in the New Year puffy sleep because God bless her soul mate? You Recipes Diane Cavaliers Dominique Deborah during Anderson's in my CNN New Year's Eve Broadcast Lindsay Lohan. told us she's aiming to work in Hollywood this year. Do you foresee the industry welcoming her with open arms or will this be an uphill battle. I it's definitely going to be an uphill battle. She stunned his time and again she's at how many comebacks I think she should just you know she's doing quite while doing nightclubs. And things like that they are you excited to watch jalen Shakira performance. The super bowl or are there other artists. You would have preferred to provide of artists. I think it was a bit of a divisive Isis. Move to have the Latin American kind of and the Hispanic kind of question there with all the drama going on when the NFL and black people. Okay okay go. Kind of divisive move on their part Dodson. Tonight's Golden Globe awards being going completely meatless now curling a plan meal to attendees okay. First of all it's an open bar. They have copious amounts of moet champagne on the table. Now you already know if you all eat some Broccoli sprouts child. You won't be drunk. Yeah that'd be completely bombing at the box office. We'll ever thought that that was a good idea. The about the song. Yes that's it. No one ever want to see that thing ever thank the tonight show. Marks are first clubhouse turn up in the New Year and new decades since nobody does new beginnings quite like a real housewife sun. Blade New Year's resolution brought to you by booking dot com. Cynthia I'm GonNa give you pairs of New Year's resolutions for each check your fellow Atlanta wives. You Gus which razzies are real in which are real fake okay media leaks. Is this real okay. Which of these Israel keep working on myself myself day by day to be the best neither is or to drink in moderation or quit altogether old to keep working on myself no drink in moderation okay in Kenya to write a daily message in Brooklyn's journal or to stop spending so much on fashions and put more money away for Brooklyn To stop spending so much money on Your two for to Brooklyn. Eva Tried not to get pregnant this year with baby number four or stay off social social media as much as possible. It's too negative. Oh It's right out to get pregnant your corral Burt Candy Candy Tucker slowdown slowdown on expanding. My Empire stayed home with the kids more or I plan on only making intentional business decisions all year. Stay on with the kids. It's more. Is this decision. Okay your show improve my health after become healthier. Denis's help chain job. Dennis help change more. PJ's Jason Diapers Healthier. Thank you so much. Cynthia people are tweeting and they still really really think that Kenya tried to sabotage your proposal Bevy Mr Jason Anthony said he loved fashion Queens. Do you keep in contact with Ms Lawrenson Sendero. J Yes at all times Lawrence's my baby and he actually just wrap the new film. Wayne and Derek. J. is doing quite well as well so yeah we all still together. Can you tweeted that. She hung out with the blogger in question in Miami with any And so she is firmly firmly Saying this was not her who leaked that Cynthia shared an age. FACEBOOK Dawson. Said your response to marlow about Kenya. Bringing your product and band. Tomorrow's tomorrow's advance was well. You invited her so she came however a clinician disrespect now look. I don't agree with Kenya. And you're bringing a marching band that was like Super Shady. Like I'm not saying it wasn't but at the same time I mean. Would I do it now. But what can you do it. Yes let's go to Donovan from Florida. Donovan what your question. I- Andy. Hi How are you doing. Great vacation in Miami had agreed great. So do you think Kenya is jealous of your relationship. Because her relationship. It's not going around with mark or what's help we can. I don't think she's jealous. You know I mean I think her situation is completely separate online. It is what it is. I mean she wants her our relationship to work. I want her relationship to work at the end of the day. I still stand by the fact that I believe that can. It's my friend. Even though she was a bad friend at the proposal was he is my friend mistake verbal diarrhea perhaps people. You just can't cut people off every time they do something dumb. Ah France or dump stop speaking dumb stuff on next land of the group continues to experience a major audio issues. Here's a sneak peek. Who Have you you heard me tell me recorded me? First of all a recording is something very different than Audie whereas regiment was a serious situation. So if you WANNA get landlord you respect me as with the woman in the world wait a minute. This is the thing that I know you adjust negative missy. See here this is who you are when I get pissed off and Marlow got into it and I got really upset because this whole thing with knee and I it's like really something that's really personal and hurtful to so it is a trigger and like the whole season marlow really kept saying you know you know. She really came under the pretense. She was trying to get us back together. So when it went left and I was like wait a minute. I thought you were trying to make this work matter. We're all in the room together. Why are you talking crazy okay? It's game time. Everybody's since I'm joining with females I wanNA know which looks they thought rocked in which caused them to to say what the frock. It's time for the reading room. We're GONNA walk through some of the Golden Globes fashion here. We go Washington in Aljazeera. What do you think I'm Tuxedo? I thought it was very risking daring for her to have on no shirt and just that joy for the cleavage and everything very very risque from his Carrie Washington you dig it some bill. It just doesn't feel like pulp would definitely want to investigate them. And Alex Panache. Yes Ah the thing all of this things right now. The best thing about this for me is that billy poor the has finally come into its own. He's been the broadly for many years. Yeah mainstream and he's showing these kids. What they've been missing for decades was sleeping on? Okay Cynthia what do you think. A good Gwyneth. Paltrow in here you know I love Mah Blah Blah this okay. y'All he also familiar right French Golfing Shirley's on in Dior now. No NEON NEON is a really big trend right now. But that's a horrible hub on her also. I think it was supposed to be like really racy. Because it's a boost underneath with the Grecian. Look I just think it's too much and doing but not enough. Talk to me about J.. Lo in Valentino ladies. Cynthia Oh my God I love Jaylo lakes I love her however in this look I will say she's given me. I mean I know it's the holidays. We just got. Aw Christmas present because she was up a Golden Globe as a stripper in the very far away from that okay. I'M GONNA give him no sex appeal. I`Ma give them you know Meryl Streep that's being looks Taylor Swift Etro Mall. She looks like a matron. Okay I don't buy the book out in Ghalia Lob love if I pronounced that correctly I love to. He had his so much and I and she's got a great shape and I don't think that this benefits her body as much as got. Oh Great Ati I don't think it was. I don't think choice. B Waller Bridge and Ralph and Russo. I Love I love boo clay. Shoutout to the shouldn't go ask moment and I love all the tool and the Klay and all the detail in that suits okay. What about Margot Robbie inch canal? You know what come on the bride ride shape and why would you do this bill. Look these baggy pants and the domino. You WanNA uncomfortable dollar Laura dern and YSL cussing that two independent spirit awards. Andy Okay okay. Okay okay. One More Cate Blanchett in Mary Tron. Zoo Okay so let me just tell you this very important architecturally important look and the reason why I love this. Is Kate Blanchett whereas closed divinely. Well she served this look and I think that. Not many people cookware. This and she does it. Thanks thanks for playing solution. Sweatshirt solution is more brother available shop by Bravo dot com and emailed emails. Cynthia what is Peter. Think of Mike. He'll be invited to the wedding. I don't think you'll be invited to the wedding. And if he is I don't think you'll come But I really haven't talked to Peter Out Mike so I wish him well and I hope that he wishes me well. Big New Year's Eve party you know in Miami. No one really Apollo right. Oh Apollo was her to know that you're giving in a way toward I heard was it's for my mom goes to Brielle L. Bearman for kicking off New Year new mission by dissolving her lip fellers we'll great reminder for people who resolve to lose weight. You don't need to specify where the weight is coming tonight. I call goes to the Ferrari that drove into Lisa Vander Pumps restaurant pump today. Having a car crash up pump is a big change for l.. VP WHO's restaurants generally just employed train wrecks themselves. I want to thank the avenue. All right we are here with Cynthia Bailey. In order beverly's book streams and say all right So here's the deal in honor of tonight's Golden Globes we're saluting the best performances by a real house five in a dinner fight so head on over to. Wwe Way to vote for your pick. Here are the nominees the nominees for best performance by a real housewife in dinner fight. Drama are juice the red mic unprotected. Yes make any with me everything Competition is all right you guys go to WWAFL dot and vote. Wow well okay. This seems to be a landslide for Bethany. Bethany is watching the show all right. Let's keep this up because it's it's taking a minute and let's go to some calls caller it is Tricia from Las Vegas. Hey tricia what's your question. Listen hey my questions from badly I wanNA know. which celebrity do you think needs a fashion reset for twenty twenty more twenty to win Sh- who's a celebrity looks a mess? y'All tell me I don't know. I think I want to see everyone. WHO's young do that do it really? Well Taylor swift tonight looked a little matronly. Margot Robbie looked a little like hat. I find be young. It's not a Lotta time that you have left to show you the scene right. You should know that the GM all right Andrea from New York. Hey Andrea what's your question and looks like Bethany one that expired. Yeah I wanted to know what the house will be part of your bridal bridal party good one that's a great question. You know winning. I am not doing a small wedding. I don't think he's going to be super big but in terms of bridesmaids look a mind is like a big. I don't know I'm going to have rights meets on. Could you save your coins drama drama. Let's go to Alex from Long Island Day. Alex which question. Hey My questions debbie okay. What's The craziest thing you saw when you went to the mega last year all? Wow The craziest thing I saw. I went to make gain La. You know what honestly Andy I felt like the met gala just like like any other Hollywood party I've been to. I used to go to the met gala back in the day when it was really fashion people and now it's become just really celebrity driven is not about fashion anymore more and so I just felt like an Oscar party a Golden Globes worthy. It will feel like an Infield that special to me CY winter. Uh Burn up from Alabama. He very blessed. Hey Andy Hi bevy high An Mike Hike. My question is for Cynthia. I was just wondering well you am. I do a pre nup I aw I mean I think it just is smart it just protects everyone and we're working on a lot of really great things together and We actually had this conversation with candy and todd and we got a chance to see how they kind of worked it out but We're tweeting out. Yes we're good. We're both had my money taken before. Ah I don't take mighty agan money you know. Oh not implying that she will take my mom like when you come into a relationship with yours. Yours is mine is mine and we made together. We can split absolutely happens to in that that way. It won't end by the way I love the thank you control room for the split screen on Hasselback. Yes Cynthia Bevy my it off. Thanks for listening to the PODCAST. Everybody hope you enjoyed the show. Remember new episodes episode. Go live Monday through Friday at four PM Eastern time make sure you're subscribed to have a great rest of your.

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Bevy Smith & Shamari DeVoe  - 01/06/19

Watch What Happens Live with Andy Cohen

27:05 min | 2 years ago

Bevy Smith & Shamari DeVoe - 01/06/19

"Welcome to the Bravo. Clubhouse for the podcast division of watch. What happens live with me? Andy cohen. Hey, everybody. Happy new year watch. What happens live is back. I'm going to be a dad. I mean, so much has happened since we since we've been off I guess that was already in the works. But I shared it. Happy new year. I'm dry. I my umbrella. Thank you time square commission. And we've got a great run a show's coming up for you guys. So I'm kind of taking a step away from recording intros on the podcast. I'm just trying to consolidate to make more time for my kid. Okay. Can you blame me? No not gonna blame it on the kid. But, but I hope you enjoy and tonight we've got Debbie Smith and Chamari divo- and big week, by the way, Danielle Staub and Lindsay Lohan Wednesday night. Are you kidding me? All right. See later. She'll give your look the green light. And she told Marlow to go play in traffic. Bevy Smith and Chamari devour now. On your host. Andy Cohen live with the rubber clubhouse ringing in the first show of twenty nine thousand nine while still wringing out my clothes from New Year's Eve. I swear I'm still finding water in crevices in my body. I guess is the always eloquent and elegant host of radio Andy's better nations on siriusxm channel one zero to share to break down, the Golden Globes fashion. So I hope she brought the keys to the reading room. It is my friend bevy Smith every. The newest Atlanta housewife who needs no introduction because she was an A-List when you were an alias. Okay. Tomorrow say hi to Shomari dove. Clubhouse debut. That is just awful played from Zanzibar. Everydollar. Yes. Mother in the motherland. Motherland? Yeah. Well, speaking of mothers, when there's another there's a father, and he is the other half of Atlanta's new addition from new addition say Ida, Chamari husband, Ronnie. This is the Ronnie devotes. In the Bill vote is not take his sunglasses off. Listen, come on. I can see. Shomari during therapy through some shade towards candy. And guess what? It's our shady. Boop. Oh, man. I am struggling because I want to get my career back up and running. But a still want to spend time with my kids and like both candy, and I are mothers of toddlers. But I don't see myself just not seeing my kids for days. Oh my God. No, I really did. Not mean. Right. Well, tonight cynthia's boyfriend Mike paid her a visit and lake Bailey. Quickly became lake sexy will kind of watch this. I just want him to get here. Above the. Yeah. You gotta be sweating already rights. Remember to counter. Remember the counter? All right. I can't you. What are you gonna ask me what I wanted to ask? Cynthia bay leaf you'd be my lady. Is that? Okay. It's not a proposal like we've been exclusive for a while now. But now it's official. W W H L dot TV because that brings us to our first full question of the night, which is is Cynthia moving too fast with Mike. Yes, or no seems like Mike is not moving fast with her. At this point in the show. Maybe just a few months, right? All right. What do you think? I think they need to take their time. You know, they just basically got together, and you know, she can expect a proposal this soon. Right. Like, my husband, and I we waited five years before we even got engaged. Well, you and your husband also have very unusual religion. Looks like you guys are evenly split there. Here's a good topic. I wanted to discuss which came up on tonight's Mary medicine reunion, Toya stood firm in believing bevy you're going to have an opinion on this. She believes that single friends should not go on couples trips. Re-watch oh, really don't feel like a couple ship is appropriate for a singles. The one to come because I wanna to learn. Couldn't she be friends with these guys. Was he can't be mom as Fran now. It's twenty. But you don't think she learned something from being with the on the? On the. I think that she should be on a couple of chip first of all we wants to be the third. I would not want to be the third nothing. So on I want to be lonely girl on the couples. To make a now. And I'm just the myself. Late night. Okay. Your questions were bevy Shinwari are coming in mother in the motherland. Motherland up before we get to those. Here's what three things I am of szeswith tonight. I love you. I love you more versa. Mario said, I may be an open book. But that doesn't mean I'm easily read. But here's what that is not stopped. Everyone in Atlanta from trying to read Shomari take a look into it. The blanket formation's the up its role. I don't need to be updated or upgraded or that you do. Who do you think in this group needs a makeover Canis hands down fashionable raise if you had been an open relationship. I love for open relationship. How does that really work you came in and gave you know, hugs to everybody on the opposite side of the table feeling. You that day? Okay. You're not a bitch. You are right. Whatever bitch. Say. Are you surprised at that? Some of the women coming for you. When you're in the group, we're just could not believe that everybody was coming after my fashion's like I've never been the type ago to go after labels or follow trends or anything like that, you know, and just for Marla to come after me like that and everybody at that point. I was just fed up like, you know, just it's been so when you're on the show, but so many, you know, hyper fashionable women. Yes. Rip with drill. Yeah. Speaking of you know, we were talking about this earlier today, the a fashion needs to do you think there's a difference between being a label Queen and actually being fashionable? Yes. Yes. And you know, what when you're really truly fashionable. It can be very subtle. And it doesn't even have to depend on labels. A lot of times the labels that you wear when you're very stylish. You can't even discern. What they are are right is just the style. Second tonight on Atlanta. We found out that Porsche was kicked out of Todd's basketball themed birthday, which resulted in some very uncomfortable. Overtime take a look who went to the party. But midway through. I started noticing one of candies employees like circling me. She starts chest. Bumping me on my bed. She sheds love through my. Through my shirty approaches at girl get him of here that was wrongfully kicked out apart. That's the whole point like like become the big thing fighting victim paid. The one girl. Nobody told you to do that you not know how to control up. Problem. Best yapping, she's not throwing food in their mouth. And she's talking about fourteen. Okay. Here's go to W W H L dot TV right now. We wanna know who do you believe candy or Porsche who to you believe you've heard both sides. I love both of those girls in saying that they have to go backwards in the relationship. You know, I see what both of them are coming from. If I was throwing my husband a party. I wouldn't want him to have a good time and not be aware of any type of altercation. But at the same time, if somebody has a personal vendetta towards Porsche, they she could have very well been set up, you know, and I've been wrongfully thrown out a few clubs before. Wow. That's a really tight vote. You guys are barely on Porsches side on this one. Finally, one of my New Year's resolutions was to have more of the sage in savvy bevy Smith in my life. Here's what I wonder what twenty nineteen resolutions badly would give to some other folks who made headlines in twenty eight t and let's find out with new years Bevan Lucia. What should our Kelly's resolution being? Oh, gosh. She should be locked in the closet, aka a prison. Sound okay? I would happen to me. Nick, Jonas and Priyanka Chopra all Noblesse sponsorship money. No more sponsorship. Okay. What about Konya in west get back on the med baby? Okay. Roseanne stay off the Ambien with her. Go to Israel get out of America. Okay. What about Cardi B O? Get a get off off sense. Do know what really she's she can move on is she can you? It's a great situation down there with great situation. Okay. Oh, did she say offset? Offset was that he's amazing that she loves the girth in the ramp in the situation. Oh. All right. Thank you very much. What was your reaction? Ronnie when your wife revealed that you two had an open relationship, not not thrilled, right? Yeah. In that capacity. I mean, we talked about the fact that we were going to be open book. Ultimately, are we feel like we're marriage in Bassett, as you know, and we'd like to be transparent Otamendi, you know. So I just didn't think it was gonna come at a table with all the women. It's gonna be one woman at. The Bailey Q who's ever been in an open relationship jumped up young over you. Phones. It's Mike from Cape Cod. Hey, mike. How you doing? What your question? Oh, hi, Andy. How were you? Happy new year to graduate on the baby. Thank you. My question is most glamorous woman bevy snip. I mean, who who do you think with the most overrated celebrity of twenty eighteen who most overrated stuff, right but twenty eighteen. Easily. I mean, you know, just to be mean in like pick on the easy target like Kim Kardashian, right? All right. Okay. Everyone hated that. Orients chamari. Do you think candy should reach out to Porsche after getting kicked out of the party who yes, I have to put myself in Kenny shoes, if I was throwing a party for my husband, and there was an altercation that happened? I would have waited until after the party, and I would have reached out to see what happened, especially if I invited you to the party next week on Atlanta Porsche tells Dennis that his data plan. No longer includes unlimited text messages to take a look at this neat peak at cutoff who I was talking to you know, and then you know, you were supposed to really cut apple you're talking to. But you didn't. You saw the textbooks. Am I last relationship? I became like the face of like a great pair. I had all these issues, and I will cover up with you not only some of this with me. I'm starting to put that mass Ben on. All right. Let's go to Cathy from Atlanta. Hey, what's your question? Hi, andy. Hi Maree bit Ron and Biba bib. I've as thank you. Okay. Chamari overall. Who do you think is the is housewife on real housewives of Atlanta? Who do I think is the shadiest housewife? Of course, I'm going to say, oh, wait a minute. Marlowe not a housewife issue. Go get him baby. Bevvy Jennifer L wants to know your biggest fashion pet peeve that celebrities. Keep doing when you don't own the dress as and you don't feel comfortable in the dress. Do not let these stylish put you up and something because it's the label with us. This the biggest trend that what happened today you have to really become and whatever it is that you're okay. Well, that leads us to this as we know a bunch of a words were handed out tonight at the Golden Globes, but true winners and losers were already made on the red carpet, and since fashion aficionado bevy Smith is here we want to take a trip to the reading room. Golden Globes addition by the it's time for you to read those right carpet looks for filth. Okay. Let's start with lady Gaga here. She is in Valentine Valentino. And just stop these shows. What do we think of this? She's William Perry winkle, and this she's got the blue ear the match everything. So I thought that was fabulous is very reminiscent of what trae fail is washed war harping bouncing down. Valentino? She's had with Armand, Judy Garland. I thought it was a bit overwrought, but still beautiful you like. She looks like a mythical Cinderella. She also looks like she could be on the cover of one of those Halloween costume box. Glad to L exander McQueen. It looks like a tattered shot. It looks like a seat like seaweed moment. You know, it's it's kinda classy in in trashy and sexy all at the same time. What about Regina kidding? L Berta for all. She looked beautiful my boys. Wayman the Mike dressed her. She looked elegant in this sequence sheep, Alber Ferretti divine. Like, I love it. I love it. She's representing for us a great strong body athletic. Heard in Monique Luliang. Now, you know, what this is a pain on March to the eighties. We should kept this right back there in the. Mess. She no carbs are hip. This one was my favorite, Nicole Kidman in Michael Kors? Michael a lot of people trying to read him and show of those shade and everything, but I love it. He's a classic American designer. He does simplicity and luxury very well. Like, Tamara Levin is working. Julia Roberts and Stella McCartney John was. She looks. So darn young about thirty years old year to modern and fresh and clean and chic and yes sexy. That's all. Thank you walk. I'm inspired by her was moss and Dior while, you know, glad that she doesn't look like handmade, but she should give this dress to the made its hill. And it's not nice. Lutely hideous. Melissa McCarthy in Remax. One. Wizar-? She. Question would this trust be better? If the stars were not on it would you like about what honestly it's a lot of fabric. And when it yeah. Okay. What about Allison Janney in Christian Syria? No Levy Levy on. I love that call that seafoam blue is gorgeous. Oh, I love. It reminds me vans about you know, what I'm saying. What about how in Zahir Murad? You know, what Halle Berry in this Murad we've seen it before? But it looks grand. So you know, what if they broke don't fix Halle Berry day there? She can do. No wrong. Thank you so much. Tori from Connecticut who I believe as a question for running vote. What your question, Tori? Hey, Andy ninety I wanna know what the latest update on the new edition tour and are all the members on board. Honestly, not yet right now, we're on tour. It's Bobby Brown and bell Bevo as Ronnie Bobby Ricky and Mike RV. Kids. Who you like? Messy miss of of of Johnny in in. It was owns the name of newer dish. Oh, some T on. The members of new edition own the name bevy. Everybody. Nobody is taking that name away from the people that originated from Boston, Massachusetts. Okay. Good. Chamari Denise t. Who out of the group made the worst first impression on you? Who are the group mate? The worst first impression. Well, that's easy. Morrow? Okay. Maryland. Oh, said bevy I saw your tweet on big dick energy. I wanted to ask who has the ultimate big dick energy just a panda. But you all right here in front of me. And you are always where the demand spread. You know, you always a lot of man's whereas all the time. Conclaves kimball. You know, you're always doing those things. Having a boy, which means just Burma's. Very vera. Moslem Jakov day. They both come for tonight's Golden Globes by mazal goes to the true stars of the word show. Sandra Oh's, parents that is so cute. This thing. My parents have done to giving me a standing ovation is when I hosted New Year's Eve, and they sent me a tax saying you look wet. All the men tonight were boring suits once again when they could have warned something like the sparkley harnessed got warned by Jill these shallow. I totally love. This is very call me by your safe word. And I'm your for it. I wanna take bevy Semari Roddy. After show bevy Smith and Mari devoe. Cut you off. I was getting my malls. Hey, listen. I wanted to come from him back at the bar this show show you that in the big dick category. Yes. Tonight. Marriage. What is your feeling on my SCRUFF tonight? I did not shave. How do you? Love your squad. You like your little rough and tumble. Okay. Let's go to Trevor from Georgia. Hey, Trevor what your question. Hey, andy. My question course, marine Shomari in the year nineteen ninety nine in two thousand your group was at its commercial peak. But there were a lot of comparisons to the group TLC. How did y'all handle those comparisons? Are you still friendly with TI's in Chile presently? Well, actually, Lisa Lopez is the person that discovered are group she had creative control overly everything. Yes. So we didn't mind the comparison, of course, tell C because she's like the protege. So, you know, MTO see was like the supergroup. Yes. So who wouldn't wanna be compared to make us? You know, multi platinum supergroup like tail see better TLC than like seven. Oh, two. I like Irish like Maala. Good. Bevan's actually discovered seven. Let's go to Tracy from queens. Hatred. See what which question I thought that was pretty funny. Hi guy. How are you? Honey, I'm any for life. How how you doing? My question is for bevy. What does she think about Chamari the tire since everybody award joke since everybody's coming for her. And she feels like her wardrobe is outdated like first of all I always so people that supposed come up the meal time. Will you think about I'm like, I don't care what you are wearing. That's the thing that for job. This is a job. I don't care what you want. And you know, what I'm gonna tell you this this during the commercial break. She's a pretty girl she's younger. She got hot sexy body was she going to put on this going to look good. So let it be. Take care of when I'm with you know, what I mean because years complicated. To be more a little more, you know, gingerly about my wardrobe. Let's go to Janetta from South Carolina. Did you that a four? My first Laurie. I was wondering that her import. So we're like to like they knew each other in hostile. I wonder if she's like the same person that she is now that she was back then. Well, you know, Porsche and hang out with each other in high school. She she hung out with mutual friends of mine. But you know, she she always had a big booty. She she always a pretty girl. She's she's from Decatur. So, you know, we grow, and you know, she may be a little different from how she used to be now. She's more like the, you know, the Jessica rabbit Decatur version today. Everybody changes. Getting that money. Yes. I mean that really does change up name. Let's go to Paul up from Chicago Paula which question. Hi, Andy bevy. Now your husband in the corner over there. On me put my glasses on. Got a question for you bevy. You are number one with fashions. Please come and give me a make over these comes Chicago Bessie. I'm so little need a makeover. I'm so whoever you're dealing with loves the way you look as you are. Yes. Our been. Yes, ma'am. But you are absolutely. So professional what your comments with their trust is great. You've been to meet coming back on the show with Derek. And and miss miss Lawrence's on star, which is on FOX down. Jay is out in doing lots of big here things on movie sets and everything and I have paid CV wants to give us a redo of ways. I welcome it. I also told Andy couple of weeks ago. I don't like the ball the him about doing more for me because he's already done so much. So I leave. By the way, Lawrence from Atlanta tweeted. Yes, mother bevy Smith sitting in waves and print out. Rose, Michigan heroes. How you doing? Couldn't horse. I would actually marry everything. Okay. Over. Smoking the lonesome. Yes. I'm okay. I'm okay. I would like to actually Margaret question. What housewife was she liked to get closer to which housewife when she wanted to get furthest away from? Oh my goodness. Which housewife would I like to get closer to? Like who you wanted to be your real friend? Like Eva like, you know, we can hang out we can smoke. We can drink together, you know, and we can miss our babies, and you know, our husbands together so yellow closer to Eva who don't like to get further away from. You're okay. We do rose. No. We're done. Chamari your fun. Burst of energy on the show. Thanks. So cool. Have you here? I love it. I wanna see you guys in concert, so bad. Chew on radio in the tomorrow and pitch tomorrow. Here's a sneak peek of dairy medicine. Why couldn't you why couldn't you get an erection? I'm got wife can't say I'm not because actually because there's a lot of stress y'all want y person argument, and who's rude and negative nasty and physically abusive you pull the knife on. The ground and held me. They're great. I'm not willing to let you. For listening to the podcast everybody. Hope you enjoyed the show. Remember, new episodes? Go live Monday through Friday at four PM eastern time. Make sure you're subscribe to have a great rest of your.

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WWHL @ Home: Bevy Smith & Snoop Dogg

Watch What Happens Live with Andy Cohen

25:35 min | 8 months ago

WWHL @ Home: Bevy Smith & Snoop Dogg

"We've got this kan. Asked to come to the small town. Murder mystery sifi. Doctors romney earth needs now stars and resident alien landing january twenty seven onsite by thursday's ted danson and holly hunter star in a hilarious new comedy from previous tina fey and robert. Kerr lock mr mayor. Please don't try to speak spanish again. Paul payroll means dog and bust mr mayor thursdays on nbc. The bravo clubhouse for the podcast addition. Watch what happens. Live with me. Andy cohen. She always serves fashion heartaches and when he's with martha he bakes. It's watch what happens. Live with bevy smith and snoop dogg now. The hey everybody. Welcome to on your host. Andy cohen with two goats. One of whom loves ago. T my first guest is just a queen. She's a queen mother her new book beverly lessons from a mother. Auntie best is out now. It is so great. You guys gotta get it. Say hi to bevy smith there. She is way to see you baby. Hey baby i see you. And i love this book. Y'all it is great. My next guest is a man whose talent comes in many flavors and most of them are garnished with herb. He's currently a judge on go. Big show thursday on tbs. It's snoop dogg. Hey snoop many theme songs off the hook. I liked it all right. That's what i'm talking about. Thank you thank you. I'm going to tell jenny lows. All right thank you snoop. Wow i'm high compliment. you know. celebrities have not been walking the red carpet lately. But that's hold on before. I get into this snoop. What was your reaction to anderson in hysterics on new year's eve i mean i was like i wanted. I wanted whatever he had I wanted i wanted. Some of what what he was on because he was another lab yes. Celebrities have not been walking the red carpet lately but that shouldn't stop bevy from giving them a push in the right direction or shove if they need it. It's time for new year's resolutions round to bevy. I'm going to present you with celebrities. You tell us what they're 2021 resolution should be starting with laurie laughlin. I'll she needs to be back in. The big has not the full house. Okay what about prince. Harry and meghan markle you not all of the reinvention in the remakes like that. They are now in the united states. Get rid of the royals. Vp elect comma harris. I love communist. She is the iconic covergirl kudos. A vote on the cover What should kim cottrell. What's your her resolution be. I'm so glad that she just gave up sex in the city. Because i'm hoping they'll recast a busty round lane. Him bevy is throwing her hat in the ring. Okay i'm calling shape now. What should gail kings resolution be gale grow. Had a not you. It's never enough galloping arlene. Keep doing what you're doing okay. What about Melania trump who cares not me. Okay for new first lady. Doctor joe biden. What should her resolution be. Is the doctor in the house. Yes indeed the white right. Thank you very much. Some new year's resolutions down since nukes men. All around the doggy dog world. I want to drop a couple pins like they're hot with the round of snoop there it is. It's new by of questions. I want to find out where some of your major milestones in your life occurred. Where were you when you had your first kiss snoop mar. I is was in the alley. Nineteen eighty two girls relate. I think i think it was sharma leak to in the alley. Where were you when you. I did actually put it in. Yeah i thought you said you wouldn't put it in a is in there now. Nineteen eighty five. And and where were you snoop was at a at a friend's house who you had a girl that like me and i liked her. We just so happen to get you know a little private space and a bedroom a little mattress in lewisham real quick and fabs. Okay where were you. The first time wasn't doggy style. But i had no clue. Well you share learn. Were you the first time you wrote a song time. Border sorrow is probably in the sixth grade. And where were you the first time you heard a song of yours on the radio at my cousin's house simple cordless league honors college and it was a show called the box and nothing but a jeep game on tv screen. Wow how about the first time. You told your wife that you loved her. Where were you then you remember. She was my wife when she yeah. Nineteen ninety three. Where were you do you remember. I think i would take an out of her. Mother's house moved into my apartment. That is very sweet all right. Thank you for. Playing snoop took us there You know snoop has unleashed some notable fashion statements through the years. I wanna play fashion or trashing doggy. style edition. I'm going to run through some of his past ensembles bevy and snoop tell us if you like it or if you bag it up like doggie doodoo okay. Fashion or trashing tight curls and oversized plaid at the ninety four. Vm as bash nash. Sean has came up in that in just a swing ear. One that stage everyone. Roy bit breezy upper. Okay ain't no. Yeah that's it ain't no friday and extension that that's me okay. How about this black paisley-print at the source awards in ninety nine. S guys bash. That's one thing promised threw the rag. It's okay what about rock and blue factors for and a gold tooth right here. What do we think this bevy. Waste as big jaffe breaking implicitly. Not far from me my life. I think jeopardy showing big enough jeffrey. Right what about giving off strong lives if the second bt awards in oh to i as it is. This is park. Homage to max julien. That's easy but the show is funny. Here we are at the third annual bt awards. O-3 bevy how you feel about this. Sporting yes that's like sport teams on their mind to the sports snoops. I'm at the bass on this women hook. What did they only thing. I like is pork chops side of my face like okay. You're you are gorgeous and green plaid suit and cape at the grammys in two thousand four. This i've read for the money. Goal is for the honeys. That's what i look. Air may make all right. Thank you very much. Replay invastion or trash. Bevy sophie l. Wants known what. Did you think of ebony k williams getting getting cast on rony. I know that you've known her a bit. Yeah advocate williams. That's my girl. I think she's going to hold up on. I think she's going to class up the joint issue certainly gonna let goes ladies note that Black magic is a real thing. It's not it's not just slogan. Is the real deal. Happy my ebony. I just don't wind up in the nomex because she's very well respected so stay ebony. Okay donna p wants in on facebook. Snoop if you've spoken to dr dre. If so how's he doing anything you can tell us. Yes spoken to dr above four or five times via facetime. He definitely doing better getting better as stays in the hospital and he wants guys another. He loves you guys. Thanks you guys all the prayers and other goodbyes visit until all right. Thank you very much. I want to go to the virtual audience dion as a question for betty. I wanted to know. What did you think of. The of pregnant elect vice-president an analyst to volk covers in conversations around him while a lot of controversy around their personal. I like the sky blue soup for more than unlike the cover shot right was. I felt like the cover. Shot looked a little haphazard thrown together. But i like the on paid homage to her being aka so they had the failed read and the pill pink in the background and the controversy. I mean it's really not the the woman that is one step away from being the president. We have big fish to fry. She's on the cover of world. That's nice but let's move along unless let her run the country that does i do believe this. She got next. All right sir. Yes surely as question for snoop shirley. What's your question highs new. This is so crazy we love you. So much we've been with us since dpd What was the response on. 'em and dissing new on that new track as zeus. Do you think it's because he wasn't included in your list of best rappers. The game has ever seen. Because i know you guys were friends. We're still friends. i think. That's s family business. And i don't want to make it more than what it is. I mean he's saying what he said. I respect that and we just keep right. there is family business there. You go snoop amari k. Wants to know who you honestly think was the victor in your versus battle against max and who would you like to see battle it out next. I think the victor in my battlefield diem experts. Everybody they have one in the culture. Want because you got two great rappers. Who loved each other and was never in competition with each other. We actually inspire each other. What i'm saying. We doll doll. The word united what was just a beautiful combination of celebration coach. Who would you like to see. Next on verses is q. ll cool j. j. z. One of those guys. All right Bevy did you guys meet when bevy was at vibe magazine. Did you guys ever did you guys meet them. Mets no couple of i one time when he was in town for the bma's on he was whipped like jimmy. Irene and there was the olden days of demand with the s k initials. We won't even mentioned his name. How yes Name is my mother's name. Is beverly too much more. That's why i love you. Youtube snow snoop wants the craziest stunt. You've seen on the go big show. Oh my god. I don't want to give it away but it's i mean if you don't already seen somebody swallow was swore but it even gets more intense than that i mean i don't wanna give it away. 'cause i want you guys watch it but that's show is one of the most crazy shows i've ever seen in my life. I can't believe eyewitness. Hey what did you think. Snoopy them of martha stewarts thirst trap photo. She posted in the pool over the summer. I mean what do you mean. S martha stewart. What i mean. She's the boss lady she's acquaintances. You know she know how to get what she needed life. You understand me. She'd been doing this jaws goldfish. Oh my god daddy yearbook beverley lessons from a mother. Auntie best is so rich with wisdom. I hope you can still find two cents to spare. Give us some advice from the book of beverly bev. Elation in here it gets greater later is about squashing. The idea that you've wasted time or pasture prime. What's your advice to people who feel they've spent too long going down one career path to change course especially later in life while it's breadth in your body you can always make change so it's never too late look it snoop he has had how many incarnations i mean you know if he had stopped reading eighty really began. We would never have snoop the entrepreneur within naps new the shaft. We wouldn't have snoop the gospel artist. We wouldn't have all these variations in my for myself and my book. I run it down. I'm lou gram bevy mc ski. I'm big bet from uptown. I'm beverly smith fashion these days now bevy sniffs of all these incarnations that so you have reverend your body if you wanna make a change make. The change is not always going to be easy but it can be done strategy. That's why you need to buy the book and you were broke badly for a minute when you made that change you right. The you're right about that in the book cafe but you say you went through that and you've been you knew where you were going and you you you push forward yes and you can't be daunted by the fact that maybe your cockles a little lower than you would like it. I'm sure snoop. It's experienced financial difficulties throughout his career. You know one every now and again but that's just a part of the game and not just also pushing yourself the on nothing ventured in game. You also go outside of as i say that. If there's anything that you're passionate about you love it you do it. You don't do it for money for the love of the love and pay what is right. The and you know the you also say that becoming comfortable with being uncomfortable is the hallmark for every successful persons trajectory. Back to talk about that. I mean because you can't wrestling whose real winners people that you look up to in july on my gosh presidents iconic this number a time those people just say oh i did and they just sit down and they just take it all in now. You're always pushing yourself. You're always being uncomfortable with being uncommon. You're always been comfortable with being uncomfortable and casually. Would you get that kind of feeling it's an adrenaline rush. You like. i'll go. What the heck i'm doing here. And that's why you know you're onto something really good in the sight status quo. No mind allergy. My knowledge that is somebody always asked me. They say was smokey. Been doing this since nineteen ninety-one ninety-two why why you won't why you won't quit. Do other like you know what i can't because i can't watch my highlights while still playing the game so i can never reflect back on what i've done because i'm too busy trying to do some there. You go snoop. Wendy wants to know what you thought of. What do you think of the rumors. Swirling about kim in konya. Did you see a divorce coming. I've got my own relationship. So i can't be worried about nobody else but everybody. That's that in a relationship during this colby. Because i stayed in a lot of people have been going through some things you know what i'm saying. Finally figured out that they really loved the person that they would just call. Things been real tough on relationships. So i just prayed it everybody can stay together play together and make sure that they pray together by the way also just wanna plug snoop has formed a hip hop supergroup during the pandemic with ice cube and e forty so short short end too short and too short. Sorry do you guys have a name for your group yet. No west more now west. Our our right On that note it is time for watch. What happens a five guys. These days for all of us dressing. Nice means putting on our least hideous sweatpants but are resident fashion expert. Bevy smith is here to remind us that until recently the stars were bringing it and they will bring it again tonight. Bevy is sharing her top five gag worthy celebs. Go ahead bevy. Okay number five jane fonda. She is an octogenarian and she's still brings a sex appeal to the pocket. They she goes. I loved her. Stop okay number okay. Number four now name. From the first time he saw off to object out in only black lights and now where she has really progressed the be a red carpet staple she never goes wrong number three on that one. The of it graven. Latest sicily types in ninety six and still slaying. The game fashion wise. Way the queen you've got about them changes which she's always down and being a tour cheap rings everything time and always looks delightful. And if you've ever had in the whipper the way she keeps us next bigger she drinks hot weather with limited eat bitch. That's how she snagged like them now. And then i'll number two the all the italian so i ended up. You know that really kind of set. The red carpet emotion to when she was just performing on new year's eve jalen always brain's really great loss and of course the body ideology is insane so they have number one number number one last night. Lease the young girl in the game. This mix all of us. You're boring dustin. Day of love. Her style she stopped by law coach. Who's a friend of mine. But she nails it so many times people can look like they're being stop as they away as close so well even tell. She's very comfortable in his skin. So who else can take. That's bad these watch what happens five and snoop agrees with all your facts off new audience. Thank you bobby. Smith is here. The book is bev relations lessons from a mother. Auntie best out now. Snoop show is the big show. Thursdays on tb ass. Snoop daryl hughes wants to know what your monthly budget as. You probably don't have one because you own your own company right. I mean you and the answer is thing. Mimi meaning doesn't have a budget bevy nicole. I loved your interview with chris harry harrison earlier. This year about the lack of diversity and the bachelor franchise. How are you watching the new season with matt james and if so what do you think on. I watched a couple of little clips of the matt. James in the annual to say i wish picked up a little more flavorful bachelor. If they're gonna events he batter you go to the grooming. The physical snoop dogg and just pick up alleged. let me getting with backlit deputy. Yes okay room. Snoop pete l. said. I love your new tattoos. Celebrating the lakers seventeenth championship win and honoring the incredible kobe bryant. What made you decide to get the tattoo. And what's your favorite memory with kobe. Or a game. You watched him play What made me get it was. I wanted to do something that could represent the championship. And coby bryant. So combining the two with his initials made our excess. And the best moment i'd have to say is when he flew to come and see me and hang out with me for a dan. I picked him up in my low rider and brought him back to my studio and when he left i gave them all right and then became a part of his collection. Wow i mean. I'm like okay right now. Just thinking about it like that was the greatest moment and he was so hospitable to everybody at my bill. And i'm talking about the people who take the trash out to the rappers to the everybody they all. They're saying that this is a great gun. I'm happy i met him and real like sorry about that. Yeah yeah well. Speaking of gone too soon we got a brat s emailed and said since you both with him do each of you have a favorite memory about the late. Great pock bevy right about two-pack in your book this mentally into to back is like i said when when i connected with park we let down bravado and we really connect it s like sensitive creative types. So we've been talking about our literature lack history and things like that even though we will pop in the tunnel whatever. We always like just abbott. We'll quality moment in. Does the quiet. Since the pockets of one that i loved. And that's the one that i really connected with. I love that you said that because a lot of people know that it was more of a funny guy than a bad guy so he would crack jokes all the time and talk about people and let you talk about him. Back and wouldn't get offended. Was one time when we were on a vacation in a it was him and thank because parasail and we were just up in the sky. We were just having a good conversation. We just kept getting dropped in. The water kept getting lifted on moves like little kids. That was like a moment to lead to wear a homing. It really be cheers and not have to put on a gangster persona will have to be nothing but really what exactly well speaking about you. Being a kid chris an emailed and said snoop. I love the video you posted on instagram of. You just listened to let it go from frozen in your parked car to help you. Decompress during the pandemic. What other music have you been listening to to get you through. Twenty twenty wow. I've been listening to a variety of music. And i've also been making new music too so with that particular song snow. What's that go. Yeah i love s song. I went to go see that movie who my grandkids. You know what i'm saying. I was gonna fall asleep. But i stayed up the whole movie when they started singing. I just i was crying and i just battlements. I'm sorry i'm sorry for that you don't have to. It's it's it's an earworm to ride. I love great music. Music still any sold matter who you are absolutely And so do great books. And that's why. I'm telling all y'all to get bevill asians by beverly. I need to buy those books. Because i got fifty female friends that definitely want to read it and know about an intro to better themselves fifty all right snoop better so beautiful thank you. Will you seriously like at. The people connected. I'm serious because you got twenty in the background right now. That need to be possessed watching. That's that's right down one time. Well thank you. So much bevy snoop. This was a winning combination and really fun night for more. Click around garoppolo dot goodnight. Everybody thanks for listening to the podcast. Everybody hope you enjoyed the show. Remember new episodes. Go live monday through friday at four pm eastern time. Make sure your subscribe to have a great rusty or night.

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Side Effects of Wisdom (with Bevy Smith)

Small Doses

1:27:13 hr | 6 months ago

Side Effects of Wisdom (with Bevy Smith)

