Listen: Vanessa, Jared, Ashley discussed on Help! I Suck At Dating with Dean, Vanessa and Jared
"Vanessa from the dot com before someone else takes it, and he was just really supportive and then. Yeah. And you know, but whenever I'm in like a relationship he understands, and I understand whatever he's an a relationship that the texting is not frequent or almost stops completely. And there's no there's no hard feelings. There. Don't you? Find though it's easier to move on from break-up, if you hate the other person, I know. But that's that's yes. That. But no like, okay. Let's say Jared you or hey, let's say I break up with this guy that I'm dating now because you guys aren't gauge out any wanna put that bad juju on you. And Ashley, let's say the guy that. Yeah. No badge. So let's the guy I'm dating now breaks up with me to be so much easier for me to like hate his guts in order to just like total think all the bad things that he's done or turn turn off. All the good stuff that that has happened in our relationship in order to move on just like like on better off without him. But I want it. And that's like the old me. And I'm really honest about this. But it's so much healthier for you in order to appreciate the person for the positives that they've given you and I just find out. Yes. And no because I want to break up in my early twenties with somebody that was doing for very long time, who's the most wonderful person. And there's no reason for the break-up it just felt like it's time to go our separate ways and. It took honestly probably about eight months between the time that we broke up to really cut it off. Because there wasn't any reason for each other to hate one another it was just the feelings were there as strong as they used to be and we're growing apart, and we were going in two different directions. And I found at that time other people going through breakup where they had a reason to hate that person. They're breaking up with and it was so much easier for them to move on. And for me because I didn't hate this person. I truly loved them as Yoon being, but I just don't think I was in love with them anymore. So is this this long horrible exhausting break-up that ended up taking like eight months to finally really cut the cord because you wanna just sugarcoat around everything. So funny that you mentioned so breakup and heartbreak, and I was reading this article. And I wanted to find out am switching articles now. But I'll want to find out. Why women I feel like women suffer from our break. More than men. And I was trying to figure out why that was and why I was always hopeless romantic, and I still am why I always picture this like romantic life that I was going to have with this guy who was just going to sweep me off my feet, and it was it was never gonna be any red flags and life would have been perfect. And then I'm like, all these freaking Disney movies. I used to watch where Cinderella or the sleeping beauty or whoever. Like, it's always."
Help! I Suck At Dating with Dean, Vanessa and Jared