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"beth dot" Discussed on WTOP

WTOP

02:36 min | Last month

"beth dot" Discussed on WTOP

"New bath or visit us at Metro beth dot com. It's 9 18 traffic and weather on the AIDS. Let's go to marry to Papa and the W T O be traffic center. All right. Appreciate it. We're gonna go right to the Maryland side of things. Now, if you're travelling on the Beltway, this is our one issue. It's in Maryland on the outer loop. And as you passed 95 toward, nor New Hampshire Avenue 6 50, which is exit number 28. Here you just beyond the sex that you stay two to the right to get by there doing work over top of the Northwest Branch 95 in Maryland. The call out was for crash outbound near the I, C C. And so far that hasn't been unfounded. Nothing as well on the Baltimore Washington Parkway in that stretch, and nothing on the Baltimore Washington Parkway inside of the Beltway. Also DC, to 95 to 95 all running pretty well. And all of your Anacostia crossings air working out. Nothing has been reported. As of late across freeway. However, there's new emergency happening on Wisconsin Avenue in northwest near Woodley. Emergency units were sent to the scenes of Watchem ears. Could be fire could be a crashed. You would find this on an open road. We're going to flip the coin. And check into Virginia. A couple of things on 66. They're winding down a little bit. But if you are eastbound in Fauquier County, heading out past the plane's exit, 31 The crash was closer to mile Marker 34. It landed on both sides of the room. But a single lane was still getting by With response on scene. It is out of our camera shot. No updates in a little bit. You do have a brief delay to get there. Now, if you travel 66 continuing east through Gainesville, Centerville, Fairfax and just before the Beltway that crash is said to be clear on Route seven. They have the work throughout the weekend, heading westbound between the Fairfax County Parkway and drains Ville Road. You have a single into the right getting by. And a crash on Dreamsville Road. One slipped off the roadway. Give yourself extra time and use a lot of caution. Stopping distance. This going to be a slippery went out there especially with the leaves. But drains Ville Road near hidden Brooke. Drive one into the trees. You're following police direction. You can always tell us what you're seeing on your commute called the W T O be traffic center 866. 30 for w t o P. Washington's top news, traffic and weather keeping you informed 24 73 65 Married to pump a w GOP traffic storm team for meteorologist Lauren Rickets. It's a cool, wet day. Temperatures are going to stay in the forties, too. Right around 50 degrees, with periods of rain continuing through much of your Sunday it could be moderate at times diameter.

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"beth dot" Discussed on Clara Apollo's Chi Time

Clara Apollo's Chi Time

06:00 min | 6 months ago

"beth dot" Discussed on Clara Apollo's Chi Time

"You can learn. Oh my bet you've never heard again is quite like that proper genius a vintage barefoot doctor and the leaks ter- here on Chee Time on UK. Health radio I just love it every time I hear it. Love it so much this track blow away and our time theme tune. Vagabond is from their album. What you focus on grows which you can actually access download for free from the soundcloud channel better foot and leaks ter- which is all one word and now released is in the house. We have the unfurling stories of playing profoundly with the often late and very great taoist master music producer with surreal. Sense of playfulness as you now know. But he is sadly now deceased. Beth dot to Stephen. Russell is no longer with us in person but he is so with us in our hearts he lives on through. And then get confused because it's Russell leak here to chat with us no he's the TV graphics. Wizard the multi instrumentalist technical Ninja and. Meditation Advocate and Collaborator. With Dr. So it's an absolute thrill to have you on the show. Russell welcome indeed thank you. I'm very glad to be here. So this'll kind of came about recently swiftly because our seemed to be using one if your tracks the theme tune for the for the show now so thank you so much for giving me permission to use vagabond from the what you focus on grows album. You're welcome it's great. Track is a long track in fact of those tracks to go on quite a long time but that was You know we didn't have a producer or anything we will make and everything else so it just became what it was and sometimes if we just let it go you know his love to have that freedom though. Isn't it to be able to let it roll? How the music comes through and it shows. It's very much working with them. Effort Dr Steven Russell. I would think it well. How did this whole project even happen? How did you get to be in the studio with him? Doing a whole album of music back in wops at twenty ten year but it seems longtime ago now but it was a it was a lovely period my life i. I'd actually given up work for year as decided working. Tv graphics had a year off and a a mutual friend. Jesus and we we really. I'm hidden Australia Way. Just chat really just chatting. I think I said to you I'm a kind of born again atheist. Other time I was probably going through this transition stage. Which made for some interesting conversations with With BEFFA and then the other thing is he's he's a fabulous musician which I didn't really know when I first met to be honest and so one day we said. Why don't we just get together in the studio and have a lower jam and we did exactly that and I think he picked up one of my guitars and started playing this free and just suddenly attracted emerged and we started by. Just doing them get spanky. What you focus on grows and it quickly turned into a whole album. And that's that's yes so completely in the in the moment just from jamming really having some you. You're a musician. You got amazing equipment though. So it's not difficult record is it. Yeah that's right. I mean I'd I'd been working with response. Collective which was one of my bands at the time and we rule about capturing things live and we use we use able to live which allows you to sequence things quickly and just capture drumbeat after vocal and then turn into something and it was very much about that spontaneous. Making things happen which I bet he absolutely loved because that was very much energy. Wasn't it in the in the Chee of the moment and just respond to the energies that are coming through and she says absolutely brilliant vice player and that's what opens cheat time now? Is that riff from owned it? So strong and motors on thrown gives real substance to the the tracks but gee said the. The album tight was what you focus on grows in the track with that in it was actually called get spanky now. Just talk us through that a bit with Russell Place. Well I have no idea to this day. You know. There's an intro at the beginning of the video and With the two of US TALKING. Let's get spanky and I don't know where that came from. We were both again. Conversations about surreal filmmakers in my favorite filmmaker is David Lynch and and he was always interested in surreal stuff. So it just an. That's actually a theme through the whole as messages in the whole loud but is also just kind of abstract stuff which I really liked and he really liked and I remember actually when we first started my said. Well this is how we could create a song and I showed him how you could quickly improvise something. And he actually just applauded and was like that's amazing. Let's just do something back? So yeah playing the bass use a phenomenal bass player. On on one of the tracks he does a by Ceylon. It's really long. We left in because it's such fun to hear that. So Base Plan. I wish wish track sat on Bass on connected so I wait. We're going finish with our. We've already decided we because of bringing that in so I tell you what positive message music. That's what you're calling. Isn't that what it was called? Yeah Yeah and so this. What you focus on grows is is really Connected with the the. Taoist tradition of the chief follows the the being the mind so and it's all over all positive message stuff now but that's where it's coming from. It's always been there. And so let's just play a little snippet from the get spanky where we where we're giving an example of the chorus may be just maybe verse. Of course. Let's see how we got here with Russell on she time.

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Craig Tiley - Australian Open Tournament Director and Tennis Australia CEO

The Functional Tennis Podcast

06:09 min | 6 months ago

Craig Tiley - Australian Open Tournament Director and Tennis Australia CEO

"Welcomed episode forty eight of the functional tennis podcast. This week we have the great pleasure of speaking to Craig tightly. Ceo of tennis. Australia and director of the Aussie Open. Craig tells us all about his coaching success in college tennis in the states and then move and Australia to work for tennis Australia and the different jobs. He's done there. We also talk about the challenges of the current Cova situation on looking at Grand Slams and the Aussie Open in twenty twenty one. He tells us the first time you met Roger Federer and we've to gray questions sent into a spire instagram fons. It's a great episode. Hope you enjoyed before we get started. Make sure to go over to our new. Instagram account called functional tennis podcast. And give us a follow shed into a podcast sponsors head. I've been using head rackets and says a kid I I had Agassi's ownby racket. Which absolutely loved. I've been using heads on and off really ever. Since but mainly used the radical tried to use the prestige. But I find a wasn't really couldn't always struggle on the double handed pack and with it the radical for me less a bit more room for errands bit more stable for me. So thank you guys. Okay let's talk the Craig. Hi Craig how are you good? Thanks for talking to you from the other side of the world. I. It's amazing top. You're on board. It's really big privilege. Heavy speaking here on. Yes well thank you very much couch to find that Albert. How you became the talk. Mind an tennis Australia and wound most of man in tennis anytime you speak to tennis player. They rave about what you've still not the OSCE open so can't wait to hear Beth dot before we get started. Let's talk a little bit about your early tennis career. I know you're very successful coach in the states head. Did you get involved agenda in the states or let me start out by saying it's always difficult to talk about these things in the context of the of the current climate that we ran and And having to isolate and Dual of things that we need to do to protect health system so so I apologize to beat but late to the call because as you would not which is handled. I in front of the screen on video conferences. But it's all good but Allsteel question out against the US. I was a young kid loved the game and I started later when he starred thirteen four. She was considered extremely nights. And I. I had aspirations to be a a great to be a tennis player and I loved it. I love training playing and was never realized that call and was fortunate. Enough to grow rails. That early enough This trying to make it through the twenties thirties. So one-sided centerstage Katie Myself and finished from military service on the obligations. I had to do in South Africa. Right got on the plane and went to Europe the tennis there and then an answer. GonNa go to the US and get an education. And I went with plans to stay four years and ended up staying for Dean so I think that's kind of be my modus operandi. Chris time they happened will strata was Kinda come for a few years. I being sixteen says I'm getting constant and helping and really enjoying you're making a statement wherever you go on your coach so you end up your coach successful coach at Illinois Your Coach Year Multiple Times. How did you move into coach? Well I think You when you have love the game. I'm made people in this report cost wooden and These many different career opportunities. You haven't you can be administering coaching and playing and officiating at it is. And it's such a global sports go to common language as the lines of the ten school. The highest the net that determine that commonality around the world his great battle. I did match my my love of the game with my desire to help people and those two things came. Together and I agree deal of personal fulfillment and professional satisfaction out of helping other than using vehicle for that. And when you love what you do You willing to constantly always improve and in the lookout for ways to get better and learn from others and and And I look back in hindsight down I think on on reflection and I think that because two things the desire to help people and the love of the game I was able to learn a lot and And we spoke to their slam today and I think that is one of the one of the most of being able to be lucky. Enough have had some success so the coaching side. I loved and I always did enjoyed like challenging the status quo and I enjoyed being told that things wouldn't happen. And when you star they wanted to physicist coaches ahead who was the famous Stuart Doyle from From the University of Arkansas was great to have stood for the team. We started the success and a period of thirteen years. We took a college program from no age of the best in the country for quite a few years and ended up having some many players that went on really well. Kevin Anderson from South Africa was one of the top five in the world recently. And so we've had. It's it's been divorced. Plays that success in fun to watch. The Program says the success that it did but it was. Secret is wakeup rewarding. Do the best you can do. People will treat them how you wanted to be treated because you always going to be decided runaway do on the way down and just look as hard as you can see because look for improved. Button could come. It's a long journey on a short June. I completely agree with you. The daily grind getting open put into hard work. But just getting back to you mentioned dodd. Some listeners here. We solicit snarled and they all know stuey dial of his great tennis abilities. What was he liked back in the day? All should say knows to you'll identify sanity mall. One thing that he did teach the ethics I'll never forget it. It's still resonates with me as what it takes to win a points and what it takes to be good and amount of effort and pain in the work. You've got to go through to do that and His attitude is competitive attitude on On improvement rubbed off. Funny Everyone Cussin' that's why everyone loved because by him and always say you is one of the few met. That's would be willing to go through the same pain himself To prove the others what it is versus telling you what to do.

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"beth dot" Discussed on Let's Talk Dementia

Let's Talk Dementia

05:04 min | 8 months ago

"beth dot" Discussed on Let's Talk Dementia

"Was in the beginning stages of Alzheimer's now. I don't know a lot about her mom. I'm just beginning to learn a might. We question that stage as far as the beginning stage based on some of the things. She's telling me about mom. It may be moms a little further along than maybe the beginning of her disease but nonetheless there are things that we look for specifically in the beginning stages than we see things that progress into the mid mid stages as I call them and then in the light stages so the Alzheimer's Association divided up into several different categories. I just do beginning middle in early mid late three categories. Because it's easier for this. Little Brian to keep track of and so realizing the kind of dementia have are your loved. One has and where they are in that journey if they're just beginning the middle or in their late stages that will help answer the question of potentially. How long will they live? But as you know there's so many things that can happen that can change on jeopardy but what I wanted her to know more specifically than anything is that understanding the kind of dementia mom has understanding what to expect what those stages look like having that base knowledge will make the journey easier. And that's what I want for you and that's why do this show so arranged for her to call me back tomorrow. She was actually with her mom when I talked to her earlier in this. Call me tomorrow when your wife for MOM and We'll get into more detail but understanding that those various stages will definitely have a dramatic impact on the caregiving experience because it has an impact on who they are at that time what they can do and what they can't do and what they can do in the early stages of the disease is definitely greater than what they can do in the later stages of the disease so for our next several shows for next three shows. We're GONNA talk about early stage. Alzheimer's midstate Alzheimer's in late stage Alzheimer's. I'll be covering those in the show to help. You may be discerned where your loved when he is or may be where you are. Maybe you have to mention. You're wondering where you are in that process and then understanding. What is normal for those stages to help you prepare yourself if you're the one with dementia or you as the caregiver to ban little more ahead of the game to know this is coming in. I'm preparing myself mentally and physically and preparing my home in maybe making plans for the future sparseness in living memory care and why that's important so be sure to join me on our upcoming episodes of let's talk dementia. We posed a three to four episodes every week in their free. You can find them everywhere so check him out on itunes and on Youtube and everything is on our website. Let's Talk Dementia Dot. Org Pure so inclined to make a donation to keep our ministry floating especially during these times of quarantine Thank you very much for that. Now GonNA finish. The show is here. Look and I can tell. I was outside today with my sunglasses on because I can see right. Where my sunglasses were. That's just not a cute look. Is it so? If you're listening to this. You are spared that yea for you. Well I hope you guys have a great caregiving journey tune in every day but especially for the next three to learn about stages of dementia that is brought on because of Alzheimer's lessons miles on your caregiving journey by. Let's talk dementia would like to thank our sponsors National Association of Veterans and Families? You can reach them at eight hundred three five to to nine one nine on the Internet at. Www dot n. a. v. f. Dot. Org They speak veterans. So you don't have to and you tell them Carol. Saint you when you call to inquire about benefits for the veteran spouse the veteran or both editor bed you can find Ms Beth crosby editor Beth Dot Com. She is amazing. Looking at what you've written in making sure it represents you will find her at. Www dot editor Beth dot com and HD imports located on Flint Street extension in Rock Hill South Carolina. That's your county eight. Oh three nine eight five zero nine eight five. They are there for the hunt the repair and maintenance of your Honda Hyundai Toyota Kia. Tell Them Carol CINCI. Thanks for joining US. Today for Carol. Howls let's talk dementia to learn more about dementia we recommend Carols bestselling book also titled. Let's talk dementia. It's available on Amazon. In paperback and kindle versions be sure to like let's talk dementia on facebook and leave us a kind word of review on itunes remember knowledge brings power power brings hope hope bring smiles and we all made more smiles. Thanks for joining us today. And we'll be right here when you come back to. Let's talk dementia..

