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Alex Jones liable for defamation in Sandy Hook 'hoax' case

AP News Radio

00:43 sec | 2 weeks ago

Alex Jones liable for defamation in Sandy Hook 'hoax' case

"A judge says Alex Jones is liable after calling sandy hook hoax a Connecticut judge has found info wars host and conspiracy theorist Alex Jones liable for damages in lawsuits brought by parents of children killed in the sandy hook elementary school shooting the parents of several children sue Jones over his claims that the massacre was a hoax judge Barbara Bellis took the rare step of defaulting Jones in the defamation lawsuits after he failed along with these companies to turn over documents to the parents lawyers Jones's lawyers have denied violating court rules on document disclosure a hearing will be scheduled on just how much in damages Jones will have to pay I usually out there

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The Streisand Effect: When Censorship Backfires

The Charlie Kirk Show

02:25 min | Last month

The Streisand Effect: When Censorship Backfires

"Where does Barbara streisand live or where she once live? I said, Charlie, what does that have to do with anything? Barbara streisand has a big house or had I don't know if she still lives there. And Barbra Streisand was very upset that a certain photographer who wanted to try and catalog the erosion of the California coastline happened to photograph Barbra Streisand's home. Barbra Streisand did everything she possibly could to try to remove this. Barbara streisand was very upset that anyone would dare photograph her home. So this was put on the Internet and Barbra Streisand found out that her house was photographed. She said this was a violation of privacy. Now mind you, this was literally just some environmentalists that was taking pictures of the coastline. So Barbra Streisand realized this and up until she decided to do something about it the image was downloaded 6 times. 6 people were interested in her home. But once she filed a lawsuit to try to prevent anyone from finding out where the house was, the picture became international news and was downloaded 420,000 times in the following month. The lawsuit was eventually dismissed because there really is no violation of privacy to photograph what you can see in a helicopter. This started something known as the streisand effect. It's a phenomenon that occurs when an attempt to hide, remove or censor information, has the unintended consequence of increasing awareness of that information. Often via the Internet. This is exactly what is happening right now with Merrick Garland and the national school board association. In an attempt to censor moms and dads to show up to the school board meeting, just like how Barbra Streisand wanted to censor her home from being on the Internet. We're only 6 people went and saw it. As a result of that and the national school board association and Merrick Garland going after, the grassroots push of parents that have started to care about what's happening to their kids education. We are now seeing more people talk about the national school board association story than ever before.

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Pastor Mark Driscoll Discusses His New Book 'Christian Theology vs. Critical Theory'

The Eric Metaxas Show

02:00 min | Last month

Pastor Mark Driscoll Discusses His New Book 'Christian Theology vs. Critical Theory'

"Of you already know mark driscoll. If he don't let me see what it says. oh yes. He's the founding senior pastor of the trinity church in scottsdale arizona but he has debated deepak chopra on abc's nightline. He's discussed marriage with barbara. Walters on the view all kinds of ugly stuff. Like that mark driscoll. Welcome to the program. Good to have anybody good to see. Thanks for having me on. It's good to see you. It's good to see you always but honestly you've written a book. The reason you're here today is to talk about. I'm holding in my hand. It's called christian. Theology versus critical theory. A lot of people are at least confused about this new thing. You keep hearing about critical race there. You might theory my thesis. I should say is that anytime. Somebody comes up with a new thing like that. I'm deeply suspicious because they act as though everything you've heard up until now is wrong. Here take this and i think why. What are you saying to me so we were hoping we could get somebody on the program to discuss it. And we found you so mark driscoll thank you. Thanks for writing this. Is this brand new. Yeah and so. It's krista theology versus critical theory. It's free it real faith dot com. I've got a mountain a bible teaching there. I tend to teach through books of the bible. I've been a pastor for twenty five years. I didn't go through a publisher. 'cause i know it would get attacked and cancelled. I didn't put endorsements on it because then all they do is just shoot. Ariza your friends. So i'm just giving away. I think that the greatest threat to christian theology right now is critical theory. I believe it's the counterfeit i believe. It seeks to undo anything that looks like traditional western values. Marriage family sexuality critical race theory is a part of that but it's much much much bigger issue. Critical theory includes gender. Studies ribbon seeing it now with mask. No mask vaccine. No vaccine almost every single cultural collision that we're having is up against critical

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Rep. Barbara Lee Is Back at Spreading Marxist Propaganda

Mark Levin

01:11 min | Last month

Rep. Barbara Lee Is Back at Spreading Marxist Propaganda

"Representative Barbara Lee today and this is what the American Marxist does The accused us of who they are and what they do I just spent an entire hour explaining to you really a shocking event Shocking Involving the federal government in the Democrat party Their unions and the rest of them Here's Barbara Lee today cut four go This president has been fighting from day one very hard on behalf of the American people Now what I have to say is this People are really more familiar with the last four years in terms of dictatorial autocratic rule out of The White House by Donald Trump And so this president has been trying for the last ten months to make sure that he brings the country together on behalf of everyone in our country and the agenda that he wanted damnable buffoon and propaganda she is She's certainly not alone She certainly not alone

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"barbara" Discussed on Business Unusual with Barbara Corcoran

Business Unusual with Barbara Corcoran

08:04 min | 2 months ago

"barbara" Discussed on Business Unusual with Barbara Corcoran

"The window. I'm going to tell you the real deal listening today. I'm going to answer all your burning questions about work. Life starting accompany getting on track and much much more. Be sure to call in to the business unusual hotline with your question at eight eight eight barbara. That's eight eight eight b. a. r. b. r. a. This episode is presented by. At and t. business. Hey barbara this is leslie from ohio. I was wondering if it's ever appropriate to ask what the salaries during the interview absolutely but save that question till the end because it's much more gracious to ask at the end of the chew and before you who in make sure you know at that. Job is worth searched online and going with that number and if they give you a lower number and you're looking for more say it right than in there. There's no harm doing that every salary. Believe me negotiable. Hello this is barbara barbara. My name is hayley from auburn california. I was just curious. Why is the best questions to trip interviewers. In your opinion you've been in a game for a long time and you're always you know looking for that fresh person. That really did their homework. So what questions Surprise and impress you think you. Maybe i never tried to ask a trick question or trip somebody up and i don't look at the active interviewing as a game at all in my mind. The purpose of interview is simply to find out if the person's going to be good for the job do they fit the company Do they have the skill set. That's needed to perform the job. Well now when. I think about what kinds of questions i asked to accomplish. That goal of the first and foremost is to try to get to know the person as an individual. I always ask questions about their family. Their parents siblings town. They were born in. What's it like. I try to get them to relax and tell me all about the background. Why because you really can't change people if someone has a very open attitude. They're going to be an open worker. If they have a spirited core about their family in the hometown they going to be a team player. if they have grudges or if they're insecure or are Couching their own personality. I know they're not going to be open minded and so i ask a lot of questions about their background because i want to really get to know the individual their attitudes most importantly And the way they look at life The second part of the interview is to really drill down on the skill set to try to figure out. Do they have the skills for the job. And this don't trick questions there. I just present different. Circumstances went on on sure and see how they respond to it. What would they do. And so i end the interview feeling like i know the individual and i know if they have the skill set. And you know what i've learned. I've learned that. You can never change individual when i was young. Doing my first early hires. I always thought i could remake anybody if i put my mind to it. But then i realized if their parents couldn't remake them and life didn't remake them by now. Heck what was. I going to do to remake them. Sino and i interview. I'm going to get what i see. I'm not always hoping like i used to. When i was young i could change them. I can improve people. But i can't really change. I recently interviewed a woman who is very talented. Obviously had the skill set for the job but in the interview. I wasn't sure if she was going fit my personality. I was concerned because she talked a lot. And i'm not a good listener around someone who talks a lot in the workplace and so lucky for her. She asked an amazing question. Before i finish the interview with her she said is anything that would get in the way of you hiring me well she s so i told a. Yeah you talk too much. I said and she turned right around. She said i don't have to talk too much. I can work around that. I could be exactly who you want me to be. I won't talk too much. And i hire good for her. If that was an a trick question it was certainly a great question and she wouldn't be happily working in my company today. Being tremendous at what she does issue and ask that question. I was ready to pass just threw that in. I think that has been something new. I learned recently. Let's take a short break to talk about a company. I love no doubt. It's been a tough year for small business but those were quick to go. Virtual and adopt new technology are coming out on top. That's why i've teamed up with eighteen business to bring you the business unusual webinar series with free expert advice on how to grow your business from some of the smartest people i know like gary viner chuck ratio ray rebecca jarvis of abc news. Danny meyer of shake shack. Daniela betsy of kind bars and many many more registered eighty barbara dot com to get the tips and tricks. You need to push your business ahead today. At and t. Business shares my passion for small business. And we're eager to hear from you. If you've got a question tweet us at barbara corcoran and at att business. And i just might answer your question live now. let's get back to the show. Hey sh ruthie. From austin texas and I'm glad to go to college. And i was wondering what advice you have for young girls wanting to do something in business Wanting to succeed in business because it's really challenging for many to get past. The barriers are in place and i washed shirt tank. And all these shows. And i i find it really inspirational what you do permit people. So thank you so much tracy first off. You can't focus on the barriers you look at the barriers keeps you outside in the same spot. You're in no don't let the barriers and certainly don't look at yourself as a young girl or even a woman for that matter. I don't think i ever approached a day in my life and business trying to build my life. As i wanted it to be as a young girl or woman i thought of myself as a person and more importantly i thought of myself as a competitor so when i entered the world of men who looked down on me or didn't take me seriously. I don't think i was even aware of that. I just dismissed it. I was too busy. Just doing what added due to accomplish what i wanted to do. And if they saw me differently what the heck. It wasn't until i was in business ten years until i realized the great advantage of being a woman. You know what it was. The guys didn't take me seriously. And so i went around that back and competed so hard while they weren't watching until i became the number one rival. I surprise them. If i had been a man they would have seen me coming in. They would put up a battle. But because i was a woman. They didn't take me seriously. Stop thinking of yourself as a woman. Just go out and compete like you would if you were a man. And that's all we have time for today if you have a question. Leave me a voicemail in the business unusual hotline eight eight barbara. That's eight eight eight b. a. r. b. a. r. a. You can also tweet it to me at barbara corcoran and i may just answered on a future episode. You've been listening to business unusual with me. Barbara corcoran come back. next week. To hear more steps and missteps. I took on the path to success search and follow business unusual on iheartradio or subscribe. Wherever you listen to podcasts..

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Boxing Superstar Manny Pacquiao Announces Run for Philippines President

NPR News Now

00:18 sec | 2 months ago

Boxing Superstar Manny Pacquiao Announces Run for Philippines President

"Star manny paki out. Says he'll run for the president of the philippines next year he was nominated today by faction within the ruling party. The forty two year old pack house serves in the philippines senate. I'm barbara klein npr news.

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Harper Homers, Rallies Phils From 7 Down in 17-8 Win vs Cubs

AP News Radio

00:39 sec | 2 months ago

Harper Homers, Rallies Phils From 7 Down in 17-8 Win vs Cubs

"Down seven nothing nothing's offense exploded for seventeen runs in a seventeen a win over the cubs scored seven runs in the bottom of the fourth inning the bill to the lead for good with three runs in the bottom of the sixth RBI double by Bryce Harper and a two run single by Didi Gregorius scored five runs in the bottom of the seventh capped by a three run home run by Barbara his thirty third of the season when this year is gonna win the game right there especially on in your face and on the top that Mets team at Citi field so I'm gonna get that W. today and we're able to do that the wind and able to fully support within three games but actually he's leading a lot of rain Michael Luongo Philadelphia

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Analyzing California's Governor Recall Election: The Three Waves of Ballots

The Charlie Kirk Show

01:57 min | 2 months ago

Analyzing California's Governor Recall Election: The Three Waves of Ballots

"There's going to be three waves about that happen tonight. And tomorrow and leading up to the next couple days the first balanced that are gonna be counter all mail in ballots so expect the democrats have a major jump and that tonight but that doesn't mean it's over. The second wave of ballots are going to be people that have voted in person today or they went and dropped off those meal and ballots. Third wave is going gonna be people that meld in their ballots today or a few days before election day so could be short. Night could be a long night. It's always looked now. I believe this thing is razor close. I believe that there is a silent californian voter ready to rise up against the new regime recalls tricky. There's only one other governor that is successfully been able to fight off a recall in recent american political history and that was governor scott walker andrew. You live in california. Stop looking at the polls. Those are all garbage. Those are simulated. What are you seeing hearing on the ground in california. I'm seeing an incredible amount of energy for the for larry elder. You could make the argument that i live in a bubble. I probably do we all do to some extent. I will tell you that this you know you. And i were talking months ago. I was underwhelmed. I didn't think that it really stood real chance. All of a sudden the energy behind the recall movement exploded it was a true grassroots movement. Outpouring i mean you're seeing it in in liberal enclaves strongholds like santa barbara you're seeing it and coastal communities you were seeing massive crowds gather local communities getting together and in ways that i hadn't seen in california in a long time. Now there was. There was trump excitement all this this this blew that away. I will tell you anecdotally. This blew that away. I think there was a collective exhaustion. There's just homelessness everywhere. It's expensive we all look at the state. Is the weather the topography. The just the everything about it. There's so much going for it and to see it being run the way it is. It's it's a

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The Early Life of Activist Barbara Rose Johns

Encyclopedia Womannica

02:20 min | 2 months ago

The Early Life of Activist Barbara Rose Johns

"Barbara faced stark disparities in education quality. Her small one story school building had no gym and no cafeteria but it was forced to accommodate over four hundred and fifty students. On insulated shacks were built outside to hold additional students and learning out. There was particularly difficult in cold weather. One january in nineteen forty prince. Edward county had particularly frigid temperatures with readings of sixteen degrees below zero. In contrast to barbara school the nearby white school had two stories. Great facilities and fewer than four hundred students. Barbara shared her concerns about the conditions of her school with her music teacher. Who responded why. Don't you do something about it. At first barbara felt discouraged. She was just a student. What could she do. But the final straw for barbara came one april morning. She was helping her for younger siblings. Get to the bus stop. When she realized she forgot her lunch she ran back home to fetch it when she returned. She realized she'd missed her bus. And she was forced to try hitchhiking for a ride. She stood on the curb for an hour and no one stopped to help then. She saw the so called white bus drive by it was half empty. Barbara's bus was always packed to the brim. She leader wrote in her diary right. Then and there. I decided that indeed something had to be done about this inequality so. Barbara's sprung into action. On april twenty third nineteen fifty. One barbara forged note from the school principal to the teachers telling them together. All four hundred fifty students in the auditorium when the students sat down they were shocked to find barbara on stage. She delivered a speech and shared her plan. All the students would walk out of the school until a new building was under construction. Some students were afraid they'd get in trouble or end up arrested. Barbara replied the farm bill. Jail isn't big enough to hold us.

