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"ben higgins" Discussed on Bachelor Party
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"ben higgins" Discussed on The Viall Files
"Where I live? In, so she's like I'm going running. You want to join us, said sure and I'm sure as shit some. Somebody? Decided to take a photo of our backs. And it's one of those things like. Why do I even have to comment on this and? but yeah, no, not not not dinning, Andy, but welcome to her to La and. She seems to be doing great, and she's into the whole running thing and. And I've been running a lot lately and so yeah nicest and then like Demi. I mean. It was like dummy had a break and all of a sudden. It was like she didn't. Know, no, but sometimes when you go through, you know personal experiences, you you. Touch with friends. And then your friends like I'll be there for YA. You know and be friendly. Of. Yeah it's one of those things. Sometimes it gets frustrating, you know I guess it's I. Don't talk about my dating life too much so naturally. when I'm seen with other women who are friends there's always going to be speculation, and and I guess it is. It is what it is, but I am not dealing getting either of those two and I'm not going to be dating either of those two and quite frankly caught something. I can safely say. About anyone from the bachelor franchise, you know the great people I. Just don't i. don't see it in the cards, but yeah, I don't know if I I don't think I could ever say that enough where it will still never come up. On last night's episode, you know they kept like. For everybody. To Send people contestants, and they were still looking for casting people for Clare Season, but I also heard that they starting to film Clare Season, so it's kind of weird I'm like. Are they still really looking for people, or is this really looking for people for Matt James Because? They mentioned magic. As well I think the casting process as year round, twenty, four, seven, three sixty five type of thing right, they can never get too many. Submissions to try to find the right people for the show. So they're always going to promote it I. my guess is they probably have Clare Season pretty well cast, but there's always a chance for a last minute submission. You know if someone comes in hot ended. The perfect person I is. They'll figure out a way to get him on. Clare season, but yeah, it's nice to see that they're. Figuring out a way to. I'm guessing I still think it's GonNa be like all film that one single location. Really Yeah it's GonNa be on Tuesday nights now I guess because it's going to be aired during football season, so they don't really want to commute while they can. Offer, not only they can't can compete. They don't have the slot so. That'll be interesting. But you know Tuesday Monday whatever. And I. I think it's cool. I'm happy for Matt in the sense that like I think for the first time in a long time. They're GONNA be casting specifically for the person the lead. and that's just a benefit of them announcing him so early. Which I think is a good thing. I know like Rachel has questioned the timing. I even made it seem. Like I even said well. Hey, listen he. Seemed reactionary. But I guess my overall opinion of that is. It's has more to do like I've said before any criticism about the franchise in how they announced. That has more to do with what they do next. in terms of ongoing decisions that that lead to greater progress than than critiquing every little move move. They do in the present like a year from now seeing what happens a year from now like what what are they doing? What are they not doing? did they live up to the things that they said they were going to do. So I guess, we shall see nothing to riveting other than that hot gas wise. Let's, should we get? Some great I know. What a what a sweet man make sure to tune in tomorrow. We have fun episode. With a very funny and talented comedian Sarah Colona. We talked about Karen Culture. I thought Sarah great to chat about it. I've been fascinated by this kind of discussion this topic. We really just kind of explore it. We ask ourselves questions. We have a talk if I don't know if we figured it out. But you know if you if you've seen it on the Internet, and you're curious about it. Join US TOMORROW FOR A A. A discerning Shamsher episode discussion. That I. Don't forget to send your questions at Casper Dot. com cast with a K.. And Hey listen. I could use your reviews on itunes. It's been a little slow I don't know if you guys hate us, or or what, but you're I don't feel like a complementing. me as much and I am a mini. Does confidence. If you like Ben, go give us five stars in our policy. About that. And as always we do appreciate you guys when you promote us on your socials. It's something that does really beneficial to the show, and we re appreciate it so. Without further ADO. Let's get to Ben Higgins. How many people out there love their dogs right everybody everybody loves your dog like you love. 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"ben higgins" Discussed on The Viall Files
"Pretty good And because of this experience I've allowed a lot of people millions of people the ability to hurt me with just a few words if they wanted but with that I've also gained some strength in some some callous and confidence that it's not going to crush me but hey for anybody out there listening. You can still hurt me if that is what you're wanting to do during this issue. Yeah but I think it's just more more important to remember that like hat's that's kind of everybody right like You know even your best friends or your spouse or whatever or and I think that's when we struggle with the most is when we are honest with ourselves in having these feelings about people you're like why did I feel this way. You know like you said it's not the you don't have an animosity towards person. You love this person you like them you wish them success and sometimes our own egos are selfishness and insecurities will will bring out the worst as you say desires that makes us like almost feel dirty inside for for even thinking about it let alone saying it. Yeah no you're right in to finish your point. There is one of the things I as I talked about like lessons in life when I've envied Oftentimes when say a Knick you would land a Gig that I really wish I would have had that I was up for and give it to you I sit at home and a mad and angry and I'm sad and coming up with a thousand excuses and then you get the Gig and I see either one. How well it fit you and how bad it would felt fit me and I say this as an example of kind of life and I mean and it works both ways with you and then I mean you know nick. Nick is out there often. I told him this. Last time I saw a Texan every once in a while I was like feels like you're thriving and she moments. I texted at one point. I was on a tour bus driving through like some godforsaken town that nobody ever visits. And I'm performing to an audience of people that will never see again. And it's like man it feels like you are thriving and I'm living on a tour bus in like I haven't slept in two weeks so like that that thing and then or the other side of that is you see. Maybe that like how your life was better because you didn't get the GIG or maybe you didn't get the opportunity. How opened up you for new opportunities. And so I just say say make sense over time and if we step in every time we feel envious thinking we know best best. We're going to quickly be wrong And I'm starting to try to get better. Yeah that's A. That's a great point in terms of the the the cliche line of unanswered prayers or things like that Letting things away let things work themselves out. But you're right I mean you're right they're even Even the bachelor live show for example like there was definitely some envy I mean. The truth is I don't know if I would have wanted it or liked it. But what bothered me is like? I wasn't even asked her out but it was like you want to be wanted. It's it's so petty that we have these feelings sometimes and anger right like you realize like no that does make sense. He's really good at that like he thrives atmosphere and then it's you know. The grass is always greener inches. It's sometimes nice to talk about it and share it and put it out there. I think just because everyone has these feelings in its I will say like. I don't know let me ask you this like when when you hear something from me saying on man like that really bothered me like when when you are vulnerable with me and you tell me that you are struggling at. I feel bad but it makes me feel better because if make it makes me feel like I'm not alone. No but that's it. You just said it like I think when vulnerability exists. I'm believing in the last year that that are true. Connection Point as people is shared pains like we've all had a painter disappointment so when you share a pain with me I believe I can connect with you and enjoy you more than if you just continue to brag about to me. About how many great things you're doing in life because one I'll probably believe that you're thriving and I'll be like look at my own life and be like I mean I feel like I'm doing alright like I feel like I'm good. I'm engaged. I'm super happy about that. Life is full of so much joy. I'm unemployed like the tour that I was doing no longer exists. So I'm now podcast a podcast but yeah when we when. We share our vulnerabilities and pains and insecurities. I think. I almost think it might be impossible. If you're a decent human to look across the table and not say I feel a little bit better because I've just realized how wrong I was. And now it's freedom in knowing that. I'm not alone and I'm F- There's freedom and knowing that we're all in this together and there's freedom and knowing that I'm not missing the mark by not feeling completely at peace or completely on top all the time. Ben Enjoy my screwball peanut butter whiskey from the comfort of my own. I tell you what good I've had a bit of a sweet tooth recently. I've been mixing my whiskey with ice cream. What a treat so I have dessert and you know I get a little loose. I guess you can say Zuma game nights you're doing another cool thing is they created this campaign called Screw Cova nineteen and they donated a ton of money to all these organizations that are helping people survive this crisis..
