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Before Breakfast

07:51 min | 10 months ago

"before" Discussed on Before Breakfast

"Hey listeners lately. We've been doing everything from home working from home exercising from home schooling from home breakfast lunch and dinner from home wishing we were anywhere on the planet from home and with all this extra time. We're realizing how important it is to make sure our place is the right place. Inter apartments dot com with the most listings and powerful search tools. It's easy to find exactly what you need. Apartments dot com the most popular place to find a place. Welcome to before breakfast. A production of iheartradio. Good morning this is laura. Welcome to the before breakfast podcast. Today's tip is to find me time before everyone in your household is asleep. It common complaint. I hear especially from parents of little kids is that they have no me time during the day so they stay up late to get it sometimes really late after their kids bedtime after they've done the dishes and tidied up from the day maybe after packing lunches or laying out closed for the next day then they stay up but by the time. The kids are asleep in the chores are done. People are exhausted and determined to have some alone time. Anyway darn it so they stay up late to get it and this time isn't exactly high. Value people are too exhausted to do much beyond scroll or channel surf but at least it's autonomous. This can continue for hours. Which means that the me time comes at the price of starting the next day exhausted to one of my foundational time management. Rules is to give yourself a bedtime. Choose a time. You intend to be in bed most nights a time that will enable enough sleep and then go to bed unless you have a good reason not to. It seems simple. But i also know that. A lot of people resist this rule because going to bed at a rational time feels like it might mean sacrificing time for themselves and so sleep deprivation is a price. People are willing to pay for me time. But here's the thing you don't have to choose. Between adequate sleep and discretionary time sleep and meantime are both essential to a satisfying and sustainable schedule. I promise you that. With a little planning and creativity you can have both even in a busy life. Here are some options. For how i. If you are looking for me time while your kids are asleep it might be possible to go to bed on time and still get up before them now. I'm not talking about waking up at four thirty. A m please but if your kids are normally up around let's say six thirty am even getting up at five forty five. Am might allow for some higher quality meantime than you will get at eleven pm late at night. You will probably scroll first thing in the morning you might read something more substantial than click bait headlines. You might write. Maternal or sketch are doing other creative hobby. Go to bed earlier and get up earlier and have time just for you first thing in the morning if you commute definitely treat your commute of me time. Listen to audio books for pleasure. Spend some time researching longer podcasts. You might listen to. That is longer than this one that might make the trip feel exciting. Don't write off the workday either. If you can possibly take breaks take breaks. You could think about your five. Lunch breaks during the week as a portfolio of fun options. Maybe two days a week you go out to eat with colleagues two days a week you read during your lunch break and one day you do a little adventure like stopping by nearby park or visiting a gallery. That intrigues you. I'd also suggest creating a few waking nonworking hours where your kids are not in your care if you are co-parenting with someone come up with a formal trade-off schedule. You could take an hour after work on monday to do something fun. And your co parent could get an hour on tuesday. Maybe each of you has some fun for you. Commitment like a group bike ride or choir practice each week. Divide and conquer and neither of you will feel quite so compelled to stay up late just to feel like an autonomous person. You could also invest in some extra child care if you normally get off work at five. Pm and your daycare closes at six pm. Maybe one night a week. Don't rush straight there. Go sit in a coffee shop or in the library and decompress for thirty minutes before heading over and if you have little ones who still nap on weekends. Don't do chores during nap time. Well at least don't do chores. I use the first forty five minutes of nap time for something. That feels rejuvenating for you if you were home with little kids on weekdays same rule if you do chores i a short nap means. You'll get no meantime but if you have your fun. I then probably. You'll still get to the chores in bits and pieces later or you won't but oh well life won't feel like such a drag said this week look for ways you can find time for yourself without waiting for everyone in your family to fall asleep. If you subscribe to my just a minute email newsletter. You'll know that. I've talked recently about what i call the magic hour. If you can find just one hour a day to do something that you enjoy life will feel entirely different. I promise it's like magic. People often try to get that magic hour at night but if you can get it during the day you will have a lot more options and a lot more energy for enjoying it. So how can you make magic hour for you before your family falls asleep. If you've got suggestions of what's worked for you. I would love to hear them. You can email me at laura at laura vendor kim dot com in the meantime this is laura. Thanks for listening. And here's to making the most of our time. Hey everybody i'd love to hear from you. You can send me your tips your questions or anything else. Just connect with me on twitter. Facebook and instagram at before breakfast pot. That's be the number four then breakfast p. o. d. you can also shoot me an email at before breakfast podcasts. At iheartmedia dot com that before breakfast is spelled out with all the letters. Thanks so much. I look forward to staying in touch.

