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Fresh update on "bauer" discussed on Kentuckiana's Morning News
"All right, Michael, Thanks for the update. I appreciate it. Michael Bauer, NBC News, radio contact and 40 Days 20 minutes after six. Toni Kroos, along with Scott Fitzgerald doesn't have the look of sports coming your way in Just a couple of minutes. Got traffic and weather to do right now, with Bobby Ellis and Susan, We're gonna end. Of course, Willie and the news coming your way at the bottom of the hour here on news radio 8 40. Wh she wrote in to Melissa. No place like a cowboy, Please. There's no time like a couple of time in the way like the cowboy way. Have a cowboy can today? Yeah, when you're all that whole crowd boys contained that cowboy ground way lately. Cowboy way. Have a cab boy Canady here like they have a big time drive the new big Sky Burger. Every Rogers restaurants. It's a quarter pound burger with Smithfield pulled pork beer battered onion rings American cheese in spicy barbecue sauce on a corn dusted Kaiser bun ain't no way like the cowboy way in a song like a cowboy song,.
"bauer" Discussed on Happy Even After with Ms. Renee Bauer
"Divorce can make even the strongest faint of heart. It can be the thing that crushes you a makes you think you'll never survive but if you've been listening to me long enough you know that i believe that divorce could be the thing that forces you to step into the best most aligned version of yourself when i started this podcast it was because i wanted to tell the stories of others who went through. It doubted themselves questioned. Everything instill came out thriving. My guest today has a story. Hers is one of reinvention and a reminder that we get to create any life we want even if it's unexpected the happy even after happy even after podcast divorce. But it doesn't need to define you it just doesn't need to be end of your story the happy even after podcast meet your host renee. Bauer award winning divorce. Attorney peacemaker author and founder of the d. course an online divorce educational program. He's been doing this work for almost two decades and she is passionate about all women make it out the other side. The happy even after podcast..
Fresh "Bauer" from This Morning with Gordon Deal
"12 Thompson and his son visited health ones. Adolescent vaccine clinic. Thompson says. In part, it's about peace of mind. It's gonna make it easier to feel comfortable being out in about go on trips on keep everybody safe in the same process. The Fizer vaccine for middle and high schoolers was approved last week. A change Sunday in Denver and many Metro area counties for the general population as well. Mass are not required for those fully vaccinated, although private businesses can make their own decisions on masks for workers and customers. In Lakewood Sunday morning, police say a bicyclist was killed after a driver drifted into the bike lane and collided with her. It happened around 10 A.m. on west Alameda Parkway and South Indiana Street. Police say the driver of the vehicle remained on scene. The victim, an adult female, was taken to the hospital where she died of her injuries. The driver was arrested for a drug related, do you why additional charges of vehicular homicide will be presented to the Jefferson County District attorney's office. The identities of the victim and suspect have not yet been released. Rocky split a four game Syria's with the Reds, losing the last two Sunday after taking a 6 to 1 lead into the eighth inning behind a strong performance from starting pitcher Antonio sends a Tele. The bullpen struggled, giving up six runs in two innings. Two of those runs scored after a wild pitch and a passed ball plus, the bullpen had four walks and a hit by pitch manager But black yourselves The lately game with the ourselves and that's something we breached that happen. The Rockies are on the road tonight, kicking off a three game series against the Padres in San Diego. K Away coverage starts at 7 30. I'm Chad Bauer on K Away News radio 8:50 A.m. and 94 1 FM for exports Traffic centers. You start coming this morning on the main highway to find getting around, actually. Very easy. None of the overnight roadworks causing major problems at this time so you can find speech. Normal one c 4 74 70 nothing slowing it down through the tech center on I 25 I 70 across town. It's in a really decent shape. You've got no delays of any kind 60 lake with no problems. You'll make a time on 36 between here in Boulder and the right out to the airport. Opinion Boulevard should be uneventful. Thoughts 31 pinpoint whether it's going to be cloudy with rain today High of 63 Tonight Slow 48 tomorrow high of 64 within the lower 48 once again Currently it remains cloudy and 53 I'm Gary Album Keohane News Radio live everywhere on the I Heart radio app. Owning a home has never been easier or more affordable. And if you're a veteran or an active.
"bauer" Discussed on Happy Even After with Ms. Renee Bauer
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Fresh update on "bauer" discussed on Coast to Coast AM with George Noory
"By noon. Ya's on another run scores. It's 7 to 6 Cincinnati on a wild pitch, The Reds have scored two runs. In the inning On one hit 76 was the final score. Colorado starts a three games Syriza with the Padres in San Diego. Today. K Away coverage starts at 7 30. I'm Chad Bauer on K O a news radio 8:50 A.m. and 94 1 FM from Bedford Sports Traffic Senate still blocking your left lanes North on I 25 a week and Broadway You have got an accident and you'll have to get around that there's no issues on I 70 across town. See.
Shaw, Lauer lead Brewers past Bauer, Dodgers 2-1
"The pitching matchup was a mismatch but was Eric Lauer and the bullpen that helped the brewers nail down a two to one win over the Dodgers Lauer pitched the first five scoreless innings and four relievers were good enough to outdueled reigning Cy Young Award winner Trevor Bauer Bauer had one blemish he gave up a fourth inning two run Homer to Travis Shaw in his complete game four hitter Shaw says the brewers knew it would be difficult to score on power it's tough to rack up a bunch of hits after it against a guy like that so when he makes a mistake you got to kind of capitalize on it the Dodgers have a couple of rally snuffed out including in the ninth the Dodgers scored against brewer closer Josh Hayter with then got Mookie Betts to fly out to right field to end the game with the potential tying run on first base Chuck Freeman Milwaukee
"bauer" Discussed on Happy Even After with Ms. Renee Bauer
"One of the most common things i hear from people getting divorced is how do i start dating. What is dating even look like now. How do i make a profile. Or they say. I'm too old to date. Or maybe they say i'm too set in my ways to date or maybe i'll just never date again while today's episode is all about looking for love a few episodes ago. I spoke with a men's dating coach while today. This one is for the ladies and my guest talks all about dating post divorce so stay tuned the happy even after poetry copy even after podcast divorce ups. But it doesn't need to define you. It doesn't need to be end of your story. The happy even after podcast meet your host renee bauer and award winning divorce attorney peacemaker author and founder of course an online divorce educational program. He's been doing this work for almost two decades and she is passionate about all women make it out the other side. The happy even after podcast. Let's.
Electric SUVs Star in a New Off-Road Racing Series
"The sport of off road racing cars and trucks speed over. Desert sand buddy fields and rocky terrain usually these vehicles have gas guzzling engines but a new off road race series called extreme e uses electric. Suv's they're really bauer food. They're quite big and they raise very fast around any kind of surface so they can go about one hundred and forty miles an hour on sand over rocks. That alejandro gog extremists. Founder and ceo. He says the five race series which started earlier. This month will showcase the potential of electric vehicles. But we thought we go one step beyond that and we good promote electric cars on the most remote corners of the planet that are affected by climate. Change the first race was held in the desert of saudi arabia. To highlight water scarcity. Another event planned for august will be held in front of a retreating glacier in greenland on land that was once covered in ice in each location extremely will support research and conservation. Work in the races will be televised. So god says they provide an opportunity to increase awareness about climate change among fans watching at home and inspire new people to get involved in climate
Hosmer Delivers Late for Padres in 5-2 Win Over Dodgers
"Eric Hosmer went two for four with two RBIs as the San Diego Padres beat the Los Angeles Dodgers five to two Hosmer tied the game in the seventh inning with an RBI double then drove in the go ahead run in a three run eighth inning as San Diego avoided the series sweep ending the Dodgers eight game winning streak the Padres first baseman talks about how important it was to get this victory last couple times we play these guys they've all been really good baseball games we've always felt that we've been all these games were right there so it was nice today to get over that hump and be on the right side of this one Trevor Bauer started for the Dodgers allowing just a run on three hits over six innings with seven strikeouts while Snell starting for the Padres went five innings allowed just two runs on two hits with seven strikeouts as well both would end up with no decisions Philip gone San Diego
Dodgers Home Opener Was One to Remember
"Somali. Friday was the home opener for the dodgers and they finally got to celebrate their world series title with their home fans inside los angeles is best known. Cova testing vaccination site a dodger stadium. You're there for the home opener on friday. What stood out to you about the festivities so the ceremony itself was kind of strange. The dodgers definitely do pomp and circumstance. Like nobody else. There's like this. Hollywood pressure to make super exciting and over the top today. We're gonna share some messages that have been recorded for the dodgers by some of the grades to the game. They had asked dodger players who were on the team last year to tell them who their favorite baseball player was growing up and then they went and got that player that former player to record a message a congratulatory message to that guy clayton clark here while what an unbelievable journey. It's been thinking kershaw's been he's from texas. He grew up worshipping. Clark number twenty two clark. So that made a lot of sensible apart congratulating him thirteen years in l. Mvp songs all star game appearances and now a world series ring. What an unbelievable career you've had so far young man recorded of mental. Julio reaction bradley. Leonard man beacon me Fan viewers and he kind of chided. Mookie betts for not picking hamper. A-rod was up there congratulating. Someone and got booed. I was super entertained because it was really awkward but the players seemed excited about it. So there you have it.
