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Fresh update on "bachelorette" discussed on Chicks in the Office
"Like i thought you were my person. And she seemed like she was trying to give it back to him or at least hint him. Like i know like you've always been my number one but he just use everything that she was saying against. That's where i started to not like him yet. That's where he lost me. Because i was like are now us coming across angry and like she is kind of being like yeah and he's just not taking it and he did in half to leave. You know because. I feel like it's one of those like every couple or every relationship is going to have a bad interaction or fight like this but if they had this bad fight right and he stayed then maybe the makeup yeah conversation would be even stronger. Don't you feel like that happens sometimes. Yeah totally. I think that it was like a switch for him and it was just like i can't do this anymore and i think it's like such an emotionally taxing process that like once you're not ready to fight for it anymore like fight through how tough it can be one while you're there. It's just like you. You can't you can't do it anymore. And i feel like he in that moment was like i cannot yelp anymore with this. Yeah i i agree with you. And i think that he like the whole show when he said you know. What am i supposed to do next. Get a rose fancy sweets make love to you like no just hanging out with his best east. During the whole thing is just crazy to think about the fact that like there's other guys blake. They have the connection justin his best minds. What he said that it made me realize that like this spiral that just went on was going to happen at one of the other points going forward like he was filing here. It could have happened when like he saw someone else. Leaving on a fantasy suite date could happened when he thought like somebody else was looking at engagement rings. Like i just feel like this panic attack and that he had in this moment like of i gotta get outta here was was very emotional and it did feel like a really legitimate conversation. That like a boyfriend and girlfriend has when they're trying to discuss like whether or not they should get engaged. La being like the one being like. Okay i'm ready like i'm ready to propose and for the girlfriend to be like. Oh well like let's talk this out. Let's see and the boyfriend's like what hell i've you don't want to. I'm gone and that's what i mean by in. Yeah maybe they work it out. Have sex in the fantasy swedes in. It's like fireworks. They're like all right. Let's work this thing out or private time without the camera. Fantasy sweet like it's so once that switch was turned for him he was just like i can't do this anymore and i can't i can't also like give my whole self to you. Katie was on her knees. You outside like literally on her knees like holding him. This was the heartbreak she was referring to clearly was the heartbreak. She's been referring. Interviews sat out and up with with blake. Justin at this point. I don't don't think so if she does. How do we react to that this. How how are we like. Oh this is. One of the most devastating breakup said this show has seen. And i compared it remember with when i was telling you and trenton i compared it to a longtime ago would death-ray and her like top guy going home and it was this whole big thing and you could tell that. He was always the front runner but she still got engaged. Chris like who was on the show. You everyone kind of thought he was just like the second choice but they are married and have kids and like. I've seemed to have had a happy life. But like that break-up between desert and brooks was like not so not as what felt like dramatic as this is for katie to say like. I told you to greg's surveys like i told you if you're gone like i'm done like i'm leaving. I'm i'm not gonna do this anymore. And he still left. And that was also where i thought like. I'm was started to question his intentions because when he was like i'm leaving and after. She said that he didn't even try to be like leave with me but i just like i just don't think the whole like thing that people are saying that greg is like fake. And he's an actor back. I just like you would not tell someone you love them because imagine if katie had been like i'm in love with you too then right there's no like your face like it's just you got yourself in a pick on them. I just think like it's such. I can't even describe like how emotional that that processes that is just like one tiny little thing and i mean i guess to him. It really did not feel tiny but like in that moment he was just like. I can't give myself to this process anymore. Like i'm too scared. And i'm too like broken. Do you think he may have gone about his language. The wrong way because i think even katie on her instagram story posted Slide show like about gas lighting. Because that's what everybody was saying. That gregory's gosh lighting her and even last last night. Katie added to her instagram story. It was like instagram account. So you wanna know about yes you wanna know about gas lighting and it was what is what does it mean in that situation. It was i think she was referring to sit down the net in the morning or whatever that was of him trying to tell her how that interaction went like she wasn't a part of it. Okay being like you did this. And you made me feel this way and like not hearing katie side of it at all and just letting it sit as like i laid all. I did everything that was supposed to do. And you're you. Give me the one thing that i need a back and now i'm just like now i'm done. I do agree that that conversation like it. It was definitely like one-sided almost in the sense that like greg was not goi. He was not listening to anything she was saying in that moment like he had already made up his mind. It seemed like when he went into that conversation. I can't do this anymore. And she was like a fighting and like basically at that point telling him everything that he did to here and he was like not responding to that. I don't think he liked all the bachelor lingo to i think he maybe like you said got so fed up with the process and the show that he was like. I don't want to hear about fucking roses or being number one or next week or you're leg. Well this is the show and is like i don't know what to do here. I'm trying to communicate with you. That i want you in the words that like i'm allowed to use. I feel like obviously like. I think they were both kinda wrong in this situation in different ways. And yes greg like trying to explain to katie. What happened is wrong. But i feel like in greg's mind..
Tayshia Adams and Kaitlyn Bristowe Returning as Co-Hosts of the Bachelorette
"Teasha atoms and kaitlyn bristowe are returning to coho season. Eighteen of the bachelorette both of the former bachelorettes themselves stepped into co host season. Seventeen during chris harrison's hiatus and eventual departure the pair are currently co hosting the show with bachelorette katie thurston. I think that they're doing a great job by the way i love it. It's two of I love it. They've been in that spot
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"There's a lot to unpack with so much. And i'm still confused. I'm and what's what's hard is like also to live tweeting the show during the beginning of greg's hometown i went like hell. Yeah greg i feel like this is working. I'm liking greg. I didn't really like him before. I'm like him now. So i sent out these tweets like being like yes greg normal guy i like it but and then people are seeing those today and being like. Oh my god how could you. He's a manipulator. I'm like okay. Check the time. Sam tweeted at nine. Oh five were yes. It changed very drastically but his hometown felt really really legit. Because he opened up to his family so much about his feelings for katie. It always kind of like. We weren't really sure where greg stood but i felt like it showed a lot for him to say to his mom. Like this is the one. I don't know if you live your mom about that now. You don't know. I know you're on tv. But but still. I know i just think. And he'd been saying that to katie. Yeah i feel like he really build up this moment in his head and when it didn't go the way he wanted it to slash like tried to pretend he wasn't on the bow charette he like threw a hissy fit. I have no idea how to feel about greg. I know you have absolutely no idea. And i decided i don't like i've come to that conclusion at the end of this. But here's i just want to be as honest as poss- yeah so at first the beginning of the season it was like oh greg. He's great then we start getting. It was like the actor to be an actor as he too good to be true then we had a very strong feeling. He was gonna leave. Yep so is this a whole play production to show that he really likes katy but really likes katy but then he actually really want to leave so he made. It seem like because he really likes kate. He or you wouldn't say you're in love with someone. Then yeah you wouldn't. You wouldn't say that. I love you to her. It was all like well. That's why i'm so confused. And i also i think. Eighty is acting bizarre as well. How how did you feel kate. Kate handled the reaction to like the the group that hometown date was ending. And that's when you know. He professed all these feelings. Laid it all out. There said you know you're filling this hole in my heart and clearly greg's also been through a lot of trauma like he totally has not fully digested the death of his dad. And you can tell that. That's like having his brother be like. I don't even talk to him about that. Like makes it feel like he has some maybe some personal growth in personal some things that he has to get through himself but katy's reaction to that was oh like she didn't really know what to say and then there was a silence and then she was like i just love looking at your face and it was. Idle are the worst thing. i mean. Bizarre like julius love looking at you. Yeah i was like maybe there was a part. We missed their That conversation or they have cut something out there. I don't know. But i just don't think she would respond like that. I ask him. Oh yeah. I think sometimes and from what we've watched. She closes up a little bit in these uncomfortable moments and i almost feel like in her mind maybe she was panicking in like the. Oh my god. This is everything i wanna hear like. I want to tell him so much. And that's like why she froze. Because it's like i can't even find the words because like i'm still the bachelorette and i can't just be like. Yeah i love you too. And she already made that. She made that rule for herself. She really tried to stick to it. The rule of like. I'm not going to tell any of these guys. I love them on still dating and dating other guys were other guys are here. What did you think about that. You think that was smarter or no. I don't think i would make that choice for myself. Yeah just because like i mean with clarence agencies and we saw that like you can do whatever the heck you make whatever toy see. Want but yeah. I think i might not have made that decision. But i do get it like. She wanted to be respectful of your guys that were still there because even with justin though we might not see how how deep their connection is yet they still do. Have a little time there. You don't know like how those things progress in the following week. So i get that but i don't know maybe it would have like panned out differently if she hadn't made that raw. I think it's a dumb rule. Because howard totally would have hand our. How are you supposed to get engaged to somebody without telling them that you love them. Yeah i would not get engaged to somebody if we do not exchange. I love you's expectation. That greg or blaker justin. What's going to get down on one knee and say like will you marry me without actually hearing the words i love you from her. Choose one of them. I love one or even if she got away with greg in that moment line the bachelor i feel like what been fine with it because then they would have had the drama of caitlyn going to tell blake and justin. Like katie's gone greg's gone over like you know what i fucking love you. And he was like. I love you and they ran off together. Great love story there. This is like okay. You're not gonna tell any of them. You love them. Maybe you feel like you love all three of them. I don't know but at least let them know a little bit because then they're afraid to say it. Because i feel like with blake when we saw the whole like he felt but he wasn't sure if he should say it because i feel like he almost thinks well she's the bachelorette she should be saying to me. Usually in real life. The guy should be saying to me. It was a very confusing situation. And then once again how you gonna get engaged without saying i love you. Yeah because then what if you do get engaged and then you exchange the. I love yous and they're not like as passionate who thought they were. Kinda like a kiss. Having sex like yeah. I don't know yeah and he. He clearly was uncomfortable and devastated. By the whole thing he goes to katie's room You know the next day so we are made to think and he like i said. During cutting sam's hurt people hurt people and clearly he was her and he did not like the way that conversation went but he really didn't give katie any chan and i felt like chevron's eve i'd like shining really trying to fight for it and he like it seemed like it already closed the door. Like he on this whole speech and you know not about the roses and the who's number one and all this trying to make it like this is real life..