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"before" Discussed on Before Breakfast

Before Breakfast

07:14 min | 10 months ago

"before" Discussed on Before Breakfast

"Hey listeners lately. We've been doing everything from home working from home exercising from home schooling from home breakfast lunch and dinner from home wishing we were anywhere on the planet from home and with all this extra time. We're realizing how important it is to make sure our place is the right place. Inter apartments dot com with the most listings and powerful search tools. It's easy to find exactly what you need. Apartments dot com the most popular place to find a place. Welcome to before breakfast. A production of iheartradio. Good morning this is laura. Welcome to the before breakfast podcast. Today's tip is to not do too much the night before while. It is tempting to think that getting as much ready as possible. The night before is the way to have peaceful mornings. I have found that the strategy is actually a recipe for feeling like life is no fun and not getting enough sleep. Those are downsides to avoid no matter what your mornings look like. Every year. I talked with at least one magazine or website about back to school scheduling tips. A usual line of questioning. What should we do the night before. My answer is usually nothing. Interestingly that answer almost never makes it into the article because it goes against a lot of conventional wisdom so let me explain my thinking here no matter how much you get ready the night before you will still have to do something in the morning. Most people don't sleep in their work. Clothes for instance. If you wear makeup well you probably don't sleep in your makeup. You are going to have to eat breakfast and brush your teeth and all that you are going to have to get yourself and any other people going with you physically out of the house so when you spend a lot of time the night before getting ready what you have succeeded in doing is spreading. You're getting ready over the night and the morning to this often means that it actually takes more time now. Perhaps there are reasons for doing this spreading in some cases but if your goal is to save time the strategy will not serve that goal instead for most people. I recommend looking for ways to make the mornings easier rather than just getting ready the night before instead of laying out outfits have a rotating set of outfits that look great on you you just put the next one on. That's in the rotation and you're good to go instead of making kids lunches. Have the kids by hot lunch at school. Believe it or not. Some research in peer reviewed journals has found that it is generally healthier than what kids bring from home and it's also almost always cheaper instead of setting out breakfast. The night before make really streamlined breakfasts. Kids can make their own or hard. Boil a bunch of eggs on sunday while you're cooking dinner and let this become the centerpiece during the week paired with a cheese stick or some smoked salmon or toast and some cut up. You'll be good to go instead of finding kids shoes at night and lining them up have a place for shoes go and never let them go anywhere else that way people will be able to grab them on the way out the door. The problem with spending time getting ready the night before is that it tends to cut into leisure time. We put the kids to bed. Do our chores get ready for the next day. And then we get to our fun but if the getting ready takes too much time then we don't get to are fun until late and so we stay up later because we still want are fun but the one thing that is guaranteed to make a horrible morning is not getting enough. Sleep this impulse to spend a lot of time. Getting ready before. Turns out to be counter-productive so instead enjoy your leisure time at night. Do something fun then make your mornings easier by not taking on jobs. That shouldn't be yours and by making your own getting ready as streamlined. as possible. It is better to get ready once then to get ready twice. Getting ready only once saves time whereas getting ready the night before does not in the meantime this is laura. Thanks for listening. And here's to making the most of our time. Hey everybody i'd love to hear from you. You can send me your tips your questions or anything else. Just connect with me on twitter. Facebook and instagram at before breakfast pot. That's be the number four then breakfast p. o. d. you can also shoot me an email at before breakfast podcasts. At iheartmedia dot com that before breakfast is spelled out with all the letters. Thanks so much. I look forward to staying in touch before. Breakfast is a production of iheartradio for more podcasts. From iheartradio visit the iheartradio app apple podcasts. Or wherever you listen to your favorite shows listen. We all love ice cream. 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Before Breakfast

02:12 min | 11 months ago

"before" Discussed on Before Breakfast

"Thanks for listening. And here's to making the most of our time. Hey everybody i'd love to hear from you. You can send me your tips your questions or anything else. Just connect with me on twitter. Facebook and instagram at before breakfast pod. That's be the number four then breakfast p. o. d. you can also shoot me an email at before breakfast podcasts. At iheartmedia dot com that before breakfast is spelled out with all the letters. Thanks so much. I look forward to staying in touch before. Breakfast is a production of iheartradio for more podcasts. From iheartradio visit the iheartradio app apple podcasts. Or wherever you listen to your favorite shows.