Los Angeles Dodgers' Trevor Bauer Subject of MLB Inspection for Suspicious Baseballs
"Dodgers big. Dad's we talked about. We were talking about the dodger. We're talking about the trevor bauer situation as someone was trying to pour cold water on the dodgers situation where ken rosenthal. The athletic was reporting that multiple suspicious baseball's from the dodgers starting pitcher trevor. Bauer were sent to major league baseball for inspection to which bauer went to social media to clear that. Hey not just me because if you single one person out it makes it sound like they're guilty. That is the way most people think but it is a a wide range of pitchers whose balls have been collected to see what's on the balls to inspect the balls. And the dodgers took exception to it and i get it now. Trevor responded to that today. Here's what drivers at since. It's only illegal for pitchers to have foreign substance on their person their body whatever. It's not illegal for a catcher to have it on his shin guards or his chest protector as we've seen it's not illegal for basement having on his glove or a center fielder to have it on his gloves. So far as i am aware potentially rule change. There's some language. But as far as i know the rules baseball it is legal for those players to have stuff on their gloves. So my question is if i threw a pitch and it gets thrown out and tested and then have the foreign substance on. How do they know that. It came from me and not from the catcher's glove or from the third basements glove or nfl ball. What does that happen to hit the bat. The handle of a bet where a hitter has pine tar or whatever other substance he wants which is completely legal so long as it doesn't go too far up that how are they gonna tell that that was knee and fault me for using four in substance when that could have come from any host of other places that are legal.
"bauer" Discussed on Happy Even After with Ms. Renee Bauer
"Getting divorced sucks. There is no way around it but through it. And it's so easy to get stuck in the negative emotions toxic conversations in embroiled in the blame game. It goes along with divorce like bacon goes with eggs but does it have to be this way. My guest today shares her story of how she conquered her own emotions to come out the other side at peace and equipped with the tools to have a healthy co parenting relationship with her ex in more importantly a healthy relationship with herself. Let's dive in the happy even after happy even after podcast divorce ups. But it doesn't need to define you. It doesn't need to be end of your story the happy even after podcast meet your host renee bauer award winning divorce attorney peacemaker author and founder of the course an online divorce educational program. He's been doing this work for almost two decades and she is passionate about tall women. Make it out the other side. The happy even after podcast. Let's jump.
Blooming Post-Divorce with Mindfulness Coach Deb Lauren
"Am here with deborah lauren. Who is a mindfulness and meditation coach in a divorced mom of two. She struggled through her own divorce in dealt with depression and guilt and all of the things that keep us stop when life. There is a plot twist our way but now she teaches a heart centered approach to healing in his dedicated to helping women through their divorce. So welcome thank you for having me rene. So let's just start with what you do and why you doing okay. Two important questions. So i am like you said mindfulness and meditation all wrapped up in mindset. And i coach primarily divorced working mothers. Who are really overwhelmed and kind of overbooked and over scheduled in overthinking all of the roller coaster ride that is the divorce life and having that work life balance and oftentimes they feel like divorce might sabotage that success their chance at happiness their ability to be the kind of parent they wanted to be all those different things and i really help women step into this new version of self that they have to be in order to make good on those desires in those wishes and goals for themselves and their family and their future and it can be really tough to do that when you are kind of stuck in the sadness of it all in in the hard parts of it all which they are and so. I started to do this. Because i myself am a divorced mother and when i was going through it there was no such thing as this at least i didn't know that there was. I didn't know this kind of support was out there and i went through a really tough
"bauer" Discussed on Happy Even After with Ms. Renee Bauer
"Podcast meet your host renee bauer and award winning divorce attorney peacemaker author and founder of course an online divorced educational program. He's been doing work for almost two decades and she is passionate about athletes. All women make it out the other side. The happy even after podcast. Let's jump in. Have you ever met someone for the first time and immediately felt a connection with them. Well that was what happened with today's guest. She and i connected over instagram when we hopped on zoom to record a podcast interview. I felt like i had known her forever. In from that day forward we decided to work together in other ways. We launched a mastermind together and we show up every week now to do a live over instagram to talk about all of the things our mind we get real and raw and we laugh a lot to this. Girl is a beacon of light in so inspirational. She also happens to have an incredible voice. So let me introduce you to my friend. jackie brubaker. Hi guys. Welcome to another episode of the happy. Even after podcast..
The Hinterkaifeck Slaughter
"In the eighteen sixties. Hinder kaifaqu was built on vast farmland in the state of bavaria germany. One large l shaped building consisted of the machine house the barn and the living quarters a second smaller building served as a tool shed while the rest of the property was framed by dense forest. The nearest town known as grow burn was less than a mile down the road from the farm. A slightly larger settlement called catholic lay south of the far which is where the farms name came from hinder meaning behind so behind. Caifa in one thousand nine hundred five. The unknown owner of enter kaifeng died and left the farm to his wife. A woman named to there are no known records of when or how chilean at twenty-six-year-old. Andreas gruber a wiry hardworking local. Perhaps she saw andreas as the perfect man to help manage the farm or maybe andreas saw opportunity in the property owning older widow. And of course maybe it was love regardless to chilean married. Andreas one year after her husband's death making him co owner of inter hyphen check and in eighteen. Eighty seven to chillier gave birth to their first daughter victoria. The family made more than enough to support a newborn but they were also froogle. Records are unclear over what their farm actually produced and sold but their wealth drew plenty of unwanted attention. The surrounding villages kayak and grow burn stayed and connected via gossip in since. The gruber's were fairly private people. They bore the brunt of the rumors. They were polite and helpful but no one considered them warmer friendly. They never hosted neighbors or joined community celebrations southern isolation as hostile but most just found it. Strange andreas was the target of most of the hearsay. His stinginess rudeness and temper drew plenty of criticism along with his abusive nature. There were whispers that he beat chillier throughout their marriage and win. Victoria was old enough. The abuse landed on her as well. One of the families biggest scandals happened in the early eighteen ninety s. The couple had a second daughter sophia but around her second birthday. The young girl mysteriously died. Andreas was rumored to lock his children in the farm seller for days as punishment. So those who knew. The family suspected that. If sophia wasn't killed by one of andrea says violent outbursts. She likely died of neglect. Plenty of villagers considered these stories tall tales. The gruber's might not have been the friendliest people made up for it elsewhere. They treated their employees well. They lent their neighbors food as long as it could be paid back and they hired those who desperately needed work. If the rumors affected victoria didn't show as she grew up she mingled with the neighbors more than her parents did. She was hard working. Pretty and approachable her. Normalcy seemed to calm people's suspicions of the family in nineteen. Fourteen twenty-seven-year-old victoria married carl. Gabriel a man from the nearby town of law. Little is known about karl or the arrangement of this marriage whether it was for love or more practical matters the latter seems likely since this union led to changes in hendrick affects management for unknown reasons. Andreas enchiladas senior had passed down. Ownership of hinder kaifeng. Back to victoria curl was also made owner of the farm. Thanks to their marriage contract whether it was. Victoria's union the presence of carl in the house or the new ownership. The first year of their marriage was a disaster. Especially for carl testimonies suggested that. Andreas mistreated carl in. Refused to step down as patriarch based on andrea says history of abuse. People whispered about screaming matches and violent fights. Carl bitterly complained to neighbors about how unhappy he was. At the gruber's he told his friend. Laurenz schlitt and bauer that the family was greedy. They even made him skip meals to save money.
