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"ashley wood" Discussed on The Paul Finebaum Show
"Ready? Ready. Win an avenger returns. You're not the one with the hammer. That's Thor. We get confused. Similar body types. The new saga begins. He's a monster. Who thinks he's a God? I am king. It's okay. We're okay. It's gonna be okay. You're saying, okay, too much. Okay. Ant man and the wasp quantumania. Pretty PG-13 may be inappropriate for children under 13 in theaters this Friday. Well, we began with Stu a Heather was joining us in a short while, get her update on a couple of things. And then Barry Switzer, I don't know if we I can't remember the last time coach Switzer came on and Ashley wood rejoins our program, just named the editor of the crimson and why we'll talk about tonight's big game and Knoxville with her. Dwayne is in Louisiana, starts off the calls. Hey, Dwayne. Hey, mister Paul 5, bob. My favorite color Dwayne. Yeah, what's going on with your mythical? We are doing great. Thank you, Dwayne. Hey. When you talk the best, listen, man. I feel like winning a championship with Demi Johnson team. All right? He certainly did. Back to that question. After that question, who put that team together? Jimmy Johnson, all right? Two straight, super bowls. Or two out of three. I can't remember. I mean, you want two bear came in when the third one. Yeah, Barry and all Barry had to do was just stay out of the way. Yeah, stay out the way. Yeah, it was already set. Hey, I want to tell you about that dumb coach we have a sushi lot of great last night. Yeah, you're down on that guy, aren't you? Hey, we should have kept way, way. We should have kept the other code. What if I met players recruiting and paying what they do now, huh? So they pay players now. He did was against the at the time. What they do now. When they do now. Well, it's legal. They get enough. The players get 13 million deals and are you saying you want will way back? You did a good job. Then how you did a good job? Would you think? I would prefer never to mention will wage name again on this program. If I could help it. All right, but something to have to ask you to not pull up that judge got to last last yesterday too. I got nobody on that schedule. John, the bulldog don't have nobody on that schedule. They got this first game where they don't play USC the first game. Why they don't play a top ten team they first game. Well, Dwayne, let me explain, okay? Georgia was a place. Georgia was supposed to play Oklahoma at the beginning of the season and because of the SEC connection. They had to cancel that game. The SEC required that Oklahoma and Texas not beyond anyone's schedule. So they did not have time to replace them. And as a result, they have a terrible non conference schedule. They got nobody. And you gonna rate and they're gonna be ranked, coming out, they didn't have time. And you went back to banking at the championship. First game, you put your paid. You had three Clemson, the money, throughout the gate. Well, yeah, I mean, they're going to be pre season number one, but hey, they'll, you're right. I mean, the schedule is easy. They do have to deal with Tennessee later in the year. But they'll have an SEC. They have an SEC championship game, then they'll have to win the playoffs. So they're not being given the championship. They do have an easy schedule though. So Alabama's got to look at them boys, get there, all right? We paid the like yesterday, I told your man yesterday. And I was a writer Brad with me. We got flawed as a robbery. We got our ban as a robbery. We got Alabama at the robbery. We got Texas a and M at the robbery. We got up and saw as a robbery. We got old Mitch as a robbery. Mississippi, they bulldog at the robbery. Hey, we got robberies every weekend. LSU. I agree. You know what I'm saying? You know, we gonna get it in the mud. You know what I'm saying? Georgia played Clemson last year. They played Oregon. This past season. I mean, they're not afraid of anybody. Over the season, I wouldn't top ten team that. Open the season up. Open the teaser with a top ten team. First game of the season. USC. But you have to be on the scale the first week of the game. You know what I'm saying? We going to Orlando. We going to land the Florida state for us. They gonna be ranked. Dwayne, after they got a grambling, why don't you go ahead and just load up four top ten teams? You can see, huh? Empty after now. Who they got empty off the nickel state? Who they got? It Dwayne. Georgia's got a deal. I mean, Georgia and LSU. Did they play this past year? I can't remember. Well, nobody played this past year, prepared to live with it in the championship game. It
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"ashley wood" Discussed on The Paul Finebaum Show
"Update from Missouri. Tigers clinging to a 1714 lead over Arkansas and they are driving right now is the second half is underway. First, second quarter is underway. Ashley Woods and Blake byler will join us from the C and W Ashley used to be there, Laura. Marty, that is the third hour of our show. Right now, something that we always look forward. Do you see it in the intro not only do you see it? You hear it in the intro. Tell your hicks. Has returned here the American Idol winner who grew up in Birmingham down the road. And was an overwhelming hit and now Taylor, you've had a great recording career. Idle was seen by zillion people, but everywhere I go, people talk about call Paul. Call Paul. Foxworthy said it was the best thing that I'd ever written. You already said that about a year ago in Atlanta. I about fell over off my stool. Well, I was just telling you that the Bill Walton compliment was my favorite, you know, especially when he said something about it being it sounded like the Grateful Dead a little bit. That was the compliment of all kinds. We had Bill on about two years ago and he was like, hey, hold on a second. I'm doing this. Bill Walton, he said, hold on. I would say we're hicks. And then that's probably saw the dead couple hundred times. They're dead, but he's still saying that. He's enjoying the more than when he played ball. That's true. So what's going on in your life? Oh, I'm doing good. I came on up doing a show in Birmingham, Alabama, December 9th at the lyric theater. I'm doing a Van Morrison show always do it. I've done some shows, but I've partnered up with a marines toys for tots this year. I do it every year and I always like to come on and it's a really special time of year, especially for the marines because I get to go to some of the bases. We pick up toys. And to be able to partner with them and do a few shows, especially the one in Birmingham. First and foremost, that's something that's near and dear to my heart. And I appreciate you letting me on talking about it, but the marines toys for talks, tonts is a reputable organization that's been around for a long time and obviously the marines are tied to it. It's a special special time of year to not only give to marines toys for tots, but to give in general. And I know you've been working on a record ten years. I remember having dinner with you right before I left town and I was pushing you and I said, I know anything about music. I said, you really need to be a great country artist, so you did end up going to Nashville. Yeah, and have lived in Nashville for a long time. And I ended up doing a record at Zac brown's place at southern ground and it's a soulful southern record, I like to say if Jackson Brown and Chris Stapleton and Zach Brown had a baby, it'd be me. It's a wonderful southern soul record that's who I am and I'm looking forward to releasing music. This spring. But, you know, the business, you have to find the right partner. These days, it's kind of tough throwing something against the wall and hoping it'll stick. You need as much glue as you possibly can. So that's going to be a fun part because I haven't done it in a while. Taylor, you've had just such an