"ben higgins" Discussed on The Viall Files
"Endured both from just being on the show and our personalities and it's kind of funny because I know people look at you is kind of it's very polished person and very put together and the charmed lives but you're an example of someone who like everyone else has their own insecurities and struggles and it's always kind of. It's always kind of funny when you even for me. Sometimes I will like. I'll look at you when we talk and like I sometimes will be envious of you I'll even have jealousy of you in terms of like comparing your time in the show or my time on the show and it's just it's always kind of like every time I talk to. You sometimes a a great reminder humbling experience everyone has their own problems and I was wondering if you could just kind of share that with a little bit in terms of some of the things that you talk about in struggle with and despite all the things that you're doing You know we. We all have our struggles. Yeah that's a you make a great point and it you have always been a unique outlet to talk about those things with It takes a I think a great big it takes comfort safety and person to be able to sit across the table and say yeah like struggle like that doesn't happen very often in life and typically in my life that either happens with my therapist or like Jessica it. You know it doesn't. It's not a common conversation but One of the things that you know we talk about often is the MVP's like Gosh. It is it is a weakness mine and I don't say weakness in terms of like. Oh this is my week like my problem. I take it lightly no like envy as a constant battle with me. I am envious all the time. I have to battle like I. My mind can go to some pretty dark places especially when I'm living in the midst of envy like if I look on my instagram and I see somebody thriving I would hate for the world to see some of the thoughts that go through my head. It is it is ugly it is Disgusting. It is bad in the truth of it is. I've acted on that. Envy one point some points and it never ends well and so I think I've just learned you relearn example. I think I think mostly dismissing people. I think mostly just seeing something on social media and dismissing them as a as a innocence as a person or dismissing their happiness or saying. I wish they weren't happy and then I meet them in person. I sit across the table from him and I hear their story. And I'm like no no no that how wrong you were to assume that everything was perfect or if it was perfect how about you. Start celebrating the fact that for the first time in years. They're happy and they're finding joy in life like how cruelly it to be specific examples mostly honestly. I'd probably try to block out because I'm embarrassed of them but I think that is one thing and I could go on and on and on about how envy's affected me but from lessons learned in my life. And how wrong? I've been so often. I know that my first response to envy now as soon try to find a way to get rid of it because acting on it or pursuing it has never been healthy or helpful for me so the the second thing is in an. I don't know I mean I'm it's better than the opposite. I would say But I don't know the exact reasoning for why people assume like perfection and me. I mean the showed hasn't helped me. Write the tagline was the perfect been That's great but it definitely sets you. It's better than it's better than four times. A Charm Ben. Oh Yeah I mean. I'm not mad about it but it is it. Is Nick like this interesting thing? Where like I'm glad it's. I'm glad that people like presume like Polish nece. I guess but I also struggle with that because it's not who I am. It's not who I WANNA be. It's it's it's it's it's hard on me to keep up with and if I try to keep up with it feels fake because it's not it's not me it never has been how long. How long do you feel like you were trying to keep up with it from when you were on Caitlyn season and most specifically you know when you were the bachelor because you know the expectation caitlyn season? It was like everyone loved you. You were great. And then they kind of gave you the expectation of being perfect and then you know. It's we all here you know. Praise and criticism from fans. And and I'm I'm a big believer that the praise actually Hurts you more in the long run then criticism but Do you feel like you for a long time. We're trying to live up to those expectations. I mean I think yes I think I still do in a sense of Again if I if we go back to what we started with here. It's assuming that every person stories matters and so if I go into every conversation every interaction with the curiosity of hey I just want to hear who you are and I want to respond to who you are then. People are going to leave that going. Oh Wow he's a nice guy or hey he cares or whatever other words you're gonNA throw to that that's great and I hope to always keep that up and I hope to always have that you know desire the the second thing that is. I remember the moment where I said. Screw it like. I know what like what I want to be doing and I'm gonNA pursue it passionately. One of that is after a break-up you kinda like throw everything out and you're like screw it. I'm just GonNa do what I WANNA do now. And that's when you know generous coffee started. And it's it's where I left my software job and I took some risks in life and I said I'm just GonNa go do this thing and see where it takes him to be a rebel without a cause. The second is I when I posted you like that. It's not without Gaza's opening shop. That's I was in high and I took a picture in a community and we are raising money to develop a pig project. We'RE GONNA raise pigs sell pigs for women to have jobs in this community. I get that as a little controversial for some but I posted about this and the response was incredibly negative Why I mean because people didn't like the idea that pigs are going to be sold for slaughter and people didn't understand the depravity in poverty that existed within Honduras and how crucial this kind of work is to keep them fed into keep them having any job at all and I remember at that time being really pissed off because I was like you have like wanting to yell at everybody. That was commenting like you have no idea what you're talking about. Because they really did it and they still didn't it and the second is hey I have prayed through. This meditated through this I know that jobs for women in these communities is right and I know this is one of the only options to provide that. We've weighed the pros and the cons And I believe this the right thing and so I'm going to stop worrying so much about you. Know maybe getting everybody on my team for the common good and saying I'm going to try my best. Even though I know I'm GONNA mess up to pursue the right thing the best I know how and so. That's what I gave up. You know really worrying about the public opinion is still is still a lens that I process things through like if somebody calls me boring and bland like I get it. I get why you're saying Matt. I understand that about myself up process that but it's not gonNa Affect me. Maybe like it used to does that. It's right and we've talked about this. When people will comment Oh Benz born. Does that bothers you? Oh I mean yes. It's still bothers me today. Like especially if it's somebody that I love and care about and that knows me like they you know. Sometimes you have a friend that says something that they don't even know they're saying friends. Say THIS DEAL. Yeah you definitely some of the hardest. Things have been when friends say things to you about your show or about you as a person or maybe you didn't interview or you know maybe for example. I'VE BEEN IN LA NOT DENVER for too