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Before Breakfast

05:27 min | 11 months ago

"before" Discussed on Before Breakfast

"And if you have a health issue your health insurance may not be designed to cover everything. That's why there's affleck aflac can provide you with more protection by paying cash to help with expenses. Health insurance doesn't cover things like copays and non medical expenses like your phone. Bill your electric bill or rent. It's like the spoon to your soup to see how athletes can help with expenses. Health insurance doesn't cover learn more at affleck dot com. Welcome to before breakfast a production of iheart radio. Good morning this is laura. Welcome to the before breakfast podcast. Today's tip is to borrow before you buy. It is the human condition to have less money and less space than we probably want so most of us would prefer to buy and own only those things that we are actually going to use. Unfortunately it can be hard to anticipate what those items will be. I got less use out of the high end stroller. I bought for my now fourteen year old. Then i got out of the twenty dollar umbrella stroller. I bought for a trip once and then wound up using for several more children. This is true. Even though the fancy strollers reviews were great inevitably. It is hard to anticipate what items we will actually use an enjoy if we don't own them already and the trial and error it takes to find the right items can introduce a lot of expense and clutter into our lives. So how can we acquire more wisely. Simple aim to borrow before you buy think you want an instant pot. Everyone has it on their christmas list. Right well ask to borrow your neighbors while she is out of town. If you love it you can buy your own when she returns. If you don't now you know without any decrease in cash or increase in stuff borrowing gear for hobbies. He wants to try can be wise to see. We can see whether you actually enjoy a hobby. Wants to commit the time before buying all the gear. If your kid wants to try playing an instrument that is awesome. But there is a reason. Several companies specialize in renting instruments to kids through their school band programs. Instruments are expensive and it is hard to know what will take just as you don't know whether you will be really into diving or rock climbing or whatever else catches your fancy. I'd say that this philosophy can work to a degree with clothing to. If you have a friend who has a similar size and style consider sharing clothes and accessories back and forth if you borrow address and love it you can consider buying something similar and no it will get used. There are also plenty of things you can borrow without ever buying your own. Does your neighbor have a power washer borough twice a year when you need it and bake him a loaf of bread as a thank you gift you can save your money and garage space for other things. Do you go skiing. Approximately once a decade borrow old ski pants goggles. And the like from your friend who skis all the time and take her out to dinner to say. Thanks and get skiing tips. People generally like to see their stuff used and they like to help out friends. So don't assume that everything you need occasionally is something you need to own yourself. Borrowing may be a long-term solution of course for this to work. It is important that you always return things in good condition and shared generously yourself. People are going to be happier to lend you their power washer. If they know that your ladder is there for the asking better yet. Don't wait to be asked if your friend mentions that. She is thinking of buying an air. Fryer offer to lend her yours to test it out before she buys her own. Even if you love your air fryer she might not because we are all different. The only way to figure this out is through lived. Experience sharing and burrowing lets us save money and tends to reinforce bonds with neighbors and friends and you are far. Less likely to wind up with barely used items sitting in the garage for years has a certain stroller of mine. Did in the meantime this is laura..