amazing life, and I know for people that go back to the mid 2000s when you won idol. I mean, it was one of the largest audiences in in television history, the next thing you know, you got a record, you got a hit, you're on every show in the world. It's been a while, but it's still not that long ago. Your life must have been surreal back then, because you weren't like, it took you a long time to get there. Well, I'm coming up on about 15 years in show business. Obviously, a ten year overnight success story traveling to a lot of these haunts around the southeast that I love. But, you know, it's something that I've always wanted to do. I felt like it was a calling. You look kind of like you or my favorite, one of my favorite weatherman James span here in Alabama. It's a very, I'm very blessed to be able to sing and perform and entertain and in this business you never say no and I got a call to do Broadway in New York four or 5 different roles in they asked me if I knew how to act and I said, sure. Acting gig in my life, but that's just kind of I've always wanted to be an entertainer and hopefully I can have another 15 or 20 years in the business. Yeah, you did Broadway for a long time, then I remember about ten years ago seeing you in Vegas. Yeah, how to show in Vegas a couple of years. That was cool, like bump the guy now. I know him. Four months turned into two years. That was a wonderful opportunity to be a part of the fabric in the landscape. The historical entertainment landscape of Las Vegas and the hits keep on coming, so I'm phones ringing, I'm answering it. The thing that I've always admired about you the most. Is it to win American Idol, you need the public to help you. So your strongest area was in Alabama. So you went to auburn, what a week, two weeks, how long were you at auburn? I was at auburn up three and a half, four years. Oh, okay. Jim, maybe Jimmy Buffett. You know, that was amazing. Jimmy was there for three days. Jimmy was there for three days. Then you got obviously, I was there for a week. I couldn't remember. So you're at auburn, you went to auburn a couple of years. And then convinced the public that you were in Alabama fan as well. You got auburn and Alabama fans. I'll never give up the ghost, but I can tell you this. You know, I always like to say the night that I won American Idol was the only night that Alabama and auburn fans ever agreed on anything. So I'm very I'm very thankful for that. I'm not giving up the ghost just yet. And I've been to Alabama games with you and I've seen you cheer for Alabama. But I'm not suggesting that you're not an auburn fan. I just know when you answer, when you answer that question, I'll answer it. And you have an answer to it yet. Have you Paul? Oh, I can't afford to answer it because it's not a question that anybody wants to answer if they don't have to. No. And neither one of us had to. No. We're not going to either. No. But you've done it well. And I've always, I see our friend David Upton over there taking the crane works, helped us help me get down here and avoid all the trouble. I did not hide David Upton does not hide who he's loyal to.
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"ashley wood" Discussed on The Paul Finebaum Show
"When we look at like a professional sports landscape in our country, obviously, all of those opportunities are dominated by men's sports. My hope is someday that women's sports on a professional level after college because we love to celebrate college. We love to celebrate the Olympics. On a professional level, it would be great to see. And I think we still have a lot of work to do to see more women be able to make careers. In the sports field. And that's on the floor. That's behind the scenes, that's coaching. That's broadcasting. That's all of it. It wasn't all that long ago. You and Andrew Kramer became the first to do an NFL game as well. I know a lot was made out of that, but deep down, how did you feel at that precise moment knowing that you really had broken ground in a way that no one really thought was possible that long ago? Yes. Paul, you're so right about that. I mean, two women calling NFL football is just something that even at the time that Amazon approached me, I was shocked. That they wanted to do that. Now, they said they wanted to do that with myself and Andrea Kramer. And specifically. And they also said they wanted us to do an entire season. And what was really special about that was that we didn't just do one game. I actually did four seasons of Thursday Night Football. At Amazon with Andrea. And that was sustainable. Now that Amazon is the sole holder of Thursday Night Football, obviously they've found a different play by play and analyst combination to carry that forward. But the fact that we did that for four years and that it wasn't just sort of a one off and it wasn't a gimmick. I really hope that in the future some other network somewhere says, hey, they were able to do that. They put forth a great product, it was really, really well received by Amazon subscribers. And that's why we were able to do it. We signed contract every year to do that. So I do think that was important. It was, it was more than a moment. I'm not sure if it was perceived as more than a moment, but it's important to recognize that it was more than a moment that it was four seasons. And I really hope it's something that we see down the road. Is women with opportunity to call men's sports as well as women's sports. And I guess growing up in a sports household, I never felt like I never felt like sports was some kind of foreign language that only men could speak. I always felt like I belong there and I think that's a great legacy that I have growing up with my father and my mom, frankly, who was a college basketball player, one of the very few back in the day. And I just, I hope that continues. I think NIL is going to provide a good opportunity, some opportunities for women at the collegiate level. As well. But that could be something that we're going to see directly opposed to title 9. I mean, there's some people that worry that schools who get opportunities for men. And NIL, they're going to be it's going to be incumbent on them to do the same for women. And then we're going to see that sort of be the next frontier and how far reaching title 9 is. There's just a lot of things down the road. As college sports changes and professional sports changes and broadcasting itself changes on there are a lot of things down the road that are going to be tested to see just how truly ingrained we are with the notion of women being on equal footing with men in the sports space. And many, many, many thanks for helping us kick off this all day celebration. It's just a thrill to talk to you again. And I do hope to see you very soon. Well, Paul, again, I just want to thank you for I mean, arch Manning, committing to Texas. Things like that that are huge news in our sports world. And again, just the fact that you are interested, the fact that you're celebrating this, the fact that you took it upon yourself to make this a major part of your show today. That's the kind of commitment that we need in order to achieve true equality. There's people like you talking about issues like this. So I just want to thank you. Thank you, Hannah. See you soon. Thanks so much. Hi, Paul. Bye bye. Great to talk to you. Hannah storm, joining us. And we will talk to a number of other very important leaders in this, let's just get right to today's guests without further ado. We'll talk to Don la pione, who also has played a huge role to make a catch, and you'll see a lot to make a later on. And Ashley Woods will join us as well. We will talk about the arch Manning situation that broke a couple of hours ago. His commitment to the University of Texas over Georgia and Alabama. We'll talk about that and your phone calls right here. Geico asks how would you love a chance to save some money on car insurance? Of course he.