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Activist Barbara Rose Johns Profoundly Impacted Her Community as a Teenager

Encyclopedia Womannica

02:20 min | 2 months ago

Activist Barbara Rose Johns Profoundly Impacted Her Community as a Teenager

"Barbara faced stark disparities in education quality. Her small one story school building had no gym and no cafeteria but it was forced to accommodate over four hundred and fifty students. On insulated shacks were built outside to hold additional students and learning out. There was particularly difficult in cold weather. One january in nineteen forty prince. Edward county had particularly frigid temperatures with readings of sixteen degrees below zero. In contrast to barbara school the nearby white school had two stories. Great facilities and fewer than four hundred students. Barbara shared her concerns about the conditions of her school with her music teacher. Who responded why. Don't you do something about it. At first barbara felt discouraged. She was just a student. What could she do. But the final straw for barbara came one april morning. She was helping her for younger siblings. Get to the bus stop. When she realized she forgot her lunch she ran back home to fetch it when she returned. She realized she'd missed her bus. And she was forced to try hitchhiking for a ride. She stood on the curb for an hour and no one stopped to help then. She saw the so called white bus drive by it was half empty. Barbara's bus was always packed to the brim. She leader wrote in her diary right. Then and there. I decided that indeed something had to be done about this inequality so. Barbara's sprung into action. On april twenty third nineteen fifty. One barbara forged note from the school principal to the teachers telling them together. All four hundred fifty students in the auditorium when the students sat down they were shocked to find barbara on stage. She delivered a speech and shared her plan. All the students would walk out of the school until a new building was under construction. Some students were afraid they'd get in trouble or end up arrested. Barbara replied the farm bill. Jail isn't big enough to hold us.

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20 Years After 9/11, Work of Identifying Remains Continues

AP News Radio

01:01 min | 2 months ago

20 Years After 9/11, Work of Identifying Remains Continues

"Officials in New York or announcing they've identified the remains of two more victims of the September eleventh terrorist attacks at the World Trade Center just days before the twentieth anniversary of the devastating attacks that killed nearly three thousand people and jolted the nation the medical examiner's office says technicians using DNA were able to identify the remains of Dorothy Morgan of Hempstead New York she was a broker for marsh and McLennan officials also determined the identity of a man whose remains were recovered in separate fines in two thousand one two thousand two and two thousand six his family is asking the name be withheld it's the first time in two years new identifications have been made eleven hundred remains are still unidentified even though teams are still working to match DNA to fragments found chief medical examiner of New York Barbara Sampson says they pledge to do everything they can to make sure all those lost that day can be reunited with their families I'm Jackie Quinn

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"barbara" Discussed on Business Unusual with Barbara Corcoran

Business Unusual with Barbara Corcoran

07:09 min | 2 months ago

"barbara" Discussed on Business Unusual with Barbara Corcoran

"This episode is presented by. At and t. business high bre. My name is hannah. And i'm from brainerd minnesota. I was just wondering what a polite but assertive way to ask for a raise. It be what kind of key points do i wanna hit. That'd be great. thank you bye had. I could tell. You're extremely polite. Just by the way you phrase your question you don't have to worry about being polite I would think you might worry about being overplayed and not assertive enough. You're the kind of person with your very lovely manner. You could be super aggressive and nobody will even read it as that because you have that nice soft edge to you so go into this whole question with the idea in mind. You wanna be assertive. You'd have to worry about being too assertive. It's not your nature. Okay so with an eye toward assertiveness here. Are i believe the essential steps to asking for any raise from any boss in any circumstance. Okay first of all understand that bosses don't give raises to people for doing the same job they did last year. A lot of people think if you spent twelve months at a job that the boss thinks you should be rewarded. No he hired you. She hired you for a particular job that you've done for twelve months and if you've done that job well in my my at doesn't murder of raise just means you've done the job you got hired for. Hey but what bosses give raises for is when you take on more responsibility you doing different job today than you were hired for twelve months ago. So what you wanna do. Is you want to walk into the boss's office with the list of your new responsibilities where you were hired for which you love doing for the company for him or her and the additional responsible as you love doing for him in her the company now and you wanna point out very nicely. The list of what has changed in the job and how happy are for the responsibilities. But you'd like to be compensated for it. That's reasonable only a crazy boss would look scans at that. So that's one walk in with your list of new responsibilities if you wanna get a raise number to make an appointment with the boss. I'm a boss. I hate when people spring anything on me. I'm sorry to ask you. But right now. I'd like to ask you about a raise. I'm like no right away. Okay no give them a warning shot when you said you boss can beat you next friday. Some time i'd like to discuss my position at the company. They know what you come in after but give them some breathing room so they can prepare themselves. It's a human thing to do to make somebody be more happy to see you. That's what you do so ask for an appointment in advance next. You should go in knowing what you worth. Take your job responsibilities and title and go online and see what other companies are paying. You might find that. You were hired as an assistant bookkeeper in. You're being paid fifty five thousand dollars when you started and now you're able to be the full keeper and maybe market is paying one hundred thousand. You don't know but get out there. A lease look online and seeing what other companies are paying for your position. You should have a numbering your head knowing what the competition is paying. It's good for you to know what you're worth so find that out online. It's so easy to check and next don't expect an instant answer from her boss. You don't want to end the meeting as close as saying. So what do you say would you say. Am i going to get raised. No no boss wants to have a gun to the head say so. Can you give some thought. And can we meet again next week. That's the gracious way. And of course you can do that way. Because i could hearing your voice hannah. You're so lovely that you're not gonna be threatening to anybody and then make sure you say how much of a raise you would like. I'd like you to consider giving me a twenty thousand dollar raise a five thousand dollar raise a ten percent raise but always ask for more than you want and the reason for that is negotiation and a boss. Never gives you what you want. They usually went. Give you a little less as they feel like they got themselves a good deal so make sure you ask for the amount that you want and make it a little higher than you really think you want. Hey and then go back the next week if it happens that you don't get the raise after that kind of preparation then you have the right to say. Can i visit you in three months. And what else do i have to do to merit. Raise get a job order. What else do i have to do to get race. Put the boss on the spot fusing you merited. They're not giving it to you. As some how you could prove that you are deserving of arrays and. Don't leave the office on the second visit without getting an answer to that question. It's only fair play. It's not asking a lot okay. Hannah just makes she go growling at mirror for about a half hour before you go into the to the boss's office because you are so nice i could pick us thinking you're being a killer when you might be looking like a puppy dog so our practice being aggressive put a leash on your that'll help you get in the right frame of frame of mind because you so nice. Hello this is barbara barbara ryan from scottsdale arizona. Big fan love you to death. But my question is What do you think about real estate investing Currently with what's going on in the world today and what strategies would you start with if you were to start over right now. Thanks so much. The best a couple of thoughts come to my mind ryan maybe not in this order but let me just get it out there. A number one in today's environment super competitive. I didn't care unless you're in the office market. That's competitive right now because this suffering because of the change that the pandemic has made to the commercial landscape. But i'm gonna assume you mean residential beset onerous. Somehow i think you mean residential saw answer from that perspective okay. realized that that market is so super competitive Properties flying off the shelf. It's very hard to bid competitively for an investment property right now because everybody else's assay. So are you competitive by nature. I would say that would be number one. If you're not competitive by nature. Maybe should be doing something else because it's going to take a competitive person to make money in this kind of a market. That's number one number to be aware of what side of the equation. You should be on. This is my theory. People who invest in real estate. I invest in real estate. Okay i love real estate's a slow way to get very rich in my book. I like it better than any other kind of investment. I trusted gay. But there's two sides investing in real estate one side. Is your the money guy. You got a lot of money and you want invest in real estate or do the other side. You got a lot of knowledge and you know something.

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Purely Elizabeth's Elizabeth Stein on the Beginnings of Her Entrepreneurial Journey

Raising the Bar with Alli and Michael

02:27 min | 3 months ago

Purely Elizabeth's Elizabeth Stein on the Beginnings of Her Entrepreneurial Journey

"Love to hear maybe just start out telling a little bit about your story and how why you decided to take the leap. Yes so i started officially in two thousand nine but before that really. I was living in new york city i was. You know it might twenty trying to figure out life. And at the time i was working for a handbag company doing doing sales and marketing and i met my boyfriend at the time who was a triathlete and he really got me into this kind of whole new sense of health and wellness. I would say. I was always a healthy person but starting to do marathons biathlons certainly a two point. Oh version of that. And i think you started competing with them i did. I got up to doing a half. Ironman was along. Just were the person who would hide in the woods during the cross practice in high school. Because i hated to run them. I know really what he taught me. Was that an so much more mental than physical. And i think that art became super intriguing. Jimmy a really holistic health and that is so much more than just what you put into your body and so i started searching for another career option and ended up finding institute for integrative nutrition on i did bear program in two thousand seven and really what that taught me was food medicine. You know kind of everything that's coming to the forefront of health and wellness today in that program really learned that there is not many options for healthy gluten free products and i had started to eat. That way really was working with a lot of clients sewer eating that way suggesting and then they end up feeling better. Products on the shelf were few and barbara. I really saw an opportunity for healthier better tasting and initially started as something in the background of my mind. I ended up going to a local. Triathlon exploded participate in the race but really to promote my nutrition practice. I had a booth at the expo and figuring any thing to entice people to come in shop with me. So i've made this batch of blueberry muffins to get people to talk to me at of course not one person sign up for my nutrition practice. Everyone just wanted to know where they could buy these not fence and that became the moment and took off from

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New James Bond Movie Release to Go Ahead in September

Cracking the Code of Spy Movies!

01:14 min | 3 months ago

New James Bond Movie Release to Go Ahead in September

"One big announcement a solidification of the official premiere for no time to die. We've been watching for this announcement for awhile and we've been reading different dates. But the official. James bond twitter account has announced that no time to die will have its official premiere on september twenty eighth at royal albert hall in london. And that daniel. Craig michael g wilson barbara broccoli and director cary joji fukunaga will attend. The premiere. royal albert hall was originally going to be the premier site with the earlier premier dates that had to be delayed due to be cova pandemic. We'd been speculating. The twenty eighth at the royal albert hall but we thought we were wrong because to other events are scheduled there on the twenty eighth of september. So this surprised us a bit anyway. This is great. News confirmed by the official 007. Folks the eon production people one released date change announce however at this point only affects australia. No time to die has pushed the release date in australia. From september thirtieth to november eleven due to the current kovic situation. There this probably makes sense but really makes it tough on the james bond fans there of course this may open the door to other release date changes as well as the global kovic situation is assessed

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"barbara" Discussed on Business Unusual with Barbara Corcoran

Business Unusual with Barbara Corcoran

04:12 min | 3 months ago

"barbara" Discussed on Business Unusual with Barbara Corcoran

"Spend on that listen the more crystal clear you are about it the better hiring job you'll do so don't do a thing until you've got that really clear lists including the hours vacation time how it's gonna run overtime at times what you're going to do about overtime. Think of every single angle see of this law scary lists. You're record not for the next guy here. Okay secondly what questions you ask in an interview that gives you the meet the stuff you really wanna hear this one best question the world if you willing to listen. Tell me about yourself and then keep asking question on question. Tell me about yourself. That's how you're going gonna get a read on that person's personality which is key. Does it match your list that you need in the personality and then you want to ask about their experience specifically do this do that. If there's a way you can test the do this do that all the better. But if you can't you want to ask about and see if you believe the answers they're giving you a. How organized are you owe. A morgan is on a scale of one to ten. How organize i seven. Oh that's so organiz. Okay you want to drill down and get real good solid answers to your question and then last after you've finished doing the questioning you want to make sure you're hiring attitude over experience it's great to have experienced can live without experience if you get somebody with a positive attitude. I'm going to use my mike stevens. Who runs all my shark tank businesses as a perfect example cyber leave. You'll remember it in the interview. When i was interviewing mike he was just graduating from college. He was the football coach. No pardon me the football captain in college. Big muscular guy the kind of guy you picked treating seven hamburgers and may be dripping the catchable over his mouth but i needed someone super organized when i asked him how organiz she was. He said very organized. I said how organized she said. Well i was a scholarship kid at columbia university. The captain my football team. I worked twenty hours a week for the university to help support my tuition. And i gotta be plus average. You have to be organized to pull that off too. I believe him you bench. I was impressed. And then the other issue. I had on my list was a lot of men. Don't like to work for strong women. And here's a football macho guy. Who i enough. He likes for women who strong women. And so i asked him. How do you feel about reporting to a woman. I can ask that question and you know what you said. My mother is the most organized powerful person i ever met. I reported her my whole life. I love answering women who knew this. Football hero was gonna come out with that stuff right. So i hired him that day based on attitude and my other important trait can they report to own and you know perfect. Hire his attitude toward him. Everything he didn't know about the job any new nothing. If i had chosen based on experience he was the absolute wrong candidate. But i had my eye on experience a me. I had my eye on attitude over experience. And i had my eye on the key traits that i needed for that specific job because i had taken the time to make the list too. I know what i was hunting for. So that's what i would suggest. I know it's a way a lot of more information in the us for but it is a sure-fire formula behind the right people. It is and that's all. We have time for today if you have a question. Leave me a voicemail in the business unusual hotline eight barbara. That's eight eight eight b. a. r. b. a. r. A you can also tweet it to me at barbara corcoran and i may just answered on a future episode. You've been listening to business unusual with me. Barbara corcoran come back. next week. to hear more steps and missteps. I took on the to success. Search and follow business unusual on iheartradio or subscribe. Wherever you listen to podcasts..

