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"And lack of status within the LDS church. In the meantime, Jeffrey and Alice's obsession with each other was so intense that neither went to class much that's a master Alice. Zabell to squeak by, but Jeffrey failed all of his classes during the fall of his sophomore year and flunked out of school entirely win. Jeffries family met Alice over winter break. Jeffries prediction turned out to be right. His family did hate Alice, but in the spring of nineteen seventy. Alice realized she was pregnant. Now Jeffrey had to marry her even though as parents were furious about the situation. On may fifth nineteen seventy Alice and Jeffrey ages eighteen and nineteen respectively. Gotten married at Alice's. Families are LDS church in Odessa, Texas. Presumably before her pregnancy began showing only one person attended the ceremony on Jeffrey side. A friend from college Jefferson may have thought they were just in for great things, but after their wedding, they had to move into Alice's parents house. Alice was pregnant. Jeffrey had flunked out of college and with the Vietnam war in progress. He was only a matter of time before he was drafted to try to avoid serving Jeffrey enlisted in the navy as part of the delayed entry program that didn't require him to report until the end of nineteen seventy. He hoped that by then the war would be over, but in November of nineteen seventy with the war still dragging on Jeffrey had to report to training in San Diego and missed the birth of his first son, Damon, Paul Lund gr. Grin, Damon helped repair Jeffries relationship with his parents who do not want to be separated from the grandchild Jeffrey's father, even personally blessed him in there are LDS church in independence. Jeffrey was assigned by the navy to work in San Diego as an electrical repairman on the USS Sperry. So Alison, Damon moved with him to California their time there was happy, but neither Jeffrey nor Alice could figure out how to make life work on a budget. They both overspent and had to constantly ask their families for money. There were other problems in their marriage. Alice said Jeffrey was obsessed with sex claiming quote, he do it several times a day. If I let him and when we did it, he just want to satisfy himself and quote, again, Jeffrey showing classic signs of narcissism. He's only focused on himself and sees sex as validation narcissists also tend to think they're much better in bed than they really are in the spring of nineteen seventy two. When. Jeffrey was twenty one. He was assigned to a destroyer bound for Vietnam. Alice moved with Damon back to Jeffrey's parents house. It was in Vietnam that Jeffrey reconnected with his religion. He studied the scripture every day trying to figure out why God hadn't communicated with him like he had with others, including Alice. Then one day his ship, the US Shelton came under fierce attack from the Vietnamese, somehow the ship withstood the bombardment. Jeffrey believed that he was responsible for the entire crew survival. Quote. God had showed me a sign. He had protected the ship because he didn't want me to die in Vietnam and quote, he hadn't had much use for the religion before, but if he could use it to make himself feel more special than he was in his nurse assistant personality is being bolstered by the idea that he has been chosen. Jeffrey also remembered what Elsa told him about the prophecy regarding future husband and he started. I think it could be true. He really was special. He could even be the profit that is church had been waiting for. We'll examine what Lundgren did with his newfound religiosity. After the break. There so many home security companies out there. What's one of the reasons you like simply safe home security? 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