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"ashley wood" Discussed on The Paul Finebaum Show
"It is great to have all of you with us, and we thought we would go back to one of our friends, so we've had occasion to visit with Ashley Woods as sports editor of the crimson and white in Tuscaloosa, where there was probably some anticipation, maybe it's been some trepidation hitting it Saturday, but no more, the tide back at number one and getting ready for the CFP. Ashley, great to have you back. How are you? And how's everything on the campus in Tuscaloosa? Hi, Paul. I'm glad to be back. Thank you again. I'm doing well today. And the vibe on campus is a lot better than it was a week ago. I can tell you that for sure. Everyone now believe everyone now is proclaiming to have known that Alabama would win this game, although I didn't hear much of that going into it. And I've been to Alabama three or four times in the past few weeks, and everywhere I went, somebody would say, do you think do you think we have a chance? And what did you sense going in and we all know what people are saying now, but was there really much of a level of confidence going in from just the people that you talk to? You know, go like the couple days after all Bernie, there wasn't really a lot of confidence, especially since we had a somewhat inferior defensive line kind of run over us. The require, but as the kind of the days we're on, a lot of you will start to gain more confidence. One of my writers here on Twitter was like, I get myself that Alban was going to figure out a way to beat Georgia. I think as the week wore on and we saw that people started to want to George. I think the kind of grew. And that was kind of how I felt last Tuesday at this point. I really wasn't sure. If we could pull it out, I knew I thought personally was going to be a closer game than it wound up being. I didn't think Georgia was going to put a like 40 against does. I didn't think it was going to be an absolute blowout on either side, quite honestly, I thought it was going to be a low score and defensive battle and it would come down to turnovers and who would protect the ball a little bit more. But as the week we're on, I got a little bit more confident in the team. I just seen it happen. It was kind of like, oh, yeah. I never got Alabama ever again. I think that's where we all are now, actually, and you don't want to abandon Nick Saban for long. And I have to believe that I know the answer to this next question. What's the level of confidence that Alabama is going to rack up another national title? Yeah, I think a lot of you are very confident now. Now that we beat the number one team in the country, pretty handily. I think that a lot of people are very confident that we can make another national title on push. Even when an addie, a lot of people said that this is going to get down here and somehow in a value, we repeat as SEC champions and beat the top team in the country with relative ease, honestly, so I think the confidence level going into Cincinnati and even if we make the natty, it's very high right now on campus. Ashley, every time I'm in Tuscaloosa I somewhat marvel at the students who are there now. And we had this conversation once, maybe off the air. But every student maybe during their college career, has that big win over someone, but you guys are making it ridiculous. What's it like to be a student now in this age of Nick Saban? It's kind of crazy. You know, my dad was a big Alabama fan growing up. So I kind of watched it from afar, but being on campus is a much different experience of it seems like every year we're either making it to the playoffs or we're finding a way to get into postseason playing. We have a really big win or a really big game. I remember my sophomore year actually it was in 2019. It was LSU. And even though we lost that game, that big game feel being in Tuscaloosa and everybody is just like, yeah, this is going to be a great game. It's absolutely unreal, being on campus has seen this because you get to see so many big matchups and as a college football fan it's absolutely fun to see. I say this tongue in cheek, Ashley, but you do realize between 19 92 and 2009 had you been a student at the university of Alabama. You would have been deprived of one that you wouldn't have had a national championship. A lot of those years, especially I think O two to O 7, you wouldn't have even beaten auburn. Can you imagine a time? Well, I am an evil fan. So we go through we went through a very long title drought before 2017. So I kind of know what it feels like on the pro side of, but I've been imagined. Thank God I was born in 2000. Alabama. Yeah, I know a lot of your colleagues and your friends on campus and I've gotten to see them through our many visits this year to Tuscaloosa. And I wouldn't speak for you because there's no way you can appreciate something when you're when your whole career has revolved around either playing in big games where the president shows up and half the world or playing for national championships. But in terms of Nick Saban, I mean, I know how most fans look at him..
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"ashley wood" Discussed on The Paul Finebaum Show
"Pride passion and pageantry of college football lives here. This is the qualifying bomb show hour two podcast. Hey, welcome back. It is December 7th. And if you're around 80 years ago, it's a day that will forever live in infamy. Good afternoon. Welcome to the program on this Tuesday afternoon. We hope to keep you company for the next couple of hours, your phone calls and many, many guests will be joining us, but we have some news to share with you. There we go. The all SEC team first team offense is being presented to you and it's very young as if there is any doubt batty Robinson Williams, Burke's Bowers, yeah, we heard his name a few times on Saturday. Canard, Neil, green, cross, fortner. A pretty attractive first team offense. You ready for the defense? I am. It looks pretty familiar. A lot of dogs on there, Jordan Davis. Certainly a Wyatt couple a and M players, dean, from UGA Clark from LSU, a query battle, foster Brown, rata and Jones. So certainly the season of awards has begun with the awards show, of course, two days away. The finalists were announced, young, of course, CJ Stroud, Pickett, Hutchinson, a lot of people wondering where it was will Anderson junior back wonder the same thing for Heisman voter you have to look beyond box scores. I did that. And while we're prohibited from telling people who we voted for, I can't tell you I voted for will Anderson's second. Oh, I'm sorry. I shouldn't have done that. Take that back, scrub it. He did win the national defensive player of the year award. And finally, tomorrow, in Tuscaloosa, a lot of his friends and colleagues will gather to celebrate the life. Of Cecil hurt. The ceremony, the memorial service, will be held at one o'clock p.m.. And this is the special edition of the Tuscaloosa news that came out Sunday. How about that? I don't know if I've ever seen a newspaper put out a special edition commemorating one of its own. But Cecil hurt was a first trail visor and he certainly will be memorialized tomorrow in Tuscaloosa and we will always be thinking of him here on this program. Let's get to some phone calls and some guests and L Dunkin joins us in a few minutes. She's a pretty famous dog. About Ashley Woods from Tuscaloosa, always great to catch up with her. Nicole and Jordan Rogers breaking down what happens Saturday? And what must change? For the dogs, your phone calls at 8 5 5 T four two 7 two 8 5 and let's begin with Dominic Jacksonville. What I call your Friday I was all hyped up like I was right now. I do remember that Dominic. What happened though? The phony dogs like my boy legend was talking about. LA, Paul, I'm gonna be honest, George and we meet up again and I'm beyond it. And we don't play the way we pray to give door to get sick that I think we may in trouble. The four keys in a playoff and win it Paul easily. But I'm gonna tell you this father. We make it, and I believe we play, I think we're gonna play Michigan and we do got a Michigan on big Georgia. Georgie do not want to see us fall in a second day, got us old and was