"bachelorette" Discussed on Now Try This
"Let us the gambit. That is the gambit. I it's wild. I have no idea how this is all mild markets. And would you recommend the show. If i it's hard to recommend the show because if you're not watching bachelorette already you know that you don't wanna watch it you. Can't you know what i mean. You've made up your mind that you don't watch the right. I i don't mean to give you but for her to in the shush just so funny tonight. She said. I don't wanna watch her break up with four of these sweet boys all your prepare yourself. What happened yeah no. I think that if you're curious go ahead deb. Your tell if you know sanjay thing and you're not gonna like it then don't watch it to stay away his. You're you're not going to be convinced otherwise. Honestly i even if you don't think you're gonna like i still say you should give it a chance because you'd be surprised. I was on the other side. I was like. I've never gonna stupid show and here. I am three years. And i now believe. That can't believe watch your show and you watch the show you in this. Podcast is affected my life. I don't know for the better for worse on fucking into so much and like this. Is the proof marcus. I am still watching this shit guys. This is a genuine friendship with consequences. This podcast has consequences in our lives. Yeah your name poster. I have steven. Universe sparkle ops fucking nice. Yeah and if he if we impacted your life as a listener because you buy something that you've loved by you wouldn't have tried otherwise. Let us know because at pretty fucking cool honestly. The best tweets reviews instagram messages. That we get the best ones are the ones saying. I listen to your show because of this thing i liked the show i kept watching and then i started trying stuff with you guys. That's the coolest wettest best part of the show because that means that you guys are like us you get caught up in your lives you get on your railroad and you need someone else. We have each other. We're last davidge other but not everyone is to have someone who you just a little bit left in a little bit right and you get exposed to all these wonderful things you never would have before in how you guys to come and join us on that journey. It means the world to us. It really does. Yes it does nick. It's my turn to give you something to try. I was literally i was like. Are you telling me on the show. Okay guys ready now. I get something to try nick i. I'm struggling. I feel like our patrons have been giving such good content. We've just been having such fun and i. There are few things that i'm watching. But i haven't had a lot of time to watch a lot of stuff but there's something new that i do want you to try out. I want you to watch netflix. Movie fear shree. Oh that bullshit. Fucking tire isn't a trilogy. Three movies you don't have to watch three movies. You just.
Fresh update on "bachelorette" discussed on Chicks in the Office
"We love them. We finally got to see. Emily moins. And our queen are queeg Cues so hossack legs sister and brother were there as well and i just first of all. I wanna talk about their date. Before we met their parents. They did like you know canada. They were little bar. They play darts. And what was the they played. They played like truth or dare darts kind of it was like the balloon pop. There's a little thing inside. Blake moins is just authentically himself all the time he was like. What's your to grab your favorite body parts or whatever it is on katie and just like full-blown ask grab loved it to cheeks. He's he's so himself. And it's honestly very refreshing. It is how do you feel about blake. An katie's connection. Because i feel like there's a lot of mixed reviews and i feel like we might be biased a little bit. We're definitely we were probe lake. Were really pro. Emily moines so it's like we just feel like the connections there. How do you feel watching it. I love them together. Because i feel like their connection is not super bachelorette if that makes sense like they seem like they would be dating just in real life And i think like the show moves so fast that often you can kind of like fall into a way more serious relationship in a super short amount of time and they just seem to be taking things like at a normal piece So yeah i think their connection is great. I wonder where it will be after next episode. But yeah i hope like i hope blake i guess i i just. I'm i'm rooting for. Blake is all. I can say about that we are. We're also rooting for blake. Because like you said this point. I know but nailed it with the word refreshing. Like i really think that their relationship is very refreshing. And it does they the way they interact. It does feel like they would be a legit couple on the outside like they have that connection. I do like that. Blake has been not rushing things trying to get his feelings out on his own time. Which is why. Emily moins coming in with so great because she's like if you love this crawl man. Fuck up man this is. It's time that man the heller. You lover yes i loved and that's why i said emily moins that's why she's got a book because she knows what she's talking about. Yeah i i felt that lady. I just need to talk about her for a second. The you all confidence she did. A full fit detail video on instagram tired. Like it was like everyone's been asking about my alfred last night like full outfit. Deeds house what she wants. That woman knows what she wants and knows what she deserves and is letting everyone know how to get back. Like don't do this feel like she's so comfortable in herself. Yeah emily moins. Yeah the best mom that's appeared on that show. It's been great and the whole family does like the way they all talk to each other felt very relatable. And they're her mom and his sister were like what's the deal like. Come talk like let's let the fellow real conversation. Compared to like sometimes the very skeptical conversations parents give and siblings give their like in the. You need to be rescued times. Like you're you're watching and you're like there's definitely a process to this you know and like the parents seem to be asking questions like all the right questions and that hometown felt like just so real and i think their connection seems really real to me so because i feel that his family is familiar with the show exotic. They're well versed in what hometowns look like and they were asking the right questions compared to parents who are like. I can't fucking believe my kid is on this show and like trying to come up with questions that makes sense but like not be super skeptical. Emily moines's like i know how this shit works. Yeah and that's why. I think blake and his family would be good for katie. Because at least they do kind of get how it works. Whereas other families are a little bit more sceptical. They're like what is this whole thing. They've only heard about it through the grapevine like they know the deal they know what they have to deal with afterwards. So i feel like that's why i kinda make sense but obviously shit went down later on the yeah and and that's a good segue into justin's hometown because just justin just bear so key adjusted justice. Parents didn't show up he's from baltimore and they had their cute little fake baltimore moments and then it was just kind of like sad. I'm curious get like if you were katie in situation. And just his like my parents are incoming. I feel you automatically. Are eliminating him in your. Hey like oh your parents aren't like don't wanna don't wanna come. How good we get engaged. Yeah i mean. I i definitely agree. I think i would be like you know. You don't wanna like right off your connection with the person because at the end of the day. It's you and that other person but obviously like having the reassurance from the family completely changes things like seeing how you would mesh with the family after the fact like that's so important to know so yeah. I think i'd be pretty devastated like if the person's family didn't show up. Yeah right because at the end of the day it is like their connection that matters. But if your family doesn't approve of a connection you may be having a good time with that person but then underlying. There's always that weirdness with the family like your family's your family. Yeah so it's going to be more at some point in your life you're gonna have to come to terms with it and it's just like probably an uncomfortable conversation after that it's also like i just don't think you could get engaged. Yes you know like you would at least have to meet the parents before taking that next step. So and that's like the goal of the whole show. So i don't know it's a tough one there and i think maybe our opinions would be different if we all like expected it to be justin like blake moines family. Didn't show up we'd be like. Oh what the fuck like. This is kinda crazy new justin. There's nothing there i mean. I don't know a katy. Katy at one point said our chemistry is undeniable and i was just like what chemistry. I'm missing something i know. I always go back to the wedding valerie. Friendly to me. i just don't know any case. I think they're more. i mean. obviously we only see parts of their life while they're filming. So i think that we must be not like seeing all those little genuine moments that make a relationship And so i think yeah. We're missing a little bit of that there. Yeah i just don't know how she can say that. There is a genuine connection with justin. When arguably the connection with greg and blake is way stronger like i would just cancel out that connection. I'd be like there's not really a connection there but once again i guess right just sent himself home. Katie wouldn't be like i'm leaving. Yes i you know so it was. They salvaged the hometown. He had his two buddies come but it was just it had an underlying kind of like sad tone to it just because it was. I just imagine being like yeah my can you guys like please come. Perr insult i hurts. Yeah and his friends were obviously there for them and they were very sweet and ask katie like good questions and they clearly know justin very well even katie shoes. I'd be like oh your parents don't wanna come then like i don't wanna be right meeting. His two best friends feels like a fourth date. Not like the date. Getting right like i would at that point. I'd like justin and justin probably was out of the equation after that but then yeah. We have a ton to unpack here with gregg before we do that. Just a reminder guys.