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Barbra Streisand Shades Lady Gaga & "A Star Is Born" Remake

Daily Pop

02:03 min | 3 months ago

Barbra Streisand Shades Lady Gaga & "A Star Is Born" Remake

"Barbra streisand is coming lady gaga and luke. Whose back story. Let's get this party started. Barbara deja vu watching the latest version of a star is born and not in a good way mean you see the movie first. I did she go to blockbuster for that. One on the australian show the sunday project. She had some harsh words about lady gaga and bradley cooper's remake of her one thousand nine hundred ninety six fell. I thought it was the wrong idea. It look it was a big success. Oh i can't argue with success. But i don't care about. I don't care so much about success. As i do originality that first one i heard was who be done again it was supposed to be will smith and beyond say that. I thought that's interesting. You know really make a different again. Well first of all barbara. She looks amazing. You for supporting blockbuster. There's only two left in the country. You are really sure. Patron and barbara You weren't original originality. It was a remake when she to but no one. That's wrong you know always what it is right. It's like one. Madonna kinda threw shade at lady gaga. It's always like when you're an icon. Obviously barbara is an icon. I mean this woman is legendary. She is so talented. She's unbelievable but once that baton gets passed on to someone else and it's becomes the first of all lady gaga on a separate note. Did an incredible job in that phil was unbelievable. I will very rarely rewatch something. And i will watch this movie same so i just feel like there's just that little bit of like it's not my time right now so i'm just gonna jab at it a little bit but i don't think it was video what she said but i do think as you kind of not fade out. She's an icon. But you're not a kid anymore right when you're like oh will someone because originality it what you did. It did it. What are you talking

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Barbra Streisand Shades Lady Gaga & Bradley Cooper

Daily Pop

01:40 min | 3 months ago

Barbra Streisand Shades Lady Gaga & Bradley Cooper

"Barbara deja vu watching the latest version of a star is born and not in a good way mean you see the movie first. I did she go to blockbuster for that. One on the australian show the sunday project. She had some harsh words about lady gaga and bradley cooper's remake of her one thousand nine hundred ninety six fell. I thought it was the wrong idea. It look it was a big success. Oh i can't argue with success. But i don't care about. I don't care so much about success. As i do originality that first one i heard was who be done again it was supposed to be will smith and beyond say that. I thought that's interesting. You know really make a different again. Well first of all barbara. She looks amazing. You for supporting blockbuster. There's only two left in the country. You are really sure. Patron and barbara You weren't original originality. It was a remake when she to but no one. That's wrong you know always what it is right. It's like one. Madonna kinda threw shade at lady gaga. It's always like when you're an icon. Obviously barbara is an icon. I mean this woman is legendary. She is so talented. She's unbelievable but once that baton gets passed on to someone else and it's becomes the first of all lady gaga on a separate note. Did an incredible job in that phil was unbelievable. I will very rarely rewatch something. And i will watch this movie same so i just feel like there's just that little bit of like it's not my time right now so i'm just gonna jab at it a little bit but i don't think it was video what she

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Pelosi Faces New Threat From Moderate Democrats Over Budget

NPR News Now

01:03 min | 3 months ago

Pelosi Faces New Threat From Moderate Democrats Over Budget

"Some centrist house democrats are warning speaker. Nancy pelosi they won't vote for a critical budget resolution unless the house first approves an infrastructure bill. Npr's barbara's front reports conflicting ultimatums are threatening to derail. The party's economic agenda speaker. Pelosi is focused on a two track effort to pass both the trillion dollar plus infrastructure bill and a three point five trillion dollar package that includes new spending on childcare family. Leave and climate initiatives. The democratic leader has repeatedly said she'll wait to bring up a vote on the bipartisan infrastructure. Bill until the senate approves the larger social policy package but in a letter to pelosi nine moderate members argue passing the infrastructure. Bill can't wait. progressive members. worried there. Moderate colleagues will pull support for the larger spending package. If the infrastructure bill is already signed because democrats control the house by a very narrow margin pelosi can only afford to lose three democratic votes

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Beanie Feldstein Starring as Fanny Brice in Broadway Revival of ‘Funny Girl’

The KFBK Morning News

00:40 sec | 3 months ago

Beanie Feldstein Starring as Fanny Brice in Broadway Revival of ‘Funny Girl’

"Don't tell me not to live just sitting under lights, candy and the sun's of all of you recognize that song I know you do. Don't Yeah, I love that song. Don't rain on my parade. Yes, honey Girl. It's in funny girl for the first time in 58 years a revival of funny girl going back to Broadway. I don't know if anyone could do it as good as Barbara Barbara. Barbara Streisand was the funny girl in 1964. Be back in the day. They're going to performances to for the new, funny girl set to start next spring. Beanie Feldstein, who is the sister of actor Jonah Hill is going to star and so do we think that Beanie is going to do as well as Barbara? I don't know. I don't know much about Benny.

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The Queen of Soul: Aretha Franklin

Encyclopedia Womannica

02:02 min | 3 months ago

The Queen of Soul: Aretha Franklin

"Aretha franklin was born in memphis tennessee on march twenty fifth nineteen forty two barbara seekers franklin and reverend clarence levin franklin by the time she was four a wreath as family had moved from memphis to buffalo new york before. Finally settling in detroit michigan growing up. Aretha was surrounded by music. Her mother was a gospel singer and played the piano and her father. A minister saying to at the age of six a wreath as parents separated and read the state with her father. Her mother passed away a few years. Later are rita's father's house was often home to visiting musicians. From dino washington to sam cooke to mahalia jackson aretha sisters erma and carolyn were also musically inclined and saying and wrote songs throughout their lives. Aretha had an amazing ear for music. Despite the fact that she never learned to read music her brother later said that by the time aretha was ten years old she could hear a song once and immediately be able to sing it and play it on the piano. Aretha made her performing debut as a member of the choir at new bethel. Church or her father preached. It didn't take long for her incredible talent to be recognized when she was twelve years old. She went on tour performing with other popular gospel artists. That same year aretha got pregnant and hundred first child at the age of twelve. A son named clarence two years later she had a second son. Edward throughout her life aretha would return to her roots singing gospel nusa when she was eighteen years old. She switched her primary focus to secular music. She moved to new york city parting from her son to state with her family in detroit that year in nineteen sixty aretha signed a contract with columbia records. Her early albums touched on all sorts of genres from jazz to blues. To broadway to aren

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"barbara" Discussed on Business Unusual with Barbara Corcoran

Business Unusual with Barbara Corcoran

03:29 min | 3 months ago

"barbara" Discussed on Business Unusual with Barbara Corcoran

"Hi my name is melissa. And i'm calling from new canaan in connecticut and my question is what advice Do you give to young entrepreneurs who are finding their way in the business world Water good jobs to take To gain experience or internships to apply to gain experience Thank you melissa. This is a question. I hear every single day in. It's a great question so it's good you're asking a lot of people can learn from it you just starting out. There's a whole world out there. Where do you go. What do you focus on what he'd take. What are you one. It's like so hard when you haven't started down a path okay. So my advice would be three solid things. Okay number one. You want to stay open minded. Okay just see what comes your way you gotta go out and play in the traffic to see what bumper cars of the air. And what do you like to do which you want to jump in and steer you gotta get out there and tries to alaska them. So don't go out there with an attitude that you have to find the right first step. There is no right. I stepped is no formula. Just get out and get in the fray. That's number one number two. You'll have opportunities along the way in the beginning and all along the next job and the job. I after that you'll have opportunities to choose more money or better position or more experience but you know they never come in the same job. A better experience comes with some jobs and better pay comes another other jobs always choose experience because when you choose the better experience it always gets you further ahead when you you back up from your life and look back and see wall. Thank god i worked for that guy. Thank god i worked in that place that opened the store to this one that open door to this one but if you had just bought the job that was offered you because paid more. Those jobs never really go anywhere for some reason. That's what i've learned. And i've had a lot of jobs. Hey and the last is don't overlook the person you're working with working for you boss if you choose a boss that you like and has your back. He likes you back. she likes you back. She protects you. You're gonna wind up in a better job. You're going to get promoted more. You have pushed ahead because you've joined a great team headed by great leader and so don't overlook who you work for has more to do as you happiness you'll find than what you actually do for a living so loosen it up. Melissa you sound a little tight loosen it up. Let's not get out there and playing the traffic. Don't be so particularly. And that's all we have time for today if you have a question. Lead me a voicemail on the business unusual hotline eight eight eight barbara. That's eight b. a. r. b. a. r. a you can also tweet it to me at barbara corcoran and i may just answered on a future episode. You've been listening to business unusual with me. Barbara corcoran come back. next week. to hear more steps and missteps. I took on the path to success. Search follow business unusual on iheartradio or subscribe. Wherever you listen to podcasts..

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"barbara" Discussed on Business Unusual with Barbara Corcoran

Business Unusual with Barbara Corcoran

07:08 min | 3 months ago

"barbara" Discussed on Business Unusual with Barbara Corcoran

"And i'm trying to match it with a great enthusiastic answer but the truth is that i got an invitation. Gordon shark tank. I just got lucky call. Not that i was already working very hard in the field to build a reputation for myself as someone in the media space. But i got lucky. Call someone who called me and invited me. Would i be interested in going on the show. that's how i got on shark tank. I might also add that. I got rejected on shark tank right after i signed the contract. We'll say cold and so they changed their mind and the best thing. I did not lucky. But the best thing i did was stand for myself and give them a lot of reasons why they had made a mistake and asking them to invite me and the other woman they already chose or so they said out to compete for the one seat so that was the best decision i made and really got me on shark tank but i do get that lucky coal. Initially that being said. Why do i do it. I wish i could tell you. It's because i love helping people and that was on my mind. In the gecko. I discover that later why i did shark tank. Initially as it was fun. I felt like i could speak my mind. Be myself and people responded well to and they got something out of it only then did i realize the power of plane. The fairy godmother and making dreams come true and how much satisfaction i would get of having many different partners all the time changing all the time becoming part of my family and how satisfied that was. I wanna say one of the thing and that is i love me on shark tank every single day. All right i. There isn't a day on that. Set that i don't say thank you god for giving me this shot and because of that i've got so much satisfaction. Well well well. Beyond what a job could give give. You feels to me just like a gift gift every day but you keep that old enthusiasm olivia from the city of long island. I never heard that line could feel and you sound like you're still from long island by the way. Don't lose that accent. Hello this is barbara. Hi barbara since they keep from olive branch mississippi. I have been a work from home. Mom for twenty five years. I built a very successful direct sales business. That unfortunately closed after thirty five years in business i was with that company for twenty years earned a healthy six figure income. And now it's gone. I never thought that. I would invest so much of myself and my time into that business but fell in love with the people i worked with and that exposed me to. I'm now floundering. And the fact that i've not yet found anyone who acknowledges the skills and stamina and professionalism that building and sustaining in that industry required is somewhat disappointing I have great people skills a higher than normal q. and work ethic. And i'm just wondering if you have any advice or direction for what line of business i'm not consider pursue mix while it's kind of a complicated question because there's a lot of layers would vicky so let me take a stab at giving my my best dancer. Okay first of all get about the regret. I hear between the lines. What always time. You can't spend any time regretting it because what it really is. It's another version of feeling. Sorry for yourself. You don't have time for that. You don't need it you to talented. Don't waste another minute even thinking that you regret any of the energy you put anywhere because guess what you got forward. You became successful. And that's all you can hope to get is success from really putting the pedal of the metal and try and everything you can all right so don't regret it. Leave that behind. That's number one next thing. You have to leave behind looking for the acknowledgement from others. You know people. Don't you know it's like being in a long marriage in hoping a husband brings you roses. Every day doesn't work. that way. Lucky remembers the anniversary. Frankly so don't look for acknowledgement of how talented you were or what you accomplished from people that you want to employ now or from the people that you work with back. Then it's over. You did well any job. You're paid well again. Another version of feeling. Sorry for yourself just looking for acknowledgement again. But here's what i hear in The positive vein of everything. You said i agree with you. I don't doubt you for a minute that you were more talented than most people there. And that's phenomenal package. You could apply those particular talents because said not industry related their people and job related. That could apply to any. You could apply to any job you choose. So what are you interested in. Make a list of what floats he boat. What makes you happy. What kind of industry catches your eye here. There and then to start applying for a lot of jobs. They're all those old talents you have. Don't go away you'll bring them to the next job and push them at the job with reckless abandonment. Don't hold back and you'll have another big success. Remember how happy you were in that old job before it ended so you just looking for replacement and i would also say if you have people you love people who loved you and you had great exposure many people which you mentioned in your question i say why not grab a few those people maybe even one as a partner and go into the same field. Do it for yourself. Why not start the business for yourself if you enjoy being a member of a team you know what you're doing and you produced money for the next guy so why not go out and do it for yourself. I just say maybe consider that but those are to clear roads to your future success. Oh forget the past. Close the door on that move on. Let's take a short break to talk about a company. I love no doubt. It's been a tough year for small business. But those who are quick to go. Virtual and adopt new technology are coming out on top. That's why i've teamed up with eighteen business to bring you the business unusual webinar series with free expert advice on how to grow your business from some of the smartest people. I know like gary viner. Chuck racial ray. Rebecca jarvis of abc news. Danny meyer of shake shack. Daniela betsy of kind bars and many many more registered eighty barbara dot com to get the tips and tricks. You need to push your business ahead today. At and t. Business shares my passion for small business and were eager to hear from you. If you've got a question tweet us at barbara corcoran and at. att business. And i just might answer your question live now. Let's get back to the show..

