Jay Jade Jade, Christina Who, George Noory discussed on Coast to Coast AM with George Noory
And we're back Christina with us. Where did you go Christina? How have your daughters handled all of this? Well, losing their dads. So young was actually very devastating traumatic. It was it was it was actually hard for them to understand imagine a four year old and a six year old saying I wanna see my diet. Daddy. Where's daddy? That's exactly what it was. And and I tried to explain it to them. And I have to tell you this story. My four year old when I told her I said, Honey daddy. Died, and you know, he's not going to be with us here like this anymore. And she turned around me. Mommy, does that mean that he gets to see now everything I do? He was concerned that he was going to see all the things that she didn't want him to see. So he was I smiled in the tears, and when you're young you process these very differently in my six year old literally cried going up deers. She knew we meet she's shown me, come home. I had told her that when I was to come home, and means that daddy was gone. And she was devastated just two year difference between a four year old and a six year old. And it's a very different processing loss of him. Did he have a history of colon cancer and his family, and that's a very good question for everyone was listening. Get your colonoscopy. He did not. And she was, you know, having back pain and bleeding, and he we used to live in the bay area Silicon Valley he had a big job. He went to the doctor because she was so young. So he was diagnosed with stage four thirty one. She went to the doctor around twenty nine years old thirty unbelievable. I know I know Georgia was it was almost like a car accident like game. And Kim was was he a heavy meat eater. You know, I would say he likes steak by and she grew up in Denmark. Danish, you know, healthy people good lifestyle. He was he was six foot four a couple of hundred pounds. Not not overweight smoke. No. He had a cigar here. And there. That's not and and the doctor when she first went he said, you you probably have IBS it will borrow bowl syndrome. There's nothing wrong with you and sent him home. And and we could have say to save him diagnosed not he was so young right? He was so young colon cancer happened to see a partly over fifty right? But I think it was meant to be like this George was there a point Christina were you were angry. George you have vague questions while you're so good at what you do. I was so angry. I was jealous. I was angry and bitter. Doors all the other young mothers, and fathers families or around me. I was a widow with two little girls in a very affluent and proper a community. And I felt like I was sticking out and standing out and everyone was talking about me and hold the world was unfair. And why did this happen to us, basically? Yes. Of course. I bet when you went to school functions. It was it was tough for you. It was it was oh my goodness. You know, it it was all the dads. There. People didn't know what to say they kept away. And this is why do what I do. This is why you know, people call McGriff educator because believe there's another way to do this. This is another way to live in grief. And there's another way to talk about loss talk about life after loss and talk about death and talk about all of these things that we're talking about today. There's nothing wrong with it. It is it is normal, and it is real. And and when I say that I don't think that Israel believe this. I believe I believe with all of my heart. And I think scientists believe it to physicists the world that we live in the energy that we are surrounded by the, you know, the pure, you know, empty space where we're all a hologram. Let's take some calls here for you. This hour is gonna fly by Christina. Go to our first time caller Jade in Maui in Hawaii. Hi jade. Go ahead. Hi, hi, George Noory. I'm a first time caller longtime listener, and I really appreciate you. Thank you. As a guest. And I I'm sorry. I just caught the tail end of most of the conversation the last hour that Christina. I agree with a lot of things that you say about grief, and and things I I've lost my parents recently. I had my my dad passed in two thousand and sixteen and my mom just passed recently. And. Last year December and I'm still grieving for both of them a lot. And I just wondered how easy is it really to to communicate with them or or two. I kinda missed what you were saying about it. But does it touch touch base with them? Eighty dreams. A lot about 'em. You know, but I don't know if that's really a communication or more of just my own grief processing, who's the initiator Christina who's the initiator for the visitation the dying or the living the the dying actually tried to connect with us as much as they can. But sometimes they can't get through. But imagine if we actually also reached out to them, and we opened the the the channel and the connection it is much easier for them to do. So so I would highly recommend to the easiest thing. And and without even getting the book or going through the process, they would be to completely go in a quiet place. Close your eyes shut down everything around you. So no other external noise as and ask a question, and you will get an answer. You will get an answer. And you have to trust that