Vaccine withheld from hospital that gave Trump Tower shots
"Have to move on to this bombshell story. That blocked club first reported this week. Loretto hospital in austin before we get into all the impropriety here today. They said that they are reprimanding their coo and their ceo for these improper. Vaccinations kelly bauer. Do we know what reprimand means. In this case. I have to to politicians who are on the hospital's board of directors. And all they would say at the time was that we put out this statement. We're not going to elaborate on rep. What it means to reprimand so we are still trying to figure that out and see what could be happening to the ceo coo. Okay so the first story that you published here was that they the coo. Dr notion med has an apartment in trump tower about two and a half million dollar apartment and the hospital. That has these vaccinations for folks on the west side. Improperly administered vaccinations to trump tower employees. Is there any evidence of some sort of trade-off or exchange or how how this came to be well. We spoke to leto hospital and their ceo. George miller says that it was actually him who helped set up this event but what we found is that right or workers at trump tower told residents that it was loretto hospital that reached out to them now. Loretto hospital is saying that its workers who reached out to them. So it's very much a. He said she said situation. But the city's department said they are looking into it and investigating why these ineligible workers were able to get shots. Before other people and also ineligible were cook. County judges and guest preach judge that also got vaccinated. And there's some different answers onto how that happened. Even though those were not allowed in the current phase as well amanda vindicated. You look at the board of this hospital. As kelly mentioned there's to state lawmakers that sit on the board There's a state lawmaker. Camille lilly that works for the hospital. This is a hospital that gets tens of millions of dollars in reimbursements from the state's medicaid program. Is there a conflict of interest. Here that there can be this much clout on a hospital board. I mean those are certainly questions that were all asking. What sort of favors might members of the war getting terms of the vaccines employment whatnot. We're we're not saying that there is merely that these are the questions to ask in. This gets to something that we've talked about a lot as there's been a lot of corruption of course in springfield and that is that there are really lax economic interests statements conflict of interest rules in then again to place. Where have devil's advocate there. There are those who say it. Is it positive when you have. For example he state legislator employed by hospital because that brings along a expertise. This is a citizen legislature. It is technically a part time job and the reason for that being was because you want to bring in farmers dentists doctors people with all different sorts of knowledge so there are certainly two sides to that point but given kelly's reporting the trump tower. I think that's what it is. It's just it's it's the who got it because these are. There's a lot to look into here and kelly bars. You mentioned that the city's health department is investigating. They've halted vaccinations to that hospital. What do you anticipate. They're going to uncover in their probe. Well we've heard from multiple sources and people questioning why workers at trump tower who are able to get vaccinated and not other hotel workers now. We've also seen that. The ceo's church was able to get vaccinated. This doctor arwady. The head of the city's health department said today that they are investigating they will not be sending doses to loretto hospital until they are confident. Those doses are going to be appropriately.
"bauer" Discussed on Happy Even After with Ms. Renee Bauer
"Podcast meet your host renee bauer and award winning divorce attorney peacemaker author and founder of course an online divorced educational program. He's been doing work for almost two decades and she is passionate about athletes. All women make it out the other side. The happy even after podcast. Let's jump in. Hey everyone welcome back so. This episode is all for the guys because i keep hearing. Guess say hey when you're going to have an episode from me so This is it. So i am bringing you daniel herald. Today he is a divorce guy over forty rock gonna ask his age because that would be impolite but he started a blog and it instagram page on a whim for other divorce. As who were forty and fifty plus years navigating the world of found in unexpected singleness. And what he's been doing. I'm quite frankly has just been blowing up so this turned into so much more than just an online space or in instagram. Page in it's turned into events that are being hosted across the country That involve happy hours in acts throwing in all kinds of fun stuff. So i wanna daniel to come on today in. He graciously accepted to talk about what it is that he's doing in his own dwarfs journey. Because you know it's not just the woman who struggled through divorce and have great stories of reinvention. Welcome thank you. Thanks for having me on monday. No problem so let's just start with why you starts at your instagram page. Is called divorce over forty that you actually started with a couple of other people. Why don't you just tell me a little bit about that. And what inspired you. And what was the intention behind it. That's a great question. And i get that. A lot of the really wasn't any Intention at all as far as Accomplish from it so early. This summer with there was a group of about six of us friends that were hanging out. We're all kinda tired of dating. All of us were divorced in our forties and we had a couple of creep into the fifties and we just were having a lot of fun and just being friends. And we're doing everything together and we thought why don't we create an instagram account. Just to kinda chronicle our life still he set up. This divorced over forty instagram account in august and each of us wrote about something about divorce and instead of kind of self deprecating social fun account we were all really raw and transparent and really talk about the struggles that we went through..
FCC Approves Plan For 3-Digit Suicide Prevention Number
"Call in case of an emergency. The bill making its way through the state legislature would create a hotline to have counselors, not police respond to people experiencing mental health crises. KCRW's Tara a tree on has more In the future, you might texture dial 98 to be connected with mental health professionals. The number is a part of the Miles Hall Lifeline Act, named after a 23 year old black man who was fatally shot by Walnut Creek police during a mental health crisis. The bill's author, Democratic Assemblywoman Rebecca Bauer, Kayhan says a comprehensive crisis response system could prevent stories like halls since 2015 a quarter of all fatal police involved. Shootings involved mental illness with black men dying disproportionately. Hey, Hands. Bill would instruct 911 calls regarding mental health emergencies to be transferred to 988 dispatchers for both lines would be able to decide who the appropriate responders are. And 988 is the new national suicide prevention and Mental Health crisis hotline created by the federal government last year, states are required to activate that line by July of 2022. Support for NPR comes from a
"bauer" Discussed on Happy Even After with Ms. Renee Bauer
"Host renee bauer and award winning divorce attorney peacemaker author and founder of course an online divorced educational program. He's been doing work for almost two decades and she is passionate about athletes. All women make it out the other side. The happy even after podcast. Let's jump. Hey everyone welcome back to another episode of the happy even after podcast and i am super pumped for this conversation today. So let me introduce you to my next guest. She wears all of the hats. She's a mom wife headaches speaker podcasts. Host former ceo of a major corporation in now author. She has smashed all of the glass ceilings by doing things her way and has lived to talk about it. She quit her corporate job when she was at the top of her game because she wanted to help others climb the ladder have a life that is authentic her new book you do you wish is so much fun and so inspirational and i'm so honored to call this woman might friend mentor and inspiration so meet erin hats costas. You're so sweet. What an introduction. So they'd you awesome. I am you know the book is almost coming out. And i get to spend some time with you so your mantra is authenticity. You breathe it you live you lead it you model it like it is your life. So what does it mean to be authentic. Yes it's so funny to me. I'll say right Cut it off at the pass. I'm not that person that's out there. Preaching the yourself as synonymous as we say that that it is about authenticity my passion around authenticity really came out of the success that i had my corporate career and like with anything. I didn't frigging no. I didn't have a name for it. I didn't know what it was until after the facts you know. This wasn't something a badge that i sort of war. I'd heard the word but for me. Authenticity talk about in the book. First of all. It's a much more nuanced and powerful concept and we can talk about that and it is not something just passive. Authenticity is actually something that you can use as a strategy as your secret weapon is it's liberating shore..
"bauer" Discussed on Happy Even After with Ms. Renee Bauer
"What books can we have to look forward to where there's the second in the series and it's supposed to be titled blackheart lane but there might be a title change but it's the detective kimberly king serious and then. Hopefully i will be an announcement out for the film and television rights for the perfect marriage. And then if this book sells on submission. Perhaps that i have no idea. I'm not. I'm not even like counting on it. 'cause i did that before and it was terrible. It's it's an amazing story though. It's just. I think that your story. And why i really wanted to have you on here was just because it was this. You just kept going. You kept picking yourself up in you. Captain imagine if you stopped at rejection one. Oh one or rejection to ninety nine you know you would have. You wouldn't be holding your your book in your hand and i think that that's the moral. Is that no matter what you just keep going. Yeah that's and i think. Honestly most things just require a lot of perseverance if you want to be kind of an outlier in there and publishing is one of them. Because it's a it's it's so hard there are so many gatekeepers. There's so many people have to say yes and they have to say yes at the right time and it doesn't always happen. Thank you so much for being here. I am so excited to watch your journey. I can't wait to watch the perfect marriage on netflix. Or wherever it ends it was definitely end up somewhere and there will be talking about that instead of the undoing exist awesome. Thank you so thank you and good luck and everyone needs to pick up a copy of the perfect marriage and read it because you will not sleep the day that you get that because it's that good it will keep determine the pages all night so thank you geneva. Yes thank you for having me. That's around up with us. At ms rene bauer dot com. Remember to read in review and share with anyone. You think might find this episode helpful. You can change your story and live happy even after..
