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AEE 1203: Flying? How to Ask for a Seat Swap in English
"This is an all ears english podcast episode one thousand two hundred and three flying how to ask for a seat swap in english welcome to the all ears english podcast downloaded more than one hundred twenty three million times we believe in connection not perfection action with your american host lindsay mcmahon the english adventurer and michelle kaplan the new york radio girl coming to you from boston boston and new york city u s a and to get weekly transcripts delivered to your email inbox goto all ears english english dot com slash subscribe when you're on an airplane and you want to ask the person next to you to change age seats. What can you say find out how to do it today. Hey lindsay. How's it going <music>. Hey michelle. I'm doing pretty well. How are you. I'm good. I'm good <hes>. Are you taking any flights. In the upcoming months. Yeah probably italy. I will be flying between colorado and california because i'm going to be spending some time in california this fall and yeah and then back to boston so lots of flights lights coming up lots of light nice nice. I've taken a couple of plates this year. I don't have any coming up just yet but something happened on both of these <hes> flights that i've taken this year so far <hes> when he says yeah what what happened michelle i wanna know there was a seat change so one time i asked to switch seats with some one and the other one's on on the other time. Someone asked me to change yeah. <hes> yeah that happens sometimes right yeah have you and another time this was a while ago. Someone asked me to to change seats because they said they get sick on planes and they wanted a certain seat so you're like oh. Gosh okay yeah like a little nerve. Did they end up throwing up or something they didn't. They took some medication and they fell asleep but it was like like. I'm glad i'm in this seat but yeah and so but they were okay. Luckily yeah no that could be bad. I had flying back from japan. I think i had there was two people that were together and i was between between them and they asked me to change that was fine. Not a problem usually like to go for the aisle seat for sure. How about you do have a preference on a plane yeah <music>. I'm also the i'll see yeah yeah i wrote. I wrote window but i'm i'm an i'll see you didn't see that no actually i was. I was just talking talking about it yeah. No i've talked about it. Well yeah no. I'm also an aisle seat person. Why do you like the i'll so i can get up to use the bathroom easily and move around. I feel like when i was a kid. I used to like to sit by the window but now it's more about kidding up for the bathroom and just stretching my legs yeah yeah yeah. No i yeah i know i like. I don't want to have to wake someone up if i need to use the bathroom so i i i'm very big into the aisle seat. People like the window i think because they can look out and they can also like lean against it too late yet. Yeah exactly the worst is the middle seat of course of course <hes> guys but today we're gonna talk about. If you get on the plane and you need to change your seat to write what do you do so but before we get into that lindsey what's going on with alexa well guys we have our podcast on an alexa skill so in japan or in the u._s. If you alexa you should activate the all ears english skill well and listen over there. It's cool because you can just tell alexa open all english angela open it for you and you don't have to worry about activating a podcast or anything anything so go over and check it out activate the all ears english skill and then say alexa open all ears english or in japanese alexa all ears english whoa in i._t. That's the japanese. I think at least now she's on nice. Maybe maybe she'll just stop talking. If we just ignore her we're not here. We're ignoring her. Yeah we're ignoring. Can you hear that. Can you hear my alexa skill behind in the in the background i can't i can't it just started the podcast esta. Oh my gosh okay. Just give me a second okay. I think we're fine. We're back right okay all right. Let's get into it. Okay okay the let's get into it so why why do people change seats lindsey like why did the people said in on your to or from japan s._u. Detainees bowl sometimes sometimes people just want to sit next to their partner if they're traveling together or they prefer one of the seats in general yeah <hes> yeah exactly so you know you gotta know how to do this gracefully right i mean i think it's a really important skill because to feel like happens a lot either your asking or you're the person being asked so. We're going to know how to do this gracefully right lindsay gracefully. I love that word. That's so important completely. <hes> <hes> yeah so. I think it's okay to ask but you know you should understand that. When you ask it could like either the person could be like yeah yeah sure or it might be a little irritating to someone right that that because they might feel awkward like if they want to say no yes. It's so uncomfortable. We'll to wanna toe if you need to. If you really want to say no but you feel bad right comfortable yeah. I think it's really important you do this correctly. <hes> just could make for like especially if that person is going to sit next to you then it's a little uncomfortable and i would also be careful about what you're asking. Because we know most people like like the aisle they probably went and selected that seat online. You know what i mean if they're in the aisle seat so i. I don't know if i would ask someone to replace the aisle seat like if you know what i mean like take their on the. I think that most people like the window. I always think that i'm unique for liking the i'll. I'll have to tell us yeah. Let us know oh guys come back to our blog. Dot com slash episodes. Go to twelve o three type it in and tell us do like the aisle seat or the window seat but i think most people like the i'll most dog. That's so funny. I really think that it's the other way i seriously let us know. I'm very curious now. Yeah i got to know <hes> uh-huh so yeah because definitely i have gone online to book the i'll see and when that person said they get sick and they need that i was like man yeah yeah so all right. So what. How do you do this if you need to ask so. Let's do step so i you know you have to do the introduction and so i would say something like oh excuse me or i'm sorry to bother you. Just something simple like that. Take guys do you wanna keep getting all ears english rush and not miss any bonus episodes. We'll just hit. Subscribe on your podcast player now. If you believe that the point of learning english is to connect necked not to be perfect that's what we believe and if you believe that then you belong here so go ahead and hit subscribe now thanks guys okay and then the next step would be to ask the question right and the best phrase here guys is would you mind. Would you mind when does a super useful phrase to make a request and i think we've done other episodes michelle on. Would you mind yeah yeah yeah yeah. I think so <hes> tom would you mind switching seeds. Would you mind if we switch seed something like that. That'd be god yeah and then what comes next while <hes> if you really wanna be thorough explained the reasons so you could say something like oh my husband's sitting in that seat and i'd like to sit next to him yeah yeah i mean i think it's definitely a better reason. If you get sick back to sit next to your partner i mean people can survive if they don't sit next to their partner for you know a couple of our flight by yeah yeah and then you wait. What are they going to say and then you either thank them for switching or if they say no you just say something like oh. I understand yeah. I understand that's good yeah or that's okay no problem you know those are all good things to say when they say no right yeah <hes> what else here michelle well if you are the one saying now saying. What are you say you can say. I mean i would just say something like oh. I'm really sorry ari but and then explained the reason like oh. I'm really sorry but i'm really comfortable in the seat. I chose ed or something like that right lindsay. What what what else what would you say. Maybe have you ever had the situation. He said no. I don't think so actually but i would say i'm really sorry i'm so sorry yeah. Those are probably really pretty good. Just apologize and just explain like explain. Why maybe you get sick too right. Maybe you're digging. You do need the aisle. That would be bad. Maybe in that case maybe you could suggest that the the flight attendant ask other passengers to try to find that person also get sick. The flight attendant could ask other other passengers for a switch doesn't have to be just you that helps out right right right right. That's true yeah. I think that's a good point yeah so guys. That's basically how you do it. You know just think about being everybody. Is you know uncomfortable on the plane and realize that asking someone to move a a slightly irritating to them or not but it's worth a try. There's nothing wrong with asking yeah exactly so let's do a couple role plays here michelle. Are you ready yeah. Let's do who it all right here. We go okay so i guess you are the flight attendant right. I know i'm just a person sitting on the plane. Okay excuse me miss yes breath. Would you mind switching seats with me. My family is sitting on the other side of the aisle. So if i could get an aisle seat that would be great. I it really liked the. I'll see i really liked the aisle seat and i specifically booked online understand. Thanks anyway sorry about that. Okay okay yeah fair enough. I mean you have to speak your truth right. Yeah yeah yeah okay. How about another okay. Here's another one. I'm sorry to bother you but would you mind if we switch seats. I'm pretty tall so i could use the legroom. Oh okay okay. Thank you so much. Yeah okay uh-huh okay so yeah. It's all about how you open up the request or it's all about the language you use how polite you are right exactly like this. This is so key <unk>. You're you're just you know. Everybody just wants to get going on the plane and get to their destination. So you just want to be nice. Everybody isn't a different and move on the plane and i thought it might be fun in the future to do a follow up on just talking on planes in general right conversations. Yeah that'd be fun so so you know it's kind of an art and it has a lot to do with reading people in connection yeah. That would be a really good episode. We should totally do that. I love it yeah so let's do that in the future but guys remember you know the tone of waste matters. I've had people ask me in a rushed away to switch seats like men and and like a just it doesn't make you want to help like so don't feel bad. If you need to say no to someone you know they will understand that it is your seat yeah it. It is your seat in the end okay so i like it. I mean what's the takeaway today i mean. The point is guys here. It's it's okay if you have to ask them. Wanna change just explain <hes> be nice about it as we said before and use the right words right. These are actually making a request. These raises will serve review beyond just this scenario but it's especially important because if you're rude you have to be in their presence for another who knows how long twelve hour around the world right so just be careful how you present it people yeah. That's a good point lindsey while this has been fun and happy flying everyone yeah i just remembered. I'm flying out to denver on friday on sunday morning actually for conference so i may have to try out these phrases this weekend okay well. Let us know how it goes. Lindsey good luck all right. Take care bye all right bye. Thanks for you're listening to all ears english. If you're taking i'll this year get your estimated ban score with our two minute. Quiz go to all ears english dot com slash my eight score and if you believe in connection not perfection than hit subscribe now to make sure you don't miss anything. See you next time.
"Hi, listeners. I'm Ashley Flowers and I have a story I want to tell you. A story about five seemingly random deaths connected by a strange mystery. So gather round. And listen. Close. Hi Angela Open our professor at Mount Edith State University being of competent and sound mind. Hereby, present my findings on paper into the deaths of Gregor Siegel. Kyle Randolph Tate McCain Rio Wilton, and destiny. Wilton. Allow me to propose a question. If you were to observe the stars at night for what might you perceive? Now, I, admit this question is peculiar but one like the Phoenix has consistently revived itself over the last few millennia. Moreover, this question best serves as a heuristic to understanding the facts to follow. So, if you are determined to consider my forthcoming account, I, strongly encourage you to partake in this simple exercise. Go outside at night. And look at the sky. What do you perceive? The question is purposefully ambiguous so that responses will consistently berry. But you see in this variation were offered a glimpse at the mind. It is impossible to encapsulate the entirety of what was seen, but we can begin to describe what was perceived. and. Perception is wholly dependent on the individual. So you see we learn less of the subject, but rather more on the one who studies it Your answer could be entirely empirical. Certainly it was back. Then before man had any concept of atmosphere or space as such, the scope of your response would be refined to the senses. Perhaps the nocturnal colors called to your consciousness as they did Vincent Van Gogh one-star unite. Or perhaps, it is precisely the lack of color that struck. Your attention might have been alerted to the intensifying effect of global pollution. The world drowning in artificial light the clouds four and catering with poisonous smoke. Certainly van Gogh had little to no awareness of the Earth's rising fever. Have you gone outside and looked? Look at the stars. What do you perceive? Do you see the spiralling coalitions of chaos planets and stars scattered across the universe or do you see the tapestry of ancient legend painted history onto the heaven like the Sistine Chapel You might see the stars, the anchors that hold images to the night. But do you see the minds connect them? I. Confess my introduction has been drawn out and perplexing, but I assure you it is relevant to my report. Finally, let me address the essence of this expose. Over the past week five individuals. The same five I previously named have died in seemingly separate incidents. The police have failed to identify any of their deaths as connected. However, I. Tell You. They are more interlinked than those ancient constellations. And their manner of deaths go far beyond accidental. If. You are unfamiliar with any of these victims or the tragedies that befell them. Let me provide you the facts of each case. Gregor Sehgal. Mr Segel was a college senior of twenty two and a student enrolled in my one two intro to astronomy. He was hardly an industrious student as having failed my course once already but I, was not disposed towards him. In fact, I rather hoped he would overcome his failures and learn a sense of maturity before being released from the juvenile scene of fraternity life. His absences were frequent and unannounced as such. I was hardly disturbed when he missed my lecture on olders paradox. But when he was still missing by his mid term exams, the following day I took notice. It was not until the next morning when I was informed of the grave news. Greg Sago had passed away from an extreme overdose of opioids. He was discovered beneath an overpass on claiming street. The area is infamous for attracting needle junkies and unwanted characters. Well I do not contest the official medical report. It fails to describe the events which led Mr Segel to the scene of his death. It was a few days after hearing what had happened to take McCain that I investigated the site myself. According, to Rick, Lehman a handicapped man with one leg shopping cart full of hubcaps and minor. Ketamine he remembers seeing Mr Segel the day he died. If I am to trust this questionable source supposedly Mr Segel was showcasing signs of extreme anxiety. Mr Lehman said the young man arrived in the evening and stayed beneath the bridge the entire night. This behavior is insanely curious for fraternity student who as his peers have confided in me would only use during parties. Why might have he decided to use Ben? Was He. So impatient could not wait a minute more to sample his poison. Or was the comfort of the damn concrete as alluring as a Hilton Suite. Or did he feel pressured to cower away beneath that bridge of sticks by some overwhelming an enigmatic force? Kyle. Randolph was the second victim during that week of tragedy. I was not formally acquainted with Mr Randolph, but was familiar with his face. I often see him towing behind Gregor's stable after class as they collected into a loud group of young men. He was an offensive guardsmen for the university's football team the mount aided mountaineers. He often sported his red and Black Jersey with pride. So I suppose it is poetic that he would die in it. It was late in the day when