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"beth dot" Discussed on Let's Talk Dementia

Let's Talk Dementia

11:12 min | 8 months ago

"beth dot" Discussed on Let's Talk Dementia

"Well Hello Everybody and Carol Hal which let's talk dementia. You've chosen join me as I sit here. Recording this episode. I realize I've got readers around my neck in readers on my head. I've got readers all over my house yet. Do you think I know where they are when I need them? No and then I take my readers off and I can't find my regular classes. Do you guys have these problems? Will today I wanted to share with you. A question that came from Janna Smith Genesis. Caring for her Step Dad who was a hundred years. Old Amazing isn't it? I have a client who is one hundred seven I believe and she a couple years ago told me she was going to get married. I'm like hey go for it. Who Am I decided right? She did not get married but jam. This is asking about when it is time to move from traditional underclothing undergarments and in this case on boxer shorts for her Stepdad. In for changed him into depends right when it's time to make that move and and she was expressing her frustration because her dad. Whose name is John Utterly. That's yes John He Urinate Liver. Everything in all the woman does is wash because she washes underwear. She washes closing. She washes bedding. She washes sheets pillows. She washes chair covers. She washes stuff all the time and her big frustration that brought about the email and a phone conversation. We had came win in the midst of all of this washing and drying her dryer dies. You know sometimes you just reach your point. Don't you think it's interesting? How in our lives the great big things? We seem to manage. It's the minutia of the day. The little things that sometimes. We'll just put US ride over the edge in for her. She kind of reached that when she called me and she said how do I know when it is time for him to start using Thebenz and I said well the answer is now thank you for Calling Goodbye. And she just laughed. I'm like this. Is You know no big deal. Just make it happen. I remember when it was time for my momma to move from her underwear and panties into depends pull up type products. I was really concerned about that. Just like Janice was because my mama had her underwear sent from a store in Washington state and my mom live in South Carolina. She loved her unware issue. Talk about how the most wonderful thing she ever worn. Not Oh if we take these away in wicked Mama these pull ups which aren't pretty. They're just not now. They're better than they used to be. You can even get them in colors. But they're still not my mom's comfortable underwear. She is going to not be happy. Well I'm a couldn't care less. She just transitioned ride into as if it was nothing. I'm still sort of shocked about that. So I told Janice this very well may be the same type thing with John. I did read the mand her going ahead and removing from the house all of his boxer shorts two reasons for that one. John Won't find them and put them on into Janice won't just give up is just forget it. You can wear whatever you out to him. Frustrated with you because they're going to have any kind of like when you were potty training your kids you know you got rid of all the diapers so they had to use the bathroom in you had met help them learn. Because you've already got rid of all the diapers understand that. But I told her I town it's GonNa be as big of a deal as she thought whereas you're imagining it to be and you know what she since written feedback and he was fine with whatever. I can do that. That's fine and it does cut down on the number of loads of laundry. The poor woman cut do all the time and we have to think about things like that. I told her also consider the blue pads that you can put under them. While they're lying on the bed you can either put it directly underneath them in their absorb it or underneath the sheet to hold it in place in most places do that. I think directly underneath the sheet where it separates the sheep from the mattress. So then the only thing that you might have to wash would be the fitted sheet. You can get those blue pads are disposable where you can get the conduct you wash then again. Backed Washington bunch of stuff. That's not so much fun. Will they not do recommend is if you're buying pull ups for a male by the kind made for men because where the urine comes out in a male is in a different position than it is on a female like you didn't know this already but if you're going to buy who loves you might not think about it so with the mail that sticker up near the Front for female. It's thicker down near the bat because of where you're GONNA come out. It's just GonNa work better so by mail products for males female products for females. Neither the to show mix so she did that. You also wrote me that. She had another item. She wanted discusses in Emma's like happy to read it and she said John has a boo boo under his nose above his lip there that he picks at all the time and she cannot get it to heal up. She tried putting a band aid on it. She's tried doing everything she knows reminding John. Quit picking adequate picking at it. But you know she doesn't keep eyeballs on John. Twenty four seven in just as soon as she's not looking you know what he does sure enough. Yep He takes the scam right off of that boo boo and it's not very attractive. And it's kind of embarrassing. We go out in public. But what are you gonNA do about it? Well my bought for her. Is this get it checked? Let's make sure we don't have some ambition going on there that there is not something that we need to be treating that it needs some kind of medication or some action taken and if everything is okay they may be just back off a little bit. In every time John goes to pick on it remind him not to. But don't stop there. Take that next sentence to be something like Hey John how about we do this instead. So we've taken John's hands from picking on this thing on his lip. Now we're GONNA take those hands and do something different to keep his hands busy and take his mind off of his lip. She's not able to do that every time. And you have to recognize that you just have certain capabilities within yourself. There are things we can change in our world. There are things we cannot change. Are we learning that Moore so right now in the midst of Rana virus than ever before and it's true in caregiving so we have to kind of take a chill pill sometimes and choose our battles and so that was my advice from his? Janice and I would love to hear from you. I am offering free thirty minute. Phone consultations they don't cost you don a promise you they don't cost you a dime you just need to go to. Let's Talk Dementia Dot. Org and Click on calendar events. I have put up some dates for the next week or two and you can click on the day and the time that works for you and you have instructions there to email me your phone number and I will call you at the day. On the day time you selected and we'll talk about what's going on in your caregiving world. Maybe you just want to share your frustration or maybe you have a question or maybe have a story just calm love having the conversations and Hey. I make that interaction too because you know what? I'm quarantined to. My husband always tired of looking at me. Well I want you guys to be very safe and I want you to win you what I want when you think about. You need to go out for something to think about this. Do I need it enough to risk my life than others? I don't care what it is unless it's medication and you can have that liver. Don't go out just don't you don't meet whatever it is that bad. My daughter and I had decided that for Easter Sunday. Since we can't be together she would cook a meal and I would cook too cook part of the meal. How could the other parts million we would leave it on each other's doorsteps so we have a regular Easter dinner? That meant I needed to go to the grocery store public today or tomorrow and get a ham which. Ps I do not eat but my son in law my daughter and my husband likes and I was going to go out just for the ham wasn't is just dumb. That is we do not need a ham bad enough to risk getting corona virus. Dying no especially for this girl. Don't even eat me so what I'm thinking about doing is placing my my monthly order groceries through the delivery service. I use INSTA- cart and if they have a Ham. I'll get the Ham if they don't have the ham carols not going to go out and buy one. I'm just not we don't do that. Spe- say don't spread what you've got and don't be in a place where you might get what someone else has in. Let's stop this whole situation in our world by being responsible all right. I hope you smile a lot. Hope in the process of all that's going on in our world you remember. You will come through this. We all will come through this in. Life's GONNA be different. Life will still be good. God still going to be with us at left. Us never will lessen since miles. Let's talk. Dementia would like to thank our sponsors National Association of Veterans and families. You can reach them at eight hundred three five to to nine one nine on the Internet at www dot in a vhf dot org. They speak veterans. So you don't have to and you tell them Carol. Saint you when you call to inquire about benefits for the veteran the spouse of the veteran or both editor bed you can find Miss Beth crosby at editor Beth Dot Com. She is amazing. Looking at what you've written in making sure it represents you will find her at. Www dot editor Beth dot com and HD imports located on Flint Street extension in Rock Hill South Carolina. That's your county eight. Oh three nine eight five zero nine eight five. They are there for the hunt the repair and maintenance of your Honda Hyundai Toyota Kia. Tell Them Carol CINCI. Thanks for joining US Today. Peril howls. Let's talk dementia to learn more about dementia. We recommend carols best selling book also titled. Let's talk dementia. It's available on Amazon. In paperback and kindle versions be sure to like let's talk dementia on facebook and leave us a kind word of review on itunes remember knowledge brings power power brings hope hope bring smiles and we all need more smiles. Thanks for joining us today. And we'll be right here when you come back to. Let's talk dementia..

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"beth dot" Discussed on Let's Talk Dementia

Let's Talk Dementia

08:55 min | 8 months ago

"beth dot" Discussed on Let's Talk Dementia

"Welcome to let's talk dementia. Here is your host bestselling author Carol. Caregivers this is Carol. Let's talk dementia. Well today I met the sewing machine. I got to thinking about dementia in something. That's been a an important part of my world because my mama made everything us. Three girls war all our clothes. I mean all our clothes. She made she even made my dad's leisure suits. Do you guys remember leisure suits from the nineteen seventies where she made him with that double stitching on the outside? She made our joy reason covered our furniture. And well. I got a little bit of that talent but boy nothing like what she could do. But today I am covering Or recovering some pillaged from my law. That just got. They didn't look so that in it made me think about all the times I would sit and watch moms sub and she would teach me how to so so a little bit going beard. You're listening to this year. That noise in the background. That's the sewing machines which are not static on telephone in. Mamma taught me how the so and I'm glad I think about her lot now is I'm working on this but there came a point. My Mama's journey of dementia that sewing frustrated her and so I would be there to help her on the frustration that she would experience and she could keep going in. We would accomplish projects the last project moment I ever made together was we made twenty eight poodle. Skirts for one of the choirs that I worked with I conducted choirs for those with dimension. We were doing a sock hop in all those ladies. Well they need a poodle skirts. And Mama helped me and I say helped. Kind of loosely. Because he kinda was more in the room than anything in this kind of point. Mama got to the point. She couldn't read the machine she could not remember the processes for threading sewing machine. She could not remember how to make the bobbin thread. Come up on top on on platform here to begin sewing. Mama couldn't do that anymore. She couldn't remember how to turn a pattern to make it fit on the fabric but if I decided to do a sewing project and acted as if Mama steel could do it and got her Bob to whatever level she could do so much enjoyed it and just hung out together and instead of me going. Mama's moved also at myself. I'll go no mom. I want you to stand over. May and watch me while I do this so I can learn when folks knew how to do what I was doing. Okay I I really didn't have to have mama there. But it sure was more fun having her there and then giving her the sense of having accomplished helping with the project. That was pretty big for Momma then. Every time we looked at the poodle skirts. Aca Go mom of you and I made those together. We did a good job did and we did to a good job. I really did get very sick of sewing on poodles. I'm GonNa tell you that with the Courting you know for the caller that came up to the waistband. Thought we'd never get all those silly skirts done. But it was a fun time with our loved ones with dementia. We know that they start. Losing INTEREST. In hobbies we see that early on in their dementia. Journey is sometimes even before they're ever diagnosed. One of the symptoms is mom's not participating E. N. filling the blind. Maybe it's playing cards with their friends. may be it sewing like with Mama. Maybe it's cooking. I don't know what was her hobby. What was the thing? She likes most ADO in. If you notice a change in that that they're clicking away from it it might be time to stop and go. Why are they pulling away from it in? Is it dementia meaning that they cannot process the thaw to make that activity happened any longer? And that's what happened with Mama but she would get excited about assisting me in different things and you know it was quite amazing every once in a while in that process of making all those listed poodle skirts mama would come up with something that would really help. And I'd be like certainly wasn't expecting that for Momma but theory was and she was able to help it was so meaningful for her and for me too but break your people into that experience if they liked to cook bring them into the kitchen and allow them to do the things they can do. I remember the last time was in the kitchen with me was in her group home which is just a home where six people lived. It was wonderful and so it had a kitchen just a house in a neighborhood of course education and I cooked on. Sundays is just something I've done for years and cooked for everybody else Sunday so I asked the staff. Can I cook on Sunday so I yeah so mama would get in there and she would help me I remember one time we were having Kiwok patties and I buy them already made their quite good from all of you have not had them. I recommend you do. Mama could not handle that whole process. Moma here is the baking pan. Here's the bots. Will you open the boxes up for me? As we were cooking for six people took several boxes and she was able to open the box or the boxes and took a little effort for Momma. She wasn't super quick at it but it got her ball inside. She opened the boxes in the signal. Here the scissors because it was still okay from scissors. Cut The plastic that holds these keen walkers out could cut it away and get the burgers out and she did now Mama. Could you put the Burgers on the baking sheet? And she did some was involved. Now I will tell you mom very much did not mind at all. Having Somebody Cook for her so she wasn't really thrilled about helping to cook so after she got that done. She's like I'll go sit in my chair. You can finish this project like Okay Mama. Whatever makes you happy and she did. She did not help any more. But get your folks involved whatever degree they can help in. Change your definition of help if you want to have something to allow them to empty the dishwasher. Get the knives out ahead of time. So nobody's GonNa get hurt and then don't get freaked out when the plates are where the Cup should be in the cups or where the dish the casserole dishes should be. Just let her go in and straighten it out because what you did was you. Allow them to participate in life to the -bility they were capable of. Doing you celebrate it and you went on with it because I got used for you. You don't do things right every down anyway. So don't expect them to go incorrect. Which you think needs to be corrected when they're not looking while they're taking a nap. Go in and fix whatever you think just has to be fixed. And if it doesn't have to be fixed just let alone this my thought for today. Now I got three pillars to make in their coming out. What pretty I will show you the Fabric here may get this that you can take a look. I've got one finished but have already could it on the late night and this is pretty fabric for one side in the NBA. Coordinating Fabric. Come back and I'm just excited about him. I'm here quarantine because this is the project I can do. You guys have a Great Day. Safe DAY BE HEALTHY. See on the next episode of. Let's talk. Dementia let's talk. Dementia would like to thank our sponsors National Association of Veterans and families. You can reach them at eight hundred three five to to nine one nine on the Internet at www dot in VF f. dot org. They speak veteran. So you don't have to and you tell them Carol. Saint you when you call to inquire about benefits for the veteran the spouse of the better or both editor bed you can find Miss Beth crosby at editor Beth Dot Com. She is amazing. Looking at what you've written in making sure represents you will find her at. Www dot editor. Beth DOT COM and HD imports located on Flint Street extension in Rock Hill South Carolina. That's your county eight. Oh three nine eight five zero nine eight five. They are there for the hunt the repair and maintenance of your Honda Hyundai Toyota Kia. Tell Them Carol CINCI. Thanks for joining US. Today for Carol. Howls let's talk dementia to learn more about dementia we recommend Carols bestselling book also titled. Let's talk dementia. It's available on Amazon. Paperback and kindle versions be sure to like let's Talk Dementia Book and leave us a kind word of review on itunes remember knowledge brings power power brings hope hope bring smiles and we all need more smiles. Thanks for joining us today. And we'll be right here when you come back to. Let's talk dementia..