"In this episode is brought to you by comcast since two thousand eleven comcast is connected more than four million students from low income families to the internet. Now they're launching more than one thousand wi fi connected lift zones in community centers nationwide to provide safe spaces to get online learn more at comcast dot com slash education support for this podcast comes from progressive. What would you do with an extra eight hundred dollars. Buy a plane ticket. Pay down your student loan. Treat yourself to those shoes. You've been eyeing with progressive. You could find out drivers who switch and save save an average of seven hundred ninety six dollars on car insurance get your quote online at progressive dot com and see how much you can be saving national average annual car insurance savings by new customer survey to save with progressive and twenty nineteen. Thanks so funky. Wasn't to another edition of small. Del says remind everybody that the paperback version of these small doses potent truths for everyday use. Buck will be dropping on april twelfth to april you can pre-order it right now. It's also going to be available on april twelve you to get like in your hand and if you haven't already checkout illustrious league my new line which is now available at illustrious league dot com the save yourself collection all about making you feel good while you're doing what you gotta do turn this world into a better place so check that out I've been really excited about just how excited people are about. It and launching align is no easy feat and anyone who's done it I commend you. Because i am a work in progress. Speaking out of work in progress as we are all moving through life you know we find ourselves in the best case scenario bumping up against folks who can give us solid advice and insight and it coming in and that comes from a place of wisdom but i feel like a lot of times. We can't really tell someone's giving us wisdom or bullshit or sometimes we we find ourselves glossing over wisdom because we wanna do it ourselves or because we want to not feel like we're being led down a road and and it's important though that we understand the value that there is in moving from place of knowledge to wisdom because it really is a transition that you make in terms of maturity and experience and i think a lot of us miss know mer our knowledge for wisdom. There was a time. When i was in my twenties. And i was like twenty seven and i just really thought like i need to have my own show because i know things and i talk about things. I'm an old soul and smart. So why not. And i was unstructured. Talked about this on the show before. But bam gonna say it again. And i sat down with this reporter. This journalist Game we were having lunch. And i told her and she was like a. You're not going to get you on your at least thirty five. And why would you say that she was like because it's not until then that you're gonna have a it's backed by wisdom not just by information and i'm wide i have done and she was like no. You know some things and you may have experienced some things. But it's time that really does like manifest what you have experienced into what you understand and i did really really really really get it until i was thirty. Five at at this point now at thirty nine going on forty. This is the first time in my life that i truly truly feel like it really really is time for me to have my own show because the experience i've had are no longer just driven by information or emotion the synthesizing of all of those things is what then evolves into wisdom. And you being able to look at something from a far enough distance and sometimes it really just does take time to get enough distance away for you to be able to apply all of those things now. Someone who has helped me on my path to that purpose and to understanding myself in that way is bevy smith. She's an author she the host. She's a former fashioned many many things but for me she has always been a guiding voice and light in this industry to keep me not only from going stray but also to keep me from just turning on myself and i always tell people the best advice i can give you to have people in your corner. Who reminds you of who you are and what you're doing when you forget it. So we have bevy smith joining us so that she can remind us about what it is to be. Wise people joining us. Today is the ever so wise. One end so generous with wisdom ms bevy smith also of beverly asians before we even go any further. I was trying to think of. Like what do i want to talk to you about. Of course you wanna plug her book. But what i wanna talk about. That is the choubey passionate about that. I that i feel like i understand. And then i'm like well that's what the book is. Is your wisdom. And so much of ny connection to bed has been her pulling me. Aside to whisper wisdom in my ear And then finding out there are so many others who like have had that happen so part of me was like i'm not the only one but the other part of me and was like i'm not the only way you practice practice so welcome the uncomfortable that he smith. I'm not even sure. I mean you're a host. You're a woman about town you. You are a radio personality europe a commentator. You began as the fashion We editor i was bashing advertising executive. Dan the fashion editor then. A fashion. t. expert dan bashing tv. Host added a latin passion but fascists put in the door of everything bashing kind of like was the big unfolding of my life for me And i got a lot of wisdom from being in the fashion business when wet now split. Because i feel like specifically with fashion era speaks a lot to what's going. You know what was happening. So what era did you enter the fashion business in the late eighties. So that was. It was a time. There was a time i was an eighteen year old receptionist and i Snuck into this job literally lease. Please tell us how you snack was a chip on a temporary worker yet. And when i got there. It was beautiful like useful posh fashion advertising. Abc like worked visas soon. A lot lama meek bowl taking benetton this and so i was like oh this is nice and so on so you came downtown from harlem this you from harlem one. The great things about being from harlem is that unlike knowing jay z. He and his book the cold he talked about how scary it was coming to manhattan. Harlem don't have that so we're just like a train. Stop away from downtown so it was a hong. You grow up always being downtown in anyway. So it's not like ooh down like downtown bitch is. I can take to train stops downtown. You like in the middle of all of it but so act naima tent and i'm temping and i'm loving it but people are calling into the switchboard but the job take matters into my own hands. Amanda i can't take my job so i saw tell them up the joppa spill position build and sure enough in about two weeks. The nice white lady. Eleanor came to me and was like we're not getting many inquiries you're doing so well. Would you like the job. I s i would. I really would. Eleanor why. there's no injuries. I can't i didn't one. And so that the me or my project the end i had no idea but i will say is that the the late nineteen eighties literally virtually really no black people in the business that you can see right. So this is time Editors like an andre neon talent was about to say okay. Yeah we'll be out like in a magazine. Not you know what's gonna time editors personalities. They did their work behind the scenes. They trailed behind the scenes. Same thing with fashion designers. I came on the scene. Back to designers were were looked upon s. l. How people don't know that but fashion designers were like what you think of now if even if you haven't amazing floral designer your life right now even if they have a big business than not known that like you can't think of a great low designing bank of a base right right right right fashioned laws that then it was war. Fashion designs became brands of personalities so shortly thereafter when we get the car lagerfeld's It exists but karl lagerfeld is not called on the guy e saint laurent's was exactly. He was he was he was an entity. But but back then it just really didn't exist so yes. Of course there was willie smith. I guess it wasn't mandate that. Reese man you know in the early nineties. It was patrick. Kelly but again you know early on not so much. So i'm coming into these. All white spaces and an advertising at that time was also white. So i'm black amenities all white spaces. But because i grew up in manhattan. And because i had been reading all about me society people in know obviously a kit like bags of regional types of stuff and so i knew the allow the people that were coming in to be the agency. A funny little anecdote. You know. he's come into the agency rook shiels rooks. Children are almost the same exact age and shields had a gene line back when she was a young model look shows a huge model. She was an app and those clan. Jeans choose a child but she choose eighteen. Nineteen own gina so she will come in with her mother. Brooke shields with sit in the reception area with me. We would talk like we were eighteen year. Old girls interact with millionaire girl. And i was a black girl from harlem but we just gab about things that were going on. 'boy like dislike. Look at us to two young women degrading to take world. And so i mean. I think even just use out telling the story of how you were like you know what i need to take matters into my own hands with with the job. It speaks to kind of like this sense of and you mentioned that you are. I was reading south like having a world like a bigger view of what was then of what was right in front of you and so how do you feel like that develops like. Will you just like i mean. I know you are somebody who talks a lot about your parents. I just learned that your father just passed so. I'm sorry so sorry to hear that. Because i know that you have always talked about how close you are with your parents and how they you know up there in age and you're like i'm i'm just so lucky to have gotten to spend so much time with them. How did they play a role in sharing their wisdom to you to create this person who thinks that way while i always tell people i live with history so finally people are starting to understand the slate Really wasn't that long ago and this is how break it down. My parents are from jim. Crow sal my dad was born in nineteen twenty five slavery ended in eighteen sixty five which means that when my father was born slaves was still alive. Warmer slaves was still up right so big. You have the hanging about like i literally. I literally niu know someone who ritually new a slain like that down. that's literally one degree of kevin bacon. I mean like one degree of picking cotton. Read any like. That's right when you think about that because one hundred years not a long time. I mean it's it's just not you know like and especially when you know someone who's almost one hundred really is another like my mom is literally ninety three hopping you so light yet but she also had to go to work when she was like twelve years. Old is something ridiculous and so when you say you live with history you know were they. Did they share with you. Like were they. You know provocative in terms of these stories. Were they like you know debbie just we're or were they like mom who's just like give free go live yet. They definitely gave us every opportunity. They made sure that they took us out of harlem every weekend so that we never felt like we were trapped or like that was the only thing that we could do or be apart of So they make sure that we have rather horizons and in in my book a haxhi talk about you know kind of living in between these two worlds so when i grew up in harlem when i m my most years like nick about elementary junior high is tailored to cities it's like we are the first generation out of the civil rights movement. I'm born in sixty s. At the time. I get ten seventy six where it rises when you start to see the rack. Middle-class really making real strides right. That's when you start seeing at with minute black men in suits with briefcases you start advertising in magazines. This is like the the cusp dash. And because i'm a problem. Red black and green pan-africanism is everywhere. While healy in grade. school yes. I did on. Every day was black history month because The the schools. What's litter the hallways and the classrooms with black luminaries april randall. You know county cullen. It wasn't just like harrachov reject up like no. We went deep benjamin ban. It's i mean it's like you believe learned but then on the same the flip side. It was the time of the heroine a addiction. Yeah so what you have. Then is one hundred sixteenth street being called junkies paradise. So you had that and the black friday all around. So it's it's these two cities and were stuck in the middle and my parents were never streetlife people that they would much older by the time. We were born with tim. Moms for the eight. My dad was fifty. Two's brands. Their parents are maybe sixteen to maybe twenty years only sixty years old enough so my parents really stood out for that too and then they also weren't like pan african people because they came from jim close out and they were not educated so they had no they they were certainly not trying to get back at his side. What i would say like we will go to the african american day parade. Everybody would be in my keys and intricate cornrows. My sister and i would be like in like a dress. Sales like we looks like heidi's in the sea of issues so so you're bringing all of that into that fashion space and you know who can use to share with me like people and such like people specifically people who feel like shared wisdom with you on that brought you along and and the type of wisdom that they shared. Because i think that a lot of us can't recognize when we're having wisdom shared with us versus sometimes people sharing wisdom with us and we take it as like you try and tell me what to do or you know you're you're trying to knock my style and it's like no and also on the flip side. Sometimes i feel like there's a way to share this type of wisdom with people in a way that it does feel like yes to get because i know that's been a journey for me is like how do i share this in a way where it can be received versus where it's gonna i prick somebody you know. And someone who's more sensitive will just run before it even like makes it beneath the surface then maybe years on the sandwich you trying to say but good yet your tone right. Yeah not learn guy haunt way like ice. Tell i mean. I main story one of my girlfriend's my for mickey. She was a secretary at a union and i said we were all like we were always really ambitious. Girls on what hip hop hoddle's like so in the book talk about being big bet from uptown and that's my my golden arrow based flight. I'm i'm in the studio pop. Biggie popped everybody right. I'm literally a bonafide hip hop han but at the same time. I had this big old career. That was built a new getting them lying around. You know but but you knew. I'm laying routes and i'm really building towards something but one day i told. Mickey what are you gonna do that. She's like will you talk about. I was like you got do some pizzazz we in the secretary of suicide. This is a good union job last night. That's the dumbest i ever heard. Was harsh horrible. Right actually fell out with me. Can i tell you years later. She undesirable atmos sign. And now mickey is literally one of my most successful friends. She has an amazing independent real estate company. That bradley. well. I make good money. Mickey makes more money than i asked. Nicky you what i'm saying. So but at my delivery was up. So i have a better delivery of the way when i'm trying to give wisdom. I'm not to get better. But for me i think some of your mentors might original mentors. Not only with the ad. Six was in my life. And i won't. They were in the group. It was four of them in a group. Okay wore white. People all clustered together in face and then there was a married couple. That were my tv mentos but the four white people. That were clustered together in one space. The best thing they gave me in the way they gave me the wisdom and the information. Is that an animal how this happened but they never got the palm me as someone who needed to be saved and one worse things that white people do when they think they're being your fucking ally is the big themselves at your bucket savior Let me tell you something. I never need to say my family my life my community would never done any of this shit. I was soupy living the good life right. Because i had my family and my community yet. Just been a different line with a great life. If i'd never gone done all these other things so mentors never looked at it like all about expose you to the world. It's going to be better and you're gonna be mad. The white people in those spaces that dr do that. Yes they tried to my fair lady you. I'm sure right will make them and it makes them feel like you know this. Is my charity work. This is my contribution more. You know like the ones that Would you say from hong. Oh my god. Are you safe or or the minds when you When you finally you are making good money you know the first six figures gig and they know that you're making the money. Why don't you just move. Why would i i. Yeah i. I love my community. So you those without those were the heinous ones but the ones that gave me the good wisdom the good jewels song me as i truly was respected me respect who i was as a black woman as a black young woman and just drop jewels me it by even just give me wisdom. They opened fucking doors obviously tip. Here's a relation instead of talking people silly open the fucking door and let then walk in real nice. Do that if you really want to help a person you not me and so i think that a lot of times people are quick to give you so much advice but then when it comes time for them to actually put that advice to ashes. They're not willing to do it. Well because it means that they are now putting themselves at risk for possibly being attached to someone who's not going to let you know who's not going to live up to the vouch or whatever well the module looseness and don't tell me that 'cause that's my thing i'm just like if you aren't gonna bausch for me then are not really interested in the conversation. I mean it took a long time for me to even find agents that i felt like. We're gonna properly vouch for me. And they get in. The cut is get money inside. Autumn's is coming in. I know you all excited. What you do with the stimulus. 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But i think it's dealt that you had that experience because are a lot of our listeners Talk about the commando. Can you mentor me. I need mentorship. And i melt hitmen so can can can just say to the listeners amid mentoring a mentor. Ship is reciprocal relationship. There's given their take on both ends. And you cannot simply just want to jack a pick amandus brain and think that's gonna work for her first of all as i've said so many times that if i ever just sat around and let all the people pick my brain or go the people who wanna just meet for coffee or any of that y'all Meet with me. Because i won't be doing shit. Is that with drinking water. Equal be eating hearts and if you ever known a lot times people want you to come out for the coffee. Is you wind up having to pay for it. That is as lived at about a bitch. You'll not only did. I have to take up an hour of my time. Which at this point we both make a whole lot of money out or outside keeping one hundred in then now. Now i gotta pay a houston. We have so stop asking people the be a mental. You know what happens you. not mince. Worrying really happens it is truly organic. She one day you realize that this is a person that you can call at and you're like okay. This person will not only not call. Because i trust them but they're also take michael feels right in. Feels like i know for sure. Amanda that something is really beautiful. My first mental. You know my son's relish using the he's chocolate really relish. No i will look. I'm gonna find him now way to ucla baby. He's he's the first officially men's or okay in the way i officially mentor him is because i saw him in las vegas when i worked at five and i do. These streets down follows. Because i had to go the milan in paris and explained to them that our culture was into fashion. Yes they didn't believe. It was too much of a cultural disconnect. But you know what pictures speak a thousand words yet you to take these pictures and i stopped him in las vegas. I took a picture anyone on his way. And then maybe a week later to is is for rule the garage and which the iceberg mansion ding dong the opens. The door and this young man comes down the stairs. Beautiful black obey young man not to the young man from vegas. Yes i say. What are you doing here which is also thing to ask someone to say this now. I work here. I said what are you doing here. He said i'm do. Pr fit model. Where you from just harlem. Oh i said what are you doing tonight. He's like nothing as you're coming with me. Because i had never had a black mentor in all my years in fashion somewhat. This young man who had his foot in the door. I some about the blow this bitch wide. Open any fuck away you want in this world. And when that's how you. I dragged him all around the world with me. Really where he's now he's mobile the galette stylus. Why not much. Make all coins in the universe. All the coins having a blast on jet skis having private all day long. Is everything her I'm going to be flying private for the first time off soon. And i am going to be acting a fool for the record and not the one paying for it because i know but yeah. What are you wearing. Because you have to have a private plane. Look for your inaugural trip will. It will be attractive. Because that i also have to remain true to south. I will put together a look at w. k. But now is it going to be a tracksuit with a heel over. Libya attracts with a very limited editions de limited edition sneaker limited editions and it'll be limited edition tracksuit for that matter like i find tracks that other people are like. Where did you find that. And i'm like what do you mean like. I found it on the website. But you didn't have the. I didn't have the so. I love that. I'm very exciting. I cannot wait to see the visuals but let me just say that. There was a time. When when i was sitting on a couch in harlem myself and bad was like going to get there. You go get there one day. And it felt i felt your. I felt your belief. But i also felt like i. She must know something. I don't know because sitting here right now. This feels very foolish for me to so apparent. Though you were clearly a star. And i i just said this on the computer under something you just did. I was just like you're under the coast about this food Kevin frazier and this crazy white woman. I can't but you're genius will not be denied. You know what i mean any internet. Just watch y'all she. Just did you belie i just need my job. I'm telling you. But i think that we also have to remember this. When you're a unicorn would you truly are laughable itself uniforms. And they really not. There's not a lot of people that are very rare way that they thanked in the way that they they express themselves. You you really are uniform. And what i'm going to say about that. Is this clearing. The that's not the easiest path not folks love some basic shit just affable and easy to get along with and people love shit. That light just Swollen the slot. And it's just like nice. And i'm gonna tell you something it you stranger here and if you just had a sunshiny spirit and if you just didn't make buffum waves you will already have shop. But then who the buck would you be. You get you watch. 'cause you know you just you you still have you still have star power. You still watch. Nah charisma but it wouldn't wouldn't matter. It would not in this space. I the goals of patriots. Tv in what's interesting about that now. Member told my co host who were younger Zippers tv job. I said to them. I said no angels. I want you guys know the us being on. Tv every single day is not what it used to me. It's not the be once upon a time if you will on tv every single damn you were a star on the manley that by nature by rotana. Now that's not so much the case so if you had that amanda affable amanda show it would mean anything man. Shell sounds like a sketch where i do like the apple. Amanda versions affable. Amanda varies me. Checking cape kevin frazier about interviewing lawn. It you want lawn it the whole thing you like well you know. I'm sure he meant well. Shannon gated guys. Now we're all human the human race Yeah that. I need to write that down. Because that's just yet right now so all that to say is this. You're gonna get your show. We don't know what's going to really look like. Because i know you have it in your head and not as yeah. I know it's gonna look like but we don't because when you get it we just don't know we don't know now i as a creative i know when i manifesting right so like i know what i know what i want. The actual showed a look. Like i don't know what the responsibly i don't know and also i will say this something i have learned in here. Some wisdom yeah I have learned to manage to create a manifest with room like a man. When i was younger. I feel like. I would have these very finite visions of how something was going to be. And then if it didn't materialize in that way it felt like a fail or it felt like sprawling shorts or you know just like it felt wrong and now i've come to understand like it's really the seed and the intention and you know you. You gotta have the bullet points there but there there has to be enough headroom for it to grow for to be flexible for you too and this is not to say for you to compromise right. This is not for you to say like okay. Now you're shifting you know what you had planned into something else because you'll know what that feels like but i've had to learn like no. This is the space you know that i want to be in. And this manifesting that space for myself and it has these elements about it. You know it's kind of like when you're trying to find an apartment or home it's like you do have to make a list of these are things that i absolutely have to have with this managing. When i left new york. I had to have sunlight. Because i lived in a first floor duplex for you know ten years and i have a vitamin d deficiency. I would have like seasonal depression And so when i moved to la it was like the bottom line and have to add sunlight. So for me like manifest my own show bottom line. I have to be able to infuse comedy and that may sound like something that is like like obvious but the amount of shows. Y'all get pitched that ain't got shit to do a comedy. Amanda we so we want you to be a political stop news. You lost me at political. We have a plan for a a big show where you're going to be interviewing folks about their roles in diversity. I'm like so that sounds like me talking to a lot of white people right. Were they trying to do. And i'm just not interested in that but you said something earlier about like mentorship being an exchange and that's like so. We did an internship program. Smart funny imblack productions last year and we really really tasked ourselves and made ourselves responsible with figuring out how we can be a value to our intern so that they don't feel like they're just being utilized as paid unpaid workers and the best thing we could do was provide wisdom And so we would have like talk backs with assignments. You know we also have speaking like masterclasses with you. Know my like noah peers and notables and colleagues like sam j who just dropped her special on netflix Like she did the the master class for comedy writers and the best thing to hear after was folks who did the internship saying like. This is the most learning internship i've ever done. And that's the whole point so that to me has been away where i've been able to mentor An exchange and i try to do my my best. Do that with this show as well right. But it's it's a free show. Yeah as of late. I've i've just. I mean i feel like people have always come to me and said like hey amanda on things and i'm very honored that people come to me with that but i really feel like the folks that have been coming to me lately have been saying that they're thinking about harming themselves or they're very depressed and i want to always point people indirection of professionals because that is really who can handle those situations in the best way and i know a lot of us are still working through been going on and what is going on and you know talking to a actress. Who has a podcast. Maybe a cool thing to happen. But it's not the solution to you dealing with things that are going on within your heart and mind and talks. Base is a place where you can find somebody who can help you get to that source. Now it's hospice is when you're putting your mental and emotional health. 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Hp it orchestration by cdw people who get it learn more at cdw dot com slash hp security when it comes to wisdom. Was there a point where you feel like you had kind of transitioned from just having knowledge to having wisdom yes and what was that when i relax. I transition from knowledge to wisdom was When i was thirty three years old. And the last relationship that gobs gonna get married Actually didn't come to fruition man. I had to do all this intense. Were on my cell and as in going to therapy like what. What was the word. I started going to therapy with him because he is just that he was like i love you. But you're driving me to distraction and so is this a black man interesting and he suggested therapy yeah and this is in the thousands and thousands okay collector like that wasn't on the tip of our people's tongues in the way it is now no it wasn't it wasn't and you know about that. But yeah he was. He's a great guy. He's my friend now. I'm glad we didn't get married without that wisdom. Sadly bats relation at. Mary's get the gay marriage. But i did all this work on myself. And then i realized so many different things and i realized that a lot of what. I have been pursuing really about me not being happy on in burning my happiness to come from a man because sided teaches us. That if you want to be happy if you're a woman you have to do is get a man and the man will compete. They take you everyday which is a horrible thing to put on a man to be in charge of your fucking happiness like you should add to it but you should not. I like literally be happy. You're not making me happy. I remember going through that face. That was a fun time right. Isn't it's embarrassing but it's also like a right of passage. It is and to be honest. That was the relationship that you had actually pulled me aside about. And you're like no more mistakes. And we were at brian. I always tell the story that we were at a branch we we. You pulled me as i walked in very unknowing that i was gonna have a bomb dropped on me. I remember i had on a colorful. Like joe kaftan of sorts. You pulled me aside and you're like no mistakes now. Good morning to us. And you said and i was like what do you mean. And you're like with your relationships. Because you know i forgot how you knew that had broken up but i had broken up with this person that had been about town with me. He had been about town with me and you know he had made himself very known that he was a man does man. And you're like from now on no more men whose purpose who knows man whose whose purpose in your life is something that you could pay for. And i had to really sit with that right. Yeah i was. I had made his value like he was not. He was not what he needs to be as a partner right like we could see wasn't solid in his but he had made his value that he was a companion for me to go to events that he could put up shelves. You know that he could like somehow. We had like kind of nestled into this rhythm where he was like my living. Yeah like my handyman. A personal assistant and and and that was his benefactor. And i'd like pseudomonas linen girlfriend because muslim. But i respected him so i would like only allow and then when he was when he was going to ramadan it would be like he would do fuck shit and then be like. We can't argue this ramadan. But i remember you pulling me aside to say that. And that was a relationship where i distinctly remember and i will give him credit for this. He said to me like you. Can't i can't be entirely your happiness. And i'm like but you can be a charter yourself and the should that you're doing is making me unhappy and i think that sometimes the part that that men don't understand like they flip it back on you and it's like okay. Yeah but i i am. I can be a happy person. But i'm not going to remain happy if you keep doing things that are upsetting. But then he is the great thing about that. Yes we will is so we are free to go. There's that was what. I was why i don't should on this do in the book because if i witnessed changes wider it wouldn't have been good for reflection. Talk about shit that he did to me. You know why 'cause the any point that when it wasn't working with in wasn't working a lot. I listen i have a chapter in my book. Small doses now where i talk about relationships and in one of the sections of great guts i have a whole series of should have broken up with you and literally just like three pages of i should have broken up with you when i should have with you len and it's like an. It's an incident malcolm of all these different relationships. But it's like all these moments where there was a fireable offense and new. Cbs sharon osborne. You like. I'm going to put the show on this instead of just walking by sharon osborne you know i. I think that happens for the bus because what we are lacking is the wisdom of knowing that was good for us will be for us. And i know that i know for me a big change in like knowledge and came in being able to discern the difference between what to work for and what to let go and like who really wants to be around and i think some of us as women particularly who are in like the Situated women who date men that are six gendered men in this like patriarchal toxic masculinity society. We really are trained to kind of be the fixers and and be taught like that we we we can shift and i think sometimes we misappropriate our power. You give it away all the time the away you know. I'll never forget in. You may not be on the train. But it was one i alabama. Since early books early that that she talked about a cd player while a woke minnesota was it was a book. Two teenage girls in was like if you would let that way Your this man. Would you have sex all right about that about that. You are willing to let some man come up in your house. Eat up your food every which way this that and the other what you would not lend him. You're you're shiny new this man you wouldn't you just relax. I wanna give them this man. I can't really trust it. Can't wait your resident. So we shouldn't be judged if you can't give the man this man you should not be giving him your heart. Will you know in the in the meghan markle conversation. There was a lot of people that were like you know you can't you can't choose who you love. You can't choose who you love. And i just feel like maybe a year ago as recent as a year ago i would have been like. That's so true on my god. That's so true. That's not true that you absolutely can choose who you love and you can shoot. Maybe i will say i will. I will refined that with you. Can't choose who you love and you can choose who you're in love with and you can choose who you choose. You can choose who you determined to live a life with yes. Exit is and friends and people who are no longer in my life. That i still love right that i still have love for. I am not in love with them. I do not want them a part of my life. I do not want them a part of my existence. I think at the end of the day it becomes more like i appre. I love and appreciate the time that we shared. Yes right and it is encapsulated on the time. line of my spirit's journey through this dimension. Leave it there again. I mean you know when it came to the ham. Meghan markle date you know. I was very distressed by the fact that she kept saying. I went to see the firm. I went to a jar. I talked to the queen. i was like what. What was the main doom win. able like. i would never think about it. Would you ever keep talking to your man's family. They were mishandling new. You go your man you would be like sir your mama Out of control. Who lease get them together. I mean that that relations about talking to you about his sister tried to fight me twice. And i was like and that ended up being like a really big part when we broke up. I remember we sat on the steps. You know like seinfeld says breakup a vending machine. You gotta tip it a couple of times. Violent tips over. We sat on the soup of my harlem apartment for the last time and had a conversation. Where i just said i don't like your family. I don't like your friends. And i don't like how you practice your religion because he was very funny style about his muslim practice. So it's like either you do it or you don't like what he would do as he would like kind of play with it and then throw parts of it at me when it was convenient. Yes so it's like you're gonna drink during ramadan but then had something to say to me about a bikini sir sir. So on and i said an an though i've all the attention you have made no actions taken no actions to address your friends your family or yourself and so what else is there to do and i watched him walk away and that was it. That was the end like that was the final end. But it was because i really felt like your friends and your family be coming at me so sideways and you do nothing. I don't know so so you're right. I felt like that was a will. Weird and i don't know if he did but she didn't mention it will. She kept saying. I is now the very solid night like we right. Yeah it should have been at the very least is least. You've been here. Noble harry went to the from having would. Hr harry with mother. Harry harry 'cause i would have set up. Dan been like damsel in distress. Okay let's this is the wisdom moment. Had you been in that situation with them because oprah takes a certain stance when she does interviews. It's very kind of like unbiased. Like i'm not going to offer anything. I'm just going to create space for you all but had you been in that scenario a belated lazing scenario where they come to you like please you know. Share your wisdom with us. What would you have told them. I'm glad you got out of that. Toxins toxic s patriarchal cesspool. They have been racist. The whole thing is built on racism. Back is no way you could have won that battle mention harry. They killed your mother okay. That's mickey was talking about that right now. Is that came for the next decade with that. But you need to own that and on the way they did your mother. You watch the crown. Yeah happen to your mama a you talk to your mother's friends so you know what happened to her. So you already know ditch. The i know you're upset about having to leave them behind. Was the best thing that you could ever done. And then how would they. How do you feel like them. Moving forward will they'll be able to preserve their relationship because once you can cause now they're in a trauma bond yes but are they really in the trump. He's in a trauma bon. i like. She's grown woman. Who has lived a life. And i don't know that she's like like i don't know that she's the the damsel the damsel After ever discount. What happened to her. But i think that she's been a black woman in america long enough. Does she seem this kind of treatment before. She's been at the hands of those kind of people before. I don't know that she ever has cause remember. Remember when did you next that luca She's like i. It was like some kind of like detergent neighbor light. All women should wash the dishes. Nine will get wrinkles that she was like she Letter she a child and she was like. I just find it horrible that they're saying that women should wash the dishes and won't you wash the dishes. And then they changed the bucket commercial map up. But that's women that's not black or what i'm saying is when you watched that commercial. She's clearly black girl. She's clearly a black girl she had. The here was match. Straight like iraq iran. Okay now that she. I mean but that's her as a youth. You know but. I still think that amanda i think that even though she is very very light skin and clearly has led a very more white leaning ask life shit comes up fair. She comes up and people know in the in the end. Your mother's gonna show up eventually and the green. Say you're gonna show up in a green dress for the wedding. And that is the fishy she. She's got the melanin and they're gonna know s. Things are gonna come up. So i i do feel like she'd have a little bit of experience at that And so. I don't think that she is as she was triggered by wasn't Buck mobile the racism bogia. She might have been triggered but it was the rates. I'd at the racism rodeo. Let's the last on everything right. So i i. I don't know i just like he's Traumatized i feel like she's going to have to be his cure. Give a very long time. But is that any so taking that out of the context of meghan and harry. I just feel like so many of us ended up in those situations and and we align it with this purpose that we feel like now we have been attached to something that means something now. We have someone who needs us and what we realize. Is that what we're actually doing. Is planting very solid roots for codependency and l like the nine ourselves our own humanity in our own gifts with them. That's the co-dependency part. It's like it becomes this this whole thing of like in order to have value. I have to be attached to this person which knocked service to this person. That's the part that i don't like i don't wanna be in service to anyone unless they are child. Unless you're my elderly someone in need whether you're able bodied able minded person. I don't want to be in service to you. I want to press. You occasionally will be in service to you. That's not my that's not my mission in my. That's not my jam. That's not something. I'm very comfortable doing. Also don't need someone to be mission and service to me. Which is something i did require once upon a time a divided. What do you mean we require that. That's all i wanted so everybody was supposed to be served me. All the men had to be in service to me. Just that made you feel like you were in control and not being taken advantage of was not wasn't even about control it was about is my way at the halfway. It was like yeah. I just in the words of a mama. D deserter. long sometimes wonderful song. But i deserved. I deserved people to serve me. And because a man came into relationships or situations ships in the predatory manner as well okay. This is what you want. I'm flip the script. And i'm gonna tell you without a warrant and we want to see who wins out. Of course you get tired of playing those games even wake up and you're like yeah not so much anymore and that just want a good partnership. That's it but i'm not you know now. This victory of the men manage with. Everybody should do what they want. But that's not my game. You know that trend. I mean i've seen it sprinkled about here and there on the computer as you say yes you. This episode is brought to you by microsoft. Take your pc gaming to the next level with the incredible graphics pleasing performance and high frame rates on select windows ten gaming. Pc's from target. Then you're up with xbox game pass for pc for one low monthly price. You can use the xbox app on windows ten to play over one hundred high quality. Pc games like minecraft microsoft flight simulator or same day new releases halo infinite. You also get member discounts and deals on select games and game. Add ons the xbox game pass for pc library visit target dot com slash pc gaming to browse windows ten gaming pc's and to learn more about xbox game pass pc. I think people are continuously. Come up with all these different ways and ideologies and theories and and they're presented in the form of wisdom by the way so that's the other thing particularly on this computer now. Everybody is wise gam. His wife. I just watched the whole thing on hollywood on wasp but mama in a man and they were having a big conversation about trans children and other feel and i was like whoa politely. Just put in some notes about. We'll translate because everyone so worried about trans children making a mistake in regretting it later on. And i'm like what state will they think. They getting gender confirmation surgery. They think that the eight year old. That says mommy. I'm not a rama boy. They think the automatically that child if the parent is accepting. They think that the challenge ushered into surgery. Oh my gosh. that's what they believe. You know that that's what they believe. Right i just thought this had been debunked already like. Because i know i know that when zaia wade came out and people were like people like busey who has the fact that people have the nerve to consider anything boozy says of note or wisdom is beyond my scope of comprehension but he had said something about how disgusting he thought. This was and how irresponsible of apparent this was by the way. This is the same person who said he got his son headed twelve because he's because he claims because he's a responsible parent so there's also had such so but i say all that to say that it was just the thought process that that by the way i had an ex who we had that conversation and he was just like what's wrong with that and i was like i'm sorry that serious and i i mean i don't see anything wrong with that like that you know. That's what i did. Now is like a now right here at now but i just. I don't understand how you can think that there's there hasn't been any evidence. There hasn't been any examples of that to show you know people whenever the lgbtq. I a conversation comes into place. The first thing people think about is sex in genitalia. That's it for them. That's all really ever comes up. S it has not do anything. They naturally focused so of course if a child is a trans child. They're like. Oh my god one day. They like purple bay. Becoming the next day is armed. How can they be allowed to decide that they want to be a a girl the emmy income not castrated them actually said they cash make the gas rate the children pumpkin pie. They don't do it. You can't even get it done as a child. I was going to say this is not even literally done. While they signed in america america you cannot end in the second part of it is. it's incredibly expensive. The gender confirmation. Yes so yeah so everybody just cool out for many but but we brought this up because this is a conversation that was being had amongst to people that don't have the information but the beer are being presented on the platform as if they can speak knowledgeably about this for the band and that that that is what concerns me because i do feel like there is. I'm very happy to know that there is like an energy towards people wanting to find information again like that. I do feel like we're starting to see that and we've had four years of like absolutely being like the top of the like this idiocy is the chits and so i'm glad to see that like there is a shift happening where people are getting more interested in like. I at least. I know my listeners. I'd be like research question. Everything breezes everything. You're not sure about what i said. Look i would. Google machine is our friend. It's there for you. Is there for you employees. Once you use machine then also go and look at where what the information is coming out. What enough information. That's right because a lot of times people see headlines. Don't read the source buy it could be coming from a very biased source you know etc etc. I mean. I went through a very very very difficult time between nineteen because someone had wrote an article claiming that i lied about accusing a brother of sexual harassment. And the headline was amanda. Seals lies about accusing this person of sexual harassment. Now this was not a reliable source. This was not an actual. Journalists is just the nato would've wiz site but bad. it traveled the world. Baby travel the world and over a few minutes. It turned into fact. It turned into fact that quick just because people. But i wanted to ask you about something because i had. I've been burned by folks by. But i've had examples where i've been burned by people that i felt like. We had a mentorship type of exchange. And i wanted. If you've ever had that experience i've been mostly burned. I will say disappointed. Outside is appointed on. Because anyone that i feel like. I'm really good judge of character in the people so anyone that major. It's always been a really great relationship now. There have been times when that bench disappointed in the relationship. But we find out way back to each other because of the foundation was always there me. The foundation was always there. So i also don't allow people are cold fingers fans of mine to come into my world because you've made thank you want me to be your arche. Bevy you make that you want me to be a big sister you that you want me to be mother to you. Which as you said. Amanda approach side of the party okay. Came up into a party. Good the now isn't a day brunch. Like i'm here now on. This does come in. I made to you okay. What you mean is like buzzkill. But that's how i am and so in order to pick people to mentor. That i feel that can on that will accept. That approach will respect it and wanted not me. I'm never trying to be a buzzkill. I'm never trying to bring anyone down. But if i see you about the run into motherfucking trauma be like okay. Don't do that is a really big old right there. I know you can't see it. But i have really good vision people. I don't wear glasses of italian. Go down that row women to that oak. You know. I think that that's why The mentoring thing is really. It's it's a real relationship in a has to be reciprocal to be based on mutual respect in the capi based around adoration Aids because once people come into your life and they see you dirty draws and they see your you know whatever wearables that have if all the was about was the public persona of you. They're gone dead on. That's it scares me. How many people want to be up in my sleep. I'm like really dont 'cause it's not what you think is going to be. I'm not super glamorous. Like my sons. They're doing on my marketing work for me. They come up in here a bit. We have known a role not draw a week. Be off home. Rolls up the nia major. That may but they're my son's for real for real like i'm mentoring them for real so they they love monthy. Yeah be me. that's not be like. Oh my god the the wizard of oz is really a small man behind the curtain. They know that the bevy smith is really a Black woman with a great of that. She lets and has cohen rallied yet. They know that well before we go. You have been so generous with your sharing of wisdom and your experiences with you know your colleagues and also those of us who have come up you know as novices neophytes fights of sorts behind you. What would you say is like the piece of wisdom that you share with yourself. That keeps you going because you're mainstay. You know like. There's not many that i feel like come into the game and stay. You know they might even like we talk about brooke shields like she. She was here and then she left like it's not to say this. She's not successful. I'm not sure what she's doing but like she. she knows. She decided that this wasn't where she wanted to stay and she wanted to take a turn. And i feel like we've seen that with a number of folks and for various reasons. I'm this is my shade by any by any stretch of the imagination. But there's a certain level of inner peace and stamina that is required to be in this as long as you have and so what is the wisdom that you give yourself that you have learned from this time. Everything is as it should be. Beverly everything is as it should be and paceman mobile coffin so and i do not allow myself to hysterical about someone else's success elaborate. I am not running a race against anyone else. Competition is the thief of joy. Comparison is the of joy is the thief of joy. Yes that's not mind is someone else's the famous of some sort. But what i know for sure is that so many people themselves out because they're always looking alongside Themselves and they're always looking at. Who's in front ended constantly. Judging in assessing dan time life based on what's on someone else's like and so what that means is that you're running as fast as you can and then you're you're gonna push yourself and you're going to burn out and i pace myself. You're not spend a lotta time smoking imaginary cigarettes in eating imaginary bomb box as red. Do that's what i do in the day. Let me tell you something. The man. I'll tell you the truth and i didn't want to say because i didn't want to come off the wrong way but i'm literally not doing like hot castes. Or the like thing our have booked. I'm gonna finish them. Not doing a lot more than because my woke. Fresh tool was so intense mayhem at know that life and i'm exhausted. I'm not doing it anymore. And it's okay. So i made that decision. Well thank you for including us upon noticed. But i hope you knew that our conversation was gonna feel so different than listen and you go all day. That's responding to say that she you act. I want to say to your listeners. That is all cane. Run your own race as is imperative to do it and please do not look at what everyone else is doing. Do what feels right for you. What feels right for me right now. In this moment. I'll give you run perfect segue into what i was going to say with. Pay six sixty got cancel. I was like well after that experience. I know what. I don't wanna do on tv ever again and said what i'm not gonna do is go back out and try and find another tv hosting gig because the only show is literally on tv right. Now that i want to be is the view. That is it. Nothing hosting gig. That i wanna be i wanna be on any of the Might so long. So i didn't go to my agent at the job. Oh my all going out move anywhere. You want to do something different. And i thought about nasa. I want to get back into acting. As i never gave myself enough opportunity to act to really pursue it because my acting when i went to susan batson latte nexus. I was lucky enough to have sousa bachelor one of my classes. And she said are you. You are broke your movie. You're waiting to be told as you are. You're gonna work as you saw you. Can you tell you that. That's what may be moved to. La kim coleman said as you are you can work. And i was like all right. That's all i needed to hear. So what stopped you from. We'll know what she'd met was. I am me back. Baddies mayor the story. I in my mentor told me a you. Don't wanna put people's words in your mouth you you have the best words. He's like you should just go. You should do. Tv yes but you should be a host. You should be out there talking ask yourself. I know this journey. So i was like getting all these opportunities to speak as beverly smith as my weather. Fuck not jake. These opportunities the when this show gets cancelled. I'm like i'm gonna try and get back into this thing and in the book. Revelations lessons from a month. Aren't the best thing i put down that on march twelve. I went on audition for a tv show. I was not excited about going. For two reasons. There was a global pandemic that was about the proper was yep. Nazi closed down the next day. Stand also. I didn't know if i really had a grass with the material anyway and i'm frightened in fight the fear and go and i say i'm glad i went because i don't know what happened with the production because everything closed down but i'm glad i which and that's a win in the book. I'm like to myself. I didn't child two months ago. The casting people call me said bevy. We want you to come in. We have a role for you so they wrote. They won't be one scene. And i went in and did it. I did it so well. They want me a second seeing as how it goes well. I'm going back next week. Do a third thing and next thing they're going to be like we just would like to make you a series regular and listen foods and fifty four years old. Amanda you see because it's never too late. Joan rivers is the. I mean the queen of that pot till she was that before you though it gets greater later. My number one belt violation it gets greater later in my career. I cannot believe it. I have to the last Maxine amanda that's that's that's the message. Run your own. Race noah gives greater later. Please don't the comparison is deep joy. Those those things. And that's what we'll keep you saying this fucking world not just in this industry that we're in but it has world that those things will keep you sane money your own race knowing that you knock bassin's deep joy and knowing that it gets greater label baby launchpad you can achieve some things and also the dream real big real big in audacious like you have always i like you. I haven't dreamed i feel. I've always dreamed very like very like in a state of realism. I've always dreamed very practically and yeah and in the last. I would say in the last three years. When i start to be like you imagined is in you know and that goes back to what we're saying in the beginning like make space make room. You know that it doesn't just like right here. I've really does right. The amanda people like you anything is right. There is literally right there like if you ask them like small dream of just having just being on a on a just on just having a talk. Show the affable. Amanda show can happen. Tomorrow is the end. That and and i remember when i remember when headline when grandmaster flax was like. Why can't you just write like some bullshit song and make your mom a million bucks an hour than by our house now is like first of all expect more wisdom from you but you know what the credit he came up the hard way and in so those guys right so don't put yourself through. That went through like this. Get there and i was like music but if i did if i got it that way i don't feel like i would. I would want it. You know. And and and i'll say that too because i speak real earnestly and honestly about these white folks about this town about about injustice whenever i see it in and i had a friend recently. Be like you know. Don't you feel like that could get in the way of like deals that you're doing am dislike because if if if it's a deal that i'm supposed to have and it requires me to be silent about. The ship is going down then. It's not a deal for me. And the end comparatively. My peers may operate differently. But again like you said. Comparison is the thief of joy. And i have nothing to do with what they are doing. Nothing in relations everybody by the beverly. He's ever been brought back. Please leave a review but really go back for everyone and also narrate the ordeal and it's filled with blacks of a of different things like that good but then the real book. The hardcover of a book actually has pitches a big bet from up council. You can see me as a hip hop pod so that's also is very fun. It's glorious just like having you here is a glorious time and getting to see you because we don't get to say no and you let fabulous. I love you. And i miss you. And i'm going to do my radio show gentlemen to berry is i thought you betty is bevy is that she is a truce. She is the truth. Make sure to go out there and get better relations and you know. I think there's a lot of revelations that i hope you while listening because it's definitely you know the conversation dovetails but ultimately you're trying to use your wisdom to look at other situations that may also eventually relate to you right and so that's how you end up talking about things like meghan markle and lil boosie et cetera et cetera et cetera. But when it comes down to it there really is a movement that happened over the summer. Where i feel like a lot of us had to find wisdom and that time that she said she went through at thirty three a lot of us went through during twenty twenty where we were forced to go internal and synthesize in real time in a way that we just never chose to or never even had time to force to and So i think a lot of us crossed over to wisdom. And i think it's it's it's great for aspects also an excessively because in the code of it all. We have lost so many elders and the elderly were on wisdom base. You know they were those who have been here long enough to look at things from a bird's eye view in a way that recently as betty says the beginning of the interview she grew up with history and so a lot of us. Our history that we grew up with has has gone on to the other side over this last year and so it is time for a new space of wisdom to open up and for folks to step into that in a hole and really purposeful way an intentional way. So thank you the bevy smith for joining us and you know i wish all of you all say journey so yeah we is not to be conscious of the fact that not everybody says they wise got wisdom. Some of them is actually just pulling the wool over your podcast network.

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We went to stress on jane outdoor dining in outside where to stretch limos and going into the restaurant that driver was like. Hey you awry ride you know. Talk to your guy you she get a ride. You're worth it. And i was sort of like laughing but also like that's not something you see outside restaurants. Typically you don't really see that anywhere typically right just like a parked limo. That we're getting in so i was sitting down and i was saying to andrew. That's so crazy. Who would do that. And then three in gronyea's is later. We decided to do that and shlomo home. So why not with anything included in this experience like you get in and there's bubbly waiting for you or was it like you. Just get thing now is. It was really like lit up like a party. Limo in the music was going real loud but there was not a drop of liquor insight which is fine for the best at that point right. Well you know uber's nowadays. I mean some of them will have like mints or bottles of water for you in the back and it was not that kind of situation almost a luxury experience but not right exactly wall in other exciting news. There is a gone with the wind. Fabulous real housewives of atlanta marathon. Coming up tomorrow. It's ten more fiftieth birthday. That's crazy i now. I mean deandra just turned fifty real housewives of dallas kenya turning fifty. I mean obviously we know fifty cent. Everyone looked so fantastic for their age. And i talk about it all the time especially when i'm looking in the mirror and seeing like he's little wrinkles popping up my crow's feet. I'm like how do i look like ramona now. Not just when. I'm like sixty but now i know but i mean i think it is really good for especially women like to see other women aging and it's fine like it's nothing and of the world. Yup forty is not dead fifty. You can still be you know really comfortable in your skin more. So as we saw with carrie ann. Russia's dallas yeah absolutely. I mean fifty eight nothing but a number okay. Yeah what are we talking today. Okay well we need to talk about real housewives of orange county the reunion part one then. We have southern charm finale in real housewives of salt lake city and my god plus i interviewed bevy smith. You guys might remember from bravo's fashion queens and of course we're going to wrap up with rosen thorn all right so see yes okay well first before we get into the nitty gritty of everything. A lot of interesting reunion looks at this event who nailed their look who totally missed the mark. I liked gina's because i thought it was. It was very different for her. And i think she'd even said in this behind the scenes moment that we caught that she was just like you know. I'm starting to to be more like me. Because i think a lot of times people when they get on housewives. They think they have to look a certain way answer. She's trying to pare back now. I thought emily look treatment. I didn't love the arrest. Necessarily it was kind of just for me personally to pageantry. But she looked great Kelly looked great. Bronco was just doing ally. I thought you know if that. Look on an arianna. 'grande for example. I'd be like nailed it amazing and i appreciate what she was going for. But it was a little bit too much for me. When i first saw elisabeth and shannon's looks like when we released all of the images on bravo. Tv dot com. I wasn't loving what i saw but the more i was looking at elizabeth Dress the more. I was like okay if this were sutton wearing it. Would i feel differently if this were a different house. What i feel a another way about it so it grew on me as i watched the episode. 'cause i think her hair looked really good. Her makeup look really good. Elizabeth i mean shannon. I still wasn't vibing with it. By the end of the episode is a see what she was going for. Yeah it just didn't work for me personally. Okay so i wanna start with the first issue that sort of came up which was again the text message from bronwyn husband to gina. I stand by that. I think it. It's fine that she took it the way she did. I think that's understandable. I don't think people should put winky emojis texts. If they don't want it to be misconstrued. Yeah definitely based on all of the context that gina was working with. I understand what she was saying. Was that shawn's intention. Perhaps not but no. I think absolutely not at this point i. I wasn't sure now. I really you know. Other people have added context like shannon. Saying you were so drunk. He was clearly very worried about you. But again johnson a winky face to. Yeah your wife's friend. It's weird right. It's weird what if it was like the winky face with tongue out. That'd be even more the so. That's that's more innocent to me and be like as being silly right. That is more silly than flirtatious. Or could be exact. I see that full. This whole conversation. To between gina broaden and then shannon chiming in. I think very early on in this reunion. It's obvious that bronwyn is not on the same page with any of these women and honestly at this point. Probably anyone in her life right now. Yeah i'm not even sure in the same book. Yeah it seems like bronwyn is very much existing in this space that she has created for herself and she's not really letting anyone else in and nobody really wants to be involved but it's just so perplexed by the whole thing. There's there's a lot of inconsistencies. I absolutely and i think that it makes to me why everyone is so angry with her because she did talk a lot in the press before the show started airing and she really was putting them down in a lot of ways and then i do feel like she has made all of these very sudden life choices or life changes. I should say and you have to give other people a chance to process that. The the part that i don't think is okay. Is kelly saying that she thinks bronwyn faking being alcoholic. Your alcoholism was all four story. Plan kelly yes. That is one of those things that even if you think it you shouldn't say it because it is dangerous. The problem with yeah. I feel like she's never had a thought that she didn't feel the need to brutalize. Absolutely in your darkest of the dark places where you hold secrets you can think that. Don't say it. yeah it's not fair to bronwyn and the journey that she's been on at this point for ten months she's now going on almost a full year of sobriety. It's not fair whether you believe it or not to try to discredit the work. She's done. They are plus the work that other people are doing who might be looking at brodmann as an example on the show of someone who is in recovery who has been very open about it very sharing about her whole experience. It's just it's such a dangerous path to go down. I just wish. Kelly bit her tongue in that moment. Exactly especially the the misinformation. She's spreading the idea. That will you woke up. Went to the gym. Therefore you're not an alcoholic is just not true. It's just not factual in any way. As andy said you can be a functioning alcoholic it just. I don't know where she gets off that. She thinks that she's the expert in all things and can decide if someone's has a problem or does it sort of the larger conversation that's been happening pretty much over the last four years of these alternative facts right like right. You can choose to not believe certain facts and choose to believe others and for some people that's okay and it just is so dangerous Across the board. They also kind of glazed over bronwyn. That shannon is an alcoholic. And i wanted to get more into that but i think went to commercial. We came back and we were passed it already. And i was like whoa. Whoa whoa can. We break that down a little bit more. Maybe they did. And it didn't make this episode. They could've done more. You know actually more but it didn't make it. I don't know. But i thought that we move on from that way too quickly. Well arianna from las villas. California wants to know bronwyn if you think shannon has a problem with alcohol. Yeah i do know that. Watching the filming of the reunion shannon was pissed. She was pissed that it's come up again because it has come up at reunions past. And you know the thing is like i guess from her perspective. Why do you keep bringing this up. You know like what are you trying to say about me. Yeah just in general. I think but i don't know it's so touch 'cause you know it's just touchy. It's so risky to put that out there to someone. And i think shannon even says backstage. I believe she calls john and says something about you. Know brodmann doing this but her kids are watching and it was sort of like a few seasons ago when vicky brought up. Oh kelly does cocaine. You know when you're just kind of like you can't throw these accusations out there because these people and now their families are going to have to deal with the repercussions of that like yeah. It's it's just as much as kelly trying to deny on wednesday. Alcoholism was dangerous. I think this was dangerous for shannon in a different way. It really does hit home with me. Why certain housewives don't show their private lives though. Yeah because if i were shannon i'd be feeling so guilty for bringing john onto the show because as she said he's a partner in insurance company. Now when you google his name alcohol is going to come up in some of those hits on the so. It's like in a way. She did that to him. And like that's terrible. And why would you risk doing that to someone you love. You know right right Feels guilty that she even asked him to film with her now and guy but he really did a good job about being involved. Enough in shannon's storyline this season and not doing anything to create his own which not all house husbands quote unquote have done in the past. So i do feel bad for him because he is getting dragged through the mud a little bit now. We didn't really do anything to warren. Now all we've seen from him is really great things. Yeah we love you. John but i do think that i wanna t shirt. That says i'm fine. But i'm not an alcoholic. I'm fine. i'm fine. But i'm not an alcoholic. Yes that'll probably be. Shannon comes back next season. Yeah how related to her tagline. Okay well i have to ask you about the whole. I'm sure this is what you were going to. Bring up to the whole conversation between andy and kelly about social media behavior. I'm so glad this was addressed. Yes Saying i feel like it had to be in i feel like maybe andy had gotten flack to for taking it. Too easy on her much happens live. But i think now. In retrospect he was probably saving it for the reunion. Maybe you know. And i just what he said is true. It's not your behavior on the show. It's what you're saying on social media. So why don't you ever stop not say those things on social media and the fact that you know and we'll talk about this later in the episode with catherine southern charm. But it's just she doesn't see it she doesn't get it because her response to that is my fan. Base hasn't diminished. I haven't lost any followers. Kelly alaria baldwin. Just got a whole bunch of hours. It's not for the reason you think. Okay it's not a measure of you being a good person. I love that you made that your example. I have been watching. That story with her. Armie hammer had only made me feel alive past couple. Damn but yeah with kelly. It's just the the question that andy asked about. Are you worried you're going to be on the wrong side of history. That is a question that i've wanted to ask so many people in the last year. And i think that's such an important thing to think about because in the moment you know these things are happening the pandemic the black lives matter movement in the moment. Maybe you're you're not reacting the way that you should but you need to think about long term. You need to see the bigger picture. And i don't think kelly was seeing the bigger picture at all in the past year and i don't think a lot of people were really looking at these situations the way that they should have been and i just. I appreciated that. He was trying to hold her accountable and giving her a chance to speak on it and apologize or retract. Things that she has said in the past and we almost got her there. But she didn't quite given i think the way that she should have and could have and maybe deep down inside wanted to the mask thing really. Just put me over the edge kelly. We heard you say so. Many things this season about mass and whether people should wear them tell us now. What is your stance on mass. I hate wearing masks. And i think everybody's on that with me. I will wear. Because i have to. But does your pants protect you from afar like is helping our the mask helping. I don't know. Yeah to say. I don't know if it's doing anything you don't have to know you have to pay attention to what doctors and scientists are saying and if they are saying here is the proof. You can't just decide that you're still not sure about it. You know it's just misinformation is out there and it's everywhere and it's a bit concerning she's so misinformed on so many things because it's like you should be more informed than a lot of other people on this stage at this point with your connection to such a new source but you know that is what it is. Okay we need to circle back to bronwyn real quick because there's two major things that come out at the end of this episode that i'm just trying to work through in my mind so i need to talk to you about it number one. What point was bronwyn trying to make in bringing up elizabeth's ex. I didn't really understand where that was supposed to be going. Yeah because we got halted because elizabeth was like his fiancee. But i think what braun was going to say is that she was trying to make the point. That elizabeth is a liar right. And she's like i talked to. You like which does though like an x is if it's contentious divorce of course he's going to say things that are different version of what she's saying. Yeah exactly and maybe he's not been entirely truthful about the status of his relationship because he's trying to protector doesn't want to hurt or he doesn't wanna upset her. Make things worse. I don't know but it just felt. I don't know really petty or something that bronwyn was trying to be like. This is the information. I have by the way like. She was trying to catch correcting elizabeth. Warren elizabeth feel sorry for his girlfriend she was fiance. I just didn't really understand the whole point of that. I just think that whether or not you agree with her life you know. Elizabeth is still in love with her ex. I think that much is clear. It's not even be sensitive to that is weird to me. Then number two with bronwyn the good stuff that she's allegedly offered shannon's fourteen year old daughter. What the hell. I don't know whether i was going to say this today. But as a mother. I'm going to when my daughter stella was fourteen years old at a very first beach barbecue. You went up to her and said stella if you want the good stuff text me. Oh my god when. I was watching that part. My jaw was on the ground. I did not see it coming. I definitely anticipated that. Whatever was said because we did see it in the super. Tease had something to do with body. Image or something you know. I never thought it would have been if you need a drug hookup is that what is being implied in the good stuff. Like what all i know is i also felt like elizabeth was trying was asking. Some very pointed questions to bronwyn can was bronwyn. Said i wasn't. I wasn't drinking. But i wasn't sober. That's the difference and a little. I think what she meant was. She clarified that to not be sober. It's not dealing with the reasons why you drink. But elizabeth said so define not like what not sober like she was like. I think trying to get at what other substances. Have you been addicted to right. Which you know. We've not ever heard about that. I know that has not been addressed. But something tells me in part two of the reunion it will be or at least that shannon stuff for sure. I spoke with fashion queen star bevy smith about her new book. Beverly lessons from a mother. Auntie bessie we talked about. The new roni housewife ebony k williams and whether or not bevy has run into lisa. Barlow at sundance. Here's that interview. So i am here with a fashion expert. A radio host tv personality boss businesswoman and now author bevy smith. How are you. I'm really good. So i know you got your champagne. You are ready to go. I'm trying to uncorking. The court is a little resistant up year. Yes i love that sound effect. That's great nature. It's just like your car. You're just immediately calm after hearing that right exactly. My nerves steadied now. Thank you for having me on worse. Thank you for coming so our listeners will remember. You from fashion queens. You watch any other. Bravo shows now. What about other reality tv. I don't know. I don't have time. I don't i am one of the guar. Andrew cohen might as i mentioned in the bookies my mitch yup i love the we had this relationship where you know and the is like the king of reality tv in got reality. Tv spilled right right close and we obviously worked together on a myriad of things so workout right so as a bravo liberty. Even though you don't watch the shows are you friends with any of the housewives or any of the other people on our shows. Yes yes yes tom i. I love cynthia of candy. I love kinga at love. Love love eat even marcel. We work the even. That actually did the first. My first seven hosting thing was a show with eva on bt jay. It was called by marble better than your model napa style how evil was the host. That was my first tv hosting gig. So i did omega mercedes. I love how from the shops. I love her and she'll there's families who actually recently just did a pilot with hannah okay. Burner dumber house. John you know summer house so and then also. I'm really be designing running the same circles. So yeah so i know a lot of rob. Oh ladies oh and then of course In new york ebony williams is going to be the first black housewives of it. Yeah we will house your cast member edge. She is a friend of mine as well. So all the ladies we orbit at a joggers world. But i just don't do reality tv. And i don't watch you're like no thank you okay. So obviously we know cynthia. We know kenya. What can you tell us about ebony. Because i know so many people are excited to see her on the show. I feel like she is like the exact energy that show needs right now. So what you talk about ebony. While i tell him. Andy i said evans wanna come on. Hold on the ladies ready for ebony. Because she's incredibly smart. She's beautiful and she's also wickedly. Wickedly witty okay. So she's got a dancer was around a lot of people. I think a lot of people are gonna wind up. Not being able to deal with her verbal dexterity. I think that we're going to see another thing. Like how with kinga where people were like. Oh my gosh. She's at the hit you ability drink at. She can just cut you with words. Evans right avenues. Incredibly smart and she's also very black identified. Which is a really powerful thing to be on a show like real housewives of new york which has had the are. You know a a lack of diversity and everything and now with avenue being the first one on me. I think she's a perfect selection because she'll she'll do just fine being the only one. Yeah yeah no. It's so great that we finally have that kind of representation. I'm real housewives of new york city. 'cause i live in new york too. I know you're from harlem born and raised and still live there so finally. I think we're starting to see a little bit more new york on real housewives of new york city. Yes definitely definitely my god okay so you are a fashion expert now out of the house wives that you're friends with or even the ones that you just know. Who would you say is the best dressed. That's just tough. It is tough right because there are so many with their own unique style in a lot of. Yeah and also too. I don't critique my friends the way they dress. I mean like i'm right. I'm not that person and just happy. They have on closer to clean right. We could even brought in then to like celebrity like in the whole pop culture celebrities space. Who someone that. you're like. Damn they get it right every time on sunday Amazing j. lo amazing. Yeah you know. Jane fonda amazing. I love tilda swinton. Amazing michael jordan's fourth men girls timothy. Shallow may have this can rival celebrities. You're like i have a whole messed up here. I have a whole list of fabulously well-dressed celebrities. Well then who would you say is your own personal style. Icon my mother. Oh yeah she's incredibly stylish still to this day. She's ninety three years old and she is fierce and down. She has a great sense of style and she puts together so well at the age of ninety three in so she is definitely style goes for me. And where do you think she got her inspiration from. I think just honestly black people are just a very creative. We are very creative people in very ingenious. And so that's the reason why you see so many trends. Come out of the black community. As far as allan bashing does is. We just very ingenious in that way. I think that my mom medical how old pitch from one thousand nine hundred nineteen fifties. You just see that you know you just see that someone shoot. She didn't make a lot of money but she was incredibly. Wab put together right now. And i just think that that's just a cultural thing about cultural. Dna yeah absolutely. I do want to ask a little bit more about your mom. Because i want to get into your book. So congratulations first of all on the lessons from a mother. Auntie best yes congrats. Thank you baby. You're welcome so the basically details your move from advertising executive to tv personality and everything that you are today so what inspired you at that time to make such a drastic career. Change options miserable Wanna do what. I was doing anymore. You know i had a job. That was a dream job with so many people office making really great money. I was flying off to exotic locales out sitting front row at bashing shows. I was receiving gifts major designers and fashion houses. And i'm just miserable. And i realized i needed to change my life and i didn't know how it's to change my life. I knew i needed to change it in some. The first thing i did was i changed my name from beverly smith at changes to betty and i wanted that to be kind of like the first one that the be the opening shot like sir changes afoot. Bevy smith and i actually was inspired by my old friend. Puff daddy who has many names. He goes right for the by did he does he. Sean sean john is sean cones. He's all these many things right and not rebel. Did he connects when he vibe named so academic and i did that and it really worked out. Well i it really did shift means for me when i went being beverly tabet. Yeah it was a ship not just a me but also in the people around me Right in the way that they might receive you util. That's exactly so what advice would you give people who might want to switch up their career path. Because i feel like the biggest hurdle to overcome. Is that fear of the unknown. So what would you say to people who might wanna do. Exactly what you did and just change completely when i will say. It's not an easy task to do and sell you like. Get that out your mind getting out of your mind like you know i did it. I changed my life began j. d. my life at the age early eight and it really has worked out incredibly well like i literally quit job at rolling stone the become a writer and a tv personality and to you know just lead a more creative life and i literally do that. Only make my money. I make great money at just being creative and so it worked out really nice but it was not without its challenges and so i would tell people if you want to change your life. You have to be ready to go through some challenges and you will probably go through financial challenges. Which i did. Yeah but you also go through of mental and spiritual challenges and there will be challenges in your relationships because oftentimes the people closest to us are vested in the lives. That we've created me at that your spouse or maybe your kids or maybe your parents or maybe your best friend loves the bat that eric has you know is really great. Podcasts or you know On bravo he and you wanna change that all of a sudden now you know. Maybe you don't have access to bravo. They'll be like well. Wait a minute why you wanna change by you. Why you not want to do that anymore. They're afraid words the metoo them right. You will have people in your life that you think are supposed to be those who are big supporters civil. Try and talk you out of changing your life and to that i say you much. You must forge ahead. No matter what the naysayers say you must yeah yeah. It's funny that you saying that reminds me of a huge christina aguilera man and stripped of my favorite albums of all time and voice with an is like such an important message a trust in yourself and just know that no matter what other people might say that you have the power and you have the ability to change yourself and you just need to trust in that yes indeed. It's so true. And i love that album too. I really really is a when you change in your life. You do have to strip than for me. I had to let go of so many personas had built up over the years as a as a way to protect me. What i thought was protecting me as a way of like you know making sure that people that they could pierce my arm but with found is that at building up those layers of personas they became calcified in the yearly. Did change who. I was and not for the better end when i started. Chipping away at that stuff is when we get to the good stuff and not my core. I'm lou brown bevy again. I'm curious Venturous you. I am I'm very like gracious and I think about things in a very positive way you. I'm always looking at the bright side of things right and that this would be good for likely how they gb because always site you know. I want i don't wanna fight. You know so funny in that book. I talk about when i when i got cast for bashing greens. You know. there's a line in the book. rat. Said i'm sorry in the when i got fashion queens. I wasn't he was when to take it. And it was because my co host derek. J. miss lomax have been on real housewives of atlanta right. I was growing concerned. Not derek j. 'cause i knew him he was my friend. I was very concerned that mrs. lawrence will come onto the show on the set in wanna be combated because as you know a lot of what folks do reality. Tv is fuss. Invite a gin scraps drama. I can't have drama in my life. Not even four check right so i was very concerned and then of course it turned out that he's one of my best friends now so there was no drama is a matter of fact the region. I'm call martha is because of milo. Derek j. emma's lawrence. They start calling up on the set of fashion points. That's okay. i love that. We'll talking a little bit more about your book and getting back to your mom. I read that you were kind of hesitant to let your mom read. You know certain parts of the book. So can you tell our listeners. What you were trying to shield her from well the salacious right. I mean right you know. I'm a size queen. You know these two people in this life as in liars. I for willing doubt man and so i didn't want necessarily to read that in i mean and so you know it's like oh i'm gonna have to redact certain right of the book for everything you know. So that's what i did in the mountain black alike. Go worry about those passages mommy. And she's like out not saying filthy words like up. I wish it would just filthy. Words lay the talk about the filthy deeds. It's way more than just words way. More just words. Yeah but you know that was. That was an interesting thing you know. They have to like shield her. From but yeah. I've been doing that before. My friends parents sued so many of my friends parents bought. The book is well-known like all kind will let them know. There's a lot of racy bits in there right right well other than like parents. Were you nervous about anyone else. Reading what might be in the books they feel like there's so much you know personal information in there and as much as it's going out to the world it might be different for people that know you that you're close to. Yeah you know. I wasn't really that nervous. That's the reason why the name names. I told the stories because i felt like you know it's fine if i want to expose myself Expose anyone else while telling my story. So i just felt like i wanted to protect The not so innocence. But i just want to like you know again. I just. I didn't want to exploit in the wino- i didn't want anyone to feel like all so she's using my story in my life to sell a book and want to do that. So at descending well before we started recording. We're talking a little bit about everything that's going on in the world right now and you know there's something to be said about the timing of this book's release so were you worried about it coming out now or do you feel like in some ways. It's right on time. Oh it's definitely by long time. Yeah this is all about the pivot. and so many people are having to pivot in their lives right. You're not mean because kalana virus eliminated so much work so many jobs so many people people have lost family members. Friends lovers partners. You know so. Everyone's in the process of a pivot of some sort and this book is about that. Pivot is also about my number. One bev relation is it gets the later and you know. I look at someone like a andy cohen who you know initially wanted to be on tv and actually became a tv executive and then that led him back to his. You know kind of a regional dream right which was to be on tv. And so you know. He didn't give up that idea. And a said he incorporated the new dream into that treatment. Yeah he loves the producer and he loves in the producing an obviously. He's very good finding town. So you know. I just feel like so. Many people can learn from that lesson. They can also learn from my lesson. Someone who's thirty eight and who was able to break into a field is very youth oriented very thin oriented very white oriented. Yeah and none of those things. And yet i was able to create enough of a demand for my talents that i was able to be on television And a host. And i have to do anything that would kind of matt jibe spirit No absolutely. I know that you also have a connection to the sundance film festival. Yes so do you happen to know. We have our show real house of salt lake city. Now if you happen to early sub barlow. I don't know lisa barlow. I don't even know which one that is. But i know you guys ask show and then though people are absolutely obsessed with an when i got to tell you an anti told me that you guys were doing there. I was like really cause a mormon so many arguments. But i will say this every time i i've flying into salt lake city and this quite a drive. It's our from salt lake to the airport to bark city. Which from the as it's hell you know. There's always a high young driver in traditionally mormon or maybe an ex mormon You those warm is to have fun. So i'm not surprised. This show is a big hit and not everyone is a mormon on the show but it is really interesting to see how each of them interpret their religion and how they practice at least barlow one Heather gay who's another big fan favorite so far on the show is also more men in kind of struggling with. She's gotten a divorce and she's really trying to reconcile how that is but rampant 'em cosby and it's her step grandfather but yes yeah. He was married. I knew her grandmother before she yes. She has so that's interesting. It's very interesting. She has been quite a controversial character on the show. But yet lisa barlow has your self proclaimed queen of sundance. So i'm always just so curious. I'm there. i'm the working with like a juvenile hilton. Dinners like we were able to rene and why you know gossip so many dinners people for like wral and dinner parties for like you know quincy jones and his daughter and you know. Yeah and then. I do Cocktails every single year with hbo. So i mean we might be in a different kind of social thing. I'm working in a space of the film and tv space right. I'm there really like actually connecting the dots with projects. Yeah she owns a tequila. So i think her priorities on little bit different. You know great drink is a morita. So maybe that's true that is true. We'll see we can hook up there. Maybe next sundance guys can collaborate coming after watching the show first season. So you don't have too much to catch up on you know. It only premiered a few months ago so or you could just wait reunion. The reunion is when it comes out you know. Just do that. A lot packed with these. We mentioned earlier being born raised and still living in harlem. What do you love most about your neighborhood. All i just loved it's actually a real community We know each other. We support each other so when the virus first happened there was a huge. What's at shane about. Two hundred people that are you know in the community and we were talking about. Do you have clorox wipes you have massed. You have gloves unique. Do you need water. And when my father passed away they actually were able to come to my aid. A give me a bunch of n ninety five masks. Which is you know. Were like gold. During the beginning of the year they were able to give me enough my whole family so that we can actually attend my dad's funeral safely. So that's why i love about harlem. It's a real community and it always has been also we have beautiful architecture and also there's always something going on in the in the community this this a life the vibrancy no matter what goes on. We're gonna remake Lemonade aliments all day every day and anatomy. That's why has this resilience spirit. And also this kind of upi positive you know of personality has a lot to do with being born and raised in heart. Yeah well you have to settle something for me. Because i when i first moved to new york lived up in what i call. Washington heights was at one. Fifty ninth and broadway but i think people were trying to start a hamilton heights name for that neighborhood and on like what where does harlem beginning end for you. One hundred in ten to one fifty fifth grade. Okay okay and then above one fifty would be you would wash. Okay ask the manual morand heights right exactly this summer. Yeah no no right. So i when i first moved up there you know i would say that and i would talk about. Oh yeah i live in manhattan. I live in washington heights and people would be like well where i'd say address maybe like well. That's hamilton heights. And i'm like okay. Don they will change a neighbor on on you in a minute. The gentrify it's true it's true. Well beverly thank you so much for coming on the show. This is fantastic. Can you tell our listeners where they can follow you and of course where they can get your book. It's all that be smith all day every day and they should also know the andy cohen who they all now involve. This is his third book on his andy cohen books imprint. So definitely if you want. Were andy you should support this book and the book sold where books are everywhere everywhere. The books are so. That's human the book has rise kind of drink. And i also just put it together that you are also in the same catalogue as mariah carey offshore. I am reading her book right now. I'm reading her book right now. So good yup me. Jackie o'brien whether unholy trinity. I love dr jackie to bevy. Thank you so much again for coming on the show. We appreciate it. It was a blast right tucked. Usa time yes. Please don't judge me. But whitney has looked pretty damn good this season. Okay i agree with you okay. Good he looks like rep butler little bit. There is something about his. Look at this party. That just like i've never given him a second look but i did this time but i have to say. I am a in that minority. Where i'm like. I love a mustache on a right right. I mean madison seems to she offers you know. Can i take a mustache ride for that stash ride. That is forward. And are you only saying that to hurt austin or are you being since i don't okay. I need your perspective on this too. If you are still having sex with people at other people's houses is it time to grow up right. Because madison's friends said he was over at my. Was it something like. Is that what you're talking about somebody else. Yeah and that's where austin had sex with this girl or whatever. But i'm like is that. Does that still happen number one. It's a pandemic number two. I just feel like what you breaking off going into. Somebody's bedroom like what's happening. I don't get it feels very college to me. You're right yeah the cova up at all you know cove it all. Come on austin. I just feel this first of all. Seems like the worst party of all time. Because you have madison in austin playing this this whole game the whole time which i will say. It's more madison than austin. But it's like they're fighting. You have all these girls trying to confront catherine. It's just like a lot of chasing of people in it doesn't seem like a great time. No not at all. And actually john pringle. He spoke to us weekly and talked. About how tough it was to watch. Madison be rate austin and reading some of the things that he was saying. I kind of agree. I do feel like she took it a bit too. Far in this episode year screening europe beta in his face puffy. It's so emasculating. In the thing is you're not together. You've said you can't be together so stop it exact to me. Speaking to me. It also speaks to austin in his own boundaries that he's not setting for himself. Yeah because i think at a certain point like your girlfriend first of all. You shouldn't talk to me like that period second of all you certainly. Don't get socks that when you're not my girlfriend right and just deescalate you know. Walk away. yeah. I know she. She was escalating a few times in this episode unnecessarily i think were you really invested in the shark attack. Slash dolphin sex. Because i was worry you. I was like what's going on. Is it an attack or is it an orgy. I don't know things where it's like in person. If i see a dolphin. I lose my mind. I think that's very exciting. But watching people onscreen react to dolphin slash does not really do it for me. I know i just like the national geographic of it all. I was just sort of like what's going to happen. I got a narrow and we didn't really get any resolution there. I'm not even sure we got any resolution by the end of this episode. Either i guess we did a little bit inning piling okay. We'll the catherine stuff was. It's just been frustrating for a while. Now on the past few episodes and i felt like madison was definitely getting overly involved. You know because. I think she just wanted. You know catherine everyone's waiting for this moment took having come on. Go give him this moment. You gotta like amping her up in a way. It's just like not even appropriate right because we're not looking for katherine to go in there and defend herself we're looking for katherine to go in there and receive what everyone is trying to tell her. Process it and move forward from it so at madison has gassing her up unnecessarily because that's not what needs to happen right now and then her and danny getting into it. Oh my god. Danny is just so delicate. I feel like i'm so worried about her. Just like cracking access at her breaking point right now with catherine and it feels like with everybody and i'm just i'm worried but like when she said to manus and i'm about to slap you off of this i was like danny you will break a rib if you sneeze the wrong. Do not come at madison. Who actually works out and could kick your ass in a heartbeat. Sime about the smack. You song don't tell me it has been with. Would such a we know that all you sucker ass twenty four seven and all you do stand up for her and she doesn't for you right and you're on the edge of the right off so i wouldn't start making threats based on your position here. You know at the end of the day. I i think that if catherine had done what brandy on dallas dead this season bus or thing what happened in front of the group apologizing talking about the experience recognizing what she did wrong and just putting it out there so that everyone can hear it understand that. She's sorry. And then everybody can move forward but katherine has been dodging the accountability. And i think she's just like i don't know what everyone expects from me. I don't know what everyone expects. And it's like we expect you to apologize to recognize that you did wrong to own what happened and learn from it and move on and i think they got through her by the end of the conversation but tv. Judging by the whole i look at the reunion would say i'm not so sure. Yeah it's like part of me understands. Her argument of i made one mistake. It doesn't define me. It's true but how you handle the fallout and the aftermath. From that mistake says more about your character than that mistake. And i don't think she is doing. Yeah all of the processing afterwards properly. And that's what everyone is upset about. Well i i totally agree with your brand example because what brandy did was horrendous. But it's the way that she apologized. That made it feel sincere. And like she got it. Yeah absolutely she. She seems to be willing to do the work to improve. And we haven't seen that in katherine yet. Salt lake city short-leg. Okay so we know that this whole season has been a huge storyline between whitney and her dad and him in recovery for his addiction. The last that we heard about two weeks ago whitney hasn't spoken to her father. Which makes me really sad to watch this scene with her and her siblings and her dad in this very constructive conversation. They seem to be having. And then knowing this information it's just it's heartbreaking will wait hasn't spoken hand like there was a fall out or hasn't heard from him like something's wrong will she hadn't heard from him at all. I think she had reached out and he hadn't contacted her back and this was two weeks ago and she was doing an instagram live. Qna and someone had asked your father. How is he doing and she said. I'm a bit concerned. I've been reaching out. But i haven't heard from him so that was about two weeks ago. I don't know currently what what the state is. And and i hope that everything is okay but just knowing how much work put in and how invested. She is ben in his recovery. It's just so sad to think that you know just within twelve months of this all going down that now. They're not in the same place but you know this is. This is addiction. And it's just so sad. I just re watched beautiful boy yesterday. Oh god which have you seen it. Oh but i know about it. It's very it's actually. I think such an amazing depiction of addiction it is. It just reminds me of this. Because you know you go from things being so great and someone having all the support in love in the world. And then you know you're relapsed still happened not that that's what has happened. We don't know but just I think that can be such a scary thing. Yeah like having an addict in your life. You never know absolutely so. We're off to vegas without miri without mary. Come on. I mean come on. Mary doesn't she know as a housewife. The cast trip is a pretty significant part of the whole season. I just could not put myself in a trip anywhere with jan. Put it this way. I rather have a plain fulham ice. Been to be in vegas with jim. I will agree. I think that she has made a table misjudgment on a not going ghetto housewife. One one. is you wanna be on the trip. Remember in. I didn't five of real housewives of new york city. Heather thomson disinvited. Ramona from london and rome was because she knew you have to go on the trips. Mary was like at jen's coming. I'm not going forget it but also is vegas the place to go to bond. I'm not so sure. That's a bonding destination right. People aren't doing dressed. Falls in vegas and especially the trip starts off with lisa going before. Everybody and not communicating to whitney. Which honestly i think. I'm lisa apologised. And i just thought that was such a boss move and i love that. She went early because it was pretty shady. And i think intentional but i appreciate. She was real dick in this episode. Rsvp didn't answer whitney's phone calls only but then would go and call meredith right. Do you think that. Lisa is someone who is all talk because she does present herself in a very specific way right yes. It's like businesswoman. Like she says yes to every opportunity. She's always busy. She's always on her phone and then she she's talking about these race cars how she loves race cars. She can't wait and she's so excited. And then she's going like seventy miles per hour around the track which is still pretty fast but like when you go like come on. That's just like we drive. I know but it's still just like why is she all talk in other parts of her life that we just don't know yet just based on this interaction after all the talk about how great of a driver lisa she gets out on that track and drive slower than my grandmother. I mean not like i. Actually she handled it the correct way but she was a lot of. You know a lot of hot air. About how whitney had wronged her piss. You was but she came around real quick. When would he apologized after the race. Which i think is great but it is funny like people certain people are like. Oh my god like this bitch tries to talk to me. I'm going to have words for her but it was really pretty fine. But you know what's confusing to me about. Whitney's apology is. I'm glad she apologized. I appreciate that she it and they were able to move forward. But why didn't meredith flag like well. Hold on whitney though. What were you saying about. Jen and my marriage that night like why isn't meredith. Bring that up. It's so clear to me. She's not bringing it up because she doesn't want it out there right like so still. Maybe 'cause i think in a way maybe she's hoping they won't air that yet but they will if you keep talking about it. Yeah well and then on the other side of it. Though jan is ranting to heather about how you have to follow through with something when you bring it up like. What is whitney doing. But at this point now. She's fully ditched the whole meredith rumor that she brought to whitney to begin with and she's not following through with the rest of this stuff and is it because she does want to align herself with meredith and lisa because she used them a certain way compared to heather in whitney like issue. Trying to protect meredith at this point. I'm just confused. It seems a little hypocritical. it's just. I don't know their inconsistencies with jen especially because she seems to get upset with people after they apologized to her. She kind of waits until you know mary was like. I'm sorry very first second episode of the season. Mary's like i don't wanna fight with you like i'm sorry. Let's move past us and then before you know. It jen's still mad at mary and same thing with whitney. Now she i don't i don't get it. I don't understand why she so upset. No-one ruined cherise party but her in way she handled it and by the way. It's very clear that people are scared of her because scenes for next time. That woman says who. You're doesn't trust jin sean. Everyone raises their hand. I know the trust thing is interesting because someone can overreact. Someone can have a temper and that says one thing about who they are but to not trust. Somebody means that you're you don't really think they have your best interest in mind. Even if they do have a short temper and all of that stuff like there. It says a lot. More about jen's character. I think that everyone is like. I don't trust her. I mean does heather race our hand. I forgot to clock if she also raised her hand in that moment to re watch it. But i i need to rewatch but because i was just like oh my god. Jen is going to flip hirsch. I know i know but she hasn't done a lot so far this season to prove that she is trustworthy unless she is sitting on some information about meredith that she has decided not to bring out. I guess that would be the one quality makes she didn't away so i mean she's still brought it up on camera and yeah i mean who's to say but i don't know. Did you see all of the reunion. Looks for salt lake city. I felt like they looked good. Am i wrong or dot. No you're right you're right. I think everyone looked great. And everyone brought their own personal sense of style to it. Like jen's pretty extra meredith is very It has like a collar and some like buttons very similar to like her fendi jacket and those more power suit looks that she puts together I think everyone did a great job for first reunion. I think everyone did a pretty. I'm just really curious to see how they do on their first reunion. You know like will. Will someone like lisa make up for the fact that she hasn't really been filming a lot with the other women will marry make up for the fact that she didn't go on this trip. You know yeah from what. I know about the seating arrangements. It's pretty interesting to know who's on which side because it's not what you would expect. Okay roseanne thorn okay. Let's do rose and thorn okay. What was your road. My rose was from real housewives of orange county. It was this moment. So like andy. In kelly It got very heated at various parts of the reunion. Because he's asking tough questions and she doesn't like that and you know i don't know if they'll show this but at one point he is like kelly. You and i have never talked about this. That's why we have to go over this and you know she's just clearly so exasperated having to answer which i mean not even gonna go into that. 'cause she needs to right. I appreciated that then. There was the sweet moment where he asked elizabeth of you know. Are you still not with your ex. And kelly goes great question. Thank you kelly. i know to that. Do you think you still love him. Good question thank you kelly. It was one of those like side moment that you probably never expect to make air. But i appreciate that. They added that nod to show that you know kelly and here is yes they have a relationship outside of what has happened and the differences that they may have and all of that and it makes it a little bit more real right. What was your wall so my rose is going to be a little bit different this week. So my rose is my grandmother. Shirley louise perez. She passed away on sunday january seventeenth and She was just like you know she was just like the perfect grandma. She was my first best friend. She flirted with everybody. Would you would totally have appreciated megan. She's like we just like our when you get older. And i got my sense of humor from her. We have similar. Is you know it's just one of those things where you know looking back. You are obviously sad and you mourn the loss. But i think right now. I'm in the sort of reflective like celebrate the life stage of grieving and she was just a great lady so shirley my rose today and every day. Honey can we cry. That's neat just so much. Love to you in your mom kim who you know i adore. Yes thank you thinking of guys thank you. What was your thorn. So my i have a couple from below deck. This week's episode. Rachel who is just a hot mess when she drinks who was just bashing james right in front of james and elizabeth not released standing up for him even though she's already in love with him but she's also a little bit my thorn because she's clearly when these hippy dippy people who thinks everything means something in the fact that she met a guy she likes must mean that they should get married and the fact that she keeps saying that and she's not joking like home. Oh my god. Elizabeth you look crazy. You gotta stop right. I think she's a little bit of a different kind of girl covering up with this hippie attitude you know i i think if she were really as in touch with energy and things maybe she wouldn't be taking this so seriously. I don't know it's great. Strange by thorne is from real housewives of dallas. And it's stephanie. Is locker room foundation. Because really like i just i just feel like schools are already so underfunded when it comes to actual education and the arts and i think i don't know this for a fact by for the most part in athletics and sports divisions are pretty well funded across the board more so than other parts of schools. I could be wrong in that. But i was just kind of like. This doesn't seem like the kind of heart warming. Charity that i would feel. You know. this isn't candy cares. This is like locker rooms. Okay i guess. Wow i mean yeah you're texas you know how big sports i like. I understand that in certain places. You know. I'm sure there are plenty of locker. Rooms that need new lockers all kind of stuff. But i'm just saying you're being real kenya about this whole questioning. People charitable motivation. And you know. I love stephanie. Like i absolutely adore. 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Checking In w/ Bevy Smith