the mountaineers were holding a training session. Mr Randolph had already endured a full day of physical exhaustion when finally he was made to do one last lap around the track. Even the cool night air could not quell a raging fire in his chest. He was less than halfway in when he began to lose control of himself. He stumbled forward onto his back. Is Wide with horror as his heart gave in? Almost immediately, paramedics were called to his aid. But nothing could be done. On paper, the circumstances around Mr. Randolph's death were averse to Mr, Sables Unlike his friend, Mr Randolph died of natural causes in a familiar environment and among dozens of his peers. Had I. put no effort into investigating these incidents. I too would have thought Mr Randolph's case was extraneous. After all Mr Randolph. Was a larger young man and his family had a long history of heart disease. Surely his health was just a winding clock ticking down to disaster. Still as young as twenty and fit to play on a university team. Hadn't he done those same exercises a hundred times before. But I digress. Tate. McCain. Truly a tragedy. Mister McCain was one of my most promising students. He enrolled in nearly every course I taught and excel the each one like Hercules to the twelve labours. The night prior to his unfitting end, I was conducting a lab for a three. Oh, four astro biology. Mister McCain, asked to stay late so that he could run a few extra models. I would never discourage the curious mind. So I told him it was acceptable. So long as he locked up the lap. When I left I bid him farewell and said I would see him in the morning for a three eleven. Are Ko astronomy. Come morning however, there was no McCain. I might have been able to ignore Mr Segel's extended sabbaticals but Mr McCain's absence had me considerably concerned. I checked the lab and found it had been properly locked and equipment put away in respectable. This did nothing to alleviate my puzzlement for I still was without knowledge to his leave. But his whereabouts would not stay a mystery furlong. If you are local to the university area. You have likely already heard the rumors. and. If you are of sensible mind, you were probably quick to disregard them as fiction. But those there that day who saw the body before it was quickly concealed by university staff know that the rumors were impaled comparison to the truth. I know because I was there too. And had I not recognized the very same outfit he that day prior, there would have been no way for me to recognize his horribly Gord face. I was put under speculation for a while having the last recorded contact with Mister, McCain. It was only reasonable. But the case was quickly turned around and closed. The overwhelming evidence on the scene proved that Mister McCain had performed fatal self mutilation. Campus surveillance captured the dreadful scene from several angles. According to the Weird County police every one of Mr McCain's final moments were regarded captured on video. For the sake of his family, the Weird County police have not publicly released the film. But a few of the faculty myself included have been allowed to view it. After I had left that night Mr McCain worked in a lab for another hour. Before cleaning up locking the room it was nine, forty, two PM. He, left the north side building and was heading in the direction of the dormitories when he started to display strange behaviour. Still heading in the same direction he suddenly began darting from tree tree crouching his head as though something might fall on top of him. It was beneath one of these trees where Mister McCain began to ruthlessly claw at his eyes. He eventually collapsed. And died from blood loss. No theory to his suicide has satisfied me. Conventional drugs cannot be blamed for the police found no traces within his system. It's true Mister McCain was enrolled with twenty two credit hours and even employed part time on the weekends. But if he was so overwhelmed with work to the point of self-destruction, why? Why would he had asked to stay for an extra hour in the lab? Had I not taught him since he first arrived at the university. Would I not have seen the signs of strain on one of my most intelligent students? It was precisely when police concluded their investigation that I began my own. I started by questioning his friends a few of which were also my students. After Class I. interviewed each of them separately. Their questions whereas numerous as mind and their statements typically unenlightening. But it was one lily porter who informed me of the party Mister McCain had been present to five days prior. Miss Porter explained that she and Mr McCain had gone together to the party at a campus fraternity house. The Same Fraternity House as Mr Segel attended. I asked Miss Porter. If there were any incidents at this party which dealt Mister McCain stress. She stated no but rather, he was having a pleasant time in even began flirting with a young girl from another school. This young girl I would later learn was destiny Hiltermann. Rio Hiltermann was destinies older sister of three years a senior at a community college near Cops Hill, and the fourth victim after Mister McCain. Unfortunately. I know less about Rio will remain than any of the others. She was mostly local to cops hill. So I had never seen her face nor did her obituary appear in my morning paper? Through my own research I learned that Miss Wilson was driving home one night from her part time job at the Ferris family coroner's office when she steered off the road and crashed into a tree. According to the very same establishment, Miss Wilton was returned to. She died instantly. Dear destiny. tremend- was such a delicate soul. Like. A White Begonia. Her caring heart is something to see in brimming light. Yet there she is so vulnerable. burning. Away from the shade. I had the pleasure of meeting with Miss Destiny will tremend- while she was still alive. Unfortunately I came too late to see her sister. Perhaps it was my subconscious aware of the flowers final bloom that warned me time was short but I contacted destiny chairman instantly after Miss Porter's testimony. When I did I. offered my full and uncensored desire for a meeting. She had every right and sensible reason to ignore my requests and yet. She agreed. I visited her family home the next day. She was frightfully distraught as can be understood to a sister in mourning. But behind her grief, I also sensed a very primal fear. Discussion took to that night at the fraternity party. She explained, it had been her sister's idea to go. reas bolstering confidence was often gravitational destiny orbited about her every decision. If her big sister thought, they should go to a college party than they went. And it wasn't like they were complete strangers rea- Hudson old friends at Eighth University. The two had a few drinks and mingled. Soon, enough RIA was off spending private time with some boy and destiny was left adrift among an alien crowd. At some point, she was approached by Tate McCain. They talked and laughed for a while until rea- came stumbling down the stairs crushed on the shoulder of Gregor ll. Ria then tells destiny that Gregor is going to show them a movie. Destiny reluctantly follows but not before convincing McCain to join that. He agrees and the four meet with Gregor's friend Kyle Randolph in the theater room. And so finally. Our stories converge. Five victims of seemingly unrelated tragedies are found all alone in the same room just days before they die. What happens in that room sets forth a series of era personable calamities. Destiny said the room clung to a smell of pot and liquor. She was nervous worried Gregor might try and pressure them into using drugs. However. This was not the case. Apparently familiar with the proceedings took a bag of chips to one of the loungers. Rea- fell into a beanbag chair as Gregor. Drunkenly paste a shelf full of video games, Blu Ray DVD's and football memorabilia. He looked into a cupboard just below the shelves and pulled out a few classic VHS tapes. The covers according to destiny were all white but had a ribbon of color along one side. Most were green. But. One was purple. Gregor boasted his small collection passing them one of the Green Stripe tapes. The cover had the silhouette of swordfish and -scribed in Marco was the title Green Swordfish Twelve. Destiny asked if this was the movie they were going to watch but Gregor, shook his head and said, they were going to try a new one. He said all the tapes aside except for the one with the Purple Ribbon. Destiny said the name of this film was Herpel Moon Four? Destiny Hiltermann could not tell me what was on that tape. Either she could not remember or she refused to remember but she said they left that party after finishing the film. It's not clear whether those five felt any adverse change upon finishing the tape but. Just then as I looked into the hollow is of Destiny Wilton I pictured the canyons of carnage carved into tate McCain's face. Such as I struggled to formulate my questions destiny searched her words to express some insoluble secret. Her next words would forever be like a which to my mind. She leaned in desperately and whispered. Do you see the lines that connect the stars. Try as I did I could not apprehend her thoughts. And so we were both left to despair. For I was alone without understanding. And she was alone without anyone to understand. As I left I promised to return her call the next day. Destiny Wilton took her own life that night. Hanging. Herself with the curtains that defended against the starry night. If you were to observe the stars at nightfall. What might you perceive? In the times of the ancient Greeks the constellations were not just legend but divine. Their positions in the sky were chosen by the gods themselves. To suggest anything less was heresy. Today the opposite is true. The stars were set by a random displacement in the universe. Their existence is natural and far removed from our lives. And their constellations are but delusions of the mind. After all modern science, proves that the stars are light years apart. Do you see now. Do, you see how they're all connected. Certainly, they were all present at that party in the theater room that dreadful day. But it's more than that. It did not come all at once, but it unraveled itself. They all saw it. The same thing they witnessed on that tape. I suspect they witnessed it before they died. Gregor. SAGO. Beneath a bridge beneath the sky escaping into drugs. Into death. Kyle Randolph, pushed to exhaustion but struck down by fear. Down by the night. Tate McCain. Running? Running underneath the site of stars. A site, he could no longer bear. Real. Walterman driving home catching a glimpse of the black. and. In a glimpse, her life is done. Destiny will terminate. Surrendering before her window. Before the dark. If you were to observe the stars at night nightfall. Might you perceive. Does it compare to all? That's there. Does it hold a candle to the stars. I went to search for Greg's collection for Purple Moon for. But all of the tapes were gone. Someone took them. So I am forever alone without understanding. I can't stop wondering whether what those vice saw on that tape made them Matt. Or made them see. When often I am plagued by this thought I must go under the night sky and look up. Were the ancient Greeks. So wrong to perceive the divine among the heavens. Certainly, they are light years apart. What do you see? You see the stars. But do you see the lines that connect them? This series was produced by Ashley Flowers and David Flowers, this episode was written by David Flowers and read by Ashley Flowers. This story was modified slightly for audio retailing, but you can find the original info on our website. 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EP. 37 The Haunting of The Rosenheim Mansion | The AHS Murder House
"Emily Dickinson once wrote nature's haunted house but art. It's a house that tries to be haunted <music>. Not many people knew about the Rosenheim mansion in Los Angeles until bradfo check and Ryan Murphy created a little series on the effects called American Horror Story Murder House back in two thousand eleven which was a story about a house that killed whoever lived within its walls. The show was a hit on effects creating a huge fandom as people were flocking torch the show seasons more fans were flocking to the location of the mansion wanting to see the murder house and that's where this holly weird tale begins so join us on episode thirty seven as Hollywood paranormal takes the deep dive within the walls of the Rosenheim mansion as we learn more about the mystery and history of the home stay tuned as we talk about the nightmare real estate that the current owners are going through with our interview with their lawyer Doug Vander a poll definitely don't want to miss this but we asked the biggest question of all what's worse dealing with the living or dealing with the dead side note. Please pardon the sound quality with our interview with Doug Vander Pool. We are a pair nerds. Injured grime enthusiasts not sound engineer so we do our very best improve the sound quality of her facetime interviews now. Let's get holly weird is about that time guys <hes> yes. We're GONNA talk about cinnamon minerals. Oh you mean seminole sensitive on God so good. Oh my gosh. I'm only gonNA eat half of one never never that's a myth. There's certain things that I'm trying to process right now guys. I'm trying to process watching homecoming on that flex say I've seen it five times. I've cried yeah. I just keep putting it on. Maybe I'm just like put it on again so boots. I WanNa make boots that <hes> not that she needs my approval but like everything she does is amazing days like I've never it's like I can't ever imagine she's famous enough and like powerful enough off and like established enough that she she just wanted to stand in front of a wind machine and let her hair blow yeah and like seeing like there are other performers cough cough Mariah Carey who do that and it's like fine. She's as you know she was famous in the nineties so whatever but like with beyond say. There's never like a lead up from the gas pedal she still you can't look away from her. She's the best singer she wouldn't. She dances in a row full of professional national dancers still the best one to look at like that's that's special. It's so good if you haven't seen it turn this off immediately. I feel like if she were to go into a haunted house and sing and dance in the house. This house would be clear. Yeah say she's just so good yeah. She's so good. She's like my one remaining like celebrity freak out. We've talked about this before when you live especially when you live in Hollywood but anywhere in L._A.. You sort of lose your star puckering pretty quickly yeah at least I did. I think we talked about like they're kind of always in your way their premieres or like blocking traffic exactly Oscars are hellacious name air but if vice albion say I would lose my shit like I still would fall on fan girl. There's no there's no chill about that. A lot of us fan girls. Will you know love her to the day we die especially into the afterlife yeah that was it goes. I would haunt fiance. I think she has some way to keep us away. I'm really busy right now. Another thing I'm still processing game of thrones sure of course of course brand I live so I feel so bad. We had a friend whose mom was in town. He's like we were very judicious with who we like invited to come. Watch it at our house. I am not trying to have people talk or take bathroom break or like breathe heavy. Ah Genetic because I'm crazy <hes> my mom comes. She's in town. I was like okay but I'm not trying to be mean to someone's mother so like she needs to understand that like this is not the time for her to like ask questions or like anything and she was fine. She was great and she's so sweet. I love her but I was just like. I don't want to be mean to someone's mom but I will be can't get out get out. I told my one friend who said that strict to strike. You're not invited the first week yeah they had to use the bathroom and then they'd literally there were ten seconds left of the episode so he came back from using the math music. I'm so sorry I have to go came back final seconds and I was like Oh motherfucker and then the second they relate Chioma strike three. You're out and we'll see how they do. This week can't do it. During the Battle of Winter Fil Mel there will be none of that. I will be making a fortress out of my blankets and pillows aren't very smart phone off on or airplane mode. Yeah done love lasts than a thing. I'm processing <hes> is that <hes> we have a listener. Her name is Kim the whole story. We have one listener. Her name is Kim. Hey girl done done this episode. Just just as just as an opener is dedicated to her crying yes because she's been so amazing we've messaging her back and forth on facebook and we're obsessed with her and her Hubby who oh by the way is the lawyer handling this case that we're going to talk about today is and if you haven't been jumping on social media following us on twitter and instagram than we can wait waiting. How long does it take the fall so I always have to re download twitter because I hate it so every time like I'll do something on twitter have to wear