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"beth dot" Discussed on Let's Talk Dementia

Let's Talk Dementia

09:39 min | 9 months ago

"beth dot" Discussed on Let's Talk Dementia

"Here is your host bestselling author Carol. Everyone I'm Carol. How welcome to. Let's talk dementia. Well today. We're GONNA talk about what everybody on. The planet is talking about Corona Virus. Oh my goodness is there a channel you can watch on TV or radio station? You can tune into or group of people who get together that don't talk about it. It's just it's what our world is all about. Well I am fifty nine years old. I think that's right While I will be this year and I never recall a time in my life. Wear anything like this has ever happened. Never I do remember when We were in looking for the the clocks to change over to the midnight hour for the year. Two thousand come in and everybody was freaking out with the computers. Due in the world would come to an end kinds of crazy stuff of course nothing like that happened. But that's as close to this kind of chaos in our world as I recall but sure enough. That's what we're dealing with. Well I know you're hearing everything don't do this. Don't do that and stay away from this and stay away from that and I'm not gonNa tell you all that stuff you've already heard fourteen times you don't need one more person telling you but I didn't WanNa put one thing in your brain that I want you to be very aware of in. Its don't don't talk about the virus. The Corona virus in front of your loved one with dementia. Don't do that. The last thing you need is for them to have negative thoughts on their mind. Negative thinking you want them to only have happy. Happy joy joy. You remember how we've talked about that before. That's what you want so I want you to spend your time in their time thinking about the happy. Happy parts of life in. They can't do that if their mind is full of the negative the scary the unknown the uncertainty that they are hearing from you that they're detecting from you in your voice in your thoughts and The way that you're behaving is probably a little different because there's some stress so don't bring that into their world. What we know is our loved. Ones don't remember squat deadly do I'll give you that. But what we do know is they are more likely to remember really really happy thoughts and really really negative thoughts now. The really really happy thoughts are not as likely to be remembered as the really really scary or negative thoughts. They will land on the brain and for some reason. I don't understand the reason of they will retain that information or more likely to retain that information then if they did not have it. So don't do that okay. Just just don't do that I had a conversation trying to find this year. As as you and I are having this conversation have a beautiful poem and I can't seem to get my hands on it right this minute. Where did it go about the Kuroda virus in a one to share it with? You may have to do that on another episode yet. Not Coming up but I do have something that was posted somewhere that I read. It said regarding all the things that we can't do can't do this. Don't get in crowds of more than the US. Stay ten feet away from people Blah Blah Blah with this came through on Somebody emailed at him. I think conversations will not be cancelled. Relationships will not be cancelled. Love will not be cancelled. Songs will not be cancelled. Reading will not be cancelled. Self Care will not be cancelled. Hope will not be cancelled. May We lean into the good stuff that remains. Do I hear an amen on that? I just thought that was really good telling you a husband are very glad that readings not cancel. 'cause we hit the Library Har- Yesterday boy picking up some books by authors. That we like are trying to use this time to I don't know reload and to relax and enjoy life as it is different for us now is different for everybody and I realize this time is probably even more difficult for you because of caregiving than it would have been had. You not been caregiving. But I don't know I still think in this time we can just breathe and remember that. Nothing's going to happen to you today. Where God has not already been and where he is not presently at also in his understanding. He didn't wake up. Oh my goodness I did not realize the crow virus is going to hit the United States. Water all those people come to or that it was going to hit China or anywhere else in all the planet. No no no. That didn't happen to the Lord. He no he knows and he is. He is a on that situation. He's in the middle of that situation in so hopefully that will bring you some peace. I hope I am. I am struck by several things lightly. One being our need to be understanding of other people to understand that their needs are different from ours and to be willing to reach out in ways other than with our hands. We have to reach out with our heart. That kind of came to on this poem that I told you Came through my friend and this is what it says. The poem called pandemic. What have you thought of it? As the Jews consider the Sabbath the most sacred of times safe from travel cease from buying and selling give up just for now on trying to make the world different than it is sing. Pray touch only those to whom you commit your life center down in win. Your body has become still reach out with your heart know that we are connected in ways that are terrifying and beautiful. You could hardly deny that now know that our lives are in one another's hands surely that is come clear. Do not reach out with your hands reach out your heart reaches out your words reach out all the tendrils of compassion that move invisibly where we cannot touch. Promise this world your love for better or for worse for sickness and in health so long as we all shall live in. That was written by Lynne. Unger and I'm GonNa tell you WanNa give it knowledge of where she is she is employed own. Goodness it's not coming up here. You universalist UNITARIAN church That's what it is in. Fort Myers Florida beautiful poem reaching out not with our hands but with our hearts now when you're caregiving you still got reach out your hands for sure. You GotTa make sure what's coming from. You is not fear you know. God is not the author of confusion. He does not live in fear he lives in peace in hope and joy love and mercy and kindness and all those wonderful things. And that's what we want to exude two votes with dementia. Because it's GonNa make your day better because they're going to be in a better mood so let's put our hope. Let's put our faith. Let's put our trust not in what's coming down from Washington any mandates. We might hear what we hear on the news reports or at the pool when we're talking to put out walking or wherever you might be but put our hope in him because that's the only hope we've got. Yeah that's the only one we can depend on. That's my thoughts for today so remember only happy happy joy joy in front of you folks with dementia. You'RE GONNA be glad you did all right. We'll see you on the next episode of. Let's talk dementia. Let's talk dementia would like to thank our sponsors? National Association of Veterans and families can reach them at eight hundred three five to to nine one nine on the Internet at www dot in VF dot. Org They speak veterans. So you don't have to and you tell them Carol. Saint you when you call to inquire about benefits for the veteran spouse of the bedroom or both editor. Bet You can find his Beth crosby at editor Beth Dot Com. She is amazing. It looking at what you've written in making sure it represents you will find her at. Www dot editor Beth dot com and HD imports located on Flint Street extension in Rock Hill South Carolina. That's your county eighty three nine eight five zero nine eight five. They are there for the hunt the repair and maintenance of your Honda Hyundai Toyota Kia. Tell Them Carol CINCI. Thanks for joining us today. For Power House. Let's talk dementia to learn more about dementia. We recommend Carols bestselling book also titled. Let's talk dementia. It's available on Amazon. In paperback and kindle versions be sure to like let's talk dementia on facebook and leave us a kind word of review on itunes remember knowledge brings power power brings hope hope brings smiles and we all need more smiles. Thanks for joining us today. 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"beth dot" Discussed on Let's Talk Dementia

Let's Talk Dementia

11:18 min | 9 months ago

"beth dot" Discussed on Let's Talk Dementia

"Welcome to let's talk dementia. Here is your host bestselling author Carol. Caregivers I'm Carol Hal. In this is let's talk dementia well in our last episode. I told you that we would talk about wellbeing naked. I didn't get into it in that episode. So we're going to cover that today. Well be naked is something we were experiencing the minute we were born right. We all came into this world without close and Somebody hit us on the bottom and we cried and life went on But as we age a little bit we soon discover that running around naked is just not accepted impolite company but it does happen with dementia. So let's talk about that a little bit and some stories and how you handle it. What your responses might be. We you got to recall that our folks with advancing dementia Are Losing the ability to know what is appropriate was inappropriate now that ability is is formed inhaled right here in the frontal lobe. That is the last part of the brain to develop on a male on a female it has fully developed somewhere around the age of eighteen for a male. It's not until the age of twenty one. Now that would explain. Why more teenage boys in early twenty year old boys get in trouble then their counterpart females. Why a twenty one year old or twenty year old or nineteen year old might drive down the main drag eighty five miles an hour and a female of the same age is going to be the speed limit. It truly is. This part of their brain is not fully developed for them to say you know if I drive. Eighty five miles an hour down that road One probably GONNA get caught by the police to could hurt somebody and in my daddy finds out. He's going to be my right. They're gonNA think that. The twenty the females go. Well that would just be done because the speed limit is forty five. I'm going to do the speed limit. We always knew that women think better than men Bentley. Yeah pretty much. That's my theory on it. But it is that that part of the brain not fully developed. So that's also the part of the brain that helps you know What is socially acceptable? And what is socially unacceptable things that you can say to your husband that you would never say to your priest or rabbi a preacher Jokes that you could tell that. Maybe we probably shouldn't be telling him anyway but you would certainly not tell him in Sunday school. That's all right here in the frontal lobe told you about frontal temporal lobe dementia. That is the disease that affects the Frontal Lobe. Temporal Lobe and those folks have very few filters left to know what's appropriate inappropriate. But because part of the brain is so drastically affected now with Alzheimer's that wryness effected also not as much as with frontal temporal lobe dementia. But still it is affected so we lose our filters I can tell you my sweet. Mama had a certain word. She liked to say a whole lot and She had to up and she liked to say that she never have said one of them. She would never have said but she said it and it landed on me not so well the one word up at you and guess what it is but that was not mama. Her filter was gone and she was losing that ability to. That's not a word that we should say. Although which she said she would give every time. I don't know the woman was funny But also knowing what to do not just what disabled what to do that's appropriate and inappropriate has taken all your clothes off and running through the house right. You just don't do that if there's other people in the house But our folks with dementia might not think I should put on road before I go out stark naked into the living room where there's company it makes me think of a story that I've told before you'll hear it again here but A friend of ours that his dad had dementia and I don't know what comedy had dementia. And he had gotten a shower and he got out of the shower and the sign said to the dad. Or grandad whichever. Now don't go out to we got all your private parts. Covered up in the sun went. I don't know to the closet or something to get a towel. And before he could turn around dad had walked out in he covered his private so he thought and he said Paul. I've covered up my privates and he had laid a wash cloth across his chest in the rest of glory. Just showing right. And they're said balls wive and children in their granddaddy with everything show except with a little bit. He had covered with the wash call where he had covered his quote privates on his chest. Yes so sometimes figuring out what's appropriate inappropriate to problem. But that's why that part of the brain is drastically affected so think about that McCain another reason votes might take their clothes off their itchy. They're uncomfortable remember. Have told you the fat pads disappear and they become less than the nerve endings are more sensitive. Because they're more topical and scratchy. Close just feel really Yucky and just gotTa get it off. This stuff feel good that is thrown away or donated pieces of clothing that were really pretty but they drove you. Bumpers crazy when you wore them in so for our folks with dimension. That is more of a problem. That's why you gotta be aware of soft clothing. Are you putting off closing on folks? I know a lady that after lunch in her last probably two months of life in her memory care community she would stand up finished Pusher Chair in stand up and start taking her clothes off starting with her pants in her depends. She pulled them all down in one swift movement. It was quite amazing. How agile she could be at that point in there. She would stay and she did it every day. I think what was going on this lady now. I don't know wish us full. She was tired. She was ready for a change so she did that. It was just a reaction to what was going on in herself. She didn't do it to draw attention to herself. Believe me not this woman. It wouldn't have been the case now. She did draw attention to herself. In fact the other residents would say baddies naked again. Betty's naked and it got to finally the staff we go okay. She's about finish. Let's help get her up. Get her to Aruba's we don't she's going to start streaking but why did she do it was? She didn't do it to irritate staff or to draw attention to herself. Her brings damaged and it was being drastically damaged day by day. She was in late stage. Alzheimer's you could not expect her to do. What is appropriate or acceptable because that frontal lobe of her Branko very I just miss my hair pointing to my or hidden But anyway accuracy that was Miss Betty. She she was a trip and I did love her in enjoy being with her but she would take her clothes off minute so I know a husband and wife who used to sing in assisted living and They Sang Gospel Music. He played the guitar. She saying. They were saying the song I saw the light I saw the light. I saw the light. No more in darkness but anyway they were saying in that and Up comes this may just running through the dining room where they were saying stark naked. Not a piece of anything on. The man blamed the guitar saying instead of saying and I saw the moon to write because he was being moved by. This Guy Looks Kinda funny but the guy did not do it for attention. He did not so getting angry at our folks because they're taking all their clothes off is just not to any good. They're not doing it for any reason. Besides either they can't think it through their closer uncomfortable. It's just something that's hey wonder what would happen if I took that off or via undone of took my pants off what would happen. They're not thinking it through so not. Don't be upset Upset with him which you say instead is well. It does look like you just took your panties off. You're standing hair without shirt on. Maybe we should go find your shirt. Would you like to have an APP? You just finished lunch. Maybe it's time for goodness. Let's just go on Dab your woman in let's get you rating. Let you take a nap. Maybe they're hungry. Maybe that's why they've done it. Maybe there that's the only way they can get attention. There's something going on. They're not happy about they. Take their clothes off. Maybe they're hungry. Maybe they're bored. Maybe they're in pain. Maybe they're thirsty. They are reacting to something. Your reaction needs to be able by. Golly you got your pants off now is there something I can do. Make you feel better would you? Would you like something to drink? Are a little bit hunger July some popcorn or would you like a nap. These kinds inquisitive questions that you can ask them to potentially sue. They can respond that. Yom Thirsty and they may not be able to respond and if they can't respond then you still want to kindly take him into the room. Get them redress kindly and maybe offer them something to drink. See if they joined it ask him. They need to go the bathroom in find out if that's what it was. There's generally something going on there responding to in if they're just uncomfortable they won't take off their clothes just uncomfortable and we'll take off their clothes. Just deal it you get them to bed. Let him lay down become to any no. We don't have to have close on time anyway if we're in the bed in we're comfortable naked. They may have slept naked every night of their wife in here. You WANNA put him to bed with their depends on in their pajamas. Top on their Pajama bottom on in socks on. And if they don't want they don't want it S. My Dad used to say one hundred years from now. Nobody's connote the difference. It's not gonNa Affect Life that much. So sometimes we just got a chill pill but we would really appreciate for those of you who do know better to keep your clothes on okay. You guys have a great day buses files. Let's talk. Dementia would like to thank our sponsors National Association of Veterans and families. You can reach them at eight hundred three five to to nine one nine on the Internet at. Www dot n. a. v. f. Dot. Org They speak veterans. So you don't have to and you tell them Carol Saint You. When you call inquire about benefits for the veteran spouse of the veteran or both editor bed. You can find Ms Beth crosby editor Beth Dot Com. She is amazing. Looking at what you've written in making sure represents you will find her at. Www dot editor Beth dot com and HD imports located on Flint Street extension in Rock Hill South Carolina. That's your county halo. Three nine eight five zero nine eight five. They are there for the hunt repair and maintenance of your Honda Hyundai Toyota Kia. Tell Them Carol CINCI. Thanks for joining US. Today for peril. Hal's let's Talk. Dementia to learn more about dementia. We recommend Carols bestselling book also titled. Let's talk dementia. It's available on Amazon. In paperback and kindle versions be sure to like let's talk dementia on facebook and leave us a kind word of review on itunes remember knowledge brings power power brings hope hope bring smiles and we all need more smiles. Thanks for joining us today. And we'll be right here when you come back to. Let's talk dementia..