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Before Breakfast

01:44 min | 1 year ago

"before" Discussed on Before Breakfast

"General. If you've got some amount of time off. I think it helps to do a few things. I said a few anchor events. Yes you want to leave a lot of open time to learn what it feels like when time is unstructured and relaxed. But you also want to know that. You'll do a few things that you couldn't do while working fulltime or if you had your kids during the day schedules in so you can look forward to them. The day hike the overnight retreat in the mountains. The matinee show really enjoy the anticipation. Then you also want to batch the things that you are going to wind up doing during this time because yes now is a good time to do that. Dentist appointment to get your oil changed to finally pick up that form from the county clerk's office however if these things are always options you'll have a hard time relaxing if you know. You should be doing them schedule. All of them for one tuesday before three. Pm and not only. Will you get them done. You won't have to worry about them at other points. you know. there is a time for doing that. Annoying errand and now is not that time with a few anchor events and time for batching. The little things your days off will feel satisfying. You'll feel relaxed without worrying that you are wasting your time. You will actually enjoy the open space without worrying that you should be doing something

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Before and After Stories

05:25 min | 1 year ago

"before" Discussed on Before and After Stories

"And I need to be seen right away and then pretty much all they want me to do is just come home and rest right? After that. The next day they want me to start to clean the incision off, so around the sutures with sailing and Q-tips four times a day. Where's the decision going to be right at the base of my nose. I mean, right? Where the septum at the end of your nostril, that's where the incisions are going to be got it and then so using like Neosporin and stuff just to make sure I keep that clean and and moist just so it helps prevent scabs from forming. And then, of course, like I said, do not shower until the next day, but then they also want me to use two to three times a day for eight weeks, the sinus wrong. It's it's like NeilMed Sinus, Rinse stuff. Just to make sure that it doesn't dry out there. He'll Prince. Any clots, that could have formed can get a gigantic pack of those at Costco home. I didn't know that I got one. That's got like a thousand packets in it. It was way too many. Sometimes. I think at Costco like you can get too much stuff and I need to pick up isotonic PE balance water you have distilled water. Yeah yeah and then I'll have internal nasal splints put in it since they won't be opening up my nose at all so those will be sutured in and then the following week I'll get those removed. Oh so he has to take them out. Yes. And then he thinks that I have enough cartilage in New Jersey. Septum. So that way they can just install nasal Bridges from that way. But if they don't, they'll have to take hartlage from my left ear aches. And then the next thing is, it's more about keeping my head elevated. Of course, when resting or sleeping, so thankfully have a lot of pillows. Can you use? Of course, cold wet compresses there. And then they want me to use a friend a lot as well. I.

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Before Anyone Else

03:05 min | 1 year ago

"before" Discussed on Before Anyone Else

"Anything. So I've what? I've what I've learned or been better at through this relationship is. Just trying to understand other people's points of view and trying to then like respond in a way that hopefully like reaches that person wherever they're at so that we can move things forward and hopefully like all parties are happy with whatever the resolution is and even with that. So coupled with that patients as well. Because I've learned that. I might I might think I. Know The solution I. Think I like, Oh my gosh why aren't we there yet but I have to respect how other people process things. And what other people are like focused on in certain situations. And then more generally just like. People that your partner is doing different things than you and has different objectives and their career path or they're like financial path or whatever it is different than than you. And that can be really challenging at I. Feel like financial stuff is like. Maybe an episode in itself 'cause. When Reserve And we've been having those conversations more but like it, it's been a long road to even get us like a point where we really talk about that kind of stuff because it's just icky. But I've had to learn to be patient and respectful in that way. But what's helped me in that side note is just as that person is like going through their own process. and. You like you you. WanNa be at the end like a stop. Like I can't force that person to meet me where I'm at at the moment all the time like some like certain things are more personal and folks need to go through it on their own, but that shouldn't stop you. From you know building what you need to build separately or like on your own time. You don't need to like Joe need to maybe feel resentful of your partner or Like. This anchor on you like you can still do things you don't need to like put so much pressure on them being exactly where you are when you need them to be. Yeah, I. Think I think patients the big one and like I can totally relate to that too. But I think to your point Joyce like never let that stop you right like if you want to do certain things like you have your goals like I think you just have to keep like banking. And keep doing whatever you're doing and I think you'll both be happier for it. You know on your partner will have to the right person they're gonNA understand that what you need to do what you need to do and they're not gonNA resent you I think there's a big issue that person's resenting the fact that like you WanNa do those things even though they can't do them i. think that's an issue but again, all comes back to communication on those things the this question's kind of interesting in a think you've sort of. Touched on this like have you ever changed anything specifically for partner? I think I've started doing things differently because it Made me realize how I am as a person..

