Listen: KIM, One Hundred Percent discussed on I Am Nat Noise with Nathalie Noisette
"Taught me when <hes> when i first decided decided to start a business was professional sort and amateurs convince if you gotta sit there and convince somebody you're being an amateur. A person learns to sort and the thing is like what i what i've come to realize. Is that the peace the empowerment piece of meeting someone where they're ready like kim said the entitlement piece is just i if i'm giving if you're giving one hundred percent and i'm only receiving ten back meeting you where you at ten and when you're ready to give twenty come back and we'll walk. We'll walk this road together but if for some reason the mindset is just it's still. I don't know why i still baffles me. I i don't i can't maybe because i don't think so as world when i'm like okay so we're ready to do this. Yes yes. Let's go these are the tools. You're going to need this right. This is how much it's gonna cost. I'm not gonna pay for it but it is what is 'cause like. These are the tool. This is the way like i feel like ah or maybe i have a misconception about. What empowerment is i've except i fully accepted that. Maybe my idea of empowerment may be a little bit different from what someone understands empowerment to be and i can fully accept that however when i know that my intentions in my heart and there's communication between look this is where you're at and then this is what you told tell me you want to be and i'm gonna help push in that direction because you want to do the work. You can't come at me with entitlement. I i can't speak that language. I don't nobody told me anything but like you're saying i think that the comment he said that is how you started right. You started with them arm right so oh i mean empowerment in a sense it goes back to the person i everyone is in a different place in some people are ready to receive in some are not but it doesn't negate the fact that doesn't negate the fact that what you're doing is not in parliament. It isn't <unk> guinness thing <hes> and then i also i also chew believe that the pending won the individual. You may not be the person for them and it's it's. It's a matter of figuring out you know what says like lemme lemme lemme point you in a different direction. It's like i'm really dedicated to you making a changing alive in an stepping into your greatness than men. Maybe it's not me so let me point want you. In a different direction <hes> an and i stand very firm with that because that unfortunately woman gratefultable is not cold to every single woman in this this world like it's not <hes> no matter how much i wanna paint a picture. It's absolutely gut. It's not cool to every single so women unbreakable or organization at stands on its own it also has to be a catalyst in also has to be a vessel to ring women to other organizations that can help the locals are target is not to be the sole impairment organization our target it is to compile women carried the whether it comes from us. Oh it comes from somewhere else like i don't want any woman."