Checking In with Michelle Williams

47:09 min | 6 months ago

Checking In w/ Bevy Smith

"Pepsi is proud to partner with the black effect. Podcast network bringing together some of the most influential and trusted voices and black culture for necessary conversations around topics like social justice news mental health but also pop culture sports and comedy featuring black created produced and hosted podcasts. Just like the one. You are listening to now. The black affect embodies pepsi's ongoing commitment to amplifying black voices fortify black communities and be a part of progress. Whatever you're funny is peacocks. Got an exclusively stream. Every moment from the office parks recreation and snl in the mood for stand up what check out specials from do hugely j farrell and kevin. Hart's ll network also check out. Peacocks original comedies. Like the amber ruffin show and saved by the bell get started for free at peacock. Tb dot com and start streaming today. Welcome to checking in with michelle williams a production of iheartradio and the black affect. Harry one is michelle williams. I think most people can relate to this. You're in you're uncomfortable. Job you feel stuck in uninspired. My next guest left the comfort of a high powered not only high powered high paying job and struggled to pursue her dream job. Well how did she do it. And why did she do it. Find out next here. On checking game with michelle williams. I am so excited to be sharing this time. The this podcast was inspired by my upcoming book checking in and it was an emotional and uplifting experience i wanted to share some of the most difficult times in my life and the good thing about this episode is their bevy shares. How difficult times in her life turned into a wonderful opportunities. And it's all in her book bev relations and we just kind of going off those same things of how you can turn pain into purpose. I'm so excited to introduce my next guest. They are times. We just start talking. And that's just how we do. She is a sirius. Xm radio host television personality entrepreneur fashion. This sta just so many additives that are just related to her and author of her new book. That i'm excited about beverly at the chuck can see that. It's in my hand but please welcome to my podcast. bevy smith. I love you michelle. I'm so happy to be with you. And i have to tell you. I was ten seconds off cancelling mic entire afternoon of interviews. Because i'm like exhausted. And i thought you were my last interview and i said well. I'm not gonna cancel a michelle. 'cause i knew that we were going to have the best conversation ever. Yes so yes we love you. I love you. Thank you. And i'm proud of you and everything that you just continued to stand in tip in your stellato's in and i'll just ask you. I mean i think we just see you as this fierce confident woman is not a show is not a mask it is who that's who you are but are there moments where you're like. I can't be strong today even today. Where you're like i'm tired. I was exhausted. I woke up this morning way too early. Did some work by the time. I was waiting to see it was time to get back to work. I mean some. Get up for work. So i got my. Did i actually went on clubhouse. And i started groom call. I did get enough sleep last night. But i have a very busy day. Because i think it's important to have transparency because like you said there are times when even the most upbeat hers. Even the first incontinent person would ever think someone has like a going on. They don't feel one hundred percent of the michelle contrary to popular belief. I am not the strong black woman. I have no desire to be outraged to be her. And i don't want to be her so i grew up with You know a fabulous father who was very much a caretaker at caregiver in a provider. So i like to be provided on Asking for help as you know when we were getting ready for this to young men behind me doing things they might beautiful signs the book or less a mother andrea best part is all the adopted son's primarily that i have in my life and You know so our goal. My son's it'd be like mother does not know how to do x y and z. Come and do this mother mother how to do with come into mapa because mother has no interest in learning how to do certain things i feel like people should be doing them for me and the strong black woman feels like she could do it all herself. I am not that woman. Dijana catch what she said. 'cause we live in a society and maybe songs like independent women be to blame by the way. Don't catch that and be posted and think i'm ashamed and i've here for independent women. Okay so don't do that. It's not independent woman song this the problem. What is the problem is when people feel like we're supposed to carry the weight of the world on our shoulders. There's no one there to assist us. And we're supposed to be the take the mother civilization we all those things will be all just human come on everyone who is just a human being needs someone to lift them up at times needs a shoulder to lean on needs a shoulder to cry on. So i'm very proficient. Act baring my soul. But that wasn't always the case. Ms shannon. I talk about that in my book. Relations left yellow among the best. I took a back. Those burnable spaces that had defined myself in so that. I could be the better person than i am. Today are people shot when you're vulnerable. Yes anymore as much but they used to be very very shocked because believe it or not michelle. I was a much tougher cookie. When i was a fashion advertising executives man when i was working at five in that rolling stone magazine around crack the wit i was tough as nails and that was the problem for me because then when i need it something than when i wasn't feeling great he wouldn't even take what i was saying. Seriously like. you have a okay on. You know you've got this guy actually dollar. I'm about to have a nervous breakdown war. And so i had to learn that you know. I'm in my book. I talk about giving into the core of who you are and then understanding how you're being perceived and then tacking into how you will like to be perceived and that's how you you should really have a navigate your life as far as like the way you want to position yourself in this world so from as the red soul proposition right. So someone say something. Many mother re facebook sir okay and that was definitely one of the questions. Y'all once again. I- y'all are listening to bevy smith her new book. Beverly sion's lessons from a mother. Auntie investi which we all need one of the three or author in our life and she also all three of and we're always all three of them as women as yes right. Let's say did your many mother. But i know your actual onto the am six of them. And i day shawn no your best to admit a bunch of his man so you know we all tap into that and so this book is about tapping into that also knowledge in that person. 'cause i'm i've been mothered by people. Were not mind. I've been mugged by a woman who was literally two or three years older than me. They call aunt diane. We hung out together industries but she was so emotionally like three years older than me. She was just wiser. She had such a different outlook on life. Issues aren't dining in. And then the mother you know. Miss norma is mother than me. We have all of these different amazing connections relationships. And that's really what i'm talking about. That subtitle is about the relationships. The connections in the love that we experience. What surprised you the most after you were done writing your book will what i will tell. You is what surprised me the most out while promoting the book is that so many people supported me is such a huge way if i because we read it like okay. What advice the she go. Give you on the stories that you tell about your relationships as it relates to sacks and shopping like yes please i did defy surprisingly yes missile identifies with some things in this book. Ladies and gentlemen a shell. Did you enjoy the manhunt chapter. Talk about the failed relationships. And why i believe they fail. I literally have been asking friends. Is it me. Did i choose wrong. What is going on here. S no but you know what michelle thing about it me. That's that's doc plays a lane of. Yeah yeah rohnert. Ram blame But it is about looking at ourselves in the really pure unadulterated way and say. What did i play in because we do have apart. We are no matter how much we may think someone did us wrong or you know. It didn't turn out the way we thought it was going to the point in it and You know for me of very important to write mannheim yes the parson up the the focus of it the last was not gonna marry. We're britton's neck. It took years to really become actually worse. Regius a step away from it being sexual tension in random but like we could still go the kind of thing and now we are in this really great solid place. A friendship now. Would you love someone. respect them. Which is how i feel about him now which. I don't even think. I felt like that about him will move together. How about. i don't think i had as much love and respect. That happened him now. That i did that when i was with him now. Keke mary right. No no no be because we do think sometimes if you just love the person that's enough there's respect here's miss beck's other immoral won't respect. Yeah and you know what we need to give respect and we also need to receive respect. That's good. I was talking to my my love. Samar her guessing out again. I want somebody just gonna like you know. Tell me come in like you know. Kinda like rammed murphy. Yeah i don't desire. That are not interested at all in any of dysfunction of that ilk. But i get a lot. Women are still into that. That's everybody's got their own bag. That's not my bevann bag is this. I'm not sit up in fuss and fight with people on grown a weakened not tall and have a conversation and figured out. I need to be out of that situation. I don't have in my life. Because i respect the people closest s so good and when you don't have drama in your life you have peace in your life. You probably don't have as many physical ailments and stuff because drama creates so many elements mental physical spiritual brains. My listen i am so trying making sure. I respect your time and know that you are out in these streets promoting your book but i just got to have you back even just for that statement alone in your memory as you stated a few minutes ago being an executive at magazines like rolling stone. You made a leap of faith and you laughed. You laughed which left you as you say. Dead broke two things. What is the key and did it. Contribute to your happiness. Making the job may be very happy on the list full chapter. I talk about how happy i was when i was really bad at broke when i was in housing court and being recognized his identity. Couple of things one being yup onto that laid from it. I'd be like be like what are you doing the like. What are you doing david sake. Because i'm trying to remember me to sweetie me to have shame about michelle. And i and i gotta say you know i'll never have those issues again financial issues again. I don't believe that god would ever put that in my space ever again guest. I think i needed to go through that. For whatever reason but i just don't feel my spirit that i will ever have financial issues of that ilk ever again on makarova's will come on but some things are there to teach us right so we don't have to go through that again by what i will say about that that situations that i knew that it was going to be good for the book It's time with that happen when that lady said that to me would be good for the book and i also had to night adult by matt one chapter where the guy from the barber shop called meal when you are not saying. I'm good why he's what because use it. Get in and out of town cars and now i see you taking this bus as all get. Yeah no i'm changing. My life is really going well all these things on tv. And i'm writing. Fight is not making any money anymore. But it's good. It's good looking at me like crazy now. Of course they see me and they like i'm proud of you. You did it. 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'cause i had great relationships with celebrities like yourself if i hadn't done dinner bevy i guess i would have gone directly into tv host and things like that but you guys wouldn't have known me known me they now when people come on my radio show when i'm doing tv and they come on my tv shows. They know me 'cause. I fed them because we die. And there's something intimate special about with someone he ju- a break breakfast. So good and i pray that when this is all over we do it again. But i believe is not a you had this amazing job. The whole pipe powered executive. We know it was paying well. But i do believe you were able to leap into purpose into your purpose right and so as to encourage other people out there and i'm not saying quit six figure jobs in whatever whatever it is i'm not saying unless you fill like really lead but so many people are going through a transition with and whether it's spiritual related to your job but just know that you're gonna transition and or leaf right into purpose is so true because i meant to be a and guide in the teacher and that's why this book relations. Let's mother onto betsy. If a self help book then it's a minimum to help people get their lives on track and to dare to dream like when i talk about wanting to calm or no not wanting to become relax. Talk about that. I wanted to become an e. Got numb bowl. That is yummy. Like you've done broadway you have rambis could easily do a movie also stars saying to you this way for you to become an e. is a much quicker pack in a much more reasonable pack than for me to become the because you could easily do a tv show a daytime talk show. You are amazing. Use assab in for the real us up in real the real the tall yes v yet. So you're really great ryan keeps you could easily land a job like that and then that will get you an empty. You already a grammy's man. You're an actor an actress. So yeah all you have to do. Is i get in a movie. Get greedy bro. And there you go asta dumb broadway so okay you now you get Is opportunities nuggets. That's jewel yes. I think that's the difference between success. And maybe someone's current situation where they feel like they're zero is just opportunity opportunity interim sometimes we have the somebody. That's so good. Soap me on sat on ground zero from e. got world. I mean yes. I do daytime tv. So i can so that i could do but my plan is emmy for daytime. Tv grammy for the audio book. Oscar were a superb fifteen minutes performance. Remember woobie was nominated for best supporting actress. In american gangster in it was all about that scene where she told denzel washington off and that was literally maybe eight minutes of a scene but she did not get nominated for a best supporting actress. I'll come on. You gotta do too much too much like you. Just gotta be good in that moment that you're doing it. That's why when people talk about doing this lose sometime during this little That's because you ain't got no vision. Just because something is not starring space or not the biggest opportunity not mean it cannot garnett you your dreams coming true. It can facilitate your dreams coming true. It's not the size that madison's the quality that matters. Okay somebody say that's revelation and drops feel revelations. You better get into it and write them down. So it's a simple as what you say out of your mouth and believe that what you say out of your mouth can and will happen. I don't know if you still do visual boards or not but it's literally just sang that thing every single day people are tired of being consistent but consistency brings results. So it's also being consistent in when you walk by. I don't know you might have a emmy grammy oscar and a. Tony could be replica sitting around your house but we do know you go have the real thing and where two or three can agree. Yes and today. I'm with you on that. Maybe it's going to happen. And i'm gonna be sitting there clapping. Rutin like toronto where they see her clad in another black woman on you. But i'll tell you this too but whatever guy takes me on. This journey is going to be exactly we. I need to be To open this man even worry about the outcome them. At beverly sin. We do good work and show listen. We do good work and we leave it alone. Come onto our work. We drop the mic walk away and we let god take care of us and don't be like me inspect the gadget. China help guide. He needs to help leave it alone. Let go and let god in your book. Bev relations lessons from a mother until investi was they are chapter that you almost probably yet. I probably shouldn't go in there. This crazy section where. I am became malleable. Happy route created that. That's a crazy s story. I will tell the truncated version of it. I basically went on to new year's eve as alone. I was born to why. I live in new york city so for me. The golden day is along fleiss in hours. So i used to do a layover in los angeles has nets five hours to hawaii at the time i had a tin Come on. I was at going to a very long layover. So i could get laid out now so my tinder lama in the up from the airport. We when and got some mexican be went in. May the love. Back to the. When i was when i was sitting in my first class seat. I was a little on whether it was it. Was lobbying in my my pasta area. Now we had done anything back there. So i was like. I don't know what it was. And so i get to hawaii. How flight in real pain in. She's like oh probably a heavyweights among sally. Kema bull. tmr. I go all the places. I had the best time in my in. My life is searing name amid a mike. Oh my gosh. i'm in trouble. But every night i'm talking to the guy from l. a. and we talking and everything but grin in the middle of it too. I'm also going on the beach. And i say in the book the ways were crashing in the pain was crashing to in. I mean i was able to actually dream. Create this all to eat quote. Malibu bevy amount of bevy has natural year. Lives are on the place you know where. She overlooks award warden on. She has an amazing lover. Partner washes embrace her Watch the agrees scott on sunday and then we eat a very early dinner and then we make the love on their back and then we go to bed by nine o'clock and we get up in the morning like six. Am we greet the sun. We do some job on on each is beautiful address all of that. While i was suffering in pain in brahma luke medical. Oh imagine that. So when i when. I'm making the combat layover again. I'm still in pain. But at this point. I was still on satisfy minute in courts. Show so do not tell this man. I'm in pain and instead go make a lot again. Even though i'm paying enough thankfully he was a man liked very traditional loving cam tricks so by name and when i give back home i go to the doctor and then like bam you having anal fissure which is a tear. It was a horrible thing but out of that pain came a dream of malibu bevy which i'm getting closer to every single day because right now. I have a lot of space in my my parliament. You saw the combined new york city at face. I have matching on we. This growth is going to be mandela low when you post it sometimes when you're just you're correct. Yes quarrels and so it's like a wonderful thing but like i thought about that. Is this doing to watch myself. No i need to go them. Because i think that ronald women will be able to connect with the idea of being in pain. Physical or mental. Still trying to please may still trying to please and perform and perform what about that. What about the performance. Michelle and this this this. That's pretty much the scope of the industry you perform in pain. You smile and pain or will you think about the athlete. You know they even performed play you know while they're in pain always wondered about y'all whenever i watch out for happy like now. What do they do when they have really bad grants. What do they always look as you know like i look at your map. Golic show up and do all the dancers and it's not gonna take off them. Days does now. I want to say there was only one time as group. Destiny's child where be still performance. She was really really sick and kelly nye had to swap her verses. But you still keep going because people pay they money to come see. You cannot cancel at the last minute and that goes on today. I mean how many shows bevy can you be like. I'm a cancer. Today i got a migraine. None of this business you. Can you feel like. I think we can we. Can i think that that's where the freedom comes in and having agency over your own life not really worked in the book as well is that women have got to take agency over their own. Lives got to stop looking at of orlando sick. Takes us who we are and what we can do like you know michelle. I always say this about to one of the things i love most about you is that you have such a backbone. He will are. I think now use crap that on enough. I hate being mac. purse number. Duty is so beautiful when still still tendonitis. You win and but that's a good thing because will get just can't sit up and talk greasy the you any conway conway they want to. Because what does that do to you. That that that's total your spirit where you're constantly always having to eat enact regular joy it so it's good for women to be able to speak up for themselves to have agency lives into over their careers. You know you have to be able to do the music that you wanna do. You have to be able to take the woes that you wanna take it sometimes. We have handlers around us when we have family around us. People will tell us all the things we should be doing what you're good at. Were not to make that determination. Only regionally know what makes us pepsi is proud to partner with the black effect podcast network bringing together. Some of the most influential entrusted voices in black halter necessary conversations. Iran topics like social justice news mental health but also pop culture sports and comedy featuring black created produce in hosted podcast. Just like the one. You're listening to now. 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That make you laugh and make you think plus they got segments games and even some dances. What's not to love pace magazine. Calls it one of the funniest shows and late night. In time says ambra has a uniquely electric buying brand of humor. So if you're looking for your next great watch the ruffin show is for you. So don't miss out stream new episodes for free on picot the streaming service from nbc universal sign up at picot tv dot com to get started. Listen i've slack. I wanna call you coach. Bevy job will tell you now. You know my goal is to have a very mother show whereas like shark tank needs a young bits. My life is only going to be read out so here for the batch of personal. I wanna button. I want to buy the yana and burying stuff and they kick it up with the would like to use my relationships in my contacts and also my experience helping people really kind of find a way to tap into their dreams. And so i think you should and this book is definitely a start. I have always admired your boldness. Your transparency your ability to tell it like it is and it is you and offer you and i thank you so much for giving us your time. I have maybe two more questions but you have your own show and you've had it on serious for years now on page one eighty six. You have a wild and funds story that you talk about with grace jones. Come on now. You gotta get this book now because we go. We tell you everything in this book but let me just say this. Grace jones interviewing race jones was amazing on so many levels. She told me the lady gaga. I did not have a soul as in matt that she didn't have so that she thought she was devoid of a soul. Your racist preaches. Guess she is her brother. Noel jones were grace jones. She the novel soul. I did not do anything coming from when i met him. I was like oh eight notes betsy bub name. She told me use pissed off. The kim kardashian actually sold her picture. You know the the pitcher paper with our campaign on a but grace jones did that herbs and honestly the the photographer john will goud was great. Jones's lover in song for me. The part of her son he also shopped. The kim kardashian thing but she was still pistol that it was like a knockoff of racism. Kiki but so in the real race graphing my but as because when i met race she she saw my breasts and she was like. Oh they're beautiful of a bar. But when i saw that. And she's like god tunis. She was in backed way. That was sexually arrest. Y'all have to get this amazing book. Which i hold in my hand and i've been able to get through the majority of it and i was excited because it was in a box at the abbey award and the physical copy has made its way to my lap and i'm excited because there are people that in my life where i'm like it's cool to get books you know in the mail that you know. I didn't have to purchase but to. No i'm excited to go and purchase this book for some ladies in my life to let you know that i love you and i support you and i wanna make sure that agate signed by you one day for sure and we've been is all you know bef- earlier you know. We talked about how we cannot wait to see each other again. Hold each other again hug and really talk with each other. How have you been holding up coping. Yeah when we show you know what is soon as we found out they were gonna be a real pandemic. I got back in the therapy. So that's been really a life for me. I saying this someone else. I do not believe that any of us know how we're dealing with this because it's gonna take years for us really big outlet this hope endemic to us but please would need it. We are around in the altered state because we have been locked away in our homes. A year is here. Yeah and who would have ever thought that this would happen to us. And that is nowhere to go its role. That's the part that killed me. 'cause you know another coupla coins so i was like this ain't even the coin issue is it elected. Everybody in every socio economic class was sitting at home mad. I can't go nowhere again. Go anywhere legacybox. There's no escaping again. You know god is always in the role and everything is as it should be but it does feel in. It is one of those sounds. Feels like that for as much as we feel like. We're doing the damn thang. We literally had no control. Yeah there was no one that can help you remember. I got pomona virus march thirteen. That's when i saw really feeling and Andy cohen guidance. Like maybe a week prior something. I call the indianapolis like you know. How did you get a test. That i'm really haven't gotten I'm saying you need to use your influence to get a damn task whether you mean. I'm like andy. You're andy. Cohen call up. Somebody s sir. I say good testing celebrities. Go get a test. And then you winning out incessant everything but you know. I had to pull strings to get my test then. Of course they couldn't do anything for you and that was earlier on. They weren't testing. Especially unless you just had serious symptoms or if you're elderly and was literally if you were like you came into the emergency room and you literally cannot ri. That's only get a test. I so i had to pull some strings to get a test. Then my dad passed away a s. I didn't know very comfortable to share about those that are going through grief and loss during this moment. Yes we in in you know. That was very very painful and my dad was was elderly and he was not he was not doing this well. My daddy's always say i'm going down slow so when he passed the thing that bothered me about him passing was not so much that he passed away. He passed away in a pandemic so he wasn't able to have a funeral that he deserved. He's a world war Our funeral mom's should've been decked out in all of the finest closed Yes has metsu on. My father should've had seen that his funeral. He should ask someone. He should add children talking about him. We couldn't leak his funeral because it was so early on during the pandemic shock that you didn't know how easily it was transmitted Emmanuel there and then we were all messed up in everyone told via zoom so it was like you know his niece did. The eulogy larence sang. Amazing grace it was all gone Cold sterile home going. It was a funeral was now hang on. And that's not right and you know mississippi. Di sant mary wilson. Two women that were always out and about violent. Mismatch wilson touring all always working always working the last year of her life. She was robbed of their a her joy of working the cecily tyson. I always see out galas in the bits. Thanks mike tyson last year. Relying raptors duck in. Yeah and that's what this is about and how it could have been handled better and earlier to where there wouldn't be so much law so you know my heart goes out to you. My heart goes out to your mother and Your family members in the loss of your father. Gus lease gus lee smith. We honor you. Gus lee smith and we thank you so much for the joy that you helped bring into this world which is known as bevy smith. Y'all let me tell you something. It has been a joy and an honor to have you on checking in and let's continue to check in with each other. I love you. I want to check in with you. All the ma'am michelle smiling face. But i have your music to keep me pumped up an invigorated so i. I'm excited for your book. Bev elation lessons from a mother. Auntie best -i bevy smith. Y'all please support. Please support her book. Not the audio book is narrated by me so you get all the voice all the in the bigger every wing. Can we get the audiobook done. Okay because sometimes they don't come you know at the same amount for all in also one last note your beautiful listeners. No matter how old you are no matter what circumstance aunt please remember. It gets later on this thirty eight when i quit my job. I was twenty thousand. I got my first g show. I was even i got my second tv joke and on fifty four in this just a math. It gets greater. Lay the off so please do not give up from your dreams while your passion. That is so. Please give it up for bevy smith dot. Thank you for checking in. We'll see you again next time. Show you guys. This interview was so much fun. I love chopping it up with bevy because you know the title of her book. Once again is bev relations lessons from a mother or best e. n. She just reminds me of someone that i had in my life where i could talk to them about men sex. What's going on at home. What's going on with family. And they say girl. Just pour you a nice little tonic. You know although. I'm not promoting alcoholism. But she just reminds me of someone who could just tell it like it is and you know from the heart and that she means you well in so well. Let's take it backwards. You know she said it gets greater later. So how many of us are your twenty five or your fifteen or you're thirty five and your life just isn't going well for me but a lot of times things. Don't get your until you're about forty. So i'm not gonna tell you just because you're fifteen. Stop doing good because listen. You can have success at nineteen or twenty. But i think tim mead that true thing i think we're you really kind of get into your stride with your purpose. Mike come a little later. So i'm just so happy that she was transparent and share that with us but i'm also glad she didn't stop because if she stopped we wouldn't have bevy. We wouldn't have bev relations and she wouldn't have been here on my show today. Some so glad that she stuck with it and that she was able to encourage us to just take that leap of faith. You take a leap of faith you leap right into your purpose. So don't be afraid to really go after which are passionate about. I know my family. We were supposed to go to school. I'm supposed to have a college degree. Because i'm using and entertainment professionally was kinda frowned upon out of the fear of sex drugs and rock and roll or out of the fear of. You're gonna go broke and be like every other entertainer that we've seen on television shows but i really believe that i keep evolving. I believe a more so into my purpose. But i keep e bobby but i took that leap and i kind of went against an opposite of what was expected of me and kind of what was instructed of media do once again. I'm not telling somebody ought to disobey your parents. Okay because you still living at all. You got a bad by the rules. But i was in college by this point so but was she do. She can't catch me. I run faster than her. But listen i keep going on about you. Know babies realness. Y'all get into malibu bevy and get into the chapter of her book read so proposition and how you hugh determine your worth not anybody else you determine your word and you can pull people in their place when they say something that kinda values you so. That's my take away with my interview today with bevy. Y'all hope you'll enjoy. It's definitely one of my favorites. Thanks again for checking the show checking in with michelle. Williams is a production of i heart radio and the black effect for more podcasts. From iheartradio visit the iheartradio app apple podcasts. Or wherever you listen to your favorite shows. Whatever you're funny is peacocks. Got it exclusively stream. Every moment from the office parks and recreation and snl in the mood for stand up. 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Ep. 386:Them, They and Us

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Ep. 386:Them, They and Us

"Black mattis with their service therapy says of figuring out a doll who himself. I'm near and this is episode three eighty six. Y'all epi monday be shirley one two three four five star rating review. Podcast and i'll stay. Tuned follows off and social media. Black love matters. That's black when okay. We're going on the weekends. Go just as fast in michigan. Y'all i was hoping that they will be slow. I hope they will have like A slow is not as fast as like the east coast. But it's not a slow as the south and the west but guess what you blink. It's friday in the open. Your eyes in its monday. And we're doing it all again But you know. I had to do some weekend. Well i guess. I can start talking about you. Closure is is friday open at monday. Work is working you know. I'm struggling a few times on which is interesting. And i'm not just talking about east west. I'm talking about like european timezone. Asian time zones and i think is beginning to take a toll. Just a bit on me is not that. I'm against straddling the time zone. I think the way in which i'm organizing is not in the most efficient way. Would you say my works. Get near just snarls at my work schedule. He was just like who are you. Why are you doing. This is trash. niambi A meeting at noon noon pacific standard time noon european or eastern time. I don't know about you. But i work in times on me and not working knows those donors so now i'm in here now and i mean noon. Ese what does that. What what time zone do i work. I don't know what specific greenwhich timezone all all those other other times other eastern. So i need to figure out how to just the line appropriate another. We're not asking. Like i only worked between nine and five eastern standard time. That's not on talking about is just being a little bit more pharma boundaries. To say if you need me to take a meeting a late night meeting because this is in a different country. Like i only do those on tuesday and wednesdays like just don't scatter those mother fuckers all through today also need to reclaim. I friday's back these last couple fridays. Fridays have been the most busiest. I've been on any friday since i've been working here. I'm just because finish. This ride is like five or six. And i'm sorry but i know typical some people go as out there like blasphemy others alike. Shut up miami. You both have worked at five o'clock chad. Cubicle on mir usually we start rounding up about noon here. I go pacific time so three o'clock so i'm about three o'clock eastern new like we wrap it on up and not that you won't have me but usually is like foreign a minutes. You got clear action items on the net steps not stuff Some other stuff that has brought some joy is sue but some reading. So i'm listening to one and read another so. I'm listening to bev relations by the queen. Bevy smith in. I always stood for bevy smith like an og and a game. Like i knew she was fashioned. I discover. I think her day that by is when i first like was aware of bevy smith but of course. She's been vibe rolling stone shop. A lot of fashion houses like she doing her own by she's a brandon herself. And i know but i just wasn't dying to dive in for some reason. Baby i got ms bevy smith on auto book. I can just hear her sipping champagne in the background. As she is documenting. I will call it more of a memoir through like her professional career. Some personal stuff in there. But it's really just navigating that and i've just appreciated her Beverly relations be like jim dropping hot knowledge that type of stuff in somebody's stuff. Oh yeah i get it you know. Did you get older things. Get better get great stuff like that. But the way unless she unpacked sick is of course i should not be smith but it's been so clear in for some reason. I should known this like bevy is truly speaking my language on a professional. No although she's in fashion. I was in tech. I was in other areas like the journey. She's going on every time she start telling. This story has been there. I two that they're going to me nuts. it's just. It was almost like an interesting cubicle warrior to me like listening to bevy. Smith was like i need to do niamh b.'s. Guide to be in a cuban courier and because it was just that. So if you're looking for i definitely will get the. I have the book actually too because it was that good and but i would recommend audible version like just hearing bevy smith that list. She gets a heavy new york asset light. All the things is giving me joy and then on the flip side. i'm watch. i'm reading. Something called the turner house which is a book in his by this black woman africa. Her name you know people. I want to get votes the name but it's actually a nice little fiction story in the reason why i got it is because like as i come to detroit. I felt like i had different moods or like different reading moves. Remember when i was in detroit last time. That's my decide to go into on tony. Morrison journey now. I'm really going on a deep fishing. Kick butt efficient kick as it relates to Like detroit angela learning. Oh no that's not it near the turn house not a. But that's not the book. I is it. Is it just different front. Page okay. perfect. Thank you now. Am i apologize apologize upfront. So is the turner house by angela. Forni to summary. Retake what. I'll do i'll give you my take our read it now. I'll give angeles take. It's the tartus have lived in y'all st for over fifty years. Their house has seen thirteen. Children grow and gone In some have returned it has seen the arrival of grandchildren. The fall of detroit e side and the loss of a father. The house still stands spy abandoned lots imbed city in the inevitable shift outward to the suburbs but now as alien vilifies are still forced to leave her home and move in with her eldest son. The family discovers at the house is worth Just a tenth of his mortgage the turner. Children are call home to decide the fate in reckon with how each of their parents Hans shapes their family future so my thing honestly to do a lot of fiction and reading around like black people black pace places that are real so like books that are based in detroit but center based off. So i think that's the energy i'm going to go and i'm super excited about it. I like reading back then. A finally went grocery shopping. So this is going to be our first week back on track. This is very. We did before before we took months. Yes it took us most to get back on track. I don't even think we ever mill prepped here before a woman ribs sandwiches women however we want us so we're back on track. You don't get me wrong like it's michigan. We still know. East our favorite foods. But i think now is just in a more thoughtful and intentional way so when we do have those foods we can enjoy right. We don't feel like we need to go take a nap. So we'll see our goals near on bought us little glass dishes. We want able to find no meal. Prep service out here. I mean we'll still be on a mostly let you know. Actually i say that back. We were able to find him but they was. Hi honey it was hired in the california practice. And i was like oh cheaper cheaper saying. We're not expecting like full as gumbo. We're looking for a meat protein starch and a veggie like we're not looking for complex and so you don't even gotta be highly season because we need to watch salt intake taking the bug. We just want like something. We know the macro something want to know what was going on our body but the ones on detroit's like you wanted chicken broccoli in yale that'd be eighty dollars. I buy ma'am as crazy crazy because for what. I paid in california's silicon valley. Like i had three meals breakfast lunch and dinner monday through friday for one hundred twenty two dollars a week here daylight to honey three hundred dollars. Forgotten isn't a family of how many it's a little trip. And but i but we went on the journey and did we want to algae's audi's is okay. We went to when i was out little deeper into birds. I think i need to go back. I think i need to go back. I need to look at some accounts in like double check was sub stuff but they will right like the fruit was cheap and it's been good the veggies. We get like broccoli and stuff for the meal prep which was cheap. No concerns on like the the look of it or any of that but the jury is still out a little bit audience. That big game. When i was like you know we fully organic On all of that stuff. Yes so stay tone this week. 'cause i bought a lot of the stuff for meal. Prep from all these and sometimes you don't know it into like you get to eat the food and you just want little thing here does not add up but as far as the price like we put it this way we were able to do meal. Prep go buy groceries for fifty bucks and then they talk about two hundred dollars then near one about the glass dishes. That how much was known eighty. Oh the dishes was modem food So that's what i'm saying like so we're able to we'll see because about the fancier dishes like the other ones wasn't leak proof the worse i wanted to make sure my shit leak proof. Yeah and So we'll let you know i'm then. Lastly the thing is i'm trying to find a way to reach arch for me right like or charge. Not the like. i'm not as ostad. But what do i do in my alone time here when we went on our wall. Using near we're gonna watch together with at least every other day every a couple of days a week at least once on the weekend in near what was it yesterday. Walk you call. What how did you frame it. I'm doing a horrible job. Oh i forgot round frame bullish in you know i'm like i'm jay like on. Take if you don't record another forgotten. There's no some greatness no but i think one of the things is that you know before we was leaving. I asked you will. What do you need me as a partner and detroit likely to be successful like you know. I got some projects we talked about that. You know. I told you what i need and things of that sort. What do you need. He's like i needed to be like. I need accountability. Some like iran. So it's been about two weeks since we've been here so it's like all right like we meal. Prep we things together you know. I'm getting my workspace together. All this other stuff and his light now looking towards you like so. What are you gonna a pseudo works race which i don't know we're going to take you back. When is all set. The because Is definitely not economic But i think yeah you know you get into work you work in these crazy hours crazy. But they're on unusual. 'cause like how you gonna have a meeting how you work pacific time but it means eight nine. Am eastern time like they don't make sense so other things like our like you you get these things like. So what are you gonna do like what's gonna be your self care time with her you know. What are you going to do when you alone and when you don't spend your time because there is a time where we can like you can Take and make make something the best out of it or us going to look up foot went on for the past eight plus months and i think you know we spent a lotta time on me like you know what your schedule. What my schedule be. When i'm visit family on the east side and you know all these other things and it's like okay. Well look like i'm pretty good. So we're you don't do i. So you know. And i think that's our for niobe. Try to focus everybody else. Everybody else is lightweight. Ain't nothing focus on but you. It becomes the problem ever see that. 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Maybe so you know there may has lived a full life. yeah so it is rough level. You people addiction israel saying it so if you got it reach alpha help is a disease is something even that even after you go through rehab or you go toe turkey you no longer using. It is still a disease and you have to monitor every single day in his nothing to be ashamed. I hope this at least take some of the stink in the shame off of addiction when it comes to our community because this the point where people can't help themselves is just like having diabetes. Like if you don't if unless you got it you have to treat it if you don't treat it you know was going to spiro. Same thing would it and all she got it once. You got the addiction. Now you're can get it but we already here once. She ended and also one of the things we go at is just mental health and mental health services. Like you know a lot of us at lou. Go to ditch addiction because we're self-medication or something we haven't been through true in addition is modern shit. Ya addiction is alcohol. Dish addition is sugar a his carbs is excessively. Doing things is excessively. Giving yourself away to something. i don't love. You ought older forms of addiction to so i just wanna be clear. I'm talking about more then Illicit drugs there's many ways that addiction runs through I mean i thought there was talk about what was his name. King was one booth white man who pass our so unfazed by chat. So we're gonna gonna have you heard of news this me. Yeah that's passed. The navy like prince king phil. I think he lived on hundred and four That respect right. Whoever dies praised fan. What are the what did a passive aggressive man. Say i all. I all involved. But it's just like if you live jaw to ninety nine if we lived in ninety nine you guys say rv already he's like. Don't go about your life. I literally if. I let it ninety nine if i died monday. Tuesday like his. No that's the goal but neo would also another thing is that you know so. dms gone. and. I don't know if y'all seen video black rob but he not looking what's going on. I don't know he was hospitalized. Reason yes because they did video of him. In japan paying homage to a panther with them he did the video given hospital. Oh he did it from the bay. Oh yes and then. Whatever i was like sir your. He must be really sick if he didn't even you know. Try to not look as if he was sick. Oh my look looking at them. Is it kobe. Or is another chronic pain. It's crazy man. It's helped me out We realized you know a lot actually. Let's just play. Are we gonna say what he said. was going on crazy has helped me out donors making realized allowed stolen. I lord yeah. I don't know what that is not in the hospital. You know he fifty two young. I'm saying he's very young looking like that. Yeah so we got to san hill to like rob as well. Yeah i mean it's like. I'm not saying that people can't come until it just surprised me like are you okay. I was more worried to say. Are you good the doctors taking care of you is you got the payment is me. You need like those questions. When i'm seeing state painful like are you choosing to be independent or is it something else on. I just think for someone to be fifty black rob. Looks like someone who's eighty on her deathbed yes and like what is going on. And is that man okay. It's been a rough week. It's been a rough weekend layer diem. Mets black rob they enough. That came on amazon. Alina and some nathan brutes. The what are you saying that documentary as we exterminate the bruce. Now it's been it's been a very and then you add And the snowfall. This is well. i queen shouldn't blue talking about how. How do i get here by the police a couple of weeks ago. I know steal this weekend to you. Watched a ladder thing should traumatic. Because i remember. I'll tell you what someone like. No no watch it it. Oh like three weeks but you went back. And then i'm here watching stu- blue tomahawk cannot get killed in iraq. Angels turn it so this. It's been a rough week. So since saint hill involves huggy family loving family. I did that myself does week. You don't want to go see my mom her because he knows he's in her seventies and I say for the most wire this kobe. She's been at the her so she'd been the career. Black was not ramey oscar prosper. We'll processor point gain when it taught to nobody. Nobody anyone see nobody because he just how. That's my mom was everytime news in california is that joe. I've seen them cases in la. I'm like 'i away away from la so you know just wanted to kick it with her and love of bajaur and spend some time with her which was interesting. Which is. I think anything's outselling. One of my friends. You know coming back to the detroit is is like relearning family members and everything else. 'cause you know i haven't we haven't been home since two thousand nine life for more than two weeks. What was the summer like. I'm saying like more than two weeks right. So i'm like pretty much learning all these people again and like idiosyncrasies and things that they allowed me as well so the the view of what they had of me is way gone right what you mean like they they may think of nero s. Whatever they view of near-miss whether it's high school middle school elementary college near on base in like. Oh i've been through a lot of things. I didn't grown unseen. Two world autumn been places. I've seen things. And i thought some of user were you think they are evolving. Yes so. I think it's interesting to go through it and and go through that journey one my mom as well interaction. How you talking about love if you could store Home back well. Well well i wanted things is that you know. My mom was thinking about getting So first of all before. My mom is fbi nci. 'cause she if you tell her information she gonna tell it. Yes invalidated you know such to get in the car. Oh yeah what about it. Oh you know. Such and such is a get me trying to get their driver's license. Oh okay you know such as onus initiate again. Oh yeah thank you but other than that you know. She's like yeah you know. And then she got her you know. I'm thinking about getting a knee. Replacement ones outside open. Marathon might yeah. I think he might have to get that so you know. She's so bore. I'm like yeah you know. Because he's like well. What do you want for dinner. Like a cookie. Something and this week this past we. We already went out twice. Yeah i do not want walking phrase from fish through french fries salad and i might a. I don't want no iceberg lettuce. That's still in michigan. I need some nutritious lettuce. I mean some spinach some type of kayla something. I didn't know i was going to be craving fucking kale. So that's one thing because black people out here on the iceberg lettuce. Yeah i mean like iceberg rent. Think it's just a mechanic ranch to get him on the soul that and then it's like oh. I can do fried fish fried catfish in france. I don't want no mortgage food this week now young once a week. I don't want no more bauge food nights a week. Some no like. I'll cook like you know. I'll go to trader joe's. I gotta run some errands. And he's like and i'm like i'm like looking like you want to go you to run some errands lying. She's a hair began just wanna staples in Trey gentle sorry. I wanna go row. Let me go put my shoes on my leg. My utterly hurricane. I'm thinking to myself going to be a long trip. There's going to be alone for your head. It's gonna be a while. This is going to be a long trip. Because he plan on getting that knee replacement so the nea this you need to get into passenger side. That's the lifting her leg on shit. Try and get up. I'm standing on the side of my truck. Soak so can bend over a little bit so it can make it a little bit lower to guinea. It's just a lot. Wow so you know. I'm going to stable so you know i'm looking forward to hear hurt. What about this near what you train issue national debt spurt kicking. It came. Try this one now. This will look stable. How much spend on it now. She oh personal show go to staples and then we go to trade joe's and see okay but younger oughta so she's taking this full full long shopping trip me and shopping if i don't have time everyday so if i don't have i shot with a specific reason if i gotta go to the store multiple times because i'm like alright meat vegetables potatoes bam her due to all summit is to snack and they You know i get the flu. That i'm gonna cook and i'm looking at desiring. Should i think of them are say no. No no this is desert. We have right here you. We don't get here 'cause charter. Giles will tell up. So we're going on our and shit and then you know some chicago. Hostess discard near much. How much oh you owe now. You wanna count you little coins worry about it. I'm gonna pay you know pay you back. I don't want you to think. I'm i'm over here. Count on you for money. Oh lord charge no charge mama. Don't worry about it no no no. I'm i said well get me next week there because you can't just say no you gotta say something else and then and then She like she over there like well. I every time. I talked to her every time. I talk to her like. I'm going i'm gone. I'm going to pay your money back. And i'm like no no no no you ain't gonna do like no i'm gonna pay money and she's like i mentioned the bank and i got it and i know you'll to go to the bank. Worry about that money and you know. I think that's probably got it from because he was like mom. Hallways about that money if i owe you them and oh you that cash. I'm going to get it to you. Don't worry about him on. she's like no. I didn't already meant to the bank. Oh my god. I got money. Gotcha it's going to be in the bedroom under the tile on address undertow who come. I don't know never know but just in case you come here money. I had a good time. Yeah but yeah. She's definitely lawless. Only spend more time with her just trying to plan things out just to go and then other things like well. I want to go somewhere. You know ever since that cabin trip. Ooh let go back to that can we. We took money to get michigan. He's quite a bit of money in the month of march which on us april just as a nice route recu. And everybody's just like what we're doing so we're going to go today cabin again. Free to book. And i give you my hand go today. Kevin and i'm taking miami near right now but we under another family trip though. I was thinking of actually in michigan and going off one of these great lakes. Honey we paying were actually. I'm not paying taxes. But you know we pay tested before also use. It won't opposites dilatot. ooh honey. I ready for this pillow. Talk we talk about them. They in us gone. Yossi them near pull up the the the description though. I thought i was going to piecemeal it together. Maybe take a couple weeks or a week or so to watch. lena's new production. But i didn't not so them. I'll give you the summary of it. It's a black family moves. From north carolina to all white los angeles neighborhood in one thousand nine hundred fifty three where their idyllic combs becomes ground zero phen mel mel mel lithium souvenir relevant. Oh you didn't help either forces This is produced by lean away hillman productions in little marvin. The la suburb is competent. Count him before became counter them. It was a lot what i will say. Is you have to be in a healthy hit space in. I recommend not watching it alone because you definitely need to unpack with people. I cannot match imagine watching them alone in now. Having one sold talk to again. I'm doing a high levels and we won't give any spoilers. We'll just talk about theme so worried about. Spoilers ain't no spoilers. The visuals are sick. Meaning the actors let beautiful. The costumes were beautiful. The time in which they were in would beautiful acting was every single. Black and white personal net screen came on near and i believed them if they was white racist woman guess was if they were black mama. Going through trauma believe it was black daughter. Were confused identity. You believe listen. Everybody acting was acting now. I know i gave you oughta description the way we take a step further it is. It was a horror based in reality. Meaning that think of like the genre of us in get out. What do they call it. A social horror done so meaning that it was a horror movie and there were some supernatural forces at play button. In addition to that the true hor was the racism. The oppresses on the press. The press Depression in sets is like that. Then they put that on the head to be the crux for what was the trauma and horror now. Lena in marin didn't do number tell the truth and shame the devil. this series was violent graphic and traumatic. But we gotta be vocal y'all about our traumas but enemy was stand up and say we enjoyed it. Because what i what i am going to talk about is it was a lot of funk pieces out there after a few episodes and probably about saturday afternoon. Y'all was dragon lena show. I don't think i'm on the team of the drag lena so to be. You know bipartisan. The other was like lena do was traumatic porn. She always got a guy. Have nickel dying. I watch shit. I be fucked up. Was the audience. Why she doing she. She'd be spinning the wheel. But what. I'm going right a block. Necas dying like people just writing about. They was just dragging her. And i might be in the minority in the minority and unpopular as opinion. But it's the story is oldest time dragging black women ashley bring it back reverse. It is a story as old as time as attacking and dragging black queer women. And i think that's just goodbye. All upon her shit when she put candy in tabitha brown and shit all in the shower and all that but now she gives some real history lessons initiate a little marva in nagano. her like that's where does mean asleep. Where does she come up with these things. She needs to talk to a therapist. No bit you need to go to school. Because she didn't up this is our history. Ain't nothing on that. Tv screen that she exaggerated on there are situations where our communities have been raped. Pillaged steal from loki. We probably ain't making enough dramatic. It's all it's all is a two sided of the fifth. It's to side of a point. was it traumatic. wasn't graphic. Is it fucking a lot. Yes but it's the fucking truth. Why can't we tell the truth. And why are we shaming lena. Four artistically depicting in little marvin their feelings about why ocoee writing about this. What bet you become ep. You go create a whole production. Company is enough like i said aretha. It can be more than one. Hillman's don't get me wrong. I want more crook. Len's and bouma rains than just black joy movies but anybody get online. Apply damn lena. I said i wanna quickly not kill nigga right. That's that's not much like y'all getting confused and you drag in a role thing. Lotta yachting written a book. Your mammy talk to you. Know black history. Because you're thinking this stuff about redlining and in the lynching and burning in in the raping in the killing in the abuse of black bodies is something that came from linda's head tonight. I come from her and she just read a fucking book. Yeah lena's nine credit as he says the ep yes so. Vp is the person who's marvin. Yeah the ep. Is this the person who bring who provides money series. yes. But i'm seeing but they're dragging her stories. Oldest time at that is on white man should on us it got to the point is if you don't like it common. Is lena company. People have them money to lena. Lena first of all. Lena what i will say. I wish you had a podcast. Go with it and every meet a podcast to break down to these people. Because when i tell ya every episode either left me in chills or tears or like pudding footnotes to say. I need to go back and research. Because i'm kind of familiar but i'm not verse right. Need to be like this little. This them could be a curriculum in a variety of things from black people. Red lining home ownership policies protocols. Then also i wanted then flip it on his head. Because you know. Lena is creative. Then the history of horror right and how do you use hort depict a certain amount of Anx in the in the thing or even just old to black films. Because i don't know if you remember one of them scenes where the father was holding his hand against his temple. That's a very much a medical midst in all these things. That do nichols missed a lot. But i'm sorry. Let me rewind if you don't like it. 'cause i agree because remember i said earlier. If you don't have the emotional hits base you know the cabinet. Trout isn't a lot of shit going on cabin trials on Dms die prince. Philip live to a hundred and ten like he's things are happening and sometimes you don't got it but if you don't got it just say no it don't come drag because you then inflicted pain on because it feels so good then i got to thinking they must be the same people who call into tacoma. Samuels then ask them. Radio one through ten zero seven. This must be the same genre of people. Also did you know in your one thousand nine hundred eighty three black family moving all white family neighborhood. You thought the white families unwelcome didn't they'll be like why savior trope So which one you want nickel me may regardless dragging lean. Stop dragging brought provided the money to us. I think the main thing is that. I think the anger here in anxious to her strong person. If you're gonna have anger thanks so it doesn't one thing. Because he's just the ep meaning sign off on it we're still. She's provided money and finance. Ep is very powerful. I know i know but still. I'm still yet but even junk joe. I think it was a guy little marva. This is his brain out arguing that he did not go to bed at night and think this i argue simply does read a history but in translated it. Yes because i don't think he's because he's like. Oh my god this is crazy. Where's this coming from. Oh my god. I never heard of these stories and i think that's it is interesting. I think as a person whose ancestors hail mama and daddy was a part of great migration great migration and left right. All mom has a sister who's was like taking away from their from their farm. Yes never to be seen again. Yes flipside my grandfather left where he will go to the ancestors now so he left his part in georgia because the police was after how like he didn't leave all. My god is great opportunities in detroit. He luckily at to get the fuck out of here. So white so for person who lived in the mid west and see that like. I think it's interesting. I think they can go other ways with this. Of course we did compton which what we know continents today. Yes shutout the rain all them. But i would love to see some of these other cities detroit. The world like first family to move into black bottle. Yeah why did you or talk about the race right off. No talks about detroit. Used to talk about the race right to talk about to happen and sixty five and all that type of stuff but there was a race riot that happened in nineteen forty-three in detroit that was around the creation of the black bottles right because detroit was white then they had these very small areas on the east side of detroit where black families would be but the thing goes so many black people was coming that they had to continue to spread out right and that is how flat bottom was created. In what was it was not displacing white people but like black people had to live in the same building with them because there was nowhere else to go in because white people did not want black people to live there. They literally set the motherfucker fire and it was like oh fire uniquely having now and that was the creation of lead bottom or when they put the big ass freeway damn city yes so at that real story has happened and you know. June z alpha. Alpha's the next one's like if you thought. I laughed at little sets when i was. Oh he doesn't with the devil are has been doing that issue. What wouldn't the as well i'll get with. I'm saying they were so took it a bit. But i think what it is with the white devil. Shout out to home. That was a line from the movie. Sat out the white devil. But i think that's the thing right like i think. Since we are older millennials. We have the the privilege of living both ways. Right where you know you raised by grandparents. I was raised by the mother. Who is highly influenced. My mother had me when she was forty so she had kids we and then as well as we've learned through being the first month internet and all this other stuff so this high in between hybrid of what's going on of like yeah that's true like what was that the baby boomer. Yeah so like the bridge between the baby boomers silent generation. Baby boomers generation is. Yes and all the so. I think we've lived there. But as these agencies and alpha zor getting older. They don't realize that they're not doing that. And there's already a lot of revisionist history is going on is a lot of whitewashed Very yada explain it. They don't realize how. I don't want to say that right because i don't want you ought to be sending me emails when i read them but but it's not that they don't understand that the history of black people but sometimes they don't get the game it's like they think they're excluded from the gay. Yes the exception to the rule but you are they are the real and i think this also goes into the fact like after watching them watching exterminate aub routes on. Hbo max and like when some of the things that he's even saying like it's never the the losers who are right in history house always the winner. There's always the winner you you know you always hear about the hunters like story a hobby. Kill the how to kill the lion but she never hear the lion store. And i think that's what's happening a lot of times these history books and things is going on. Yeah that this is why we need these types of things to happen to add a counter narrative because we shifted a quarter a shake to core because we are the fucking lions in this scenario. Yeah yeah you should know that somebody in your family probably was raped. Really listened not is not like completely raped pillaged. All of that. You need to be able to say that and you need to face it head on so you can tell the fucking store so when they come into you and blah. Oh yeah we just. We just took your house. No not only did you take my house you like. You need to be at a late lowest bread at wide of everything that was taken from them. So you can get it back. You don't know what going back to if you don't you don't you. Don't have no idea what you're reclaim if you don't know what was taken in assert don't episode fight was the point for me. I all of them are incensed episode. Five near tell you like i was watched started with my mom and then i finished it with neural nets day in. I was so into my mom's those officers. I can't walk no money to go to sleep. And i was like okay. I watched what you tomorrow. i'm lying. I'm born in a room like i watch again. I got episode five. And i had to turn off my tv and i literally cried for thirty minutes like i don't even think i cry for me like i felt like it was literally my ancestors coming through me in crying to black. Now you see below of it like you see all that was like it was just such a they did and i just don't know lately art hasn't been touching me to the point of tears right or feeling like this deep deep connection to other and because them did that for me in again traumatic graphic bislett horrible right like all those things. But you've got gotta face the good bad and ugly exactly and i think that's the fucked up. Part is like lena go too far. West is too much. it's too violent and it's like this is not even par like this is just a question is not about. Lena is white people. Yes it's racist is obvious. The oppressive they went too far. But this is just one piece of a narrative of hundreds of years. A horror that black people black brown and indigenous people have went through period. Yeah and the thing is if we don't show it now it's going to get whitewash and now generation after generation is going to continue to get watered down. They go make a living on think. They're going to make slavery things like dating came over here and they voluntarily share cropping lease to own. But i made working the land not renison just least just pay a couple of weeks and within a years. There's like that's the thing. And i think sometimes. We need to be shipping. We need to be uncomfortable and some people. Are you always uncomfortable. I don't give a fuck because the thing is we. Yeah we're to continue to go through is the. It is what it is to be black in america so i it kind of bothered me a little bit. How y'all was tearing her up. And i think it was just very personal right instead of like critique of the movie was very much like why lean always doing this kind of put her away while little marmaduke. No have you got critise. Talked about the critiques of the move things because they came because people was acting as they act acting. Visuals were employing pointing like all that stuff. The stuff that they could critique even the dialogue the dialogue was there the script. Was there all the things they're even the backlog story. There is one episode. That gives you the whole back story or how to fucking neighbor who was created with. Tell you they like data their is and cross your teeth and but it's also easy to say like it was a lot for me the where i'm at right now. I can wash shit like that. No one and i don't know why i just couldn't be that but this idea that everything. Gotta be gumdrops and oughta times or till an artist how they need. Interpreter produce their art feels disrespectful. You tell me how. I mean. What should i need to bring you an even number and i think the other thing the other thing is the black story is the story of getting it through the mud. Yes making it all guests. It's the it's the going through these horrors and us producing the shit. We're able it beauty produce. I hear people like they. one other. Other things in positivity in stores like i. I think those stories are coming and i think the stories are here. But you can't get mad at creative. I'm using it on a people in going amazon and yet they're trying to get on a broad platform. Y'all what you put it on coal black zeus. Now you wanted on cleo did you. Did you enjoy coming to america's one two did not enjoy coming to jeff bay sells black representative you. Nigga says you wanted something that's funny and yada yada yada and mind numbing and like not have to worry about your feelings. We gave you niggers coming into america. You nigga said you didn't like it so we gave you fucking them in. You know you don't like it. Then we get you one night in one night in miami you nigga what you nigga one nest near mischief basil's three spectrums of the negus. Monolith is a model if you all countries you don't like shit and we nigga tenant confused complete what the fuck you nigga talking about because when they get you high level shit we get you done down. Funny we get you. Hartfield hurt shit. We gave you our ancestors all together having a big argument together and none of you nigga like this shit as a consensus. What the fuck you nigga wall watch. It is good. We didn't get to the themes of the movie. The american dream is an area. Can light mirror home ownership. I really loved the home ownership one. Like i think i just wanted to get up and start shouting because i think about the privilege that near man i have to be homeowners to home as such a young age ride and like i know we talk about that sometimes but truly looking at this and i knew the history of like redlining in um covenants were hugh but truly unpacking the weight of that in the privilege that we had to be where we were to do it so it was just huge. I again. I'll go back to our neighborhood new england. I'm assuming we were the first black people. We were the only black people why we're living there. But assuming we did some form of integration in there. What do you think didn't even look at this. Thank goodness with a naive now. I will go back there. The the place that i mean. I don't think i will go back and buy that. Because i just wouldn't want to be in a situation. Where on integrating a community like that. Our town and white as new england that we stayed equate it to three percent black people which equated to seven black people. Two of them. Two of them wasn't in the house together. And then we knew. I knew the other five and i just don't think not that good or bad thing but i think the mental space. I'm in now. I don't need to go to a community where i can count the number of black people in you know we we talking about spending our family at the end of the year at the top of the year in. I also think about my child because that's also things that came up to saying you know being black while working in being black in the school system and you know although i love me a good nasty school system. I don't know how comfortable i feel sending my child to a all white daycare. You know school. That's a little different right. Because i can get their wits about them right. You know you train them up by the time they in preschool preschool. By the time they in first second third grade awesome stuff. I'm quit my child. Go up in there. But i just think about how vulnerable they are when they're a baby and they can't speak or they assuming the youngest went to the all is well but you know as a young guy you some cues right. How was school today. Who play with you. Did you get caught on today. What questions jazz. Who you play with. Well did you can get from a certain age to make sure they're engaging right and they being taught auden you give them you. Let me give them a pop quiz. Cbs learning and shit. You know but there's something about that little young age whereas just like do i trust a white woman to care for my black baby. The way in which i would or another black person. No you can thank them for. That lady is just so deeply rooted that i know i need process that in a packet because i'm sure hundred that's not true right but it will be literally in the back of my head while working or whatever i'm doing everyday like twenty four seven. We'll be running. Homeownership redlining it's What else covenants are real. Your yeah you wanna spina near. Maybe 'cause i think folks might know what realigning is so. It is almost like i want to say it's almost like a hoa. It's like a like a contract with a bylaws of a specific town In the area that you live in so like when it was like no person with any black blah burke pretty much one drop rule can own least whatever vinick property at all it. Live blacks town or city of compton. East comfortable wisconsin in. That was a real thing. Happen happened over multi. minnie's across the united states. In of course there was like What's your mccalla. Supreme court decision knocked that down. But just because it was knocked down by law. Didn't mean people didn't enforce it under the table and make people's lives is hard is possible. Black lives as hard as possible. It is to live on the other thing. Is that when blacks were integrating into these neighborhoods. The property value actually went out versus window. Exactly and i think that's a accounting narrative that they never talk about And then lastly. What i will say is what working. Why black was a huge one too A lot of the guy that the guy was going through like. I could fill like when you're in situations where you're literally have to hold your breath. Hold your tongue so you don't go out. 'cause you need them benefits right or situations when you feel You're left out saying like supposedly they do something here where they was like an event or something but he wasn't invited but i think on a more micro aggression scale happy hours or outings. Where are we going. We'll just assume you. I want to go niambi blah blah blah autos things and then lastly i think the biggest thing is just the lack of care for black bodies not being safe anywhere like literally. Having no place of refuge as a black person in america could be assaulting sometimes but again is izhar dramatic bislett is going to trudge up shit. All those things are going to be coming down the pipe lie so measuring the right mental space and you have a support network to do to watch it. If you don't say hold off on a little bit too you have those things so you can unpack and process a little bit more. But y'all lit up only if you don't you watch the first two episodes now for you know you can do turn it off as our make it meant you do it And then even more. I don't know if you've seen it wasn't a news. Niro that the la county in a on la county forgot the name of that Area manhattan beach speaking of like red line and law so light descendants of this black couple Are now going to get land back because a white supremacy group just stole it. Right is louis came. The neighborhood burned on a shutdown ownership of it. So now was a court case in. It's coming back full circle. So i needed to just another data point to show that This is real and it continues to happen is not an issue of the nineteen forties fifties sixties issues of two thousand and twenty one. Which makes it more more important for us to see so is super important. Yep last name before we close on. I had to just address this. Did you see this. I'm very proud that my wife is. Why hit line says Folks confuse after unc. Black head coach made i remark during press conference. St you can play it if you want to play. How long does it on your. I'm if i want to play. I think i wanna just read jeez. So what do i begin. The university of north carolina officially introduced is new basketball team and head. Coach hubert davis on tuesday out in a press conference in allow longtime assistants to give fans more information about itself. A reporter s davis weather is significant. That he will become one of the few coaches of any sport at the school or more generally in college basketball. He spoke about the significance of hiring but also mentioned the race of his wife Leslie in the three children. Elijah bobby grace in mica. Oh he says it's significant that. I am african american. And i'm hit co-chair it's significant. I know i know that. In terms of division one head coaches around the country only twenty six percent of head coaches for the division one. Men's basketball are composed of minorities. I reflect specifically african americans zip. I know that it's -nificant that i'm the fourth african american head coach in any sport a history of the university of north carolina. I'm very proud to be african american. But i'm also very proud of my wife. My white white what my wife is. I'm very proud. I can't even get it out of the amazon while this is but i'm also very out that my wife is white and i'm very proud that my three beautiful Unbelievable kids are combination of both of us. He is it near play. It is significant steve. It's significant that did abner or they don't count on american and i'm the head coach here giving you're pregnant brosseau. Shit it's significant. But how pecan dominance. I know that in terms of division one head coaches all around the country only twenty six percent of the head coaches for division one men's basketball yeah or compromised by minorities specifically african americans. I know that it is significance. That i'm fourth american head coach in any sport in the history of the university of north carolina very proud to be african american. I'm glad but i'm also very proud that my wife is white. Finish now laughing. Let them finish. I'm very proud. That my unbelievable kids other shumba dom dow. I'm reading these comments talking about sorry. The last guy we had had a white wife were unimpressed. I'm proud of white wine. Big on oprah winfrey face. They just got a bunch of black woman looking like i. I understand his flow. Like i think he was trying to give a shout out to his wife in his foundation because he would not be where he would was if it was not for the support of his wife. Right like i'm trying to give him as much as possible. But sir the way that you're pausing the way that you're inflicting on white made it feel a whole different list life in two of them her all right. That's a ball. Drop i again i get you. Your wife is your partner in crime. You probably get sharon you black. She wi- she black love black. I get that. And i agree to a new perfect harmony. Maybe i stopped was wife ciss. Weiss's come here to help. He'll say you know which is assuming don't have to do that. No more brought of my wife near. You'd probably black life. No but i'm gonna start baby. It's like yeah we lawyer medium stated lawyers. Valentine lawyer only assuming you think about bringing a brown baby and his co. romblon lori wallace. It you trying to get caught up like stand. I'm assuming going to be black and brown. I don't have much to say about. This is just one of those things i've seen in. I bust out laughing at white wife. I was just like not even shave right lights is. I don't want people to think as me saying like oh why a black no. It's not that. I'm just highly confused. On what the context of her whiteness especially at university of north carolina. We see nothing but white woman. I don't like she's the first 'cause she with the black man. I don't know what it is. It's funny way you know. I don't know if you can hear that my parents got music blasting so we can go ahead and wrap this. Podcast righty Lack of boundaries. Did they not know he was doing by it. Doesn't matter oe to mitch mitchell. Black love story. Black love managed to question for kitchen table. Talk shows the email black lab monetize gmail.com as okay until. Leave a comment about anything. We talked about headset website. We got that soundcloud and got voice. Mail at five eight seventy four one. One one one once again. That's five eight seventy one one one one taught. The remember love is ever-evolving.