re downloads long? It's only been five second. That's pretty cool with me. I'm very tech savvy. Seven well guys we are going to do a big and very interesting yet spooky episode of course because you know how we do going to be doing episode thirty seven guys of the Rosenheim Mansion Aka the American Horror Story House Murder House yes so I know some of y'all got really excited. When we posted on instagram that we were going to do this episode and talk about this House and I thought all right we gotta do our homework homework we need to do you know our due diligence and we did and it was so funny because we couldn't come up with any ghosts it was pretty much like open and shut with the research for this house and then finally were like we need to talk to Ken <hes> and can put us through with her husband Doug? Who is the lawyer handling the case for <hes> the current owners of the murder house and we found out that there's murder house ghosts great? Can we amazing you know how we do guys. We're going to go into the history and the mystery and even talk a little bit about this show craze. What is the meaning of <hes> superfan or the fan craze because that plays a really big role into what we're going to talk about and what is the real horror that the current owners are going through with this house and trust me it? You know it brings up the question that we even asked our listeners on instagram who is worse just like the living or the dead and in this case. I think it's the living more than the dead so backup guys because it's going to get very interesting that a lot of tea we have the interview with Doug and we have a lot to cover. Theoretically this all right guys so how the the Rosenheim mansion came to beat a Rosenheim Mansion. We'll start with this gentleman Alfred Rosenheim so Alfred Rosenheim is a German American architect who I built the House that is used as the murder house in one thousand nine hundred and after a five year construction used it as his own residence in the house is sited on a sloping tree said it three quarter Acre Lot at eleven twenty Westchester Chester Police in Country Club Park and the surrounding neighborhood was known as billionaire row in one thousand nine hundred eight checks out billionaire row now exists in Beverly Hills. You know how I feel about billionaire them. Why why can't they adopt? I mean here's the thing that's right. Surprise ran that no one saw coming. Can we just like light. Let's let's blue back to things that we're processing. Can we just like lately touch on the billions the millions of dollars that have been raised by billionaires to rebuild Notre Dom and look far be it from me to say that we can't rebuild whatever the hell we want to rebuild and people donate money is good. It is good but it just shows that trickle down. Economics doesn't fucking work because there are myriad of problems. It's not just in America like and here's the thing one of my least favorite arguments. This is really off topic and I'm so sorry but I'm not that sorry is that whenever I would go like overseas especially to do like missions worker relief aid any of those kinds of the things because I'm a scene. I've just getting getting <hes> people would always say especially when I was living in Indiana but we have issues here and I agree with that but I think that as a global community we should be addressing the issues at a global level <unk> as much as humanly possible so I'm not even trying to say that there are issues in America that we should be dealing with first before we helped like rebuild but there are issues that are affecting real genuine humans that we should be addressing before we build a building. That's the part that I have an issue with like. Why don't we build more structure? There were homeless. There were zero casualties right like again. I get the significance of the church like I to have been there. It is beautiful. I'm not I'm trying to take it away francophiles. Please stay away from me like I'm not trying to come for your church but when there are like people across the globe and the country and our neighborhoods who need our help and they are billionaires donating money in a matter of hours to completely refinance it <hes> that is why I think there shouldn't be billionaires rant over. I'm so sorry pick up my dress down for my soap. I'm no I'm so sorry yeah. No no no that's fine. Everyone's like we're definitely not going to have a ran. This episode Gotcha tricked area there. Sorry billionaire mouth yes so that is you probably have seen it on billion dollar. Less chance on Bravo. Yes love yet makes me cringe a little bit. I appeal what you feel yes every time I watch that show every time it's not large enough. I need a need eight more rooms but this is a thirteen room mansion yeah that makes me cringe so some of the wealthiest families living in billionaire row at the time in one thousand nine hundred included the del Olmo family who lived across the street in the West the borden family who lived across the street in the east the kidney family who lived across the street from southeast of billionaire wrote and yes that is the Abbot Kinney family advocate he designed and built Venice California which <hes> I'm sure if he was alive today would not be happy with it. I mean they're syringes in the sand dirty condoms in the I mean when people go to bed US unlike beret share self might want to go to the beach for yourself. Make sure we're double. Double doubles off it on your feet girl. WanNa step in not saying it depends on like if you wanna go and see a really slice of life of California go to Venice because you will you people watch like you've never people watched before. Oh if you WANNA go to like a beam for like nature and the ocean yeah no further go to Malibu matador not go to Venice it is yeah. It's a different value here. In my opinion well even the Dough Heaney family lived. There are no hedo he needs to go. If you guys don't know anything about the DOE Heaney family been listened to episode thirty five of the Greystone mansion another haunted mansion at that so Rosenheim was is noted for designing and building many amusement parks as many as nine rollercoasters and he was one of the most highly respected architects in L._A.. At the time Alfred Feist are fast Rosenheim open his practice in the city after years of being a successful designer of residential and commercial structures in Saint Louis Missouri the homes most Distinctive Express exterior features was abode end to read it Stair Hall lighted by nine panels of tiffany stained glass each in a different design the house features extensive Italian brickwork African Oak Teak Walnut Maple at would pending made of Peruvian Mahogany so faint painstakingly a very fancy around here so the oversize living room adorned with tapestries featured across being ceiling and an impressive tile fireplace one of six in the home six because they gotta be extra while the dining room used as Ben's Office for those American Horror Story Fans. That's what it was was highlighted with. It's stunning gold leap ceiling in antique Japanese Motif with delicate peacocks and flowers panelled walls and leaded glass cabinets. Let's I wonder if Alfred was girl. You know what I mean does. He has some style I think back then and that was like well offered you a little your little extra other features of the first level included dramatic semi circular library with a pink blood marble fireplace and built in tiffany glass leaded doors windows bookcases as well as a sunny solarium billionaires so so Alfred Rosenheim and his family resided in their showplace mansion on West Chester Place for eleven years until they sold it in one thousand nine hundred eighteen the wealthiest man in California <hes> colorful mining magnet A._J.. mcquarters here's mcquarters who was the first gay president of the Alvarado Mining and Milling Company and Parral Chihuahua Mexico wanted it to serve as a winter residence and and refuge for the continuous turmoil turmoil of the Revolution in Mexico most now h. e. mcquarters Pancho villa the president of the of Mexico and several of their associates where photograph on many occasions by the Los Angeles time and several other photographers while Eiji mcquarters waters did many business transactions with the Mexican government A._G.. mcquarters purchase six point nine million acres ten thousand square miles of land used for mining gold silver copper lead from the Mexican government in Poncho via was hired as security to ensure things went smoothly without a doubt they did Jordan around nineteen thirty. The estate picked up some Hollywood pedigree. When it was leased by actor actor Edward Everett Horton he was one of the most popular and prolific performers of his day? Now Horton was constantly in demand for his masterful portrayals of the pussy over what nervous types that were a staple film comedy throughout the Nineteen Thirties and forty s and then choosing country club park as a place of residence Horton joined a stellar list of other major Hollywood figures such as Colleen Moore Buster Keaton Hal Roach and Ruth Rolland who all lived in the district time for another on the West Chester Police House served as the actor cities resident while he was working at the studios now by nineteen thirty two Horton had given up his lease on the West Chester Police Mansion and the home was taken over by a Catholic Catholic order of nuns called the sisters of social service and they began operating it as a convent in one thousand nine hundred eighty six the expanded their operations to include the adjacent Justin C rives mansion at eleven thirty Westchester Chester police which had also been designed by Rosenheim and during their long tenure at the combined properties the sisters had added a large chapel on the grounds in the style that was intended to blend in with the earlier structures completed in nineteen fifty before the chapel features similarly colored brick walls and heavy beamed ceiling soaring over the double height space in recent years. This ground space has been utilized in much more secular fashion as a recording studio for planet Earth Records and the Chapel is also used as the Attic Wink wink in American horror story. The mansion was badly damaged in the nineteen ninety four northridge earthquake and the Catholic quarter decided against repair and put the House on the market for three million dollars fearing that it might be torn down local area residents nominated as a cultural landmarks who the convent unsuccessfully contested this now in nineteen ninety-seven the Rosenheim mansion was bought by family members and business partners John Gosh I think Scout Ya and Greta von Steinhauer in one thousand nine hundred ninety nine the Rosenheim mansion was decided as a historic and cultural landmark under number six sixty by the city of Los Angeles also in one thousand nine thousand nine John Gotcha and Greta von Steinmeyer put the house back on the market. It did not sell however and was removed from the real estate market until being relisted recently at seventeen million alien through John Bob. I think as Bobbie-ann so now the mansion is currently owned by Doctor Ernst von Swertz and Angela oaken full who is the ex wife of D._J.. Paul Open Fold G._M.. And we'll go into to what they were are currently going through with this house moment because Bryce you have the T. on what made this house what it is today. Yes I mean yeah and I love that I love when the community comes together like like this should be a landmark. That's always such a sweet little yeah. I love communities rallied together. This is a historical landmark. Don't tear it down. This is actual piece of history so like the house is like sort of famous in it's own rate which transitioned that's right. I had a plan sentence. I love in the interview or the <hes> director's commentary on the First Season of American Horror Story Ryan Murphy actually talks about this and says like the house was the hardest this character to cast like we you know everybody knows that Britain was like the first assign and Dylan McDermott was like the third they got the cast together very quickly and like with just Langley was so historical for her because she had never done like <hes> <hes> such a long stint on television so all of that like all these like really big names like Oh wow what an amazing cast I think it's what's carried the show all these seasons eight nine seasons now and yet in the midst of all that Ryan Murphy he's like Oh. The hardest part to cast was the house and then they found this house so just like a little yeah that's right. The House is the character it is <hes> so yes the house sort of gains American horror story notoriety <hes> creators Ryan Murphy and <hes> what's his name Bradfo chip. My bad begin working. I know he will begin working on American horror story actually before they had started on glee allow Murphy is quoted as saying that he had wanted to do the opposite of what they had previously done when they began working on this series he said I went straight from Tuck into gleam leave so I was looking to do something challenging and dark and I always loved as Brad had the horror genre that was just natural for us which I love because even though Nip Tuck does how some sort of like tense moments yeah. It's still pretty like camping. Eh Glee obviously is camps their style yeah the music everything the acting storyline it all correlates so he he just like I love it. They were looking to do something different iconic onic <hes> so they basically decided that they were GonNa start working in the horror genre through television and that their main goal in doing so was to create a series where viewers would be afraid. They said that they wanted people to be a little bit off. off-balance afterwards which like mission accomplished because most of my name is come from American Horror Story Freak show is terrifying. I literally had like months long nightmares about that clown no way even after no spoiler but even after like the reveal regarding the clown even worse. You had to take it away. I'm still scared like it doesn't matter you're still tuning into the next episode always cantering away yeah especially eight with certain characters that are definite candies. I mean look it is no secret that Ryan Murphy and I share tight because every dark haired blue eyed actor in Hollywood works on that showed up. Hey Ryan Murphy. Please cast asked me be in. Thank you thank you for your cats entrances. Welcome young so handsome so all of that is like you know obviously the whole if anyone has anyone not seen American horror story then seriously stop this episode watch the first episode of season one murder house so if anyone hasn't that's okay I too have only seen certain episodes because other ones too scary for me. You know that like each season is sort of like a repertory theater. They're playing the same actors are playing many different characters different stories so the house itself actually is in several of the seasons throughout but that the main story was in the first season which was just called American horror story but now colloquially is called murder house because of the theme of the Houses House is like rising up against tenants <hes> but that is not the official title that has just fans calling it that and what's that Tammy mentioning Fans Oh yes so that sort of transitions us <hes> into part one of the trouble for the family who currently owns the Oh man so before I hit <hes> we hit on this story I just want to I wanted to learn more about superfan. I wanted to research this craze because that is a big question in my head okay firstly late who it is. WHO's this house? How did it come about what made this house so famous besides it's shows being filmed there and there is a plethora of Jan shows movies but I wanted to know more about the fans and what drove drove him so crazy to the point where they were not only taking pictures in front of the house but they breaking into the house and you'll hear it in Doug's interview the if I had a dollar for every time I said Oh my God oh my God I was just so like shocked with the <unk> stuff he was telling me of like how far these fans went just to take a picture just to get onto the property and I feel really bad for the couple yeah so today's super fans are everywhere they cheer far and Fawn over sports teams terms and boy bands k pop band celebrities T._v. shows and comic books among other things but there are good reasons why humans tend to do this? There's a good reason and according to will pure Pearson and Man Gish <hes> headed couture tackle tackle this intriguing topic in an episode of the podcast part time genius titled What it takes to be a superfan will mango say most people are casual fans not super fans. What's the difference a casual fan of for example bowl game of thrones might spend a good seven hours binging on the show and the superfan might spend an additional twenty plus hours not only binge-watching every freaking seizing season of the show but also listening to podcasts podcasts that dissect each episode of the show going as far as traveling to locations of the show now what makes some people so obsessed? I self presentation says well for instance wearing certain clothes. Close at Dragon Con Conventions Painting your face on Game Day or consuming certain