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California Is a Land of Crime and Homelessness - Larry Elder Plans to Save It

The Eric Metaxas Show

02:03 min | 4 months ago

California Is a Land of Crime and Homelessness - Larry Elder Plans to Save It

"Have now passed over the decades into a place where california at the at the top of the list. Things are so bad and so broken down the level of crime the level of homelessness in cities they were once find cities like san francisco. I mean talk about that. We have homeless encampments. And it doesn't seem like nancy pelosi or anybody who's willing to lift a finger to protect people already to keep people safe you know and just a few months ago. A governor gavin newsom was assaulted by homeless man and he was protected by his purity guard. Most of us don't have security guards in just a few days ago. Barbara boxer was mugged by somebody in oakland and her cell phone was takings. Homelessness had gone through the roof and his avenue. Answer is housing first without dealing with why people are homeless in the first place. So even if you're going to build enough housing and there's enough money to build enough housing done anything to cause people to go to the houses let alone to stay there. And all you've done is encouraged. Other people from cold weather stays to say. Wow if i come to california. I'll be treated with dignity compassion and everybody deserves it and it'll get free needles and i'll get a free home. Come on down to cops. Tell me a lot of the people who are homeless. Pitching tents who are living in skid row. Aren't even from california. So one of the things. I'm gonna do with involved are religious organizations in mentoring people to get off the ground off the streets. They're going to church. They're going to be adopting streets. Adopting blocks adopting neighborhoods. And i'm going to unleash the private sector. I'm gonna suspend sequel. The i told you about earlier so that we can build low cost. Housing low cost apartments so to the extent. Get some people off and and get them self-sufficient they'll have somewhere to live so all of that has to happen is not happening right now. And again. i mentioned. I mentioned crimewatch. We have this narrative narrative assault on the police choosing the place of systemic racism. So what they're doing is engaging in passive policing opposed to proactive policing bad guys. Know it crime goes up in the very victims of this. Crime are the very black and brown people that the left claims that they were about. It's

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"barbara" Discussed on Business Unusual with Barbara Corcoran

Business Unusual with Barbara Corcoran

04:29 min | 4 months ago

"barbara" Discussed on Business Unusual with Barbara Corcoran

"Barbara my name is tara. I'm in from oregon illinois. I was wondering how to deal with Building a small business and a cop and copycat and how to deal with Someone who is trying to come in essentially do everything that you're doing so That's my question. I appreciate it. I appreciate your time and your feedback. Gonna s you. Question was the story. How i learned about copycats. Okay and what they mean and how how. I see it now differently than i did when i was younger. Business person when i was trying to build my real estate business here new york city. I was doing individual sales and rentals like one apartment at a time and finally i realized. Whoa there's a lot of development in new york. I wanna get hold giant buildings three hundred units and so i started calling on developers to get their trade three hundred listings versus one a time. I did the math. That's what i wanted. But i didn't know how to do that. Business a whole different kettle of fish. So i went to someone who's already in the business. Her name was Adrienne alpert who still in the business. I think i went to agent. Albert's office and pretended i was a customer. I'm ashamed of this. But i'll tell you i went into the sales office and pretended i was a customer so that i could see how they ran the operation and every form they use have that could i have that. Could i have this and even slipped if you forms in my purse. Then i went back to my own company and a replicated. All those forms and i knew the mechanism of running a onsite sales job and i opened a few offices all over manhattan with large buildings in effect. I was a thief. I didn't see it that way. I justified but i was a thief. Fancy thief but a thief gay. I was ashamed when i went back to my desk. The following monday's. This is a friday morning following monday. I get a phone recording. From mrs albert wong business. I was terrified to listen to it. And you know what. She said. She said barbara. I understand you're in my sales office at such and such dress and that you are wondering how that onsite business actually operates in that. We were able to help you with a few of the forms. I'm holding my breath feeling the pound in my heart and then she goes on to say just know that. I'll help you in any way that i can. I'll give you all the forms. I'll teach you how the whole business runs. And i'm very very happy to have you as a rival. Here's my number. Call me anytime. I was stunned. I thought what class act. And what a small person i am. I was ashamed. I called her. When i got the courage. I think it took me three days to get over my shame. I finally called for and thanked her. And i became her number one rival and then superseded her and she was always gracious. Here's what i've learned about copycats. It's the highest compliment in the world. Every single business. I invested in shark tank that is exceptional businesses. It's making the most money i copied every day. It's a good sign. It means we're onto something good and what also copycat does. Is it encourages. You insist that you do a better job. It keeps you on the edge. Keeps you on your toes. So when you're having copycats which i hear you are tara. Copycats copycats send them a thank. You know and thank them. At least you had thank food for copying his highest compliment in business you could get and that's all we have time for today if you have a question. Leave me a voicemail in the business unusual hotline eight eight barbara. That's eight eight eight b. a. r. b. a. Aren't a you can also tweet it to me at barbara corcoran and i may just answered on a future episode. You've been listening to business unusual with me. Barbara corcoran come back. next week. to hear more steps and missteps. I took on the path to success search and follow business unusual on iheartradio or subscribe. Wherever you listen to podcasts..

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"barbara" Discussed on Business Unusual with Barbara Corcoran

Business Unusual with Barbara Corcoran

05:04 min | 5 months ago

"barbara" Discussed on Business Unusual with Barbara Corcoran

"It with deep blue we come up with a color theme and that becomes like your map of like why everything's gonna look like then we send your like all of the looks and things that were excited about the internet or on. Though on runways things we want incorporate and something might like like. I found an outfit that was like this like schoolgirl outfit nelson. Okay the seems a little cheesy. But there's something about it and our sister jordan. Who's a stylist who's working with us on the project on unfavored daughter. She was like okay. You like that look but it looks cheesy. Let's pause we brought in another family member to really complicate things. Yeah the she looks at it she goes. Okay let's get your on. What you like about this picture so on the blazer. There's a crest and she goes. That would be a really cool thing pressing corporate. What if we did a favorite autocrats and we put it right but on the jeans and this sounds like that's a great idea. So we all start like rowing in weird ideas into the pile in the designers. Able to take those kind of chaotic idea. Your misery then. Merchandising goes okay. Let's look at the budget and allocate what we can actually award here. We really only. The budget allows us to have four dresses in a in a short dresses. And who does that. That slush room coming in and saying wait. We gotta budget here. No that's merchandising. Through sex part of archie nordstrom nordstrom will alive that her. She has to come in and ruin everything. I know what it's actually really helped. Can she gives us a framework. She goes okay. You can have six sweaters. This false six metres. You can have four pants. You can have three short. Whatever little so then. Carla our designer comes in and she takes all of ideas. She does sketches of what she thinks. Those ideas look like we go through and we eliminate the ones we don't like or we go. I like this. But i don't like it sleeveless or address. Not that i love. Let's use that as inspiration but make it different and expand on it and we all kind of create this thing than she does. New sketches based on our implement. Then once you have the sketches we come up with what kind of materials and fabrics and we have a person who's devoted to bob. Ricks brings ashley. in all. she doesn't fabrics and again is working for you out my posture minute..

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"barbara" Discussed on 888-Barbara

888-Barbara

10:25 min | 2 years ago

"barbara" Discussed on 888-Barbara

"In thank you so much thanks bye bye hey barbara this is heather come Chicago and when I saw your question about emptiness advice I thought that couldn't have Out of better time I have a daughter who is a senior in high school right now. Getting Ready to apply to college and already I can feel that tightness in my chest as I start to think about her not being on a day-to-day basis. Of course. I'm thrilled that she's going to be heading off on this new adventure and I know it's the right thing for her but as the face changes it's always difficult. I have a wonderful heisman. I have a business secure that I'm very happy about but I also know that there will be a void there so any advice you could give. I would greatly appreciate. Thank you so much for all you do. I really really admire all your hard working with them. Thanks we're soulmates. On this question I want you to know. Is that right. Oh without a doubt. I'm struggling with the exact same thing myself myself that you're going through but I got a worse version of it. which is my thirteen year? Old has just left for boarding school. That's so young young to lose a kid you know. I struggle with the decision for two years before I was brave enough to even make it and I made entirely for her. Although although I really didn't want to do it for myself you know four years young. I think well the right decision for your child. I assume it's the right thing to do. And but that's what we his parents right for our kids. If you're good power but I I have to tell you. It's honestly breaking my heart breaking my heart so so I'm probably the worst person to give you advice but at least I lost my son to college and he never came back. I felt was sure he'd be dying to move back in with his father and I but yeah oh he moved on and I think even looked relieved as he was moving on. I thought a man. I'm a magnificent mom. Why is he so happy leaving? You did a good job. He was ready to go. What's your daughter's name? My daughters Lily. Lily our sweet name. A God probably suits are well right. She's a great lovely girl And I feel very fortunate in that. I don't love her. I also really like her like I love spending. I'm fair which is why I know making the transition. She's just someone with whom I like to spend my days so when she's not going to be here I know there's going to be that void and I wanna be able to fill it productively rather than becoming some kind of basket case. which isn't my nature? But I'm so close with her that I want to make sure that I support her and she knows I'm thrilled for her. This is such a an exciting time of life but there's inevitably going to be some sadness because has this chapter of our lives together has over. Well you know I've never met an ending that wasn't said honestly. I Love Beginnings I specialize in that. It's always exciting. What's around the corner? ooh Who could she be. Who could I be But all endings sad. I think so for me if I could just tap into a what went on with my son because I have a little distance from that now he left home for college and never came back. I really thought he would come back because he lives in my hometown and my apartment so so much nicer than his in his axes. They should both live with us. You know but I still honestly if I were being very direct I still have a broken heart over it. I feel like even though he's my son in a way I lost my best friend. She's a real broken heart like deeper than I've felt. I should be feeling but that's been a lot of years ears. Now that's been going on seven years since he even college and I've mostly filled that space with more friendships is what I found. Answered answered my call. Initially I remember losing Tommy. I worked harder. Fill the void which is probably a good in between medicine. I just worked harder and and so I had less downtime to think about. It kept myself busy. That didn't amount to much. It amounted to kind of a different kind of empty feeling until I realized I needed more friends in my life like he was too much. My friend almost two important too much a big piece of my life and now experiencing the same thing all over. You're again with my kate leaving because she like. Your Lily is sweetness. Always sweet I have never had a bad day with her and she is joyful fool. She's funny she's really my best friend. I don't know how my kid wearing being my best friend. But even more so than ever with Tommy. She's a girl but I realized that I'm not as close with my friends. Is I used to be a she. Kinda replaced a little of that commitment to friendships that I used to have an feel wholeheartedly a now. They're on the side and Kate Semaine main friend and then I have my other friends. Interesting is so let me ask you this. You have a really close girlfriend or two on your side yeah. I'm very fortunate originate that I have a very tight network of friends and frankly several of them are going through this transition at the same time a little ahead of me. Some are a little behind me and end in watching them navigate. I'm certainly trying to learn from their experiences. Well to make sure that I'm ready to take that next step and again be supportive but also feel the loss. I can't just mask it in work or anything else. I think the idea of fans is great because you can be emotional. FM In a way that you can't necessarily be obviously your professional context. Yes yes you know what I noticed among my girlfriends who have had the kids leave home. And then I'll tell you what I've noticed of my girlfriends who have the kids come back twitch. I don't want now. I thought great. I don't want that the ones who have left home the one sip mourn the loss of the kids most are the best moms. It's almost. It's like you mourn as hard as you love you know part of the same things so it's really a compliment to yourself that you're a phenomenal mom that you love that at heart you know. It's a good report card is sadly nice to hear. Yeah well I mean you want to develop them in a way that they're ready to go and again she's completely ready to go but I keep reminding myself that. No I don't obviously the endgame here is not to have her move back in and become a child can continue having a strong relationship with her. She goes through this process staying in touch but not being in any way overbearing or intrusive and allowing her to move forward the same. I need to move forward into this next chapter chapter. Whatever that may be You know one thing. I just started with my Kate. That has helped me tremendously. And I can't take credit for the item on my closest friends. Suggested is I have a to set times a week that I speak to her like after her. Study whole nine o'clock on Sunday night in Lan o'clock on Wednesday night. That's great and I suggest you set that up for a lot of reasons worn. She doesn't have to feel guilty that she's not calling me and I tried that for a few months than didn't work. Okay and secondly I get the -joy of anticipating the call knowing. I have a safe spot that I'm going to touch base and touch her and she touches me back that's fabulous so I feel elect that carries me through the week. You know the other thing I wanted to say is the moms that I know who faked being independent of their children and went after after them trying to like kind of claw their own importance back into their life away are exactly the moms that don't have good relationships with the kids today. You know I've seen that over seventy years. The kids don't want any part of them. which is the saddest thing of all so I learned from watching them? That other very important lesson is to not chase my kids. It's you know and that's why again I like the two points a week. You know. And if she chooses that she doesn't WanNa talk twice a week. I'll accept that but so far. She seems happy with Nice. Seem happy with it. That's great and are you able to watch her develop change. I would imagine as the week progresses something. That's a big deal on. Wednesday may not be a big deal on Friday. thicke calmed down a little bit. She's not that kind of kid doesn't have a lot of drama you know. She's felt her oats a little bit at the school and testing a couple of limits. I'd like to see her more. excitable light abo-about stuff. That's bothering her on a very low keyed and even you know it's really about having a base where you know you can touch your child and have a conversation -sation and a short conversation. She's off the phone with in two minutes. We run out of stuff to talk about but I have to say what has seen me through the loss of my my son leaving home and now is helping me again with Kate is. I brought my girlfriend's in closer. That's great should be my husband. I tried that but somehow that doesn't work somehow. You know really and I really have tried that like Oh let me play more scrabble games with bill. Let's go out for dinner more with Bill. No no no no. He's not I changing all. He's not crying about any loss. I'm the one that's got the problem so I have to find a different solution. It's not the marriage that's Fisher and your girlfriend's help. Oh the girlfriends are great great and a bottle of cold white. Pino Griego helps when we get together. Right Yeah Yeah Oh that's great okay. So that's the best advice I could are few and I'm not even sure if any of it's really good because I am struggling exactly again with what you're struggling with. Having your lily go off. But there's no other way to make an independent child and that in the long game is what we all want our kids even more than they love. We WanNa make sure that independent in life they. You can't provide for themselves. That's the best gift of all a Lily Kate and let's keep telling ourselves and hopes that we believe in. What do you think I agree? Great advice thank you so much. Thank you so much. You're feeling better about. Oh by the week I do feel better no doubt about that. Yeah Right Okay you will two K hit. Thanks so much and that's all the questions we have time for today. I hope you found the advice helpful than guy got it right. They got wrong. have an idea for great guests. Come on give it to me tweet me at Barbara Corcoran using the Hashtag. Eight.

