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"benita" Discussed on Mornings With Gail - 1310 KFKA
"Benita tried unsuccessfully reminds to reach parker and stone about joining its efforts. Finally they made a connection with them earlier this month. They pitched why it would be the best group to partner with. According to novick on friday the group heard back. The paris said nope. We're staying the course so on monday. Save castle benita filed an objection to the sales agreement arguing that its purchase offer of three point. Five million dollars was four hundred thousand dollars higher than what. The south park team has offered and would maximize the value of the restaurant. Filing also argues that the restaurant's landlord bs lamont j. c. e. r. s. exerted undue influence by telling some family restaurants it wouldn't consent to an agreement reached by or with save castle benita to purchase the restaurant for seven point three million dollars including the intellectual property. I know it just gets more and more confusing. Doesn't it know vick said that was because bs new. Another offer was in the works with the creators of south park. Also huge fans who had made the restaurant and international sensation by featuring it in several episodes of south park judge. Michael you romero could reject the motion the that save castle benita has provided the better offer or put the assets up to a competitive auction. I just want to know what the fate of those amazing sopapillas will be not to mention the clip divers given the parker and stone signed a nine hundred million dollar plus deal in august with viacom. Cbs for six more seasons of south park as well as fourteen streaming movies. No they said he has no doubt who would win if castle benita went to auction. Now save castle pineda's also creditor in the case after paying off local food vendors and maharaja musicians who owed money. It could try to convince a majority of creditors to reject the sale but novick readily concedes that yeah this is pretty much a long shot given that the landlord the largest creditor after unpaid rent going back to win the restaurant shut down in march. Twenty twenty is on board a with the agreements around round. Goes the fate of kassab benita. At this point. Nobody really knows seven. Twenty nine now. Northern colorado's voice one of three one thirteen ten. Kfi a morning sagale from the auto collisions specialists studios right. Fewer people headed afford the unemployment lines. Zen markets well trading near record highs. Got to wonder where this is all going as. Well find out when we check in with keith. Wineman presidential wealth in loveland. We'll take a deep dive into these numbers and see what they pretend when keith wineman again presidential wealthy in lublin joins us right around seven. Thirty five seven thirty now. Northern colorado's voice one of three one thirteen ten kf koa join. Clark johnson and bruce dick for cargo their coach weekdays at eleven northern colorado's voice one zero three point one and thirteen ten.
"benita" Discussed on Sucias are my Favorite
"So quick gino's enthusiasts. I'm that about the welcome to another episode of societas are my favorite once again. I have benita joining me for this episode and today we discuss orgasms from website with statistics on orgasms in general based off of studies. He kind of jives with my theory of one hundred episodes so haven't heard that go ahead and check that out. What was your take your idea on the study when you first saw looked at it in a while i remember looking at it and thinking interesting information so my first. Take this kind of jives with what i talked about. On my theory of one hundred just. This is a lot more gap and it's backed by studies. it's funny. I just saw a clip of different. A big leg widely known podcasts. They were talking about something really similar except they were surprised by this. Like i have heard this before so it was not surprising. But while like a lot of women don't realize this statistic like it's totally normal to not having orgasms just from penetration so.
"benita" Discussed on Dr. Death: Miracle Man
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"benita" Discussed on Dr. Death: Miracle Man
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You probably will never be able to have that conversation. How do you and the other women who have been through this get closure because you will not be able to confront them and even if you were. I mean let's be honest and they're not gonna come down and have genuine remorse probably of course. Not they no remorse. So how do you reach a point where you're okay. Maybe not with what happened but with where you are today. What i tell women. All the time now is don't driver self crazy trying to figure out a crazy person. We can't understand them and we we. Their brains are not wired the same way. Our brains are wired. Something's wrong something's clearly very very wrong. I realized that a long time ago. And what. I tell women all the time now is to try and take yourself away from that and away from from the person because you'll get mired in a in a whole you're never gonna get out of you. You will never get the answers. And so the way to heal is to focus on yourself and to realize that you yes. You got conned. No you are not stupid and this can happen to anyone. These guys are incredibly manipulative. Incredibly adept at what they do there's brainwashing there's gas lighting. I'm just wondering if you think you. I mean right. Now you're sort of president of the club that no woman wants to be in. Do you think you will ever reach a point where he's not an unwelcome guest in your mind. When i go back. And i think about things and i talk about things in the moment i get very angry and i can get upset but i sort of almost feel nothing for him now. He's kind of it's kind of blank. I just i want justice. I want justice for his patience. And that's why. I want to go to the courtroom. I count him and look him. I two i in that courtroom. But yeah i'm just kind of blank. I just the cause. Also the reality. Laura is the man that i thought i was in love with literally exist. The man i thought dr pallo. Macaroni was never was was speaking of things that never was. I have one last question that that i was also wondering of a completely different nature. But when when you were describing this huge celebrity filled wedding that you were supposedly going to have Of all that guest list. Who were you most looking forward to to meeting like like what you know in your fantasy wedding guests which he was in the fantasy wedding that he was portraying for you Who when it fell apart. Who were you most sad. You're like oh man. Now i'm not gonna see who i don't know if i ever thought of it exactly that way. Some of my friends have been like. Oh i didn't get to meet this prisoner or that person. The person that i actually of all the people that he claimed were coming to this wedding. The person that i really was excited to me was elton john. I have always been a fan of elton john so much so his song. Benny and the jets. My nickname is benny. My family calls me ben. My whole family calls me. Benny and the very first license plate. I had on on a car. When i was a teenager in michigan said benny and the jets so Yeah i was sad that. I didn't get to meet elton john. I didn't really care about anybody else. But what stroke of luck that he was actually in rome like that dino yeah and that was one of the things that really tripped me up because that was one of the few things i i did check. I mean he. He insisted that. I not you know i wasn't supposed to ask any questions but i did a tiny bit of poking around. I mean when. He told me that elton john was going to be singing for me at this event on friday night now. I did look into know. Elton john schedule and everything and he actually was in rome that weekend of wedding and was going to be there the whole weekend and performing at the place where policy at this event was taking place. So how close did you get to elton john that night oh and i went to see him We try to get as close to the front as we could. And we weren't very far back. I think maybe ten roads or something and i was sort of joking with lee that i wanted to rush the stage and say hey by the way you know. I'm the one you're supposed to be singing to the wedding. But of course you know ridiculous i i do love the way you know i have to say i mean i know we're out of time but i i do love the way that you you know when you got there putting on the dress and you know it's just like you had been through so much and i can't imagine the devastation and you were dislike. You know what. I'm just gonna own this and you went there and you put on the dress and i i have to say i really admired that. Thank you. I am actually i. I appreciate that because it was. It was me reclaiming myself. It was me being defiant and determined and you know in the face of all of this devastation and this overwhelming desire to to fall apart and hide under the bed. Well that's that's how i. That's how i took it. Thank you yeah. That's what that readdress was. That was me saying You're not doing this to me. Well benita thank you for talking with me about this. Yeah thank you for doing it. I do think shame keeps women from from speaking up about this. And i admire your courage and going forward and putting yourself out there and trying to prevent it from happening i thank you i. I think that's the one thing if there's one other thing i can do aside from expose him it's to help women know that they should not be shamed into silence..