media these conscious choices send the message about the kind of people we are or want to be or strived to be but is is the signal mainly for ourselves or for the people around us a study by Psychotherapist Teresa Sterne concluded that a community of fans provides a comfortable space for people to come to grips with their identities without being judged edged this can also help them to build their own self esteem. We all want that sense of belonging says mango and Phantom just seems like one way of doing that but when does being a superfan go too far and according to the new homeowners of the Rosenheim mansion there are quite a few that have gone way beyond the limits they found this out the hard way just barely a month moving in that they not only purchase a mansion but they purchase purchase the American Horror Story Murder House so this couple moves in in two thousand fifteen by from the last owners that I mentioned right over here which was John Kaohsiung and Greta von Steinbach unbalanced and they purchased the house. I WANNA say for three million or three point two million and they bought this house in two thousand fifteen mind you that <hes> Dr Ernst are von Schwartz and Angela open-field. This is the current couple they had no idea of the fandom that was attached to the mansion. The had no white they never seen you know American horror story which I'm kind of baffled sure I'm I'm sure they're like one of those people that watches like Downton Abbey or maybe like roadside antique. Show is that the name of the show roadside antiquing antiques roadshow yeah antiques roadshow. I feel like they're the type of couple that watches that I'm all about that bench. She no Mahogany rich so maybe even if they get for her. I don't know like how could you explain to somebody right. This is like an important house to a show one. You're talking about that. Is it right there her. They're suing the brokers and the sellers because they didn't disclose when they purchased it. They didn't disclose the fact that the house was used in this very famous show is very popular show and the also didn't disclose other things that we're point to listen to in Doug Vander pools interviews so for some of you guys who are out of the loop with what's going on there currently right now in a lawsuit against the estate claiming they did not disclose <hes> that this matching was is using TV series and the lawsuit which names the real estate agent and the broker for the sale of the Greta von signed our state is claiming breach of contract and fraudulent concealment in an amount of damages up to three million dollars filed in superior hearer court of <hes> California on February seventh the lawsuit claims unbeknownst to the plaintiffs and not disclosed by defendants <hes> hundreds of fans of the T._v.. Show would come to the property trash pass attempt to break in and create a significant can't nuisance not only for the seller but for the neighbors as well the additionally the lawsuit claims that the plaintiffs didn't disclose structural issues with the estate seeing the property has significant leaks water intrusion and even mold mold witches a bitch to get Jesus especially for that large house so guys. If you really want to get into the nitty gritty of this story and this lawsuit and the ghost we're going to jump into the paranormal aftermath because I had the opportunity to speak with us. Thank you Kim hiding and it was just such an amazing interview with him. He was just so awesome and just willing to answer any questions that I had so here. Is Our interview. Ask Vanterpool guys hi hello. It's me Tammy from Hollywood hair novel. Oh my God this is so amazing believe I'm speaking with you <hes> for one thing you and him or Hashtag Goals Hashtag adorable I saw your picture on facebook price and I were obsessing over it. In New Orleans Camel. Yes just a little bit just a little traveling here and there that's exactly what my parents did when me and my sisters moved out as well so props. Do you guys store so I guess let's just jump into this is so exciting so you are still working on this case the American Horror Story Murder Waterhouse Case Right. Oh yet bill going on yeah we do. We have trial date was coming up pretty quickly in the twin got another set of attorney got trunking to November member. I believe <hes> three petting Colo Baker Yeah but you know what you dig into danger damage that really pancake 'cause. It's pretty amazing again. It's not just in from here. We'll serve your law office so you had your office is called Doug Vander Pool Law offices and you F you specialize not only and personal injuries real estate disputes and litigation but you also like handled just like you just everywhere around is correct the problem comes in we try and solve it generally representing individuals coming in the chair and they and they you know they say here's my problem all folks doc. That's Kinda. The Way I look at you know my practice and so my life I like Obama problem-solver. I can't handle something like I don't do criminal. I don't do several different areas the lodge. Those are areas where you really have the focus okay I will refer them out to somebody WHO expert for. I got charged with a crime at three attorney night would call to for everything else we antler the gammit. It seems like you guys are doing such a great job and you from what I've researched you have a slew of accolades online and you held and handled like a lot of neater cases in the past as well is just one of your biggest cases faces. Were kind of you know just a wall. You know a walk in the park for you very interesting. Isn't your normal client vendor screwed me. Go ASSU <hes> typical day to day stop or or hey defender screwing up amateur league taking my ear or some strike get money. They're not entitled to beget isn't the tech the case <hes> it helps back to Kim at the big fan of the show. Oh it's just it's one of the more interesting I would say in terms of dollars. That's the biggest case I ask is going to be <hes> so oh my gosh so let's let's start from the very beginning. You're in your law office. You're doing office. You're doing your lawyers things and coward you contacted did. How did you get involved with the case? I'm looking at my notes. It's this case came up like in two thousand eighteen. It's been going on for your year right. What happened was I talked to an organization at your work the orange trial lawyers and it's it's basically playtex <hes> attorney orientation so lot of guys doing personal injury or plaintiff employment stuff? It's the plaintiffs organizations I do a Lotta kind of work. I am actually on the board of directors any that but for short a friend of mine in organization is friends with Dr urged Angela had represented him in a couple of thanks but when Kate came up the concert real estate law engagement really might butter so she referred it over to me and that's what I meant the doctor I see so it's just like <hes> you know just six degrees operation right there and they purchased the house in two thousand and when I was two thousand sixteen or two thousand seventeen I believe real bad was here has closed in March of twenty fifty yeah so they bought it for three point three point two hundred with three million dollars <hes> and the moved in and very next day they're sitting in the living room and someone was banging on the way out it all starts now that you jumped onto the subject of what they were going through. Can you walk us through on. I guess some of their complaints send <hes> I guess their grievances with this House so far so curious about this particular show and the fans helped historic hundreds of road movie John Wayne I mean how and a lot of movies but don't get this type of Fan. It's the same paddock Daniel get from that ghost ghost nut ghostbusters the type of show so the you know people who truly believe it's normal goten and they're a little bit more clinically criteria obsessive about <music> subject matter so this isn't the first house to have this kind of a problem <hes> we got an expert who get an expert <hes> Peta houses there sure <hes> stigmatize so there's a good example followed up breaking bad out but if how there was there was a an episode where someone the Yes yes I remember that episode and I read an article about that that fans were now growing peaches and slices of pizza onto the homeowners ruth and they got every single day single day out this now stigmatized and so the law in California in fact most of the country is when you sell a property. You have to disclose everything about the property. It's not in order to wear. It's seller you gotTa tell the buyer everything you know potentially affect the decision to purchase so now the owner of that property to bring you that property at to disclose any buyers to hey you're gonna be in practically every day. That's GONNA lower the purchase price and diminish their their progress like that across the country but the most <hes> comparable property in the United States that we found out Elkin Las Vegas that I believe to actually call the murder house you can google it. There's video are expert in our case with expert in that case so that house was the mob house and allegedly there was a room where they would take the guy he come out your main man. It's been the next rooms where they would murder people that that helps was focus. The focus of one of those goes toucher showed the became known well <hes> people started breaking in having failed vandalizing and doing all sorts of weird shit like almost burning the place to the ground yet either dangerous people expert that you had a gun when he went in there the kind of thing that you're dealing with them. They're again. They're all of famous held if you can think of the Amityville horror how been. In sort of teacher you know almost a star of paranormal either T._v.. Shows is GonNa have obsessive fan either to stop by the pitcher innocuous that's typical aw always on breaking up stealing shit outgoing side when you go to the to the Rosen I mentioned to my client so American horror story out first aired. Eh believe it was twenty seven. I think it was twenty. Eleven almost immediately to the show start on the property. We know well instagram. Ah instagram reporter practically the week after the show first aired of somebody standing on the front porch of the prior prior owner with the Lady Game Greta von Stein our she purchased the property many many two years ago <hes> tooth older lady companionate John Go K. and they lived there and got all the instagram post to join the air that in and he had to buy a gun. They put their people get chased off to stand issue was a huge problem. It was no they knew it so when my clients made off of the House night of the real estate you did nor the sellers disclosed definitely with the the property with inundated by creepy band Thursday every day and some of the news reports that we were in good morning America when the case was I file of a trash truck driver these three girls talked into lifting lifting up trash pitt in the trash the video yes for details Yeah Info and everything that is we notice that all my God the level of crazy right there. It's a different level of people showing up on the street. You know the main Hollywood tours of famous. How's it been going on forever but it had early you know out to take a trip as you move on to the next one the fans take further respect? Will they take pictures. There are certain of number of them that are super upset with getting onto into the property. I mean my quite. Let's put no trespassing keep times and they stole extol the they wanNA. They WANNA pay the break off of this facade. It was set on fire last month. I mean it's crazy. Grounds break-ins I that's what I read to last year that someone broke into their house through the kitchen and that's like okay we got this has to stop. We need to seek some sort of action. We need to Camila stop until the show over for entering into something they're gonNA have to deal with <hes> and then here's another problem is to see Los Angeles. The historic neighborhood in the house itself historic landmark really strict requirements to see has to <hes> maintain its appeared so my clients they moved in there with no pets walk up to the front door to my quite put up a chain link. Pets <hes> that club put a barbed wire the take down to take down all benching. We're GONNA allow four foot kind of Nice little. Oh you know Haiti fence starbuck of stop by top of everything else to handle it up gets really unfortunate. I mean they the only part time now now I know in certain counties like if you live in an historic buildings such as for example from what I heard Glendale I heard that it houses deep historic and someone wants to go in and tour threat they can ask permission late from the owner to go inside their you know their personal home their historic home to tour it <hes>. Is that the case he's here in L._A.. County as well or just completely different where dirt still right tour though I mean it's a private progress. I'm assuming coudl up and the help. Is that the monotype cutting you're on their you know at least seven or eight times for different TV shows including <hes> Go America or story went back and kind of flash back to one become guided in the approach that Kim we bill Maher and you know our digital infants were no more fans but the American horror stories bruce as you said we're going to use the exterior shots no matter what we'll build sets though you can either get paid either way you're GonNa Teacher and so they huddled up thought about. It looked really nothing to the mitigate are damaging the allow that time to show right so walk us through some of the other complaints now. It seems like the owners are not only complaining about their corporeal nuisances but it seems like there's something else I guess other-worldly that is you know creating some disturbances within the house and it's not just the living but it seems like to be the dead according to your wife Cam on what he told me they are experiencing haunting. Is that correct creek. There is a dispute with sweet sued the dollars credit. The state has passed away so we'll never get her testimony but we've got other people who buy the granted clearly out content they were not you know oh or or people spirit. I think one of the butlers disease going down the stairs and I think there's a little girl but the center of Paranormal Activity seems to abatement which have been twice and it's pretty great down there <hes> again the fact Dow is considered the audit was not disclosed and that's the problem to credit companion est John Gauchet or call them Gotcha that guy him on ener clearly out Hilter were described but typically you know experiencing at the how crazy eighty stories to tell so again none of the schools to my clients but they were asleep the first night they slept there they have broken in because they were hearing threat in the hallway and the open the door. They're doing there and so they started to ask around and shirt up the Dow is reportedly haunted experience little things like that you know hearing footsteps <hes> thing some some big apparitions stuff like that but complaining when they moved in the direct T._v. or the cable companies they came to do some work in the basement. Then looked for in T- guy were down there with a five goal Bobi contracts came running up the take more. Oh my God so what is what is the rule or any laws that state that not only or as opposed to disclose information if someone dies in a home or house but what is the what are sellers required to disclose in terms of you know is if the property is haunted. Are there any California emergency laws that requires sellers to disclose information or or knocks out of your every state's different in your case right on point. If you have <hes> information that out in marketing or advertising doubt haunted you better disclose to California. There is no specific case on that point but the rule is you have to disclose anything material now business where people start rolling your eyes goes on here from New Orleans we walk right New Orleans and we real estate times advertising that either onto out on control or not this is more defects. You're part of the story clearly but I don't think the monetary values therapies experts not gonna go well. Here's a haunted how the because you know either believe it or you don't I can. I can clearly monetize the value of a hundred fans come on my property. That's real what I can catch on camera and you know we can compare to what other homes have been stigmatized <hes> with the demeanor die with so we're we're still making the claim. I'm not sure I'm going to pursue sued at trial <hes> estimate my mind but in reality something that my clients are experiencing right I think would have excluded doubt now with that sort sort of valuable up to a certain class of buyer maybe but it looks like granite and the prior owners. It looks like they had some plan. This guy I without worked after American horror story I could appeal disabused of the candidate show and they might come in and Buy Audit House and they were asking seven million fifteen million. They were the now the kind of regret it. I mean what you see with future had this last CD feel like they are going to win the case or <hes> you think that