"bachelorette" Discussed on Now Try This
"It was just a really well cup from. Yeah that's awesome. I think they do a good job. With the promos. The producers do know exactly where the during the editors fantastic for the show. Dial up the drama. I was going to say you know how there was that one season of bashar paradise that was mainly from the season. That had just happened like the grabbed. A bunch of guys from the season just passed. I think we're going to have the same thing with this next bachelor. In paradise it's going to be a lot of guys from the season because there's a lot of dudes well this one's weird because for 'cause we skipped a season so all of peter's girls all of matt's girls all of clare tation guys and all of katie's guys have never had the chance to be in paradise and then there's also people there's also people that are just like fan papers from before that that piglet and then there's like bachelors. The best like peter. A single right now would not be surprised if they wanted him know he broke up. That lawyer grow because he's nobody wants the fantasy want him. But the producers doubt subtypes. Okay nick i have one more thing. I'm going to talk about because it we're at like what are we closer hour and a half. I don't know if we narrow the guy paradise thing i have. I have already heard some rumors about some people that are okay. Yeah so you're right. There are some of this. I i can't go home and start. Data got a fair enough fair enough. Yeah nick one thing. I do you want to mention is i where i'm at right now. In the episode they just added blake blais. Fuck is this man. Hold up before we start. He just shows up to the show. They're like hey shows up and he's like hey sorry katie. But there's someone from my is interested in you and he wants to be on the show so please go out and meet him right now. And she's still struggling with thomas thing and then this guy blake shows up and in the chat Alexia say that. He looks like sully from monsters. Inc mix john travolta. We actually got. Darren was saying that he looks like jimmy. Kimmel john travolta. Which i can't unsee so has a weird mouth. He's i don't like him at all. I don't i think jimmy campbell is not something you think is attractive. He is more attractive than this guy. I don't like him. I something about him seems wrong. The fact that he's been on the show twice before and he's on this season now is like okay. You're gross get off the show. Go find love the regular way. You've had many opportunities. And he seems desperate. And i don't like it. I think he's gonna win. No to me was on a season of the bachelorette him and claire connected right away because he actually against the rules. Dm declare when they were in warranty so when clare season started she was all about dale. Apropos soma three episodes but the only other person even buying for election was blake. Well then she went home with dale..
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"Felt like i felt like you could indeed write your own romance novel to be a house of the show. So you don't pretty got the fourth part of this audition. Okay okay is marcus. The host is known for having my freezing. You're you're freezing low bit but you're so is is known for awesome promos to come in and out of commercial break in during these segments. That's filled with puns out. No so i need you to go ahead and give a promo leading us into or and whilst this promos going on i'm gonna give you random words that you need to incorporate somehow in some kind of pun in your promo okay so i start whenever you're ready and then you're going to give me give you a word to make puns okay. Nothing can go wrong well. That was quite the scene. Doctor what was it dr. If only we had a doctor in the house he could of easily feared out. What's wrong with that contestants. Heart tree tree tree tree well next time on the bachelorette this contested makes like a tree and leaves a jump jump. I don't mean to jump to conclusions but this bachelor does not have a future on the show motorcycle. I'm a motor boat that contested. While i write by unicycle. I said motor and cycle nick accounts into that plastic plastic well. Paper or plastic doesn't matter because our next contested is broke chickens. I this is so hard. Chicken welbeck's the read all you chicken heads above period of sentence. Depression a hope. They don't have depression. 'cause i hear press in like on that contest. Yeah nice oh those nelson those are some romance if they just cut those right out. Put them right in the show. Marcos's a fifth part of this audition tape six here in the fifth part. I'm going to pretend to be in motion contest on the show. But i have led all the drama. So you don't want me to leave. But i feel burned feel shunned in i. I wanna leave so you need to talk to me as the host recommencing. Whatever you'd like to do okay..
"bachelorette" Discussed on Now Try This
"Who is the lead the lead What's her name katie katie. I have unfortunate news. Someone in the house is here for the wrong reasons. We don't know who it is. But they're here for the wrong reasons. And i wanted you to know that. Because i believe in love and i believe in this show. And now you have to talk to that contestant specifically to that contestant's okay. I go with the pound. How yo man good job dude. Keep it up keep it up. We're gonna make sure to get your lots of camera time and make you look like an asshole in the edit which is fine. It's it'd be huge for your career. You'd get tons of likes tons of followers. Maybe even will offer you the villain role in bachelor in paradise. Keep it up buddy great job you know the biggest the biggest and bachelor bachelorette history is also a porn star now. So that's pretty good. Yeah okay now. Bachelor is coming to you. And they're asking you if you think they should keep the problem. Person bully the villain of the house on the show. How do you handle that situation on. I got distracted. I'm a need. You repeat that because dash line for four said more motivation speaker gigs. Which i'm willing to offer to karo karo if you're listening. I'll get you those motivational speaker. Gigs let's Suppler check so the bachelorette comes to you and ask if you should if they should keep the problem. Person the bully the villain of the the season on the show. Okay katie. i think you should do what you believe you should do. I believe in the process of the show. And i think you do too so make the choice. You think you need to make an support. You get integrate on that one but next up next step you got whites the best or tells you that now. He thinks he's not ready to propose at the end of the show. Okay i pull him aside. hey motherfucker. We paid we paid for the shit. You understand you understand how much money went into the show. You're saying how many jobs are on the fucking line right now because you don't want to propose you fucking you don't you could take it back. Who cares it doesn't fucking matter. You're not getting married right now. Just fucking do it okay. It's fucking and we can all go home. How's that that when you nail exactly right that one is exactly how you should speak to the markets. Go third thing part.
"bachelorette" Discussed on Now Try This
"And we're back markus. I appreciate you sing along. Because i can't hear it like marcus like you just said. Hey shah caitlyn doing a great job. But don't feel like they are. They have enough control on the show. They don't like the host. And i feel like we're missing. Something were missing a poll. A leader a guide on the show right. Somebody that deals in charge of what's happening in chris. Harrison is apparently to racially insensitive to be a part of the show anymore. So i thought we can make a little audition tape really quick. I could just make a little audition tape to see him. I think you do great on the show. You got chris harrison hair. You gotta look. You're tall like a lot of the people on the show are. That's helpful chris. Harrison always looked like a fucking like a half a foot smaller than it. Also throw hands and you'll throw hands. No one's gonna mess with you. These are all great qualities. We've needed house but we need a couple more okay. Markets first up. There's going to be six parts of this. This audition tape if you well. First part is i have a couple iconic phrases here that the host of the bachelor bachelorette always says and i didn't hear your best take on the first up. I need to hear gentlemen. I'm sorry this is the last rose tonight in your best host bringing the bashar gentlemen. I'm sorry but this is the last rose of the night. Wow come on one mile.
"bachelorette" Discussed on Now Try This
"Honestly i know you. It's what it's like and wild so. Rachel was photographed going to a plantation ball and she got found out and tiktok high schoolmates. Like she's fucking basis and this is important here because my jeans the first black bachelor so of course the garra racist all this shit came out after the show film and he picks her at the end of the show zeal. She got proposed to their engaged. Then everything can't after they start. They were done filming so then they were engaged and he left her during the towel. All because honestly. I don't blame him because it's not his responsibility to explain what has happened. Yeah and to be fair to be fair to rachel. She has come out in front of all of it. Saying i didn't know what i did was wrong now. I know i am reading. I am studying. She is trying to do the best she can. As an ally at this point you learned standpoint. Yeah you're not underside. She byard did the best she could. She one hundred percent and couldn't say with her and i was on matt's side. Yeah of course i get. I've been in relationships with white women. And i was like you don't get you. Don't get this shit. i can't stay with you. I've that's happened to me you know. That's hey i know. But the the the reason chris harrison there because when all this stuff was coming out chris harrison win on rachel lindsay show the first black bachelorette who hosts a show on e or something in defended. Rachel racist rachel. Instead it was canceled culture. It was years ago actually watched police. Yeah and rachel. Rachel god bless rachel lindsay because she just sat there and said and she just let him keep digging. Yup keep digging and basically everyone's like you suck dude. And then he had to step away. Honestly the tell off from that season was really interesting because they got that guy who hosts that podcasts show called hard conversations with the black man. Yeah yeah the former football player. Who's very good luck. And he handled that mass really. Well i i honestly. I feel like you should stayed on. Those conversations are hard to navigate number. Well did well and he and he did do a good job of splitting the the point of. There's like racist things that can do and that happen and being are racist. Try to best to heal right to move past because like the worst thing you could do is i mean this is not actually the worst thing you could do but in a way to easily get rid of people's like willingness to talk to call them raises you know a hundred or even though they might be racist one hundred percent a it stops the conversation debt. Yeah so but. Here's the craziest part matt and rachel are together now. He got back together with her. Tell so here's my thing. Here's my thing i was on site. It was like. I can't stay with her. Everyone was tearing match teams apart on the internet is like if you really loved her..
The Dark History of Chippendales
"Nightclub exclusively for women. The only man allowed him in club with waiters bartenders and the male dancers in order to get a really good seat relates begin to arrive at about six thirty excitement builds until showtime. And i do mean showtime chippendales has a dark history. I know your world is shattered. I need a minute. Your beloved chippendales was born from crime intrigue and murder. Oh my god. This is even more sexy to i. All i can think of is snap off pants coming off and then like money drugs sex scandal just being unearthed via those pants too many metaphors. Maybe the opposite of that is we want you to check out our patriotic which is patron dot com slash. Ghost town pod for bonus episodes early access. No ed's no chitchat. New bonus episode. That is up right now and it is insane. And if you're not familiar for some reason with chippendales and he's pretty culturally. Iconic patrick swayze and chris farley are pretty noteworthy for doing a really funny sketch on saturday. Night live yes. Think eighty s male strippers think bow ties think bachelorette parties think you know officers. Firemen doctors boombox coming in. And just think magic mike really. I guess the more current perhaps version is magic. Mike is somewhat akin to that. I guess it'd be the opposite of a podcast body about the opposite of a podcast. Body chiseling uptake. Podcasts body a lump of malleable clay and chiseling to a glowing muscled adana. That's what we're talking about here. I know it's a stretch. I know we're comfortable where we are. I'm in. I'm wearing jogging. 's right now so this is not our usual. Mo but in order to get all that glistening bow-tied oiled up experience. It comes with a lot of baggage by the way of hitmen murder conspiracy and it ends for some people tragically. But i suppose it had to for chippendales to live on
Alex Rodriguez Rents a Home Near Jennifer Lopez
"Alex rodriguez has rented a home near jennifer lopez as he is spotted with ben. Affleck's ex. Oh this is sloppy. Mistakes sonics rented a mansion in bridgehampton. Fancy new york for the summer a stone throw away from the lopez his own residence in water mail. This is according to page six over the weekend. He shared a video of himself shooting hoops as on his new hamptons home. Which is three minutes away. You get this three minutes away from j.lo's now. These two spent last summer at her sprawling estate in the hampton. So there's no way there's no way he couldn't know what he was doing. Things couldn't get even nastier in this split. Alex was spotted at a party with lindsay Chamartin member her name. She dated ben affleck on and off for years before they finally went their own way in two thousand and nineteen a rep repeal guy for alexey saying the following quote. There is absolutely zero there. They've been friends for fifteen years. I st i is now the girlfriend. He's this little bit creepy. A-rod are we a little thirsty right now. I mean seriously. We know that j. Lo and ben are getting all the media and all the attention. So how'd you sneak your way back into the picture but you get a house. Three minutes away from your fiance okay. That could work but rob once we did a tv show together. We did a piece on one of those. Entertainment news shows about us and You know you had me sit next to you because it would just kind of help. People know that we were very diverse. Feel like a doing the same thing standing next to you. Know ben affleck's ex-girlfriend like he could've sat anywhere. What at the party. Why did he not over. So there's some reports out there that he's moved on. It's not
What Exactly Is Consent?