"bauer" Discussed on Happy Even After with Ms. Renee Bauer
"By a publisher in new york. Also but it's going to start rolling out the summer of twenty twenty one. It's not just in the united states. I have someone in all countries and that's the beautiful part about it. I want to impact and have someone being able to read it in another country or another part of the world and it's gonna be translated in seven different languages so that's awesome to mazing and i. It's oh my god like you just gave me the chills because the project is so meaningful to have to gather a bunch of women say like wow like. These are all amazing humans. And they're doing amazing things and they're on a journey for discovery and it's evolving and they're reinventing themselves like. I think that that is awesome. I think that that's just so inspiring. And i'm just so excited to see at so. Thank you for putting that out in the world. Because i think that that women need need that they need to be inspired in have cheerleaders in that. We don't have that. Because i would have never been like when i started. I didn't have any followers. I didn't have anybody. But i had a dream and i had a voice and i just started reaching out to women and connecting. And if it wasn't for the ones that took me under their wing. Yeah and what. I love about what you're saying. Is you know you're right on you. Can scroll through anyone social media page. It looked so perfectly curated. But you're saying anyone else will say the same thing like there's a grind. There's a hustle. There's a discovery process in. There's that work that that happens on the back end. Everyone goes through that so no one living this this perfect life. It's just. It's a journey. And i think the more that we share that message the better the other woman who who feel like maybe they're in a bad place can kind of inspiration from that and understand that there really is a light at the end. I'm not gonna right there at as a hundred percent accurate and you are never too late or you think to be innocent but you know what you're right where you need to be. I mean that's just the bottom line if it's delayed tumor three years and that's what's supposed to happen if everything comes in it's automatically you know smooth sailing and then you know that's the way it was but with your enthusiasm and you just keep chipping away each day in doing something i mean. That's just the bottom run. So you and. I are about the same age and i think a lot of the listeners. On this podcast or about that same age to in. I think that that message is so important that it's never too late. Never too late to quit the job and start your business. Is deborah too late to leave a marriage. That isn't loving anymore. It's never too late to do to really do anything like you can start today. Start now because you should be happy. You are allowed to want to be happy. That's right. that's totally corrected on all my platforms. My age group is twenty. Four to seventy no matter what. I'm an analytic fanatic. And i totally love tracking all of it. But then i have. A spot were Fifty percent men because they want to know and they still get more. I mean you know bonds. Not like all women. I get a lot of audience for men too because they want their women and the people that they're empowered and that's important too so yeah it's just it's never too late you know. I heard a story a while back. That man was ninety and he started over and painter in became a professional painter and was selling in our galleries. At ninety. i mean what the heck that is amazing that is never never too late and hey my grandmother lived till she was ninety six and outlived two husbands and boyfriends. I am that funny. That's hysterical. How do we find you in. Follow you and all of that. Of course all of these links are going to be in the show notes. But if someone's listening out there in his. I love her. I want to work with her like. How do they connect with you. Yeah anna dellarosa dot com. I have a little thing on there where they can go in and do lake. They get free of the meditation and mindfulness interview. If they just sign up like onto the email molest or they can book a free discovery. Call which is like thirty minutes and we just like we do just chitchat and get to know each other and safely. We were rid together. Or i just give them a guideline and then if they want to start now or later. It's just totally up to them or always on instagram. Have my personal The dellarosa or my empowerment is empowerment quotes. And then my woo. One is manifesting junkie and then chance of course always have to. He's a man. He's my boxer and he'll be seven in march but he's been my the person you know. He's been my go-to in my cheerleader. The whole time and he's asked the boxer dot com at chance the boxer instagram. Sorry i love. The empowering quotes one because some of them are just like really funny. Some of your poza mike. hell yes. That's exactly what i was thinking. And i just didn't like the words in commodity my mouth so it's still it so i do them on the will everyday day. I just shut up. That's what i'm building day or i'm going through or it inspires me or hits me and that's how i do every single one of my pages. I never have anything planned. I know a lot of people. Teach that in our horses. But i don't i lo and i literally do my quotes as that day because i know that. Hey that's how i'm going. And i want people to feel it so i am so grateful to spend this time with you. I cannot wait for your book to come out. Because i think that that's going to be like the christmas gift next year. Like getting a copy of one's exactly and that's the thing like everybody will be out. There will have launched parties and stuff like that. but it's just everybody coming together and supporting each other. Because that's really all about you know that love it. Thank you so much girl. I cannot wait to see what you're doing at ninety. There's i'm for that. I know me to wait to see what you're doing. Love all right thank you. That's up with us at ms rene. Bauer dot com. Remember to read interview and share with anyone. You think might find his episode how you can change your story and live happy even after..
Los Angeles Dodgers' Trevor Bauer Vows To Learn From Social Media Mistakes
"Our spoke with reporters a couple days ago after signing that deal with the dodgers. The dodgers landmark agreement with bowers been met with clear reservation and in some instances disdain by some of the team's fans although they're concerned aren't about is projected onfield performance bowers boundless social media activity included includes instances that have prompted accusations of online bullying too which involve women who became subject harassment by bowers followers. Bauer after signing three year. Two million dollar deal with opt outs throughout said last thursday that he is evolving. Everyone makes mistakes in the past. I try to learn from them. I try to learn as quickly as i possibly can try to understand other people's viewpoints on things and be better in the future. I think if you look at the history is baseball player. I history on social media. My history is a person for those who know me well. They'll see that. I have played that process. Everything that i do. I'm committed to doing that. Moving forward as well and i'm here to be a positive impact on anyone that can be both in the community in the clubhouse on the field at the stadium. Whatever the case says so. I'm excited to be here. I'm excited to win with this with this group. I'm excited to interact with a dodger fans and the community of l. a. I grew up here. I've been a long time. I spent twenty years here before. I signed professionally. I my parents are still here. A member of the community. I still consider myself a member of the community. And i look forward to having a positive impact on the community.
"bauer" Discussed on Happy Even After with Ms. Renee Bauer
"Podcast meet your host renee bauer and award winning divorce attorney peacemaker author and founder of course an online divorced educational program. He's been doing work for almost two decades and she is passionate about athletes. All women make it out the other side. The happy even after podcast. Let's jump in. Hey everyone welcome back to another episode of the happy even after podcast in boy. Do i have a treat for you today. My guest is probably well known for her. Role in. Orange is the new lack as bath. The baby killer. She's also been in the blacklist sneaky pete bored to death. The big house of cards person of interest. Guiding light in the list goes on and on and on. She's also been in films. such as kilimanjaro. The smurfs in probably a couple dozen more. And she's worked on and off broadway in one. The elliot norton award for her work in theatre. Her name is finnerty. Steve's in her resume is a mile long but today we are here for a very specific purpose and it's to talk about her new film that she wrote produced in starting in. It's called the before and after it's about a middle age actress who is suddenly forced to figure out who she is what she wants in how to move the on in life after her marriage falls apart when she catches her husband cheating. After fifteen years of marriage. it's raw. It's deep emotional and i am so thankful that i had the privilege of viewing this film. And i'm so excited to chat with the star today so just a a couple lines about the film. It takes place over the course of one day as the main character. Jenny is auditioning for a role that triggers memories in pain of her own. So she's broken..
2021 Road to the Kentucky Derby
"Coming down to the line. Dynamite here comes from bauer a run them down. Don't know what caliber he yet. You know Obviously running breeders cup races very respectable. I don't think jim just going to be an issue with him. He's not a very big horse. she's got some good mechanic. He's got a foot so we'll see we'll run off the well quarter mile and based on a synthetic surface. See what happens. It's still midnight. Bourbon pass the sixteenth bourbon proxy mandolin. Gamely here it is for midnight. Farben ben's look compli big beautiful horse that runs some solid races as a two year. Old man. I definitely think that there's more of a lot more mature horses a three year old and put it together in the very good. You know he's just a big beautiful horse for the huge pedigrees it. There's always been a gorgeous mover. And i think obviously you know very excited about the three year old program at fairgrounds here in louisiana and mild sixty mile lecomte. Eighth risen star in the mound. Three louis c. I'm very sure should suty. Welcome to the equine forum now. Here's mike penna here. Hall of famer. Steve asmussen california based mike mccarthy talking about their talented three year olds looking to take another step toward the twin spires. And it makes you realize the first saturday in may is edging ever closer now. Only seventy seven days nine hours forty three minutes and wait for fifteen seconds until the run for the roses. Yeah can you tell us a little
Trevor Bauer signing with Los Angeles Dodgers
"Was a big day in the history of the los angeles dodgers. They went out and signed the biggest free agent on the market. The biggest free agent of the off season that is trevor bauer who will now join a dodgers rotation that includes bueller and kershaw and price and may and some combination of that. Trevor bauer coming off the national league cy young award. He was unbelievable last year. He was unbelievable the year before in cleveland almost won the cy young they're lindsay. You're a big fan of a actually. You broke the news at some point that he was leaving. Cleveland is that what it was now it was. I traded to cleveland. It was huge. There's a three way trade. With cleveland. The arizona diamondbacks and the rights. And so first. Here's powers lineage. He went to heart high in valencia. Then he started in the d-backs organization. They traded him to cleveland then. He went to the reds and won the cy young award. And now he's going to the dodgers. Wow and he almost won it certainly. He was a contender at least once if not twice with the indians and he's got a bunch of he. He has a weird training methods and he's into spin in the ball and he's he he works with that. Spear you know that. I don't know if you've ever seen if you want to learn more about our google. Trevor bauer hbo real sports. They went out and did a whole story on his training methods mostly which he doesn't a garage influenza and it's really interesting he's he's a he's like really eccentric and it's gonna be really fun to have him here. Yeah it's gonna be absolutely loaded absolutely loaded
"bauer" Discussed on Happy Even After with Ms. Renee Bauer
"Dating after divorce can be fricken scary. Swipe left swipe right howdy address. What do you say guys. This episode is for you. Because i sat down with the real life hitch. He's a men's dating coach and he is about to spill the beans on dating in how not to suck while you're doing it. So buckle up and let's go for a ride the happy even after happy even after podcast divorce oops but it doesn't need to define you. It just doesn't need to be end of your story the happy even after podcast meet your host renee bauer and award winning divorce attorney peacemaker author and founder of course an online divorce educational program. He's been doing this work for almost two decades and she is passionate about all women make it out the other side. The happy even after podcast. Let's job in. Hey everyone welcome back to another episode of the happy even after podcast. I'm your host renee power. And i have a treat for the guys today. I've had listeners..
