Jay Jade Jade, Christina Who, Colon Cancer discussed on Coast to Coast AM with George Noory


And we're back Christina with us. Where did you go Christina? How have your daughters handled all of this? Well, losing their dads. So young was actually very devastating traumatic. It was it was it was actually hard for them to understand imagine a four year old and a six year old saying I wanna see my daddy. Daddy. Where's daddy? But that's exactly what it was. And and I tried to explain it to them. And I have to tell you the quick story. My four year old when I told her I said, Honey daddy. Died, and you know, he's not going to be with us here like this anymore, and she turned around to me. Mommy doesn't mean that he gets to see now everything I do. He was concerned that he was gonna see all the things that she didn't want him to see. So he was I smiled in the deers. And when you're young you process, they stay differently in my six year old literally cried going up, she knew immediately when she's showing me come home. I told her that when I was to come home, and means that daddy was gone. And she was devastated just a two year difference between the four year old and a six year old. And it's a very different processing loss of him. Did he have a history of colon cancer and his family? That's a very good question for everyone who's listening scheduling, these he did not did the. And she was, you know, having back pain and bleeding, and we used to live in the bay area Silicon Valley he had a big job. He went to the doctor and because he was so young. So he was diagnosed with stage four thirty one. He went to the doctor on twenty nine years old thirty unbelievable. I know I know Georgia was it was only like a car accident. Like kim. Just like the was was he a heavy meat eater. You know, I would say he likes steak but em and he grew up in Denver was Danish. You know, healthy people good lifestyle. He was he was six foot four a couple of hundred pounds. Not not overweight smoke. No. He had a cigar here and there, and and the the doctor when she first went he said, you probably have IBS it will borrow bowel syndrome. There's nothing wrong with you and sent him home. And and we could have saved him diagnosed on he was so young right? He was so young colon cancer happens to your partly over fifty right? But I think it was meant to be like this church. Was there a point Christina were you were angry? George you have vague equations while you're still good. Oh what you do. I was so angry. I was jealous. I was angry and bitter doors all the other young mothers and fathers families were around me. I was a widow with two little girls in a very affluent and proper a community. And I felt like I was sticking out and standing out and everyone was talking about me. And I thought the world was unfair. And why did they happen to us, basically? Yes. Of course. I bet when you went to school functions. It was it was tough for you. It was it was oh my goodness. You know, it it was all the dads. There. People didn't know what to say they kept away. And this is why do what I do. This is why local McGriff educator because believe there's another way to do this. This is another way to live in grieve. And there's another way to talk about loss talk about life after loss and talk about death and talk about all these things that we're talking about today. There's nothing wrong with it. It is it is normal, and it is real. And and when I say that I don't think death, Israel, believe this believe I believe it with all of my heart. And I think scientists believe it to physicists the world that we live in the energy that we have surrounded by the you know. Pure, you know, empty space where we're all Cobra. Well, let's take some calls here for you. This hour is gonna fly by Christina. Go to our first time caller Jade in Maui in Hawaii high. Jay, go ahead. Hi, George Noory. I'm a first time caller longtime listener, and I really appreciate you having Zomig you as a guest, and I I'm sorry. I just caught the tail end of most of the conversation the last hour that Christina. I agree with a lot of things that you say about grief, and and things I I've lost my parents recently. I had my my dad pass in two thousand and sixteen and my mom just passed recently. And. Last year December and I'm still grieving for both of them a lot. And I just wondered how easy is it really to to communicate with them or or two. I kinda missed what you were saying about it. But does it touch touch bases with them? Get dreams a lot about him. You know, but I don't know if that's really a communication or more of just my own grief processing, who's the initiator Christina who's the initiator for the visitation the dying or the living the the dying actually tried to connect with us as much as they can. But sometimes they can't get through. But imagine if we actually also reached out to them, and we open the the channel and the connection it is much easier for them to do. So so I would highly recommend to the easiest thing. And and without even getting the book or going through the process, they would be to complete going to quiet place, close your eyes shut down everything around you. So no other external noise as and I question, and you will get an answer. You will get an answer. And you have to trust the answer that it's coming from them. It is very rare