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Before Anyone Else

02:06 min | 1 year ago

"before" Discussed on Before Anyone Else

"On the room service that it was like completely free. So we got a three course meal and that was amazing 'cause it was just once again I think it's the whole It's just the two of you and then you end off the night remembering that night because it's something special you have the inside jokes. We had the conversations whether they're. You know like you mentioned like you're deep. That's like the takeaway from the date that you always remember and make that date remember. I mean we we've talked of dating ray like we're all three of us in our relationship. So what would be? I. Think. This is kind of you know this is serious stuff with the ultimate to for for being in a relationship. Once, you locked that ish down. Yeah. Once you luck that a honestly there's a lot but I think this is really important because I just feel like. As I, get older I feel like. I see this less less but I feel like earlier on and relationships. I like saw this alive. But I think just the idea that like if you have to question trust like frequently than it probably means you don't have it like I just think if that's something that's like on your mind or you're like, you have to question somebody's like your partner it's like going somewhere like doing something or like what they're up to behind the scenes then like you and you can't like talk to them about it. Then, you probably like that's obviously relationship the bien or you'd like need to reevaluate or like open up those lines. to talk to them about it. But yeah, for me, I think trust is a huge foundational thing and like I feel when you know you have it, it's such a different feeling because I feel like I taught at where I didn't have it and now I do have it and it's just like totally different because I don't you don't have that like underlying anxiety or worry that you carry with you and you might not even realize where it's coming from. But again, live and learn now you know what it feels like to actually feel secure. So it's just a different feeling but for me I, think that's like that's it. It's like at the something that you have to like. Consider or think like a lot of thought into that apartments you just don't even.

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Before Anyone Else

04:19 min | 1 year ago

"before" Discussed on Before Anyone Else

"So sorry. Joyce. I think it's a bright needs to step in. Says You Know I feel so superficial because like my favorite dates have been usually around like. A travel experiences I just feel like when we're away from like the mundane. Nine to five and. Good weather or whatever. It is just new sites like re both just like different. There's just a bit more energy. When you're tourists, you're just like Kinda and you Wanna see everything you've got the psych regardless amount of energy. So, like my favorite, I've two kinds but like my favorite travel date was like date in New York City, which was where my birthday which I canceled because I'm spoiled and required like I had to be at my friend's birthday and it was a thing and then like poor Brian had to like go onto the call on calls with the airlines to try and change. Our tickets but ended up going there and it was just like a full day trip that our full. Like date that we that we did and it was, let's go walk as much as we can. We left to. Like. Toronto we're going on walks like most evenings and it was just go and sixty the sites and popping into stores as we pass them like not knowing what they are trying random foods. Street foods and other things not having really a plan. And then. Obviously, like similar to what? Keeps said it's definitely like food is a main thing on most dates and like what happened at the end of the date was that we landed in a really Nice restaurant that Brian had actually picked out. So that was a bit planned. which is really cool. Just something like Funky we like like those soft lighting like darker spaces. Like lots of me and passes and all that jazz like great cocktails. That's like had get to me. And then after that be like. Random speakeasy kind of place and just like was there to like two in the morning just like down in cocktails and just like. Involved in like just random conversation. A bit of people watching, but it was just like what time of the day is like how long have we been outside like what is going on like? I'm full I'm drunk. But like I'm drunk with my best friend and so like, yeah, love those kind of dates whereas a little different from what we do all the time. But on the flip side. Like I love just like being at home planning a really nice meal together. We don't always get to do that because it's you know meal prepping on the weekends. As soon as Monday hit to just go go go. and. The evenings that you have like you're trying to do other things, right so Every once in a while I, think like with Cova nineteen especially, it's like, let's make pizza. used. In. The. Barn and Mike About A. Bowl. For like years. Because Brian went out to get the doesn't know that you need a teaspoon for. Five Cups. But things like that were just trying something new together and the music is on we both got our glasses of wine like super typical but you just like sit e throw movie and it's just quiet. But again, it's like back quality time is like you can't put a price on that. It sounds like all three of us like. Why you kind of start off with saying you feel it's a bit different, but it's on pretty similar that it's like you're. It's like an escape and yeah. Same thing with what I'm saying, right? Like we are it's just the two of us. and. It's. We do the same thing except here, Toronto, right but I'm sorry. Say That like your travel experiences because like you and your partner travel quite a bit like throw Mike. Canada. So I thought that one of those kind of trips would be like the. So I you.