"Were talking about consent and just for our listeners out there i just want to give a quick definition. The definition definition of consent is permission for something to happen or agreement to do something and this is what consent is not. It's when someone says no the absence of a no saying yes. While you're intoxicated or otherwise incapable of giving consent not saying anything repeatedly asking someone to say. Yes or pressuring them to say yes until they do and go. I was going to add to that whether someone says yes or no. It doesn't that's one thing but for people sometimes feel like just because you're in a relationship with someone that their bodies automatically yours win. That's never the case either
"bachelorette" Discussed on The Viall Files
"I never really watched the show before but i watched your season of the bachelorette with andy. 'cause i made referenced andy when i was like giving them the speech about like how i came in and i was i was unsure about this experience and i didn't know andy and etc etc. He's like an either thought. You or great blah blah and. I'm like bro. no one thought it was great on. Nbc he's like you do not watch come on man fuck season for you trying to like really kiss and that was the thing grow your i. It's not working with me. Being a politician say it was just like he he. I don't know like it was just like you're you're trying to do this to the wrong guy like i. I like good and and is funny. Because so but what. Thomas said i had no problem with it was just. I don't know when i left. I just said to katie Like pay atten- ask people the right questions. Pay attention to their answers and ask follow up questions And i didn't tell our specifically thomas might a- hinted you know and i was like just listen to people's answers I might have said something like thomas. He's a really good is nicest charming but it was more like the charring people. The people you have are usually drawn to ask very specific questions. Now katie is good at question. She's a smart person.
Katie Thurston's "Sex Positive" Bachelorette Season Kicks Off
"Katie season premiere last night on abc. And if you thought that was wild well y'all have not seen anything yet. My god. I'm a little bit late to this. But katie is the one so i just have to show up do cayman cut in line. I can't believe here. Then you need to get the f out of my way. I would not tell the guys. I didn't come here for the bromance. I came here for followers. Figured this quick sachs's not something. I take lightly. I'm losing you. I'm leaving my mind here. I came here to do. I continue here or do. I just leave now. I'm done. i'm done. I'm done now. These super teases kit crazier every single season. I think the question everyone wants to know is why is there always so much drama. Have we been conditioned to expect this level of drama on the bachelorette and we think anything less as boring lots. That is a lot. I mean y now all of a sudden the minnow cry. The women crying now the is is. What's there's a lot of unnecessary tier. Oh it's amazing. I love it all bring on tears. The trauma the virgins give the everything. He's very cute. By the way
‘Bachelor’ Matt James Dumps Show Winner Rachael Kirkconnell Over Racist Past
"It. What's going on with the bachelor? They're having a little ratings trouble. The bachelor had a lot of trouble last night. Um, For one thing, this is the end of the season for with the first black bachelor and you know that there was a big scandal that unfolded. Wind up round up, knocking out Chris Harrison, the host of the show, who was not on last night. He was replaced by another guy named Emmanuel Art Show, and Chris Harrison is probably out for good from the Bachelor world. Next fall. They're coming back with two seasons of the bachelor red. He's not hosting it. On. The reason is That the black bachelor Matt James chose as not to be his fiance, But I don't know what his winner of the final Rose Ah white girl from the South who had participated in Plant, a plantation party. I didn't even know apart. We don't know about this in New York, Dewey, a plantation party. They go. They rent out plantations and dress up like it's the before the civil war. And the governor's these southern governors with the black face from years ago or the sick? Yeah, And who knew that this was going on? I mean, we don't in New York. We don't know about this, but This was a shock that this girl participated in this ante bellum party and subsequent when the news got out in the pictures were published in all the tabloids, especially the English tabloids picked us up very fast. And what happened was Rachel Lindsay, who had been the first black bachelorette Interviewed Chris Harrison for extra and showed him these pictures and said, What do you think of all of this? And he defended it and said, Well, I don't know. Maybe this was okay a couple of years ago to be doing this. Well, certainly not ever OK? And, uh, Rachel Lindsey said Theo said to Chris Harrison on extra. We'll look at these pictures of this plantation party. What role would I play in this party? Well, obviously, the role would be slave. And this was like this stopped. This ended Chris Harrisons career cold and stop the conversation. And this woke this guy. I met James up to the fact that this girl that he had sort of proposed to, uh, you know, had persisted. Hated in this racist party. Well, of course last night on the show. He dumped her for good. And and she had Tonto try and explain, although very inadequately how she got involved in all of this and that, and she said she never even thought of it. If anything, She started dating a black man on the bachelor and didn't think to herself. Oh, you know, two years ago, I participated in this completely racist activity. It didn't even dawn on her. So, uh, you know, very strange stuff. The audience really tuned out during this conversation about race last night. They did not want to hear it. They only want to know about the bachelor and bachelorette when it comes to rose petals on the bed. And, you know, flying and hot air balloons. You know over Mexico, but they don't want to know anything bad that's
Former contestants to replace Chris Harrison as hosts for "The Bachelorette"
"The bachelorette Chris Harrison, who was held the franchise from the very beginning will not host the next season of the show. Ah, stunner sure to have a major reaction and bachelor nation and beyond. This really has been a wild season. A major shakeup for bachelor fans, ABC Entertainment and Warner Horizon announcing long time host Chris Harrison will not return for the next season of the Bachelorette. Saying in a statement. Former bachelorettes Tasia Adams and Caitlin Bristowe will support the new batch threat through next season. High guy already Harrison is under fire for defending contestant Rachel Kirk in L already like completely falling in love with you. Kirk Adele sparked controversy when she liked photos containing the Confederate flag on social Media and pictures of her attending a plantation themed college party went viral. Harrison defended crocodiles. Actions to Rachel Lindsay, the franchises first Black Bachelorette. It's not good. It's not a good Rachel. Is it a good looking 2018? Or is it not a good look in 2021? Because there's a big difference ever the uproar pushing Harrison to apologize and speak out to GM. A. It was a mistake. I made a mistake. AM in in perfect man. I made a mistake and I own that The host was already forced to step back from this season's after the final Rose special with producers choosing former linebacker Turn New York Times bestselling author Emanuel Ah Chou to step in. I don't believe in cancel culture. I believe in accountability. I believe in understanding. I believe in growth. Now, the show's producers say they are supporting Harrison with quote the work he is committed to doing.
New hosts for 'The Bachelorette' after racial controversy
"Just announced host Chris Harrison will not be returning for the upcoming season of the Bachelorette. Instead, former bachelorette Stasia Adams and Caitlin Bristowe will host the season. It's unclear of Harrison will even return to the franchise wherever he stepped aside from the current season of national last month after receiving backlash for defending a contestant who was under scrutiny for photos that it surfaced on Social media. Coming up. Taking a stand
Chris Harrison will not return to 'The Bachelorette' next season
"The bachelor franchise, the reality dating show, releasing a statement saying long time host Chris Harrison will not be hosting the next season of the Bachelorette. Harrison had already stepped down from hosting this season's After the Rose after the final Rose show over recent comments he made that many believe perpetuated racism. The bachelor franchise, part of the ABC Disney family, This is ABC
George Clooney reveals wife Amal doesn't like his ladies' man 'ER' character
"Everyone loves dr doug. Ross george clooney's character on er except one. His wife evolve george on the smart list. Podcast and says a mall started watching the show and she is not impressed by his characters being such a ladies man. She's also not that impressed by georgian general. He says it's not her style to get star struck.
'Bachelorette' Rachel Lindsay accepts Chris Harrison's apology
"Chris Harrison apologized for offending Richie. Rachel Lindsay if you recall and the entire black community during his appearance on G m a yesterday You'll be happy to know that Rachel Lindsay accepted the apology. Um, she said that that's what she has to do to move forward with her life. On the other hand. Apparently. Michael Strahan, who actually conducted the interview with Chris Harrison was not as impressed, he said, You know his apologies, his apology, but it felt like I got nothing more than a surface response on any of this. But we'll see what he does, you know to make it better.