"benita" Discussed on Dr. Death: Miracle Man
"How i'm wondering how if you since since this happened to you if you have any sense of how. I'm always interested in origin stories. A little bit you know. And how early do you think his deception started. Like i mean we know where it started with you. But i'm wondering like in general with his. Was he lying all along and his you know with his surgical career was he lying all along to women. I mean how far does this go back. My hunch is that this is something that started very early. I don't really have any direct evidence of that and it's funny. I just was talking to my mother about this yesterday. Because we were we were actually talking about the podcast. And she remembered that he had talked about his father. I don't know fighting against the nazis or something and doing all this crazy stuff and she said do you think any of that was real and i said probably not and how many other women like were there. I mean you couldn't have been the only one like how many women did paolo con any idea. i'm just trying to count here at the same time as me. There were at least three other women in his life. There was the wife that he told me he had divorced. Who in reality. He never actually divorced. They were separated and they had separated for many years. And she's the mother of his children so but then there's the woman in the home in barcelona There's another woman who reached out to me who. I promised that i would keep her identity. Confident and i always have But she had a thing with him right in the middle of mine and there are. There are other women that you know. So that's that's four of us right there and there are others that i suspect and i've heard you know through the grapevine that he had things going going on with and somebody told me A male colleague of his that he liked to joke about having a woman in every port in the world so unfortunately i think there are a lot. So how far was he gonna. This is another question i had. How far was he going to carry this wedding I mean 'cause some point right it had it had he had to pull the plug on it in some way but it just kept getting bigger and bigger and bigger like do you think he ever intended to actually marry you. Or how is he going to get out of this. So this is the money question right because clearly when you plan the wedding of the century it's an none of it is real. It's going to implode at some point right so my theory is that there wasn't a plan. I don't think these people have a plan. I think he was. They get so caught up in their own web of lies that they're just they're just going from one light of the next because they have a history of getting away with things and they always have gotten away with things. I mean look at paulo at with. He's doing surgeries around the world and he and caroline skin everything they somehow always wiggle out of. It somehow always managed to blame somebody else and get out of it and he just he didn't really know what is the endgame was. He just thought he was going to be okay. I don't think he did i. I don't i think he was. He was sort of going one step at a time. I in hindsight. I think towards the end. He was panicking. When i look back and i think back to the sort of three months or so a leading up to one. I found everything out. We were fighting a lot. He had changed end. I attributed it at the time to everything that was going on in sweden but i think it was also mounting tension. About how the hell am. I gonna get out of this. And what am i gonna do because he you know he knew. I quit my job. He knew the wedding was coming up. And this door was kind closing in on him. And i think he was panicking a bit an uber spending a lot of your own money in this as well i mean. Did you recoup some of the money that you had spent on this. I did spend quite a bit of money. He had always been very very generous financially. And not just with me with my friends and my family. I mean you know he. He take big groups of people out to these very elaborate dinners and pave everything. He was always taking me to michelin star restaurants ordering the most expensive wine and i mean the bills were astronomical and always shocking to me but when it came to the wedding because he was planning everything supposedly in europe and there are certain things he wanted me to take care of Which was my dress. Basically and the invitation so he told me that. Go ahead and pay for those things. And i'll pay you back. And then he kept adding all these events and all these things that i needed. You know red carpet dresses for so between the dresses. It was the the dresses the invitations. The buying plane tickets For people in the wedding party and for myself and my daughter that to travel to europe things like that just a lot of the little miscellaneous wedding wedding stuff. It added up to well over fifty thousand dollars. Oh my gosh. So did you ever get any money back from him from what you had spent. Yeah well so finally. I said if you can't give me any cash give me a credit card. So that i can at least pay some things on credit card and he gave me a credit card number because i kept saying need money to send my daughter to camp. You know she goes to the summer camp every summer. I need to buy her things like you know. And so he gave credit card. I mean the big things that i actually really needed to pay my mortgage the private investigator. Obviously i can't pay the private investigator on his credit card So one night we sort of turned it into a fun. Little girls party. I put some wine a couple girls on the phone also online and on speaker and got amazon and i literally was looking around my apartment going. Okay what do i need. I need toilet paper. This is pre pandemic. Mind you when nobody did this. I ordered forty rolls of toilet paper. You know twenty rolls of paper towels. I need cleaning supplies. I need this. I need that. I kind of ordered everything i needed for the house and some things from daughter a few things for myself that were kind of fuck you items quite frankly Including the blonde wig. That i would end up wearing when i went to his house in barcelona and so what was the total bill was. It wasn't crazy. I didn't i didn't go crazy. It was less than a thousand dollars. It was just kind of a fun. If you can call it that at the moment way from me kind of stick it to him a little bit. I wonder sometimes why certain companies choose their names. Is there a clever back story. Does the name evoke a feeling or sentiment or is it. Just a name something. 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"benita" Discussed on Dr. Death: Miracle Man
"Had to do with palo macarenhas career and how much they were willfully ignorant about what was happening. It's funny. I was just having this conversation yesterday. Actually after listening to the third episode because there there are things in there and in the first episode. That i didn't know and i'm i was absolutely appalled and horrified. Could you be. Could you be specific. Oh that's that. I mean and i just can't get it out of my head the two things about your shame that just. I did not know that did that. Initial surgery on her for. I'm sorry it sounds like fucking legitimate reason. He goes into cracks open. Testing does open surgery just because he wants to have a look at that. Surgery was unnecessary. And then it goes so catastrophically wrong. I didn't know that and that just horrified me. I just gasped. When i heard that story because right there the whole thing could have been stopped. I mean he's just he's so reckless and then that scene were the doctors are talking about how she despite being so weak and barely can get out of bed. She puts on her best dressed and gets all dressed up for paolo and he knows this and he doesn't even go in the room. That infuriated me hearing that. That imagining what. She must have been feeling at that time and the blatant disregard for just basic humanity. The the just callous careless arrogant thoughtless. I could use a million words that that the is just so blatant that he just doesn't care about his patients. What about karolinska. Like he couldn't have gotten away with it without no exa- yeah so there's a sort of collective desire among all the people that were entangled with him from institutions to scientists to doctors succe- sweep things under the rug and look the other way and sort of pretend that things weren't happening it was somebody like him walks into a room with so much charisma and charm and arrogance an and commands the room and walks the walk and talks the talk and seems to be exactly everything he tells you. He is people. Just don't question. They don't doubt we suspend our doubts with people like that because we just it seems impossible that somebody like that would lie this over and over again i mean look at. Y'all got the other doctors who've you know whose stories we've told and you hear this quite often. Oh he seemed so confident he seems so charming. He seems nice. He had such great bedside manner. It's like it kind of makes you wonder if these guys were not terming and not nice if they would've gotten away with it but there's like their personalities overcame what they lacked in and morals overcame a net personality totally laura. I mean that was one of the things about paulo. And even the reason i was attracted to him at his bedside manner was so gentle and soothing and he it was so touching to watch. I mean you. You really thought he cared about his patients. I really thought he cared about hannah. And the stark reality is he didn't give a damn about any of them you know and to give back to caroline's got quickly. I think there was a lot of looking the other way and a lot of wanting to sweep the problem under the rug. And in that sense i do think they are complicit. They were warned many times. They were warned by the whistle blowers early on. I wrote to the chancellor at the very beginning not long. After i found out everything myself and just said i don't know exactly what's going on here but you need to know that this man is not who you think. Kiss your star. Surgeon is not the man you think he is. I got the same thing. The whistleblowers did nothing. No answer i think this man was so famous and was bringing them so many accolades and so much attention to caroline ska. There were whispers about him being in contention for the nobel prize in medicine. And there's so much money attached to this and it's two things it's money and its prestige and to blow either of those things up has devastating affects and devastating implications and and changed anything. Have they learned any lessons. I could ask this a lot. And i actually don't know the answer even in the states been so you might know but are they doing anything differently now. Yes that's good too. I do think so. I think it took a minute. I think there was a lot of resistance at the beginning but once they decided to go ahead with it i they did take action and there were. There are so many domino effects. Main people got fired. people resigned. But it's it's interesting. Because because i think the doctors who were involved maybe don't feel like carolyn scott has learned that you know. Yeah there were few heads that rolled but the the institution is still is still in place. Well look i'm not there right. I'm i'm over here in the us. And i i'm only seeing the little cursory things they have to do. Well and maybe now they'll actually check out their new doctors before they. You know god. I hope so. Speaking of checking out so they obviously have tools that that patients don't and another common theme to to all of these stories really is how difficult it is for us as patients to check out our doctors. This is something that's just a particular interest of mine because we are only you know. A lot of them found him by googling. And can't you can't fault them for that because no because google. It's terribly unreliable. These healthcare rating sites are unreliable. I mean you know done. Had four point five out of five stars on house grade. I mean so. They're completely misleading and unreliable and yet they're all we've got so i was wondering when there were couple of lines about patients found him on google. Could you talk about that a little bit. Like how were these people finding him like. How much was the internet involved in bringing him. These patients the internet played a massive role in in bringing macarena his patients. Almost all of them found him by a simple google search