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"beth dot" Discussed on Let's Talk Dementia

Let's Talk Dementia

10:20 min | 9 months ago

"beth dot" Discussed on Let's Talk Dementia

"We're going to keep going with acronyms and talk about. Pb A which is pseudo bar affect. Pseudo Barr thank this order. You often hear it called so it came to my mind today. I had a phone call from client. She brought my attention that her dad has. Pba and it's not something. I hear a lot and I thought. Gosh we haven't talked about that in quite some time you can reach me to talk about what's going on in your world and my email address is carol at. Let's Talk Dementia Dot. Org and if you give your memorial call you back. It's very simple well. This gentleman has PBA pseudo Bowl Bar Affect in this is a challenging disorder that can be difficult to differentiate from the symptoms of other neurological diseases With which is associated. So what is? Pba will simply put PBA is the inability to control laughter in crying so we will find individuals who cry for a reason that we have no clue or they laugh at inappropriate times or for things that again. We don't know why they're laughing about. They may laugh when they cry. They cry when they should laugh in. They may cry or laugh for no logical reason at all. There's no stimuli in their world in their environment going on at that time that would make sense. Oh Dad's crying because feeling blank. It's not a normal response to live situation that brings about this crying or this laughter so it's very disturbing for the families very disturbing for the individual. Sometimes it's hard to diagnose PBA from depression but with depression. We see a fair amount of crying. That's COM WITH DEPRESSION. But we can tie it to an event or circumstance or a situation that has become so overwhelming that now tears are very active in very prominent very prolonged Days on him but we can tie it back to that situation. I can tell you in my world. I've cried more the last year than I probably cried my whole life but as you know my sweet Mama passed on. May Thirty first that crying I can tie to an event In so that's different from. Pba PBA is crying. When we don't understand why it is described as a condition affecting the brain's affecting the brain with episodes of laughing or crying that are sudden unpredictable and occur without warning they could be excessive in aggravate exaggerated and inappropriate their involuntary. The people cannot control it. They don't think okay. I've got to stop crying. Got To stop crying. I'm GONNA stop crying. They may think that But they can't they can't stop crying. I'm not sure they would even think that because the brain is not allowing that process they are totally out of Any control over that situation. So it's a very interesting thing. as many as forty percent of Alzheimer's Mention patients have PBA. That struck me. I didn't realize it was so high. Forty percent of folks with Alzheimer's type dementia have pseudo bar affect disorder and as I said the inner episodes are inappropriate to the situation. There's no close relationship between the on emotional expression in the patient's mood in so it's it makes it difficult for the loved one so then you might. WanNa stop and think. Do I have a and good question to you? Well according to the Internet and the website. I looked at for the things that you need to be aware of answered the question. Are you more cheerful than in the past? And as I said can't with me yes I am accumulated sought to something Can you do that? Do you realize that you're crying more than in the past. And can you related to a reason Or You just overall depressed that would be a reason That would be the difference between crying because of depression in crying because a PBA with depression. You may cry a lot. You may not even know why you're crying today but you know you are depressed in that. Crying is related to the depression with. Pba You just cry and you can't stop it in. Somebody may be telling you a great job that is funny instead of your body being able to respond with laughter it responds with with tears. Well that's different than probably what you're experiencing Or do you have something really bad happening in your world you find out. Someone has passed and Crying you laugh. See how that's different from being able to connect your crying to a sad event or your laughter to a happy event is the emotion that you're having appropriate if it's not then we start thinking there's something going on. The question is heavy actually crying more in the past month not just felt like it but have you actually crying more in the past month when you think back on those events. Can you tie them to something? Does the weeping as come on suddenly with no warning at times when you're not expecting it in suddenly means that it's within only a few minutes in and not after several minutes of trying to control yourself you know I know that I hate to cry. I tell everybody I have one of those. Ugly CRIES OPRAH. Winfrey talks about in south by feel like. I'm going to cry. I do everything I can to stop it because I decry in so after. Several minutes are trying to gain my composure. I can stop the crying most time right with. Pba You cannot it something. You cannot control in a few filled tears coming on or if they started. Can you control them enough to stop them on the specialty in front of other people does that? Change the situation. Are you more likely to be able to stop them in front of other people than you would if you were alone because if you can control the crying it's not PBA because that is a neurological process in the brain that you don't have control over so as I was talking to my client this morning? She said there's a medicine called new DEXSA IN E U D E X A. I'm guessing I don't know It's very expensive But it seems to work really well for her dad so that was good news. I do know that some doctors prescribed extra authoritarian and Quinn quitting to help control the symptoms symptoms of PB. I I don't know how effective that is been. According to what I read it supposed to be pretty effective but whether it is or not. Aah Do not know but PPI can make just slightly more difficult for our folks with Alzheimer's in sometimes we'll see our folks with Alzheimer's crying with PBA type symptoms and will assume they're crying because they're frustrated in their sad in they're angry they're lonely in. That might be true but in the midst of that crying can you use version. They are be in. Pull them away from that crying. That thought process in. Take them to a happy thought process if you can they were not dealing with PBA but if no matter what you cannot change that mood for them so that they're no longer crying than we start wondering about PBA or if we find they're crying with laughter is appropriate or they're laughing when crying is appropriate. Then that's not Alzheimer's that's certainly would make you think. Pba Three letters and other ackerman acronym we may have another one on the next episode. I'm not sure But it is an interesting part of Alzheimer's type dementia and other dimensions also and that can certainly just make the journey more difficult for the individual end for the caregiver and remember that if it if that live situation is making your life as the caregiver difficult. It's making the life of your loved one difficult. Also they're not enjoying whatever it is causing you that extra worker that extra concern or that extra stress anxiety or tension. You might be film as the caregiver. Well they're filling too to some degree so keep that in mind. Pba look it up. Learn a lot. I hope that gives you some good information. I'll see you on the next episode of. Let's stop dementia by. Let's talk. Dementia would like to thank our sponsors National Association of Veterans and families. You can reach them at eight hundred three five to to nine one nine on the Internet at www dot in a vf dot org. They speak veterans. So you don't have to and you tell them Carol. Saint you when you call to inquire about benefits for the veteran the spouse of the better or both editor bed you can find Ms Beth crosby at editor Beth Dot Com. She is amazing. Looking at what you've written and making sure it represents you will find her at. Www dot editor Beth dot com and HD imports located on Flint Street extension in Rock Hill South Carolina. That's your county eighty three nine eight five zero nine eight five. They are there for the hunt the repair and maintenance of your Honda Hyundai Toyota Kia. Tell Them Carol CINCI. Thanks for joining US. Today for howls. Let's talk dementia to learn more about dementia. We recommend Carols bestselling book also titled. Let's talk dementia. It's available on Amazon. In paperback and kindle versions be sure to like let's talk dementia on facebook and leave us a kind word of review on itunes remember knowledge brings power power brings hope hope bring smiles and we all need more smiles. Thanks for joining us today. And we'll be right here when you come back to. Let's talk dementia..

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"beth dot" Discussed on Let's Talk Dementia

Let's Talk Dementia

09:24 min | 9 months ago

"beth dot" Discussed on Let's Talk Dementia

"Senior Life Journeys Presents Carol Howls. Let's talk dementia. A podcast designed to help caregivers find knowledge power hope and smiles in their dementia caregiving journey. Welcome to let's talk dementia. Here's your host bestselling author Carol. Hi I'm Carol Jalan welcomed. Let's talk dementia. I'm glad that you're here today. 'cause today I'm going to do a little preachy. Oh yes I am. I had something to happen. That's just stayed on my mind. Well I'm GonNa tell all my friends at. Let's talk dementia about it. So I have regularly posted on facebook. My show Four days a week and I post inspiring. Things are funny things. You're not GonNa read a post where I've ever had political comment or controversial comments. It's not my job. It's not what I'm called to do to be controversial and guess what you either but I had posted a scripture A scripture from one of my prayer cards. Let me see. Can I find that very rare card? Here sonal read it to you exactly Here is when my heart is overwhelmed. Lead me to the rock. That is higher than I told. You guys have been going through some tough times with Passing and all the changes in my life. And it's it's just been tough and I posted that and I put a missing my Mama Verona I know you are too and Verona's my little sister she had earlier that day sent me a picture of mom in that. She was missing Mama so brought her into that conversation. Well I got a comment from someone. That was not nice it. It was just not nice and she was calling me out for having not tagged our other sister in that facebook post and she wrote. I'm sure she mentioned other sister. Is Missing Your Mama too and I wrote back. I'm sure she is but she ate on facebook. And yes I put ain't because she's not facebook. There was no need and tagging her because she never see it who do no good and it just turned into whole explosion of telling me how to grieve when someone is grieving. You are going to point your finger at them and correct. They're grieving. No you're not and if you do let me just tell you you're wrong don't do that. Grieving is hard work. You as a caregiver are grieving to a certain extent. It is a different grief. Then you will have after one passes but you're grieving did that. I know because day by day little by little you are losing your loved one involved in that. There's grief in doing things for them that you should never have to do. You should never have to claim. The bottom. End of your. They should be able to do that. Themselves scrape involved in that and as the dementia progresses the Greek changes evolves and increases in. The death comes the greatest different it. It's painful don't ever call someone out in their grief if you are watching this and you're not caregiving don't call out the person who is caregiving for not responding to live in the way you'd think they should cause honey. Todd you're not walking in their shoes. You do not know the grief burdened they are under. And if you don't know that you got no right Comu- when and this is true for all of us as we live in this planet on this planet in this world in interact with other people. You don't know what people are dealing with. You may look at someone and think man. That woman's got the best figuring. Her hair always looks good carries the newest purse. And she's got shoes with red cells. Which means you get the money right. She's got it going on. She makes six figures a year. She may go home and cry every night she may have disorders in her body that she wishes she didn't have. She may have dysfunctional families. We members may be terribly unhappy and putting on a good front. What she doesn't need from you is to be anything but loving. That's what we're called to do so that when we are down we will go to the rock that is higher than us. The God of our salvation but we can also pull on the strength of our friends and family but when they are cutting us down in sticking their fingers in our face telling us you're doing this wrong and you should do this and this is what I think about that. The Nets wrong. Don't do that other people in a few as my viewers or listeners. Doing that I'm disappointed in you. That's not who we are. That's not who we're called debate. It is just not we are to lift people up. We are to show them grace and mercy because we have been extended more grace in more mercy in more kindness more love than we'll ever be able to give out so. Why should we not be busy doing that? You got a long ways to go to catch up with what you've received so let's give it out. Will I unfolded and blocked everyone involved with that post? I do not need that kind of interaction in my world. I don't need that kind of heaviness in darkness landing on me. I need to fill up eight. I need to be fighting. The grief the stage going through the stages agreed not really fighting them but going through them but fighting the urge to stay in that grief. our pastor on our Ash Wednesday service taught by Jesus went into the Wilderness? But do you know what he did? He came out of the Wilderness. And I'm in an wilderness. Time I really am. I Miss My Mama. I miss being a daughter and I miss being her caregiver. Her really do. I miss other things that have changed in my life and I'm adjusting and adapting but I'm in a bit of a wilderness. You don't go to someone who's in a bit of a wilderness in reprimand him for being in the Wilderness. You just don't well. I told you I was gonNA preach and there's a preaching. I don't know who that's going to help today I hope it will help you. And I hope you'll never even know it helps you because I hope it will change someone's thought processes so that maybe they won't say to you. What maybe they could have saved if they had listened or or watch this episode. We gotTA BE GENTLE KIND PEOPLE. We gotTA show love and there are times. That's hard on. There's times we have to bite our tongue. But if you've got to bite your tongue in let's do that but if you are interacting with people who are consistently bringing you down think about the people you hang out with you can love them and pray for them but you don't have to let them interact with you in a way that is damaging to you and your mental health and your physical health and your wellbeing and that is also true of the people around you because when you're down you can bring them down in when you're down your loved one with dementia feels it so be careful about that. Anythi need stay off. Facebook might not be a bad idea. I post my show on facebook but I've just got to where that's all I do. Don't need negativity. I don't care who you want for. President don't care. I don't care why you don't want this win in why you do want that when I do not care all I care about is being uplifting and positive and blessing to those I made. I can't do that valve junk going. On facebook just can't blessings as miles on your caregiving journey. In your whole life. Go be a blessing in brings minds by Let's talk dementia would like to thank our sponsors National Association of Veterans and Families? You can reach them at eight hundred three five to to nine one nine on the Internet at www dot a. dot org. They speak veterans. So you don't have to in Utah Than Carol. Saint you when you call to inquire about benefits for the veteran spouse of the better or both editor bed you can find Ms Beth crosby at editor Beth Dot Com. She is amazing. Looking at what you've written in making sure it represents you will find her at. Www dot editor Beth dot com and HD imports located on Flint Street extension in Rock Hill South Carolina. That's your county eight. Three nine eight five zero nine eight five. They are there for the hunt the repair and maintenance of your Honda Hyundai Toyota Kia. Tell Them Carol CINCI. Thanks for joining US. Today for Carol. Howls let's talk dementia to learn more about dementia we recommend Carols bestselling book also titled. Let's talk dementia. It's available on Amazon. In paperback and kindle versions short like let's talk dementia on facebook and leave us a kind word of review on itunes. Remember knowledge brings power power brings hope hope bring smiles and we all need more smiles. Thanks for joining us today. And we'll be right here when you come back to. Let's talk dementia..

