Jay Jade Jade, Christina Who, Colon Cancer discussed on Coast to Coast AM with George Noory
And we're back Christina resolution with us where did you go Christine? How have your daughters handled all of this? Well, dad's so young was actually very very devastating traumatic. It was it was it was actually hard for them to understand imagine a four year old and a six year old to you know, staying I wanna see my daddy. Daddy. Where's daddy? That's exactly what it was. And and I tried to explain it to them. And I have to tell you this fake story. My four year old when I told her I said, Honey daddy. Died, and you know, he's not going to be with us here like this anymore. And she turnaround said to me, mommy, does that mean that he gets to see now everything I do. He was concerned that he was gonna see all the things that she didn't want him to see. So he was I smiled in the deers. And when you're young you process this very differently in my six year old literally cried going up deers, she knew immediately when she's shown me come home. I had told her that when I was to come home, and means that daddy was gone. And she was devastated just a two year difference between the four year old and a six year old. And it's a very different processing loss of him. Did he have a history of colon cancer and his family, and that's a very good question. For everyone listening, get your colonoscopy. He did not. He did. Watch as he was, you know, having back pain and bleeding, and he we used to live in the bay area Silicon Valley he had a big job. He went to the doctor because he was so young. So he was diagnosed with stage four thirty one. She went to the doctor around twenty nine years old thirty unbelievable. I know I know Georgia was it was like a car accident like game and took him. Just like the was it was he a heavy meat eater. No, I would say he likes steak, but he grew up in Denmark. Danish, you know, healthy people good lifestyle. He was he was six foot four a couple of hundred pounds. Not not overweight smoke. No. He had a cigar here. And there. That's not too. And and the doctor when he first went he said, you you probably have IBS you will borrow bowl syndrome. There's nothing wrong with you and send him home. And and we could have say to saved him diagnosed. Oh, you young right. He was so young colon cancer happens to your partly over fifty right? But I think it was meant to be like this George was there a point Christina were you were angry. You have vague questions while you're so good at what you do. I was so angry. I was jealous. I was angry and bitter all the other young mothers and fathers families were around me. I was in. We don't with two little girls in a very affluent and proper community. And I felt like I was sticking out and standing out and everyone was talking about me and hold the world was unfair. And why did this happen to us, basically? Yes. Of course. I bet when you went to school functions. It was it was tough for you. It was it was oh my goodness. You know, it it was all the dads. There. People didn't know what to say they kept away. And this is why do what I do. This is why people go McGriff educator because I believe there's another way to do this. This is another way to live in grief. And there's another way to talk about loss talk about life after and talk about death and talk about all of these things were talking about today. There's nothing wrong with it. It is it is normal, and it is real. And and when I say that I don't think Beth Israel believe this. I believe I believe with all of my heart. And I think scientists believe it to physicists the world that we live in the energy that we have surrounded by the. You know, the pure, you know, empty space where we're all a hologram. Let's take some calls here for you. This hour is gonna fly by Christina. Go to our first time caller Jade in Maui in Hawaii high. Jay, go ahead. Hi, hi, George Noory. I'm a first time caller longtime listener, and I really appreciate you having. Comic you as a guest. And I I'm sorry. I just caught the tail end of most of the conversation. The last hour that Christina agree with a lot of things that you say about grief and things I I've lost my parents recently. I had my my dad passed in two thousand and sixteen and my mom just passed recently and last year December, and I'm still grieving for both of them a lot. And I just wondered how easy is it really to to communicate with them or to. I kinda missed what you were saying about it. But does it touch touch bases with them? They get dreams a lot about him. You know, but I don't know if that's really a communication or more of just my own grief processing, who's the initiator Christina who's the initiator for the visitation dying or the living the dying actually tried to connect with us as much as they can. But sometimes they can't get through. But imagine if we actually also reached out to them, and we opened the channel and the connection it is much easier for them to do. So so I would highly recommend to the easiest thing. And and without even getting the book or going through the process, they would be to complete going to quiet place, close your eyes shut down everything around you. So no other external noise as and ask a question, and you will get an answer. You will get an answer. And you have to trust