which is terrifying and hindsight because he had his reputation as a quote unquote super surgeon. Thus super surgeon had grown and headlines picked up on that and you know things spread like finding their goal. Search like what would they would. They find news articles about him. You know are we as journalists like have some role in this because because journalists were running uncritical stories about him that would pop up in these google searches. I mean do all of us bear a little responsibility in that. That's an interesting question in a hard one. And i think i think yes to some extent I don't quite know how you stop it. I mean look. Even when. I did the story that i did on him. None of what we know now had come out yet. You know the at the time. The whistle blowers even when it aired the whistle blowers. Were just starting you know to put their heads together and working frantically to put everything together but none of that information had been released to the public yet so in a short of somehow somebody knowing what the whistleblowers found out. I don't know how anyone supposed to know that you know he had this. He was hiding these dark secrets that had not been revealed yet. And you're saying because even his colleagues thought he was great. Yeah i mean. He was still being vouch for by caroline by the place that gives a nobel prize in medicine. They were still saying he might be a contender for a nobel prize in medicine. I mean there was no reason to question this man. There was no you know there were little hints like the thing that came up in italy but everything was immediately quelled or squashed. He had done a very good job of hiding anything. Negative and there was no reason to doubt him unfortunately do think what journalists do you know if there's a headline and there's there's something online it gets it gets picked up and repeated by other outlets who don't and i've experienced this myself with false information that's been out there about me and the aftermath of this and things get repeated over and over and over again without anybody fact checking i mean that alarms me to a great deal It's very eye opening experiences a little myself but first of all i have to say i will defend journalists and journalism all day. Long as i'm sure you will. But i also think that every journalist should have journalism done to them you know to really because it can be eye-opening how even tiny mistakes get repeated and amplified. They rely on other journalists. And one of the part. I actually at loved in in when you were telling. The story is how you saw the questions from the science journalists and that was really startling to you because as a science journalist myself. I'm like you ask because one of the things that we argue for is there should be a as we've seen even with covering corona virus there should be journalists with expertise in science covering science stories. Yeah i agree wholeheartedly. Actually when i when you think back to him i you know. Maybe that would have helped if you'd had. But then again they were. They were covering him from these scientific journals nature and all these other places. I don't know it's a difficult problem to figure out i. It makes me very nervous. Because i think back to these patients and it all comes back to vulnerability really right there. They're vulnerable in their desperate. And that you do a google search and see that this is the miracle man. This is the only man that that can fix this. He's the only man that's what people were reading. This is the only man who can do this. He's doing something that nobody else can do. He's your only hope m people of course people in that situation wanna cling to a miracle you know and that's that's what happened. Dr death is sponsored by better help. Emotional health is tough no matter what it is anxiety. Depression just feeling bad. You look the same you can smile and talk and do all the same things you always do but no one notices how much it hurts inside. So it's hard for them to help. Better help is therefore you better help. We'll assess your needs and match you with your own licensed professional therapist. Someone you can begin communicating with in under forty eight hours. It's not a crisis line. It's not self help it's professional therapy done securely online log into your account anytime and message with your therapist or scheduled video or phone sessions. It's more convenient and more affordable than traditional therapy and better help is committed to finding you the right therapist switch anytime easily and at no charge visit better health dot com slash doctor. That's better h. E. l. p. and join the over one million people who've taken charge of their mental health with the help of experienced professional. Get ten percent off your first month and better help dot com slash doctor. So i'd like to move to some more a few more of the personal details about paolo. That maybe didn't make it in. And i'm b- but before we do that i'm just wondering i mean there's so much about your experience with him. I'm i'm wondering if you could pick out. Maybe like one thing that really haunts you from all of this trauma that you've been through Gosh that's a tough one sort of a two part answer to that that thing that incense me to this day as my daughter you know it's one thing to do it to me but to do this to a nine year old girl who just lost her father to cancer is unfathomable to me. And he's a father. He has children and to sit in front of my daughter and tell her the same egregious lies that he was telling me when you know she's a child she's vulnerable child. That makes me angry. In a way. I don't i just. I don't know how to describe. I mean it's i'm my hands are up in the areas. I'm talking to you right now. Because i'm it makes my blood boil. How do you sit in front of a child and tell her about the school. She's going to be going to in barcelona and the life. She's gonna be living in barcelona when you know the whole time. Everything you're saying is ally. Do you mind me asking. You don't have to answer but d- mind me asking how she is today. How she's doing today. She's great she's she's about to go to college she she is a an obviously. I'm biased. Because i'm her mom. She is an incredibly intelligent thoughtful insightful young woman and she has big dreams and great promise and she doesn't talk about this a lot and we joke about it sometimes and the one thing she says to me all the time she always says to me mom you know if i ever run into him. If i'm ever in an airport somewhere. And i see him. I am walking up to him and i am going to slap him across the face. I don't care where i am when this happens. I yeah right you have to live. I have to laugh because she said this so many times and sometimes i will laugh and she just looks. She's like mom. I'm not joking. It's on and then her other line which she loves to tell her friends which kind of makes me cringe. But i can't really argue with her. But i guess it's her gallows humor way of dealing with this as.
"benita" Discussed on Dr. Death: Miracle Man
"Hi laura how are you. I'm good how are you doing. I'm all right thank you. Thanks for talking to me today. What a story. Dis crazy right. It is nuts. And i was just listening to it. I wasn't even living it. So i can't even imagine i have to confess when i was listening to this story though part of me in a way was glad that it happened to you because if it wasn't for you and it wasn't for the journalists in sweden mike. He might he might still be operating on people. I think.
"benita" Discussed on Dr. Death: Miracle Man
"There are grounds for manslaughter. Charges over the last six episodes we covered just how he came to convince doctors patients and journalists that he was changing medicine. He was advertised as sort of the savior of the karolinska so very quickly. Everybody knew who he was and how he convinced one woman to fall for him. I just i couldn't fight it anymore. I just wanted to be with him. And i wanted to be wrapped. Look of the eight documented tracheal. Implants that paolo macaroni performed. Only one patient is believed to be alive and that patient has implant removed. Paolo is now a disgrace. Surgeon and so far he has evaded justice. But that might change in september twenty twenty swedish prosecutors charged paolo with aggravated assault in connection with the surgeries. He performed a carolyn scott. His trial is scheduled for two thousand twenty to one of the things that struck me is how he was able to pull it off how he was able to. Just get away with it out of all the people. We spoke with for this series. There's one person who had the most interaction with him his former fiancee benita alexander today. I'm talking with her about what she went through. And how paulo kept secrets and what her life has been like. Since paolo was exposed thanks to adt our presenting sponsor. I enjoy true crime. Podcast much as the next person. But i think we've all experienced that moment when an episode hits a little too close to home you end up having trouble sleeping well you can rest easy. Knowing that twenty four seven peace of mind is always near from the leaders of the home security category adt strategy analytics. Twenty twenty called adt. The number one smart home security provider and it's easy to see why. Adt has received the most burglar alarm events in the industry and help save more lives than any other home security provider. They've also got top of the line. Tech including security camera technology that can detect the difference between a pat and a person to help reduce false alerts with nine owned and operated call centers and more experience in the industry than anyone else. No matter what you want to protect. Nobody has more experience helping. Keep it safe than eighty help protect what matters most get all the latest security upgrades from the largest name home security by visiting adt dot com. Today adt.
The Investigation Into Dr. Paolo Macchiarini
"Paolo shared his ultimate vision using stem cells to regrow or repair. The body's organs. This incredible idea that i hadn't thought previously if you could actually make that become true would be fantastic innovation in the past busa had met his share of medical luminaries through other projects oliver sacks robert gallo who co discovered hiv. Carlton gadget sick. Who'd help discover mad cow disease. What paolo macarena was doing was if it was true. Just as incredible as those discoveries i wanted to go. Bt bring this story and see who was in the wrong what actually happened was powder genius. Or was he possibly soon. After busa went to get the other side of the story he reached out to each of the doctors who had made the allegations against paolo. That i didn't want to talk to me. A very fearful and Suspicious and afraid. Eventually one of them agreed to meet with them on a cold day. In february busa walked up to the door of an apartment building in central stockholm. Dr matias chorba show buzzed him. In and he rode the elevator up to his apartment in rang the bell true to form the six foot. One american was wearing a black sabbath shirt. He invited busa into the apartment and proceeded to tell him everything had learned. He had a really hard time believing what i was saying. Car basha was making some pretty alarming. Comparisons and i started telling him stories about joseph angola. Now sweats and medical experiments or what was going on at caroline scott. I felt that maybe they were paranoid that they were afraid of things. The magnified things that perhaps exists. I thought that they would claims where a bit outlandish and we talked for like two hours. And then my wife came home and she's a blonde swedish woman presses. Well and looks like a normal person and he asked her. If what i was saying was of all this actually true and she said yes. Yes this is is absolutely true. This is absolutely what's going on. And he said after meeting her that he it was. I found that he actually started leaving me. Just like benita. Alexander in new york boost the link fest resolved to get to the bottom of the paulo macura. Any mystery
"benita" Discussed on Ringer FC
"Mix of time for change by benita the great athens of the north label and Lovely week and weekend back with you on next week down three people's next week next week. Yeah right. It's house coming on monday next week. So we'll be with you later in the wake right. Everyone taking chances with this waiting game. Not for hoping can't no it's Not attack taste..