Chris Harrison Apologized And Said He Wants To Return To "The Bachelor," But Michael Strahan Isn't Convinced
"I was waiting for this all morning. They had announced that. Chris harrison was gonna be doing a sitdown with michael strahan on. Good morning america And that just happened about a half an hour ago. Now if you remember this back story. Chris had gotten into an exchange with rachel lindsay. The first black bachelorette extra few weeks ago in which he defended current bachelor front runner. Rachel kirk kirkhill participation in this old south southern charm plantation theme college party back in two thousand eighteen. He called for grace understanding compassion saying he thought it was alarming. That people were just tearing this girl's life apart but he also said some things that many found insensitive and offensive a lot of people. And i'm wondering why would you defend. Rachel kirkhill i am an imperfect man. I made a mistake. And i own that. I believe that mistake doesn't reflect who i am or what i stand for. I am committed to the progress. Not just for myself. Also for the franchise. My guess these girls got dressed up and went to a party and had a great time. They were eighteen years old now. Does it make it okay. I don't know rachel you tell me you said quote is it not a good look and twenty eighteen or that not a good look and twenty twenty one. 'cause they're the big difference. So so what is the to you. What is the different or is there. There is not antebellum. Parties are not okay past present future knowing what that represents is unacceptable again former. Nfl linebacker emmanuel has been tapped to step in and host. The after the final rose special on the fifteenth. Filing chris announced he was stepping aside from the franchise for the time. Being
Why The Bachelor Has Fallen
"It was supposed to be the racial breakthrough season with the first black bachelor instead. The show's host. Chris harrison now facing backlash for racial insensitivity. Well the show known for finding love be able to conquer hate the juggernaut bachelor franchise under fire from an unlikely source. James on chris its own star. Matt james. The first black bachelor saying the franchise has fallen short on the issue of race. Ladies disappear get your trophy after. The show's host chris. Harrison seemed to defend racist behavior. We have to be so careful. Start labeling just as bad as is what that person did the matt james announcement a groundbreaking reveal twenty five seasons in the making the twenty nine year old commercial real estate executive a step forward for the show where season after season after season after season. Showcased white bachelors and mostly white potential paramore's. We spoke to match just before the season kicked off. Why do you think it took so long you know. I don't know. I can't speak on what's place before i got there but i was honored to be the first and hopefully the first of many january interview matt said he hopes to represent progress. I'm hoping that as years go on and there's another black bachelor there's an asian bachelor. There's a person of color bachelor. it's that person. Great bachelor but that progress suffered a setback. When these three year. Old photos of contestant rachel kirk canal at an old south antebellum themed college party. Complete with period costumes went viral. in antebellum. themed party is offensive. it's insensitive and it is a profoundly racist act. it is making a mockery out of one of the most painful horrific moments in human history. That is american slavery and chris harrison the longtime bachelor host came to her defense in an interview with rachel lindsay. Who in two thousand seventeen was the first ever black bachelorette. good rachel. is it a good luck in two thousand eighteen or is it not a good look in two thousand twenty one and never 'cause you're she's celebrating the old south she. If i went to that party what would i represent at that party. My guess these girls got dressed and went to a party and had a great time. They were eighteen years old now. Does that make it okay. I don't know rachel you tell me the fallout for harrison. Who liked the show. Itself has become an institution was swift resigned social media exploding outrage and defense. Former contestants also voicing their disappointment i think he for sure needs to do more than put out a statement. I am really really disappointed. Another bachelor alum even calling on harrison to step down. Let me speak direct. Should they individually move from the bachelor franchise. I think it's time for that chris. Harrison made it sound as though the was she was so young she was just in college. What do you make of that. Defense wasn't eons ago. This was a very it was thirty six months ago. Plenty of kids go to college in. Find a way not to be racist. Harrison later apologized writing on instagram by excusing historical racism. I defended it. I am ashamed. Over how uninformed i was i was so wrong. And he announced that he's stepping aside from the franchise for a period of time last night. Matt james releasing his own statement on instagram. Saying it has been devastating and heartbreaking. To put it bluntly chris's failure to receive and understand the emotional labor that my friend racial lindsay was taking on by graciously and patiently explaining the racist history of the antebellum. South was troubling and painful to watch. It was a clear reflection of a much larger issue that the bachelor franchise has fallen short on addressing adequately for years for kirk canal. She's gotten cozy with the bachelor throughout this season. James taking her shopping and on a horse drawn carriage ride making it through enough rose ceremonies to be among the final three. She's apologized for both the. Nfl and party photos and for liking voters with the confederate flag on instagram. She wrote. I'm here to say i was wrong. I didn't recognize offensive and racist. My actions were but that doesn't excuse them. I was ignorant but my was
Chris Harrison 'stepping aside' from 'The Bachelor' after controversial interview
"The bachelor is now looking for a permanent replacement to chris harrison to host the show exclusive. You're not gonna hear this anywhere else so. Chris temporarily stepped down from the show or so he thinks but insiders tell me he might never come back. Get this sifford. At weird's is well. I've got a really good explanation for it so source ocal remember tom bergeron and dancing with the stars before the racist incident. Abc had decided that chris was a little tarnish that had been on the show for over a decade. Another white gentleman on tv. Times have changed so they will already looking for somebody younger. Maybe a person of color maybe a female they were looking for options for a potential new hosts they did. They did this to tom. Tom did not know this was coming. So basically they're looking for another tyra banks now. I know tyrus controversial on on this show. We really debated tyra. I worked for tyra. So i know her but it took me a moment to love on dancing with the stars. But you can't deny there's a lot more birds on dancing with the stars and the ratings which is really old aka robots. The rates have gone up so looking for a tire type. You some of the names that have been bouncing around the halls at is tyrod is tara. Banks should be. But i think she's got a handful on dancing with the stars but it is it. Abc show so she could do these names. I'm hearing chrissy. Teigen is somebody they really like. I think christie has a relationship with nbc. So that's tricky. Another name on hearing within the abc family is antony and discern. I love him. Always a lot of fart ria from blache i mean but but he too like didn't he have some type of scandal back in there was something there. I don't remember it off the top of my head by get see that being assured trusting another name too and they love him. Abc michael stray ham. They really love him and he certainly charismatic. And when you think love. I could see him not as the bachelor is not handing roses but he's a trick host and get this. This names are very interesting. Name rachel lindsay i. She was the very first. In fact. I think the only other black bachelorette and she's the one who spoke to chris who interviewed chris. And that's where this whole controversy started now. Rachel says she's done with this. She's done with the franchise. She has a couple of more events to do and then she's contractually free of them and she wants to move on but that was before her name popped up to replace him of course.
'The Bachelor': Matt James Felt Pressure To Choose a Black Woman at the End of the Season
"James is the bachelor mondays on abc. Matt i've talked to rachel lindsay a lot about her time on the show and her experience and i wonder if you can talk to me a little bit about the pressure on you to choose a black girl at the end of the of the season their vows definitely not a pressure i put on myself initially no when i got there being the first black people are gonna be looking to you for a lot of different things and whenever i felt that pressure i just felt back on how i was raised in what i was looking for and a lot of those qualities. Have nothing to do with race in there. Were your hearts at are you carrying. Are you compassionate And thank goodness. That casts was so diverse in that made up a lot of what i was looking forward to may my decision that much easier with that kouadio woman there. Did you have to assume you. Talk to them about diversity before you did the show. I have to assume you said this is how it needs to be for me. Yeah and i think that not being on the bachelorette before they were still trying to get an understanding of lyon. What i'm attracted to him. When i'm about and they did a great job you know across the board what i was looking for i saw and As as the season continues. I think that It's very evident that they did their job in their party. Making sure everything represented.