Players Union Rejects MLB's 154-Game Season Proposal
"Latest proposal to delay the start of the season. The union issued a statement saying that after a review it would not accept the deal. MLB proposed a 154 games slate with expanded playoffs under the plan, the season would have been delayed a month but still include full pay for players. Players will instead continue to prepare for an on time start to the 2021 season. Our next update at 10 o'clock I'm Chad Bauer on K
Interview with a Psychic
"Welcome to kiss myths and mysteries. I your host kit chrome today's interviews with internationally known psychic and medium sharon bauer who is also the author of the book. Eternal love immortal. Today's podcast comes from the rogue valley metaphysical library. Welcome sharon and thank you for taking the time out of your busy schedule to thank you kid. I really appreciate this opportunity to share with you as well as your listeners. The parts of my book. That i think are really important to be revealed. That's great and i have to start off by saying i really enjoyed your book. And it's divided into eight sections and for the listener so they have a sense. This book is just uplifting at really fun to read. But it's easy torri because his she's sharon. You got a divided into eight parts. So i'm just gonna go through this briefly part one. I have so much to say. I hardly know where to begin. Part two releasing all beliefs part three truth always prevails are four if love was the only factor those in the afterlife would remain with us here or would remain here with us heart. Six our beloved pets which is really interesting parts. Seven hate part eight. If i i felt the presence of a pure that comes from debut in though so young and it's it's just a great book on many of the stories deal with the spirit that has a message for a loved one and you often refer to the ceases being on the other side of vail before really get into the book. I wonder if you would describe the process. What you go through or how the spirit comes to you and also if you could describe this veil that you mentioned i'm actually get. There are two veils. I call them the veil of forgetfulness. The first male is between the pre existence and our existence existence here on this earth. Playing the second vale is available between the earth and are moving forward into the paradise or heaven or to the next ram the veil is a thin membrane. And the reason why call it. Forgetfulness is because as we pass through we forget our previous existence and and the members there however when we pass through the second veil the veil that separates at the time of death are conscious soul christ consciousness. That of the experiences that we've had here does go with us to the other side. The consciousness of the brain being and the physical body that guys with the physical wadi show. We're taking with us those memories and those experiences with us. When repass the veil. I started experiencing this when i was a very young girl. My father was a logger and he was killed his catt turned over on magnon cala oregon and showed that was my first experience with death There's a feeling of abandonment. Masa that goes with this feeling and so questioning a wandering inquiries you know my irish five and my baby sister died. I was six when my second father passed. And so i kind of have grown up with this questioning as to wear. Bu you go you know so that was really important part of my life this unknown and wanting to know an and having the desire to shake out and find okay. That's i got something here. That is kind of the preface for part. Three truth always prevails. I'd like to read this because it talks a little bit. I guess of you where you're like. You just mentioned you're kind of coming from this. So this is this is As i mentioned the prophets part three. It's the importance of truth. Resides on both sides of the veil. Truth has a certain ring to it. Speaks to everyone. In fact most of us recognize truth in our gut. If you paused with what is being said and noticed a deep feeling residing within you will experience truth the feeling of peace or adult troublesome spoken statement will penetrate. You're very being. It brings a knowing of or awareness. There is a spirit in each of us helping us to unerringly determined truth from falsehood my truth. That would be you. Why truth. I have knowing i speak with those in the afterlife. I think that's a tremendous statement and one of the things that struck out to me about. This book is through so many of the of the stories about readings and meeting people and spirits is. There's about in this. Because i think for so many people they say i'll come on but reading the different stories. A lot of people were skeptics. And i wanted to ask you about that. What what is your experience meeting somebody. Who is i. Guess you would say on non believer. Actually i welcome that because most of the time that is orchestrated by a loved one on the other side that is wanting to make connection with this person. That doesn't believe and so when that happens in i'm there and that their loved ones shows up then i'm able to bring through the information that's pertinent to them. The message that needed to come through comes through for them and with they being able to experience what i have. Experience is confirmation invalidation. Which is why mediums do is to bring through the validation. The confirmation that life is eternal and only the individual having their personal experience with a loved one from the other side. Something that the medium would have no awareness of but could bring that through bearing witness to that family member that their loved one still continues to exist in the end the another rep and i know that a
The Cubs Are Sitting Pretty in the NLC
"They can look at the division. Tony you look at all the teams that the cubs have to but up against dan. We haven't seen a whole bunch of the squads in the central be. You know they haven't made a whole bunch of moves during this off season and in the cubs they're in that basket as well so when it comes to being competitive in the division right now. I think jed hoyer and david rawson as well as myself. I think everyone is of the mindset that this cubs team they can go out there and twenty twenty one and compete no matter what a yeah i think so for sure i mean you look at this division in every single team. All five of them has gotten significantly worse on paper going into twenty twenty one compared to twenty twenty you know the the reds are losing. Trevor bauer who. We talked about earlier in the podcast. I think you traded rozelle glossiest the angels. The potential transcending gray like who knows. We'll see some of that archie. Bradley was it was another pitcher. They acquired at the trade deadline atop reliever for them. He's gone cardinals. Have lost a lot of veteran guys as well. The pirates are trading away. Anybody of value right now in the brewers have you know declined to options are not options for guys like ryan braun and and so on so yeah off five teams really right now. Don't look better on paper than they did last year. But that doesn't mean that there's a wide open division for the cubs to go claiming i think right now the cubs have one of the best teams on paper. They have a manager. Year finalist david. Ross they have all those poor guys in the mvp candidates that we talked about before that if there are bounceback season from a couple of all of those guys than this offense is in much better shape than it was last year. So i think the real big question is just pitching for them you know. Where does the pitching come from from the cubs but yeah i think right now they can compete certainly with any team in the division
Yankees, Corey Kluber Agree To Deal
"Corey kluber. Probably one of the big prizes in the off season free agency in baseball signs with that up and coming team the new york yankees finalizing a one year. Eleven million dollar deal so the yankees. Anki sound money but it's a one year deal you know. That's what free agents are getting one year deals. They're not dj lemay. You got more. But he was a free agent with the yankees. They're not trevor. Bauer still sitting out there. George springer still sitting out there. I mean if you're an owner of a baseball team and you can't bring fans in and you gotta pay the players for one hundred sixty two games to make money so not signing people too big contracts
Threat Hunting Offsets the Technology Gaps
"We're not get my start. I would say to take back to a military law enforcement days. So physical security of course close protection Details so i've been in the space probably since seventeen in some form or fashion security I transitioned into cyberspace. Actually in early. Two thousand Working class i was part of the first development team of launching windows two thousand Iky server l2tp vpn server I was there at the fortunate. I guess you could call it Experience with bill gates and launching that in february of two thousand and the sony centre. It was the first appliance based vpn service powered by windows. And then i working for class. That time i also help build out the first cloud based vpn. Your cloud firewall service. Powered by chastised at the time was nortel cosign so that dates me a little bit And then building out. What was the first. Mp l. s. environment building out using twenty five forty seven would universe building out that the virtual router typist and so insecurity for a long time transitioned into more of a layer seven environment layer for like they're know with level three and building out the an mssp practice with inside a service provider will relaunch diaz Real so as part of the two thousand fourteen. Ntp attack with using Yola rod wears away to combat the two thousand fourteen biggest dos attack at that time Building out also Various types of security environments from secure email to secure access tumbling so In in building out the first Threatened telling as a service Taking intelligence encouraging that intelligence and turning it back and enriching that in empowering and into people sims decline sim so Been into space for quite some time and done everything from being on the keyboard to you're developing and strategizing and bring it to market some of the most robust and i would say sophisticated security services that south today and still active today when you look back on some of those earlier days you know thinking back to something like the launch of like you're saying windows two thousand two mean can give us some insights as to the evolution that you've you've experienced the growth in the the sophistication and capabilities of these tools. Mean when you think about the evolution of this i it's it's it's my body linked to see how we have evolved so much From the tumbling type activities more cloud base sas environments you no longer. Are we required ito to to actually launch a client on your device when we're using software as a way to connect using example as a celsius recently about a year and a half ago. I built out a appliance based service at allow us to run your ssl connections and using open vpn to a source gateway and then out to the cloud and basically all in two zero touch provisioning to say so to to evolve from having someone manually. You'll help you set up your tunnels establish tunnels you know. Establish appreciate keys. And connections that these major to automatically enabling that is just it's crazy to see how we've involved in. It's actually quite you know exciting to see where we're going to go because of covid. Nineteen right kobe. Nineteen has taught us so much that the next evolution of cybersecurity. And you know this would call borderless You'll environment is is going to drive us to more cloud around monitoring the compliance configuration changes things that we did not do in the past that we're going to be obligated to do in the future. Yeah i mean that's a really interesting point how we i mean I suppose it could be looked at as a as an upside. This push this You know we we pushing this outside of our comfort zones into new areas. While i mean you have to. Nail henrik conference on. Cybersecurity has never been Comfort right it's always been complex. It's always been hard to. Let's just call it like it is wanted to communicate to people to help you understand the value of it and three and i think the foremost is actually enabling it right because too often what i've learned over my years as a people it's still a compelling event meaning that a unless something happens to me i don't worry about it and it's so much like law enforcement is it's a lot around activities you know. Let's just take a home environment if the house around the street got broken into prior to that happening. You didn't do anything but now that it got close to home. What are you going to do. you're going to either. Go get a big dog. You're gonna put cameras up. You can put an alarm system. The problem we have today is that we're reactive versus proactive and cybersecurity has been that way for last year. I would say ten years of not fifteen years as very reactive and we're still reactive today. Even though we're being pushed outside of our comfort zone i mean. Think about kobe. Nineteen it was reactive right. We had to move quickly to To accommodate a remote workforce bauer coming back and doing what trying to figure out what holds that. I open to enable that from that reactive aspects. so it's a very interesting you'll bell curve that. I see that goes on where we're going up and down up and down and it's it's hard to keep out in front really is
Just What is Going on at the Esports Stadium Arlington?
