"Then have them apologize, unquote. So parents how can you help your young children respond with empathy and deliver a willing apology? Smith says quote when your child is comb help them see how the other person is feeling and why an apology is one way to do it. But there are lots of ways research shows that even preschoolers value. It went wrongdoer makes amends with action. Sometimes this is more powerful than words, unquote. And I said preschoolers remember sometimes kids are smarter than you"