long. And I come back in a friend throws a jab at me about that like how I've been gone in how it's finally catching up with me like that stuff. That's Oh it's just like oh you're different. That's yeah we it. It takes a certain person to say that to you. But you're right. I certain people your Slyke you get i. I get very defensive about stuff like definitely and it stings. The initial blow hurts And I'm trying to develop the skill set to process it through a lens and take a deep breath and obviously having my life helps because then I can call her and be like you'll this person said this is it true. Is it not or can call my my parents and process it through them. People that I know have my best interests and typically you know we come out on the other side just fine but yeah it does. Her still hurts has not stopped hurting business. Owner you're in Honduras. You're like on tour. I don't see how that's boring but I guess that's just me very non boring. We all have our our our scars. It was fun. I remember being in Vegas with you and like this person to back to back and it was. It was nice to see it happen to you because like I like. We talked about envy like I have gotten envious of you all the time. I mean I have multiple times been on the phone with a bachelor producer. Who knows what the context says or what. The conversation is but I've said multiple times. It's this like I know. I'm not fucking Ben Higgins but like what the fuck you know like. I'll be like bitching about something and like usually it's out of context but there's often this jealousy or envy and it's usually in my own head because I have a great relationship with them about like this. You know how everyone loves bed. You know and like when I'm at my weakest or I'm at my most vulnerable like I'll like you're like this. I love you but sometimes you're my own demons punching bag for being like well. I know I can't. I know I'm not bad. You know I'd do it. I'll do it all the time. Isn't it weird? How that happens though. Because it's not like you and I had a disagreement or contentious moment in our friendship and it's not like hasn't been space for the both of us but let's use you and is an example and then also expand that to that still happens today with people that are on the show or maybe not even on the show but like maybe they've gotten a GIG that I've wanted or something like that and like when I met my weakest or I'm hurt like that is a response that I have and if you break it all down you come from like the view looking up topics like well. Why like what is what are we trying to do their ultimately nick? I don't WanNa see you suffer. I know you don't WanNa see me suffer. We Wanna see each other do well but yet there is that poll to like also have a lot envy and saying. Why can't it be me a? Why can't I be that now? Now totally and it's I don't know why I wish it was easier to explain. It's ego I mean. We're all victims of own ego and I think it's it's nice to hear you being open about it just because because of how people do perceive you right and a positive way but you know we we we have these moments of weaknesses and I it was. I remember being in Vegas and it was like it'll happen to me and like what will happen is like when a fan comes up to me and for whatever reason when they try to relate to me they want me to know that there are a fan and the way they do this is by and they don't mean to criticize me but they'll be like I never hated you. I know a lot of people I like you. And then I witnessed like moments later some fan going up to you in saying. I never thought you were boring. Like I've always thought you were great and that was like it's like you like and then like I saw the looking your face and it was like the same feeling I have. It was like why. Why are you going to say that to me? Because all I'm thinking about is wait. I didn't think people still hated me. Or you're like I didn't think people thought I was boring. You know like and it's funny. How it and it's scratches at like the SCAB or the scar. Whatever but it really does. Yeah you're not wrong. I mean that that is a common that is not an unfamiliar feeling. If you WANNA hurt me I've always told everybody it's pretty easy like it. I'm not super human. You could hurt me pretty easy..
"ben higgins" Discussed on The Viall Files
"What's up everybody happy Wednesday? Welcome to another episode of the vowel files. I'm here in the comfort of my home. Joined by WHO is also at home. Are you doing? I'm good. How are you? I'm fine but you know. Keep on trucking with We'll just get right to the action. great episode today My dear friend Ben Higgins Joins me I've been meaning to have been on for some time Was hoping to do it In the obviously La when we were record live but Obviously ben doesn't live in La and so it's been a challenge scheduling lies scheduling wise. So while most things are a struggle due to our `isolation sometimes says allowed us to get some guests on that Are Out of town like Jason before and so ben joins us. I hope you guys really enjoyed. I think it was great to talk to bad. We talk about a lot of interesting things. I see him and his new engagement spends relationship. You guys friends and Caitlyn season Yeah I mean it was one of those things where Ben was always very nice to me and Ben and I had some really great one on one conversation. Ben was also really close with Sean. I was just the outside. I was like it was almost like you know for jared and Ben were very similar where there are very nice to be there. Just cool guys but it was almost like they felt like this loyalty to Sean and therefore it was like it just I just. I was the loner and they never like they were very cool with me but it was more like. It was pretty clear where their loyalties lied in that moment and that was as they were a twelve days that I wasn't there filming which is a lot in that world they just were close with. Sean. I mean Ben. Lived with Sean. I mean Ben was roommates with Sean and therefore I felt that the whole time but I definitely had like Ben and I had some great conversations and it was definitely a foundation for Friendship. That took off after the show. Where you like. What were your feelings? When he was named the Bachelor I mean I was supportive of them because like I at after Caitlyn season there was definitely some conversations of me being the bachelor mostly based off the fact that I was a two-term runner up so I like I had the story but it was always bad and I was fully. I was fully aware that it was like it was like if ben gets by a boss. We might make you the Bachelor highbrow I I had no like delusions that I was really seriously being considered and so it wasn't like a major disappointment when Ben was selected. So was happy for him. I thought it was. It was great Any envy I felt was more like on the obvious like for me. At that time I felt like I had gone through so much bullshit through the past two seasons and for me it felt like being named the bachelor would have been some sort of like you. That's why I felt personally not that I deserved it. But it was like this fucking sucked. You know like this. This dog shit like I didn't really do it especially for Ceylan. I did not go back to be the bachelor but after she broke up with me it was like well fuck it you know like. I want something to come from this. And so there's a little bit of that but not not much but you had known at the time odd past who. Yeah who would have thought but honestly like Ben said like. I'm glad that it happened when I did. I'm much I'm way more thankful. I became the Bachelor after Paradise Africa. I don't think that would But Yeah I have great conversation with Ben. I hope you guys enjoy it as always thank you for listening..
