274 - How To Make A Comeback After Youve Let People Down
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Order your copy now at everything figure out -able dot com. Hey it's marie forleo and you you are watching murray tv the place to be if you wanna create a business in life you love 'em. This is q. and a. tuesday. Today's question comes from ben and ben writes. Hello from south africa. Thank you so much. Your videos are an endless source of motivation. You are so welcome bent. I'm not yet thirty but i've worked my way fairly high up within my company. I'm the youngest senior manager and have worked tirelessly to build a solid reputation but unfortunately last year my physical spiritual and and mental health took a dive. I got through a serious illness and burnout but in the process i dropped so many balls missed so many deadlines and let so many people down. Luckily i was able to get back up. I just wish i could say the same for my reputation. I fear i've lost the respect of my business partners and that the damage may jeopardize future the opportunities. I've reached out to people to explain what happened but i fear him no longer being given the chance to prove myself. How do i rebuild trust with my business partners and colleagues. Thanks so much ben ben ben ben ben ben ben. Ben greets question. You've got an every human being on earth makes mistakes sakes however it is possible to make a comeback now. I know you've said you've explained your behavior but i'm curious. Did you do it in the most effective way if i were you. Here's what i do number. One take a walk in their shoes. I i'd list all the people that i let down and the exact ways that might behaviour affected them tom. This is a great tool to allow you to see everything from another person's point of view which is awesome for communicating more effectively number to have a heart to heart and put it in writing doesn't matter whether it's in person or over the phone you just want to start calling your peeps and you can say something like as you know. Last year was rough and mom. I'm thrilled to be back in may be hard for you. Trust me again. I apologize for the problems. I caused and you have my word. It will never happen again. I'm committed to this company and to wit success in fact. Here's my plan to make sure it never does and here's what i'll do to make it up to you. If you'll give me the chance after you've had the conversation follow up with a thank you note and on reiterate what you said remember. It's one thing to say. You're going to change a whole other thing to put it in writing number three. Don't talk about it. Be about it it. Maybe a cliche but actions do speak louder than words so don't let your mind screwing with you. Don't think about what other people think just commit to being a pro. I want you to remember this and yes. It's a tweet oval. Positive action is the best way to put your mistakes in in the past ben. I know you're that people won't give you a second chance but i'll bet you can get them rooting for you. Remember everybody loves a great comeback ben. That was my eighty year q. I hope it helps now. I would love to hear from you. Have you ever led a bunch of people down. How did you make your comeback and on the flip. Side has someone whenever let you down and really come back strong. What did they do. I would love to hear your story as always the best discussions happen after the episode over at marie eight four leo dot com so go there and leave a comment now. Did you like this video if so subscribe and share it with your friends and if you want even more great resources to create a business in life that you love plus some personal insights for me that i only talk about an email. Get your buns over to marie. Leo dot com and sign up for e mail updates. Stay on your game and keep going for your dreams because the world needs that special gift that only you have thank you so much for watching and i'll see you next time on murray tv. Hey one more thing can three words your life. Oh hell yes they can and they will whether you wanna leave lebed dead end jobs breaking addiction learn salsa healer relationship grow a business master your money or solve world hunger the three words. You need our wait for it. Everything thing is you know that little phrase changed my life and it's the title of my new book which is bound to change yours preorder. Everything is figuring well now and save that receive because it's your ticket to an incredible online coaching experience designed to help you rewire your brain for success. It's a brand new program that you can only get if you preordered the the book before september tenth order your copy now at everything is figure out -able dot com.