they are going to put up a really really good fights. What do you think well? We settled with sellers so Greta. She passed a couple years ago in back. The interesting thing is Dr urged with her doctor for a while so he knew her estate had minimal outfits and no insurance so we with them a couple months ago or would figure number. Let's put it that way. <hes> we're definitely looking for seven figures plus from Cowell Bakers so just one aspect alone alone and property value one point five nine dollars audibles are so that the Thala number very very bullish on that we've also got some nondisclosure items <hes> about the condition of the property so so it's a mill act of proper between two historical property but the long ones that comes requirement that you repairs Greta signed a contract tantalus many moons ago saying she was going to do all these repairs and exchanging tax breaks in reality in doing the repairs we were provided a bunch of reports that prior <hes> potential by your head prepared just hand it over but there's a lot of stuff that was missing in those gaps so it's a little bit more of a complicated issue in terms of trying to show the week here now stuck with the repair bill on the town of about one dollars so you know you put Japan together along with the new repair bill. You're looking at a three million dollar claim pretty bullish on this year that under. UNDERHILL's act like the new owners have to we'll have to pay like the ten th or had to pay the ten thousand dollars in property taxes compared to the fifty grand or more that they would pay without the act of the if the home were to sell for listening price. I guess three or four plus million but <hes> we're still working with Disney block on that. The city got nuclear honest because they understand the position of my clients room but did something that we're going to have to resolved so hopefully try leading. Dow's result defend tissue <hes> do we just don't know we're going to do badly right now. Not Not Tuck well. It seems like they're gonNA. They're gonNA come out from in a positive angle. They're gonNA come out you know in a better light. I guess they have to see a little bit of the dark before the little bit of the whites in my opinion but be it's based on our discussion. I I feel like they have a pretty good case in. They'll come out you know with what they deserve of course thank you so much doug for seeking not with us. We'll speaking to need bryce. My Co host is currently working at his other jobs or far away from Hollywood but <hes> thank you so much. I do have one question. Do you believe in the paranormal. Do you believe in ghosts LX five minutes. Please share I always ask our interview our interviewees to share their stories. What is your first or your most memorable story that you can share with the listeners sisters I was in New Orleans historic? W The one down in the French quarter and we had gone out to dinner and we were coming back down the hallway and I heard a loud Bang Eh Day right on my head like turned around and look and there was a clear day. It was fuck. You guys came stripped. Waking Describe Colonel Sanders had the goat supe- southern soups and you looked at me any weight and I turned back to Kim and I said and we both turned around it was gone at most <hes> clear her one. I've ever seen mostly New Orleans. We've seen a young lady come through the door but more floating apparition <hes> come over to the side of the bed and Si- and then league and that was in actually remember the name of that hotel but there's a story story is that <hes> there is a ghost on the property and the woman who committed suicide off the route Newsweek for her lover can't the extreme I thought out one Kim have seen a little girl there. Yes told me about that. One in her message of the reveal reveal sneaks which is next to the rich the Ritz as Carlton but yes messaging us and telling us that she had a slew of groceries especially from New Orleans. I would say that you guys are definitely. I guess together you guys attract all that energy one hundred it must be. I think the guy in the w the one that made us leave the W we didn't need that first night <hes> the next day we were walking down the stairs in the courtyard and I had a small cigar my mouth and Kim side literally someone grabbed throwing inch down the stairs like some Tuck it out of my mouth so we checked out. I couldn't even enjoy a cigar. No Dell's we're checking out talking the we'll take you so much agree. Sherry Only God you guys are so awesome. I could tell in your pictures. You guys are just one hell of a couple. Can you adopt me and Bryson. Take on these trips contemn. Yes please we'll take you again. I really really appreciate it. Thank you for taking the time out of your busy schedule into sleep. Talking goes and talking law and talking about the American Horror Story Murder House case really Bruce. We'll do thank you so much you too bye <music> sexy case I love it when one door closes in the house and another one opens it means. You're Damn House is haunted gupte. I know I wonder like I could just see like in his law office like Lady Gaga from you you know American Horror Story Hotel working as the Paralegal yeah actually getting into her role on the Mary can we you start with the most important part of this whole interaction how dare people waste pizza by throwing it on the roof of the breaking bad house when they could be mailing it to me how dare they is grace what you have in common with the fans of the American horror story houses that they're lighting the front lawn on fire just like if it's hosted Burnett L. Like if it is on it. It's got to go up and flying. I don't care how much tiffany glass there is. That's right. Nothing is sacred. <hes> the phenomena of super fandom yet is so fascinating to me but it I don't necessarily understand where people's destructive tendencies get rolled up into that <hes> I think about like the Joshua tree vandalism that have happened that will take like four hundred years to recover. I think about like all these super bloom pictures that I've seen so many of my friends posting. I like you as a person but you fucking idiot you get off the flowers like people that I like people that I know people that are probably listening to this podcast. If you think I'm talking about you I am. There's a picture of you on your instagram and you're sitting on a flower. I think you're fucking idiot and it's the same same thing like there's like a sort of cultural aspect especially in the south. You know talking about New Orleans where you take a tour of a home to a tour of a plantation. It's like a very cultural kind of thing thing but there's like a way to do that. I think the difference between someone like knocking on the door and being like may I can. I tore your home. There is a cultural and like as he was mentioning like legal precedent precedent for that yeah if you are entering onto property vandalizing stealing trying to break in your a sack of shit like there is no two ways about it. I don't care how much you like the show so like again re my earlier rand. It's far from me to feel bad for like wealthy people but at the same time they actually are humans and I mostly joking and it's unacceptable like yeah you can't just break into these people's homes and even if someone wasn't living there if it was just like an unused film set yeah who held you think you are like the those women in the dumpster being lifted up so we have that video guys we posted it on our instagram and it's not just them in the trash truck. It's this other video of this gentleman just climbing over the metal fence y'all acting like I think he's posing as a dead body in front of the House and then he's fucking listening to John Mayor on his iphone and singing just sitting on the the front porch just like he owns the damn place like those common decency just not exist no it doesn't because if you remember from our rebel without a cause episode I people were vandalizing vandalizing James Dean. His gravestone even stole his gravestone. If you go see Jim Morrison's you know memorial or his little you know gravesite in Paris that's also like tagged up and destroyed and so on and so forth it's just like when people are super fans it just take it to another extreme. It's like they have to. They have to leave their mark on on someone or something just as a self validation I was here in I in some. We're way some honoring it. You know um which I just find so disturbing. That's why throughout the whole interview. I'm like Oh my God. Oh my God oh my because I heard about okay. I heard about like okay. They were you know going on the front line. <hes> I heard about the case of the break in through the kitchen Jesus Christ but when he was going in depth about the other things the stealing of the trespassing signs the breaking of the fence I mean this couple has a child that has got to be scary. Especially for you know Angela Oakland fold as as a mom like you are taking care of your infant. You're going through your first six months and then you have to worry about people breaking into your house. It's that's it's asset and this the statement of like well. We're going to film your house else. Whether you like it or is so gross I mean if you want to know what the movie industry is like in a nutshell that's it. That's it what you know what Hollywood and money it's a machine and it's just churning through who people like. You wonder why these celebrities are burning out. You wonder why like Britney Spears is back in Rehab and mental Brittany like. Do you want to know why it is. It's because of things like this where it's like. Oh it doesn't matter what you want. We're going to do whatever we want and you can make some money off of it. So like hope you feel okay with like glow key pimping yourself out <hes> or you cannot get anything from it so like the lesser of two evils and then these people have mental breakdowns like my like petty solve is like they should have fumigated the house and had it covered in tarps. They should've fucked with production. They should have planted trees to cover the entire facade of the house like you don't get to tell me when I can and can't do at my now. Here's another thing that occurred to in two thousand fourteen before they purchased the house. The house because of his Phantom was being used as an AIRBNB for the I. I think I think for eight months <hes> the house is being rented out as an AIRBNB. You could rent the house for forty. I think forty five hundred and night so view and twenty other people wanted to spend the night in this mansion you just have to shell out forty five hundred dollars to spend the night in mansion and that went on for eight months and people spent the money and spent spent the night in this mansion just spend the night and then they they just totally took that off of Airbnb they put it on the market and they come in <hes> the new owners they purchase it for free plus million and then you know not only were they dealing with the fans but they're also dealing with like like the disrepair and also the ghosts and I remember reading an interview about them that at first they're they're saying Oh yeah we were told that the house is haunted. We don't believe in goes and then like they did a post interview their shit going on. There's there's something being here so I went to dig and dig and dig about the paranormal aftermath and the cause of the paranormal aftermath with this mansion and I couldn't come up for anything. I don't know the cause especially with the basement was there murdered. Nothing went on like who died in my house. Nothing was attached this house any drama with the people that lived in it or leased it well. We had an awesome listener who hit us up on the Graham of course course and I'm GonNa pull up her information right over here but <hes> she asked us. If we needed help to research anything like can you help me figure out like the haunting of this place and here it is. I think it's a Jimmy Nelson. Aka Gandhi Luke's so so much so she reached out to me ask for help and I was like yeah. Please help us because I just don't know where to begin with this helmet with mansion so according to her <unk> her Edward Everett the actor that leaves the House in the thirties was a collector of weird in cursed items short. You know got to click something thanking Thirties antique roadshow right there so anything continent weird incurs I he went and bought it and maybe some of those things are some of those artifacts meet their way into the house now what occurred in the basement and the basement according to Doug has a lot of energy and I went and research can't find. Right anything in regards to the basement but according to some psychics and other articles they believe that there's a vortex in the base ons that psychics whenever they come near the house they go crazy. They're like I get away. They take me far away from this house because this this house is is there something off about this house so I went online to I I've tried to contact John Gotcha Gotcha and one of the stories that he had written in regards the house when he was living there he claims that he walks past the laundry room with the washer machine on and he also claimed that he can hear people having conversations as clear as they even though no one is in the room so according to like John Gaucho and Greta von Steinberg according to them. There's no negative energy there. I'm in terms of the Butler and the little girl's spirit there have been claims of the owners hearing a little girl giggle up and down the hallway they see an apparition of Butler going up and down the stairs. If you remember former Greystone Mansion episode Steve <hes> who was the groundskeeper the head groundskeeper of that mansion saw his first apparition of a Butler going down the staircase and it was probably most likely a residual haunting where I mean God I would. I mean I would love to have a Butler because you would have a Butler even in the afterlife on working. Maybe this guy is still working going up and down the stairs. You know bringing you know doing his duties or whatnot. I know as for the little girl I really don't know that is a big big mystery there to maybe it's the energy manifesting investing into that energy like you know what I mean like. Maybe the cumulative like I mean there's a lot that's being poured into this house. In terms of ice fan energy historical energy film energy all of it we spoke spoke about this to keep bringing up or passes but you know haunted theaters wire theaters haunting because at times you know we don't know what we carry. We don't know what you know other powers or psychic powers we carry and those powers hours can manifest whenever we for example go on stage and act and you know kind of like express her fears or pains or excitement. Maybe this was going on in this house at its absorbing all that energy from the acting and whatnot so career in just like the land itself only who knows like any of those like just because there's not a specific incident yeah who knows what's manifesting based on our interference. You know what I mean once again. Dan We ruin everything I did find this other article pretty interesting and this was an interview with Evan Peters thirsty so Evan Peters was asked about the house and how you know what it was like to be you know working in Rosenheim mansion so Evan Peters <hes> quotes. It's terrifying. It's a real house in L.. A. That's old and creepy and there's actually a chapel connected to it. The whole atmosphere there is really terrifying winging uncomfortable. They built the inside of the House on the sound stages so you could go there and it looks pretty identical which is true. How much do you shoot the actual house? He was asked Evan Peters replies. We were there for the whole oh pilot now just the exterior shots. We heard some noises and stuff shooting but that's to be expected in a three story house with an attic. It's just a creepy house. It's so terrifying with that. Would everywhere never ever want to live in that house. Dan Quote yes so he felt creepy is in that house for I know I would love to embrace him. Come over here. Give me a hug. We saw him. That's that's right with Dr Shiloh. Yes we were having Brunch deductor Shiloh Dr Scott from L._A.. Not So confidential we had a tender date so fun but I was mean mugging. What's her name the whole I have some stories lover Yes free ideas? They're still together. Aren't they. Yeah they certainly engaged engaged for like a decade or she's. She's crazy and he's hot and you know I'll try and keep Iran's to another all our viewers stop. I care well guys this. This is our episode of the Rosenheim Mansion. Let me think let us know if you've heard any other stories tied to the House now this American horror story stories but anything else that you can dig up much appreciate it. I try to contact John John <hes> Gotcha. I've emailed him three times and I'm sure he's just inundated though yeah I mean what's going on but <hes> once again thank you so much to Kim in so much. Please adopt us now. We go into our spiritual bays of the weeding of course this whole entire episode is dedicated to the fan doubles. I know mainly Kim of course thank you so much guys. I mean it really means a lot that you did this for us. So thank you so so much. Thank