answer that it's coming from them. It is very rare that I hear people say I didn't receive anything. I didn't get an and also is it Jay Jade Jade at what kind telling me about a dream that you feel and I hope he Georgia's. Okay for me to ask this question. Dream that you feel was really real. And and you felt like you. So is so your person you felt that it was it was not just the regular dream. Did you ever have a a like that Jade? Well, I've I've been having a few of them somewhere. My dad comes back, and he he he's angry because he has you know, he had Alzheimer's when he passed, and he's like, why didn't you take better care of me? And I'm thinking, oh my gosh. Didn't I you know for eleven and a half years for, you know, both of them kind of total, you know, and my mom just recently came back in another dream where I'm arguing with my sister, and my dad's for surprisingly is there, and, you know, saying that hey, you know, I can't keep doing this. How long do you think, you know, mom can keep living like this? And then my mom, she wasn't as sick as she was when she passed, but she was still kind of a little bit healthier. You know, be before before when she first got diagnosed with bone cancer and. You know, just like. It seems so real to me. But then I'm thinking is it my guilt? Is it my you know, what is it that? Yeah. And if it's holding me back from figuring it out or connecting with them. 'cause you know, my dad he he came back and visited me about two weeks after he passed his spirit. I he was in the house. He was here for about three months in their house. And then he we interred him at the veteran's cemetery. And then everything got quiet. But when my mom died, I don't have any visitation. I don't know. I just I still think these weird dreams that. I have I I I don't know if it's just the guilt of caregiving that I didn't do enough. And what do you want to say to them? What do you want to tell them Jade? I loved him very much. I think they know that Jade, I think they know that they do. We'll take a few more callers. But thank you Jade for showing that they do know that and keep telling them. Gets motion for people Christina. It is it's it's it's it's devastating. George is devastating and there's so much guilt. Sometimes and we carry that with us, and it is not something we need to carry killer. Kenneth soul separate into several entities. And let me explain what I mean by that Kennett one reincarnate relatively soon after it has left the other body and to even though it's reincarnated can part of that spirit. Still come back and visit the loved ones. The so it's just it's not either. Or you think it could the kid the split itself, basic, I think that you know, from where we project this whole Graham, our I don't. You know, our spirit soul, energy, whatever you wanna call it lives there. He's there and he could be leaving another life in another universe. Embiid education, the beginning of books, as you know, I hope he my husband lives in many universities with people. He loves, you know, an essay these fully believe that we do reincarnate, but also his consciousness in part of of of keys. Essence is also present here when we need him to be and for Jade, and for those of you for the people out there who who are having dreams, or or have, you know, they care you carry gilt within you just know that I need to express that as if they can hear you because they can and second of all they know how much you love them. And they understand how much you've done for them. I I know this to be true Bob in Missouri taken away. Robert, go ahead. Hi, George, Bob. Robert. It has to do with unfinished business. Man. That's why they would be you're still around good point. And my second wife passed with cancer and for a little over a year. She rogue with me in my truck. It sounds a little odd. But they that stage forty four. Like the man said, I'm younger die. You've got to do something. And. That's pretty heavy for one person to bear bait. Anyway. On the unfinished business. Worried about the kids because there were three of hers one of mine. Families you will and. Her spirit was pulled up out of my check. Landed in my track. Does you go from I tried to work kids read down in Tennessee? And what? I'm so cold, and I'm tired, and I'm so cold. I turned up and put my coat on state so be comfortable for and so my window halfway down. And she basically said out loud that I'm not ready yet. And I happened to my window, and I looked like an oversized sled. Made out of clouds almost like had bars on it. And like I heard screams of thousands of people. And she was like, no, I'm not, and I look back and Chuck was empty and. At that very moment. So the cloud has gone. Thank you. That's a pretty good story. Of everything that you have gone through. Have you ever witnessed the god-like figure? George the only time I've witnessed that got. Like figure was not dream that I mentioned in the beginning of our chat that he came into my drink, and it was very vivid in very real. And God was walking by my side. And I could see myself and God from behind. And he grabbed my hand. Instead, I'll stay I'm about to take you into a new direction. And it was extraordinary and incredible. I believe there is a higher power higher intelligence. I coul- higher observer because of the observer effect..