"benita" Discussed on Dr. Death: Miracle Man
"Bananas. No wedding wedding day with her girlfriends was a success. The trip had been full of sadness a bit of fun and a lot of catharsis and now benita was ready for the next leg of the investigation. She headed to barcelona on her first night in barcelona benita and her friends nancy and lee all met in her hotel room to strategize. The plan was to drive to paulos home the next day unannounced and she hoped see what their own is the real circumstances of his home life. Maybe he was living with another woman. Maybe palo wasn't in russia at all like you said he was at home by himself. Doing god knows what benita head lawrence that the address palo had given her for wedding gifts was a fake but through some sleuthing of her own shit found the real one. So i know that. There's no way in hell. He thinks i'm ever coming to that house. 'cause i don't even have the right address. Benita was so nervous. She couldn't sleep. What i wanted to do was catch him unaware when he had marched into my house that weakened i had asked him to fly to new york and look me in the i he was prepared. He had the whole flight to think about his what he was going to say. He had the whole flight to prepare his story. I wanted to catch him off guard. They started on the hour. Drive to paulos home on the coast. Benita had taken precautions. I had ordered this hideous blonde wig online. Before i left new york in case i needed to disguise myself and i'm i'm in the backseat of this mercedes with blonde way. Gone and these. Dark sunglasses slink. Down in the crouching down in the back seat nervously peering out the window. Because i don't know if follows in this town. I don't know if he's going to pop up suddenly and they wanted the element of surprise on their side. They decided that they would show up at his house unannounced with a bottle of wine when they stopped at a store bananas friend. Nancy walked through the aisles. Picking up things they needed. The idea was to buy the cheapest bottle of champagne or wine or whatever and have it in a bag is a gift and inside the bag. We wrote a note. This was for your wedding in spanish english so that way to let anybody know that was in that house that there was a wedding that should have been taken place. They threw in a few bottles of champagne and other booze for themselves. Some snacks along with a bottle of cheap wine for palo and walked back to the car. So the backseat was loaded. Nonetheless benita was back there. Clang bartender were you all giving like liquor up before this tailgating before hit or what. That's one of the show's producers nicosia. I i refuse to answer the grounds of that. It being criminality but yes there has. There has been amount of liquor involved in this otherwise. I don't think it could've taken place. They started to drive up the winding mountain road to paulos barcelona home. The full weight of what they were about to do was starting to settle on them and benita became quiet as they scan the streets looking for his house i think there was still a tiny voice in the back of my head that kept thinking. Maybe it's not as bad as you think it is. You know maybe maybe somehow you know not that. I thought we were gonna stay together but i think kept wanting him to not be as bad as i knew he was. I think i kept hoping that. Maybe it wouldn't be as terrible as it looked and then we dry the house. He lives at the top of this hill. And when we first drove by it. Looks like nobody's there peeking out from the back seat a little tipsy wearing her absurd blonde wig. Benita was relieved and disappointed at the same time. If no one was home this trip would have been for nothing. She wouldn't be able to confirm for herself. What was true. And what wasn't but at the same time it meant should avoid an ugly encounter. They made one last passed by the house and then parked a little way up the hill and we were talking about. What are we going to do. Should we leave the bottle of wine on the on the doorstep. Should we write a note in there. In case he comes home with someone or woman comes home and we were trying to figure out what to write in this bag. And i'm in the back seat. So i keep looking over my shoulder and all of a sudden i see movement in the house and as blonde hair and i just said there's somebody there there's somebody in the house. There's somebody there. All of a sudden various apollo comes walking down the stairs and obviously in that moment. I know he's lying. He had just text me that morning. Saying he's in russia. So how the hell do you get to barcelona and five hours. You don't leeann. Nancy got out of the rental car and headed straight for the house. Doctor death is sponsored by monday. Dot com formost managers team unity. No matter where they work is key in helping. 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Stick around to the end of this episode to hear a preview of suspect as nancy and lee walked down the hill. They rehearsed what they were going to say. So the game plan was. I'm ringing the doorbell. And i'm going to confront him and a slew of emotions took over. Because i was like am i gonna kick him in the balls and mike gonna cuss them out mike. What's that conversation. Look like or sound like and is it going to be in spanish or is it going to be an english and you know.
"benita" Discussed on Stuff You Should Know
"Everyone listened to the new season of doctor death on amazon music. That's right dr death season three miracle man is terrifying. True story of dr paulo macarena. A charming surgeon who left a trail of bodies behind him and his love affair with an nbc news producer. Benita nita alexander who was completely swept up by his charm. Right from the beginning. Benita relationship with dr mercury and he felt like something ripped from the pages of a romance novel. He traveled the world in the back of his motorcycle and he eventually proposed her with a promise that the pope himself would marry them. I mean anything. Anybody would be swept off their feet by right. That's right but in fact he was a big liar. Because this is the doctor death podcast and six people would die before benita would realize he wasn't the miracle man she thought he was. It is the summer scandal. You've been waiting for and you can listen to dr death season three early on amazon music. Download the amazon music app. Now it's crazy how much we have to pay for outdated impersonal healthcare and even crazier that we all just accept it. It's time to face facts. Healthcare is backwards. Luckily there's forward a new approach to primary care that surprisingly personal and refreshingly straightforward foreword never makes you feel like just another patient backed by top rated doctors and the latest tech forward gives you access to personalized care whenever you need it. Using indepth genetic analysis in real time bloodwork forwards top-rated. Doctors provide you with in depth insights to better understand your genetics mental and physical health. They then create custom easy to understand plans to help guide you to achieving long-term health with forward you get unlimited in person visits with your doctor and access to care anytime via the forward app offer. One flat monthly fee. It's time to stop accepting backwards. Healthcare and start moving. Your health forward visit go forward dot com today to learn more. That's go forward dot com these days. You have to keep everything moving and reinvent the wheel with a hybrid. you can do both. That's why manufacturers are going hybrid with ibm with watson on a hybrid cloud factories can use to automate the little things so they can focus on the next big thing. Businesses that want to innovate at scale are going with a smarter. Hybrid cloud using the technology and expertise of ibm. The world is going hybrid with ibm visit. Ibm dot.
"benita" Discussed on The Apology Line
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At <Speech_Music_Female> a table and i <Speech_Music_Female> just look at <Speech_Music_Female> him <Speech_Music_Female> and i <Speech_Music_Female> <Advertisement> say my love. <Speech_Music_Female> <Advertisement> <Speech_Music_Female> <Advertisement> <SpeakerChange> Something's wrong. <Speech_Music_Female> <Advertisement> a look <Speech_Music_Female> <Advertisement> of concern flashed <Speech_Music_Female> across paulos. <Speech_Female> Face <Speech_Female> everything's gonna <Speech_Female> be okay. 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"benita" Discussed on Safe For Work
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"benita" Discussed on American History Tellers
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Dr. Death: The Story of Dr. Paolo Macchiarini
"Get rid of the infection. He'd invited benito long but she almost didn't make it just a few weeks earlier should had surgery and gotten an infection but after some antibiotics things seem to be getting better besides she really wanted to see moscow and then the infection cleared off enough that my doctor said you're fine. You're okay to travel but now at dinner it was clear something was very wrong and i started having horrible pain now. My piercing pain at first. She tried to tough it out hoping to make it through the desert but this was just too much. I remember squeezing policy hander. At a table and i just look at him and i say my love. Something's wrong. a look of concern flashed across paulos face. Everything's gonna be okay. He said he got up from the table. Threw down some cash and grabbed her coat and i could barely walk barely again in the taxi. They made it back to their hotel room and he said lie down on the bed. Benita quickly pulled off her clothes as best she could so he could see the wound. He looked at the incision and he looked at me and he said. Do you trust me. And i just looked at him and i said get me another glass of wine. Paolo gave a soft smile and then walked to the mini fridge. He pulled out a bottle of wine then build a glass to the brim and handed it to her shy promptly. Slogged and i lay down and he said where you're scissors. I have these travel scissors that I was using to cut the gauze that i was covering the incision with i said there in the bathroom and he goes in the bathroom and he gets my travel scissors and he is peroxide or something whatever he has to quote unquote sterilize them. He came back over to her. Look during the is and he said. Do you trust me. And i just nodded my head and he took those scissors and he plunged them into my incision. The pain was unlike anything should felt. Benita has a high pain threshold but for a second. She thought she was going to black out. One hand was gripping the bed and the other was holding onto paolo shoulder.