"Sports stadium in Arlington is the largest Esports arena in North America this week. They laid off almost all their employees including former president. Jonathan Ogden Josh. Whose been at the Helm of the company for the past few years made it clear. There was plenty of discontent behind the scenes. He tweeted quote would love to talk about what's happened a t Sports stadium and my fears what will happen with the new Direction off all the details but need to tread lightly from a legal perspective and quote in other tweets. He makes it even more clear that the exit wasn't pretty and that the new leadership represents a drastic change from the team driving the stage over the last few years. The new president will be luke Bauer Bauer doesn't have much experience in E Sports at all. Jacob Wolfe tweeted yesterday quote Bauer is a 2020 University of North Palm. Just graduate and Linkedin shows experience running a pressure washing company power is a friend of Luke lights means and quote. Luke is the other figure involved with the company and he's a bit controversial Thousand Years. Apparently the grandson of Ray Davis a majority shareholder of the Texas Rangers who helped launch the venue according to Woolf the current CEO of Esports Arena Arlington is Neil Lyman a minority shareholder for the Rangers. And if that name doesn't ring a bell, here's a refresher Infiniti sports and entertainment. That's the company that bought optic gaming back in 2017 and made an absolute mess of it before selling it off to a mortal's about two years later. Now, it seems like Neil is taking another popular is Esports institution run by a gaming veteran and moving it in a direction of wage earner nepotism Bauer didn't interview with Kevin hit at the Esports Observer, which I will link below in it hit questions Bauer about an odd tweet from Luke leitzman lights been again appears to be Bridge between Bauer and the Texas Rangers owners who are making the decisions here lights been tweeted and then deleted e Sports Stadium Arlington will not at any time require requests or inquire about the vaccination record of anyone. I will be buried in the ground before this changes. That's just an odd statement to make from a public health perspective, especially as venues have been one of the hardest-hit industries by the covid-19. Demek Bauer claims lights been does not have the authority to make that call but his entire page was wild with feared claims. And now as I searched for it today does not exist. So weitzman's actual role at the company is not clear whatsoever. Jonathan quotes who did the article and said there is much much more to this and is in no way being transcribed fully booked. It's not a fault of hit. Of course. It's a fault of Bauer who just is not going to provide the full situation. We likely won't know the full story until Jonathan's NDA expires, but for now given meals poor history. Use words to say the least. We certainly aren't going to give him the benefit of the doubt here.
"bauer" Discussed on Happy Even After with Ms. Renee Bauer
"When was the last time you did something so scary so terrifying and so absolutely fair inducing that your palm sweated in you wondered if you could actually go through with this big scary thing. Did you do it or did you. Let fear paralyze you into inaction That hangs on my fridge. That says do one scary thing every day. i believe. eleanor. Roosevelt said it. Or something like it. I try to live by this quote in infused into every decision that i make sometimes just having the uncomfortable. Conversation is the scary thing sometimes. Quitting the job or starting a business is terrifying thing. Sometimes leaving a marriage is it. The question is do you stay stuck or do you move through it anyway. My guest today is a fear boss in. She has made it her life. Work to tackle fear head on. I loved this talk and after it was done i was inspired to do something crazy in radical with my business but more of that coming up next year i know she will inspire you to so buckle up because her energy encouragement or slap you awake the happy even after happy even after podcast divorce ups but it doesn't need to define you. It doesn't need to be the end of your story. The happy even after podcast meet your host renee bauer and award winning divorce attorney peacemaker author and founder of an online divorce educational program. He's been doing this work for almost two decades and she is passionate about all women make it out the other side. The happy even after podcast. Let's jump in. Hey everyone welcome to another episode of the happy even after podcast. I'm your host renee. Bauer and i have a super exciting guest here today. So let me just jump into it and introduce you to her. Because i really want to dive into what. We're going to be talking about today. So i am here with judy holler. Who is a bestselling author speaker host of the fear boss. Podcast in ceo of hall up productions. She's been professionally. Trained in improv theatre. In her book series. My homeboy became an instant bestseller. Which holding up. Now if you're watching this video. Her mission is to help you be braver. You were yesterday and smashed comfort zones by experimenting with fear. Her vision is a world so brave that the word regret has been removed from the dictionary. Because you are too busy making things happen for yourself. She likes her books. Non digital her wind bubbly in her music hip hop so welcome. Hi renee that's awesome. Can you just follow me around life and introduced me. Please share honored to be here. Hi everyone so..
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"What does it mean to be an influencer. We are influenced by everything around us. Our friends recommend a book they loved in. We're influenced when we order it. We see someone on our feet and a great outfit and we click the link and maybe purchase it. We influenced all the time in everyday by the world around us. There is so many external influences that impact our decisions. But today i'm talking with one of the top five influencers about doing something different than what everyone expected her. She talks about tapping into her own passion to discover what she ended. You're capable of and not letting anything such as age or anyone such as critics dictate all that you were meant to accomplish. Let's jump in the happy even after podcast. Happy even after podcast divorce ups but it doesn't need to define you. It doesn't need to be the end of your story. The happy even after podcast meet your host renee bauer and award winning divorce attorney peacemaker author and founder of course an online divorce educational program. He's been doing this work for almost two decades and she is passionate about all women make it out the other side. The happy even after podcast. Let's jump in. Hey everyone welcome back to another episode of the happy even after podcast and i have a special treat here today and i'm so excited to introduce today's guest. Now we have all heard of the word influencer but today we have a really big one here. And the what i love about. Her though is that her platform is about so much more than pretty pictures or a nice filter. So let me introduce you to mel vegas chef. Who is a fashion and beauty influence in blogger model in creative at heart. Her blog is called style by melva and she was rated one of the top five influencers by pixie. She has had major campaigns such as with reebok. But here's what. I really really just adore about her wine. Knew i wanted to have her on here. is she's not gonna take on partnerships unless feels good to her unless it's authentic to her and she's an entrepreneur really down to her core right from the very beginning so she believes in being authentic in her work and she speaks openly about her own struggle with body image and even critics in doubters along her journey so i had her on here today because at the heart of her work is the mission to empower women to go after whatever they want. So welcome. melvin thank you. Thank you for that lovely lovely introduction. That was really really good introduction. Thank you but yeah. I'd be here in chat with you. So let's just start with the like the. The simplest question in the basic is what is an influence. Because we've heard that term used all over social media lately in so let's just talk a little bit about it because it's kind of fun. Yeah okay so the way. I actually liked to look at myself is a content creator. It's a term that i welcome because it's obviously really nice to be able to to know that you have some kind words but you know when someone else calls me an influencer. I look on like. I never thought of myself that way. But it's really cool that you think of me that way so and influencers essentially i would say it's someone who has an influence and it's as simple as it could be like you haven't audience on social media it could be that you're in real life and i think both are you know very very helpful to have influence in relied on social media. Presence aren't online presents. But i think at my core i like to look at myself as a content creator and i think looking at myself as a content creator versus as influencer really helps me stay Crap creativity and creative roots and Yeah just pushed me more creatively. So hard as you get started on this journey. So i actually will backtrack way back when i was a little girl because i think it started there. I grew up quite overweight. I wouldn't even say overweight. I was just on the bigger side and everyone in my family. Everyone in my school everywhere tried to remind me. Just oh like dino. People are making fun of you have oily skin. Do you know that like you know my friends used to tell me like. Oh just like join a gym like why. Don't you just eat salads and stuff like that you know it's it. I think when you're young those kinds of comments we take it so much to heart and we really really tried to cut on dislike. Do what we can to make sure people aren't criticizing us. And i think the first tool i knew that i had was i knew i had night or fashion and i thought you know. People are criticizing the way that i look so much just based on my skin and like my weight