interview With Matt James And Lindsay Hubbard
"Please welcome hell on wheels lindsay day. Lindsay andy thanks for having me. Thanks for coming and for the bachelor. Mondays on abc. It's nima finest match james. Hey matt what's going on. Andy oh my god. I'm so excited you're here. I'm so excited that you're the bachelor. Matt i was you know that was not something that i was planning on having thought i was going to be on the bachelorette and a year later on the bachelor. See that. wow okay. I wanna get into some bachelor and summer house questions. Speaking of hannah's breakdown at the end of the episode. I mean lindsey. It had to be very awkward sitting there listening once you saw and heard what she was saying. Does she have a right to be pissed with them. Do you think or is she overreacting well. It's a little confusing because last summer when the girls approached. You're saying that luke was talking to other girls. She was totally fine with it and now she seems to take a different approach. So i don't know it's it's pretty awkward. Just trying to understand if they dated didn't they were all confused a i. I can't even read this twitter name but they want to know now. The queen victoria is gone. What was your reaction when you found out that she was the true toxic one Disappointing you never really know what's going on you. Operate on imperfect information. But when you find out what's going on it's never the wrong time to right the ship so We're back on track okay. Lindsay megan k. Wants to know why you were so upset by what. Hannah said on a podcast. Don't you all talk like that. on podcasts. and social media isn't part of being on a reality show shows a point. I know. I don't tend to talk. Negatively about my. You know has mates on podcasts. But that's just me and you know it was just upsetting. Like i thought we were friends and i was very hurt by her. You know putting out this narrative that i'm this like mean-spirited person and i'm just not so i didn't feel like i needed to invite her to a new year's eve party matt. Billy g wants to know what was honestly going through your mind. When ex contestant heather drove up in the minivan on mondays episode. What did you think of the other women's reactions to her. I was in shock. I had no words and I was talking to piper at the time. And i just broke down. I was just. I was dying laughing. Because i thought it was a joke. Thousand pump in the women. I'm surprised she made it to the room up. She was gonna happen. So you lindsay. You're not with your man anymore. When did you. I am not lit up my allowed to ask that or do we have to wait and find out. No no i mean you'll see a couple of different situations that happened over summer officially for this last time for good. It was october
'Bachelor' host Chris Harrison apologizes after defending controversial contestant
"Are some bachelor drama. And has chris harrison apologizing. Let me try to break this down for you. Rachel contested on this season has come under fire from some alleged controversial social media behavior and pick of her at a plantation theme frat party now chris and former bachelorette rachel lindsay talked about it and he kinda defended contestant rachel then he his ass drag for his. Take chris apologize saying he should have been better
Fighting for Answers with Trista Sutter
"Trista. Welcome to the wo- med. I'm so thankful that we're able to make this work today. And i've really wanted to not like change. The direction of the woman at all per se but to add to it because as healthcare professionals are sole purpose is caring for our patients right. Yeah so. I think it's really important to talk more about patient advocacy and. I'm just really grateful. You're able to did make the time and willing to come on and chat with me today. Yeah i think so much for having me. I'm just so excited to be able to share the space with you and and chat. Especially because i've been out of healthcare for a really time. I don't even know. Gosh i would need to really think back to when i when i stopped were maybe it was two thousand two so it's been almost twenty years. I've been out of healthcare. So thank you for giving me the space because to get the chance to talk to you. I feel like. I've always been drawn to you on you. Know of course the bachelor bachelorette that. I'm i'm a forever fan because of how it changed my life and nia and i loved watching you so yeah. It's so fun to chat. Thank you for that so not many of you may know that she does have a background as a pediatric physical therapist. Yes actually put in all that we're doing it. Was it a doctoral program at that point. No no it was not and that tells you how long it's also because it was just for me. I chose to do a master's at that time it was either. You could get a bachelor degree or or master's degree and i chose to continue my education. After undergrad i went to undergrad at ideal and then Indiana and then. I got accepted into university of miami's be at that time. They were rated second in the nation so i was really excited to be accepted and it was a two and a half your program and then after that i ended up getting a job in pediatrics. Miami children's hospital but anyway i worked for four years as a pediatric physical therapist. And then of course i got the opportunity to go on the bachelor and the rest is history. I did actually go back to work. After filming the bachelor and my broken and i asked my boss once i got the request to be the first bachelorette if i could have another liebau absence. And she's like yeah. That's what happened me time to leave. I guess so. I always wanted to live in california. I moved. I didn't really think about my license at the time And then after that. I just realized that i would have to completely take my boards over again and i have the worst memory on the planet. I'm like i'm not going to remember anything that i'm that will allow me to pass this test. So let my license become inactive ben. It's sad but but it's also great. Because you know i i'm happy in my life now moved to colorado for ryan. So it's well. I had a similar thing happen. Like when i left for the bachelor. They're like oh great. Cool like go find love we love. You can have a leave of absence. And then paradise came. And i was like. How mad would you be if i love to get. You know we absolutely love you and encourage you and support you. But we can't just hand leave of absences. And i'm like yeah i get it but so many people don't believe that you go back to work after the show and it's like well you do but then you're sure i mean you kind of have to i. I had to pay the bills. Still and yeah i wanted to go back to my to my life and my patients at that point in time but when the bachelorette happened that was a different story like i felt like it was an opportunity that i couldn't pass up and i'm glad i didn't because my life would be very very very different. We got you. My children wouldn't exist. So yes that's a good thing. Well not just leads to so many other different avenues of not only income but of platforms and things that you can do with your platform. But i want to kind of circle back to the whole patient advocacy portion. Whatever you feel comfortable with sharing what has been going on with you. While i guess with ryan more specifically this whole like last year. Yeah i was thinking about this morning. It's been almost a year. Which is her rape easy to think about. Yeah i i. I'm to be a little delicate on the topic. Because you're seeing all his story and we still are in the process of trying to figure things out and once we do we'll we'll share that but but yet it has been quite eye opening in terms of being on this. I am not that. I haven't dealt with doctors in the past. I mean i've had things where doctors couldn't figure out what was going on with me in the past and this is just different because i am like. I'm a mama right if you will. But that extends to my family and friends as well.
"bachelorette" Discussed on Unladylike
"Before she'd even had a chance to pack up and go home the bachelor powers that be called rachel in for a meeting and so i go with the producers. I'm thinking i'm in trouble. Like i did something. And they're like what are you thinking about being the bachelorette and i just remember laughing and i was like now. You guys are kidding. You're just trying to make me feel better. They're like no no seriously. And i'm like i don't know if it's for me. I was really afraid of losing my career losing respect in my career. I just didn't think it was me. My parents did not want me to do it. Because there's just you never know what to expect when you're the first at something it's an honor to be asked me the first but it's also a really scary place and they told me to go home and think about it caroline. The timing of rachel getting asked to be the franchise's first black lead was also significant in the years leading up to her star turn on the bachelorette pressure had been mounting for more casting diversity. Right in twenty twelve to black men filed a class action lawsuit against the franchise and the network alleging racially biased casting. A judge ultimately dismissed the lawsuit ruling that the franchise how first amendment right to cast. Whoever it wants but the negative publicity was loud enough that the contestant pools got slightly more diverse and in two thousand sixteen the network started publicly. Promising that a diverse lead was on the way cut to rachel heading back to texas to think about whether to be that first black bachelorette. While she was home. She was recognized by fan a black woman who told her how excited she was finally see someone who looks like her getting so far on the bachelor the woman had actually quit washing the franchise because it was so whitewashed but she and her daughter had been watching rachel season and rooting for her together. And i thought man how many other people in the franchise feel that way now here. I am in a position to be the lead. And what would her daughter say about that. What would it look like for a young girl to see someone who looks like her in this position. Who's been a fan of this show for at that time. Fifteen plus years and hadn't seen anyone who looked like them who is representative of them in this role. And i thought you know what i'm gonna do it just for that because i felt like i could do it right. I could do it well. And i wasn't really thinking so much of i'm gonna fall in love. I was just thinking. I need to do this for the culture. And maybe i'll open doors for other people to feel like they're comfortable to be on this show and to be themselves on this show and that i was just really blessed that it actually worked out too so he said you knew that you could do it right. So what is what is doing it right me. I felt like oh. Gosh this is this is. What else is something that makes headlines. Okay so here we go. I think the audience doesn't understand by this. I mean white people they you're judged by your just by america but then you're also judged by black america and a lot of times black people will judge you for not being black enough and white america will say you're to black and this goes all the way back to the plantation time of trying to assimilate fit in to what you think is a certain standard of how you should be to be accepted and that might be watering down your blackness and i have seen that from people of color on the show at times and i didn't want to do that. I wanted to fully represent myself as a black woman that just as a black woman as professional as a woman in her thirties. All of these things being outspoken being strong being independent and not afraid to represent myself as that way but more so as a black woman. And that's been great and a lot of ways and that. I've gotten a lot of criticism for that but i wanna be unapologetically myself and not afraid if those stereotypes that were going gonna be placed on me and i thought it was important for the first black lead to make sure that they didn't try to tone their blackness down for that for an audience that had seen it before.
"bachelorette" Discussed on The Viall Files
"Have. We covered it which we just get the Jason Great. Jason thanks so much for coming. Thanks for having. I'm really excited to have you. We've talked a few times about you coming on the podcast. And, it's finally great to have you in. to kicking off Clare Ish is season of the of the Bachelorette. Yeah, whatever. Being very being very cryptic about it very certainly are offering happened I. don't mind it I you know I'm I'm into I'm fine. I'm intrigued. You're saying. offline that. You started watching the bachelor on Wall Pablo season. So clear has a special place in your heart. Claire has a special place in my. Yeah. That was my first introduction to it. I had been People had tried to get me into it before and I wasn't that I I don't know I. You're you're taught sometimes as an actor like reality television is your mortal enemy and. Never, never succumb and it's not. It's just not true and it's a Lotta Times, super interesting and there was something about that season that I was like, Oh, I didn't realize. that. It's just like. Carnage. Commotion. Just. Like people doing. I just don't know if you like me and I'm to go. All right. Yeah. Holy cow it like. The whole thing of this show I think I think people bring their their empathy and their heart to the show, and that's what makes the relationship happen. But if you just look at like the skeleton of the show, it's kind of like. You would never be able to do it out in the world. It's so it's designed for a lot of pain. Like. As humans we work against it, but like it was fascinating to see a person just go. No, that's that's the rules eventually I have to let you go so okay you want to go now. Okay. This is so intense. And I really felt for Clare. And Yeah I'm I'M Having become a total addict since then I've watched her in her various. Other heavy you ordered. Interational Yeah Winter Games or games I want to, Winter Games do not see. I. I got totally hooked on. If Bachelor put out like. We're just sitting around live feed. I probably would did you watch listen to your heart? Yes, I did watch your heart. We know he's a true. Stand. The most. I love listen to your heart. It was really good. It was really good. It was very well done like Winter Games. I think people quarantine were resistant to people don't like change and also with with quarantine it was. If you weren't streaming. It was like you know I have to watch it at a certain time and a certain place like what? No I want. The don't tell me what to do. Exactly but it was it was it was entertaining. Really Amazing. Really incredible musicians on the show and Yeah. I. I was a huge fan. We we. We started watching the bachelor the same time because really I didn't watch it before. I. Went on and Andy's season was after awhile. Course so I watch Juan Pablo's season was the first season I watched in preparation of going on. Well, I was going to the casting process while. While wound policy was was on I ended up buying desharnais season, which is season prior right just to be like. All right. What's the Bachelorette look like because I was watching the bachelor? Is it different and say? WE'VE STARTED And Aging Bachelor Yeah and and. Yeah. Cool third thirty one, and forty. I know. You're on your honest. You're giving me that. No, I'm thirty one everybody. Thank you I'm older than both of you. So whatever So what do so thoughts on Clare where you excited as she was casted what was your reaction Clarin general in her being cast as the Bachelorette? I was excited. You know I'm as I just revealed I'm a year older than Claire. and. I always thought it was so weird. In the bachelor world, it's like people are young and in their twenties and stuff like that but the her age. Whenever was brought up. I was like what I, what is the problem I don't I really don't get it. So I'm I was super excited that they were like, let's put her front and center. She's an incredibly sweet person and I I also I'm so moved by her. Story like her you know I you know. You, find that you're in like a club with people whose fathers have passed away and you like you know, you don't know each other, but then happens to you and people like hey. You, get the password in the handshake and all that. And but you have immediate connection with someone because like you know not a Lotta people know. What that's like and then Story about the DVD that her dad gave her before he passed and just like I'm just rooting for her I want hurt us be sitting down like with the man of her dreams and like put that. DNA, and then just I mean just weep I mean just weep weep and you know who needs a pair of amazing comfortable footwear I think Claire could use some Roth as. I have a lot of I have a lot of friends who are wearing Rossi's right and they are always. So chill. So. And I feel like. Clare could use some roth maybe she's just a little. Little tightly wound because you know a lot of pressure to be the BACHELORETTE. And heels don't know I can't imagine what it's like to were uncomfortable footwear that some some women seem to wear. But rockies, I tell you what things are kicking ass and the comfort and style department as well as the peace of mind that you're helping, save the environment because they're using recyclable plastic as opposed to. Putting in landfill. So let's get Clare Rallies in the meantime, get yourself some Rossi's. And anytime you get them dirty. You just throw them retinal washing machine they. Ever they last forever I got I got him as a gift to a friend of mine. Like a year ago, they look brand spanking new and she wears them all the time. Roth is common in ever array of changing colors, prints, and patterns off his are available in a range of styles Roth. His shoes are seeing this init- with threads made from plastic water bottles. So they're ultra comfortable as soon as he slipped him on that's right. There is zero break in period vocals calls Rossi's a personal obsession and health says, they're the most comfortable shoes on.