being a weak point all year long. Like I've been telling the whole thing. It's been curb your head and can not be can not be fixed. He's in his own way with quarterback, like you mentioned yesterday, Paul. And are your boy, mister mister Griffin, kind of ran around all the questions that you did yesterday. Jay sheets that defend a short midget like legislation can not be the fall you know and I know it. If the damn road time Paul George will never beat up the curves why are you two things done to change the quarterback? What do you think about that Paul? I ain't done. And I want to give a shout out to my boy jail for Tesla lusa all the two Alabama fans out there. We go on to number 19 out. Bob is in New York. Bob thanks. Good afternoon. Paul, how are you doing today? We're doing great. Thank you, bob. Yeah, I tell you what, last Friday show. The lineup of guests was unbelievable. That was like the Super Bowl of shows. I mean, you must have really self that that was that was just so cool. I was just so into it. It was just glued to the set. Thanks, 7. And then the big game. And I knew Alabama was going to do it. They just look at their roster. Everybody from across the country, it's a big deal. You know, I'm an Aggie fan, but I definitely love the show. Love that ten one of those next year. And my one question is, we love coach O. What's going to happen to Coachella? I mean, is he going to get a shot somewhere like a Louisiana or a UL Monroe or have to come back up the ladder? Yeah, bob, I think he will. He indicated he wants to take some time off. I've never been given how much did he get to go up to leave 15, $20 million, 18 million. I mean, what would you do if somebody handed you a check for 18 million? Would you work the next day? No. I'm thinking about not working anyway. For nothing. Well, you're a busy guy and I think you like the work where you're traveling to all your stuff. So there you go. But back to your question. I think there'll be an opening and there is an opening right now at Louisiana. With nature leaving, I would offer it to augeron. Oh, they already hired somebody? Fuck. Fire them. They make way for roger. Yeah, they moved up their number two guys. So that's what I think a job like that. I mean, somewhere comfortable, somewhere nearby, mcneese, school, he's familiar with somewhere down there that makes a coaching change in a year or two. I think it would be perfect for that. Will is in North Carolina. Hey, well, good afternoon. Good afternoon, Paul. Speaking of the coaching care, I called you a month or two ago after football last Charlotte and asked you if you've seen David cook cliff surviving the year and past week or two, he got the hacks. And I'm a fantasy fan. I really like them. To see him getting back into the offensive coordinator role somewhere else or is this going to talk to Dave on a while? I would think he may want to rest. I mean, he's, I don't know, I would think he'll come back. Somebody recommend that somebody suggested to me an LSU fan or somebody that a coach would be very smart to hire him as an analyst or a coordinator and make sure you got arch Manning. But I doubt David has done, but sometimes when you have a run like he did, you do want to take a little time off and figure out what's next. Thank you for the call. Appreciate it very much. John is in Murfreesboro and you're on the air. Hello, John. Hey, Paul, good afternoon. Thank you. I don't know if you remember me calling in on Thursday by asking you how ironic it would be if Georgia was trailing to Alabama and Kirby smart would replace this and then with JT Daniels..
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"ashley wood" Discussed on Your Own Magic
"It feels like we're starting from scratch or not. We aren't but it like it basically feels like we built a house with twenty rooms and were squatting in the living room like there's so much room to grow but it's just like overwhelming and then as i was driving i looked up at such ball. Beagles flying overhead in the middle of the city again. It was at what was the time. It was at like two seventeen and looked at my dashboard. And i had seven hundred and seventeen kilometers story. Canadian left to get a gas and then the temperature outside was seventy just saddens everywhere which is such a moment. And i'm like maybe the eagles are my animal. I don't know but there were at least one. They're definitely recommend with you. Let alone bald eagle. Those are rare to yeah so Fact that into in the city and just stared at you. Are you getting that does. Does that happen. Okay well divine. I bet that they are probably higher. maybe higher dimensional beings or something. You know how i guess. Dolphins are higher yes. Dimensional yeah equals are two man. I used to really really think for sure was a elephant were dolphin and now actually really really really tapped into the lion or the lioness. I can see that fierce transformation. I've been transforming a lot and there's been more than me. I was very in my cancer space for a bit and lately there's been a lot of fire and i like. Yeah your favorite place. On mama earth there are so many. I love the mediterranean. Allot greece and love greece. I am gonna say greece. I love california. But i think anywhere along the mediterranean like i just yes spain greece and italy. But i wanna go this summer. Where i guess. It's october summer twenty I'm just so so-called to european countries right now and i've been to europe lexi that or five six times and i'm just so called to european countries. Either i and i'm sure you've had minimalized over in those lands. You've been a greek princess. Don't know i don't have astro. I don't have any astro lines through greece. They're all in in european countries. They're in nordic countries like in finland and copenhagen or denmark copenhagen and norway and i think that's maybe why i live in such a cold place now. I don't know when you said that. I don't know why but i just had this feeling that i knew each other in denmark or something. We probably did that chest that. Yeah that's that's the line she's open yet. What books are you reading if any yeah. I'm reading what is it called. Christmas shopaholic by sophie. Kinsella came out two days ago. I read very very late. I don't read spiritual type books. I read i. I know you're not into the word balanced but enters timeout like flexibility. And just keep myself sane and also ground dead because i do consume so much spirituality all day long reading and listening and just drawn to that obviously but at night for whatever reason i want something that is just going to be late and yeah yeah that's i don't really watch a lot of drama of tv shows or something they're like. Yeah i like it. Lights i just read another civic zelba. Her other one that can. I don't know when it came out that her second. Us one called iou. And i was laughing so hard in bed. It was so funny and the main character. I'm like oh girl you have no self worth that. I felt so bad for her. It just it. This is so funny lighthearted and if anyone wants a good affleck yeah no. The universe gave you billboards at absolutely no cost whatsoever. So is his offer you to share just one message across the main highway in major cities all around the world. What would your billboards read. You are your own healer. You are your own teacher. You are your own guide. Book within mute out the rest and then and then this is last question you may or may not know it. S called the guests. How would you advise your own magic listeners. To create their own magic. I listened to your show. And i should be prepared. Go look there. What i believe. Create own magic by activating your line and following the guidance that comes through. Obviously truly you will find you found your magic activating ballet. You actually found your soul as mission. Yes and it's so important to say that our purpose is not our job. That's so north american to think that our purposes our job. But when i've been in the records for other people and they come with what's purpose. What job do i do. I wanna to about career. They say your purpose is something you wake up with and carry with you. So it's how you order coffee. It's how you get groceries. It's how you deal with someone on the phone.