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10:25 min | 2 years ago

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"In thank you so much thanks bye bye hey barbara this is heather come Chicago and when I saw your question about emptiness advice I thought that couldn't have Out of better time I have a daughter who is a senior in high school right now. Getting Ready to apply to college and already I can feel that tightness in my chest as I start to think about her not being on a day-to-day basis. Of course. I'm thrilled that she's going to be heading off on this new adventure and I know it's the right thing for her but as the face changes it's always difficult. I have a wonderful heisman. I have a business secure that I'm very happy about but I also know that there will be a void there so any advice you could give. I would greatly appreciate. Thank you so much for all you do. I really really admire all your hard working with them. Thanks we're soulmates. On this question I want you to know. Is that right. Oh without a doubt. I'm struggling with the exact same thing myself myself that you're going through but I got a worse version of it. which is my thirteen year? Old has just left for boarding school. That's so young young to lose a kid you know. I struggle with the decision for two years before I was brave enough to even make it and I made entirely for her. Although although I really didn't want to do it for myself you know four years young. I think well the right decision for your child. I assume it's the right thing to do. And but that's what we his parents right for our kids. If you're good power but I I have to tell you. It's honestly breaking my heart breaking my heart so so I'm probably the worst person to give you advice but at least I lost my son to college and he never came back. I felt was sure he'd be dying to move back in with his father and I but yeah oh he moved on and I think even looked relieved as he was moving on. I thought a man. I'm a magnificent mom. Why is he so happy leaving? You did a good job. He was ready to go. What's your daughter's name? My daughters Lily. Lily our sweet name. A God probably suits are well right. She's a great lovely girl And I feel very fortunate in that. I don't love her. I also really like her like I love spending. I'm fair which is why I know making the transition. She's just someone with whom I like to spend my days so when she's not going to be here I know there's going to be that void and I wanna be able to fill it productively rather than becoming some kind of basket case. which isn't my nature? But I'm so close with her that I want to make sure that I support her and she knows I'm thrilled for her. This is such a an exciting time of life but there's inevitably going to be some sadness because has this chapter of our lives together has over. Well you know I've never met an ending that wasn't said honestly. I Love Beginnings I specialize in that. It's always exciting. What's around the corner? ooh Who could she be. Who could I be But all endings sad. I think so for me if I could just tap into a what went on with my son because I have a little distance from that now he left home for college and never came back. I really thought he would come back because he lives in my hometown and my apartment so so much nicer than his in his axes. They should both live with us. You know but I still honestly if I were being very direct I still have a broken heart over it. I feel like even though he's my son in a way I lost my best friend. She's a real broken heart like deeper than I've felt. I should be feeling but that's been a lot of years ears. Now that's been going on seven years since he even college and I've mostly filled that space with more friendships is what I found. Answered answered my call. Initially I remember losing Tommy. I worked harder. Fill the void which is probably a good in between medicine. I just worked harder and and so I had less downtime to think about. It kept myself busy. That didn't amount to much. It amounted to kind of a different kind of empty feeling until I realized I needed more friends in my life like he was too much. My friend almost two important too much a big piece of my life and now experiencing the same thing all over. You're again with my kate leaving because she like. Your Lily is sweetness. Always sweet I have never had a bad day with her and she is joyful fool. She's funny she's really my best friend. I don't know how my kid wearing being my best friend. But even more so than ever with Tommy. She's a girl but I realized that I'm not as close with my friends. Is I used to be a she. Kinda replaced a little of that commitment to friendships that I used to have an feel wholeheartedly a now. They're on the side and Kate Semaine main friend and then I have my other friends. Interesting is so let me ask you this. You have a really close girlfriend or two on your side yeah. I'm very fortunate originate that I have a very tight network of friends and frankly several of them are going through this transition at the same time a little ahead of me. Some are a little behind me and end in watching them navigate. I'm certainly trying to learn from their experiences. Well to make sure that I'm ready to take that next step and again be supportive but also feel the loss. I can't just mask it in work or anything else. I think the idea of fans is great because you can be emotional. FM In a way that you can't necessarily be obviously your professional context. Yes yes you know what I noticed among my girlfriends who have had the kids leave home. And then I'll tell you what I've noticed of my girlfriends who have the kids come back twitch. I don't want now. I thought great. I don't want that the ones who have left home the one sip mourn the loss of the kids most are the best moms. It's almost. It's like you mourn as hard as you love you know part of the same things so it's really a compliment to yourself that you're a phenomenal mom that you love that at heart you know. It's a good report card is sadly nice to hear. Yeah well I mean you want to develop them in a way that they're ready to go and again she's completely ready to go but I keep reminding myself that. No I don't obviously the endgame here is not to have her move back in and become a child can continue having a strong relationship with her. She goes through this process staying in touch but not being in any way overbearing or intrusive and allowing her to move forward the same. I need to move forward into this next chapter chapter. Whatever that may be You know one thing. I just started with my Kate. That has helped me tremendously. And I can't take credit for the item on my closest friends. Suggested is I have a to set times a week that I speak to her like after her. Study whole nine o'clock on Sunday night in Lan o'clock on Wednesday night. That's great and I suggest you set that up for a lot of reasons worn. She doesn't have to feel guilty that she's not calling me and I tried that for a few months than didn't work. Okay and secondly I get the -joy of anticipating the call knowing. I have a safe spot that I'm going to touch base and touch her and she touches me back that's fabulous so I feel elect that carries me through the week. You know the other thing I wanted to say is the moms that I know who faked being independent of their children and went after after them trying to like kind of claw their own importance back into their life away are exactly the moms that don't have good relationships with the kids today. You know I've seen that over seventy years. The kids don't want any part of them. which is the saddest thing of all so I learned from watching them? That other very important lesson is to not chase my kids. It's you know and that's why again I like the two points a week. You know. And if she chooses that she doesn't WanNa talk twice a week. I'll accept that but so far. She seems happy with Nice. Seem happy with it. That's great and are you able to watch her develop change. I would imagine as the week progresses something. That's a big deal on. Wednesday may not be a big deal on Friday. thicke calmed down a little bit. She's not that kind of kid doesn't have a lot of drama you know. She's felt her oats a little bit at the school and testing a couple of limits. I'd like to see her more. excitable light abo-about stuff. That's bothering her on a very low keyed and even you know it's really about having a base where you know you can touch your child and have a conversation -sation and a short conversation. She's off the phone with in two minutes. We run out of stuff to talk about but I have to say what has seen me through the loss of my my son leaving home and now is helping me again with Kate is. I brought my girlfriend's in closer. That's great should be my husband. I tried that but somehow that doesn't work somehow. You know really and I really have tried that like Oh let me play more scrabble games with bill. Let's go out for dinner more with Bill. No no no no. He's not I changing all. He's not crying about any loss. I'm the one that's got the problem so I have to find a different solution. It's not the marriage that's Fisher and your girlfriend's help. Oh the girlfriends are great great and a bottle of cold white. Pino Griego helps when we get together. Right Yeah Yeah Oh that's great okay. So that's the best advice I could are few and I'm not even sure if any of it's really good because I am struggling exactly again with what you're struggling with. Having your lily go off. But there's no other way to make an independent child and that in the long game is what we all want our kids even more than they love. We WanNa make sure that independent in life they. You can't provide for themselves. That's the best gift of all a Lily Kate and let's keep telling ourselves and hopes that we believe in. What do you think I agree? Great advice thank you so much. Thank you so much. You're feeling better about. Oh by the week I do feel better no doubt about that. Yeah Right Okay you will two K hit. Thanks so much and that's all the questions we have time for today. I hope you found the advice helpful than guy got it right. They got wrong. have an idea for great guests. Come on give it to me tweet me at Barbara Corcoran using the Hashtag. Eight.

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15:37 min | 2 years ago

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"And sometimes I'll be asking them to interview view some of the greatest folks. I know to learn the secrets of their success. So I can share them with you today today. We hear from Denise From Louisville who is asking me what to do after she divorces her husband to March more surgeon. Tomorrow not next week yeah. We're all divorcing forcing our husband tomorrow listening so my daughter just left for boarding school and walking around like almost a press like I lost my best friend a and I gotta get over this and then this caller calls in with the exact same problem. We put our heads together. We've come up with a plan. Hi Barbara I have been married for about six years and I plan on divorce in my husband tomorrow. Wow I have a home that I chose sixty thousand on and it's a prison get one eighty I have about forty forty thousand dollars in directed. IRA and I would like to try to utilize that money to put me and my two kids in a better position financially. The home that I live in right now my husband pays for it. We still owe two hundred on. It would love to be able to pay this off but I need to do something that will help me generate income with the money that I have looking for some advice on how I can get myself out of this marriage in a financially smart way thank you. Hey there denise from from Louisville how you doing today I'm doing well and we'll be better after I get some insight from you. Okay let's hope so anyway. So you've you've been married six years and you plan on divorcing your husband to morrow we all want a divorce a husband tomorrow is. It's the truth both if anybody's been married for more than maybe the first three gorgeous years you'd think about divorce and getting rid of the guy on Monday so what's wrong with the marriage. Why so oh definite about it? So we've been together for almost twenty years married six and I have been finding out about financial moves and decisions decisions Berry big decisions behind my back and so I've been really adamant you know before we got married. I said I really wanted this to be a situation where we grew together A little back story where a biracial couples. So I'm African American. He's Asian he's Chinese and he works for his family his family's family's not so thrilled about the marriage and so I've made it clear to him after dealing with them and things that they've said I don't want our income tied right to what you do with them. We have to do something independent of your work situation with them in order for us to really survive because because he's the breadwinner and so much of the money comes from that situation but I've had so many negative things and experiences from that side of the family where we're I'm not comfortable. It's fine if he wants to work with them. You know that's his family but for me and for me to feel safe in the marriage I feel like we need to create another the income stream independent of that and so I've been real adamant about expressing that and trying to work on that I am in real estate I buy rental properties and I have I've been wanting to increase our portfolio but I've run into roadblocks because of lines of credit that he is pulled behind my back. I see a May I ask q a few questions about the buying of the rental properties. So this business you've started you've been working on and that you have equity in you've purchased properties properties. You rent them out. I wasn't sure what that looks like. Could you give me an idea. We have four properties right now. There's one that's completely under my name. One under both both of our names one under his name of actually the other two are under his name as well so four properties ones in your game To our in his dame and one isn't troy. Yeah one is our residents so denise you live in a home now that you're raising your family and is it just a home or does it have a rental oh component to it as well. No that's our primary residence. But it's under his name Soli So your husband owns the home in his name that you're raising your children intern in name. Only what's the next property. There are two rental properties that my name is on. There's one my name is solely on. There's one our name is is on together. And then the other two or his so The final score is in his court. Then he owns more of the rental properties in his name than you do. Yes Sita's okay. And why is that so because of the line of work I do. I sometimes have Java. Sometimes don't so what will happen is I will save my money. You and then use my money that I've saved as down payment and because he can qualify for loans because he has a steady income then sometimes they go under his name. But why would you need to use your husband's income to justify an income producing property loan banks usually lend on the viability of how much income you could get. Not what the husband is earning. What am I missing there? My first one was my primary residence and then I turned that into a rental. The second one was one that he bought. And then we refinanced it with both of our names and the other two are his but when I've spoken to lenders when I've tried to get loans. They're like the he makes the money so so the loan has to go under his name. So it's very hard for you to buy another property to produce income with without your husband's help. Yes Okay A.. What are you GonNa do oof for continuing that business? Once you leave your husband tomorrow. Well I I have a real estate license and so I've been getting into that and taking going customers MHM The good thing is that this is not a messy separation. So he's not like you know you're out of here. Oh you spoke to him. Oh well yeah no we. I'm very open. We're very clear clear with our communication. It sells it. Yeah he knows how I feel. The agreement has been you. Don't have to rush to get out of here if you can get your pipeline fool pool and by this home I will sell it to you for what I oh wait. WHO's talking here your husband? Yes my husband's so your husband says you don't have to be in a rush to get out of here Denise Jason Then what does he say the home that we live in under his name if we would like to stay here. He's given me an opportunity to get my pipeline with my real estate fool to purchase it from him for what he owes. Oh Okay so you could buy him out in the House that you live with with you. Two children yet. Sounds like a great idea to have the cash to do that. It's tied up. I have equity and then I have a self directed. IRA that could utilize. But it wouldn't take down the whole cost of the house. I would have to sell some houses south a little vacation nation. You know it makes you make money. That's for sure. Yeah okay so what do you think about that. That's your first question. Should you buy your husband out of your home. How do you feel about that? So so. I'm conflicted because part of me is like this is a large home and do i WanNa take all this on by myself but then also it's the kids home and they're very happy here and this would keep me close to him so we could all still coordinate family functions and and be involved with each other slow down a second keep you close to him. You mean he he would move out. He'd be that close. Yeah he's a very good father and very active father so I would not want to move away so far. It's where he he could not be involved with the children. Well that's a little unusual denise. I'm sure you're aware to say the least. So if you got divorced from your husband tomorrow which you're hoping to to do he would stay in the house and live with you and the children but he would be in one room. You'd be in the other. You'd still share a life together for the sake of the children. Well that's what we're already doing now. Now know what I'm saying is we would keep this home and then he would move out. Oh okay so he's GonNa move out of the home and then the question is do you buy him out of the home. I I would say number one know. What's the rush? She seems like these reasonable. Why do you want to take on that debt You feel a year from today. You don't want to be in that home. You know things change change the your judgment is always con. Simple what you have to judge with changes all the time. So what if you decide to make that decision down the road. What the decisions are there that you have to Mike Now Really? I just wanted to try to see if I could use that money in the self directed. IRA to generate some income. Like what may be do. A flip may be rental until I don't get as much you know about slow money coming in initially until his paid off and then it looks a lot better destroyed to make that money. What one person told me was I should buy cash? Lots and then seller finance them sat easily done in your neighborhood in your market that you know he seems to do very well with it. He's said that he I would mentor. Me and this is a friend is not anybody. I have a relationship with this is a another real estate partner. He's suggesting that I do that. I've never done that before. So I'm a little little bit. Not Too quick to jump on it but according to him you know he's looking at the numbers and he's like you can make a thirty percent return on this dollar amount. That's why I don't like it. Okay I think your hesitation thinking about not jumping right on. It's your instincts speaking at saying slowdown slowdown. I would definitely listen to your instinct. I'll tell you what I don't like about a few things mixing of business and friends never works out the guy that's on his game and it's GonNa share it with you. Never works at thirty thirty percent return. Amazing amazing usually doesn't work out. What works out as what you know sticking with knitting? Obviously you've built a little portfolio over time. That's something you know how to take a house to make it a rental building but like you just said the income would come in to slow food you initially what about flips. Have you flipped houses. Does this do you have a talent for that or would that be a new venture something. You're not familiar with it would be a new venture but I have a passion for that too. So what I've done is is. I've done little construction projects around my home and people actually ask me about different things they can do with their home. I just haven't taken on purchasing a new property gutting and get and doing it and that's something that I wanted to do with my husband and he would talk me out of numerous times and why. What was the hesitation there? Well he doesn't know real estate and he's not comfortable with it and his family there in the restaurant industry and right so that was a big separation for us. You know we gotta do something you WanNa do. Restaurant draw fine. Do Your restaurant thing. Come up with your plan on moving forward with real estate but what I noticed. Every time I came across a deal he would speak so badly about it that I would eventually essentially walk away from it. I got it wiser than that. I don't think you'll kind of lady that lays low too long. May I ask you on the properties that you've already acquired that you've turned into rental two units. Forget about who owns what Sharat now but just the properties themselves. How long have you own them and are they profitable yes they are well I I don't look at his to that he has but but the two that are under my name? I have a mortgage on one for eight hundred I charge fifteen hundred. I have.