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"Mincing I won't be coming home and rather be alone checked on him. She doesn't fully understand we rally then cheese <music> Gimme sometime I can be the man she needs this ladder <unk> inside of me and we've been together since our teenage years a really don't mean heard but on the he sometime to be alone. I don't know where to hell. He someone you don't say Oh and then finally gains crying out onto me. I'd slap the shit out of a negative. Just really somebody Rabbi's Donald Trump Donald Jones house. Make sure he doing okay if it had if like if the hat is on the door you know not to not boy by that Negga would not be seen H._B._O.. That's the original Pappas praise the Lord praise the Lord is welcome back to gain grown which a Ghia I'm here <hes> jade and we are back to talk about the scale that is adulting the good the bad the ugly has two trials. The twists turns the temptation and the tax liabilities of note in the Airolo at twenty nineteen. It costs money to be an adult these days big bucks. The government wants to thing okay center some money we don't she and I see and I don't we don't see eye to eye woo. She's and rice all right government anywhere. I am doing ok yet alive in the land of the living. We're graded grappling glad about it. I am you know working still on travel. <hes> in these woods hopefully making a difference in helping you know institutionally to understand the ways in which they are complicit yeah in maintaining systems and structures of inequity equity in our educational systems. You know work. I'm trying. I actually you know what we talked about negative last week so I'm gonNA stop right there. I am I am doing my best. I'm having some challenges but I'm grateful to be doing the best that I can in this moment. How are you bet a chickeny chickeny? Check yourself says I'm proud Gosh Booze show. I love it. I'm cool. I'm <hes> I'm <hes> getting adjusted to this self-employment life <hes> yeah well yeah. I keep changing up the making sure I don't say unemployment. It's self employment <hes> so you know just really like it's a lot of organizing and a lot of you know making sure. All your stuff is legit. I think I said it before you know I used to have me H._R.. Department and this and that but now I'm all of those things and <hes> <hes> while it's a bit overwhelming. It's a good thing is just making sure that I do things properly set myself up the success so show you right. I can't complain about it but it's summertime and I'm trying to enjoy the the three and a half weeks that we have of hopefully I'll get around to it before. It's all I know this. I was like I was about to ask I faced. I'm kidding I was like are you bet oh and then I saw the room and I was like Oh you're not I sorry oh shadows everybody. We opened up two more nights for Philly Chicago. We opened up a couple more tickets actually fulfilling because phillies sold out but we have a few literally just a few more tickets available in open so get those if you can for the first weekend of August Opus Dinner Party Saturday. I think it's the third in the fourth or the third and the fourth and then the seventeenth and the eighteenth we will be in Chicago. Oh and I'm super excited about this so shout out to everybody in. Thank you so much for everybody who bought tickets and thank you to everybody who expressed interest in. I'm sorry that we can open up no more tickets but that just means we gotta come back. Yes it. Does I mean go on and get your food. Eat your things. You won't be sorry at the Dope is dinner party. You heard it here first. Well we got. We got a couple of trash. Gosh a couple of trashes has no might say to get into so let's get clean up women in here to do her fuck. Fazlur sis come along McLean all right so we have have a little trash to get into <hes>. We're going to start off with something kinda heavy. I'm not sure if you've heard of sadie Roberts Joseph I have sadie a hair us. Unfortunately sadie Roberts Joseph was a an advocate <hes> she founded the odeal s Williams now and then African American Museum in Baton Rouge Louisiana <hes> she was an activist she hosted the June Eighteenth Festival festivities <hes> for the for the city she just was just an icon and amazing <hes> and she passed away. She was actually killed. Let me not even she was murdered murder <hes> she was found so there was an anonymous tip that was called in and <hes> she was found. I think just if I'm if I remember correctly just three miles in the trunk of her own car from her home Jesus <hes> so clearly you know if I it's just that's not that that's not a coincidence. That's not an accident <hes> in and I can't you know we don't know who did this but I know that it's a sensitive time right. Now is a it's a real sensitive time right now and we have to be careful especially with this wicked wicked administration and just wicked forces that be period we just we have to be careful and so all of the condolences to her family community lost somebody who was so valuable <hes> <hes> and it's tragic and I really hope that justice is served. I really really do so all of our prayers and condolences to the family absolutely onto something a little lighter making the band is coming back. All right is the D._A.. Be Handy D._A.. Be let them fight just shots dialer dialer Thailand Thailand Undying Hilas babs babs. I don't listen wherever she is. I hope she's well and not just the <UNK> here and for who she is babs bathrooms than icon babs is an Ikea. She underrated okay and I want to know where she is. The last time I saw babs was about two thousand and four that's we're we're all of them die Lon in Dhillon Dhillon and dialed in Thailand. I miss him. Where is he that we would have dialogue comes back? He's like I'm now in us that Titian earning doc somewhere doing skin research trying to figure it out in you know we just come back. He's going to make a comeback and tell us all that he's a doctor. That's what I really feel is happening right now. That's the the only place that supported as supportive artfully what else we got here but yeah they coming back twenty twenty and it's going to be global. I'm sure you man puffy says that he's going to go. International this time and diva was the boy group was their names who came out of making the band was the Damn Bay Twenty eight twenty six. Let me tell you who is a fan where you too key Nicole Robinson the first. Where are you honey hours in line? I love the voice so you love CD. <hes> I think my favorite was the one with the stunted braids didn't do what a mess that debris it was one who had really stunted breathes Chevy Mike was I was a Finnish heavy minded love me some sandwiches when he made them grow chief thing. Would you seek out astrology heart but I really liked. I really liked the album. My favorite song was Costa. You're not like that awesome. Maybe clearly not enough comedian rhys right. Now I WANNA do is ghost although the right lays hey let's hold though we bout to look day. Twenty six rank with fish shipping. Gone doesn't seem that game since you've been gone that was it yeah oh in bed all the jam just love all I remember the song it wasn't this the theme song of the show Yeah Yeah <hes> I loved the ban more than I like twenty six j the same saying I mean I mean I love your day twenty to day when mud I loved him girls. What's the name Oh oh Danny Cain? Will you know that's because a good number of them. Got On my nerves from vanity came that good like a like the larger majority at Aubrey O'Day ooh child she's still she's still on <hes> she'd have been on all the reality shows at this point. I don't know what these days but she don't need them she but she made my nipples which I mean shrew. She literally washed her Lebron's. Yes like I got that dirty dirty dingy band like I'm like oh terrible. Somebody's fills me bras draft sick out there to the tank Tom. I can't deal with her girl. I love you. I know who my girl was. Absolutely I used to love me see with always came to thing and she stayed optimize and I want to know what happened to Sarah from the band with the McDonald's eyebrows. She was so irritating that old about her she she was just unnecessary. I'm like this. This band has no utility for something like one of these things that belong. It wished we know sense. y'All got on a problematic. I think they had some domestic abuse issues about remember karate memory lay back down memory lane. I'm excited about the man I mean. We just love that kind of reality T._v.. And I'm glad that did he is going to do the right thing because we know that you know right to say that you know whether or not the the group actually successful musically they want this. It's in the cards that they won't be. I need to realize realized Oh. Do you like I do. Follow him as the Graham do what's he doing. These days challenges trying to keep his wife. She's just so irritated by him. Eh She's trying to keep her. She's been irritated as long as I've known for about the past five years so if things haven't changed I just don't know I just don't know if they will but though that was a that was that was a good time for T._v.. Absolutely I'm glad they were coming back. There's Laurie I hope he brings her back with her little little. Nothing's boop while you're at a five six seven eight little muffin pick it up. I miss her so much but but <hes> we all know that everything that that did he touches dims. You know what I'm saying like but it will still make for entertaining T._v.. Have you heard about the area fifty one raid so you know there's a facebook group about people who are going ray area fifty one well. The government has spoken up in May said they're getting the air force is ready and they're putting a warning out there that there will be severity if people try to eight rate raid area fifty one so. Can I ask what may be a dumb question. What is area if they want or why do people want to rate it well because the government? Government is not they're not forthcoming. I mean I'm personally. Is that the route that I would take no. Are they looking for information. Yes what are they what people are saying. The government is is is keeping information from us in clearly if you all willing to set up armed forces against people not do I think it's the brightest thing shot a raid area fifty one no i. I don't feel like this is a yeah. This is not going to bode well. Maybe maybe that ain't knit friends because <hes> you know like there's got to be away. We have to do things that you notice you got to copied you have to you have to copy the enemy in order to overtake it right. You can't change the game you're not playing can't and see why people have been doing for centuries upon centuries upon centuries is is sneaking in doing things quite cowardly so what we gotta do is we try to infiltrate from the back. Maybe just busted up in the bitch light. CLEO from set it off is it might not be the best we saw what happened with finish whatever you do I would not publicize it on. I mean you're going to sign a petition to say I too am GonNa put on my black Hoodie in and buck up or hair like that might not be that might not be the way friends offense but let's figure it out. I'm willing to be down with the smart ways but then I don't know about that one we'll but the government you know how they are and they'll do anything to keep their should a secret so Jemaine do pre Oh oh Jesus funniest look Nigga in all of hip hop at least top five Money Bang Ferrari Jaguar which a phone as top down Oscar without but he ate the thing that was my jam. I'M NOT GONNA lie to you into with a window cracked holler beheading right if it if it only in showing our age so sorry but so he made some comments recently any always making comments he is you know like just like Roadway Brooklyn stays bumping her gums just like that that's our coast either on but he made some comments recently about how all he sees as far as female rappers concerned and I'm this is me paraphrasing so no this is not a direct quote but basically that the female rappers of today are strippers is like strippers wrapping and that's all all he sees. It's not true talent or anybody who's not doesn't have like a stripper stripper to wrap it about their push or whatever I would just like the record to reflect their one thing we won't do is say they're strippers are not talented. Individuals is okay first and foremost those are the most talented wrap wrapped like lyrical ability aside. Both women are athletes. Their multifaceted says I just feel like we are. We what we will not do as besmirch their cosmetologists. You know what I'm saying. We won't I mean we will respect. We will respect the industry. There's no need need to kind of. Just you know throw these words around. I personally don't feel like I know enough about rap period but specifically like female rappers. I don't feel like I don't know I can't I smell you know. I feel like this is some B._S.. Just because you know it is I'm GONNA say some B._S.. Because what I don't really really a understand or appreciate is I feel like Whoa. Why is it okay for men to talk about fakes like because I feel like all all all male rappers at one point or another talk about six? Maybe I shouldn't say all but the large majority of them do so what I don't understand why there is such a public outcry or why nine public outcry but why would somebody like Jemaine debris say something like this like which would he had the same critique of male of male rappers of this time because I think that has to be put on the table as well. Where was this energy when trill vill was singing about <unk> out somebody juggling their balls where you're saying energy and I don't think it's like why would you call out women what they are lambing? You know it is it's safe to say if view look at like current songs that are popular now that there is that the amongst female rappers that you know women are reclaiming their time and their voices around wrapping around certain kinds of things things and activities and that's the thing but that's not new. I don't feel like this is nice. Not Knowing where it was hell grand departure from C.. Bronco Camp Train of the baddest bitch like this. This is something that is not like this is is not a new phenomenon so I my eyebrows furrowed of this. It's not new that's first and foremost it's not new be nick is missing about this shit for decades and nobody said anything anything. niggers have been rapping about their dicks for decades and not frown online at all and no one questions their moral compass or or their business acumen human based on the songs but why is it you know the city girls they make the stallion and people are out here saying that they feel like the quality of of all rap music is gone down. It's quality of rap. Music is gone down for Mega talion then and his has got to have gone down for the rest of these who are out here mumbling syllables. I understand what you're saying. I don't even know what it was. I don't know your name. I don't know how to pronounce it. There is a nickname it misspelled modern Te'o in apparently you're supposed to say like made in Tokyo nowhere but we'll get. It looks like modern tio I'm doing. I'm not doing it but then debris this. There's there's terror wack Maekelae forty-seven there's greasy. There are a number of women here who are wrapping and I don't think there's anything wrong about rapid about you. And who was the young lady. Let's be clear the young lady that that was that the read the Kaley forty seven <hes> Oh yes okay and <hes> yeah actions to shut up and I love James and is she can out rapper nigger I mean but there's nothing the wrong with the eaves and the Cardi B.'s and little Kim's either on the Megan the stock. There's nothing wrong with that either. In Jemaine do pre can just shut his ugly ass up and I know we're not supposed to call people ugly but that Nigga is ugly and I don't want to hear anything else from him. I mean I just but I mean from what I understand. <hes> he is recently put his put his money where his mouth is and he's having some sort of showcase for yeah so I don't know I don't know what that means <hes> for the young for the young female lyricist out there in the world <hes> but listen go get your main breeze money if given it away I mean if you so choose to go on his show. Don't rap about your pocketbook because clearly this nick is going to have something to say about it so anyway that got on my nerves in in our Olympic Sonam. <hes> does your cat both made videos. They listed off rappers and they also maybe clowning him. <hes> does your cat call them. Jemaine Derby I. I don't know what it is but that was it was funny. I I the bitch on Macau. Yes that's all I got. I don't know anything else but our video was funny. Oh and then lastly you actually added this to the trash. Do you WanNa talk about the Serena Williams so as Arena Williams recently <hes> I think took silver at Wimbledon and during the press conference with asked a question that was posed I think or ask her a question around a comment that was made by fellow tennis player. Why will win Tim Tennis player by the name of Billie Jean King that said something to the effect of like you know when is as Billie Jean King wish that that Serena would focus on like what she was stopped doing things like fighting for equality and just focus on tennis? Maybe she would be a better or maybe she will win or be a better tennis player those kinds of things <hes> and you know someone kindly got her together until her that like you know what I will be doing is minding my business making this money and I will be fighting for quality onto. I'm in my grave beside people who like me and you because I mean it's it's hard out here for all of us. Why you overhear worried about me and my he should be worried about over your even know who you were before you said exactly and I'm I'm trying to? I'm trying to help you <hes> but I just think is is really fascinating. How <hes> people don't really realize how comments can be like steeped in privilege like or or their experience experience well that's true but like <hes> she was her comments were insinuating that because Serena was doing things like you know being a wife and a mother and <hes> advocating for you know the pay gap closing the pay gap in <hes> equity <hes> both within and beyond tennis at a national and global levels levels? It's like you know just because your your job is to swing this tennis racket. Exclusively don't be mad because the Lord is giving me more responsibility. You know what I'm saying. Don't be mad because I can handle more and I could do more things where eight for mouse mouse awhile and I'm doing all of this and Wimbledon while you ma'am are at home eating checks mix. So what exactly are you saying yeah and you know people you know. People have been kind of common in about saying whether or not they didn't think they believe Jean. King was kind of taken a shot at Serena but that's neither here nor there <hes> the bottom line is Serena is a grown woman and she can do whatever she wants and the fact that the matter is she's the first black woman tennis player to be on the cover of Forbes and making millions of dollars in Harper's bazaar and doing all of these wonderful fabulous things while you're in the bleachers with your judgments while I don't know who you are so just please please and thank you get on Outta Serena's business. She's over there married to that man and raising that baby and making more money than your Mama ever will so shut up cleanly. Please thank they were they say grace and frankly. There's this old white woman cuss that her husband is shut the fuck up she was like I want you to shut the fuck up that you reach the highest mountain of fucks to shut up. It was so funny. That's what I want her to do. And that's the trash this week all right. That's the tries. Let's go GONNA get us into a shoutout. Okay all right so we got some. We got a bevy of emails of different genres do so action Eh Bevy Smith but hey maybe I <hes> I picked one. I three. That's the name of her pocket or her Sirius X._M.. Show right devastation sir. That's such a such a good name. I didn't know that that's so good. I love it so we have a email to refit. Shed says okay dear Jaden Kia first of all. I just want you both to know I've been listening to the show since it started and I'm so proud of the growth both of you have made in your professional life since the beginning. It's been a joy to see I love where team type and fast as going me too. Thanks so much and congratulations Jay at one officially working for yourself. Thank thank you for your shoutout to my sis. I would like to shout out my good friend. Dr Alicia Cheek the founder of the restart up life a career consulting Business Alicia is one of those selfless friends who supports what everyone else is doing but never ask for help so I thought it would be fitting to give her the shout she's one of those friends whose wives and always good at giving advice and I go with her. I go to her with all my mess and she always gives me what I need without judgment. She's a P._H._d.. Biochemist by day Hash tag team type in real real fast and career consultant by night. She's poured her all into this business and I've seen it grow from a resume writing service to now being a full blown career consulting business. She does all this as a bomb wife mom fulltime scientists working in biotech and she somehow. Somehow find the time to volunteer as a mentor for other black women coming up in stem. She's a superwoman for Rilya so she hopes she hosted a Webinar and because we were in the middle of the graduation announcements unfortunately it's past <hes> but we'll be sure to post her information in the description box. Thank you both in advance for letting me shot up my sis Dr Cheek she so dope in the work that she's doing is so impactful important sincerely Karen so we wanNA thank caring for writing in and we WANNA shot out Dr Lee Cheek Sheikh <hes> and the restart up life so it was the restart up life dot com is where you can find her again. We will post all of that information in the description box. Shout out to you Dr Cheek girl you out here out here out doing the work so I have been working with hellofresh lately and I have no idea why I waited so long with America's number one milk hellofresh. You'll get easy seasonal recipes in pre measured ingredients delivered right to to your door. 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It's just so good but I like Bijan original and like I said grow you'd be out here smelling so good even in your perspiration so get you some go to Campari beauty dot com slash grown <hes> to save five whole American dollars off your first urine order when you subscribe Campari k. o. p. r. Art Beauty dot com slash grown cafaro beauty dot com slash grown okay so key is traveling for work and it's been a busy week so we thought we keep it life this week so we're GonNa do some top fives. We're just GonNa have some fun conversation. Ask each other a couple of top fives with our top five favorite whatever's. I don't know what key is GONNA ask. You don't know what I'M GONNA ask. I don't know what I'm GONNA. Ask Him. Shuki don't know what she is but we're GonNa let it flow and we're GonNa let it be a fun lighthearted kitchen table talk this week and then we have a really good kitchen table talk for you guys next week. I'm really excited about so. Let's see I'll go. I won't put you on the spot but thank you so much problem but then I'm putting you on the spot because these questions are you. What are some of your top five favorite movies? This is in no particular order okay. It's just GONNA be five of my favorite movies. I can't rank them because then that would be too much stress okay but I'm just GONNA start listing five movies that I love <hes> since I'm not prepared. It's hard to just kinda like going in order. We figured it would come from this so absolutely movies that I love the first movie is coming to my mind right. Now is the women of Brewster Place <music>. Everybody in that movie is Legend Right now. Yes somebody posted a mean and I reposted the mean had the cast picture from the women of brewster place and literally everybody in the picture is a legend and <hes> Sicily ties and Robin Givens Oprah Lynn Whitfield rouser Louis so much so many awesome amazing people in one movie so the women have boosted places definitely my top five okay closely followed by the Jackson five in America Monica yes because I could probably recite the movie Ver- <unk> Bay word for word like I just know I just know in his just known every mountain and <music> you got to cut you had to tighten up there in every stream a little baby that little baby really sunk along Dan like oh lord string follow every rainbow. Do you find your dream. That will need thing. All the love you so good at so that is what pays that was only the color purple. The color purple seems like the right thing to say because I know that one as well but I'm going to try to get the more current movies because I feel like I'm way back in into in the stone ages wow I will say black. Panther is one of my favorite movies because I saw it so many times and it's just like it was just really it was just a beautiful film to watch and I kind of know that verbatim as well because we have watch we have from the mountain bicycles. Okay Okay Dang that was I gotta say like <hes> <hes> TAP FAI tap five movies first of all time. It's got to come to America or something okay okay. I feel like all my stuff was old but yet so with the exception of like fanfare so yeah your turn and I'm sure I should enough prepared for this but we're flying by the seat of our pain. How can we picked this kitchen table? Talk five minutes before we recorded. It was unable to can this. That's why this is what it is my top five the temptations. Oh my God oh my God. I can't believe I didn't say the five heartbeats because I got nothing you be but yes the temptations because ain't nobody coming if the U._S.. Nobody coming to see you David Ruffin and the temptations that sounds Nice it is one of my favorite movies of all time on <hes> get a little weepy Blue Navy to get them ribs and just never can't again. He's like I'm a long way I that is I don't I have never pinned anything in my life on instagram but one day I said in wash that sensations movie and just made stories and had myself a Wang Dang doodle and that is the only thing that I have instagram so the temptations lean on me sad when and why we're nice to stop the white boys to see Greece China you smoke cracking. You Smoke Greg don't you just jump on met is literally one of the best movies of all time in one of my favorite writers argue your mother so Lena meet temptations. <hes> let me see here Brooklyn Crooked in Wayne Jonah movie whatever your name when Queenie flu can all. I rewound that they on a V. C.. R. I mean it's been twenty five years. I still laugh like I have never seen him before. She said much talk what a minute ooh shots my Nigga Chris. He played one of the siblings with the broke. Our that was one eight three. That is my moving okay so Crook Lynn Lean on me the temptations. Let's see what else we got. <hes> fried green tomatoes okay. I'll give it to them movie legend which a love Fried Green Tomatoes Tonawanda and let me see what else we got. I have so many <hes> what's the last one cameras killer season. Ah masterpiece about it does what might beat him. Pretend what why do. I know that it'd be <hes> this is. This is a letter FIS shows you one of the reasons why key in our friends behind the seat okay. You're okay tap five all right okay. Let's do television shows okay top five television shows go forth and be great. The boondocks <hes> do one of my favorites of all time <unk> Seinfeld me and my brother used to make sound film in the middle of the night we had but based blank rapid what kind of Seinfeld Boondocks Damn Sir. Let me see Oh. This is hard. You sound like founder glide may two two seven. Let's good true that in their golden girls dammit I and <hes>. Living single I mean if you've got some of the same ones that's fine my me and Mike could have arrived my favorite. My favorite show all times. Everybody knows is a different world because I I just I watched that show right now and still laugh like if Nineteen ninety-two say <hes> 'cause Whitley is listen. Jasmine guy is comedic genius. Don't care what anybody says ever especially Jasmine Guy Debbie Allen together goal okay. Oh my gold just the way that she said things I was watching the episode it was some season Sakes and Whitley was sad and she went to club with Cam and Freddie and Spencer was trying to bag Kim so he sent them some Rum Punch right and they were sitting at the bar that he came over and was like did you ladies enjoying your drinks with was like yes. We did thank the she said thank you what is wrong with you outside of different the world is outside of season. One is really so so good like when when <hes> my favorite episode ever I think is when Dwayne had to write the poem and he wrote it about math and Whitley while he he was riding in about her so there was a line in the poem. He said that was his elliptical lips right so he was reading a poem. He got the deadline he said Elliptical Lives Whitley. It is a little ration- it's wonderful wonderful lyrical best deliberation. It's wonderful Oh God atkin literally watch that show for hours and hours about to watch after we finished recording to be honest <hes> so a different world is my number one okay tab show of all times following closely thereafter and listen. I don't want you read your emails so you can just save it the cosby show oh I mean listen. You didn't say the nigger you said the cost June it is show I'm talking about the huxtable huckster that lived on stig would avenue and Bedford stuyvesant Knbr Brooklyn. I'm talking about them. Yes there were several other cast members absolutely so I don't WanNa hear it in. This is what I said so just let me say it. Okay thank then it would have to be like the golden girls of course <hes> we cannot do anything without <hes> Sophia Rose Blanche and Dorothy <hes> and okay okay so that's three zero are you. I think our health I am Dorothy. Okay I can see I'm dorothy because dorothy shade is unmatched. You are Dorsey with with with a smidge of Blanche just a Smith a sledge right because I'm not out here like Dorothy couldn't buy a day and we all know just kidding negative self talk Dorothy Dorothy. I'm Dorothy which is a splash of Babich switching just a smidge okay you are you are your Sophia through true untrue. If you take shit I agree with it. I stand with it because Jay always got something to say. She's always a little bit her all the time okay with a surly face. I look angry ninety five percent of the time I'll be there smiling like a Cheshire cat or I'm I look so good okay so the golden girls that's three limit single is probably on my listen. Were worse and I feel like I got to say like <hes>. Let us show that I have to watch all the time yama fix the top five but it's this show that just okay well. Okay sure let's give it to Rhonda OCCAS. Give it to Rondo. Let's give it to Rhonda. I I'm going right. Oh my Gosh yes indeed okay your let me see we say movies T._V.. Shows top five songs ooh girl at this they don't can you at leafs. Give me a genre like I cannot do. You have to give me some parameters. This makes it easier for you. If you can go all over the place no because then I only have five yes so named for okay. They don't have to be your top five but named five of your favorite songs of all time of all time word gave money. They gave money biggie smalls as okay. That's that's just this is in no particular order because I am under great stress in this heart. <hes> I have nothing by Whitney Houston <hes> stuttering by Jasmin Kelvin okay <hes> don't play that song for me by a wreath Louise frankly whole name instead and and this is the last one but this is just the five songs that came to mind the quickest. I will have to say man I know the artists but I'm trying to pick one song by this artist and then like low key impossible here and now by luther no no no I take that back so amazing by Lutherans onny Vandross okay so amazing to probably absolutely and I feel like a heated because I did not mention a Gospel Song which I know that I love Jesus. I okay man just because you don't Mention Gospel Russell don't love Jesus and nobody I don't even listen to Gospel using so I won't be judged. Maybe by unique is but <HES> top five songs. Yes this is hard but some of my favorite songs of all time if I may only lists five joy inside my tears and rocket love by Stephen Hardaway Morris those are two. They are two songs okay. There's two to Stevie wonder songs on there. Okay The star of story by heat wave we are though Oh here oh man I should say no Anita Baker neither Jesus this is so hard because you can only lose five the all day all night Bob Marley and the wailers Noah allies <hes> the song just makes me happy the strawberry letter twenty three by the brothers Johnson. Are we like forty thirty nine lastly come live with me angel by Marvin Gaye Gosh and welcome to nineteen seventy John Son see seen why this morning I was driving out here to the woods and somebody else's guy came on my or my Scheffel and went on to tell you I was in a mean rock and in the car I know I mean you would think that I I was in full performance and I was singing along because if you do not know lady than Jen I'm I'm GonNa pull it up here. They should be on my watch is I was just listening to the Apple. Watch a gold band is from Amazon Beer. Yes girl gets the money else's guy by Jocelyn Brown. Tell Ya somethin' if you like. I'M GONNA make a playlist one day that features churches songs that are about Ho Shit. I think thing that would be a really good kitchen table talk. Actually I think that there are so many rb songs that are so very church church cords and really just kind of embody church culture but Jocelyn with thinking about another woman man yes with all of the soul and anointing listen and I was like Yo this is this right here is a song ladies and Gentlemen Hello Barbara. This is Shirley. If that don't sound like a church mother to in church I mean it's just totally a thing so like listen. I just love it and that would mean my if I had to make another list that would on the top five songs okay. I'm ready your next five. No it's your it's your turn. I it's my turn Yup. I said No. It's your turn to come up with a category. Oh yeah that's what I meant. Oh Yeah I'm ready to give you your Oh. Yes yes okay okay gadgets. What are your top five favorites things about being a black girl? That's good. That's good well. I naturally no flavor very well. Yeah I appreciate I been gifted. I've been gift capacity to season my food. That's it with a with a very I've been I've been gifted gifted with taste buds that can handle spice and flavor and I know what things are missing and what you know what needs to be added. It's just it's a wonderful thing about being a black girl and I greatly appreciate you. I I grew up in a home where seasoned food was priority. I realized later in life that that was not a thing for everyone. That's something that I took for granted. I've taken for granted for most of my life not not anymore. No never I and I fully acknowledge fully acknowledged that that's a blessing but I'm interrupting you. Please continue everything five favorite things about being a black girl I also appreciate that I have the the protection of my ancestors because because I have real ancestors who are not here for you all's bullshit and they are looking after me and I agree appreciate gate. It and I really like those are my ancestors Swan. Absolutely let's see oh other fake top five favorite things about being a black girl you know I still get carded Yeah I. I got carded olive garden last week I mean that may have thought that I was under twenty. One and I say going to show you my identification and then I'm GonNa Shake your answer. They Gilroy the joy that I get like like from being carded and I just everybody at the table fell out laughing everybody he's like. Can I see your I._D.. And I was like yes. I was like you absolutely can see he my I._D.. You want to see it right now. You can see it twice. How long you want to look at it? Yes Sir just take a just just take a look at Santa Book this is you and you just gave me my reading rainbow like right now. Now you can so happy by taking this car. Let's see what else is one of my favorite things about being a black girl being around other black girls I love the diaspora of us. I love how we come in so many different and shapes and sizes and colors and personalities and strengths in how you know we can lean on one another and we help to complete one another and we teach one another and we learn from. I'm one another and we just there's just a community. There that I feel like is unmatched in that's one of my very favorite things about being a black girl <hes> a black woman and then <hes> another favorite thing is being a black woman to raising a black girl. That's one of my favorite things because all of the that's not one of my favorite things all of the sauce that we embody. Body all of the traditions that you know were taught by you know our older ones <hes> just all of the natural magic that we have in all its capacities our intelligence our wits our our rhythm our sauce our flavor like all of those things I love the fact that I'm going to get to exhibit that to my daughter impasse that down to her and make her proud to be a black girl absolutely so those are I think so. Let's just say it was. I think it was five. Okay <hes> I I love the fact that I have such a rich heritage of black women to look up to aspire to be like <hes> there's just so much dope miss about being a black woman and I have so many models of wet uh-huh of how of how to be myself in be amazing <hes> you know and I think that's one of my favorite things. I think that we have a lot of different <hes> healthy people weekend look to for inspiration. <hes> I love bad <hes> black women have this kind of natural innate capacity to encourage one another is like secret code language. We've talked about on the show before we just have a way of <hes> doing it and where we choose to do it. It is so powerful and so beautiful the way that literally walking down the street. <hes> you know going into the mall or anywhere else. If you see a black woman you complementary you mean it you can you can really see how how it's done something for her. <hes> and we have an ability to make anybody feel good about anything. Okay I feel like you we okay you doing which your Blue Card on which is <hes> so I love that <hes> and I think that I love the fact that <hes> we have always been trendsetters and <hes> innovators especially when it comes to like beauty <music> I think we've been able to we've just created so much and we set standards that other people what would you say that the industries and others have aspired to be like us. Yes they have absolutely until into right into that effect. This is a shot off to Fran because I wore some shorts. The other day and I've made a boomy and France was like says let's celebrate your thighs and I was like on my guys says toy ahead to make me wear these shorts because I was so I feel like my thighs an hour. I WanNa be I WANNA be a little slim blah blah a- and she was just like let me stop you right there and she says something that I was just like this speaks to my previous point about how we have the ability to support one another <hes> and affirm one another in ways that nobody else could I was like I want you to know girl that they are women who are risking life and limb. People are dying on surgery tables in in Dominican Republic Rana. Get Bass like me and my size have arrived live so if I grow we waste so much time worried about things like like you know failure light and and you know we were. She said you're Jim when you can't be. You're working out you you doing what you're living your life. Put your show on. You know what I'm saying. Live on also no absolutely yes absolutely so what that was. The point that I was trying to make is that I feel like black women. I shaped beautifully and our bodies are something that that literally people are are out here spending thousands of dollars to attain and we just wake up like this most of the time it <hes> and I just I have appreciate <hes> I don't know I just appreciate the the brilliant spec comes with being a black black women and when I mean brilliant I mean both in like the way that we look in the way that we how we show up in spaces but also with the wisdom that we carry in our mouths and and the way that we formulate our words and the way way that we do the work that we do in the way that we are the sauce right so like people try to my leak in others had posted a me more in instagram couple of weeks ago that was like since you can copy what I do and that's fine but you'll never have what I have because I am the sauce. I'm the sauce. I'm and that's why I don't even have no problem giving you the Formula I can tell you how we do this because I'm not worried because I am the sauce and you can't have the sauce I'm me at bring meets at his work and that's the part of this work that people love and I think black women have the capacity to just kinda be in a space and do what we do but we do it in such a way that you know people be out here trying to figure out how to do it and they just can't it is funny you saw seeing because that's literally what we tell Noah like verbatim when she you know sometimes she'll pull up youtube videos with others in their weird videos where she's watching like descendants since characters battle rap and things like that but you know we really try to push encourage her and it's not to say that you know you can't appreciate or watch anybody of another race ethnicity or culture but we're like we want her to be proud to be a black girl and we always tell her we. We want you to realize that you got the sauce like you got it. You got what other people want like. Embrace your sauce. You have natural sauce and it's not even just because you can dance or whatever it's the light. It's the electricity that comes from you. It's who you are as a person. It's all the things that make you magical you already have that they ain't got that you got that so true you know and this is also not only you know and don't be coming talking about all well. You know this is a celebrating ourselves as black women because as important and this is a space where we celebrate ourselves as black women. It's not to tear anybody anybody else down so we're not speaking down anybody else but we are going to build ourselves up in this space on this platform so I just want that to be clear. You know it's not to say that nobody else you know has any magic about themselves selves but this is a platform where we get to celebrate us in. That's what we're GONNA do. You're welcome to join in as well but we're going to continue to celebrate us here and I think that's what we can end. The kitchen table talk now four flats. That was the best top five I've ever been asked. Let's move onto dishonesty backs winter start. A family is a completely personal decision. Some women want kids. Now Others WanNa wait ten years. No matter what your plan consider taking an at home hormone fertility tests from modern fertility modern fertility gives you the knowledge and information you need to plan ahead all for just one hundred written fifty nine dollars. The same test cost over a thousand dollars at a doctor's office and you can use an F._S._i.. Or H._S._A.. Plus modern fertility ships your kid to your home in and gives you and your physician reviewed results in just a few days. All tests are conducted in Cli certified lab and modern fertility team of physicians in clinical advisers lead some of the nation's top fertility clinics so I'm really excited about modern fertility actually <hes> I know that we are continuing to plan for our family. Don't ask me no questions in so I definitely plan on ordering a kit <hes> so that I can you know make sure everything is is ready. When I'm ready visit modern fertility dot com slash grown take their fertility quiz and get twenty dollars off your modern fertility tests? That's modern fertility dot com slash grown to take the fertility quiz and get twenty dollars off modern fertility dot com mm slash grown honestly truly all right. Let's get into this honesty box. It says dear Jaden Kia praise the Lord Nicholls. Let me start off by saying I love this podcast and Y'all doing Dang thing. Thank you thank you so much anyway. This is a lot so bear with me. My fiance and I are getting married next year. He's lived with his parents all his life except for college problem one. Since our engagement I got a new amazing job which allowed me to move to where he lives so that we would no longer be long distance. I'm living with him and his parents to save money for the wedding and a house problem too but rent is just too high and they insisted that I stay with them to save. My fiance has gotten a new job with the higher salary. He also has a second part time job but he isn't good with saving money. I'm the only one saving for our wedding in house because he's helping his parents pay bills paying off student loans and a car note. I've tried to get him to save save a little but I'm not getting through to him. I think I bruise his pride when I try to talk it out. This parents aren't helping because his mom is overbearing and isn't ready to let go often ask for money. I just don't know how he's going to transition from living with his parents all his life I have to just me and how his mother will let go. I love this man and I want to spend the rest of my life with him but I'm going crazy best. Let's give her a pseudonym Jocelyn Jocelyn. What whatever she got for Jocelyn says <hes> I do? We know how they know. She didn't say so the thing is I'm. I'm having some feelings about this because <hes> ad I'm not mad at the fact that <hes> this man is saving this man is is is you know paying down debt and paying <hes> <hes> I would say like this. I would feel different if you told me that he was spending his money on weed and check out sticks but you say you said that he got a he got a new job with a higher high salary and he has a part time job and he spent his money paying down student loan debt pay other bills and giving his mother money and I'm not bothered by that since both you and his mother both both you and him are living with his fan writes <hes> I understand that you feel like he should be saving for your wedding in certain ways but I don't feel like him paying down debt and paying these he's financial obligations is him squandering money. I think if he's too too I'm I'm not I'm not I don't know is it just. I don't know if it's just me or not. The participants very I think whatever age did you guys are is GonNa is GonNa is is going to be a factor. I hate that I don't know that because I mean I feel like I would feel different about this if you were forty but y'all if y'all twenty twenty four four twenty five twenty six. I don't know if I'm as authored by this. I don't I'm not alarmed by the fact that he is is paying his bills uh-huh like did I did. I hear wrong. She said that he she's concerned that he's never lived outside of his parents home. I think that's a valid concern but is it. I mean that I don't so this is where I got a little confused because she said you got a new job with a higher salary and he also has the second part time job but he isn't good with saving money <hes> and then she said but that's where that's where that's where it's like well okay so listen. Let me put things in perspective. Uh I don't know if you're also paying living expenses there but if you're not then that's kind of taking care of the both of you in that area I so if you know I understand what you want him to be doing doing but that's that's kind of a necessity and if him helping to pay some of those bills is not at the same level of you are being an apartment and paying full bills on your own then you know it's kind of you know that's kind of a of a bit of a blessing also what I would say is and this is just speaking to you very candidly in but with love you can't come to the table with a problem. If you don't have a solution for it so oh you know you're understand probably having a moment. I don't know if you're having a moment of frustration because I do understand that living in his parents house probably comes with its own set of challenges. You said he hasn't overbearing mother so. So much of their income with a set of challenges so that's not to negate your feelings at all absolutely you have every right to to have those moments and I know in those type of living situation. Sometimes there are higher moments of frustration than others. I get that you know but if you don't have a solution for for you guys right now as far as you're living conditions are concerned then you kinda have to eat this one for a while until it gets to a point where it's like all right this is too much and if you have to bear the brunt of saving for you ause wedding while he bears the brunt of like taking care of you guys current living situation than you know a partnership wt give and take you know what I'm saying like might be the compromise and sometimes you know like you may have somebody who's like I pay the rent in this house but then you have the other person who pays all the utilities in the car note in insurance so it's like e- everybody buddy plays their role and plays their part and sometimes you know we have to put more into an area than another person and we have to be understanding about that given whatever your circumstances are absolutely I think I think you raise great points. If this is something <hes> that is really bothering you I think one of the ways that you might be able to go to the table and poses solution is to have the conversation status or something. That's bothering me. I would like for us to be on the same page about saving for this wedding less <hes> less get clear about where we are with. If is something that you want to do. Is there a timeframe that you wanna work within. Is there a way that we can do this in a way that <hes> acknowledges the way that you contributed in the way that I'm contributed in my be worthwhile to sit down and have a conversation and time is going to be a critical factor here. So if you guys are thinking about getting married and starting a family you you know that could be you know especially again. Depending on how old you guys are it could he. He might be ready and he not might know that you <hes> is it's you are ultimate who he wants to be with but he may want sometimes it Kinda get his finance finances financing get his life together if he has opportunity to save money his parents home <hes> that's what he's doing but it is okay for you to be like okay. Can I have a date. Can I have some sort of indication as to how long we're going to be doing this. Is there a plan in place to get US Outta here. Like what are are you thinking. I think it just you might feel better if you go to him <hes> and just asked to have a conversation in and get some more clarity around <hes> your current situation and how long you plan on being a and he plans on being any seeing if there's any dissonance or disconnect around your your opinions I mean you know that'd be a good opportunity for you to talk about the ways in which you know <hes> Yakking navigate this theory you're you're like around especially negotiating you know his mom's <hes> involvement and how you guys engaged with him and his parents like it. Just it sounds like you might just need to have some some compensation <hes> express what you want <hes> and and what questions you have and just try to get on the same page that way but I I am not honestly if I knew then what I know now now I would have probably stayed in my mom's house or I would have used the time that I had in my mom's house more wisely than I did so I think this even though it is uncomfortable and it's not ideal there is some value in having that cushion if the great opportunity for you to kind of put a plan in place and say okay. I don't WanNa be in this situation for too much longer but while I'm here I've said these goals to get this. He's accomplished so that when I leave I don't I can leave with something <hes> Yep so Jocelyn v I do hope that this is helpful to you and I wish you all the Best I say that you go ahead and get bay <hes> Y'all GonNa read Lhasa and have a discussion over some Cheddar Bay biscuits insane. You know what I'm saying is someone to stand in around here. Let's get someone to stand in. Yes sing escape to him but <music> but <hes> hopefully this was helpful. We hope this was helpful in you got here just have some communication communication set some boundaries and feel free to express yourself but also make sure that you're going like make sure you have your your <unk> together. When you go have your conversation together? Have Your your solutions along with you know whatever your issues are so that you guys can figure into figuring it out and you come to some sort of common ground if you just come like this. This is my great then you don't have anything to offer on how to fix it. You know then there's the new guys can't there won't be any middle ground there so hopefully that's helpful. I hope that's helpful to me too same schedule. Your feelings are totally early valid. We want you to know that so absolutely oh consent to continue to send your honesty box questions to get in grown podcasts at gmail.com. Let's move onto these petty peeves though and I want to be very responsible of the things I say due to my sister because everybody would be petty p. e. to the T. t. y.. All right it's time for the pet peeves and <hes> pity this week is I'm probably Kinda petty and it's I don't know if it's what New York related or whatever cities you may commonly take cabs in but for the actual cab drivers. I don't WanNa hear your conversation on the phone with your family member the entire time we are writing about the baby showers in all of the plans. I understand that you're in the vehicle the majority of your day but I have friends who drive caps and you know what happens if we are on the phone and they get a phone call they say let me call you back. After this arrive I had one time I had my homeboy hit me and he was asking asking me some relationship stuff advice and whatnot and <hes> he went picked up this dude and he was like he you know we were deep in the middle of the conversation and he was like <hes> do do you mind cause the do have is headphones on he said do you mind if I take this phone. Call continue to take this phone call or do you prefer that I hang up in the dude was like Nah. I'm about to keep my headphones on listening to my music. Do your thing but era appreciated the fact listening from the other end that he asked his customer what they wanted whereas today I was riding in a cab uptown in this nigger talked to his relatives the entire and it wasn't even just that it was that he spoke loudly in a lot so you know even when I was on the phone my homeboy he would ask me some questions and then I would talk to them for a bit and he was like listening he you know he would engage and whatnot a little little bit but it was like all right. I'm like I'm calling to ask you. Since I want you to take over this conversation you know but God damn just have some courtesy. Nobody wants to hear you Ramon and all of them have your conversations about you know your sister's cousin's baby shower this weekend and who's GonNa make the Potato Salad. That's right ha sixty three dollars. Please anyway worship any be this week so as you all know I'm out here his retreat center <hes> and staff here <hes> you know colorful bunch <hes> there's a particular woman who runs the kitchen <hes> home in the evening so she runs the dinner shape and I noticed that this woman is really just insufferable. She's miserable my she is she is she is just filled with angst ext and I just my pet peeve is if you work in service and you work at a place and that is that serves serve you know certain populations so in addition to us being here their summer camps that utilize the same property so their children young people <hes> come in and out the kitchen and if I come to you and ask you a question. That's not unreasonable like I'm asking you question I guess dinnertime and you in the kitchen you prepare dinner. I'm asking you a question about dinner like I don't need to be met with all of this heat ray so <hes> pretty much I I just I just I don't understand you know I just this particular woman. The kind of person that treats you horribly horribly until she finds out who you are on. I don't like that my co worker you know she we were in the way we manage a reception for our attendees that happens after hours requires us to get ice from the kitchen kitchen so that the beverages will be cold so you know when you're on duty in the evening party or responsibilities is to get the ice from the kitchen photo reception so we go in there to get the reset. The ice we turn around the lady turns around and sees us has and she's like what do you want and I'm looking at her like she got moorehead's because I'm like I'm I know you are. I'm trying to figure out who you talking to so my coworker goes and introduces herself and says who she is and in our whole you know affect changes and we later found out that she thought that myself and my other co worker were kids or young people had to camp and she thought that the person who introduce themselves was like our counselor counselor some whatever so long story less long if like this first of all no like you work in the service industry you either chef on-duty and people are GonNa have questions for the kitchen. People are going to need things from out of the kitchen. We're supposed to be asking you things and it shouldn't. We shouldn't have to give you rank. We shouldn't have to identify ourselves as adults or Oh professionals for you to treat people will common courtesy because if I'm if I'm a parent I'm sending my child up here. I'm not sitting here for you to yell at them. I'm sending my child appear for you to feed them so <hes> I I can't ah my my I got her together. She wanted to be all pleasant and I'm like not keep that same energy you had. You asked me what I want. I shouldn't have to you know disarm you with my credentials. You should be pleasant and courteous to everybody that you meet especially when you work in a service industry and that's just that's just all I got to say about that. It's really it's just I'm uncomfortable with people who see me in my black skin and assume that I I want trouble. I shouldn't have to tell you that my name is Dr Robinson for you to try now for lighting nights to me. That's not okay but that's it. That's not why we worked so hard for this. I and I just think that that's terrible. That's absolutely terrible because regardless if you whether or not I'm I'm Dr Robinson or Kia or Kia's neath. Your job is to treat me like with respect because I didn't come in here yelling screaming at you. All I did was stay. I came to the kitchen to get my needs met like that's what I need. I need ice. You got the eighth eighth is nowhere else you got. I you know I'm coming. So why are you hollering I fully I fully agree with this message. You know what I'm saying why have yielded people it's usually because they deserve it but yeah yeah I think that's very valid and that is another episode of Getting Grown Charleroi Ladies and gentlemen and those in the Non Binary for listening we sincerely appreciate your consistent support of the show <hes> continue to send all of your shoutouts and honesty box questions and all of that to gain grown podcast gmail.com and it's hot outside but regardless SIS. Tell them what they need to do. Don't forget it to mind your business. Moisture is your skin and your edges especially in the sweltering weather and always hydrate and drink your water wireless because does your heels will crack if they're dry. That's right and you're able to buy yes. They will buy Oh. I can't get off my horse and I can't Geico who you are the one to make me feel so real ooh mass supposed to do when I look so and then realize show somebody somebody else's guy say it's like it's like the most churches song about Shit History of ocean was that on the soundtrack to <hes> woman thou art loose.

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Don't Do the Crime if You Can't Do the Time

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Don't Do the Crime if You Can't Do the Time