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"beth dot" Discussed on Let's Talk Dementia

Let's Talk Dementia

08:58 min | 9 months ago

"beth dot" Discussed on Let's Talk Dementia

"Senior Life Journeys Presents Carol Howls. Let's talk dementia. A podcast designed to help caregivers find knowledge power hope and SMILES IN THEIR DEMENTIA. Caregiving generally welcome to. Let's talk dementia. Here's your host bestselling author Carol. Welcome to let's talk to meantime Carol how your host and today we're GonNa talk about being fat. Yes we are and we're going to talk about a few Bible verses in quotes that have come to my mind lately that reflect directly applying the situations in my life and I thought you know it might help you in your life to join just maligning here and having a bit of a problem. We'll have had someone tell you you're fat. You look like you're pregnant. When is the baby due? Or you know your hair just looks awful or where did you get that pair of pants? Were they bad on you? Something just so hurtful and so inappropriate. I think we've all had that happen. And if you haven't will then yeah for you but if you're caregiving hold onto those pants that you've got on letter to Die. 'cause he's probably going to happen are folks with dementia are none for saying things that are inappropriate? And it's not necessarily that they're out to hurt you. They just say what comes to their mind. If they think you look like you put on a few pounds in this just gonNA come out and it may not land on. You may not feel so good when they say it but the question is how. Are you going to respond to those statements that are inappropriate or hurtful or offensive in some way other? Well you can be defensive. You can go well. I'm not fat but outlook as fast as you or my herlitz better than your hair or do you think these pants look bad. You should look in the mirror. What you've got on. You could say that anybody and there's really nobody on the planet you can say that too that the end result is going to be good is it and certainly not with your folks with dementia. Now if they don't have the demand don't have dementia and they say that to you then you really do have to wonder what's going on in their world that they think it's okay. Say these inappropriate things and you know what we don't know what's going on in our in other people's world we do good just to keep up with our own world. Forget keeping everybody else's straight so maybe just maybe we should ignore it from them. Maybe maybe we shouldn't. I'm not sure I don't want to hear those words to have to discern what my response would be to my person who does not have dementia but to my person who has dementia. You Might WanNa go. You know what you might be right. I should probably eat more sale reinstated. Donuts where do you think in see what their responses it would probably just cut the edge off or or the tension in the room might be less than just by agreeing? Yep I'll look wolf. Fatima should eat celery instead of donuts. And see what they say. And then you might say something like. What do you like on your salary? If you were to eat salary. What would you put on it? See what their response is. And if they don't have a good response say. Do you like peanut. Butter on celery. Have you ever tried putting peanut butter with raisins on your salary? Do you know what they call that. That's called ants on a log if you have peanut butter on a piece of salary. New Put Raisins isn't that NEAT. See Now we've taken the conversation from something that was offensive. Something that made you feel not so good or maybe even a little angry to the universal language in what told you is the universal language it is not it is food. We all relate to it and we used to version therapy to do that. We took him from one point. All the way to something different Wa- stealing knowledge in what they said. It's hard to do sometimes but it is something that I tell you over and over again for various reasons in here giving their things you need to practice in diversion. Therapy is one of them on the tape the last few days. I've had some emotions to deal with that. I have not been enjoying As you know my mom passed may thirty first and I think about her day my life and there are days that I do it. Wale and there are days when it just gets a hold of me more than what I wanted to my friend. Linda told me lead those feelings com. Let them wash over you in. Let them leave. And I've done well at that but the last few days have not done so well letting him leave. I kinda came to the realization. I'm no one's daughter That's a weird feeling. Obviously my whole life. I've been somebody's daughter and I am not anyone's daughter right now. I am not my Mama's caregiver and I love being honest caregiver There was never a thing that I did that. Mama did not affirm that I did not hear from her. Oh cookie you've got this you can. Do it have a good friend that I've recently met Michelle and showbiz eighty two years old. She's only one year older than my Momma and She has a way of a filling in sometimes on the emotions that I might would have gotten from Mama and today. She told me kid. Whatever it is you WanNa do you just do you? Just make it work saying. I just heard mom in that. Made me feel good but I wanted to read to you a quote from the Bible that I'm reading. I'm trying to think of the that. This gentleman took the Bible. Broke it up into a year and is price for America Bible. That's it and so you have old testament new tests Moore Song proverbs but there is a little prayer at the beginning of each day. I'll read you what it was for yesterday. I believe these are my Abysmal glasses for you guys. That are not seeing this but hearing hit the color on. These glasses is awful but anyway. Here's the prayer and it just really struck me now thank you it relates to caregiving to Lord. You told your first followers to have courage because you were with them. Help us to soak in that message tune to fill it in our buried bones. Remind us you've got this. You're in control. It'll be okay. I'm in Oman. Does that not speak to caregiving? Yes I think it does. And so a while back. I was given a package of today's prayer cards. Can you see that with the light on it? And they're just little four by six cards assists. Today's prayer on one side on the other side as today's prayer this was yesterday's God is within her. She will not fall. This was today. Faith can move mountains kind of where I am in this journey. Feeling that I need bolstered up and I know you do too in your caregiving journey. Have days where you think you got it going on in the days when you need bolstered up you can do this. God's got you. Faith can move. Mountains God is within her. She will not fall. You won't either but I'm here for you. Email me Carol at let's Talk Dementia Dot Org. We'll talk about what's going on in your world blessing since miles. Let's talk dementia would like to thank our sponsors National Association of Veterans and Families? You can reach them at eight hundred three five to to nine one nine on the Internet at www dot in dot org. They speak veterans. So you don't have to and you tell them Carol. Saint you when you call to inquire about benefits for the veteran spouse better or both editor bed you can find Ms Beth crosby at editor Beth dot com. She is amazing. Looking at what you've written in making sure it represents you will find her at. Www dot editor Beth dot com and HD imports located on street extension in Rock Hill South Carolina. That's your county eighty three nine eight five zero nine eight five. They are there for the hunt the repair and maintenance of your Honda Hyundai Toyota Kia. Tell Them Carol CINCI. Thanks for joining US. Today for Carol. Howls let's talk dementia to learn more about dementia we recommend Carols bestselling book also titled. Let's talk dementia. It's available on Amazon in paperback and kindle versions. Be sure to like. Let's talk on facebook and leave us a kind word of review on itunes remember knowledge brings power power brings hope hope bring smiles and we all need more smiles. Thanks for joining us today. And we'll be right here when you come back to. Let's talk dementia..

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"beth dot" Discussed on Let's Talk Dementia

Let's Talk Dementia

11:51 min | 11 months ago

"beth dot" Discussed on Let's Talk Dementia

"Here's your host bestselling author. Carol I caregivers welcome to. Let's talk. Dementia I am Carol. How will your host? And we'll talk about foster care. Do you think this was a show about dementia. Am I totally confused. Well no not really had a very interesting conversation last week with a lady who. I won't tell you her name but a little bit. What about her story and it has just stuck with me and I thought you know this is something that I should share? She on call regarding her dad. Who is living being on his own and having some memory issues and been diagnosed with Alzheimer's Some very valid concerns about his safety in driving wink and in keeping appointments arriving at appointments five hours. Early you know all those things that start to happen with dementia. That kind of scare US Asas family members and we think ooh this is not safe anymore. I don't know that this is true but I think sometimes the females in the family worry more about at their parents and maybe the males duty I guess true. I don't know I just I listen to her talk and I hear myself in my story in lots of ways in what she's telling In touch my heart. Her Dad said to her. All you and your sister trying to do is move me to foster care will l. ever heard it got lots of things when we want to move our loved ones from their home to a community where they'd be geared of cared for but foster care. I had not heard of that one before. It just made me Giggle but the reason I tell you that is your loved. One may be protesting the move live to a group living situation whether it be a Assisted living in memory care or a wonderful group home. I do love group homes. You know where there's like five or six people in the home being well cared for. They may be protesting that because they have a vision in their head or a pitcher in their ahead of what that is like based on the last time they saw it in the last time they saw it was probably nineteen fifty or sixty or even the seventies Even the eighties folks but that is not what we have going on today and she said this lady that I talked with Satish I just really want dad to move to an assisted living. And we're going to start this week. Going in touring and But I don't ever getting a move and I said the first thing you have to help dad realize is not that he needs to move. We're not gonNA try to convince him of that what we're going to show him instead is retirement matt living in a wonderful exclusive high-end community. I don't care what do you choose. That's what the words were going to use. And when he goes and sees what assisted living is today will. He's going to be shocked. Because I can tell you. Even in the eighties assisted. Living was not something something we heard a very much in if we did it was not what it is today I remember before I ever started in this industry three bag in the early eighties visiting skilled nursing communities. And that's pretty much all there was and all the people were lying up. Just he's in their wheelchairs sort of not their drooling Curled in the fetal position. And you walk down the hall mess. What she saw will that is the vision or that is the picture that so many of our folks have in their head? There is nobody that says you know. I just think I wanNA move to that. Sign me up. No No. They don't do that. They're like whatever happens. You keep me out of that. I'll stay home. They don't have in their head. The picture of a one bedroom fully furnished apartment Martin with all their favorite things in a maid and a Butler initiative and a driver right inactivity stranger. They don't think that so. That's what we want them to seen. In a total of the best way to what not the best way but several ways to do it and one of them is just take that for lunch. One day we're going to a new place you're GONNA WANNA have launched their offering free lunch and I'm all for a free lunch. Dad What do you think take him get him in there. Let him see this beautiful community in if all you do is have have launched. Then you've got dad's foot in the door and then maybe you can talk to him in I in the car on the way home because he's not GonNa remember later in the afternoon. That's a wonderful wonderful retirement community where people live and then maybe go to another one in let him have lunch there with you save. There's one that he seems to respond more positively to than others that he has more of a reaction to than others And then at some point go back and May Have data look at an apartment now. If Dad's able to help make that decision having look at the apartment see what he thinks. If that's not able to make that decision and you're GonNa make it on your own then arrange warning where someone's GonNa Come Take Dad and take him out fishing or take him out to do whatever it is. Dad Likes to do if it was does your Mama I would say. We don't take her shopping but most been probably. Don't WanNa go do that but to get that out of the house for three or four hours and you're going to have a team aim of really good people and a truck or two and you're going to move at least the essentials from Dad's home straight DADS assisted living apartment. His bad his favorite uh-huh his favorite chair has favorite pitchers. Favorite blanket is TV that pitcher. That's hung above the TV the picture of his wife. The pitchers children whatever. It is that when dad walks into his house now he thinks this is home. You won't at least some of those things in this new assisted living apartment. Then take that back for lunch. Dallas about their. They're offering free lunch again and after lunch maybe he can play Bingo or whatever why you've finished setting up that apartment then you'd say dad come down here on the show you something. This is where you're going to stay for a few nights because we're all going out of town in we can't be here to take care of you just a little worried. What about you so I want you to love me enough just to stay here for a few nights? And then when we get back will come see In he might protests. Yes that yeah but you will work around it but thanking God. He's only there for a few nights will lay on him in a way that he's likely to to be accepting of that idea. Now if you take Dan go. Hey Dad here's your new apartment. You're gonNA live here forever because you can't live by yourself. I don't want to live by yourself. Okay so you next week think. Well that's not gonNa feel good anybody so don't be crazy and do that but tell dad you know you're going to be gone for a few days. I think we had a client that we told her her that family came up with this. That there was Talks Mold in her house and they were going to have it fixed in. She couldn't be there while they were cleaning ed maker sick and so they had arranged for her to stay in this wonderful apartment poly about a week while they fixed it in that worked so you think well what happens in a week AAC when the toxic malls supposed to be done or what happens after three or four days when we're supposed to be back from vacation well one of the beauties of dementias we don't have a good the perception of time and space a week really doesn't mean anything to us a week may feel like In two months or a week may I feel like a day so we don't understand that concept anymore time so if they say to you well can I move back to my house when no mom there. You had taught Simone Your House. They're trying to get it out or I've I'm going to be leaving in just a couple of days to go on a trip nap. You tell your votes. You're leaving to go on a trip that that might be a good time to leave and go on a trip. I'm just saying especially the first couple of days May Be at least twenty four forty eight hours give your. I loved one a chance to settle in there before he's sworn back in now their communities to stay stay gone a week. No you don't not when you first move a man if you taking it all help. It don't do that. They do need to see your face and know that you're still alive. You still love him. And everything's GonNa be okay but have your story straight in your brain about about why they are there and how long they have to stay in stick with that story it will work. I've told you before about the lady who moved in and her. The whole family just decorated her one bedroom. Apartments is just really really pretty and we were so excited I walked in with her and her boys For them to show her the apartment and she said this is pretty. This is pretty look there. You've got to pitch remain cutch collar husbands night. And then she sat down in her recliner. She said well this is my recliner and in her son Simone. This is your new apartment. You're going to live here. And she said you guys sit down and when they sit down she said. I hope you all rot inhale because I am not staying here wail we all about dropped. RT It was like holy cow. We so we're not expecting that because she was so receptive how gorgeous apartment was in all her pretty stuff in there. She was not happy but you know she lived there very happily. It took her three or four four days to figure out it was okay and she wasn't mad at anybody and To forget the whole episode and she became very easy to get along with and and Excited to live there. She also thought I was the Mayor of Charlotte North Carolina and. I did not proceed to dissuade her that I was happy to be. The mayor was for several years. Then all all of a sudden I was no longer the mayor. I don't know what happened that I lost that position in her brain so anyway I'm glad to know that this lady that I was talking about early early will not be moving. Her Dad foster care but potentially tune assisted living. If you're looking for an assisted living calming let me tell you I know of some good ones in your part of the world. I don't charge charge you to help you are not. Don't call me but you can email me email me carol at let's Talk Dementia Dot. Org in when you email now may give me your phone number now. Call you and we'll make some plans together. You'll be glad we talked. Blessings and smiles by bio. Let's talk dementia would like to thank our sponsors National Association of Veterans and families. You can reach them at eight hundred three five to to nine one nine on the Internet at www you've dot n. a. v. f. Dot. Org They speak veterans. So you don't have to in you. Tell Them Carol. Saint you when you call to inquire about benefits for the veteran and despacito veteran or both editor bed. You can find Miss Beth. Crosby editor Beth Dot Com. She is amazing. Looking at what you've written in making making sure it represents you will find her at. WWW dot editor dot com and HD imports located on Flint Street extension in in Rock Hill South Carolina. That's your county eighty three nine eight five zero nine eight five. They are there for the hunt the repair and maintenance of your Honda Hyundai Toyota Kia. Tell Them Carol CINCI. Thanks for joining us today for Carol House Let's Talk Dementia to learn more about dementia. We we recommend Carols bestselling book also titled. Let's talk dementia. It's available on Amazon. In paperback and kindle versions be sure to like let's talk dementia on facebook and leave us a kind word of review on itunes remember knowledge brings power power brings hope hope bring smiles and we all need more or smiles. Thanks for joining us today. 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"beth dot" Discussed on Let's Talk Dementia