"ben higgins" Discussed on Bachelor Happy Hour with Rachel & Ali – The Official Bachelor Podcast
"We see something that to my knowledge I have never seen before? No plot twist talk to on one which I don't even think to on one hand a B season two on one at a cocktail party. I thought this was genius. You know what thank you bastard producers. Let's streamline remind this process we don't need a whole damn date for this. Let's just do it at a cocktail party. I will say I would have loved having the twenty one at a cocktail party I would. You don't need a full day and unusually when you pick a two on one you Kinda know the two people like They're probably GonNa go home like let's be honest we've seen it have multiple times for both people end up going home so you I mean I watched it knowing like okay. Yes he gave McKenna the the rose but is like she's not sticking around you you can sense it and and the the moment where you see the girls the two girls walk in and sit on the couch. I felt like I was watching the Telenovela once again. I was like they're gonNA start spoon. Byun out their scripts and and that's what it felt like. I felt like I was transported back to their group date because it was just so awkward clearly between them they just just like McKenna talks about you know love winds and kindness and she stronger and then Tammy's just not really saying much at that point and I it was just one one a big mess. One big mess it was I. I loved how it was set up. I am proud of McKenna for standing up for herself against Tammy because Tammy's tough uh-huh tammy stuff so I was. I was happy that she stood her ground. She said her apiece and it worked for her. And Peter Said Trust McKenna over taming instant. Tammy home now. This is what so sad to me. Tammi Mana comment when she was going home and said that he just wants a trophy wife and I'm not a trophy wife. That hurt me to hear. Tammy say that because I understood Tammy after once. She made that comment. I understood her entire actions through this entire process. She's extremely extremely insecure. She is confident and she's got her job at she's in bishops and all of that but she's got some serious insecurities when comparing herself self to the other women and she even said. I guess he wants that Blonde. Something trophy it. Let me know that probably growing up. She has compared herself. Alf Two women. That don't look like her and she felt like a minority in the house which she is and she felt like I felt like the younger self in her was coming coming out when she was making those comments in the car and it was actually really really sad for me to watch because I think Tammy is so beautiful. And she has so much going for and it just seems and I said this when I was on Nixon the house brings out the best or the worst in yes and it seems like you're really brought out the worst in Tammy and she just fell victim to her insecurity already. So I if Tammy listen star as I want her to know that she you are so beautiful you are so have so many things going for. You don't feel like you have to compare yourself off to what a a stereotypical version of what beauty is. Beauty is so many different things beauty's in the eye of the beholder at I want her to know this. She's a beautiful person and it was so sad for me to sit there and watch that. Peter didn't send you home because US didn't have blonde hair. Peterson you home. Because you lost your sit in for the other girls and in that moment to is kind of sad because she doesn't have to get along and she doesn't have to be best best friends with the remaining girls like no one is saying that but but it kind of degrades other women that are still there and in that moment it was tough I will say okay though. I still have hope for Tammy. I would love to see her in paradise but like I want her to have that redemption story. I want her to maybe form better friendships there. Then she could on this season because I like you said I think she kind of spiraled out at the very end when she knew it wasn't her So maybe we will. Maybe we'll see more of her and and she can have that redemption. Sorry if you want to call it that yeah I mean listen she can only go up from here and hopefully that happens happens. Term Paradise with some other bats franchise show or just over it. I I don't think she is but we have. The rose ceremony and I was shocked. Shocked by these eliminations did like I didn't know who was on the chopping block. I thought maybe it was should just because Tasha hasn't had one on one. It's where he hasn't been able to grow his relationship with her but then he reassures her in that private time so I thought okay girl Tasha. She's going to be saying and she is but he's in. Sydney was surprised that that one now but we said Ed Sydney and him have a physical relationship and there doesn't seem to be much depth seems to be a running theme with several of the women here but obviously that was the case because he sends is our home and yes. And that's that's the only thing I can think of is that he had this moment where he of course you have to compartmentalize all the relationships and tear them out in a way but I think he realized like She's beautiful. I'm super attracted to her. We have this chemistry. She's this amazing kisser. But what's beyond that and I and I would love to ask pick his brain. I can only assume from everything we've saw that that's what it was but hit it and quit. Sadly McKinnon Sydney are no more get begin girl girl. I feel sorry for you because Peter gave you false. Hope but girl. You knew you weren't going far past that two on one right. It was the end of the road. I thought he was going to cut on both in that. Two one to be honest yet. No no no it was the it was the end of the row poor McKenna and it's the end of the road for our recap as well so so. Let's get to our cats and rats of the week. There are some cats and rats. Okay so my cat for the week is McKenna. Even though she went home I was really really proud to see her stand up for herself. I thought what she said when she went home was beautiful she really seems to have found her voice. Even though it's it's sad because it's late that was the end. That was the last thing we were going to hear from her. At least on Peter Season but I was proud of her. I like to see people stand up for themselves and right. I mean it's gotta go to Tammy it's hate me. You know. She lost herself. I feel bad again was said what I said and I manage it but she really had it in for preying on certain people and I didn't like that side of her so I agree I would. I would agree with both of those I would also say just just because it gave me some comedic relief My cat was Kelly as the a boiler get Kelly was that was good. She did well. She nailed that role. And then my right I would say Tammy. It was just as much as I wanted her to. Not Be you know we sat go down. We saw the drama. We saw her kind of spiral out. So hopefully again paradise that Redemption Redemption Story. I'd love to see some more of her. We used to love Tammy Till USA love. Tammy much hope. Let's poor one out for Tammy and McKenna all right so next week. It's looking like it's GonNa be good these previous. Don't you feel this week this season more than ever the preview hanging on the end of their CBS. Or your seat your seat Garrett and they were watching the preview together and he's like he's literally grabbing my legs and squeezed like Oh my gosh. What what what? What he's waiting this is garrison? He's waiting for the moment when barb comes back on when she's like spring her home to us like that's what he's a coup talking. We know when that's coming that's going to be the last episode. Yeah go back. A that was a lot to digest. You had your notes we had opinions. We had an outline. We had a lot to get into but we have been waiting on the line. We have the wonderful Mr Ben Higgins your first time on this show. Yeah first time guest. It's not first time caller big fans of you both CIA. Flattery will get you far. Appreciate.
"ben higgins" Discussed on Bachelor Happy Hour with Rachel & Ali – The Official Bachelor Podcast
"Is Right there. Two girls fighting yet. Yeah Tammy and McKenna on society just poor McKenna that's that's all I have to say about McCain. Tammy knows exactly what she's doing but the real drama was is Victoria now. I was proud of Peter. This is a proud moment. I was too first time that I've seen him be really matter of fact. Act about something I told you I Victoria. P there was always something that was just little off to me called it when it comes to her and I don't think I think Peter later in the moment okay sends delay home all right fine. I still got Victoria Pier. I think he went back and really processed. What happened and thought about it? Because from the moment he sat down with her he was not into her. No not into it. Not like what we've seen with him and her in the pat and I kind of wished he would have addressed that I he he just this kept saying. Do you see a future. I don't see you as my wife but I wanted him to be more confrontational. I wanted him to say. Let me tell you why I don't see you as my wife. It's because of how you handled this situation or because I just don't trust you trust you. And that's not what he really did. But I am happy but I'm GONNA give it to him. He said her home. Yes US and and people watching can say we'll go. He sent away a home last week before the rose ceremony but had all of the women not called him out and address it and told him their frustration where there was. I think he would have kept delay around some glad that he finally did this on his own own terms. I think he needed it. I think that I have okay. My problem with Victoria p another. I have a problem but I just I felt like okay. We've seen it season after season. Where clearly doesn't work out the lead always walks you out? They give you that respect to say goodbye. You kind of talk it out you. You have that moment I always have a problem where somebody is like better than that. And they're like no I don't need you I don't need your help. I find it so Chris Random. My season said that to me I was like well walk you out. Even we're not working out like I'm still going to respect you and the time that you put on the show you don't WanNA walk him out. That's just part of the show. So why do I wanted him to go so I could go to sleep. That's that's like I guess and I. I definitely wanted to finish your point but it's kind of like what's so disrespectful into what you're saying. I don't even really WANNA walk you out. I'm trying to be nice. Yeah at least accept me being And she and we saw like in that moment that switch where maybe it was like a her guard went up and it was just a waste so she doesn't feel about hurting that pain in front of him. But I just like Peter is still like even though it's not working on. He's still trying to respect. Do He's still trying to be that gentleman. Walk you and see you out and give you that closure a little bit and in that moment you saw something switch where she's like. I'm not having this like I can walk myself out. She's locking in front of him. I don't know it just it really rubbed me the wrong way and we all go into this show knowing knowing that there's only going to be one and so the odds really aren't probably in your favor So in that instance I was like okay. Look we're seeing a new side to her. been and seeing it I call it. I really have needless to say. I am glad Victoria. PS home and it's giving me promise that Peter is starting to eliminate the drama Emma and focus on some of the more serious relationships and I think that that's the point of the season that we're in. Are you tired of spending so much time and money honey. Coloring your hair at the salon. Listen I was too and that's why I decided to try Madison Reed. Madison Reed is so convenient. They deliver it right to your door on your schedule. Whenever you're ready you can color your hair under an hour and the best part is that I can do it at home while I'm sending emails or watching TV? Or whatever. I WANNA do basically league multitask plus the horrible hair color smell that you always get at the salon. Guess what Madison re doesn't smell at. All I took the Madison Reed color quiz to find my.