"Ever wondered how book gets made into a movie for had a massive yard of cooking. Either way we've got you covered with the two guys from hollywood podcast. I'm alan evans. Literary agent and talent manager. And i'm joey santos a columnist and celebrity chef on our podcast and serving you a fresh perspective of the entertainment industry alongside our favorite celebrity guests as we to say we don't dish we serve. Listen and follow two guys from hollywood on the iheartradio app apple podcasts. Or wherever you listen to podcasts. We'll talk at houston. Hey everyone is michelle williams. I love being able to share my story with you on my podcast again with michelle williams where my guests and i get real as we share the ups and downs of our mental health journeys. And i love you to join me. Hey is going to be your church and your turn up so listen to checking game with michelle williams every tuesday. A part of the black effect on the iheartradio app apple podcasts. Or wherever you get your podcasts with windows belt world's most dangerous mourning. Dj nps day in everybody's business but in a good way to rula. Rubber judah wrong way was going may be biden's morning usa yoyo. Yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo damn tv handy charlemagne the guy on the planet is to a yes. It's tuesday morning. Everybody good morning man. How you feeling this morning yoga. I'm doing pretty good. Yeah i spent the day car service yesterday. Because i was having issues with one of my tires and walk i got. I know you know what they said. There was a nail in one of my thought it was just one tire but there was a nail in one of them. There was an issue with another one. You know his badge. I having new york city. So i ended up. Only four of my tires replaced. I've tire insurance. And i did that just because the streets are bad here. Are that bad times very important to tied the expensive boy yesterday about ye now ye Lives in brooklyn. Brooklyn is not that bad right now. It hasn't been snowing. There's not that many potholes so one day. We were there him. All some people died and he hit some. Now let me tell you we. We have to juice. You just purchased a new home. Envy wanna see the new equipment like yeah. She was like up the block. I said okay. Ten let's go. She's like happened. So you know. On the way to crib. There might have been or little pot holes in two bomb sales and ye all of them and not all of them slowly like she was aiming for like it was mario kart and that was the whatever she it to get extra points and even over thirty miles an hour. So now i know. That's the reason why you need needed tires. Because you don't you don't you don't think that four was and course of a few blocks is a lot you aim you aim for you go eight for well anyway. The moral of the story is thank goodness retire insurance. That's why habit. Hey man cool story fantastic tale guys just wanted to tell you. That's exactly what i wanted to hear this morning. You tell a lot of people have car issues. Day breaks how alternator going clue about sneeze break for. I'm kind of set last. I fell asleep. And you know what's monday right mondays. Mondays this the bachelor last night. Feel like i ever watched bash them twenty five years. I've seen the text the move that my wife was like. He's handsome yet. Also nad is a good story now interested so you text to your mom texts. usa he's handsome your replied back. Yeah so why would a bunch of essence. No that's what you say. That's what my mom texted gear bog. You nigga nothing about no damn get over this. No we have a special guest. Your tires goodyear. Okay michelin man tigers and the show started crazy so we have a bevy smith join us this morning. Revelation she's got a new book out called bev relations What is it. Beverly stories from a mama auntie in a best best. Yep i'm of a mother not mommy there you go month. Oh tell them. A bevy smith is for people that don't know is a. Oh gee i mean. He's done a little bit everything she's been in the fashion world. She used to work vibe magazine back in the day. She's just the old stone magazine. yes She she she works. She'll paid six four while still come on. I don't even know. She's got her own radio show on sirius satellite radio on andy cohen's network beverly harlem. Og with a story to tell and that's why she's got a book out today. That's right so we're gonna talk bevy smith and then we got from patients but we Yes we are going to be talking about a win. Are you able to go back out. What that fouts. He has a prediction on when these concert venues and theatres could return all right. We'll get into that next. Keep a lot just the breakfast club. Good morning everybody. A envy angela. Ye shall i mean the guy. We oughta breakfast clubs concert page news. Are we starting you well. Let's start with the house democrats. They're planning to vote tomorrow to impeach donald trump and they're setting up an impeachment vote one week after these riders over incited by donald trump over into capitol police. So they'll vote. The house is voting this evening on a resolution urging vice president mike pence to in both the twentieth amendment and then they plan to vote wednesday at nine. Am on the impeachment resolution. I have no favoring democrats. You know what i'm saying. Democrats soft especially after. I saw that a couple of the police officers one who let people in another. who took self. He's at the capitol building with the riders. He got suspended suspended as class. It suspended not fair. Not arrested suspended favorite democrats they to salt so even suspended. They said took him around capitol. I don't i don't i just know that. The one who took a selfie with him got to spend it in one who Notice in one who ushered him in. That's the one that took around capitol to order. go only suspended. The only got the investigate allegations gatien terrorist. Act out anything. Imagine imagine imagine imagine if al qaeda real al qaeda and not cracking invaded. The capital and wanted to police officers took a selfie a member of al qaeda. I told kate away to go. Do you think they were getting suspended. Worked at the bank on time on camera and ended up getting suspended and then they investigation. This was different. This is this is this is. This is that they ready to capitol building while every single member of congress. This was different. No we know good and well that if that was al qaeda and one of the people in their took a selfie with the police officers they wouldn't have got suspended. Have been fired. Arrested blocked up for i would that still is could potentially happen but right now the fbi is warning arm. Protests are being planted off fifty state capitals in dc and so they have received that information so right now. This news is coming. A security measures are also being stepped up ahead of inauguration day which as you know is the twentieth there's federal state and local law enforcement agencies preparing for the possibility of more violence after what happened at the capitol won't be more violence. There's no consequences and repercussions for what happened last week. You know what i mean like. You've caught you in the feds picking people up. But i mean it just don't seem like it's any real harsh punishments being laid down. I mean even when you get arrested those things time. But i'm i don't even hear people talking like these folks is about to get ten years fifteen years nervous and scared. Oh national like just another headline like it's just another thing that happened in our country all right. Well that is your front page news. All right get it off your chest. Eight hundred five five one zero five one if you're upset and you need to vent eight hundred five zero five one zero five one. Maybe at a bad night last night maybe fell asleep amidst mr bachelor. Whatever maybe maybe he was stuck at your service and your call for six hours would be mean six our time just to chase him tyler. Just want to say maybe right now. Everybody has kobe fatigue and Like i was saying earlier. Dr is saying that things can be turned in the fall. Thanks to the vaccine. But we'll talk more about that later. So dr fauci screeches open folks as out here. Hey and some places dr fauci people back shaking hands in atlanta act but anyway get it off your chest. It's the breakfast global morning one. It's the breakfast tally. Visit your time to get it off your chest. Will the a man or blessed eight hundred eight zero five one. We want to hear from you on the breakfast. Hello this is my own. It got that close because of bradfo would've made it nowhere near any them dead. Let's call white privilege called white privilege. Nicole being an inside job sir. I don't even think anything's going to happen. And that's gonna be very sad if there's no consequence repercussions for what happened last week. It's only going to get worse. Nocco everyday m-asked. I love it too much king. Hello this your guide crowley from cleveland. Browns congratulations on your win. The of browns fan with the browns. And i'll power believe at real congrats on y'all win today man. And i'm looking forward to. This is the vegas or coastal sandwich chiefs or Ten point favorite. That's gonna drop by friday waiting for the edge report you'll edgeley nv charlemagne guy and pursue healthy maximization of efficient government trying to impeach. Donald trump is not a good move. These are reasons. Why less than one hundred and seventy five bills introduced by house of representatives just this month. Today's the twelfth. It does not just a matter. Those things have simple votes made on. It has to be a lot of arguments and discussions about where it needs to be amendments to bills and bills dropped off or other things connect to the bills that these guys have these people have to be involved in and there's hundreds of thousands of millions of people waiting for some of these things to get done and they're gonna check their lives directly unlike this which is not going to say much in anybody's life directly so they need to go to work on. They need to be working on that and primarily those things in place or somebody. Who's going to be out in less than ten days and connected to a riot. Where if you pay attention to his words. None of his words were moving in the direction of the incitement of a riot. He kept saying peaceful and patriotic. These people operated in their own free will. It was clear that they were operating their own. Free will and most some pranksters because if they were truly trying to make a point of correct making a correction of government they wouldn't be in here tearing things than stealing they would have been making foolish proclamations about what should happen to. Why should it happen on the senate floor rather than the council representatives for when he here and that's not what they were doing so they will pranksters. There was suckered as being driven by people that were standing behind them figuratively speaking but financially speaking get get them to move in the direction they wanted them to move just to make some drama cessation lysm declare on. This is a bad move. Pay attention to who gives lawyers. Who's paying those lawyers and get attention to who gives lawyers and wanting knowledge who's paying their lawyers you'll get a better understanding why does happen and you can't put this off on the president this time. Not this i mean is that he has a lot to do with it. And i mean listen to has to be consequences of repercussions the what he incited last week. And you know that was a great article. In the washington post called pre nazi. Germany tells us to fight to save american. Democracy is just the beginning. They don't a smackdown. Bro wasn't x. What do these people do next. You know what i'm saying. After was all last week i know you gotta you gotta be some some very harsh repercussions and consequences can all right. Get it off your chest injury. Five eight five one zero five one. If you need event hit us up now with the breakfast club. Good morning. The breakfast club. Hey everyone it's michelle williams. And i love being able to share my story with the on my podcast checking in with michelle williams where my guest tonight real as we share the ups and downs of mental health journeys. And i'd love you to join me. I'm still all my own journey. But i want to be transparent with you because as i was posting all the highlights of my life on social media i was breaking down. Too many people fall victim to the picture. Perfect image of the highlife. So i created a space to discuss the good and the bad. We can laugh. We we gonna learn most of all. I hope to inspire you to go on this journey with me better mental help this is going to be your church your turn up and everything in between so join me on my podcast checking in with michelle williams safe space for every kind of person. Listen to checking in with michelle williams every tuesday a part of the black. The iheartradio app apple podcasts. Or wherever you get your podcasts. It's been thirty years since the first episode of beverly hills nine. Oh two one. Oh thirty years since we walk the halls of west beverly high end since we all hung out at the fit relive at all with jenny guard and tori spelling on their new podcasts. Nine oh two one oh. Md we get to tell the fans all of the behind the scene stories to actually happen. Join them as they re watch every episode of the beloved from the very beginning. Listen to nine. Oh two one zero. Md on the iheartradio app. Or wherever you get your podcasts extols is your tummy get it off your chest or the blast you on the breakfast club on your own. This maybe managed. Jeremy how you doing. Jeremy lasek brother. Get it off your chest man. I i want to say good morning. i'm make a long story. Short man david girl in You say sheets. He's a real real sweet girl. But i want to tell the. Tell me if i'm nitpicking. Not you know what i'm saying. So he's in some of the things that bother me why we relationship so okay i I'm a christian and you know me. I'm not perfect and nothing like that. But she doesn't really have that same desire as i do and i'm being vulnerable right now. Your anything decided i. Do you know what i mean. What she thinks no no. She didn't got no desire for you. Know what i mean. She'll have that at five four. You know what i mean like. I tried to delay the bills like nam. all right. you don't want hear jake's she liked doda. Goddamn though that damn jasmine sullivan. On first time the second time in a difference between a banking disrespected. She got a little girl. And i don't have any kids. I'm not opposed to up when father not around me. If i'm dating the woman being no you gotta be there too. But she looked disrespectful. In the moment on you do nothing about it. Drill daughter dotted only stakes. I give the benefit of the doubt. But it's like look by. Little girl ran outside with no shoes on in the parking lot. As last kiddo looking at me like christie. My dad's like okay. I'll right you can't even prove for the little girl because her mom don't believe in god lasts like i'm dr man so you know i'll be on road or whatever when i come in to take our stuff like that so when i went to this nice restaurant i live in. Oklahoma city. Wanted to take it through nice restaurant. I'm having night our by she. Come home maybe switch and some flag. I'm like i'm out. I'm not to and i. I don't know if i'm knitting and the reading. Say i don't know if i'm if because You know my last relationship. I broke my heart so i don't and it's the first place got into so. I don't know if i'm nitpicking. Because of that. And i'm not ill because i think i believe i hope found things to be like. You know what we might not be clicking away. I give it a benefit of the doubt and try a little bit lucky. We only been with you. What do you like about her. You just told us all the things you don't like your sweet. Very sweet very giving For christmas like she knew. I like the lakers. She got me like the lakers. Really you know what i mean like. She looked out from you. Know you know for me for whenever i'm coming down like she goes sweet girl. I'm not saying that the bathroom her personality you know saying she rasc- she ain't turnover everything like there's this new thing. The kind of knows how thirty. I ain't got no kids. I ain't got time to plan when i'm dating somebody i'm dating i'm ask you sound like this. Your first time dating the hood shook. You sound like you've never been with a project princess in your life. She don't believe in god she's got an independent three the not saying that she doesn't believe in god she just doesn't want to have to go to church right or she's not as desire that. Burn and listen to all the main problem do you dealt with the ranchi mills over. Yes you know. Women in jacksonville bulletproof. Let's because we ain't got much time. You've got to put your whole hand for florida. Florida oklahoma right now but love the benefits. Maybe later on our keep listening to some alamein. See me when you book math for you. I'm gonna put you on. 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I do it pretty well. Why not lean into it. And that is when i felt like i started becoming happier music. Legend mick fleetwood fleet with my was always about change so that you were accepted for who you were former governor of vermont howard. Dean took the call in this quavering voice and the other end of the phone. Has i regret to inform you that the governor has died of a heart attack. And you're the governor. That was the end of my medical practice and bestselling author isabel wilkerson. People come up to me of all different backgrounds. Say to me. I had no idea that this happened in our country. If you like listening as much as i liked talking with interesting people go to. Here's the thing dot. Org and subscribe now on the iheart app apple podcasts. Or wherever you get your podcasts. Ej envy ngelo ye. Shall i mean the guy. We are the breakfast club. Let's get to the room. The soak bill belichick all the guys gotha rumor report if the rumor report the breakfast club. Iraq bill belichick has rejected donald. Trump's presidential medal of freedom. He said he will not accept it. And that's all because of the riots that happened at the us capitol so he did a host statement He said. Recently i was the opportunity to receive the presidential medal of freedom which i was flattered by out of respect for what the honor represents an admiration for prior recipients subsequently. The tragic events of last week occurred and the decision has been made not to move forward with the award. I mean that's great but you know. I'm pretty sure bill voted for donald trump. If you didn't vote for him he wrote a letter encouraging people in massachusetts to vote for him back in two thousand sixteen. I mean it's never too late to do the right thing but come on now. This is a perfect example of. I don't need you anymore. You have ten more days. What do i need down absolutely not. i can't. I can't give these people applause for making the right choice now and should have made the right choice back in two thousand sixteen especially when in his letter he told donald trump you have dealt with an unbelievably slanted in media and have come out beautifully in. Your leadership is amazing. It's like. I said it's never too late to do the right thing. But you can't escape trump that easily buddy your ira. Well he not getting any there. Were other people that actually after did accept those Presidential medals medals of freedom. So he wasn't the only person that was going to get when other people did. Except there's all right now disneyland is going to become a mask. Ovid nineteen vaccinations site. So that's gonna be an anaheim and a lot of that has been closed since the pandemic but now they're saying the site will become operational later this week and they said they will be a mass kobe. Nineteen testing operationa dodger station. That will be phased out this week. So that these sports arena is turned into a large-scale vaccination location make some great jokes in the hood all anti vaccine telling me homeboys goofy on the disneyworld then and get the vaccine. Which goofy ass. That's gonna mix with some great jokes but all right letoya luckett and her husband thomas walker. They got married in twenty seventeen They have announced that they are getting divorced. So they've been married for three years their son they had a son just four months ago. Tysun wolf and according to toya she said after very prayerful consideration. Thomas and i have decided to get a divorce. It is my deepest desire for us to be loving co parents and keep a peaceful environment out of respect for our children now because walker also made a statement. The toy and i have decided to divorce. This was a very difficult decision. We remain committed to our family as co parents. And we ask that you. Please respect our privacy and the safety of our children at this time. Then he posted to any. Mary couple trusted. God can work things out despite what might be the present state right now. God is the only person that can change the circumstances. I never wanted a divorce. But outside forces can create a lot of confusion for the record. I never stepped out on my wife and then he went on a to pose and for all the friends or family that saying i didn't like him anyway. Guess what. I didn't like your stinky ask. Hey i promise. Promise yadav all comes going through divorces. We don't need press releases. You know what i'm saying. That's the all business like we don't need y'all explained into. I really wanted who. Who did they be inflaming. Sometimes it's like if like for instance if if the toilet lucked out with somebody else. If she's dating again she's with somebody else. Who wants to say. Hey i i. I'm just letting you guys know. So you're not reporting to the blogs or making things strange and uncomfortable okay Ti friends and family hustle show together so sometimes you want people to know so when you see him out doing things you not like. He's cheating though sometimes. You gotta just put that statement out there. I right now steve. Kerr talks about the time that he got to find. Drake five hundred dollars and he talked about what happened. Here's what he said we were flying to. La and we all got to the airport and steph and dream on. Were on the plane staff said. Oh my fault i'm with drake and and draymond worthy. Arenas still we. We're sorry we're late and we had. We had a team rule at the time that you could bring a friend on the plane. You know a couple of times a year. Trey got on the plane that night. With draymond and steph. And i find all three of them For being late and drake paid his five hundred dollar fine. And that's a great k. I wonder what the canadian or american dollars take probably pave. Everybody had to you. Had me late and get ready for basketball wives. Season nine is coming out. And that's going to be That's going to be pretty early. I can't believe it's been nine seasons. August ninth is a date that it's returning and the trailer just came out yesterday. Listen what why so much time has gone by. We get a man chance so you gonna fight all the ladies. Let's you behind us and stop the nonsense not taking no. It's us against the world. I feel like this show has been all my whole life now and not to mention nine seasons and not one real basketball wife on and i'd not one of them is married to a damn basketball player now. Okay who else is on. does she ask you christie. Barry real saw this season evelyn. Lozada's back sean. O'neil is back. Jennifer williams's bag. Jackie christie's back malayasia's back Kristin scott and then og February taurus and then we have some new people lies. Morales is joining and you know. Liza morales she used to date. Lamar onum they have children together. And then also nia and naria dorsey and other new piece osho is basketball. Wise really some of them are okay in. Bring it back. Bonna chronicles tammy. Roman bring tammy wanted to go back busy. Tammy on a. she's shooting. Ms pat show. I believe i think. I think the in production on his past dropping bombs his pet was patented many evidently checkup on now love pat pat. I writes while i'm angela. And that is your reports all right. Thank you miss a ye now from page news coming up what we're talking about. Yes we'll give you some more updates on the corona virus pandemic and also the vaccine for all right. We'll get into that next. Keep a lot this the breakfast. Good morning good morning everybody. Tj envy angela. Yee charlemagne guy. We are the breakfast club. Let's kick some front page news. Well let's start with some corona virus updates now the us has averaged more than three thousand covid nineteen deaths per day for the past week and they reported more than two hundred thousand new infections for seven straight days so far nearly nine million people have gotten their first shot of the more than twenty two million kobe. Nineteen vaccine doses that have been distributed in the united states so far modern believes vaccine to protect people for at least a year from corona virus. And then you have to get two shots so they saying that it's the first shot and then a month later you get the second. But they're saying even if it takes longer than that it should still be effective and they're also testing to see if adding bird dose which they call a boost might actually extend that protection. So it's going to be like the flu. You gotta get it view. Yeah so yeah every year and it was saying i believe there's you know one of the companies can protect against the mutating strand. Is that true to you. Did you hear anything about that. Well they're saying with the mutating strand is that it just spreads quicker or easier and that's the difference but they're not saying it right now because it's pretty new here. I only like so far. They have like seventy something people here. They've found that habits. I'm sure they're still trying to figure that out but y so far. Three shots is excessive. Well they're saying that that would be a boost so they're trying to see if it will extend it past the year that it protects you so they're still examining those things they want to extend the warranty patty paying little accident to work. I saw that some teachers were upset. That teaches are essential workers and so they're one of the first people that are going to be getting their shot but they were upset that some of the teachers who are virtual teachers are on the same list as teachers who are in person when we're not gonna be on a virtual list for long. I mean i think they're going to be in a virtual for a little time and then when it's people start getting a vaccine they're going to have to go back to work correct so they're gonna have to work. All i know is i know. A lot of essential workers man especially doctors. I've had quite a few doctors telling me don't take the first round of covid shot. Okay i was getting my Corn shaved on my right pinkie toe last week in the podiatrist told me that as well shack not to take the show yesterday you can tell us what she said but now you feel comfortable telling us so. She wouldn't tell you her name. That's what i wouldn't do but yes okay. All right and donald trump has declared a state of emergency in dc. The mayor of dc is also saying to avoid dc because of inauguration is coming up and so donald trump has declared a state of emergency citing the emergency conditions surrounding. Joe biden's inauguration. So that's dog whistle. Even though he's piece absolutely positively correct based on what we saw last week for putting up a maga- signal in air. You know. I mean it's a bad thing. You gotta jar man. As in the air right now tell. Everybody would do on. Inauguration day seems like right and they are wanting that there The fbi has received notification that there could be armed protest being planned at all fifty state capitals in washington d. n. in washington. Dc will scary about that. You don't know who to trust. You don't know who's in on it. You know what i mean you know november the fbi in on know you know that the security at the capitol is in on and you know know who's who in these situations anymore. You just don't Right now in addition to all of that house democrats are planning to vote tomorrow to impeach trump. so they're setting up an impeachment vote and The house will vote tonight on a resolution. That's urging vice president. Mike pence to invoke the twenty fifth amendment to remove time from power. Then they'll tomorrow at nine. Am on the impeachment resolution. Pence has been very loyal to donald trump. They said they hadn't been speaking in quite some time until yesterday. I'm with all consequences and repercussions That come trump's way For for what happened yesterday. But i just don't feel like that's strong enough like i really think that they should be talking about you know locking donald trump up like i think they should really be talking about pursuing criminal charges against him. I think that's the only way you prevent something like this from happening in the future to really really really really dropped to him on door. Yeah i mean. I think it should do. I think they should do both. They should impeach him and also then lock him up impeach him twenty fifth amendment. Lock them up. Everything i believe. They're also after your president. Don't you get a salary for the rest. Your life protection never heard of that. I think he's still get protection. I don't know about a salad. You still got to give them protection protection. He's he is a former even. If you get impeached you still got ahead of the rain tonight. Still say you gotta give them protection. Because he's still former president. He knows a lot of secrets you know. What if he gets kidnapped by foreign foreign opposition tortured fall. The secret still got to protect them. Yeah isn't a former presidents receive a pension equal to the pay that the head of an executive department would be paid so they said as twenty twenty. It's two hundred nineteen thousand per year and it starts immediately after your departure from office of good morning. Shouldn't give them a stimulus check. No instead of the two hundred nineteen thousand dollars. Six hundred dollars when he gets twenty four because he got a couple of kids. Oh gotcha gotcha gotcha all right. Well that is your front page news. All right thank you miss now when we come back. Bev smith will be joining us. Bevy smith will be joining us now for people don't know who she is. You wanna give us a little update of a rundown of who she is and what. She does Well bevy has a new book. That's out today. She used to work at vibe magazine. Then she went over to rolling stone. then she's a lot in the world of fashion and she did paid six tv and all of that. She became a personality after working in publishing bev relations lessons from a mother. Auntie investi all right. So we don't know when we come back said oh movies the breakfast club. Good morning breakfast body is the j. Envy angela. Show me the guy. We all the breakfast club. We got a special guests on the line this morning. We bevy smith welcome. Thank you so much for having me here. Thank you for joining us. Even though zoom you know i mean don't do you know justice bevy. Thank you baby. Omit be taken the nobod- revelation lessons from a mother. Auntie in beth d. e. where so. The mother is what my gay sons all be. Okay the ati is what young girls watch on tv. Let's see on social media. And he will. I talk about my real life experiences. That's what they call me. And then the best years for maxine sympathized senior trip or i want to have a cocktail bar. So that's where it came from. Mr laid ability of the bevy smith situation which wish now some women don't like to be called auntie wide of the net bother. You know to get the job. Were bangor okay. Be talking about today. So so why was it. Time to write beverly. It was time the right relations because they gave me a book deal. Is the money in a book deal. Obviously it was a combination of the fifteen year journey took me being a really successful bashing advertising executive vs by manzi and then rolling stone magazine and then i quit at the age of thirty eight at the height of my career to pursue this thing to become a media personality and noble really believed that. Do it because as you know. Media is a youth to gain Up thirty that i could do i. Cash strapped designers at this put the pedal to the metal and fifteen years. Later mama in but this book requisites comb nation of that journey. Now's onto the next to take that leap. Sometimes you talk about personal being vibe magazine. But you had that amazing any expenses. Everything paid for you. Had car belongs to everything. People they get stuck in feeling that okay. I have so great over here. When is it time for you to step out and do your own thing. So how did you decide that. It was time for you to leave behind all the perks at by to step out while i was a miserable bitch because averages really unhappy and i was making people around the abbey and i just decided or and i just couldn't get excited by any in the book i talk about like the salon set song crazy this guy and tried to shop with the way i tried to set the way. I tried to drink it the way i was doing everything to try. And make myself feel better ultimately had look inside myself. Really discover a wet daichi. One ally and what i really wanted was created a breeding. An nba intended to a nine to five job. No matter how fabulous and how many is not giving their value. Call the ugly side of of your beautiful life. That's the ugly side of my life. When you're like you have everything that most people look at say lesage main job because you know i'm from that issue or am sitting in the law of cows in new york. I'm and i'm doing all these things in the late nineties. The two thousand. And why do you think in. This industry is so hard for people to walk away from situations that they know they're not happy. Because it's it's the lights. The glistening land also too i think times are coming from a place of humble beginnings right hop background you kinda bill ungrateful for saying that you want something that she one worked so hard work and then also to the most people that come from your background will be happy to ask to. I think a lot of times amid a comfort zone. You know if i leave. I still got to pay my house note. I still got to pay my school loan. That's still gotta help family members that if i leave i might lose all of that. You know but but you can't be rated mls soccer like that if you really believe in what you're said not to do. I mean now in the book but blissful town every day to take the bus. I know from dollar night. Dinners to again salmon. You know making sam folkets so that was a that was a big part of the journey of the top part of the journey but the even benepe about the groped the blissful was not found out about why really wasn't stats nasty right so i was able to create my business. Dinner were happy. Because i was at my ends and i had amazing relationships with celebrities and a major relationships fashion houses. And i put those things together enacted. The business i would never go myself notch in newark. I don't wanna give too much away. But but what is the red soul proposition. All the rest so far position so you remember just at the beginning. Probably the way everything member longest to be. Thus you right mino- monica yup and then all of a sudden if the nobody right. Correct the red under the web. I might okay. That's what it's about is like. How did someone come out of seemingly nowhere edges snatch the issue position among the block and it was because they had that were the only one doing it. Read soul in you. What is your wrist salt. And the way you get to it as i asked three questions. And they're really deep introspective questions. Were you at your core. How are you being received. How would you like to receive. And you answer those questions. And i take it to a whole thing in the book i had to get to those canisters and then that kind of defined what makes you authentic you. And that's i use that as a selling point. Create your personal now. Can you really control how people perceive you bevy okay. So in the book actual about the back that now of course he's going to have their own perceptions of you and we can't. We can't take you. Olympic can absorb it site ninety album hundred people saying the same. Want to check on that. If you if you not say whether you like being you know being a nap recommend that he liked beyond that you know then. But that's not i want to be that you can make some tweaks and what i found. Is the tweet dining debate was i had to start. Let me see humid. And i had i had. I had such a universal insurance impact that abbas so big bet from that enamel swag app. The people didn't know. I was like a sensitive person when he had lanes and had family. And now look at look at me. You see all that. How are we got more. Beverly thrift when we come back to. Who is the breakfast club. Good morning morning. Everybody is tj in angela. Ye shall i mean the guy. We are the breakfast club was still kicking to a bevy smith. Ye you may so many sacrifices and you just had to. And i find that something that a lot of us have had to do when you feel like you have to make them when this you can't say noted things sometimes right and you discuss missing like really important milestones when it comes to your friends and your family and sometimes you do have to say okay. This is a great opportunity. But there's always gonna be something amazing happening and so it's okay to sometimes say notice and thing. So how do you manage that balance and know what is more important. Sometimes work is more important than sometimes real life is more important. How did you deal with that well. You know. I'm so proud of myself. As i really did. Learn that less than nine hundred hartwig but missy all these big mouths on things like i talk about the book wedding not miss. My mom's a lot to cover is but like just recently last year in february on. My dad's birthday was on every eight. And i got a chance to celebrity family feud and they just happened to be taken off every nama old. Daddy is celebrity. Family feud is abc. Even in front of the network situations so dan. i'm not be the bedia into my parents. My parents it a type of people that would definitely be like the electron you. She'd go. Beverly your data understanding you. You see the next day. Notices ninety and on alcohol out any league on the radio gandhi t and said you know. My dad's birthday is the ada can't go and do it will change the debt so he changed date and i went to my dad's nine did as you read the book. It pass away open missed. That would be that the element give the interview. I've been living now. Bevy fastened expert and somebody who came up during the time when they were not allowed to black people in business. Do you think that things have gotten better and that respect now because you see a lot of these mistakes that these luxury brands have made and then they have to call in and try to figure out a way to fix an right their wrongs and then you also talked about how fashion plays into the insecurities that we have so. I just want to know what you think. Improvements have been made with that while you know. I think that the other keep our literally on the backs. Make them give us what we deserved. Earn culture is pop culture food crowd. Be a flop is not a. It was literally in our culture. Dna and so they need to respect and understand that and so we can no longer be okay with just like taking scraps. That's what he's my respect. Where kirby's over parma's I was Until for a mistake the gospel one out there in being ruled renegade about it in your face and the old the note that the powell bevy. Kobe was hard on so many people's mental health. I read the article. You know where you was talking about. You know how you were dealing with your mental health during the pandemic. How did you especially after the passing. Honestly sean. I don't think any of us really really dealt with in the middle of endemic right so i think this is gonna beat years a bus now going to be dealing with the conscience of it also to for any of us that acco bid you know. We don't know how we rest as time goes on their peak. Meet me in the. That's about maybe later on down the line issues and different things that also the on days just mentally still under duress and so for me. It's so funny. Because as soon as called his army. I got back into earth. Like i got into therapy in watch margin than kobe like maybe march thirteen was. The avenue needed. That that's really helped me. There was a family and my friends certainly earned especially after my dad. A desperately needed someone to talk to guys. You know it's just so surreal. I got well and then my dad hats. Were you able to go to the funeral. That was awful to charlemagne night. My mom is like was ninety. Two times nine hundred. Thousand burke davis january as happy and the doctors. Like your mother should not go again. It was eight will so they really didn't know anything about the disease at that. Point was i cannot nacho to. My husband's more us happen. That has nets. We could not sit near her. She had to send the poobah a hug them. You know by herself. We had no white speak at the funeral. Everyone's museum i was able to get in testified. Abbas negative so. I was able to call on the members of my family that were stay and could not able to him. You got to celebrate a life forever. You know what i mean. You can't can't leave it at one. Ceremony carter funeral. Yes you know what. I want to ask when you when you were heavy into the fashion thing and you travelling back and forth. How difficult was it for you. Because i know it's difficult for women but being a black woman. I i know it had to be even crazier in like i. I've seen what they said about. Alexander wang the other day and some of the things that you know people had to deal with around him. What did you have to deal with. I'm sure it had to be crazy. You know what wasn't upper your face crazy like that on an update because the bad trump was so people also deeply revolve with celebrities like thoughts of milan and we took Ti and to of big celebrities. Both on and everything. So we we were so coveted face. The one thing i will say is that it was the micro aggressions that happen right on the and it was one of those things where we always have to make sure we insured. We got the right table at the right. The right from wrong seat on those kinds of things be would always say. He flipped on their backs and make sure that they were giving us what we deserve. And we did not accept an insurance and the You know in bilkent him who was fashion at the person became the editor in chief. A by i remember when he did really from cover up little. Kim any literally couldn't get in she had A beautiful out in when he called over to the office would not give shoes and then iman was best friends with miss. The blahnik league laver note she woke up and got all the go back and yet the flat in use a supermodel. It gets done that. I mean tim was international. Saw is international dog rain for them were their basic things with that when it came to rolling stone because you went into rolling stone after that so would that call. It have gone differently into. Let the the difference. My lops that own stem they did. What blackhawks on so you had the tips outright win the blackie like back. When i was the it was crazy they would rather put a dead did want damn public and beyond sectarian and they used to tell us magazine daft exactly why. I purposely get members of the beatles. Wrong just to his white people off. I'll be like elton. John was in the beatles thing within the beatles. I do that on purpose. Because i know how much they love the beatles bankers again i was in two thousand and two thousand four. And why was. I only latte from sin in any kind of management space. And i'm big glitch. Beat racket be receptionist in the ms of the now sued as to when it comes. Racism is weird eat yet sometimes even did good entry level jobs if someone reception. That's the base of of often enjoyed. And they didn't want that but they got back the woman they steered. I don't you. Beverly smith we come back. Is the breakfast club. Good morning everybody is. Tj envy angela. Ye shall i mean the guy. We are the breakfast club. We still have. Beverly smith joining us showing. Gee i want. I want to ask you to beverly. We live in his era now. Especially like i guess in the fashion industry like you know beauty comes in so many different forms now right but but what ways does the fashion industry still like thrive on the insecurities women allowed. Yeah i mean listen. Percival by the epa dogmeat dollars dominates so now body positivity adverts new skin color is but those saints are only them because it means that they get to make more much they literally really care. No we saw on over the holidays. Won't these white magazines not their lack. His giving guides what all these years. You'll have any like you've got all a so many different fashion magazines. They all wanted to talk to you now. I'm sure you guys got walls of white fitness magazines batch magazines and different things. We will invite us preparations. When have you on to come talk about diversity but you will say about that antelope. That'll get us. That nice checks for my own and equity in lot of these situations. Yes exactly so school. Well i take it that way. But i don't like these false platitudes. We need to do something to ask you one more thing to so when it came to dating. Because you tell you did friends cranes in the sky salons this song and exit away and all of that and we talk about balance. Were you able to have a relationship while you're doing the things that you while you were working the way they were because work was priority for you. Your relationships was the original laurie. Harvey woman should be doing because one. You wanna have stories unicef juicy things you know in the book. I don't name names. But no i had. I had my share of down. This were no well and the next night. And so when i'm eight hundred ninety number eight out i'll do the quincy jones thing and name. Now keep up labatt coming up so so you'll got the ring ring that balance tells you from all the outside of the old days you know. We never went home to saying wage wise. See your whole now see. That's a good i gotta. Og question for you to how how do you think. Social media's impacted everybody's overall quality of life when you come from that type of era. I think is really good in the way that now. We don't have to wait for the gate heap. The open up the gates in lettuce we can build our own brands have own content. And things like that. That's awesome worthwhile to me about social media. See the way stand-down borough we. All janson is on album out from hotel. Classic classic amazing. But when you're listening to any talking about you know why they win on the south by the rules of the instagram shakes win and all that stuff gate that because it's a false narrative you know it does feel like when you're on the those on that two men that's not true but it's just for section versus reality and so a lot of times the reception such media is also speaking speaking of perception. Why did you once again. I don't wanna give away too much from bev relations. But why did you hide the fact that you had a successful advertising career when you were in the world of hip hop sir this money your boss crazy because nowadays that would be embraced that now that would be celebrated the back. Then you desire to hear that you know couldn't hang out because you had as you were in you and you had a big test coming up. No one wanted to hear that. She couldn't lead the club and go to virginia beach a beach. Myrtle beach close. Hope you're not. obviously you did. The act. two sets was really an option. The be so many of us guys a kid they just want. The company has young number that to you know bevy for queen. Utah is lived Would you rather have the air as prayer or laurie. Harvey's finesse all no. I'm going to make a choice. I didn't really see the harvey. We only roy tarpley out either way Harvey might get all dump assing on us and and get out by the hidden. Good which is what needs to book. I'll see that the eight. That's when you age too long party. I think probably stay a little longer for making us. I think you've now agent problem around thirty five dame's eights around twenty eight s when you stop latin jove's and some big article threaten to donate car window at the four seasons hotel because i told him that wants to the as and instead of coming back to this hotel because of our q roberson facilities at see store history about a young girl. Okay i was wrong in. That meant i was suit all the be outside like that as i could. No longer than than that was cute. Yeah i agree with you. And i mean even look at. Sierra sierra did the same thing sierra would fifty inch us with few chin. Bow and do what everybody does she got growing may ask before we go bevy. Tell him tell him. What beverly means are is fab- relations is really about the honesty authenticity and so it comes from the fact that like when when i i doubt it was about that relations abbas doing a reporting on the street we ask people questions and then when i got my radio show it was it was based on what my guess accommodate give answers as a lattanzio only suppress jump. It's baba's like give me a better relation and now the beverly relates to me. I'll give me my relations. This is matt among these are roof module lessons. They're out to you. Know the way i did not that you can just go out there and grab bevy. Smith's book beverly lessons from a mother. Auntie embed bevy. You are a treasure. I appreciate you so much value so much. i appreciate. You got so ready to do this. Elaborate thanking envy. thank charlemagne. thank you angela. We do it in person. We see in person. Yes i would be really nice best breakfast. 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And they're saying it's going to be part of the marvel cinematic universe ryan reynolds is overseeing a script to right now this year but ryan reynolds did screenshot a tweet featuring the news and he said first order of business. Find the guy who killed bambi. Mom hashtag deadpool. three. I love it. Travelling include with that through in the most important part of that story that it will be a part of the marvel cinematic universe. I can't wait. I right now. Let's get back to this whole karen. Let's discuss part. Two of our interview with gayle king and my upon seto is her name. She's the one who attacked fourteen year old and falsely accused him of stealing her phone. Now she said that she is not racist. Listen i wasn't racial profiling whatsoever. I'm a woman. I'm puerto rican and women of color. I my talion. Greek puerto rican. You keep saying you're puerto rican just in. You can't be racist because you're saying you're woman of color. Is that what you mean exactly. Well i i would disagree. That people of color can be racist to. Do you believe that you should pay a price for this. Don't feel that. My accusation is a crime. Drama people can puerto ricans. Gas travels drama. I say yes. Yes they can be racist and of course now. She's she's the one traumatize. Even though this fourteen year old went through her yelling and accusing him you seem to be not remorseful to have no contrition. You have to understand for this teenage boy. Who says that. He was shattered said that he was traumatized. This item traumatize traumatized to be sorry. Sorry from the bottom of my heart. He has honestly he's fourteen. That's what what they're finding is. Take you live. Probably just the same amount of my like honestly. I'm just as a kid at heart as he is not women crazy. Well listen in the next hour. We're going to get to what kion harold. Juniors parents had to say because they also did an interview. And we'll play that in the next hour to talk to my therapist about this situation. Because all i keep feeling this young lady needs violence. And i don't wanna feel like. I felt like gale should've backhanded her. When she said enough. You know what i mean. And i'd feel like you know that that young man sister should put hands on her mom or somebody gale wasn't impersonate weren't in person or they weren't no. Oh my momma would still find a way to back me too. God damn right. I remember one time. I was on like ow four and my mom was calling me on like out three in a food lion and i said something under my breath and feel like her hand would like mrs incredible came all the way around the allergies. Bow backhand all right. Well he given that donkey tumor. You know they're the mom speaking of moms Marta shanley you know martinez demaim of one of the members of our crack. Okay and she needs to come to the front of the congregation. We like to have a war with its warning right. We'll get into that next. Keep the breakfast club. good morning. it's time off call. Eight hundred eight five one five one to join into the discussion with the breakfast glove morning. Everybody is sticky j. envy. Angela ye shall i mean the guy we all the breakfast club. Nephew just joined us. We were talking about Donkey today sheldon today to knock a day went to a mar for chandler. She's the mother of jacob. Anthony chan leaves the guy that was dressed like You know He he didn't know whether you wanted to be in minnesota. Vikings fan our new england patriots fan. He had the horns and deferred new face paint and she's trying to bite him not receiving organic food in jail. All right so we're asking five eight five one zero five. What would you support your son or your child. Why she supporting her child I'll stop myself. How you absolutely must undo something stupid. Like her son and he got locked up for. I will try to support them as much as possible. That that's me as a dad. Yeah if he if he used organic food a dry not him gama trauma heart. I'm gonna try to get him out. I'm gonna try to make sure he's okay protected whoop his ass for the dumb ish that he did. But i'm going to support my kid regardless always also as parents. Yeah i mean you only you. Don't stop loving a person. i mean. that's your child you know i- i- instill in my children that you know that there are consequences and repercussions to that actions But it is something that you know. We just really can't do too much for our kids about you. Know my dad would always tell me that trouble is easy to get into hard to get out of and this would be one of those situations you know what i mean but i mean that's still my as still my child no matter what you do like i'm not. I'm not going jump out. Dan unapologetic like mafia. Chancellor was and be like you know my. My child did nothing wrong. You know. i support what my child did. But i will support my child in that situation without support and what my child correct and and that's what i would do it. I mean i know. You've been in trouble before i've been in trouble before. I think i first person that was there for me to make sure on bail me out was my mother and dad like was my mother father now when we got home in their car you know they gave me how but in front of everybody. They like that's a son. I need to get my son. And i think that's with any parent should do. What she did was fine but saying that what he did wasn't bad was yet i was wrong. Yeah yeah that was ridiculous. Her her being unapologetic about what he actually did is the problem her being a mother and supporting her her child when he when he's down i expect expected. That's what mothers do. Mother's love is unconditional. Parents should be on condition now if they wanted to support donald trump. That's fine if you wanted to go to the protest that's fine but then when you going into that building and do something illegal. Now you're on your own you stupid dumb. Bush asked when you get out all right. Well let's go to the phone lines if there's any left from when you get out of jail mr it was wrong with you. Pin hello this. Carry from florida down here. You clearly caucasian. Aren't you good morning to you. I am caucasian. I am a white female down here and one of the most prominent rich areas of florida are huge. Sorry i can't stand the things that are going on in the capital right now and i think our biggest thing that we need to do. As white people and allies with bill. I'm movement is to educate our children and teach them that this has been going on for hundreds and hundreds and hundreds of years and that we have to stop it has to stop. There is so much white privilege in this country. I dropped out into a huge conversation with some of my white trend and these had. Oh i grew up. Poor white privilege has nothing to do with property. Perfect this thinking that you can go into a capitol building and do all the things that they did the other day out. Walk right out and find them. Come on now. Do you have any kids i do. I'm eight year old daughter. Now let's let's say a daughter was older and did that and ran up in the capital and got arrested. Would you support your child. What would you do in that situation absolutely not. I am teaching my child at a young age right now. That does not what we do. This is not what the homes family does down here. We take care of ourselves. We take care of our brothers and sisters. I'm a huge ally with the blm movement. I think that it all starts with the raising of the children and yes they will get caught in the system. Some some people will get lost because their parents haven't taught them this. But i think that us as allies and everything that we have to teach our children that this is not okay and startup of kerry. Let me tell you don white people like you give me hope Only thing still making me feel pessimistic about you. Is that your from florida other than man. We all carry. We appreciate you for checking in drama rudely gonna get to now hands eight hundred five eight five one zero five four acts. Where asking would you support your child if they ran up in. The capitol building got arrested and nita's more canned food in jail. Would you support your child. Call us up. Now's the breakfast locomotive morning and your opinions to the breakfast morning everybody is. Dj envy angela. We shall meet guy. We are the breakfast club and we apologized. Care who called that dramas hung up on so disrespectful. I you you be loved to hang up on you and dropping people who follow its equality which spread treated the same. You got your mask quality. So you've got an organic dick. Cheney dick van dyke asomani zone either or on it anyway. Let's open up the phone lines. Eight five eight five one zero five while we're asking if your child rand capital bill in and got arrested. Would you support him like the mom supported. Her son said my son or get forty in jail. Would you support your child like that. Hello who's this good morning. My name is melissa. Melissa your another one of our fateful caucasian white caucasian listeners. Right actually my children are what do you i'm on. I'm along for the ride listening to the show and they got you all you can really okay all right. She's caucasian told you to call in now. Actually i just dropped my daughter off at school. And i heard What you said on the on air. Oh okay what are your thoughts. What would you do. Won't my thoughts are. I would not approve of what he did. And i would not tell people that what he did was right. I would support my son but Breaking into the white house destroying property and Frankly destroying any property rioting and Burning down cities is wrong. No matter what color you are so would you in jail or would you try to curb. you're trying to equate. The black lives matter protest and there. There was people that was looting and rioting during that they weren't part in protest the big difference between a calculated strike on the capitol building is the mostly peaceful protest for blacklivesmatter. What i agree. With the fact. I would support my child. I wouldn't support what they do. And and I'm just saying either is no no no. I mean listen yes. Looting and rioting is wrong but that's not what b. m. protests we're doing but that's not what we're talking about right now my i mean it's still curb all kind of normalizing we're just asking if your daughter or your son ran up into the capitol building in wild out. Would you support him or would you just leave him there. Absolutely i would support him but he would stay there that's his decision and Honestly i think that We're all being played here. Talk to us melissa. Come on give some of that. Good cunard conspiracy theories no. I think we're all being played here here against each other. And i don't think it's right. I grew up on the south side of fort wayne. I went to southside high school. You know i have black friends. We will cool right to know this morning. Stasi balaji dad. You gotta black must be right there conversations that you too good to ask her next your kids actually there last week and i feel like they might have been travels got magazine. Puerto rican friends tall. Dammit hello radio anymore going on this boy. Chokes yada harlem I'm calling about the question. Roku only no one. And he's from south carolina sir. So chuck disappoint you. Got that pope. I with the folks got me a sandwich charlene and i love you I wanna send you a copy of my book. Because i think it would be good for that these inventory. Stop the mo- input cheesy mole bracelets. I sent you a text message. They are garbage. The real reason. I'm calling the You've been honing more. You pass a whole lot. You you'd be selling all types of things on. Facebook played only as you selling the tennis bracelet on facebook into bracelets. Okay please stop telling people that. The public defenders office is a cheap broke way for people to get legal defense. Does the extra. I don't know what it's not a poor minute service. No defended for office. So you tell you telling me that. Maybe we've got working on the legal service you telling me people heart you telling me people who got money high public defenders now no. I'm not saying that. What i'm saying is i just don't want you to denigrate the public dolphins in your segment. You said that they will like format for no. You know what i know. I didn't what i said was said was. This dude is is begging for organic food in jail so he can afford organic food on the outside but can't afford a real lawyer on inside. That's what i said. I'm not disagreeing with you. Agree with everything you said has a represented over the public defenders office. Please talk about how to fund the more so that way they would have the exit service in the middle of the king. Like other guys. You sound hungry king. No what are you going to give him king. You sound hungry. No no i just want you to talk about more funding for defunding. Police said that money other places while true in true true true budget their true. This wasn't necessarily the topic this morning. But this is the people show so if you wanted to switch the topic you have the right to stephen say. Just create the conversation to go to another compensation to create a broader s. Right challenge all day. That's right well. Thank you for calling one test wearing another thing. I want to know what he's bracelets on it. I'm selling. I can't believe you on facebook. Selling ten braces gain either. I didn't know that either. I wanna lease back. My pc my cut all right well. What's the moral of the story. I'm confused. I don't even know what the hell we talk about. I don't even know what we started talking about what we just finished talking about. I'm just hit sipping my starbucks team mccower. Well if you're looking for a bracelets go to my facebook page. Allegedly i'm selling modern. I i i wanna see these bracelets talk show. I mean they might be go meet a whole whole lot of envy fans on only feet fans mean and selling tennis bracelets on my face he while they why not pandemic well. We got come. Yes let's talk. A beth is revival. Show where the cast members they make more than one million dollars per episode. all right. we'll get into an excellent dj nbc bracelets and we got auto move. Is the breakfast club. Good morning waco. The breakfast club. Hey morning everybody is. Dj envy. Shall i charlemagne the guy. We are the breakfast club we lost ye on on revoke volt among show is over. Way lavish automate. I'm laughing shaven right now. This is little stupid stuff like they posted the video of don lemon crying and rick. Ross this post under it. Levin pepple knows lemon pepper. Let's get to the road let's go. It's about this. Is the rumor report angeliki on the breakfast club earlier. We played you the video. The audio of the woman who attacked kion herald junior the fourteen year. Old in. we're calling her soho karen. She does not feel like she had done anything wrong. Well now the parents kion. Harold junior are speaking out about The woman actually attacking their son and accusing him of stealing a cell phone and she was completely wrong when that happened. Here is what they had to say about. What happened in the hotel about her apology. I feel like her apology was as genuine as when she's just you. You're twenty two said a lot. I have a issue with the idea of entitlement versus character. Basically when it comes to policy he said soho right Okay so i right now. Can't junior's mother also spoke about the trauma that he suffering from and she spoke about an incident that happened between the two of them showing how traumatized he is. When i went to hug him from behind he tends he literally turns them said. Mom can i ask do not salute it. Can't he keeps on asking the question. Why why why you know. I wouldn't steal anything. I didn't know her as a mother to have that answer that question. She can feel her sons trouble. Because usually when you know you get from the back you relax and you were going to say something about that. What china what's wrong. What is wrong with joe. You know what. I'm talking all right now. Sex in the city the cast that show. We already is coming back to hbo. Max it's in the works. The women are going to be making one more than one million dollars per episode. There have been ten half hour episodes. That have been ordered. Production most start in late spring with nobody. Got a girlfriend mini series. They got a budget for another sex in the city project paying them women a million dollars a piece but nobody got a budget for us Girlfriends miniseries what about his girlfriend's plans that need closure they put it up on net flicks. It broke records on netflix. Scream and why. We can't get a mini series. But we get another second who asks for that. Let's get it done. get it done now. Kevin hart assigned a four film. Netflix deal maybe he can get it done. Kevin can't do. It can't be done me. So this partnership caused for kevin hart to be the star of at least four films that he's produce with the first look producing deal as part of that as well so they made a big commitment with this and kevin hart said partnering with net. Flicks is an amazing opportunity for heart beating myself. I'm excited to act in and produce cutting edge fields at netflix. I'm extremely grateful to ted. Serrano's and scott stupid. We share the same creative vision and always put the audience. I trouble include kevin. Hart if there's one thing ever knows how to do is how to get that opportunity and that money out of these damn corporate people. He knows how to get that show. yes he does. That's one of my business partners. The last time. Netflix has done a commitment like this. It was with adam sandler and they said it was in the one hundred and fifty million dollar vicinity. Get all right. Well that is. And i do wanna play this to the boseman's widow taylor simone that we're boseman. She made a very rare public appearance. this is the first time she's spoken since he's his passing and yesterday she did accept the gotham awards tribute prize in his honour. Listen to this. It is my honor to receive this award on behalf of my husband an acknowledgement not only of his profound work of his impact on this industry in this world shod. Thank you i love you. I am so proud of you. Keep shining your light on us. Trouble includes bombs from my south carolina. New chad with bows and hear that we need to get that statue up with chadwick chadwick boseman in south carolina. All right put. Scott you up anderson anderson south carolina bill de statute. Dammit charly really deserves it. That is your room a report. All right we'll shout to revolt. We'll see you tomorrow. everybody else. People's choice mixes up next marine birthday. So we saw and and android quantity on yup. So we'll get someone i own mix you in enrico onto. Yeah some recall mary the home. It's the breakfast club. good morning. That was pick up your feelings wanting everybody disrespectfully for you. Not disrespectful it is for a woman to tell you. Pick up your feeling. Can you imagine person told you to pick up your feelings. Sounds like somebody said that to you before you pick up your feelings. I'm to say well you know you might wanna go pick up you valtrex then okay because we got unprotected sex. Not that. I have her but somebody herpes say that i would say that because my feelings hurt and my eagle would be so hurt. You know what i'm saying. Men have very fragile eagles. My ego would be so hard. I would say something like that. I'm sure i'm sure. I would let me ask you a question Back in india day right back back back long time ago right. Yes when a young lady. Witless you in the house. Because she felt that you were would dirty. What what what. What was your reply. That never happened a woman. She never said. I was too dirty. Where'd you get this from you. Why didn't let you help. she's embarrassed. No man listen listen girl smut guys out to you know see. That's me now. 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Marc and Bevy Smith discuss Bevy's new book; "Bevelations"

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Marc and Bevy Smith discuss Bevy's new book; "Bevelations"

"The following podcast is an embassy row. Production hey everybody. I'm marc lamont hill owner uncle. Bobby's coffee and books. I am a professor a scholar and most importantly buchner. I say book nerd. Because i don't just love to read books. I'm the person who loves to read about the book. I love hearing authors talk about how or why they wrote the book and i love talking to other book nerds about their favorite books. That's why i started coffee in books. It's a podcast all about books. Every episode high. Sit down over a cup of coffee with the world's biggest authors to discuss the most interesting controversial fund or important books. And sometimes i hang out with experts fans another special guest talking about some of the greatest books of all time and today is a big honor for me. It is a big honor for the show. We got a living legend in the building right now and she has. A new book is called beverly lessons from mother. Auntie best bevy. Smith is here good to see you. I'm so happy to see you the be with you. This is like a dream to be on your show dreamed of being uncle. Bobby's i love. I'm so excited to have you on. You know a lotta times on this show. We get people who write certain kinds of books and tell certain kinds of stories not said when we started to show. I wanted to all kinds of stories and have all kinds of people and this is by far the most fun but government is yes. It's the most fun is the most funny is the most personable book is one of the most engaged in books. I've read that we've had. It was fun to read. And even though i know you see you and talk to you all the time working in the industry i learned so much about you by reading the book and i hope that's what you wanted from people that's definitely without one eight. I wanted to set the stage for magnetic in life and so when you are kind of like shrouded by these personas that we build up. That will only do service at some point in time and then all of a sudden you find that. They're kind of like gilded cages ahead. So i set my gosh. This book is an opportunity. Let people know all about me and all my different interests also my background and then that will open up new doors for me in the already has been out one day. I see it everywhere. You don't have a bookstore. So i save a people come in asking about it for the last two weeks and that's a good sign like a lot of times. People will buy a book if they see on the shelf. But i always get excited when people don't see it on the shelf and ask about it. People that michelle obama they did it with tiffany haddish gabrielle union. And they're doing it with your book and so there's a lot of energy behind this book. And i i'm super excited about it. What major do a book. There's a lot of content out that you can do videos. You could do y honestly. It's because the people want me to do a book. It was literally everyone from people that i interact with on social media Celebrities that interviewed many was also my agents. Were like you should do a book and win by agents said it to me on with ca at a time when the largest talent agencies and when she said it to me. I'm like yeah. Okay yeah. I should do a book like you. I'm a book nerd. But i'm also older than you and so for me. People wrote memoirs when they were in their seventies eighties nineties so for me to write a book in my fifties was just like right now. I don't i. The story still had so much left to be told but then. I realized that i could do this. Take one part of my story. Intel that done with bev relations and so wants to agent said that to me. And and once i secured the book deal quite easily. You know. knock wood and give thanks. I was like all get in the book now. And that's what happened was book. You definitely did. You got a book deal. What i thought was interesting was that the book is on andy. Cohen's book imprint yet. Which i was excited about. Obviously you know we got all kinds of connections to show has a lot of professional connections to india and watch what happens. But i like andy personally and like kind of product he puts out and i was curious to know what kind of books come out on a book imprint for any you know and the ambiance which i was a little bit worried that the book might be just about celebrity gossip that it wouldn't be a did i read it. I was like oh no we go learn something today. Yeah we all learned something today and also to mark. I don't really care about celebrity gossip so when my shook my radio show babylon. I literally do not ask celebrities about their personal. I believe kia. Will you sleeping with any of that craft. I care about how you got to wig. Are those kinds of things. I like origin stories with. So i don't care about sleeping with us and that's why even talking to another interview and they were like those interesting that you have slept with prominent people that you don't name them in the book last year because it's not about that and i certainly didn't want him to be defined by the famous midnight slept so i'm certainly not on the name them also to Toward tacky so the book deal exactly. I'll talk trash about tawdry tacky. But i will read it but but that's a hard thing i mean. Was there any temptation or even. Some station was any pressure from publishing industry to get you to write a different kind of book of daily. Do whatever you want to do. I'm so blessed highly paper. I came in with one page of what what the book would be and they were like we love it. We wanna buy it. Wow okay for you. Book nerds an aspiring writers. Maybe it's scrap it. Something almost like sitting in a diner getting picked for like a hollywood movie or like most of a lot of people like thirty forty six hundred pages to get a book proposal in agent might take you and then you have the publisher. Mike read it and you might get up offer but you're standing on a reputation you're standing on the platform already have and people know at a great story. Obviously that you offer and so i. I think it's not just look. This is a testimony talent in which built them. And most importantly what i think everyone can relate to it's about relationships and how you carry yourself in this world in this life you know mark i love and respect you so much i love what you do and by the time i became aware of view. I'm very seasoned person in a lot of different spaces so a lot of people may or may not have wanted to even take the time to even know the new people that come up in buzzing the law. That kind of stuff. But the. I'm the person i was when the was new was next. You will what's new. What's next was hat I have a real vested interest in making sure. I'm up to date on what's going on. And what that means is that my relationships spam from an eight year old multi millionaire who lives on the upper east side to a young ace effort united mean related to spend that kind of think now. I think that that's something. I really wanted to give you the question. The book too is that you know a lot of time to talk about networking. And i don't like the use term that were because i feel there's predatory and said i'd like to connect with people in the gannett way so when i meet lem marc lamont hill. Because i've heard so much about the nice seen on tv. I'm meeting him. Not because i'm angling. Get something out of him. There's nothing for me to get out of. Marc lamont hill. Initially right at that point. When i meet you. You don't have this podcast. You don't. You're not doing all the tv that you're doing all of that but to are hella smart revenue incredible point of view. So i wanna just know you and then of course it turns out your winner so guess you at once and now you can help me from my book. Look at that this shady. If i had been my darling who is the which would a lot of people do you get visits. They do their goals. And that's they knows all day and asked. Why win. Because i really genuinely liked people and i. I do not pick winners. I will say talent. If if what you do better yourself in fact the book starts in a really interesting place right because you have two different lives people who bevy as this. Tv person his radio star in the now a bestselling author and there are people who knew you from the fashion world and as an advertising executive in someone from rolling stone involved and you could have lived the either of those people the whole careers living in either of those worlds. But something came to you. That i thought was really interesting. You had the big job. You had the job those a lot of money when we were making a lot of money and you said i gotta be out. You walked away from rolling stone. Why because i just simply wasn't happy there was a a a malays that fell over me in my life will the first mark you know. I didn't even know i was depressed. You know. I just knew that. I was trying to get to happy and i'm willing to call the depression but i definitely was trying to shop the way i talk about being a shopaholic i definitely try the sex of the way heavy cracking up. I mean you saw the fear you had all this stuff that can have had a crack in the. I tried to do a lot of things to squelch down that feeling of unhappiness or them a real disease in my spirit. And when i got him along the part the book you talking about is when i get along and i am living the dream i have my regular driver at my regular corner suite by the cup yellow. You know. I have useful gifts waiting for me when i arrive in milan in. Keep this in mind. I'm for one hundred fiftieth street and they dabble so this not like. I grew up like this. This is really like me working hard and get to this place. And then i get to this room suite at the first class flight and all the things and i have on my coat. It's all the things. It's so glamorous. It's very dying town. Why can't wait to see the movie that seen the movie is going to be everything and i get there and just plop down on the bed and i start crying and i say this could not be my life and that's when i made a decision that this wasn't going to be my life by the time mark. I was going to change my life. But i knew i needed to make a change in the first thing i did was i decided i was gonna call myself bambi vs beverly right. And that was the rule tiny change. That was a little tiny will signal to myself into. The world is something new was coming. Something was brewing. That's such an interesting choice. I kind of laugh to myself. As i didn't know that other people had those kinds of thoughts when you say why can't be best because a journalist i can't be be smith because she's the restaurant tore legendary piece and i had the same thing i remember when i first started out as a writer and i was like. Wow i can't be. Mark hill is playing. We google a million other. People came out and there was a baseball player. Some white baseball today. Marc i'll do l. But then you just say l. people in the middle initials let me put the whole. I knew i was very intentional about it. As a way of imagine what my career will look like an. I didn't know when you read that. You almost give you permission to feel okay about that. Like i didn't realize that other people may those kinds of decisions. Yeah i mean you know what people call you. It's very important in life. And those of us. Who have made these determinations and have made these bold proclamations locations. You will call me this a lot of power in that. you know. lisa. Ray will now allow you to call police. She is lisa ray right right. I met at it and there's so many lessons. Y'all in this book that i that i took from in terms of not just being self aware of critical but also disciplined patients. Timing all these other things. Mona hits you when you say. Oh this ain't it for me anymore. I need to do something different. But you don't just walk away right like you understood as a process a little bit about how you understand it yes. I'm thirty three when i have them into. Milan breakdown right on thirty three years. Old nine to change my life and so the first thing i do is change the name but it takes five years for me to go from that milan hotel room to go to actually quitting my job. At that point. I was rolling stone magazine and then i quit my job. It took five years because initially mark. I didn't even know what the heck i wanted to do. I just knew. I didn't wanna do what i was currently doing. So the figure out. Well what's making me unhappy. And i knew it was the fashion industry that was really eroding. Might spirit the way. That i was working in it. That's not to say all fashion is toxic. But the way. I was working in the. You know the pill add small year was not. It was not healthy for me. Why back behavior was definitely rewarded. So now you could never have ten assistance in five years. But certainly i did right. That's not okay. Now you said that. The bible i was a little surprised. You said that you were tough on assistance. And how much of that is just the culture fashion. We you know what i think. This is what i think. A boss supposed to look like and how much of it was just being unacquainted with how to do this new one of those things it was really it was tooth names. I assistant since like twenty six years old. So i'm grown. I'm a season professional at this point. What had happened was i was in sales. And it's very high pressure position to be in and i was not only responsible for my quota. I was responsible for a teams overseas war. People so i had to make sure that they brought in the money they were supposed to bring it as a very high stress thing in the also too. I was working at vibe magazine. Which is a black culture magazine at the time. It was like the quintessential it was the alpha and omega of all those magazines but still i had the very tough job of trying to get high end luxury brands to even see the black consumer as a viable consumer at a lot of pressure on me and then of course i keep on the old school of being an assistant we are. I remember once my boss asked me at the. I'm visit sweden. He wanted some meantime berry juice and there was no computer back then. There was no internet when i was insisting her. I was in the eighties. So i had to literally figure out. I'm gonna find berry juice loss. You know what i did. Mark would i called up the swedish consulate in the new york city and said we're is a swedish grocery store in new york so i was ingenious and i was really smart as strategic about my gig and i expected that allah people. Now we all know everybody's different. And so when i was met with people who were kind of halfway lackadaisical about their kids and had a pursuits in everything i will go war but i also i also had less patients because i had no patience for myself either. You know it so it just became this thing where i was not happy as so might tone a little more terse than it needed to be but i tell you this in the redemption story from myself. I would say eight out of ten assistance. Have all come back to me and said you made me a better assistant. You train me really well. I think on my feet now things like that so you know it was a tough boot camp but it works. You know it reminds me of michael jordan. When i watched the jordan doc. I hear jordan's teammates talk. He says. I never asked other people to do what i'm not going to do. I don't push them harder than i push myself. But the problem is with high. Achieving people sometimes work with teams in. I've seen other people struggle with this like it's hard to understand why they can't just do that. Like why did you why this know. I was definitely i. Did you know how it's hard to get that out of people. It's great basketball player. Sometimes they'll make re coaches because they can't understand how other people would move it. Its own professional. Lesson have you. We always this driven like. Were you like the fifth grader. Who just had to finish everything on time and start your own business and do all those things. What's interesting about all of that. It's also too. I wasn't raised with the idea that i had to be two times better than white people either. Like i unhappy all those ideas in my head. What i did get my parents. This committee's it's a very strong severe work. So you're going to do the job at the job no matter how menial or low the job fairs. You're gonna come in your cell at the job so in that way. yes. I always what i was kind of lazy and then in my friends were like. There's no way you're lately because look at all the doodoo and what. I realized later the honest that are not exactly lazy but what i am is. I'm very particular about what i want to put my effort into And i didn't know that the time. But yeah i don't know how driven i i still can't sing. I'm driven. i will say that. I am and now the manifest some things that do not manifest some things and i'm not afraid of work but they're gonna have to be something that i wanna work at right but you but you also know how to create the space to be where you can do what you want in other words you like. You're like okay. Sales isn't for me right. I did it. I can do it but it ain't for me advertising. I'm good. I'm successful but it ain't for me and then you figured out what was for you. There was something interesting. I'm i'm trying. I'm trying to find that you can put you basically said something like this. Despite you would like thirty eight years. Like i i. I thought within a year. I'd have my own. Tv show. What you envision the next step at some point you knew what it was going to be talk a little bit about how you got to know that doing the tv show was your thing in white which is gonna get so quick okay while i have been blessed and fortunate to do the vibe awards but bonds were bentley. I didn't have a red carpet. I bob awards so imagine mark. You want like money your business. You're making a good six Salary fashion average. I made secular. And then the president of bob comes and says hey would you. In the vibe awards sponsored bentley is going to be hosting the red carpet for we feel like we need a female counterpart for him. Do you wanna do. It will okay. I the person that whenever i'm given opportunities. I really do sees them like that is definitely my gift. Now no matter. How much may have a trepidation. I'm on the go for that. Went forward and guess what mark i saw it. I remember that. That's so funny. I read it. I was so good in the whistle crazy ballots to my first time ever on. Tv was on a national show. It was on upn which was a big thing that there was a network and that was my first foray into tv. Go figure so. Her first book comes from a one pager. Her first tv deal came from a conversation in a request and this on national tv. My first job was a call. Black men screaming in brooklyn at be cat. I had to drive from philly to brooklyn back before green green in hoping car. Was there when i came back. So it's an amazing blessed but again you already in a position to be successful because you've already been successful in the industry and you'll get the tv book right away. Did you not just with what. I did that i was like. Oh i'm really good at that. Maybe that's what i gonna do. And so that was really interesting and the reason why i thought could get a tv show so quickly is because i disbelieve that i was just like well mix percents. I'm really good at tv. Someone show and then why wouldn day by the way the mark when you think about it. It's really ridiculous. Is a ludicrous idea. But the best part about it is is that i actually was for the tv show within six to eight months of quitting that job. And then i had to turn it down but his show on bravo called tim. Gunn's guide stone. And i was off at the gate to be his sidekick grapple with is a big deal and then i got the contract because i was a businesswoman. I know honda right. Rita contract and i was like oh well. This is a bad contract. This contract will have me on the side of the bus riding the bus unless it will. I don't want to do that. And they wouldn't negotiate because they didn't know why was right. It was so funny. I just recently talked to andy cohen about it and he was site. Will you make the right decision. I said well of course. I made the right decision. If taken the tim gun show. I would've never created dinner with battery. And if i hadn't created dinner with barry i wouldn't have all these grade a relationships with celebrities by don't have great abe religious celebrities not gonna get all the guests on aa shins and when i'm doing paid sixteen. Tv he won't talk to me or when i'm doing fashion. I can't great guests. So yes i needed to bet. Everything is as should as the big lessons in the book. Do very don't question the way things go now. Everything is as it should be now. That's that's a huge volition. it's an interesting thing. Though that you had the courage maybe comes from being seasoned in the business or just self confidence but everybody in this industry is offered bad contract and most of us take it and we say you know what. I'll just take this one. And then the next time around i'll get a better deal or i'll i'll get my name out there and then i'll be okay. And then the king of them all is when people offer you know money and say this is a good exposure for you. This is a good look for you and this generation jewish after me of creatives starting to say no. You're going to pay me but how hard was any party. Who afraid you know. What if i turned down this bad contract. I ain't get no other contract now. Because again i had only been. I left growing six to eight months prior and already got an offer and i'd gone into dung was ring tests and they gave me a contract two days later. I must be the bomb on the screen. Must be that love that. So why would i think is going to take seven years. Which took seven years rang. We'll take years. But yes. I kind of like knew that i would just be working on. Tv and i have worked steadily tv. Since i was offered the job. Now it took seven years actress. Start making money on tv and the mammoth about. A bad deal is this. I have really live with the idea that maybe the money wasn't right but extractions on the contract that made it so bad. And that's something. I wanna just stop down for a moment until to the view was just say. It's not just about money. You have to look at all the parameters all the strings are attached to projects working on if you are created you know so many times especially as black people we give out intellectual property salukis no money and we gotta stop at sometimes we have to sacrifice the chiming opportunity and hold the apple. Something that really will find this whole at the end of it. Because how many times are we gonna keep hearing the same story about people that feel bitter in jaded and cheated because they sign the really bad deal and i'm not saying about young people young people you are gonna do that. Woman and I attended nyu studied business. And i have been a fashion advertising executive for about two decades. So i should know better and i did and so i passed. I'm still impressed by that. I i got offered a bad deal a month ago and passed to you. But there's a small party but again but dissipation bills are over. What if this is my last chance. But you've got to ask chance not with all that talent. You have all the talent that you have you really proven that your viable credible helmet a media personality and right now we don't even need these networks to give us jobs anymore. We don't there so true it's a whole new world. I'm so glad that i'm still young enough in the same. Youthful mindset did. I don't feel beholden to these networks. These people will not wanna punk me into doing anything. Because i don't need you the way. I once did trauma time. You need it to be with a production company. That had tv into the into the connection and things like that. That's no longer the truth trouble to pivot a little bit. I i had. I laughed when i read the book. Because there's two books the anchor. Show the autobiography of malcolm x and are you there. God it's me margaret watts and in a lot of ways. Those are the two books that kind of defined my childhood. I grew up reading them. Both and i remember being as young team boy reading judy. Blume saying must have must buzz and it gave me so much insight into women into girlhood into trying to understand different things. And so what. I read that in the book i i smiled and made me laugh and it made me realize just how much we're connected in. Some people are connecting in ways. We don't even realize. But i think also people don't appreciate that someone like you. Someone who is read as beautiful. Someone who is read in the world innovate particular way of being. Glamorous etc had to navigate. Questions around body had to navigate questions around relationships have had to deal with the same bullshit that a whole bunch of people have to deal with growing up in this crazy world. And you let us into a little bit of that but we'll say. I was blessed and highly favored by grown up in harlem so when you walk in all black enclave so i didn't have by the image. I didn't haven't body image issues because who i am. Will i fall. When you see the books you'll see the throwbacks for you'll see viola was made about me honey and i gained way and i'm still shaped. We'll nice. I still got that form. Highly okay so anyway. Until i know these things about myself but when you grow up in a black brian man. You're not being put under. That bites gazed because right when i'm going out into the world and work in the white corporation and so mike models coming bill. The only thing i thought about them is they couldn't get anything going in my community. Nobody would want that. Nobody will in six foot woman way. One hundred twenty pounds by check him for that in my community and so this is value in the way i look in my community and so that's kind of what that my confidence and also my mom to nope beautiful fabulous woman who definitely let us know all the great things about ourselves so there is that but the world will try in voice on your ideas on you right. That's what i mean by body that you even have to be in conversation especially the conversation. It's so funny mark. Because when i wrote the book the one thing they did save me you do. A champion body positivity s now. They said one. Everyone's talking about. I said but i don't talk about body positivity rate. I'm positive about my body. Might they have a whole bunch of conversation about race. Still having a conversation about it becomes a thing. Now you wanna make thing. But i'm not gonna sceptre shit so you can go ahead and apparently how you want to but for me i'm bevy. This is my body. I like it in the story when having a big conversation about it. Is it hard. You talked about pre gentrified harlem where you're surrounded by this. I grew up in north philly in west philly. Where i i again. That was my image beauty. My image of beauty was you the girls. I knew look like you right. So but what does it mean now for this next generation who surrounded by instagram and that's great models but just images images of don't look like right. Do we have to do something different. This next generation gonna have the luxury of of of being able to develop that kind of since the stuff that we did out where it all starts at the home on my instagram. My mom was at my house with the book launch and my niece zam my sister and we took this beautiful baldo and i say it all comes from her. My mom is still these ideas into us about how you really work. And it wasn't like some self help you is kind. You is no. It was none of that it was. I got some pretty legs. Come over here and you know it's like those things it was like. Look how pretty my little girl is. It was a natural in berry organic. And guess would happen. My niece who was twenty six years old has a but that like instagram girls are literally going in paying for. She does not look at those women as she doesn't look at these images at achieve needs to do something different about herself like she she could feel like. Oh i need to get the tits ago with my genomics asked you need to concave my weights as she doesn't have any of that at home because a mother also did with my mom did for us. Catalog told her gifts had locked beauty. And one of the things i'm most proud about with my niece is that not only is. She's she's a very pretty girl in lovely girl but has spirit is divine in every way and so. We need to start doing that while girls. But there's nothing we can do about once they get outside by the build them up in the home They can go outside. They might have a fighting chance against this crazy world. That will tell you all kinds of negative things about yourself. These welts will tell you everything is wrong with you today on the computer in that beautiful family justice grab someone said the me guba. Bevy yuppie is screaming in them shoes asset so you bit three generations of women of lacking and the one thing you wanna talk about is the fact that i have on the six in team standing up. Mit discreet really saw. I said you must really be miserable. And then a block them. Of course you got to get. This was something very interesting about you. That are always really appreciate it. Which is that. You're very outgoing. You're you're connected to people you draw your drawing people. People are certainly drawn to you but also very private and then you write a memoir was talking to you about the process of that even as a writer like deciding what to share with For a lot of people like forcing them to pull back. Don't say don't tell them. Everything was the opposite for you. Like did they have to push the push ups. Okay i guess. I gotta give him so. I gotta talk about this relationship. I gotta talk about now. No now i didn't feel any pressure. I wrote this book. Exactly the one the right this book. I was so again blessed. I was no outside interference about this book. It was kind of surreal and crazy. I know not everyone else's experience. But i literally worked with yana bird. You know yanni of course from philly. He was my book doctor so she received the chapters before the publishing house receive them. Either yami because johnny was editor. When i i had a column at vibe vixen bevy says and yami was my editor and i trust on these two aerial of sensibility. And she certainly knows i since ability and i knew she'd be purpose. Look over everything of yanni will look at it in the number sending out to the phones and i'm literally not really get many notes uniting in it was really rate and one of the best things about working with and the over the years is that he never interferes my business. I remember when we had the meat nasa or the. How much are you going to be involved in this book. He said as much as little as you want me to be. Nasa okay as a propaganda and i never called them about the book. He read the muslim but two weeks ago on you. How did you decide what to share not share game. Memoirs are always a selective thing right. We always that what we want to let the world know what we don't whether it's about the fact that we're having sex or not having sex who we have sex with the not what our diet is where we go. What whatever you know. How'd you make those decisions. I knew that i wanted the book to help. People and i knew i had to be burnable in order to help bolts. Because i didn't want to leave this facade the fabulously so i was like. It's very important. So that people can see laws and foibles because then people will be all okay. She's just like me. And that's why i wanted to get to the core of little round baby. She's just like me. And so that's the reason why i had to put in the part about housing hort losing all of that income and then going broke in the middle of trying to change my life. I had been the salmon croquettes story and then that was the talk about being a woman who was so hung up or having a man save her in. That is so focused on that. That wasn't even really focused on relationships and from lanier would look like. I was very focused on but i been focused on man. I was really focused on me. And how they can help me achieve the life that me wanted so we had nothing to do with now and that's a very selfish way to live and so i had to also come clean about those things not what was important to do that because right now we're living in the world where we're all talking. No the birkin beds and talking about marriage is a goal in all those things. I have nothing against marriage. Nothing at all. God bless everybody. This married especially if you happening but okay but we not want shit on the on the parade okay. We want to them and we salute them but my thing was this. Marriage cannot be the goal for women because oftentimes about the divorce rate. Oftentimes it doesn't work out. So if you have a goal has willy. You're only part of the equation. That's a dangerous thing to put all your happiness on someone else and billy happiness is a solo project. You're supposed beyond beyond say when the comes to pursuing happiness. You can't be. Destiny's children dolly yet the beating solo artist when it comes to pursuing your happiness. You have to get the happy for yourself. And there's someone can add to it. We i'm at i'm what the the add to it speaking of adding to it. What what's next i mean. Is there a chance that tomorrow. You'll car andy cohen up or your call serious up and be like you know what i'm done. I i would move onto the next phase. I wanna do. I wanna be a chef. I mean like do you feel completely fulfilled now or will get greater later again. Announced announced is certainly greater later. Right so this book is actually the combination of my fifteen year. Journey is used to be considered. My new life is now just my life. Would you will me only stop. The comes up as bevy smith media personality in that means i fucking did it. Not set out fifteen his going to quit that job of only stone. I said out to be this person. I am today. I did. Owen had fought the you mom made it so guess what now angle rest on my laurels on madrid driven person in that way at do something another person that likes to paint by numbers. I'm outta wrote kind of person. So i'm always on to the next and so in the book i talk about what's next for me. Saw what i'm gonna do now. Mark is gonna do a show when the fairy godmother shell and this book bev relations lessons on my mother onto best bessie as actually gonna be the platform. It's going to be the catalyst for the show is i'm gonna get to show very Show and we're going to do all the work that we talk about. We espoused in this book. And we're gonna take it out into the world and into the field and we're going to help people manifest amazing things in their lives make changes some subtle. Some jain normal. But we're going to do that with the show. And i'll do that show for maybe only five years or so. I don't want to be on tv in my sixties. I have other fish to fry in the meantime in between time i recently signed a first look production deal with a television network. Some right now developing tb ideas and then in the book. Also if you remember. I said that when to get into art and architecture curation will guess what over the A different friend mine called me up and said that she wanted to contact some of my brains for very famous painters and i said why she i'm working on a movie i said. Oh you know my book. I talk about one. The art curator bright. And help you with this as she said. Yes so i did it so in the fourth quarter of twenty twenty one. You're going to be watching a movie and it's going to say arkansas alternate bevy smith. Wow i don't know what you don't do in which you can't do. I tell ya is never ever ever bet against bevy smith but before you go we got one more question for you. If there were three books in your life that help you or to help us understand. You are the three books that would tell the story of you if we if you want us to understand those three books be i gotta be so corny and the four agreements is. That really helped me really helped me get my mom right. It helped me become a nicer better person for a grievous changed my life. That is a rare books. By don miguel ruiz's called the four agreements of practice guide to personal freedom. Wes and that's what i'm always chasing this freedom. The other book that i read to change my life was the artist's way so unlike marc lamont hill i didn't know i was a creative And so when. I quit only stone. I had the clintons myself and the find a way to creativity end. This book will helped me to it. The book written by julia cameron and it really does give freed you up to say to acknowledge that everyone really is a creative creative spark in them and we just have lighted so that really helped me. I love that book by which is again a artist spiritual path to higher creativity but julia cameron. It really does get it. That spiritual peace of this of it and and honestly i would recommend anybody even if you already agreed or even if you don't think you're creative that book will help you expand your mind and your spirit to do all kinds of things even stuff that you don't see his creative work you'll do it differently. After you read that book. I wish last week. Oh gosh this dr seuss all the places you'll go and also all the babar books because i'm gonna write a children's book centered around little brown baby and it's going to be a mix of l. Elise is going to be a mix of baba and is going to be a mix of all the places. You'll go because little brown. Bobby is going to be a solo traveler as you go all over the world and she's gonna mimic me because i've been to concentrate except for Are and i'm going to get there. But yeah i'm a solo traveler. It opens you up in the world when you really go places by yourself because you're not behold into what other people want to do it also get to see it. Refresh is your own is. You're not distracted by someone else. So lou brown baby is going to be a children's book and she's going to be a solid traveler and that i was inspired by those books. Oh that's dope. Yo everybody make sure you check out those books. So betty how can people get a hold of you all. I'm everywhere. bevy. Smith this bevy smith into my website. Bevy smith dot com. If you wanna know where you can find me before my appearances and events and things like that all right in the book is called. Bev relations lessons from a mother. Auntie bessie it will soon be a it and claim it the way bevy do. It's going to be a new york. Times bestseller is going to be a hit is going to be a movie and it's going to be just another powerful testimony to how much of a force in the world bevy smith. Maybe i love. You is good to see you thank you. Thanks for hanging. Thank you thank you for listening to coffee and books. Make sure to follow us on instagram. With the handle coffee and books show. that's coffee. Eight n d books show. Also you can buy all the books that i've been discussing here at bookshop dot org slash shop slash uncle. Bobby's or you can go straight to uncle. Bobby's dot com. That's uncle b. o. B. b. i. e. s. dot com.