Let's Talk Dementia

07:52 min | 1 year ago

"beth dot" Discussed on Let's Talk Dementia

"Unless you chosen to join me on another episode of Talk Dementia Well. This show is being released on December. Twenty two thirds. I bet you can guess what we're GONNA talk about. Well what I hope to do on this episode is just to give you a few last minute tips. That might help. Make your Christmas business a better time. You know what you're not going to have is you're not GonNa have Norman Rockwell Christmas. You know how I know that because they don't exist ask no one's ever had a Norman Rockwell Christmas including Norman Rockwell. Speaking of did you know. Norman Rockwell had Alzheimer's. He sure did so his family understands what you're going through in. So do I said let's talk about a few things that you can do. That might make that day before before the day of the day after whenever it is you're GonNa get your whole family together or maybe he's GonNa be a very small Christmas but what you can do to make that more successful and specifically we're gonNA talk about not eating too much and scotch tape. What not eating too much scotch tape? Well well too much is what we're going to talk about too much food too. Much Scotch tape so too much food. You know the holidays you know. They're all around how much we can eat how much we can drink. I don't drink at all so it's kind of boring for me But all those things that we put in our body but the Snuggie a plan for us we shouldn't do that. We've talked about that in abundance in the past but I want to remind you not to load up. Your dog wants play. If you take their plate you just pilot up with the. It's going to being very overwhelming for them. I don't care if they really do love. Every single item on the plate. Their brain is having a hard time comprehending and processing all all that food in one spot and all those colors all that. Wha what do I do with it. So let's take a colored plate preferably coloured plate that has divided sections in it the way when you use the spoon and you scoop it up and you hit the edge of that divided section. It helps to get the vote on the spooner on the fork. It works well. But we're only GONNA put two maybe three items on the plate depending where they are in their journey. And we'RE NOT GONNA put more than may be a half cup of that item on the plight light. We're not loading up with this huge big serving of Turkey and dressing members. Also all that stuff but just a little bit of two or three things now. That doesn't doesn't mean they can't have refills in that. Those refills can't be the same thing or different things that's fine but just don't overwhelm them with too much. The alright what about too much scotch tape. What did that have to do anything? Well we always WANNA set our loved ones up for success. Isn't that what you wanted. Wanted Your Life. You don't want folks putting you in positions where you're GONNA fail. You ought to be successful in great and everything you do. And that's what we want for. Our loved ones wants the more successful. They feel the better. They're gonNA feel the better. You'RE GONNA fail. You see how this is a winning proposition. So what what we WANNA do is we'll before we present them with their wrapped gift go head rapid. That's just normal. That feels good to them. But don't love that little jewel up with Scotch tape on every single angle image. That's just a frustration. Waiting to happen what I would do was when you fall down those edges put one piece of metal. Those in pieces may a flap in the wind. But we don't care because that gives a great place for them to grab holding tire and outcomes the president in. Yeah they were successful but if you tape every every day on and they can't get it open then all of a sudden they can't even open president. How frustrating is that? And that's how they're gonNA feel so. Don't do that. Okay I did. Another too much is noise. Let's not have too much noise in the house. Heat that to a minimum Family member that noise is amplified many times. Sometimes it's just irritating. I can tell you my momma with us. We were too damn loud so keep that in mind and another another thing of to his to tire. Make sure that you don't allow your window get too tired because if that happens as probably your fault you might should've in in her active or intercede there to allow them opportunity to rest now if they refused arrests. There's nothing you can do about that. Then it's not your fault. You didn't do anything wrong. But you want to allow that opportunity for maybe a quiet time for even just half hour for them just to chill out maybe in the back bedroom And maybe just maybe you you want to sit beside them or have somebody sit beside him so they won't feel alone now if there had you're having this event at their assisted living or In the at the House that live live in and they can go to their ruined. Seems comfortable to them. They may be fine by themselves. But if you hold them over you know over the river through the woods to somebody else's house and you put them in around that they're not used to by themselves and you leave them at might not be comfortable so keep that in mind. All we want to do is to come through this with a memorable double experience. It's not going to be perfect. MIND WON'T BE YOURS WON'T Bay and I know this because my never has been in either as yours in neither will mine and neither will yours is just it goes. You'll look back on it and think they're saying she might could've done should have done. Didn't do wish you hadn't done whatever but what we we can do is our best. That's all we can do this. What life is about is offering to everybody? We made our best in when we do that. The Lord looks down on this and blesses US forgiving of our best for being his hands in vape salt light even to those people with dementia. Like my sleep Mama. This is Mama Emma. I love that picture of her. I think it's a really good one and I just prompted there so you could say it. I'll be missing her. This Christmas. It will be My first I Christmas not being with Mama and I'm a little bit irritated her for not being here while not gonNa cry cried on you too many times a hope you're Christmases this. Mrs Just absolutely fabulous out. The food tastes so good. I hope it settles on your belly and I hope you get the very biscuit that I can think of that. You could get from someone on this earth. That's a smile from your loved one blessings on your day. Let's talk. Dementia would like to thank our sponsors National Association Association of Veterans and families. You can reach them at eight hundred three five to to nine one nine on the Internet at. WWW dot N.. F. DOT RG. They speak veterans. So you don't have to and you tell them Carol Saint you when you call to inquire about benefits for the veteran spouse of the bedroom or both editor. Bet You can find Beth crosby at editor Beth Dot Com. She is amazing. It looking at what you've written and making sure it represents you will find her at. WWW dot editor Beth dot com and HD imports located on Flint Street extension in Rock Hill South Carolina. That's it's your county eighty three nine eight five zero nine eight five. They are there for the hunt the repair and maintenance of your Honda Hyundai Toyota Kia. Tell them Carrollton. Thanks for joining us today for Carol. Howls let's talk dementia to learn more about dementia we recommend Carols bestselling book also titled? Let's talk dementia. It's available on Amazon. In paperback and kindle versions be sure to like let's talk dementia on facebook and leave us a kind word of review view on I tunes remember. Knowledge Brings Power Power Brings Hope hope brings smiles and we all need more smiles. Thanks for joining joining us today. And we'll be right here when you come back to. Let's talk dementia..

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"beth dot" Discussed on Let's Talk Dementia

Let's Talk Dementia

09:08 min | 1 year ago

"beth dot" Discussed on Let's Talk Dementia

"Senior Life Journeys Presents Carol Howls. Let's talk dementia. A podcast designed to help caregivers find knowledge power hope and smiles lyles in their dementia caregiving journey welcome to let's talk dementia. Here's your host bestselling author Carol. Well hello caregivers in welcome back to. Let's talk dementia today. We're GONNA talk about the cure for everything. It most of the time to get the cure for everything or to find doubt the answer you have to send somebody thirty nine ninety five in your credit card number and or they want you to sign up to get something every month and it's only gonNa cost you eighty nine ninety five a month. What a deal that is? I going to give you the answer for free and the cure for everything is something that I have harped on so many times you're going to go not again but recently in the AARP magazine. I believe. It's this month's issue see. I'm not old enough to get the AARP magazine just won't let you know that. But my husband he he has in here as it passes on the good stuff to mate but they had an article called the cure for everything so on that formation from for today's show is taken and some of it from that article the cure for everything. WanNa guess what it is. If you've listened minium I shows are watched. Many of my shows than you know the cure for everything is getting rid rid of inflammation inflammation. y'All go kill us. It's not a good thing. Now you've got to know there are times. Inflammation is a good thing in your body but it's a temporary. Everything is not a long lasting it is not a chronic condition in when it becomes a chronic condition. That's when we have problems the most common trick. The most common common trigger for most health issues that go on in our bodies is low grade inflammation so a study was done in Boston where they They conducted did it with ten thousand people. In thirty nine countries. The average age was sixty one they were looking to see if anti inflammatory drugs could lower the right of heart disease and he did it worked but they also found out it reduced lung cancer mortality sent more than seventy seven percent and reports of Gout and arthritis fail by reducing losing inflammation. Now this is big news yaw. I've told you that. Inflammation has a direct impact on the brain. The connection between inflammation and Alzheimer's is very strong. If we don't want inflammation in our body so as I said influence is all information is not bad. No inflammation as a result On inflammation as a result of an injury or Something that has happened to your body. That's causing you body to respond with an inflammatory process. That is temporary wary. That is good. Your body is doing its job to fight into repair but chronic inflammation is the problem. It is a slow slow forming process in the body we and it causes misfiring the immune system so this is not good. Keeps your body in a high state of alert and damaged healthy sales in will. Does that sound oh good you. It doesn't sound good to me. It can attack the inflammation can attack the lining of your arteries your intestines. Your River your brain. I mean just everything and it can lead to dementia. This should not surprise you. Because that's what I'm talking back. At least a diabetes cancer heart disease arthritis pression. Yup none of those are good things and the thing is heart disease. Arthritis depression lead to dementia can lead to dementia. It's it's a bad thing we've got to get this under control. The main calls of inflammation in our world is lifestyle. And we've talked about this. A big blue zone proponent and of their their steps for reducing This process of inflammation your body. Following their steps will work greatly. The the older you are the more likely you are to have it formation your body but that's just because you've had more years to be around toxins in stress and alcohol and make bad food choices the not exercise all of that is build up in your body of increase inflammation somewhere. And you've got to stop this folks. You've gotTA decide. I'm going to be proactive. This is not not happening in my world. That's where I am. That's why I am eating healthy. I've always well not always but for the last eight healthy but boy I really am now now. I want to do a little plug right here for A company come misfits market. Mis F. I. T. S. market. And if you're interested interested in order from them email me and I will give you a coupon code Where you can get twenty five percents off? I believe my aunt Carol at let's talk. DEMENTIA DOT dot. Org But misfits market for twenty two dollars plus shipping since May a box of enough organic vegetables for a week. And it's wonderful. It's delivered right to my door when I first started doing it. I did not get to choose the vegetables. Suicide like Christmas. For maslow's kind of fun to see what I get but but now I do get to choose the vegetables so I'm not getting Jalapenos so don't do that. I got beats last time and the verdict is out on those. I don't like beets but I'm willing to try them again again. But I'm getting these organic healthy good for me vegetables. Not The junk that you're probably eating so check on misfits market but do write me. Let me get you that coupon coupon code so making those choices avoiding foods that are high in sugar. I know it's Christmastime Ryan as record this This will go out sometime the week before Christmas. There's parties people were bringing junk to your office stacked up it's free. Oh you gotta do is get up and put it in your mouth. You know a moment on the lips a lifetime on the hips. That's true but a moment on the lips are several moments on the lips. If you're just doing it once it's not won't be a problem but if you're continually nearly disgorging on all of this stuff that is so prevalent in our world right now with sugar in processed food in alcohol. It's IT'S GONNA cause a lot of issues in your body with inflammation and that inflammation is not going to argue goodwill. Good way so what you WANNA do is to eat. Those foods that are in close close to the natural form is what the good Lord up above made them. And that's why like misfits market is just fun. I got Bok Choy. I like Bok Choy. I had never cooked it now. I have really do like it. Bok Choy is crews cruciferous cruciferous vegetables and leafy green vegetables. All in one pretty neat eight watts. A health benefits there and this week I had a pomegranate. I've had pomegranate before. But I've never worked with one. It was super easy in. I enjoyed having so we. I want to exercise every day. Get Out and get your little movement and do something that you enjoy don't go. I'm going to go jogging when you know you can't dog and you hate the job. Go out for a walk. Walk go for exercise in the pool. A ride your bike. Whatever it is that you enjoy doing do some yoga relaxing and breathing ditch the stress? That person that is driving you crazy at work. You GotTa do something to get away from them and if you've got to change jobs for your health it's time right that resignation Asian ladder making these changes all at the same time score. Javi bonker. So don't do that. But start with those changes as you make those changes in UC your body. Start feeling better than you'll be more equipped to handle exerciser. It started maintain it into learn to relax into handle that crazy person at work. So you're gonNA feel better. That's what I want for you. I want you to feel better because if you feel better you can't be a better caregiver and I love my people with dementia so my needs to take care of them. Blessings and smiles us. Let's dementia would like to thank our sponsors National Association of Veterans and families. You can reach them at eight hundred three five to to nine nine one nine on the Internet at www dot in a vf dot org. They speak veterans. So you don't have to and you tell them Carol Saint You. When you call to inquire about benefits for the veteran spouse of the veteran or both editor bed you can find Beth crosby at editor Beth Dot Com? She visit mazing at looking at what you've written and making sure it represents you will find her at. WWW dot editor Beth dot com and hd the imports located on Flint Street extension in Rock Hill South Carolina. That's your county eight hundred three eight five zero nine eight five. They are there for the hunt the repair and maintenance of your Honda Hyundai Toyota Kia. Tell Them Carol Century thanks for joining us today for peril howls. Let's talk dementia to learn more about dementia. We recommend Carols bestselling book also titled. Let's talk dementia. It's available on Amazon in paperback and kindle versions and be sure to like let's talk dementia on facebook and leave us a kind word of review on I tunes remember. Knowledge Brings Power Power Brings Hope hope brings smiles and we all need more smiles. Thanks for joining us today. And we'll be right here when you come back to. Let's talk dementia..