you for listening to our episodes and let us know the next time you're going to New Orleans so I could bring bryce because it'll be his first time. I just WANNA eat every poboy in the city. I just want to see your face when you had your first dachary walking down the street sipping on your dockery it really is John Brand around for me is what my true sung fees as I'm telling you everywhere you're walking hot. Even that gum on the floor is haunted a big. Thank you to our Gal Pal. Gandhi Looks Jamie Mountain. I'm sorry if we butchered your name. Thank you so much for reaching out to us and helping us in researching. We really do appreciate it and without you guys doing this episode so thank you so much. If you love Hollywood paranormal guys please don't forget to repeat and subscribe on Apple podcasts. If you on WANNA get into communication with US or WANNA seminars you can go on you can throw a pizza on a roof on prices roof. You just have to Google his out his address. I know just make sure it's all cheese cheese and more already have a raccoon on my roof right now if you had pizza what is going on with that I'm sorry we're GONNA have to follow Bryce on Instagram instagram. You will not be bored. Let's just say my white trash. Roots are really coming out. I'm like one pair of Jean Cutoff shorts away from a fall on trailer park. What is good <hes>? That's the real horror right yeah yeah. There's a raccoon on our roof. The end it is like rabid I mean no it is like I woke up two nights ago at three o'clock and it is just tearing at the shingles on our roof and screaming called animal control well so that's the thing is that like last week it happened in our landlord came and he's like well. If it happens is trying to spray with a hose does oh thanks so then like I go out. There and it's honestly terrifying in its massive. I saw last night air huge big. I'm like I'm trying to get attacked by like fucking raccoon and little fun fact the city of Los Angeles Angeles doesn't have animal control services. No it's like privatize which I have again so many thoughts about <hes> I don't believe in privatization but sure <hes> so our landlord then we called him again in today because it happened last night around ten a little bit earlier <hes> and again the same thing and this time I could actually see it so the first night I couldn't see it. I can just hear it and it's just ripping ripping and the second night it was kind of in the roof between our car park in the actual actual roofs that has like a space you can see I mean it's just thrashing and screaming back and forth. I think every house houses ours so basically norrland landlord landlord showed up today because I had I had called a company and I canceled it because he has set a trap but he is pretty sure that there's like babies in attic and the problem is is that one three in your attic. It's a whole different ballgame trying to get them out of the best so I'm not trying to kill a baby raccoon like I mean I grew up in the country so I have like we grew up shooting rodents. That's just the way it is like when you live on an abandoned farm so like it's funny because I'm pretty anti gun but I understand the need for them like you can't have groundhogs and possums raccoons like in your yard you get lime disease. You know what I mean so like we would shoot and like we would shoot sparrows like again not trying to like super politicize this but it just like it's so crazy because in the city obviously you can't do that so my instinct is like we'll just like kill it like you can't and I don't want to but I I don't WanNa pay for damages to a house. That's not mine either. You know what I mean our landlord social. He's the greatest Guy <hes> so we have like those humane bikes cube traps set like in the attic so hopefully it'll catch and then he'll be able to like take eh and relocated by the problem is like if you catch the one and it has babies it will be coming back. Do you know what I mean so it's like a little crawlspace addicts. We have all this space where we can look around. Get them out so you know he's the landlord so we're GonNa let him try and deal with it and then if in like a couple of days it's still going to call this other company but yeah if you follow me on Instagram and watch my story. It's basically just me shirtless in my kitchen listening to a raccoon scream bloody. It is nope just recommend less cool. I know if you want to summon us or like follow. Bryce smirking says on instagram right there Um so if you guys want to summon us or contact us we are always happy for that. You can stop this on instagram and facebook at Hollywood paranormal in twitter at H.. W. podcasts have a story that you're dying to share. No Pun intended that email is at Hollywood paranormal paranormal at Gmail Dot com which some of you guys have we blur gasoline dion. I love it. I love reading your story. We love stocking you on facebook relate okay first and last name. We're going to go on faith. I don't have a Lotta hobbies. Catch up with their past episodes on blueberry apple podcast Google podcasts stitcher soundcloud Google play cast box player F._M.. In spotify guys all right so till next this time I believe our next episode might be our big one before our hiatus because may is going to be my hell month but I might be Ninja paying another episode because it just so happened that O._C.. GHOSTS AND LEGENDS INSANE HIT US up. I mean get this O._C.. Ghosts and legends guys go listen to the <hes> to the episode thirty seven listen to the amazing things that this paranormal team does confer manner or mansion is the location that Ghost Adventures did in season twelve. I believe is episode thirty something but that is their place they invited your girls to go and interview bound and pretty much yeah do a live interview from that manner. It is an intense place. There are tunnels so I will be skyping in from the in announced little animal prohibition tunnels on that were once walked through Bisi seal that also that also and so so yeah. There's a lot of haunted haunted T. there. It's it's GonNa be a great episode and we cannot wait to join them once again but it's so awesome to be invited by this amount so sweet and this is going to be an an amazing event that they're going to do so if you want more information on O._C.. Ghosts and legends that go on W._W._W.. Dot U._C. GOES AND LEGENDS DOT COM Lucy Ghosts and legends on Instagram facebook and twitter all right guys till next time if you WANNA find out what our next episode is going to be before hiatus then you're GonNa have to follow US MHM guys Gotcha but we will definitely be going back in time to the eighties all right so next time guys price you in a checker refer reckon.
Episode 202: Look at These Lips (Feat. Raheem DeVaughn)
"What's that what's at this lip service? I'm Lee G._D.. McGuire I'm Stephanie Santiago. I'm Larry Al Rahim Tobar. Hello nicest smooth. That's a lot of pressure to be the love King expectation I think his expectations what has limited to just you know sex or relationships or in the expectation of like you know your mate but like in all seriousness like the love king the whole love King thing is not limited to just you know aren't trying to be sexy got it. You know <hes> you know. It's more the loved it. I have people the love that half a community. I hope that I in most cases carry myself like a King and a humble king in a sense of light walking amongst the people polling piano service to the people like from community aspect is more as more than his music every time I see him. He's be humble to come into the hey how you doing but he does talk like that. All the time. Yeah I feel like our minds is in a gutter because I was I think about love and he said not but I I chose. Girl is pretty told me hey. What's that move like? They said it's not a picture. I took ballet Gemina. Okay Yeah. I'm a Sagittarius and Macapa core capricorn nature. When I'm dealing with Iota tour she may fifth horse? So what does that mean exactly about you <hes> we we have like we got like a different kind of loyalty we loyal to we very stubborn and bull headed and creatives children say do you have any children do it again Barbie Leasing territory my both of my dad's my biological father and my stepfather who I was raised by both there may seventh and may ten ORCA and everything that you're explaining I see my dad. We're home bodies that same part of the tar being born May next Netflix and chill she personality defined by charm impracticality. You have a special brand of wit and charisma greatly enjoy. Although you easily connect with people you may may prefer to only open up to a select few and we're givers like we will give that's why exit you have children because both of my fathers were very generous not only with their time in their finances but with their love for all all of their children ten children for me because I got nineteen brothers. Yes tough for me yeah. Wow you're just as bad. I've always struggled with night. I don't see my kids as much as I want to. You know what I'm saying and and so I'm definitely in a place like right is figuring that out like you know what I mean like in. They cool what they're cool. They're understanding the mothers cool understanding budgets for me like I need. I need your energy. You know what I'm saying so it's <hes> but but the payoff like that the trade off for the gift that we have as creators and artists is like there's a lot of people that need your energy to make sense. Yes so it's a it's a is a very slippery slope slope with that. You know what I mean and in is you know unfortunately parenting does not come with a handbook absolutely look now and you know so it's trial and error a lot of that is contributed to the way I was raised. You know may not like my my father was not in my household but he was in my life and I think part of that <hes> so it's kind of like trying to break the cycle of light the level of compatibility and not being. I'm not cooled that so those I know I'm not cool with that. It's like you always working towards the goal and it's a lot to juggle because you know you gotta keep them. You got to keep the bills. Keep the bills pay lights on and making shorted. They had the light that I didn't have but you can't buy love either. No you can't get it's been just like conscientious of it in the mindset so it's working towards that for many mothers and do they get along for for now is no it's a level of discipline. It comes with being someone's child's father or having being or having a child with a woman not being in a house. You know saying I think I think we're really get crazy. We can get crazies. It's like if you you know are going from bad to be between the mother it tight for destruction. You know like you know so it's it's a love them disciplined understanding happens like you know at the end of the day Kudos to them because they they allow me they make some very huge sacrifices sacrifices that allow me to beat the riding Var that the world get the joy and you know what I'm saying like I is it. Ain't I know it ain't easy. You know what I'm saying for them yet alone. My my children so again again by co-parenting is cool thing when you know when when it's done properly to any of them get back in the failing of like I._B._M.. Together like when maybe you're out with your child together or something like that does ever get to the point where they're so you know we should get back again. Oh no think Nah I mean I think you know <hes> you know damn in in their life. I'm sure you know what I'm saying so it's cool. You know what I mean. That is not a toxic the situation you know what I'm saying. It's been it's folks in a row is missing challenges in there. I think everybody goes through that but again when you when you send it on the child and what's best for the child at the end of the day it will force him to grow up. That's intimidating for a man and that they're datings. It'd be like Oh you have a child with <hes> with the love game again. It depends depends on it depends on who they're dating it depends on you know how insecure security <hes> you know what I mean me <hes> but it's all good man more for like just keeping it's crazy I just saw <hes> I was in essence right and you know when I gaze was torn with genuine singing background for him so I popped up g brought me out or whatever ah thought was very <unk> during his show that you know knowing I remember when he first started dating so like you know Sam also very I also have a very close relationship with <unk> professor griff off a public enemy and he brought Griffin stage. That's nice. You know what I'm saying like. Solo was part of the set nice. You know what I mean a lot to get to that point to May. Maybe maybe not but the point I'm trying to make. Is that that that mindset that's great in terms of like you know I think for us as people are Black Brown color in particular no saying I know that that's how I see a lot white folks they could operate like that but we have to stick mutation is put on us as far as like having baby fathers and baby mothers and they're just being negative energy and that can't the energy can't exist and expulsion have to be honest to community. Oh you got to be honest and your emotions and you know and luggage or old feelings you may be carrying or you know what I'm saying. That doc plays a role in it to my son's father and I we're. We're like best friends. It took us a while to get there but when I tell people what how hot is I shouldn't be surprised why not where we were best friends. When we were together you know we had our issues breaking up and now it's been almost eight years on? We're good friends right. You know you get through it. You got so I want to ask you this. I had a debate with the guys on the morning. Show Oh Klay about this right and my whole thing was always feel like for me. Relationships have always worked best when both parties are very independent people choose to come together and then be able to depend on each other but know that I can hold it down but I choose to rely on you for certain things not that I have to but because I know I can and they said that when you're in a relationship you can't be independent anymore. So I'm going to get your thoughts on that. <hes> I think for for Mel of emails you had is definitely important to maintain your sense of independence but whether you are single or in a relationship we Johnnie somebody we all want something. You know what I'm saying. Someone's not or at least know we had the option of being able to lean on somebody. Not just you know in a financial state but emotionally physically spiritually you know bounce also ideas off of you know. That's I think so. I think you know for somebody you know for for for Bravo had ice cold heart stone are only by his bullshit. You know what I'm saying F for The Independent Renaissance a woman you know of of today <hes> you know is much you know we all need something. Women were attractive or do you think that they're attracted to me. I think some in some of them are Tim updated aided by women that are in a position of power that make more money than them and and Y. You know what I mean like. It's a it's a from what I'm hearing in the streets. I E you know but you know I wanted a man. I don't I'm not looking for my lady. That'd be my momma like you know what I'm saying. So you know you got that mentality to floating out there where you know a lot of times we always you know as men are we. You know we on we a lot of gold digging out here too now the moments together they like you know what I mean and you know they living off of a woman you know saying that's why it is important to be independent because we're not really necessarily independent be able to stand on your own too because what happens if we're together and you're the provider and you fall off and I'm not I'm here depending on you now. Where do we stand? You know what I mean like. It's great if you can pick up the pieces when they're able to drop it to like you do have to have a side of independence and do things on your own because it will benefit their relationship periodic to wholly independent people that come together that he is a power for couple relationships and don't drive because the finance or sex right so like you can be a part of the team still be independent star player still part of it that guy listening to you what you was kind of trying to let them know like you can be independent doesn't mean that you're not a part of this thing. I don't need you to do everything myself here. Let's say I can handle business regardless. I can help you and I think for me I know. Oh how if I really care about somebody that allow them to help me and that's how you know you really care because it's hard for me to take help from people unless I have strong feelings for them but other than that. I don't want something from me because I don't WanNa feel like I owe somebody something unless I care about them too right right you know and then I also think red flag when a guy wants you to give up your independence like if he's like Oh. I don't want you to work anymore because he wanted to. Control you right. That's a control friends. Stay home and do this thing. I think that's weird and I'm not really going for. I and I'm not saying that if you're like oh stay home and me you know tonight. I'm not feeling well. Of course I'm GonNa do that but if you just don't want me to go out at me Bo volume have you ever told any woman occurs independence. I'm a hustle and go get it. I make moves things as a do. A lot of people rely on me so I need that that energy Kinda Kinda Kinda be the save you not moving or you're not you know how your own business or you know <hes> it could be appetite for destruction. You know saying like so you know. I'm a work hard. Play hard kind of got like in that so you if you've got things going on as actually Kinda Great Kinda occupy the time that we await from trevor or you might find yourself it kind of really over analyzing time apart I share and you know what I'm saying problems immediate Amman and a dozen idol Tom could be the biggest can be your biggest enemy biggest challenge. You know what I'm saying girl take charge until you what to do sometimes definitely Anina some boss Bossy Sassy but in the bedroom which I knew she was leading up here for you Bob boss now keep it real. This is from Danton. They sent us a bunch of toys but the rumor. Is that a lot you guys don't really like toys in the room because they get intimidated when they're women like toys to play with toys. 