"benita" Discussed on KTOK
"And Benita in February. National Guard specialist Cody Casey was severely injured when his Humvee was hit by a semi while he was assisting stranded motorists during a winter storm Vice says the state of Oklahoma is covering cases medical expenses for now, but she's concerned about his long term care. Seven Fort sell soldiers taken to the hospital yesterday after suffering heat related illness during a training exercise base. Officials say 11 soldiers experience heat related symptoms, but Four were treated by medics on site. The soldiers in the hospital remain under observation and investigation is underway from the Allen Samuels. Volkswagen weather Studio. Alan Samuels, Volkswagen, your friend in the car business. It will be partly cloudy. Today we still have a chance to storms will be in the low eighties tomorrow. Mostly sunny. A slight chance of storms will be in the low eighties again and then Sunday, the fourth of July. Mostly sunny, very slight chance of storms and will be in the mid eighties. Again. I'm Jacqueline Scott News radio 1000. Katie. Okay, Use on demand at Katie okay dot com from news radio. 1000 Katie, Okay, Oklahoma's first years. In season two of the hit podcast Paper, Ghosts, investigative journalist and William Phelps searches for the truth Behind the tragedy of July. I want to introduce the The Thundercats Technology Thunder Cat Technology is a premier provider of I T solutions not only for.
"benita" Discussed on The Wounds Of The Faithful
"You'll hear stuff like certified life coach. It's pretty much up to you to decide if what they're offering is what you need in. It's of value to you. So it's not regulated. So you need to know that up front. There is no licensing board even though there are websites out there that say well. I'm a certified life coach Does that mean it means that somebody some organization has some sort of cornell that they'll check to sioux have credentials or that you've studied on their curriculum. And you've checked these boxes. So i don't really know any specific ones that i can speak about but i'm just telling you right now. There aren't any national certifications across the board so anybody can put ambition goal and say that they are a mentor or a life coach and that's not necessarily a bad thing i'm not gonna try not to bash bash the industry too much but i do want to make sure that you have the correct information and you know the truth so if you're stuck somewhere and you need how you need accountability yes you need a mentor or a life coach. Benita kick in the pants. If you need motivation to get started yes you know maybe if you are pretty independent and self driven. Somebody can give you assignments to do every week and you would do it. You don't need too much hand holding. You just need some direction. Some work to go. You do need to have time to devote to it. There is no point in hiring a mentor or a life coach. If you're not going to do your homework. I tell that to my manning the saul group manning assault technically not mentorship or life coaching But i tell them that if you if you don't have time to do the work then it's not the right time for you so let's talk about what you should be looking for and neither write these down. These are important number one. The coach or the mentor needs to have life experience..
2 Dallas officers shot while responding to domestic violence call
"Left two officers hospitalized Dallas Police chief Eddie Garcia says the officers are expected to survive continue to pray for our for our officers that are wounded and for the men and women of this police department, who continued to show up every day regardless of the threat that they may encounter. The officers were shot in their legs while responding to a shooting on Benita Avenue in the Knox Henderson area. Police eventually breach location and found a man and woman dead. Time now for Texas business here. Spencer
2 Dallas officers shot and wounded while responding to call
"Police officers were shot today while responding to a family violence call and are now being treated at Baylor Hospital. The officers were shot in their lower extremities and are expected to survive and happened along Benita Avenue east of Henderson, that's east of the Nox Henderson neighborhood along Central
'P' is for Passion
"I are bringing tia today. The letter p from our hope series which is passion. So how do we find our passion. How do we do that. I kind of want to go back to one of our guests that we've had on our show and pre kumar who was from india and she brought up something really really cool and she said if you wanna have passion. Take money out of the equation and seriously. Is that not the truth there. What zinc about keith. About what you guys would do or what you could accomplish if money just was not it right like you took money out shane. What would you do. What what kind of things would you take. Part in i would travel. Yeah exactly and so. Would i write because that. I'm totally passionate about traveling. And so i just want you guys to to think about that. What kind of things would you do if if money was not a factor in it wasn't in the equation so Gary voinea check. The often is called gary v. 'cause a lot of people can't pronounce last night but he's an american belarussian entrepreneur and he said skills are cheap. Passion is priceless and that was really cool because yeah we can learn a skill and it's pretty easy to to get right but how hard is it to get passion and keep that passion and and let it continue to drive you and i think that's that's really it. What i wanted to talk about was the word passion. And i looked into it a little bit and from its if you look at it from greek and latin meaning. It's to suffer and i thought that's interesting to suffer means passion. But think about it when you had when you're developing your passion. Whatever it is you have in order to build that passion. It's gonna come with a cost. It's going to come with some suffering. You know you might. It might take you forever to find your passion. But i just thought that was so fascinating that the were the word in greek and latin means to suffer and i think we have to go through some suffering to get to our passion Let me give you an example. So we love to travel. We talk about that a lot. But i didn't growing up i didn't we didn't travel a whole lot I had to learn that. That was my passion. Sometimes i can't live out. My passion can't travel every weekend. Because i don't have enough money but so i have to suffer through some of that in order to see my passion through. I just thought that was so fascinating fascinating to to see it from that side or that perspective the other side is the passion that we typically think about which is an intense enthusiasm towards something or a compelling desire to do something that that's my passion of traveling is just that i love to do it I don't think i was born with it. I don't think anybody is born with any passion. You have to find it within you know. When i was growing up a little child i loved to play soccer. I had baseball cards at collected. Had garbage pail kids. And i when i was thinking about this. I remember sitting at the table with grammy and talking about dodger baseball. She would be reading the newspaper and she'd be. Hey you know about this player this player and she taught me to be passionate about dodger baseball and still lives within me today. i can't see as many dodger games as i want to live Especially right now. But i love taking my family to dodger stadium and it brings me back to my childhood when we sat in the stadium watching ron say and steve garvey dusty baker and all of those phenomenal players that she allowed me to see the passion in dodger baseball. That i have today Now you know it could be. A people could have a passion for animals or art or hobbies like dancing or singing or writing or yoga. anything. But i don't believe that we are born with that. I think we have to develop it. And we have to go through that suffering like they're talked about to develop that passion. Howard thurman was an american author philosopher and educator in civil rights leader and. He said this. Don't worry about what the world needs ask. What makes you come alive and do that. Because what the world needs is people who have come alive. And i think that cannot be more true than it is right now. They we see so many people that are not coming alive. They're just going through life. Just almost robotically and i think if we have something that we're passionate about anything hopefully you can hear it in our voice when we talk about travel and that passion that really is a passion of ours and if we if we don't focus too much on what the world needs and what we think the world needs and that we come alive. We're going to be much more passionate simply about living life. I love that you brought up grammy. 'cause she she is an awesome individual and Sad that i can't spend as much time with her anymore. Obviously because she's passed on but She i think you brought up that in my life. One of the things that grammy was super passive passionate about was swimming and she. I'll never forget. She was the one that taught me how to swim. Grammy was a fish and so she was super passionate about the water. I mean grammy was passionate about a lot of things right. And i think that's where some of our passion comes from is from the some of the things that she taught us and i think that's why shane and i really love to swim so much. 'cause grammy would. We would always swim whether that was in the ocean or in her pool that she had in her backyard. But we would all i. I swear every time. I saw drama we were. She was always swimsuit and we were swimming. Yep that's what. I remembered so i i. I think that's true is it's like find something that you really love and i think a lot of times. It's like going back to your childhood. What is that thing that you did as a child that you don't do now that you're passionate about and then what's stopping you from continuing those things. Shane and i love dodger baseball. We got that from grammy. We also love swimming. We got that from grammy when we were kids and so i think a lot of times. It's about you know what what was it when you were a child. And why aren't you doing that thing. Now what what is stopping you from having that passion. I think passion is like a fire. That's with inside you rate the just. Nobody can extinguish and that. You don't want to extinguish it. Can night that fire and let it burn within you. i also want to bring up something That i was thinking about too as i was thinking about passion I think it kind of goes back to Another episode that we recorded with benita condie. And she said this in an. I think it has to do with passionate as well as that when we put our blinders on is that thing. We're passionate about just right here. And we can't see it. We can't we just have to take these blinders off to to be able to see that thing where we're passionate about typically. It's right in front of you. So if you don't have a passion or can't find warner of wondering how do i get more passion. It might just be right in front of you. You just have to open that fear up a little bit maybe to find that passion that theme that you're super super passionate about yup. I think often too often. We get comfortable in our comfort zone and we think well. We don't need passion in order to live and i would strongly disagree. I think we that's why we're talking about passion that's why it's part of our hope series because we strongly believe that in order to live life and come alive. You have to have something you're passionate about. It doesn't have to be many things it can but if you're passionate about one thing then it's going to help you So have you ever thought about your passion being something a tool to motivate and inspire others. Think about that.