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"beth dot" Discussed on Let's Talk Dementia

Let's Talk Dementia

09:08 min | 1 year ago

"beth dot" Discussed on Let's Talk Dementia

"Senior Life Journeys Presents Carol Howls. Let's talk dementia. A podcast designed to help caregivers find knowledge power hope and smiles lyles in their dementia caregiving journey welcome to let's talk dementia. Here's your host bestselling author Carol. Well hello caregivers in welcome back to. Let's talk dementia today. We're GONNA talk about the cure for everything. It most of the time to get the cure for everything or to find doubt the answer. You have to send somebody thirty nine ninety five in your credit card number or they want you to sign up to get something every month and it's only gonNa cost you eighty nine ninety five a month. What a deal that is? I going to give you the answer for free and the cure for everything is something that I have harped on so many times you're going to go not again but recently in the AARP magazine. I believe it's this month's issue see owners to get the AARP magazine just won't let you know that. But my husband he he has in here as it passes on the good stuff to mate but they had an article called the cure for everything so on that formation from for today's show is taken and some of it from that article the cure for everything. WanNa guess what it is. If you've listened minium I shows are watched. Many of my shows than you know the cure for everything is getting rid rid of inflammation inflammation. y'All go kill us. It's not a good thing. Now you've got to know there are times. Inflammation is a good thing in your body but it's a temporary. Everything is not a long lasting it is not a chronic condition in wind becomes a chronic condition. That's when we have problems the most common trick. The most common common trigger for most health issues that go on in our bodies is low grade inflammation so a study was done in Boston where they They conducted did it with ten thousand people. In thirty nine countries. The average age was sixty one they were looking to see if anti inflammatory drugs could lower the right of heart disease and he did it worked but they also found out it reduced lung cancer mortality sent more than seventy seven percent and reports of Gout and arthritis fail by reducing losing inflammation. Now this is big news yaw. I've told you that. Inflammation has a direct impact on the brain. The connection between inflammation and Alzheimer's is very strong. If we don't want inflammation in our body so as I said influence is all information is not bad. No inflammation as a result On inflammation as a result of an injury or Something that has happened to your body. That's causing you body to respond with an inflammatory process. That is temporary wary. That is good. Your body is doing its job to fight into repair but chronic inflammation is the problem. It is a slow slow forming process in the body and it causes misfiring the immune system. So this is not good. Keeps your body in a high state of alert and damaged healthy sales in will. Does that sound oh good you. It doesn't sound good to me. It can attack the inflammation can attack the lining of your arteries your intestines. Your River your brain. I mean just everything and it can lead to dementia. This should not surprise you. Because that's what I'm talking about. Diabetes Cancer Heart Disease Arthritis Pression Yup. None of those are good things and the thing is heart disease. Arthritis depression lead to dementia can lead to dementia. It's it's a bad thing we've got to get this under control. The main calls of inflammation in our world is lifestyle. And we've talked about this. A big blue zone proponent and of their their steps for reducing This process of inflammation your body. Following their steps will work greatly. The the older you are the more likely you are to have it formation your body but that's just because you've had more years to be around toxins in stress and alcohol and make bad food choices the not exercise all of that is build up in your body of increase inflammation somewhere. And you've got to stop this folks. You've gotTA decide. I'm going to be proactive. This is not not happening in my world. That's where I am. That's why I am eating healthy. I've always well not always but for the last eight healthy but boy I really am now now. I want to do a little plug right here for A company come misfits market M. I. S. F. I. T. S. market. And if you're interested interested in order from them email me and I will give you a coupon code Where you can get twenty five percents off? I believe my aunt Carol at let's talk. DEMENTIA DOT dot. Org But misfits market for twenty two dollars plus shipping since May a box of enough organic vegetables for a week. And it's wonderful. It's delivered right to my door when I first started doing it. I did not get to choose the vegetables. Suicide like Christmas. For maslow's kind of fun to see what I get but but now I do get to choose the vegetables so I'm not getting Jalapenos so don't do that. I got beats last time and the verdict is out on those. I don't like beets but I'm willing to try them again again. But I'm getting these organic healthy good for me vegetables. Not The junk that you're probably eating so check on misfits mark but do write me. Let me get you that coupon coupon code so making those choices avoiding foods that are high in sugar. I know it's Christmastime Ryan as record this This will go out sometime the week before Christmas. There's parties people were bringing junk to your office stacked up it's free. Oh you gotta do is get up and put it in your mouth. You know a moment on the lips a lifetime on the hips. That's true but a moment on the lips are several moments on the lips. If you're just doing it once it's not won't be a problem but if you're continually nearly disgorging on all of this stuff that is so prevalent in our world right now with sugar in processed food in alcohol. It's IT'S GONNA cause a lot of issues in your body with inflammation and that inflammation is not going to give you a good whale. Good way so what you WANNA do is to eat. Those foods that are in close close to the natural form is what the good Lord up above made them. And that's why like misfits market is just fun. I got Bok Choy. I like Bok Choy. I had never cooked it now. I have really do like it. Bok Choy is crews cruciferous cruciferous vegetables and leafy green vegetables all in one pretty NEAT NEAT. What's the health benefits there? And this week I had a pomegranate. I've had pomegranate before. But I've never worked with one. It was super easy in. I enjoyed having so we. I want to exercise every day. Get Out and get your little movement and do something that you enjoy don't go. I'm going to go jogging when you know you can't dog and you hate the job. Go out for a walk. Walk go for exercise in the pool. A ride your bike. Whatever it is that you enjoy doing do some yoga some relaxation and breathing ditch the stress? That person that is driving you crazy at work. You GotTa do something to get away from them and if you've got to change jobs for your health it's time right that resignation Asian ladder making these changes all at the same time score. Javi bonker. So don't do that. But start with those changes as you make those changes in UC your body. Start feeling better than you'll be more equipped to handle exerciser. It started maintain it into learn to relax into handle that crazy person at work. So you're gonNA feel better. That's what I want for you. I want you to feel better because if you feel better you can't be a better caregiver and I love my people with dementia so my needs to take care of them. Blessings and smiles us. Let's dementia would like to thank our sponsors National Association of Veterans and families. You can reach them at eight hundred three five to to nine nine one nine on the Internet at www dot in a vf dot org. They speak veterans. So you don't have to and you tell them Carol Saint You. When you call to inquire about benefits for the veteran spouse of the veteran or both editor bed you can find Beth crosby at editor Beth Dot Com? She visit mazing at looking at what you've written and making sure it represents you will find her at. WWW dot editor Beth dot com and hd the imports located on Flint Street extension in Rock Hill South Carolina. That's your county eight hundred three eight five zero nine eight five. They are there for the hunt the repair and maintenance of your Honda Hyundai Toyota Kia. Tell Them Carol Century thanks for joining us today for peril howls. Let's talk dementia to learn more about dementia. We recommend Carols bestselling book also titled. Let's talk dementia. It's available on Amazon in paperback and kindle versions and be sure to like let's talk dementia on facebook and leave us a kind word of review on I tunes remember. Knowledge Brings Power Power Brings Hope hope brings smiles and we all need more smiles. Thanks for joining us today. And we'll be right here when you come back to. Let's talk dementia..

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"beth dot" Discussed on Let's Talk Dementia

Let's Talk Dementia

04:18 min | 1 year ago

"beth dot" Discussed on Let's Talk Dementia

"Unless you're that person with dementia and then what they are feeling what they are experiencing. What they are seeing is all very real? Don't ever argue with them about it if they tell you. That person hit me last Tuesday and I'm just hired him hitting me whether it's true or not it. It's true in your conversation with them. Then you WanNa say oh my goodness. I didn't know that John hit you last. Tuesday I am going to go talk to management about that I I am GonNa take steps to make sure this doesn't happen again. You can just absolutely believe me. I am working on this so again. It's acknowledging what is going on in their world accepting in their story promising them you're gonNA take action then may be going to a little bit of diversion or it. Let's suppose that The person has lost their keys. They can't find their gays and they've gone through their person. They just search and search for their keys. You're going to help them find their keys right. Well maybe you can't find them and you go mom your keys. You're at my house. I know you left your keys there or mom. I accidentally put your keys in my purse in there at my house. I will bring them to you. I'll be right back or would I come back and bring. Am to you. Probably Mom's not gonNA remember but I would go ahead not buying some old keys or I would go get some keys If you contact a key he maker which they do have people make keys besides like home. Depot don't really. I don't know but you could always go get some blankets and put them on a ring in say here Mama or your keys. Something to calm her down had a client. One time. That was very upset that his daughter took away his wallet just so wound up. He carried a wall in his back. Pocket is all I live in now. She took his wallet and she said. Oh Dan Lewis in his money and credit cards driver's license as well. I don't either but give him a wallet with his driver's license and he's not driving and and give him Some cards to go in there. You don't have to be credit cards but some cards. ID cards or some things to put in there. Giving two bucks loses to the world when he was so happy just having that while in the back we had a key ring I front pocket. It felt normal but that is a little bit off the subject with paranoia. Roya be aware that the person that is agitated that his experiencing paranoia does not need you to correct them. They do do not need your finger in their face. They need that warm gentle touch. That assurance that whatever's going on you will solve in that you're working on it and that you then take him to another plan of thought you WanNa say them what you're dealing with in this has got to be super difficult. It's frustrating million. It's not even happening to me and I'm going to help you in sometimes just stat will come down and they'll start to feel better and when they feel better you feel better lesson smiles on your day. Let's talk. Dementia would like to thank our sponsors National Association of Veterans and families. You can reach them at eight hundred three five to to nine one nine on the Internet at www dot in a vf dot org. They speak veterans so you don't I have to and you tell them Carol Saint you when you call to inquire about benefits for the veteran the spouse of the veteran or both editor bed. You can find Miss Beth with crosby at editor Beth Dot Com. She is amazing at looking at what you've written and making sure it represents you will find her at. WWW dot editor editor Beth dot com and HD imports located on Flint Street extension in Rock Hill South Carolina. That's your county eighty three nine eight five five zero nine eight five. They are there for the hunt the repair and maintenance of your Honda Hyundai Toyota Kia. Tell Them Carol CINCI. Thanks for joining us today. Carol House let's Talk Dementia to learn more about dementia. We recommend carols best selling book also titled. Let's talk dementia. It's it's available on Amazon in paperback kindle versions be sure to like let's talk dementia on facebook and leave us a kind word of review on Itunes Remember Knowledge College Brings Power Power Brings Hope hope bring smiles and we all need more smiles. Thanks for joining us today. And we'll be right here when you come back to. Let's talk dementia..

