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Strawberry Letter
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We could be reading your letter live on the air just like we're gonna read this one right here right now. You never know it could be yours. Buckle up and hold on tight we got it for you hear it in the strawberry letter thanking nephew subject. Too much of a good thing there. Stephen shirley i've been in a relationship with a woman for the past fifteen years. It's been on and off again but she's the one for me she's my everything and our kids are my world. I bet you're wondering. Why haven't i married her. And maybe you can help me figure it out to. For the first few years of our relationship we kept it on the down low. Because of her age she was sixteen when i started dating her and i was nineteen. It didn't matter much to us. But i was afraid of her father and that he would object he found out about it and took it better than we expected. He actually walked in on us having sex in his house when she was eighteen and he threatened to shoot me but thank god he did. We're super cool now. And he's hoping. I get a ring soon and mary. His daughter over the years financial issues and raising our children has come between us. We live together. One minute will live together one minute and the next minute. She's moving out quite honestly the only time we get along as when we're having sex. What makes it hard is that we have sex almost every day. Yes even when we're apart she will come to me and demand sex. We've had sex in the strangest places because it's her way of feeling closer to me. If we're arguing. I've talked her into buying a home together so we can be stable for our children. She's happy about it only because she will have me in her bed. Every night. i feel like a slave to her. And if i tell her no i feel awful. They're just times that. I can't perform nor do i want to like if she says something to emasculate me in front of my eight year old son. I have no desire to make love to her. I need some help here guys before i move in with her. Should i let her continue to use me for sex if we grew apart years ago. This letter is confusing to me because it really seems like two different letters. I mean the first part you're happy. She's the one for you. She's your everything. Then par to your emasculated sex slave. There was a lot of sex going on in this marriage but not a lot of communication in this relationship after fifteen years and kids. Of course you guys should be married of course you you should. I'm with the dad. Where's the ring. So why aren't you. Is the question. And i really don't think it's for any of the reasons you gave because sex every night. I think that's most men's dream isn't it after all the years you've got you guys should be able to talk about anything. I mean you guys should be able to express yourselves. You should tell her not to talk to you crazy in front of your son and she would probably stop doing it so so now. What do you want moving forward because you guys bought a home. Like mary couple. I mean you said you talked her into that and she was on board. You have kids like mary couple. And you have more sex than a lot of mary couples. So what's the problem. I mean you seem to keep making excuses money problems. Kid problems sex problems. I mean a lot of relationships. These things are normal. So i just say no more excuses. Stop all these excuses. Be a man as this man to marry you. I asked this woman to marry you. I mean seriously steve. Dysle- this crazy i. I don't see too much of a good thing. Better relationship with a woman for past fifteen years. But it's been off. And on see. I keep i don't understand. I've been in these great relationships but they've been off and on that's not a great relationship but she's the one for me but chow often own. She's my everything and my kids are world. Don't y'all off. And on for fifteen years i bet you wanted. Why mad and maybe we can help figure that causes off an old boy. That's why every time you wanna marry her something happening. Y'all go off then y'all got to work yourself back on. That's why for the first few years of our relationship. We kept it on the down low because of her age. Here we go. She was sixteen when i started dating hundred dollars. Nineteen it didn't matter much to us. Oh it might not matter to you but the police department the fbi gives a damn about this big day man. He didn't matter much to us. Good thing you didn't share it with anybody else. It didn't matter much shows. But i was afraid of father would object. You think he found out about it and took it better than we expect it. Now listen to this lanyo. He found out about it and took it better than we expected. Did right after he put a period. This is the line he say he actually walked in his having sex in his house when she was eighteen and he threatened to shoot me and then you just say he took it much better did you. Did you just say that bra you walk on. Y'all have sex when she was eighteen and threatened to shoot you. Well good thing he took it well but thank god. He did with super cool now and he's hoping i'd get a ring soon and marry his daughter. I guess after the death threat you don't you don't realize this is a slow burn shotgun with if you realize this not when we come back. I'll tell you to rest but you've been threatened with death all right. All right steve. We'll have part of your response coming up to the strawberry letter. Too much of a good thing is the subject at twenty three minutes after the hour. Right after this. You're listening to morning show all right. Come on steve. Let's recap today strawberry letter. The subject too much of a good thing too much waning. Got to the sex part yet. data this girl. When she was sixteen he was nineteen. Had to keep it on down low. Say it didn't matter much to us. Well like i said before it matter to a lot of other people. If police and fbi had found about it it would really mattered so but they didn't and so you got away with it then you you were scared to tell them you kept it on download because you scared how father would react but he actually took it better than we expected. 'cause it in the having sex in the house when she was eighteen and he threatened to shoot me took how well he took it but thank god he. Didn't we super cool now. I get a ring. yusup aku. He opened i get a ring masdar over the years. Financial issues and raising our children

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