that I hear people say I didn't receive anything. I didn't get an and also is it Jay Jade Jade at will tell me about a dream that you feel and I hope he's Georgia's. Okay for me to ask this question. Dream that you feel was really real. And you felt like you. So is so your person you start that he was it was not just the regular dreams. Did you ever have a a dreamlike that Jade? Well, I've been having a few of them somewhere. My dad comes back, and he he he's angry because he has you know, he had Alzheimer's when he passed, and he's like, why didn't you take better care of me? And I'm thinking, oh my gosh. Didn't I you know for eleven and a half years for, you know, both of them kind of total, you know, and and my mom just recently came back in another dream where I'm arguing with my sister, and my dad's for surprisingly is there, and, you know, saying that hey, you know, I can't keep doing this. How long do you think, you know, mom can keep living like this? And then my mom, she wasn't as sick as she was when she passed, but she was still kind of a little bit healthier. You know, be before years before when she first got diagnosed with like bone cancer. And you know, just just like. It seems so real to me. But then I'm thinking is it my guilt? Is it my you know, what is it that? If it's holding me back from figuring it out or connecting with them. 'cause you know, my dad he he came back and visited me about two weeks after he passed his spirit. I he was in the house. She was here for about three months in their house. And he we interred him at the veteran's cemetery and heat and everything got quiet. But when my mom died, I don't have any visitation. I don't know. I just I I still think these weird dreams that. I have I I I don't know if it's just the guilt of caregiving that I didn't do enough. What do you want to say to them? I want to know what do you wanna tell them Jade? Very much. I think they know that Jade, I think they know that they do. We'll take a few more callers. But thank you Jade for sure. And they do know that and keep telling them. Gets emotional for people Christina it is. It's very it's it's it's devastating. George is devastating and there's so much guilt. Sometimes and we carry that with us, and it is not something we need to carry Kenneth Kenneth soul separate into several entities. And let me explain what I mean by that can't one reincarnate relatively soon after it has left the other body and to even though it's reincarnated Kim part of that spirit. Still come back and visit the loved ones. That you. So it's just it's not either. Or you think it could the kid the split itself, basic? Yes, I think, you know, from where we project this hologram, our, I don't, you know, our spirit soul, energy, whatever you wanna call it lives. There is there and it could be leaving another life in another universe. Embiid education. The beginning of my book says, you know, I hope he hope my husband lives in many universities ends with people. He loves, you know, an essay this fully, I believe that we do reincarnate, but also his consciousness and part of of of keys. Essence is also present here when we need him to be and for Jade, and for those of you for the people out there who who are having dreams, or or have, you know, they they they care you carry guild within you just know that I you need to express that as if they can hear you because they can't and second of all they know how. Much you love them. And they understand how much you've done for them. I I know this to be true Bob in Missouri taken away. Robert, go ahead. Hi, George Bob over. It has to do with unfinished business. Yeah. Why would be are still around good point? And my second wife passed with cancer and for a little over a year. She rode with me in my tracks. It sounds a little odd that they set stage that they forty four shooting like the man said, I'm younger die. You gotta do something. And that's that's pretty heavy for one person to bear bay way on the unfinished business. She was always worried about the kids because there were three of hers one of mine. Families you will and. The day that her spirit was pulled up out of my head. She landed in my track as you go from I trust to where kids were at down in Tennessee. And. She. I'm so cold, and I'm tired. I'm so cold. I turn the heat up and put my coat on tape. So be comfortable for and so my windows halfway down. And she. Basically. Loud that I'm not ready yet. And I happened to out of my window, and I looked like an oversized sled. Was made out of clouds almost like had bars on it. And it was like I heard screams of thousands of people. And she was like, no, I'm not, and I look back and the truck was empty and. At that very moment. So the cloud has gone. Thank you. That's a pretty good story. Of everything that you have gone through. Have you ever witnessed the god-like figure? Torch. The only time I've witnessed that got like figure was that. During that I mentioned in the beginning of our chat that he came into my drink, and it was very vivid, and they real and God was walking by my side. And I could see myself and God from behind. And he grabbed my hand and said, I'll see I'm about to take you into a new direction, and he was. Extraordinary. An incredible. I believe there is a higher power hiring..

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