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Okay say them not playing like a surprise three so not a plan for somebody. Unlike situation thought a threesome ended up being a Fox you could be with one woman for the rest of your life in just one woman. Only I mean learning more about myself every day. You know what I'm saying like <hes>. If it's for the right reasons in the right woman you know updated updated women who who want monogamy dated women who Arina Swing and outdated women who you know I mean I guess is either one or the other right so it really just depends on. I'm learning how I got. You know you gotta learn the sexist and everything no no saying plays a big factor but as a really about what you what you want what you gravitate to how disciplined you can be you know what I'm saying understanding that everything you see amen for you to touch Hamson negative into bat is a challenge though you know what I'm saying like women challenge from Dino secret like woken alerts like I love everything about a woman petite. Not Plus is whatever you know what I'm saying. Bring it. You know what I mean like. This is like when when when you know when a creator may like shit he showed out. I feel got burping. That's more dangerous somebody that doesn't have a particularly tight dangerous I mean can you be that he would never actually gives you. Actually he gives you potentially more variety and in a good way you know what I'm saying like not having a title like physical tight tight but it ain't a physical type. It's like is one of them without word conversation. Thanks chemistry by as kind of conversation piece that happens like finishing your senses and just kind of like or you just know chemistry thing about talk about all the Tom all like pheromones and energy is real feel for magnet. I'm a firm believer that women no within thirty seconds to a minute wherever they need to like run for the hills they pennies like I'm like fuck this Nigga so point like it might be before. I should do it morally the next seventy two hours so let me whatever or debt like you our forever friend zone he asked me is just not happening. We think we know but it never turns out the way that we I okay. I believe that we know but there's been a couple surprise tread. I meet and L. Never and why he now. Is there such a thing as whack pussy like it just doesn't feel good physically yeah. Call Weapons in court Pussy on court are experiencing or like where it was kind of like want some like you got up from like ten you just wanted to just you just wanted to be able to say you know what I'm saying like but like the actual tap wouldn't good like a waste of good. It's like dry not just wasting in just like it's an energy thing didn't clink click chemistry to have cameras have or the proper proper conversations and call it the naked tango for no reason not to like really being tool with if the person in Dance Moves Bernie somebody that I think is like has the best sex athere and then someone else that I like about maybe that Jack Beatty. I learned a long time ago sexual. What about what about somebody who was person his personality you hate it but they're sexist? Good does that happen of course course is kind of getting on your nerves or you know you don't learn other than in the bedroom. You know what I mean like. I think men can do that yeah. There probably was one guy I wouldn't even say I dated him when I was younger and he was really getting bad but he was weck see that's how he was as Corny like he thought he was mad cool. He always has sunglasses presence here. What are you doing situation where the guy with an intelligent enough for me and I didn't learn that until being around him more and more that I'm telling you you mean like like he was like no? I remember again yeah. He was like a dumb blonde and that he was like everything else about him. I really like but then when he got the talk and I'm just like I. It wasn't like you make it was mute because yeah because me talk about our own personal lie that I saw your face then I couldn't take it anymore Tak- unattractive and I couldn't do it anymore. See we have standards them right now. Is there such a thing as being too busy for a relationship because you're a busy busy person. We all are pretty busy heavy. That'd be both say though you make time for what you care about your you make time for what you care about me like I think about what you told not agree with that. I mean you make time for what you care about. I think it is such thing as being too busy for relationship but sometimes we still want what we want and sometimes I think that more we want <hes> and you you know men. Have we as men. Sometimes we feel like we could tell the woman a lot of times like we tell 'em hey light Yo. I'm not ready for this. I'm not ready for a relationship or we tell you right and it is not like here is <music> autophagy noted you so but you know you got some. You've got some bomb plus he so you taking like my shit. I'M GONNA CHANGE HIS MOM guys. I'm not ready but then they bring you around your family. Whatever whatever wherever the ingredients offer influence? You feel like I hear you but you ain't you ain't ever GonNa take you on vacation. I'm not ready for a relationship though oh come meet. My mom like guys do stuff like that. Well you know I'm working. I'm working on a book and one of the things that will be in the book you know saying don't don't take my shit because I confine scared. It's it's song. I've learned that that you have to treat people. Don't treat the person you're dating like your girlfriend. Not Girlfriend like your wife is level seditious girlfriend like your wife. What is that treat the person pitcher dating my girlfriend? My girlfriend like you're white. I don't treat a girlfriend like your way. Every title has title for reason my boyfriend chase me like his wife or his it so here's a cat on only only in the event only in advance you know for you know and it works on both sides shitty only only in the event of the potential potential. You know what I'm saying then that's where it gets. That's that's where some shit though to like. What I'm saying is is is women are here you know m man fucking on one another and they know they ain't got no intention that Shit keep it Alba's right but like all the gassing and necessary and capping and then what I have realized capacity accountability is Israel? You know what I'm saying and they hold you. You know you some women out here. That's GonNa hold you accountable to what you say. That's GonNa hold you accountable to what you say and especially on hold you accountable by what you say. According to what you do you know what I'm saying <hes> in Business Life love whatever you accountable to what you tell me is how you is what you do. She shown you act like you know what I'm saying. I'm Arby's thing is there sometimes as easy in the matters dealing with matters at heart and just like you know they married women women in a relationship. Do you let them Kayla by in you like ask about right right guy here on cool. So do you like if they come to you like this happen. Equity would you let them confiding you like as far as they tell you about their personal their problems and then really no you know why because I'm so I'm so true with it. I feel like I feel like that's me hating on that on like you know what I'm saying. <hes> I WANNA give you less we unless we unless we had a place of really really really like friendship. Where where where I notice you like? That's a real slippery slope what I'm saying. I won't be that God. I feel like they could be like you know what I'm saying. I don't WanNa feel like hey. Hey you know like Daddy. That's kind of like breaking codes but don't tell me about your relationship to you. Please them but they didn't into like you know no bandwith Igor. They belong to somebody else. You've done it but you not into it. I mean I think or or you don't you don't know like you know what I'm saying like. It's like after it is after the Oh by the way you know what I'm saying. I was still debating fly by the way I have a boyfriend or by the way I'm married. I'm married Shit like I all all the time like you know there's a lot of people in the grave in in prison for you know what I'm saying for Pussy. Has Anybody ever tried to put a baby on you. That wasn't yours Kinda like I saw spy is Saas by the first the firs- out we'll take back the first out this is the first and it a heart your heart art. You gotta be careful with that for anybody. That's been out there because they have you know how you you can you can use my find yourself becoming like you know hating women and hurting people. You know what I'm saying and indirectly you know not when you don't when you don't deal with that you know what I mean it. Would they say <hes> Mama's maybe pop mama's Baby Papa's main. You know what I'm saying like you know so yeah definitely been through that have to be devastate in our eh find out that you that you you know saying you're going to go into you know rub bellies in hospital visits and there and watch the baby names to find out that you know that's not your child and not only just you get family your family and had a baby shower your mom your dad your daddy like he's a basketball player not happened to him when he was in. <hes> you know once a college his high school sweetheart they got <unk> pregnant and when the baby came they did the baby shower all of that families knew each other always and when the baby came and it wasn't his but you know what I learned how to always he's a fucking asshole ever since he doesn't look at things from both sides right and unfortunately it's a real fucked up guys out there to make babies had no intentions or whatever so so for the women out there they might they might disagree. Do I know he's GonNa be a great day. You know what I mean. Britain is very again it passed. It's very very selfish. I hope is is. I try to look at everything on now but they were high school sweethearts Dow all supposed to be but I think that that's probably what the women's thinking like. I really did hope it's because she fucking don't even know she had no Birla. Those scenarios where you like you know what I'm saying what's up like to say my kid and you say who the daddy and they could tell you the address Dennis like I you know what I mean valued like what kind of get like on what kind of game you really plan so how would you how do you think she should have handled that situation like to- both of y'all. I'm not sure whose it is with me on. Nobody's ever going to what I'm saying like in myself being like I learned like no matter how hard it is 'cause I've learned some valuable lessons when it comes to choosing and line and honesty and is just like that La trying to eventually <music> another way I might have had a baby who looked like the the caveat today. What did what did she do? She got a tight in the do just like you and they are going to be fathers types Jason all of their mothers of their children look alike and me and my siblings you can look at us and not selling mother because we all tight that's true right. You better hope phrases. That's the only thing they get away with <hes> Asian one and a black one Spanish one and something else. I don't know but you never know to still even with that. That's shown you yes. My hair is Pale was the Pale L. is thing I've ever seen <hes> who was read my mother's like a little Brown and G G because sometimes one parent could be darker and the baby come out looking like that and then the other kid come out. Children can also take the traits from nick grandparents looking live nothing like that baby big. Come out singing baby it all right. So what do you think are some things that you could do to be a better mate. Oh by the way I got brand new album out. Oh that's like the greatest ship for are going down in history as some uh-huh greatest you know a project like is my greatest body of work my contribution of black music you know what I'm saying. It's the soundtrack to like relationship knife your bedroom game beach. Just all of that like you know what I mean says is definitely with the research arm being sold music. Black Music is asking a question minute by get this out. Black Music is the only culture is only cost discarding like where's where's it's tweeted as its as disposable you know what I'm saying so we have to remember to reclaim we ought to reclaim our our in our culture and our existence as bloggers bloggers as black radio depends on so. Don't you know what I'm saying. It's the only thing is treated like you know what I'm saying is discarded so again. It's all available all social media or streaming platforms <music> all your mom and pop stores. I'm one of those few artists is still sell. C._D.'s very jackson-lee came in with a C._d.. Of meeting the number four album this we rb album congratulations that J street we'll be streaming crazy right now streaming crazy right now not just once on the entire album. You know what I mean your brothers. You won't put that on just let that marinate me right. You were just in South Africa to question aalto. We'll get back to the things that you think you could do. Better as like if you could improve on some things about yourself and critique yourself being being being being open to the ideas like damn deep question right now what are some things. I feel like I could would make me a better mate. I don't know I think that I'm Kinda in space where just understanding that everything takes his time are you open and patience and my open to like you open when you're with somebody. Are you open for love. You open like all of that. You know what I'm saying. Is You know what it is doing a better job here. It is doing a better job of juggling my career uh-huh understanding that <hes> everything kind of has his time in this place so I'm very one dimensional so one of the things that I know that like that. I still like a challenge for me that I know from like you know my oldest. My oldest son is thirteen right pretty much and I remember kind of light a time where his mom's like Yo- you just always like being in my own world like like you know what I'm saying in terms of my career and the things that I feel like like important to me. Just put the phone down guy set the phone down since I got to the point Sur in days to connect back to a vet to disconnect and invest into your your family your children you'll lady. You know what I'm saying. Your Mom Your Dad. You know what I'm saying and that's something that I think I still struggle with to this day. Because I'm so passionate about what would I do and I think that I'm truly addicted to like making music in what I do not necessarily not not so much to accolades and fame or like you know what I'm doing to get a piece of pussy or something like that but so much this is insight like you know like I don't know clubs and that's I'm getting paid in the bag to do it. You know what I mean like a lot of times. I'm in a different city like if it's obscene going get going and club or you know a Zadie zadie child pull up now. I'm being in the studio. You know what I mean like or. I'm going to be doing some community where it go like building a legacy. You know what I'm saying right and <hes> and I just I just really every before the world knew my name. I works for Chevy Chase Bank. I worked for giant food. Our foot action alleged job. I was at tower records like every job I've ever had adding a customer service or whatever but I know what hard work is since I was like as thirteen fourteen years old you know so I try to dibbled and dabbled in the streets as I say quick that was not for me. You don't mean like so. All I know is hard work. You know what I'm saying so sometimes I'll so consumed by Donana people that I take care of the people that depend on me. You know what I'm saying. It's like you lose sight of the fact that the people that really matter to you most. They're hurting. They need you day you know saying and about like just in some money or it's about time situation. You know what I'm saying. It's about physical year. The real thing for me in the last two years is is having no I believe in protecting my family a loved one so I don't put business completely out there but a particular family member where I had to see like get guardianship of them go in and go in my world had stopped everything. Athena's moving in my world and go and take care of them eight and get them back right. You know what I mean and that right. There Kinda like was groundbreaking from me great because it was I was on <hes>. You know what I'm saying. It wasn't able to do it it. What you know what I mean no other family member whatever it was Kinda I got the call we think the only one that they can make this APP and stop every day regardless of what was going on and in a going on at the time but I made it my business to you know any you know sometimes when you move so fast like the Creator Universe will do things grab your attention? You know what I'm saying just like just just like the people take for granted and your world. You know what I'm saying like so they'll go grab the attention. It'd be like Yo. You know what I mean like you. Can't you can't so you saw sewed so I think that for me. There's still a work in progress and that's something definitely I am. You know without notice challenge that we're going okay. That's fair enough now that you know. Is it warm out. Finally the last thing I want to do is stay in the house standing over the stove trying to cook like something. There's so much fun stuff to do during the summer. 