"benita" Discussed on Newsradio 600 KOGO
"That look, Let's look at him out. Yeah, and it's a good amount of snow in the little blizzard E up there. Got a lot of wind. Lot of rain will have your forecast in just a second. But first President Biden will handle money very differently than President Trump. Did. Will that make a difference to your bank account? That's coming up? All right. We have your real time Traffic every 10 minutes on the tens. Here's Kevin D got a big thanks to Tom calling, impound to 50 on any mobile device than just use the key words cocoa traffic, which, right through here to the traffic center north on Eagle five. He's letting us know the backup from that crash on the you know five Around Plaza Boulevard starts before the 54. In fact, he gets slow out of Benita nor pond on that Eagle five, and it's gonna stay that way all the way up past this accident, which has three or four right lanes blocked big rig, and that's a long term closer. A hazardous material spill definitely use the North found five out of the south and because you're going to see a pretty easy drive up and to get up into downtown with a little bit of a slow down just past the bridge behind it earlier spent out accident to the shoulder. But the strand of the bridge getting out to Coronado are fine. Plenty of snow is you were just mentioning coming down the mountain areas, CSP says. Take the change. They are. Required now on mountain roads of Palomar Mountain, as well as Laguna south on five of the 15 not running too badly through the rain. Although there are 28 separate spin out accidents worked right now by the CHP. New one on the South bound 15, just south of Camino del Norte has right lanes blocked there. I'm Kevin Dean Coco's next storm Watch Traffic update at 6 20. All right. Rain will hit the county today the brunt of the storm passing through this morning. Scattered showers, though, will continue all day long. Slight chance of thunderstorms..
23-year-old suspected in fatal shooting at east Oak Cliff apartment complex, Dallas police say
"Old Xavi and Osborne has been arrested and charged with murder after a fight led to a shooting. The incident occurred in Oak Cliff Saturday evening at the Benita Garden Apartments on Fordham Road. Arriving officers found 23 year old James Liberal with gunshot wounds. He was pronounced dead at the scene where Osborne was detained. During an interview with detectives, police said. Osborne admitted to shooting the victim. After a fight. He was booked into Lew Sterrett jail on a murder charge. His bond is not yet been set. Steve
Shooting At Dallas Apartment Complex, Police Searching For Possible Second Victim
"Man was shot and killed at a Dallas apartment complex last night, and officials are still looking for a possible second victim. The shooting happened around nine o'clock at the Benita Gardens apartment complex on the 3400 block of Fordham Road. A man was pronounced dead at the scene.
Eta expected to be hurricane and strike Florida Keys SW of Miami
"Warning for the Florida Keys and a hurricane watch for parts of both Florida coasts. The National Hurricane Center says Tropical Storm ADA will grow stronger and will passed near or over the keys tonight and early tomorrow as a hurricane and move into the Gulf of Mexico late Monday and Tuesday. Ah Hurricane watch covers the Florida coast from Deerfield Beach over to Benita Beach,
Coming write-up: Chile votes to overhaul its constitution
"The votes are in. Yesterday Chileans decided by an overwhelming majority to scrap and replace their dictatorship. Eric. Constitution. Bluesy Thomas. WHO Come in. Give President Sebastian. Benita said it was the beginning of a new path for the country. Wants to soon peretti Chile's constitution was introduced under Augusto. Pinochet the dictator who ruled by terror for nearly two decades he lost power after a plebiscite in nineteen eighty eight. United in opposition to the regime of General Pinochet was the biggest political rally yet seen in the capital, but the constitution remained. Later governments amended it dozens of times but for many Chileans, the constitution's most fundamental provisions to blame for the inequality and poor public services that plague one of America's wealthiest countries. Year ago mass protests erupted. At least thirty people died and thousands were injured. There were yet distractions in the run-up to yesterday's vote. Now the country will get a chance to recast its national charter quietening some concerns but perhaps raising new ones. Chileans blame the constitution of nine hundred for lot. That's wrong with the country Brooke Unger is our America editor in many ways looking from the outside there's not a lot wrong with Chile. It's got one of the highest per capita incomes in the region. It's reduced poverty very dramatically. It's had political stability for the past thirty years but there are also big problems and people who have been growing increasingly unhappy with those problems over the past decade decade and a half. So what were the issues with it if the outcome has seen? So stable in the meantime, several things inequality remain relatively high and I think most important really was a feeling that large because of the constitution the way. The public services were delivered resulted in low quality and great unfairness the constitution kind of privileges, the private sector in Chile, and the reason for that is that Pinochet had kind of an intellectual alliance with the so-called University of Chicago economists who were very pro free market and they wrote into the constitution lots of guarantees to protect the private sector and to give the private sector a pretty substantial role in providing public services like health care pensions, education and people have looked at that and become increasingly unhappy with the results of that system has brought. So how do you think it is that a rewriting of the constitution will will address all of these concerns I, think that the new Constitution will probably end up making Chile more social democratic than it is, for example, the constitution now says that people have a right to contribute either to a privately run or a publicly run healthcare system, which has resulted in a kind of a two tier system where the richer in the private system and most people are in the public system and the bulk of people feel that they're not very well served by that kind of two tier system. So I would expect some language that would allow the state to play a greater role in the health system that would allow taxation to play a role in funding a public health system and one of the things that reformers wants to. Do is to insert this idea of equality of opportunity into the constitution which doesn't have the American meaning. It basically means that they want the state to be in a position to ensure that all Chilean's are treated equally, and so that will I think lessen the role of the private sector in the provision of public services, and that's the real crux of it. What voters most want changed other things that probably will change some people say that the Chilean system is sort of hyper presidential. The president has a lot of power in Chile only the president can initiate tax and spending bills. For example Congress can do that. The president can determine which issues congress prioritizes the regions in Chile don't. have their own tax-raising powers. So all of these things tend to concentrate power in the capital and in the hands of the presidency and I would expect to see that being changed. It'll be interesting to see whether the constitution's ban on abortion is upheld. Imagine that will be a very controversial issue. So Chile is at a point where it could change in lots of pretty profound ways but I mean how even to go about that to start from scratch on kind of the working document of a whole country one of the choices that voters made yesterday was on how to rewrite the new constitution and what they decided was that there would be a newly elected assembly consisting entirely of. New Representatives which under the law will be half female and an election that new body will be held in April and that body will then I believe have a year to write a new constitution. So it really will in theory start with a blank piece of paper. One of the complicating issues will be that as this assembly is sitting and arguing and drafting chilly, we'll be moving into a political season. There are presidential elections, national elections to be held in November of next year. So it's pretty foreseeable that you know the politics of the presidential election will feed into the thinking of the drafters and vice versa it's going to be a very fraud I suspect and controversial process so. The potential gains seem fairly clear here, but is there some risk when starting from scratch like this? I think there is a risk Chile has in many ways been a pretty successful country and you can imagine that you know taken to extremes chilly ends up moving not so much in the direction of social democracy. But in the direction of populism being one of the things that probably will happen is that you'll have new rights inserted into the constitution like a right to housing for example now, that doesn't sound like a bad thing but the question will be is the government than on the hook for kind of bottomless spending on all these new rights spending that will either result in. Enormous deficits or crushing taxation I think the danger of that is limited to some extent by the fact that each clause of the new constitutional have to be approved by a two-thirds majority of this assembly. So I think the risks are limited to some extent. It was interesting to see that the very richest districts voted against the idea of a new constitution and after the results of the vote were clear you we had celebrations in the middle of Santiago. So instead of protests, there was a great sense of celebration. So I think that's a sense of national consensus process needs to happen, and it'll be very interesting to see if that national consensus hold up as the process actually gets underway. Brooke. Thank you very much for joining us. Thank you, Jason.
