Listen: ENJ, Elliot, Ten Minutes discussed on This is Actually Happening
"You know another thing that's the outcome of the brain injuries something called for several reasons so he's constantly asks the same questions ends partially because of his injury and I think partially because confusion and anxiety and I think moments where he's not doing that and he's just I present feels like a win. You know what I mean so it's like you kind of have to adjust 'cause. I used to like he would have so many ups and downs and I would be right there with him him going up and going down and I think at some point you're like okay. He has a brain injury. I don't like I need to be able to appreciate when there is something positive however small it is like even if it's like ten minutes before bad when I crack a joke and he's laughing and field like him. I can also feel angry that I don't have that partnership and I don't have that traditional experience right now now so I think it's about embracing all event life when your life changes so dramatically you a half to take things for what they are and like be able to appreciate them. You either change because you're inspired to change. ENJ- or your change because you're pushed change and like life is pushing you to change and I think I am creating dating life and I'm also helping my husband. Come back to life and I need to be kind to myself because that is not on an easy task. My anxieties pre Elliot's accident was all about like if I could publish may book than I could start my life for if I could do this or get over this then. I could be happy but it's like no. This isn't just something everything to get over. You know all of it. The good the bad the ugly the messy all of it is life.."