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"beth dot" Discussed on Let's Talk Dementia

Let's Talk Dementia

11:13 min | 1 year ago

"beth dot" Discussed on Let's Talk Dementia

"Did you see my little dog. Just leave the room. I guess she's she's bored. I don't know well today. I WanNa talk to you about how things are not always what they seem recently. We've been doing a lot of talking about preventing Alzheimer's and thought we'd just take a little break from that talk about life so today the kind of a weird day. It's been up. Call it a a weepy Mama Day. We'd be Mama morning. I heard the song on the gaither either vocal channel which I love the gaither vocal band. I listen to their music a lot of times. And this trio of women. I don't know who they were saying. The song angels in the Roane and it was talking about a man who is passing and he was saying to his family. Look don't you see there are angels in the room. Well it took me back very quickly to May thirty first When my mom passed and It was sad for me and it's still is obviously. I think about that day and I think about her passing and how beautiful and and wonderful in and full of the Holy Spirit that day was but in my heart when I think about it is painful and I don't know that it's something I'll ever get over were and I don't really think I want to. I want to always have that strong connection to my Mama and I know I will but when you see me out in public I'm always smiling. I'm always have a makeup looks much better than it looks right now. 'cause well I've been crying. You might not know in passing what has gone on in my life for the last. Thirteen years Tom In watching Mama go from being vibrant working woman who could outsail anybody in the store no matter what the product making me. Oh so happy. Every time she knocked on my door bringing me Sonic Cherry lime AIDS with extra Jerry's because she knows she knew that's what I liked to becoming becoming a woman who when she looked at me did not know who I was. You know how hard that is. If you're not there yet in your journey your loved one and sticks around long enough. You're going to experience that in. It's painful it hurts so when you see me out in public you would have no clue of that. It just makes me think about there are people in our world. Well let me just back that up. Everybody we literally everybody we meet is dealing with something that we don't know about. We don't know if they're caregivers we don't know if they have been abandoned Brandin if they have been abused maybe they are in a very stressful and awful life situation where they're being physically mentally l. e. sexually financially whatever kind of abuse they're receiving maybe they're being bullied at school. Maybe they're different for whatever reason and they're being made to feel less than maybe the morning. Maybe they're grieving. Maybe they've lost a job maybe they've they've lost their home. They've lost their income. Maybe they've lost their mama their daddy their husband their wife their sibling their best friend. You just don't know and so what I want to say to you today. Is Bill aware of that. You are not the only person person in the world who is dealing with tough times Thanksgiving's coming Christmas around the corner. Those are extremely difficult times for many many people. The suicide rate is higher between now in the first of the year that any other time of the year because holidays are hard. It's hard being around family. Sometimes that may not be accepting of you for whatever reason. It's hard being around families that don't understand your grief that don't acknowledge it. And maybe maybe you're not acknowledging it and their own world. It's hard sometimes to pull up your big girl panties and keep going for the day. But I want you to know that when you're meeting up with these people and you're realizing that everything is not what it appears to be that behind that or in front of that. In addition to that we need to bring smiles miles. We need to bring hope. We need to bring words of encouragement. We need to let folks know we are there for them. I have a friend who who donates to our company monthly and. I'm so thankful for all of you. Folks who donate to our ministry so that we can keep paying for these podcasts in these videos that you you watch her cards make me so happy. There's nothing profound. It's just. She took a moment to ride. Why in tell me what's going on in her world and into thanked me for helping her in her journey but just hearing from her that that touch in my world just means a lot it to me? I was riding her today. Thanking her for that people's lives are not all what they seem and I know in her world. She's dealt with a lot of great from the passing of her sister. People deal with a lot. Look at this picture. What do you see? You should see an owl and this picture was actually taken after. I had spoken. Okay one night in North Carolina back in October and the lady I was with went. Look there is an al I wear wear is the out. It had flown right over over. My head landed in the tree and she cut that pitcher. Isn't it incredible. I think it is absolutely a gorgeous pitcher but look at the purple in the background. You know that's not what you think it is to me. It looked like maybe purple flowers in the background. Purple something in the tree. But it's the dark night sky. See Things aren't what they appear to be. We see one thing but what actually might be could could be something totally different. You know you have to think about that. Think about that when it comes to your loved one. What they are experiencing is probably not what you think they are experiencing? What they are seeing is certainly not what you're seeing? Their vision has changed so much what they are wishing for in hoping for and desirous of. I don't think we can begin to imagine and the stress that they feel from not being able to to participate in life. We don't have a clue I can teach you about it. I can try to help you understand but I don't know and you no no one knows because the people who do know can't tell us about it but it's got to be it's just got to be a very agonizing using thing to be in a room full of people and not be able to participate in life with him. That's what your loved ones kind of feel like Thanksgiving and Christmas may be New Year's and whenever ever whenever you get the family together they want to be a part of the world. They want to be able to participate. They look like they should be able to man up until January of this year. Mamma died in May up into January. Viewer visit mom. You might not even guess just by looking king at her that she had advanced age. Alzheimer's would be leaving us in five months. Things are not what they seem but she was dealing with a lot in. She was confused a lot and she was frustrated law and she even had pain. Things are not what they seem and being aware of that. Uh when you're taking care of your loved one is important but helping your friends to be aware of that as they interact with you. That's SORTA Kinda maybe a little bit your responsibility because until you've care give in a in a specific situation especially dementia Asia. Then you don't understand it if your friends have not been through that caregiving experience. They don't know what you're going through so maybe just a little word from you. That says I'm having a weepy. Mama morning I feel like Poo Poo and it's messed my makeup all up an adult. Need you to solve anything for me right now. Yeah if you could just put your arms around me all I cry. Well that would mean a lot to me. I've told my husband husband that US if a Stark Ryan you don't have to fix its use after all me and as my friend Linda Tommy. She's a carol when those moments come let them come. Let them wash over you and feel you but let them leave GotTa let them leave today. See Her read. It makes my my face and I just put on my makeup on award well. I hope that you've got some words of wisdom from me today with my arterial itself and for you folks who don't have this video form in you're listening to maybe you can go to our website and pull up this this video and see that beautiful picture how it is quite something up. You have a good day. Blesses miles per by. Let's talk. Dementia would like to thank our sponsors National Association of Veterans and families. You can reach them at eight hundred hundred three five to to nine one nine on the Internet at www dot in a v F dot Org. They speak veterans. So you don't have to in you. Tell Them Carol. Saint you when you call to inquire about benefits for the veteran spouse of the better or both editor bed you can find Ms Beth crosby at editor editor Beth Dot Com. She is at mazing looking at what you've written in making sure it represents you will find her at. WWW dot editor Beth dot com Tom and HD imports located on Flint Street extension in Rock Hill South Carolina. That's your county eight three nine eight five zero nine eight fine I they are there for the hunt the repair and maintenance of your Honda Hyundai Toyota Kia tell them carol CINCI. Thanks for joining us today for Carol. Howls let's talk dementia to learn more about dementia we recommend Carols bestselling book also titled? Let's talk dementia. It's available on Amazon Azzawi. Paperback and kindle versions be sure to like let's talk dementia on facebook and leave us a kind word of review on itunes remember knowledge brings power power brings hope hope bring smiles and we all need more smiles. 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"beth dot" Discussed on Let's Talk Dementia

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"beth dot" Discussed on Let's Talk Dementia

"Senior Life Journeys Presents Carol Howls. Let's talk dementia. A podcast designed to help caregivers find knowledge power hope and smiles lyles in their dementia caregiving journey welcome to let's talk dementia. Here's your host bestselling author Carol. Welcome back to. Let's talk dementia. I appear on how will your host thank you for joining me. In Our last episode we talked about the importance of civil things to help. Help reduce our chances of Alzheimer's in today I WanNa talk to you about the importance of sleep now. I told you that I had been having a hard time staying asleep in. That's it's not good. We need several hours of uninterrupted sleep. which I couldn't seem to get but I wanNA talk about Tim steps that you can do to increase your chances of getting healthy beneficial productive as well? I'll tell you as what in just a little bit how productive your brain can be Sleep for you and for your Elo. Cruiser L. O.. Niece has sleet to believe me. The first thing you can do is to maintain a schedule that allows for seven to nine hours of sleep in in the best way that you can do that is by not needing to set an alarm clock while you say I got to get up and get going but if you are going to bed at the exact exact same time every night and getting up at the exact same time. Every morning your brain will begin to adjust to that and I read that and I thought Um I don't know if I believe that or not till I started paying attention to it and my brain is waking me up somewhere between six and six fifteen which bad way. I am not entirely happy. I ride rather have ten o'clock. Don't be good and the other thing you WanNa do when you do get up to go the bathroom. I'm in the middle of the night like I'm good at doing is. Don't open your eyes all the way. Don't flip on the light unless you're going to go into the bathroom. They may be. You need just a little night. Light light put out or some things that keep you from having to put on the full overhead light. Because when you do in the light gets into your brain it resets your circadian Acadian Rhythm in your brain and that's what helps you stay on track for going to sleep and waking up so we don't want to wake up your brain okay. We want to keep everything dark working in his quiet as we. Can You WANNA stop caffeine by two o'clock now. have it. Had Caffeine like forever and thirty six days. So that's not an issue issue for me but you need to remember that if at Caffeine the half-life of caffeine is about six to eight hours so if you have caffeine at two o'clock in the afternoon in the half life of it is Eight o'clock then by Tiller clock half of the effect that caffeine is still in your body. It might be keeping you from going to sleep so think about that when you are discerning when you should stop having Pepsi Cola which. ps I know offense to Pepsi. But you don't need to be having it all is so bad for your body so keep that in mind. Avoid alcohol within three hours of your bedtime now. A lot of us will think. Oh I'll have a glass of wine to help me sleepy. Help me get sleepy and that okay. That might work but give yourself about three hours before you go to sleep That so the alcohol has time to bend to be digested and won't have a major effect on your ability to sleep peacefully because you can't have an issue with that exercising. Yeah you kind of heard this before from exercising during the day will help be sleep better at night but you also don't want to exercise like right before bedtime when it gets you really away. You don't WanNa do that so make sure you you avoid exercising. I think it's three to four hours before bedtime. Get Sunlight in the morning so my husband and I we get up while it's still dark with this dead gone time change. I don't know why we changed the time fall forward known. Yeah spring forward fall back. I don't know why we do that. Mass but now when we get up it's dark so we're getting outside justice. The Sun is coming up if you are outside when the sun is coming up or when the sun is going down it does help reduce depression but being outside when the sun is coming up So for about thirty minutes will help to set the the Circadian Rhythm and it turns off off Melatonin so being outside. We'll stop the release of Melatonin. You're Brian make you more effective and more awake for your day and make you more ready for sleep at night. Keeping your room. Cool between sixty five and seventy five degrees is important. I've had the heck with time getting my husband and go with that one Erin and I'm like did you turn the air down. Did you turn the air down. I told you Menopausal I get hot. I don't like to sweat avoid blue light at nighttime. What is blue light will that you tell your television your screens your phone your IPAD? Whatever it is that you're looking at all those darn hours Avoid avoid that Brooke Elise right before bedtime. Give yourself an hour so out there. I have a little thing that pops up on my phone that tells me how many hours a week spent on. Oh my phone is distressing. I was up was up. Twenty seven percent this past week. What did I do on my phone? I don't know how about doing a little meditation meditation before bedtime prayer before bedtime being thankful spending some time to be thankful spending time breathing being member that five five ten five talked about five Bresciano. Hold it five second count to ten to let it out. Hold it for vice again. I said it wrong to begin with not vibrates in. It's one breath in that you hope for five seconds one breath in how I go. Tell you this it's count the five when you're breathing. Okay breathe in one two three four five hold it for five against breath out for count of ten hold it for five seconds out boy. I had a hard time explaining that. But this puts your brain in the mood for sleep as does rating rating will make you so sleepy and get tested for sleep. Apnea they say seventy percent the people with sleep apnea go on diagnosed. That's not a good thing. You're GONNA have terribly difficult time getting useful restorative sleep if you have sleep apnea in an ask your doctor after about supplements for sleep as I mentioned earlier dough tears breathe is good for sleeping. I take Melatonin ten. Milligrams I'm not telling you to do that. I'm just telling you I take Melatonin. Melatonin ten milligrams in it does help me. Lock also take magnesium now magnesium. We'll help you sleep. Check with your doctor before you take anything okay. A y'all got that. Don't come back and say you told me to take it because I did not but magnesium. I started taking it because I'm Vegan While I'm piscotty cheering because I do eat some on fish. And so sometimes you need to supplement with magnesium but magnesium is good for reducing migraines and. It's good to help you sleep in that kind of neat and you see baby oil before I go to sleep just to help with that process so those are just a few things that you can do to help. Get good restorative sleep in talked about being productive sleep and it's productive to sleep because when you get in that good sound sleep as we've talked about vote for your Automatic vacuum your brains Roomba comes on and claims your brain in. You need that so we've got to do all those things that Brian controls every bit of your body. Everybody your body answers to your brain and your brain answers to in response to every bit of your body so we got to keep the brain right healthy in the body healthy and one of the things we can do to keep the brain healthy is good quality sleep argue. Thank you fill in sleepy. I feel a nap in my future. Have a good day blessings and smiles. Let's dementia would like to thank our sponsors National Association of Veterans and families. You can reach them at eight hundred three five to to nine one nine on the Internet at www dot in VF dot dot org. They speak veterans. So you don't have to and you tell them Carol Saint you when you call to inquire about benefits for the veteran spouse of the bedroom or both editor. Bet You can find Ms Beth crosby at editor Beth Dot Com. She is amazing at looking at what you've written in making sure it represents you will find her at. WWW dot editor Beth dot com and HD imports located on Flint Street extension in Rock Hill South Carolina. That's your county eight. Oh three nine eight five zero nine eight five. They are there for the hunt the repair and maintenance of your Honda Hyundai Toyota Kia tell. I'm Carol CINCI. Thanks for joining us today for Carol. Howls let's talk dementia to learn more about dementia we recommend Carols bestselling book book also titled? Let's talk dementia. It's available on Amazon. In paperback and kindle versions be sure to like let's talk dementia on facebook and leave us a kind word of review review on I tunes remember. Knowledge Brings Power Power Brings Hope hope brings smiles and we all need more smiles. Thanks for joining joining us today. And we'll be right here when you come back to. Let's talk dementia..

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