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15:37 min | 2 years ago

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"And sometimes I'll be asking them to interview view some of the greatest folks. I know to learn the secrets of their success. So I can share them with you today today. We hear from Denise From Louisville who is asking me what to do after she divorces her husband to March more surgeon. Tomorrow not next week yeah. We're all divorcing forcing our husband tomorrow listening so my daughter just left for boarding school and walking around like almost a press like I lost my best friend a and I gotta get over this and then this caller calls in with the exact same problem. We put our heads together. We've come up with a plan. Hi Barbara I have been married for about six years and I plan on divorce in my husband tomorrow. Wow I have a home that I chose sixty thousand on and it's a prison get one eighty I have about forty forty thousand dollars in directed. IRA and I would like to try to utilize that money to put me and my two kids in a better position financially. The home that I live in right now my husband pays for it. We still owe two hundred on. It would love to be able to pay this off but I need to do something that will help me generate income with the money that I have looking for some advice on how I can get myself out of this marriage in a financially smart way thank you. Hey there denise from from Louisville how you doing today I'm doing well and we'll be better after I get some insight from you. Okay let's hope so anyway. So you've you've been married six years and you plan on divorcing your husband to morrow we all want a divorce a husband tomorrow is. It's the truth both if anybody's been married for more than maybe the first three gorgeous years you'd think about divorce and getting rid of the guy on Monday so what's wrong with the marriage. Why so oh definite about it? So we've been together for almost twenty years married six and I have been finding out about financial moves and decisions decisions Berry big decisions behind my back and so I've been really adamant you know before we got married. I said I really wanted this to be a situation where we grew together A little back story where a biracial couples. So I'm African American. He's Asian he's Chinese and he works for his family his family's family's not so thrilled about the marriage and so I've made it clear to him after dealing with them and things that they've said I don't want our income tied right to what you do with them. We have to do something independent of your work situation with them in order for us to really survive because because he's the breadwinner and so much of the money comes from that situation but I've had so many negative things and experiences from that side of the family where we're I'm not comfortable. It's fine if he wants to work with them. You know that's his family but for me and for me to feel safe in the marriage I feel like we need to create another the income stream independent of that and so I've been real adamant about expressing that and trying to work on that I am in real estate I buy rental properties and I have I've been wanting to increase our portfolio but I've run into roadblocks because of lines of credit that he is pulled behind my back. I see a May I ask q a few questions about the buying of the rental properties. So this business you've started you've been working on and that you have equity in you've purchased properties properties. You rent them out. I wasn't sure what that looks like. Could you give me an idea. We have four properties right now. There's one that's completely under my name. One under both both of our names one under his name of actually the other two are under his name as well so four properties ones in your game To our in his dame and one isn't troy. Yeah one is our residents so denise you live in a home now that you're raising your family and is it just a home or does it have a rental oh component to it as well. No that's our primary residence. But it's under his name Soli So your husband owns the home in his name that you're raising your children intern in name. Only what's the next property. There are two rental properties that my name is on. There's one my name is solely on. There's one our name is is on together. And then the other two or his so The final score is in his court. Then he owns more of the rental properties in his name than you do. Yes Sita's okay. And why is that so because of the line of work I do. I sometimes have Java. Sometimes don't so what will happen is I will save my money. You and then use my money that I've saved as down payment and because he can qualify for loans because he has a steady income then sometimes they go under his name. But why would you need to use your husband's income to justify an income producing property loan banks usually lend on the viability of how much income you could get. Not what the husband is earning. What am I missing there? My first one was my primary residence and then I turned that into a rental. The second one was one that he bought. And then we refinanced it with both of our names and the other two are his but when I've spoken to lenders when I've tried to get loans. They're like the he makes the money so so the loan has to go under his name. So it's very hard for you to buy another property to produce income with without your husband's help. Yes Okay A.. What are you GonNa do oof for continuing that business? Once you leave your husband tomorrow. Well I I have a real estate license and so I've been getting into that and taking going customers MHM The good thing is that this is not a messy separation. So he's not like you know you're out of here. Oh you spoke to him. Oh well yeah no we. I'm very open. We're very clear clear with our communication. It sells it. Yeah he knows how I feel. The agreement has been you. Don't have to rush to get out of here if you can get your pipeline fool pool and by this home I will sell it to you for what I oh wait. WHO's talking here your husband? Yes my husband's so your husband says you don't have to be in a rush to get out of here Denise Jason Then what does he say the home that we live in under his name if we would like to stay here. He's given me an opportunity to get my pipeline with my real estate fool to purchase it from him for what he owes. Oh Okay so you could buy him out in the House that you live with with you. Two children yet. Sounds like a great idea to have the cash to do that. It's tied up. I have equity and then I have a self directed. IRA that could utilize. But it wouldn't take down the whole cost of the house. I would have to sell some houses south a little vacation nation. You know it makes you make money. That's for sure. Yeah okay so what do you think about that. That's your first question. Should you buy your husband out of your home. How do you feel about that? So so. I'm conflicted because part of me is like this is a large home and do i WanNa take all this on by myself but then also it's the kids home and they're very happy here and this would keep me close to him so we could all still coordinate family functions and and be involved with each other slow down a second keep you close to him. You mean he he would move out. He'd be that close. Yeah he's a very good father and very active father so I would not want to move away so far. It's where he he could not be involved with the children. Well that's a little unusual denise. I'm sure you're aware to say the least. So if you got divorced from your husband tomorrow which you're hoping to to do he would stay in the house and live with you and the children but he would be in one room. You'd be in the other. You'd still share a life together for the sake of the children. Well that's what we're already doing now. Now know what I'm saying is we would keep this home and then he would move out. Oh okay so he's GonNa move out of the home and then the question is do you buy him out of the home. I I would say number one know. What's the rush? She seems like these reasonable. Why do you want to take on that debt You feel a year from today. You don't want to be in that home. You know things change change the your judgment is always con. Simple what you have to judge with changes all the time. So what if you decide to make that decision down the road. What the decisions are there that you have to Mike Now Really? I just wanted to try to see if I could use that money in the self directed. IRA to generate some income. Like what may be do. A flip may be rental until I don't get as much you know about slow money coming in initially until his paid off and then it looks a lot better destroyed to make that money. What one person told me was I should buy cash? Lots and then seller finance them sat easily done in your neighborhood in your market that you know he seems to do very well with it. He's said that he I would mentor. Me and this is a friend is not anybody. I have a relationship with this is a another real estate partner. He's suggesting that I do that. I've never done that before. So I'm a little little bit. Not Too quick to jump on it but according to him you know he's looking at the numbers and he's like you can make a thirty percent return on this dollar amount. That's why I don't like it. Okay I think your hesitation thinking about not jumping right on. It's your instincts speaking at saying slowdown slowdown. I would definitely listen to your instinct. I'll tell you what I don't like about a few things mixing of business and friends never works out the guy that's on his game and it's GonNa share it with you. Never works at thirty thirty percent return. Amazing amazing usually doesn't work out. What works out as what you know sticking with knitting? Obviously you've built a little portfolio over time. That's something you know how to take a house to make it a rental building but like you just said the income would come in to slow food you initially what about flips. Have you flipped houses. Does this do you have a talent for that or would that be a new venture something. You're not familiar with it would be a new venture but I have a passion for that too. So what I've done is is. I've done little construction projects around my home and people actually ask me about different things they can do with their home. I just haven't taken on purchasing a new property gutting and get and doing it and that's something that I wanted to do with my husband and he would talk me out of numerous times and why. What was the hesitation there? Well he doesn't know real estate and he's not comfortable with it and his family there in the restaurant industry and right so that was a big separation for us. You know we gotta do something you WanNa do. Restaurant draw fine. Do Your restaurant thing. Come up with your plan on moving forward with real estate but what I noticed. Every time I came across a deal he would speak so badly about it that I would eventually essentially walk away from it. I got it wiser than that. I don't think you'll kind of lady that lays low too long. May I ask you on the properties that you've already acquired that you've turned into rental two units. Forget about who owns what Sharat now but just the properties themselves. How long have you own them and are they profitable yes they are well I I don't look at his to that he has but but the two that are under my name? I have a mortgage on one for eight hundred I charge fifteen hundred. I have.

