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But when I was starting out, I mean, even though I wasn't doing it to get followers by any means when I started picking up floors. So when I had maybe around ten thousand that felt like the most pressure because it was like, whoa, I have so many, but it's like, what am I doing? It was so abrupt, it was so fast. They grew really quickly. And I think at that point it was like, oh my God. What is like sometimes I think about it as like emotional, skinny dipping. It's like you're just out there in the water, your naked. It's great. It's beautiful. And then when I got to a certain number of followers, it kind of felt like someone took my clothes and all of a sudden I was like, oh my God. What am I doing like? What is this? I'm so. Out in the open, but now I used to it. You know, it doesn't really affect me anymore. Emotional skinny dipping is a phrase I want to use for every. It applies to a lot like dating. Yeah, putting your life on Instagram, whatever. We get a lot of listeners who write to us asking just kind of how to maintain a positive attitude while dating. And since you're so focused on your own happiness, how does dating play into that? Are you able to approach it from a place of gratitude and happiness. Oh, good. Sort of, I. In what I mean by positively ally. Does have a lot to do with boundaries. So it's just being so aware of how I'm feeling and how I'm being treated. So if I go into a day or relationship and I'm not feeling the way I wanna feel that is my signal that is not the person for me, and I try really hard to keep that attitude of not that I'm so hurt and I am devastated by this, but I learned that this person wasn't right for me, and that's really, really hard to do, but that is kind of what I try to bring is like, what is not for me will miss me and what is meant for me. We'll find me and I am on a totally different journey than anyone else. And. I tried to move through like that. It can be really, really hard because I think I don't know if it's a specially in New York, but it certainly especially with app culture, you do start to feel sort of disposable and you do feel like, you know, totally replaceable, and I don't like feeling that way. I wanna feel like a treasure and it's hard to find someone who has really done the work to people like that. And you know, him goes for me. I see myself too, and I see myself treating people in a not super kind way. So it's challenging. I think the only thing that really helps me is just remembering that. The only way that you're going to find what you're looking for as far as love is to keep giving it, you know, like, keep going keep you can't. You're not gonna find the love of your life by sitting in your room and feeling sad, you know. So you have to like heap. Just keep giving and it's so hard to do, but I don't know. It's really hard. I don't have any great advice. It's been. It's been a journey for sir. This has been so great to get to talk to you like, truly I, it's fun. It's fun to get to know you the person as opposed to the little face. I see drawn because you're not a figure you you're a living breathing human. So it's so wonderful to get to learn more sites of you. Thank you so much. I so appreciate that Mari. So we know you have an Instagram. Is there anywhere else that people can find you. Not really. Okay. Care. Yep. But say by my Angie token can find my book there and everything you've ever wanted to know about, you know, my favorite animal, etc. So sit. Sit. Well, thanks again, you so much. Thank you. This is such a pleasure. Okay. Yes. Story house the purge going dorey as followers over Instagram of noticed. I purged my fridge last week and it was there a -peutic and healing, and I did it at nine thirty at night, which was the best idea..