"ben higgins" Discussed on How Men Think with Brooks Laich & Gavin DeGraw
"Plus I'm Emily Dickinson one purpose is to become a great writer I'm a bill just like a woman should receive an education but should not be the same as a man afraid they're scared that if they teach us how the world works figure out how to take over uh-huh and there's nothing you can do to stop Hailee Steinfeld is Dickinson on Apple TV plus opened the apple TV APP to start start watching now subscription required man those are awesome been appreciate you hanging out and those are some questions the tough questions are the best part man thanks let me be a part of this and I think this podcast is doing run in will do great things for a lot of people trying to try and dig in deep and now we have some guests with us the reason we're here is because they have a new APP seen dating that put us here we have some guests Jo and Kendall in the house hey no I don't want to be part of that is I mean I'd be I I I met so many awesome people that are part of the Bachelor family and I watched the show my wife sometimes hosts bachelor viewing parties also we watched showing Julia watched you on dancing with the stars how is that it was it was a rough experience but it was wonderful at the same time I it wasn't the best answer bought it's I grew at the answer you know and I and I say this like I've I'm professionally trained now so when I go anywhere you're I'm probably the best answer training that anybody how's your wife working on the show at that point no but my my brother-in-law's girlfriend Hayley was on the show yeah so yeah I would love to try that though I've wanted to dance I actually bought a dance DVD before I even even met my wife to try and learn how to dance now we've been together six years and I still haven't learned competition joe tonight no she hasn't even for our wedding I didn't even get John Really is for our wedding so I mean you you don't know how to dance I don't brother I don't know how to dance who joined the club yeah let's talk about your new dating APP because a a lot of our community we get a lot of Tory we get a lot of dating questions our community wants to know about dating so you guys have a new dating app called seen dating eighty yeah so seen dating is pretty much transparent dating and what I mean by that is that all of your messages and all of your video chat so you have with people people on the APP are actually public for everybody to view that's using the APP so if the kindle if you guys say you guys are just like you're on the APP for the first time you guys would have a conversation on video and Bannon I could tune in so anybody on the APP can see everyone else's conversations and what we've found is that the more public conversations are the more people people are there for the quote unquote right reasons there's no ghosting there's no unsightly pictures that are sent Enjoyed I ever had a lot of experience and a lot of people in the bachelor have had a lot of experience with public dating and dating that other people can see and for us I just I felt like it was being transparent however dating it I think it has helped our relationships so much with the honesty part of it and transparency yeah I agree and I it's an APP for people that actually want to meet someone seriously and want to date seriously opposed to randomly hooking up or just I putting yourself out there wanted to get followers or whatever this is for people that aren't scared to show who they are you know and they're not trying to hide hide behind the fake profile or catfish or whatever you call it these days but let's say let's say I'm watching a date and I like the girl can I somehow get in touch with her say like hey get rid of this guy come talk to me like how does that happen I mean definitely I mean as long as you're still in the APP they have to be polite you can't in the middle of the conversation Buzz Fair in love and war so you know you gotta get the person you're meant to be with but the cool thing is that they have the swiping element to it so just like a traditional dating dating app you can swipe but also you can see other people's profiles anyone's profile so even if you're a private private profiles even if you're a girl looking for a guy you can still see other girl profiles crate friendships with the other girls in the APP and Yeah Talk to pretty much anybody would you all see is the downside to this because I'm I'm reading this and this is also my brain I typically get really excited about like kind of far out there ideas that could actually work and I can see where this could work it eliminates a lot of the things that are issues dating today the ghosting being the kind of a aggressive pictures and stuff what are the downsides to this I well I think it's you know I'm naturally a shy person okay so I think it's trying to over its its overcoming that right right because you're going to have a conversation and other people are going to see it but once you break that barrier then it's it's freeing I mean that's what the bachelor did for me because I was shy and it was hard but once I was actually out there for the public to see it was like Oh this isn't a big deal find strength and vulnerability is so I feel like I mean at least for Joe's my relationship this is now the longest relationship ever had and I feel like that has a large part of that has to do with the fact that it was so public and I was forced to be honest upfront with my feeling so quickly and you know.
"ben higgins" Discussed on How Men Think with Brooks Laich & Gavin DeGraw
"The ice and you guys started throwing punches and knock you down you never got up and went hey same team battle my own team arguments with my own team yeah this there's an interesting so this is the Ben what you got here oh I think here's the here's the part of it each each relationship is unique in its own way I think we're getting to the topics that make this podcast incredibly unique and compelling which are is con- this its core conflict resolution so each person deals with conflict flicked differently and for Brooks because of his background how he's raised his career it works I think I'm hearing it works for you to associated with the team we're in this together let's settle the score for the other it's just let's confront it let's dive in headfirst because we know at the end of this we're going to get out of it it might get really ugly it might not always be navigating the right direction tempers may get high but at the end of it the the idea of being on the same team is always there it just it doesn't said because for a little bit of time I really don't like you but I love you I think we're Dimitri in are coming from is we don't need to say because we already know that we're on the same team with that person but also I'm an emotional person I'm Greek I get heated I can't tell you same team I have to be like listen I have to blow up my steam I let he's just say what I have to say well I'll vent you'll vance and noble reset or you just you just texture and say hey hey I just made appointment with a therapist Thursday at two o'clock to meet your question for you when you say you need to vent what will be your tone is it going to be like you just need to say what you need to say or do you need to like say say it the way you need to say it I mean it depends on what it is I never get to like a screaming I can't thank you but there are times I will I will get heated and I'll we know you're not I'll give you an example you know you're not listening to the point is what I'm saying is that you say same team I can't be on the same team right now that's me getting heated okay thank you for this that's the best part about this podcast conversations like this because you can have safe place not everybody can have these so conversation appreciate your brother appreciate the plugs you throw in for how men think by the way I feel like we are on the team with Ben this is nice welcome anytime the RSP easy old wise this is so easy when gas on here because Gavin just be stirred grizzled because Gavin Single Gavin's full on single so he's he's like this marriage thing it doesn't sound so good to me I think I gotTa go to Vegas take whatever you get our checks okay more your questions she's gotTa take a quick break and then we'll get back with more of your questions when you're selling online getting orders out can be the real pain super paid time consuming expensive so many carriers to choose from how do you know you're making the best choice well.