Denise Jason Louisville Barbara Sharat Berry intern Sita Mike partner
"barbara" Discussed on Business Unusual with Barbara Corcoran

Business Unusual with Barbara Corcoran

07:04 min | 2 years ago

"barbara" Discussed on Business Unusual with Barbara Corcoran

"I'm going to tell you the real real deal listening today. I'm going to answer all your burning questions about work. Life starting a company on track and much much more be sure who to call in to the business unusual hotline with your question at eight Barbara. That's eight eight eight B. A. R. B. R. A.. The first one is the right time to hire a publicist to promote your business. And how do you do that smartly today. We have a caller who's asking and should I hire the publicist now. Should I not at all and is good for stupid. Money spent listen. I'm going to give him some advice. Not really needs to hear. Hi Barbara My name is Tai from Boise. Idaho I'd like to know how to find the right marketing. The group or publicists promote your new product. Seems like there's so many out there that just WanNa take your money but how did you find the right one appreciate some advice. Thanks for hi TY BARBARA FOR FORTY YEARS I've worked with many publicity companies. It's certainly an expensive proposition. But let me start by asking ASCII. Why do you need one will? We are launching a new product company. And what are you sell product. We have gone called rural lights. There are new consumer markets are actually the consumer light sconces that going in the house and they actually opened up enclosed when you turn on and off and trying to get the word out there and get people to understand them in contract customers. I mean you gotTa have revenue branding is not my forte rid. You seldom tie right now. We sell them all online and then we also are trying to work with is a bunch of manufacturer reps or they go out in contact different lighting companies to represent our products to them. We you're talking. We do this. Who's the other irving good business partner? We've been in business for ten years. We actually own another company and we started for a light says a new consumer market company. So we're we're branching out okay and is it related to your core. Business is also lighting companies. A new kind of lighting but related to what you've done already. Yeah we've been in the lighting business for about ten years as we make our military lighting for aircraft and tanks vehicles. So they're pretty sturdy and We decided we want to get into the consumer market a little bit bigger pie out there. There we actually had developed New Light that nobody else out there. Has We went to a trade show recently and it was really well received. People were happy because it's something new. They were very gracious to see that some news coming out on the market. So we're trying really hard to find the best method to promote when you went to the trade show. Did she take orders. It wasn't wasn't badly that kind of a trade show is more of a manufacturer rep trade show and we got tons of contacts and excitement and we've been diligently working signing up these different it rips in the last month that this has all happened like within the last thirty five days really fast. So the reps that you're signing up is so that they can go out and sell your product product to the retail space so that the retail space can sell it to your consumer. That exactly how it works. That is correct again they also promote it to you know. No lighting designers and various people like that so tied. Tell me once more. Why is this light special? I'm not sure quite got that. If you think give a normal Scott slate that might be on your wall you go to turn the switch on it just comes on turn. It often turns off really quick. We decided we wanted to add a new artistic element to do those. And they're kind of a mini piece of artwork. When you actually turn the switch on they slowly open up? And they changed form in shape in the lane gradually increases and then when you actually turn the switch off the lights actually revert back to their normal stage and they have a little soft glow about him. So it's kind of unique. It's kind of a new product. South sounds spooky to me and you have two lights that look like little field mice on the wall and then you turn them on and suddenly they grow into an elephant. You've got to be elephant. Funny we know give me an example of how they change shape just like visual of it. And then I'll leave you alone on describing over and over again. No no problem at all. One of our lights is called the apex of a triangle. Shape as you go to turn it on. It actually grows outward so the side piece actually become bigger. The backlight lights up the wall while the front our delight as a RGB lights and they're made out of aluminum covers. They look really artistic. Actually Pretty Pretty Nice. It sounds to me more like you're selling art versus you. Selling life is a mixture of both It's targeted for a high end market. It's not your average going down to home depot so in Celena alight. This is kind of a higher end a home automation products. You know one more thing. What are they sell for list price on him is roughly seventeen hundred dollars? This is precis artwork really okay and the military lights who've been selling to the military audience. That has nothing to do you. These lights who you're selling to you're going out into a totally different landscape to sell your new business right. That is correct. Yep this is a totally new company. Okay okay thank you. Thank you for taking the time to explain a little bit more. I need to picture something to really help somebody. So now I get the lay of the land. You have quite beautiful lights. That are or beautifully made have a high price seventeen hundred dollars. Typically people wouldn't necessarily buy them for the practical aspect of lighting their room. They would buy them into. Wow people like wow what is that. That's gorgeous more like a piece of art both correct. Yeah Okay and you've recently been talking to reps direct you to the retail stores. Hi Sue high end so that people could come in and actually buy them. Yeah okay I mean it's hard when you're a new company. It's hard to wave your hand out there to you. Know in the big world of the Internet. I you offering them online right now. Now we do offer them. Online people can order them online. And what are you sales online. We haven't had any sales of those online yet. We've just had a couple orders through some reps ups and do people visit you online. Have you been promoting you online site. We have slightly through Google Edwards and stuff like that but We we really like a marketing company. Kinda take it over into. We've hired marketing companies in the past and it seems like you know they want fifteen thousand dollars from you just even answer the the phone. Fill out a ten minute survey from your product. That's exactly right and then instead of that you're thinking if I get the right. Pr Company they could put it out there. Get a lot of Action around it attention around it and the people will just have to go online or go to the store and buy a lights often. Wonder if a publicist isn't better I mean it seems like maybe they can draw more more attention to it and trying to find out if it's the bang for the buck it's not I'm going to tell you neither is for now anyway. You don't mind if I tell it to you straight right no. Let's take a short break to talk about a company. I love my friends at onto business..

TY BARBARA Barbara My Idaho Boise B. A. R. B. Pr Company Google irving partner Celena Scott Edwards
"barbara" Discussed on Business Unusual with Barbara Corcoran

Business Unusual with Barbara Corcoran

07:04 min | 2 years ago

"barbara" Discussed on Business Unusual with Barbara Corcoran

"I'm going to tell you the real real deal listening today. I'm going to answer all your burning questions about work. Life starting a company on track and much much more be sure who to call in to the business unusual hotline with your question at eight Barbara. That's eight eight eight B. A. R. B. R. A.. The first one is the right time to hire a publicist to promote your business. And how do you do that smartly today. We have a caller who's asking and should I hire the publicist now. Should I not at all and is good for stupid. Money spent listen. I'm going to give him some advice. Not really needs to hear. Hi Barbara My name is Tai from Boise. Idaho I'd like to know how to find the right marketing. The group or publicists promote your new product. Seems like there's so many out there that just WanNa take your money but how did you find the right one appreciate some advice. Thanks for hi TY BARBARA FOR FORTY YEARS I've worked with many publicity companies. It's certainly an expensive proposition. But let me start by asking ASCII. Why do you need one will? We are launching a new product company. And what are you sell product. We have gone called rural lights. There are new consumer markets are actually the consumer light sconces that going in the house and they actually opened up enclosed when you turn on and off and trying to get the word out there and get people to understand them in contract customers. I mean you gotTa have revenue branding is not my forte rid. You seldom tie right now. We sell them all online and then we also are trying to work with is a bunch of manufacturer reps or they go out in contact different lighting companies to represent our products to them. We you're talking. We do this. Who's the other irving good business partner? We've been in business for ten years. We actually own another company and we started for a light says a new consumer market company. So we're we're branching out okay and is it related to your core. Business is also lighting companies. A new kind of lighting but related to what you've done already. Yeah we've been in the lighting business for about ten years as we make our military lighting for aircraft and tanks vehicles. So they're pretty sturdy and We decided we want to get into the consumer market a little bit bigger pie out there. There we actually had developed New Light that nobody else out there. Has We went to a trade show recently and it was really well received. People were happy because it's something new. They were very gracious to see that some news coming out on the market. So we're trying really hard to find the best method to promote when you went to the trade show. Did she take orders. It wasn't wasn't badly that kind of a trade show is more of a manufacturer rep trade show and we got tons of contacts and excitement and we've been diligently working signing up these different it rips in the last month that this has all happened like within the last thirty five days really fast. So the reps that you're signing up is so that they can go out and sell your product product to the retail space so that the retail space can sell it to your consumer. That exactly how it works. That is correct again they also promote it to you know. No lighting designers and various people like that so tied. Tell me once more. Why is this light special? I'm not sure quite got that. If you think give a normal Scott slate that might be on your wall you go to turn the switch on it just comes on turn. It often turns off really quick. We decided we wanted to add a new artistic element to do those. And they're kind of a mini piece of artwork. When you actually turn the switch on they slowly open up? And they changed form in shape in the lane gradually increases and then when you actually turn the switch off the lights actually revert back to their normal stage and they have a little soft glow about him. So it's kind of unique. It's kind of a new product. South sounds spooky to me and you have two lights that look like little field mice on the wall and then you turn them on and suddenly they grow into an elephant. You've got to be elephant. Funny we know give me an example of how they change shape just like visual of it. And then I'll leave you alone on describing over and over again. No no problem at all. One of our lights is called the apex of a triangle. Shape as you go to turn it on. It actually grows outward so the side piece actually become bigger. The backlight lights up the wall while the front our delight as a RGB lights and they're made out of aluminum covers. They look really artistic. Actually Pretty Pretty Nice. It sounds to me more like you're selling art versus you. Selling life is a mixture of both It's targeted for a high end market. It's not your average going down to home depot so in Celena alight. This is kind of a higher end a home automation products. You know one more thing. What are they sell for list price on him is roughly seventeen hundred dollars? This is precis artwork really okay and the military lights who've been selling to the military audience. That has nothing to do you. These lights who you're selling to you're going out into a totally different landscape to sell your new business right. That is correct. Yep this is a totally new company. Okay okay thank you. Thank you for taking the time to explain a little bit more. I need to picture something to really help somebody. So now I get the lay of the land. You have quite beautiful lights. That are or beautifully made have a high price seventeen hundred dollars. Typically people wouldn't necessarily buy them for the practical aspect of lighting their room. They would buy them into. Wow people like wow what is that. That's gorgeous more like a piece of art both correct. Yeah Okay and you've recently been talking to reps direct you to the retail stores. Hi Sue high end so that people could come in and actually buy them. Yeah okay I mean it's hard when you're a new company. It's hard to wave your hand out there to you. Know in the big world of the Internet. I you offering them online right now. Now we do offer them. Online people can order them online. And what are you sales online. We haven't had any sales of those online yet. We've just had a couple orders through some reps ups and do people visit you online. Have you been promoting you online site. We have slightly through Google Edwards and stuff like that but We we really like a marketing company. Kinda take it over into. We've hired marketing companies in the past and it seems like you know they want fifteen thousand dollars from you just even answer the the phone. Fill out a ten minute survey from your product. That's exactly right and then instead of that you're thinking if I get the right. Pr Company they could put it out there. Get a lot of Action around it attention around it and the people will just have to go online or go to the store and buy a lights often. Wonder if a publicist isn't better I mean it seems like maybe they can draw more more attention to it and trying to find out if it's the bang for the buck it's not I'm going to tell you neither is for now anyway. You don't mind if I tell it to you straight right no. Let's take a short break to talk about a company. I love my friends at onto business..

TY BARBARA Barbara My Idaho Boise B. A. R. B. Pr Company Google irving partner Celena Scott Edwards
"barbara" Discussed on 888-Barbara

888-Barbara

14:47 min | 2 years ago

"barbara" Discussed on 888-Barbara

"Come to that road when they reach it. You know what I thank you need to do is that you need to prove to yourself that you're capable of following through village. You need to pick something small whether it's a business thing or an online course or a diet or something and just proved yourself that you're capable of following through on something and build up your confidence again that you will not not let yourself and others down because I feel like you're coming from a place that scarred from past mistakes or pastime that you didn't actually follow through and I feel like so you just need to hear like you are forgiven and like let's move forward and you just got slowly build that confidence muscle by proving yourself that you're capable of doing those things that that you really WanNa do. I WanNa add something of that. If I could very bluntly if you don't mind my saying Thomas don't spend another minute selling real estate you you wave over due to move on nothing wrong with trying it out but you don't try out something for three years and not enjoy it. It's a waste of three whole years of your life. All for the right motivation Shen and provide for your family. But it hasn't panned out. I would say when you first uttered your first word I turn to my producer here when you set em a real estate agent and I said to him with my lips he sounds like a nurse. Be No what came across to me is not a lack of confidence whatsoever however a lack of aggressiveness. I heard the tone and feel and heart of someone who enjoys helping someone. What's better than being a nurse or radiologists geologist's somewhere can make a real difference in someone's life not through great hustle but greet service? We're all meant to be different things. I want to just tell you one last thing because I know we're overstepping stepping. Everyone's time here but I have to share this with you. My very first husband Dell was the most loving wonderful man of my life. We didn't stay married for long not to take away from him really. I think it was more my stuff. Okay but he was an advertising executive from California from business school and wasted three whole whole years in the advertising business and from the day I met him. I said you should be a minister. You should be a minister. You should be a minister. You know what he did. He went amount became a minister twelve years after I left him but you know why he wasn't an aggressor advertising New York City. Bing Bang no the beauty of this man was used a great listener. He was kind you know so. He tapped into his essence and he's phenomenally successful. That's all you need. You need to go hundred ninety degrees to the left and do something that answers to your calling. Which is your lovely guy you got to share that with people not Haslem into palm loosen talk them into this and then night you so we both gave your? I can't think the same advice in different words but if I hear your name associated with real estate eight out there in Saint George Utah. I'm GONNA come after you myself with a big stick. Get that out.

New York City executive Shen geologist Saint George Utah Haslem Thomas producer California
"barbara" Discussed on 888-Barbara