the answer that it's coming from them. It is very rare that I hear people say I didn't receive anything. I didn't get an and also is it Jay Jade Jade, tell me about a dream that you feel and I hope he's Georgia's. Okay for me to ask the question. Dream that you feel was really real. And you felt like you. So is so your person you felt that he was it was not just a regulatory. Did you ever have a a dream like that Jade? Well, I've been having a few of them somewhere. My dad comes back, and he he he's angry because he has you know, he had Alzheimer's when he passed, and he's like, why didn't you take better care of me? And I'm thinking, oh my gosh. Didn't I know for eleven and a half years for, you know, both of them kind of total, you know. And and my mom just recently came back in another dream where I'm arguing with my sister, and my dad's for surprisingly is there, and you know, saying that, hey, you know, I can't keep doing this. How long do you think, you know, mom can keep living like this? And then my mom, she wasn't as sick as she was when she passed, but she was still kind of a little bit healthier. You know, be before years before when she first got diagnosed with like, bone, cancer and. Well, you know, it just like. It seems so real to me. But then I'm thinking is it my guilt? Is it my you know, what is it that? Yeah. And if it's holding me back from figuring it out or connecting with them. 'cause you know, my dad he he came back and visited me about two weeks after he passed his spirit. I he was in the house. He was here for about three months in their house. And then he we interred him at the veteran's cemetery, and he and everything got quiet. But when my mom died, I don't have any visitation. I don't know. I just I still think these weird games that I have I I I don't know if it's just the guilt of caregiving that I didn't do enough. And what do you want to say to them? What do you want to tell them Jade? I loved him very much. I think they know that Jade, I think they know that they do. We'll take a few more callers. But thank you Jade for showing. And they do know that and keep telling them. Gets emotional for people Christina it is. It's very it's it's it's devastating George. It is devastating and there's so much guilt. Sometimes and we carry that with us, and it is not something we need to carry cannot Kennesaw all separate into several entities. And let me explain what I mean by that canon one reincarnate relatively soon after it has left the other body and to even though it's reincarnated can't part of that spirit. Still come back and visit the loved ones that you. So it's just it's not either. Or you think it could the kid the split itself, basic, I think that, you know, from where we reject this hologram, our, I don't, you know, our spirit soul, energy, whatever you wanna call it lives. There is there and it could be leaving another life. In another universe in education. The beginning of my book says, you know, I hope he my husband lives in many universities with people. He loves, you know, an say this fully, I believe that we do reincarnate, but also his consciousness in part of of of keys. Essence is also present here when we need him to be and for Jade, and for those of you for the people out there who are having dreams or or have, you know, they they care you carry guild within you just know that I need to express that as if they can hear you because they can and second of all they know how much you love them. And then they're stand. How much you've done for them. I I know this to be true Bob in Missouri taken away. Robert, go ahead. Hi, George Bob over it has to do with unfinished business here. And it's why they would be you're still around. Good point ever and my second wife passed with cancer and for a little over a year. She rogue with me in my truck. It sounds a little odd that at that stage. Forty four G. Like the man said, I'm too young to die. You gotta do something. And that's. As pretty heavy for one person to bear bait way on the unfinished business. Always worried about the kids because there were three of hers one of mine. Families you will and. The day that her spirit was pulled up out of my head. Landed in my track. Does she go to work kids were at down in Tennessee? And. She. I'm so cold, and I'm tired. I'm so cold. I turn the heat up and put my coat on be comfortable for. And so my Linda about halfway down. And she. Basically. Allowed that I'm not ready yet. And I happened to find out of my window, and it looked like an oversized sled. Made out of clouds and almost like had bars on it. And it was like I heard screams of thousands of people. And she was like, no, I'm not, and I look back and the truck was empty and. At that very moment. So the cloud it was gone. Thank you. That's a pretty good story. Of everything that you have gone through. Have you ever witnessed the god-like figure? The only time I've witnessed that God. Like figure was in that dream that I mentioned in the beginning of our chat that he came into my drink, and it was very vivid in very real. And God was walking by my side. And I could see myself and God from behind. And he grabbed my hand and said, I'll see I'm about to take into a new direction, and it was. Extraordinary and incredible. I believe there is a higher power higher intelligence..