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"ashley wood" Discussed on Your Own Magic
"Going in the right direction. They're like why. Can't i just do it. Why can't i. let's say expand my fresh world. It is about being in the middle space where you are an accepting where you are and learning where you are and being able to comfortably be there no matter what you feel. That's fine without judgment being where you are that expands you then without judgment. It keeps going without judgment. It keeps going and you'll notice that your experiences in life begin to flow with this extension of this road where you'll have like a really really really high point like i can't believe that i'm here. It's amazing and then maybe a couple of months later you'll notice that the exact same frequency on a different scale is coming in to your life to track. Are you at that middle space. There is no judgment. The universe is not testing you to see if you pass or fail or sitting at a desk like marking. You're anything this is all energy and energy can only move or it can fit. And so there's no there's no judgment at all. There's no like i didn't pass this. I can't keep moving. It can only move where it fits. And that's where this meter comes in. It just is now. I love that you recently had this download. Yes and most most of it came together recently. Like bill line came through my readings at the very beginning. When i first started with the accustomed records i didn't understand it but back in december they were. I couldn't figure it out. But i was saying to my husband like is it like the hotline. Like what is this. there's this line. The hotline like i was just not piecing together yet has summer. It was like i was in the shower one day. Which is where. I do. My line activation. I used to open my akasha records or try to like intentionally connect to the cussin' fields. Which i now know that realm and it just came through. It's like allama thin. Rebrand your business change everything. We wrote all of our workshops. It's like do everything. And then the threshold came through and then the middle space came through it just all it was like it was insane and at the same time are personalized. We were dealing with a lot of family difficulty. And our personal lives were if felt like trauma on the traumas. Of course it's completely personal but it was interesting that what was happening in terms of how we would work and live and share. It was at rushmore begun. The kit was interesting interesting. How that does happen. There might be one area in life that just feels like such a high wall. Another area is a little at a low but it's part of the experience because imagine having all highs all the time just imagine that it would about them. No it wouldn't be a anymore. No and i look back to like having a daughter. High was pardoned depression. Low receiving this information about the podcast high. They get just like if you look at your life. You can almost chart it always. That's so true. I mean that's everyone's as well and even when you are let's say have in a long period of low. There are some moments in there that you can see pocketed also vice versa. Yes yeah do you happen to have any journaling. Prompts that people can write down to help them activate as well. they're line or just connect more deeply with the space yes. I'm going to bring something up that i wrote yesterday. So it's i wouldn't have my phone right beside me. But obviously i needed to do so. It keeps channeling through that. Come twenty twenty. We can no longer hide from ourselves. We cannot if there's something that is within us that we are trying to be something else or where whatever this means to you. It diverges keeps coming or the the line just keeps coming out. You can no longer hide from yourself because our energies evolving. we're entering into a new decade. I think of it as like panoramic vision like seeing twenty twenty and we have to. If we want to be a part of that we need to step into our full fantastic selves. We can do that bike sharing the line because we can understand souls purpose. Our lessons are gifts and all these messages. That are coming through and so I put this on instagram yesterday. So that's why it's like top of mind and mine able to quickly answer. Yes journal This it's about twenty twenty and it's about how you are heading from yourself or how you are not and so Do a line activation which you can learn to do.
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"ashley wood" Discussed on Your Own Magic
"I happen to in colorado. We are communicating and to know that the pinnacle and other entities. I mean they are so far evolved that they're able to telepathically deliver all these messages. And that's something that we do. We do have the ability to access as long as we continue to want to not evolve. Like because i'm a spiritual being a human experience but like no. Actually of all in our spirituality have the experiences so we really can't continue to find more information understand this experience even more exactly exactly exactly and you and i were totally brought together. Because i remember when i listen to your podcast the i like the very beginning like when it first came out i was driving. And as i'm gonna talk to that girl one day raquel. And i always said i remember. I sent you a couple of emails. Like i just really want to be on your show. 'cause i wanna talk to you and then you didn't get my emails but then you reach technique. And unlike i the way. I see time as we see time receive selves age. We see the sun. Come up we see it. Go down like we see time as linear on the physical and that's how it is but Every other dimension like outside of the physical happy at the same time and right now. I like completely experiencing hearing your podcast for the first time driving down the road that i was driving. Like i'm gonna talk like rwanda like this was happening at that. Yes i wish you could see. But i have my hands cute. Gosh so okay to activate this line now curious if there's something to give.
