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I knew him for many years prior to dating him and we meet as friends for dinner and drinks when he was in between relationships. It went from relationship to relationship before we started dating because he is the type of man that does not ever want to be alone. He would always say he was out of my league but he grew on me over time and asked me if he wanted to if we could start dating since then he hasn't wanted me out of his sight. It was cute at first but then he got his family. All in the mix they are very clingy. And there's a lot of them before we got married. I had to go to cookouts birthdays weddings and church with them. I don't see my own family as much as i see his. My husband doesn't understand that. I need to have people around me all of the time my husband. My husband doesn't i that i don't don't need to have people all around me all the time. He's a professional chef and partner in a new restaurant though he works long hours. I look forward to the peace and quiet of our home when he's working but he seems to think he's depriving me of quality time and i'm bored or lonely. Still have sisters or his mom stop by unannounced and they sit and chat for hours. I've had to literally put on my pajamas. Like i'm going to bed so they'll leave recently. His youngest brother asked to stay with us for the semester. Since we live close to the college my husband told him. He's welcome to stay without asking me i he knows i do not want to be bothered ninety. Eight percent of the time. So why does he keep trying to push his family off on me. I definitely don't hate them. But i would love to set boundaries. How do i get my husband to understand all right well. I think it's a little late for that because you've been letting this happen for seven years now and it started before you guys were married. You said you went to birthday. Celebrations barbecues weddings all of that. All sorts of family gatherings. How are they supposed to know. You don't like company you're all you're always around them. Your husband is the one inviting them though. He's very sociable. Isn't he very sociable. Doesn't he know that it's crazy for them. The dropped by unannounced but they think your home because they know your home because your husband tells them so you can't hide in the room or anything and act like you're not there. Your husband already told him you're up in there so instead of sitting around being mad being stressed out you gotta let your husband know that you enjoy your solitude. You've got to be serious about this. Tell them you like having your me time. You know things have changed. You know you work and all of that and you gotta be serious with him. It is very disrespectful for him to invite his brother to live with you without asking you on now. You can't do that. You gotta sit down and have a serious convert conver- conversation with him. He's obviously very protective of you. I guess that's why he wants people around all the time. But i'm sure you can make him understand again. I think you gotta tell him. In no uncertain terms steve. Well you know. I always take the letters from the top all the way down surely has a different approach so shirley said that it's too late in this letter and the reason she said it was because you knew all of this before you married him but humanity anyway but with that said it's not too late and i have some solutions. You've been married seven years as very wonderful man in every way except one. He doesn't respect your time of privacy. I would like to tell you something. He doesn't know that he's disrespecting your time crimes. He just doesn't flat out. No i knew it for many years prior to dating him and we would meet. Its friends for dinner drinks. When he was in between relationships he went from relationship to relationship before y'all started dating because he's the type of man that don't ever like to be alone and let me point this out. You knew that he would always say that he was out of my league but he grew on me over time now for those of you listening to what he says when he said he to her league that means she was out of his league. That's what that really means that she was a little bit too much polishing and and greatness for for you know for him that's what that really means but over time he grew on me and i asked him if he wanted to start dating. Well says then. He has awarded me out of his sight. It was cute at first. But he got his family in the mix. They very cleaning. Clinging a lot of themselves carolina roaches. You know big family and there's a lot of men they cling a roach. That's what that's like that a reason. I don't mean it in a negative sense but that's just roaches. Let's look into the and you see why you can understand. Roaches is always a lot of if you see one you better get the spraying. Because he ate. Emma buy-sell another quality about roaches. There well there well. i'm just letting him know.

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