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Before Anyone Else

02:08 min | 1 year ago

"before" Discussed on Before Anyone Else

"Be what it's supposed to be. Then you're going to be happy right because you don't have these expectations. So my like like biggest dating tip would be I. Know It's a maybe a little cliche, but it's to focus on yourself. While you're dating or like before you even get started in dating. And then throughout because I, found like in my own life and like my friends lives, they always find like a great person when they aren't looking for it I know that sounds cringe. But like it's honestly when you're like hustling when you're pushing yourself like in your own career or like in your fitness in your education, whatever it is when you're like. Trying to invest in yourself and do better you open yourself up to more opportunities. You're just a better person like you bring an around you. That is not the same or as like the person who doesn't leave the house, the person who? Doesn't want to go exercise. The person who like is really down about themselves. When you exude positively I, think it's all about that. But you call it when you speak things into into. Existence since yeah. So and. So it in my unimpressed manifesting. Yes Keefe. Thank you for the words. I, find that when you focus on yourself like people come flocking and like you know when they say when it rains, it pours like I know girls who like they weren't even thinking about it like they might have had the APPS but they weren't on it like that and the one time they go on after living their life, they swipe swipe swipe and the next six guys they're on rotation. And like they're enjoying it but then I find many times. It's like from a female's perspective, we lose ourselves want to start dating. and. Then it's like you know I was living my best life and like this was a thing on the side and before you know it, it's like all I'm doing is dating. All I'm talking about his dating I haven't heard from Michael I haven't heard from Bob I haven't heard from and it's like this vicious. Or literally, the name to. Yeah and then you become..

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Before Anyone Else

01:34 min | 1 year ago

"before" Discussed on Before Anyone Else

"Right that WHO? I canceled the other two. Right after that night because off like this is going to be like the. So yes. So that was. that. After that dates. At until a lot of people, but it was like. I didn't WANNA see to. What's the word like to eager each? Other I didn't want to be like steer off in my head. I'm like Yo Fisher this. And yet from there is just like This is history basically. A towel. But. Three three dates kate circulating the road on ears trying to give everybody. That to. Talk to her then fell to the floor. Too happy that canceled the DC split whatever they the. Exactly. All right. So I, think that wraps up this episode. This is part one of getting to know before anyone else hosts. In the next episode, you're going to be hearing about some tips and tricks what we've learned along the way. We talked about our messy situations and where we're all in Mike mice relationships now but it's been a long road and it's still a long. Journey so you'll be hearing kind of those ups and downs and how we've gone through them in the next episode says..

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Before Anyone Else

03:12 min | 1 year ago

"before" Discussed on Before Anyone Else

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"before" Discussed on Before Anyone Else

Before Anyone Else

03:22 min | 1 year ago

"before" Discussed on Before Anyone Else

"And chain early. Having a wave is just like. Cheese is the worst thing ever but nowadays, it's not rabies we understand. Look to. So that was my view relationship back in the day that. Women were injured services something the US, like I should be focusing on success versus they be in a relationship in time that come but. interesting now, because I also feel like. For me I, also think that view is going to change like older female relatives. My will be like Oh you should travel. You should do all these things almost like telling me what I should like tape like they had done in their twenties. They're kind of like, Oh, you should focus on this and then like focus on that later it's such like a catch twenty two though right because it's like sometimes it's the opposite it's like, oh. What's like on in that part of your life and then it's like, Oh, you should try to focus on those. It's like China have the balance but I would say I think it's even changing for like women like I think. That like it's slowly becoming a little bit more Okay. For you to push that off a little bit more push that back. But I think when we were going like, I, would honestly say that like I very much still had like those traditional. Like the beginning I think it all depends on like your upbringing in how you like digest information or take like things in because I have guy friends who? Waited to like get into serious relationships because personally, and this is like more like. A bit of like a hyper mask thing where like they felt like I need to get my issue in order before I can like jump into a relationship. I WANNA have like I have a friend who's like I'm trying to buy a house so my wife can move in with me. He's like he's like going all the way ways a building, and then hopes that like you know the puzzle piece will come. To each their own and I grew up where My parents were very much like focus on your studies focus on. Getting a great job like do all that, and then the relationship will just like happen but then they say that, but then you know after year one of university was like, where's your husband so? See Things are changing and people know that like we're not rushing to have kids like people can freeze their eggs like we do not have to wait or do not have to rush for that kind of stuff. So I think that might have played a part for sure and like even your point about like feeling like guys can't be as in touch with their emotions I feel like that's open I think that doors opening slightly aimless, right like it's changing along and she grabbed. My partner like I always also like my partners really emotional. He's definitely more like he definitely has like valley to him. His ultimate dream is like having a family. You know what I mean. So like for him, it was never you know, I guess it really does depend on your upbringing, right? Like masculine sense like I think there are definitely hyper masculine but like to your point point Joyce about guys who WanNa like have a house like bill that. Story. You know build that. Family in that more traditional like ending it can go both ways but I I definitely think like things are starting to become more open in that sense whereas like both genders like people of any gender like you know it's more of an open playing field for people to to. And.