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"ashley wood" Discussed on Your Own Magic
"We have this line. That's running through our bodies it connects up to the universe runs down through our bodies the central on of our bodies and 'attaches or connected to the earth beneath our feet and we're receiving messages from this line. Twenty four seven all the time every single second of every single day because it detaches up to the highest realm where are accustomed records are which if anyone does know is a metaphysical library of your entire soul's existence everything that's happened to you with you. Anything you have felt anything is in the records and this line is attached to that realm and so from the moment we take our first breath receiving information and you can call it downloads. Ping's guidance in her thought inner knowing gut feeling. You can call it anything you want. It's all language at the end of the day. But we're receiving that twenty four seven and so the way that we teach this now. In the way that i teach records is there are two ways to access them and one is the alike. The ritual dial up internet word of the prayer and like the whole like the older way of doing it which absolutely works. Not how you do it for somebody else but if you want to tune in for yourself that line gives you everything that you need. You don't need the prayer. You don't need the whole The rich won't you just need that intention. We teach a line activation which is simple easy breath work and movement that activates opens that line. Which is the files of all these messages that you can begin receiving them and receive this guidance from your higher self his highest realm. That really is just rooting. You on and so. That's how we teach the records now which is very different than other accustomed record readers and people who talk about them and teach them reteach them in two different ways one. That's like five g. high pace easy to access. Everyone can do it and the other is the older way which is really wonderful beautiful. They're equally powerful one way you can use them to read further people and to explore the history of other people and support them in that way but if you want for yourself you have it in you every single person. This has it
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Accessing Your Akashic Records & Your Line Within With Ashley Woods
"We have this line. That's running through our bodies it connects up to the universe runs down through our bodies the central on of our bodies and 'attaches or connected to the earth beneath our feet and we're receiving messages from this line. Twenty four seven all the time every single second of every single day because it detaches up to the highest realm where are accustomed records are which if anyone does know is a metaphysical library of your entire soul's existence everything that's happened to you with you. Anything you have felt anything is in the records and this line is attached to that realm and so from the moment we take our first breath receiving information and you can call it downloads. Ping's guidance in her thought inner knowing gut feeling. You can call it anything you want. It's all language at the end of the day. But we're receiving that twenty four seven and so the way that we teach this now. In the way that i teach records is there are two ways to access them and one is the alike. The ritual dial up internet word of the prayer and like the whole like the older way of doing it which absolutely works. Not how you do it for somebody else but if you want to tune in for yourself that line gives you everything that you need. You don't need the prayer. You don't need the whole The rich won't you just need that intention. We teach a line activation which is simple easy breath work and movement that activates opens that line. Which is the files of all these messages that you can begin receiving them and receive this guidance from your higher self his highest realm. That really is just rooting. You on and so. That's how we teach the records now which is very different than other accustomed record readers and people who talk about them and teach them reteach them in two different ways one. That's like five g. high pace easy to access. Everyone can do it and the other is the older way which is really wonderful beautiful. They're equally powerful one way you can use them to read further people and to explore the history of other people and support them in that way but if you want for yourself you have it in you every single person. This has it
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"ashley wood" Discussed on Your Own Magic
"Yeah i don't believe in the right balance but it is all Its intention and if you're like with the whole term orthodoxy has a thing for a reason if you're eating all organic can vegan and everything because you feel like you have to but the energy you're bringing a distressing you out an affecting your mental health and there's really no point doing because you're not sick anyway amen. Exactly and a lot of people don't really vibe with the word balance which doesn't make sense. I'm curious why you don't because my channeling will like when i was doing readings for clients i still do do them much less. This happened in the past. They've mainly talked about it when it comes to relationships in they describe a relationship like a healthy relationship as ship on water. And sometimes the water is rocky. And it's going back and forth and you're gonna slide to the other person on the other principal slides you and like you're going to constantly be helping each other up and it's never ever perfect like a relationship is never perfect and i think about that in life to as life is never at a perfect balance because energy is constantly moving so constantly being thrown into a new direction of having to find our feet or find are like fine. Fine dr. comfort. I guess and if you're moving with the energy and if you're not you're completely out of balance because you're not pushing yourself you're not enjoying the opportunities that come your way so i don't believe in balance. I just believe in flexibility in awareness in like being able to move along. I love that just being flexible being now. My daughter is a libra and she at three already wants things like just so really at three. Ya not her moon in rising. Gosh i do have written down. Always forget she is a capricorn moon. Eleo rising arrive seeing you to really. That's i think you told me that you are you. I am leo. Son leo moon. I don't dangerous. And that's the glam heckling but i go. I go through my moods either. Like all natural nothing or go all. Yeah right now. It's an all in season for a reason. So and then i'm a cancer rising. The gentle side definitely comes. I love it a. Yeah thanks well. Shall we ground bit. And then yeah. Let's do. It dare guides angels by guidance. Thank you so much. So so much for this connection this moment with ashley as you know. I've been really excited to connect with her. Just soak in her wisdom in everything that she has to offer may use us both as a vessel to deliver whatever message believable best benefit the listeners. Or help shift the consciousness of whoever's listening and even ourselves as well and may we be connected and present allowing our egos to take a backseat as we just allow whatever cosmic tryst to unfold and also please bless. The tech is very smooth. That's so beautiful. i love that. Thank you for sharing that and do start all of your interviews. That way some of them. It depends on if. I know that they are somebody that is open to that or not. If i may question i would rather just start the interview without throwing them off at all. Even though i'm sure most everybody that isn't viewed would be super open to it. But i just if i'm uncertain i would just rather do it before by myself. And then just so. They can feel comfortable and at ease through the interview. If i know somebody that one hundred percents connects to their guys in there so open to that. Yes because it really shifts. There's something about me doing it with you. That just still powerful. I just feel so much love for you right now. I just you just want to hug. We're doing this video. Yeah it's nice i like. I think i'm gonna start doing it on my show. I always do audio only and it's just really nice to be able to see somebody riots. I always do audio only two. But lately i've just been doing video in it. There's a deeper connection there. Well actually i would love for everyone to hear your story your story of how you i mean. You have such a strong intuitive gift. That i would love for you share and also what led you to dedicating your life to all this Akasha records in helping people just really to in and the line share so it goes back to birth. When i was born. I was born with the ability to easily connect to the other dimensions. That our souls existence. I was born easily being able to easily tap into those other dimensions. Don't call it the other side. Because i do believe that there are many sides and if you think of like a pie or pizza or something. We are existing in one slice and our soul is like physical is one slice and our energy is in all the other slices and there's all these other dimensions some our past lives. Some are some are future lives possibilities. Some are just many different realms. I don't even know them. All i was born. I was very sensitive as a child and i am very grateful that i had the grandmother that i did. I mean i had a mom and dad as well but now my grandma was also very sensitive in. She read tarot. She had crystals she read. T leads she read ponds and the way. She explained it to me of what she was doing. She said this is how god works through me. So i didn't see it as anything other than god working through her and believing that anytime i had some kind of. Let's say like magic happened. God working through me and she was a woman of the church and whatnot and that's why she used the language that she did but she also had people who came to her house. She would read their palms and give them readings so i grew up with sick. I was at her house all the time. And i'd be playing with her crystals time in her. Terror will the time. I remember when i was twenty one i think returning to. I can't even remember hotline. Was i went on my overseas trip. And it was the first time i had left. May family for a long like an extended period of time and she gave me a reading before and this was part of my growing up of like. I'm going away. i need a reading like. Is there anything. I need to be cautious out of. And of course everything she shared with me was like bang on at half exactly as she said so i was just. I'm very grateful that i grew up with someone like that in my life to be able to be a mentor to the end to talk to me about what all of this isn't so when i was nineteen years old when i realized that i have different abilities said even her because we all have ways of communicating of opening up of receiving and i had a dream when i was nineteen when i was walking down a street in my parents town like my my hometown And i was walking down the sidewalk and everything around like technicolor. Like it was kinda like the wizard of oz like really really really bright colors. I still remember the stream. Perfectly annette visited places like this again. In rendering sense i remember the colors and this man was walking with me and there was also a bumble bee in the bumblebees flying around. And he said. Don't swat at it. If you do or like push it away you have to leave this place. It was kind of like the distraction that i had to that i had to focus past it and he said to me june fourth nineteen forty to tell her. I'm sorry and then. I woke up. And i knew to read the day down. I like woke up. Like wow. I traveled somewhere like that was crazy. I need to do something with that. Siro the day down. I don't know if i went back to sleep or not long time ago. But the next day i went to my brother's house and i told her about this dream and she got very emotional and she told me that that was the date of her father's funeral and that her brother had taken everything from her that day that was left to her in the will so in my dream i had traveled. Suid dimension.