888-Barbara

10:11 min | 2 years ago

"barbara" Discussed on 888-Barbara

"Beiber on my name is Michelle and my question is. How do you overcome blockages? There's like mine is I've been told all my life that I'm not worthy of me knows that I'm worthy but I don't know how to get rid of it. I've had nothing but abuse abuse in my life on the day my butt hit the ground. I've been rejected and abused constantly and I'm always struggling to be successful astle. Can you help me with that. Hey Michelle how are you. It's far I'm Barbara. I'm doing good doesn't sound that way from your question. You know selling doing so good. Good there I tried to hang in there a fighter. You know I'm a survivor. So I just hang in there but now I I am struggling Michelle. What part of you is worthy in your opinion is worthy? What part my honesty and integrity? That's about as worthy as I feel. I'm on instant have integrity. What else us? There's a lot of people out there that can't use either of those words and mean it but you could use each immediate honest and have integrity not a bad place to start. What's unworthy everything else? Like what give me the long list. What's on worthy cups to my success have been successful in the past But for some reason my come success I'm not worthy. I just feel like I'm not worthy of it. I guess because it's always a struggle goal. It's always a battle when you say success to mean making money to meaning relationships do mean getting satisfaction. Everything all right so. Give me three things that you don't think you're successful or haven't been successful with relationships money and my time okay and you said to me just a moment ago that you were successful once in power you successful and you were What happened is I built a heavy equipment business for my husband at the time? He's my ex now but I was able to build it in six months I had generating one hundred and fifty ground and I have not been able to do that again. Well is it part because you're on your own and you don't have a partnership to work within with your ex husband. Yeah probably at. I feel like I need a partner. It'll be successful. Well that's a great thing to know about yourself. What was your role in that partnership in? What was your husband's role? He did all the repairs. But I did everything else invoicing saying that dealing with the customers who got the business. I brought the business in all he did was turn wrenches. Oh okay did he take credit for the business and forget that he was turning the wrenches and that you brought the business in and manage the business. Oh yeah and he made. My children believed to that I had nothing to do with it but I just used him. Or how long ago was your relationship with your ex-husband. When did you build a business? I ended everything back in two thousand ten so I have been struggling. It's okay ten year run or close to ten year run of struggling. Have you tried to build any other business in any kind of partnership situation Shen. Yeah right tried to build a foundation to help children heal from abuse and went nowhere like ten years. Nothing so you worked on that foundation which certainly sounds like a worthy cause for ten full years and never went anywhere just got sabotaged by everyone that I was around. Why do you think that is because they were jealous? Or they didn't believe in the cause or you collect the money and they stole the money. What was just what went wrong? It was all of the above. They collected the money and stole the money. They stole the spotlight. When it came to ban it was horrible? They pretended pretended to care. It always turned out to be an in the end. Okay and did they in the end end the charity or did you end it or did it just fade out since suspension. It's still legal. Ngo In suspension. And what happened to the money that was collected to benefit charity. Did it actually get the money end. Nope I just used what I did bring in and for expenses to try to keep it going. Try to keep things moving but then my partner my business partner ended up dying. Oh boy was he a good was is he or she a good partner no she was kind of hard to deal with. I'm still involved with people that she taught her therapy to. And so I'm still hoping hoping one day I might get it going again but I just had to put it on the back burner and take care of me for a while. So what brings you joy your family you case they bring you joy. Kids do That's a good place to start. Are they grown up where the little kids. They're adults and they turned out. Okay doing okay. Okay that's a to so you're great credit. I do need money to live on or you provided for in other words. Must you have a job until you have a job now. I'm struggling now as it is. I've been doing uber part time. And I'm working on a multi level business to as with gold. Oh so you starting another business. Yeah well I've started. I mean I'm part of it. I'm it's a slow build. I'm having trouble getting it built in love with it or not. It's a struggle. That's all just a slow slow process. It takes time. It's a network marketing company. It doesn't happen overnight so so you're willing to keep working on that right but meanwhile you do uber which yeah over spring the cash into pay bills pretty much. Yeah Yeah it's a side hustle. It leaves you free to do other thing absolutely. Okay I'm GonNa give you who I'm not so sure this visits you're working on your dedicated enough to really make a go of it. Honestly because I don't hear any passionate voice. That always is a red flag so you would know better than I on a scale of one to ten. How much do you wake up in the morning thinking? Oh my God. I can't wait to get in their work on that. That would be a ten wake up ten ten. I wake up in the mornings I thing okay. Well then there we go now. You have a me a believer but I think you're missing one thing in your life. It's a something in your life that a mite make a big difference. I think you need to find something to give to this something about when you give to something with no objective to bill something to win in favors to be light to find joy. Just give for the sake of giving the has a remarkable effect on the soul psyche or anything that gives you you. You've been abused as a child or maybe I'm filling up all your life right. Couldn't there be kids that you could relate to and if if not kids other adults and a form kind of thing rather than starting a business and raising funds and Dell that just sheer giving of yourself as something that you could give to. That's what I started. The foundation for was to give back because I'm a survivor and I feel like I can make a difference in people's lives but like I said it just got sabotaged numbers. Nothing that I could do. I'll tell you about something really simple like working in a soup kitchen or going on the street and giving coach to people who don't have coats uncomplicated. Easy two hours a week. Even is this something you throw yourself at. Yeah I know it sounds like a wacky solution to very complicated problem you have. That can't be turned back on time. Can't be reward. Kimchi Redone. But I am. I'm just a believer that when all else fails you throw a life preserver. Out to someone in a little way and while you're pulling them in you forgot what was going wrong with zero life. I've always been that kind of person that reaches out to other people. Even though I have nothing to give I still do it. I don't believe you have nothing to give. I can hear it in your voice. You have so much to give but what I'm suggesting is that you take that gene and that ability and experience you have to give and dedicate to Seoul hours a week just for that on a schedule as a giver. I think those two hours will be the happiest hours of your entire week and I think from that you'll find a source to do other things that bring a great satisfaction in essence. That's really what you're missing in life not so much success success that's defined by too many people too many circumstances but the feeling you get when you go to bed at night and you think you know. I really did a great job today. Even if it's as one little thing I did a great job. Okay Michelle his two things. I'm going to give us an assignment and I want you to try it and mean it number one. Stop feeling sorry for yourself. That's more new way than you could ever imagine. That alone will clear the deck and then the second thing is just find and one little thing you do every week maybe for two hours. Will you purely give just purely give soup kitchen help some kid. That's abuse become my big brother. Big sister go and give for the sake of giving what happens when you giving is you can't think about what's wrong with you. That's the beginning of the sure right. There you do that. You call back into me and tell me how you did. I think you're GonNa be surprised at what you find that. Okay all right. I'm on your side just like everybody else aside. Michelle look forward to hear. And that's all the questions Sion's we have time for today. I hope you found the advice helpful than guy got it right then got it wrong. have an idea for great guests. Come on give it to me. Tweet me up Barbara Corcoran using the HASHTAG. Eight Barbara and keep those questions coming into the eight eight eight Barbara Hotline. You can subscribe to this show wherever you listen to podcasts. Don't be coy. Leave a review the show at Apple podcasts. And keep the party going on. We'll see you next time. 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"barbara" Discussed on 888-Barbara

888-Barbara

09:42 min | 2 years ago

"barbara" Discussed on 888-Barbara

"And sometimes I'll be asking them to interview view some of the greatest folks. I know to learn the secrets of their success. So I can share them with you. See you find the whole landscape of dating today as treacherous and you haven't been on a date and a whole year can get over it. Should you get over it. Listen and we'll have bad days but sometimes those days add up so much you start to believe you can have a good life this lady coal so down in the dumps. I had a hard time giving your advice I did. I wonder if she'll listen. You decide abor overhaul you. Hey this is maverick. I'm calling from Atlanta and I was won't left a message on instagram about the dating game. Oh my goodness you should be grateful and thankful that you are happily married and not in this game. Minimal Bravo it is treacherous here. I mean I'm talking straight up. Dating Gay has just completely changed. And don't even get me started with social media dating. Oh and let me tell you about the new dating scam out now where people pretending to be celebrities. I Wou Barbara I could tell you a lot. I got proved to show show you some stuff too but yeah I am hoping to speak material if you think this is interested enough all right. Thank you so to speak with you. Hey Maverick Haibo are you. I want to date you myself. You sound like so much fun. I saw who said I'm happily married which you get that from a thought I read it. I probably Oh we Li- once in a while. Yeah no I'm married for sure for over thirty years but if you think the dating scene Izhar where do you try a marriage. Oh my God I probably work my ass so have to make it work every day of my life and I'm not even sure how well I'm doing but you got me curious. What's so bad about the dating game for you? You sound like you're lively lively Warmth and voice you probably really good cutler Come on I bet you good looking to you just sound like all that on the phone I would. I would think he would have no problem dating. What's going wrong over? The game has changed. It has completely changed of is more like Villanova application for award job. No no way how boring. It doesn't sound very romantic until you a quick story. Yep I actually went on Speed dating a while back one of my friends. Wow it was so many female showed up not he. He had problems getting guys so he called me at the last minute and say you're kidding I promise you and it must must've been about that. Sounds like heaven on earth coming from a guy. What's wrong with that? Am I missing the point. We're almost like you know everybody. Everybody wants to work with one. Another is more like what you do for me. Now Oh but I would think the scales would be tipped in your favor that you'd be in the position -sition be asking the girls. What can you do for me? I wanted to do that all on Matt Dead Paper Guy. You're a nice guy and I think that's my problem too Nice I. I don't think being too nice is ever a problem. It depends upon who you being too nice to or who you're being nice to. May I ask you. Who Do you wind up updating? What's your type? Maybe you just choosing the same person again and again I mean as I'm assuming you're going on dates in my right about that maverick. Actually I owned on day. Two novels a year won't come on. Maverick I'M GONNA post your face bio on my website and I am going to put you out on social media you're going to have you've dates than a man could shake stick APP okay with it. In fact I'll I'll say the people out there you have a gorgeous daughter for this gorgeous man sender. Under my way I want to set this marriage up okay. But that's on another. There's more serious no merit that said for me to think that you're sitting home free year not dating in someone when you sound like a delicious package of a man in every way. So what's going on. Why not what's the trip wire there when you're trying to date film in your Adler to picky earnestly this goes crazy too? But I actually saw a Catherine Zeta Jones movie it. I'd I saw that movie. I changed my tired data. Seen you wanted somebody that looked like her. Oh my goodness oh you can me well. Did you call her up a year. But I don't believe Michael. Douglas happy by. Oh No no no no you better go into hiding in fact no so what happened. You saw that move in. You said there's the girl for me I have to to find a woman that looks like her acts like care. What was the turn on the IT? Just a physical attraction. And you said that's the kind of girl I want the appearance of course. The personality personality honestly bar went from dating on exotic dancers to politicians from politicians to just your average beautiful female and I just got reappeared after that will it so the movie was the turning point. Or you're going to get to that point anyway. Yeah I was getting to that point anyway. So now what happens. You go on dating sites sincere girl at the photo and you say not good enough. Click Click Click or or. You're not even going on the dating sites. What are you doing? Yeah clue to be honest with you. ALYSSA Internet data model. You're what in an dating Moro okay. They were coming to me. Wow Yeah it gave flip for real was an enticement. Enough was about an eight inch it enough to keep my attention you know. I'm just different in that era. Let me ask you. Are you looking for a serious relationship or are you looking for romance two different different things wrong. Maybe a finding exactly what you're searching for which is romance intrigue up and down. How exciting? She's she's no good she's pretty she's not pretty. Maybe all that excitement is what you like. Happy a new thought about their. Yes actually I am the happy. Go lucky guy you take a lot get a scam. Yeah so you might be right. I never thought about it I did it. Wouldn't it be amazing if you realize you are doing exactly what you always wanted to you do. What are you bitching to me about? What are you calling me up for? Baba Conquer Maverick. Averick guess what I'm seeing right through your act you wanna Dayton be real. Do you WANNA date. I'd be let me give you my husband cell number. It's two Oh one well first of all. I don't have a daughter to marry off yet. She's fourteen but if you're still around. I think I'm going to send kate to you. That's what Oh I think I would love to have you as a son law. You'd be just the kind of son in law that every mother would want. Maybe it'd be around and he I don't think so. You know what I don't think I don't think the marrying type hype playboy through and through and you love it and let me tell you something you would be the envy of every guy out there. Wow you know. You're the second person the WHO said I your mother. Probably she probably knew you best right. Yeah no no no. No that wasn't truthful. WHO said it? Besides me. I could hear the difference. was she do she. She actually told me she's a some people. How does she put? I WANNA put it how she put it. She says some people expect to be mayor and they are you know they had at blue to be there and then now yeah knows that don't and she told you your mother that you don't she didn't she just did because of my spirit because type of person I am. Yeah name they must have known it on birth. She named Him Maverick. Let me tell you why. Because she said data all her boss a rose one sister I kick the horse. What a kick the hoarders when she was scared me a ride horses? She as she says. That's what she named Me Maverick. She was a big fan of that. TV show Britain Maverick. Yeah I remember that Maverick show. I watched you sound younger than that. I'm surprised you even know what Maverick is. How old told you? Divide fifty five. You're hopeless. Yeah but still you game going and you smile and good feel okay. Well you've just become my hero and you probably going to be the hero every guy listening like I wanna be a maverick when I grow up and you've actually managed to pull it off. You know. Maverick Rick I'm not feeling sorry for you. I'm admiring you. You got what you wanted beautiful girls whacking them away with a stick and you smiling from ear to ear now almost monitored okay. I'll speaking with you. I really am. Okay yeah the UN Atlanta you were amazing. Well thank you. You know I would agree with you. I'm pretty the amazing. I'm only Ki. I remember that Atlantic crowd that I was speaking with. Everybody was so chew Bulent the minute I walked on that stage like God. I think these people love me any except people applauding before I said a word I think I had to correct the audience as I recall that. Don't clap until I do something you know. You have a certain prisoners about you and the were you spoke is something magical botchy at you right you hit everybody attention in that arena. Well let me tell you something about you maverick. You're the best Schmoozer I've talked to in a longtime you've just charmer my pants right off so keep it going keep it going and invite me you wedding. You got which I'm not GonNa wait very long for that. Invite enjoy a dating. Okay Bye bye bye bye.

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"barbara" Discussed on Business Unusual with Barbara Corcoran

Business Unusual with Barbara Corcoran

01:52 min | 3 years ago

"barbara" Discussed on Business Unusual with Barbara Corcoran

"As a disadvantage. I never thought about that. I decided that being the lone woman could work to my advantage as a young woman, I was memorable from the moment. I stepped into any room because I stepped into a sea of men, and I look different. And I got noticed, you know, the men all wore black and gray suits, dress in a bright red suit. Instead, which soon became my trademark I yanked up my skirt a little bit to show up on my great legs. And I wore high heels to make sure everyone knew I was there this lots of advantages in being the only woman at first men dismiss me and didn't take me seriously. And let me tell you. That's a powerful thing. When anyone underestimates you in any situation, it gave me the ability to manipulate and charge forward without even being watched. I learned that as a woman I could complement a guy. And he always believed it try that on a woman she'll see right through that. So. I learned I pour on my charm. Flirt, a little and get into a room that I was invited to. Hey, that's not so bad. I use my female charm as a female boss, I found I was less territorial by far than my male counterparts. And so I was able to get my team to hold hands become a tight knit team and not worry about who is getting the credit. There were so many advantages to being a woman that I used to say my prayers at nine say, thank you God for making me a girl. So if you're a woman get out of you head that it's a disadvantage at any way and start focusing on the great advantage. You have in any point of difference. And if your girl make that your advantage. So at the end of the day being a woman in business was just another competitive.