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Before Anyone Else

01:53 min | 1 year ago

"before" Discussed on Before Anyone Else

"Go this. And I feel like that's will cut a change because you just like cal I took off on their. Big To like ideas of. Just meeting people general zoos get a date for a final. got. Getting married. Yeah. I totally goes back to like even if they're thinking about upbringing. So that was totally my right like I always had like that traditional mindset that like literally I I like meet the person in high school and not just goes on engagement and then you get. Like literally I thought that was just the way it went. You know what I mean like I had no point of reference for something different in my mind. So I was like how like when dating apps came on I was like this is so I mean come on my parents what they went on like two dates and got married right so like that's my point of reference for dating like I know a lot of people actually date and like swiped and so going on like those kinds of dates such a foreign concept but yeah, with Keith when you told me that and like actually experiencing. Experiencing it like the first couple times, it was like a high, but I also think if you've been dating APPS, there's also a lot of people experience the low, which is like your burnt out off dating apps, and so I think I was riding that wave for a while but then get burnt and you're like I'm going to delete this. I feel like that's soul relatable in this especially now with all these like there's what like over hundreds. Of, APPs like we're talking about back when you on and there was like what just tinder, right? Like people were just talking about tinder. Now it's like all these we talked another niche dating APPS, and so I think just for me with my upbringing having more traditional mindset around that stop and my parents what my parents modeled for me. I didn't even think that was an option but I do think I was better off for it because I. Like you said, I learned so much about myself even if I wasn't mentally. Necessarily on there,.

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Before Anyone Else

01:41 min | 1 year ago

"before" Discussed on Before Anyone Else

"For like different chapters. They're different seasons. Of My life but I feel like through all of those experience like time I've gone into those relationships with a different mindset and come out with like hundred lessons that have been put into the next relationship and some of those have been like from like just like learning about the love languages, which is still flippable to my relationship now but like ten years. Ago I that would have been something that probably would've helped a lot but just keep pumping in all these lessons eventually a kind of thing sorta like make sense and I just feel like in your twenties it's such. It's period of time where you're still learning about yourself and I felt that through all my relationships, it's like every time it'd be like shit like. I'm actually this way whereas like I thought I was this way or like I thought I wanted this I actually wanted this and like that happened so many times where like thank you want certain things and then. You experience something that tells you otherwise but I guess through all those experiences in even through the dating apps because definitely been on those two for a while. I don't know I don't I guess my. My thing is like there's no formula to this and at this point. The relationship I feel like a lot better understood and like now I'm in a relationship where we're still relatively new. I think like a year and a half like definitely not definitely been longer relationships but I feel the most like myself in this relationship and someone to Joyce in Keith it's a a interracial relationship which I mean I have only ever been an interracial relationships I've never really dated. By on race while.