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"ashley wood" Discussed on The Mom Room
"You've done this for yourself so i've walked this journey with you but it's like self-discovery so i don't feel a lot of pressure weight on my heart to help solve people's problems because our work together allows them to find those solutions themselves in that is like it's such a. I know this may be corny. But like it's such a special thing to see keyboarding would have. Yeah it's so rewarding. And i think anytime i do feel a little bit triggered like yeah but i look at my life now and who i am now on the self-awareness that i have a van. Lay all these positive experiences in everyone else can have the same. Have the same outcomes. So that's kind of what keeps me check. Yeah for sure. I love that. Well this is going to be such a good episode for people like especially with divorce rates. You would think that this would be talked about a lot more so i'm really happy that you said like this coaching like. It's all starting to become more popular in canada because like people need it. Oh my goodness so. Thank so much for talking with me. It's nice to finally meet you. Where are you located. So now in beams. Bill but i did live in sudbury at one point two. Because you're from area there. Where's beams Gta it's seville forty five minutes from toronto. it's outside of hamilton. Okay that way okay. A hammer okay. Awesome well it was nice to meet you. Nice to meet you too. Thanks again. Renee s.
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"ashley wood" Discussed on The Mom Room
"So lastly thought you could tell us where people can find you and also what you have planned for your platforms and a little bit about the service that you provide like with coaching. I have a website that is in the work in saying that for a long time. But it's just as ernest Its allies has a lot. So in the meantime i have a pretty thorough link tree so people can find me on instagram or on facebook at the conscious co parents and if you click that link in my bio you can book a thirty minute complimentary consultation. So i don't charge because a wanted to be a time for you to explain your situation and for us to both make sure that we are the rate for each other and that i can help you reach whatever goals you have network good match also on talk in clubhouse like all of the things so all of that is in my. All of that is in my late traffic. I have a podcast as well. And i co host with a dear friend of mine colleague jennifer standards. She's a family law mediator. We've had some great gas on recently. We've got some more great guests coming on over the summer links to that are in my bio as well. It's called split the after ever after podcast and also working on it's almost done an e book which is going to be a survival guide for high conflict co-parenting bouma god. That is amazing. Yeah it will be once it's done. I'm not giving date. Because yeah i wen- did you start that. I started out a bow three weeks ago. And then they changed some might branding and like colors and stuff. So i've just reediting at now for like the third time. So is that going to be available through amazon. Or how does that work is. This gonna be another free resource so it's going to be between like probably about ten pages long so it will be a free resource side you can click through and you make your email.
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"ashley wood" Discussed on The Mom Room
"Still have your needs met. You can still protect your children. You can still thrive beyond that so some examples of this would be okay. How are you going to communicate if texting to reactionary. then you shouldn't be texting and that doesn't mean that you're not going to be able to text in the future and won't be able to send each other pictures in the future. hopefully you will but right now it. It opens the door for conflict. And so again. When you're setting that boundary. Like i had a client a couple of weeks ago and she was like you know told him don't tax me late at night about non child-related matters. He still does that. So awake he doesn't respect my boundaries. Okay well you don't want to engage late at night or via tax. You only want to do email. So maybe you need to only use like a co-parenting apps that has some restrictions may need to block on the phone unless it's an emergency and just not reply and only use email like just because they're doing x. y. Like that doesn't mean you need to show up for the fight doesn't mean you need to respond. You can respect yourself respect your own boundaries by just following what you're going to do and continuing to be respectful regardless of what the other party is doing. There's also biff. I don't know if you've heard of that. It's like a conflict management to also. I didn't create this. It's bill eddie. Who's a an attorney and basically it stands for keep your responses brief informative friendly and firm so that's a really good tool to use basically want to strip as much emotion out of your communication as possible and be fact based an a great way to do that is to use like factual information. So if you do want to address something like bedtime or eating habits like something that is not that you can't hold them too because it's not a legal issue but you see that it's impacting your child. You can approach like hey..
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"ashley wood" Discussed on The Mom Room
"So you're not communicating. You're not getting sent pictures and like updates. Like i'm imagined that is incredibly difficult. It's so difficult. It's so painful. And i mean a lot of clients. Were report this to me. And this is something i experienced myself as much as there was animosity between my accent i and they're typically as. I still craved that communication. Like i wanted that so bad. They wanted to know what was going on. I wanted to know like did she now for the full two hours like did she breakfast. And did you cut the christoph because you really hates christ and all these things. It's so hard to let go. That's one of the most difficult pieces to s. And that's why it's really helpful to have a good support system in place and like a lot of again i'm generalizing but a lot of moms are really fearful. Because they've done most of the child rearing and if the other person wasn't you're involved it's like how are they going to. How are they going to do all those things and again if like safety is actual is there actual safety concerns then. Go to an attorney consultant attorney. Make sure that your child is safe. But in most cases the other parent will rise to the occasion. And that's can be hard to accept especially if you're like. Oh well now here. She does this but they would have. Never done that before. And it kind of goes back to like okay. Another typesetting for you but what is best for your kid. How do you want them to look back on their childhood. Like you really need to be focused on that. So yeah that can be definitely challenging. Another thing i was going to say as well just about kids kind of getting used to these different transitions. They are expected to behave in a certain way. That is different in all sorts of situations. So like i follow your stories ally. And i know even in your a couple podcasts episodes. You talked about lake daycare reports that kid..
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"ashley wood" Discussed on The Mom Room
"Be. Divided are their debts that need to be looked after. Will you have to go back to work or will you have to get another job. What role your former partners. Life look like. How will this affect the kids. Will you need to put them into another school like their so much taken center and i think that sometimes again i'm gonna generalize but women will spend a lot of time focusing on. Should they stay or should they go. They get to the point. Where like okay. We've done marital counseling. I've got some individual therapy that i've done. Nothing is working. We gotta end the s. And then they feel solid in that but they don't actually they haven't taken the time to think about all these other things so number two then would be to do a legal consultation and when i say. This decline insert usually quick to. I don't wanna lawyer up. Like i wanna do mediation or collaborate or i think we can even do a parenting plan. Just the two of us fantastic. There's anyone who's going to push you know mediation and trying to do things. Collaboratively is your girl over here but doing the consultation does not mean that you're lawyering up you been most cases don't even have to retain a lawyer. It's just going to get legal information because the more you know the more you can shine away on the dark road ahead is like let's get real. I don't know anyone who gets married. And then before they get married like think about okay. Well if this doesn't work out. What do i need to know like. There's no conflict when you get married to this okay. When i remember like me and my friends we had all like we were all starting to get engaged. And i'm like you. I'm very type a. Like research the shit out of everything. And i remember. We were sitting there one night when got candies. And we're like watching that flex documentaries and then we started having this big conversation about will holy shit like what does getting married actually mean..
