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One right here right now and you never know it could be yours. Buckle up hold on tight we got it for you hear it in straub every letter. Thank you nephew subjects. My boyfriend hates the word. No stephen shirley. I'm a flight attendant. And my schedule is very demanding because i do international flights. I'm in town a few days. And i'm gone for a few days. My boyfriend hates that his goodies. Aren't there for him daily. He calls it goodies. And you call it cookie anyway. I made him to realize that there's more to life than his goodies. He hates the word. No though when i have not in the mood he pouts. It causes a lot a whole shift in our relationship. He uses it as an excuse to second guess my commitment to him so i may never get an engagement ring. We're both twenty nine and we've been together for a little over four years and just moved in together. I know i can do better. But i'm trying to hold on. Because i love this man from his head to his toes and i can't see myself growing old with anyone else. I'm very religious as well and he's not still go to church with me and he's even gone to bible study when i'm when i'm in town. Excuse me but. I shouldn't have to force him to go a lot of small things i asked him to do. He gives me push back on them. I'm taught him all about etiquette and now he's able to pick out nice restaurants for us when i tell you that we're compatible everywhere except the bedroom. I'm so serious. That brings me to why. I really tell him. No when he wants. Mike cities his goody goody is an all of that and i have to be in the mood to put on a show for him. If you know what i mean. I make up excuses a lot. And he's onto me. I consider an oral hookup. Just as valuable as giving the goodies ups. But he doesn't think so. He wants everything and he wanted often. He really hates when i tell him. No so how. Can i enhance the experience for myself. So i can say yes. More can sex. Get better over time. Well it could be a teachable moment. Sometimes but listen you gotta tell him what the problem is. You have to tell him that. Or you're going to be miserable for the rest of your life if you stay with this guy but i say before you do all that. You really need to decide if this is what you what you want. I know you said you love him from his head to his toes. and all of that. You've been with him for over four years you haven't got marriage proposal and now you guys are living together. You have to force him to go to church with you. You get pushed back when you ask him to do little things for you. And he pouts when he can't get what he wants. that's not combative compatibilities. You say that selfishness okay. i. I've read this entire letter and i'm still trying to figure out what you are getting out of this because he picks nice restaurants on now all i see is bad sex and bad attitude if you don't give him his way and what you do is in good enough for him. You also said that you know you can do better. You said that in this letter. Guess what. I think you can too so you know what they say. If you better do better so. I think you need to do better. Don't be stuck on stupid with this guy. It's for us to start getting what you want you twenty nine. You have plenty of time. Plenty of time to get a good relationship. You don't have to be stuck here. Steve wow my boyfriend hates the word no is to subject but he will give you a reason to say yes that church say man man steve a man again again. We will approach this leto. My boyfriend hates the word. No in parentheses. But he won't give you a reason to say yes lord lord lord here we are and you're international flight attendant that's gonna come back into play. International flight attendant That means you have an interesting life. You international he local we in and out of town you international flight attendant international he local. Yeah we in and out of town he right. They all off. You see what's happening here. My boyfriend hates that his goodies. On there. For him daily he calls goodies. And you call it the cookie anyway. I need him to realize it does more to life than his cookies. Well that's going to be a hard sale. See 'cause you got a problem. He hates the word. No and i'm when i'm not in the mood he pouts that is pouting is going to be a problem. I'm telling you that right now sticking your lips out in powder 'cause you can't get your way that's a serious side and you say causes a whole shift in our relationship and i got news for you and it always wheels. He uses it as an excuse to second guess my commitment to him so i may never get an engagement ring. No that's called guilt. He is using the most useless emotion to get what he won't. He's making you feel guilty because he's trying to manipulate you in what you want as somebody told me one time. That guilt is the most useless emotion. It only so the purpose of person trying to apply it. Does you no good to feel guilty. You don't feel good about it. It doesn't motivate you. Nothing it's just guilt. And he's laying it on you and heaps doses. Because he was what he won't now he got you thanking. You ain't gonna get no engaged. We got news for you. You might not need true for chrome out when we come back all right hold on we'll have our tubular your response. Something of a twenty three minutes after my boyfriend hates the word now is a strawberry letter subject for today. We'll get back into it right after this. You're listening to morning show all right. Come on steve. Let's recap today strawberry letter the subject. My boyfriend hates the word. No your boyfriend hate the word. No but he ain't giving you a reason to say yes. That's the whole thing this letter. You a flight attendant. That means the national you do international international flights. he local. you go on a lot. He always dad. Your boyfriend hates that. You're not there with the cookie all the time so now when you do come home he wants it now. You trying to convince him that cookies and sex is not the most important things in life that there's more to it but it's going to be a hard sale. Because that's what he won't. When he don't get it he pouts and it causes a shift in your relationship and it always will now. Here's the key to this letter. He used it as an excuse to second guess my commitment to him so i may never get an engagement ring so and the reason i'm saying so because of information afterwards but he's applying guilt to you to make you feel guilty so he can manipulate you into getting what he wants now. Y'all both twenty nine. You've been together for a little over four years and you just moved in together. All this is critical information. You just moved in together. I know i can do better cheese.

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