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Before Anyone Else

03:46 min | 1 year ago

"before" Discussed on Before Anyone Else

"Were going to be like a bachelor for your whole life. Fun Right and at this point, you're like in a completely different place like do you want to share where you're at now from where you were sure is served background. So I'm not even GonNa talk to about my walk. Highschool of because it was just like maybe two weeks on on one zero and then two weeks with another girl in two weeks with the same again, that was just by high school religion and then later on going into university. On having any religious, then getting into these party days when they started working living downtown. In the metropolis city in this kinda living life to the that's were the is. Came from. transparent. The reason why that came out of it is because they did get my heartbroken somewhere in there. In that really jaded been like really screwed me over in its suited up for. All people who had the with me But Yeah, just sat past four now we're like. Really, great relationship. Of His Business Tommy. Relationship should be or like whoa log really is. The signing your eyes, and you're talking about your bachelor days. Billboard. Lord. Girl. Stops sleep. Back into a little bit. To. MIDLIFE crisis. Your system. Again likely you're even talking about the bachelor days like enjoy. So we used to go to New Year's Eve parties every single year. Because we were cheap groupies we wanted to an easy night out. Club stews well his own. Clubs, we shouldn't have been in. Maryvale. It's great to see kind of your own like your journey to get up until this point and like you always, I'd be like had like a good. You knew what you wanted like I felt like the beginning even though it kind of took meeting your current partner I think to like fully solidify that like I feel like us realizing we were seeing you there and we were like, oh, he's never gonNA want to settle down but once you found it, you found it Joyce I don't mean you were kind of doing your own thing but. She in a messy pod. We wait. To. Up to. So I guess my dating history has been a pretty short like. I feel like I said, it's like a number of times but. When I really got into it like started to properly date. I call it thought airlines. I was boarding. Said Thought Airlines I had my ticket in hand. The plane was even taking off and then I found my current partner. Crashed the plane. There was no survivor. Security running from beginning. Were that. It was a grounded flight..

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Before Breakfast

03:33 min | 2 years ago

"before" Discussed on Before Breakfast

"Is to get ready for bed a while before. You actually intend to go to sleep. This makes it much easier to get into bed on time. It's a truism of time management that everything takes longer than you think it will. This is doubly true with things that occur. When you're tired such as getting ready for bed and sadly the more tired you are the easier it is to delay what will actually solve the problem namely going to sleep. This problem became clear to me a few years ago when my husband was traveling a lot and my then toddler aged fourth child was popping up at five. Am every morning. I made sure that my eldest child was in bed with the lights out around nine. Forty five pm now. Theoretically this meant that I could be in bed at ten P. M. in general I do fine with seven hours of sleep but night after night I would find it almost impossible to be asleep before ten thirty somehow taking up my contacts brushing my teeth washing my face getting my pajamas on and so forth would stretch out. Probably because I look at my phone while setting my alarm or look at the mess in my bedroom and start picking it up. It's hard to do anything in a focused and efficient manner when you're tired and this includes getting ready for bed. Then I discovered that I didn't actually have to wait until right before bed to get ready for bed. I could change into my pajamas and switched my contacts for my glasses earlier in the evening. Since I was completely ready to sleep I could walk into my bedroom at nine. Forty five pm read for ten minutes without feeling like I was battling the clock. The lights could go off by ten. Pm and my morning self would wake up thanking my past selves ingenuity. All would be good well except for the screaming toddler. Part now that. I've got a newborn again. I've been reminded of the wisdom of this habit when the baby falls asleep. It's good for me to go to sleep too if I'm all ready for bed. This is a much quicker process now. Maybe you don't have young kids but anyone can fall into the trap of delaying bed because getting ready for bed. Sounds like a lot of effort turning off the TV and going upstairs takes energy hitting next and the netflix queue does not. So if you feel like you have zero energy which many of us do at night. Guess which is more likely to happen now. I'm not saying that if you're all ready for bed that watching another show won't still be tempting but if all you have to do is slide under the covers. Well that lowers the energy requirement significantly and on the margin. That just might tip the balance so tonight. Chew some time when you're not completely exhausted to get ready for bed. Then when the exhaustion does hit you can go to sleep close to immediately and with any luck you'll wake up bright and chipper and ready to do great things before breakfast. In the meantime this is Laura. Thanks for listening. And here's to making the most of our time. Hey everybody I'd love to hear from you. You can send me your tips your questions or anything else. Just connect with me on twitter facebook and Instagram at before breakfast pot. That's be the number four then breakfast P..

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