"ben higgins" Discussed on How Men Think with Brooks Laich & Gavin DeGraw
"Welcome somebody that's GonNa give us the other side of female insight to this our good a friend Katie Mo is here she's just she's like no you guys are all wrong Katie Mo- what's up how do you look at this question from Janna well hey guys so I'm looking at this question and you're right there's so many layers to it ultimately she she was flat out wanting to be a priority in his life and he saying you're not no he saying I wanNA be friends and I've I've had guy friends I've always been a guy's girl for the most part I've been to my guy friends houses when I was in high school I don't know I don't know the age of this person but when I was in high school I've I've been to you know a Thanksgiving celebration like an early Thanksgiving with a guy friend or something and it was just friends I think they're just on two different pages intercommunication thing one hundred percent and also have they hooked up I want to know the details of this release use visit they haven't hooked up they definitely earlier just friends but if they have a complicated more that's a great point then yes but here's here's the thing she says I told him I deserve to be a priority hundred percent percent you deserve to be a priority and if you're not with him then he's not the one so you'll find the person that you'll be the priority with the part that scares me that I feel badly for I did I just scare him about the future she's already blaming herself she's like did I mess this up that I were he and I are going to be saying then I asked about it and then he decided just to be friends that's not the case if he wants to be friends he's going to say let's be friends if he wants to be more he's going to say that but don't go into did I just throw this whole perfect thing off track because because I asked about us there's nothing wrong with asking about where you stand right that's just good communication skills and honestly if he's not going to prioritize her as more than a friend she should either be accepting of just being friends or move on very well said we're gonNA move onto the next question very well said Katie that's why we have you on here you have the best boots in the tire now thank you never win Benson he's comfortable shoes off ah guys sporting socks at least she has shoes next question is from Mary Beth thank you Mary Beth for this question to the he married Guy Asleep over here with you two questions who married guys giving the wind's blowing here we go you guys all sound so in touch with your families you work hard hard you cook you clean your clothes with your kids what do you and your spouse fight about so if life is good right it's good life you have a good marriage good relationship what fight about refer I'll tell you know we we fight about finances I live a little more free like oh out don't worry about it we want this let's do this let's do this we'll things will work itself out and my wife is a little a lot more business oriented she went to business and she's he's like well and she like will make a spreadsheet and she'll figure stuff I'll be like well we can do this but in three years it could be this and I'm like let's just like so we it's not that they're knock down drag drag out fights but we we argue about money and and how we're spending it is about like I mean we we clean up after each other in the house but like Nick Clutter in the sense of there's like little we've obviously the kids around there's like key chains backpacks and whatever and it's like see something I'll put the shoes or the backpacks on the stairs and it's like you take it back take it up when you go upstairs right or go put it away well it's like you'll walk by four times without without just like dealing with it so like my my argument to her what we kind of argue about which isn't the end of the world but is like hey why don't you just take that up why can't you just put their clothes away why can't you just put the back in the garage while you're going down to the garage anyway or whatever that may be you know it's like so those are the things that we sort of fight about obviously more serious note with Dmitri is is finances and but I get on with that clutter to we have the same thing and it's like it drives me because the kids leave stuff crazy the problem is so every once in a while and I'm GonNa get killed for saying this but like you want okay great protect thank you this is a safe sometimes my wife will leave stuff enough and it's just like like nothing drives me more nothing like eating opening up like a lifesaver whatever leaving the rapper there's like just throw it right there just throw it out you don't have to worry about it later and so the kids so so she's she's not like the kids just leave though but she every once in a while we'll do stuff and I feel bad but sometimes they'll be like hey who which one of you is this and the kids will know and I'll be like and she'll she'll know then she'll be like oh yeah it was so it's kind of thing it's like you're taking care of three kids or five kids in your case and mine with my wife mine is it's about time so I'm sure it's about like my wife works very hard and I admire her for work ethic but sometimes it's too much and I'm like I want to spend time with you like my tank is low I wanna see like I know you want to do this out of that like you could have done that work earlier in in the day or like I don't know just too many things like learn having her say no to some things I try and complete my by five o'clock so at five o'clock I'm often on on family time that's her dog like time with her friends like I'm not email in I'm not doing anything after five o'clock and she will push past that well past that and so time is the one that I kind of our and I think the other thing when once you have kids brooks is is having those kids and how are you dealing with those kids like my my son is he's falling back in a little bit of a couple of courses at school and so we're like okay so what's the what's the strategy here so it's getting on the same page with your wife what strategy do we take away his phone do we make them come home school and then work on a school until he's done with that and then let him go out with his friends or whatever and so like the other day classic example we kind of hammer down on them and was like okay come home at four thirty you're going to give us your phone any devices you're going to work until six we're gonNA eat dinner and then at eight thirty you can check your phone for a half an hour we'll like it just happened to be that day where I came home we didn't have anything to do and he had no homework and so she was like well just you can be on your phone until till five thirty you know and it was like we immediately broke the rule like the what we put in place and so it's like you need to be on the same page and that's what we fight our mike why are we breaking the rule well if you're you know why have the rules if you're going to break them on the very first day or the second day it's a so those are those are things with kids becomes complex so I want to go one step further here now from my own interests so if you see these things that are like annoyances to your they kind of get into your skin how then in a marriage or any relationship do you bring them up is there an appropriate way do you go do you do you get you kind of build a callous yourself say you know what I'm just let this go or do you how do you approach approach you one you pick your battles so is it worth fighting with for that one right there you know in the kids are home and is it worth it or do you let it go and say okay let's see what happens tomorrow that's what I do it's kind of pick your battle how important is that topic or that battle for you right now Brooks's away so that's that's a dance man it and you're dating bet your wonderful girlfriend that's a dance that you just kinda learn over time you learn a the give and take of that it's communication and and my wife kind of it's not a system but my wife and I have found a couple tools is almost two to navigate that kind of water and will lead with this this is we lead with this sometimes when we're about to say something to the other person that might be jarring jarring to them I'll just say softly like same team like we're on the same team I'm on your team to say same team but this is is happening and it's making me feel this and so whenever we say that's kind of a code word for US same team means you just laugh it works it's like and also we almost challenge each other we challenge each other and almost compete with each other in our relationship to see who can listen and understand so I have a friend that show him and his wife challenge each other to see who could be the first to apologize it's putting the other person ahead of you this is this is a beautiful kids I don't I think parenting is a different card to adults where it's your actions are my actions Chins were grown up enough and love each other enough that we can listen and it's not like shopping in this is so like if I was in a I if I was in a therapy session and somebody said to me listen when you guys are getting heated you're getting at each other say same team I would be like okay I want my money back because that's not a feasible way to live like I I I think it works complete I think it's amazing if you can do it but me personally I can't see I I can't see that as something that me personally could see to me it sounds very fairy tale ish I disagree man it's like it's it's like you and your wife no matter what you're on you might not be on this agree Riyan something but you're on the same team oh I know that so but what if what if like something that you're gonNA share is going to be really jarring really really jarring like if it's something like love can you clean this up or like our brooks he left the toothpaste out or something that's that's you don't need that but something like jarring saying how are you gonNa Texture and say we need to talk you text text text or you can just texted the whole thing out I say total SNL and make the subject the same team and then getting no I will say I think team is is it I get it let's good strategy and it probably works for you but I mean it being married for fifteen years it just at the end of that as you go it doesn't work out that way I I'd call in fifteen through stuff at fifteen years that just doesn't work like that I know but fifteen years okay take me fourteen years four kids I know we're going to get to the end of this argument whatever arguing about but there's no way I can kick it into low gear at the beginning of an argument like okay okay honey listen same team I'm going to rush to see that I can apologize before you that that's that sounds like tips I'm getting from a cereal box so I'm listening to both breath of the arguments and I'm what I'm hearing that's the same in them although you might not agree with exactly how he does it and you might not agree with your Dmitriy Dmitriy Brooks but what I'm hearing so far is it's not what you argue about or the frequency of your arguments but how you argue yes and that's how you argue for that individual relationship so it's how you guys argued Dmitri and how Brooks you argue with your wife it's going to be different from each other but it's ultimately maitland the frequency or what it's about it's how it's done that is where we've I mean and there's just different methods you know it's like they you know I think to be honest I think it's you're right it's it's the people involved in the Senate honestly I was in an argument with my wife and I said hey honey same team she would probably WanNa slap me when you said that you said hey honey same team that's already like an offense of toll because I'm already going on the offense Ah Dimitri if you're trying to kind of calm the situation I was trying to convince you I said listen listen we're we're arguing we want the same thing you were on the same results uh-huh but the way you said it was hon didn't even sound like you were fighting also truth for me I spent my whole life in locker rooms I've been in shouting shouting matches like in people's faces full do show like and I don't WanNa live my life like that anymore I don't bring any of that to my relationship my wife and I talk things through I'll be fully transparent we don't yell at each other that doesn't when you're yelling emotions are elevated and you're not receptive to listening listen you can't you're right you came from hockey some guy cuts often.