"bachelorette" Discussed on Bachelor Happy Hour with Rachel & Ali – The Official Bachelor Podcast
"Work on the on the website Julie, boxes rules can hard to get your hands on one but you can follow over there and just take all the small businesses that were partnering. Whatnot. Cookbook. I love the cookbook love and it's it's beautiful. It has some amazing recipes in it. So yes, I highly highly recommend Jillian. It was so fun to have you sink you i. feel like you're. A. Good. Part. Walk down. Memory Lane part therapy session part business consulting like all of the things wrapped up into one. So thank you for joining us on our happy hour. We love you. We have to have you back I would love to come back. Thank you for having me. Guys I saw signs that everybody else got to experience. Jillian because she's from a different Bachelorette era but and we got snow her at the reunion and thereafter but people are understanding why she was the Bachelorette why she's accomplished all this she has why she's so freaking fantastic. She truly is I want to say jack-of-all-trades she's doing it all she. Like just her. Curse charisma and kindness like you can really hear that when you anytime I talked to her I just feel like I'm floating kind of because she's just so positive and she's crushing it. So I mean also to say, if you guys don't follow her on Instagram, check her out because her page is beautiful. You can get her presents like just she's just doing it all and and to this day Rachel we still in our Bachelorette group chat, we still are like wind can we go to Jillions? Like another bachelorette reunion without the cameras, just US girls on the lake in Canada. That's still has to be planned because I think. She lives in the middle of nowhere she said she's not like in a big city. You know what I love to the situation the bachelorette chats. What I also love is will be talking about something like. Gossiping and Jillions like one win that happened. As You're taking over the world. If you are literally. Oprah Slash Martha Stewart all that. So it's like we get. We'll update you but I love how she's like, where have I been? It never fails whatever the news is. Response. Yes she she's so funny but I'm also I wanted to say like maybe we'll have a good place to go and November depending on how things turn out. So low listen there's several there's several trips floating around in the Bachelorette group chats do. So one of these has gotta stick for sure you guys me truly truly hope you enjoyed that interview and we're really GonNa love going down this journey with former Bachelorette's because we want you to get to know them the same way that we did we want him we also want you to see how they pave. The way for us and are the reason that we became the Bachelorette and they set such a great example for us and I also love it there from a different air when doesn't seem to be as influenced by social media and I duNno stakes to seem to be just a little bit different. So anyways, we hope you guys enjoy this as well. We're bringing you so much more on Bass for happy hour and you know you guys you know the routine we love to hear from you..
"bachelorette" Discussed on Bachelor Happy Hour with Rachel & Ali – The Official Bachelor Podcast
"Don't ask to you know manifest a husband of this. There's no guaranteed. So I don't interesting to see. That's the only thing with being tough for her is I don't know if she's willing to. Open up a little bit and have this potentially not worked out. And that's scary by the way like you feel you've got one shot as we all know that feeling and we. Made a decision that work right they still feeling myself British and so like you think you're going got one shot at it and you think you have to have this this ending that you come in with within your mind. To it doesn't always work out that I think that's such a good point and the fact that you know we're all past. BACHELORETTE's we can probably all like the pressure which I think that's made people don't take into consideration when they're watching the season's back as the pressure on you is astronomical. It's like you you know like you go in knowing how the show works in knowing that for the most. People usually get engaged and I mean obviously, it's been a little bit different in the past seasons but it's a it's a hard thing like especially for Clare to have had some more time off prior to filming like sitting in the quarantine men like being able to look up the guys know a little bit more to go in being like I. You know I have to make this work some way somehow. And they gave me I don't want to say too much but. Like I just hope she does it in her own way where. When it's so different. Navies speaking right. If it was ever offered to you again. Would you do? The second time around. Talking,.
"bachelorette" Discussed on GSMC Relationship Podcast
"Hey guys. Welcome back for third segment. In our last segment before the break we were talking about what to do. If you're the bride or the groom, and you need time to kill before you know you finally decide whether or not you're going to have your wedding this year or if you're gonNA wait so now we're gonNA. Talk about if it canceled. It's not fun. It's a fun topic, but at the end of the up, so we are going to be talking about my favorite Bachelor Bachelorette Games so stay tuned if you WANNA. End This podcast on a good in happy note, but for now we're GonNa talk about what to do. It is canceled because it's a very. Sensitive subject, it doesn't matter if you're a ride or fear. Groom over you're friends with the bride and groom. You WanNa make sure that you get this right because this is a special day, a lot of people think and dream about so it really matters if you're their friend, and you get it right, or it matters how you handle this. If you're canceling the wedding and you've already sent out, the invites because you do eventually want your wedding and you want to respect the people who took the time and energy to either help you with your wedding depending on where you're at. At and that or to just keep a date in mind for the future so that you can have them there in still plan for it. Okay so to start the segment off. We're just going to focus on being the friend of someone who has to cancel their wedding, and you don't need to be a part of the bridal or groom's Party to be able to do this. Right like you are a friend and you care about your friend. WHO's wedding has been canceled, so here's some good places to start with once you find out that your friend has cancelled their wedding. Okay, so there's actually this really great website that gives you kind of a step by step guide on how to approach the situations The website is called between the Pine and you can just research. You know how to support your friends who have canceled their wedding or something along those lines, but the first rule were the first step that they say to take is to understand what your friends are going through. They have a lot of examples of women talking about their experience of having to cancel their wedding. And just the feeling set. They're going through like disappointment confusion anger. Among other things, right, they're trying to cancel things like practically like vendors, so they are going through a lot of different emotions, and as friends. We have to understand that I, so they're saying come from a place of empathy and just hear your friends out. You don't know what to say to them. Rain, so let's say that you approach them and the first thing you want to say. Is that your starry? But they're saying before you do that before you reach out. Here's what you should do. You should actually send them a letter in the mail I. think that's a really smart idea because you know another text or another. GIF is going to just be another day in the life. So if you send him something like that it, it is thoughtful I. Mean You are trying to cheer them up? You are trying to say hey. I'm reaching out to you and a care, but when you write leather, it's a little bit different you. Know it might come in with their bills, but it's something different and something. Nice to see I know that I got a Henry. Thank you. Note recently, and it was just a game changer. It just felt so personal the handwriting on it just made it feel more genuine and you know they physically have to do each letter, so they really thought of you when they were writing. At least you would hope so right so that's how someone's GonNa. Feel when you send. Send it to them. It shows that you sat down. You took the time, and you wrote the encouragement and I think it's such a small gesture of kindness that taking the time to write a handwritten letter about anything. It doesn't even have to be condolences I. Actually think that would be a bad idea because you're reminding them of their loss, but said just remind them how much you love them. Remind them of all the fun times. Maybe instead of doing you know. Know a toast like recommended in the first segment for virtual bachelor and Bachelorette Party. You write what you would have said in that letter, and you send it to them, and it will just brighten up their day or even if you write like an inside joke, or if you send a postcard, even doesn't have to be a formal letter. We don't have to get all sappy if we don't want to. If that's not your style, but send them something in the mail. Mail like a little gift, thinking of them or postcard like I, said. I think those can be really fun maybe somewhere that they might consider for honeymoon leader, or maybe somewhere that you've been together. That means a lot to guys as friends. You know that would be a really good little token of friendship I. Think, so I think that's a brilliant idea. Okay, so the next thing they save for friends what you can do to support somebody know who had to. To cancel their wedding as to do a facetime, call your friends a check in I used to have a really busy schedule in so at that time in my calendars I put a reminder to check my friends, and that sounds really sad, but I met like really check into my friends I talked to my friends every day through text. You know we just randomly text each other about whatever's happening but I really wanted to check in on them and see how. How they were doing because I was really busy and I don't like filling out of the loop with what's happening in my friends lives, you know I'm of an age where a lot of people are doing really big life events, regardless of what they are romantic or not, and I really WanNa make sure that they're doing okay, because they're busy, too, so I put that reminder of my phone and I think this would be a good time to do that for your. Your friends who have big life events that just aren't happening because of cove it so if you put a reminder on your phone to just give them a call, even if they don't answer, that's perfect. Because then you can leave a voicemail of you know just reminding them how much you care reminding them that you're there for them, and if they need any of your help, you know that you're there for them and speaking of reminding them that you're there for them. Them. If you really are into the whole phone call thing I know it depends on the generation. You are so older. Generations tend to love phone calls, and they will call you younger generations NASA much, so let's say you need just a little bit of space and time to figure out what you're. GonNa say. They say it's a good idea to do. A voice memo a lot of people were getting texts and calls so just directly. Tell them voice memo like. They are creative. They are how you're so excited for when the day comes for the wedding that you'll be there and reassure them that again. If they need any help your there, that's that's what this time is four so just a little fun voicemail. ooh! Especially! If you have a pet or something like that, you can get your pet to respond you say like see even they agree, and it's just really fun and lighthearted, so come up with some fun ideas. If you want to do a voice memo, I would even say like say a favorite podcast or favorite movie and they think of something, funny or relatable to your friend. Then you can just record I. Send It on over, and it's something different and out of the norm for the day so really take them out of whatever feeling about the wedding and kind of bring him to that moment and be reminded that you're really good friend, so see bonus points for you works out for everybody. So the next tip that they have is. Don't forget about the groom I may've even done that in this podcast I'm really trying not to, but since I have a pending Bachelorette party Alma hands I'm just really focused on that, but if you're not going to a.