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Thursday, Jan. 28: Dr. Ashish Jha, Bevy Smith

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Thursday, Jan. 28: Dr. Ashish Jha, Bevy Smith

"Subscribe to our podcast to get hot topics delivered every afternoon. And while you're at it rate us in labor review of brand new views darts live right now. Hostile climate president biden make sweeping executive orders and seismic shifts on america's policies on climate change. You can't wait any longer. And his climate. Czar john kerry tells thousands of workers. Their industry is up in smoke. Coal plants have been closing in the last twenty years. He stirs up a storm of controversy from republicans. What an arrogant out of touch statement for senta milionaire to say plus leading covert expert. Dr a gye is live with the latest on president. Biden's vaccine rollout. The cdc saying schools can reopen and new mutant strains of the virus and bevy smith shares. The beverly that led to our journey from fashion ad. Exact db and radio host to author and beyond here come hot topics with whoopie. Sarah haynes joy behar sunny hostile and meghan mccain. now let's get things started to well. hello and welcome to the video. President biden is wasting no time cleaning up the mess. Is you know who left. And among his forty executive orders is a sweeping new policy on climate change biden's climate czar. John carey says it's time to put people to work in an energy industry with a future. Take a look. The president of the united states has expressed in every comment is made about climate. The need to grow the new jobs that pay better cleaner than i mean. You know you look at the consequences of black lung for minor for instance and measure that against the fastest growing job in the united states before covid was solar power technician. The same people can do those jobs but the choice of doing the solar power one now is a better choice getting slammed really hard on the other side of the aisle for being elitist and out of touch saying that. That's what you get out of that. I mean i'm sorry. Hillary clinton said the same thing there are better ways to do this than utilizing coal. Because you know coal is like whale oil. nobody's using it it just. It was a great industry. It's not there anymore. Nobody's taken away these jobs. It's dying industry and what's wrong with offering somebody a better opportunity. A is that unique joy. You don't you think everybody wanted to offer a better opportunity. Well this should be a bipartisan. Issue this affects everybody. Even ted cruz has to breathe the air and plenty of these people and joe biden. I say bravo to all these executive actions. He's got two years to do all these things before. The republican midterms take us back to the stone age. So let him do it. And by the way you know. Trump promised all these poor people in this coal mining industry. That they would have a job. You know that five thousand jobs were lost in the coal mining industry when he took office since he took office in clean energy jobs. Pay up to twenty five percent more than typical american jobs and then much more stable so there is a future here their their jobs to be had and clean air. Why this is not a bipartisan issue. I have no idea. This is an existential crisis. Every person in the world should be concerned about this. Not just democrats such a call carrier elitist and you know. Why do they keep feeding these poor american people. The rest of us lie after lie after lie. It's a polling. It's appalling well before we go to the next question. I want to show you a picture. That was england in the fifties and this is what it looked like seeing that. That's coal that's cole that smog. It's not anything but the burning of called. That's why the english said no more because it was really messing not only messing up the people that worked in the industry but was messing up the country. I mean what do you think of these executive orders particularly about climate change. Sarah well in general. I'm in theory. I'm never a big executive order person. Because i prefer the legislation but i also recognize in the history of every administration from both sides of the party. It's a pendulum swing. When each party takes over. They correct course with executive orders that have been done in the administration before. And then we move forward. I happen to strongly with the environmental aspect of these executive orders. Because i'm a big proponent for the environment so seeing these particularly i happen to really agree with these i think time is of the essence. They say if we even spent every day all behaving perfectly with recycling waste pollution etc. We've never get back what we've had for thousands millions of years. We've degraded this this earth and it's time to catch up right now but i feel like we. Also now that's the first step. We now have to find ways to pass legislation to keep these Safer and stronger so it doesn't just pendulum back within the next Administration moves in. Which is what really happens with these things. I also think we need to gear A lot of the funding in money towards these communities. Because i know people are losing their jobs. I recognize that. But this is where the future is headed. And regardless of how people consume what john kerry was saying. He's right this is the wave of the future is the new energy for economic money health these communities as joy referenced are also the ones that don't have air quality that have water that is unhealthy. It's killing off these communities as well. So i recognize their jobs but michael bloomberg has put millions of dollars into training. Some of these people and i don't know exactly how that looks but i know that has to be considered as important as the environmental aspects of moving forward right. What's your feeling on this. Megan as you see all this happening. What's your thought about the environment. What he's trying to do well. My first thought was john kerry. I am one of those people that thinks. It's deeply elitist. What he said is that john kerry owns a private jet and private jets exert forty times more carbon emissions than flying on a regular plane. And anyone who is going on television let alone working administration that just got rid of ten thousand jobs with the keystone pipeline. Shouldn't be riding around in a private jet. If it is this much of an existential threat as joe biden's administration saying many people believe and i to believe but i have a different way of going about the solutions. Then you shouldn't be flying around in private jets. And i think part of the problem is for average americans. They see deep hypocrisy in this because it seems to be that everyone should make a sacrifice whose middle class or below but no one in the in the elites needs to and. I just think it's ridiculous. I also think the way. John kerry's statements have been interpreted too many people not just on the right but many people in the middle is learn to code which was the answer to coal miners that they just needed to get into another industry and learn to code and he said learn to use solar we'll solar energy has been around since about the ninety s and i saw a clip of bill. Maher talking about how. He's been trying to install solar panels into his house in california which is a place that is obviously filled with people who are in agreement on climate change. And he can't get it installed. So i think it's ridiculous and in response to what sarah said about executive orders. I think you're one hundred percent. I worry about this seesawing pendulum going back and forth. Where we're just using executive orders to legislate and it's not just me and sarah that have criticism of the new york. Times has come out pretty hard criticism. The new york times isn't exactly a bastion of conservatism. Saying quote this is no way to make law. It's a flawed substitute for legislation. Now if you're joe biden and you're losing the new york times on this and you've made nineteen executive orders as opposed to president trump. Who did five in his first week. President obama who did five in his first week president clinton and bush who did zero. It may be time to start working with the other side. Because if you're just gonna legislate in the same way that president trump dade. This isn't a sea change. This isn't healing and this isn't coming together. I thought the whole point of the biden administration is that you weren't going to be like the trump administration sunny. You have something you have a feeling about. What's what joe is doing. What president biden's doing well. I think there was so much that the biden administration had to undo so much damage. The quickest way to undo that damage would be through executive orders. And if you look at what. President trump did during his one term. He actually signed two hundred and twenty orders during his one term. Where george w bush signed two hundred and ninety one executive orders over eight years. Barack obama issue two hundred and seventy six orders over eight years. Bill clinton three hundred and sixty four orders over eight years. And so both sides use these executive orders but president trump actually used more orders in one term four years than all of the other presidents. And so this is something again. It's it's done often and joe biden. Really had his work has his work cut out for him. And i think legislation is always of course a better way to get things done and i think we're gonna see a lot of legislation but he a think it's inappropriate what we're seeing coming out of the biden administration. Well you know. I think that sometimes you know you gotta do what you gotta do. You think it's right now. I happen to agree with a lot of what joe is talking about particularly when it comes to these jobs you know things are done so often. They're just sort of done and put in and people say well wait a minute. What about this you know. The native american community was saying. Let's talk about this lets. You can't just do this here. So there are conversations that don't happen and maybe if everybody on both sides decided that they were going to try to make it work for the country. Maybe we wouldn't have to do it quite the way that folks seemed to be able to do it now with these sweeping decisions. I wish they would talk together. Because i do believe joe would like to talk to the other side. But we've seen that. The other side is not always interested in what people have to say. We'll be right back. This is my opinion. Still ahead the war at home in the wake of the capital riots homeland security shocking. Warning that there's a heightened threat of more domestic terror attacks how it has americans bracing for what happens next and has elected officials under fire for fanning the flames of violence. She's the new white house. Communications director and tomorrow t bidding field hits the view discussing the biden. Administration's most pressing priorities to get the country back on track but keegan michael key brings his view to the most watch number one. Daytime talk show. Abc's the view still ahead. Couvert expert dr sheesh joie is talking about whether president biden's pandemic response is really on track to reopen america for business as usual and tv and radio host bevy smith shares her latest. Beverly sense welcome back yesterday. Homeland security used a federal alert to warn of a heightened threat of domestic terrorism. And some people say that elected officials like the so called on congress woman. Marjorie taylor are kind of accountable in this as well. Sunny is she in your opinion. What in my opinion. Yes no no question about it. I mean you know. We all know that that cuban on our people that believe in these absurd conspiracy theories like that there are pedophile rings. Run in base out of the basement of pizza shops. This is a woman who in two thousand eighteen in two thousand and nineteen a had these ridiculous online comments. One of them win which she said that a bullet to the head would be quicker to remove democrat house speaker. Nancy pelosi and republicans have now assigned her to to the house education committee. This woman also actually called the parkland high school massacre false flag event and set that nine eleven was perpetrated by the us government. Why would the republicans put her on the house education committee. She is just a treasure trove of misinformation. I not only think she should be platforms in terms of not being able to be on on social media. Disseminating this kind of misinformation. She should probably either resign and certainly not be on a house. Education committee my understanding. I guess that kevin mccarthy is supposed to have a stern chat with her. That does not work. That is not going to work. She should either be censured or or removed from office. Whether you think joy get the straitjacket ready baby get get it ready listen. She's going to split the republican party. This type is is lethal lethal for the republican party. And it's heaven for the democrat. So go have that at darling have it. You want to people on the street. You want to say. Let's kill nancy. Pelosi you wanna go ahead and do things like that. And kevin mccarthy says i'm gonna give you a nice talking to well go right ahead because the democrats will be in charge forever at and so how should the house should this be dealt with in your opinion. Megan because i thought it was illegal to threaten threaten folks with things like assassination and stuff. I guess i must be getting really old. I'm sorry what do you think of all of this joys right. She's a nightmare for republicans. I mean she's a total wack job conspiracy theorists. Everyone is right. I can't defend any of the things she's done or said i very conflicting feelings about removing her from office. Sort of like just randomly in the same way that. We're hearing calls for everyone from mccarthy ted cruz josh hawley to be removed from office right now. So i think it opens up a slippery slope and i do worry about again. Whenever republicans are back in powered this same standard being put to people that we view as radical maybe marjorie taylor. Green is in a different position because she said this is inciting violence in happened but it did happen before she was an office. She's a crazy person. She's an absolute nightmare for republicans to deal with this. I cannot fight your point. Joy i will say to sonny's point about the education committee i think in the same. I think we should be analyzing congress. People who are on committees. Eric swallows accused of sleeping with the chinese spy and being targeted and he is on the house intelligence committee. And that's something. Nancy pelosi has refused to deal with. I don't think someone who has been compromised by a chinese spy should have access to our intelligence. So there's a lot of people that are in a lot of different positions on a lot of committees. That should make a lot of people anxious. It's not the same thing. Exactly as what happened with marjorie taylor green but i tweeted last night. I don't know what to do about marjorie taylor green. Because she's a conspiracy theorist who was harassing people on the street. What am i supposed to do. She's crazy in it's embarrassing. And what do you think sarah. I'm gonna go ahead and fight back on joy sir. wait though. I don't think it's a blessing to the democrats. Because as i sit here. The fact that the republican party is being defined by what. I would've called before the fringe and they're allowing these types of people to be in congress. This makes the job harder. If you have any faith in unity or having real conversation so i would agree with. She's crazy and like i would say maybe that you sideline her because if we can't remove her which i i see what megan saying about a slippery slope. They should not be giving her any power. She got to dc by voters. Let her sit on the sidelines. Don't player and then storm those areas with the stacey. Abrams of the other side to inform people to make sure that someone. That's sitting here today. That cares about just conservative. Ideas goes in runs for office or something. There's a whole there's thirty thousand people. I think it was voters. Republican voters have changed their party affiliation. There's no one representing those old conservative ideals. Go run be the katie porter. Who if you don't know where gubler she's a change maker go out and run yourself so these cunanan people don't define your party. Well i know sunny. You have a legal note here. But i will say i don't ever wanna think of folks being afraid to be sitting next to somebody who's been elected and one of the reasons that they tell you do not bring guns and things onto that floor. Think about the milk. He wasn't killed by somebody outside. He was killed by another by legislature. Now legislator it's not the same. But i would be concerned about people who are telling me that they wanted to take me out. That would scare me. Maybe i'm crazy but sunny wisher legal. No yes our representative marjorie taylor. Green has said in facebook posts that she disavows and denounces violence and in a statement. Green said quote over the years. I've had teams of people manage my pages. Many posts have been liked. Many posts have been shared. Some did not represent my views especially the ones that cnn is about to spread across the internet and quote. Oh okay well. I guess we'll be right back pandemic expert. Dr a sheesh shot is live with his view of win. You'll really be able to get a vaccine if it'll protect you against new mutants dreams and the surprising recommendation about wearing three masks. Welcome back there are lots of questions about president. Biden's pandemic response plan and the vaccine rollout. Cdc saying there's also a way to safely reopen schools so asked our friend to comeback so we could get some answers. Please welcome back pandemic expert and dean of brown university's school of public health. Dr jeez jar. Dr john welcome back to the view. We love having you on. So let's get right to this this week. President biden announced a plan to buy two hundred million. More vaccine doses. Is this amount good. Is this something that we came. Latch onto that. The rollout can actually start. What do you think so be. Thanks for having me back. Those two hundred million doses are really over the summer So it is good in a sense by by summertime. Every american will be able to get vaccinated. What i'm worried about right now is how quickly can be vaccinated in the next four six eight weeks. The administration's working on that but we've got we got push on in the short run. Well people are worried about newton variants coming in from places like the u k brazil. South africa will the vaccinations fully. Protect us against these strains or you concerned about new reports that the u k variant may be more deadly. Yeah these are great questions. i informed. I am worried about these variants They're pretty serious. And i'm worried that the u k variant will end up really taking off in america and really causing a big spike in case does hospitalizations and deaths not terms of the vaccines. I remain very hopeful. That they will be very effective against the uk variant and at least much of the preliminary data says it's gonna work against the south africa variant in brazil variant as well but in some ways we're starting to push our luck here with these large outbreaks the more outbreaks. We have the more mutants. We're going to have more variance. We have the best way to deal with all of this to get the pandemic under controlling people vaccinated doctor. Many people like me are frustrated and the goalposts for covid precautions. Seem to keep me moving. We went from where one mask. And it won't protect you so don't bother to where only wearing one will save you and others and now people are saying. We should wear masks because one is not enough for once and for all. Can you tell us how many mass we should be wearing. What type should we be wearing. And why does the advice keep changing. Because i know there are a lot of people right now in my personal life. Who really feel like they're at a breaking point right now. They've been in isolation for going on a year and they're mentally and emotionally breaking down in a way that is very heartbreaking for me to watch in here yeah absolutely and sometimes the messaging on. This can be confusing. This is why we really need good clear message from the cdc as the people that we should be trusting. Here's the deal on mass three mass. I've never heard of the idea. And i i wouldn't do it so let's focus on what i think is where the sciences and what is reasonable. I've been wearing one mask. Basically all throughout the pandemic in the last month with the new uk variant which is so much more contagious. A watching what has happened in the uk and in ireland and elsewhere. I've gotten concerned about The mass in the quality of mass. We all wear. So when i'm out and about in public. I wear a single math. I it cloth mask or surgical masks foley five. If i'm going to a grocery store if going to be indoors for any extended period of time. I will put on a higher quality mask. What a cast ninety. Four for instance. These things you can buy on amazon. They're not They're not hard to get a. They're not quite as good as an end. Ninety five doctors nurses us. But they're pretty close. Or if i'm going indoors and i don't have a calf ninety four readily available. I will double up surgical mask with a cloth mask on top. That's really for high risk situations. Where i'm more worried and that's really just been in the last month because the variant. I think it's a safer to thing to do. But i also think we should just get a good guidance on this. From the cdc dr joao with vaccine short in supply right now. Some wealthy americans are reportedly offering to pay to cut the line in front of people who are actually eligible for it. There's also what i hear is vaccine. Tourism people coming from abroad to get the vaccine before americans get it at the same time. It seems like the vaccine rollout is a disaster in some of our poorest and hardest hit communities. How do we fix this. It's a great question and it's not like no one saw vaccines coming. We knew for months that we were gonna have vaccines available by late. November early december. We just didn't do any planning for from the federal level and we just left it all up to states and states are struggling So first and foremost. I do not believe you should be able to pay to cut in line. I think that's outrageous. And i don't think we should allow that I don't think we should have vaccine tourism from people coming in from other places. I'm also hearing about. Americans are going to other places to get vaccinated now. That's up to those countries. But again i prefer that not what we need to do is make sure that we're targeting our most vulnerable individuals and make sure that they have access to vaccines. That certainly means older people. As as among the highest risk it also means targeting distribution in communities of color to making sure that those access points are readily available. We've gotta do a better job on that. And i want to see the biden team which has made these points. I wanna see them execute on that now. So we've been ask you to stay with us and when we come back we're going to ask him more questions. Staying informed has never been more information is coming at us faster than ever. So how do you make sense of it. All start here. hey. I'm brad milkey from abc news. In every weekday we will break down the latest headlines in just twenty minutes straightforward reporting dynamic interviews analysis from experts. You can trust always credible always solid start here from abc news twenty minutes every day when you're smart speaker or your favorite podcast app. We're back with dr. She's jar how many how much vaccine do we actually have right now where we will. We left any vaccine from the former station. And if so what. We have a great question. I think we're still trying to sort it out. You know we were told. He would have one hundred million doses by the end of january. It will clearly isn't outweigh. we're gonna end up. We're gonna have much less than that We've got about forty five almost fifty million out to states. My hope is. There's another five or ten million before the end of this month but this is a kind of suffer. It's really helpful to have real numbers and real clarity. And we've got to communicate that to the american people about exactly what we haven't done so dr. There is more hope on the horizon. Because johnson and johnson says the vaccine down. Is ju by early next week so they could have emergency authorization in february. How big of a game. Changer is johnson and johnson's vaccine pretty excited about it again. We don't know the data so we'll see what actually shows right but the preliminary stuff looks really good. It's got two big advantages pretty easy to store and it's a single shot is not a two-shot vaccine so that's gonna make it a lot easier now they don't have that much to stockpile so we're gonna probably have to wait a few more weeks after authorization before large people can start getting it but i do think it will make a real difference wants. It's out dr job. President biden wants elementary schools. Back open. And the cdc claims there is a safe path to doing so but teachers unions are pushing back saying it puts everybody at risk. Most parents i know have reached their breaking points. And don't get why it safe for. Sanitation workers grocery works flight attendants to go to work but not for teachers. I think parents should be the one making the choice about whether their kids should stay home or go to school. Do you agree. I think there is absolutely a path back to getting kids all all the kids. Back to school I don't think I think the science on this is pretty clear. We gotta do something as kids. Sending adults have to mass We've got to have a reasonable amount of ventilation in schools But i don't think this is unsolvable problem. And i feel like parents should be able to get kids back to school. Teachers should be able to go to work safely. All of that is achievable based on the signs. We have today well all right well. Doctors is always a pleasure to talk to you because we all kind of feel a lot better when we listen to what you have to say so come back and see us anytime and we of course we'll be back. Tv and radio star. Bevy smith is sharing what she learned from her. Life's biggest bombshells breakup bad moves and bold reinventions and what you can learn to next tomorrow white house. Communications director kate. Betting field talks about making history on the first all female senior white house. Communications team ever. And if president biden's calls for unity will fall on deaf. Ears plus actor writer and producer keegan. Michael key is taking you through a legacy of laughter with his history of sketch comedy. Welcome back bevy. Smith worn a lot of different hats and she's adding author to her resume with a new book. That's part memoir pie self help manual. It's called bev relations lessons from a mother on best e. Please welcome when the great women on the planet the fabulous bevy smith. Hey welcome to be joy europe. I yeah hey bevy. So you know like me. Whoopie and sunday urine native new yorker and you often talk about the strong sense of identity. You carry with you from growing up in harlem. What did it teach you it to grow up in new york or to grow up in harlem that grow up in harlem meant that i have a very strong sense of self a culture of my community and my legacy which really helped me when i went into the lily white world of high end fashion and advertising and knowing who i was and i was more than enough i was really helped me. Climb that with atl. Bevy there can be a real contradiction between what people see. And what's really going on behind the scenes of someone's life in one thousand nine hundred nine. You're the beauty and fashion advertising director at vibe magazine. And you were in milwaukee for the. Men's fashion shows surrounded by gifts from the major fashion houses at a beautiful hotel. And you had a breakdown. What brought you to that moment. What brought me to. That moment was back that i looked around at this fabulous like guy had built myself that i have been climbing towards his eighteen years old and i get there and i feel like it's not enough i feel like is this all there is and then i woke up. I realized that. I had to do something to change my life. I have to pivot. Had to reimagine my life. And i had to get to a place of creativity umbrella and that got the best. My happiness. lar- bevy. I love your new book. You've written it. It's called bev relations. It's about your career life lessons. You've learned along the way and you write about your incredible dad who i know passed away from complications due to covid in april twenty twenty. And i'm so sorry about that. You know we know. This virus has deeply impacted so many on many levels people out there may feel stuck maybe in their jobs and their personal lives but feel like. They can't do anything because they can't go anywhere. And i know that you have advice for some people that are in that situation. Yeah you know. Many of us are stuck in the house when we can't go anywhere but that's actually a great time to we imagine in reinvent yourself in your life. You know one of the best things i ever did. When i quit my job at rolling stone magazine was i took up of classes. The tar creek classes improv classes on you know of screen writing classes. Anything that had interested ever. I really try to pursue that to figure out what it was. I wanted to do and advise in to do that. And as a matter of back pay for my courses by the we now know you can go on youtube or any number of online courses in their low cost or sometimes often free. But it's a great time right now to make that hit in your life because many of the jobs that we once had on that coming back you guys were talking about the coal industry you know. Those jobs are not coming. Back is a lot of jobs. Restaurant workers many of those restaurants to close grabber. What did you do next. And now's a great to explore the things that you've always been passionate about things that people said. Oh you really good at that. Think about exploring those things. I love that advice and you also give the view of very gracious shot out in the book. Thank you you also drop many pearls of wisdom which i love personally. This is such great advice. You you write what others say or do has nothing to do with you. That's their own nightmare. You don't have to share in it just like they don't have to share in your dream. Why can it be so difficult to get into that head space. I think that we live in a world where of what people will leave about about. Us is something that we oftentimes absorb. Mvp begins believe with ourselves. Social media is a big problem out. Big part of that problem. But i have found in my life that it's very important to know who you are and for me. That's why i am at my call in my book. I talk about where you at your core. How you being received. How would you like to be receive and for me. I had to get a little brown very little girl from harlem who was curious empathetic in adventurous. Add to get back to her in order to have this new lack that i have. That's actually become very successful at the very real rocky story. So you entered a new chapter at the end of your book address. In twenty twenty namely the pandemic in race relations since the protests took place for george for george floyd and black lives matter. So and it's been a difficult year all around. let's face it. Are you hopeful that the events of the past year will lead to any kind of change lasting change that we so sorely need in this country cautiously optimistic. You know we look at what happened on january six. Then that means that we're in trouble right the as naturally turn on but then i also look at biden harris. I do bill very much. Like they're gonna make changes. I know we will talk about executive orders earlier. We don't like executive orders. But no we gotta get this hassle or you have to do it in a swift mantle so these are things that i'm hopeful that america will see that we need to become more united instead of divided. But there's a lot of work to be done on. And i think that you know we all have to be in this to go now. Bevy i know you. We're friends and you are constantly evolving and reinventing yourself. You've got your radio show on sirius. Xm which i love. Now you're an author. Where are we going to see you next while the book is actually a vision for me guys. Everyone that use it as a vision board for me in the book. I say that. I'm gonna start producing tv instead of just being on television. So i have a production the observer development deal for cable network channel. I also talk about wednesday. Artan architecture. 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"We are streaming only on a new comedy about a ninety throwback girls five book again. Everybody sing from your diaphragm which one girls five other all streaming now only on peacock. Hi it's megan and eric here. We hope you've been enjoying today's episode. Today we are asking for your help with our show. So we'd love it. You could take a short survey. We're trying to learn a little bit more about our listeners. So if you wanna visit pod listener dot com slash daily dish. It only takes five minutes. It's completely and it'll really help us. Make the show better for you. So just visit pod. Listener dot com slash daily dish to take that survey that's pod listener dot com slash daily dish on. Hi i'm megan. Sarah and i'm eric day. Man this is the daily dish. Bravo's official podcast well after two episodes of the new season of real housewives of new york city. I couldn't wait a minute longer. Chat with ebony k williams and today's bonus episode the newest cast member dishes on her past her spiritual and intellectual connection with sonya and the upcoming tension with ramona in the hamptons plus ebony shares witch married to medicine doc has become her mentor. Let's take a listen guys. We are here with the newest real housewife of new york city. Ebony k williams. what's going on. What is going on. eric. I'm excited to check that. I know it's your first time on the daily dish. Podcast so how does it feel to be a real housewives of new york city. We'll listen it's it's still pretty surreal. I mean it's you know a franchise. I've watched as a fan for years so now to be. You know a apart of this world with these women is really dope. It's special it's cool. it's you know. I think it's something. I'm still very much getting used to write. You're still processing it. I'm sure yes. Yes in the very first episode. You know you were so honest about your past. So tell us a little bit more about your life before you join housewives. Goodness you know. I was a super nerdy kid. Went to college at sixteen graduated law school at twenty three started practicing and that was really what i wanted to do. I wanted to be the next. Johnny cochran so i was on that path and loved the practice of law and just wanted a bigger microphone if you will a bigger ability to amplify things that i thought were really important in the world like social justice and freedom and equality so moved to los angeles in two thousand ten to pursue broadcasting career and started really from scratch marks. I knew no one in the business and really didn't even what i wanted to do. I just knew. I wanted to be in the industry and started to talk. Radio and long story short grinded as you hear me talk about in the first episode. Yeah that create. You know what we know in the industry you need a demo reel with all these clips and and you know excerpts of you a showing your ability to do the work at a high level. The only thing is a lot of that stuff. None of that stuff in the beginning right. I found myself in quite the financial Conundrum where you know. I was coming off of my first divorce. Hopefully my last. And you know trying to rebuild financially but not really earning a lot of money. So you know i wanted to invest in myself and my dream but it literally cost me and what. I do it again knowing everything i know. I don't know you know. I was younger than i didn't have as much responsibility then as i do now and it was It was a risk in all the biggest ways possible absolutely will then not as i always believed in myself. But it's tricky. Yeah thinking of yourself. Ten fifteen years go even further back versus now. What do you think the biggest differences. I think just a lot more competent in my skill. Set to be really candid with you. I think always had some natural gifts. I think natural gifts are great. But you know you just nothing. Be hard work you know. Nothing beats those reps. You're just doing it. And being in the chair and doing interview after interview and honing those skills and i think now you know i've been blessed with those opportunity to get those things started and absolutely you know it's it's it's made a big difference in. I think my confidence in my ability to show up in spaces with a really strong sense of myself. Yeah absolutely and i think we see that. I mean just in the first two episodes of this season you really do show up with this very strong conviction and i think that's really appealing to people to see someone standing in their confidence and in their true. Yeah i think so I think hopefully gotten some of this feedback already on social. That went especially you know real of a younger people but really people of all ages when they do that and they see me doing that. It really empowers them to do it. And that's really ballpoint right it. Yeah you know to really give people the energy and hopefully example that it takes for them to kind of apply that to their own lives you know and have that impact for other people absolutely if you could give one piece of advice to your younger self. What do you think it would be trust. The process really trust the process. There are no shortcuts not gonna bypass anything and the fact that you're plaid might look coach different than someone else's and might take a seemingly much longer to manifest and realize itself. It doesn't mean you've done anything wrong you know. I think a lot of my career. I've felt like i've done important work work. I'm proud of. But i felt it was kind of michel in terms of reach. And i it some point you start second guessing yourself you know and oh goodness you know. Not as good as i think i am or am i not approaching it the right way or was it something innate about me and none of those things are tend to be true. It's just your process. And i would love to tell my younger self to just buckle up put your head down do the work and don't occupy yourself with where it's going or how would win. You're gonna have your break. I don't even know that. There is a big break in light of a false expectation. I think it's a series of mini breaks and the question is what do you do with those mini break opportunities. Yeah absolutely and watch that fico score. Listen honey it like a hawk baby. Okay i'm sure a lot of people can relate to you being like why had money in the bank but damn i check that out and that was another story. The difference between earning money and being fiscally fit and well. Frankly that's something else. I probably would've told my younger so extremely good at go going out there and get you know. I know how to make a dollar. I didn't know at the time was not to be fiscally responsible. with it's never about how much you may not really. It's about one do with the money that you make. And that's the lesson that i learned over time. Yeah absolutely as a new member of the bravo family. Have you connected with anyone outside of your cast so far. Yeah you know. As i've spoken a little bit about you know dr simone whitmore. Mary of medicine literally my my big sister. My mentor before filming started. She reached out to me and offered me great words of wisdom. By way of you know you you cannot please all the people all the time. There are a lot of different people that are going to watch this show and pick a lot of different things about you. So you sit in your true and you hold onto that And also just treating my cast mates with respect and not thinking that i understood who they were deeply just because of things. I saw on television before. I joined the show and i do oughta people right. Make that mistake. You know you watch a couple episodes. Maybe you've watched every episode. And you you come into the to the franchise with preconceived notions and alliances or enemies in your head. And i think it really doesn't serve you know the the experience so i'm really glad simone gave me some great words of wisdom. I love that. I love dr. Simone ella mary to medicine such a good show on watch what happens live. You actually said that. Sonia was the least welcoming of the group. How so it really was based on that very first encounter with her because at the town's yeah it was really just the townhouse where you know again. I'm also from the south different. So i'm used to kind of be go huge warm welcoming of new people until you know you gotta give them a reason not to like you so Maybe i was expecting a little more from sonia. You know a little more engagement It did to me when. I walked in the townhouse. You know she can only really engaging with lia knowing sonya soul well now that was just where she was familiar. And you know. She's actually a very introverted person. Like me yeah. And she was just taking me in so now. I know that wasn't personal. That wasn't shade But at the time. I didn't know i didn't know i didn't know what that was about. I was like wow. She's not really engaging with community really felt like it took minute kind of her to see me and really kinda. Give me space to connect right absolutely well. I thought it was interesting. Because you also said that she was your most intellectual equal watch. What happens live. So how has your friendship with her evolved. Since i met Just a really beautiful dynamic way Sonia is really in many ways. My heart you know she You know sonya. Sit me a book from amazon a couple of days ago and i think that just kind of goes to show you and it's deep book you know. It's a book about connecting with the human spirit and human mind. I don't think people know that. Side of sonja morgan and so a lot of people. I think were surprised. When i said she was my intellectual equal you know amongst this group of women but for me she is and i think they listen. All these women have done things that exemplify bear intelligence. And their business savvy but sonya. I think a deeply spiritual intellectual level is is really deeply aligned and and really working on herself and is not afraid to shallan jr convention. That has been her nor of personal roach. That's really what i love. The most about sonja morgan. right right. no. I agree and i said to my co host at the start of this season that i was a little bit worried to see sonia back in the townhouse because i was afraid we were going to see that kind of regression right that she was going to go back into those. Those older ways being being back in that old house. But i think to your point you know. She is trying really hard to stay. You know spiritually emotionally connected and centered and everything. So i hope we see that over the rest of the season will you will. You're also going to see some some pretty intentional efforts from leah and and supported by me to keep her in that place in the present. Let's focus on the future. There are so many amazing things in front of life for sonja morgan and really getting her to buy into that. You know the best. Her life isn't actually not behind her. And i think for a long time she scuff that way. Yeah absolutely. I want to get into the brunch. That you guys have at the townhouse because there was a lot of chatter about everyone's dating life and you were talking about a guy that you were seeing at that time. Are you still seeing him now. Actually just left seeing him not thirty minutes ago okay. I'll just leave that there. So he's still in my life. You know so yeah okay. Okay good to know going into the hamptons. What was your expectation. Heading to ramona's house. I think i knew enough to not expect too much. Meaning very much so sizing everybody up and i knew they were sizing me up. You know i mean you know it's almost like if you could have had a visualization of what was going on energy wise just imagine you know a classroom full of students you know of frivolously. Taking notes a scrupulously rather taking notes on each other. you know Yeah kind of note with the women and they know that. I say this you know i kind of had a file on. Everybody and i knew that the hamptons was i was. I knew i would come back from the hamptons with a much richer bile on everybody and they the the same they definitely got a big old dose of who i am what i'm about so yes and i'm so excited to see more of that and i know you know in the second episode ramona comment about the help and that doesn't sit very well with you and you address it in the next episode. So can you tease a little bit. About how ramona response to that. You know Ramona's runner ramona. Is somebody before we even got into. What didn't sit well with me with the comment. And why don't the way about the com- ramona wanted to shut down the conversation before it started literally will see that and again. I think this is where there's that opportunity for personal growth on both sides of the conversation. Not just their growth growth. And it's like you know. I had a choice in that moment. You know i i did. Just meet this woman. Do i kinda concede her point. Okay not now and then not now to me just always feels like okay. So so win. You know you don't want as it now south right now. Is it tomorrow at six. Is tuesday at the time line here. We calendar this so they kind of felt like if i allow this moment to pass us by. We're not going to really get to have an authentic connection. Because i'm gonna keep looking at you sideways until this is addressed and so i really pushed her for the sake of a budding friendship. You know. it's like listen. I really do have a friendship with you. But i'm not going to be able to get there if i don't figure out like what your intention is real quick. So yeah yeah exactly. Well considering when she did. I meet you at sonia. She was like i immediately. Feel connected to you you know. So hopefully schwartz maintain that exactly that we add ruin like. Let's keep it in that place. And i don't want to start thinking something that's inconsistent with that impression of you because you just call this lady to help and the wrong name right you guys get all dressed up for this burning man party so in your opinion who had the best look of the night. Oh honey leah's louis on me And that really wasn't surprising af her event and you know it just was so her aesthetic will call it now. You know it was not your girls. Aesthetic with these festival. Types of ensembles. But you know it's leah a lovely You know. I felt very gracious that. She invited me to participate in this event with this group of women. I gave it the best college. Try hat i gave you as much. You know edge as i can give you. Yeah i think you look great. You kinda like cat-woman gaga vibes. You know like i got. I got a strong look. Throwing no prominade trixie. You know that was like my dominatrix alternate right right right. So maybe you should check out real housewives of atlanta. Because they love that. 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And you know had feathers and everywhere you know and it's my understanding of ramona being historically very kind of prudish and so when she had those nipple crystals on you know i was like all right joe i know i know we have come a long way with ramon i mean i remember her walking off. A reunion sat because somebody was telling like sexy photos. Yes yeah yeah. I think that was walk off of a reunion. So yeah ramon up fully committed. We'll say that ramona fully. Well when you guys sit down with the healer you open up about your family to the group and talk about you know what it really means to have a family and what is considered a family. So has your perspective on that changed since that night. Overwhelmingly so eric. Yeah i think. I carried a lot of shame around family coming into that experience with the healer. Because you know i grew up with a single mother. I never knew my father. Not only didn't know didn't even know who he was. You know so. I had no identity as a related to my paternity You know i was briefly briefly married quickly. Divorce have no children ama- woman of a particular age and just really felt like a total outsider when it comes to family like everyone talks about family and especially like an instagram error. Where know mother's day is coming. You know there's mother's i'm gonna get a time line flooded with all these beautiful mother's day pictures father's day same thing you know easter all these holidays and you know people might my contemporaries with their. Yeah i don't have any of that. You know have a mother. But that's she and my grandmother were the only family i had and i. You know my grandmother. You knows you know. I talk about is was was dying so it was just like i do about to have no family by a lot of shame around that and what i have grown to learn in such beautiful way is that you actually have a choice around defining funding. What family is. It doesn't have to be this nuclear thing that we've been kind of force fed for years. I actually so much. More empowered around defining and cure rating family As i needed to be for myself and my therapy has helped with that too. You know there's like the family you're born into known as your family of origin. My family of origin was just extremely small. But you also get to do a family of creation and that can be you know marriage children you know biological adopted step guy you know whatever and friends lake i now start to refer to my friends as a part of my family and this group of women in their own respective ways have become a bit of family to me as well. Yeah a chosen family chosen family. And that's really our whole. I love that. The night carries on after the healer. But you end up going in a little bit early so talk about how you were feeling in. That moment was just a little bit of weight on you or what was ta. You know. I've always been known for an irish exit. Is you know not to make light of it. I i think it was a combination of a few things number one and you know it was just a long literally along heavy emotional day. You know brand new group of women. They are extremely close with each other. So just because of circumstance. I don't think anything personal. I was very much the outsider then pouring out my heart and i'm so glad i did but it just took a lot out of me around my grandmother and family and just really trying to open up that vulnerability to connect with these women. I was just emotionally exhausted. After all of that you know and then it seemed like they were going into second gear with right. Eighty on stilts child is like a. I gave y'all pool time. i gave. Y'all an emotional outcry. And i gave y'all look a bit again. It's time for bed. Yeah lights out. And i'm just not one for goodbyes. They always just because then it's like no stay and i didn't want to go back and forth with being convinced to continue to stay longer than i felt comfortable or just you know sauce like peace out and see all in the morning right right. I love and irish goodbye. I mean. I am irish. I say that they go but like you know the saying goodbye. Process can take so long. It's kind of go around to everybody. It's like oh get me out of here. I'm just going to go now. it's tomorrow yes. Why do love hearing about your bond with sonia now. Because i think when you guys are sitting around with the healer and you show your vulnerability i feel like you did set an example for her in some ways because she mentioned that when they get to her about the healer gets to her about how she wants to show a little bit more of that. So i definitely think when you talk about this kind of spiritual and intellectual connection you have with her. That in that moment was something that may be. She started to recognize that. You could be a really good friend for her. I think so. I mean so. Everything changed for me in song in the hamptons. And you know. I i think it was that healing circle. I think she was like you know. Look at this girl. she just got here. She doesn't really know us and she's willing to pour it all out. So maybe i need to you know take another turn at this because you remember like she kind of you know said it real casual stated the question and she really had to revisit an answer it all over again because i think she recognized that she wanted to participate a deeper level. And i'm proud of her for doing in a preview. For next week's episode we see sonia freak out over this like wells fargo comment. Ramona makes so. What can you tell us about that can. Is there are receipts. Okay back lit to relieve so there isn't a definitive position on that issue and you will see it play out in real time. Okay doing the most. Oh gosh okay go ahead. Yeah yeah. Well i wanted to ask We see that stunning tribeca apartment in this most recent episode. but are you currently living in harlem. I am back in harlem. I gotta tell ya not being end other than that. Apartment in tribeca was absolutely gorgeous views. That will take your breath away but there's a house and then there's a home you know we'll say that place for all of its grander. It never ever felt like home. You know which you know. I you'll see play out in the show and why and i wasn't even sleeping in that master bedroom for god's sakes you know Right and so now back in harlem temporary dwelling as me speak just because my unit. I'm building my condo. It's new construction. They they are almost done with everything But this is a couple more layers for completion and moved in hopefully in the next month or so awesome. what i'm just back in harlem. I'm right around the corner from new condo. And i just me and carrie james who you'll see more of and you know the you know. She's that's my baby and we are so happy to be in a space. That feels milli. I was in harlem for five years. Before i moved down your back to be with and this is just home for me. It really is now. Do you happen to live near bevy smith because i spoke to her a few weeks back actually probably a few months back at this point and she was teasing me all about like. Oh wait till you meet ebony. You're gonna love. And i know she is like ryder die. Harlem girl oh beverly's debbie's the true queen of harlem. I mean yeah. Warren and bread and reigns supreme. A no very seriously. And i actually. The very first time i met bevy was when i first moved to manhattan for my. Cbs news gave up. Its living on one. Thirty eight. And i was walking past one of the restaurants And this was pre covid in harlem is always kind of had those wonderful for bistro style seating arrangements and bevy was just sitting there all glamor and as bevy smith and i just banned. Girls out was so gracious. You didn't know me from a can of paint. And she gave me her cell phone and she said you are a young lady in media and as a young black woman. I want to support you at call me anytime. And that's how our relationship started on my god. that is amazing women supporting other women. We love it. Yes that is so awesome. We'll ebony thank you so much for chatting with me today. We're so excited to have you on the show. I'm so excited to hear your in harlem and you've got this whole new place coming and you still got the man in your life. you know. it's a really good thing you know. I think a really exciting point in my life. You know. And i'm i'm excited to actually for the first time excited to not know what's next radio was it actually creates all this like wonderful possibility and i'm very excited about that. Amazing awesome. Well thank you so much for chatting with us today ebony. We'll talk to you soon. Thank you love toxin bye and we will be back with an all new episode. 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WWHL @ Home: Carey Mulligan, Connie Britton, & Jennifer Coolidge

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WWHL @ Home: Carey Mulligan, Connie Britton, & Jennifer Coolidge

"Thursday's ted danson and holly hunter star in a whole new comedy from pre tina fey and robert carlyle. Mr mayor. Please don't try to speak spanish again. All payroll means dog and mr mayor thursdays on nbc. We've got his kan. Asked to come to. But it's the small town. Murder mystery sci-fi. Dr romney earth needs now stars in resident alien winning january twenty seven onsite by welcome to the bravo clubhouse for the podcast edition. Watch what happens. Live with me andy. Cohen they're movies about female empowerment. My shows about cocktail devour. -ment it's watch what happens. Live with carey mulligan. Connie britton and jennifer coolidge. Now hey guys. Welcome to watch it on your host andy cohen and the bronco clubhouse joined by three co stars which i think technically makes them a constellation. My first guest is scary. Talented actress who masterminds of feminists revenge plot in the new thriller promising young woman then theaters. Now it's available on demand tomorrow. Everybody's loving it. Please welcome for the first time. On the show carey mulligan i carry. Hi where are you. By the way i'm in england. Google very exciting. My next gas plays a medical school dean which makes sense because i consider all her performances to be straight up healing. It's our friends connie britton. Connie andy love you. I'm in la. Okay i've heard of it. And when it comes to straddling the line between comedy and drama. She is best in show last. But not least say ida jennifer coolidge. I jennifer jennifer in new orleans. No i know. Yeah wow me and i i and i were doing a job there. Connie left but i'm still here. Oh janet i can't believe you're still there. I'm still here. I'm writing for your return. Oh my god straddling many time zones today now every time. Connie britton's on the show. I try to think of new and inventive waves to bring up friday night lights and while that show was all about touchdowns i thought we could do a light shakedown of connie's place for any fnl memorabilia. She's got laying around. It's time to open your vault. Connie britton. what did you bring us from your personal archives. anything. I'm going to geek out over. Okay i think you really might geek out over this. And because it's you andy. And i knew you would love it. I had to dig deep. And so here's what i brought you. Today it's coaching tammy's wait. Can you see coaching jammies wedding or even knew this. That is all your wealth. I love it. Thank you connie. You've you've satisfied. You've scratched my Now connie jennifer both have holes in their club. House punch cards. But since it's carey mulligan's first time on the show that she could give us all and education about herself. Let's have a clubhouse quickey kerry. What was the first movie you ever saw in the theaters. jumanji angie. Who was the first celebrity. You i love. It was the first celebrity you met. That left us starstruck. Joan cake or pie cake. What was your first concert. The backstreet boys. I that's a good concert by the way. Which of your own movies are. You most likely to watch if it pops up on tv Doctor who you know. What's your go-to karaoke song. I would do anything for love. But i won't do that by me. What's your favorite emoji. Oh yes yes growing up. Is there someone in particular who inspired you want to become an actress. Dench very good. See i feel like. I know you better already. Thank you kerry. Well carey said in an interview that jennifer coolidge. Experience is like no other. And maybe that's because jennifer is confessed to having twelve espresso shots a day or maybe it's just because she's a comedic genius or both but in honor of that. I thought we would play. Is that a jennifer coolidge experience. Jennifer is going to read out some alleged facts about herself. We're all gonna gas whether it's real or if it's an american lie. What's the first fact jennifer k. Glasses on so so so. Beware okay when i was interested in two guys who knew each other and instead of choosing one of them i told them that i had an identical twin sister so i could take them both. I hope this is true carey. You think it's true. It reminds me of a friend's bloodline. Yeah yeah why no. connie. I'm sorry i'm saying true jennifer. Did they ever figure it out. No i didn't stay. I was on vacation. I didn't stick around long enough to find out. I love it. That's how good she is by the way. Okay give us another fact. One time when. I was filming a scene. I desperately needed to go to the bathroom but i thought it was part of my employees show. I i had an accident onset. Carey is it true No i don't think you constantly. Now jennifer right okay over another one. I have a lot of amazing invention ideas and my number one goal is to be on shark. Tank kerry hundred percent chance. Connie i think that sounds reasonable. I do to you. Girls are so smart. Sh okay give us another one right back in my twenties when i stopped showing up for work as as a cocktail waitress in this restaurant. The hostess sandra bullock a snagged all my ships sip shifts so he can make more money carey specific connie. I mean i want to say true just because that would be fun to think that happened. I agree jennifer is true. Girls are really brilliant. Thanks for playing. Is that a jennifer coolidge experience. Wow for all of you. I mean anyone who wants to take this. Thy knee curtain tweeted. Wants to know what were your first reactions reading a script with such an unconventional narrative and one that calls out the actions of both genders regarding sexual assault it was just even innovate self one of the best groups i've ever read so there was nothing expected it and i think it does tackle this subject in a completely new way so yeah it was amazing to read Connie we got a question for you from grant and who said have you spoken to your bff. New york senator. Kristen gillibrand since the pale failed. Coup attempt on the capital. I haven't talked to her since then. But i did texture that day To see if she was okay and she. She texted back that she was safe. And then she actually wrote an op. Ed in the new york times about about that experience in that day and getting all those text messages from people who are checking at. But i haven't talked to her since gone now. i think i think they've been very busy. I think so. You were roommates at dartmouth right. Yes wow yeah amazing. Jennifer bruce after said in light of recent news of the sex in the city revival. A lot of fans are suggesting you should play samantha. Or a character like kerr. Would you ever be interested. In in that conversation i am. I was a huge and still a huge sex in the city fan. And it's one of those shows you can just watch the reruns in n n never get tired. But i have to say. I am such a kim cottrell fan and i don't see anyone being able to replace her in that part yet. He's just. I don't know i she's just so he was just. It was just the perfect threes. i don't i just. I don't think he can think you could replace her. Yeah let's take some questions from our virtual audience. John has a question. For ms carey mulligan. John what's your question. Hey kerry high high so in the movie your performance. That was so random. A pair celtics stars are blind was iconic. How did you get into that. Divas like persona and has she commented on your performance while it was. Yeah it was probably one of the scariest days like but it was. Yeah i mean. It was all led by burnham. I initially resisted dancing law. But you really led the charge and we didn't know if she know i actually don't know if sima film and one of the greatest disappointments at this year is not being able to get has come from anthony. She likes it. Okay britney has a question for connie britton. Britney are you there. Hi connie i e yeah. Who's with this thing. This is my husband robert. Connie robber is okay. So coach taylor was trending on twitter this summer when someone tweeted that he would have been a trump supporter in real life. Do you agree with that theory. And how do you think. Tammi taylor. Wooden voted my god. I mean there's every bit of hypothetical situation that people can dream up. I love it i now. This is a hypothetical hypothetical. I don't think that coach taylor. I i would. I would say maybe coach taylor would be a republican. But i don't think that he would have been a trump supporter. Because i actually believe that those are two very different you right now tammy taylor would definitely not be trump. Union did yes. The moral compass of the show is christina's question for jennifer coolidge high. I i i sco jennifer. There's a rumor that legally blonde three is going to be all running for president. Is this true. And what position do you think. L. woods would give paulette in her cabinet. Sh- well i'm guessing that would be secretary of defense. Of course obviously that more than me have you been. Have you talked to. I think mindy killings writing writing The next version of you talked to anyone about it. I don't. I don't get any updates. I'm i'm on an island quite literally all right. Thank you audience coty. This one's a good one. Tina eight set. I'm single. I'm getting older and i'm intimidated by the idea of becoming a mom before you begin your journey to adopt as a single mom wizar- particular lightbulb moment. Where you realize. I can do this. I had no idea what i was even getting into so it wasn't so much i can do this as much as i knew that i wanted to be a mom and intrigues. Both of my parents had passed away within three years and suddenly i was like oh no my family is no more i mean. I have twin sister but that was a big loss. Losing my parents. And and i wasn't in a relationship that felt like it was going to be a marriage relationship and so i was like what am i waiting for. I know i want to adopt. I can do this but but that was a little delusional because it turns out. It's a really hard thing to do. But i i would only encourage anybody to do it. Yes andy i agree. I agree well. With the score of over ninety percent on rotten tomatoes the world agrees that promising young woman is more beloved then puppies and orgasms to great things that are meant to be enjoyed separately but i wonder how much stars in the movie will agree when it comes to a bunch of grand statements made by yours truly. It's time for one to agree or disagree. I'm gonna make ten statements about issues facing promising young women and count one to agree or disagree. You all will respond by holding up your signs at the exact same time here. We go number one if your partner is rude or unwelcoming to your best friends that is a deal breaker one to agree or disagree. You all the gray. I love it. Okay good friend. Wears whatever bridesmaid. Dress the bride. Ask sir chew no matter. How hideous one to agree or disagree. You guys are good friends. Gender specific acting categories at award shows should be combined to a simple best performance award one to agree or disagree. Well i can't hear you all agree your three-for-three you'll matter. How far in the past dating dating a friend's ax is always off limits. One to agree or disagree. Okay a little half there. If a celebrity enjoys posting provocative pictures of herself on social media. it's empowering not exploitative one to agree or disagree tonight okay very good. You're five for five. Those cute getting bangs is never the solution to a bad break-up one to agree or disagree. Agree sex or six if women are going to be paid the same amount as their male counterparts. It's imperative that men speak up about their salaries one to agree or disagree. Seven for seven. Your partner forgets your anniversary. It's over. once you agree or disagree disagree up all right talk. Okay connie okay. The times has permanently changed the industry for the better and things have already noticeably improved to agree or disagree. Okay last up best friends. Getting matching tattoos is just as bad of an idea as couples getting matching tattoos. One to agree or disagree. We almost had it. We bailed out at the last one. And that's okay nine for ten. It's time for tonight's watch. What happens five guys. As paulette in legally blonde jennifer cemented her icon status. When she said the line makes me want a hot dog real bad. I thought she could be frank the things that could bend and snap us all out of our 2021 funk jennifer it's time for you to give us the top five things you want real bad right now taken away. I don't know if this is going to get you out of your funk but these are just like me. Mike i needed at. That reminds me to thank someone when they do something night at something that continually brings the battle until i thank them and these aren't very upbeat. That's okay. I didn't really understand the well. Tell you you go okay. Well tell me this. We're getting out of there. Tell me why you know what. I what what i wanna and i want to invent a dog phone and you can call your dog during the middle of the day or it can work both ways and there's a way they can signalling you. That was one of. Let me tell you something that. I want that to and i want everybody to see promising young woman. It's so great you are gonna absolutely love it. It's in theaters and on demand. Starting on friday. I wanna thank kerry connie and jennifer from being your sunday night snoop. Dogg is here with bevy smith. Watch our after show now on twitter. Live be good. Everybody thank you all so much. Righted see after show with the star of the stars of promising young woman in theaters. Now and available on demand. Tomorrow carey mulligan. Connie britton and jennifer coolidge. Got a few more questions for you. Guys carry eric have said i read your longing to do a romcom. And you've been trying to. Richard curtis for years. Have there been any advancements made. I'd love to see you in romcom. No nothing so far. And i and i do keep banging on about it so Maybe i'll just wear him down eventually. But yeah that's the dream that's always been the dream. I grew up watching all of his movies. Connie queens of bravo wants to know the last cast member from friday. Night lights that you smoke with. And what did you talk about. I swear i didn't write that right and share. I think it was a it was probably anna polinsky. Because she has been in austin but she was coming back to la so we were discussing our quarantine situation and if we could possibly see each other i love it. Adrian played each played tyra. Yes oh davey and tease said texted. Said while working in a restaurant back in the day is it. True that oj. Simpson told you he'd sad card and how did that one sort itself out new was very disappointing and i never got that site card from him but yeah he used to come in this restaurant that i worked at the sandra bullock restaurant where he was the hostess what on par wow but oj. Promised he did. He really did propose. Give me my sag car by over the course of drinks and you'd be like i'm a you card but you just never never backs up sma- i didn't pick anything didn't work out all right. Yeah that's okay. I wanna thank kerry. Connie jennifer for hanging out with us. Promising women is in theaters now in available on demand tomorrow. Thanks guys awesome. Movie awesome for more click around bravo. Tv dot com. Thanks for listening to the podcast. Everybody hope you enjoyed the show. Remember new episodes. Go live monday through friday at four. Pm eastern time. Make sure you're subscribed have a great rest of your night. This may come as a surprise but my family is ready to get out of the house. So i did a search on the verb. Oh app they've got vacation homes anywhere. Your family wants to go. We found the perfect beach house. That was just a drive away. 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Miss Lawrence & Porsha Williams - 11/18/18

Watch What Happens Live with Andy Cohen

25:01 min | 3 years ago

Miss Lawrence & Porsha Williams - 11/18/18

"Welcome to the Bravo. Clubhouse for the podcast division of watch. What happens live with me? Andy cohen. His fashion sense as wild and her new newest accessory is an unborn child. It's watch what happens with Porsche Williams and miss Lawrence. Now. I'm your host. Andy Cohen live in the rubble clubhouse on Sunday night with a man who can work a hairbrush and a woman who used her man's rush. Verse Gus wet ramming a baby vegan lifestyle to announcing that she straight up having a baby with her new say Dennis here to Kesse. Catch us up. It's Porsche Williams. Worship deserve. Yes. In star on. Fox's outing talents will knock the wig off your head. But his era experts us, well, you put it back perfectly. Welcome back. Our friend miss Lawrence Amos. Sure. Turban inspire bundy's turban, look, this is a turban. Well. Hers was a turban too. I thought oh the goal. That was cute. Okay. Daughter. She's here too Drake for twos. Since Porsche can't is forces sister. Laurie laurie. I wanted to push his dressing room tonight, and I saw Lawrence. Go naked here. Yup. By the way, just want to point out Porsche is drinking a mock tales tweet us, it's not a real Porsche you came in hot to this season. And you have. I have to revisit just one little moment from the premier which it still has me chocolate. Airplanes. The big cities do nothing, but sweat. She said, by the way, Eva joined Porsche for a week, a workout and made time for a little shade. And she has are shady boot moment of done night. We had some babies chaff. But I did I am trying to snap back in shape after this baby. And for this wedding. I'm a model. I'm sorry. When's the last time you saw motto with a big booty? The only one I know. Oh, wow. Yeah. Catch that. I saw that register on Lawrence's. Gotta ask Don I go take down from baby, mama guy body. Y'all got big asses. Something in the water. You get pregnant. Porsche congrats on your pregnancy of his speed round of questions for you. How have you been feeling so far have been pretty at been really good after that one little week of veterans right of juvenile picked out. Kind of I'm going between two Porsche junior, which is PJ. And then maybe one other one Porsche junior. Wants to name the baby Porsche junior. Okay. Wait a minute. Name a little junior. He wants her to be a junior. Guys, sit there baby. For should junior. We can begin. We'll be getting here. Who's the first housewife? You told you were pregnant Niimi, which Atlanta lady is giving you the best baby gifts so far best baby gifts a far. Oh, jeez. They've been so generous, geez. No. But I had a gender reveal kids and have you heard from Cordell since your engagement or pregnant. Yeah. He congratulated me just tonight, really. Oh, no kidding. She's thank you, very. They were living. Yeah. No. But that didn't happen. Now. It didn't happen seen him since you know, he'd been gone. Well, I'm excited for him to be Porsche junior. For Shaheed won't miss Lawrence getting questions. But before we get to those. Here's what three things I am obsessed with tonight. I over the past few years there's been enough tension between Porsche and candy to fill several sex dungeons so much show that this Lawrence even set on this very show that would never be friends again. But here's what you do. But these days, it seems like Bush may finally move beyond. Her candy coated fight to look. Hey, all the girls. We should just go near surprise. Just me you and we could fly together. Joking with you. Is gonna be really sweet local. That'd be sweet. Argue anymore. Put it out too. Now. Any motives? John had to make. Be free as you know, the conversation was jar. Then her personality. It was what it was dryer than her personality. Oh, okay. So they see what I'm saying not free. Right. Well, we're not bring. Well, guess what? Even though candy Porsche are now sharing cute face times on tonight's. Atlanta candy at some t- that she hasn't exactly said to Porsche's face watch. I've never met dinners. I only know people. We have mutual friends. So I'm just gonna shed up. How long did he date your friend two and a half three years? I can't be right. Girls EU's dated during that time. What I heard he cooks for. People's names on. To your friends. She just needs to check his receipts. I'll say nothing. Okay. Go to WWAFL dot TV and tell us on a sliding scale. How bothered should Porsche be by this t Lawrence. How bothered should should be by this. I don't think you should be bothered by. Here's the thing you notice which I'll give on this show. They go dig into your they go get into all your business on it. And one thing about Candice. She ain't never had a probably hundred laundry normally somebody who you have like a truce with. Who used to be moving forward with? No, I I mean, you know, so so by this point I want to give away what happens. But at this point, you haven't heard anything. So how was it? Watching this on tonight's episode to watch it's EPA show. I just thought that can't be just came off. Hateful and miserable. I didn't really know that this was even coming. We were like cool talking on the phone, and then she turned around and pull up. My ex assistant like they did with her ex assistant. So I mean, it's like she's doing is fade, drew. I love. Today. All right. Okay. Finally, miss more. It's maybe busies that's enough checks from his acting gives. But I I always thought too busy to name. Check. The Bravo liberties who he thinks violated international fashion law. Here's what oh let's see which Bravo. Loves miss Lawrence thinks are slaying their looks in which he would throw in fashion jail. Please take this to heart. Okay. Nina's pledging jacket and gold turban confessional. Look, I like the jacket jacket his like her breath. I'm gonna tell you about the turban put it back saw. So your forehead you stay with a full beat face. You know, y'all know map with no foundation on there. So pull that turban back running let that sits. Okay. What about Marlowe bald printed for Sachi outfit? I mean, the Sashi. Labor on. Okay. What about egos denim on denim photo? Shoot. Look, oh, that's good. Now, why tippy toes to put on the hill. Porsches beaded shoker dress which literally choked. That's good. But you know, what? I'll though you probably don't Iringa clash. I would've loved seeing a chandelier with that. Okay. What about Vicky Gumbel since black bathing suit and sexy, Chris? Vicky from the from Orange County. You know, Vicky she's been around for a while. Actually looks like. Skirted see through lace top with rustled sleeve ruffled sleeve. What does that full is that? I don't know it doesn't. Shannon's white cut out confessional. Look with high pony. That's nice Cologne them lift Shah's 'em. Jay's custom couture wedding dress. Okay. Margaret's casual jeans shirt bribe fo- for New Jersey all she likes had a good time following the night before. What about Theresa's fitness competition bikini? She looks good. Okay. Dallas liens one shoulder orange confessional. Look with a crown. No not one bit. Bucket at fun, Luke. Okay. Thank you. Many tweeted Porsche, tink tink Williams, I love the yellow on you. W text and how exactly does Dennis make so much money selling hot dogs. They're really good, really. Next week on the bodies buying them. Actually, the Atlanta outside. It's Eva versus eve rewind. Take a look at this new peak? The biggest I use this group. Why exactly are we Aligarh? We don't believe in definitely extra sometimes your extra when it's not appropriate. Basic, darling. Hell out. I heard from someone that you were telling people that paid today. I don't know that to be true. I don't know if Eva is a liar. But it's looking a little. They are trying to say somebody enough pay somebody to date them on that. Somebody's always being accused of it. Let's go to Barbara from North Carolina. Hey, Barbara, what's your question? Hi, girl. Wondering are you in favour do freeze? And if you are what is your relationship like, whereas fades? You know, we do takes from time to time holidays birthdays, just kind of like in and out there come see how she's doing. And she shakes on me. Okay. Let's go to Jonathan for Minneapolis. Hey, Jonathan what's your question idiots shot up in? It's my birthday tonight hype birthday. Hi, happy birthday. Thank you. My question for you is this Lawrence. This portion is been wearing this lovely red. We look and. Looks like it's Jada Jackson from nineteen eighty. What do you think my beer in you look fierce tonight? And I don't know what you're trying to do the girl you work at it. I like it. You know, it's it's you know, I when I had to show when we have always called that do the curtain has style, and it's still it's still up to date. So, you know, it's it's good. You know, I tell you what they plucked holiday out of it. I'd say my scalp Alonzo did fist. Yes. Just go over lunch. Go over lunch. Let's go to Charles from Atlanta. Hey, charles. What's what's your question? I don't have to do anything. Charles. Amazing. Okay. So really quickly. I know you say, you know, Samara from high Tim, I I don't get like the vibe. It's all like friends like are y'all. Cool. Yeah. You know in the beginning. See I I went to high school with Chamari. And I thought that I thought I remembered her from high school, but I actually had a mixed up with somebody else. But I love her. She's from Decatur. You know, we're both from Decatur Decatur girls. I'm a hauler down. Okay, either. That addition to the show great. It is into the show. We had a little tiff in there. Okay. You'll see it. But we are good. Now. I love her. Let's go to a Llandough from Atlanta hail Ondo. What your question for miss Lawrence? He would your look great. I love you. Guess how after year to right by becoming out with my daughter's picture. Let me tell you. I'm I'm going to be a little serious here. We cannot allow time to be out enemy, however long. It takes you to accomplish something that you said out for when it happens it happens. And I'm here for it. Yeah. Joggers throat. Had a chance to see them this year. But I can't wait. Okay. Okay, Porsche leeann wants to know if your husband to be ever removed all the tattoos of other women's names office body. I've never seen any tattoos of any women on his body. Besides his sister and his mom's face grandma's face. So by the way, are you still in touch with suray I run into quite a bit. And we'll take every once in a while. But you know, it's not, you know, we still are love have you seen Kenya's daughter AB, Brooklyn. I have not had a chance to see Brooklyn Evan. I talked to her you know, as soon as she had. But I haven't seen her yet. No T wants to new Porsche is nei-neither new Frick to your frac. Your relationship seems to be really strong this season. Actually have a lot of francs. I really do. I do this season was good for Porsche. I was able to hold down. Rekindle some good relations relationships with the girl. Yours funny as ever this season. That brings us to this game. Because lately Porsche has been so happy about her relationship with Dennis her love squeals can be heard by pretty much anyone in a four mile radius. So in honor, of course, should be extra vocal about her new blue, boo let's play Dennis or menace. I'm gonna play some quick sounds. You too will have to guess if it's Porsches squealing about Dennis or just some other medicine sound from the okay, let's play the first. Excited about Dennis definitely me. Let's real. This course excited about Dennis. Oh, yes. That's worse. It all the way over the. Let's see the next one. That charade. See another one. That is not me outs. Fades. Okay. Next up. That's me, Diane. That's me. Okay. Okay. Let's let's see another. That you know, that's Reagan. Let's see take. Take. Getting caught in the dark. Okay. Last one. Oh, how we got. That's neat. Let's reveal. Okay. Thank you very much. What it Lanta housewife? Would you want to come on the star whoever on it before I will out, and it's so crazy 'cause you never know who's coming? You never know you just see the character in scripted. You'll know who is who is by the way, everybody's Marlow tweeting that she needs your head piece and. Although she can get any time out of them bar so much stuff from all over time to time. All fall, bald on it. I wanna walk Grammy. Barda in bad and mother bevy Smith has been tweeting. And by the way, I want to say program, you know, bevy is co-hosting Andy Cohen live tomorrow morning. Check that out and the baby's kicking like crazy Anglos time. I can actually see her kicks right now. Loving the night show. Good. It's time for my mazal of the day goes to former Dallas Cowboys linebacker Jeff Rohrer for getting married to his partner and facialists to the Beverly Hills housewives Jonathan Ross today cute. They look Joshua. Became the first NFL player former or current to marry a man, so I mean, that's remarkable to the tour of you would so cute. Here's wishing these guys. A lifetime of tight ends and hitting the shower. Tonight's jackal, the President Trump and his response to the devastating. Fires in California kept offering this solution raking, they should've raked the forests hearing about the president's new affinity for raking is in stark contrast with his past may've your of hoeing around. It's the after show reports Williams from the. Facing? And and miss Lawrence from star on. By the bar is Lauren. I am stunned to find out that Lauren is single. Going to be single for long literally that look at it landed all, you know. You know, they'll single thing is is pretty. Has a lot of action. She's got a chose the best pick. Apollo's coming home soon. Right. Right. When he come home. No. I don't know. When does he get out of what four more? I don't know. Your kids married isn't. He had no idea he marry I don't know. Let's go to Dr Lene from Cleveland. Hey, arlene. What your question? Hi, andy. I wanted to take quickly love all of you. The question is proportionate guy knowing that you've been on a vegan diet. How is your diet? Now knowing that you are expecting are you still getting or who? Grime not beginning more full-blown pregnant, and what am I craving says ham? I haven't. But I am definitely going to be being after the baby. All right. Let's go to Alexis from Virginia. Hey, alexis. What's your question? Oh, she dropped. Let's go to be Jay from Alabama high BJ. What's your question? Where collar, hey, BJ BJ. Are you there? Yes, I'm here. I what's your question. How you doing my questioning before it? I just want to say, I love you. Based on. While on my favorite. You all your energy like show us. My question is why does it seem that can be is always the one that has the dirt on the van that come on the show every season? What do you think that? Maybe because she's got, you know, I don't know. I haven't really paid attention to what she does that other people at just, you know, founded a little odd that she was doing it to me being that we're supposed to be doing better. So I don't know everybody finds start on somebody's man on this show. I just feel like she just went very far to bring out the dirt on Dennis. And she's a little bit obsessed with us. She's up szeswith. Let's a little bit. Let's go to Jimmy from Alabama. Jay, what's your question? Hi Andy portion this morning. I have two questions one proportion and other this morning. Okay. When do you think when Juanita vogue gave candy mice about placement during the greatest A-tour? And what did you think about Chamari co forming hair and outfit from the nine? And I I was living for her outfit. That's like I told her. I thought she was frozen. Honey, she looked just like back in the day. And I enjoyed the throwback. She looked really good to me. And her husband. I love some say we love a shady husband. We what do you think? Shady was being shady unknowingly. And that's the best. Chamari mean for it to be a throwback looked. Well, if she's used it. Look. I'm pregnant, and I'm very shady being Mamie Shater. Okay. She may be using the same person who you get used to. Did you hear the same way? Okay. Let's go to a cure of from South Carolina. Hey hero. What your question? Hi, I have a question for Porsche good. Yeah. I wanted to know which is Dennis get your name tattooed on you. What you do the same for him. We already have a matching tattoo do. Yes. We do. Not only have a whole child when away, but we have a matching tattoos together. Wow. Yeah. Hey, MS Lawrence, Jackie t wants to know what fashion trend you're so overseeing on the streets of the AT L these days, I feel like I'm better to read. I will say. Not really fashioned trend. This is more of beauty trend. What is I think the law frontal things kind of oversaturated not that it's not that Nancy Porsches where? What Porsches where? Is no state is over saturated not that. No, you should start wearing and not that looks bad. Yes. Over our give Dan what quantity you go to what store drug store gas station. Somebody got on a frontal, and they all good from go naked. Oh. Let me say that. Because you do you got your biz bundle. That's it the frontal Lor, and we got a question for you on Twitter Vel for away wants to know how you feel about tennis, Lauren. I liked it. I liked it. Is you love him? He imports are a lot of like. So like as I got to know him. I just realized there's so much like that. It just it makes sense. Honestly, they really are a lot of like, they they're like both crazy. This Lawrence Christie love one wants to know on the show star or the one liners. He says all him or written for MS Bruce. Honey, I'm on the scripted sag show a lines baby. Yeah. Yeah. It's all written. Yeah. All right. Well, I'm still so happy for you. All. Tonight. Everybody. Thanks for listening to the podcast everybody. Hope you enjoyed the show. Remember, new episodes? Go live Monday through Friday at four PM eastern time. Make sure you're subscribed. Have a great rest of your night.