"ben higgins" Discussed on Relevant Podcast
"But Ben goes in co founds, this four purpose company and generous coffee. It's the coffee company and all the proceeds go to nonprofits. And one of them is. Company, humanity and hope United, which is working toward sustainable change in Honduras, where he did those mission trips growing up, its hall full circle really cool. And he's the CEO. It's his full-time gig. He doesn't make any money off of it, but it's what you put most of his time into. And so I asked him, why do you commit to go fighting poverty, when there's all these perks of celebrity right in front of you? And here's what he said in my life. The sector, I'm going to stay in is human services and the the solution. We're trying to solve is that it's is fighting and that's poverty in that six. He's things that just make anybody feel lesson. It's not just not an option in. And I think it's also comes from like this cool, little passage that we skip over lot, where Jesus says, like the desires to bring the kingdom of heaven to earth today. Now, whatever you believe the heaven is, and our he believe that's coming and whatever I would like to believe that we have a piece in that, and that we are called the cultivate, and to be a part of this world and to try to bring the genome here as well. And I wanna be a part of that it'd probably if anything it makes me feel like I'm doing something how cool that, this, like, all town guy by had this kind of global. The perspective shifts through a reality TV show. And now on the other side of it has this mission motivated by faith. Did you ask him about his dating life? I was told a little bit about. Here. That is really amazing. Like legitimate. And grounded he is the real deal is the real deal. I the our last clip I asked him to reflect a little bit on kind of the highs and lows of his fame. I mean he's, he's felt the temptations that come with it for sure. But has also earned a lot of super valuable perspective from it. So I asked him how views kind of his journey from reality TV star to advocate against poverty. And here's what he said, I would say, I'm really proud out hard. I've tried. Do the right thing. I really impressed that I haven't lost that gut. Check the. Phil things come into my life. I can't do that. It's not right. I'm proud of that. I'm proud of the fact that through all this craziness, I've caused scars and wounds the people, I know have it's almost inevitable, but those, those wounds and those scars were not intentional never became too. I never became too big to not care about people or even believe that was too big to care about people. And, and I'm proud of that I really am. I feel like I care a ton still and I was worried I was gonna lose game. Sometimes you hear something interview that sticks. And when he said, I never believed us too big to care about people like man. That's that's awesome. That's what it's about super cool. Yeah. I like this guy. Yeah. Yeah. That's, that's a city. Show again now now now before. Real quick, man. Is there like a website or maybe even like a publication holding your hands, where you can read more of this fascinating stories with Jesse? I'm glad you asked. This magazine called relevant issue. Ninety nine and read a full profile of Ben Higgins in it right now. It's a vailable newstands nationwide..
"ben higgins" Discussed on Bachelor Party
"Welcome to bachelor party. I'm Juliet Littman. My guest today on the phone my faith. Mr Ben Higgins, hide that. Julia. The reason you're on today's episode. You haven't been on yet this season and be we have a little Clavo that came out today you and me and our friends Rachel Enzi, and Lauren's EMA have a bachelor recap special streaming on Hulu right now. It's called can I steal you for a second. It's the ringers guide to Colton season. And you could watch it right now. It's it's about ninety minutes and it's both recap of this season and sort of like a preview for the finale. It's perfect for if you've loved the season and you want to revisit it. Or if you want to drag one of your friends your boyfriend your girlfriend into watching and they need to catch up super fast. It's also perfect for that. So check it out on a new though, right? I agree. I mean, we finally did something together which it's been too long. No. The takeaway from this show for me after doing it is it is actually perfect. If you have anybody that's not a huge fan of the show or can't give up a few hours every week to watch it. I think what what was put together by the ringer is a great little synopsis of what's happened so far. And then it also has given a lot of detailed insight that typically is not like given on any podcast or show. So I do think it's a great. It was a great. It's a great time. Yeah. It was really fun to do. I like our gang afor was pretty dope. And I don't know. I'm proud of it check it out. I think. I think it's worth watching. And also if you have heard if if you have someone in your life, who's like heard about the fence jumper, but doesn't really get it. Because that's that's happening. Like people are like what is this fence jump that? I keep hearing about like what happened. It's the way to understand we lay it all out for you. So check it out streaming on Hulu, tell your friends tell your.
"ben higgins" Discussed on Scrubbing In with Becca Tilley
"And so that's I think that's like a message. I told you you're like human sunshine. That's true. Also earlier that Tony bring entertainment that nobody else brings. Yeah. That's really true. Yeah. Consistently. Not just like for the first three months that she worked. It's like, no, no this is Tania. This is intentional this purpose. It's happened consistently for the time that you've been around like, that's that's unique. Yeah. Yeah. Like, what's happening birthing? It's your half birthday. Wow. Well, I hope you next week. All right. Thank you. Same. It's it's not so much hope though when we win the award for your pre, congratulations. The appreciate. Yeah. Period. To go or stay for this next part? I'm gonna head out. All right. I'll see you guys band. Thank you. I'm so glad we got to talk about the Virginia thing, we got to talk about the tiny thing. We've got to talk about the Boehner things all really special. I feel like you like visibly look lighter. Yeah. I do. It's interesting now that you repeat it. I I feel like a burdens been lifted from coming on this podcast. But as you say that back, I'm like what have we talk about? And how far do we take this Elemer card? Yeah. I gotta go. Take Lindsay shopping. We're going to the Palisades, and again Lindsey has donate her money and time for humane hope United, which is awesome. Thanks for setting that up. We're gonna go shop and drop, and I probably ice cream because Lindsey seems like pretty special ice cream for for her at the very end of our time together. So that I can be somewhere safe. All right. I wonder if like any of us are somehow related to Ben Higgins. I know right. We could find out could we do that twenty three and meet s actually twenty three and me is named after the twenty three pairs of chromosomes in your DNA, if you're related to them, then you wouldn't be able to date him. That's true. I don't wanna be related to him enough. Okay. Their service provides you with over seventy five genetic reports about your health, like lactose intolerance and sleep movement.
