Middlebury College discussed on This Weekend with Gordon Deal


Former athlete at Middlebury College is not the first athlete who played contact sports who took his own life he is also not the first twenty something to struggle with mental health problems but his story illustrates the challenges parents face as they decide whether to let their sons and daughters play contact sports as well as deciphering conflicting messages from scientists in sports leagues about head trauma an in depth look at concussions from Nancy armor columnist at USA today sports Nancy set this up this is a story about Matthew Benedict who played it basically all contact sports growing up top football hockey lacrosse in out there at Middlebury College and he and I'm in July he committed provided on top of having to call our building where he was working and his parents well he would bring would not able to be happy we pretty hot at and they think that it was the culmination of hit that he took over his ears and playing contact sports and when he died he would only twenty six six week China twenty thousand perfect what I thought was interesting in your story too and I guess perhaps disappointing from a medical standpoint is that C. T. eat can only be diagnosed during an op during autopsy yeah and that is one of the things you know there's there still is so much about the heat that we don't know on that you know most researchers will say that there is a link between our MCP exactly what the windows they're still trying to find out and part of that is going to be finding a leading diagnosed and researchers think that they're getting closer right they're still not there yet and until we have that we can't answer all the questions like if somebody predispose what wrong genetics play can alcohol and drug drug use if there is any salary the progression of the disease there's there's still a lot that we need to find out and getting a leather bag it can get pretty much all of those questions boy it's disappointing to I guess that there's still a stigma attached to this as I guess the the as the Benedicts found out right yeah map you wrote a very personal aspect a couple days after he graduated from Middlebury and he had been struggling with mental health issues is your speed at which won the title game one he had to really hard to get and they believe that he had post concussion syndrome as a result right he wrote that that they enjoy really they were very openly and very honestly talked about the issue that it had been a failure is when we talk about a couple of times that you need but whether they were especially need to reply to come so order to you know whatever wise you would open about it and while some people crave comport there are other people who were saying man you should be writing like that you know whether it's because of the school or does he just knew the school could then doing wanted to adopt Michael how or just not definition put it out there because it's become players might yet and after that he really withdrew that he you know he he he had to have struggled with mental illness so that people would die if you didn't know him well you wouldn't know that anything was wrong speak with Nancy armor columnist at USA today sports she's written a powerful piece entitled concussions and contact sports what these parents learned from their son's death what struck me too was would seem like a sudden change in personality for Mr Benedict was at the age of twenty one right we came home one Christmas break anybody but normally the life of the the Christmas spirit was completely removed yeah and his parents are very very very much that he would would drop in the family his mom said that oftentimes you go upstairs room and she kept getting out of bed and she could that wasn't her son and he told her that he had been in a funk for more than a month so it is a valid to rapidly and they work mightily to get help but you know unfortunately that it this is an insidious disease and that's how we start bringing it into the light I think we're gonna have stories like that for the parents of Mr Benedict I I don't want to say their messages or guess what their messages that it might be like don't play contact sports of what they say I am in the market just to follow you they both say that if they had to do it over and there they were boys would not have played sports what how that contact sports at the end of the day that you know they started playing when they left the content in your call okay and it's not just football that's that's one of the really the big takeaway to your story is that it is not just a product that people need to be concerned about but also to the benediction want to remove the stigma especially among young people that they know that they are free to if they are struggling that they are ready to go and seek help or that they will approach somebody that they will feel that they need to hide the great issues that they're having and and that they can go and talk to somebody is Nancy Nancy armor columnist at USA today sports twelve minutes now after the hour on this weekend coming up next the number one stressor.

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