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WWHL @ Home: Hindrigo "Kiko" Lorran & Alex Radcliffe

Watch What Happens Live with Andy Cohen

24:02 min | 1 year ago

WWHL @ Home: Hindrigo "Kiko" Lorran & Alex Radcliffe

"Welcome to the Bravo clubhouse for the podcast addition of Watch. What happens live with me Andy Cohen? He can help you with your food and drink in hot TUB. Bugsy pointed out his shrinkage. It's watch what happens. Live at home. Was Chef Kiko and Alex from below deck, command now. EMC. Welcome to watch what happens live at home from the Hamptons I'm your host Andy Cohen back from break with one guest who can feed you until the other one has to carry you to bed from below deck Mediterranean. Say Hi to Wellington's chef. Kiko Lauren who is joining us from a boat in Waku Wow hey kiko. Andy. Great to see you and deckhand Alex Radcliffe, who is currently working on a charter yacht in Alaska. What's going on Alex, and what's Oh? Man, how you doing safe to say this is the first time ever on this broadcast. We've had simultaneous guests in Alaska and Hawaii and fun fact, you guys are on the same time zone. Who Knew? It seems like every charter chef Kiko makes macaca kind of like how chef Leon always made beef cheeks, but I know viewers would want to kick me in the beef cheeks. If I didn't ask Kiko to defend your Mukoko Okay Dude I'm putting fifteen seconds on the clock. Defend your macaca. Go Omega Aright. I make every day because is just amazing. Have a Lotta flavor. I duNno, it says logic blades and. People try they. Say. All Right! Okay well since I wanNA have my mccaw. And eat it, too. It's time for your move Kotkai ing me crazy. Chefs Kiko. I have some follow up questions about what the Brazilian fish stew means to you. Who taught you to make this dish? My Mom, would you say Mkaku is your signature dish. I would describe its taste in three words. Taste? Delicious. A super good. As forward, sorry. Mrs and Super Good Okay well. No, that's three words. has anyone ever said it back to the kitchen? Know someone set was Gooey, but I never had back. And have you ever made it on date? Couple of Cried Tears of joy after taking a bite of it. Yet S-. Does macaca have a lot of calories? Not much. How long does it take to make? Ronald thirty forty minutes. Okay, very good all. Thank you for playing. I feel very complete about lukaku which was one of my goals tonight when Bugsy landed on Wellington. The News Second Stu, you could tell that she immediately infested. Heart so I want the buzz on Alex's crush with. Does it bugs on your hearts? Okay. Alex you said You love Brady is in perfect teeth, which of bugs these features hooked you I. Definitely a bright eyes I. see them right away and. Lawsuits. That's a look for sure. Did your heart race the first time she? How'd you? Know more of like my stomach I might have had a ticket food, but yeah I mean that's it. Got Nervous. Do you find her accent sexy? Oh off. That's South African accent, absolutely my. Are you turned on by Bugsy tables gapes. At the table settings. Can't than that oh? Yeah, Z's hairclips, hot or not. Hot. Does bugs these work ethic. Turn you on. Do you feel like she would make a better chief Stu than Hannah. I. Think I think they're two different. On two different levels I think bugs is you know is a quick in hard worker, and just always has a happy face on, so she relates a little more with appliance. Bugsy drunkenly wind that you don't really love her, did that make you feel wanted? Or did you see it as needy? I want I want I want to be wanted. Wanted Bugsy boarded the Wellington announcing. She was bringing the thunder on a scale of one to ten. How much thunder did she make? You feel down under. One does wonder thunder storming. What? It's off the scale I it's. All right. Well I don't expect chef Kiko to spill the recipes to his best dishes on air. You can just text me those, but he seems to be working with one secret ingredient that no prior chef has had sanity that sad. I WanNa see if this level headed. Sweetie has made some of the same missteps as his predecessors with Kiko. No, you didn't Okay Kiko, have you ever engaged in blatant PDA in the Galley Like Adam? I don't think so. Have you ever completely lost your marbles enthrone dishes around the Galley man. Never have you ever been fired from a yacht like Leon? No. However impact yes, yes. You have yeah. At, why'd you get fired? Because, I was like we kept allots. So due to leave it. Kinda bad. Have you ever intentionally used an ingredient than a charter guest disliked like Adamy. Nari. I got the first charter. We ask got the person three same late. Not Pres I think was his friends saying like fish was. Three. I. These agreed a little bit with that. Because even he didn't do captain. Sandy try and she said it was the issues so. You know you always have people which loved, but someone can also have the opinion, right? Have, you ever stripped down naked after a night out drinking. have. You ever snapped at the crew for being too loud while you're cooking. No. Have you ever add to Bacon obscenely vulgar penis cake for charter? Well pretty much. All of the other shop since spent an entire charter season completely at odds with their chiefs, do you? The two. Yeah, my I wasn't a cheap soon. Stories because various mobile, but line her we was, we were like weren't doing their well. Okay we got a lot of your questions for you. Guys, Kiko, Katrina. You said you appreciate or get annoyed when Captain Sandy is constantly hovering over you in the kitchen. It's a bit annoying. Because makes me school century a little bit what I'm doing what I have to do it, but. I totally understand that she was around now, but it's a little bit on. Alex Tim w said after Sierra called the hot tub. Do. You regret going in there and your boxers with bugsy especially since she saw your shrinkage. So. You know some people are born. With a lot of luck I'm Irish Irish. Curse Oh. It's all right. You know you just gotTa own it. It's fine. Are you saying you're a grower, not a shower or you saying? Building our. Own not over. Yup. I think I. Just put those words in your mouth. I think what you were saying as you were built small, and that's okay. What being six, three, two, hundred and twenty five pounds. Wise. My nickname tiny I don't know. My God are you six three? Six three yeah wow. Hard to be proportional when you're six three right? Hey, at least I, have a big got. Funny! Kiko Twyla Jay said. Why do you prioritize taste over timing? Did that work out for you for the rest of the charter season? Your food is seems to always be late. Yeah, it's like. Also like. I don't understand because also on the show. You already doing a lot of steps in you like show everything you're doing, but I was also for you for I guess place, so that's why I. I'm not trying to give an excuse. Because was late, but I mean it was a little bit hard to get on time. You know right seems like it now when it comes to managing her crew captain, Sandy lays down the law and gives no APPS but my. My guests are about to get grilled by another tough captain. Who doesn't give a talk here to drag the tender? It's ginger snap as drag captain. Sandy Hayes Right Captain Sandy and your favorite Captain Captain Sandy I'm so glad to be back great to see you guys. strikeout and Sandy is going to ask you questions about each other's jobs for every wrong answer. You have to drink. Okay. Drag Sandy Europe already ready. I one up Kiko which type of not. To as the king of knots in boating. Are! To drink up because the answer is a Vol- line very good Alex. Okay Alexey Ready. What does it mean to Julianne? Vegetables Oh to to make love to the vegetables correct. No! Means cutting limited long thin strips. Oh, I thought you said Juliet like Romeo and Juliet Oh. That's funny, but would you have known Julianne? I think to okay. What's your next question for Kim God? What is the term for when? A sailing yacht leans over to one side in the wind. I don't know. The answer is healing. You gotTA start drinking up. You're going to be drunk by the end of this gang. Right Alex, a mixture of flour and fat called Aroo is used to do what a thickness sauce or be coat the meat for frying. Taking the sauce all. Yes, wow. Thickening the sauce. Lol, clearly I don't but yeah. All Right Kiko. What is the name for the nautical measurement us to convey speed on a boat I don't know the answer is knots, knots great butter? Let's. Take, dredge okay. Last question for Alex, true or false and amuse. Bouche is a two byte dish meant to stimulate your palate before a meal, true or false. Boss. It's one wow good. HOW ALEX EXCELLENT! Thank you drag Captain Sandy. Levin you ginger snap while my guest tonight might work on a vessel by the name of Wellington. Which is Pretty Tame? As far as both names go, but I wanNA, know if these two pro yachties can decipher between some very real, but both names or once made up by people who are playing for a full deck, meaning my staff, let's play yacht or not okay. Are these really names or not okay now? WHO's the loser? Dad? Is that real or fake? Sake. Real. Is Real. Yes, that is real. Oh, it's the story of your. Life Okay next one a hallway manatees. Is it real or Fake? Ethics take. That is fake, okay? What about the cod father kind of cute? Real. Sake. THAT ISRAEL THAT ISRAEL By the way hold on Alex. Who is on your shirt? It's a it's me and you we're. We're best friends, so it have been John Mayer and I might have put my face over it. So you know what socks my head look so much better on his body, so I need to lose some weight now. This isn't good for me. That is hilarious. That is John Mayer. It is I live? Well. Guess what Alex I can't wait to see you in person and get our own picture. I can't wait I want to. Come on. You're going to get a picture if I get some Yukon Roll, thank you go. I want some macaca. Okay, do you deal, okay? Okay is this name of a boat real. I can see clearly now. My husband's gone. True. Okay Real! That's real around. It's fake. Couple bore. What about a star is aboard? ooh, I like the Little Lady Gaga a little. Bird okay, it's true. That's true. Yeah, it's fake. Okay? What about? Buoy on say. Real I would say fake. Because alleged real, it is real. Okay. What about two more? What about? She got the house? I would. I would say fake, but in real life it'd be real. It is real. It is real last out my favorite kind of. Wasted Semen. Is it real or fake? It is real. Right, thanks for playing gentlemen. We have more viewer questions for you. Alex Molly. K. wants to know. Why weren't you in Jessica? Ever thing? Did you ever have feelings for her? That weren't reciprocated, no me and Jessica. Where we just we were tight like we have to Simla personalities, but completely different I think we're ten years apart and she's like a big sister. Kiko Jane F set. It seems like you get along with everyone, but you had a real problem with Lara. Is it rare for you dislike someone? Yes and she was like. That, but she was very hard enough for both of you. polly Jay wants to know. Why do you think charter guests Justine Thornton didn't tip as well. You all really bent over backwards for him and his guests. I think I think. He spent more on the dogs new collar, so he didn't have enough money for. Jessica are texted Alex. what's one thing about Malaya's leadership style that you wish you could change? Nothing I thought she was the perfect leader hands down on all lawsuit Blake Oh. As a question for both of you at either of you ever watched an episode of below dako below deck mad before joining the crew. Teacup sorry. Did. You Watch the show before coming on blow docker below deck. Mad, no, no, never because actually in Europe, where I where I usually staying Beaumont. It's really difficult to watch like on the computer. It's blocked so I never watched. It is La what about you Alex I walked less than a handful just found out. I did a little research, but didn't help me too much. So Kiko Elissa Gee said Hannah has had a problem getting along with the chefs on the boat. Why do you think you to have gotten along so well? I Dunno beginning. I felt very nice. entergy likes from from Hannah and I think I was just natural in Oh. Alex Brett. L. Wants to know your reaction to seeing a lower abi so insubordinate to Hannah. Did you ever see that on board? No I just use the nicest girl because I never saw any of the drama until watching it now so I. I had no idea no idea at all Kiko Jeremiah K said when Hannah was on watch. What happens live? She said you needed some work as a chef. Do you take offense to that or would you agree? I agree I. Think we always skin ruled ourselves to know so just keep. This needs love and I love you. Why did you do and always GonNa? Prove it not. Alex Tony a said, be honest. What was your first thought when you heard your boatswain was going to be a woman? I loved it. Because a lot of guys get a little more intense and have more of an ego so Yeah I was happy. Had you ever worked for a woman? On a boat, no! Got It. Where off about? Working at bartender and working restaurants. Got It, all right? It's time for our moment of tonight. I'm turning it over to our good friend. Bevy Smith wants to share a few words about race and the entertainment industry, systemic racism in Hollywood is as old as silent movies and the fifteen years I've worked in TV I've never once had a black director. I've only have one black writer, and that was here at Bravo fashion points. And on several pop culture shows up a part of I've had the advocate strongly that they hired black people as producers because we were covering stories with a majority of them were sent to the ram black celebrities, and it really does matter about who tells your story. Representation Matters. That's the way we avoid silly stereotypes tropes about black people, so it's important that guess that we're on camera, but behind the scenes is even more important, so let's. Racism in Hollywood. Thank you bevy! You are a better relation I. WANNA. Thank Chef Kiko and Alex for being Europe tomorrow night. The CAST A MILLION DOLLAR LISTING LA at ten fifteen after show on twitter live now. Thanks Alaska thanks Hawaii got. Here man. Hey everybody. It's the after show I got chef. Kiko and Alex from Below Deck Med Alex Miranda, Gee, said you find rob's open relationship at home to be sketchy. Do you think he's just saying that to get with jets? I think I think he was pure and honest I. I didn't know too much about it, so it's not really my place to talk about it so. Kiko neak Nikki said is a six course meal for twelve people the craziest request. You've actually ever gotten from a charter guest. For sure yeah by the way Kiko. Congratulations on pulling it out in tonight's episode him. You had a major triumph dainty. Thank you so much. That was how much how much stress was that? Was a law to launch dress, but I was confident in thinking positive. That would like inish so I was just once to get the job done. That's great. Ricky h wants to know Alex what was your reaction to seeing Robbie so emotional about everything that went on with his mom. You know that's close to his heart so like I'm. I'm a big Momma's boy. Also. If anything happened to me, you know I would probably be in the same boat, but It's it's sad. Respectable so. Now Kiko Nicole Jay texted. was there anyone on the boat? You were initially attracted to when you got on. No 'cause I got girlfriend. Maybe. A. I'm getting a little crush on Alex. We're best friends across align Andy, don't. It's just a Bromance, right? Alex No L. K. said. Why do you think you and me got along so well together compared to the other deckhands I. Think I think we just kind of grew up the same of just kind of having a very athletic in an outgoing personality in we just vibe while together. We're not emotional, also, so yeah, so we click pretty well. Alex Olivia texted. What was your first impression of Captain Sandy? intimidated. Sam F. emailed. What's the most annoying thing is? Stu can do in the Galley. Don't take the plates when it's ready. Heather be. Alex? What was just as reputation as a stew? Like on the other boat work together on. dufy jittery in really not a lot understanding of what's going on of cleaning the boat. Late like oh! Coming to me and ITERATING Gary. I don't know all right. All right. I think this is a good place to leave it chef Kiko. It's great to see you guys. Are you going to surf today and? WHO ALEX! In Alaska no right Alaska Oh. You're in Alaska. Wait a minute. So, yeah, you're definitely not going to surf in Alaska. Well. What are you going to do today in Alaska Going to work in the engine room, we gotta do some maintenance and probably frame up my best friend shirt nice. Chef Kiko. What are you GonNa? Do Tonight in Hawaii. I I'M GONNA. Make a special genius for my girlfriend and then yeah, that's what I be surfing. This morning was very good. That's awesome. All right will enjoy the macaca thanks guys. Thanks for listening to the PODCAST everybody hope you enjoyed the show. Remember new episodes. Go live, Monday through Friday, at four. PM Eastern time. Make sure you're subscribed. Great, rusty or not.

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"Welcome to the Bravo clubhouse for the podcast edition of Watch what happens live with me Andy Cohen. Both, my guests don't miss a B. and boy oh boy have I missed being in this seats. It's watch when ovens live with Dr Wendy Yourself, Oh, and Lonnie Lov back in the clubhouse now. I'm your host Sandy Cohen. Absolutely thrilled to be back in the clubhouse for the first time since March and I bet if these walls could talk, they'd say where? Have you been and man is this bunny creepy thankfully, these walls can't talk but I still miss them very very much and I missed you guys here to my crew. My first guest tonight is the newest real housewife of Potomac who says the professor has arrived and Cross is officially concession. So consider daddy and rolled please welcome Dr Wendy. Dr Wendy. Lorraine. I'm so happy to meet you virtually and she is the new Voice of Bridezillas Thursdays on we. TV, who loves Potomac so much she wants to marry say hi to the very funny line. Hey Lonnie. Love. Hey did. Back Yeah. Thank you. I'm so glad you're finally here Lonnie love and you Wendy Hey programming note make sure you stick around for Bravo Chat Room, which is on right after US Giselle Porsche Hannah and Kate are going deep on tonight's Potomac and more it all starts at ten thirty I think Porsche Giselle have things they need to say about the candidates Mo-. NEAT conflict, and by the way speaking of I wonder what both of your reactions were to candice sang tonight that she is going to press charges. She's going to press charges against Monique Wendy. What was your reaction to that? Yeah I was I was shocked because you know we we often get into it as a friend group but pressing charges is something that we haven't done before. But then again, you know having experienced the whole incident, it was really visceral. It was it was a lot. So I wasn't the one that was attacked saw Is Up to Kansas to decide what she wants to do with that. All right. Well, any former virgin will tell you that I times can be awkward Nazi and way less fun than it looks in Porn. But since I'm joined by two clubhouse virgins, I wanNa make sure everyone leaves satisfied I wanna get to know you both a little bit and engage in a little foreplay with a little clubhouse quickey. Okay. Here we go. Lani Lani who was the first entertainer you saw that made you think I WANNA do that Treads of course wow wendy. Six. In Ninety six Wendy. who was the first politician who inspired you? ooh, that's a good one. And we have to be Congressman Elijah Cummings of Baltimore. Late congressman us. He looked very. Yes. So both of you Lonnie what was your first concert? Regain. In Eighty six. That's a good first concert. What about you Wendy Mc Hammer and I love every second of. Fans and I knew all the words Hammock. was last thing that made you cry Lonnie. On the real I'm always crying on show I smile like up always crying so it was I'm I'm getting tipsy tonight and Andy Yeah. Good. For you. Dr Wendy. What's the last thing that made you cry? When I saw the PM Ethnic. So maybe that's wasn't worth the tears. But when I saw Comma Harris Walk on stage I just thought that was so historic the VP debate I tear up. Off The moment. Thank you very much. I. Liked that little get to know you icebreaker. Moment. Now Wendy knows firsthand that when the Potomac women get together, they don't leave much room to get a word in but I wanNA know about the first impressions they laughed on their new professor friend she is about to tell us with Cherry Bob Sums Wendy I of questions pick your answers between the bobbing heads of your friend group candice, Robyn Giselle, Karen Ashley Alanine who style impressed you the most. Candidate. Who Struck you as being the Massias of the group. Between Does Allen Karen? Karen which wife made you laugh the most? Giselle. Winch wife was most welcoming and who is the least open to you joining the group. Most. Welcoming acknowle Robin Robin is the homegirl I'm Lee Karen. who struck you as the most trustworthy of the group. Robin. Who is the most difficult to travel with? Like we. We're good. Here's a good one. Who Do you think has the biggest ego in the Group You re truthful. Guess. Mommy love agrees. Who was the first to get on your nerves? Is She frozen. God I just thought that question. Really. Shocked riding. The audience is going. The Way? She's Okay? Wendy. Who was? What was the question Lonnie? Would you? The mouse. WHO GETS? To get on your nerves wendy. Karen. All right. Thank you very much playing. First Impressions. That was very funny actually. Before she hit it big as a host author comedian full-time Potomac Zealot Lonnie, love used to be an electrical engineer. It's true. So I WANNA know which Potomac happenings have left are charged up and which make her short-circuit let's find out with does Lonnie love it or low that Okay Lonnie Monique's African parrot shallow love it or loathe it. Love love a good Terry I need one. Love it. Okay. How about Monique's inability to feel remorse after getting physical with candace love it or low that. I love it that you know that ain't. Right. That's right. So I love it. Okay. Robbins Sexy alter-ego take. Love it. Okay. Love Tatyana I want to be tied to Yada. Okay. How do you feel about Karen's Tangerine Dream confessional outfit love it or low the Lonnie La. Take fashion risks to Andy but. I have to say I, love it. Okay. How about Ashley's? Discussions of her torn booty all love it or low then. The audience is giving thumbs down. This is a very audience and they're all virtual I bought it. Now the audience now now, we don't want to hear about booty home. Okay Lonnie Love Giselle and Jamal giving their relationship another try love it or low then. I Love Reverend Jamal, they make it work. That's black. Love Love. Love. Michael. Claiming he fell asleep before sleeping with the woman love it or low then. What to say the audience is they are all wagging they're fingers and thumbs down. Yeah. That's right. Okay. We don't buy that. Okay. Thank you very much. Lonnie love now bomb Wendy. I'm wondering There's so much talk online and about. Candice's role in the Dispute Between Sheehan Monique Obviously, monique put her hands on her. She wouldn't let go. She came back around for more won't what blame if any does candice have in the in this discussion? I don't think that anything warrants a physical attack. I do. Ladies were eight. You know that's that's that's where I. picked by fans you know and it wasn't just putting her hand on their she put her hands on their pinter down and was punched in the back of the head I. Don't think anything warrants that. But for me, I think that the ladies both of them should have arranged a time to speak to each other and hash out the issues outside of the noise of the group outside anyone that may have been. You know whispering in the ear I really wish that they would have talked about this over dinner over cocktail and I honestly think it would have been resolved. Our Rights can you tell? Doc In this clubhouse. saw. Right in. Virtual audience for a few questions. Raven has a question for Lonnie Love Okay Raven. Kmart. Human is since you accidentally suite of gender her baby. All. You know what I miss read that I thought. I. Read somewhere that she had a baby girl. So I just put Andy I. You know I would do that. I just put a tweet our onto. Lonnie and I said, you know have a great day when I tell everybody came to me it was dragged me there was dragging me. This guy dragged by me, but the point is learning. How to mistake, we don't know the gender and we just want her to have a healthy. Baby help us it. Okay. Eddie Europe nuts with the question for Wendy. I Dr Wendy. Name will married like me. That's awesome. I quit. Do you think, Mike Darby's kidding days are over now that actually having another baby and what did you think when you first heard of they're somewhat open merit. Rule So. When it comes to marriages if people like it, I love it. But I am a professor and I have to go with the facts and history has a strange way of repeating myself. Right let's leave it there. By the way, we got a question from Garcia Beauvais who wants to know Volonte love what's it like working with me? On Sale miscellany Beauvais that's not her middle name. But I gave her one. You know what? Garage Sale, you have created a monster. Righty. You put her on the show down she comes in. She's gotTa have cameras everywhere. She's tells us we gotta be there. You know she just announced that she's coming back to Beverly Hills and we're thrilled Sahar but see Sheila Posse as soon as I'm trying to get everyone's so we gotta look at Your Hobby. I agree I agree hey, Wendy you and I were talking before the show about. What an important role of black women could have in this election coming up talk to me about that you have you had a platform before you have a bigger platform. Now, what do you want people to know or specifically I want women in the audience who are watching, right? Well you know historically black women are the most loyal voters of any demographic. We come out we show out and we vote. So I want black women to know that this election is going to be one of the most consequential lifetimes. We have a Supreme Court justice justices open, and I think what's really going to be important to propel the vote for it is ads black women. When we go to the polls, we bring people with us. We just don't go as individuals but bring everyone you can, and let's make it an event. It's really really important whether you said on left side right side everybody needs to vote because there's so much at stake during this election time, vote yes. On it because it does yes. Okay. Ninety by the way Wendy, I didn't ask you what was your reaction to monique kind of at the at the group meeting you all had about her lack of. Remorse. In the fight, what was your reaction to that day and also what was your reaction to Giselle taking notes and bringing a security guard? Balboa's par for the course out like Zell is so extra. So hurt they can knows her. Like I might just out what is going on here but that aside I just wish that there was some sense of accountability as far as what happened you know at the end of the day someone was hurt someone was physically attacked. So I would like some accountability and we saw things on social media that was saying that there was no accountability. So we thought maybe let's give this opportunity to talk through it because social media things can be construed. There was none. So it is what it is, and so we left there. Lonnie Kayla are set on a scale from one to ten. How shocked were you that Garcia Sal admitted on the real the Jamie Foxx is hung like a horse. Won T ten being the most ten I was like what I was more shocked abby that she didn't have sex with him. I was like girl. What try it out get it is still not I will get her to try it. I don't care Jamie coming fighting with our sale. Ads Wendy how are you feeling about Charlotte these days? You obviously had a bad introduction. To. Tell is okay with me Manta Challah where you know that little interaction of the Lake House but it's okay I'm a little bit traumatize but I'm okay with a child and and it's fine. It's as long as the child did not snatch my wig on national TV where Okay Okay Okay you need whatever glue care does head drag tar was that WIG did not A. Lining. To play. Kennedy should start a wig and he said line like that's. No No. She just turned lemons into lettuce. Town. Right. I'm saying makes up. Okay That, we did not come on what are you drinking tonight by the way vodka taty right motor diet. Drug Tequila Straight. Andy when are you GonNa do the real housewives competent so I could be on it. We'll. We'll talk after the show. Okay. Wendy Vanita L. wants to know why you think Karen's being so forgiving of Monique's behavior. because. If you look at the dynamics, you need someone to be on the show with is actually her friend and likes her. All. Right Lonnie Jason Are said Cincinnati Denise Richards is a friend of the real and she's come on to defend herself in the against the ladies Do you take her side in her argument between her and and everyone else? Know. Now now, I my business you the best deal you're not getting in white people's Business Nah. Good. Okay, I don't I can't say. ebay wants to know Wendy how do you think Comma Harris Fared against pants in last Wednesday night's debate and would I have been a better moderator Than Susan page? Oh my God. Andy. You have to take the moderator. You've got this like you got this comleted. Amazing. She was strong. She was confident. She let him know I am speaking address her correctly she was on point and then she laid out policy issues, which is important. She laid out what she would do laid out things at this current administration has not done and so she did an amazing job Kudos Kamla Harris we love her and we sat out to the fly the fly was the real. Yeah off that VP debate. Thank you. To the fly I. Believe Ruth Bader Ginsburg, somewhere made that happen. So thank you to the fly. Thank you to the flat Lavar right on that note, it is time for this day in Bravo history. Okay. Many people consider the man's does to be New Jersey's first family. But during a trip to Italy one member said, he may never have a family of his own. Here's a clip from Manzo with children which aired five years ago tonight on this night Chris reasoning than he says, he's such Kucuk is because he knew. He never wanted to get married my heart flow. Talk. I don't WanNa get married. What about? Farther you kidding. Mom You always worry you know they say you're only as happy as you say trial, can you imagine sitting there and thinking about Oh? My son doesn't feel well, there's nobody to take care of him. I would die. I would die. I've never seen caroline with her hair up like attitude change. Yeah. Those. The Doorbell who is at? The door. Bad thing walking. Why am I know you're getting ready to join the chat room Giselle you and Porsche got into it last week on Bravo's dot room over the Monique Candice fight or are we going to hear more from you both about that tonight? Of course, and you know the chat room is always fire. So you never know what's going to happen but just stay tuned. Okay. Thank you Lonnie. Wendy. Stay tuned for Bravo's chat room which Giselle in portion the gang now. How many times a day do you find yourself hoping for over a fresh start? Especially, if you're someone who has a criminal background, which by the way is one in four Americans, an astounding number imagine if your future your security, your family, your livelihood depended on it the opportunity, not just do good work but to get back to work Dave's killer bread believes your past shouldn't be would hold you back. Dave's killer bread believes in second chance employment because a job can be the difference between rebuilding your life and returning to a life of crime. It's the purpose behind every loaf. They make learn more at Dave's killer bread dot com slash second chances. and. We are back with the after show with Wendy Yourself. Oh, and Lonnie Love Lonnie's the new voice of Bridezilla on. TV Thursdays at ten. On the real. Hey Wendy are you do you have a regular? Job a regular pundit gig that on with a specific channel or we just find you everywhere. You find me everywhere. So wherever they need my expertise, I, get called in to give my commentary which I think is amazing because my full time job is being a professor. So I don't have necessarily the bandwidth to be able to be situated in one place but wherever they call me I go very good. Young you get great commentary you give great comedy. We're diverse voices so Akiko Dot Wendy, I agree I love following you on twitter. I'm so proud that you're a housewife I. Love I love your political commentary. Andy thank you honey I appreciate that. Lonnie. Tell me about Diana Ross driving through your neighborhood waving to everybody because I've never heard this story and I'm a huge Diana, Ross, Fan like the biggest. So tell me. You know I have a book out called I tried to change. You don't have to the memoir I know and by the way I loved your interview with Bevy Smith about about your memoir. Loved Evie here I love her but basically when I was growing up, Diana? Ross is from the same projects that I was from and when I was a little. Brewster. Projects, I'm from the brewster projects. Detroit all day the hey yeah. See Okay. Senior when I was a little girl, she used to ride through after her concerts in that really influenced me she will. She would come to a stop she will wave and everything. So it was just a wonderful thing and she's always been I finally was able to see her and meet with her. Thank you tracy, Ellis Ross her daughter and I was able to tell her and it was just a wonderful time. She's a wonderful woman. That's great. I. Love Me. Diana Ross and I share a teleprompter operator. That's as close as I've gotten Diana's. Wendy allies K wants to know beside yourself which of the Potomac ladies would you say is the most and least politically attuned? ooh, okay the most. Cup I will say. Okay. So candidates and Giselle. Super politically attuned. The bottom would have to be. Karen. y'All want me say this. You. That's why I think this impersonal. Thousand Karen Yeah you're you're okay learning. Sandrine L. wants to know your most and least favorite Bravo. To have come on the real Oh Wow. The most. The. Most. While I think it's any it will leaney was she's co-host and she's done all that kind of stuff. So I think she's the most that you know 'cause her ratings are up the least I'll have to check the ratings but. Probably one of the white ones to be honest because we're diverse show. the APP is be truthful is probably one of them law neon Lonnie does not with. You. He actually quite literally does. 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Eva Marcille & Miss Lawrence

Watch What Happens Live with Andy Cohen

23:47 min | 2 years ago

Eva Marcille & Miss Lawrence

"Welcome to the Bravo. Clubhouse for the podcast division of watch. What happens live with me? Andy cohen. He's one of the greatest hair and fashion scholars, and I wonder how she spent her gift card for seventy dollars with even Marcellin miss Lawrence town. Most Andy Cohen live in the Bravo. Clubhouse two thirds of the way through in Atlanta reunion. That has aged us all by two or three years from the real outside of Atlanta. Looking nothing like a tree tonight. It's even Marcel. And say hi to America's favorite singers slash actors slash hairstylist from star on FOX miss Lawrence. Great to see you both. I'm so glad you're here. Thanks for having last time. I saw you. It was at that bloodbath of a reunion. God. Yes. After tonight's reunion. I think it's fair to say we all need a big drink in a bigger piece of cake over at the bar. Please welcome the creator of the famous explosion cake at flower shop bakery in New York City, Amira Kazan. The power of spray goes is out now like Kelly Ripa turned me onto these cakes. They're unbelievable. And she brought one of my baby shower, you're gonna cut it in about ten minutes. And you're going to it's going to blow everyone's mind. So I just had a slice of that from Andre Leon Talley Barney's. Oh, there you go there. Amazing brag. Let's get started. I during the nights, reunion Marlow and Chamari were slinging shaded each other left. And right, take a look, it's intuition. So Mari has a drinking problem. I she psych it. What is the difference between anything we've seen Mari do and you being drunk in Tokyo? That's not just he didn't you only get pooping. That's just not sure. Gucci back Thursday you keep living through your husband. I don't trust the conflict with a list streets talk. What about what the stay about? You know, even the hell you are first off you've been on this damn children's kick seasons. And I can't tell you what the hell you granola clear if Alfie and clearly the sale clo- lease not. Alright Goto WWAFL dot TV for a first ball of the night who won this shade battle Marlo or Chamari who do you think one semi liquid Davao? So here's the thing. Right. I watched that. And Tamari carried on in that read moment, and she was given this Valenciano go, right? Never heard of that. Right. I can't really give her the trophy. She got the Charlie because she said she was a convict with a list and that. Everybody come from some. So I never read to you. Guys are going with Somari ninety two percent. This season Marlow revealed the streets. We're talking about what street you actually live on. What is your current living situation? What's going on name as most people live in a home? I have I have you moved since we've last seen you now since you have not moved. But you not what's more amazing. Is that Marlo spins more time worried about where I live in labels and less time worried about proper application of a lace fried. Miss lawrence. Speaking of you, attended Diana Ross is big seventy birthday blowout. And I have a bunch of questions all about it. Who's rendition of happy birthday was better beyond say or Stevie Wonder? Don't you dare do that too? What what's her any partygoer? Who made you think? How did they get the invite? It was it was. I mean, did he was there Leonardo DiCaprio Kris Jenner, Chris rock? I mean, there were a lot of huge stars. I think I'll tell you something the energy in that room, the vibration was so good. I think everybody that was there, but long the most surreal moment, I oh, me and Bette midler. Honey, what you in Bette midler was like I had never met a stranger. She said I got to the concert portion of the party. Yeah. I was invited to the private party as well. Then the concert was held at the blade Eum in LA. I was sitting all the way at the end by my little self because you're gonna like to party and get like by myself, sometimes as she saw me. She said, you know, I'm gonna come down there is that. Okay. And how to me in bed set there and KiKi then God. Out on all the data Ross's music low. The best thing about rated. Thank you very much. By the way, we want to welcome the host Bev elections on radio and e bevy Smith. You are a Beverly. By being. I kind of feel like I'm Beth -lating. In this Lawrence came for your questions before we get to those. Here's what three things I am obsessed with tonight I tonight during the reunion, Greg joy knee on the couch. And here's what is they look back on a trying passed it made us wonder, whether they're going to try to have a future watch. A walk in the park that he even if he didn't have cancer we try to push her away. No, I wouldn't trying to push away. I've never had cancer before whatever it is. I was doing I didn't understand that either. Obviously I was upset because I'm the person them with all of this stuff. You both want to save this marriage. Do you need me? I feel like I have been pushed up against the wall. And I'm coming out like, no. Got to me says this could not work. Anything is possible. Right. We will just have to see. Alright sad. It was show. Sad really sad. Second with all knee was facing at home. One would think that she would need some friends to lean on? But tonight, she declared that there was hardly a friend in sight Gluck tenuous title changed from Nina's friends eve is friends. Point during the season. Did you agree with that title change, your jawline that friends I have a learn why watching the show we weren't? We weren't. I'm not interested in being really good friends with any of these girls. Anyway, to do yourself a disservice when it comes to your friends, and I know I'm not even free as we'd have these people. Hurtful like what you see? Here said you on that my friends so just understand what you're doing. You think it's all nonchalant and cute. But that hurts. No response. Okay. Here's what that leads star next fall. Which is whose side are you on any or everybody else? What was your reaction to what was going on there? You know, what I was really surprised about? How cold Nina was it was it was sad. I mean, the way I understand it is the point of the reunions to unpack luggage. Right. And a lot of times you watch the show, and you have revelations learn things that you didn't know during the season. Yeah. And so my irritation with Niimi was what I learned while watching the show, but it just seemed like she just came out there like would've fixed shoulder and daggers like she was just ready. Not a third shoulder that won't shows everybody else thereby landside is finally in honor of the reunion. I want to have this Lawrence weigh in on their looks like he's taking a trip back to the reading room. Here's what it signed for round of against the law. Rinse reunion. We are going to go through reunion outfits. You say who sleighs and who should be dragged off their couch and cuffs. All right. What about even shimmering gone with dramatic off the shoulder sleeves? I love. I love the silhouette other gun. I was not a fan of the color and the maverick Butler glam, but the glam was eight was on. He's understated one shoulder guy actually love I did. I did I was not a fan of her glam. But I had words she actually had to pay got only because I love of you know, I love it. I love simplicity on women. I'm myself. What about candies metallic dress? And dramatic thing wasn't us. I'll tell you right now everybody else was on trend for prompt promises. Oh. But you didn't like candies hair. I loved her. And I like to hear it. I make all right. What about ten years V-neck count in diamond necklace? No, I thought the necklace competed with that what all of the the shoulders. Porsches sleek maternity look with embellished shoulders. I'm I don't like to talk about pregnant women. Hit the golden goddess moment. It was it was it was cute. Do. Sure. Mari's green and blue sequined dress. Honey, I you know, what I was trying to figure out something nice day until I learned that she called the Balenciaga and nobody's ever heard of that which doesn't just what about Marlow black sheer and shiny dress with statement era. No, but not this could have been good. I would have read the model had a have pooled like all the way back or something short and crop. No. Let's take it through to season one. Him in his silk mustard Bryson bat rock dress. What you act that? Let me that you know, the answer that okay? Season. Three candy and a strapless leather print min leopard-print show. Off. Michael Rapaport tweeted based on my professional opinion. I must say that collectively this is one of the best reunions, ever, funny, dramatic and shocking stuff. All right. Well, I agree. Now. A you got to cut that cake and show what it looks like this is super cool this out. This is why you need this cake. Everybody I brought you on that was a champagne bottle my daughter, Kathleen. Check this out everybody here it goes. Every kid get older, I called up the Kelly Ripa kitty tell you I do. Okay. Let's go to the phones we Sheila from Alabama. Hey, Sheila, what's your question? Hi, Andy, how you today grin about to be better. Because she got Lauren Sheila. Hey, Sheila, you see little but this this question. It's eva. Yes. Me any when ni as you to come back to the restaurant, and you told her don't have the my you don't wanna be on the Mike. Why you didn't want the mic on what equestrian when I left the restaurant. I was done with the day. I was done with the scene. I was done with the girls. I was done with the day when Nina calls, we I thought it was a friend calling me trying to talk me off a ledge like girl. Let me talk. Right. But you are on a reality show. I get it. But I left I left the reality show went back to reality. But you can't leave the reality show on the reality show. Just like when Niimi was not supposed to say anything to the Porsche. And then she went and said something as a friend code because that's what like genuine friends do because we're fighter die that thing. It's kind of. That's what I I guess I consider the same thing apply. All right. Let's go. Thank you for this cake next week on the final part of the Atlanta reunion. Eva challenges Marlow. Over some cold hearted bridesmaids and confronts needy over a hot mic that we were just talking about look into sneak peak you gonna tell either the bride to me that gave you the info already know a couple of them back to me, it was like three of them. So what are we saying here? What are we say? We saying that we believe that I'm lesbian in LA in a serious relationship with the one the one that was married. Name starts with the cab. Never had a fracas with you about this whole situation. My problems with Meany. What do you mean? You said I'm going to take my microphone off. You are saying that you are mad because I came out to talk to you and had a Mike. That's what you're saying. It said nothing to me about it friends. All right. He knew that. I was going to be mad was the last thing is that he was going to be mad. I kept my mic on. Let's go to Nicole Georgia. Hey, nicole. What's your question for miss Lawrence? Hey, Andy hay Eva heinous. Learn is my question. My question is for you miss Lawrence. Do you think that Shinwari deserved all the flack that she received the research? About over boys. Love. Do you think Samara deserved all the flack? She got her fashions this season. Nobody deserves into that stuff that they throw at each other on that shelf. But as a part of this show. That's what it's a part of your initiation. Yes. She deserved. Okay. Okay. Let's go to Bonn net from Saint Louis on what the question high bad. Hello, everybody, bats sorry. Not a problem. Eva, ma'am. Meany credit for bringing you Amish show, we're leaning and bring me on the show. And then he was the only person I knew once I was asked to be on the show. Okay. That's just that's just the truth of it. All and she knows it. She might have helped other people choir peach, but she had no fruit salad from me. Eva Taylor are what's no. If you think Cynthia tried to set me up at her party by having Kenya. There. I don't I can see how everything looks and considering Meany and cynthia's friendship. I could see how that like that. Really don't think that it was like a whole setup. So I remember I forgot what season it was now. Because I I watched the show. Okay. But I remember can you getting upset with knee because Meany invited wanna king is X to a party they had and, you know, can you felt like it was militias in on purpose? So I really didn't understand how maybe was upset about real question is why if Nina has no issue with Kenya. Why does it matter? We're kind of beefing Cynthia is embarking on a new career in business venture in both of these girls are good judy's. So why wouldn't she like why would she care? It's not that deep drink. It's going. Going on to Cynthia garnering mixed reviews with how shake chill Instagram played a major part in the drama. So let's bring back a game that would be considered shady, even by Eva standards. It's time for who. The liberties you guys who has more Instagram followers, and then we'll reveal who has more followers Yvo or Marlow. Guys, how I'm probably because you know, you know, who do you think has more me? Okay. Let's reveal. Yes, we do. Dirigiste or an ooh need a quick Gus guys blowing my so I'm gonna say this when I don't know what the name rent land. Okay. Who has more followers candy or Cynthia candy. Andy. It was more followers. Mariah or quad for Mary to medicine. It is. Who has to read or teddy from Beverly ios, Jerry. I I wanna oh shit. I don't know. What is going right? Okay. You say teddy. Yes, you're right. Followers, Kenya or Cherie. Kenya? You know, ride. It is. Zell or Karen from Potomac detail. She does. Who was Margaret Joseph ser Danielle from the jersey housewives like Margaret, right? I'm going to say didn't you Danielle? Yes, it is Danielle. Erika Jayne or Lisa arena. Erica, Jane Erica. Jane? I follow her rhythm by one hundred. Followers, Ashley or Monique from Potomac money. Ashley, it is muni. Of in terms of the husbands who has more followers. Marie CO or Joe Gorgon. Joe? By the way, Shomari said a new new that just because you never heard of the designer determined. If you liked it or not this Lawrence. Guess that Shomari isomers? So this I wasn't really at you. But his what say I didn't have never say what I liked it or not. But since you're on the subject, I didn't like it. I just was talking about the fact that you said Balenciaga nobody ever heard of it because you were talking about Marlow and her labels and stuff, but then you yell I'll go it's if it was a thing. Well, I'm mother Balenciaga Dali and. And. The Otto, but I still it's not no say 'cause I know know, you'd never make very pretty at the review. I agree. Nice. Eva Julie be said since Marlow was upset they cut out. Good putts. Parts of her fighting job. You did they leave out any of your shea? Let out so much. They gave her a very generous edit. Okay. It son for my Moslem today goes to Tiger Woods who and a huge comeback today. One is fifth masters title after an eleven year championship slump. That was incredible. But has anyone verified that his win is legal? I mean, the guy does love to cheat. He earned that green, Jack. I was very excited. And I watched it and I loved it. It's a joke. Everybody today's chocolate goes to Twitter. Trolls light Shays who were complaining that Kyle Richards. Lisa Renna and teddy Mellon camper. Too old to go to Coachella. You know, I actually think these ladies have a lot in common with younger Coachella goers, especially Ren up. This is my multi vitamin B. This is for your dreams sleeping pill. Anybody else need anything while got the bag out? Yes. That's all right. This Lawrence at a mirror. All right. Hey, everybody. We are back with Eva and miss Lawrence. The mirrors book it's called the power of sprinkles under stores flower flower shop bakery in New York City. I'll. So great. You guys are saying it was mean of me to make that Tiger Woods joke to sans who sued because last year if you remember the masters they were like, oh, he'll never do it. Again. Tigers losses ju ju sit down and I feel like he had so much to prove. And he he's back, and he was amazing. I thought it was amazing Charlotte. No. Oh, okay. The algae house lights. Okay. All right. Let's go to the phones. It is a Sierra from Alabama Sierra's on the show Tuesday night, the other Sierra, which your questions hero. NB aim is Lawrence. I'm pierre. You'll be my question. Eva eat that. What the know how you feel about paying his description changing from means free into your living. So funny Larry issue. No. I got to not annual while doing the show. I didn't know her prior to I adore her. She's actually one of my very good friends. I talked to her at least a few times a week. I'll take it this Lawrence. We have a question from Kimberly s on our walkabout on Facebook. If you could make over one housewife from any franchise who would it be none of them because I don't do that anymore. Okay. Let's go to Jake up from Texas HA. What's your question? I gotta learn how we didn't. Hey, how you doing Jacob? Good. Eva Massangioli great. My question is tonight Marlowe called out either for her titled changing and my lived on the season, the past seven seasons in her title has changed and even have the peach, and she doesn't so I just want to know, do you think she will ever get a peach? Well, I know that Kroger in public says among sailed in the summertime. Let's go to John. You're for Marla Tanya which question I have Andy. Hi, everyone. How are you? Well, my question is for MS Lauren, whom I love and miss Lawrence. And let me tell you. I think you're very underrated singer. They did not give you know shine. So I loved him. Anyway. The question. I have is where do you find more drama happening on your current throw star or how fly real housewives have been y'all? Have you watched star? It is full of drama. You have star who's played by Judy dimmer is who's always like Robin somebody's sleeping with somebody's husband or something Honey to make ends me. And to get to hostile have you seen this, Bruce? Mitch miss Bruce were every call ahead in the rainbow hundreds. She now has a new man Honey, and how new man's ex wife or girlfriend baby mama has popped up into the picture. So now, MS Russa's Dilawar baby mama drama. You know? So stay tuned to stall which comes on Wednesday. So that I would have to say star. Let's go to Tina from Tennessee eighteen in what your question. Thank you. My question is for everyone. But I want to know if anyone knows for fagged where more low gets her income from and if no one knows for a fact where she gets it from then do they have ideas? Team. I'm going to go ahead. Unlike some of the women on this show. My mother taught me to things never speak about someone's income and never speak about someone's man. So I don't answer that question is Lawrence. Listen here. Who knows what anybody really gets that money from tell you where I get. We we Anderson. What's on y'all? Go. Let me bending. Outside of ourselves. We faithful we get our money from now we get our money from the jobs that work that we do. Everything becomes at range is honorable as long as you ain't hurting. Nobody arriving nobody'll about it. It all the way in jail from his job. Rabid people. Oh, yes. He would. That's what I'm saying. Every job is honorable as long as you ain't hurting. Nobody a Robin nobody down. Now. I wanna thank you. Thanks for listening to the podcast everybody. Hope you enjoyed the show. Remember, new episodes? Go live Monday through Friday at four PM eastern time. Make sure you're subscribed to have a great rest of your night.

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Bill Cosbys sex assault conviction overturned. Will Harvey Weinstein be next? A judge has shot down Britneys request to have her dad removed from her conservatorship. Prince William & Harry remain civil at reunion

Naughty But Nice with Rob Shuter

22:03 min | 2 months ago

Bill Cosbys sex assault conviction overturned. Will Harvey Weinstein be next? A judge has shot down Britneys request to have her dad removed from her conservatorship. Prince William & Harry remain civil at reunion

"To show you how easy it is to file a claim with geico. We hired a soap opera star. Gracious me my car has storm damage. And i've had to file a claim. Could it possibly get worse when my claims team leave me for someone else. Someone less intense. No actually when you file a claim with geico you get your own dedicated claims team. Who promises to stay with you throughout the process. I've never known such loyalty. I can't wait for the second season. Geigo great service without all the drama. Welcome to the not by nigel. I'm your host rob shootout and it is thusday my favorite day of the week partly because the lovely mark lupo is joining us. Live are you there. Hello raleigh handsome. I was just on the television. I rushed over to my microphone to podcast. It's a busy busy day with all the gossip on britney and the royals and bill cosby. Hey my friend. Let's jump right into the show. Do you know what time it is. It is tea. Bill cosby sex conviction has been overturned. So pennsylvania's highest court has overturned. He sex conviction he sexual assault conviction after finding an agreement with the previous prosecutor prevented him from ever been charged. In the case. Let me explain. He spent two years of his tenure sentence in state prison. He had vowed to serve all tenures rather than acknowledge any remorse. He was charged in late. Two thousand and fifty when a prosecutor armed with cosby's damaging deposition from lawsuits arrested him just a few days before the twelve year statue of limitation expired. However the court has just decided that this was not fad. Mr cosby did this deposition. Because he was promised by a previous prosecutor that he would not be charged in the case he made a deal. He spoke in the civil case and now because of that they have thrown away all the charges mark. We should point out. Nobody's saying he is innocent. Actually one person is bill cosby. He's innocent vindicated not true. This is a technicality. I took a deep dive on social media to see what other people are thinking. At least you rashad has said thank god. He's finally free for something he did not commit. Although a lot of other people are really really upset. But i have to say rob. I acknowledged that based on the deal. He made with the prosecutors. It is fair for him. I guess to be released. Even though i personally don't like see i'm with you. I wouldn't use the fan. I don't think put it is. I guess legally cracked he made a deal with a former prosecutor that he would not take the fifth but he would talk out. He would say what happened in a civil case and he would only do that if he was identified i guess in the criminal case then a new prosecutor came along and charged him and you used his deposition that he said himself from this case because he thought he was home. Free now felicia. Rashad is also walking back. Those statements a little bit today. She saying. I also support the survivors. Now what everybody is talking about is high. Will this affect the harvey weinstein tastes so one happened in the bill cosby cases as well as the civil deposition. The prosecutor brought women to testify in the case. There was five of them. Five accusers were allowed to testify now. What harvey weinstein's lawyers are saying. Is something similar happened. To harvey and harvey's trial was old mentored from women who alleged past sexual misdeeds but never went to the police all the court. My side is telling me the two cases are very very different because harvey did not cut a deal with the prosecutor. How women were allowed to testify against harvey who had not brought these misdeeds. These alleged misdeeds to the police or the courts before it brings us to our poll question of the day. Bill cosby's sex assault conviction has been overturned. Do you think harvey weinstein will be next. Yes so now. Go to our twitter page naughty nights rob facebook page. Which is naughty gossip. I'm sure to check back tomorrow to hear your results loopy. What are you working on all right. This is a really funny kind of crazy story. Howard stern has outrageous fans once again. But it's not what you think rob. It's because it's because he wants to take a summer vacation. Let me explain what's going on. So howard is taking the entire summer off. We would never on this podcast. Take a day off. Went to the show on on thanksgiving christmas holidays. Why exactly but howard is taking the whole summer off and his new deal with sirius. Xm which is said to be worth. Five hundred million dollars is allowing it all right. So howard negotiated a clause in his contract to give him that break between june and september but now serious fans including my mom doors twenty dollars. A month are outraged. Saying we want our money back. We're are you howard. Come back to work howard. I tried to say that he did this every summer. But then he backtracked and said this is part of the new deal. Oh rob what do you think is -rageous although if this is his deal this deal. He's obviously a very very loyal fan base. It doesn't feel fair to me. So doris you keep listening to the naughty but now show we will be here for you. I hate taking a day off. I enjoy doing this show more than the listeners. Enjoy listening to you. I really did not brilliant. But i think. I'm the number one fan in the naughty group. I'm a fan of the show. It sounds arrogance. But i don't mean it like that i really enjoy it and i think what makes this. Even more complicated is his subscribers are paying. It's not a free podcast like this. You pay money for it and if you pay for a service you've got to deliver the service that's how i feel. Maybe i'm old fashioned. I have a very strong work ethic mark. So do you think this is just wrong. Technically is it right. Yes he's allowed to do his in his contract. It's not a legal. But i think it's just morally wrong and it tells you really how it sort of thinks he's fans. I hate it when celebrities get bigger than they forget they get bigger than the fans or they forget. The only reason they have a shower is because people listen. Where are you mark. I feel the same way and listen. I'm all about taking a summer vacation. A few weeks here and there are a lot of tv shows do it. But i don't know. I think howard was not someone who i thought would do this. This long break and it's he's doing it from his basement. He's traveling to new york city. Like you're literally doing it to his basement. I do know but rob. He is married that becky listen to the show being told to level level allowed but mark. Listen to this. Let's just put it in perspective. He's getting five hundred million dollars mark. I would travel to the moon to do the show for that sort of money into new york from hamilton's which i'm sure he comes in by helicopter. Mark come on the five hundred million dollars. You would run to london naked to do these podcasts. Now i will literally do anything you ask. I will put it away. The thought of your mother's listed. How dare you. Judge has denied britney spaces request to remove her dad from the conservator ships for judge shutdown. Britney's request right now. It's happening to remove her dad from the conservator ship at least for now so new court documents show that the judge has denied requests but this request was a month ago to remove her father from the conservator ships. The documents do not directly respond to last week's hearing so last week britney gave that really powerful twenty four minutes speech. The judge has not ruled on that yet because british people have not yet filed a petition to terminate the conservator ship. As regards to last week. It feels like people letting her down that got to be more buttoned up after that after that speech after that really passionate plea they should have filed it that day. What am i missing rob. The thing the only thing i can think of is that there is something that we're not aware of with respect to how is able to manage her life the way that britain is able to kind of go through the day today. And i i see britney is very gentle and very fragile right now so i would be worried that someone can take advantage of her could take advantage of her money influence her bring her back to a place where she was fifteen years ago. So while i'm disappointed at this news. I do have some fears and concerns to tom anymore. Like if you blow your money mark. It's up to you. It's not clever like if we went up drinks and you told me you were going to do something outrageous. I'd say market and think it's a good idea but it's your money it's your life. You can do it if you wanted to kiss somebody that i thought it was good for you. I would tell you but it's your choice. We talked about this on this show. I'm really proud. We were really the only show out there saying this. It has nothing to do with his testimony. The people that will decide whether or not the conservator ship ends is the judge and it will be based solely on the doctors. This is not an emotional conservator ship. There's something going on with britney that nobody's talking about we all know what tiptoeing around and i worked on her. Pr team for awhile. Brittany has troubles. We know this the doctors have to say she is capable of taking care of herself and once they say that this conservator ship will end. Hey fingers crossed mark. What is going on with taymor braxton. Oh mar she sang that reality. Tv almost killed her. Oh my gosh ta mara has opened up about that. Scary july twenty twenty incident when she was found unresponsive and then rushed the hospital. Taymor told people magazine. Rob that at the time of her life was so dark and heavy. She didn't even know how or what would take her to get out of that place she'd said i didn't even know there was another side to life but i chose to change my life now. Rob people think about the braxton's you know. They've been on television for ten years. It looks like a fun time but she said that it was not that she was taking a bunch of pills and binging out in hotel room. She was just trying to figure out how to get through that moment. She said she's been on television for so many years and that constantly being in front of the camera had really taken a toll on her mental health. Rob i've worked with taymor in the past. I want to say this. I mean anyone. Struggling with mental health deserves the treatment and the care that would get them into a better place to mar does have a difficult reputation. You know she's been known to be the easiest to work with. She had lost her job at the real many years ago but now she's saying that she has been dealing with feelings. That were never resolved when she was sexually molested as a child. And it's impacted her ability to kind of move forward. Adult you think heartbreaking interview. I totally understand the pressures of reality. Tv we know a lot of people mark that crashed and burned after reality tv or even on reality tv. What makes me nervous about this though taymor is. I wish you hadn't done it on the cover of people magazine. Once the difference between doing a reality show. I'm being on the cover of people magazine. Step away from the spotlight if reality tv nearly killed you. You shouldn't be on the cover of people magazine talkin about it. She would say she's doing it to help others. There's truth to that taymor. My advice is to step away from this toxic toxic spotlight quickly before we go to break. Harry and william gonna have their reunion today. So they're gonna meet in the gardens kensington palace to unveil the statue of them. Mummy on what would have been her sixtieth birthday. Sources are telling me that they're gonna put on a really professional front but behind the scenes. Things are really really really banter. it makes me side. I think they're pros at this. Goodness knows these. Two little boys were forced. Were asked to march behind them. Mommy's confident when he was young. If they can do that they can stand together. They can unveil a statue. It's not going to be a fight. No one's gonna punch one another. It's going to be quite dull. In fact a lot of people are going to read into it but my sources are telling me behind the scenes. It is not good. Hey before we get a break mark. I'm told you had quite a little pride event this weekend. What will you up sweetie. He got a glow. ended up in jesse spots birthday party. I know it was every at a private luxury apartment. second street. He wasn't his apartment. It was one of his close friends. I take the elevator. My name was at the door. I go up the elevator. I opened the door. Everyone is gorgeous gorgeous. How many people's like twenty people's party lots of gays and then there's bevy smith of course strauss clashing on an honorary gay and they had a bartender and jussie seemed like in great spirits. You smiling laughing taking pictures and you know. He seemed like he had no cares. World's happened because all that drama went down member in chicago legal drama. He's trying to make a combat you think. What was he up to you. Know i think he is trying to make a comeback think that he still has a long way to go in the case. He's he's meeting with a judge again in july. But there are supporters of his in hollywood spear and i think his friends to his regular normal friends who are not in the spotlight also support him and you know it seems like he just wants to move on with his life when you were invited to the party with mock you come in as a reporter your guest did they say anything. Because i've been to those types of parties particularly celebrities that are in trouble. And i'm not meant to say anything. Did they say anything to you to ask you. It gets better so my friend invited me and i. I just didn't say anything you not reading doggie with the plus one plus. I'll be didn't want you that of no not a press event in private party on forty second street was in sylva towers. One of those big old fabulous big new building fabulous of us were unreal slid thirty third floor. Oh my god. Was he worrying about being around people. He was taking pictures he was laughing drinking. I smiled at him a little bit. But i didn't want to out myself as a reporter. So i just kind of like i was watching and observing and what is the takeaway mock. What was the takeaway the takeaway is that. He seems like a really nice guy who is in a sticky situation that he might have caused himself. Tvd and i guess we'll see what you know. But sorta brash. If i was in trouble with the law i wouldn't be throwing parties in in silva's on forty second street. I mean he's not hiding. It's funny so on instagram. He posted about it and then in the location tat himself as minding my own business. Okay business balk business or was minding his house. He show jesse. If you're listening we're gonna take a quick break right back. It's crazy how much we have to pay for outdated impersonal healthcare and even crazier that we all just accept it. It's time to face facts. Healthcare is backwards. 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I probably would have honestly you would. He's he's and the whole legal drama. Wouldn't bother you. It would bother me. But i had a few sodas. Low-pay whatever loppy slumping. ep doris. It so embarrassing. That's mark's hey let's get to the polls dom out to ridiculous. Fanfare cardinal do would is distancing himself from the bachelor is is a good idea or a bad idea. Wow eighty five percent said it is a good idea. Get away from it. Get away from that show. I think it's a bad idea. I never go against the majority. But this is what you'll famous for colton. It's hard to sort of move on. What do you think it's divided because he is famous for that but now he's pivoting to new part of his life so he's going to be on netflix show and maybe he'll think maybe he'll maybe he'll rediscover fame in a new way. I don't know. I think you always going to be the gay bachelor. No i think that's when i look at you now. I'm like i'll call them. He was the gay bachelor the gave virgin badge. Eight minutes and cosseted bachelor. Oh wasn't invited to a birthday party on forty second street. Okay fabulous on. Today's poll average paycheck. Not nice rob. Facebook page naughty gossip and be sure to check back tomorrow to hear your results and now it's time for nicest of the day. What are you got. Its ariana grande She's giving away one million dollars three therapy. I absolutely love this. Rob love this. That's right along with better help. Which is an online counseling provider. And by the way. I use it myself to say that. I love my therapist. Shut up to brian. A lovely guy but ariana instagram and announced the partnership and she's encouraging others to seek help with their mental health and she acknowledges that she had problems when Her concert when there was a bombing in manchester that she had ps td after that and she had to seek professional help. So i love the message. I love the sentiment. And i hope that others do the same. It's fantastic. i think we should acknowledge. It's probably not ariana's million here. She's partnered up with them and said they're giving away three therapy. It doesn't matter who's money this is there. It's a wonderful thing. And nicest of the day nice. It's nice nice is now i- naughtiest of the day. Britney spears is calling out the paparazzi on vacation so just days after that really moving testimony brittany went to hawaii with her boyfriend. The photographers followed her. And she's very angry with them. She said the following quote. Not only do they take pictures they distort my body a mess with my image and it's embarrassing oops. That's my phone. Sorry about that everybody. And it is embarrassing brittany. Let's leave her alone for a little bit. I don't think the paparazzi are distorting her pictures. But i think at the moment we can all agree. Let's leave britney spears alone and now it's time for a moment of rob. You gotta rub. Rub get roberts yet mark you get a raw very much. Think of the last time someone was calling to you. Didn't it feel great. I think about the last time you were kind to somebody else. It felt even better. Didn't it which only answer to the mystery. Why are we not more kind. It feels great to be kind feels great to receive calling us. So let's do it more agree mark. One hundred percent agree at speak kind. That's it for today. Thank you so much for listening to the naughty moniz with rob and mark show production of iheart radio. Don't forget to subscribe on the iheartradio app. Apple podcasts were area. Listen and leave us a review. And i promise learn how to turn my phone off and remember all together now got to be naughty naughty but nice they say if you love something set it free at lifelock we say. What a load of bull hockey. All that saving up and paying off debt and now some identity thief wants to set it. Free crazy talk. 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Ep. 391:The Sisterhood With No Sisters