"ben higgins" Discussed on Wells Adams and Brandi Cyrus's show
"Brandy. Can we just really quick talk about how your mom totally try to change the name of the show? Do you like how I went to bat for us? Yeah. I mean, I don't really care either. I know I wonder why they thought that whatever Ben Higgins is here, Ben's back. I'm back. I just like coming in and talk to you all, honestly, honestly, your last podcast we'd read rave reviews on, are you serious? Yeah, the love you. You want to know why I think. Yes. So give you more your favorite thing. You know why, I think people liked you on our podcast is because you finally talked about like normal human things instead of like really deep conversations which you do like every time I see you like look me in the eyes and you're like, let's really get into this shit wells. And I was like, oh my God, I don't know. Is that not fun? I always feel like I, I gotta like have rehearsed answers for you, but when when you on the show that I put off that vibe, you don't have to have any. I don't want you rehearsed. I just wanna know. I wanna know you know, but I, here's the thing. I respect you a lot and I want you to like me. So I want the answers to be correct. I like you already no matter what your answers like. I feel like we'll as you come to me with some of the worst news like information like you've committed the worst sin and I'd be like, all right, let's let's do it. Like how like why? First off I want first of all, I haven't committed a bad sin, pin, God. Have I done this if I come to you? And I think. Yeah. Okay. Oh, you got my back like, yeah, like I like you pro like no matter what I know. That's cute. Each other. You went to wherever Belise under unduly. Wow. He pays so much attention. Cheers. You went? I did. Did you experience this like this, like deep look into your soul thing? It will Ben like he turns it on though. So like it's like one minute, he's like sitting next to on the bus like laughing and joking, and having fun. The next the next, like standing up in front of everybody, giving a speech that you would think he'd rehearsed for days, but it just like comes out of his mouth. They dislike just happens. All right. So I don't leave your insecure questioning myself. These are like, what are we saying? Okay. So so the reason why I was saying this was because I think the reason why people love that podcast. Yeah, is because you let your guard down. We talked about manscaping. Yeah, for like thirty five minutes, which I don't think people are used to hearing come out of your mouth, like stuff like that. They're used to hearing it come out of my mouth of time. And so I think why people like to is goes like, oh, I think we're getting like a real honest. Oh, yeah, conversation where then and I think that's why people like I've been asked a lot about like that podcast because of the little nuggets that we, we threw out there. People still bring it up to me in passing. It kinda matters what environment I'm in. Honestly, if I'm an environment like your podcast where I know it's somewhat a safe. Place. Like I know that it's acceptable for me to be like to be very open and that people are listening because they enjoy the openness, then I'll do it. Like if we're on like my podcast, feel pressure because I know people don't really care about what I'm doing. They really want to just hear the bachelor recap. Yeah, like or if I'm, you know. So there's like different sedro from throwing my friends, we can have deep conversations..
"ben higgins" Discussed on Reality Life with Kate Casey
"Amazing cake chassis we'll go back to another episode of reality life casey i'm hoping that you guys have had a great week great tv week by the way i watched real housewives of new york last night which was a fantastic episode i just love all of them they're just they just take all their grievances out and television and for that i respect them i watched the season finale of married at first sight that's the show where people are set up a to be married the moment that they meet so basically at this part of the journey they get together with the therapist and the pastor and explain whether or not they're going to stay married or not next week i'm not courtney hendrix from season one who still happily married by the way she's going to talk about the episode where they bring them back together weeks after the episode have all aired to see if they really ended up staying together i suspected at least one of those couples is not still married i i think that once the cameras left they were like let's cut the shit we have nothing in common and this was a mistake this week's episode is great let me break down what we have going on number one kim zoll ceac bearman had huge pr blunder this week after the part three of the real housewives of atlanta reunion air she said some really suspect things on the show it culminated with a meeting with andy cohen in a restroom at some nondescript hotel and i spoke with my friend who's a high powered entertainment publicist to kind of get her insight on what kim should do moving forward i spoke with ben higgins from the bachelorette and the bachelor in colorado via skype he has been on a bunch of reality shows and i kind of wanted to get some insight on what it's like to be the bachelor and what he thinks about reality television after all these years rachel pixel watched xs on the beach which is a new show on mtv where they take a bunch of people that are like w list level.
"ben higgins" Discussed on Bachelor Party
"Fair party bachelor winter games i like the japanese girl who can speak english i was really rudy third fino clearly communique yukihiko her and banned love each other was just icon of inexplicable did you talk about what a big l ben token that season now here's the royal oak i know you can't say because years friend once you're the bachelor of the bachelorette you can't go on those shares seguin in the mvp in the nba you can't you can't you can't walk back they married different level he made it seemed like they tricked him now that's like what he sat like he thought he was going on to have the hannah storm job but he ended up being sent the cast juliet come on how many years out of college or you're going to believe that one time a he's us i believe you i just want to give on the banner yana bigger serb now i i want to think that he could have had that hanoi would have been better for him because i can see him as a host of the show we haven't really goes to being a contestant now i think ben higgins said to me this was like when jordan played in the wizards don't include me i know admiring him listen i'm happy to say this face to face next time you come in i wish you would ask me i wish you you just emailed me villa i know i don't know that well but should be a contest and a bachelor winner gibbs and had been like no that's you break in the rules will give you something else do you hear them at the ring are few dates occupier time build big question we discussed earlier did ashley and kavan have saxon the fancy sweet the first night i think when ashley decides to have sex i think she's going to maximize the tv potential sir whether it is an entire bachelorette season were that's the prize or some some says she's just get maximum impact nobody's ever got more mileage out of their rigidity with the possible exception of donna martin data martin mostert virginity this season finale of nanotubes are now in a great episode she great lined with candles and david silver sleep and he didn't know what happened and he woke up and she's an anc out in magic ensued greer said my point is really cash in anchorage if you're cashing in.
"ben higgins" Discussed on Fresh Batch | A Bachelor Recap Podcast with Michelle Collins
"That actually was as loving i moving on yeah so we will now yo you watch the show yes i started with ben seasons are relatively new rules out of my goals and season really oh my god ben heck sees and ben higgins off did you not i mean i loved it no i i mean i it it i'm in for life now i'm like i totally bought and i was telling arbor that like i started watching kind of out of curiosity uninsured of like i don't i'm not ever gonna like this and then like three episodes and i was like i'm baden while his season it doesn't get better than that i mean he is as he know my son may stars and i said of ever a yeah he was great he was prepared as he was also bachelor so he was never on any though shows but my favorite thing from this week's was a map leaving doubt was i thought that was so profoundly funny because when tell us why kellie was what was a great moment he he he like since rachel season he has just been a confusing figure to me because he seems like completely checked out like everyone else's very like bought in and he's just a little bit longer yeah like and i just found it kind of hysterical that like everyone there is buying into this so much and he's just like the gummed on i'm going to go on he was in a really tough spot because jasmine who i thought like people jasmine's definitely like a nut case but i didn't like the way that they were talking about her in the know are they're wrong it wasn't nathan we were like oh the this pitch is that the caller bitch and stuff and are like 8th now i didn't love the tone that they took all the she is definitely not well like it felt weird talking about her i didn't love um also did not love her bangs in that weird after the show really really bad and the rushing on the top like she is so beautiful but that i'm not tot addressed feels like terrible leash right there and as she stunning no no to that dress actually her banks or when i grabbed my banks because i got them cut really badly and a had her exact like stalactites bangs heading to like little beetlejuice points but um.