Listen: Three Three Years, Hundred Percent discussed on First Class Fatherhood
"So it's not just children your wife. Right. So you have all these buckets of time and you've got your business bucket. You've got your kids bucket. Then you've got your way bucket. And then you got you. Right. So that oftentimes feels like you're being drawn and quartered between time and all the things that you wanna do. So I think the balancing act of priorities and understanding how you you prioritize your time, and and really try to to be present within your the lives of your children because there's there's there's being there. But then there's also being engaged in being present. Right. So to totally different things you can be there. But if you're just kind of on your phone phone out. That's not really engaging experiencing your children. So I've tried to really focus on. It's connecting from the business and trying to connect back in with my children in there. I'm not saying that do it to you know, a hundred percent actors, but we have made it a priority. Definitely the last two and a half three three years to make it a disconnect from office connected family. Yeah. Because I know that could be a deterrent as well. I love to ask all new successful entrepreneurs that I get on the show. What advice do you have in the data out there who has a dream or business idea that he wants to start, but he's afraid of failing not from self, but he's afraid of failing for his family and doesn't want to let them down. So he's afraid of taking that first step. But what do you say to those dads? Well, I think we we'd have to break out into a couple of different significant issues. One is you know, fear and living life with with fear is is something that I think every person will will encounter the job of being a competent father. I think is dressing conquering fear in in teaching children that. Chivalry isn't dead, right? Honor integrity hard work in living life with with general courage is the job of of any parrot because you're building a template for your children to follow. So that vice that I would say is think about the precedent that you want to stab with your children. Would you rather have your children's seeing you conquer fear in work through the most challenging aspects of life, which would be providing for them. And then having."