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No it ain't too much we can do you know see we talked about this before about initiating more being more aggressive at less than that I learned how much I'm an extremist though so I got to be careful because you're doing you don't want someone like you doin' Shit and then it'd be like picking out the bushes like I'm street like you know what I mean like I just I learned about my personality addictive personality in an extremist so I'm very extremely competitive right so those those things can be appetite for destruction when you're talking about like sex intimacy because abby first of all don't I'd also learned to everybody deserves to be able to have to be able to have what I'm offering go for you. You like in create learn that you know what I'm saying. That's still something that's like. You know work in progress and understanding. You know what I mean but like you know. I think that you know you do you do as boys do men. Do you know saying at the end of the day there's always multiple attractions to whatever again is about what you open to your mate which I'll try and explore which I try to do you know at the end the day I know trophy for nobody and women are not a trophy to be necessarily early life confident and just move on when are discarded. You know what I'm saying. That's not denied to learn to think I think that's any man needs to know that all these here that you act accordingly from you know what I'm then. What is the most orgasms you head in a row the most or the most orgasm orgasms I've ever had in a row again like you? Just can't I'm more. I'm more into what how many she had. ooh You know saying like acting list emotions that come to light. Can you come and go a game right. After when I'm saying is is I if I'm coming our incomes. I'm not ready into active view like for me for me. Personally to active intimacy is about I'm totally I'm on some. Please like me so not to say that. I'm not there to enjoy myself going to have a good time right. That's what you enjoy is pleasing somebody. That's how you go go mega album. I should say like steam in Lebanon United Right not not now now. What is what is best though is when you encounter someone who got the same and that's when they can get all kind of like you know it'd be laid back? No you lay back it just Kinda just Kinda just organic like you were in a great c._N._N.. Mind when you did this album I'm I'm in a state of mind when I make music and I make music daily as I walked in here in the studio which I forgot. I get a couple of hours in here too late to well before I wanna I wanna own so because because I'm constantly making music and real time I'm physically write anything down right. We dealing with real live emotions in that current state of how I feel typically most of the time I made museums between the hours of light nine P._M.. In not is they say some of the most the greatest time for creatives between I don't know why but they say between like three and four and that's typically like when I'm in there like okay when I'm in my zone you know what I mean so I don't care what I gotTa do the next day like if this morning news taking kids school a flight whatever I just gotTa get it in like this. Is this a part of me you know saying and so is so so it makes it easy to put out albums I got I got a fifteen years worth of music already recording damn listen listen just a second my drop. This is seven hour. This is the second time I dropped in alas not in the last eight nine eight months. Yeah you just like I'm on my second. Decade are going to be a problem and for far I too long. I've been purposely. I will admit I purposely in my light or like not out of insecurity but just being humble and and I'm still humble but it's a time and a place for that and I know that I'm not I know that I know I'm tapped into my inner goat `ISMs and I know that I know I'm great at what I do and I'm one of the greatest of my generation you know what I'm saying and I don't. It's not a grammy that Denisa Chinese it that I need to tell me that it ain't obt award show that my team can change management wise agents whatever he loves you guys they don't really care about is is in connection with the consumer in music lover in what I'm saying and I was doing that before long before it was cool to do. You know what I'm saying. Now you gotta almost damn near do it right you know what I mean because between social and that's why you see so many artists crashing and burning because it's just like it's just like a dull aw I could smell fear. You know what I'm saying and is this like you know. People come up on your naked they can they can sense that you the real deal. Are you not the real deal. Are you full you fool in the people. You know what I'm saying like you know the big always say like open. Mike's stuff like that always expose our musicians because you can go to open mic. You can take the best of the best a let let and let let let improvisational moment happened right at U._C.. WHO's contrived? WHO's the real do who's a student at a cry who real musicians are right who crop comfortable than they skin? Who you know what I'm saying? That's across the board. Whether you're talking pop country hip pop rb or what have you so <hes> you know I'm done dim my light and and and everything has its time has of course you know what I mean. I'm glad you know it's. There's no reason to me is is is Tom but everything everything happens when they're supposed to being consistent for such a long time and putting out says gray music. Are you selling any of these songs artists. It's funny you say that I think my biggest flaw at doing. My career is being selfish with my plan <unk> bridge selfish saying I think I have a very distinct sound you do and now I'm ready to give it to the world right meaning any artist you want to go in the studio. You want me to do out more you the EP whatever light let's get it. You know what I'm saying. I'm I'm currently working on a number of things on one of the prizes super excited about is V. Bozeman saying guy so we in the studio heavy working on her project and it's not just limited into a song is a body of work is sound. You know what I mean. <hes> <hes> assisted by the name of era you may remember grenade from being on Motown just like <hes>. It's a it's a it's a it's a plateau artist working right now different things I I've worked with. I wrote in Russia in the past. Jamie Foxx contribute to t pain projects <hes> like you'll be really go our Atlantic. Oh Our love super outlook. It'll happen. It's all right before the world and she's always been man. I think that would be as I'm so I'm so happy for her like we have in this crazy like to to now look up over on the charts with the Ireland is of the world. <hes> you know Daniel Caesar's no you. You know have a great first week and you know see my name is Chris Brown or Kurt Franklin or a whoever right in his like brow like speaks to speak to staying power cease to like you stick to your guns like at some point it it they catch up. You know what I'm saying for me on someone who I really love respect who is like a mentor to me and so many levels doug fresh got a great relationship and I remember one time. He pulled me to the side. He said you the last one Brian. I didn't know what he meant. I understand what he meant when I know what he put on the radio what he meant you know what I'm saying and so for me. It's a it's the concept of the last man standing. I understand that this that for me creatively it's a marathon is not a sprint and as long as you keep moving you know you get on the track and you just keep moving you sprint when you need any to you. Slow down you need to you might even walk but you never stop. That's right you know what I'm saying if you never and as long as you never stop moving you know you start looking to the sock focus run out of graph. They stop for a minute if I never stop moving you know what I mean. Allow yes so so it's it's the last man standing effect on you know in type the opposite nosov music fifteen years Wayne we anticipate. We know it's on Tommy the MAZAS claiming on like that but like it's a lot of music you mentioned Chris Brown just now so we think about the whole situation he's going through with words that he used because you don't use words stories like that and your Song Chris from a different generation I look as we had the same birthday. That's great so that's my brother. You know what I'm saying. That's my brother and at the end of the day I love I remember the dated Quiz Walking and walking job Affleck. I remember the day he signed it. He was there bright eyed bushy tailed to now so at the end of the day <hes> the trials and tribulations of life but just what they are you know what I'm saying he has he has he has run his course of like had to my mind and regardless of like the pitfalls or the highs and lows want that you can't take from his as a conic. You know what I'm saying he has he has he has taken journey. Just you know so you know I'm big home he did that. You know what I'm saying from afar <hes> the people that are around you can't can't can't can't can you build you up or tell you down. You know what I'm saying so <hes> you know I don't know who is who who who is voice voice a reason if you know saying around him but definitely you know saying you gotTa keep the right people around you that you trust but you got to also be willing to be open open to the idea with somebody. Say Abraham like that ain't right. You know what I'm saying and if ain't nobody telling you that you might have a lot of people don't give a fuck about it's high with media though because people no no I'm saying there's nothing no one can do about it. Yeah you know what I mean so she's Oh boy I get it. I'm a tourist so many times I wanna like while out and or speaking about or speaking my mind a really say how I feel you know what I'm saying or really cold people out on different things or whatever you know what I mean shocking if you shit like day Old San when people say like hey man how you today man I'm cool if I if I had to complain when nobody want here anyway right you know what I'm saying so feeling you really tell them a senior way and it does what they go. They're going to go hug somebody else. Tell them you'll bed new. So you gotta be careful. Those bring you bed news releases about the company so you keep and if that means you gotta stand alone walk along. That's how you see me on what L._A.. I'm never alone to create a with me and it's a lot of people out here that love me you know but I'm not into a lot of people that you know Success Breeds Evian Jealousy and whatever you know what I'm saying so it's on again man you know I got an basketball Chris is this is the Israeli about at the end of the day. I'm sure he loves himself is really really the real question is how many people around and really love them and really got his best interest and really the voice of reason and whatever what people that you know what I'm saying because I sit back and watch the show and watch the fireworks and then get to check and you know what I'm saying so you know and I think that that's something that we as artists you know artists a lot of times we torture ourselves because we give so much we pour so much into other people report so much into the culture and wanted to us whereas are beautiful kids. Even your parents Aritz will take you through the ringer for some of us. You know what I'm saying so light. You know it's not a whole lot of care I can't you know I'm a conic in my own sense but I can't imagine what it'd be like at that level. I think that's part of the reason that's probably reason why kind of like dim the light little bit because I want to do what I want to be known what I what I realize at the end of the day now like it ain't going to happen. We'll never I was born to to do what I do. This is my gift and let it shine as bright as do and if that's what come with it so be you know what I'm saying but I'm GonNa keep some room was around me. They can be like a boat. That's all wack. Go back in the studio. Get Downright. You know what I'm saying and a legal move. You bought the me right or you need to take that down immediately. That's how you feeling cool. Let's talk about it. Go get a counselor. Let's you know what I'm saying but don't don't don't don't do that right you. No you gotta go because you have somewhere else to be. Go No shit. That's what he's saying. We shall we talk now. You can combat. Did we get they. They will give me a watch. We got some silicon lubricant for you. This is not gonna Lug Clown. Obviously I told you I gave your giant forest next review. I got this little pussy poem the real real real gotTa Look Yeah I would love to. I love to come back. Come back and we're GONNA talk about all about eve come in. I didn't think he was really going to show us him. Dan We me and he was and I was like you've gotta come to lip service to say yeah. That's another me too. I've been calling myself out on my on my follow through game okay. Do you know what I'm saying getting better. Excuse me a lot of times we don't we blocked all blessings by the Sydney following through on situations another tactic from the book. You know what I'm saying. What's the three day three gators three the greatest gifts that the creative fucking three greatest this gift that to create a universe where you give given us in your opinion greatest yes three three three three gifts family love take two more oven love outbreak? John Palgrave a break down in a book though but are the three things once I discovered thinks is like my whole world opened opened up a whole universe right and it's the it's the it's the it's the three gators gifts in my opinion are the gift of time from the time we were born. We are running out of time so the gift of time right. It's a gift a free will and decision from time. We wake up you can you can decide whether you're going to be a no show at the lip service you can decide. You won't do the Preface Club we decided not wash away gopi productive get a bag not get a bag whatever right so as to give the time <hes> gift a decision and give a gift to one another. You know what I'm saying. Give the relationships I really cultivating and a lot of times roles with people industry or whatever and you stand unnecessary my and just cause. You ain't simply say hey. What's your name would you do you never know what what they had to offer to offer them? You know what I'm saying and sometimes it ain't nothing is simple conversation. Did you say something and drop a jewel on the more. My focus has been thinking about jumping off a bridge. You know what I'm saying. There's nobody acknowledges great. You know what I'm Kim and Jessie acknowledgement that you can so again you know as long as we use the gift of time free willing decision and one another property is all good so I'm definitely by amy goes on those those are extensions of it for me but like it's really about <hes> you know accountability and of course you know on my word. Definitely I'll be back alerts the punt. Thank you yelling enjoy. That is a great love making album. It's a great taking on vacation with you. A y'all have a good time is definitely a contender for rb so album of the year on a decade of a lifetime. I think that this body work is very special and it feels that way. You know it's only been like a week or two sisters out but I've never had this much momentum with an album out and I can gauge it now because of social media because of different platforms because you know people speaking getting a minor talking about it so you know don't don't worry if I blow up. You know blow a more than I had. Don't don't don't go crazy. Don't don't don't don't be don't be selfish. It don't be selfish with the spread spread spread the love man. That's what you know what I'm saying like about dot divine.