Report Slams Facebook For 'Vexing And Heartbreaking Decisions' On Free Speech
"Facebook has made quote, vexing and heartbreaking decisions about free speech that is, according to an independent audit. And how the social network handles issues such as discrimination, hate speech and election interference. Facebook asked for this investigation two years ago. Today, the investigators are slamming the company and its leaders for some of their decisions for this week's Alltech considered NPR's Shannon Bond joins us and before we get going, I should mention Facebook is a financial supporter of NPR. Hey, Mary, least alright. So investigators slamming decisions by leaders of Facebook. What decisions are we talking about? This is really about speech, and the most prominent example is President Trump. So recently he's put up Facebook posts falsely claiming that voting by mail is rife with fraud, and he made a really inflammatory post about the recent protests against racism. The auditors say Those post clearly violated Facebook's own rules against voters depression inciting violence, But Facebook didn't take the post down. The audit also slammed the company's policy of not fact checking ads by politicians that something Facebook has gotten a lot of criticism over and over all, the audit says, You know these decisions really emblematic of how Facebook has chosen to prioritize free speech above all other values. They say that risk over shadowing games it has made fighting discrimination, for example, that no longer allows advertisers to target housing and job ads based on age, gender or zip code. What is Facebook say in response. Well, the company, as you said, didn't ask for this audit A commissioned it from Laura Murphy of former Sulu executive and a civil rights law firm and chief operating officer. Shelves Cheryl Sandburg said today that Facebook will make some of the changes that it's recommending. Including hiring a senior vice president, who will make sure civil rights concerns informed decisions on products and policies. But when it comes to setting firmer boundaries on political speech, that's something CEO Mark Zuckerberg has resisted. He says Facebook is committed to free expression even when politicians make false claims. And Facebook says it won't adopt every recommendation being made in this report. Now this audit drops as another development plays out all of these brands. I think we're more than 1000 now pausing their advertisements on Facebook in the name of protesting hate speech, or any of them are the organizers of that boycott. Are they speaking up today? Yep, And what I'm hearing is a lot of skepticism about Facebook. Here's Rashad Robinson. He's president of color of Change, one of the groups behind the boycott. The recommendations coming out of the audit are good as the action that Facebook ends up taking otherwise. It is a road math without a vehicle and without the resources to move, and that is not useful for any of us. Another boycott organizer I spoke with today is Jonathan Greenblatt of the Anti Defamation League. He told me he thinks the boycotts just going to keep growing and remember, it's already gone Global until Facebook takes real action on their demands. Yeah, it sounds like we now have this damning audit this big boycott pressure from for many directions on Facebook to change its ways. That's right, and civil rights groups told me they're not going to ease the pressure on Facebook. I spoke to Benita Gupta, She's head of the leadership conference on civil and human rights, and here's what she had to say about the audit. It is a work in progress clearly and pour. In some ways it is. Starts and not a finish for the civil rights community. Gupta and other leaders. I spoke to you know, they say it's just so urgent that Facebook act now because the presidential election is just a few months away. That's something the auditors also say they're really worried about. They say it in the audit. They say a Facebook doesn't get more serious about enforcing its policies, holding politicians to the same standards as other users. That will open the door to more voter suppression even calls for violence on
The Best Protein For Children Who Refuse Meat
"It is true. What they say protein is important for children? It helps promote the normal growth of the muscles and tissues and you know just functions like breathing walking running these activities. Kids just cannot do without having strong strong and fast bodies that are supported by high quality protein so true and obviously need protein to make all of the necessary hormones and enzymes and putting all has a role in immunity so if your child is refusing meat then the first thing that's important to understand Dan is why is protein important and what is protein so protein is essentially made up of building blocks called Amino acids and you may have heard this word floating around. There's about twenty different amino acids your body can't make some amino acids but nine from that list all going to be essential and essential amino acids out those that you cannot make in the body. He it needs to come from Diet. So the ninety essential amino acids are his student is losing loosing Lycene. Mid Pioneer phenylalanine three owning trip to fan and failing not trip to fan is quite well known because of its link with producing the happy home on Serotonin and I do have a great blog. Post on that which talks all about how to get your kids to sleep. Betters are linked that in the show notes for you you as well so protein can be found in both animal and plant foods but the main difference is that the amine as composition composition does vary hugely. So if you've got a picky eater at her than it is a good idea to focus on the protein foods that can provide these essential essential amino acids. This is especially important for children who refused meat and any other animal products. So it's really down to the fact that animal proteins contain all of these nine essential amino acids wild plant foods. Dodi or very few you do and I'll make sure that I'll let you know which ones are the unique one so that you can start to focus on that. But let's I start to get an idea about protein requirements for children so you know around the age of one Benita fifteen grams of protein. A day wanted three euros. Fourteen and a half forty six year olds. Nineteen point seven to twenty grams a day. Now these aren't just guidelines obviously the actual amounts will vary depending on how much they weigh and the age. But I don't want you to worry about that you know the actual actual amount of protein. That children need usually children over. Eat Protein we all do but with some children who are very selective eaters just very small amounts eat very small amount. Sometimes we do need to have a little thing about the type of protein foods that they are having so apart from the usual eggs milk yogurt and cheese which are based on animal proteins the collection of plant proteins. That so you can put together actually make the best protein foods for children who refuse meat so these following foods are excellent. The protein foods Kids and that's because for children who aren't typically refusing to eat meat and if it's just red meat then it's on that you want onto focus on but if they are refusing all types of animal proteins like the meat chicken fish aches and song on then the trick is to include at least one or two of any of the protein rich foods that I'm about to share with you with every meal uh-huh and snack so the best protein for children will usually be based on things like Sawyer and grains like Amarante and Aquino so to- food eight among beans. They are brilliant because they are unique in that they contain all nine essential amino meena acids. These foods should really become the obvious choices for your little meet hater if you like. And he's a a good tip that you might like do stock up your fridge with forty five sawyer drinks you have been listening regularly to the show on you know that. I've got a COUPLA the podcast episodes on the best plant based milk drinks for your toddler and I usually recommend sawyer as the first choice because at the time of protein eighteen but also the amount of protein in those drinks. They really on the best alternative. If utilized doesn't like soy. Then there are some the options for us to do gone and tune into that episode. If you'd like to know a little bit more about cosmic protein alternatives but the best or the richest sources of high-quality plant based protein foods on anything based on soy said Tofu eat among among beans Keno. About Amran of example I came came across this lovely organic brand of whole rain base rice cakes eggs and that was a mix of rice but orser Enron which is a nice ancient grain and so it also means that. There's some decent fiber in the that particular brand of rice cakes. So what about some of the other plant protein foods for children lentils beans and chickpeas also really really great protein foods for kids now yes they are not going to be complete in that they don't contain or nine essential amino acids but remember. You're not eating single food or single amino acid. You are wanting to eat a wide range of foods because because each food is unique in that it brings something else to the table so lentils are great source of protein. It does you know it's rich in some types of the essential amino acids but not all however it's also a rate source of fiber and rich in plant type. Aww Iron said Nahim again. Another reason to include things like lentils beans and chickpeas which are also good sources of iron so put one hundred grams of provide decent decent amount of protein and they obviously also provide some iron which we know that picky eaters tend to be low ends. It's good you know it's an important mineral to think about if you've got you know quite a severe fussy Facet Ito or someone who has been quite selected for for a long period of
Lucky $394 Million Powerball Jackpot Ticket Sold In Florida
"Somebody's waking up hundreds of millions of dollars richer this morning and it's not us just one jackpot winning ticket sold for last night's Powerball drawing the ticket is worth almost four hundred million dollars and it was sold at a convenience store in Benita springs Florida the winner has six months to come forward they could decide to take the full jackpot paid out over thirty years or do is I think you take a lump sum just under two hundred seventy five million dollars you'll still be okay with a lump sum you know the conventional wisdom was used to take the lump sum to save on taxes but because people spend it we've seen the horror stories of people winning millions but then being penniless at the end yeah so tell you got out right it's not allocated to where if that you know you only get asking on each year maybe budget helps you budget a little better religion with listing all do hire some attention please hire a you know an ounce and shut off your phone Hey remember me from elementary school way go
Top UN official in Mauritania dispels misconceptions over slavery, womens rights