Black Love Matters

1:30:40 hr | 4 months ago

Ep. 391:The Sisterhood With No Sisters

"Walking black love matters with disservices therapy session for figuring out her love in each other. Michelle z nbn. Say who's you is ebersol. Three ninety one. Y'all leaving two three four five star rating and review podcasts. Such an follow sophomore social media black love matters as black when okay. I'm gonna you did that whole thing. I'm so happy for you. Been practicing near dog. Slows started talking. Star sean out we gave. You can't do. This discreetly look father's day coming up near. Don't worry well let's go again. We didn't have a friday episode. You know we still trying to strike a balance. Between what are we trying to strike a balance between work michigan family. Covy at all the things hanging there with us. We're doing our best job. We'll hit a day. that's all that matters. We better today. So some updates miami guy. So i got my second shot ya last week. So i'm about as you're listening to this now about a week or so from being fully vaccinated. I'm very excited about that. Yano outcome here. Shame the devil. I ain't gonna lie. The second shot did something. I'm not gonna lie. The whole process was just as smooth as the first one. I would argue when even quicker than the first shadow wasn't a lot of folks out there. But i will say you know. Shut off to the nurses but is there a class on how to administer like shots because this nurse was a little heavy handed the where the first time the nurse or nurse. I'm not sure nurses. i'm not sure. Titles who gave it to me after she's bibliography boop took now be thinking. There's this one. I feel like that motherfucker stabbed that. He meows established in my right ask. Why did they say the second one you gotta visa violent would it. So that was a little something A niche and. I'll let him have his own. Experience is but i feel like literally like thirty minutes. After i started getting a headache and i was shit. Damn it But i can't determine if it was like food hunger psychosomatic. I don't know. I don't know so that happened then. Headache cleared up in. What would you say near him about six or seven hours later. I got big sleepy. I got big vac sleepy energy. I was like oh. I'm gonna just lay across his bed. Still not connecting. The dots says like ma'am you've got that. One of the biggest benefits is fatigue still not connecting the dots and good. So i took me a little nap. You know actually when you get over a certain age when you hit past name to thirty when you're sick you go to bed and you know you're very sick when you open one eye and you start taking a survey from top of your head to the bottom of your like fuck. Some part of my body is sick. Let me see unease. He's my eyebrows. Go motto squeeze my by. Is everything hurt as like. Oh everything is hurting. The fake is near my nice set up a coal word to say it was hard because already told me when i was like honestly i took a day off work a day and a half work. My goal is just to watch movies and bid and relaxed so already know my parents always seek. What's wrong i was like. I'm just in bed. I've some wrong with out jangle till yada password. 'cause we use for many things but but if i say that mean would be our new white castle device say white castle. I ain't playing that me. Come check on me. Every thirty minutes take note ought to things so near on. What was it that night and morning. How did i hit you with us. Oh you embiid. Because i wasn't watching anything. You're like you just staring blankly at the team in the room was like what are you doing in here. I think i was like looking at the seeley. You why cast. Oh i real. I don't feel nothing for your checking in l. y. gasol as strategic everything it. I mean onions. Everything is sold. That wasn't it. But i will say about twelve hours later so the nets day about noon. One o'clock i like took a shower. Wash my face to kind of get your body moving. 'cause that's what they said. It was like rest for a little bit but try to move your body. So i was like this is enough me. It'd be a dehydrated. Let me go to my body. Someone's idea that it felt like instant i felt like. I don't know if it was water. Heater my phone. I don't know it was the doctor. Bonner's washing away The side effects. But i came out the shower and it was one of those things where i had to tell me. I'm like i think. I was hurt and i think i don't know what was happening but it completely disappeared. The only thing i had was a little bit of arm pain that has hit some tylenol. Four in i would say by then that second day i was. It was nothing at all so it was an interesting rollercoaster to go on but it was a moment where is about to come on live on instagram listening to hotel so sorry but i did make a yeah no i'm going to be completely transparent on my journey and what i felt but what is what i will say can we just stop shaming on both sides seeing means where people were like you know with They said a anti is worse than vegans. They gonna let everybody fucks. I was the thing for folks who've got the shots to y'all can we just stop the either way. Getting a vaccination is a very personal choice. Low key we all doing the best we can and we all are going off information that people tell us in people tell you what they wanna tell you low key. Are we going to know what side of the coin landed. We probably won't know for thirty forty years down the line but at this point people are making the best decision. They have with information that they have. So let's back up off the shaming. What i will shame you about though is not giving my six feet in that. Were mask regardless. I'm anita give me space. And i'm a needed a word at mask. I don't care if you got one vaccination auto vaccinations. Are you the adult care. I'm going to need space. If i don't know you in need you to wear a mask that is not as niambi thing. It's but the shaming the back and forth and We got more stuff to worry about. Niambi made her decision. Niambi is big energy in his vest. Up i I i took my shots with the cdc in kizzee. Now we're gonna see what happened. You got the right to do what you guys to do. But please at minimal push a day a mask on and give some space right like those are the things that don't harm people. Those are the things that don't like hurt your day to day and we do know. Statistics statistically longitudinal early that wearing a mask and giving people distance stops the transmission of not just covert for all types of disease airborne disaster. Say so please actually at one more where you mass social distance and wash your whole ass just from the top of your head to the bottom of your feet if lee c. Niamey's on how she gave them instructions on how to watch we say hands but let's just wash the top of our hit to the bottom of our feet. If you can do those things we can navigate in this world peacefully govern. But if you're not niamh shame you for that every week The update our peabo. Q it o. Obama twelve year old. The first black dog yata opiyo. He represented a lot to the dog. Especially maple fifty. No black dolls can get it in that white house then bone. She was born. Should read about Irate well we don't vote on succumb to that cancer guidance he was twelve years old. Michelle obama said. He was a good dog. He likes pets playing ball. Obama say we go miss them. Think i don't know how to fume. but since he the first dog. I imagine it might be a little extra instead of just the backyard of so maybe going bring a slice of bacon. Her baking show only get a slice a week because her cholesterol got to watch it in the salt intake. Mail says she don't donate that piece of vacant near. I'm you brings us onto the field dismal. Drop mabel drop me off and put a ball on the casket you can do an extra walk around the block football. That's been a far parent too long. She goes out twelve and this meet anybody checking on the girls. What about the other dog. Sunny ain't it. How funny you know dogs grieve mabel to the bacon nationally for sunny equivalent honeybaked ham. Y'all listening carlos chris grayson bringing what y'all pups bring to the few into target. Oh what else is going on. Y'all why don't you tell me. Remind me how slow moving michigan is. It is you know is fast and slow at the same time. It's fast when yanna lodge would it is in his fast. And we're gonna talk about this little one pillow talk detroit. News is going to be just a new segment for us. The shit that we see on the news blows my fucking mind. It's crazy but i want to dunkin donuts your non. I'm addicted to coffee now. I'm going to get off of it. I'm gonna get off dash. We dash but i is addict. Talk right i can get off of. I don't get date yet. That sound like who is the angel pose. It was like four hour episode And i went to dunkin to get my iced karma coffee cream sugar and get my parents. They like a breakfast roll to breakfast. Roll neom get an ice macho shot a blueberry simple orders right ya. I wanted a cashier and was this white woman and it was all the white ones all young kim's season right 'cause y'all know dunkin it'd be like folks who've been working there for a while i don't need a manager you know what i'm saying. They don't the careers item. So i was like what seizes seasons's she bought to make my shit in two seconds. It's about to be good as fuck because you know when starting i'm call them baristas to hunting put respect on name when you get them certain. Dunkin donuts baristas. They have you sit at dunkin. You just close your eyes. You played this the best two dollars spit anyway. I'm thinking i'm putting him out ordering assists. But i knew something was wrong when the order was going through so everything got good until we got to the simplest part the ice coffee i take a medium iced coffee. Ice karma coffee with french vanilla. Not yet no. Can i get a medium iced coffee. Can we have tonight. She knew medium is coffee at toasted almond first of all what is toasted almond. No no ma'am medium. iced coffee at french vanilla. Okay ma'am medium. Iced coffee toasted she guest live. Mu motherfucker said no not much. Changing media is coffee now. Point to the thing. French vanilla did not toxic f. r. e. n. c. h. v. a. n. i l. l. a. z. Niamey lottery spelling shit. Oh yeah yeah. Okay i got you go. You know dunkin donuts. It's like an open air diner star. They got these little walls up in. It'd be doing shit. Doug donaldson got nothing but a blender vitamins containers of milk. Some like you see what they actually do like. They walk off to do it. She was like doughnuts. Be cheap so. I don't older auditors. Shit she played that it'd be two dollars. That's a cool. I love dunkin donuts. So i'm stepping on back waiting right because what they do to handle your drinks on one side and you know we got a little Donut on other ones. They give you over there. I don't got the doughnuts the hash browns. Everything is moving at a snail's pace to make my match. I'm niro's macho in my iced coffee. Y'all when i tell you. She put the scoop in there for near oems. She measured the macho three times. Measured it three times yondo much. They ain't got the japanese tea garden. Great a macho. Up in their powder mancha started three scopes in there is put it in a blender. Let's go three times. She measured the end. Cool koo koo and it looked great right. Cocoa now beginning iced coffee. Wh yeah what was my order medium. Iced coffee french vanilla cream sugar. So literally what you do you put ice there. You hit the button for cream because again this is this is What's it called machine. Assembly line you hit the button essay cream. You hit the button. Let's say sugar. You hit the button. I say co coffee that is i don't work there and i've gotten it so much i see it. She got my cup and looked at the cup when it got the ice put. Ice in there won't bat to the receipt read the receipt then hit the button dump cup out. Got a new cup. Did it again. A crane said that there with back red attack. They're put the ice in there then. Put my little flavor in in their in walked at the pace who somebody who walk. Slow like zombie from walking dead like literally was an. I'm literally about the room behind the counter just from former because my jaw least five. People don't got shit before me. Five people in and out they get off ripper macro up in getting a cappuccino in. Don't they bacon cheese sandwiches and shit forever. I still not have got my iced coffee. I get my eyes coffee now. I stirred around tasted yours. What was yours then. I get my mitzner row. I tasted what. I taste toasted almond bit. This is not my right water. I couldn't even. I just walked away at michigan. I mean in michigan. I have not been so many places where people aren't getting the right order and they're moving at a snail's pace. I have no idea what's happening. So i'm even mabel mabel to the groomer. I gave a pitcher. They brought her back like a poodle as our look. Like a poodle. Shave yourself a whole different. Mabel says me beautiful. Our miami near love it. 'cause near prefer of mabel was one dollars with no. I was them hairless kittens and shiftless near a hairless dog. She's going wear clothes on so he would look to me. I should say that the haircut is what i want is just the face so like i think she's an appropriate length. She has like the furry paws and all that the only thing is they shaved her whole face down in her ear. They look like mabel got her body done. 'cause y'all know maybe i guess it's been whilst we'll actually send some two rpg 'em august before and after and we say this would happen when you take skinny t we go show mabel in her full for because she was she needed she was like teddy bear lie. She was too much far going in. Now what is he now near got her body done. She don't went down to dr miami show. Do you know what people being because not everybody so focused on weight here in michigan. Ooh maybe way peanuts are entitled to speak on your body even dogs. Maybe the way she has gotta care cut. She's got hurt that nuts. I'm working through some stuff in therapy off the stuff. I'm working as processing. How i would like my life to be right so being fully present in a moment and curated the life that i have at this point. This heart niambi tins. I don't know if this is which i do but niambi tunes to like either look back and ruminate or look floor and get lost in the pre planning and what. I'm finding it very difficult to be is in the problem in the moment the at this time so i'm just processing. What my therapist like. Why am i constantly ruminating on the past or trying to create correct or replaying or why am i so far in the future trying to plan and think around the corner. I'm sure. I don't think it's not the depression kicking into the depression issues. Pretty under control. But i think that's talking and it's hard do you. Are you good with being in the present moment. Yeah aside for the most part ball. Thanks brian for that rousing. Answer i think you know but it's hard for me. Have you noticed that for now yes. It's very because even we don't have any updates about this now. What we're trying to figure out. Where do we want our homes to be. I can't even get there. I cannot be in this moment like. Do you want to live in michigan at this moment or do you want to move back to california or do you want to do a hybrid of both. I cannot tell you to fuck an answer. But i can tell you where i wanna be in five years. Were maybe another dog one and a half brown babies but after this article are re to your maybe just one Because adult children are trash. A beautiful home Meaning a home. And which i have overflow and i can invite others to be there A safe haven Being comfortable and impactful at work black love matters thriving and also somehow wherever i met having a true connection and building community In my neighborhood. So wherever that is i want to be able to. You know what i'm talking about. I mean that you know back in the day. How like the neighborhood. Should we had a connection and like you knew your neighbors like that's what i would like to be in whatever that is even if i don't come into the neighborhood and that's the norm. I would love to be a person to help build that type of. That's what i would like to spend my free time doing. Like i don't care moving neighborhood in. Nobody has ever taught not an iom neighborhood block party. I'm on the door. Hey i moved in here club neighborhood block. would you like to be a part of my black. Would you like to be a part or even if not. I'm hosting first. Friday margaritas alcoholic non alcoholic at my house in my backyard. I would like to invite to i. That is what i would like to That is how i like to curate my life to be but what i want to look like now chow. I don't know. I'm trying to limit my intake of white castle. Move my body and get my work done. I don't know so. That's what i'm working through. Lastly plug for clean. Yana vonza yang notices the final season. Final episodes please go wash. These episodes e. is in her bag. And i feel like these episodes are not getting enough publicity like they should play sleepers every episode. That comes on. You're taking notes. I'm mike damn you right. What does it mean to be a wife. What does it mean to show up in this space. What does it mean to be in touch with your feminine energy. What does it mean to be. A daughter relate. What like. She's asking some questions that i'm like sh- low key yellow might get some money from me for one of these online workshop. She doing the way the question she's asking in the way she's laying them out in the perspective that she's showing huge other seasons. Were good where. I think it was more like vira moments. I'm not sure if there've been viral moments on any of these but the conversation. She's having the question she's asking the the the intent in which she's moving to these episodes you're more mature is such a difference. I'm mad. I'm like i know. You gotta rest queen. I know you a grandmother and you're trying to be with your grandchildren and plant a garden. And she said she had a summer off. I want to do all those things. But i'm like no queen mother. We need to please what podcast give us something so just go watch it you know. Not thinking I think i'm going to have to do queen Like idea tony morrison you know a few months back. I went through and auto. Tony morrison bullets in like read or listen to all of them back to back. Yes i think about to either. Go purchase or audio book. I think i'm going to a mixture. That's what tony tony. I was reading her stuff. And i was like. I can't i just need to listen. And that was helped me get through all her things. I think i only was able to read like half the books. But then i listened to the other half. I think i'm a goal line lineup. All ian levine's aren't just be in the back. I think i might want to listen to them. All hers aren't audible by some her earlier. Ones aren't but i think. I'm just about to listen to yana on it. She got so maybe that'd be between now in the summer like that might just be my summer cleanse and got a lot of bugs like she got a lot more to tony. Morrison like y'all got a variety of books based on top is like trust in Shutouts nia forgiveness all that type of stuff but she also got like devotional ze whereas like every day is a different devotional. Every day is different prayer. So it's gonna take a while. If i follow the books as they're supposed to be fleshed out to go through them so i got maybe three of elle's books in low key. Niro bought me the first book i've ever got like of course i've heard of it but i never read a book. I think we were in college. Actually i need to see this mechanism. Am i just by But i might see if that book near. Got me Enemy beans about me in the meantime when we were undergrad. But i need to go. I have in the meantime knew about me forgiveness. I bought the audible books. Trust in i think. I also have of faith those hundred bucks but that's not even though that's not even the tipping point of all the books she has so that's what i'm saying so i think that might be a summer thing. Anybody would like to go in the eon. Levant reading journey with me Full free email cau- in as i go through it. I unpack it. I know sometimes you are interested in the reading journey For yada no. I just finished boever relations. Bevy smith i love bevy smith shut off. I'm a bevy head. I forgot what the beehive is called but shutout to her it it gets greater later like i honestly after reading a bevy smith. I didn't realize how much i identify with her. I think every time i seen babies was come on. Tv like it was just like i. Just i don't know she just gave really fly fun on. T. sister professional recreating yourself like energy. So i think. I need to go on one of those anyway. This was going on with me near day. You who are not going to be heavy. And i imagine some early but safari rar. I imagine as she kind of gotten a game she probably wrote a little more compassion. But i imagine early blitzes like beloved not on my watch. Seen every washed epilepsy. Not on my watch. Will you guessed respect another black woman in my presence because when you disrespect her disrespect me and when you disrespect me disrespect yourself not know who you watch. You gotta be more than this outside. Who will you be. That'd be literally in my head because people out at work step in the rome who shows up is all black woman and beloved. You need to know who you be a core. How do you be. i said i don't know. Do shoutouts how you be as a black woman right. Like i don't know i am just going through. Maybe it's because it's my god league year right like. What is this evolution would do it. What do how am i defining myself. As a black woman as a mother as a wife as a friend right how do i truly define myself in. I want to. Because i had the privilege right. Everyone doesn't have the privilege to sit with that in. Reflect that in put pen to paper. On how i wanna show up in each of those areas of my life and i want to do it. Thoughtfully and i want to do it with integrity. So let me know if y'all is going to guide me. She's my she's my spiritual guy right now. She don't know it in my head what we don't do boots or email. I need to go to journey. I should go by so beloved. What have you done. Garages washed ashore. Leave the half our catalog before stars minute emails but it feels like the universe drawn to that direction. So maybe i'll pair it out some devotional and stuff. I'll give you up to date but isn't going. Oh i be- black women who are not what we do now who we are but who we be who you be. And how do we get clarity on. Who is your saddam saying. Who happy is we. Don't chase the intro. Now who is you who you may we say come on So i am big vaccine energy. I'm ready to go to loan with my shirt off and my mask. All ready boy is ready to get up there and shake my ass and do i mean you can shake your phone now. No okay no okay. You can go in the backyard. i mean actually. It's children don't go skiing. Don't children stay outside. Be outside from eight. Am to loan is happening. Okay or miami. I'm going somewhere somewhere. I don't know if i feel vacs energy. i'm ready. They can go ahead and give me a test. I'm big bags entity. I'm ready to so as i was going through this stuff. And she was you know Screaming white castle. I would say for the first forty eight hours. I was feeling good film. And at first i thought like a low gray headache but when i ate something went away so i was like. Oh and ain't the vaccine could just hungry goodbye goodnight. But after the vaccine. I went to go work. I worked out how to our session when i woke up. The next day i went for a run went for hour. And a half ron. We'll do meanwhile you didn't got the puck in superpower got the blood superpowers. What day was that ought to black supposed to get super powers. Niro got it. Isn't the vets me. You didn't get the fuck you superpowers near best. Times and shit from embed stealth is can even drink water when a roll over on my back. You hurt johar may say it was a little sore. No ma. i can't lift it up. I gave my love stop babying and lift up. come here. Maple mabel overheating. Oh my god. So i was out there. Living my best live that boxing around. Because i didn't really feel nothing. I told you really nothing. Feel nothing no one else around air. Kinda sick i field. I went for a run nigger work out on in drunk water food aid food sweets. You know i'm i'm having a podcast episodes and shit other people. I'm laughing and giggling everything else. I'm visiting friends and family me. I am still in the bed. What time is it nine. Am three pm. You got blast rough castle niro called kizzee in giving you superpowers presents. No feeling that. And then i will say on the end of the forty hour going into the next dine into the first twenty four. I didn't feel nothing. But i will say that. Second twenty four hour. it doesn't. I felt something but it still wasn't nothing like no pain. It was like. I got fatigue. So i was working on behalf of these long work days. Now be working from eight. Am to eight pm and it was required to podcast something. We got the vaccine on tuesday thursday. Our about five. Yeah that's why we have got niambi. Even though i had a long day i was ready so thursday around about five i was done with my work. Muscle power were. I was like okay. Well you know. I'm a little tired you know i. I know it's been a long week. I'm just gonna across bay while niamey get down working. That was at six. pm. I wake up at seven am next. That knocked out. And i'm like near we pup. I said good night. And i was like what are we doing a podcast. I said now you know. When i came up here late and crosses bid was no podcast getting. I was scared why you didn't stay downstairs on the couch. Because i usually when i work late and we had to ask Across the couch so he's close to the equipment but he went all the way to the stairs on top of both of them was knocked out. And i'm looking at her. Like you gotta go out. Honey you gotta go gotta go do business. I was on the line. Have some good athlete but other than that that was it okay and that was on like does the second day because we got vaccinated on tuesday. Thursday night is like win like it's quote unquote hit me. But it was no pain. There was no stiffness. it wasn't no subordinates. And nothing it was just got tired. And i don't know i. There's a mixture mindsets gohar. But it was everything i just like. Oh night good night. Moon knight knight. Okay so we got that going on. You got to see what's on saturday night live. I didn't get a chance to see. Maybe you look at it today. Yeah He announced the aspects. None of we kinda odd respect to everyone would neuro diversity. Everybody's i mean we all gotta touch honestly truth moment is. I've had to go back to this. Episode is through ninety one. Am i gonna do this. Might be my apology episode. You know everybody's got episode. I want to apologize for last hours on. Educating a lot of the founders. Insulin valley got a touch of the spectrum. I'm hoping it was more like. Oh maybe i'm the for. He said he's the first person that openly has asked beggars. The whole saturday night live argue also argue against that. Be folks up there. That you like ma'am sir. Redick glued to neuro diversity but silicone valley. I thought was built on the cetera. I was i mean. Don't you gotta to be be like you know what you gotta be on. The spectrum have some neuro diversity in be technical. Where be atypical to be like. You know what it'd be cool. If we create these invisible thing and people can get on and create things and connections like sell stuff cool they get your whole crew to get out of will be cool. Yeah that's an atypical. Shit show the spectra. Meanwhile he ain't got my fucking doj coin fucking pomp plummeted inches. That's not real dog. Yes i think labeling them. That's not real. I don't mind today. We don't we're not appropriate bracket let the billionaires billionaire should through never mind you get fell twenty dollars but don't do more than that under about either say some say some crazy. Now say some while. I'm trying to watch my language. Man crazy some wild either way got dole's coin plummeted. Actually i'm a baltimore. Because i know it's gonna go back up else other than it is trying to get some systems in place You got some big projects coming on And i'm just really trying to build systems and make space for myself in a way that necessarily don't necessarily apply in a place that not necessarily space you know. I think anything's of like is interesting. Space to be in right Being in your pants basement like orders but it is like a finnish basement near with acting like he is in the dungeon lights. no water. no but i. I think that you know party a book. I've never right yeah. I think it's just interesting to anisimov therapist about right like being thirty five and i like being in your partners base a parents basement and all the things that go along with that and like fill like i say like a third wheel but like oh like oh my partner used to live here is a child like we still in her childhood bedroom and like all the things that goes around with it like you as they look at you as a towel or whatever. Eight-week love all know seventeen eighteen nineteen seventeen and ended me being here right so i it's just one of those things is like just trying to figure out how to make space over myself as well as built systems and processes so i don't get caught up in whatever shit y'all got going on so that's what i mean. That's cute good luck. i'm just trying to push through. I know you are so. That's what i got going on. Nice gonna talk so we're gonna have a new segment car detroit news music something for no. Let's take what you wanna do now. Spray love you still listening. Visited his a sound. We heard while no not gain new within the you think i'm like what the bullshit yeah detroit news be on a whole different level and i find myself. I see what my peers are actively engaged because it is entertainment. I'm not talking about like anyone's but some of the news stories when it's a slower. Newsweek what are we talking about here. Can we just went on a couple of cases for y'all got so i will talk about the peak that was roaming the streets. I think we put that on instagram. I got here. i think it was seven or eight. Now he was walking on the sidewalk is someone was video from the car. Nba going and then the newscaster which was on a major network. I think it was like seven. Kept making all these peng oh my goodness. It's roasting out here. Is he headed to the market rally and shit late. It was those killer call that live in arizona. six is that a heavily in debt. It ain't no heavily. That is a hormel. What's the port company. Somebody hey oscar. Mayer pig lewd high. What's it called. Have an ask first of all. I have no fuck you up in. Secondly they runnin. Pets this nikola like he was walkman house he kids will be back in the day by live on the same block. Same block radius He was walking to in house. So that story. One nets giants sergeant caught in detroit. River may be a hundred years old. The us fish and wildlife service received quite a surprise last week when they caught a giant fish estimated to be more than one hundred years old in the detroit river the two hundred and forty pound lake to say it again. Two hundred and forty pounds of game lake starting was caught by three person crew on april twenty. Second just south of detroit near gross ill. The agency described the huge fish with measure seven feet long as a real life river monster. The lake aquatic creature was caught using frozen round gulp. Gulp gulbis small Body fish that service tasty snacks with a surgeon As bait on a long line reaching deep into detroit river. I have no idea i was about to look that up but then my i felt bad. Then that detroit education come up. It took about six minutes where the crew fishing biologists to get the large fish into the boat using the net. They said i felt the fish thumping on the line as it got closer. It just got bigger and bigger said jason who was a fellow. Biologists the agency said quickly. They released that motherfucker back into the river after a way to measure. She said the fish was tired out. Then fight too much. They imagine everything that the fish has lived through unseen. Mushy ain't fight much well. She obese tires issue. One hundred pounds in y'all when we tell you it's pitcher. These white people laying against they the biggest niro first of all. I been scared. 'cause she and what is he's been at the truth dry river walleye so she thinks thinking that big off just way see we just the so she just eating other fish. He's right rivers and it ranges anywhere from eighteen fifty to feeding shut out the detroit news. A snippet that on a news three days and they talked about it for like five. Ten minutes apiece deals on. She's a whopper. She's seven feet tall. Two hundred forty pounds. She's tired she's a play for the line day. Need the help. Desk nets detroit. News is a little bit more Political she chief of police. James craig running for governor. They say he's gonna be retiring as we're listening to. The news should be coming out. here's the tr. He talking about going. Run as a republican. James krieg allegedly running for governor. He's the alleged leader retired chief of police he allies skin Black man think of light skinned black man in then that is who he is. He's running for governor. He gonna run as a republican. Why the think is the reason why. I just all black people in america in detroit they here is because i was out here in detroit named john james who every month runs for some senate seat do and we know of we get craig here and we flip. The state. republican get is going to be some bullish. Because john. James come in that because john james is coming next. I just want y'all to paul's look on youtube and just go look at search john james and what some of his youtube commercials. John james for michigan the as a white wife in Brown children and black families in a guy so bad. 'cause you know closing the let where he had his black family on their his black is black daddy talking about. He is for the streets streets. He was walking down seven mile. Some i went to school here. It did of course. detroit. Knicks came receipts and said. No you did it. Shut out the detroit news There will be a segment at least once a week every other week. Where we're lenny on things that are happening in detroit nets briefly bill and melinda gates divorce. Stop at new amato. Divorces political to marcet marriages political. He was raised here. looking for. love is political. y'all stop finding joy in them breaking up. That ain't nice but they are billionaires. We have a little fun because some people don't think billionaires are people do ask stop talking about you don't slide and these diem. Some integrity is all who you be what you be as a person beloved all you now are breaking integrity leaving your little nasty children behind your family your friends for bill and melinda who you be temper say don't come over here with that bullshit gone over your catfish. Is bill gates. That's going to be a heavy divorce. On what the fuck happened for her. Because i think she initiated she said we never get back together. You we are on. I can tell you. Is this gonna go bill gates. Bill gates Conspiracy theories what is that. It can't be she t- you gotta be motivated. She told you can be one of those cassia conspiracy theory. He started covert or some. You know one of the things can be true this type of all he infidelity. I said a billion dollars in a relationship. I just wanna take cheating off the board like we can have understandings and commitments at that point. But just stop doing that. Like these people uncouple and peace would oughta money out melinda. She got have come up she by hopefully look which which one you wanna be about bill. Gates's various surprised about crazy kovac spiracy. But still there you want to go with. None of them got to be true that she found out he said. Oh that's a show on. Hbo because imagine niambi we'd together. We billionaires you. Find out that the vaccine i helped put together and i actually put microchips. And nato's uber with me. They already got microchips in an our passports and my phone. I know that. But i'm saying actually so try again. I mean they put them in may so like. I'm just saying magic when these spiracy theories to be true and the found that is a plot on hbo. Now i understand that okay. But i'm telling you it might be one of these might be one of these q. Nappies might have been sick this motherfucker and been work with our financial planning unknown a perfect time so his toenails and bed again not taking the show not not seen each other year. They might not like each other. I think that can be a thing to do. I don't think it's as big as people making it. i might. They might be sick and tired of each other in. This honestly could have been it for the last ten plus years because so much money involved and take time divide up billions. I'm glad how he's quietly just giving her money. Though you you'll be surprised about colonize likes to take from jeff. Basil's jason biggs sews wrote a check and then one on an island with his new bitch in. I'll just basil's woman. I even got remarried. Come on already. We can go like this weekend. Pass y'all without knowledge him mother's day. That just happened so happy. Mother's day to all the mother mother figures people who got mamas mamas. All things Anyway you identify as a mother nurture giver. I do think that they represent shoe near me. We had a nice little intimate with our mothers and it was nice. It was just nice and low key. It was we all vaccinated is nice to be in the house. No mass on truly enjoy each other. But what i wanna do is start a pot on shit pot a little bit before we're going to stop some shutout go hit so it was. This article in atlantic is caught. How adult children affect their mother's happiness in the author was the author of it was author seabrook's before we get into it. I'll do a quick rundown summary of With articles about and then we can unpack it a little bit here So it starts off by talking about the happiness. Stage in motherhood is set early right so depending on A mother's happiness truly is statistically says that it depends on how much help the mother hassle researchers have found that even after correcting for social economic circumstances single non cohabitating. Mothers are generally less happy then. Married mothers which is not surprising given the financial In time pressure single mothers space. Of course all of this depends on the quality of the partnership having a supportive partner. Significantly affects mother's health mu status fashion and more additionally the size of the family is also important so there was a study that That report it that happiness against the number of children that mothers have and they found that well being increased as a woman has her first second and third child however the fourth child and beyond are associated with failing happiness so to be precise because we are scholars is says the optimal happiness point occurs right at the three point. One four kids. I don't know what parent. Oh come on But that point. Four on what. That is maybe. That's maybe that's doll. That's goldfish. I don't know what that point four is right around three keys. Is that happiness point which would think about that now for like too much. But there's a lot too much but i think if you go with the first statistic that if you didn't have that with a partner or strong support network it will be good balance to so as we're not there we're gonna talk about. We're not going to focus on that area but we're going to keep on keeping with me. We're not a context in it. So the aspects of motherhood that they found that lower happiness are obvious in specific They range from meltdowns in the supermarket to calls from the principal office. The benefits to wellbeing are more diffused in centered on a sense of purpose and meaning one team of scholars summarized the evidence as when compared to non parents parents with children in the home have low levels of effective wellbeing and high levels of life meaning so effective wellbeing. You know what do you mean like oh self care. Today's a good day. I'm feeling good running. You know all the should idea. When i got my running working out drinking water. gonna trader joe's on a tuesday low for parents but was high for parents. Is life meaning right. So i had these children. I'm giving the society that's good right. So let's actually than a mother's overall wellbeing should rise as kids grow up right because the pressure of raising young kids decrease while the sense of meaning that adult children bring to their mother stays high right. That should be logically what happens. Guess what bomb. The opposite appears to be true though so in two thousand sixteen three social scientists looked at the life satisfaction of women without Without kids they found that during childbearing years mothers and mothers to be were happier than non mothers how whatever by the age of forty m beyond mother's life satisfaction levels were generally a bit lower than their child is counterparts. Hit a game. Researchers studying mothers have also found that almost fifty four percent said their relationship with their adult children child or children was intimate but also restrictive and they had missed feelings air quote about the relationship or some other ambivalent statement. The strongest predictor of ambivalence towards an adult child was whether their mother continue to financially support them done. In the biggest predictor to interpersonal stress. Between adult children and mothers was her affirmation Answer to the question. Do you feel that you give more than you receive in this relationship that a game. That tied that clearly. Many mothers experience less unmitigated joy from their adult children than they do on Then they let onto their families. The good news is that researchers also suggests that there's ways to make moms happier to make sure they get as much out the relationship and they give three tips so the one is off the family plan right so basically stop getting on your nerves. Stop asking for money. Get get off the phone plan. You know if you are over twenty five and you listen to this tie generation pay on fucking phone bill stab going to your mama house stealing and all that fu stop asking them for rent. You can't afford it. Go into the job. Go work for overeats all those things or whatever and if you do gotta get money from your parents say you fucking thankful faith. Thank you. I appreciate you. I see your mama. I want and got a piece of white castle here. White castle for you nets. Another tips they call. It hosts a holiday at place. Stop coming to your parents house for everything sometimes invite them over to the barbecue sometimes invite them to go out go for a walk sometimes saying you want them to go somewhere with you and then lastly somehow fucking doing talking on the phone begging talking on the phone center in yourself. You'll grown as how you don't want how you feel how you plan to fisher. One homeowner was plantar fasciitis cool so things would is some t. Yarmuth narrative saw aka a long story. Short adult children get on appearance. Nerves specifically mothers in the mamas ain't saying but the research they otherwise shit. This is making me nervous. I'm trying to prepare for motherhood. And i'm right at that forty by the be happier. Hang on what is to come in on my phone bill running up my internet. What's your thoughts here. I think it's not my internet capacity. Tiktok they needed to reverse study off just like a kid's number three them about their kids pan pants bills and you on the family plan. But you didn't take over the family plan since cove it happened. They didn't run the ball. The damn internet bill and now you got to change service watching fucking church service because ain't got off. We play in looking studies study. Cbs be bet taken with a grain of salt. Of course every family is different. Right all that stuff right but it made me think what thought about those funny finding a momma's did it. Macaroni and Cheap ads grocery flowers. It's nice on normal. Say pancakes which all get the same shit. But as i'm forty. Tell me something else to nothing. Like that is trying to cook making ribs again. You don't tell them. Your cholesterol is high. He barbecuing again. Yes he barbecue. Yesterday i made last weekend but now he barbecuing again so much. As a mother's day is bridge brunch in hot dogs. It's finger food reflections on article. Honestly i wanted to lead. Star pop sham. What you think. Are you happy still young and is are you happy. They may be still young. We got a report back about ten years. Who knows articles Go ahead i think is interesting. I think is interesting. It made me more aware than adults out to just take more time. Be a little bit more kind Be present things. I'm working on to. Hopefully they'll stays. I don't those things. I'm not a lot on like family plans. There's nothing and we're with them at their home now but it is my hope to have home and then invited. I enjoyed hosting and doing stuff like that sue so again. Just something ought think about your adult children as you're navigating through all that good stuff and Keep in mind but we just wanted to give a shout out to autumn others. Happy mother's day as you seen fit now. We don't miss the few shot. Friday so we just going to get into this. We go back to back into these emails. Let's into emails first of all lead now. One fast male now the this person from red mirror instead. It's been a lot it says. Hey is red. Baron stars been a while i've been enjoying your own episode on spotify. You have no. You have no idea how much you slept. I feel as though i can just replay those episodes all over again. Like is the first time here in them. Thank you. I got a raise now. And i'm making twenty dollars an hour. Hit it narrow. When i was previously making twenty two guy is good. My car is almost paid off. Hit near. I'm on the curse but getting there once that's done is safe to travel and live life a bit more open. Hit near the dare dare chauvinist. Guilty on all counts and also Is also on suicide watch. They better put him on air. Guess he found out the limitations of the toxic whiteness. I couldn't believe it to forty plus testimony expert in the field of respiratory to get this going. It's sad that it takes a whole village to get a convention but no stone unturned is how we have to play it them. I haven't finished it but it serious mental cluster. Fuck episode episode is a tough one but he gives me the impression of being toxic environment in the mental in Emotional toll it takes on to simulate to white environments the gang mentality in nature of it all. I hope to finish it and drop another line soon about. I thought overall cindy much. Love and positivity rid near them as hard as Black dermatologists hey. I was too happy to hear about beyond says gm. jim. Jim allergies scholar. Jim logical gave me chills and made me so proud. Your niambi about black gemologist. And i have a perfect recommendation for you. Name is xenophobia. Graduating from harvard. She did howard howard. The original only h h u She did her graduate studies. In june jim at the gym logical institute gi. I plan which i know. I got a speech impediment. Jim more logic. No fuck that. Jim more logical. We initially told my lines on my here on the spectrum. Shouldn't youtube niambi we brethren. The same school scholarships are for near them. She does jury for guys to be. His brand is called seven. June jury and you can find her website her instagram. She has ready to purchase items. Her website But i believe most of her workers custom and she does Casio's highlighted on our instagram. I'm looking because i'm looking to buy a couple of jewelry pieces so the nets one is. Call me call me tears. No friends either is says high near miami. The first fourteen minutes of episode three ninety. Y'all i'm damn near thirty five and don't have any friends either. I have one person. I can call the friend. Everyone else fits into the associated box. like miami. our work in the business after work. Anything i wanna do. I go onto by myself. Sometimes i get lonely other times. It's like well. I never really liked large groups anyway. Be blessed teresa t. We get through this. We got friends about quality over quantity france. His mother's quality over quantity when we are going to have a deeper episode on this. And we're going to unpack it it. Maybe i'll have my select number for his come on they can impact roster quality. When there's only you just me and the lord it's more than that like i know checking insists talked about that in the email but it's more to unpack there and do pack. They're like i really have been reflecting and processing to see like to hold myself accountable. So we're going to circle back to that. I don't know when but we are going to circle back to this idea of france because we are social people and we cannot do life along. And i stand firm behind that we have voicemails into a skype on bush. It again planets narrow. Niamey and they live is rushing out from saint. Louis i in collin about episode ninety friends so really home for me because my the unlike you only style. And when i got married i had high hopes I'm gonna have all these others and surface of my husband. Got all these brothers and sleuthing and have already nieces and nephews and the happen sese my husband. He has two brothers one of other brothers. His wife doesn't like a their mom so we don't we never see them so decorate their locker wash and the second brother his wife cheated on him so now they're separated law just me by myself and my mother in law who constantly. I'm everyday anyways. So we are part of a special group. Avi become a with a group name anyway. Happy day keep up. Its cats. I love it and nearly wanna get this patriae rolling stock you guys later. I got a name for y'all the sisterhood. We know cystitis but we crave because also i think she's hitting on something with the only child thing. 'cause it's just like oh i just assume once i partner if i marry into A family or close friends and i will become automatic anti now looking around the block. I haven't okay. it's gotten after like it. Throw you off a little bit. The sisterhood of no sisters. That's all to the sisterhood. With no sisters of all. I'm going to show and miami up the drom how that even without okay and i mean it so good. You completely disrupted me listening to. This show is so good but this is a great intermission over here doing training. And they'll be here. I like but I'm gonna continue listening to this downloading. And i'm going to get back to the show very still guess The this discussion of our weird you and near one that be is by the california predatory. I feel like california. And be as saying yeah. You know y'all family and thing. But i feel be initiated into the came into the team in the future speech the detroit at the beginning of fan. The court is both me and i feel like in dock be out there just struggling and later if got to. I mean you've got to hearing living at for drive her but they require a t do for that to happen. Y'all thank you we love it thank you. I'm i love that ratio. you know. I'm open feedback and thoughts the sisterhood of no sisters. I this is. This'll be a chapter in my book. Hair miami just army pollen from houston episode. Three ninety eight got like meat and my husband. So i have like two and a half france I don't know how that happened talking like having keys and things like that i think for me. I realized that like i really got over. And he's not only for. And when i looked around and it was just them and he and the dow so it just resonated would be talking about that guy no branch to have friends definitely need to get so down today Michelle last week. I had to travel of a work. Assets come up. The jetty photo. That was that was all right. Join show thank you. Thank you something to the you. Call him system no system. But it's something 'cause i also wanna clarify. It's not that. I don't want any new friends right with the process of doing. It's not that. I don't enjoy company of a people in mid i particularly enjoy company of women like you know i love feminine energy in women around me and i i love that right but the true friend right because i think i hold a strong definition of what i say. You are my friend. You are my friend that me you fucking up. I'm still going to be next to you. What's that tiktok when it'd be the girl in the front man in the bathroom. I get asked my man. I'm going to stand by. Yeah he lives silly. But that's my. I thought well friends like crazy. But that's all my so. It's just a different level of commitment right and compassion ownership who we be. We have rounded sisterhood or no sisters. Hey lamptey hey mabel glad you're feeling better and you know not not like catfish from said city. Hey longtime listener but my first time calling and it actually been saving this phone call because you cross finally got my god compounded by the extra ridiculous housing market. I'm still in higher. Ed so that's awesome And i think oh so much for being like kind of like going on this journey with me like my family and Just wish you all the best of luck and like your family planning and everything and whenever you make it back to tally or if you ever make it back to tally you know you can always something to that. Have some water screaming and yelling and maybe even watch. Maybe maybe she is our know. We love it mabel. Terrorize buyers though. Yeah that's what we learned in michigan. She her walk geese rated buck or rabbit legged rabbit rabbit star just freezes also this money us back again I guess it's always that. I really awkward. But i'm come on have a conversation about race and y'all have a conversation about like the housing market. Yes just like you know in california. It's really crazy like really wild. It's kind of like i'll ever. It is all over again. Can you speak from the perspective of i know. You're originally from detroit that you're kind of just by way of california transplant. And californians are really bad rather coming into other states and branding the housing definitely. I don't think they hiding advocating because somebody who is from california but lived in thousand. That was moving back in california. I'm just like the way i'll do. This having situation is like it's a team. It is a scene from the beginning. Love to hear your thoughts on that. And i think we're actually going to go house and things today Valley yeah i would love to hear your perspective and insight and stuff like that very out locking those all right. Have a good day. Yeah i think you would know we should because we're gonna we're gonna deeper into it too so we're getting all our debts in order to probably do actively go like on the market in look for homes here in michigan prior linen. It's i just made a purchase that onuma sharpei offers so i can get the highest possible lowest possible rate but we can talk about it and i agree. Living in california may because we bought a house in massachusetts. We've lived in michigan our whole life and we lived in california last three years so those are very three distinct marquee and i think california equipped me to best right i think massachusetts kind of got on my feet wet and just like the home buying process loans getting yourself an order like in your mind right but california got my right on aggressiveness of it so i think like i said being new england i got all my dozen order understand the process and pre approvals and all that type of stuff i get that and i'm in the mental space to kind of take my time in california got me like i california i plan on like showing up what my checkbook to be owned this house right now cannot talk to the owner like more before i think more naively i will come in about oh yeah put the offering going to my real estate agent to blake. Can you please call the owner right now. So i'm going to get four asking price. I will play closing costs. I'll do x y and z. If they can be out of here in two weeks type. I'm a lot more assertive right. Like i'm coming in with minimum twenty percent. Now if no more. I'm coming. I'm doing fifteen year mortgage like i'm just so much more assertive being in california because how america for like litter do soon as they're gone along grand opening win carlson. How's it go up. And i think even being michigan. I've been like that because we've seen different homes. I was like all right. We can ask for this and we literally like we got our story in places like we like to tell them who we were for where we were for. Here's a copy of our tests like when we offers we just don't submit to offer more. We submitted offers. We let them know we pan closing. We don't want them to know our background. We wanna have kids will let them know who we worked for. We let them know. We committed to the neighborhood. We got statements of purpose like summit that with the package. This is who we is. It's just different because you got do that in california because everybody's giving the same package if not more or asking price and it comes down to the owner truly making a decision on who they want to be in the house and they not only buying into the offer they're buying into you and that's that's the hard part about california and was going to be throughout the whole world. Is that if everybody's giving you're asking price and is at one point five million dollars for a two bedroom home. Yeah like we're gonna go from there. Whereas like i i think about for our our our last house it was like contingent on like the person selling their house right whereas now in california it ain't the way they know contingent on shit like i'll go fuck if you've got to mortgages is you get you gonna get asking price and is like all right. Well we'll type of offer do they. Do they gotta convince you alone is it. What's the other. fha is it a. is it a cash. Offer all these things because like she catches key. Kansas can help. I got a house for one point. Five million then look that cash is king because it moves fast. Yeah different on how How people fund and said oh so for example. Fha they put out opposite. I won't pretend like this one. Two three one two three and they they money shorter. Because there's a. I mean to get money longer because it takes a long period of time to go through all the processes approval so you might get approved for it but then they go through all this other shit you gotta get you know you got to have so much money in your account for so long and all these other things on the flip side of year to sadler. They're also things you have to to have in place right because the home has to be a certain standard compared of your more conventional cash offer. You can just walk away from here. You go to pay. I'm done and it also depends on the seller's time like all that stuff depends on it. So yeah i'm happy to have episode on the as we get deeper into because as we get deeper until we can do it absolutely blind and blah but at least in detroit we buying block i am going to be A black gender fire. If i honestly want to stay in A black neighborhood or a detroit neighbor. You know our dream homes in boston. Edison neighborhood but i would love to go and out Be a white person. Like this is my indian. If i do go in a more white neighborhood right. I would love to gentrify block for them to be pleasantly surprised and also known me near got two different methods. Depending on the type of neighborhood was all black neighborhood. We're going about a different way. Compared of his more white neighborhood we do show up differently and we do lead with different things to the point. Where sometimes owners only we black until we meet at the closing but the black neighborhoods. We let it no off the bat. We are blind your blood. So yeah we go ghost ghost identity when we doing and more midst of white neighborhoods. They don't know but black night we do get different methods. That's a lot though. Uterus bought the foreclosure house. Because that's their homes for a foreclosed house in massachusetts didn't even realize until we showed up to showed. Oh fuck because because we had our light. And that's the thing right. You say age and go through reverses the other way right. And i think even on the way we even sold the house right like we. We took li- as we the on show. We took every single pitcher so there was no like it was hard to even know if they was black or white family. You know the ones that just come to stock. This comes in fifty. But it's like it's like all of us crazy things that you have to do in black deal to go in here to get the best deal because the other thing is that going to mix neighborhood they're gonna raise the gonna raise the price of the brick because they know you and it's gone is fucked out to make a choice you can't you can't let me stop. You cannot discriminate based on race. That's not what we're talking about but there's ways to go around your offer i know but they cannot say the reason we're offers you'll nigger whereas other ways to go around but we're trying to make that as hard as possible now. Yeah because that's one of the things to do. Of course you can put on the positive whatever whatever win but when it comes to closing they see your black ass. Oh we still want this house. Yeah we will definitely talk about. It's interesting interesting. Maybe wanna get like a real estate license speaking about that too. But i don't give me. This is red. Baron calling for maple. Oh hey we heard that you were on the sick and shut in and it's really good to hear that you're doing well. Maybe you just gotta stay away from the sacks you gotta spend god saying no baby girl you gotta say no because it would be so sad not have you around because we love you because look at both we love you a whole lot and we are so so glad that you're doing so much better. Don't forget to have fun play with the kids but also make sure that you come in before the portion before the lights come on and just enjoy yourself and on my. Be careful exercises but You gotta you gotta patience of the go. Snacks do and what i saw one day of. Goodness it really is. We all got a bow. Take care of yourself mabel. We love you and look forward to hearing from you and seeing you on instagram. Yes he don't come back. I have a great day. Thank you bye. she appreciative. she appreciative. She don't got off to cutting so much better. yes. I think this is a perfect. Did i feel about dead. Air and since records candice hey I had to pause the inlaws episode in carlin Towards the end. I forget whose name her name was with. The momma called in and says she and her husband are educators when she was saying that her Her twenty one month old son is in School and he's not. He's being nonverbal with the white teacher. The run the daycare and that triggered me too because my son just my six year old son just went to school. He's started school thursday for in class. Learning and i knew it was going to have trouble with him. Because he's been the virtual cloud at home and i've had keeping alive. Yeah yeah so. He went thursday and friday thirty in the morning. I'm getting emails from her saying. Hey cal fit. Because he doesn't wanna use the dry erase marker that he had which is the that yesterday and he decided to throw his writings wanna floor and then the death eight schools the muscle. It might get my black together. Grow a backbone. Because i already told her he was going to catch her. She has a strong rail. He doesn't like because i was a teacher for his whole life and he has a different learning style. He's almost the smartest kid in I got irritated. And i'm going to come up here and talk to get up there. They don't wanna and covert. I said that's fine. Just out the secondary teacher bring into the back and you come little talking to to learn work easy. That is fine but you are not to be sitting in their acting. The fool disrupting class and so he lost his hat. Priviliged for the weekend and I'm about to get cut off. I'm gonna call. But i mean it's it's a tough. It's a tough thing to juggle. It comes to getting ahead of education system which you're young children s that's cooking the call me after unit told him to stop and he said what i was saying about early childhood education. With your kids. It's hard thing to juggle because for me. I really cannot afford to put him in childcare. His father is being and That's why i started doing childcare. So now that i got him you know in school. He's ahead of the curve. I'm handed him off to his white teacher. Now mind you seventy five percent black county. Yeah so i guess. New america. But i just knew that she was not going to handle my time and so now i'm having to still be in the mom and dad have backbone. And he is he is and I don't know what the solution is for having better teachers like he needs a black teacher. That's like me the it's it's not about you right now. It's about what you wanna do. Mrs who work you have to get it done but with my daughter i went broke putting her shoes. Oposite challenge here. And i mean run up credit cards putting into private childcare for her to end up in so this new system because i can't afford to her private schools but Especially in second grade. She got out of the gifted and talented kids so she has a more challenging curriculum. But i constantly have to stay on her teachers as well about helping her navigate. Her time management her study skills. What is she going wrong. Why she you know half credit on assignment so the point where she had to aspen the beginning of a third quarter in language. And i was like this. You won't put it up to a be at least let me hit. Just eat the had to do. We know right the extra papers. This is not acceptable work. I didn't do everything i did in early. Childhood education for here like an all. Get it together so she did. She got as and one b at the end of the quarter. Now we're in fourth quarter where we're at and my son is just back to inquire marnie and i gotta do not know what to do now. Yeah give her belt. Give the teachers about but it is. It's like they don't yeah. Yeah i'm processing light. Sometimes i really did. Avoid them in minutes. I'm trying to say a six year. Old and i did everything that i was supposed to do. In early. childhood education to give them ahead star and now it's the public school systems job and they don't seem like they can handle it. I don't know what type of education advocate. I need to be to help. Change the system but for all of the listeners. That do not have children yet. i have young children. You just have to do a lot of it yourself if you have to stay on in the school system because america is not a mayor talk receipt graduate with a three point six point nine like i did from both of my different programs and still come out and struggle in life with finding jobs every statue that pay you. What's your were so it comes to your children at least teach them to speak up for themselves. Critical thinker and definitely focused on that in that early reading because early literacy is so for the black community. I need to really really really do your due diligence and find the most the best affordable healthcare that you can possibly find With your you know your income levels because these these schools are not doing what they need to do for our. even if you're in the suburbs like me and it's a you know away from urban lives and all of the childhood tribulations that come with that and living in poverty even if you do that you're still going to have appeal data. When he comes to them that they can go to college and have that opportunity. You know higher learning so do your research make sure your partner onboard. That child's education is one of the most important things that you can do for them. They are students first. It they ask me to sit i and that's the best thing that we can find children. I hope and i hope that Go college. I called in house. Why are able to get there. Two and four year old you know. Yeah it's something they're like. I don't have almost it's some cultural. I of cultural competency there needs to be okay. But i'm not calling accent but i'm listening to the left of the neighbor. My cat is far into it. But i just had to say something funny and near laughing at all i want to say it brings me so much choice here both of you past. I've been listening in on the beginning. Even though i stumbled upon it when you already had many fifteen twenty episodes out beginning near 'em saying in the beginning i wanna do this. Podcast is supposed to be therapy. I think character got them at arlington. Make me laugh all the time. I have watched so many shows and videos of something reviews. I got into game of thrones because of the way you start from the leading this on this show. But what about having the monday on netflix off. Stop by. I mean you get great reviews. You need to put a book out there. Diana warrior definitely need to get this out hustled consulting navigate in corporate america thing together like you need a position on a board sunday where you just have a lot to give to the world and i hope that you figure out how to do that and i'm really happy that nearly every book. I've been listening to hot chat saturday. Well i am. One of the people in the community celebrate for new. There are a lot of them out there. That are saying the thing things that you got needs so much. I love y'all i would another friday so this'll staggered out. We miss the miss to friday's debate. So that's all that is. We're just catching up. No a lot. I'm my on my self driving an hour and a half back home. At the modules traveled soccer games. They lost one play like shit anyway. Look as you don't black back in black love matters jota another thing niamh putting you on to chat yoga bay yes member of damn chat shop for a whole year is changed but i can't pay for it because i'm in custody fun now but anyway. Yeah goddamn yoga started vacation. I wanna to be that came black yoga instructor. I'm here for it. I am excited that christmas. They broke out because the state you might be right with the where not living your best damn like you talk down up. Put me on komo pot when she made greenslade back and i wouldn't bought some of that ship. So did i want. I want all of that all of that we do. We need to figure out how to live longer. How to be advocates. After three children we gotta find a way forward. Because i was feeling the same way like so. Many people have influence in our childhood adolescent turning you and I'm feeling i'm feeling all of that. I'm all of it. Like i don't know the way way but i know we got enough billionaires in the black community to figure shit out donald know about that child. low Dan figure out how you do them. Revert moderation and get some political power in the black community by taking back down. South called back something to that right multiple team. She says assist. Thank you so much for the kind words and compassion. I needed it like the universe works in a certain way. So thank you fills me up to hear That you feel connected. And i feel connected to your to but also her second point where she was talking about like Our elders adolescence. Going right like we have middle part where we're not thirties forties supposed to be executed. But we still have our elders. There's given wisdom but the eldest is leaving. Nfl transition to that wisdom. A little too early. And i really wanted to get tight and then also. I don't want to act like we hear you. Would you say about what cheer ince's like i'm sending you ought to energy. We don't got no kids. But i feel exactly where you're coming from. Chan were all our folks with children. Shutouts mellon your. What do we need to do to get to get the children right now. Be willing to be the biggest advocate. Like it's something they're right. Do some are children. They ask what yes but these white teachers do be trying our kids and i stand firm in that they do. Try to fuck out our kids because they're unconscious bias or conscious but i don't give a fuck which one it is but it is something going on air and anti niambi want to be the biggest advocate to be the biggest loud mouth on a momma's get tired tag on. T. niambi now. I've got all day for mrs sheila. Whatever the fuck are maintenance closes out. She'll tell them not to do it onto the sisterhood of snow. Sister sister no sisters. We don't take our time. we'll get a name it. You got a name the demon to fix it. Don't you store. 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WWHL @ Home: Kandi Burruss & Tamron Hall

Watch What Happens Live with Andy Cohen

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WWHL @ Home: Kandi Burruss & Tamron Hall

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Cameron all Cameron. Andy, how are you I'm good? It is great to see both of you I want to thank both of you for joining us from your homes. I WANNA. Talk a little bit about what's going on in the world today and I'm finding people's personal stories so connective to what to the whole experience. That's going on, I for both of you. Do you remember specific instances growing up when YOU FIRST EXPERIENCED RACISM? Tamra I want to start with you. And Ian, such an interesting question because obviously I've heard watched so many other friends and family members and celebrities, Nas. Lowery talk about it for me. We. Don't have enough time. Frame all of the things that I've seen that I've experienced and I think and I when Trayvon Martin was murdered. I remember doing a special where we were asked. Tell us these things that have happened to you and now in reflection I feel like it's not productive because we know what's happening now. What happened to me as a kid and Texas? Even as a young woman, trying to break into this business are examples. You know you're putting a bunch of coins in the collection plate, but we know that there's already enough deposit. No this story, so whether it's my story or candy story. There's enough in the bank that we know what the problem is. So what's happening now? But for the grace of God you know I am not reality Taylor, but I can speak for her. My Dad is not George Floyd, but there's a connected tissue so. To unload a bunch of stories, we know stories. The Stories Candy notice stories. But what do we do now, Yup? I agree it's. A definitely agree with her. Because it's just like we can keep going on and about the past, but it's like right now. We really need to be putting that plan of action together to figure out how he can continue the fight and not just let it be just for now while people are you know saying they're taking notice. People that are standing windows now that who probably before were quiet, but it's like okay, we continue the. Conversation we need to have what. Tavern was something that's really struck me. Is that the term black lives matter? Has finally been accepted and spoken by a lot of people who weren't saying it publicly before. What is that meant to you? And how do you think that's going to carry forward this movement? Listen that was two thousand thirteen that that phrase black lives matter was first brought to us by three strong black women. I remember even Andy People. WHO said they were allies saying? Why do you have black like? This was just a small group of people in rural towns. People in New York City. Where we both work in the media market. Who Say oh, my Gosh. I shouldn't call it that that's alienating well here. We are from two thousand, thirteen to two thousand and twenty. We now know that her story was on the right side, not history her story, because those women got out there, and after Trayvon Martin was killed, said black lives matter and became vilified, honestly because they had the nerve to say so. I do think about the. The fact that you know just a few short years ago, even people who were deemed open-minded were afraid to say the now when you go on social media, every network, every person with a voice has a black box on their instagram or a message, showing their support, and just a few years ago. Think about how many people were frayed to say black lives matter or thought that it was alienating, and now they are here, so that's the part that gives me hope that you we say often. so-and-so's on the wrong side. And now we see Colin capper. Nak We see the three women started black lives. Matter were on the right side of history and thank God unlike others. They were alive to see that they were right others. We lost who were not able to be told. You are right along. I'm curious what specific actions you're seeing from white people that you think are effective or valuable, and if you're seeing things that you find to be counterproductive, and this question is for either of you. I definitely feel like the will. All lives matter conversation is counterproductive. What people you know? Some people seem to take offense. When we say black lives matter not understanding. That has nothing to do with you. It's not against you. We're just saying that. If all lives are going to matter, that would mean black lives after matter to, and obviously we've seen that. There has been a disregard for black lives when it comes to police brutality. You know the murders different things that have happened that other races don't seem to have to worry about right Oh. I. Just wish they would get that through their head. Because I get sick up every time I post something that said something about the black lives matter movement. You always have somebody says. Will I really love you? I'm a fan of you, but now I don't WanNa. Follow you because you. Basically. They're saying on alienating them, but I'm not trying to alienate you. I'm just trying to get everyone to include US candy. What tell me about your dialogue with your kids about this? Oh my goodness, obviously I'm getting it all from all different ages we have Riley Kayla who are on the older side of things which Riley. She's very opinionated in from the jam shoes like. She goes to a school that obviously the minorities black majority white, but. She was like okay. I am following every single friend or person. Bat is non black WHO's not speaking about this. WHO's not showing that? They are aligned with our community. She's like it's one thing for them to say. Oh, we're friends were cool, but if I don't see some type of something that they're recognizing what's happening right now. I'm following them. And she seriously like she made it like a movement through her whole friend group if she did not see some type of statement or show that you. You Care, she was on bottling you and she was serious about it. Then my on the younger side of things, my son as WHO's four, you know. He was a policeman or career day in so when my husband was trying to well, todd was trying to explain to him. You know what was going on while. Everybody was so sad and what was happening with the police ace was confused. He was like so the police are the bad guys now. Isn't that crazy tax explain at twelve four zero. For you to be black in, have to worry about the police be in the back. It definitely. I cry all the time, but that's an emotional thing for me and Andy. I know you care about us, but you don't have to think about. You. Know what I'm saying. That's a bit we have to think about. For Asthma it's. You're right in candy. Gosh, my son, my husband is Jewish. My son is multiracial and people will say well. You don't understand her. Husband is white and let me tell you. America one drop of black blood diction black. And allowed the NFL players who stood up and spoken Colin capper next background is multiracial. Right, so you can break it down to say well. All you don't understand will rock. Obama's mother was white and he was our first black president, because by the rules in this country that is where my son falls, and I'm proud by the way that's where he falls, and he's unapologetically the child Jewish man in a black woman and I will always tell him that and. You're making me. It's so its own. We watched man I in addition to my talk, show we. Do a crime show and I've seen a lot of bad things. I lost my sister to domestic violence I. Think being a reporter for twenty five years. I have a high tolerance. To Watch that. Time. Of that man's life escape and he called on his mom. Who is no longer with us? You know that's why we wanted to do. The hear us now show because to your point Andy, asking things have happened in the past me or cannon. Things have happened to you as an openly gay man. We can keep talking about our, but we have to see to the future, and the future is what woke us up? The future, said yes. I'm worried about covert nineteen I'M GONNA? GonNa. Go out here. The future said I'm going to hold this sign. I'm going to not be silent. When some in our generation have been silent, they saw silence of few weeks ago. Is being complicit. Think about that. They're silent with they did not they comfortable with it? And that's why you saw such a large group of multi racial white black kids marching, because they now know that being silent is being complicit. For me, the future is representation in every business that we're part of in everything that we're doing. Especially in politics the one thing that I keep preaching Franson everyone else I hear the conversations. We seen documentaries of the conversations of white billionaires, millionaires having these parties in saying my son's going to be the next senator or this person is going to. To be the next governor, but we as black people were not having those conversations a Lotta minorities are not having those conversations where we are grooming our children to be the next political leaders, so what I am encouraging, every parents, especially minorities encourage your kids to get more involved in northern about politics so that we can start attacking it at a local level. I think it all starts there, and then you know goes forward, but we need to start grooming our children. The same way that white men are groomed to be in politics. So hard tease, said if your good friend Prince was with us today. How do you think he would have helped? Is City of Minneapolis heal in the wake of George Floyd's debt. What we saw what he did for. Freddie Gray in Baltimore Yeah He was consistent and is consistent. So I think that that's the phenomenal thing about him. So I saw a tweet that said one person new. The Revolution would happen in Minneapolis and said prints, and it actually brought a smile to my face, but we saw through his actions very clearly especially in Baltimore, but there things he did behind the scenes, but I point to that as the greatest example of what he would be doing right now. Kindy Cam in once view Anini of made any progress towards ending your feud. And why did she send you a cease and desist after the reunion. while. I haven't talked to any since the reunion. And It was basically so I would take her footage where she's says on her new to about the person with all the shows when she's taken on the person She wanted me to take it out of a clip that I. put on you to. was there any doubt that that was you in the clipper? was there anyone else that you were thinking it could be? She never explained we asked her. An answer though I don't know. About it doesn't even matter anymore like with the whatever is going on like this happen. is so like minor when we spoke. Last night and she said some of the women are are on techs, chained together, and you guys are trying to come together to to work on something. Are you involved in that conversation? Actually, we have A. Housewives of Atlanta Group, CHAT Sex We all on and we actually were having conversations for the last couple of days on how we were wanting to encourage bravo and shrewd to show the fact that they are allies in and support us in this movement. And you and I had a long talk about that today and so I'm hoping that we can all work together to. Impact some change and make things better yet. As Season Journalists Hammer, and has a contact list. Full of a list leads so I want the scoop on all of her available sources. It's time to play. WHO WOULD HAMRIN Call Tamarin? Off Pairs of celebrities you've worked with interviewed or befriended I wanNA see who you would rather call in various scenarios. Okay, would you call the lift you up when you're feeling especially down Tina, knowles or a? Yawn Levin Sant. Yeah. I mean maybe. Okay. With you call for a good recipe to cook in Quarantine Guy Fieri or Carla Hall. Carla she makes her. Ever, who would you call the style you for a Webcam interview? Andre Leon, Talley or Bevy Smith. Is it. Am I being sexy or by being elegant in the elegant? I'm. On the tally, because Betty, want me like this. By the way I don't think you're gonNA. Offend me with that answer I. Mean it's hard to. Andrei? After a long day who you gonNA call for a good wind, recommendation, Hoda or Kathy Lee. Kathy Lee could. She owns a winery. Yes. That's true. Who would you call for a new workout routine recommendation? Venus Williams or Janelle monae. Williams one of the greatest athletes. Jew Now. I just love it. You of all their phone. Numbers of candy went from Candy Coated Nights Tonight Angel on the massacre last season, and she took home the trophy. So I mean candy. You and I haven't been able to talk about this I to speed round of questions about your experience on the show. It's time for unless we all surprise you one or did you know that you had it in the bag? No surprise. You were how difficult was it to get in and out of that cost two? Oh, it's like multiple people and Hook all that stuff up I mean it was layers I had skirts I. Add weaned. They had it. Does it smell in there. S, no good maybe. It's not about you, but I mean. You're huffing and puffing in this thing for days at a time. Smells like sugar honey. You knew that you were the night. Angel Momma Joyce no food on Yeah your family. And the kids. Dollar. What did you honestly think of Sarah? Palin singing baby got. I loved his you did. Honestly I felt like he's shown a different side of her. Like you know when you think of a politician, you don't really think they're fun and have like you know any titles, random or anything, but the out there having a good time making fun of herself like it made me look at her differently. Did you get to be friendly at all? No we didn't know I didn't know who anybody you. Know, it was. Her is I was on the stage with her when she got You know. Let go, but I didn't know it was her and Celeste. Ask how I was very sad that Dionne Warwick Chaka Khan went so early I mean. To our sad little Wayne when Hers Yeah Right. By the way candy who gave the most annoying critiques of the judges on the mass singer? They all had like weird guesses especially in the beginning, but We shocked by Robin Thicke, saying little can I was like Robin guest. macy's than one. You guess my name season two in. Out of you, use the. Right. Well Congratulations Again Candy Tamarin. What's been the most surprising thing for you about hosting your talk show every day. I mean, it's a real grind, and you're halfway through your almost through the year actually. Yeah, yeah, we're. We're getting ready for our second season. We picked up for season two. That's I. Thank you, thank you. Oh, my Gosh! Was it in the middle of season while we have a pandemic is like great. You we were just laughing. We're having a Mike. Ourselves I'm in my studio. This is my home to suddenly. I have lights in studio. I've got a turn on everything right so it's been surreal. We we started the show in our catch. Phrase was let's talk about it, and who had any idea that we would be talking about this right? Right, but it's been citing season two coming up and. We'll see what happens, but that's been the biggest surprise that will congratulations on that. It is time for tonight's moment of Mazal. Here with a call to action. It's our friend realized five Potomac Giselle. Brian thanks, Andy High. Whatever happens lag alright. Black voices right now need to be amplified. So what I'm doing what I encourage you to do is first of all talk to your children they want. Want to know that their voices are heard, and that their voices matter to talk to your kids. Also I WANNA. Make sure that you're getting out to vote. We cannot take voting for granted. That is the way that legislation is going to be changed in order for this country to be better in order for us all to have equality and to have change, so amplify your voice, please. Thank you Giselle listen to what is? L. Says I want to thank. Candy Tavern for being here tomorrow night. We are on an eleven after top chef Warren our after show on twitter live. We're going to twitter right now. Good night, everybody, thank you, Cameron and Kim. Him. Hey everybody is our watch. What happens live after show with candy bars from the real hot size of Atlanta and Tamarin? Hall, you can catch a special edition of Taman Show Tamarin, Hall. Hear US now airing Friday. Check your local listings. Okay we have more viewer questions for you. Cameron Peter L. Wants to know the most surreal part of interviewing oprah during her wellness tour especially after being a fan of hers for so. Well it's twenty two years. I've known her since I was twenty five, and she would always invite me to her home in Montecito in different events, and suddenly on interviewing her at age forty nine, and I have a twenty plus years to prepare and I didn't know what to ask that the most the real. Prepare for an interview, and then you get there and you're. And were you the last person to walk through? Harp does door. Yes, so when Oprah moved. Harpo from Chicago the studio. We did a special looking back at the Oprah Winfrey show in the impact of the show. I walk through that door. And after that the building was salts. I don't know if that was a good omen. Much, yeah! I was reportedly the last person to walk through the door. And then you know she comes on by talk. Show all those years later, so it was kinda crazy. That's awesome. Candy Alexandra be said Kenya said she and mark or thinking of having another baby of spoken her about this at all and. were. You shocked to hear this considering the last, we heard about their relationship. I've talked to multiple times. I mean that hasn't been part of the discussion. We mainly are talking about what's happening in the world right now. She's been. Just, really sad with all this stuff happening. Ban Stuck in the house. You know really we're coming off of quarantine straight into you know. I don't know if that's on the forefront of her brain right now right, right? Candy! Haley v emailed in honor of you saying I'm embedded in your mother F in brain. What moment from that reunion is embedded in yours? That probably because I've had to see that, mean all around the of social media over and over again. Just the simple fact that we did a whole reunion on. Did It byerly? It's like that's embedded in my brain land. I think we were going to be able to pull it off in I mean. Obviously we were able to do it. And we were able to address pretty much everything that we would have addressed. Had We bid face-to-face right and by the way shout out to you because you were the only one who did your own Erin makeup. Andy I did it again. I mean it looks. Really good. Were you annoyed when you saw the other women had Aaron? Makeup people I mean I was like. WHOA I was I was Kinda surprised? It wasn't that I was in I at. At, probably bill into a place of insecurity for quick second because I knew that I didn't get professionally non so. I started second guessing myself like. Should I have called somebody should I have broken the rules of quarantine? Did this like I didn't know if I might makeup look the same on camera as there's because there's was professional Ra wasn't anything of me. Being angry with them or anything like that, I just for myself I. Just started thinking did I make the wrong decision. Tamarin. What was your reaction to trump reigniting the taking the knee controversy this week. Actually to be honest with you I was more focused on the players than. That because that's the same with for example, the protests when everyone focuses in on the violence, and then they say the majority were not violent. Right and you know we got. The. Were violent, but the majority of the coverage is the violent Roy knee when it comes to Colin Capra neck and the knee I would much rather talk about how right he was, and how I so desperately with like everyone who didn't support him, who didn't say he was right as my dad was in the military for thirty years, and it was a military person who suggested taking the needs who column so let's. Forget about what everyone else is trying to say to reignite it. Let's finish the book because it can finish the bucket capi reignite. Over if ever there was. A better example of what this thing was all about. It's like well. What more do you need? What what more information do you need? You know, but he's but. Look at drew brees someone that is widely admired in love. He has now apologized. He now understands. He says but. His, initial reaction was to go to what he'd been told. I'll be honest with you. Andy for me. It's not really about making sure. Everyone believes the same thing for me. George Floyd represents consequences. If you kill a black man, you suffer the consequences of X. Unlike philander Casteel. The jury found that officer, not guilty. If you take Freddie Gray's life, you have to suffer the. We're not GONNA all agree. It was an I was supportive lgbtq. LGBTQ I? Don't expect everyone to be where I am on that topic, but if you are going to carry out a hate crime, this country and the justice system makes you suffer. The consequences of that had George Floyd taken a white police officers light, he will suffer the consequences of that. That's why we have law and order. That's what I'm a reporter for twenty five years covering the justice system and the scale so I I don't actually. Look for this Kumbaya moment where you me, everybody says okay. We all agree what we're asking for in Briana Taylor's case in any other case. Is that you Ahmad Aubrey's mother I interviewed her. She simply said I want this to go to indictment charges and let a jury of our peers. Decide what they believe and we know making the jury doesn't decide what we. We think is right, but let the justice system. Play out so I I. Don't have this big fantasy. There were all going to sit at the dinner team went all see eye to eye on anything but I do want us to be able to believe that justice will be served if someone's life is taken in the way that we watched with trayvon heard. With Tamir, we saw in the list goes on and on because police are there to protect us, and that's why we're having this complicated conversation now because we ignored the mini mini mini examples. All right well, I mean I'm going to leave it right there. Yeah, I know. I mean. Tam Thank you so much catch tamarins show on Friday and every day. Check your local listings. Thank you candy. You and I will be speaking. A lot hopefully. FOR MORE CLICK AROUND BRAVO TV DOT COM everybody. Thanks for listening to the PODCAST. Everybody hope you enjoyed the show. Remember new episodes go live Monday through Friday at four PM eastern time. Make sure you're subscribe to have a great rest of your.

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