and separate that at least maybe i can try to use fashion. As as a way to penalize given focus on something else so i started using fashion and really just experimenting with things that worked on meetings. That didn't work on me. And i think that's my love affair with passion. Beauty really started. When i was young and kind of use it as a tool i would say now. My relationship with it has changed a lot. I see fashion and beauty more as a tool to transform into your high itself in just tap into the confidence that's inherent within you. Riches you know needs a little spark to kinda get you up to get to that level every day but i think it started then and in terms action creating might inventing this not enough but like building. This spotlight for myself. I went to school where it was known as the number one scoop entrepreneurship and i studied entrepreneurship marketing. There but the fact is everyone that graduate. Not everyone but a huge majority of everyone that graduates from that school goes on the first two years to work like an ernst and young or. Pw all these big companies and that's also really great. People were working updates. Facebook can rule them all these amazing companies. But i thought to myself. Like why would i take all this education that i have about how to build your own business and go and give that to someone else and help someone else grow their genes so i loved. Fashion and beauty didn't have a chance to really do much in terms of taking classes or learn or go to fashion score. I think had if you internships but with that fashion beauty marketing entrepreneurship background. I knew first of all that. I wanted to graduate early. Because i had started my blog when i was in college and i was a sophomore and i was spending way where time thinking about a business in my blog my content but i was about classes so i told myself i'll be. We're gonna graduate early. We're gonna take a year to focus on loose. Think fulltime and then see where it goes and my one year has been up so i graduated in. May of twenty nine team right. Yeah nineteen and now here. I am so what i'm doing. Wow so that you just said so much there. And i'm like in wanted to dive into some of that but first of all like that idea of going to a job. That's you know your typical nine to five job. In sort of zapping the creativity out of you is you know and i think it's something that's so common and i think that we see that in after even after you've been in the workforce for a while you kind of lose that creative spark so you know it's it's incredible that at your age you were able to say like. I want to take the skills that i have. I want to take a passion that i have and i want to take this. That's innate in you turn it into something in like here you go world in. Here's what is out there. So i mean that's amazing. And i think that that just goes to when you're an entrepreneur. You are from the very beginning like there's no switch that flip it flips a certain age like every story i've ever heard of an entrepreneur starts when they are a a child or a teenager. So that's amazing so you talk about that. You're not a finished products in you. Bet your a work in progress and so can you share a little bit about that. Because i think that's that's really like a mantra for life..
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"No one thinks of the word divorce in a positive way. The big dig carries so many emotions with it. But what if I told you? There was something called the positive divorce movement. Don't believe me will. My next guest is leading the way in just that she shears why sometimes better apart is better than together. So listen up because she has a few things to say a maybe she can change your mind about why divorce can be positive. The happy even after happy even after podcasts divorce ups, but it doesn't need to define you. It just doesn't need to be the end of your story the happy even after podcast meet your host Renee Bauer, an award-winning divorce attorney, peacemaker author, and founder. Of course, an online divorce educational program. He's been doing this work for almost two decades and she is passionate about having all women make it out the other side the happy even after podcast. LET'S JUMP IN A. Hey there welcome to the happy even after podcast. So I am here today with a new friend of mine and I am so excited to have this conversation. So let me introduce you to Gabrielle Hartley. She is a nationally recognized divorce attorney online mediator in divorce strategy coach guerrillas. Unique nontoxic approach to divorce and she keeps ninety nine percent of her cases out of the courtroom and at the negotiating table she also teaches divorce lawyers hot to be better lawyers. Gabrielle in her work have been featured in people magazine The New York Post the, New York Times, and the Yoga Journal just to name a few and she authored the book better apart which was endorsed by Gwyneth Paltrow, which was so goal and we know when Greenwich was going through her divorce, she sort of revitalized the term consciously uncoupling. So she supports the books so welcome today out. Thank. You so much I'm so excited to be here with you. So I am really excited to talk about this and talk about this to another professional who works in this space and really has a handle on a perspective on how do we help people get through the other side and not just drive up costs and drive towards litigation. So you have promoted this term, the positive divorce movement, and that kind of goes against everything that the word divorce actually means. So can you explain what that is in why it's positive absolutely as such a great question thanks for asking so. Positive divorced movement is really to set a new tone around the global conversation about what divorce is. How many of us grew up in homes that were called broken I. Know I did right and. That's really creating a negative internal narrative for all of us. The positive divorce movement is the recognition that divorced doesn't have to be this shameful stigmatizing experience. It's actually a launch pad to creates a better right because if if your marriage was great, you would actually still be there presumably right and so it is a conversation starter. For all of us to start feeling better no matter. How the trajectory of our relationships in our life have been? That's such. A great point that you make that term broken gets attached to divorce in that in and of itself you think okay, it's broken. I'm broken. I failed in. It's you know I'm failing my kids and you the name of your book is better apart, which is you know really contrary to what so many people say when they talk about divorce new here Oh, you're better off sticking out for the kids and divorces bad and your kids will be damaged from it and why do you feel that sometimes someone a couples better apart than Better. Together. Yes. So some people can be better together and I. You know I'm definitely not like a divorce advocate, but when divorce has to happen to your point about like feeling like, Oh, my creating a broken environment for your kids like I am not divorced but I grew up with divorced parents. My narrative is like my less than because my friends. Are married like I carry that with me even now with all the incredible amount of work that I've done throughout my life, my career, my writing by speaking and speaking to like hundreds of thousands of other people who have traveled through this path forward. So I feel like the divorce process. The way it's navigated really makes all the difference. It's not the transitions between households that matter it's the conflict that's happening and better to be apart let your children be raised in two or at least one com or reasonably calm environment than you have one house hold. That's all a lot of conflict. Now, that said, there can still be chaos in a house. It doesn't mean you have to part ways just because things aren't perfect by if you rising to a level where it's getting to be bad for everybody, it might be time to say goodbye. And you talk about this percentage that you can help ninety nine percent of couples mediate and get through their divorce in a different way. So let's talk about the one percent though what are making those people not be able to mediate or negotiate like why are they stock in their the people that are going to court? Yeah. So that one percent is the percent that gets all the media attention. Right like everything about like slave narcissist like all the the sort of negative stuff because those people really do need help right. If you're dealing with terrorists on the other side and I don't mean someone who's bombing your house literally I mean someone who blow up every agreement that you make, you may not be able to settle. You also may not be able to settle if you know that one percent. Your spouse hires somebody. WHO has convinced your weaker spouse right that they need to go to court and fight about everything. So you have a terrorist acts you can have a terrorist ex-lawyer you can have a combination of the two. You'll may also have someone who has. Very. Added executive function so you need to at least bring them to the table by starting a case just because things started Gatien's is not mean they have to end there. It's a very, very small number of cases that actually go all the way to trial and when you think about the numbers of people that are the number of people that filed the worse and how few divorce judges are there it makes sense for a Year and a half when I was clerking in New York City, for judge, Jeffrey Sunshine, for about a year she and I were the only judge and court attorney resolving all the cases that were coming through the entire borough. So when you think about that, just one person cannot possibly here all the conflict. So if you're in the middle of a divorce and for your listeners and if you're feeling like, oh my Gosh, we're litigation there's A way out always always always. Well Open Asterix unless you have a total terrorist, the other side in which case, the court system is there for you. But even during the global pandemic, you can still either find a collaborative.