"Supporting Mauritania's efforts to protect eastern border from jihadists and other destabilizing elements is just one aspect of the work in this quiet corner of North Africa. That's according to U N Resident Coordinator for Mauritania Anthony or Hemming Amar who oversees the organization's operations nations to help the country realise sustainable development economic growth and other goals. Mr Obama was in New York recently and spoke to Dan. Penn about UN assistance in Mauritania. And the need to clear the air over negative reports about slavery and gender equality. Most people don't hear much about Morton. Yeah of course. It's quiet and sometimes when we hear about more tedious usually mostly negative slavery. Those kinds of things. There are some transformative initiatives going on in the country which needs to be understood and also supported. And does this way you went comes in and before we begin maybe you can tell us a resin coordinator Benita. What exactly is that? What do you do there well us? The title indicates We coordinate the UN or personnel support to the country and We D- reforms. We also I also secretary general so we do take on issues that we didn't take on board previously like some of the political issues but the main focus is to make sure that the UN programming response today as DVD's in pefect alarming to support the government's priorities. Thank you very much. And you've mentioned the SDG's the sustainable development goals what are some of the major ones that Mauritania is working on. Mauritania is a very big country about one million square kilometers. Four point four million people. It's straddles the senator Gary of Abass. In all the way to the Suhel to the desert in the north there are four men issues I think that President Tool Martinez Development. In which you entrust to support one of them's the the whole security issue Martinis the Western Frontier Molly. So the jihadism terrorism We do provide support to make sure that at least Martinez offset bulwark to what is happening. And also to be able to influence positively. What is happening on this border The second bit is the holes social sector support programs that we bring to bear education health. National reconciliation those kinds of things. And then to Ed category is the government support and four elementary economics Davidge vacation Growth and obviously is equal distribution for every Mauritanian to also benefit from economic growth. I usually also talk about environment back. It's in a way President and all the foyer is that I mentioned The economic base is on the environment agriculture extract to use those things but yes environment is also a very important aspect of the UN support you mentioned the UN helping Mauritania to sort of be a bulwark against any sort of. I guess she had a store extremist elements. I guess coming from Mali or other parts of the Suhel is the country impacted as it is now by any terrorist activities No the last in fact terrorist incident. A country country is more than ten years old but since then the government actually adopted some what I call strategic interventions to make sure that doesn't happen again one of them is a decentralisation program does the president speaks about it most of the time that you know countries in that part of Africa have to bring seven assist population and to make depletion feel like they belong they have access to the administration dot com. Talk to people so education. Walter those kinds of things. You know Decentralized government systems and that is working obviously also beefed up security. If you hope you have on your student board which is under CVS security threats than you have to do something so they've also restarted the army. Let me to be able to respond to this kind of threats. And the ad I emphasise million economic development Mauritania depends on agriculture pastoralism. MM So whatever that could be done to make sure that dip with have some economic gains and not to think about terrorism that sort of thing so so fights nights working and because there's also small country Very strong social relationships networks which I also helps the citing keeping together and now at the outset you mentioned you know when I said American you. It's a quiet place we don't hear too much about it and you've mentioned in the past. It was about negative things. Maybe we can talk about but some of those in the steps of the country has taken or is taking together with the support of the UN in overcoming and continuing that progress on Fox walks. Can I think Research I saw a good opportunity to Claire on Mauritania. I think Mauritania is to be topical. Last which is the sub-regional grouping it was forced to leave because it was the only country. Eddie have laws against slavery But some of them it has get laws against livery and it has tribe NAS which track kisses that comes to his attention and that sort of thing so slavery something which is supported by state or institutions is not the case but obviously in in some of the media it's slavery pervades. What really is the issue in the country moment is the sequester slavery and you could could be free? But if you're comical independent on the person who used to own you of your sleep yongle five and so on and so forth and and so the government does acknowledges that There are some of these issues and the present government basically costs four. Aw Proletariat is to make sure that some of these things transformed emphasis on the governance rule of law areas Emphasis on national reconciliation emphasis assists on economic growth that benefits everybody and then obviously emphasis on social aspects and they have a big program Kota the moon. The moon base. Kelly's associate transfer Francois Program which the president has taken on more and essentially enlarging it to make sure that that autonomy that to break the links between former slaves and your masters could actually become a reality that being said of your sleep when you have the big country like Martina. There are certain things which will be happening and I saluted corners of the country. I think the. US government does report on slavery and trafficking some of these issues and Martinez. Three BIS scully. meaning that there are a lot of things to do that. I think the government is governed side of that. And it's doing what it can to make sure that it's in the good books good neighborliness with Yadda companies have conform to international norms. critise and everything that it has signed onto of course he one of the important areas for the UN in particular for the secretary general is gender equality and how is the country Fairing in that respect Dr West to go I think generally in Africa and I would even say generally around the world agenda qualities issue So when you have on Islamic republic which also fuses out say courtrai traditions. What some of the normative things that are required because as part of your body that you win you're allowed that it takes a little more time together but that being said I think The government US keen on making sure that they're supposed division Mauritania's hard women Republic in the sixties and so the question becomes really continuing that trend and making sure that you have woman in in good positions women who come to role models and and also to work on transforming also. I would say some of the mindsets that people do not just accept what Khartoum tradition sees so month's Roland also to compete in solve the modern spaces. It's happening it's happening very slowly. You went suppose that at advocacy or programs. We tried to do that. Also intensify recruitments We try to do that. Intensify intentioned programs in terms of talking to young female outdoors at schools a To let them understand what is available in the world. There is no law in Mauritania which prescribes women from ascribing to be anything including being the president. So it's just a metro for encouraging open indoors and providing them the avenues that will allow them to see that it can seize opportunities and just conform to traditional and Cortra- mindsets.
Activists Say Blame Over Migrant Caravan Distracts From Issues Of Violence, Poverty
"This message comes from NPR sponsored jet dot com with two day delivery, and no membership fees jet offers a tailored shopping experience that fits seamlessly into your daily life. Get started today by visiting jet dot com or downloading the jet app. Now, many of the migrants now travelling north originated in Honduras and journeys like that happen every year. But this group is far larger than most and it's field competing narratives about how it was organized. NPR's? Carrie Kahn reports many of the migrants say they heard about it on TV and social media and jumped at the chance to flee in the safety of numbers. Thirty four year old Zell Vasquez in our sister with seven kids between them stop to grab some free coffee and bread handed out by local residents in southern Mexico. They've been walking for days they heard about the hundreds leaving Honduras via social media last week grabbed a bus catching up with the caravan right before crossed into Guatemala. Adamo Benita and got up got me nine the FaceTime. We've been waiting months to join up with a caravan leaving says Vasquez, you said she wanted to flee Honduras after her husband was extorted and killed by gang members. She says there was no way she could pay smugglers thousands of dollars. And when she got a text on WhatsApp describing the size of this one. It seemed the safest way to go talking to migrants on the trek north you hear similar stories early in October. Flyers began circulating in the Honduran city of San Pedro Zula. The March north would leave from the city central bus station. Popular cable station. Eight C H went live from the bus station showing hundreds already lining up by telephones as a former legislator and human rights activists who put the original posters up says the TV shots were the best publicity, nor nor nor no you're how I never never imagined. So many people at join the caravan in that it will grow into the thousands as when days the president of under us as accused of receiving funds from Venezuela. Other officials have said Wednesday's is using the migrants to score political points back home. He denies all those claims. Pharrell would not keys to a London used this way. Way better affect the benthic forecast. Again, you just have to spend fifteen minutes with these people in you know, why they're fleeing. He says Rodolfo pastor compos is a spokesman for Honduras as main opposition party LeBron saying that behind the caravan are radical political interests leftists and criminal interests is grotesque and absurd. He says it's easier for the current government to blame the migrants them provide needed jobs, safety and freedom of political expression calls to the Honduran president spokesman were not answered and interview request of the hundred ambassador in Mexico was declined Carrie Kahn, NPR news, Mexico City support for this podcast and the following message. Come from internet essentials from Comcast. Connecting more than six million low income people to low cost high speed internet at home. So students are ready for homework class graduation and more. Now there.