Robert De La Montagne, Joe Jim discussed on New American Funding Radio Show
And it needs you need to find something new to spend your time to do. Yeah. And also the socialization aspect of it. Yeah. Most people as they work at a company their best friends their closest friends developed from work. It's the guy they have they have lunch with everyday that the group of guys they have lunch with whatever you do that. You have the commonality of theme of something in common. You're all working at this company. Accomplishing something you can either. It's either the the something in common where you gripe about the boss, or you whatever you have in common that that you do. And what happens when people retire is that set of friends it gets cut off it changes. You may think will you know, me and Joe Jim and this group were against a friends, even though I'm retired. And they're still working, and you do stay friends nothing happened. But the things you have in common tend to fade and that friendship tends to weaken overtime just from oh spending time together. Also, you may get together and go to lunch with them. And they're still talking about everything that happened that day at the office in also. Sudden you begin to feel left out because you're just not included you weren't there experiencing with them. And so you can have you can get depressed from that. So a PHD whose name I'm going to mess up. Robert de LA Montagne is the author of the two thousand eleven but they're retiring mind, how to make the psychological transition to retirement what he put very bluntly as people go through hell when they retire. And they'll never say a word about it often because they're embarrassed the cultural norm for time. It is that you're living. They good life. Yeah. And I think a lot of things go along with that. It comes back to everyday you starting at eight fourteen fifteen or eighteen or twenty two whenever you started working. What happens quite often is you've you've been trying to accomplish something ever since you first started to work the goal of working was you should have been just enjoy work in front pleasure in it. But for some most of it was to pay our current bills into set aside money to pay for our future bills meeting our future bills of retirement. And so you've worked and worked and you've accomplished that at once you've accomplished that. At age sixty five or whatever it is. And you retire then in many ways people feel like I have nothing left to accomplish accomplishment or over. Now, I'm going to have the the best yard in the neighborhood. My grass will be greener. I'll focus on that. Will that kind of gets old after a while? In. So you wind up getting getting depressed for a little bit. Until you find something that you're excited about used about. And then you begin to move forward and the joy, your retirement more. I think that's a huge thing. You know, you really just give yourself time. If you think about it your first job you had probably in being your career. You took some time he'd tried out different jobs, you had different experiences, and you from their kind of learned what you wanted to do for your career. And hopefully retirement will be the same thing. You know, just give yourself time and really figure out what you want to do. And how you wanna spend your time in roads to be honest with yourself in that all that being said, here's where we can assist you in the process, making sure that the financial part of your retirement is intact. And that you know, how much money you can live on how much money can spend how your money should be invested. And we can help you with that where the all the other things.