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"ashley wood" Discussed on The Mom Room
"When you were going through a separation and it was a super difficult time. How did you even know to look up like someone that could help like. Did you just google it. Did someone tell you about it. Because i don't think that like someone to help. Guide both parties and co-parenting and through a separation. I don't know if people know that that exists. So how did you find that. Coaching is still fairly new. And it's i think it's more well known in the states then. Canada has still kind of growing in canada. I had a referral to this particular from a therapist that we had tried to use marital counseling. And then i wanted to continue that person but it would have been a conflict because we had use them jointly. So i wanted someone separate and this particular therapist like i said she's a therapist but she's also kind of like a co-parenting coach and then i just googled after that experience like more about coaching. And because i had seen There's another woman. Michelle dempsey online. Yeah she's big. In in that end so i had seen her name as well and i just thought like what is this like a coach. What do they do. And then when you quit google search. It's all about developing resiliency and how to regain some confidence in someone to kinda like fill in the blanks between your therapist. Your attorney the mediator. The realtor someone to kinda help hold your hand through all the rough spots and so do you have to get your partner on board. Nope so someone can see them by themselves. Absolutely yeah life in most cases. If you're working with the divorce coach it will just be you. And the coach. There are some coaches who will work with both parties but the biggest thing ago at least the way that i coach people is to help people focus on what is within their control and what they can do because most often even if you're not dealing with someone who's really high conflict or has a personality disorder like if you're the one who did the leaving if you're the one who made the decision to end the relationship you're probably way further ahead in the acceptance of what has happened in. The other person is probably way more emotional day. I'm not saying they were blindsided. I'm sure they may have known that things were not good but typically when people are emotional it can be really reactive and very resistant to collaborating and working
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Co-Parenting Coaching, with Ashley Wood aka The Conscious Co-Parent
"When you were going through a separation and it was a super difficult time. How did you even know to look up like someone that could help like. Did you just google it. Did someone tell you about it. Because i don't think that like someone to help. Guide both parties and co-parenting and through a separation. I don't know if people know that that exists. So how did you find that. Coaching is still fairly new. And it's i think it's more well known in the states then. Canada has still kind of growing in canada. I had a referral to this particular from a therapist that we had tried to use marital counseling. And then i wanted to continue that person but it would have been a conflict because we had use them jointly. So i wanted someone separate and this particular therapist like i said she's a therapist but she's also kind of like a co-parenting coach and then i just googled after that experience like more about coaching. And because i had seen There's another woman. Michelle dempsey online. Yeah she's big. In in that end so i had seen her name as well and i just thought like what is this like a coach. What do they do. And then when you quit google search. It's all about developing resiliency and how to regain some confidence in someone to kinda like fill in the blanks between your therapist. Your attorney the mediator. The realtor someone to kinda help hold your hand through all the rough spots and so do you have to get your partner on board. Nope so someone can see them by themselves. Absolutely yeah life in most cases. If you're working with the divorce coach it will just be you. And the coach. There are some coaches who will work with both parties but the biggest thing ago at least the way that i coach people is to help people focus on what is within their control and what they can do because most often even if you're not dealing with someone who's really high conflict or has a personality disorder like if you're the one who did the leaving if you're the one who made the decision to end the relationship you're probably way further ahead in the acceptance of what has happened in. The other person is probably way more emotional day. I'm not saying they were blindsided. I'm sure they may have known that things were not good but typically when people are emotional it can be really reactive and very resistant to collaborating and working
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"ashley wood" Discussed on The Mom Room
"If you know someone who is going through a separation or someone who is struggling with co-parenting they should definitely listen. And then also follow ashley on instagram. And take talk because she gives great resources so with that being said please everybody. Welcome ashley would to the mom room. Today i'm talking with ashley would and she created the conscious which is the worst word for me to say. Conscience co parent yes. I've been following you for a while on until talk. Obviously that's where i kinda was introduced to you. So today we are talking about divorce and separation and also co-parenting which is such an important topic. And i feel like people. Don't talk about it much. And so people are kind of left to navigate it on their own. Which is why. I love your platform. Because it's so nisha and it's focused exactly on this topic so yeah i thought to start. You could just tell us about yourself your story and why and when you started doing all the conscious co parent stuff Thank you for having me on. I was very very excited and fan girling when you slid into my dance and asked me to be on here so thank you. This is great. So i'm a certified divorce transition and recovery coach so i work with mostly parents but i really specialize in. I love working with moms in particular women who are thinking about leaving their marriage or already have and they are most concerned about wanting to raise happy thriving children and they're concerned about being able to do that because they're really overwhelmed with this huge transition. They're worried that it's going to completely f. up their kids and they're gonna ruin their children's lives but they also know that they can't stand the relationship because there's so much conflict so they feel really stuck and hopeless about the idea of co-parenting so basically i help women regain a sense of balance and control and that way they can navigate divorce with confidence and not make decisions that they may very well later regret. So that's a little bit about what i do as a coach and a found this line of work doing something else. That was another line of business for about ten years. But i went through a really really difficult separation myself and i wouldn't say that really any divorce is a grand old time but mine was really challenging. Like in the beginning our conflict was so bad we had. The police involves several times. We had to go to court for an emergency temporary order which was really upsetting difficult. We couldn't exchange our daughter just between the two of us. We had to have a third party. And i wasn't expecting not to happen and i think most people who find themselves in that situation unless there's been really extremely light domestic abuse like that. It actually is quite often that things will blow up pretty quickly and then because people weren't expecting it and they didn't prepare for worse case scenario than it's much harder to get to a place where you're than amicable co parents when things have gone off the rails so quickly so i had a therapist slash co-parenting coach helped me along the way. And i i mean. I want to acknowledge that i put in a lot of work. My former partner is put in a great deal of work. Also so i think we would.