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"Training Facility in southern California and Those are my value system. That game of life is kind of the way. Look at the I learned in sports I carry into my lack but what I've learned about how my body connects to my mind my heart. In learning how my nervous system reacts like that has made me a better athlete even. As I'm declining physically active. The Jail I I know how to call my mind I know how to like I. Still Play Beach Volleyball and I can call myself down in the middle of appoint it's it's those things that I didn't know as a younger athlete. That were even affecting my game because you have physical game to go off of. I didn't know the mental side. So. It's been. It's it's one of my favorite things to train is just the young athletic mind people that want to go to the next next level. So it so important to for kids to learn that piece of it because I think in the way I was raised. It was go harder go faster train more. Not Slowdown in I turn to yoga to the end. Sometimes I'll take stretches time a week from it, but when I come back to the Matt Itar, like really takes a number of times in order to shut my brain off like he's still going. If you know that's what they call practice it's so true and and that that mentality of go hard. For like it doesn't last forever. It's yes. We have those moments but the recovery that time that we take to recover. Is So key in. Making us, performance our best. You can look at that from a an athlete's perspective Ray. You just take it right out into life and go you know what sleep is important downtime is important. Meditation is important. It recharges our system at helps us. Move things in our brain, hold onto stories and be more creative in all of those things that. I never knew until I started reading all this stuff. So yeah. So let's talk about your book on because it's out there in the world. Can you share a little bit of Oh why you wrote it and what's in the in between the covers a great expect It's called three hundred, sixty, five days of optimism, and it's basically a mindfulness routine where you get just one passage day not really meant to sit down and read the whole book at once one passage day most of the quotes came from my blog. That I had already started at the time. So I pulled a lot of it from my original writing, and then these were the quotes in the MANTRAS. The I had to use to get me through the earliest days of my divorce like when I was just one foot in front of the other. You just kept a very simple schedule and. Let it out I just didn't have a lot in me but I knew. My optimism that I knew everything was gone to get better these the quotes that got me through it so It's funny because they say you write your first book for yourself and I think it's very true I. Look back at these funds I see how how grown? Pass them a now i. Still Resonate with me but I see how I add onto them in my daily life, and my micro blog is also I'm taking the quotes from this book and I started a subscription service called everyday optimism and I take a quote from the bunch and I read a little micro blog about it. Comes with the daily action in a daily way to reframe how you think within optimus lands so It's just something I'm really big on their grades. Great. You can use it in a classroom friends that are teachers use them as conversation starters with their kids. I have a friend, who's a coach that she says, she reads it to her daughter at night and he talked about the quote it's been using some of my yoga classes. So it's it's it's just really good for that mindfulness habit of training your brain a little bit at a time. And do you now I'm going to put you on the spot. Yeah. What was the quote for today? Quote, for today. or it could be yesterday's. About I write him a week ahead of the I I just any quote I'm so one of my favorite ones is. Find the water absorbs tears better than any tissue ever could. And so I have a lot of stories like when I just can't hold it in. Anymore I go jump in the water and nobody knows if you need that moment where no one knows, you're crying which I'm I've become a fan my kids know now I cry all the time and it's OK. But I've had a lot of moments where I will just go jumping notion or jump in the pool and swim it out and the tears come. It's okay and they used to like sometimes I, look back and go that was hiding my pain but you know it's the waters absorbed a lot of my tears over the years so. I'm pretty connected to the water. Yeah. That's beautiful. All in where can we find your book with one of sorts available on my website at the optimist journal Dot Com and it's also available on Amazon. Are. Right. and. What about social media in incomplete you wanted to grandma's well, yes. INSTAGRAM AT OPTIMISTS JOURNEY IT'S J. O. U. R. N., and on Facebook a the optimist journal. Are, banked. Thank you so much. Everyone should go over to her website sign up for the micro blog because it's really good and you'll probably get lost in it as well. Really, alkyl useful information in it. So many gems there. So thank you so much wendy for being here and sharing your story sharing your autism when us absolutely thanks so much for having me. Have a great day. That's around link up with us at Ms. Rene Bauer, Dot Com, remember to read in review and share with anyone you think might find episode hopeful. You can change your story and live happy even after..
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"Be more focused towards the youth of today. Again, legacy there they're the ones that are going to change ABC changes world going forward. So we've made some really interesting connections with some individuals in the US who are doing amazing things within their schools principals committee called off school grimes, and we actually kickoff. Our pilot projects next week where we're connecting us from across the world tour, kicking off the UK and the US. We've created the plot for we're GONNA let these guys run it and see where it goes on the ideas will take this project into schools eventually. So as a little bit of an overview with what we're doing that that's amazing. So how Do we connect with you in mind you yet. Amazing. Thank you so much. So my instagram is Rachel j Ross Smith and you'll also get a handle for the conscious clack to there is row at my email is Rachel. Dot. Ross. Smith G MAIL DOT COM. You can find me on face because while Rachel No Smith coaching of cars anything I can. OFFER THEM I'm here for you in as always, all of that information will be in the show notes. So thank you so much Rachel everything that you said just really like it resonates with me and I know that there's GonNa listeners out there really feel everything doing billiard energy. So it's brilliant and it has absolutely nothing to do your accent even other new. Thank you in. Thanks everyone tuning in. That's Link up with us at Ms Rene Bauer Dot Com remember to read interview and share with anyone you think might find this episode how You can change your story and live happy even after..
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"Is just before the Mambro's cannot I really dont plays so Expediency starts relies none of CAR SPAT DONALD WITH A law research coaching Mentorship, I'm to deep dive in jet so I hope that's helpful. Yeah. And in terms of the books, there are I think there are so many books out there that all tackle this in a different way. So Romy, I read your mad ass in spirit junkie in. So the message and the fee was so similar but they each author approached it in such a different way. So I think that there's a fit on Air Nauru, you know you have to find what you're comfortable with the language that you're accountable with two. Absolutely. There too books ice I started with Vile Amion Gabby Bernstein Universe has your mark is secret we all know by the Law. Of attraction as a there's we're going to speak about the laws, but it's like that for me you know I really remember. In starting to see things happen in my life. You can even take a deeper dive into people like Napoleon. Hill naval in all of these great authors and thinking rich, you've probably heard what she's fully in Hell nevels. One of my favorite authors like these guys are like way back in the day you know they're they've been gone too long time, but actually this conversation was happening along time ago is always been arriving this just kind of being silenced abet. I'm so glad she was happening the world. Is becoming a conversation more streamlined, which is important because we have we have more power than were way off way were powered weight. So I just really want to encourage you guys to start to not not simply in I. Love that you make such a great way because right now look around like it's trendy but this is not trendy I mrs something that has enough hundreds of years not more as really been looked at and examined the ENSO's they were onto something back. Then you know it's So. Great. So you brought up the laws of attraction in I. think that this this is such a easy quick fix way you know like everyone wants the quick six Oh and been open myself up to this world wealth I wanna see something I want the payoff in hyphen for me. This is kind of like big the payoff that you start to see immediately, and so can you talk a little bit about what the law retraction is and how a someone implement some of that into their life today? Yes, sure. So I just want to I talk to him as well as the logger attractions the secret Oh, that that's one of the universal laws that we all have some awareness or most of us have some awareness of by just want to highlight you. First of all, there is loads of universal laws. Some people say, this hundreds to act in a loss studying the institute ROB Crocker's work. I really encourage you guys to talk to him station Babes and there's another awesome quite old because while called working with the law. An author called even Chandler on she as incredible. So I just wanted to first of all say that you're GONNA be by law attack she today I want to meet you guys aware that there is so many universal laws that you could work with you increase being when my favorite our understanding of everyone who come into contact with leave them with the feeling of increase in. Then high that reflects back in your life honesty's as I started applying not in my life and in my business is been game changing. Okay. So tell me a little bit more about that because I'm interested yet sheriff's law increase is literally just in a nutshell each individual you come into contact with you lease the with the feeling of increase night this can be as simple as. When you're at the shop and you're buying something and you just acid the person tell like higher argue. Like how are you today? I, just want to let me know that I love her service. Leaving them with the increase or in business maybe it's going activist above and beyond what you've been doing. That snuck conversation just offering something. If you're doing a sales call, go into the sales call with the understanding the intention day no Newmar what happens you're gonNA leave that person with the feeling of increased. You're GONNA offer those the value. Oh Rachel. So I, just got like super excited because imagine if someone going through a divorce and you know the odds with their soon to be axed in have co parenting relationship imagine if parents adopted that in their co-parenting relationship in a how that transform that that relationship in the. Men. That's an amazing concepts that such a beautiful example. You've just given an agenda and it takes practice, but I can promise you when you start to play this as part of you as your state of being honestly, you will see your relationships professionally and personally really open up and it ties back into the law of attraction near the law of attraction. As a by what you there you're GONNA get back. Now I'm GonNa give you two examples onto perspectives me myself. Example Ashley Rollback a few years I just come off. I was I have not been mighty just you guys remind by was engaged to be married. It fell apart valuables by widening being with yawn safe for twenties with the thing we were teased. Childhood sweethearts traveled the world together. So I haven't gone to the actual divorce I didn't get the the modest certificate we were. We were due to be minds behind you know our relationship it was just. Incredible but. Ended in a difficult place, however, we were able to find forgiveness on love with India I just want to offer that as well too. So you can know where I am in terms of bikes in going to speak more relationship side, and you're totally right and you know what if you can be taking that into your situations within your personal relationship especially when his challenge imagine influence that's going to happen nine days you take that approach. Whatever's going on I'm GONNA leave this person with the feeling of increase even if it is just a smile or hollow or Are you or you can go above and beyond that. I know how important this is you or have you considered checking this because audio is you can be as simple as that. And I just wanted to offer their you know going back my expedients. I was in a really dark place in terms of law attraction. I while I was doing I was constantly in a repeated pattern where I was being dynamite myself I was looking at life against me I was caught up in this label the I've been given in this man house expedients that had going on and so what I was doing this I. was constantly everyday gang up the.