"bachelorette" Discussed on GSMC Relationship Podcast
"BACHELORETTE party at least in my limited experience, but that's not something you typically do, but this is happening, because something else is happening in the world, something traumatic and very stressful, so you WanNa make. Make this moment as special as you can like. I've been saying so an honor to do that. Maybe prepare something like really die. Sore really Raunchy again. It depends on your style of communication. How close you are with this friend, but maybe prepares something really sweet for them to hear so that even if they're not having this moment with you in real life like together in person than they are having it still with you, they're having that connection in that moment, and it really takes their minds off of. Of what's happening now and puts it back into your relationship and how you care for them, and that's really what these events are about anyway. Right the really about the couple and there for them and how you just WanNa have less one less Shebang before they do. Get married, and so this is a way of reminding them of your friendship with them and your relationship to the couple in general. If you know them both, so I think that was a really sweet idea that this article had. They also mentioned sending gifts now I know this can be an idea that a lot of people don't agree with right. Sending gifts to the couple, even though they're not getting married, but these gifts don't have to be expensive. There is a really good gift idea. To actually make a compilation of all the toasts that people might say during the zoom meeting put them together and video editing, and then you release it during the video conference of course with people's permission, but you release it, and it just becomes this montage of everyone, talking and speaking. That's a gift right so you can go with. Free and inexpensive gift ideas, which is actually what I'll be talking about soon later in the episode, but regardless one idea is to send them a gift I thought that was really sweet like I said it doesn't have to be expensive doesn't have to be a traditional wedding gift. It just has to be something unique impersonal. I think those are the best gifts, so that's an idea and you can send it to them. before the day that is planned for the video conference for the stand in Bachelorette Bachelor Party, and they can open it during the party, and then just have a little moment of joy and lake celebration in their life and again. That's what this is about and own my goodness. This last one is actually really hilarious, an example that. That was given was to get a cameo from celebrity, and if you don't know what that is, it's basically you can pay celebrity to come in during yours zoom chat, or whatever you know us for video conferencing, and you can ask them to give the couple a message, or you can give it to just sobriety. You can give it to just the groom, or both like I said if you know both, but it is an expensive. But is super cool, right? That's Super I. Mean it's also super nerdy. But I think that's a really cool ideas. You can afford it if you can afford a celebrity to pop in and say hi, that would really lay lighten the mood and just get everyone into zone of having a laugh or having a good time I mean. There's Comedians on Cameo. There's actors and actresses. There's artists of all type so really just depends on. On, who your friends lake, but again if you can afford it, or like what you do for a bachelor or Bachelorette Party, you split everything at. That's like the one big gift to. Everyone wants to get everyone pitches in. It's a lot more manageable and I think it's a really fun idea, so yeah. I really thought that was a creative space to go. Go into to utilize the digital space. You're in any way right? Okay, so there are a couple other ideas that I want to go over some I. Thought of and somewhere inspired, but against all my own thoughts, so there's not really an article, the reference, but the games that you played in real life during Bachelor and Bachelorette parties do them digitally. There's no. No reason not to all the games that you can find just by googling. They're very easy to play digitally. And this is the idea I thought of which obviously I think is pretty clever, but may not be I'm not sure if everyone knows what this is, but it's called cahoots, and it's a way of creating an online quiz and I love Trivia. Trivia nights at bars that you can't go to right now. Who is like a personal way to create a quiz hitting personalized quiz, or it can be like Trivia night, and just totally random trivia and just play it. Just play it with your friends. Have a drink in hand whether that's coffee. Hey Coffee I. Love You or Fisher favorite alcoholic beverage like whatever you have in hand. Just make it playful. Make it fun. HAVE DECORATIONS BE DRESSED UP? Have drink play games, but yeah I thought you know having little trivia. Your digital bachelor and Bachelorette parties would be the way to go. I mean I love them so of course I would say that all right, so the last idea that I found is actually is, it's an APP. There's an APP for that. Do you guys remember that commercial? If you don't good for you, you are on the younger side of who listens to this relationship podcast, but if you do yeah, there's an APP for Planning Bachelor and Bachelorette parties. It's actually really cool. It's called the batch B. C. H. 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"bachelorette" Discussed on Bachelor Happy Hour with Rachel & Ali – The Official Bachelor Podcast
"Welcome back Bachelor happy our listeners. We hope that you've been doing well and growing throughout this past week, and of course hopefully loving of the recaps that we've been doing well. I can't say we, but what the franchise is doing with the greatest seasons ever I know I have been loving it, but today we have a very exciting episode for all of you and. Rachel. This is probably one of the most requested interviews that we've been asked to do from all of our followers out there and so I am thrilled to announce our next bachelorette Clare Crawley's on the podcast today. And since she was announced as the Bachelorette, you guys have been sending in so many questions so many comments thoughts for her, and so we really wanted to get into some of those with her directly today. Absolutely, Beca you said it so well might have been who was riding in all those requests. That can we have Clare? Have Claire, but I'm excited I know you're excited to have this opportunity to talk to her. I mean Clare's obviously no stranger to the bachelor world, but on these shows you don't really get to see the whole story. You only get to see a glimpse and now we're going to tell Claire Story so I'm excited that we have this conversation in depth conversation with her today and. And hear about her journey to get here house. She got here I've I've just really excited that we get to have this in depth conversation with her today and just learn and hear more about her journey where she's been how she got to where she is today. What she's looking forward to and hoping to get out of this incredible experience that she's about to embark on. Yeah rain. She said it best like when we're watching. Shows and seasons back. It's like you only get a glimpse of somebody's life of who they are. You know each each season. We get a two hour episode on Mondays like you don't really get much more than that than wasn't being portrayed and I have a feeling with Clare talking with her since she's been announced as bad tried and through DMZ messages like there's so much more to her that I really want to get into right now and give the world a little bit more background before we see her on our screens. Because I think that's really important. And so I can't wait to chat with her feel like she has a lot to say. and we've never done this before I. Think where we've had a lead. Prior to their season. Come on, so it's going to be a good time. Yeah, I have nothing to say I. Don't want to wait anymore. Okay Bachelor! Happy our.
"bachelorette" Discussed on KIIS 102.7
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"bachelorette" Discussed on KIIS 102.7
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"bachelorette" Discussed on Help! I Suck At Dating with Dean Unglert
"Bachelorette and we are in this environment where everything is feel filmed twenty will separate uh and it's kind of its i feel like i we mainly that is really solid connection and more so than the connection ahead with the bachelorette in australia which khanna blew me away and i really didn't expect to meet someone like her in this situation and so for me it was kind of about trying to remove ourself from the whole environment so that she knew that the y felt better with a iq so whatever wasn't just the cameras and wasn't because we're in the spa in those two cameras there in his gaza i'm booms and they got to sit in there clapping going away and it wasn't like a setup environments i i actually walked around the house and tried to fund the quietest area where there was no cameras so when i felt like the tom was routed picky said i was going to take a day which is what did um so decides she knew it was genuine he give us a little active way um yeah it was a it was at the top of the stairs outside the women's story thought to myself if things are going to the next level the bedroom draw there this so move gone because that has you a handwritten at his element does show and then she went in for the kent maybe that's what you say oh am whispers on because i think when we first got up to the top of the stairs i did notice there was one of those dummy but it was face now the way and then we'll kissing for a little bit and then facing stop stop and we talk again and then we saw the case again and then yet one time i looked up was facing oils very enduring a supercute wasn't from that heterosexual may on.